WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Dine For One But I'm Not Done

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<v Speaker 1>Second date, up date. Eating alone at a restaurant isn't

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<v Speaker 1>necessarily taboo.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it could be really nice alone.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, A lot of people enjoyed dining by themselves

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<v Speaker 1>because it can be very peaceful, reflective, very fulfilling experience.

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<v Speaker 2>Still have to share.

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<v Speaker 1>Especially it's especially fulfilling if you loudly moan after every

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<v Speaker 1>single bite you take. Oh my god, oh yeah, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. Have you guys tried this excellent waiter? Pass

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<v Speaker 1>my plate over the table there, they need to take

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<v Speaker 1>a bite of this.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you may be someone who shouldn't eat a looney. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, one of our listeners, Lauren, is also comfortable at

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<v Speaker 1>a table for one, and curiously that's how she ended

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<v Speaker 1>up meeting a guy the other night. Oh so it

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<v Speaker 1>works out in a whole lot of ways. Lauren. Welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 4>I want to know, Lauren, is it something that you

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<v Speaker 4>do often, going out to eat by yourself?

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<v Speaker 3>Actually? Yes, and I love it because I'm I have

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<v Speaker 3>a foodie.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm kind of a drinky, so yeah, it's.

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<v Speaker 2>I could usually use past tense for that drunk.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever it is comes in liquid form. So you went

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<v Speaker 1>out by yourself the other night to a restaurant I did.

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<v Speaker 3>It was this super nice restaurant in town that I've

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<v Speaker 3>been I've really been wanting to try it. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 3>I heard really good things, but it's super hard to

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<v Speaker 3>get a reservation, even for one, even for one. Wow,

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<v Speaker 3>it's good, exactly exactly. I went there the other night

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<v Speaker 3>by myself, hoping that you know, I could do a

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<v Speaker 3>walk in.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, with one person. That's kind of reasonable.

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<v Speaker 2>Like sometimes you can.

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<v Speaker 1>Scope the bar and one person leads you just slide on.

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<v Speaker 3>It, exactly. But I go up to the host in

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<v Speaker 3>and they told me it was almost a two hour

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<v Speaker 3>wait to get a table.

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<v Speaker 2>You're like, I don't take up much room exactly like

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<v Speaker 2>a chair.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'll just leave whatever's left at somebody's table once

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<v Speaker 1>they get up.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow did you wait or what did you do?

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<v Speaker 3>So this is what happened. This guy he overheard the

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<v Speaker 3>interaction at the host stand and he walks up to

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<v Speaker 3>me and says, you're only one person. We have a

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<v Speaker 3>reservation for four, but one of our friends couldn't make it.

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<v Speaker 5>Want to join on.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, Alexis, you would totally do that for a stranger, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Them maybe you're with friends you don't really want to

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<v Speaker 4>talk to, so you add one more person to the

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<v Speaker 4>mix and whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>The reason, it's cool. You got an invite. What did

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<v Speaker 1>you say? So nice?

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<v Speaker 3>Okay? So at first I was like, you know, no,

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<v Speaker 3>I don't want to impose, but it was really nice, right,

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<v Speaker 3>And he was like, don't even worry about it, it's fine.

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<v Speaker 3>So I agreed.

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<v Speaker 2>That's say that's really cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, and if he's attractive, you're not going to

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<v Speaker 3>say sure. Definitely easy on the eyes for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So who did you end up sitting with? It

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<v Speaker 2>was him and who else?

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<v Speaker 3>It was him and a couple of his friends, which

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<v Speaker 3>were two other women.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I got to know all of them.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, they work together, they're coworkers.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's like if all of us went to lunch. Yeah, man,

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<v Speaker 1>that's a good look on him. What's his name by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, Adam?

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<v Speaker 3>His name is Adam.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>For a minute, I was like, oh my god, I'm

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<v Speaker 4>going to totally do this with my husband next time.

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<v Speaker 2>We got to eat and I'm like, no, it looks weird.

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<v Speaker 2>Couple asks a single person not the same.

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<v Speaker 1>At this dinner table with Adam and his two female

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<v Speaker 1>co workers. How was that? Was that weird or did

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<v Speaker 1>it feel normal?

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<v Speaker 4>Well?

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<v Speaker 3>It was funny because he kept telling me, it's okay,

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<v Speaker 3>I've been ditched on first dates before, don't bear Oh.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you correct him? Did you tell him?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 2>No? No, no, I wasn't ditched.

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely. I told him like, I actually came by myself.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't have a problem eating alone. I just love

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<v Speaker 3>eating good food.

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<v Speaker 2>And then they all laughed, like, what a funny joke.

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<v Speaker 1>She's really okay.

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<v Speaker 3>They definitely thought I was strange for sure. Okay, they

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<v Speaker 3>still were kind and sweet to me. So and the

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<v Speaker 3>meal was phenomenal. It was absolutely phenomenal.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, and that makes for easy conversation even with

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<v Speaker 4>strangers when the food's good, because you can talk about

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<v Speaker 4>it all.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and you're like try this, here comes the airplane stranger.

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<v Speaker 2>Was there sharing that would be weird?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>Well there was sharing of bottles of wine, for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>We did split a couple of those.

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<v Speaker 4>Now we're all best friends by the end of the

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<v Speaker 4>And were you feeling a vibe with this guy at all?

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<v Speaker 2>Ever?

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<v Speaker 3>Totally, I was totally feeling a connection, and I think

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<v Speaker 3>it would be more fun if it was just me

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<v Speaker 3>and him.

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<v Speaker 4>So, yeah, were you able to get out any info

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<v Speaker 4>like if he was single or what his status was?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 1>No, But I do think if there's a guy that's

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<v Speaker 1>eating himself with two female co workers, he's probably not

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<v Speaker 1>in a relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>About my husband just had dinner with two co workers

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<v Speaker 2>like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Exactly exactly, checking his phone. Yeah, I think if anything,

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<v Speaker 1>the vibe itself, you could always feel some kind of vibe.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes he's in a relationship. He's not going to flirt

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<v Speaker 2>in front of his coworkers with you.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I don't know, but sometimes people feel safe that way,

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<v Speaker 4>or you misinterpret the flirting.

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<v Speaker 1>He's at least a nice guy who is willing to

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<v Speaker 1>invite a stranger into the group, and that that must

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<v Speaker 1>be absolutely So have you reached out to him since

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<v Speaker 1>that dinner?

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<v Speaker 3>I did. I suggested to him over text because we

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<v Speaker 3>all at some point exchange numbers.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, everyone exchanged Okay, exactly.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I suggested to him via text that, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>we should hang out again, just me and him, you know, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>And he's been avoiding it, like he'll respond but not

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<v Speaker 3>agree to meet up. So I don't know what's going on.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, and it's not like he actually asked for your number.

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<v Speaker 4>It was like a group exchange of numbers, which is

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<v Speaker 4>a little bit different, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And did you make him pay for your food that night,

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<v Speaker 1>because that could factor a d.

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<v Speaker 3>No, No, no, I didn't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, maybe there's something here. We're gonna come back

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<v Speaker 1>try and get you a second date update with Adam.

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<v Speaker 1>Table for two one share. We're gonna do it.

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<v Speaker 3>We're doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. Okay, So I've been thinking worst case scenario.

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<v Speaker 1>Our listener Lauren is eating dinner with three strangers.

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<v Speaker 5>Here.

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<v Speaker 1>She says she's attracted to one, the guy, Adam, But

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<v Speaker 1>what if a different stranger at that table was attracted

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<v Speaker 1>to her?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh is that best case scenario?

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<v Speaker 1>We don't know that because we've had that happened before

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<v Speaker 1>on this segment. That's all I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, like, maybe his friend called DIBs on her. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, it just came to me what you

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<v Speaker 4>were saying. I'm sorry I didn't.

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<v Speaker 2>Understand, Lauren.

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<v Speaker 1>We need to know what were the vibes from the

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<v Speaker 1>other two ladies that you ate with that night? Did

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<v Speaker 1>you feel anything happening from them?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>No, no, Actually they were super helpful. They actually helped

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<v Speaker 3>me with a lot of the pictures that I took.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay, they.

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<v Speaker 3>Were into it. You know, they were super into it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's always nice to have someone there for lighting.

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<v Speaker 3>The light exactly. But there was no romantic vibe though.

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<v Speaker 1>The only romantic vibe you were getting was from Adam.

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<v Speaker 2>Or given correct.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, how did you guys leave it? That's the one

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<v Speaker 2>thing that I don't think we heard.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you know, we we said goodbye and went our

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<v Speaker 3>separate ways, and you know, like I mentioned before, I

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<v Speaker 3>had texted him after the fact.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we knew that. I didn't know if there was

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<v Speaker 2>like a hey, I want to see.

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<v Speaker 1>You again, or like a four way kiss or like

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<v Speaker 1>something or whatever. It was a very friendly though.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, cordial, you know, sure, just four lips at once.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that final flavor, whatever it was. We're just trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get Adam to go out with you one on

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<v Speaker 1>one because that's what you're most interested in. So let's

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<v Speaker 1>give him a call right now. You ready, I'm ready,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm ready to here we go.

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<v Speaker 5>Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is this Adam?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh? Yeah, hey Adam.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope you're up for being on the radio this morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Because you already are.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, yeah, it's a show.

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jeffy Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. That's

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<v Speaker 1>our show.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, yeah, I've heard you guys a few times

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<v Speaker 5>before you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah calling me though, Well, if you've heard of us,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe you know our segment second date update.

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<v Speaker 5>I have heard of that, but I haven't been on

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<v Speaker 5>a date. And then months He's.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, it was Oh well, yeah, I guess technically this

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't a first date that you went on.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think in any form was it a date.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean maybe, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>What to call it. There you were at dinner with

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<v Speaker 1>a group of women, one of whom wants to see

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<v Speaker 1>you again outside of their workplace. Her names Lauren.

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<v Speaker 5>Lauren. Oh okay did She told.

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<v Speaker 4>Us about how she was like waiting for a table

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<v Speaker 4>for herself, and then you came in and said, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>sit with us.

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<v Speaker 2>I thought that was so cool. Yeah, that's really nice thing. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>I did see her there. I thought she was attractive.

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<v Speaker 5>I was trying to be nice, but I guess no

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<v Speaker 5>good deed goes unpunished.

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<v Speaker 4>I like how you're trying to be nice, but you

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<v Speaker 4>only offered it to her because she was attractive.

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<v Speaker 1>You said you did? You say no, no, good deed

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<v Speaker 1>goes on. Punished, You felt punished.

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<v Speaker 5>I was trying to do something nice. I didn't think

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<v Speaker 5>what was going to unfold? What unfold?

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<v Speaker 2>What unfolded? Didn't you have a nice time?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, we were all having fun getting to know each

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<v Speaker 5>other before the actual meal started, and that was all fine.

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<v Speaker 5>It was the actual eating part that happened when things

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<v Speaker 5>took a left turn.

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<v Speaker 1>Is Lauren like a messy eater?

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<v Speaker 5>No, no, there's nothing to do with how she ate.

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<v Speaker 5>It was once the meals were presented, we were picking

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<v Speaker 5>up our forks. We're excited, and then Lauren stops everything,

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<v Speaker 5>tells everyone wait, wait, wait, stop, and of course everyone

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<v Speaker 5>in the restaurant look that loud, and we were thinking

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<v Speaker 5>why why, why why would we stop? And so she

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<v Speaker 5>stands up in our booths and she says to me, quick, quickick,

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<v Speaker 5>give me your phone, and I'm thinking, why why do

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<v Speaker 5>you need my phone? So I hand her my phone

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<v Speaker 5>because I think, okay, okay, give her the crazy person

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<v Speaker 5>what they want. She pulls out her phone and starts

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<v Speaker 5>recording and then hovering over over the meal with both phones,

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<v Speaker 5>last light blazing. She's waving her arms around, zooming in

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<v Speaker 5>and out on the plate.

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<v Speaker 1>Why it's okay, okay, so we STI haven't gotten to

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<v Speaker 1>what part of the meal was weird?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you down upset? Still?

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds to me it.

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<v Speaker 5>Was embarrassing to Mike. I was with my co workers

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<v Speaker 5>and we were all just trying to be nice, like,

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<v Speaker 5>just give her your phone. They gave her bones to

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<v Speaker 5>three in her hands at one point. But what are

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<v Speaker 5>you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? We'd a rule in the foodie world that gets

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<v Speaker 1>some in trouble, and it's the camera eats. First, Lauren

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<v Speaker 1>did mention that you guys helped her take pictures. We

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know it was like a full Academy Award winning production.

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<v Speaker 4>Honestly though, even when she mentioned it, it was just

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<v Speaker 4>like a side like it wasn't a big.

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<v Speaker 2>Talking point for her, a little bit of light or something.

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<v Speaker 2>She thought that you guys were helping.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, we were just trying to be nice. And

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<v Speaker 5>when she told us she was a foodie before this

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<v Speaker 5>had we thought, oh, that's interesting. But this wasn't just

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<v Speaker 5>the first port. This was the appetizers, this was the

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<v Speaker 5>main port.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, well that is some information that we did

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<v Speaker 1>not know before we got you on the phone, So

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<v Speaker 1>I apologize for that.

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<v Speaker 5>So I want you to know this wasn't just me

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<v Speaker 5>ghosting her. Okay, my friends afterwards that do not date her.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, Okay, Now I regret bringing Lauren into the

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<v Speaker 1>conversation at that morning, Laurah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's okay. Look, I understand why you might be

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<v Speaker 3>skeptical of what I was conducting at the table, but listen,

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<v Speaker 3>what I do is actually pretty legit. I have a

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<v Speaker 3>pretty big following on TikTok, and the camera work is

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<v Speaker 3>part of it. Like going the extra mile is what

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<v Speaker 3>I do. Look, I'm going to send you a link

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<v Speaker 3>right now. I have a lot of followers.

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<v Speaker 4>And would it make a difference if she made money

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<v Speaker 4>doing this, you know, like if it was her bread

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<v Speaker 4>and butter.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I love.

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<v Speaker 5>Capitalized Squarantino for all I care. It's just it was

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<v Speaker 5>it was obnoxious the way you get it. You.

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<v Speaker 3>I did not mean to be obnoxious, okay, And I

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<v Speaker 3>think you might be exaggerating just a little bit. I

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<v Speaker 3>just need to capitalize on what might have been the

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<v Speaker 3>only opportunity for me to eat there, as you could see.

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<v Speaker 1>And if it's hard to get into restaurant.

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<v Speaker 5>Those videos go viral exactly.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, Adam, don't you think that, like, maybe it

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<v Speaker 4>was on you to say something at the table, because

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<v Speaker 4>she obviously did not realize that you guys were uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, clearly from what you guys know of Lauren, you've

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<v Speaker 5>gotten to know her better than I at this point.

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<v Speaker 5>She's a very assertive, young young woman. So even if

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<v Speaker 5>I had said anything, I don't think she would have

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<v Speaker 5>stopped me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh, he doesn't have a point.

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<v Speaker 2>I can see what you mean, So don't even give

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<v Speaker 2>her a chance. Okay, don't Yeah, that's Adam.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you gotten the link yet? I sent you a link?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay? Are we going to do this right now in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of the segment? Oh, Adam?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, wouldn't make a difference, ad him if the

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<v Speaker 4>video was really cool?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, if he sees it has a million views,

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<v Speaker 1>just just open it up real quick, Adam, take a

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<v Speaker 1>look and might change your mind.

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<v Speaker 5>If it'll put this to bad, fine, I'll look at

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<v Speaker 5>your TikTok.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, all right, this is a first for this segment

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<v Speaker 1>where we're having somebody go on to social media and

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<v Speaker 1>watch videos.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, what we're talking.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I mean outside of the people in this room.

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<v Speaker 1>We're having the listeners on the phone watch videos on TikTok.

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<v Speaker 2>Because we can't see it, and you describe what you're seeing.

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<v Speaker 5>I see the one that was posted from the restaurant. Wait, wait,

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<v Speaker 5>how did you get like a smoke effect back there?

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<v Speaker 5>And it looks like there's a light show going there?

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<v Speaker 5>Weren't lights like that?

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<v Speaker 3>What I do, Adam, this is what I do.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, you falsely advertised.

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<v Speaker 5>There's a lot of people.

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<v Speaker 1>Adam sounding a little bit impressed though by what he's

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<v Speaker 1>seeing is it.

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<v Speaker 2>Does it look like you want to eat there again? Adam?

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<v Speaker 5>I mean I would. I was gonna eat there again anyway.

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<v Speaker 5>But obviously this is a great advertisement. They should hire you.

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<v Speaker 5>This looks really good.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you're just biased because you already ate there. No, Jeff,

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<v Speaker 1>we just made progress. Okay, it's really what I said.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree they should hire me. And that's why I

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<v Speaker 3>do this.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, would have made a difference if she had

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<v Speaker 2>given you a hold on.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm looking at some other videos. Here is there tiger

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<v Speaker 5>in the back there?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, this has definitely taken a different twist. We started

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<v Speaker 1>off very angry and agitator when we first had Adam on,

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<v Speaker 1>but now he's sounding very impressed with all of her abilities.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm not going to waste any more time. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just going to ask, Adam, would you like to go

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<v Speaker 1>out on another date with Lauren? No cameras this time,

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<v Speaker 1>he gets you. Just do conversation, keep it boring, but

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<v Speaker 1>to you, we'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 3>We can go somewhere already been before.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that makes sense. It doesn't need to do a video.

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<v Speaker 1>There as long as we have a gift card for it. Adam,

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<v Speaker 1>what you.

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<v Speaker 5>Said, I mean that sounds intriguing. Yes, I'm sorry. I

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<v Speaker 5>flew off the handle, but it's there. Was like taking

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<v Speaker 5>a stray cat and realizing they're a ninja. I didn't.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't know what to expect.

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<v Speaker 1>Think you guys are weird enough. Maybe watch some tiktoks

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<v Speaker 1>on how to properly compliment it, But TikTok to all

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<v Speaker 1>of us, Lauren, we.

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<v Speaker 4>Want to say, those are some powerful food videos.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well, congratulations you two you got a second date.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you, Adam, and I forgive you for all the

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<v Speaker 3>mean things you said earlier on the car.

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<v Speaker 1>Just don't tell your two female co workers. That you're

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<v Speaker 1>going out with.

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<v Speaker 3>You, they're gonna be Oh yeah, that's.

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<v Speaker 2>Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, that was definitely a first for this segment.

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<v Speaker 2>I did not think it was going to take that turn.

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<v Speaker 2>I really did not think he was going to change

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<v Speaker 2>his mind.

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny that we actually had to wait to let

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<v Speaker 1>someone watch TikTok videos while we're in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>a segment.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean that just happens for Alexis right without

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<v Speaker 2>us waiting.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know what, it worked. My question though, is

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<v Speaker 1>did we miss out on an opportunity to send him

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<v Speaker 1>a link to our TikTok page at Brook and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 1>Why didn't we do that during.

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<v Speaker 2>The call he hung up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I think we should do it from now on.

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<v Speaker 2>It's actually really good TikTok.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I'm about to ask you if you want to

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<v Speaker 1>go on a second date with her. You can say

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<v Speaker 1>yes or no. But before you answer, go check out

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<v Speaker 1>jose doing the cabbage patch dance on our social media

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<v Speaker 1>at Brook and Jeffrey. We're gonna wait for your answer.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, And why did we make that video sixty seconds lost?

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<v Speaker 1>The bottom line is it worked. We were able to

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<v Speaker 1>get them a second date. Yeah, we can do it

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<v Speaker 1>for you too. Maybe if you email the show, we'll

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<v Speaker 1>call that person wasn't calling you back

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<v Speaker 2>Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning