WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Angry Adam

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<v Speaker 1>Brooking jewels second date of date. I think the best

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<v Speaker 1>way to make a first impression on a first date

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<v Speaker 1>is to show her your rage issues right away. You

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, Just rage on the first date

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time. Usually ladies like that a lot. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they dude, Oh I love it. That's why Adam is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone right now. He emailed us about a

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<v Speaker 1>date that he had that he feels didn't go so

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<v Speaker 1>great because he was a little angry when he showed

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<v Speaker 1>up to his date. Adam, how are you, hey, guys?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? I'm good? Hey man. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I will say I read your email and the issue

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<v Speaker 1>that you had in getting to your date and the

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<v Speaker 1>way you acted on your date. I can't blame you.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I would have acted the same way I've

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<v Speaker 1>been in this situation a lot. But go ahead and

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<v Speaker 1>tell everybody about how you met the girl that you

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<v Speaker 1>want us to call today. So her name was Wren,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, it was one of those like friend

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<v Speaker 1>of a friend saying, um, we were both single. They

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<v Speaker 1>set us up. But she was real good looking. I

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<v Speaker 1>was really tracked to her looking through her pictures. It

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<v Speaker 1>really seemed like she was gonna be a good fit.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was pretty stoked on the date from the

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<v Speaker 1>beginning before we even actually met for the day, right

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<v Speaker 1>before you met and showed her your angry side. Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't mean to show her my angry thing. That

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<v Speaker 1>listen the goal of the day. Yeah, but in your

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<v Speaker 1>email you said you got there and you just raged

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<v Speaker 1>for the whole time pretty much, and you felt kind

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<v Speaker 1>of awkward about it. Explain what happened. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>was I gave myself plenty of time to get to coffee,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, last thing I want to do on a

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<v Speaker 1>first day, to show up late, And all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta know where. This app turns into the lane

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<v Speaker 1>in front of me and starts going like twenty miles

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<v Speaker 1>per hours. And I wasn't running late, but this guy,

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<v Speaker 1>he just I felt like he was mentioning with me

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm just sitting there and I'm beeping and I'm honking,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm trying to be nice first, and then I

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<v Speaker 1>just lose it. I slipped switch and I start going

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<v Speaker 1>crazy on this guy and he's just just a nast

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm just trying to get somewhere. Yeah, you're already

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<v Speaker 1>raging with us. We're just trying to ask you, okay, Yeah, no, dude, Adam,

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking to the king of road rage right here. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm constantly pissed off in my car. So I understand

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<v Speaker 1>you were angry about this dude. Yeah, Well of course

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<v Speaker 1>I was angry. Yeah, you know, this guy who pulls

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<v Speaker 1>in front of me makes me ten minutes late and

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<v Speaker 1>that fits me off. And I tried to let it go,

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<v Speaker 1>and I guess it was just nervous energy. I just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of wouldn't shut up, and I just talked NonStop

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<v Speaker 1>pretty much the whole date. Were you talking about this

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<v Speaker 1>guy the whole time? Pretty much? Do you have angry

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<v Speaker 1>issues normally? Are you an angry guy? I tend to

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<v Speaker 1>think I'm pretty even killed guy. But I asked you

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<v Speaker 1>to recap the incident on the way to the date,

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<v Speaker 1>and you just went off on us. So you sound

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<v Speaker 1>like an angry dude? Are you? Are you an angry

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<v Speaker 1>guy or are you I'm not, normally, you know, really

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<v Speaker 1>an angry guy. I think it was just a nervous

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<v Speaker 1>energy of going to the date, and I think that's

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<v Speaker 1>a mix of both of those things. I just kind of,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, had a tough time. Did you explain to

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<v Speaker 1>her that you were upset at a guy that you did?

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<v Speaker 1>I think it just came off angry. Yeah, I see

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<v Speaker 1>how that happened. Did she comment about your anger? Did

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<v Speaker 1>she say, like, whoa, you're still pretty upset about that?

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<v Speaker 1>Really she was pretty quiet about it. She was really quiet,

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<v Speaker 1>probably quiet because she was scared for her life. People

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<v Speaker 1>get that way. That's where I felt real bad with

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<v Speaker 1>I just kind of just talked NonStop for forty five minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>Did she get a word in edgewise? I mean not much?

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<v Speaker 1>All right? So you talked at her the whole time? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean at the end, I said, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>said to her, I asked her about going out on

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<v Speaker 1>another date, and I apologize to her, and I said

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<v Speaker 1>that you know, I'm not normally like this and all

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<v Speaker 1>this stuff. And you know we slapped five. No you

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<v Speaker 1>you high five that da end of the day. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't going to kiss her. I was like from

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<v Speaker 1>from and swim nervous, pissed off. What kind of five

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<v Speaker 1>were we talking about here? Like on the side down

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<v Speaker 1>low high FIVEI So you gave her a high five

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<v Speaker 1>to say goodbye? She probably didn't want to do a

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<v Speaker 1>fifth pound because she thought you might break her. Yeah, seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>did you ask to see her again? Interlocked thing? So gay?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh nice, it's almost a handhold. You almost held her

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<v Speaker 1>hand on the first date. Did you ask to see

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<v Speaker 1>her again? Well? Yeah, we talked about it and I

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<v Speaker 1>mentioned i'd throw her text and I texted her a

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<v Speaker 1>few times and I haven't really heard back, so that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm kind of curious, you know. I know it didn't

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<v Speaker 1>go great, but I thought it ended good after you

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<v Speaker 1>apologize Georgia to say, oh, I totally understand. I've been

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<v Speaker 1>there before or not so much, and so she seemed upset. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I told her, I said, I told I

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<v Speaker 1>told her that, you know, my energy level was often

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<v Speaker 1>and I was really nervous for the date as it was,

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<v Speaker 1>and then this happened, and it just it just totally

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<v Speaker 1>threw me and I and I feel horrible about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And I told her that and she seemed receptive to it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but this whole situation, you know, it's just it. It

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<v Speaker 1>didn't go well, and I really want a second chance

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<v Speaker 1>because I think her and I could really do well together.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that even with my anger issues, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the little bit of road rate and stuff. I feel

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<v Speaker 1>like a girl like her could really call me down. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's kind of sweet. All right, well we'll play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back, call her and get your second date update. Okay, great,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you guys. All right, trying not to freak out

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<v Speaker 1>brooking jubile in the morning, Adam is on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>with us. He wants us to call a girl named

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<v Speaker 1>Rin today for his second date update. They went out

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<v Speaker 1>met for coffee. He was ten minutes late and ended

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<v Speaker 1>up being very frustrated from a road rage incident that

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<v Speaker 1>made him late. Feels like he just vented about the

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<v Speaker 1>thing the whole time and was just angry and didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even literally get a word in edgewise while they had

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<v Speaker 1>their coffee date. Adam, you're about ready to give her

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<v Speaker 1>a call? I'm ready, man, all right. I was thinking

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<v Speaker 1>about this. Most girls, when they list the traits that

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<v Speaker 1>they like in a potential mate, they usually say something

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<v Speaker 1>like I like a guy who's sensitive, a guy who's caring,

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<v Speaker 1>good job, very responsible. They usually don't list potential homicidal

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<v Speaker 1>maniac as a as a good quality. So that's probably

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<v Speaker 1>why she's not calling you back. I mean, if you

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<v Speaker 1>went on a first date with somebody and they showed

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<v Speaker 1>up a little late, first of all, that's one strike

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<v Speaker 1>against you, and then proceeded to just be angry the

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<v Speaker 1>whole time. I doubt you'd be so willing to call

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<v Speaker 1>him back to I mean, I think that's kind of issue.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why I'm trying to make it work with

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<v Speaker 1>her again, because I really do feel like I had

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<v Speaker 1>a bad representation. You want to do over? Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>just want to try one more time, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to. I want to kind of show rens of

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<v Speaker 1>Adam that I really am. Okay, and you think this

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<v Speaker 1>call is gonna do it for you? You've got a

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<v Speaker 1>level head on you right now. Yeah, I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty zen right now. Just don't make him wait

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<v Speaker 1>any longer for the phone call, don't make him late

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<v Speaker 1>for the second bay, get this going so I don't

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<v Speaker 1>get pised off about it. Okay, all right, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>call it right now. Man, here we go. Hello, how

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Ren? Please? Is hey? Ren? How

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<v Speaker 1>are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning, the radio program. I'm sorry, I think you

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<v Speaker 1>have the wrong number. No, I'm pretty sure I have

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<v Speaker 1>the right number. N there's not a whole lot of rinds.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was given your number by a guy named

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<v Speaker 1>Adam to call you today. Why it Yeah. Adam is

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<v Speaker 1>a listener to our show, and he says he recently

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<v Speaker 1>went out on a date with you, but you're not

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<v Speaker 1>calling him back. And he asked us to see if

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<v Speaker 1>we get you on the phone and ask why how

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<v Speaker 1>do you know him? He listens to our radio show.

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<v Speaker 1>Adam wanted us to call you to ask if if

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<v Speaker 1>he did something wrong on your date, or there's a

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<v Speaker 1>particular reason that you don't want to see him again.

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<v Speaker 1>This is I don't even really know how to respond

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<v Speaker 1>to this. I know it's you about this he did.

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<v Speaker 1>He told us that you went out for coffee, and

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<v Speaker 1>he said that he was a little late, and he

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<v Speaker 1>actually feels bad because he thinks that he may have

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<v Speaker 1>been a little upset from a traffic incident and he

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't very attentive to you on your date. Oh God,

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<v Speaker 1>is that a pretty accurate description. Yeah, yeah, I would

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<v Speaker 1>say so. I get this is what you guys do.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't mean to be disrespectful at all. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of like, no, that's fine, I appreciate you

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<v Speaker 1>taking the time out to talk to us. We just

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<v Speaker 1>want to pass along a message to Adam and give

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<v Speaker 1>him your perspective on the first date. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I can talk about that. My experience with Adam was

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<v Speaker 1>very limited, and I'm not a very confrontational person, and

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<v Speaker 1>he was very, very angry, and I think that the

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<v Speaker 1>first ten minutes of the time that we very very

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<v Speaker 1>first were introduced to each other, it was really just

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<v Speaker 1>all about this driving experience that we had had being

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<v Speaker 1>so frustrated with this other person. Was he like cussid

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff when he was explaining it to you, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's not like it was so so over

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<v Speaker 1>the top that I would have need to have left,

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<v Speaker 1>because I would have done that if it was really

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<v Speaker 1>really that bad, If you would, I was going to

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<v Speaker 1>ask you, rin, I was going to ask you if

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<v Speaker 1>at any point you were scared for your life. Oh god, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't say that. It really wasn't like that, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was pretty intense. Even when he finally went to

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<v Speaker 1>go get us some coffee, which he did, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>finally pull himself up to be like, Okay, I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to go get us some coffee, but pulls himself together.

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<v Speaker 1>Even in that moment when he goes to order the coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>He I can hear him from from all of the

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<v Speaker 1>way at the other end of the shop and he's

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<v Speaker 1>ordering and he just sounds aggressive. So was he like

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<v Speaker 1>yelling at the barista and stuff like tearing up this

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<v Speaker 1>Starbucks or wherever you're at. No, it really wasn't like that.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't like he was he was unkind towards the

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<v Speaker 1>people around him necessarily. It's just the like the manner

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<v Speaker 1>in which he was dealing with things. It was just

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<v Speaker 1>like pent up. You know, when somebody's really upset about

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<v Speaker 1>something and even though they are doing something normal, it's

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<v Speaker 1>in an abnormal way. And here's the other thing that

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<v Speaker 1>was that was tough. It was manifesting in like sweat. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>he was so mad that he was sweating. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if he just sweats, if that's a thing

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<v Speaker 1>independent of what was going on, but it seems like

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<v Speaker 1>it was fueled or at least like made a lot

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<v Speaker 1>worse by his emotional space. Rand It's called hyper hydrosis.

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<v Speaker 1>It's people we can't control their sweat glands. Okay, they

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<v Speaker 1>sweat a ton he maybe he has that. Yeah, some people,

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<v Speaker 1>so you don't want to see him again because he's

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<v Speaker 1>an angry, sweaty mess. It's not just that he was

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<v Speaker 1>sweating a lot and being angry. He was sweating profusely,

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<v Speaker 1>like the bodies of his hand. There was sat dripping

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<v Speaker 1>down him and then collecting like under. I'm trying to

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<v Speaker 1>think it's the right way to say this, um like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh man, boobs, you know, Oh gosh, he sweat it out.

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<v Speaker 1>His whole shirt like dark, dark, just covered in sweat.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man, Yeah, that's bad. If he's pitting out a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, that's kind of like whoa, man, you sweat

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, buddy. If he actually his whole shirt was

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<v Speaker 1>sweat it out, I don't think that's what And that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I was concerned about, because I know that when

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<v Speaker 1>i'm off set, like I'll sweat a little bit and

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<v Speaker 1>that's normal. But it was, whoa, it was so much.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be curious to find out if it's an issue

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<v Speaker 1>or if it's just his anger that makes him sweat

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<v Speaker 1>like that. Aren't you curious to at least? No? Honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe he's a really great person that just had a

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<v Speaker 1>really bad day. But I just don't want to deal

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<v Speaker 1>with this, Okay, I really don't. That's cool. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for giving us an answer. I appreciate it. But I

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<v Speaker 1>really need to find out about this sweat. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>why I'm glad you're still on the phone, because Adam

0:11:46.120 --> 0:11:49.240
<v Speaker 1>is also on the phone and heard everything you just said.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, are you kidding me? Oh, I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, Hiram, Oh my god, I am First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really really sorry. Look, this is really cool. I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I'm also like annoyed to be put in

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<v Speaker 1>this situation, But I am sorry if you heard things

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<v Speaker 1>that I said, Um, are you don't need to feel

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<v Speaker 1>bad around every Pretty much everything you said is true.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I can kind of explain the sweating thing,

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<v Speaker 1>the anger stuff, Um, the sweating thing, let's start with that. So,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know, I threw a hoodie in a

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<v Speaker 1>coat on and it ended up not being as cold

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<v Speaker 1>out as I anticipated. By the time I was all

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<v Speaker 1>pissed off at this guy in front of me. I

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<v Speaker 1>started sweating the car because I was laughing the heat

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<v Speaker 1>and I was so pissed up I wasn't thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>The coffee shop had the heat on. I couldn't stop

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<v Speaker 1>sweating and I knew I was and I know that

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<v Speaker 1>my man hooves were sweating. Yeah, and that was a

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<v Speaker 1>crappy thing for me to say about man the step.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, that was just the first thing. I was

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<v Speaker 1>just easier. That's what I think I want you to hear.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, I'm not that angry guy. I know I

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<v Speaker 1>was sweaty, I know I was hot ash and I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>but attention, you wouldn't mention it. Like I was so

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<v Speaker 1>lost in that date, and like I didn't know what

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<v Speaker 1>to do, and I went home and showered right away.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like I was looking in the mirror and

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<v Speaker 1>like I literally like was mortified by myself because I

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<v Speaker 1>was really excited about the date and like I never

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<v Speaker 1>tell friends about going out with anybody, but for some reason,

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<v Speaker 1>I was kind of stoked on you and I just

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<v Speaker 1>crashed and burned. And I kind of do that a

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<v Speaker 1>lot in life. And I just want you to know

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<v Speaker 1>that I really am sorry. And as far as you

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<v Speaker 1>and I are concerned, like I'd love one more shot,

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<v Speaker 1>there's one more chance to maybe sweat it out with you.

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<v Speaker 1>And hey, Wren, would you like to go out with

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<v Speaker 1>Adam again. I will pay for a second date. We

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<v Speaker 1>can send you guys to a spin class or something

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<v Speaker 1>where the sweat where sweat is supposed to be there,

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<v Speaker 1>and would you maybe give him another shot to see

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<v Speaker 1>if he's not so flustered this time he can he

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<v Speaker 1>can do a better job. Adam. I'm like, this is awkward,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just want to say I appreciate you eventually

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<v Speaker 1>being honest. I think that what I would have preferred

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<v Speaker 1>is if you could have communicated this to me, not

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<v Speaker 1>on a radio station, because you did contact me and

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't really ever just come out and say I

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<v Speaker 1>totally get it, Ran. I mean, as crazy as I

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<v Speaker 1>was there, it's probably crazier that I ended up on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio with you right now. But I tried calling

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<v Speaker 1>and I texting you, and you know, you never got

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<v Speaker 1>back to me here. So like I thought, like this

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<v Speaker 1>was my class option of how I can get ahold

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<v Speaker 1>of you, Rin, Will you do it? Will you go

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<v Speaker 1>out with him one more time? Come on, We've never

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<v Speaker 1>had anyone be so sincere. Will you drive please? Just

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<v Speaker 1>a weird? It's funny? Oh right, okay, all right, yeah

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<v Speaker 1>one more day? Nice? All right? Ran? Thank you every time. Adam,

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<v Speaker 1>congratulations you got your second date. Man, thank you. Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>n this is gonna be great. I promise you, Adam

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<v Speaker 1>two words before your next date. All Right, gold bond

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<v Speaker 1>okay broken. Jubil in the morning.