WEBVTT - KJ Live - Jerica Williams

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<v Speaker 1>This is kJ Live with Chris Johnson, and Chris is

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<v Speaker 1>having conversations with influencers in the sports world and entertainment

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<v Speaker 1>and astray. Now here's Chris Johnson. You're now tuned in

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<v Speaker 1>to kJ Live. Today's guest on the show is a

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<v Speaker 1>former ball player, current day coach, and was named Associated

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<v Speaker 1>Press and Detroit Free Press Coach of the Year in

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<v Speaker 1>their very first season at Detroit Country Day High School.

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<v Speaker 1>She was recently brought back home to be head coach

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<v Speaker 1>at Wynward High School. Let's welcome in Jericho Williams to

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<v Speaker 1>the show. Jericho. Hello, Hi, thanks for having me. Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for having us in your world, in your zone. I

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate it. I know you're a busy lady to make

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<v Speaker 1>time for something like this, I truly appreciate it. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>We're excited to kind of find out your about your

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<v Speaker 1>journey and can obviously talk about your your president, coaching

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<v Speaker 1>job and when we're but I want to get started

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<v Speaker 1>before we get into all that. I want. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to introduce you to my audience. This is something we

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<v Speaker 1>do here at kJ live. We go back. Um. I

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<v Speaker 1>think people get um some value out of understanding where

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<v Speaker 1>a person has come from to understand who they are now. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>if you don't mind, where were you born in the city,

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<v Speaker 1>like the area, the neighborhood. Yeah, a lot of people

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<v Speaker 1>don't know this, But I was actually born in Albany, Oregon,

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<v Speaker 1>which is a small town. Uh, right outside of Salem,

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<v Speaker 1>so about the hour south of Portland's but like right

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of Oregon and Oregon State. Um Civil

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<v Speaker 1>War countries. Yeah, um, super super super small town. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>We lived there for until I was seven or eight,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we moved to San Diego because my mom

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<v Speaker 1>got accepted into a master's program and my dad it

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<v Speaker 1>was like okay, like here we go. So he went

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<v Speaker 1>ahead and got in a car and went and lived

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<v Speaker 1>in a hotel for three months and then found us

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<v Speaker 1>a house and we moved and they're still living in

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<v Speaker 1>the same neighborhood that we moved to San Diego that

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<v Speaker 1>we originally moved to San Diego back in however or

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it was. So, but I so I grew up

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<v Speaker 1>in San Diego. How WoT I tell peop? What? So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm from um Spring Valley, which is like southeast San Diego. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>what I'd like to say, Like I grew up on

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<v Speaker 1>like the hill above the hood. So like like I

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<v Speaker 1>went to all inner city schools, but like my little

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<v Speaker 1>neighborhood was like kind of the hill above, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>where all the stuff happened. Um, but yeah, that's where

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<v Speaker 1>I'm from. Okay, sounds similar to um, kind of Viewpark

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<v Speaker 1>where I grew up. And then you have South Central

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<v Speaker 1>and Crunch show, like we're right up on the hill,

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<v Speaker 1>but we're like three minutes away from the action. When

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<v Speaker 1>you said Southeast, it reminded me of my boy Jelanie

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<v Speaker 1>McCoy because he used to write that on his shoes.

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<v Speaker 1>He's from San Diego. I think he might be from

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<v Speaker 1>the Southeast area. Is that where like Hoover is And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it's the hood San Diego, Like that's where the hood

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<v Speaker 1>is A yeah, exactly, exactly. So yeah. So so okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so Southeast. Now what did your parents do? You said

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<v Speaker 1>your mom got accepted to masters, so she was, uh

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<v Speaker 1>in academics or what was going on her? And what

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<v Speaker 1>was your dad involved in? So they actually good question.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually both got their masters in psychology. Um. So

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<v Speaker 1>my dad was in uh juvenile delinquency. He got masters

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<v Speaker 1>from San Diego State, and then my mom got her

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<v Speaker 1>masters and then went for her PhD UM in Marriage

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<v Speaker 1>and Family THERAPI. So always tell people, you know, part

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<v Speaker 1>of like my coaching expertise and why I'm so good

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<v Speaker 1>with people, or so I've heard, is because I was

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<v Speaker 1>raised by psychologists. So I mean it was connect with

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<v Speaker 1>people on a different level. But um So, now, my

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<v Speaker 1>mom when she was in her PhD program, she actually

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<v Speaker 1>got into insurance to help. She was a young mom.

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<v Speaker 1>She had me a nineteen UM and so she needed

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<v Speaker 1>to you know, survive and UM, so she took off

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<v Speaker 1>in the insurance world. So now she's the VP of

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<v Speaker 1>Alliance Insurance Group. UM. And my dad he's retired now,

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<v Speaker 1>but he was like in UM like Polinski Center, like

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<v Speaker 1>Foster Homes, like he was the director of all that stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>So he worked with at risk youth UM and helped

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<v Speaker 1>and he really was able to connect with them and

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, he became like a second father and

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<v Speaker 1>to a lot of those people who were in the system. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's retired now, so they like to my mom

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<v Speaker 1>still working, but she's a boss boss. So they go

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<v Speaker 1>out and they got their motorcycle license and they just

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<v Speaker 1>ride up and down the coast of California. So they're

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<v Speaker 1>in their third chapter now, the thought the hook, that's

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<v Speaker 1>what That's where I want to be someday, Chill retired.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me let me ask you this about your dad

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<v Speaker 1>and what he was doing with at risk kids. Were

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<v Speaker 1>you ever like around did he take you to like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, camps or hang out with the kids, and

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<v Speaker 1>if when you did go to those situations, what did

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<v Speaker 1>what did you learn or how did it affect you? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Good question. Uh. He took me to UM the court like.

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<v Speaker 1>He took me to the juvenile center, so I got

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<v Speaker 1>to walk through that. He took me to the court

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<v Speaker 1>when he had to sit UM with his it's UM.

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<v Speaker 1>He took me to UM like where they housed the

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<v Speaker 1>foster kids. And I remember walking through the juvenile center

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like scared, and I remember him telling

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<v Speaker 1>me like, don't be like, don't be afraid. These are

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<v Speaker 1>just people, you know UM. And so I think, and

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<v Speaker 1>my dad is from the hood, you know, like he

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<v Speaker 1>grew up you know, game and all of that and

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<v Speaker 1>found his way. But he really want I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>he really wanted to show me like the two separate

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<v Speaker 1>ways that I could go UM. And so I was

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<v Speaker 1>really able to internalize that, but also see how he

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<v Speaker 1>impacts people and how like let's humanize everybody, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean, Like just because they're in juvenile hall

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<v Speaker 1>or made these decisions doesn't make them less of people.

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<v Speaker 1>And I think that that's what I was able to

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<v Speaker 1>take away, um the most, going with him in those situations. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I had the opportunity to work at a foster home

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<v Speaker 1>in college that was years old somewhere around there. But

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<v Speaker 1>I have to go every weekend, you know, two days.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I worked like four hours a day, UM,

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<v Speaker 1>And it was an amazing experience because once you step

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<v Speaker 1>foot in there, you realize that these kids who look

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<v Speaker 1>like you, your age or you know, and do the

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<v Speaker 1>same things and like the same things you like, or

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<v Speaker 1>a lot less fortunate than you, and you you realize like, dang,

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<v Speaker 1>I got a lot, or I'm blessed or you know

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<v Speaker 1>these things that I consider issues or stuff I'm tripping about.

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<v Speaker 1>Basically I kind of started to change my perspective a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit, and it was it was I would say

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<v Speaker 1>it was a life changing the experience for me. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>That's that's I can see why, Um it shaped you

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<v Speaker 1>and it's affected you, and to come from that stock

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<v Speaker 1>of dealing of dealing with those type of personalities and

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<v Speaker 1>those beings, if you will, that's just that's like special people.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not it's not something that's easy to do. What

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<v Speaker 1>basketball at this time on your radar at all. So

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<v Speaker 1>in a good segue from my dad, So I got

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<v Speaker 1>introduced to basketball. I was always like an athlete. I

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<v Speaker 1>love baseball. Baseball is my first four I was a

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<v Speaker 1>picture on all boys team like so, I was always athletic.

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<v Speaker 1>Um one of my friends when I was in fifth grade,

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<v Speaker 1>she came to me and she was like, hey, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to be the only girl in this free

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<v Speaker 1>throw shooting contest? Will you come with me? I was

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<v Speaker 1>horrible at bosby, no interest in basketball at all. I

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<v Speaker 1>was in fifth grade and I made like two out

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<v Speaker 1>of five, which was enough to advance. And so we

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<v Speaker 1>go to like the regional thing and I made like

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<v Speaker 1>one out of twelve and I didn't like to lose.

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<v Speaker 1>And my dad took me out back and he goes, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>do you want to win this thing? And I was

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah, Like so he lined me up. He was like, look,

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<v Speaker 1>put your foot right here, put your elbow right here,

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<v Speaker 1>and just hold your hand like that when you shoot

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<v Speaker 1>the ball. And I went back in and I made

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<v Speaker 1>eleven out of twelve, and then I went back to school.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, hey, I want to play this, like play

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<v Speaker 1>with the boys at recess. I'm gonna figure it out.

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<v Speaker 1>And then somebody came to the elementary school and was

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<v Speaker 1>handing out flyers to play for the local rec league.

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<v Speaker 1>And I took it home to my parents and they

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<v Speaker 1>tell me. Now, They're like, look, this league costs like

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<v Speaker 1>fifty dollars and for us back then, that was a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of money. But this is what you wanted to do.

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<v Speaker 1>And uh so I went and I signed. They signed

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<v Speaker 1>me up, and I got a really good coach and

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<v Speaker 1>I won like it was like basically all boys, like

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<v Speaker 1>I was one of the only girls, and uh I

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<v Speaker 1>got a really good coach and he really saw something

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<v Speaker 1>in me and was very fundamental, and I won the

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<v Speaker 1>Most Improved Player my first year, and then my second

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<v Speaker 1>year I won m v P over all the boys.

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<v Speaker 1>So they still give me a hard time with that

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<v Speaker 1>now because some of them are in the NFL and

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<v Speaker 1>like these high level athletes. Um So I was like, man,

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<v Speaker 1>but you won m VP that year, you know. So

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<v Speaker 1>that was that was where it all started. But so

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<v Speaker 1>my dad, Um, I think I had a spark in

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<v Speaker 1>me somewhere, but I think my dad taking me outside,

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<v Speaker 1>like hey, do you want to win? That's that's where

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<v Speaker 1>it all started. So it was over the free throw contest.

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<v Speaker 1>And so let me ask you this, if you wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have made eleven out of twelve, would would we even

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<v Speaker 1>know you today? Or would you have took it like

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<v Speaker 1>a completely different career pass softball, I don't know, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>some other track or or something like that. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>good question maybe, But my my gut reaction to you

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<v Speaker 1>was like I wouldn't have not made a leven out

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<v Speaker 1>of twelve just because of the way my dad hadn't

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<v Speaker 1>stilled that mentality in me, you know, like there was

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<v Speaker 1>no way I was gonna miss. Like we're very my

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<v Speaker 1>family's very vision like visionaries, um, and if we want something,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna go get it. And so whether it would

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<v Speaker 1>have been basketball or something else, but there was always

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<v Speaker 1>something about basketball, it felt natural to me, and I

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<v Speaker 1>think that that was just the spark. Do you have

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<v Speaker 1>any favorite players at this time that you looked up

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<v Speaker 1>to or were you just locked in on learning this game.

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<v Speaker 1>Loving this game kind of being local at your spots,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not really tripping on all that. Yeah, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>even know what basketball like. I saw people play it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I had no knowledge of it at all, so

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know who was good who wasn't. I think

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<v Speaker 1>I had heard of Michael Jordan at a point um.

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<v Speaker 1>And then when I really got put on was when

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<v Speaker 1>I think I was like eleven maybe, and my brother

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<v Speaker 1>took me to see Loving Basketball whenever that came out,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, oh, Magic Johnson. Like, so then

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<v Speaker 1>I started to like, Pistol Pete is somebody that I

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<v Speaker 1>did research on, like, so I started to seek stuff out.

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<v Speaker 1>But at the very very beginning, it was literally like,

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<v Speaker 1>should to practice because it's exciting to be here, and

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<v Speaker 1>I want to be a contributor to the team, and

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<v Speaker 1>I want to learn the sport. And then I think

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<v Speaker 1>as I started to fall in love with the game,

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<v Speaker 1>then I started to pay attention and do some intentional

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<v Speaker 1>research on the types of players that were out there.

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<v Speaker 1>But that didn't come until later. I would say, like

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<v Speaker 1>middle like in the middle school, high school is when

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<v Speaker 1>I really started to find people that inspired me in

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<v Speaker 1>the basketball world. Yeah, and so when you got to

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<v Speaker 1>middle school, you knew and you had goals kind of

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<v Speaker 1>set on, Hey, I want to be a Division one

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<v Speaker 1>college basketball player. Or did you have goals outside of

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<v Speaker 1>basketball that you were you were focused on. That's such

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<v Speaker 1>a good question. Uh, I didn't have a desire to.

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<v Speaker 1>I was so focused on the process, which is interesting

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<v Speaker 1>because that's how I coach now. So it's really this

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<v Speaker 1>is really a good conversation that we're having in this

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<v Speaker 1>particular moment um. I was so focused on the process.

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<v Speaker 1>And then when I got to high school, my parents

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<v Speaker 1>would tell me this, that's that's when college became an option.

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<v Speaker 1>So it wasn't like it is now where like the

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<v Speaker 1>w b A was on TV all the time, like

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<v Speaker 1>that's you know, social media, Like we didn't have any

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<v Speaker 1>of that. I have what was in my neighborhood. So

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<v Speaker 1>I would go to the park to the y m

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<v Speaker 1>c A, and I would just play, And that was

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<v Speaker 1>the most exposure that I really had to the game.

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<v Speaker 1>So once I figured out, like, oh, if you're good

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<v Speaker 1>enough you can play basketball, you can continue to play basketball,

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<v Speaker 1>right Like, I didn't learn about getting scholarships and all

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<v Speaker 1>of that until later. Once I figured it out. I

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<v Speaker 1>started to watch college basketball, and I loved Duke like

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<v Speaker 1>I loved Elaine and Beard at Duke like she could

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<v Speaker 1>do it all. And then, um, I got really good,

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<v Speaker 1>like like it started high school. I got really good

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<v Speaker 1>and I worked really hard, and I started to get

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<v Speaker 1>like letters from con and Vanderbilt and Duke, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, okay, this is this is getting interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I remember I went and visited Duke my

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<v Speaker 1>junior year and I didn't like it. Like I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh this is you know, I don't want to do

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<v Speaker 1>this anymore. But I didn't want I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>go to this school. But and this is important, in

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<v Speaker 1>fifth grade, I gave a speech in my fifth grade graduation.

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<v Speaker 1>This is right when I started to like basketball, and

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<v Speaker 1>I had said I'm gonna go to U c l

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<v Speaker 1>A and play basketball. Um, but I forgot that I

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<v Speaker 1>said that. So then what I like, what's going through

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<v Speaker 1>my recruiting process and U c l A ultimately ended

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<v Speaker 1>up being where I landed. My dad reminded me like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>you you sproke this into fruition back when you first

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<v Speaker 1>started playing the game. Um, so to answer your question

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<v Speaker 1>now that that really didn't I was so focused on

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<v Speaker 1>the process, man, that that all that stuff came as like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>like okay, this is this is what we're doing next,

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<v Speaker 1>and so that's kind of how it transpired. That's that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's a very cool breakdown of how because I wondered

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<v Speaker 1>because a lot of times when you aren't even in

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<v Speaker 1>tune with the noise surrounding like rankings and basically your competition,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know who it is, you're not You're just

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<v Speaker 1>locked in on your process and you pushing yourself. I

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<v Speaker 1>used to kind of live that existence a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>with my dad growing up. We were kind of off

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<v Speaker 1>in bell Air, so he kind of had you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he was trying to make an NBA comeback, but he

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<v Speaker 1>so he had workout stuff and we're you know, far away.

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<v Speaker 1>We lived on a private road, so it was hard,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, twenty an hour to get there. So it's

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<v Speaker 1>like I was just on the workout. I was running hills,

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<v Speaker 1>swimming in the pool, riding the bike and not really so.

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<v Speaker 1>But but when I got out and kind of thrown

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<v Speaker 1>to the wolves and kind of got around other people competition,

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't that fear factor that's associated. It wasn't that

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<v Speaker 1>did you experience the same thing I did. I'll never

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<v Speaker 1>forget I was in and uh. Two examples. One, I

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<v Speaker 1>was in eighth grade and they put me in the

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<v Speaker 1>what it was called the Super sixty. It was in

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<v Speaker 1>San Diego, and I was like all these top players

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<v Speaker 1>and my coach at the time was like, we're just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna put you in it. I was like, okay, cool.

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<v Speaker 1>And it was like Kendice Wiggins was in it, Charlie

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<v Speaker 1>Houston was in it, like right, and I'm in eighth grade.

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<v Speaker 1>But to your point, because I had that mentality of like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just hooping, I think there was kind of that

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<v Speaker 1>moment like right when I walked in and I knew

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<v Speaker 1>who they were, but I didn't compare myself to them necessarily,

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<v Speaker 1>like I wasn't working to be better than them. I

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted to be the best version of myself. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I went out there and killed and I'll never get

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<v Speaker 1>like an hour and got buckets like it was. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a fun time. And then the I can't remember

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<v Speaker 1>the other example, I was gonna get but no, so

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<v Speaker 1>I never really felt oh. And then the other one

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<v Speaker 1>was I was playing AU it was like I was

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<v Speaker 1>I was a freshman going into my sophomore year, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was playing up. I was playing with a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of juniors and seniors, and like Yukon was watching, like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, was in the building, Pat, someone was in

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<v Speaker 1>the building. We're playing against this high level team, and

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<v Speaker 1>something happened. I win, I got fout, they got a technical.

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<v Speaker 1>So I got to shoot six free throws in a

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<v Speaker 1>row and I made it all. But it was like

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<v Speaker 1>there was no one on the line. The gym was

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<v Speaker 1>quiet at all of six free throws. That's when I

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<v Speaker 1>that's when I got put on everybody's list. Was that

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<v Speaker 1>that moment. So to answer your question, no, never, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>grateful that I didn't grow up in this generation where

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<v Speaker 1>the competition is like placed in front of you all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. You know what I mean. It's hard to

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<v Speaker 1>just compete against you. It's harder to just compete against yourself. UM,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm grateful that back then, that's that's really what

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I was I was doing. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>was locked in. I was a lot like you when

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<v Speaker 1>you're just locked in with the competition against yourself, or

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<v Speaker 1>that competition, not even the competition, but that that one

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<v Speaker 1>inside of used to like show your dad, or show

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<v Speaker 1>your mom, or prove to your to your your parents. Me,

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<v Speaker 1>it was it was my dad. I wanted to show

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<v Speaker 1>him that, you know, I was ready. I was out

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<v Speaker 1>here doing it because he talked everything up. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>he get me all hype. You know, you got so

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<v Speaker 1>and so tonight. Man, Hey, man, I don't know. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>he's really good. You know, he's just always, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>making it like everybody was better than me. So whenever

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<v Speaker 1>i'd go because he's like, man, they don't know you, man,

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<v Speaker 1>you haven't been on the scene. What you gonna do.

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<v Speaker 1>So he would really psych me up. And I get

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<v Speaker 1>out there and I just try to be an animal.

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<v Speaker 1>I try to get thirty rebounds, twenty five points and

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<v Speaker 1>just and just be absolutely nuts to two more points.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I wanted to segue off into your U

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<v Speaker 1>c L. A experience that albeit the brief one um

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<v Speaker 1>Elena Beard has been on this show. She currently is

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<v Speaker 1>involved with the group that is trying to bring a

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<v Speaker 1>w NBA for franchise to the city of Oakland. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I had her on thirty minutes, and uh, we

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<v Speaker 1>talked about it. So she is a friend of the show.

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<v Speaker 1>It was it was, yeah, I'll send you the link

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<v Speaker 1>to the episode when she was dope, she broke it down.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a quick, quick interview, but she was gracious

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<v Speaker 1>enough to appear on the show. Fox Sports Radio has

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<v Speaker 1>to listen live. The other thing I forgot, but I

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk about u c l A. You wrote

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<v Speaker 1>as a five as in the fifth grade that your

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<v Speaker 1>dream school was u c l A. So when and

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<v Speaker 1>who was recruiting you at the time. Who recruited you

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<v Speaker 1>to go to u c l that First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>Kathy Olivier coach Olivier. So Cathy Olivier, um when she

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<v Speaker 1>you first heard for her from her or when she

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<v Speaker 1>first offered you just described that moment? Was it a

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<v Speaker 1>phone call? Was it in person? When she at your game?

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<v Speaker 1>Described the moment when you first got offered to go

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<v Speaker 1>to u c l A. Yeah, Well, interestingly enough, so

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<v Speaker 1>they didn't come into the picture until late Okay. And

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, I had said I play into the sea,

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<v Speaker 1>that I wanted to go to u c l A.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I forgot, So by the time I was

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<v Speaker 1>being actively recruited by all these people. U c l

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<v Speaker 1>A was not my dream school at that time. So

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<v Speaker 1>like it took my parents bringing it back to my attention. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>it's crazy how powerful seeds are. And you know. Anyways,

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<v Speaker 1>so my coach at the time was like, Jericho, U

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<v Speaker 1>c l A is looking for a point guard. So

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<v Speaker 1>when you go out here, I don't want you to

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<v Speaker 1>look to score. I want you to look to pass.

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<v Speaker 1>I was not a point guard. I was a shooting guard. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>passing me the ball, I'm going to score. Um, But

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, but I listened. Um, this was the last

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<v Speaker 1>tournament of my junior year, going into my senior year,

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<v Speaker 1>so this is the last viewing tournament. They saw me,

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<v Speaker 1>she liked me. They offered me a visit. So I

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<v Speaker 1>came and visited, and as I was leaving, Um, we

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<v Speaker 1>were driving back to San Diego when she called and

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, hey, we want to offer you a

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<v Speaker 1>full scholarship. I'm gonna be honest. When I went to

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<v Speaker 1>the campus, I didn't love it, Like I was what

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<v Speaker 1>was it? What was it? What was it? It wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the campus, it was I didn't connect with the coaches

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff you know, um, and and I was being

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<v Speaker 1>recruited by uh St John's in New York, and I

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<v Speaker 1>connected with those coaches, like so I had a comparison.

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<v Speaker 1>And I wasn't like sold on St. John's or anything,

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<v Speaker 1>but I was like like and people know who go

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<v Speaker 1>through the recruiting process, like when you know, you know

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<v Speaker 1>it's true. And so I didn't feel super connected, but

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<v Speaker 1>I remember my parents feeling so being so excited, like

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<v Speaker 1>like our daughter just got offered to u c l A.

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<v Speaker 1>And like that you know as U c l A,

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's all you gotta say. Um. So I wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>super excited. I'm gonna be honest, But I went through

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<v Speaker 1>the process and we got to the point where I

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to make a decision. And a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>people do not know this story, but it's important for

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<v Speaker 1>people who are being recruited to here, Like we got

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<v Speaker 1>to the point where we're gonna make a decision, and

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<v Speaker 1>my parents really didn't support me. I wanted to go

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<v Speaker 1>to St. John's and my parents didn't support that. They

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<v Speaker 1>wanted me to go to u c l A. And

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<v Speaker 1>I met my press conference and Chris, I'm at the

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<v Speaker 1>podium like with the same I'm like, I'm ready to

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<v Speaker 1>put the St. John's hot I'm going to St. John's.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I look at my mom and I see

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<v Speaker 1>her face and I'm like, U c l A. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just like whatever, um so, but I think that speaks

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<v Speaker 1>to so when I went to U c l A.

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<v Speaker 1>And I might be moving along, um your question. But

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<v Speaker 1>when I went to U c l A. I resented

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<v Speaker 1>being there, you know what I mean, and so it

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<v Speaker 1>was harder for me to work hard like So that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's when it really I struggled, and that's why the

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<v Speaker 1>stint was so short, because I didn't go in there

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<v Speaker 1>with the right mentality. Yeah, so you made a decision

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<v Speaker 1>based on not disappointing your parents. That's that's amazing. It's funny.

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<v Speaker 1>When I had the opportunity to get recruited and choose

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<v Speaker 1>between U c l A. I think it was Washington State,

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<v Speaker 1>Arizona State, Cornell, and I could have been like a

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<v Speaker 1>walk on at Duke. I kind of had that thought

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<v Speaker 1>in my head. I knew my grandparents, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>love my grandmother, love us my dad obviously, you know

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<v Speaker 1>he was the U c l A. Guy. There's a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of pressure that was there associated with that. And

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<v Speaker 1>it's u c l A. So on the girl's side

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<v Speaker 1>of the boys, that doesn't matter. It's u c l

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<v Speaker 1>A one of the just premier spots for college that

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<v Speaker 1>you could ever get the opportunity to go to. So

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<v Speaker 1>I totally get it. I totally understand. But when you're

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<v Speaker 1>not in your heart isn't into something Jericho, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>not gotten. Typically it does not work out. When you

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<v Speaker 1>bounced from u c l A, did you consider going

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<v Speaker 1>to any other programs or who were the programs that

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<v Speaker 1>you're you're considering transferring to. Well, I mean I read

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<v Speaker 1>you back out to St. John's, but you know things

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<v Speaker 1>you know like, well, we don't need your position now

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<v Speaker 1>what ever the case? And me so San Diego State,

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<v Speaker 1>um so, Beth Burns was the coach at Sanego State

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<v Speaker 1>at the time and they were rebuilding. She was in

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<v Speaker 1>like her second or third year, and she had been ed.

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<v Speaker 1>I remember she saw me play when I was in

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<v Speaker 1>the eighth grade or ninth grade, and she had made

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<v Speaker 1>it off like known to me like she so I

0:23:20.160 --> 0:23:23.640
<v Speaker 1>remembered her. So when um we didn't have the transfer

0:23:23.920 --> 0:23:29.480
<v Speaker 1>portal back then, when it became known that I was transferring, um,

0:23:29.520 --> 0:23:32.520
<v Speaker 1>she reached out. She came into a home visit, and

0:23:32.560 --> 0:23:34.720
<v Speaker 1>I'll never forget like she told me the story when

0:23:34.720 --> 0:23:37.199
<v Speaker 1>she saw me play my freshman year, and like she

0:23:37.200 --> 0:23:39.480
<v Speaker 1>could tell me that she knew things about me that

0:23:39.560 --> 0:23:44.000
<v Speaker 1>Cathy Olivier didn't know. So that connection, I was like, Oh,

0:23:44.080 --> 0:23:45.720
<v Speaker 1>this is what I want to play for. This person

0:23:45.800 --> 0:23:48.040
<v Speaker 1>knows me, she knows I'm a shooter, she knows my

0:23:48.119 --> 0:23:52.040
<v Speaker 1>person game, knows your game. You could bring up moves

0:23:52.119 --> 0:23:54.520
<v Speaker 1>you made, remembers you know this, and that that and this.

0:23:54.680 --> 0:23:56.720
<v Speaker 1>I get it all that. So I was like, you

0:23:56.760 --> 0:23:58.760
<v Speaker 1>know what, I don't want to go. I didn't like

0:23:58.880 --> 0:24:02.199
<v Speaker 1>the recruiting process, so I wasn't about to go on

0:24:02.320 --> 0:24:05.200
<v Speaker 1>five more visits or anything like that. So I'm like, look,

0:24:05.800 --> 0:24:08.760
<v Speaker 1>this is close to home to like I wanted to

0:24:08.760 --> 0:24:10.600
<v Speaker 1>go to New York with I'm like, I want to

0:24:10.640 --> 0:24:13.480
<v Speaker 1>be where I feel like I can excel in basketball.

0:24:13.800 --> 0:24:15.679
<v Speaker 1>And so people ask you, Oh, if you have to

0:24:15.680 --> 0:24:18.000
<v Speaker 1>make the decision again, would you do it the same

0:24:18.119 --> 0:24:22.959
<v Speaker 1>life the profound part of Jericho. Yeah, because life wouldn't

0:24:22.960 --> 0:24:26.040
<v Speaker 1>have transpired the way life that's inspired to. But if

0:24:26.040 --> 0:24:28.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm if I'm and follow your heart and all of

0:24:28.320 --> 0:24:33.040
<v Speaker 1>those things. Absolutely, but I've made a basketball decision. If

0:24:33.080 --> 0:24:36.440
<v Speaker 1>I were to have made a life decision, I would

0:24:36.440 --> 0:24:39.840
<v Speaker 1>have stayed at U c l A. You know, Yeah,

0:24:40.000 --> 0:24:41.960
<v Speaker 1>that's a tough decision. I mean, the people don't understand

0:24:41.960 --> 0:24:47.800
<v Speaker 1>what well not people, the general public doesn't understand what

0:24:47.840 --> 0:24:50.439
<v Speaker 1>it's like when you're a student athlete and you have

0:24:50.480 --> 0:24:53.480
<v Speaker 1>a choice, when it's a school that's known for that

0:24:53.520 --> 0:24:56.240
<v Speaker 1>particular sport and it could be known for other things,

0:24:56.280 --> 0:24:57.879
<v Speaker 1>are not known for other things. You could have. Like me,

0:24:58.040 --> 0:25:00.800
<v Speaker 1>Cornell was my life decision. Let me just cut to

0:25:00.840 --> 0:25:02.920
<v Speaker 1>the chase. I was like, I need to make the

0:25:03.040 --> 0:25:07.639
<v Speaker 1>life move. Ivy League this thing and just average like

0:25:07.680 --> 0:25:10.800
<v Speaker 1>a dub a year every year, starting as a freshman.

0:25:10.840 --> 0:25:12.600
<v Speaker 1>You know, I'm coming in, I'm getting all the shots.

0:25:12.880 --> 0:25:15.000
<v Speaker 1>And that's kind of what I was on what I

0:25:15.040 --> 0:25:18.720
<v Speaker 1>was presented with. But ultimately like and then Washington State

0:25:18.800 --> 0:25:21.800
<v Speaker 1>was another scroll seriously considering because of one thing. Coach

0:25:21.880 --> 0:25:25.600
<v Speaker 1>Calvin Sampson. Um. Yeah, he's the head coach in Houston.

0:25:25.680 --> 0:25:29.159
<v Speaker 1>But this guy is a master recruiter. I mean, I

0:25:29.160 --> 0:25:31.880
<v Speaker 1>mean he he was on my horn every day at

0:25:31.880 --> 0:25:34.679
<v Speaker 1>the same time. That's back when they used to hit

0:25:34.720 --> 0:25:36.320
<v Speaker 1>you up all the time. You can have them long

0:25:36.359 --> 0:25:38.800
<v Speaker 1>conversations with coaches. I think it might have been like

0:25:38.880 --> 0:25:40.680
<v Speaker 1>that with you a little bit with some of the stitches,

0:25:40.920 --> 0:25:42.879
<v Speaker 1>but coaches could just hit you up. You be on

0:25:42.920 --> 0:25:45.159
<v Speaker 1>the phone for an hour. Like my stepmother used to

0:25:45.160 --> 0:25:46.840
<v Speaker 1>come in, Hey, Chris, I need the phone. It was like,

0:25:47.280 --> 0:25:49.560
<v Speaker 1>call you coach, let me call you back. But you

0:25:49.600 --> 0:25:51.440
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying, it was those those are really

0:25:51.440 --> 0:25:55.159
<v Speaker 1>good times. Um, you had to you flourished. Did you

0:25:55.359 --> 0:25:57.800
<v Speaker 1>let me ask you this? How would you describe? Now

0:25:57.920 --> 0:25:59.679
<v Speaker 1>you go to San Diego State? How would you describe

0:25:59.720 --> 0:26:02.400
<v Speaker 1>the Beth Burns knows you, she's familiar with your game.

0:26:02.440 --> 0:26:04.919
<v Speaker 1>You're back in the San Diego area. How would you

0:26:04.960 --> 0:26:09.480
<v Speaker 1>describe that experience of San Diego State? Man, it was hard.

0:26:10.040 --> 0:26:13.840
<v Speaker 1>It was hard because it was new. Um, and she

0:26:14.000 --> 0:26:18.959
<v Speaker 1>pushed me like at the time, at the time, I

0:26:19.000 --> 0:26:23.320
<v Speaker 1>didn't understand what it meant to be, like really pushed,

0:26:23.920 --> 0:26:27.000
<v Speaker 1>you know, like with all due respects that Cathy oliviad

0:26:27.080 --> 0:26:28.840
<v Speaker 1>like that wasn't her strength. Like she was more of

0:26:28.880 --> 0:26:32.320
<v Speaker 1>a people person. Coach. Beth Burns was a she was

0:26:32.359 --> 0:26:36.119
<v Speaker 1>a winner like she was mental toughness, like that's it,

0:26:36.320 --> 0:26:39.720
<v Speaker 1>that's what we're here to do. And I wasn't um

0:26:39.760 --> 0:26:43.040
<v Speaker 1>as mentally tough as I thought. But she saw something

0:26:43.080 --> 0:26:45.439
<v Speaker 1>in me that I didn't see him myself yet, and

0:26:45.520 --> 0:26:50.520
<v Speaker 1>so I responded initially, really well, I worked really hard.

0:26:50.680 --> 0:26:54.920
<v Speaker 1>I came back fifteen pounds lighter, um, earned a starting spot,

0:26:55.560 --> 0:26:58.200
<v Speaker 1>like was averaging a double double in the first five games.

0:26:58.720 --> 0:27:02.440
<v Speaker 1>And then then I got bingched And there was really

0:27:02.480 --> 0:27:06.919
<v Speaker 1>no other reason other than like she told me, she

0:27:07.000 --> 0:27:10.199
<v Speaker 1>was like, we just think we for the team. We

0:27:10.280 --> 0:27:12.960
<v Speaker 1>just want you to come off the bench. And I

0:27:13.080 --> 0:27:17.000
<v Speaker 1>was so. I was, however, nineteen twenty years old, and

0:27:17.080 --> 0:27:21.359
<v Speaker 1>I didn't know how to process, how to embrace that

0:27:21.480 --> 0:27:26.600
<v Speaker 1>role after working so hard and earning my spot, right,

0:27:26.640 --> 0:27:29.040
<v Speaker 1>so it felt like it was, well, my hard work

0:27:29.080 --> 0:27:33.080
<v Speaker 1>doesn't pay off like so that didn't. I didn't understand it, um,

0:27:33.119 --> 0:27:35.840
<v Speaker 1>and so I built up some resentment to her, I think,

0:27:36.040 --> 0:27:40.840
<v Speaker 1>and I didn't have the pieces around me at the

0:27:40.920 --> 0:27:45.560
<v Speaker 1>time to bring myself out of that, so I never

0:27:45.640 --> 0:27:51.480
<v Speaker 1>fully recovered UM. And then that's uh, so I it

0:27:51.560 --> 0:27:54.000
<v Speaker 1>took the love out of the game for me, you know,

0:27:54.480 --> 0:27:57.280
<v Speaker 1>And that's that's ultimately why like I made the decisions

0:27:57.320 --> 0:28:00.360
<v Speaker 1>to leave San Diego State early. Um, I I had

0:28:00.359 --> 0:28:03.200
<v Speaker 1>like three more months left in the season, and there

0:28:03.280 --> 0:28:05.239
<v Speaker 1>was just like this breaking point for me that I

0:28:05.240 --> 0:28:09.000
<v Speaker 1>felt like I was totally losing myself. Um, and I

0:28:09.040 --> 0:28:10.679
<v Speaker 1>just didn't love the game. It was hard for me

0:28:10.760 --> 0:28:13.480
<v Speaker 1>to wake up every day knowing that I had to

0:28:13.480 --> 0:28:16.480
<v Speaker 1>go to practice like it was hard. Um. And so

0:28:16.520 --> 0:28:19.280
<v Speaker 1>I made the decision to to not to not do

0:28:19.359 --> 0:28:23.520
<v Speaker 1>it anymore, you know. And that's but then fast forward,

0:28:24.600 --> 0:28:26.400
<v Speaker 1>that's been something I held on too, because I'm like, Damn,

0:28:26.400 --> 0:28:28.480
<v Speaker 1>I was a quitter right like, even though I feel

0:28:28.520 --> 0:28:30.240
<v Speaker 1>like I made the best decision that was right for

0:28:30.280 --> 0:28:33.840
<v Speaker 1>me at the time, I'm like, you quit still, and um,

0:28:33.840 --> 0:28:37.200
<v Speaker 1>I can tell you I've never quit anything again after that.

0:28:37.480 --> 0:28:40.360
<v Speaker 1>But what I did do maybe five years down the line,

0:28:40.360 --> 0:28:42.880
<v Speaker 1>I think I had my son and you know, perspective

0:28:42.960 --> 0:28:45.080
<v Speaker 1>change for me and stuff. And I reached out to

0:28:45.120 --> 0:28:49.280
<v Speaker 1>her and I was like, I asked her, what, like,

0:28:49.440 --> 0:28:52.480
<v Speaker 1>why was she so hard on me? And then I

0:28:52.560 --> 0:28:55.240
<v Speaker 1>thanked her for being hard on me because it prepared

0:28:55.280 --> 0:28:57.719
<v Speaker 1>me so much for life in a way that I

0:28:57.760 --> 0:29:01.080
<v Speaker 1>didn't see back then. Um. But Her response to me

0:29:01.200 --> 0:29:03.320
<v Speaker 1>was like, look, I gave it to you because I

0:29:03.360 --> 0:29:06.160
<v Speaker 1>knew that you can handle it, right, Like my delivery

0:29:06.200 --> 0:29:08.000
<v Speaker 1>may not have been the best, but I knew that

0:29:08.040 --> 0:29:10.880
<v Speaker 1>you can handle it. And I saw something in you

0:29:10.960 --> 0:29:12.840
<v Speaker 1>that you didn't see in yourself, and I wanted to

0:29:12.840 --> 0:29:14.920
<v Speaker 1>bring that out, Like I knew that you could be great,

0:29:14.960 --> 0:29:17.840
<v Speaker 1>and you didn't see it the way that I saw it.

0:29:17.880 --> 0:29:21.720
<v Speaker 1>So we were able to connect and find the value

0:29:21.760 --> 0:29:24.440
<v Speaker 1>in that experience. You know what I mean? That really

0:29:24.480 --> 0:29:28.080
<v Speaker 1>is gonna last me a lot longer than you know,

0:29:28.680 --> 0:29:31.720
<v Speaker 1>any other lesson honestly that I've had in my life. Yeah,

0:29:32.000 --> 0:29:34.840
<v Speaker 1>you hear you hear about. I had to call them

0:29:34.840 --> 0:29:38.479
<v Speaker 1>horror stories between coaches and former players at times, especially

0:29:38.480 --> 0:29:42.720
<v Speaker 1>when there's a falling out, especially when someone is perceived

0:29:42.720 --> 0:29:46.520
<v Speaker 1>too had quit, either the coach or the player. UM

0:29:46.760 --> 0:29:48.680
<v Speaker 1>be able to reconcile that. But I think the key

0:29:48.720 --> 0:29:50.920
<v Speaker 1>thing here and I wanted to ask you about this

0:29:51.120 --> 0:29:53.320
<v Speaker 1>is something you keep saying and I feel like it's

0:29:53.360 --> 0:29:59.160
<v Speaker 1>important in your current role. Um, she you said she

0:29:59.240 --> 0:30:02.680
<v Speaker 1>saw something that you didn't see in yourself. How important

0:30:03.160 --> 0:30:09.720
<v Speaker 1>in coaching is that to identify what which players can

0:30:09.800 --> 0:30:18.040
<v Speaker 1>take it? And which can Yeah, good question. Um, that's

0:30:18.080 --> 0:30:21.440
<v Speaker 1>where I think relationships matter, right, Like, I think that

0:30:21.440 --> 0:30:25.400
<v Speaker 1>that's she didn't She wasn't the best at well, I

0:30:25.400 --> 0:30:29.720
<v Speaker 1>should say, her strength was not connecting on a relational level. Right,

0:30:29.760 --> 0:30:31.560
<v Speaker 1>So she knew how to push you, she knew how

0:30:31.600 --> 0:30:36.120
<v Speaker 1>to trigger you, but there was never a conversation. Go ahead,

0:30:36.120 --> 0:30:37.760
<v Speaker 1>you want to say something. I was gonna say that

0:30:38.480 --> 0:30:40.880
<v Speaker 1>when you have a person that pushes you all time

0:30:40.920 --> 0:30:43.440
<v Speaker 1>but doesn't kind of balance it out with the build

0:30:43.600 --> 0:30:48.240
<v Speaker 1>up before the building, wasn't that describe it? Okay? Correct? Correct?

0:30:48.280 --> 0:30:50.480
<v Speaker 1>And so I think that that's where I found the

0:30:50.520 --> 0:30:52.840
<v Speaker 1>balance of Like Kathy Olivier was really good at that,

0:30:52.880 --> 0:30:55.840
<v Speaker 1>she was really good at the relationship. Beth Burns is

0:30:55.880 --> 0:30:58.880
<v Speaker 1>really good at the like physical mental aspect. And so

0:30:59.000 --> 0:31:00.760
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I learned how to be somewhere in

0:31:00.800 --> 0:31:05.360
<v Speaker 1>the middle, you know, like I have to communicate prior

0:31:05.440 --> 0:31:11.440
<v Speaker 1>to enduring with my student athlete why I'm doing this right.

0:31:11.480 --> 0:31:14.560
<v Speaker 1>And then I also helped them This is where psychologists

0:31:14.560 --> 0:31:18.440
<v Speaker 1>parents come into play. I also help them like almost

0:31:18.440 --> 0:31:21.840
<v Speaker 1>make them feel like they're seeing it for themselves. So

0:31:21.920 --> 0:31:25.360
<v Speaker 1>it's not oh, hey I see this, it's like, hey,

0:31:25.480 --> 0:31:27.960
<v Speaker 1>let's pull back the layers a little bit. Really, what

0:31:28.000 --> 0:31:29.680
<v Speaker 1>do you see that you just don't know that you

0:31:29.960 --> 0:31:32.800
<v Speaker 1>that you have yet but you but it's in you somewhere.

0:31:33.200 --> 0:31:36.680
<v Speaker 1>And so it's almost like this reverse psychology a little bit.

0:31:36.760 --> 0:31:39.360
<v Speaker 1>But when we can but when players know that you care,

0:31:39.880 --> 0:31:42.560
<v Speaker 1>like when I tap in with my players and about

0:31:43.320 --> 0:31:45.120
<v Speaker 1>you know one of my players right now, she's a

0:31:45.240 --> 0:31:47.400
<v Speaker 1>she paints and like no one knew that she paints,

0:31:47.400 --> 0:31:50.600
<v Speaker 1>and she's legit, and so she sends me her paintings

0:31:50.640 --> 0:31:52.680
<v Speaker 1>all the time now and it's a way that we

0:31:52.720 --> 0:31:56.040
<v Speaker 1>can connect. So now when we're on the court, I'm like, yo,

0:31:56.680 --> 0:32:00.560
<v Speaker 1>we're staying here until you make whatever whatever, or hey,

0:32:00.600 --> 0:32:03.840
<v Speaker 1>you're not going hard. She responds better because she knows

0:32:03.920 --> 0:32:06.560
<v Speaker 1>that I care. And so I think that finding that

0:32:06.640 --> 0:32:08.400
<v Speaker 1>and you don't always get it right as a coach,

0:32:08.440 --> 0:32:10.720
<v Speaker 1>but you try, you know what I'm saying. You try.

0:32:10.880 --> 0:32:13.480
<v Speaker 1>My my philosophy has has been I want to be

0:32:13.640 --> 0:32:15.760
<v Speaker 1>to these young women the woman that I didn't have

0:32:15.840 --> 0:32:18.480
<v Speaker 1>growing up. I had a mom, I had a grandma,

0:32:18.840 --> 0:32:20.920
<v Speaker 1>but I didn't have like an older sister. I didn't

0:32:20.920 --> 0:32:23.840
<v Speaker 1>have an auntie. I didn't have a female coach. Um

0:32:23.960 --> 0:32:25.600
<v Speaker 1>that could pour into me in a way that was

0:32:25.640 --> 0:32:28.720
<v Speaker 1>so relatable, And that's what I want to be to

0:32:28.880 --> 0:32:30.880
<v Speaker 1>these young women, like, hey, I see you, and I'm

0:32:30.880 --> 0:32:34.800
<v Speaker 1>not just gonna like just beat you down to try

0:32:34.840 --> 0:32:36.560
<v Speaker 1>to bring you back up. I'm gonna let you know

0:32:37.400 --> 0:32:40.680
<v Speaker 1>what I see, how how we're gonna and how we're

0:32:40.680 --> 0:32:42.240
<v Speaker 1>gonna do this together so that you can be the

0:32:42.280 --> 0:32:46.720
<v Speaker 1>best version of yourself now in down the line. Yeah.

0:32:47.400 --> 0:32:52.920
<v Speaker 1>Ye shoot, hey, I've been like going rest of suicide

0:32:53.040 --> 0:32:56.720
<v Speaker 1>right now. No. No, but the relationship part, I think

0:32:57.960 --> 0:33:02.960
<v Speaker 1>you described it perfectly. When they know you care. Um

0:33:03.440 --> 0:33:07.720
<v Speaker 1>a mentor of mine. Uh, Ed Waters my dad's best friend.

0:33:07.760 --> 0:33:12.440
<v Speaker 1>He's the love him. Yeah. Yeah, he's currently the head

0:33:12.440 --> 0:33:14.440
<v Speaker 1>coach prunch on High. But he um he had said

0:33:14.560 --> 0:33:18.400
<v Speaker 1>up told me something on Twitter where he mentioned something

0:33:18.440 --> 0:33:22.520
<v Speaker 1>about just how love at the core of coaching and

0:33:22.520 --> 0:33:25.400
<v Speaker 1>and and the inner person relationship when you have a mentor,

0:33:25.640 --> 0:33:29.520
<v Speaker 1>if there's love and love presents itself in different shapes,

0:33:29.600 --> 0:33:32.400
<v Speaker 1>forms and fashions. You know, if you have love at

0:33:32.440 --> 0:33:35.400
<v Speaker 1>that core in that relationship with the player, and you

0:33:35.440 --> 0:33:37.480
<v Speaker 1>know it doesn't have to need this intense love, but

0:33:37.520 --> 0:33:41.160
<v Speaker 1>they know, like love, caring is part of love. You

0:33:41.160 --> 0:33:42.720
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. So if they know you care,

0:33:43.720 --> 0:33:46.600
<v Speaker 1>then they're gonna respond even on your bad days, even

0:33:46.640 --> 0:33:49.760
<v Speaker 1>on your worst days, staying on your coaching, I wanted

0:33:49.800 --> 0:33:53.680
<v Speaker 1>to I wanted to segue and discuss some of your

0:33:53.680 --> 0:33:57.560
<v Speaker 1>accolades that you've done. I mean, obviously after San Diego State,

0:33:57.640 --> 0:34:01.840
<v Speaker 1>I can go through your your history Amountain, gil Preston, Wood, Harvard,

0:34:01.880 --> 0:34:04.520
<v Speaker 1>west Lake. But then I really wanted to just hone

0:34:04.560 --> 0:34:07.800
<v Speaker 1>in on Detroit Country Day. I felt like I wanted

0:34:07.840 --> 0:34:10.480
<v Speaker 1>to hear the story about how you got that opportunity

0:34:10.520 --> 0:34:12.759
<v Speaker 1>and just talk a little bit about that incredible two

0:34:12.840 --> 0:34:15.520
<v Speaker 1>year run that you had out there. Yeah, thank you.

0:34:16.000 --> 0:34:20.680
<v Speaker 1>Uh So I was coaching at CALS Northridge and COVID

0:34:20.760 --> 0:34:24.280
<v Speaker 1>HIT and so my son. So I was a single parent,

0:34:24.920 --> 0:34:28.600
<v Speaker 1>UM and when my son he was turning seven, his

0:34:28.680 --> 0:34:32.920
<v Speaker 1>dad is from and lives in Detroit, UM, and we

0:34:32.920 --> 0:34:34.880
<v Speaker 1>were like, you know, his time for him to go

0:34:34.960 --> 0:34:37.799
<v Speaker 1>live there, Like he just needs to be with his dad.

0:34:38.440 --> 0:34:41.400
<v Speaker 1>And uh So he went out there and I couldn't

0:34:41.400 --> 0:34:43.000
<v Speaker 1>get on a plane because COVID HIT and I didn't

0:34:43.000 --> 0:34:46.480
<v Speaker 1>see my son for five months. And yeah, with that,

0:34:46.600 --> 0:34:52.000
<v Speaker 1>the longest you guys had ever been a part easy

0:34:53.200 --> 0:34:55.239
<v Speaker 1>so it looks look look if that brought up So

0:34:55.280 --> 0:35:00.279
<v Speaker 1>that brought out up? Sorry yeah, so um and but four,

0:35:00.360 --> 0:35:02.040
<v Speaker 1>I was like, man, I would never move to Detroit

0:35:02.120 --> 0:35:04.319
<v Speaker 1>until I'm five months five months and I can't see

0:35:04.360 --> 0:35:06.840
<v Speaker 1>my baby. Then I'm you know, So I started to

0:35:06.880 --> 0:35:09.600
<v Speaker 1>look for opportunities because there's nothing in the world more

0:35:09.640 --> 0:35:12.600
<v Speaker 1>important than being near my child for me and for

0:35:12.719 --> 0:35:16.719
<v Speaker 1>him at this point, um and So I looked for opportunities,

0:35:16.719 --> 0:35:18.640
<v Speaker 1>and I knew I was ready to be a head coach.

0:35:19.000 --> 0:35:21.880
<v Speaker 1>It's funny because when I was in he Sun, I

0:35:21.880 --> 0:35:25.000
<v Speaker 1>had said talking about them speaking things into fruition. I said.

0:35:25.000 --> 0:35:26.880
<v Speaker 1>I was like, man, I want to be a head coach.

0:35:27.160 --> 0:35:28.879
<v Speaker 1>My next thing. I want to be a head coach

0:35:28.880 --> 0:35:31.680
<v Speaker 1>at the top private school. And I wasn't looking for it,

0:35:31.800 --> 0:35:34.319
<v Speaker 1>but I planted that seed. So then when it was

0:35:34.320 --> 0:35:37.319
<v Speaker 1>time to when it was time to look for opportunities

0:35:37.320 --> 0:35:40.239
<v Speaker 1>in Detroit, Detroit Country day was open. Um. So I

0:35:40.280 --> 0:35:43.880
<v Speaker 1>reached out. I applied. Um, I went through the process.

0:35:44.120 --> 0:35:46.600
<v Speaker 1>I got it, and you went through the you went

0:35:46.600 --> 0:35:51.160
<v Speaker 1>through the normal, regular, the regular process. No, I'm just curious.

0:35:51.200 --> 0:35:53.440
<v Speaker 1>I'm just curious because a lot of times for those

0:35:53.440 --> 0:35:56.920
<v Speaker 1>type of situations, it's surprising that you would as an outsider,

0:35:57.040 --> 0:36:00.560
<v Speaker 1>so to speak. I mean, you must have really impressed

0:36:00.600 --> 0:36:02.799
<v Speaker 1>the heck out of that administration. That's my point for

0:36:02.880 --> 0:36:05.800
<v Speaker 1>saying all this to come from. You know you're working.

0:36:07.320 --> 0:36:13.560
<v Speaker 1>Talk to me, let me yes, no, you're right. Same

0:36:13.560 --> 0:36:16.600
<v Speaker 1>thing with Windward. I went through the regular process. I

0:36:16.640 --> 0:36:20.200
<v Speaker 1>didn't have an end. I didn't know anybody there. Um

0:36:20.280 --> 0:36:22.239
<v Speaker 1>So a Country Day was that same, and people at

0:36:22.239 --> 0:36:26.480
<v Speaker 1>Country Day say that, Like people at Country Day when

0:36:26.480 --> 0:36:27.640
<v Speaker 1>I was there, they'd be like, how did you get

0:36:27.680 --> 0:36:29.719
<v Speaker 1>the job? And I got a point and they're like, okay, yeah,

0:36:29.760 --> 0:36:31.400
<v Speaker 1>but how did you get it? Like who do you know?

0:36:32.120 --> 0:36:38.520
<v Speaker 1>And day? Like But and I'll say this, Chris, I

0:36:38.600 --> 0:36:42.160
<v Speaker 1>don't apply like a normal person, like when I want

0:36:42.200 --> 0:36:45.640
<v Speaker 1>something like the free throw contest. When I want something,

0:36:45.680 --> 0:36:48.759
<v Speaker 1>I leave no stone unturned, like my focus is here,

0:36:49.160 --> 0:36:53.040
<v Speaker 1>I have no distractions. Um And and so my cover letter,

0:36:53.360 --> 0:36:57.479
<v Speaker 1>my resume, like it stands out like it's gonna stand

0:36:57.480 --> 0:36:59.239
<v Speaker 1>out if it's if it's what I want. And I

0:36:59.280 --> 0:37:01.239
<v Speaker 1>only go after things that I want at this point

0:37:01.239 --> 0:37:06.239
<v Speaker 1>in my life. So I got it. Um So, what

0:37:06.239 --> 0:37:08.160
<v Speaker 1>do you want to know about Country day specifically because

0:37:08.160 --> 0:37:11.319
<v Speaker 1>it was it was it was a good journey. The challenge, Well,

0:37:11.480 --> 0:37:14.240
<v Speaker 1>you followed the well I believe you. You were following

0:37:14.560 --> 0:37:18.279
<v Speaker 1>a person, Frank Orlando, that had won thirteen state championships. Okay,

0:37:18.280 --> 0:37:19.839
<v Speaker 1>they were coming. You were coming off a two win

0:37:19.880 --> 0:37:25.279
<v Speaker 1>season when you got the job. So Frank Orlando, he

0:37:25.360 --> 0:37:29.600
<v Speaker 1>was there for forty years. He was there, he's the

0:37:29.640 --> 0:37:35.960
<v Speaker 1>most winningest coach in Michigan basketball history. Um and he

0:37:36.000 --> 0:37:41.000
<v Speaker 1>had retired and then his assistant coach took over for

0:37:41.120 --> 0:37:43.759
<v Speaker 1>two years, and they had won a total of four

0:37:43.800 --> 0:37:47.440
<v Speaker 1>games in those two years. After that coach had left.

0:37:48.280 --> 0:37:52.120
<v Speaker 1>Um So I was acquiring the team that had won

0:37:52.120 --> 0:37:54.600
<v Speaker 1>a total of four games in two years. And there

0:37:54.600 --> 0:37:59.879
<v Speaker 1>were sophomores at this point. So no, so I had

0:38:00.160 --> 0:38:03.160
<v Speaker 1>one sophomore because everyone else who was on the team

0:38:03.360 --> 0:38:07.359
<v Speaker 1>didn't like basketball, like they were just like whatever. So

0:38:07.440 --> 0:38:12.879
<v Speaker 1>I acquired all freshmen, one sophomore, and one senior who

0:38:13.000 --> 0:38:16.880
<v Speaker 1>had never played. She was just really tall, really long.

0:38:17.480 --> 0:38:19.280
<v Speaker 1>She had been on the team, but she never played.

0:38:20.440 --> 0:38:25.200
<v Speaker 1>Um So, there was no like, let me see who

0:38:25.280 --> 0:38:27.200
<v Speaker 1>I can get in. It was like, look, it was

0:38:27.239 --> 0:38:28.839
<v Speaker 1>my first guy coaching job. I'm like, we're gonna roll

0:38:28.880 --> 0:38:31.000
<v Speaker 1>with what we got, like I'm you know, I'm a coach,

0:38:32.239 --> 0:38:35.839
<v Speaker 1>and uh, they bought I had all freshman, so they

0:38:35.840 --> 0:38:38.719
<v Speaker 1>bought an easy you know what I mean, Like they

0:38:38.840 --> 0:38:43.480
<v Speaker 1>were excited to just be part of something. And um,

0:38:43.520 --> 0:38:47.800
<v Speaker 1>I only had two or three people who had played

0:38:47.800 --> 0:38:53.520
<v Speaker 1>basketball before. Everybody else was like softball, soccer. Um. But

0:38:53.640 --> 0:38:57.880
<v Speaker 1>I had open tryouts and I was very diligent in

0:38:57.960 --> 0:39:02.400
<v Speaker 1>my staff. I was lucky to hire a phenomenal staff. UM,

0:39:02.440 --> 0:39:06.120
<v Speaker 1>but I was very diligent in like I'm hiring the people.

0:39:06.400 --> 0:39:11.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm not hiring, I'm I'm selecting the players did not

0:39:11.120 --> 0:39:13.840
<v Speaker 1>necessarily stand out because of skill, but this showed me

0:39:14.040 --> 0:39:17.640
<v Speaker 1>good character, UM and the intangibles. That was it. That

0:39:17.719 --> 0:39:20.360
<v Speaker 1>was all I was looking for. UM. I said no

0:39:20.520 --> 0:39:22.520
<v Speaker 1>to a couple of players that just had bad attitude,

0:39:22.560 --> 0:39:24.960
<v Speaker 1>but they could hoop a little bit. I said no

0:39:25.120 --> 0:39:29.080
<v Speaker 1>to them. So we rolled with nine UM one senior,

0:39:29.120 --> 0:39:33.480
<v Speaker 1>one sophomore, and the rest were freshmen. And we I

0:39:33.520 --> 0:39:35.960
<v Speaker 1>don't know who wasn't. I know, people were not anticipating

0:39:36.200 --> 0:39:38.600
<v Speaker 1>us to do what we did, but we beat a

0:39:38.640 --> 0:39:41.480
<v Speaker 1>lot of people we weren't supposed to be and we

0:39:41.520 --> 0:39:44.640
<v Speaker 1>went further than anybody thought we were gonna go. So

0:39:44.960 --> 0:39:50.400
<v Speaker 1>then that next year, UM, year two, they were all sophomores,

0:39:50.719 --> 0:39:56.880
<v Speaker 1>one junior, no seniors, UM, some returners, mostly returners obviously,

0:39:56.920 --> 0:39:58.279
<v Speaker 1>and then I think I had like one or two

0:39:58.360 --> 0:40:02.879
<v Speaker 1>new I had three new freshman UM one of them

0:40:02.880 --> 0:40:08.799
<v Speaker 1>that contributed a lot, and we actually lost like we

0:40:08.800 --> 0:40:11.919
<v Speaker 1>were fifty. We were we were at five hundred going

0:40:11.920 --> 0:40:15.759
<v Speaker 1>into the playoffs, and I remember saying to them, I

0:40:15.840 --> 0:40:18.719
<v Speaker 1>was like, in my mind, I'm like, if we if

0:40:18.719 --> 0:40:22.000
<v Speaker 1>we went out, we will have won fifteen total games

0:40:22.040 --> 0:40:24.200
<v Speaker 1>in the year. So I think we had seven. We're

0:40:24.239 --> 0:40:28.680
<v Speaker 1>like seven and seven. It's horrible, totally different experience, same team,

0:40:29.080 --> 0:40:34.120
<v Speaker 1>totally different experience. So that was my thing, is like, well,

0:40:34.160 --> 0:40:37.880
<v Speaker 1>I know it's how we end. I believe what I believe,

0:40:38.400 --> 0:40:41.919
<v Speaker 1>but it's harder to motivate a team that like has

0:40:42.040 --> 0:40:44.640
<v Speaker 1>lost like they had one and then they had then

0:40:44.680 --> 0:40:47.839
<v Speaker 1>they were losing. So I was like, all right, everybody right,

0:40:47.920 --> 0:40:50.799
<v Speaker 1>fifteen on their wrists and no one knew why. Oh

0:40:50.880 --> 0:40:52.480
<v Speaker 1>they were like, coach, what are we doing. I'm like,

0:40:52.600 --> 0:40:54.120
<v Speaker 1>just do it, just do it, just do it, just

0:40:54.160 --> 0:40:56.200
<v Speaker 1>do it. Time went on. Chris. I think it was

0:40:56.239 --> 0:40:57.880
<v Speaker 1>like third game man. I'm like, look, this is what

0:40:57.920 --> 0:41:01.080
<v Speaker 1>the number fifteen means. So we were at like ten

0:41:01.120 --> 0:41:05.320
<v Speaker 1>and seven at that point, and we just kept winning. Um,

0:41:05.360 --> 0:41:07.920
<v Speaker 1>it was we just we just kept winning and we

0:41:08.000 --> 0:41:13.040
<v Speaker 1>ended up with fourteen wins, which you know, so two

0:41:13.080 --> 0:41:19.480
<v Speaker 1>totally different seasons, um, but similar outcomes. So yeah, it's

0:41:19.680 --> 0:41:23.319
<v Speaker 1>I mean two district and regional championships, state semis at

0:41:23.360 --> 0:41:26.520
<v Speaker 1>Michigan State. Uh so you guys played in the Breslin

0:41:26.600 --> 0:41:28.759
<v Speaker 1>Center or the place for Michigan State place. That must

0:41:28.760 --> 0:41:31.440
<v Speaker 1>have been a pretty nice experience to take for the

0:41:31.520 --> 0:41:35.120
<v Speaker 1>young ladies too. They probably didn't expect that to happen

0:41:35.520 --> 0:41:38.440
<v Speaker 1>in there two year especially after the losing seasons. Fox

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0:41:48.200 --> 0:41:52.279
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0:41:52.320 --> 0:41:55.960
<v Speaker 1>you to say goodbye to that team, to those people,

0:41:56.040 --> 0:42:01.279
<v Speaker 1>that community after achieving such like just out of out

0:42:01.280 --> 0:42:04.080
<v Speaker 1>of no unexpected success, how did how hard is it

0:42:04.120 --> 0:42:08.279
<v Speaker 1>to say goodbye to that Well, it's definitely see you later,

0:42:08.680 --> 0:42:13.280
<v Speaker 1>not goodbye. Um, but there was a lot of tears, uh.

0:42:13.400 --> 0:42:16.320
<v Speaker 1>I didn't cry too much, not because I wasn't sad,

0:42:16.960 --> 0:42:19.880
<v Speaker 1>but it was more like numb to the situation because

0:42:21.040 --> 0:42:23.360
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't just them. It wasn't just the Troy Country.

0:42:23.440 --> 0:42:25.640
<v Speaker 1>Day was all my son that I was moving away

0:42:25.640 --> 0:42:28.719
<v Speaker 1>from because he stayed. He's there full time with his dad,

0:42:28.760 --> 0:42:31.520
<v Speaker 1>so I get to see him a lot, but not

0:42:31.719 --> 0:42:34.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm not down the street anymore. Um. So I was

0:42:34.600 --> 0:42:36.640
<v Speaker 1>processing a lot of that. But there were a lot

0:42:36.719 --> 0:42:41.920
<v Speaker 1>of tears. You know. It showed me, um the impact,

0:42:41.960 --> 0:42:43.920
<v Speaker 1>because I know the impact that they had on me.

0:42:44.040 --> 0:42:47.279
<v Speaker 1>But what I didn't realize was the impact I had

0:42:47.280 --> 0:42:50.160
<v Speaker 1>on them, because they were They wrote me letters and

0:42:50.680 --> 0:42:53.240
<v Speaker 1>a lot of things came out that they had never said.

0:42:53.480 --> 0:42:55.320
<v Speaker 1>You know, I think that they anticipated that I'd be

0:42:55.360 --> 0:42:58.480
<v Speaker 1>there at least through their career. Um. But I think

0:42:58.520 --> 0:43:01.600
<v Speaker 1>that the feedback I got from the administrators, a couple

0:43:01.600 --> 0:43:05.600
<v Speaker 1>of administrators cried um, and from the parents, man like,

0:43:05.680 --> 0:43:08.560
<v Speaker 1>just like you you changed our daughter. Uh. And it

0:43:08.640 --> 0:43:10.560
<v Speaker 1>was just like that's what it was about. It had

0:43:10.640 --> 0:43:14.080
<v Speaker 1>nothing to do with basketball, you know. And so for me,

0:43:14.160 --> 0:43:18.400
<v Speaker 1>my my intention when letting them know that I was

0:43:18.440 --> 0:43:21.520
<v Speaker 1>leaving was like I'm always here, Like I'm gonna be

0:43:21.520 --> 0:43:24.719
<v Speaker 1>your coach forever. So like within the last week, I've

0:43:24.760 --> 0:43:28.000
<v Speaker 1>faced times with four of them that are out there,

0:43:28.040 --> 0:43:31.279
<v Speaker 1>because I would be a hypocrite if I say I'm

0:43:31.360 --> 0:43:36.440
<v Speaker 1>a relational coach and I don't maintain relationships with the

0:43:36.480 --> 0:43:39.000
<v Speaker 1>players that I've coached. I have a former player coming

0:43:39.120 --> 0:43:42.080
<v Speaker 1>to interview with me this week. I gave a letter

0:43:42.080 --> 0:43:44.279
<v Speaker 1>of recommendation to one of the players I coached at

0:43:44.320 --> 0:43:49.000
<v Speaker 1>Preston Wood. Like it it's it's a lifetime thing, um,

0:43:49.040 --> 0:43:51.520
<v Speaker 1>And so my job is to continue to pour into them.

0:43:51.600 --> 0:43:54.399
<v Speaker 1>And so I knew there was an opportunity for them

0:43:54.400 --> 0:43:57.160
<v Speaker 1>as young women to grow right. Like, I definitely threw

0:43:57.200 --> 0:43:59.400
<v Speaker 1>them some adversity with me leaving, but I know that

0:43:59.440 --> 0:44:02.400
<v Speaker 1>they're going to be so much better because of it.

0:44:02.440 --> 0:44:05.239
<v Speaker 1>But it was it was an easy and when weard

0:44:05.280 --> 0:44:08.440
<v Speaker 1>made it an easier transition, you know what I'm saying,

0:44:08.520 --> 0:44:12.319
<v Speaker 1>Like to know where I was going, um, definitely made

0:44:12.360 --> 0:44:14.560
<v Speaker 1>it made the blow a little easier. But I know

0:44:14.640 --> 0:44:17.400
<v Speaker 1>that then my girl's back in Detroit and my family's

0:44:17.400 --> 0:44:20.200
<v Speaker 1>back in Detroit felt it. But I was able to

0:44:20.280 --> 0:44:23.120
<v Speaker 1>garner relationships that really, like will last a life time.

0:44:23.160 --> 0:44:25.040
<v Speaker 1>So I was just really excited that I got the

0:44:25.040 --> 0:44:29.960
<v Speaker 1>opportunity to do that. Absolutely, And what type of roster

0:44:30.440 --> 0:44:33.080
<v Speaker 1>or what state of the program is Whenward in as

0:44:33.120 --> 0:44:36.520
<v Speaker 1>you inherit are you are named a head coach? Yeah,

0:44:36.600 --> 0:44:38.680
<v Speaker 1>so when we're so when we went to the Division

0:44:38.680 --> 0:44:43.400
<v Speaker 1>one state championship this year, Um, their former coach is

0:44:43.440 --> 0:44:51.560
<v Speaker 1>the Phoenix Mercury head coach. That yeah, so something different

0:44:51.640 --> 0:44:55.200
<v Speaker 1>than a team with two wins. But you know, I

0:44:55.200 --> 0:45:00.360
<v Speaker 1>think it's one just full transparency. It was valid for

0:45:00.400 --> 0:45:04.680
<v Speaker 1>me that like, oh, you're ready for something of this stature, right,

0:45:04.840 --> 0:45:08.720
<v Speaker 1>Like you're ready for something of this stature, um, because

0:45:08.719 --> 0:45:11.959
<v Speaker 1>the same things apply, right, Like I'm following a coach.

0:45:12.040 --> 0:45:16.120
<v Speaker 1>That's amazing, I've done that before. Um. And I understand

0:45:16.160 --> 0:45:20.080
<v Speaker 1>how to honor the people who came before and the program,

0:45:20.160 --> 0:45:23.000
<v Speaker 1>the legacy that is Winward or the legacy that is

0:45:23.040 --> 0:45:26.359
<v Speaker 1>Detroit Country Day and still understand that it's a new era,

0:45:26.960 --> 0:45:29.359
<v Speaker 1>you know, and be able to contribute to that new era.

0:45:29.480 --> 0:45:33.120
<v Speaker 1>So um, yeah, no, it's it's it's the roster is

0:45:33.600 --> 0:45:36.520
<v Speaker 1>we lost three seniors. Um. But like I tell our

0:45:36.520 --> 0:45:38.800
<v Speaker 1>players now, like, man, it's a clean slate to be honest,

0:45:38.840 --> 0:45:41.520
<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen them play in person once I saw

0:45:41.600 --> 0:45:45.560
<v Speaker 1>him play on you know, on the computer, but I

0:45:45.600 --> 0:45:47.759
<v Speaker 1>haven't seen him in the gym, um, and so it's

0:45:47.760 --> 0:45:50.240
<v Speaker 1>a clean slate for me. So I'm excited to see,

0:45:50.560 --> 0:45:55.879
<v Speaker 1>um what they could do. When you go in your

0:45:56.000 --> 0:46:00.640
<v Speaker 1>one and set the foundation for your program, established the

0:46:00.640 --> 0:46:06.480
<v Speaker 1>culture all that is it something that is there a

0:46:06.520 --> 0:46:09.040
<v Speaker 1>manual you have that you kind of blueprint you take.

0:46:09.080 --> 0:46:12.120
<v Speaker 1>It doesn't matter what your situation is, You're gonna coach

0:46:12.560 --> 0:46:15.200
<v Speaker 1>in that situation the same or do you go by

0:46:15.440 --> 0:46:17.719
<v Speaker 1>sort of you you look at your roster you kind

0:46:17.719 --> 0:46:19.440
<v Speaker 1>of say, okay, well I can rock, I can get out,

0:46:19.480 --> 0:46:21.600
<v Speaker 1>I can get down like this with this crew, but

0:46:21.719 --> 0:46:24.359
<v Speaker 1>this crew may not and I might not be able

0:46:24.360 --> 0:46:26.600
<v Speaker 1>to get down with Or is it just that blueprint? Hey,

0:46:26.880 --> 0:46:28.959
<v Speaker 1>no matter what crew it is, this is what time

0:46:29.000 --> 0:46:30.920
<v Speaker 1>it is, and this is what we how we're doing it.

0:46:32.840 --> 0:46:34.640
<v Speaker 1>Good question. I think it's a little bit of both.

0:46:35.200 --> 0:46:37.200
<v Speaker 1>I think you have to know, you know, one of

0:46:37.200 --> 0:46:39.719
<v Speaker 1>the the first thing that I did when I got

0:46:39.760 --> 0:46:44.680
<v Speaker 1>on campus was conducted with everybody individually, you know, um,

0:46:44.880 --> 0:46:48.600
<v Speaker 1>because while they're you know, and John Wooden is obviously

0:46:48.640 --> 0:46:54.120
<v Speaker 1>someone who I aspire. While there's foundational things that never change. Um,

0:46:54.600 --> 0:46:59.239
<v Speaker 1>I think there is. You have to understand who you're

0:46:59.280 --> 0:47:02.759
<v Speaker 1>in a relationship with to know how to communicate them

0:47:02.840 --> 0:47:05.240
<v Speaker 1>and to with them, and to know how they received

0:47:05.280 --> 0:47:08.279
<v Speaker 1>and process information and stuff like that. Uh. So I

0:47:08.320 --> 0:47:13.480
<v Speaker 1>think that that's a key element, but it doesn't necessarily

0:47:13.560 --> 0:47:16.040
<v Speaker 1>change my approach. I think, if anything else, what I

0:47:16.080 --> 0:47:19.920
<v Speaker 1>saw with Country Day, what I've seen as a player

0:47:20.400 --> 0:47:23.480
<v Speaker 1>and being in different things. Um, I went and visited

0:47:23.560 --> 0:47:28.160
<v Speaker 1>Vanessa and I guard at Phoenix, and it's like basketball

0:47:28.200 --> 0:47:31.920
<v Speaker 1>is basketball, like culture is culture. Like the fundamental stuff

0:47:31.920 --> 0:47:35.000
<v Speaker 1>does not change. And so I have to be true

0:47:35.040 --> 0:47:37.720
<v Speaker 1>to to who I am in my beliefs, like I can't.

0:47:38.560 --> 0:47:41.800
<v Speaker 1>You know, I have to be the leader of of it. Um.

0:47:41.840 --> 0:47:47.759
<v Speaker 1>And they're they're going to buy in to how I lead,

0:47:47.960 --> 0:47:50.560
<v Speaker 1>but understand too like I'm learning from them just as

0:47:50.640 --> 0:47:52.799
<v Speaker 1>much as they're learning from me. So in that way,

0:47:52.800 --> 0:47:56.040
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna be able to build it together. Um. But

0:47:56.120 --> 0:47:59.120
<v Speaker 1>I definitely do not take my responsibility of leading the ship,

0:47:59.640 --> 0:48:03.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, I take that very seriously. So, uh, everyone

0:48:03.640 --> 0:48:09.839
<v Speaker 1>will adapt, but we'll all learn and grow together. What

0:48:09.840 --> 0:48:13.839
<v Speaker 1>do you think is the single most important thing for

0:48:13.880 --> 0:48:16.560
<v Speaker 1>you as a coach, as a leader of young women

0:48:16.880 --> 0:48:22.359
<v Speaker 1>for them to leave your program with as far as character, uh,

0:48:22.480 --> 0:48:24.480
<v Speaker 1>is it something on the court? Is it something I could?

0:48:24.680 --> 0:48:27.600
<v Speaker 1>I mean, what like what are your like you know,

0:48:28.160 --> 0:48:32.160
<v Speaker 1>pennants of you that Jerick Williams experienced as a coach.

0:48:34.160 --> 0:48:38.399
<v Speaker 1>I did this practice uh with them the other day.

0:48:38.880 --> 0:48:43.040
<v Speaker 1>I told we talked about liabilities and assets and you know,

0:48:43.320 --> 0:48:45.440
<v Speaker 1>most of the kids that age don't know, so it's

0:48:45.440 --> 0:48:48.360
<v Speaker 1>a good opportunity teach them about actual liabilities and assets

0:48:48.360 --> 0:48:52.680
<v Speaker 1>in terms of you know, finances. Um. But I asked him,

0:48:52.680 --> 0:48:54.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, how are you a liability to you to

0:48:54.960 --> 0:48:58.680
<v Speaker 1>your team? Right? Um? And so many of them gave

0:48:58.760 --> 0:49:03.880
<v Speaker 1>answers that were intent double communication, um, not believing in

0:49:03.920 --> 0:49:06.200
<v Speaker 1>each other, things like that. And it was such a

0:49:06.200 --> 0:49:08.520
<v Speaker 1>good question because I had to answer the question for

0:49:08.600 --> 0:49:12.680
<v Speaker 1>myself too. Um. So what I want people to leave

0:49:12.760 --> 0:49:16.080
<v Speaker 1>with is like being a high character, but being an

0:49:16.120 --> 0:49:22.480
<v Speaker 1>asset minded right, Like being a contributor in your life

0:49:22.760 --> 0:49:26.319
<v Speaker 1>to society, to your family, to your team. And so

0:49:26.360 --> 0:49:28.239
<v Speaker 1>I think that there's so many things that fall under

0:49:28.280 --> 0:49:31.040
<v Speaker 1>the umbrella of being an asset because it requires that

0:49:31.160 --> 0:49:34.280
<v Speaker 1>you give and that you add, you continue to add

0:49:34.400 --> 0:49:37.520
<v Speaker 1>value to whatever it is that you're doing. And because

0:49:37.560 --> 0:49:40.440
<v Speaker 1>that can take so many different forms, is you evolve

0:49:40.520 --> 0:49:43.360
<v Speaker 1>in life. I think that if you maintain or have

0:49:43.560 --> 0:49:47.720
<v Speaker 1>the tools to be asset minded and take that into

0:49:47.719 --> 0:49:51.200
<v Speaker 1>whatever situation or circumstance that you're in, you're going to

0:49:51.320 --> 0:49:54.920
<v Speaker 1>be successful in whatever form that may take. You know,

0:49:55.080 --> 0:49:58.239
<v Speaker 1>And so I pray that my kids are all high

0:49:58.320 --> 0:50:02.320
<v Speaker 1>character individuals that leave with high levels of confidence no

0:50:02.400 --> 0:50:08.400
<v Speaker 1>one that they're gonna be high level contributors to the world. Amazing. Um,

0:50:09.520 --> 0:50:13.560
<v Speaker 1>I listening to you at a real coach successful in

0:50:13.640 --> 0:50:16.880
<v Speaker 1>all levels. I I kinda have been doing some self

0:50:17.280 --> 0:50:20.000
<v Speaker 1>introspection and understand and I kind of started to figure

0:50:20.000 --> 0:50:21.920
<v Speaker 1>out where I went wrong as a coach. I used

0:50:21.920 --> 0:50:23.840
<v Speaker 1>to coach a lot on the E Y d N.

0:50:23.920 --> 0:50:28.520
<v Speaker 1>I've coached high school, but everything you've talked about today

0:50:29.440 --> 0:50:33.080
<v Speaker 1>has kind of opened my eyes to like, how to

0:50:33.280 --> 0:50:36.520
<v Speaker 1>deal with the relationship part of basketball is so important.

0:50:36.520 --> 0:50:38.879
<v Speaker 1>I think we when you come from a certain era,

0:50:39.640 --> 0:50:42.200
<v Speaker 1>the only thing that mattered was the result part of it.

0:50:42.640 --> 0:50:46.400
<v Speaker 1>And however you get to that result, Uh, it didn't

0:50:46.400 --> 0:50:48.680
<v Speaker 1>matter how many stories you told, you stepped on, or

0:50:48.719 --> 0:50:51.160
<v Speaker 1>if that person liked you or not. And and it

0:50:51.239 --> 0:50:53.560
<v Speaker 1>doesn't matter if it's not about like and it's about

0:50:53.960 --> 0:50:56.640
<v Speaker 1>I realized, like, you know, people have coached me it's

0:50:56.680 --> 0:50:59.840
<v Speaker 1>sort of rough kind of fashions, and so you know what,

0:51:00.040 --> 0:51:03.760
<v Speaker 1>you get coached a rough fashion, you in turn coach

0:51:03.840 --> 0:51:06.200
<v Speaker 1>others in a rough fashion, and you don't keep in

0:51:06.239 --> 0:51:10.040
<v Speaker 1>mind like this generation isn't that same generation. So I'm

0:51:10.040 --> 0:51:14.120
<v Speaker 1>sorry for that little little sidebar there, but it's just

0:51:14.600 --> 0:51:17.040
<v Speaker 1>it's just so, it's just it's just such a revelation

0:51:17.120 --> 0:51:22.479
<v Speaker 1>listening to you. Uh. I have to discuss something else

0:51:22.640 --> 0:51:25.839
<v Speaker 1>because in doing my research for this interview, I saw

0:51:25.920 --> 0:51:28.239
<v Speaker 1>that you were named the San Diego Businesswoman of the

0:51:28.280 --> 0:51:31.080
<v Speaker 1>Year in two thousand and seventeen, and this is something

0:51:31.120 --> 0:51:33.840
<v Speaker 1>that is extremely impressive that I looked a little deeper

0:51:33.880 --> 0:51:35.680
<v Speaker 1>and you have a consulting firm that you've had some

0:51:35.760 --> 0:51:39.240
<v Speaker 1>two thousand thirteen that specializes in biz dev marketing, branding,

0:51:39.560 --> 0:51:43.319
<v Speaker 1>and public relations. And then my first real interaction with you,

0:51:43.360 --> 0:51:46.680
<v Speaker 1>and I hope you don't mind me sharing this, Um,

0:51:46.719 --> 0:51:49.120
<v Speaker 1>my first real interaction with Jericho was not on the

0:51:49.160 --> 0:51:52.720
<v Speaker 1>basketball floor. I don't think it was for my father.

0:51:52.880 --> 0:51:57.720
<v Speaker 1>Marcus is Jersey retirement the Milwaukee Bucks retired as Jersey.

0:51:57.800 --> 0:52:02.120
<v Speaker 1>Jericho was the point person, the lead of everything, so

0:52:02.200 --> 0:52:03.759
<v Speaker 1>we had anything that was going down, We had the

0:52:03.800 --> 0:52:06.799
<v Speaker 1>hollywand Jericho, so we you know, we're getting flown to Milwaukee.

0:52:06.880 --> 0:52:09.359
<v Speaker 1>We're here, We're there at dinners, were at the Jersey time.

0:52:09.560 --> 0:52:12.640
<v Speaker 1>It was. It was one of the most amazing moments

0:52:12.800 --> 0:52:16.200
<v Speaker 1>of my life. Thank you for all your hard work

0:52:16.280 --> 0:52:17.840
<v Speaker 1>on that. I don't think I don't think you know

0:52:17.960 --> 0:52:20.319
<v Speaker 1>your job and what you do. Obviously not that you

0:52:20.360 --> 0:52:22.880
<v Speaker 1>describe it, but it's a thankless job at times, and

0:52:22.920 --> 0:52:25.840
<v Speaker 1>so you know, but thank you for that. But but

0:52:25.880 --> 0:52:29.200
<v Speaker 1>I'd love for you just to talk about Um Jace

0:52:29.560 --> 0:52:33.839
<v Speaker 1>consulting and you know what the impetus for it was,

0:52:34.040 --> 0:52:36.120
<v Speaker 1>and it just kind of how it's gone for you

0:52:36.160 --> 0:52:39.480
<v Speaker 1>and how you use that if you have it all

0:52:39.560 --> 0:52:45.880
<v Speaker 1>in the coaching room. Yeah, great question. I appreciate the research. Um,

0:52:45.920 --> 0:52:51.560
<v Speaker 1>it was an honor helping coordinate your dad's Jersey retirement. Sure,

0:52:51.680 --> 0:52:54.680
<v Speaker 1>it was a pure honor. I was amazing. UM got

0:52:54.719 --> 0:52:58.920
<v Speaker 1>really good feedback. But UM, the fact that he just

0:53:00.480 --> 0:53:05.560
<v Speaker 1>enjoyed that night, enjoyed my weekend, like and it seems smooth,

0:53:05.719 --> 0:53:12.279
<v Speaker 1>like it seems like it went well smooth. Um. No,

0:53:12.520 --> 0:53:19.800
<v Speaker 1>So Jayson is my nickname, it's my family nickname. Um.

0:53:19.960 --> 0:53:21.960
<v Speaker 1>Public relations is something that I didn't even know was

0:53:22.000 --> 0:53:26.160
<v Speaker 1>a thing. I found a passion back however, long ago

0:53:27.000 --> 0:53:28.640
<v Speaker 1>when my son was born. So I was a single

0:53:28.680 --> 0:53:33.600
<v Speaker 1>mom and UM like like single mom, you know, like

0:53:35.000 --> 0:53:40.879
<v Speaker 1>single mom, and I needed uh flexibility uh for my son.

0:53:41.000 --> 0:53:45.960
<v Speaker 1>But while that was happening, UM, I had fell into

0:53:46.040 --> 0:53:51.000
<v Speaker 1>a couple of opportunities, like to organize events and things

0:53:51.000 --> 0:53:53.680
<v Speaker 1>of that nature. And I realized that I really had

0:53:53.719 --> 0:53:58.560
<v Speaker 1>a knack for connecting people. That turned into connecting like

0:53:58.680 --> 0:54:01.440
<v Speaker 1>businesses and brands and stuff like that. And then because

0:54:01.480 --> 0:54:04.760
<v Speaker 1>I spoke the athlete language, it just kind of turned

0:54:04.760 --> 0:54:11.520
<v Speaker 1>into this like branding, marketing, strategic partnership or deal. Uh.

0:54:11.680 --> 0:54:14.840
<v Speaker 1>And I already had so many existing relationships that made

0:54:15.000 --> 0:54:19.040
<v Speaker 1>that situation kind of happened organically. So like when I

0:54:19.080 --> 0:54:21.839
<v Speaker 1>was coaching at Preston Wood that's where Julius random Win

0:54:23.080 --> 0:54:27.680
<v Speaker 1>um they had her. I was working at like Northwestern Mutual.

0:54:27.920 --> 0:54:30.480
<v Speaker 1>But I'm not a nine to five person. I'm gonna

0:54:30.600 --> 0:54:34.880
<v Speaker 1>be honest, like not a nine person. And uh, I

0:54:34.880 --> 0:54:37.240
<v Speaker 1>was like, hey, I came up with all these ideas

0:54:37.280 --> 0:54:39.879
<v Speaker 1>to help this organization do things. And I'm like, man,

0:54:39.960 --> 0:54:41.880
<v Speaker 1>I could do this on my I could do this

0:54:42.000 --> 0:54:44.000
<v Speaker 1>on my own. I could make a lot more money

0:54:44.040 --> 0:54:46.279
<v Speaker 1>doing this if I put my attention into this. And

0:54:46.320 --> 0:54:48.960
<v Speaker 1>so I walked into my boss's office and I quit like.

0:54:49.360 --> 0:54:53.880
<v Speaker 1>I was like, hey, Chris, because I was in there,

0:54:53.920 --> 0:54:56.360
<v Speaker 1>I was probably making I was young. I was like,

0:54:57.040 --> 0:55:00.400
<v Speaker 1>I was probably making fifteen dollars an hour. I was

0:55:00.440 --> 0:55:02.680
<v Speaker 1>there for eight hours a day, not counting when I

0:55:02.880 --> 0:55:05.480
<v Speaker 1>take my son to daycare, pick him up, lunch, whatever.

0:55:06.080 --> 0:55:09.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, for fifteen dollars an hour, I could find

0:55:09.239 --> 0:55:13.319
<v Speaker 1>that in the couch. That's how I felt. And I

0:55:13.360 --> 0:55:15.440
<v Speaker 1>wasn't doing something that I loved. And you know this,

0:55:15.600 --> 0:55:17.520
<v Speaker 1>you're not gonna you're not gonna work hard if you

0:55:17.560 --> 0:55:19.359
<v Speaker 1>don't love what you know. It's tough. It's hard. It's

0:55:19.400 --> 0:55:21.560
<v Speaker 1>hard to do that. It's hard. So I was like,

0:55:21.600 --> 0:55:23.160
<v Speaker 1>you know what, I could do it. So I went

0:55:23.200 --> 0:55:26.480
<v Speaker 1>in there. I'm like, I'm out, and I want to

0:55:26.480 --> 0:55:31.240
<v Speaker 1>say that. Next week, Julius Randall's um like point person

0:55:31.400 --> 0:55:34.560
<v Speaker 1>was like, hey, he needs a publicist. And I heard that,

0:55:34.800 --> 0:55:37.239
<v Speaker 1>you know, you're kind of good at this whatever, and

0:55:37.280 --> 0:55:38.920
<v Speaker 1>I was like, yeah, and they're like, do you want

0:55:38.920 --> 0:55:41.319
<v Speaker 1>to be as publicists? And I was like for show.

0:55:41.360 --> 0:55:43.279
<v Speaker 1>So he was a senior in Kentucky at the time

0:55:43.680 --> 0:55:45.799
<v Speaker 1>and it hadn't been announced yet that he was going

0:55:45.880 --> 0:55:49.440
<v Speaker 1>to enter the draft. So long story short, I had

0:55:49.480 --> 0:55:52.480
<v Speaker 1>Julius Randall as the seventh pick of the Los Angeles

0:55:52.600 --> 0:55:58.000
<v Speaker 1>Lakers as my first like theme yeah, um, and so

0:55:58.040 --> 0:55:59.759
<v Speaker 1>I kind of just got thrown into the fire, but

0:55:59.800 --> 0:56:02.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm made a business out of it. Uh. And so

0:56:02.880 --> 0:56:06.080
<v Speaker 1>fast forward, my son was getting a little bit older,

0:56:06.120 --> 0:56:12.759
<v Speaker 1>and I was like Jay's had I was going Nina.

0:56:12.960 --> 0:56:15.319
<v Speaker 1>I was like going to all these places, but I

0:56:15.360 --> 0:56:18.840
<v Speaker 1>wasn't home enough and I was ready to kind of

0:56:18.840 --> 0:56:21.719
<v Speaker 1>settle down. And so that was like in the midst

0:56:21.719 --> 0:56:23.040
<v Speaker 1>of all that is when I got business Woman of

0:56:23.080 --> 0:56:25.000
<v Speaker 1>the Year because I was everywhere like I was getting

0:56:25.040 --> 0:56:29.400
<v Speaker 1>there was behind the scenes, like to your point, no

0:56:29.440 --> 0:56:31.640
<v Speaker 1>one would know that I was. Then I helped coordinate

0:56:31.680 --> 0:56:35.120
<v Speaker 1>that Jersey retirement, like nobody would know that, but I was.

0:56:35.200 --> 0:56:37.040
<v Speaker 1>I found myself in a lot of different places, but

0:56:37.040 --> 0:56:38.600
<v Speaker 1>I was away from my kids, so I was like,

0:56:38.680 --> 0:56:41.120
<v Speaker 1>let me find something. What can I see myself doing

0:56:41.120 --> 0:56:43.520
<v Speaker 1>for the rest of my life. That also allows me

0:56:43.560 --> 0:56:46.160
<v Speaker 1>to be, you know, just more present with my son.

0:56:46.920 --> 0:56:50.959
<v Speaker 1>And um, I'm like, let's do basketball, like, let's jump

0:56:50.960 --> 0:56:53.040
<v Speaker 1>into it full flesh. Because even in Preston Wood, I

0:56:53.160 --> 0:56:55.799
<v Speaker 1>was it was part time right like, it wasn't a

0:56:55.840 --> 0:56:58.640
<v Speaker 1>full time thing. And so I put some fillers out there,

0:56:59.320 --> 0:57:03.399
<v Speaker 1>um and and it landed. And so but I knew

0:57:03.440 --> 0:57:05.560
<v Speaker 1>that like to be the coach that I wanted to be,

0:57:05.840 --> 0:57:09.480
<v Speaker 1>I couldn't equally give a hundred percent to my you know,

0:57:09.600 --> 0:57:14.440
<v Speaker 1>consulting business, pr business and coach in the way that

0:57:14.520 --> 0:57:17.080
<v Speaker 1>I that I wanted to do it. Um. So now

0:57:17.120 --> 0:57:19.760
<v Speaker 1>that that's why I've moved into more of a consultancy

0:57:20.520 --> 0:57:24.080
<v Speaker 1>where I still know how to connect people very efficiently.

0:57:24.560 --> 0:57:27.120
<v Speaker 1>Like I still know what used to take me a

0:57:27.120 --> 0:57:28.919
<v Speaker 1>long time to do, I can do it really quick.

0:57:29.600 --> 0:57:33.160
<v Speaker 1>So it's not something that um, I really even market

0:57:33.160 --> 0:57:35.640
<v Speaker 1>now like it's it's more so just word of mouth

0:57:35.760 --> 0:57:40.720
<v Speaker 1>because I really give a lot, if not everything in

0:57:40.840 --> 0:57:45.600
<v Speaker 1>my day to coaching to coaching my team. So I

0:57:45.680 --> 0:57:48.000
<v Speaker 1>hope that answers your question. Yeah, that does. I just

0:57:48.040 --> 0:57:52.080
<v Speaker 1>wanted to get some background. I mean, to be recognized

0:57:52.120 --> 0:57:54.560
<v Speaker 1>as you have and received some of the accoletes. It's

0:57:54.560 --> 0:58:00.000
<v Speaker 1>always nice to hear about the grind and how people started. Um,

0:58:00.080 --> 0:58:03.160
<v Speaker 1>I didn't have any idea that Julish Randall was your client.

0:58:03.240 --> 0:58:06.240
<v Speaker 1>That's something that was revelation right here on this show

0:58:06.320 --> 0:58:09.840
<v Speaker 1>kJ Live. You heard it first. Uh No, but no,

0:58:09.920 --> 0:58:14.960
<v Speaker 1>it's awesome, Jericho, No listen. I wanted to just wish

0:58:15.000 --> 0:58:18.760
<v Speaker 1>you the best at Winward and your next journey. UM.

0:58:19.080 --> 0:58:23.280
<v Speaker 1>I have no doubt given your experiences that it's gonna

0:58:23.280 --> 0:58:26.560
<v Speaker 1>be an amazing one and a highly successful one. You

0:58:26.880 --> 0:58:29.800
<v Speaker 1>possess a lot of the skills and qualities that we've

0:58:29.800 --> 0:58:31.400
<v Speaker 1>seen in a lot of the great coaches, and I

0:58:31.440 --> 0:58:33.840
<v Speaker 1>think that thank you you with your personal twist on

0:58:33.920 --> 0:58:36.120
<v Speaker 1>it too. As far as who you are coming up

0:58:36.120 --> 0:58:38.560
<v Speaker 1>in this, you know your generation and who you just

0:58:38.720 --> 0:58:41.920
<v Speaker 1>turned out to be as experiences typically make us, it's

0:58:41.960 --> 0:58:44.439
<v Speaker 1>it's it's it's right that sounds. I think it's gonna

0:58:44.440 --> 0:58:47.560
<v Speaker 1>be a really good opportunity. Thank you so much for

0:58:47.640 --> 0:58:49.600
<v Speaker 1>coming on kJ Live. Do you want to give any

0:58:49.640 --> 0:58:53.000
<v Speaker 1>shout outs before you go? Um? Well, first of all,

0:58:53.760 --> 0:58:58.120
<v Speaker 1>kJ thank you. UM you guys have been like family

0:58:58.560 --> 0:59:01.360
<v Speaker 1>to me, even if it's from a disc And UM,

0:59:01.400 --> 0:59:04.200
<v Speaker 1>I rock with Johnson's at a high level. So I

0:59:04.240 --> 0:59:07.480
<v Speaker 1>appreciate you reaching out and just honored to be on

0:59:07.480 --> 0:59:10.160
<v Speaker 1>the show and congratulations on the show and and all

0:59:10.200 --> 0:59:13.920
<v Speaker 1>that you continue to do and continue to inspire. UM

0:59:14.080 --> 0:59:18.320
<v Speaker 1>shout outs. Uh, you know, not really like I really

0:59:18.360 --> 0:59:20.560
<v Speaker 1>don't have. I finally got a Twitter, So I was

0:59:20.640 --> 0:59:26.240
<v Speaker 1>off social media for years and I finally got a Twitter.

0:59:26.720 --> 0:59:30.280
<v Speaker 1>So I guess that, Um, but you know, come out

0:59:30.320 --> 0:59:32.440
<v Speaker 1>and support the when we're girls basketball team when the

0:59:32.480 --> 0:59:36.680
<v Speaker 1>season is is here. Uh and uh, I think the

0:59:36.720 --> 0:59:39.520
<v Speaker 1>other thing is, you know, my kid, my son Dariah.

0:59:40.320 --> 0:59:42.280
<v Speaker 1>I was talking to somebody like I'm just so proud

0:59:42.320 --> 0:59:45.440
<v Speaker 1>of the young man and he's becoming you know, like

0:59:45.560 --> 0:59:49.160
<v Speaker 1>someone asked me what motivates me? And m obviously our

0:59:49.240 --> 0:59:53.120
<v Speaker 1>kids like naturally motivate, but you know, dry and I

0:59:53.160 --> 0:59:55.320
<v Speaker 1>bounced around a lot, like to all those jobs that

0:59:55.400 --> 0:59:57.880
<v Speaker 1>you see all my resume, Like he came with me,

0:59:58.000 --> 1:00:00.920
<v Speaker 1>He was with me, and as a parent, you know,

1:00:01.000 --> 1:00:02.760
<v Speaker 1>you you just hope that you're doing a good job.

1:00:03.720 --> 1:00:06.600
<v Speaker 1>And so to see him now, I was just with

1:00:06.760 --> 1:00:10.120
<v Speaker 1>him and we went to New York for Mother's Day

1:00:10.440 --> 1:00:13.720
<v Speaker 1>and he's just like so like this independent young man,

1:00:14.080 --> 1:00:21.200
<v Speaker 1>that young boy that uh, he's him, but he's he's sharp, man,

1:00:21.320 --> 1:00:24.840
<v Speaker 1>He's sharp. He's on top of his stuff, and you know,

1:00:26.200 --> 1:00:28.760
<v Speaker 1>I just I feel like all the stuff that we

1:00:28.800 --> 1:00:34.560
<v Speaker 1>went through so far, he's taking that and really embraced it.

1:00:34.640 --> 1:00:38.280
<v Speaker 1>And it's I can see how it's making him, you know, him,

1:00:38.280 --> 1:00:41.120
<v Speaker 1>like he just walks in like this confidence about himself.

1:00:41.640 --> 1:00:43.960
<v Speaker 1>And I'm just really honored to be his mom. But

1:00:44.040 --> 1:00:47.080
<v Speaker 1>it's it's I just wanna. I know that there's so

1:00:47.080 --> 1:00:52.120
<v Speaker 1>many working mothers out there and father's right, um, but female,

1:00:52.320 --> 1:00:54.720
<v Speaker 1>being a female coach and a mom is a really

1:00:54.720 --> 1:00:57.919
<v Speaker 1>hard thing to do. Um, But I have to just

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<v Speaker 1>wreck Ny is my son and the role that he

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<v Speaker 1>continues to play in my life. You know. So I

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate you giving me the platform to do that. Absolutely.

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<v Speaker 1>Shout out to Geriah. I love that, all right, Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's it. I appreciate it, alright, Ladies and gentlemen, Jericho Williams,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you