1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,120 Speaker 1: Need Leasic trust the experienced team at the Leasic Center 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:06,560 Speaker 1: at Evergreen Eye Center. No glasses, no contacts, no limits. 3 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: What will you do lesi at Evergreen dot com? Rooking jewels? 4 00:00:13,920 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 1: Second dat up day. You know how the old saying goes, 5 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 1: don't dip your wiener in the company penholders saying, don't 6 00:00:23,720 --> 00:00:27,320 Speaker 1: give your wiener to a co worker. Oh, it's in 7 00:00:27,360 --> 00:00:32,879 Speaker 1: the company and the company. Oh ink, I'm the weird one. 8 00:00:32,880 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: I'm saying it wrong. I don't know anyway. Julian is 9 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 1: on the phone today for a second day update. His 10 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 1: email said that he met the girl who he wants 11 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 1: to call today at work. So I'm guessing it's a 12 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 1: co worker or something. Julian, how you doing, I'm good. 13 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 1: How are you guys? Good? So you're trying to dip 14 00:00:47,760 --> 00:00:52,640 Speaker 1: your wiener in the penning, right? Is that what this 15 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:57,480 Speaker 1: is about? No, No, it's not at all. Okay, tell 16 00:00:57,560 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 1: us a little bit about the girl that you want 17 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:01,280 Speaker 1: to call today. She's a co worker. Well, she's not 18 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:05,279 Speaker 1: a coworker. She came in purchasing supplies at the office 19 00:01:05,319 --> 00:01:07,600 Speaker 1: that I work at, so she's kind of a client 20 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:12,720 Speaker 1: co worker. Seal the deal there, So did you ask 21 00:01:12,760 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 1: her out while she came in to deal with Like, No, 22 00:01:15,720 --> 00:01:19,119 Speaker 1: because I think that's unprofessional. Basically, what happened is she 23 00:01:19,200 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 1: came in and she was working with me or I 24 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:25,039 Speaker 1: was working for her, however you want to say it. 25 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 1: I didn't want to cross the line, I guess. And 26 00:01:27,280 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 1: then she ended up coming back because she hadn't got 27 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 1: her parking ticket validated in the lot, and so you 28 00:01:33,920 --> 00:01:38,480 Speaker 1: validated it with your wiener? Oh my god? Right? Or 29 00:01:38,520 --> 00:01:42,000 Speaker 1: am I right? No? No? No, I validated it and 30 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:45,080 Speaker 1: then had a nice conversation with her when I walked 31 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:47,640 Speaker 1: her out to the lot. Okay, well, where's the winner 32 00:01:47,760 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 1: come into this thing? I haven't heard anything about a 33 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:56,480 Speaker 1: wiener yet. No, there was no weiner involved in the validation. Anyways, 34 00:01:56,840 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 1: I asked her if she would like to get dinner 35 00:01:59,320 --> 00:02:02,280 Speaker 1: on Friday, and she said she would, and I got 36 00:02:02,280 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 1: her number and I called her and we went to dinner. 37 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:08,239 Speaker 1: What's her name, by the way, Christina? Christina? And how 38 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 1: was dinner with Christina? Dinner was good. I mean, I 39 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:13,960 Speaker 1: feel like we had a lot of chemistry. And I 40 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:16,959 Speaker 1: like veal, and not everybody likes feal, and she wanted 41 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:19,080 Speaker 1: the veal too, so we ended up ordering the same thing, 42 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:21,280 Speaker 1: which I thought was kind of a cool thing, and 43 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:24,359 Speaker 1: dinner went good. You guys both ordered veal. In other words, 44 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 1: you're both fans of slaughtering baby calves. I like that 45 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:32,720 Speaker 1: about both of you. Seems nice. That's not what I 46 00:02:32,760 --> 00:02:34,720 Speaker 1: think about when I'm eating veal, like the way veal pay, 47 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 1: so I'm not worrying about the process. Oh that's why 48 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 1: I like it. I just I picture the whole things 49 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 1: go on while I'm eating veal. I like it. Now, 50 00:02:42,240 --> 00:02:45,080 Speaker 1: why I like it at all? Actually, you're making me 51 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 1: like it a lot less by giving me that story. 52 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:50,600 Speaker 1: So if dinner went well and everything else, why do 53 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:52,960 Speaker 1: you think she's not calling you back? You know, I 54 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: don't know. I mean there were a couple of things. 55 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,640 Speaker 1: Now I'm trying to run the night through my head, 56 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:00,600 Speaker 1: and like, did I do something wrong? Did I you know, 57 00:03:00,840 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 1: my fly open or my food in my face? Or 58 00:03:03,520 --> 00:03:06,480 Speaker 1: how I ate? Was the fly open? The winer? I 59 00:03:06,560 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 1: knew it. I'm talking to you that you're a winer guy. 60 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 1: I knew it. Yeah, that's you're right. How did you 61 00:03:13,720 --> 00:03:19,640 Speaker 1: figured me out? But realistically, the only things that I 62 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:23,919 Speaker 1: think that could have possibly not gone, Well, I did 63 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:26,800 Speaker 1: have to take a work call, which I don't like 64 00:03:26,919 --> 00:03:28,679 Speaker 1: to have to take work calls if I'm on a date. 65 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:30,640 Speaker 1: But I was expecting a client to call, so I 66 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:32,880 Speaker 1: had to walk away. Did you tell her at the 67 00:03:32,919 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 1: beginning of the night that that was going to happen. 68 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:37,840 Speaker 1: I did not tell her that I was expecting a call, 69 00:03:37,960 --> 00:03:39,640 Speaker 1: But when I got back, I said, this was an 70 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 1: important job call. I had to take it. Did you, 71 00:03:42,280 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 1: I mean, did you leave her stranded by herself for 72 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:45,800 Speaker 1: like a half an hour while you were on some 73 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:49,520 Speaker 1: conference call or something. Well, no, I stayed at the 74 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: table for a minute and then walked away. But it 75 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: was no more than fifteen minutes long, I mean, and 76 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 1: she had an appetizer and some wine, So okay, So 77 00:03:57,720 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 1: it wasn't. I have a hard time thinking that would 78 00:03:59,880 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 1: be the reason not to call you back. If you're like, hey, sorry, 79 00:04:01,720 --> 00:04:04,840 Speaker 1: it's an important work call. Yeah, that's me too. And 80 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: then the only other thing I'll be honest with you. 81 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:09,720 Speaker 1: You know, I'm not going to say the restaurant, but 82 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 1: veal is a particular type of food, and if you 83 00:04:12,760 --> 00:04:15,840 Speaker 1: like veal, you like feel But I thought that it 84 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:19,480 Speaker 1: was okay, and I kind of was like, oh, you know, 85 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 1: how's your veal and she's like, Oh, it's great, blah 86 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:24,479 Speaker 1: blah blah. And I was like, oh, she's asked me, 87 00:04:24,520 --> 00:04:27,920 Speaker 1: and I was like, it's all right, it's okay. And 88 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 1: maybe I don't know, maybe she thought I was being 89 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:35,200 Speaker 1: hypercritical or a snob about the food, but I wasn't. 90 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:37,440 Speaker 1: I just giving my honest opinion. Honestly, I think both 91 00:04:37,440 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 1: of you a red flag for me, Like, obviously, if 92 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 1: a guy's taking a call in the middle of a 93 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: Friday night date, he's going to be putting work in 94 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 1: front of me our entire relationship. Wow, I'm just saying wait, wait, wait. 95 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 1: But first off, you have to understand she's in the 96 00:04:49,720 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 1: same business. She knows that I'm in sale, but she 97 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 1: wasn't taking a call dur in the dinner because she's 98 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:58,120 Speaker 1: a buyer. She's not a feller. She's not as important 99 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 1: as I see. How did she understands that sales There 100 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:04,960 Speaker 1: are the time zones, there's other people, people that are 101 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 1: working at different hours where when you're buying, you're not, 102 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:10,839 Speaker 1: as I don't say, in demand, but sometimes you have 103 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 1: to answer the phone when you're selling because if you 104 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:14,640 Speaker 1: don't lose out of sale. Then you lose out of money, 105 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 1: and then you can't afford the dinner. I think a 106 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:19,480 Speaker 1: red flag. A red flag would be taking your wiener 107 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 1: out at the dinner table, like you said you did earlier. Okay, 108 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:27,359 Speaker 1: for the record, I didn't take out my wiener for 109 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 1: any portion of the date, dinner or after anything. All Right, 110 00:05:31,400 --> 00:05:33,159 Speaker 1: So when we call her and ask why she's not 111 00:05:33,160 --> 00:05:36,359 Speaker 1: calling you back, she's not going to say that. Okay, 112 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:41,119 Speaker 1: how did everything end with her? You know, I kind 113 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: of went in for kiss and I kind of got 114 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:48,839 Speaker 1: more of a handshaped hug kind of thing. But it 115 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:52,520 Speaker 1: was the first date, so was it awkward? I don't 116 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:54,520 Speaker 1: think it was awkward. It was It wasn't like I 117 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:57,719 Speaker 1: was like an inch from her lips and she stuck 118 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:00,479 Speaker 1: her hand to me. It was know, I mean I 119 00:06:00,520 --> 00:06:02,480 Speaker 1: was kind of coming in kind of to like hug 120 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: kiss and she kind of put her hand up a 121 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:07,560 Speaker 1: little bit. So it was it was that's all. She 122 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:11,159 Speaker 1: shut you down. I know, it wasn't a shutdown. It 123 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:13,320 Speaker 1: was just it was just that wasn't a shutdown. Shut 124 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:14,760 Speaker 1: It sounds like a shut down to me. If you 125 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 1: go for a kiss and you get a handshake. Have 126 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:21,120 Speaker 1: you heard anything from her since your date? No? I 127 00:06:21,240 --> 00:06:24,280 Speaker 1: called her once and I've fixed her three times. Okay, 128 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:27,120 Speaker 1: well we'll play a song, come back, call her and 129 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 1: get your second date. Update. All right, okay, great, thank 130 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 1: hang on brooking Jubil. In the morning update, Julian is 131 00:06:36,800 --> 00:06:38,359 Speaker 1: on the phone with us and today he wants to 132 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:41,600 Speaker 1: call a girl named Christina, and Julian claims that he 133 00:06:41,640 --> 00:06:43,520 Speaker 1: wasn't shut down at the end of the date when 134 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:45,359 Speaker 1: he went in for a kiss and she shook his 135 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 1: hand instead. He still says that that wasn't him getting 136 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 1: shut down, but in my definition of beginning shut down, 137 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:55,040 Speaker 1: that is probably the best way to describe it. Listen, 138 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 1: I didn't get shut down. I waited for a kiss. 139 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:01,839 Speaker 1: It was you know, it was a professional date. You know, 140 00:07:01,839 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 1: it was a work thing, so it wasn't appropriate. I understand. 141 00:07:04,880 --> 00:07:06,720 Speaker 1: Let me get shut out either way, I think you 142 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 1: got shut down. Yeah, all right, Well we're gonna get 143 00:07:09,200 --> 00:07:11,400 Speaker 1: her on the phone and see why she's not calling 144 00:07:11,440 --> 00:07:12,680 Speaker 1: you back. Here we go on dollar phone of her 145 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 1: right now. Hello, Hi, can I speak to Christina? Please? Yeah? 146 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:29,320 Speaker 1: This is she Christina? How are you? This is Jewil 147 00:07:29,360 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 1: from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. Who is this 148 00:07:33,680 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 1: Jebil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning, the radio show. Um, okay, 149 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:46,160 Speaker 1: why are you calling me? What is this? I'm calling 150 00:07:46,160 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 1: you because one of our listeners asked if I could 151 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 1: get you on the phone to ask you a few questions. Okay, 152 00:07:54,080 --> 00:07:56,880 Speaker 1: that's really weird. It's a segment we do on our 153 00:07:56,880 --> 00:07:59,160 Speaker 1: show called the Second Date Updates. So you recently went 154 00:07:59,200 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 1: on a date with a dude named Julian. Okay, and 155 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:07,640 Speaker 1: Julian emailed us and said that you haven't been responding 156 00:08:07,640 --> 00:08:10,080 Speaker 1: to any of his text messages or phone calls, so 157 00:08:10,120 --> 00:08:11,720 Speaker 1: he thought maybe we could get you on the phone 158 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:16,119 Speaker 1: and find out why you're not calling Julian back. All right. 159 00:08:17,400 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 1: He told us, you know, you're like a client where 160 00:08:20,120 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 1: he works, and he asked you out and he said, 161 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:23,360 Speaker 1: you guys went out to dinner and had a pretty 162 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 1: fun time. That's what he told you. Yes, good time. 163 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 1: So you didn't have a good time? Um, I wouldn't 164 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:35,520 Speaker 1: call it that. No, Okay, what was wrong with it then? 165 00:08:35,640 --> 00:08:38,199 Speaker 1: Because according to him everything was great. He thought maybe 166 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 1: he seemed like a food snob to you because he 167 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:44,040 Speaker 1: disagreed with you on the veal that you guys ordered. Yeah, 168 00:08:44,040 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 1: he definitely has a very refined palette. That's one way 169 00:08:47,080 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 1: to put it. Okay. He also said that he took 170 00:08:49,920 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 1: a phone call in the middle of the date. Oh yeah, 171 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:56,360 Speaker 1: he did that was it was a little rude, Okay, Yeah, 172 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:58,400 Speaker 1: I could see how that would upset you. I mean, 173 00:08:59,559 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 1: that was even the worst part of the date. What 174 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 1: was the worst part then? Um? I mean he's he's 175 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 1: a very smooth sales guy, but he's kind of got 176 00:09:08,760 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 1: this seething anger underneath all of it. Seeing he was 177 00:09:13,800 --> 00:09:19,720 Speaker 1: seething anger underneath his charismatic salesman personality. I mean, yeah, 178 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:22,480 Speaker 1: that's literally the best adjective I can pick to describe it. 179 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:25,319 Speaker 1: It's easing anger. What happened? Because when you described the 180 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:27,959 Speaker 1: date to us, he didn't say anything about anger or 181 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:31,280 Speaker 1: being pissed off him. It's a very very picky person 182 00:09:31,480 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 1: and a very shallow person and quite rude. Actually what 183 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 1: did he do? I mean, for example, he was super 184 00:09:40,000 --> 00:09:43,280 Speaker 1: picky about the wine. I ordered red wine and it 185 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 1: was brought to me, I guess in a white wine glass, 186 00:09:45,520 --> 00:09:49,240 Speaker 1: and he got extremely upset and he turned it away 187 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: and made them bring it back. Is he one of 188 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:54,000 Speaker 1: those a holes at the restaurant that like acts like 189 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 1: he owns the place when he's somewhere and that nothing's 190 00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 1: good enough for him. Yeah, it's pretty much exactly like. 191 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 1: He went bathroom and when he came back, he was 192 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 1: in a huge hus and he says, you know, there's 193 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:07,679 Speaker 1: no more paper towels in the bathroom. You know, they's 194 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:10,240 Speaker 1: a fancy restaurant and then an establishment, and people should 195 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 1: be refilling the paper towels and going on and on 196 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 1: about this tiny and significant thing that how dare they go? 197 00:10:18,240 --> 00:10:19,920 Speaker 1: It is annoying when they don't have paper towels. I 198 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:21,200 Speaker 1: will say that, but I don't know if I'd ever 199 00:10:21,240 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 1: get that pissed off about it. It's not angry, it's annoying. Yeah, 200 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 1: absolute worst part of the entire night. That paper towels 201 00:10:29,480 --> 00:10:33,080 Speaker 1: thing wasn't even it. I mean, he completely dressed down 202 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 1: the waiter and just disrespected him when we were leaving. 203 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 1: As he's leaving, he says, I paid forty dollars for 204 00:10:39,080 --> 00:10:41,400 Speaker 1: a piece of beer I wouldn't feed to my dead. 205 00:10:41,520 --> 00:10:46,440 Speaker 1: Grandmother says, you're lucky I don't come back and burn 206 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:49,920 Speaker 1: this place down to the round. And I was like, 207 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:52,720 Speaker 1: did I hear you correctly? He threatened to burn the 208 00:10:52,760 --> 00:10:55,720 Speaker 1: place down? He did. He threatened to burn it to 209 00:10:55,760 --> 00:11:00,360 Speaker 1: the ground. He said that to the waiter. I'm a hundreds. 210 00:11:00,600 --> 00:11:03,360 Speaker 1: That was the comment of the night. I've complained the 211 00:11:03,440 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 1: restaurants before, but I've never threatened to burn them down. 212 00:11:06,920 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 1: I would destroy this place. Did he realize what he 213 00:11:10,400 --> 00:11:12,120 Speaker 1: was saying or did he act like this is just 214 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:16,000 Speaker 1: normal banter at a restaurant. Now he knew exactly what 215 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 1: he was saying. When we were leaving the restaurant, he 216 00:11:19,080 --> 00:11:21,960 Speaker 1: turned to me and his attitude completely changed, and he 217 00:11:22,040 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 1: made it sound like I had been suffering and I 218 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 1: was a victim and that everything was absolutely horrible, and 219 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:30,800 Speaker 1: you know the things I didn't really care was so insignificant. 220 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:33,960 Speaker 1: It is mine. He must have been standing up for you. Yeah, 221 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:35,680 Speaker 1: I really want him to stand up for me and 222 00:11:35,679 --> 00:11:38,960 Speaker 1: burn down the restaurant we were eating at. Some girls 223 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:41,560 Speaker 1: would be thankful for that. Some girl be what a man? 224 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 1: Yes he is as true gentleman. He threatened to burn 225 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 1: down a restaurant in my honor, So I know it 226 00:11:48,480 --> 00:11:52,160 Speaker 1: was really ridiculous. So I mean, I said good night 227 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:55,559 Speaker 1: and I'm going to leave at that. That's understandable. I 228 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 1: guess I want to get out of there as soon 229 00:11:56,800 --> 00:11:59,840 Speaker 1: as possible. Threats of arson on a first date you 230 00:12:00,080 --> 00:12:04,959 Speaker 1: usually I don't want to fact to that as ever, again, 231 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:08,000 Speaker 1: that's just shame because he's actually on the other line 232 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:12,800 Speaker 1: listening and wants to talk to you. Are you serious? Yes? 233 00:12:12,880 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 1: I am, Hey, Christina, I wasn't angry. I was standing 234 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:19,680 Speaker 1: up for you. I was standing up for having good 235 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:22,920 Speaker 1: service at a restaurant. I mean, I worked hard for 236 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 1: my money, and you know what, the service sucked and 237 00:12:25,800 --> 00:12:28,400 Speaker 1: the food sucked, and there was no paper towels. What 238 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:31,080 Speaker 1: kind of place doesn't have paper towels. You have to 239 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:32,959 Speaker 1: wash your hands to go eat, and they don't want 240 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:35,600 Speaker 1: you to try your hands. I mean, I mean, right, 241 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 1: you're I mean I'm not gonna not wash my hands. 242 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:39,240 Speaker 1: If I looked, I saw there was no paper towels, 243 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:40,880 Speaker 1: and now I'm like, I'm gonna wipe it on my 244 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:42,679 Speaker 1: pants and I'm gonna walk out its. Look at my 245 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 1: pants are wet. So I couldn't even impress you with that. 246 00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:47,960 Speaker 1: I was like, I wasn't angry. I was I was 247 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:52,000 Speaker 1: being chivalry. I mean, I was defending you. You're having 248 00:12:52,000 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 1: to burn the place down. I mean, how how is 249 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:59,719 Speaker 1: that chival? That's just threatening? Okay, okay, I think I 250 00:13:00,040 --> 00:13:03,120 Speaker 1: shouldn't have said that. That was me getting frustrated because 251 00:13:03,400 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 1: I was like, Okay, the paper towels is one thing, 252 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:08,679 Speaker 1: the wine was another thing, the appetizer is another thing, 253 00:13:08,679 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 1: because the deal was another thing. I got so frustrated. 254 00:13:12,120 --> 00:13:13,960 Speaker 1: I'm talking. I stop you guys, stopped talking. I've heard 255 00:13:14,000 --> 00:13:15,720 Speaker 1: this already. I heard you the rest sun I'm hearing 256 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:19,240 Speaker 1: it again. You're just repeating yourself. You know, if like, 257 00:13:19,320 --> 00:13:23,000 Speaker 1: if you keep focusing on little insignificant things and being 258 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:26,800 Speaker 1: a rude everybody, Like, I don't know how women can 259 00:13:26,880 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 1: stand to go on a day with you. It's no 260 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 1: wonder you've been divorced twice. Who what whoa whoa Wait, 261 00:13:33,960 --> 00:13:36,880 Speaker 1: you just brought up my two divorces, so my ex 262 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 1: wives I share that with you. Are you kidding me? 263 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 1: I mean, that's rude, that that's that's that's mean. But 264 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:46,880 Speaker 1: that's an example. It's two strikes, and the women clearly 265 00:13:46,880 --> 00:13:50,440 Speaker 1: couldn't deal with all of your crap. My crap, my 266 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 1: crap because I want good customer service, because I'm at 267 00:13:52,800 --> 00:13:54,839 Speaker 1: a restaurant, and I want some customer at the other 268 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:58,840 Speaker 1: human brain and be respype. That's full about it. You 269 00:13:58,920 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 1: were respect with you? Well, I'm like, that's why people 270 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 1: in the service industry, you don't know if to threaten people. 271 00:14:07,240 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 1: You know what. I'm in the sales industry. You know what. 272 00:14:09,640 --> 00:14:11,680 Speaker 1: I take care of customers. They need to take care 273 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:13,840 Speaker 1: of customers. You should know them. I mean, we're in 274 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 1: this industry. But I don't even know what to say. 275 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 1: I stayed in my case. I don't know. In the 276 00:14:20,800 --> 00:14:23,040 Speaker 1: surface industry, sometimes you have to put your foot down 277 00:14:23,160 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 1: to get some respect. So I was doing that with 278 00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 1: the waiter in the restaurant, and you know what, I 279 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 1: think you need to show me a little respect because 280 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 1: you know what, I was defending you. I think so too. 281 00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:35,040 Speaker 1: That's why I'd like to ask Christina, would you like 282 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:37,800 Speaker 1: to go on a second date with Julian? We will 283 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:40,120 Speaker 1: pay for it. Hell no, no, no, I don't you 284 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:42,240 Speaker 1: answered so quickly there, You know, if you're going to 285 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 1: talk to me like that, no way, Julie, are you sure? 286 00:14:45,800 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 1: I mean I could find you, guys a great restaurant 287 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:50,840 Speaker 1: that Julian could burn down. I'm gonna pass on that. 288 00:14:52,040 --> 00:14:54,720 Speaker 1: You know what, if you want to settle for mediocre service, 289 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:56,920 Speaker 1: then you don't want to go date some schleck who 290 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 1: will take you to the drive through. I want to 291 00:14:59,200 --> 00:15:03,840 Speaker 1: go store restaurants where they treat you like a customer. 292 00:15:04,160 --> 00:15:06,840 Speaker 1: We're right, we are supposed to get this stuff. Come on, 293 00:15:07,160 --> 00:15:10,200 Speaker 1: I mean, really, you know what, you know what, You've 294 00:15:10,200 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 1: pushed the envelope so far. I was fine just knocking 295 00:15:13,240 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 1: another date with you, but you know what, I really 296 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:17,320 Speaker 1: don't want to do business with someone who has FTHX 297 00:15:17,320 --> 00:15:20,960 Speaker 1: like you. Oh oh, now you're taking personal and you're 298 00:15:20,960 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 1: putting it in business. Really, I'm going to tell the 299 00:15:23,120 --> 00:15:25,120 Speaker 1: people I work with my company will not be doing 300 00:15:25,160 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 1: business that's your company anymore? Are you cheating me? Very 301 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 1: solid date? You know it wasn't a date. It was 302 00:15:32,080 --> 00:15:40,760 Speaker 1: your attitude that did it. I am done with this conversation. Goodbye. Wow, Julian, 303 00:15:42,040 --> 00:15:44,880 Speaker 1: what just happened? You didn't get a second date? And 304 00:15:44,960 --> 00:15:47,200 Speaker 1: I think you might be losing your job soon too, 305 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 1: because I want customer service. Well, I think it's because 306 00:15:53,080 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 1: you're threatened to burn the place down. Yeah, you're a 307 00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:59,440 Speaker 1: total douche bag about it. I apologize for the burning 308 00:15:59,480 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 1: the place I mean that was you know, it was 309 00:16:02,120 --> 00:16:04,440 Speaker 1: one bathing after another and it pushed me beyond. But 310 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:06,000 Speaker 1: but I mean the rest of the stuff was all 311 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 1: customer service, slow service, bad food, wrong glasses. I'm yeah, 312 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:16,560 Speaker 1: we know the list. Broken Jewel in the morning texted 313 00:16:16,600 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 1: at seven eighty five to nine two says, I like 314 00:16:18,360 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 1: how his whole attitude changed when she said she didn't 315 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 1: want to do business with him anymore. Talking about today's 316 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:26,840 Speaker 1: second date update if you missed it, stud Julian wanted 317 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 1: to call Christina. They actually work together their companies too, 318 00:16:31,440 --> 00:16:34,000 Speaker 1: and he went out with Christina. She said she wasn't 319 00:16:34,040 --> 00:16:36,440 Speaker 1: calling him back because he got a little aggressive the 320 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 1: whole night. He was very picky about the wine, angry 321 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:41,480 Speaker 1: that they were out of paper towels in the bathroom, 322 00:16:41,480 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 1: which I support him for completely. He even screamed at 323 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:47,240 Speaker 1: a waiter because he said he paid forty dollars for 324 00:16:47,400 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 1: veal veal that he wouldn't feed to his dead grandma. 325 00:16:50,720 --> 00:16:53,320 Speaker 1: Oh gosh, that says a lot, because I made a 326 00:16:53,360 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 1: lot of deal in my dead and the thing about 327 00:16:55,480 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 1: dead grandma, they don't complain very much. They just kind 328 00:16:57,640 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 1: of eat the good anyway. He also threatened to come 329 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:05,040 Speaker 1: back to the restaurant and burn it to the ground. 330 00:17:05,080 --> 00:17:08,359 Speaker 1: He was so mad. He sounds like a really reasonable guy. 331 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:13,200 Speaker 1: You guys, real level headed. Yeah, yes, there's no red 332 00:17:13,240 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 1: flags there. What's her problem? He claimed that his behavior 333 00:17:15,840 --> 00:17:18,400 Speaker 1: was just defending Christina, saying that she deserved a good 334 00:17:18,400 --> 00:17:20,159 Speaker 1: four style star meal. He was going to burn the 335 00:17:20,200 --> 00:17:24,440 Speaker 1: place down in her honor. I guess anyway, romance written 336 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:27,479 Speaker 1: right though, I think there's a movie. She said no 337 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:30,439 Speaker 1: to a second date, and she also said that her 338 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:33,600 Speaker 1: company won't do business with him anymore. Yeah, it looks 339 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:35,399 Speaker 1: like that's a company that's about to get burned to 340 00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 1: the ground. So I have some insurance. Remember, if you 341 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:41,160 Speaker 1: want to do a second date update, just email the show. 342 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:43,320 Speaker 1: We will call the person who didn't call you back.