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Speaker 1: Second dat up day. You know how the old saying goes,
Speaker 1: don't dip your wiener in the company penholders saying, don't
Speaker 1: give your wiener to a co worker. Oh, it's in
Speaker 1: the company and the company. Oh ink, I'm the weird one.
Speaker 1: I'm saying it wrong. I don't know anyway. Julian is
Speaker 1: on the phone today for a second day update. His
Speaker 1: email said that he met the girl who he wants
Speaker 1: to call today at work. So I'm guessing it's a
Speaker 1: co worker or something. Julian, how you doing, I'm good.
Speaker 1: How are you guys? Good? So you're trying to dip
Speaker 1: your wiener in the penning, right? Is that what this
Speaker 1: is about? No, No, it's not at all. Okay, tell
Speaker 1: us a little bit about the girl that you want
Speaker 1: to call today. She's a co worker. Well, she's not
Speaker 1: a coworker. She came in purchasing supplies at the office
Speaker 1: that I work at, so she's kind of a client
Speaker 1: co worker. Seal the deal there, So did you ask
Speaker 1: her out while she came in to deal with Like, No,
Speaker 1: because I think that's unprofessional. Basically, what happened is she
Speaker 1: came in and she was working with me or I
Speaker 1: was working for her, however you want to say it.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to cross the line, I guess. And
Speaker 1: then she ended up coming back because she hadn't got
Speaker 1: her parking ticket validated in the lot, and so you
Speaker 1: validated it with your wiener? Oh my god? Right? Or
Speaker 1: am I right? No? No? No, I validated it and
Speaker 1: then had a nice conversation with her when I walked
Speaker 1: her out to the lot. Okay, well, where's the winner
Speaker 1: come into this thing? I haven't heard anything about a
Speaker 1: wiener yet. No, there was no weiner involved in the validation. Anyways,
Speaker 1: I asked her if she would like to get dinner
Speaker 1: on Friday, and she said she would, and I got
Speaker 1: her number and I called her and we went to dinner.
Speaker 1: What's her name, by the way, Christina? Christina? And how
Speaker 1: was dinner with Christina? Dinner was good. I mean, I
Speaker 1: feel like we had a lot of chemistry. And I
Speaker 1: like veal, and not everybody likes feal, and she wanted
Speaker 1: the veal too, so we ended up ordering the same thing,
Speaker 1: which I thought was kind of a cool thing, and
Speaker 1: dinner went good. You guys both ordered veal. In other words,
Speaker 1: you're both fans of slaughtering baby calves. I like that
Speaker 1: about both of you. Seems nice. That's not what I
Speaker 1: think about when I'm eating veal, like the way veal pay,
Speaker 1: so I'm not worrying about the process. Oh that's why
Speaker 1: I like it. I just I picture the whole things
Speaker 1: go on while I'm eating veal. I like it. Now,
Speaker 1: why I like it at all? Actually, you're making me
Speaker 1: like it a lot less by giving me that story.
Speaker 1: So if dinner went well and everything else, why do
Speaker 1: you think she's not calling you back? You know, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I mean there were a couple of things.
Speaker 1: Now I'm trying to run the night through my head,
Speaker 1: and like, did I do something wrong? Did I you know,
Speaker 1: my fly open or my food in my face? Or
Speaker 1: how I ate? Was the fly open? The winer? I
Speaker 1: knew it. I'm talking to you that you're a winer guy.
Speaker 1: I knew it. Yeah, that's you're right. How did you
Speaker 1: figured me out? But realistically, the only things that I
Speaker 1: think that could have possibly not gone, Well, I did
Speaker 1: have to take a work call, which I don't like
Speaker 1: to have to take work calls if I'm on a date.
Speaker 1: But I was expecting a client to call, so I
Speaker 1: had to walk away. Did you tell her at the
Speaker 1: beginning of the night that that was going to happen.
Speaker 1: I did not tell her that I was expecting a call,
Speaker 1: But when I got back, I said, this was an
Speaker 1: important job call. I had to take it. Did you,
Speaker 1: I mean, did you leave her stranded by herself for
Speaker 1: like a half an hour while you were on some
Speaker 1: conference call or something. Well, no, I stayed at the
Speaker 1: table for a minute and then walked away. But it
Speaker 1: was no more than fifteen minutes long, I mean, and
Speaker 1: she had an appetizer and some wine, So okay, So
Speaker 1: it wasn't. I have a hard time thinking that would
Speaker 1: be the reason not to call you back. If you're like, hey, sorry,
Speaker 1: it's an important work call. Yeah, that's me too. And
Speaker 1: then the only other thing I'll be honest with you.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm not going to say the restaurant, but
Speaker 1: veal is a particular type of food, and if you
Speaker 1: like veal, you like feel But I thought that it
Speaker 1: was okay, and I kind of was like, oh, you know,
Speaker 1: how's your veal and she's like, Oh, it's great, blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. And I was like, oh, she's asked me,
Speaker 1: and I was like, it's all right, it's okay. And
Speaker 1: maybe I don't know, maybe she thought I was being
Speaker 1: hypercritical or a snob about the food, but I wasn't.
Speaker 1: I just giving my honest opinion. Honestly, I think both
Speaker 1: of you a red flag for me, Like, obviously, if
Speaker 1: a guy's taking a call in the middle of a
Speaker 1: Friday night date, he's going to be putting work in
Speaker 1: front of me our entire relationship. Wow, I'm just saying wait, wait, wait.
Speaker 1: But first off, you have to understand she's in the
Speaker 1: same business. She knows that I'm in sale, but she
Speaker 1: wasn't taking a call dur in the dinner because she's
Speaker 1: a buyer. She's not a feller. She's not as important
Speaker 1: as I see. How did she understands that sales There
Speaker 1: are the time zones, there's other people, people that are
Speaker 1: working at different hours where when you're buying, you're not,
Speaker 1: as I don't say, in demand, but sometimes you have
Speaker 1: to answer the phone when you're selling because if you
Speaker 1: don't lose out of sale. Then you lose out of money,
Speaker 1: and then you can't afford the dinner. I think a
Speaker 1: red flag. A red flag would be taking your wiener
Speaker 1: out at the dinner table, like you said you did earlier. Okay,
Speaker 1: for the record, I didn't take out my wiener for
Speaker 1: any portion of the date, dinner or after anything. All Right,
Speaker 1: So when we call her and ask why she's not
Speaker 1: calling you back, she's not going to say that. Okay,
Speaker 1: how did everything end with her? You know, I kind
Speaker 1: of went in for kiss and I kind of got
Speaker 1: more of a handshaped hug kind of thing. But it
Speaker 1: was the first date, so was it awkward? I don't
Speaker 1: think it was awkward. It was It wasn't like I
Speaker 1: was like an inch from her lips and she stuck
Speaker 1: her hand to me. It was know, I mean I
Speaker 1: was kind of coming in kind of to like hug
Speaker 1: kiss and she kind of put her hand up a
Speaker 1: little bit. So it was it was that's all. She
Speaker 1: shut you down. I know, it wasn't a shutdown. It
Speaker 1: was just it was just that wasn't a shutdown. Shut
Speaker 1: It sounds like a shut down to me. If you
Speaker 1: go for a kiss and you get a handshake. Have
Speaker 1: you heard anything from her since your date? No? I
Speaker 1: called her once and I've fixed her three times. Okay,
Speaker 1: well we'll play a song, come back, call her and
Speaker 1: get your second date. Update. All right, okay, great, thank
Speaker 1: hang on brooking Jubil. In the morning update, Julian is
Speaker 1: on the phone with us and today he wants to
Speaker 1: call a girl named Christina, and Julian claims that he
Speaker 1: wasn't shut down at the end of the date when
Speaker 1: he went in for a kiss and she shook his
Speaker 1: hand instead. He still says that that wasn't him getting
Speaker 1: shut down, but in my definition of beginning shut down,
Speaker 1: that is probably the best way to describe it. Listen,
Speaker 1: I didn't get shut down. I waited for a kiss.
Speaker 1: It was you know, it was a professional date. You know,
Speaker 1: it was a work thing, so it wasn't appropriate. I understand.
Speaker 1: Let me get shut out either way, I think you
Speaker 1: got shut down. Yeah, all right, Well we're gonna get
Speaker 1: her on the phone and see why she's not calling
Speaker 1: you back. Here we go on dollar phone of her
Speaker 1: right now. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Christina? Please? Yeah?
Speaker 1: This is she Christina? How are you? This is Jewil
Speaker 1: from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. Who is this
Speaker 1: Jebil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning, the radio show. Um, okay,
Speaker 1: why are you calling me? What is this? I'm calling
Speaker 1: you because one of our listeners asked if I could
Speaker 1: get you on the phone to ask you a few questions. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's really weird. It's a segment we do on our
Speaker 1: show called the Second Date Updates. So you recently went
Speaker 1: on a date with a dude named Julian. Okay, and
Speaker 1: Julian emailed us and said that you haven't been responding
Speaker 1: to any of his text messages or phone calls, so
Speaker 1: he thought maybe we could get you on the phone
Speaker 1: and find out why you're not calling Julian back. All right.
Speaker 1: He told us, you know, you're like a client where
Speaker 1: he works, and he asked you out and he said,
Speaker 1: you guys went out to dinner and had a pretty
Speaker 1: fun time. That's what he told you. Yes, good time.
Speaker 1: So you didn't have a good time? Um, I wouldn't
Speaker 1: call it that. No, Okay, what was wrong with it then?
Speaker 1: Because according to him everything was great. He thought maybe
Speaker 1: he seemed like a food snob to you because he
Speaker 1: disagreed with you on the veal that you guys ordered. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he definitely has a very refined palette. That's one way
Speaker 1: to put it. Okay. He also said that he took
Speaker 1: a phone call in the middle of the date. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: he did that was it was a little rude, Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I could see how that would upset you. I mean,
Speaker 1: that was even the worst part of the date. What
Speaker 1: was the worst part then? Um? I mean he's he's
Speaker 1: a very smooth sales guy, but he's kind of got
Speaker 1: this seething anger underneath all of it. Seeing he was
Speaker 1: seething anger underneath his charismatic salesman personality. I mean, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's literally the best adjective I can pick to describe it.
Speaker 1: It's easing anger. What happened? Because when you described the
Speaker 1: date to us, he didn't say anything about anger or
Speaker 1: being pissed off him. It's a very very picky person
Speaker 1: and a very shallow person and quite rude. Actually what
Speaker 1: did he do? I mean, for example, he was super
Speaker 1: picky about the wine. I ordered red wine and it
Speaker 1: was brought to me, I guess in a white wine glass,
Speaker 1: and he got extremely upset and he turned it away
Speaker 1: and made them bring it back. Is he one of
Speaker 1: those a holes at the restaurant that like acts like
Speaker 1: he owns the place when he's somewhere and that nothing's
Speaker 1: good enough for him. Yeah, it's pretty much exactly like.
Speaker 1: He went bathroom and when he came back, he was
Speaker 1: in a huge hus and he says, you know, there's
Speaker 1: no more paper towels in the bathroom. You know, they's
Speaker 1: a fancy restaurant and then an establishment, and people should
Speaker 1: be refilling the paper towels and going on and on
Speaker 1: about this tiny and significant thing that how dare they go?
Speaker 1: It is annoying when they don't have paper towels. I
Speaker 1: will say that, but I don't know if I'd ever
Speaker 1: get that pissed off about it. It's not angry, it's annoying. Yeah,
Speaker 1: absolute worst part of the entire night. That paper towels
Speaker 1: thing wasn't even it. I mean, he completely dressed down
Speaker 1: the waiter and just disrespected him when we were leaving.
Speaker 1: As he's leaving, he says, I paid forty dollars for
Speaker 1: a piece of beer I wouldn't feed to my dead.
Speaker 1: Grandmother says, you're lucky I don't come back and burn
Speaker 1: this place down to the round. And I was like,
Speaker 1: did I hear you correctly? He threatened to burn the
Speaker 1: place down? He did. He threatened to burn it to
Speaker 1: the ground. He said that to the waiter. I'm a hundreds.
Speaker 1: That was the comment of the night. I've complained the
Speaker 1: restaurants before, but I've never threatened to burn them down.
Speaker 1: I would destroy this place. Did he realize what he
Speaker 1: was saying or did he act like this is just
Speaker 1: normal banter at a restaurant. Now he knew exactly what
Speaker 1: he was saying. When we were leaving the restaurant, he
Speaker 1: turned to me and his attitude completely changed, and he
Speaker 1: made it sound like I had been suffering and I
Speaker 1: was a victim and that everything was absolutely horrible, and
Speaker 1: you know the things I didn't really care was so insignificant.
Speaker 1: It is mine. He must have been standing up for you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I really want him to stand up for me and
Speaker 1: burn down the restaurant we were eating at. Some girls
Speaker 1: would be thankful for that. Some girl be what a man?
Speaker 1: Yes he is as true gentleman. He threatened to burn
Speaker 1: down a restaurant in my honor, So I know it
Speaker 1: was really ridiculous. So I mean, I said good night
Speaker 1: and I'm going to leave at that. That's understandable. I
Speaker 1: guess I want to get out of there as soon
Speaker 1: as possible. Threats of arson on a first date you
Speaker 1: usually I don't want to fact to that as ever, again,
Speaker 1: that's just shame because he's actually on the other line
Speaker 1: listening and wants to talk to you. Are you serious? Yes?
Speaker 1: I am, Hey, Christina, I wasn't angry. I was standing
Speaker 1: up for you. I was standing up for having good
Speaker 1: service at a restaurant. I mean, I worked hard for
Speaker 1: my money, and you know what, the service sucked and
Speaker 1: the food sucked, and there was no paper towels. What
Speaker 1: kind of place doesn't have paper towels. You have to
Speaker 1: wash your hands to go eat, and they don't want
Speaker 1: you to try your hands. I mean, I mean, right,
Speaker 1: you're I mean I'm not gonna not wash my hands.
Speaker 1: If I looked, I saw there was no paper towels,
Speaker 1: and now I'm like, I'm gonna wipe it on my
Speaker 1: pants and I'm gonna walk out its. Look at my
Speaker 1: pants are wet. So I couldn't even impress you with that.
Speaker 1: I was like, I wasn't angry. I was I was
Speaker 1: being chivalry. I mean, I was defending you. You're having
Speaker 1: to burn the place down. I mean, how how is
Speaker 1: that chival? That's just threatening? Okay, okay, I think I
Speaker 1: shouldn't have said that. That was me getting frustrated because
Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, the paper towels is one thing,
Speaker 1: the wine was another thing, the appetizer is another thing,
Speaker 1: because the deal was another thing. I got so frustrated.
Speaker 1: I'm talking. I stop you guys, stopped talking. I've heard
Speaker 1: this already. I heard you the rest sun I'm hearing
Speaker 1: it again. You're just repeating yourself. You know, if like,
Speaker 1: if you keep focusing on little insignificant things and being
Speaker 1: a rude everybody, Like, I don't know how women can
Speaker 1: stand to go on a day with you. It's no
Speaker 1: wonder you've been divorced twice. Who what whoa whoa Wait,
Speaker 1: you just brought up my two divorces, so my ex
Speaker 1: wives I share that with you. Are you kidding me?
Speaker 1: I mean, that's rude, that that's that's that's mean. But
Speaker 1: that's an example. It's two strikes, and the women clearly
Speaker 1: couldn't deal with all of your crap. My crap, my
Speaker 1: crap because I want good customer service, because I'm at
Speaker 1: a restaurant, and I want some customer at the other
Speaker 1: human brain and be respype. That's full about it. You
Speaker 1: were respect with you? Well, I'm like, that's why people
Speaker 1: in the service industry, you don't know if to threaten people.
Speaker 1: You know what. I'm in the sales industry. You know what.
Speaker 1: I take care of customers. They need to take care
Speaker 1: of customers. You should know them. I mean, we're in
Speaker 1: this industry. But I don't even know what to say.
Speaker 1: I stayed in my case. I don't know. In the
Speaker 1: surface industry, sometimes you have to put your foot down
Speaker 1: to get some respect. So I was doing that with
Speaker 1: the waiter in the restaurant, and you know what, I
Speaker 1: think you need to show me a little respect because
Speaker 1: you know what, I was defending you. I think so too.
Speaker 1: That's why I'd like to ask Christina, would you like
Speaker 1: to go on a second date with Julian? We will
Speaker 1: pay for it. Hell no, no, no, I don't you
Speaker 1: answered so quickly there, You know, if you're going to
Speaker 1: talk to me like that, no way, Julie, are you sure?
Speaker 1: I mean I could find you, guys a great restaurant
Speaker 1: that Julian could burn down. I'm gonna pass on that.
Speaker 1: You know what, if you want to settle for mediocre service,
Speaker 1: then you don't want to go date some schleck who
Speaker 1: will take you to the drive through. I want to
Speaker 1: go store restaurants where they treat you like a customer.
Speaker 1: We're right, we are supposed to get this stuff. Come on,
Speaker 1: I mean, really, you know what, you know what, You've
Speaker 1: pushed the envelope so far. I was fine just knocking
Speaker 1: another date with you, but you know what, I really
Speaker 1: don't want to do business with someone who has FTHX
Speaker 1: like you. Oh oh, now you're taking personal and you're
Speaker 1: putting it in business. Really, I'm going to tell the
Speaker 1: people I work with my company will not be doing
Speaker 1: business that's your company anymore? Are you cheating me? Very
Speaker 1: solid date? You know it wasn't a date. It was
Speaker 1: your attitude that did it. I am done with this conversation. Goodbye. Wow, Julian,
Speaker 1: what just happened? You didn't get a second date? And
Speaker 1: I think you might be losing your job soon too,
Speaker 1: because I want customer service. Well, I think it's because
Speaker 1: you're threatened to burn the place down. Yeah, you're a
Speaker 1: total douche bag about it. I apologize for the burning
Speaker 1: the place I mean that was you know, it was
Speaker 1: one bathing after another and it pushed me beyond. But
Speaker 1: but I mean the rest of the stuff was all
Speaker 1: customer service, slow service, bad food, wrong glasses. I'm yeah,
Speaker 1: we know the list. Broken Jewel in the morning texted
Speaker 1: at seven eighty five to nine two says, I like
Speaker 1: how his whole attitude changed when she said she didn't
Speaker 1: want to do business with him anymore. Talking about today's
Speaker 1: second date update if you missed it, stud Julian wanted
Speaker 1: to call Christina. They actually work together their companies too,
Speaker 1: and he went out with Christina. She said she wasn't
Speaker 1: calling him back because he got a little aggressive the
Speaker 1: whole night. He was very picky about the wine, angry
Speaker 1: that they were out of paper towels in the bathroom,
Speaker 1: which I support him for completely. He even screamed at
Speaker 1: a waiter because he said he paid forty dollars for
Speaker 1: veal veal that he wouldn't feed to his dead grandma.
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, that says a lot, because I made a
Speaker 1: lot of deal in my dead and the thing about
Speaker 1: dead grandma, they don't complain very much. They just kind
Speaker 1: of eat the good anyway. He also threatened to come
Speaker 1: back to the restaurant and burn it to the ground.
Speaker 1: He was so mad. He sounds like a really reasonable guy.
Speaker 1: You guys, real level headed. Yeah, yes, there's no red
Speaker 1: flags there. What's her problem? He claimed that his behavior
Speaker 1: was just defending Christina, saying that she deserved a good
Speaker 1: four style star meal. He was going to burn the
Speaker 1: place down in her honor. I guess anyway, romance written
Speaker 1: right though, I think there's a movie. She said no
Speaker 1: to a second date, and she also said that her
Speaker 1: company won't do business with him anymore. Yeah, it looks
Speaker 1: like that's a company that's about to get burned to
Speaker 1: the ground. So I have some insurance. Remember, if you
Speaker 1: want to do a second date update, just email the show.
Speaker 1: We will call the person who didn't call you back.