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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO. Our Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. All right, CLO, you ready? Yeah, this is

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Speaker 1: from Katrina in Fairfield. Katrina writes, I had dental surgery

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Speaker 1: and I was on a painkiller and I was feeling loopy.

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Speaker 2: Okay. My husband knew.

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Speaker 1: That, but he still asked if I think of other

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Speaker 1: men while we're having sex. I told him that I

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Speaker 1: think of Chris Brown sometimes.

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Speaker 2: God, can't he be mad at me about that?

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Speaker 1: You know, Chris me dancing and stuff.

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Speaker 3: You know, Nick, I ain't never been that loopy before,

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Speaker 3: even in my look.

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Speaker 4: And I've come out of some anesthesia.

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Speaker 3: But I'll uh huh, I squint when I come out

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Speaker 3: of anesthesia. Make sure it's her, and then I can

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Speaker 3: monitor that. I don't know what you need to quit.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what's wrong with you and why your

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Speaker 3: husband asked you something like that anywhere?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's the issue.

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Speaker 4: But you know, if you wanted to answer, now, you

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Speaker 4: got yes, Chris Brown. Yes, not what.

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Speaker 2: You're finna do.

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Speaker 4: Its gonna make me some soup. You're gonna do a

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Speaker 4: flip or something like what?

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Speaker 2: But he's mad at her about that? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: All right, let's go to Tim in Memphis, Tim in Memphis. Right,

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Speaker 1: So I went too far in an argument with my

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Speaker 1: wife after she called me a mama's boy. I said

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Speaker 1: something very bad about her dad that wasn't present in

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Speaker 1: her life. I told her, we need to stop going

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Speaker 1: so low when we argue. Why can't she admit she

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Speaker 1: was wrong too?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 3: See she called you a mama's boy, yeah.

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Speaker 4: Which was more at you.

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Speaker 3: And you all are going too low because words hurt.

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Speaker 3: And there are some words in a marriage, man, that

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Speaker 3: you could say to a man, You ain't gonna be

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Speaker 3: able to get that back. And it's the words you

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Speaker 3: can say to a woman. You ain't gonna be able

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Speaker 3: to get that back, you know, man, And and it

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Speaker 3: causes permanent damage. And so if you all know that,

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Speaker 3: why do you do it? You a mama's boy where

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Speaker 3: your daddy at m.

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Speaker 4: I would call you a daddy's girl, But you ain't

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Speaker 4: got one, you see right?

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Speaker 5: The dog?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, see, you're mama's boy. You a daddy's girl.

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Speaker 3: So now y'all man, y'all stop, y'all stop, because I'm

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Speaker 3: telling you, man, the words can cause some damage that's

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Speaker 3: not repairable.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you can't take it back yeah, I ain't.

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Speaker 4: A big dog.

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Speaker 5: The last place you want to be arguing with somebody

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Speaker 5: is in Memphis. You get yourself hurt of Memphis. You

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Speaker 5: don't want to you don't want to be You're on

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Speaker 5: first forty eight and.

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Speaker 4: I ain't never run out of episodes in Memphis.

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Speaker 2: All right? Moving on to Amina in Miami. Amana, Right?

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Speaker 1: So I used to take my coworker home when her

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Speaker 1: car was in the shop. She ended up getting a

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Speaker 1: new car, and she barely speaks to me. Now she's

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Speaker 1: acting brand new and hanging out with a lady that

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Speaker 1: drives a bends like hers.

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Speaker 2: Should I tell her how I feel?

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Speaker 4: Is this a It's a woman or a guy that

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Speaker 4: wrote this letter?

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Speaker 2: Amina? The woman?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Amina?

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Speaker 3: Oh, she was just using it for the ride. Now,

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Speaker 3: you ain't got no bands. Now you can't hang out

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Speaker 3: with them. You don't see that kil they got you. Look,

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Speaker 3: you got a cute little camera and all this helf.

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Speaker 3: She don't have no opinions. Okay, Now you can't hang

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Speaker 3: out with her, Amina, You know what I mean. She

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Speaker 3: don't hardly talk to you no more, but she needed you.

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Speaker 3: That's how people are. When people show you who they are,

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Speaker 3: believe them and going about your business.

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Speaker 4: Why would you want her back in your life if

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Speaker 4: that's how she is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's facts right.

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Speaker 4: But cars gets stolen all the time just because.

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Speaker 1: It needs I gonna steal her car just because she's

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Speaker 1: not talking to ride.

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Speaker 4: You might need another ride?

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Speaker 2: All right, We're moving on. Is that it?

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Speaker 1: That's your final call, your party shots, nothing else to

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Speaker 1: say about it, all right? Last one, Steve, Last one.

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Speaker 1: This is from Ron in Philly. Uh Ron writes, my

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Speaker 1: wife and I make good money, but she wastes all

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Speaker 1: of her money on designer purses, and then it wants

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Speaker 1: to use all of my money for necessities like food

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Speaker 1: and clothes for our son. How do I put her

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Speaker 1: on a budget and how can I keep her from shopping?

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Speaker 4: Well? This is see her money, your money, That her money,

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Speaker 4: my money. Marriage.

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Speaker 3: That's the biggest problem you all are gonna have is

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Speaker 3: finances very quickly. This is the one hundred and twelfth

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Speaker 3: time I've done this on this show. I learned it

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Speaker 3: from the late great Roger Salter in Chicago, who was

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Speaker 3: my financial planner for years, and he did teach me

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Speaker 3: the most about money than anybody. Roger Salter told me

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Speaker 3: that every married couple should have four bank accounts. Each

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Speaker 3: one of your check goes into the main bank account.

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Speaker 3: Both checks go into the main bank account. In that

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Speaker 3: bank accounts where you take care of all necessities household cars, insurance, groceries, heat, electric,

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Speaker 3: all of that. And then you have an account for savings.

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Speaker 3: After you put that money in there, you should save

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Speaker 3: a certain percentage every week. I don't care if it's

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Speaker 3: two percent, five ten percent, whatever you can afford. Put

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Speaker 3: it in the savings account, and that requires two signatures

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Speaker 3: to move. The joint account requires two signatures to move.

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Speaker 3: And then the other two accounts you need to have

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Speaker 3: is your wife has a personal account and you have

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Speaker 3: a personal account. You all decide what each other's allowance

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Speaker 3: should be. Now, fellas, you're not going to like this,

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Speaker 3: but the woman's allowance should be a little bit bigger

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Speaker 3: than yours.

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Speaker 2: Of course, well just.

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Speaker 4: Listen to me.

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Speaker 3: Reason being, their maintenance is more expensive, hair makeup, toenails,

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Speaker 3: all of that beauty skin care treatment. You ain't got

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Speaker 3: nothing but some cocoa butter lotion, some shape buttery in

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Speaker 3: your thing, and some deodoring. Right, God put it on. Okay,

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Speaker 3: you little stink yourself to work now she should have

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Speaker 3: a little bit more. Now, whatever she does with her money,

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Speaker 3: you have absolutely no say so. And whatever you do

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Speaker 3: with your money, she has no say so. She doesn't

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Speaker 3: have access to your account and you don't have access

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Speaker 3: to her account. It keeps a form of individuality in

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Speaker 3: the relationship while you work and strive and bill together.

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Speaker 3: Best advice I ever got for compass It will cut

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Speaker 3: that dinner. You want to take all her money and

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Speaker 3: buy person, Let her go ahead, Yeah, money for the sun,

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Speaker 3: come out to join account.

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Speaker 1: All right, great advice, CLO. Coming up at the top

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Speaker 1: of the hour, we will.

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Speaker 4: You're gonna get some small persons though. I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 4: you that.

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Speaker 2: We will have some entertainment news for you coming up

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Speaker 2: right after this gots people.

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Speaker 4: This is Kirk Franklin.

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Speaker 2: Hey, this is a second count. What's going on? This

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Speaker 2: is your boy Kevin Hart.

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Speaker 5: What is your boy Chris Broden, your boy's big Snoop Dog.

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Speaker 4: This is your boy, Sandy Entertainer.

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Speaker 2: This is Yolanda Adams less self.

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