Speaker 1: Brooking jewels second date of date. I think the best
Speaker 1: way to make a first impression on a first date
Speaker 1: is to show her your rage issues right away. You
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Just rage on the first date
Speaker 1: the whole time. Usually ladies like that a lot. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: they dude, Oh I love it. That's why Adam is
Speaker 1: on the phone right now. He emailed us about a
Speaker 1: date that he had that he feels didn't go so
Speaker 1: great because he was a little angry when he showed
Speaker 1: up to his date. Adam, how are you, hey, guys?
Speaker 1: How are you? I'm good? Hey man. First of all,
Speaker 1: I will say I read your email and the issue
Speaker 1: that you had in getting to your date and the
Speaker 1: way you acted on your date. I can't blame you.
Speaker 1: I think I would have acted the same way I've
Speaker 1: been in this situation a lot. But go ahead and
Speaker 1: tell everybody about how you met the girl that you
Speaker 1: want us to call today. So her name was Wren,
Speaker 1: and you know, it was one of those like friend
Speaker 1: of a friend saying, um, we were both single. They
Speaker 1: set us up. But she was real good looking. I
Speaker 1: was really tracked to her looking through her pictures. It
Speaker 1: really seemed like she was gonna be a good fit.
Speaker 1: So I was pretty stoked on the date from the
Speaker 1: beginning before we even actually met for the day, right
Speaker 1: before you met and showed her your angry side. Dude,
Speaker 1: I didn't mean to show her my angry thing. That
Speaker 1: listen the goal of the day. Yeah, but in your
Speaker 1: email you said you got there and you just raged
Speaker 1: for the whole time pretty much, and you felt kind
Speaker 1: of awkward about it. Explain what happened. I mean, I
Speaker 1: was I gave myself plenty of time to get to coffee,
Speaker 1: you know, last thing I want to do on a
Speaker 1: first day, to show up late, And all of a sudden,
Speaker 1: I gotta know where. This app turns into the lane
Speaker 1: in front of me and starts going like twenty miles
Speaker 1: per hours. And I wasn't running late, but this guy,
Speaker 1: he just I felt like he was mentioning with me
Speaker 1: because I'm just sitting there and I'm beeping and I'm honking,
Speaker 1: and I'm trying to be nice first, and then I
Speaker 1: just lose it. I slipped switch and I start going
Speaker 1: crazy on this guy and he's just just a nast
Speaker 1: because I'm just trying to get somewhere. Yeah, you're already
Speaker 1: raging with us. We're just trying to ask you, okay, Yeah, no, dude, Adam,
Speaker 1: you're talking to the king of road rage right here. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm constantly pissed off in my car. So I understand
Speaker 1: you were angry about this dude. Yeah, Well of course
Speaker 1: I was angry. Yeah, you know, this guy who pulls
Speaker 1: in front of me makes me ten minutes late and
Speaker 1: that fits me off. And I tried to let it go,
Speaker 1: and I guess it was just nervous energy. I just
Speaker 1: kind of wouldn't shut up, and I just talked NonStop
Speaker 1: pretty much the whole date. Were you talking about this
Speaker 1: guy the whole time? Pretty much? Do you have angry
Speaker 1: issues normally? Are you an angry guy? I tend to
Speaker 1: think I'm pretty even killed guy. But I asked you
Speaker 1: to recap the incident on the way to the date,
Speaker 1: and you just went off on us. So you sound
Speaker 1: like an angry dude? Are you? Are you an angry
Speaker 1: guy or are you I'm not, normally, you know, really
Speaker 1: an angry guy. I think it was just a nervous
Speaker 1: energy of going to the date, and I think that's
Speaker 1: a mix of both of those things. I just kind of,
Speaker 1: you know, had a tough time. Did you explain to
Speaker 1: her that you were upset at a guy that you did?
Speaker 1: I think it just came off angry. Yeah, I see
Speaker 1: how that happened. Did she comment about your anger? Did
Speaker 1: she say, like, whoa, you're still pretty upset about that?
Speaker 1: Really she was pretty quiet about it. She was really quiet,
Speaker 1: probably quiet because she was scared for her life. People
Speaker 1: get that way. That's where I felt real bad with
Speaker 1: I just kind of just talked NonStop for forty five minutes.
Speaker 1: Did she get a word in edgewise? I mean not much?
Speaker 1: All right? So you talked at her the whole time? Well,
Speaker 1: I mean at the end, I said, you know, I
Speaker 1: said to her, I asked her about going out on
Speaker 1: another date, and I apologize to her, and I said
Speaker 1: that you know, I'm not normally like this and all
Speaker 1: this stuff. And you know we slapped five. No you
Speaker 1: you high five that da end of the day. Well,
Speaker 1: I wasn't going to kiss her. I was like from
Speaker 1: from and swim nervous, pissed off. What kind of five
Speaker 1: were we talking about here? Like on the side down
Speaker 1: low high FIVEI So you gave her a high five
Speaker 1: to say goodbye? She probably didn't want to do a
Speaker 1: fifth pound because she thought you might break her. Yeah, seriously,
Speaker 1: did you ask to see her again? Interlocked thing? So gay?
Speaker 1: Oh nice, it's almost a handhold. You almost held her
Speaker 1: hand on the first date. Did you ask to see
Speaker 1: her again? Well? Yeah, we talked about it and I
Speaker 1: mentioned i'd throw her text and I texted her a
Speaker 1: few times and I haven't really heard back, so that
Speaker 1: I'm kind of curious, you know. I know it didn't
Speaker 1: go great, but I thought it ended good after you
Speaker 1: apologize Georgia to say, oh, I totally understand. I've been
Speaker 1: there before or not so much, and so she seemed upset. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I told her, I said, I told I
Speaker 1: told her that, you know, my energy level was often
Speaker 1: and I was really nervous for the date as it was,
Speaker 1: and then this happened, and it just it just totally
Speaker 1: threw me and I and I feel horrible about it.
Speaker 1: And I told her that and she seemed receptive to it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but this whole situation, you know, it's just it. It
Speaker 1: didn't go well, and I really want a second chance
Speaker 1: because I think her and I could really do well together.
Speaker 1: And I think that even with my anger issues, you know,
Speaker 1: the little bit of road rate and stuff. I feel
Speaker 1: like a girl like her could really call me down. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's kind of sweet. All right, well we'll play a song,
Speaker 1: come back, call her and get your second date update. Okay, great,
Speaker 1: thank you guys. All right, trying not to freak out
Speaker 1: brooking jubile in the morning, Adam is on the phone
Speaker 1: with us. He wants us to call a girl named
Speaker 1: Rin today for his second date update. They went out
Speaker 1: met for coffee. He was ten minutes late and ended
Speaker 1: up being very frustrated from a road rage incident that
Speaker 1: made him late. Feels like he just vented about the
Speaker 1: thing the whole time and was just angry and didn't
Speaker 1: even literally get a word in edgewise while they had
Speaker 1: their coffee date. Adam, you're about ready to give her
Speaker 1: a call? I'm ready, man, all right. I was thinking
Speaker 1: about this. Most girls, when they list the traits that
Speaker 1: they like in a potential mate, they usually say something
Speaker 1: like I like a guy who's sensitive, a guy who's caring,
Speaker 1: good job, very responsible. They usually don't list potential homicidal
Speaker 1: maniac as a as a good quality. So that's probably
Speaker 1: why she's not calling you back. I mean, if you
Speaker 1: went on a first date with somebody and they showed
Speaker 1: up a little late, first of all, that's one strike
Speaker 1: against you, and then proceeded to just be angry the
Speaker 1: whole time. I doubt you'd be so willing to call
Speaker 1: him back to I mean, I think that's kind of issue.
Speaker 1: And that's why I'm trying to make it work with
Speaker 1: her again, because I really do feel like I had
Speaker 1: a bad representation. You want to do over? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: just want to try one more time, you know, I
Speaker 1: want to. I want to kind of show rens of
Speaker 1: Adam that I really am. Okay, and you think this
Speaker 1: call is gonna do it for you? You've got a
Speaker 1: level head on you right now. Yeah, I feel like
Speaker 1: I'm pretty zen right now. Just don't make him wait
Speaker 1: any longer for the phone call, don't make him late
Speaker 1: for the second bay, get this going so I don't
Speaker 1: get pised off about it. Okay, all right, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: call it right now. Man, here we go. Hello, how
Speaker 1: can I speak to Ren? Please? Is hey? Ren? How
Speaker 1: are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in
Speaker 1: the Morning, the radio program. I'm sorry, I think you
Speaker 1: have the wrong number. No, I'm pretty sure I have
Speaker 1: the right number. N there's not a whole lot of rinds.
Speaker 1: And I was given your number by a guy named
Speaker 1: Adam to call you today. Why it Yeah. Adam is
Speaker 1: a listener to our show, and he says he recently
Speaker 1: went out on a date with you, but you're not
Speaker 1: calling him back. And he asked us to see if
Speaker 1: we get you on the phone and ask why how
Speaker 1: do you know him? He listens to our radio show.
Speaker 1: Adam wanted us to call you to ask if if
Speaker 1: he did something wrong on your date, or there's a
Speaker 1: particular reason that you don't want to see him again.
Speaker 1: This is I don't even really know how to respond
Speaker 1: to this. I know it's you about this he did.
Speaker 1: He told us that you went out for coffee, and
Speaker 1: he said that he was a little late, and he
Speaker 1: actually feels bad because he thinks that he may have
Speaker 1: been a little upset from a traffic incident and he
Speaker 1: wasn't very attentive to you on your date. Oh God,
Speaker 1: is that a pretty accurate description. Yeah, yeah, I would
Speaker 1: say so. I get this is what you guys do.
Speaker 1: So I don't mean to be disrespectful at all. I'm
Speaker 1: just kind of like, no, that's fine, I appreciate you
Speaker 1: taking the time out to talk to us. We just
Speaker 1: want to pass along a message to Adam and give
Speaker 1: him your perspective on the first date. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I can talk about that. My experience with Adam was
Speaker 1: very limited, and I'm not a very confrontational person, and
Speaker 1: he was very, very angry, and I think that the
Speaker 1: first ten minutes of the time that we very very
Speaker 1: first were introduced to each other, it was really just
Speaker 1: all about this driving experience that we had had being
Speaker 1: so frustrated with this other person. Was he like cussid
Speaker 1: and stuff when he was explaining it to you, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not like it was so so over
Speaker 1: the top that I would have need to have left,
Speaker 1: because I would have done that if it was really
Speaker 1: really that bad, If you would, I was going to
Speaker 1: ask you, rin, I was going to ask you if
Speaker 1: at any point you were scared for your life. Oh god, No,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that. It really wasn't like that, but
Speaker 1: it was pretty intense. Even when he finally went to
Speaker 1: go get us some coffee, which he did, you know,
Speaker 1: finally pull himself up to be like, Okay, I'm going
Speaker 1: to go get us some coffee, but pulls himself together.
Speaker 1: Even in that moment when he goes to order the coffee.
Speaker 1: He I can hear him from from all of the
Speaker 1: way at the other end of the shop and he's
Speaker 1: ordering and he just sounds aggressive. So was he like
Speaker 1: yelling at the barista and stuff like tearing up this
Speaker 1: Starbucks or wherever you're at. No, it really wasn't like that.
Speaker 1: It wasn't like he was he was unkind towards the
Speaker 1: people around him necessarily. It's just the like the manner
Speaker 1: in which he was dealing with things. It was just
Speaker 1: like pent up. You know, when somebody's really upset about
Speaker 1: something and even though they are doing something normal, it's
Speaker 1: in an abnormal way. And here's the other thing that
Speaker 1: was that was tough. It was manifesting in like sweat. Oh,
Speaker 1: he was so mad that he was sweating. Well, I
Speaker 1: don't know if he just sweats, if that's a thing
Speaker 1: independent of what was going on, but it seems like
Speaker 1: it was fueled or at least like made a lot
Speaker 1: worse by his emotional space. Rand It's called hyper hydrosis.
Speaker 1: It's people we can't control their sweat glands. Okay, they
Speaker 1: sweat a ton he maybe he has that. Yeah, some people,
Speaker 1: so you don't want to see him again because he's
Speaker 1: an angry, sweaty mess. It's not just that he was
Speaker 1: sweating a lot and being angry. He was sweating profusely,
Speaker 1: like the bodies of his hand. There was sat dripping
Speaker 1: down him and then collecting like under. I'm trying to
Speaker 1: think it's the right way to say this, um like,
Speaker 1: oh man, boobs, you know, Oh gosh, he sweat it out.
Speaker 1: His whole shirt like dark, dark, just covered in sweat.
Speaker 1: Oh man, Yeah, that's bad. If he's pitting out a
Speaker 1: little bit, that's kind of like whoa, man, you sweat
Speaker 1: a lot, buddy. If he actually his whole shirt was
Speaker 1: sweat it out, I don't think that's what And that's
Speaker 1: what I was concerned about, because I know that when
Speaker 1: i'm off set, like I'll sweat a little bit and
Speaker 1: that's normal. But it was, whoa, it was so much.
Speaker 1: I'd be curious to find out if it's an issue
Speaker 1: or if it's just his anger that makes him sweat
Speaker 1: like that. Aren't you curious to at least? No? Honestly,
Speaker 1: maybe he's a really great person that just had a
Speaker 1: really bad day. But I just don't want to deal
Speaker 1: with this, Okay, I really don't. That's cool. Thank you
Speaker 1: for giving us an answer. I appreciate it. But I
Speaker 1: really need to find out about this sweat. And that's
Speaker 1: why I'm glad you're still on the phone, because Adam
Speaker 1: is also on the phone and heard everything you just said.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, are you kidding me? Oh, I'm not.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Hiram, Oh my god, I am First of all,
Speaker 1: I'm really really sorry. Look, this is really cool. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: And then I'm also like annoyed to be put in
Speaker 1: this situation, But I am sorry if you heard things
Speaker 1: that I said, Um, are you don't need to feel
Speaker 1: bad around every Pretty much everything you said is true.
Speaker 1: I mean I can kind of explain the sweating thing,
Speaker 1: the anger stuff, Um, the sweating thing, let's start with that. So,
Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I threw a hoodie in a
Speaker 1: coat on and it ended up not being as cold
Speaker 1: out as I anticipated. By the time I was all
Speaker 1: pissed off at this guy in front of me. I
Speaker 1: started sweating the car because I was laughing the heat
Speaker 1: and I was so pissed up I wasn't thinking about it.
Speaker 1: The coffee shop had the heat on. I couldn't stop
Speaker 1: sweating and I knew I was and I know that
Speaker 1: my man hooves were sweating. Yeah, and that was a
Speaker 1: crappy thing for me to say about man the step.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, that was just the first thing. I was
Speaker 1: just easier. That's what I think I want you to hear.
Speaker 1: It's like, I'm not that angry guy. I know I
Speaker 1: was sweaty, I know I was hot ash and I thought,
Speaker 1: but attention, you wouldn't mention it. Like I was so
Speaker 1: lost in that date, and like I didn't know what
Speaker 1: to do, and I went home and showered right away.
Speaker 1: I was like I was looking in the mirror and
Speaker 1: like I literally like was mortified by myself because I
Speaker 1: was really excited about the date and like I never
Speaker 1: tell friends about going out with anybody, but for some reason,
Speaker 1: I was kind of stoked on you and I just
Speaker 1: crashed and burned. And I kind of do that a
Speaker 1: lot in life. And I just want you to know
Speaker 1: that I really am sorry. And as far as you
Speaker 1: and I are concerned, like I'd love one more shot,
Speaker 1: there's one more chance to maybe sweat it out with you.
Speaker 1: And hey, Wren, would you like to go out with
Speaker 1: Adam again. I will pay for a second date. We
Speaker 1: can send you guys to a spin class or something
Speaker 1: where the sweat where sweat is supposed to be there,
Speaker 1: and would you maybe give him another shot to see
Speaker 1: if he's not so flustered this time he can he
Speaker 1: can do a better job. Adam. I'm like, this is awkward,
Speaker 1: and I just want to say I appreciate you eventually
Speaker 1: being honest. I think that what I would have preferred
Speaker 1: is if you could have communicated this to me, not
Speaker 1: on a radio station, because you did contact me and
Speaker 1: you didn't really ever just come out and say I
Speaker 1: totally get it, Ran. I mean, as crazy as I
Speaker 1: was there, it's probably crazier that I ended up on
Speaker 1: the radio with you right now. But I tried calling
Speaker 1: and I texting you, and you know, you never got
Speaker 1: back to me here. So like I thought, like this
Speaker 1: was my class option of how I can get ahold
Speaker 1: of you, Rin, Will you do it? Will you go
Speaker 1: out with him one more time? Come on, We've never
Speaker 1: had anyone be so sincere. Will you drive please? Just
Speaker 1: a weird? It's funny? Oh right, okay, all right, yeah
Speaker 1: one more day? Nice? All right? Ran? Thank you every time. Adam,
Speaker 1: congratulations you got your second date. Man, thank you. Guys,
Speaker 1: n this is gonna be great. I promise you, Adam
Speaker 1: two words before your next date. All Right, gold bond
Speaker 1: okay broken. Jubil in the morning.