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Speaker 1: Subject and love and terrified. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm thirty

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Speaker 1: two and my boyfriend and I have been together for

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Speaker 1: six months. He's a great guy and everything I hope

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Speaker 1: for in my second husband. Yes I say husband, because

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Speaker 1: he's been talking about marriage already. We're both divorced and

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Speaker 1: ready to settle down, so we got the important stuff

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Speaker 1: with his parents, and my mother loves him. He's in

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Speaker 1: there's one thing I don't love and that's his size.

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Speaker 1: The first time I got married, I was really young

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Speaker 1: and it experienced, and I had no idea how small

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Speaker 1: my first husband was. I had nothing to compare to

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Speaker 1: because he's the only other man I've been with. The

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Speaker 1: first time I was intimate with my current boyfriend, I

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Speaker 1: something was broken below. She let me know that everything

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Speaker 1: help with intimacy. None of that stuff works, and I

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Speaker 1: he tries to make love to me. We talked about it,

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Speaker 1: be patient with me. He also told me that he's

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Speaker 1: never had this problem with the female before. My doctor

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Speaker 1: told me there's nothing wrong with my body. He's just

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Speaker 1: too large. I'm terrified whenever he starts coming on to me,

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Speaker 1: but I try to play it off. We had a

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Speaker 1: that he's disappointed and this could be a big deal

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Speaker 1: breaker for him. How can he make our intimacy the

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 1: This letter threw me a bit in the beginning, and

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Speaker 1: I got to say, this is a problem that many

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Speaker 1: women would love to have, and I'm sure many men

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Speaker 1: would love to have the same problem. We've had many men,

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Speaker 1: many letters about the size of men and all of this,

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Speaker 1: but it's usually I have that problem. Go ahead, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: We've had many letters about the size of men, but

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Speaker 1: usually it's a complaint about them being too small, which

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Speaker 1: was the case, you say with your first husband. But

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Speaker 1: we've never had a letter if I can remember, Steve.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if I can remember about a being

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Speaker 1: too large, And I guess there's the first time or everything.

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Speaker 1: You say. Your new man is way too much for you,

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Speaker 1: and now you're terrified to have sex with him. But

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Speaker 1: you've checked with your doctor, and you've been checked by her,

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Speaker 1: and she said you were okay, and actually she said

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Speaker 1: He said, your new man said he would be patient

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Speaker 1: I guess understandably so, because he would want to have

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Speaker 1: But you still haven't been able to. Then you said

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Speaker 1: and he's just too large. I mean, I don't really

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Speaker 1: I mean, you guys might not be comp compatible. You know,

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Speaker 1: I mean, women have babies every day and all of this.

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Speaker 1: But listen, I don't know what to tell you, honestly,

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Speaker 2: Wow, Well, you know I understand Shirley. Do you say,

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Speaker 2: we've never had a letter like this and everything? But

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Speaker 2: I'm too like Shirley, I was very confused at the

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Speaker 2: beginning of the letter because he's everything you wanted in

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Speaker 2: your second husband. You're both divorced, You've gotten all them

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Speaker 2: his parents and mom, your mama love him. You know

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Speaker 2: he's in a rental. I own a home. Your sounds

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Speaker 2: like something for me. We was talking about off the app.

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Speaker 2: He's planning to move in with me. You know, I

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Speaker 2: fell for this man. I can't see living without him.

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Speaker 2: Blah blah blah blah. And then there's one thing you

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Speaker 2: like Shelley, was reading this letter, thinking, well, very small.

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Speaker 2: We got a small problem exactly, you know, got something

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Speaker 2: he ain't. But then first time I got married, you know,

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Speaker 2: then you started talking about how you was young and

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Speaker 2: And then you got intimate with his current boyfriend, and

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Speaker 2: you call your doctor the next day because I was

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Speaker 2: sure something was broken below, which means you know, you know,

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Speaker 2: you know, you know, putting it in work, you know

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Speaker 2: it's just up in there. You know he was whoop,

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Speaker 2: he was aggressive. Let's just say he was overly aggressive.

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Speaker 2: You thought something had broke. She let me know that

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Speaker 2: You know I have well, I do know what they

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Speaker 2: None of that stuff works. I know that's called homeboy.

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Speaker 2: And you know I got some I got some stuff.

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Speaker 2: You need to give him. You need to give him

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Speaker 2: to make it going on and I'll come back. I

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Speaker 2: had to answer for you.

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Speaker 1: Hold it all right. We'll have part two of SE's

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Speaker 1: crazy Response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour.

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Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letters subject in love and terrified. We'll get

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Speaker 1: Morning Show. Hey everyone, quick health question. Even though you're

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Speaker 1: Come on Steve Let's recap today's strawberry letter. The subject

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Speaker 2: Well, it's thirty two year old girl and fell and

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Speaker 2: found a man. Her dreams, second marriage for both of them.

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Speaker 2: Everything worked out everything, she own a home, he ran,

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Speaker 2: He gonna move in with her. The girl mama loving parents,

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Speaker 2: his size though I thought he was too small, turned

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Speaker 2: out through his just opposite because she didn't know how

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Speaker 2: small a first husband was because she didn't had nothing

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Speaker 2: to compare it to, so she thought he was doing something.

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Speaker 2: Then when homeboy came in there and put his work

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Speaker 2: helmet on. See, homeboy came in, set that igloo cooler

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Speaker 2: went up in there and went to work. He came

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Speaker 2: in there with you know who, the wheel. He came

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Speaker 2: You know, he up in there with he came up

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Speaker 2: little boy, had their little teddy bad the boy and

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Speaker 2: don't even sell in the g I Joe Ale no more,

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Speaker 2: you know. So he came up in there and putting

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Speaker 2: he all he up on all ten of his toes

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Speaker 2: just flex He just got his toes flexed. He up

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Speaker 2: And now the doctor then gave you some stuff to

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Speaker 2: because there's nothing wrong with you. It's just the doctor

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Speaker 2: told you he's too large. So see he got started

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Speaker 2: so he ain't in there creating damage. And so what

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Speaker 2: I'm about to tell you is how this is going

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Speaker 2: He's just too large. I'm terrified when he starts coming

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Speaker 2: up for him because he's never had this problem with

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Speaker 2: is it he's had a problem some women that just

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Speaker 2: walked out us his life, just got up, got in

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Speaker 2: to do this, No more with you, jus his partner.

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Speaker 2: You ain't finna come up in the hill like you're

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Speaker 2: looking for all every evening. Were not Finn do this?

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Speaker 2: So how can he make our intimacy the main focus?

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Speaker 2: Does this mean we're not compatible? Well, here's what has

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Speaker 2: to happen. You have to have a talk with this

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Speaker 2: young man because he's thirty two. See, he going going

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Speaker 2: at this the same way he been going at it,

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Speaker 2: and it's creating a problem for you. So now here's

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Speaker 2: what has to happen. He has to change his depth perception.

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Speaker 2: He has to change his depth perception.

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Speaker 1: What does that mean?

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Speaker 2: Meaning he has to change what he thinked deep is. See,

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Speaker 2: it's like a swimming pool and a cave. And these

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Speaker 2: can drown in five feet of water, or you can

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Speaker 2: build you a swimming pool. It's got a thirteen foot

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Speaker 2: drown in three feet of water. So what you got

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Speaker 2: to do is get him to start drowning in less water,

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Speaker 2: which means he got to quit jumping in this pool

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Speaker 2: he got to say, let me give you an example.

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Speaker 2: He is a cave dweller. He is a man with

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Speaker 2: he can't go all the way in the cave. He

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Speaker 2: gonna have to get happy by just being indicave can't

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Speaker 2: go all the way to the back of this cave.

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Speaker 2: He has to learn to stay at the front of

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Speaker 1: Back then, we got it, see thank you.

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Speaker 2: He got to learn how to stay at the front

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Speaker 2: is you have to make the front of the cave

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Speaker 2: the focal point. It has to be everything. Got it.

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Speaker 2: I have a lot of knowledge on this subject because

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Speaker 2: I've had you know, I've had to be understanding and

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Speaker 2: I just you know, I just talked to people had

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Speaker 2: the best life they can have. Now, are they compatible?

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Speaker 2: Not sexually? They're not compatible sexually. And it's not going

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Speaker 2: to work unless he changes a couple of things. His

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Speaker 2: at the front of the cave and quit trying to

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Speaker 2: go all in the back.

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