1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:09,560 Speaker 2: Hey everyone, welcome to another episode they almost say this podcast. Today, 4 00:00:09,600 --> 00:00:11,840 Speaker 2: I am joined by April from The Golden Bachelor. She's 5 00:00:11,880 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 2: wearing some pretty Cinderella heels and like so much bling. 6 00:00:15,680 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 2: You are sparkling head to toe. You are a glam girl. 7 00:00:18,920 --> 00:00:20,279 Speaker 3: Yes I am. 8 00:00:20,680 --> 00:00:25,520 Speaker 4: I originally am part fairy and part nymph, and I 9 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 4: have the same first house in my astrology as Marilyn Monroe. 10 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 3: So that explains a bunch. 11 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 2: Oh, this fairy and nymph mean. 12 00:00:34,720 --> 00:00:37,840 Speaker 4: Like, well, a fairy is magical, but she is kind 13 00:00:37,880 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 4: of oh well, should I say she can be controversial, 14 00:00:43,880 --> 00:00:47,320 Speaker 4: and she can kind of be spunky. I'm my nickname 15 00:00:47,360 --> 00:00:51,600 Speaker 4: is Spitfire. And then a nymph, of course, is a seductress. 16 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 4: So you have the fairy essence, which is magical and 17 00:00:56,960 --> 00:01:02,240 Speaker 4: elusive and sometimes contrary. She has a bad temper, and 18 00:01:02,280 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 4: then the nymph energy, which every man loves. You would 19 00:01:07,400 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 4: know me if you saw me. 20 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 2: And we have lots of confidence too, Yes exactly. 21 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 3: I mean, is there any other kind April? Let's be honest. 22 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 2: Is Gary your type? 23 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 3: Let's be honest? Hell no, what is your type? My type? 24 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 4: Right now? Is I am looking for a retired player. 25 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:39,320 Speaker 4: In other words, he was a player, such a player 26 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:43,360 Speaker 4: he wrote the book, but he's not playing anymore except 27 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:47,960 Speaker 4: with me. I want someone who's gonna play, play hard, 28 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 4: but only with me, because a normal player will play 29 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:55,920 Speaker 4: with everybody, and as a fairy, I cannot handle that, Okay, 30 00:01:56,360 --> 00:02:00,080 Speaker 4: And I will tell any man I'm in love with honey, 31 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:03,480 Speaker 4: I will never ever hurt you unless I have to. 32 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 2: All Right, this man sounds really hard to find. 33 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:12,000 Speaker 4: Well, yeah, because then it comes with, you know, being enterprising, 34 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 4: which is a polite PC word for having money. 35 00:02:16,600 --> 00:02:18,960 Speaker 2: Wait, so he has to have money and also have 36 00:02:19,080 --> 00:02:21,440 Speaker 2: this alert of being a total player, but. 37 00:02:21,440 --> 00:02:22,519 Speaker 3: A settled down one. 38 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:26,919 Speaker 4: I don't know good players that don't have money, do you. 39 00:02:27,280 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 2: I honestly, I can't players have money. You can't play, 40 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 2: not in a retired athlete. 41 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:37,679 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, that would be good. Yeah, I mean as long. 42 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 4: Actually it is an aura. I'm gonna get serious. I 43 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:44,600 Speaker 4: have a lot of energy. I'm very powerful. So I'm 44 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:48,040 Speaker 4: like a powerful man that can control me. And you know, 45 00:02:48,160 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 4: like when I walk into the room and he looks 46 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 4: at me, I. 47 00:02:50,919 --> 00:02:56,040 Speaker 3: Just you know, like fifty shades stuff. Well, how many 48 00:02:56,080 --> 00:02:59,360 Speaker 3: shades have I gotten through. I don't know yet, but 49 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:00,919 Speaker 3: you know. 50 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 4: That's another conversation. I think that's an after midnight show. 51 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 3: Okay, we'll finish your thought there. 52 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 4: So no, Actually, I do believe I have fallen in 53 00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:17,279 Speaker 4: love with people who have the same kind of frequency, 54 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 4: the same energy level. Someone who likes to play I 55 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:25,359 Speaker 4: call it zinging and zanging, someone who is carefree, someone 56 00:03:25,880 --> 00:03:28,440 Speaker 4: also who has a good heart, and someone who can 57 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 4: see through my bullshit and still love me and know 58 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 4: how to control me like pipe down, Princess or you know, 59 00:03:35,560 --> 00:03:40,080 Speaker 4: or I'm watching you, you know. And I like to behave, 60 00:03:40,840 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 4: you know, but I need someone strong so that I 61 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 4: want to behave. 62 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 3: So why did you stick around? 63 00:03:47,880 --> 00:03:52,760 Speaker 4: Well, I had really not dated since my significant other passed. 64 00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 3: Away, a player, and I really. 65 00:03:56,680 --> 00:04:00,960 Speaker 4: Wanted the experience of dating, and I thought, I'm gonna 66 00:04:01,160 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 4: really go out on the edge here and give this 67 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 4: a try. So Actually, you know, my family was happy 68 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 4: I didn't like Gary, because had I liked this guy, 69 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 4: this show would have. 70 00:04:13,920 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 3: Been way different. 71 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:19,159 Speaker 2: I mean, the producers are probably hoping you would really 72 00:04:19,240 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 2: like him. 73 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, they probably were, because I would go crazy. I mean, 74 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 4: if I will, if I'm in love, I lose my mind, 75 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:29,000 Speaker 4: everything that I have. 76 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:30,480 Speaker 3: But that's the true case. 77 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 4: When you fall in love, the frontal area of your 78 00:04:34,160 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 4: brain no longer works for like I no, no, twelve yeah, 79 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:42,279 Speaker 4: two years, twenty four to thirty two months, And so 80 00:04:42,320 --> 00:04:46,039 Speaker 4: that happens to me as well. So I would have 81 00:04:46,080 --> 00:04:49,880 Speaker 4: been like jumping over those girls. It would have got ugly. 82 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:55,239 Speaker 2: If the Golden Bachelor in Paradise happens. What celebrity man 83 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 2: would be your player? The player of your dreams down 84 00:04:57,920 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 2: that beach? 85 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:00,840 Speaker 3: Okay, Michael Keaton. 86 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:06,479 Speaker 4: He is hot, he's older, he doesn't and he could. 87 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 3: He could control me. 88 00:05:07,600 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 4: And he's funny as and I'm funnyish, so we could 89 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:17,359 Speaker 4: out funny each other, out other things each other. I 90 00:05:17,480 --> 00:05:21,600 Speaker 4: was like thinking of other f things funny. He could 91 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:25,839 Speaker 4: control me. I could have fun with him. I could 92 00:05:26,040 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 4: tease him. 93 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:32,360 Speaker 3: Is he married? I'm not sure Google Google or Easton. 94 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:37,720 Speaker 3: He probably is. I think he is, but somebody like that, 95 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:43,919 Speaker 3: Oh no, he's single. Holy jemollis, Oh Michael, this is 96 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:46,720 Speaker 3: this is her call out to Michael. Yeah, oh my god. 97 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 5: Yeah. 98 00:05:57,400 --> 00:06:00,840 Speaker 2: All right, well, April, you have to fill us in 99 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 2: on the Frankie Valley drama. Okay, I do love him. 100 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 2: The lead singer of the Four Seasons. You apparently had quite. 101 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:09,560 Speaker 3: A love affair with Sherry. 102 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:10,279 Speaker 5: Shit. 103 00:06:10,839 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 3: You know what. 104 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:14,919 Speaker 4: Two years ago he released because It's not just Me. 105 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:20,040 Speaker 4: Everyone thinks I'm crazy. I'm just Two years ago he 106 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 4: released a jazz song. 107 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 3: It was his song. 108 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:26,320 Speaker 4: Because he's not a writer. He created. He created a 109 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:29,919 Speaker 4: jazz album, and one of the songs he could have 110 00:06:29,960 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 4: picked anyone it was I'll remember April Now. 111 00:06:35,720 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 3: I wrote a. 112 00:06:36,680 --> 00:06:40,000 Speaker 4: Book about him a few years before, so I wrote, 113 00:06:40,320 --> 00:06:43,200 Speaker 4: he sang and I think that kind. 114 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 3: Of book about him? 115 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:47,680 Speaker 4: All about him, yes, all about well, it was about 116 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:52,440 Speaker 4: my experience with him. I was from a traumatic childhood, 117 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 4: like most of the people in the world, and when 118 00:06:56,400 --> 00:07:00,520 Speaker 4: you are from trauma, you find something to make life 119 00:07:00,560 --> 00:07:06,119 Speaker 4: feel safe. Some people, they also have different viewpoints on life, 120 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:09,520 Speaker 4: but they will find something that will make them feel secure. 121 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 4: So when my mom and stepfather are beating the crap 122 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:14,960 Speaker 4: out of each other, I would run to my little 123 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 4: canopy bedroom and I would put on them my little 124 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 4: record player, Big Girls Don't Cry. And anyhow, we'll make 125 00:07:24,480 --> 00:07:27,800 Speaker 4: a long story short. My aunt won tickets to a 126 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 4: concert of his. I got to see him, and after that, 127 00:07:35,440 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 4: him and I just had a connection and I would 128 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 4: go to see him, would pick me up off the stage. 129 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 3: I would get a. 130 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 4: Little velvet suit like him, a banner that said Frankie 131 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 4: a little hat. And I also believe in reincarnation. I 132 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 4: also believe that we plan our lives. I also believe 133 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:53,640 Speaker 4: that there's no mistakes, there's a synchronicity. I think there 134 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:56,840 Speaker 4: was something between Frankie and I from past lives. I 135 00:07:56,920 --> 00:08:00,080 Speaker 4: don't believe we were ever to be together in this life, 136 00:08:00,280 --> 00:08:06,280 Speaker 4: but we had a relationship on and off for years 137 00:08:06,280 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 4: and years and years and years and years. 138 00:08:08,280 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 3: After this concert, after his concert, Like, how old were 139 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 3: you then? I probably well, I. 140 00:08:13,280 --> 00:08:15,720 Speaker 4: Mean I fell in love with him at six because 141 00:08:15,760 --> 00:08:18,240 Speaker 4: I painted Ken's head black. 142 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:23,680 Speaker 3: He had black hair because he was Frankie. No. 143 00:08:23,800 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 4: But you know, I started to sleep with him when 144 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 4: I was sixteen, so and he was the same age 145 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:34,160 Speaker 4: as my mother. But when somebody, when you're in trauma, 146 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 4: and somebody becomes your safe place. Even still now, if 147 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:43,880 Speaker 4: you are abused by somebody, and I'm a therapist, the 148 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:46,440 Speaker 4: child will still want to be with who they were 149 00:08:46,480 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 4: abused by because that's their parent. Also, there's two rules 150 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:54,679 Speaker 4: of thumb. When you're abused, you either have the idea 151 00:08:54,720 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 4: that the world is an unsafe place or that you 152 00:08:57,600 --> 00:08:58,559 Speaker 4: are not good enough. 153 00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:02,520 Speaker 3: Between all of that, it's a mess. It's a mess. 154 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:03,320 Speaker 3: But there was. 155 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:06,720 Speaker 4: But that being said, there was something between him and 156 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 4: I that was very odd. I don't I'm not from 157 00:09:11,040 --> 00:09:13,240 Speaker 4: New York, I'm not from New Jersey. I'm not a 158 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 4: Jersey girl. I'm not an LA girl. My family's doesn't 159 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:19,880 Speaker 4: in the music business, and from Ohio on a farm, 160 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:24,760 Speaker 4: and we met and it just happened. So it wasn't 161 00:09:24,800 --> 00:09:26,920 Speaker 4: on and off again. Now this was before there were 162 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 4: computers and there was no Google. You couldn't find out 163 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 4: who was married or where they were or anything. So 164 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:40,400 Speaker 4: it just it just naturally organically evolved. And I you know, 165 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:43,840 Speaker 4: he's my first love and also a lot of the 166 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:45,840 Speaker 4: things that I am today I owe to him because 167 00:09:45,840 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 4: he was like a father image to me. Always go 168 00:09:48,360 --> 00:09:53,040 Speaker 4: to college, don't sleep around, stand tall, be beautiful, keep 169 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 4: yourself up, be a lady. And no matter what he 170 00:09:56,600 --> 00:10:00,320 Speaker 4: did with me when he was around me, and maybe 171 00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:03,440 Speaker 4: he did other things like drug sex, rock and roll, 172 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:04,480 Speaker 4: never around me. 173 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:07,560 Speaker 3: So it is a. 174 00:10:07,520 --> 00:10:12,439 Speaker 4: Very very interesting relationship, and I have no regrets. 175 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:15,600 Speaker 3: He's part of my story. How did you feel about 176 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:17,679 Speaker 3: the book coming out? He was furious. 177 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:24,439 Speaker 4: He still hates me for that, and I I will apologize. 178 00:10:24,520 --> 00:10:27,559 Speaker 4: I would really like to speak with him, and I will. 179 00:10:27,760 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 4: I will say it right here. I April, your little April. 180 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:37,440 Speaker 4: I'm very, very sorry that I ever published our private life. 181 00:10:38,360 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 3: I did it at a. 182 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 4: Time when I was young and immature, and I wanted 183 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:47,560 Speaker 4: his attention, and I did it the wrong way and 184 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 4: I should have never put that out, and that really 185 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:52,559 Speaker 4: ruined our relationship. 186 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 3: I don't think he ever spoke to me after that. 187 00:10:54,520 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 2: And when was that. 188 00:10:57,640 --> 00:11:01,840 Speaker 4: Years and years ago on other clu with other fairies, 189 00:11:02,000 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 4: when I was young and flitting around. 190 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 2: April, we just have to go get to your Michael 191 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 2: Keaton now. 192 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 3: Oh I love Michael ket Yeah. 193 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:17,920 Speaker 4: Now he would make me forget Frankie Valley's name, okay, 194 00:11:18,880 --> 00:11:20,080 Speaker 4: or someone similar. 195 00:11:20,880 --> 00:11:22,760 Speaker 3: I would like to move out to La too. 196 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:26,560 Speaker 4: I would move for someone I fell in love with, 197 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 4: because love is so hard. 198 00:11:29,679 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 3: I think it does too. Yeah, I really like it. 199 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 4: I love the people here. I love all of you. 200 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:37,439 Speaker 4: When I land here, I feel at home. 201 00:11:37,800 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel that I get that I just feel. 202 00:11:40,520 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 4: Like I'm in my groove and I love all of you. 203 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 4: I mean I get sad when I leave. 204 00:11:45,880 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 3: I really do I understand this. 205 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:50,960 Speaker 2: He really found like a place of belonging in the Bachelor. 206 00:11:51,280 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean I never even watched The Bachelor. 207 00:11:56,280 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 4: I didn't even know what Bachelor nation was. When they 208 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:02,520 Speaker 4: kept saying, say Bachelor, I'm like, what the hell am 209 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:03,080 Speaker 4: I saying? 210 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 3: What is this specilor nation? Is it a nation? 211 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 5: You know? 212 00:12:08,280 --> 00:12:10,880 Speaker 3: Like, sometimes I'm really smart, but sometimes I have no 213 00:12:10,920 --> 00:12:11,640 Speaker 3: common sense. 214 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:13,280 Speaker 2: You're a therapist. 215 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:17,120 Speaker 4: But I find that endearing about me because that then 216 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:19,280 Speaker 4: men know I actually need them to survive. 217 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:24,360 Speaker 2: Okay, wait, so you're a therapist. I want you to 218 00:12:24,400 --> 00:12:28,599 Speaker 2: do something for fun. Okay, can you therapies for therapy? 219 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 3: Yeah? I don't think that I'm sort of. 220 00:12:33,040 --> 00:12:36,000 Speaker 2: Teresa and Gary's relationship why they're together. 221 00:12:37,200 --> 00:12:42,800 Speaker 4: I think that everybody has a type. I think that 222 00:12:42,880 --> 00:12:45,040 Speaker 4: in our mind it is like a little basket of 223 00:12:45,080 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 4: what like I do I have a little check off. 224 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:51,920 Speaker 4: I think Gary had a check off, and I think 225 00:12:52,040 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 4: Teresa hit most of those buttons. I also think Gary, 226 00:12:58,320 --> 00:13:02,200 Speaker 4: at his age it's an easier life, wants someone who 227 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:08,319 Speaker 4: is going to be maybe quiet, maybe a subservient maybe. 228 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:09,959 Speaker 3: Now. 229 00:13:10,160 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 4: I think there are women that would have done that 230 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:18,680 Speaker 4: for him had he put himself out more. But he 231 00:13:18,840 --> 00:13:21,760 Speaker 4: found someone who did that for him right away. Remember 232 00:13:22,200 --> 00:13:26,239 Speaker 4: this whole bachelor thing is not an organic situation. Everybody 233 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:29,000 Speaker 4: is coming nervous, they're playing a game. 234 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:30,679 Speaker 3: It's it's very awkward. 235 00:13:31,160 --> 00:13:35,240 Speaker 4: But I think there probably are women out there that 236 00:13:35,320 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 4: don't aren't like Teresa. But I think Teresa hit every button, 237 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:42,600 Speaker 4: and I think it works for them. She's a little 238 00:13:42,679 --> 00:13:45,120 Speaker 4: passive and you could tell she adores him, like, you know, 239 00:13:45,200 --> 00:13:47,920 Speaker 4: she looks in his eyes like, oh. 240 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:51,240 Speaker 3: Gary, I'll make dinner for you every night. Oh I 241 00:13:51,280 --> 00:13:52,240 Speaker 3: can't buy that. 242 00:13:52,240 --> 00:13:56,840 Speaker 6: That's okay, I don't need anything I have you. You know, 243 00:13:58,320 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 6: you want to play pickleball the rest of your okay, 244 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:04,440 Speaker 6: you know, and and and that's great. And also I 245 00:14:04,440 --> 00:14:08,480 Speaker 6: think he's a different generation. I, on the other hand, 246 00:14:08,640 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 6: I'm not from that generation. 247 00:14:12,520 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 3: Mentally, are you not? 248 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:16,600 Speaker 2: I was looking it's the age difference, not much. 249 00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:19,120 Speaker 3: No no no no no no no no no no. VERI 250 00:14:19,240 --> 00:14:23,280 Speaker 3: is our ageless. Actually, we we live much longer. Don't 251 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:27,000 Speaker 3: kid yourself. Okay, you will know us when you see us, 252 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:32,960 Speaker 3: you are what the character. We are so appreciated being here. 253 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:35,080 Speaker 4: This is why I had a radio show that was 254 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:36,160 Speaker 4: very successful. 255 00:14:36,480 --> 00:14:40,080 Speaker 3: I'm not surprised. Until next time, guys, I've been Ashley. 256 00:14:40,320 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 2: Bye bye. 257 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 1: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast on 258 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:48,640 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts