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Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show, Phoebe is on the phone

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Speaker 2: today for to Catch a Cheater. She thinks that her fiance,

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Speaker 2: Rory might be messing around, so she definitely wants to

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Speaker 2: find out if he is or isn't before they get married.

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Speaker 2: They've been together for five years. I guess, Phoebe, what's

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Speaker 2: going on?

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Speaker 1: Hey?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I've been with my now fiance for five years.

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Speaker 3: I love him very much and I trust him, and

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Speaker 3: you know, like any long term staying their abs and flows,

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Speaker 3: and I think that's natural. But lately we're in more

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Speaker 3: of a disconnected phase and it feels a little bit

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Speaker 3: different this time.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we have a lot going on, I will.

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Speaker 3: Say, like, we're trying to find a new place because

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Speaker 3: our lease is up and we have kind of a

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Speaker 3: cranky landlord, so we're trying to move on. And we

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Speaker 3: both work a lot, and he has been working on

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Speaker 3: like a special project recently, so he's been working like

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Speaker 3: eighty plus hours a week.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so we.

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Speaker 3: Bare we see each other, which is definitely putting strain

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Speaker 3: on the connection. And then he has this boss named Emily.

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Speaker 3: She just texts and calls him constantly, like twenty four

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Speaker 3: hours a day, pretty much like outside of work hours

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Speaker 3: for work related stuff. But he constantly is talking to her,

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Speaker 3: and it really feels like she kind of comes first.

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Speaker 3: Like if we're spending time together and she texts him

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Speaker 3: or calls him for a work thing, he's like immediately

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Speaker 3: hours and work things. But I came with him to

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Speaker 3: I feel like she once she has a couple of drinks,

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Speaker 3: she was like very touchy with him, and that makes

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Speaker 3: me a little bit uncomfortable for sure, right, and he

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Speaker 3: doesn't seem to like he's just been kind of oblivious

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Speaker 3: to all of this, Like he doesn't seem to notice.

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Speaker 3: But this is weird for me, which is kind of

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Speaker 3: a concerning part. Like I said, I trust him a lot,

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Speaker 3: but I'm just it is a lot different than.

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Speaker 1: It has before.

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Speaker 2: Have you asked him specifically if he's messing around with

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Speaker 2: his boss?

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Speaker 3: I haven't. I just I do feel kind of bad

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Speaker 3: for even suspecting him, And it just feels like an

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Speaker 3: awkward thing to bring up because I don't want to

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Speaker 3: seem like the crazy, you know, fiance who's reading into something.

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Speaker 3: But yeah, I have an aster ath week I've just

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Speaker 3: been observing.

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Speaker 4: I definitely don't think you sound crazy, but I wonder

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Speaker 4: if you would be as concerned if his boss was

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Speaker 4: a man. You know, do you really think there's a

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Speaker 4: connection here or is it just the phone was ringing

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Speaker 4: all the time and your boss is calling. Chances are

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Speaker 4: you going to answer if your money's attached to it.

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Speaker 3: That's true.

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Speaker 4: I don't like the handsy part, though. You have a

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Speaker 4: very valid point there. Do you know if she's in

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Speaker 4: a relationship, is she single?

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Speaker 1: I have no idea. I have no idea. Honestly, we'll try.

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Speaker 2: To figure it out for you. You already told us

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Speaker 2: what grocery store he's a rewards card member at. So

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Speaker 2: we'll call and pretend to be from the grocery store

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Speaker 2: and say that every single month, we choose one rewards

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Speaker 2: card at random who gets free flowers delivered from our

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Speaker 2: floral department Ceevie Senzos to you or to somebody else. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 2: all right, Well pla us on come back and then

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Speaker 2: get you to catch a cheeter next. If you're just

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Speaker 2: joining us for Today's to Catch a Cheater. Phoebe is

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Speaker 2: on the phone and she thinks that her fiance named

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Speaker 2: Rory might be cheating on her. We're about to call

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Speaker 2: him and pretend to be from the grocery store that

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Speaker 2: he's a rewards card member at and say that he's

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Speaker 2: won free flowers delivered from our floor apartment, just our

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Speaker 2: way of saying thank you for shopping well Cevi Senzos

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Speaker 2: to his fiance Phoebe or to somebody else. And before

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Speaker 2: we do that, Phoebe, why don't you refresh everybody's memory

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Speaker 2: on your situation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So, I've been with my now fiance for about five years,

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Speaker 3: and recently we haven't been seeing much of each other,

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Speaker 3: out of business hours calls and text from his golf

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Speaker 3: who is the woman named Emily. At a couple like

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Speaker 3: work events, I felt, as the fiance that she was

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Speaker 1: Really drunk, which is not like him.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I mean that's kind of strange. I mean

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Speaker 2: it's super strange. Are you ready for us to call

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Speaker 2: him and see if he is or isn't cheating?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? I let's do it, all right?

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Speaker 5: Here we go.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, this is Jordan calling from I was looking

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Speaker 2: for uh Rory?

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Speaker 5: This is he? Who am I speaking with?

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Speaker 6: Rory?

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Speaker 2: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.

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Speaker 2: We're calling to say thank you very much for shopping

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Speaker 2: with us and congratulations you're this most big winner.

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Speaker 5: Allay?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 5: What does that mean?

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Speaker 2: Every single month, we choose one Rewards Card member and

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Speaker 2: random who gets free flowers delivered from our Florida department.

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Speaker 2: You've just won thirty six long sim red roses of

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Speaker 2: candy and a card to be delivered anywhere in the

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Speaker 2: United States absolutely free.

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Speaker 5: Oh wow.

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Speaker 2: Okay, if you know who you want to send them to,

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Speaker 2: I can take the information in just a matter of

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Speaker 2: minutes over the phone.

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Speaker 5: Yes, could you please send them to Phoebe? Is there

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Speaker 5: anything you like to put on a card to Phoebe? Yes? Please?

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Speaker 5: Could you put.

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Speaker 6: I Love you, I got awesome news. Please put awesome

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Speaker 6: in all caps. If you could that be greatly appreciated it. Okay, period,

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Speaker 6: and then dinner question mark, and then our sushi joint

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Speaker 2: Wouldn't it be funny if your news is that you

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Speaker 2: were cheating on her? I'm sure what This is actually

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Speaker 2: a radio show. It's called The Jubile Show. My name

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Speaker 2: is Juble Hi, I'm Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria, and

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Speaker 2: Phoebe is on the phone listening. We do a segment

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Speaker 2: called to Catch a Cheater, where you see if your

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Speaker 2: significant other might be messing around, and Phoebe, it's your horse. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: you thought you might be out there trying to tame

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Speaker 2: some other horses.

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Speaker 5: Okay, what is happening? I'm sorry?

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Speaker 1: Hi, Okay, I'm agreeing.

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Speaker 5: What's what's going on?

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Speaker 3: I okay, this sounds silly, probably, but I feel like

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Speaker 3: lately you've been so m i A with work and

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Speaker 3: like constantly getting calls and texts from Emily.

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Speaker 1: And remember the night that you.

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Speaker 3: Left to meet up with her at like nine thirty

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Speaker 3: and you didn't come home until like one in the morning,

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Speaker 3: and you were wasted.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, all right, well this is a lot. Okay, I'm

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Speaker 6: I can't believe you think i'd be cheating on you.

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Speaker 6: But now like, uh, okay, I kind of get it. Look,

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Speaker 6: I uh, I'm sorry about that, okay, And I'm sorry

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Speaker 6: that you think all these things and that I understand

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Speaker 6: why you see it seems like I'm like following her

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Speaker 6: there's a real there's a reason, okay. And then there's

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Speaker 6: a reason I've been working so much too. And I've

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Speaker 6: been working to score the seal with a new client

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Speaker 6: for a couple of reasons. And the reason my notes

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Speaker 6: haid awesome news and caps is because I wanted to

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Speaker 6: wait until after the meeting to tell you that not

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Speaker 6: only did the deal go through, but the commission alone, okay,

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Speaker 5: We want to have the whoa, oh god.

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Speaker 6: Oh And by the way, that's great, That's awesome, don't

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Speaker 6: get me wrong. But the big news is that the

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Speaker 6: reason why I've been working so closely with Emily is

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Speaker 6: that I was shadowing her, okay, And I was shadowing

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Speaker 6: her so I could become a partner in the phone.

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Speaker 5: And so now I'm no longer working under her that's

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Speaker 5: what the late night meeting was.

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Speaker 6: They were there to tell me that I'd not only

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Speaker 6: been I mean, I've been promoted and and I've.

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Speaker 5: Become a partner in the firm. So I apologize.

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Speaker 6: I shouldn't have gotten so stupid drunk, and I was

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Speaker 6: apologized for that. I was looking, I was waiting for

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Speaker 6: the perfect time to tell you in the right way,

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Speaker 6: don't know, I got caught up in the excitement. A

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Speaker 6: that's that's why I apologize to you.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that's great. I'm happy for you. I I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I didn't mean to doubt you, and I trust you.

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Speaker 3: I just without any of that information in context, I

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Speaker 4: Which is totally understandable considering I do and.

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Speaker 6: Look and I of course, as you know, i've been

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Speaker 6: oblivious to.

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Speaker 5: You know, everything around me.

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Speaker 6: You know, when I'm focused on one thing, and but

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Speaker 6: this is the one thing that was focused on was

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Speaker 6: our future. And so you know, I'm still sorry, but

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Speaker 6: obviously I hope, I hope this is worth it. And

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Speaker 6: you know that doesn't, you know, make up for hopefully

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Speaker 6: it makes up for my stupidity in this time.

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Speaker 5: I just you know, I hope we can we can

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Speaker 5: still do date night.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 5: Okay, that's a start.

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Speaker 6: That's a start, okay, And yes, boundaries will be had

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Speaker 6: much more.

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Speaker 5: So take that to the bank, the race.

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Speaker 4: We all get to go on to date night, the

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Speaker 4: Jubal shows to catch a cheeter