WEBVTT -  2nd Date Update PODCAST: Burn It Down 

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<v Speaker 1>What will you do lesi at Evergreen dot com? Rooking jewels?

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<v Speaker 1>Second dat up day. You know how the old saying goes,

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<v Speaker 1>don't dip your wiener in the company penholders saying, don't

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<v Speaker 1>give your wiener to a co worker. Oh, it's in

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<v Speaker 1>the company and the company. Oh ink, I'm the weird one.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying it wrong. I don't know anyway. Julian is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone today for a second day update. His

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<v Speaker 1>email said that he met the girl who he wants

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<v Speaker 1>to call today at work. So I'm guessing it's a

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<v Speaker 1>co worker or something. Julian, how you doing, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you guys? Good? So you're trying to dip

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<v Speaker 1>your wiener in the penning, right? Is that what this

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<v Speaker 1>is about? No, No, it's not at all. Okay, tell

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<v Speaker 1>us a little bit about the girl that you want

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<v Speaker 1>to call today. She's a co worker. Well, she's not

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<v Speaker 1>a coworker. She came in purchasing supplies at the office

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<v Speaker 1>that I work at, so she's kind of a client

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<v Speaker 1>co worker. Seal the deal there, So did you ask

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<v Speaker 1>her out while she came in to deal with Like, No,

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<v Speaker 1>because I think that's unprofessional. Basically, what happened is she

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<v Speaker 1>came in and she was working with me or I

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<v Speaker 1>was working for her, however you want to say it.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to cross the line, I guess. And

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<v Speaker 1>then she ended up coming back because she hadn't got

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<v Speaker 1>her parking ticket validated in the lot, and so you

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<v Speaker 1>validated it with your wiener? Oh my god? Right? Or

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<v Speaker 1>am I right? No? No? No, I validated it and

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<v Speaker 1>then had a nice conversation with her when I walked

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<v Speaker 1>her out to the lot. Okay, well, where's the winner

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<v Speaker 1>come into this thing? I haven't heard anything about a

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<v Speaker 1>wiener yet. No, there was no weiner involved in the validation. Anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>I asked her if she would like to get dinner

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<v Speaker 1>on Friday, and she said she would, and I got

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<v Speaker 1>her number and I called her and we went to dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name, by the way, Christina? Christina? And how

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<v Speaker 1>was dinner with Christina? Dinner was good. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like we had a lot of chemistry. And I

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<v Speaker 1>like veal, and not everybody likes feal, and she wanted

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<v Speaker 1>the veal too, so we ended up ordering the same thing,

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<v Speaker 1>which I thought was kind of a cool thing, and

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<v Speaker 1>dinner went good. You guys both ordered veal. In other words,

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<v Speaker 1>you're both fans of slaughtering baby calves. I like that

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<v Speaker 1>about both of you. Seems nice. That's not what I

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<v Speaker 1>think about when I'm eating veal, like the way veal pay,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm not worrying about the process. Oh that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I like it. I just I picture the whole things

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<v Speaker 1>go on while I'm eating veal. I like it. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>why I like it at all? Actually, you're making me

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<v Speaker 1>like it a lot less by giving me that story.

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<v Speaker 1>So if dinner went well and everything else, why do

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<v Speaker 1>you think she's not calling you back? You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I mean there were a couple of things.

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<v Speaker 1>Now I'm trying to run the night through my head,

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<v Speaker 1>and like, did I do something wrong? Did I you know,

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<v Speaker 1>my fly open or my food in my face? Or

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<v Speaker 1>how I ate? Was the fly open? The winer? I

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<v Speaker 1>knew it. I'm talking to you that you're a winer guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew it. Yeah, that's you're right. How did you

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<v Speaker 1>figured me out? But realistically, the only things that I

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<v Speaker 1>think that could have possibly not gone, Well, I did

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<v Speaker 1>have to take a work call, which I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>to have to take work calls if I'm on a date.

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<v Speaker 1>But I was expecting a client to call, so I

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<v Speaker 1>had to walk away. Did you tell her at the

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<v Speaker 1>beginning of the night that that was going to happen.

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<v Speaker 1>I did not tell her that I was expecting a call,

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<v Speaker 1>But when I got back, I said, this was an

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<v Speaker 1>important job call. I had to take it. Did you,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, did you leave her stranded by herself for

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<v Speaker 1>like a half an hour while you were on some

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<v Speaker 1>conference call or something. Well, no, I stayed at the

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<v Speaker 1>table for a minute and then walked away. But it

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<v Speaker 1>was no more than fifteen minutes long, I mean, and

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<v Speaker 1>she had an appetizer and some wine, So okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't. I have a hard time thinking that would

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<v Speaker 1>be the reason not to call you back. If you're like, hey, sorry,

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<v Speaker 1>it's an important work call. Yeah, that's me too. And

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<v Speaker 1>then the only other thing I'll be honest with you.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm not going to say the restaurant, but

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<v Speaker 1>veal is a particular type of food, and if you

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<v Speaker 1>like veal, you like feel But I thought that it

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<v Speaker 1>was okay, and I kind of was like, oh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>how's your veal and she's like, Oh, it's great, blah

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<v Speaker 1>blah blah. And I was like, oh, she's asked me,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, it's all right, it's okay. And

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I don't know, maybe she thought I was being

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<v Speaker 1>hypercritical or a snob about the food, but I wasn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I just giving my honest opinion. Honestly, I think both

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<v Speaker 1>of you a red flag for me, Like, obviously, if

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<v Speaker 1>a guy's taking a call in the middle of a

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<v Speaker 1>Friday night date, he's going to be putting work in

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<v Speaker 1>front of me our entire relationship. Wow, I'm just saying wait, wait, wait.

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<v Speaker 1>But first off, you have to understand she's in the

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<v Speaker 1>same business. She knows that I'm in sale, but she

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't taking a call dur in the dinner because she's

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<v Speaker 1>a buyer. She's not a feller. She's not as important

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<v Speaker 1>as I see. How did she understands that sales There

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<v Speaker 1>are the time zones, there's other people, people that are

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<v Speaker 1>working at different hours where when you're buying, you're not,

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<v Speaker 1>as I don't say, in demand, but sometimes you have

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<v Speaker 1>to answer the phone when you're selling because if you

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<v Speaker 1>don't lose out of sale. Then you lose out of money,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you can't afford the dinner. I think a

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<v Speaker 1>red flag. A red flag would be taking your wiener

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<v Speaker 1>out at the dinner table, like you said you did earlier. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>for the record, I didn't take out my wiener for

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<v Speaker 1>any portion of the date, dinner or after anything. All Right,

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<v Speaker 1>So when we call her and ask why she's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back, she's not going to say that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>how did everything end with her? You know, I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of went in for kiss and I kind of got

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<v Speaker 1>more of a handshaped hug kind of thing. But it

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<v Speaker 1>was the first date, so was it awkward? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think it was awkward. It was It wasn't like I

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<v Speaker 1>was like an inch from her lips and she stuck

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<v Speaker 1>her hand to me. It was know, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>was kind of coming in kind of to like hug

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<v Speaker 1>kiss and she kind of put her hand up a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit. So it was it was that's all. She

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<v Speaker 1>shut you down. I know, it wasn't a shutdown. It

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<v Speaker 1>was just it was just that wasn't a shutdown. Shut

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like a shut down to me. If you

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<v Speaker 1>go for a kiss and you get a handshake. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you heard anything from her since your date? No? I

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<v Speaker 1>called her once and I've fixed her three times. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well we'll play a song, come back, call her and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date. Update. All right, okay, great, thank

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<v Speaker 1>hang on brooking Jubil. In the morning update, Julian is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone with us and today he wants to

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<v Speaker 1>call a girl named Christina, and Julian claims that he

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't shut down at the end of the date when

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<v Speaker 1>he went in for a kiss and she shook his

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<v Speaker 1>hand instead. He still says that that wasn't him getting

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<v Speaker 1>shut down, but in my definition of beginning shut down,

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<v Speaker 1>that is probably the best way to describe it. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't get shut down. I waited for a kiss.

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<v Speaker 1>It was you know, it was a professional date. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it was a work thing, so it wasn't appropriate. I understand.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me get shut out either way, I think you

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<v Speaker 1>got shut down. Yeah, all right, Well we're gonna get

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<v Speaker 1>her on the phone and see why she's not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back. Here we go on dollar phone of her

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Christina? Please? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>This is she Christina? How are you? This is Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. Who is this

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<v Speaker 1>Jebil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning, the radio show. Um, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>why are you calling me? What is this? I'm calling

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<v Speaker 1>you because one of our listeners asked if I could

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<v Speaker 1>get you on the phone to ask you a few questions. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's really weird. It's a segment we do on our

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<v Speaker 1>show called the Second Date Updates. So you recently went

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<v Speaker 1>on a date with a dude named Julian. Okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>Julian emailed us and said that you haven't been responding

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<v Speaker 1>to any of his text messages or phone calls, so

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<v Speaker 1>he thought maybe we could get you on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and find out why you're not calling Julian back. All right.

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<v Speaker 1>He told us, you know, you're like a client where

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<v Speaker 1>he works, and he asked you out and he said,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys went out to dinner and had a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>fun time. That's what he told you. Yes, good time.

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<v Speaker 1>So you didn't have a good time? Um, I wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>call it that. No, Okay, what was wrong with it then?

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<v Speaker 1>Because according to him everything was great. He thought maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he seemed like a food snob to you because he

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<v Speaker 1>disagreed with you on the veal that you guys ordered. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he definitely has a very refined palette. That's one way

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<v Speaker 1>to put it. Okay. He also said that he took

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<v Speaker 1>a phone call in the middle of the date. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he did that was it was a little rude, Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I could see how that would upset you. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that was even the worst part of the date. What

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<v Speaker 1>was the worst part then? Um? I mean he's he's

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<v Speaker 1>a very smooth sales guy, but he's kind of got

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<v Speaker 1>this seething anger underneath all of it. Seeing he was

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<v Speaker 1>seething anger underneath his charismatic salesman personality. I mean, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's literally the best adjective I can pick to describe it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's easing anger. What happened? Because when you described the

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<v Speaker 1>date to us, he didn't say anything about anger or

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<v Speaker 1>being pissed off him. It's a very very picky person

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<v Speaker 1>and a very shallow person and quite rude. Actually what

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<v Speaker 1>did he do? I mean, for example, he was super

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<v Speaker 1>picky about the wine. I ordered red wine and it

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<v Speaker 1>was brought to me, I guess in a white wine glass,

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<v Speaker 1>and he got extremely upset and he turned it away

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<v Speaker 1>and made them bring it back. Is he one of

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<v Speaker 1>those a holes at the restaurant that like acts like

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<v Speaker 1>he owns the place when he's somewhere and that nothing's

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<v Speaker 1>good enough for him. Yeah, it's pretty much exactly like.

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<v Speaker 1>He went bathroom and when he came back, he was

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<v Speaker 1>in a huge hus and he says, you know, there's

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<v Speaker 1>no more paper towels in the bathroom. You know, they's

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<v Speaker 1>a fancy restaurant and then an establishment, and people should

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<v Speaker 1>be refilling the paper towels and going on and on

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<v Speaker 1>about this tiny and significant thing that how dare they go?

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<v Speaker 1>It is annoying when they don't have paper towels. I

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<v Speaker 1>will say that, but I don't know if I'd ever

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<v Speaker 1>get that pissed off about it. It's not angry, it's annoying. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>absolute worst part of the entire night. That paper towels

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<v Speaker 1>thing wasn't even it. I mean, he completely dressed down

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<v Speaker 1>the waiter and just disrespected him when we were leaving.

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<v Speaker 1>As he's leaving, he says, I paid forty dollars for

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<v Speaker 1>a piece of beer I wouldn't feed to my dead.

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<v Speaker 1>Grandmother says, you're lucky I don't come back and burn

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<v Speaker 1>this place down to the round. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>did I hear you correctly? He threatened to burn the

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<v Speaker 1>place down? He did. He threatened to burn it to

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<v Speaker 1>the ground. He said that to the waiter. I'm a hundreds.

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<v Speaker 1>That was the comment of the night. I've complained the

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<v Speaker 1>restaurants before, but I've never threatened to burn them down.

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<v Speaker 1>I would destroy this place. Did he realize what he

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<v Speaker 1>was saying or did he act like this is just

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<v Speaker 1>normal banter at a restaurant. Now he knew exactly what

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<v Speaker 1>he was saying. When we were leaving the restaurant, he

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<v Speaker 1>turned to me and his attitude completely changed, and he

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<v Speaker 1>made it sound like I had been suffering and I

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<v Speaker 1>was a victim and that everything was absolutely horrible, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know the things I didn't really care was so insignificant.

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<v Speaker 1>It is mine. He must have been standing up for you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I really want him to stand up for me and

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<v Speaker 1>burn down the restaurant we were eating at. Some girls

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<v Speaker 1>would be thankful for that. Some girl be what a man?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes he is as true gentleman. He threatened to burn

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<v Speaker 1>down a restaurant in my honor, So I know it

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<v Speaker 1>was really ridiculous. So I mean, I said good night

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm going to leave at that. That's understandable. I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I want to get out of there as soon

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<v Speaker 1>as possible. Threats of arson on a first date you

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<v Speaker 1>usually I don't want to fact to that as ever, again,

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<v Speaker 1>that's just shame because he's actually on the other line

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<v Speaker 1>listening and wants to talk to you. Are you serious? Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>I am, Hey, Christina, I wasn't angry. I was standing

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<v Speaker 1>up for you. I was standing up for having good

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<v Speaker 1>service at a restaurant. I mean, I worked hard for

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<v Speaker 1>my money, and you know what, the service sucked and

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<v Speaker 1>the food sucked, and there was no paper towels. What

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<v Speaker 1>kind of place doesn't have paper towels. You have to

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<v Speaker 1>wash your hands to go eat, and they don't want

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<v Speaker 1>you to try your hands. I mean, I mean, right,

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<v Speaker 1>you're I mean I'm not gonna not wash my hands.

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<v Speaker 1>If I looked, I saw there was no paper towels,

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<v Speaker 1>and now I'm like, I'm gonna wipe it on my

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<v Speaker 1>pants and I'm gonna walk out its. Look at my

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<v Speaker 1>pants are wet. So I couldn't even impress you with that.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I wasn't angry. I was I was

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<v Speaker 1>being chivalry. I mean, I was defending you. You're having

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<v Speaker 1>to burn the place down. I mean, how how is

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<v Speaker 1>that chival? That's just threatening? Okay, okay, I think I

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<v Speaker 1>shouldn't have said that. That was me getting frustrated because

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, Okay, the paper towels is one thing,

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<v Speaker 1>the wine was another thing, the appetizer is another thing,

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<v Speaker 1>because the deal was another thing. I got so frustrated.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm talking. I stop you guys, stopped talking. I've heard

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<v Speaker 1>this already. I heard you the rest sun I'm hearing

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<v Speaker 1>it again. You're just repeating yourself. You know, if like,

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<v Speaker 1>if you keep focusing on little insignificant things and being

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<v Speaker 1>a rude everybody, Like, I don't know how women can

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<v Speaker 1>stand to go on a day with you. It's no

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<v Speaker 1>wonder you've been divorced twice. Who what whoa whoa Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you just brought up my two divorces, so my ex

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<v Speaker 1>wives I share that with you. Are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's rude, that that's that's that's mean. But

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<v Speaker 1>that's an example. It's two strikes, and the women clearly

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't deal with all of your crap. My crap, my

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<v Speaker 1>crap because I want good customer service, because I'm at

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<v Speaker 1>a restaurant, and I want some customer at the other

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<v Speaker 1>human brain and be respype. That's full about it. You

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<v Speaker 1>were respect with you? Well, I'm like, that's why people

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<v Speaker 1>in the service industry, you don't know if to threaten people.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what. I'm in the sales industry. You know what.

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<v Speaker 1>I take care of customers. They need to take care

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<v Speaker 1>of customers. You should know them. I mean, we're in

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<v Speaker 1>this industry. But I don't even know what to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I stayed in my case. I don't know. In the

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<v Speaker 1>surface industry, sometimes you have to put your foot down

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<v Speaker 1>to get some respect. So I was doing that with

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<v Speaker 1>the waiter in the restaurant, and you know what, I

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<v Speaker 1>think you need to show me a little respect because

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I was defending you. I think so too.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why I'd like to ask Christina, would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to go on a second date with Julian? We will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it. Hell no, no, no, I don't you

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<v Speaker 1>answered so quickly there, You know, if you're going to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to me like that, no way, Julie, are you sure?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I could find you, guys a great restaurant

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<v Speaker 1>that Julian could burn down. I'm gonna pass on that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what, if you want to settle for mediocre service,

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<v Speaker 1>then you don't want to go date some schleck who

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<v Speaker 1>will take you to the drive through. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>go store restaurants where they treat you like a customer.

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<v Speaker 1>We're right, we are supposed to get this stuff. Come on,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, really, you know what, you know what, You've

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<v Speaker 1>pushed the envelope so far. I was fine just knocking

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<v Speaker 1>another date with you, but you know what, I really

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to do business with someone who has FTHX

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<v Speaker 1>like you. Oh oh, now you're taking personal and you're

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<v Speaker 1>putting it in business. Really, I'm going to tell the

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<v Speaker 1>people I work with my company will not be doing

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<v Speaker 1>business that's your company anymore? Are you cheating me? Very

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<v Speaker 1>solid date? You know it wasn't a date. It was

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<v Speaker 1>your attitude that did it. I am done with this conversation. Goodbye. Wow, Julian,

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<v Speaker 1>what just happened? You didn't get a second date? And

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<v Speaker 1>I think you might be losing your job soon too,

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<v Speaker 1>because I want customer service. Well, I think it's because

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<v Speaker 1>you're threatened to burn the place down. Yeah, you're a

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<v Speaker 1>total douche bag about it. I apologize for the burning

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<v Speaker 1>the place I mean that was you know, it was

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<v Speaker 1>one bathing after another and it pushed me beyond. But

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean the rest of the stuff was all

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<v Speaker 1>customer service, slow service, bad food, wrong glasses. I'm yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we know the list. Broken Jewel in the morning texted

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<v Speaker 1>at seven eighty five to nine two says, I like

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<v Speaker 1>how his whole attitude changed when she said she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to do business with him anymore. Talking about today's

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<v Speaker 1>second date update if you missed it, stud Julian wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to call Christina. They actually work together their companies too,

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<v Speaker 1>and he went out with Christina. She said she wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>calling him back because he got a little aggressive the

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<v Speaker 1>whole night. He was very picky about the wine, angry

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<v Speaker 1>that they were out of paper towels in the bathroom,

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<v Speaker 1>which I support him for completely. He even screamed at

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<v Speaker 1>a waiter because he said he paid forty dollars for

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<v Speaker 1>veal veal that he wouldn't feed to his dead grandma.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh gosh, that says a lot, because I made a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of deal in my dead and the thing about

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<v Speaker 1>dead grandma, they don't complain very much. They just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of eat the good anyway. He also threatened to come

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<v Speaker 1>back to the restaurant and burn it to the ground.

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<v Speaker 1>He was so mad. He sounds like a really reasonable guy.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys, real level headed. Yeah, yes, there's no red

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<v Speaker 1>flags there. What's her problem? He claimed that his behavior

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<v Speaker 1>was just defending Christina, saying that she deserved a good

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<v Speaker 1>four style star meal. He was going to burn the

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<v Speaker 1>place down in her honor. I guess anyway, romance written

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<v Speaker 1>right though, I think there's a movie. She said no

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<v Speaker 1>to a second date, and she also said that her

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<v Speaker 1>company won't do business with him anymore. Yeah, it looks

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<v Speaker 1>like that's a company that's about to get burned to

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<v Speaker 1>the ground. So I have some insurance. Remember, if you

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<v Speaker 1>want to do a second date update, just email the show.

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<v Speaker 1>We will call the person who didn't call you back.