Speaker 1: Watch up and welcome back to another episode of No
Speaker 1: Senner's podcast with your hosts. Now fuck that with your
Speaker 1: load glasses, Malone, you're gonna.
Speaker 2: Do a dating single now she's single.
Speaker 1: Now.
Speaker 3: My friend said, is this a break or is this
Speaker 3: is this real? I said, I don't know. Maybe it's
Speaker 3: a break. I don't know, but right it is it?
Speaker 4: Right?
Speaker 3: Now? Does it matter?
Speaker 1: What would your dating show be?
Speaker 2: Like, I don't know dating brig.
Speaker 1: Oh, it's like you yeah, me, So your dating show
Speaker 1: is going to be people finding people to date you.
Speaker 3: Yes, he's intrigued.
Speaker 1: Now, so we just introduced guys to yo. Yes, yep, yes,
Speaker 1: that's interesting.
Speaker 4: And then let her, you know, let them sit there
Speaker 4: talk and go on, and then they could go on
Speaker 4: a date.
Speaker 2: We get to see.
Speaker 1: No, it should be online dating, online dating, right, and
Speaker 1: then we could stream the whole ship, so we have
Speaker 1: your own that's the way, the future way. They could
Speaker 1: send you food, food and watch a Netflix film together
Speaker 1: and talk like the only thing somebody ain't gonna be
Speaker 1: able to do is get no draws.
Speaker 3: You ain't getting no draws anyway.
Speaker 2: We want to hear the conversation.
Speaker 3: We want to hear.
Speaker 4: I want to hear what you're talking about the screen
Speaker 4: and then have the video here so that like you
Speaker 4: really like this food, or you just send me this
Speaker 4: because you know that's my favorite.
Speaker 3: We start saying stuff like that, this is your favorite.
Speaker 1: So day and Brett D and Brett that'll be the
Speaker 1: name of it.
Speaker 3: Was supposed to do it long time ago.
Speaker 1: I like that though. That sounds interesting.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, because it's about time to I find love
Speaker 3: and sure everybody out here getting you know me and
Speaker 3: in love and stuff like, I mean, I love him
Speaker 3: and everything, but we be having problems.
Speaker 1: What be your main problems?
Speaker 3: You think I would say our main problem right now
Speaker 3: is communication.
Speaker 1: He don't listen to this podcast?
Speaker 2: No, okay, cool.
Speaker 3: I mean it would't matter if he did. I'll be
Speaker 3: honest with him, like just communication. We just don't he
Speaker 3: want to bully me.
Speaker 1: Don't do that. Don't want to bully.
Speaker 3: The way he's No, it's all right. I'm totally good
Speaker 3: with Lee. No. Trust and believe. I do not want
Speaker 3: to be the man of nobody house. I know I'm
Speaker 3: a woman, and guess what, I'm in my soft girl
Speaker 3: era right now. So trust and believe. It's not It's
Speaker 3: definitely not that. I think our issue right now is
Speaker 3: that he just can't communicate his feeling is good and
Speaker 3: when I and we wait till it festers and bulls
Speaker 3: over and then he want to like get because he
Speaker 3: he a cript so he want to be like, Cuz, no, bro,
Speaker 3: no I'm not your homie. Don't cuss me like we
Speaker 3: could speak. So, I don't know, we just can't. The
Speaker 3: communication is just off, Like I'm on my soft girl shit.
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Why does he k all if you on your soft
Speaker 1: girl ship?
Speaker 3: Well, I mean I had to grow into my soft
Speaker 3: girl area. See that stuff was cool back in the
Speaker 3: day to be able to.
Speaker 1: Just your hard girl cut out.
Speaker 3: Yeah, Like, I don't want to cuss you out all
Speaker 3: the time. I don't want to have to do none
Speaker 3: of that type of stuff no more. I just want
Speaker 3: to be loved.
Speaker 1: Okay, better question, better question.
Speaker 3: I just want to be loved.
Speaker 2: Gee is that okay? So he just be like you know,
Speaker 2: you just he's just.
Speaker 1: He's just what I'm listening.
Speaker 3: Oh lord, oh my god, I don't want to talk
Speaker 3: about it.
Speaker 1: Well, no, this is funny because this is a great conversation.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why it's a great conversation to
Speaker 1: segue into what I've been thinking about. Okay, I think
Speaker 1: the only way to have a successful relationship with the
Speaker 1: opposite sex, a man and a woman, is to realize
Speaker 1: you cannot hold women accountable.
Speaker 3: What do you mean you can't hold them accountable?
Speaker 1: Like because we live in a patriarchal society, like where
Speaker 1: men are kind of revered as the front of or
Speaker 1: as the head of operations, women probably can't be held
Speaker 1: accountable for anything, right, Like if whatever you do wrong
Speaker 1: is not your fault.
Speaker 3: No, that's not true.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you why I think it's true.
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm.
Speaker 1: No, I'm gonna tell you why I think it's true.
Speaker 1: It's true, right because, like I'm looking at the Rihanna situation,
Speaker 1: like me and y'all we haven't even talked about is
Speaker 1: even offline? Right? Which is the puff situation? Right? I
Speaker 1: saw comedian Craig Fact shout out to Craig, that's my god,
Speaker 1: good dude. But Craig was talking about how he felt
Speaker 1: Cassie excuse me, not Rihanna. But Cassie used to go
Speaker 1: over and forgive me, not Rihanna. Sorry, Oh, I know
Speaker 1: you listen to the podcast I'm not you girl, but
Speaker 1: Cassie right Gold used to go with Puff, and Puff
Speaker 1: and Kim used to have these issues and sometimes the
Speaker 1: issues would lead into physical exchanges between them, and Cassie
Speaker 1: would be there watching and he was saying, she's not innocent,
Speaker 1: And then I was thinking about it, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: I think the trainer was Puff's trainer that she's married to. Now, yes,
Speaker 1: and you will wonder, like, again, there's no reason a
Speaker 1: stump or girl out, But if there was any reason
Speaker 1: to make you think it'd be like, oh, I get
Speaker 1: why he stormped throughout. It probably would be because you're
Speaker 1: sleeping with my trainer of ta years.
Speaker 3: You think that, But.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying that's what happened. I'm saying, look at
Speaker 1: the look at what's going on. Right, It's thirteen years
Speaker 1: of this shit, So wait a minute, this nigga been
Speaker 1: doing this to you for three and then we'll come
Speaker 1: up with this kind of like reasoning. Right, I watch
Speaker 1: a lot of s view. All of my rape education
Speaker 1: came from Olivia Benson. Like, I really didn't understand rape
Speaker 1: pre SVU. I thought rape was when the girl told
Speaker 1: you no, and you keep going Olivia Benson and Iced Tea.
Speaker 1: You know, Detective to Tuala has taught me, if a
Speaker 1: girl doesn't say yes, that's rape. So if she says nothing,
Speaker 1: it still could be rape.
Speaker 2: Correct.
Speaker 1: That's actually really ridiculous if you think about it intellectually.
Speaker 1: Somebody should have to tell you no to not proceed.
Speaker 1: That would be the normal operation. But because we live
Speaker 1: in a patriarchal society with me in it, are seen
Speaker 1: to have all the power, we take all accountability away
Speaker 1: from women, like they don't have to say no. If
Speaker 1: they don't say yes, it's rape. Even in the Cassy situation,
Speaker 1: Don't get me wrong, what happened to her is fucking crazy.
Speaker 1: But then there's these questions like why you didn't go
Speaker 1: to the police back then, Oh, puff had the police on.
Speaker 1: We should still hear about it right now. The police
Speaker 1: should be in trouble because which ever police ignored you.
Speaker 1: But it's not something to agree with, Like, these are
Speaker 1: not points that I'm making against Cassie. These are points
Speaker 1: I'm saying that for a relationship to work between a
Speaker 1: man and a woman in this world, especially in America,
Speaker 1: you really cannot hold women accountable. It was like what
Speaker 1: happened with Red where Couz was telling her close the
Speaker 1: fucking sun move, you know what I'm saying, And it
Speaker 1: was like she was mad that Couz was holding her accountable,
Speaker 1: like hey, I kept telling you, it's like yeah, but
Speaker 1: I didn't, So why are you tripping? Nigga? I told
Speaker 1: you to do something, cuz right. So even when he
Speaker 1: was talking about it, she was crying and I felt bad,
Speaker 1: but it hit me like this, motherfucker, it's crazy. How
Speaker 1: are you crying because he's upset that he told.
Speaker 3: Her feelings was hurt. That's why she was crying. She
Speaker 3: knew she was wrong, and then I guess that's when
Speaker 3: the motion kicked in and she started crying.
Speaker 1: So then why didn't she cry and say I know
Speaker 1: I was wrong? Why is it he yelled at me
Speaker 1: versus me saying you know what I hate? I made
Speaker 1: him yell at me because I know to do something
Speaker 1: that this is.
Speaker 3: Did you feel that way?
Speaker 2: Now?
Speaker 4: G straight up, listen, there's a way that you can
Speaker 4: say things to get the same point across without yelling
Speaker 4: or without the whole you know, an attitude, animosity or whatever.
Speaker 4: Just say what you gotta say, like that's it. And
Speaker 4: move forward. But you don't have to. I'm not your child.
Speaker 2: You are.
Speaker 1: You are my child, Yes you are, because you know
Speaker 1: who else does things that you tell them to do
Speaker 1: and then they don't do it, and then you have
Speaker 1: to be accountable for it, your child, because it's not
Speaker 1: like you was gonna go get it fixed yourself. It
Speaker 1: wasn't like you think to yourself, he was gonna wake up,
Speaker 1: you've seen it. He was like, damn, I fuck this up.
Speaker 1: Let me go get this fixed, because I don't want
Speaker 1: this motherfucker to realize I didn't listen. And the fact
Speaker 1: that if somebody's not insulting you in disrespectful, but they're
Speaker 1: not saying it the way you want them to say it,
Speaker 1: that's also ridiculous. But it's not ridiculous because I have
Speaker 1: realized you cannot hold women accountable.
Speaker 3: No, you can hold me accountable. My thing is, it's
Speaker 3: like she said, it's the way that you say things
Speaker 3: like I could say something very like no, I don't
Speaker 3: have to be like, oh, well, why'd you do that?
Speaker 3: I could just be like what made you do that?
Speaker 3: Because if I'm yelling at you, then you're like, why
Speaker 3: are you disrespecting me? And yelling at me like that
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying? Or why are you raising
Speaker 3: your voice at me? So it's the same thing. I
Speaker 3: think it's the approach. That's why I'm saying the whole
Speaker 3: situation with me, it was the communication because it's how
Speaker 3: he's saying it. I'm gonna listen to you, but don't
Speaker 3: come at me like rah like bro Like okay, so
Speaker 3: now I'm side on you like cause I don't know.
Speaker 3: I just don't. I don't like that type of ship,
Speaker 3: like we can have a decent conversation, like we could
Speaker 3: literally be talking.
Speaker 1: Are you no sailings? Gil feel me? Cousins back on deck. Finally,
Speaker 1: after that sabbatical, he always given a Catholic church. Sometimes
Speaker 1: I swear quit working with us, But again because guess
Speaker 1: why our relationship flourishes because I don't hold you accountable.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, So I don't hold you account of either.
Speaker 2: You forgot, Yes, you do, Yes.
Speaker 1: You definitely hope. And it's fair because we live in
Speaker 1: the patriarchal society. Okay, you ever told your kids something
Speaker 1: like you got to son? Your son is probably growing
Speaker 1: at this point, he got to be close. You ever
Speaker 1: talk to him and he just don't listen. Do you
Speaker 1: think you keep that tone of like, hey, you know what,
Speaker 1: I keep asking you to do this? No, eventually, but that.
Speaker 2: Was the first time that wasn't that's the first time.
Speaker 1: No, that's the first time he says something about it.
Speaker 1: That attitude comes from I keep telling you something and
Speaker 1: you are ignoring what I'm saying to you.
Speaker 2: Over for different things.
Speaker 1: Yes, because the constant is I'm telling you something and
Speaker 1: you're ignoring me.
Speaker 3: So to start listening, I would hope.
Speaker 1: Especially if you want a man to be accountable for you,
Speaker 1: because that's what you're asking. Like when you say you're
Speaker 1: looking for love, you're not looking for love for real,
Speaker 1: You're looking for somebody to be accountable for you.
Speaker 3: I'm looking for love.
Speaker 1: You have love. Your cousin love you, your son love you.
Speaker 3: It's different.
Speaker 2: You know what it is, intimacy, companionship.
Speaker 1: You know your kids provide all that same thing. No,
Speaker 1: they don't provide intimacy. But that's not what you're looking for.
Speaker 1: You looking for somebody to be accountable for you. Because
Speaker 1: if you met a man that loved your dirty draws
Speaker 1: but he wasn't taking care of you, that nigga could
Speaker 1: not last you're looking so I know it sounds crazy,
Speaker 1: sound crazy, but you're looking for a man to be
Speaker 1: accountable for you because you understand caring that way, right,
Speaker 1: Because you care for your the people you love the
Speaker 1: same way, right, your son like you care for him.
Speaker 1: You want somebody to care for you. You're not looking
Speaker 1: for nobody else to care for You're not looking for
Speaker 1: grown man to treat like your son.
Speaker 3: No, definitely don't want that.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 3: I raised my kid and my mom would say to me,
Speaker 3: I raised my kids. I ain't watching no kids realize.
Speaker 1: I was talking to Mouse, my boy Mouse from New York,
Speaker 1: and he was saying that to me, and I was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: we just if you just realize we live in this
Speaker 1: society and you can't hold women accountable as a man,
Speaker 1: you will blossom. The first mistake you could ever make
Speaker 1: is trying to hold women accountable. That's it. You can't,
Speaker 1: You really can't, because we are looked at in this
Speaker 1: society as the front of everything, that the head of everything.
Speaker 3: Let's see. That's why I want that type of mail.
Speaker 3: I ain't got if you are right now I think
Speaker 3: about it, You're right, because I do want somebody to
Speaker 3: take on that role, like I don't want to do
Speaker 3: the stuff I do now, Like if I'm at home,
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, I'm doing all these I
Speaker 3: don't want to do any of those things. Yes, I
Speaker 3: admit it. I just thought about that.
Speaker 1: You're right, you don't want to take out the trash.
Speaker 1: That's why you get your son to do it. Sure
Speaker 1: fucking right. So again you looking for somebody. It's look,
Speaker 1: I get it. Some of these things are frowned upon
Speaker 1: in a lot of these mid level conversations that we
Speaker 1: could just be honest, like we know each other.
Speaker 2: That's a partnership, right, and it.
Speaker 1: Is a unique type of partnership, but it's it is
Speaker 1: a fifty to fifty partnership, but not in the way
Speaker 1: you would normally see fifty to fifty. Like it's not
Speaker 1: like fifty to fifty. We split everything, right, Like we
Speaker 1: do split stuff, but we split it differently. Right. It
Speaker 1: may not be this type of economics, it may be
Speaker 1: this right here, But there are expectations on your side,
Speaker 1: and the problem is that there are expectations on your side,
Speaker 1: Like men expect things out of your Like what works
Speaker 1: great is when you don't expect anything out of women.
Speaker 1: Because if you expect two things out of women, you're
Speaker 1: gonna fucking get disappointed in one of those things.
Speaker 3: What it depends on the two things.
Speaker 1: You could name any two things. The only expectect the own,
Speaker 1: only expectation you could have is to expect nothing that
Speaker 1: will work for you.
Speaker 4: I think I was going to say you shouldn't have
Speaker 4: you don't expect anything.
Speaker 1: You're well, we have to deliver, though, right, or your
Speaker 1: happiness depends on us delivery. Like right, if you expect
Speaker 1: us to pay the mortgage to the rent and we
Speaker 1: don't think that's a real problem. If we expect you
Speaker 1: to cook tonight and you don't, we're just going to
Speaker 1: get fast food. Feel me like, you know again, it's
Speaker 1: not I don't think it's bad or I don't think
Speaker 1: it's swayed. I just think it's the society that we
Speaker 1: live in, you know what I mean. I think we
Speaker 1: live in a place where men are regarded as the
Speaker 1: centerpiece of a family. Weirdly, because when you think about it,
Speaker 1: a woman can only make a family, you know, men
Speaker 1: can have a family, but women can make, you know,
Speaker 1: extend families. So but that's where we live at and
Speaker 1: it just hit me like like if I look at Cassie,
Speaker 1: like the questions people were asking of Cassie, And when
Speaker 1: I saw him saying that, I was like, why did
Speaker 1: you expect her to go to the police?
Speaker 2: But she wasn't going to go to the police.
Speaker 4: I mean, I if it's a situation like that, how
Speaker 4: much she was saying abuse that she went through, I
Speaker 4: think that she I don't think that she could go
Speaker 4: to the police.
Speaker 3: She probably didn't. She probably didn't trust that they were
Speaker 3: going to do anything for her.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But how silly this sounds, It's true.
Speaker 4: Have you never heard of situations where women they do
Speaker 4: go to the police, they'll get a restraining order, but
Speaker 4: you know, they still end up dead or they still
Speaker 4: end up hurt because guess what, the police is not there.
Speaker 4: She ain't going into a wit set or you know,
Speaker 4: when it's protection or somebody's gonna protect her.
Speaker 2: She still got to go to wherever she needs to
Speaker 2: get to.
Speaker 1: And that's how the legal society works, except if you're
Speaker 1: a woman.
Speaker 2: She needed to get away first.
Speaker 1: She wasn't trying to get away.
Speaker 4: No, I don't think that she thought she could that day,
Speaker 4: looked like she was trying to get away.
Speaker 1: So it just looked like she just wasn't trying to
Speaker 1: get away that day.
Speaker 2: No, that day did get away.
Speaker 3: That day, she looked like she was trying to get.
Speaker 1: Away, Like you think that he just been Really, you
Speaker 1: don't think nothing had anything to do with his economics
Speaker 1: and circumstances, that there's a reason that values her to
Speaker 1: stay around.
Speaker 4: I mean yes, but after a while it gets old
Speaker 4: and she's you know what I'm saying, she's over it,
Speaker 4: but she still needs to make her get her exit plan.
Speaker 1: But you don't think to a certain place. That's why
Speaker 1: we just make silly excuses for people.
Speaker 4: There's a lot of manipulate manipulating going on. There's a
Speaker 4: lot of like I mean, I've been in situations where
Speaker 4: I've broken it off with someone, but they will still
Speaker 4: come and you know what I'm saying, and and try
Speaker 4: to family, try to make things worse for you or
Speaker 4: threaten you know, threaten you or and or buy you
Speaker 4: and or follow you, and or I.
Speaker 3: Had to do I had to do that. Well nowhere
Speaker 3: near like have money like Diddy, but that he straight
Speaker 3: told me, anybody you with if I see you while coming,
Speaker 3: It's like.
Speaker 1: What I'm supposed to find certain people who like fighting
Speaker 1: man be like go with me.
Speaker 2: It's yeah, it's not easy just to be like okay,
Speaker 2: I'm done.
Speaker 4: If you're in an abusive situation, it's really simple.
Speaker 1: It is take work. But again, it's a certain place
Speaker 1: that there should be documentation. But it shouldn't be because
Speaker 1: there should be no expectations on her to actually carry
Speaker 1: herself in that manner. I know this sounds fucked up
Speaker 1: and crazy, but it's true because look at how y'all
Speaker 1: even talking about it, Like the legal system that's here
Speaker 1: to protect you and everything. You're like, well, I don't know,
Speaker 1: because they might not protect me. It's time. There is
Speaker 1: no documented history of that, and it shouldn't be the
Speaker 1: thing that worked. If you don't trust the system, then
Speaker 1: why would you take the system to court to win money?
Speaker 3: But she was already, well, she knowes she's gonna get
Speaker 3: that money.
Speaker 2: Yeah, she was already.
Speaker 1: How did she know she's gonna get the money if
Speaker 1: she couldn't get the police to action. If the same
Speaker 1: justice system, right, is a part of the same justice system,
Speaker 1: that means they would have to help you win, even
Speaker 1: in a lawsuit.
Speaker 3: Well, I think when she did the situation when she
Speaker 3: went and talked to her lawyer or whatever. I think
Speaker 3: they told her like, oh, you're good. Like once she
Speaker 3: told her story. I think that's what made her be like, okay,
Speaker 3: let's go with it. Because remember they said before she
Speaker 3: was already trying to get money from him and he
Speaker 3: was like, nah, he wouldn't.
Speaker 1: Second that don't make you think like maybe there was
Speaker 1: a reason she didn't pursue legal consequences and only seven.
Speaker 2: Well maybe she thought nothing, isn't it.
Speaker 1: So if you think nothing gonna happen, and why do
Speaker 1: you think you're gonna get some money.
Speaker 3: Because it's easier to get money than him to go
Speaker 3: to jail.
Speaker 1: That is one hundred and seventeen percent.
Speaker 3: They correct, No, it's not that is you just watch
Speaker 3: you can't go to jail for one day.
Speaker 1: What do you mean she never went to the police.
Speaker 1: I mean, y'all made one million reasons why she didn't
Speaker 1: go to the police, and you made one reason why
Speaker 1: she civilly went and won a lawsuit.
Speaker 4: It was alleged that he when Sean went to jail,
Speaker 4: that that wasn't on Seane. He didn't go to jail,
Speaker 4: So why would her going to the police.
Speaker 1: But sean discharge of firearm, so he was going to
Speaker 1: jail no matter what it's It's like what happened with Tory,
Speaker 1: Like Tory discharge of farm, no matter who else the
Speaker 1: charge of firearm. If you discharge a farm and you
Speaker 1: being charged with discharging the firearm, you're ask going to jail.
Speaker 1: Now who else discharge of firearm is gonna be if
Speaker 1: you tell the police, if you like he did it too,
Speaker 1: or like if Meg, if Tory would have said, what's
Speaker 1: the girl name Kelsey or what's your name Kelsey? Kelsey
Speaker 1: did one, he would have to tell. But they thought
Speaker 1: you discharged a firearm. They tested you for gun GSR
Speaker 1: gunshot residue and it came back, so you lost the case.
Speaker 1: So even in her situation, it's like she didn't there's
Speaker 1: no history of her going to the police over and
Speaker 1: over again. How could she, I mean, there's no excuse.
Speaker 1: The excuse is you can't expect that of her because
Speaker 1: we created a society where women cannot be held accountable.
Speaker 1: It's not negative. I know it sounds bad, but if you.
Speaker 4: Understand, it was just about to say, there's so many
Speaker 4: there's that situation, Okay, I'm going to go to the
Speaker 4: police and tell I mean on Diddy on puff every
Speaker 4: time was at.
Speaker 1: The time, what does that mean? I mean, Sugar is
Speaker 1: in prison right now? Sugar was that we had a
Speaker 1: video and ran over. No, that was this is the
Speaker 1: second in prison. It was the first time. He was
Speaker 1: in prison for nine years for kicking the ship out
Speaker 1: of somebody in the casino.
Speaker 3: Oh, but it was on tape some times was on tape.
Speaker 1: So guess who else was on tape? What that happened
Speaker 1: eight years ago?
Speaker 2: On tape? It wasn't.
Speaker 3: I give, okay, so I give what she's said. So
Speaker 3: he's basically like, if you knew that that this video
Speaker 3: because she said in the statement she said that he
Speaker 3: paid because of her right, because she told them that
Speaker 3: he paid for it, so they knew that she had
Speaker 3: he had it, So yeah, if you knew that he
Speaker 3: had it, why didn't you?
Speaker 2: But what charge?
Speaker 4: But honestly, though, so if she went, if she had
Speaker 4: went to the police, then based on that video, which
Speaker 4: is horrible, what was he gonna go to jail for years?
Speaker 2: Like years?
Speaker 3: You would have definitely with the jail for the domestic.
Speaker 1: Because it's way worse. That's more that's worse that it
Speaker 1: was really bad.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, because he wouldn't that be like almost like kidnap, right,
Speaker 3: because he owned her against her will.
Speaker 1: And I'm not saying I know this sounds crazy. I
Speaker 1: know if you listen to this podcast, you're like, man,
Speaker 1: I need to be met. Don't be mad at Cassie.
Speaker 1: Women cannot be held accountable because we live in a
Speaker 1: patriarch it's men at the head of the society. It's
Speaker 1: important to know that. And I've been telling people ever since, like, bro,
Speaker 1: you cannot if you think for two seconds, women are
Speaker 1: going to be held accountable, you're gonna hold women accountables.
Speaker 1: You got this wrong every time. You're gonna be the
Speaker 1: bully like that term she just used.
Speaker 2: That's my time.
Speaker 1: A motherfucker gonna complain and cry even though you told
Speaker 1: them something a million times, they didn't listen, and it's
Speaker 1: gonna cost you. Nag like they don't know why. It's
Speaker 1: the truth. This is just this society we live in.
Speaker 1: It's important to know that. And if guys figured that out,
Speaker 1: they would be in a much better position. You're gonna
Speaker 1: always be wrong, my boy, always be wrong. It matters.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's crazy, I know.
Speaker 1: But this is the responsibility for being at the top
Speaker 1: of the food chain. It's just look, you get all
Speaker 1: the credit, you get all the props.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I like this this talk today, Jesus, get all the.
Speaker 2: Props accountable, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: I like, you can't hold me accountable.
Speaker 1: For sure, But it just it just hit me in
Speaker 1: so many different facets, like you can't just hold women accountable.
Speaker 1: If you do, you're going to be wrong every time,
Speaker 1: just how it go. You can't match the energy, Like
Speaker 1: if women do something, you do it. You're a bitch
Speaker 1: ass nigga. Yeah, that's why. That's why it's used as
Speaker 1: an adjective to describe a kind of ma. You are.
Speaker 1: Bitch ass is an adjective. It's not now, it's to
Speaker 1: describe you as a man.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you can't do that. If I started thinking that
Speaker 3: you are saying something like why are you acting like
Speaker 3: a female or whatever?
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what.
Speaker 3: I don't say that no more. I've said it before.
Speaker 1: Nigga, Just be frantic. You are you calling me you
Speaker 1: chip off? That are you calling me you like you
Speaker 1: don't love this mother? Like you don't love this motherfucker?
Speaker 1: You calling me you devastating like you like you never yourself.
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, I act like I act like this.
Speaker 2: Wait a minute, I said that before.
Speaker 4: It was what that is a problem is how dare.
Speaker 1: You reference me like I like you? That's the craziest
Speaker 1: ship And then it's like the greatest insult. Nigga, you
Speaker 1: acting like me? Start saying that to him. If you
Speaker 1: listen to those seelers as a woman, tell your dude,
Speaker 1: don't call him that B word or don't say girl,
Speaker 1: just be like man, you acting like me right now?
Speaker 1: Watch they face. They won't even get mad like you would.
Speaker 1: They wouldn't even know how the stomach kid, if you
Speaker 1: call him.
Speaker 2: I'm like a girl, woman a girl?
Speaker 1: No, you just got my mannerhythms right now, say that
Speaker 1: that's the same not because see what set us off
Speaker 1: is so the female dog word right is specifically like
Speaker 1: bitch is like, it's a degrading word for a woman,
Speaker 1: except a woman knows she's one.
Speaker 2: Mm hmm, wait what.
Speaker 1: Except a woman knows she's it's still a lot closer.
Speaker 1: She's not a dog, but she's a female, so it's
Speaker 1: still a little closer. But if you tell a man
Speaker 1: he's acting like you're acting like me right now. I
Speaker 1: don't think he would know how to take that.
Speaker 3: It is definitely a fight.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's a fight though you don't see
Speaker 1: I think the female dog word is a fight like
Speaker 1: a girl might get you on some ship. But you're
Speaker 1: acting like me, so that means you're acknowledging it. It's
Speaker 1: also an accountability of this is how I act.
Speaker 4: You're not like like this and you're acting like me.
Speaker 1: That would be like crazy to watch his reaction, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. He would I don't know if
Speaker 1: he would know how to really like It would take
Speaker 1: him a time to process what's going on.
Speaker 2: He'd be like, oh, I'm acting like a girl.
Speaker 1: No, you're acting like me specifically right now, like me.
Speaker 3: I'd be doing this.
Speaker 1: I would like, what then you didn't you break up
Speaker 1: a time that you did it? I wonder how that
Speaker 1: would like he I bet you he would think to
Speaker 1: himself like, wait a minute, am I really acting like her?
Speaker 1: See it's the it's the.
Speaker 4: Words word be a storyteller like geez, no word.
Speaker 3: If you were think about it a little bit longer
Speaker 3: than he would.
Speaker 1: The other No, no, he is it shuts you somebody,
Speaker 1: somebody a bitch or girl shuts their brain down. We're
Speaker 1: not even thinking no more. That's like full fire war.
Speaker 1: Now I'm going to either I'm either going to shut
Speaker 1: off or I'm going to give you the energy you're
Speaker 1: asking for. You insulted me in a way that's a
Speaker 1: degrading thing. You're you're saying I have a vagina first off,
Speaker 1: and then you're saying I act like I have a
Speaker 1: complaining Like I'm a complaining person.
Speaker 2: Can't complaining man, because.
Speaker 1: That's like a woman. Women complaint. Only women can be bored?
Speaker 3: What you mean?
Speaker 2: Oh, so like when we be like I'm bored, let's
Speaker 2: go do something.
Speaker 1: Imagine your he comes be like, hey I'm bored, let's
Speaker 1: do something. You'd be like bored. He's a light needs
Speaker 1: to be changed around this butterfuerow.
Speaker 4: No at your house that he said, yeah, I'm born, Like, yeah.
Speaker 3: You better thinks like maybe you're gonna have a lot
Speaker 3: of fun with me when I'm around.
Speaker 4: It.
Speaker 1: Yes, I love how much I've grown, because that was,
Speaker 1: for sure a door to tell you about yourself, not
Speaker 1: even like disrespect, was just to really tell you how
Speaker 1: crazy this could be. But I'm growing up, and I
Speaker 1: really get you cannot hold women accountable. So if I
Speaker 1: start telling you why you're not fun, that would be
Speaker 1: holding you.
Speaker 4: Oh no, why would you nice? Why would you even
Speaker 4: want to tell me something like that?
Speaker 1: Why would I want to tell you something to.
Speaker 2: Actually I'm not fun?
Speaker 1: To help you actually look at yourself and actually be
Speaker 1: able to make changes to become better.
Speaker 2: I mean you could do it.
Speaker 4: You could, you know, you could have fun with me?
Speaker 4: And then I'll you know, see what you think is fun.
Speaker 4: But I'm not worried about because I'm fun. So that's
Speaker 4: what I'm saying. I'm like, but you know, why would
Speaker 4: you know?
Speaker 2: Why would you want to be like? Oh well, why
Speaker 2: are you with me?
Speaker 1: Then that's your favorite?
Speaker 3: That's the favorite? Why you with me?
Speaker 1: Then?
Speaker 3: Then you mean we don't have fun? We have? You know,
Speaker 3: you have fun with me?
Speaker 1: What do you think you do fun?
Speaker 3: Just so, I'm just a very energetic person, like especially
Speaker 3: if it's something you know that we could do together, like,
Speaker 3: I don't know, I just like that fun.
Speaker 2: Damn.
Speaker 3: I'm not running around here doing no cartwheels and no
Speaker 3: crazy crap.
Speaker 1: So what are you doing fun? Why are you fun?
Speaker 1: I'm just just for just just humor me.
Speaker 3: What do you mean? I don't know, but you know.
Speaker 1: You're fun even though you don't know why.
Speaker 2: I know I'm fun.
Speaker 3: I know I'm fun.
Speaker 1: And then if I start asking too many questions, he
Speaker 1: start being too accountable, so I have to peel back.
Speaker 1: Now I realize I have to be like, Okay, don't
Speaker 1: ask too many questions. You might get to the root
Speaker 1: of the problem. Now get to the root of the problem,
Speaker 1: because then you asking her to take accountability for a problem.
Speaker 1: Make a change.
Speaker 3: Listen, I'm gonna I know. I know my dude, so
Speaker 3: certain things I know he's not gonna want to do,
Speaker 3: and that's fine. Like I'm not gonna be like, oh,
Speaker 3: you need to go because I want to go. I'm
Speaker 3: gonna be like, well, if you don't want to go,
Speaker 3: I'm gonna go with Asia or I'm gonna go with
Speaker 3: my girls. And nine times out of ten that's a given.
Speaker 3: The guy is gonna be like, go ahead because he
Speaker 3: don't want to go. No, So guess what. But when
Speaker 3: we do go out, it's gonna be something We're gonna
Speaker 3: have fun and he gonna be there and he don't
Speaker 3: like it.
Speaker 1: Definitely not gonna like it.
Speaker 3: Why he ain't gonna like.
Speaker 4: That.
Speaker 3: I mean, I think I'm a likable person. Man, I
Speaker 3: think you are.
Speaker 1: You know, both of you guys are delighted joys, delighted joys.
Speaker 1: But again again it's a different thing. Look, I don't
Speaker 1: think we gotta go that deep stay right here all right,
Speaker 1: like women go because other than that, I'm asking you
Speaker 1: to do personal work and that would be like accountability.
Speaker 1: Oh please it You have to figure it out on
Speaker 1: your own, you know what I mean? Like women have
Speaker 1: to figure things out on their own. Like you got
Speaker 1: to give them the time. Like one of my better
Speaker 1: expressions is like a relationship, Like is a man holding
Speaker 1: a light while a woman tries to find herself in
Speaker 1: the dark. That's like one of my greatest expressions. Like
Speaker 1: if I passed away, that would be like my Socrates
Speaker 1: Aristotle type shit. A true relationships, last marriage is a
Speaker 1: man holding a flashlight while a woman tries to find
Speaker 1: herself in the dark. And the man is holding a
Speaker 1: flashlight for you. Because most of the time we know
Speaker 1: who we are. That's why we get the same haircut,
Speaker 1: that's why we into our same culture, are same hobbies.
Speaker 1: Women are changing every two days, like who notices they
Speaker 1: have eyelashes. I always say that and everybody laughs, but
Speaker 1: it's like, think about crazy, you got to be. I've
Speaker 1: never noticed it until a woman pointed it out to
Speaker 1: me in nineteen eighty nine when my grandmother was dying. Now,
Speaker 1: you have beautiful eyelashes. And I'm like, I was at
Speaker 1: the hospital, like I'm crying because my grandmother is in
Speaker 1: there dying, and I walked down this old white lay
Speaker 1: was like, you have beautiful eyelashes. I was like, eye
Speaker 1: this lady, notice my eyelash. This is just weird. And
Speaker 1: then I fast forward, you know, you fast forward twenty
Speaker 1: years later the women is fucking with their eyelashes. I
Speaker 1: never in my life has noticed. I've never in my
Speaker 1: life noticed another man's eyelashes, nobody's eyelashes. Never. You only
Speaker 1: notice when somebody don't have them. Yeah, because you think
Speaker 1: then you like they might be sick.
Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying, Like, we don't got no lashes. No,
Speaker 2: don't got them.
Speaker 1: Everybody has them. But what happens is women start to
Speaker 1: fondle theirs and then they start.
Speaker 2: To come out, or you just don't. I just didn't
Speaker 2: have a lot of lashes.
Speaker 1: Not a lot you have lashes.
Speaker 4: Okay again again See now this is where I would
Speaker 4: call women accountable.
Speaker 1: The fact that y'all compare yourself to each other is crazy,
Speaker 1: Like y'all look at other women and then you that's
Speaker 1: how you start to signe yourself up. Like this person
Speaker 1: is different. But like I watched like younger women go
Speaker 1: through it. I mean I watched what's her name, a
Speaker 1: little rapper girl lotto, Like she wouldn't got BBL like
Speaker 1: you was a baby fool as soon as you would
Speaker 1: have got pregnant and all that, you would have filed out.
Speaker 1: But she was just in the in a dire rush
Speaker 1: to fill out, looking at other women, looking at other
Speaker 1: women in entertainment.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know it's different entertainment now, Like it's not
Speaker 3: true though.
Speaker 1: You don't have to do anything. You don't have to
Speaker 1: fill the slots like beauty is not. Like Rihanna still
Speaker 1: had to get a BBL. No, because Rihanna figured out
Speaker 1: would make her the ship right, she went her eyes,
Speaker 1: so she do a lot of maskcre like she don't
Speaker 1: even cover her head. That forehead, you know, that forehead
Speaker 1: is hell of defeating.
Speaker 3: And they shout out to the Big Four his sisters
Speaker 3: out here, like he paved the way.
Speaker 1: Like some I'm always on your mind.
Speaker 3: Always because they love it, love it.
Speaker 1: They love women, all of them. It's a girl that
Speaker 1: be on TikTok and she just sit up there and
Speaker 1: be eating food. And I've noticed she's gotten bigger the
Speaker 1: whole time. I can notice her size on camera. She'd
Speaker 1: be like, hey, y'all, yeah, I'm telling you, this girl
Speaker 1: is super popping on TikTok. And like, there's a guy
Speaker 1: that loves her. He'd be right there eating food with her.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean, she makes a fool, He'll
Speaker 1: be eating it. He'd be standing behind her taking a picture,
Speaker 1: knowing she is crazy, but he loved her to death.
Speaker 1: Think about the craziest women. Somebody love them all? For
Speaker 1: real people, what's your name? What's your name? No, that's
Speaker 1: not like that for me. That's don't work away? For women,
Speaker 1: what's the Wendy? Women shout out to Wendy, get better, Wendy.
Speaker 1: Some a man loved her. Yeah, men love women. Maybe
Speaker 1: some it's some man that loves Serena. Serena look crazy
Speaker 1: right now. She got a lot of stuff going on,
Speaker 1: And I'm like, it's some man.
Speaker 2: That love her. I think it was make up.
Speaker 1: Whatever it is she had that make up like that,
Speaker 1: and some man still loves her husband. Men love men
Speaker 1: love women. Man, we love women then as then as
Speaker 1: a as a, as a as a clothes hangar wire
Speaker 1: and it's thick you like all women.
Speaker 2: Like.
Speaker 1: My thing was like, I would have wind got me
Speaker 1: a woman as black as the night. That's to me,
Speaker 1: this ship like if you can get you a woman
Speaker 1: that black, I'm talking about black is charcoal, that's shit,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? You so with men love
Speaker 1: women no matter what y'all really look like. We ain't
Speaker 1: never ain't nobody never decided they wasn't gonna talk to
Speaker 1: an O lady because she didn't have no eyelashes. Ain't
Speaker 1: no man never came like glass. I couldn't fuck with
Speaker 1: you in not enough lashes.
Speaker 3: Well I don't know.
Speaker 1: Nowadays, if a man notice your eyelashes, he likes men.
Speaker 2: I think that's true.
Speaker 1: I had a few epiphanies. One of the like I
Speaker 1: told you that epiphany that was my Socrates statement. My
Speaker 1: next epiphany was freaky is doing like a man doing
Speaker 1: gay shit with a woman. That's a freaky man. A
Speaker 1: freaky man is when you let a woman put a
Speaker 1: finger up your butt. A freaky man is a woman
Speaker 1: who a man who lets a woman eat his toassus salad,
Speaker 1: because you gotta be like the position you gotta be in,
Speaker 1: like you know what you hold legs hell, a freaky
Speaker 1: need to stay inside. Freaky is like when you let
Speaker 1: a woman peg you like them white folks were like,
Speaker 1: she got a deal though, and she hitting you like
Speaker 1: like it should be considered your homosexual male. But because
Speaker 1: it's a woman that that's a freak.
Speaker 3: Is that you know that they do believe that because
Speaker 3: my coworker, well, with my coworker, she was dating this
Speaker 3: guy and he was into that and it started with
Speaker 3: like you said, the finger. Then all of a sudden,
Speaker 3: then she started they bought something and she pegged him,
Speaker 3: and I said, well, how do you feel about that?
Speaker 3: I mean, well, he wanted you know, it was weird,
Speaker 3: but I mean that's what he wanted. And I was
Speaker 3: just sitting there looking at her, like and you think
Speaker 3: this probably came. He probably came really hard.
Speaker 2: He came, she said, he did.
Speaker 3: And I was just sitting there like, bro, I felt
Speaker 3: weird fucking the girl with a strap on. So how
Speaker 3: the fuck am I gonna? I can't do it? Like
Speaker 3: I felt with that? So how do you do that?
Speaker 3: How do you what? What's the conversation? How do you
Speaker 3: how do you just what? She said they were laying
Speaker 3: in the bed. They were laying in the bed. His
Speaker 3: leg was over hers, and she said she was rubbing.
Speaker 3: They were naked. He just had sex, and she said
Speaker 3: she was rubbing his leg and she slid down there
Speaker 3: and just did it and he didn't stop. He cocked
Speaker 3: his leg up a little bit.
Speaker 2: I said, oh, so he didn't do that.
Speaker 3: This has been a thing you've been doing, buddy.
Speaker 4: But that's what happened with my situation. He just kind
Speaker 4: of leaned over and got in that. After I started,
Speaker 4: I was like, I was.
Speaker 3: Freaky, freaky, Yes, okay, freaky, it's out there. It's out there.
Speaker 3: I'm good man.
Speaker 2: You let me do that.
Speaker 3: I'm hardly do it. But I'm gonna hold that ship
Speaker 3: against you for the rest.
Speaker 2: Of your life.
Speaker 1: Hold it against him when you're mad.
Speaker 3: No, I want with him. I mean, like that would
Speaker 3: be it.
Speaker 1: No, you're not. First off, you're gonna do it because
Speaker 1: you just.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna do it. I'm gonna do it because guess
Speaker 3: what what what you're saying?
Speaker 2: You didn't?
Speaker 3: Oh bro, you don't. What are you gonna use it?
Speaker 4: Like?
Speaker 3: What?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I bet you didn't, y'all, y'all, that's what the
Speaker 3: funk I thought.
Speaker 2: I wouldn't want to tell nobody.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't. I'm saying, if I'm not with him, were
Speaker 3: not together. So what I'm saying is I see you
Speaker 3: when you're trying to talk your Oh that's coming ship down.
Speaker 3: I used to that's coming up straight being you over.
Speaker 3: I used to be beat that ship up? What for girl?
Speaker 2: Just we was like, what you're doing? You want me to
Speaker 2: beat that up tonight?
Speaker 3: She like, oh, hell no, I wouldn't even else. I
Speaker 3: wouldn't even.
Speaker 1: Feel right over me, y'all. I'm something else, man. And
Speaker 1: see this is the party y'all have done this to do?
Speaker 3: I know I have not she she not not pagan,
Speaker 3: but she has done some other stuff. I haven't done that,
Speaker 3: but I've done that. I didn't do that to a guy.
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying is it was awkward to do
Speaker 3: that to a woman. So for me to say, okay,
Speaker 3: it was.
Speaker 4: Awkward, but for the guy, and this was somebody that
Speaker 4: I didn't.
Speaker 2: I wasn't dating.
Speaker 1: It just was trying something.
Speaker 2: A weird ass night, No, I was. I was faded
Speaker 2: and I was sleeping something.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, I woke up, okay, and.
Speaker 1: I don't know what happened, but this is really crazy.
Speaker 1: What do you mean you just woke up? So you
Speaker 1: woke so you to somebody house? You this is your
Speaker 1: prime years. This when you drunk, you meet somebody club,
Speaker 1: y'all go home.
Speaker 2: It was all together. Was somebody's birthday, JACUZI.
Speaker 1: Yeah out and then so you laid up with something.
Speaker 1: I went and laid down and down.
Speaker 4: He was in there. We was in there talking all that.
Speaker 4: Then he started give me.
Speaker 2: And then.
Speaker 4: Somehow I don't even know how it happened, but somehow it.
Speaker 2: Was like his but was like it.
Speaker 3: Was like he wanted it.
Speaker 4: It was the weirdest thing because I wasn't gonna have
Speaker 4: sex with him, like you know, and so I guess
Speaker 4: like he needed something and it was the weirdest thing.
Speaker 4: And I just I just did it and I didn't.
Speaker 4: I slipped a finger in and I said.
Speaker 1: How did you just come up with that?
Speaker 4: Ship?
Speaker 2: That's what that is crazy? Right?
Speaker 1: You just can feel the energy he was.
Speaker 2: He was yeah, I'm like I think I was.
Speaker 4: I was very like what and then I put another finger,
Speaker 4: the two fingers and I was just like wow.
Speaker 1: And then hey, hey, hey, hey, run for your life.
Speaker 4: And I was like, oh my gosh, I just remember
Speaker 4: because Okay knocked on the door like I was about
Speaker 4: to go.
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh right, I'm out.
Speaker 1: So wait a minute. So you fingered this dude.
Speaker 3: Never talked to him again.
Speaker 2: So what happened was so after that?
Speaker 1: So did he come when you finger him?
Speaker 2: I can't remember. I think he did.
Speaker 4: I think he did because all I know I was leaving,
Speaker 4: was pulling off.
Speaker 2: And he ran outside like call me that she was good.
Speaker 3: He didn't say that, but he did say call me
Speaker 3: like you didn't get my number. He was like, you
Speaker 3: didn't get mind you? He didn't know yet. She tells
Speaker 3: us down the hill as we was in the house
Speaker 3: up in Hollywills were coming down to hill and she's.
Speaker 2: Like, oh man, I got girl.
Speaker 3: And I'm sitting here like this is not a story.
Speaker 3: We need to be seen.
Speaker 4: And it's so crazy because if I seen him, I
Speaker 4: think you recently just showed me him.
Speaker 2: But if I seen him. I wouldn't even have known
Speaker 2: what he looked like or who he was. And so
Speaker 2: I just recently seen him. I was like, oh, I
Speaker 2: know he is.
Speaker 1: She know, so how would you feel?
Speaker 2: She don't laugh?
Speaker 3: Probably just laugh. I would never say nothing that I wouldn't.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't in there to you know. It wasn't my
Speaker 3: story to tell.
Speaker 2: But I'm show laughing.
Speaker 3: That was crazy at giggle. That was crazy. Don't ask me, guys,
Speaker 3: because I'm I might do it. But guess what. Your
Speaker 3: secret is not safe with me? Say that what they say?
Speaker 3: Never nothing fast of a girl got a podcast? Remember
Speaker 3: that what hearn that from shout to cast facts. He
Speaker 3: posted that like years ago and I still repost that
Speaker 3: ship to to this day. So never not fast, especially
Speaker 3: when a girl has a podcast or something like that.
Speaker 3: Don't do it. Secret is not safe no more. Y'all
Speaker 3: will say you're exposure.
Speaker 4: Hey, this year has been crazy too, been really crazy.
Speaker 2: We have halfway in the year and it's already.
Speaker 3: Is there something that you've done that you would hate
Speaker 3: for it to get out exposure? Yeah, it don't have
Speaker 3: to be nothing like that.
Speaker 1: Like I don't really push the boundaries on like physical
Speaker 1: intimacy like that. I never tried to see what two
Speaker 1: girls that. When I got been offered all kinds of stuff,
Speaker 1: I just won't even figure it out. I've been no lie.
Speaker 1: I've been offered three since four since Foster.
Speaker 2: No Lie, he never had a threesomes.
Speaker 1: No, I turned it down all four times. I think
Speaker 1: we've been offered three since a lot of time. I
Speaker 1: just I'm cool. I ain't doing cocaine, ain't doing threesomes
Speaker 1: or more. I ain't doing I want nobody to put
Speaker 1: their finger up my butt. It's just certain things I'm
Speaker 1: just not interested in. I would imagine it feels good.
Speaker 1: That's why people let people do it to them. But
Speaker 1: whatever that is, I don't want to unlock that problem.
Speaker 1: I'm sure heroin is good and sharm is good the
Speaker 1: reason people try this shit. So, if there's something I
Speaker 1: wouldn't want people to know, have I slept with somebody
Speaker 1: that I think I wouldn't want nobody? No, I pretty
Speaker 1: much I pretty much meant everything I ever said or did.
Speaker 1: I don't really have no bad secrets do. I look
Speaker 1: at some girls that I know because I really they
Speaker 1: don't really.
Speaker 2: Look bad I think for me, not like so.
Speaker 3: I'll tell it.
Speaker 1: Well, I ain't under the influence, so it's easy for
Speaker 1: me to make quality decisions. Like I would have to
Speaker 1: just be thirsty, you know what I'm saying, Like I
Speaker 1: would have to been thirsty at the time. And I
Speaker 1: don't think I really ever. Maybe long time ago, when
Speaker 1: I was like nineteen or something, maybe I was thirsty. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Like it was a lady who used to she used
Speaker 1: to smoke shirt and she was cute, but she like
Speaker 1: she had to be like forty nine. I was knocking
Speaker 1: her down. That probably would be like the most embarrassing thing.
Speaker 1: She was cute as hell to be like forty eight
Speaker 1: forty nine.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, Yeah, she was.
Speaker 1: Cute, and this lady was like forty eight forty nine,
Speaker 1: she was cute. I was like nineteen. I used to
Speaker 1: hammer this old lady.
Speaker 3: Tapping down on Miss Parker down the street.
Speaker 1: Man straight up right, Yeah, that would be the most
Speaker 1: embarrassing thing I ever did, because I really wouldn't. I
Speaker 1: don't really date, Like I try my best to stay
Speaker 1: away from age. I don't find value in young women
Speaker 1: or older women. It's like, look, man, women is just
Speaker 1: women so real.
Speaker 2: You don't have a reference older, younger.
Speaker 1: No, not lighter or darker that older or younger women
Speaker 1: that like you that I like, because I've definitely had
Speaker 1: to deal with women that like me that I just
Speaker 1: don't get it, Like I don't like you could be cute,
Speaker 1: but that it just can't be cute, and that's it.
Speaker 1: Like really, my mind got to have one extra thing
Speaker 1: besides cute. And that's kind of what made what made
Speaker 1: me a little different than most of the hummies, Like
Speaker 1: just cute is not.
Speaker 2: Enough, not enough to have sex or to date, not to.
Speaker 1: Even really be involved, like we're not even gonna get
Speaker 1: to talking something about you must have really, you know,
Speaker 1: Like you know what's funny, Like a lot of women
Speaker 1: like or women that I've dated over the years is
Speaker 1: like we had a common interest, Like I really never
Speaker 1: dated somebody like that was like just a face. And
Speaker 1: I think that makes it a little different because it's
Speaker 1: like I think a little bit too much. I listen
Speaker 1: too much, so that means most of the time I
Speaker 1: might have something to say, So it gotta be somebody
Speaker 1: that we can share a talking point. I agree with
Speaker 1: that other than that, like.
Speaker 3: You know, because after now, especially think this is the
Speaker 3: big age talking though, because after that it's like I
Speaker 3: gotta enjoy being around you. And one thing I'm starting
Speaker 3: to realize is I'm getting older. Is that's why some
Speaker 3: of my software era like I don't want to have
Speaker 3: to do all those Like I don't want the animosity,
Speaker 3: the fighting, like I don't want and I get it, relationship,
Speaker 3: you're gonna you're not gonna always get along, but damn
Speaker 3: can we have like a happy medium or something like
Speaker 3: a day where we could just communicate a lot to
Speaker 3: shut off your chest without it coming off like you
Speaker 3: down in the person or or however you feeling like
Speaker 3: I just don't like I don't know, I just need
Speaker 3: the peace right now for me, Like peace like when
Speaker 3: I go home, lay down, like I'll shut my phone off,
Speaker 3: do whatever, and I literally take time to myself. But
Speaker 3: before that, I'll be let's go, let's go, let's go,
Speaker 3: like you know what I mean, even with my dude,
Speaker 3: Like let's go. Like what we're doing, Like why are
Speaker 3: we just sitting here? Like like you said, I can't
Speaker 3: be sitting there board.
Speaker 2: Now. I enjoy just stand.
Speaker 3: It's stand put.
Speaker 1: You know what's funny is if I did have one
Speaker 1: criticism for women, they don't take enough time to understand guys.
Speaker 1: You know what, Like, guys take all the time. Guys
Speaker 1: take time to understand women, but women don't take time
Speaker 1: to understand guys.
Speaker 2: Why do you say that?
Speaker 1: Because you'll know something and instead of you doing things
Speaker 1: that cater to that consistently, you still be trying to
Speaker 1: be you and do you, and it'll be like this
Speaker 1: nigga birthday and instead of you doing something for his
Speaker 1: birthday that he liked, you gonna make it about you.
Speaker 3: See, No, that's not not gonna do that.
Speaker 2: I want to know what you want.
Speaker 3: I'm really big on birthdays.
Speaker 1: That's that's happened historically.
Speaker 2: What do you want?
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm quite sure it's happened, but I'm just
Speaker 3: saying as far as me, like.
Speaker 4: I know that.
Speaker 3: No, I'm really big on birthdays. Like I've lost a
Speaker 3: lot of people in my life. So for me, like,
Speaker 3: if you're in my life, I love you like I really,
Speaker 3: we're gonna do something that you enjoy. We're gonna do
Speaker 3: something to you, know what I mean?
Speaker 1: Why is it we Well, you don't.
Speaker 3: Have I don't have to go with him.
Speaker 1: Notice that your words though, what.
Speaker 2: Does she saying?
Speaker 1: You know you you should do.
Speaker 4: You know this?
Speaker 3: Don't have too much fun, nigga, bring your ass home,
Speaker 3: you know the curfew.
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