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Speaker 1: The second date of day, Brook, do you believe people

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Why do you think I'd be here with you

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Speaker 1: Does that mean.

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Speaker 3: Yes? Okay, I don't know what I did.

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Speaker 1: I'm serious though, If somebody makes a mistake, are you

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I mean especially if there's like an apology, you know,

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Speaker 1: We have a return caller on the phone today named Scott,

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Speaker 1: who you were not too happy with the last time

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Speaker 1: he was on this You have an apology ready because

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Speaker 1: he put a little blue pill into his own drink

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Speaker 3: The word creep to describe him.

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Speaker 1: So maybe we need to start with an apology from

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Speaker 1: Brook to Scott. Here go ahead, Broke, you said you

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Speaker 2: Especial here's my question. Have you yes? Yes? Yes, communication,

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Speaker 2: I am not apologizing it. Yeah, that's not gonna happen.

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Speaker 2: But what will happen is if you have stopped sneaking

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Speaker 2: those pills into your drink first.

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Speaker 3: Date, your self drink.

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Speaker 2: Still not cool, Jeff.

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Speaker 3: Okay, have you changed your ways? Scott?

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Speaker 4: You know, I think I've getten a lot better since

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Speaker 1: So now does he get the apology for what he

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Speaker 3: So okay, room, but welcome back.

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Should I leave you?

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Speaker 5: Man?

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Speaker 2: You're good?

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Speaker 3: I think you should.

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Speaker 4: Okay.

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Speaker 1: Well, so apparently you've reached out because there's a new

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Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, her name's Mandy.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, and how did you How did you meet Mandy?

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Speaker 4: I was shopping at a hardware store. She comes up

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry if you're wearing a polo shirt in one

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I was wearing an orange and white Polo shirt.

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Speaker 1: Well this is I mean, it's giving you the perfect

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Speaker 3: So what do you do? Well?

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Speaker 4: You know, I thought she was cute, and I was like, look,

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Speaker 4: I don't know how it works. I'm sorry, I barely

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Speaker 3: Money it's good.

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Speaker 4: But I thought she was cute and I told her that,

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Speaker 4: Yeah? We did, and I really wanted to avoid doing

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Speaker 2: Okay, that should always be good. That is such a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so what was the date?

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Speaker 4: Like, we went to the beach?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so we were like hanging out. We're just like

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Speaker 4: You know, I want you guys to know all the

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Speaker 3: This is growth. This is exactly what we wanted from you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, a worse idea that you had than that?

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Speaker 4: All right? So, like the sun started to set and

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Speaker 4: What I wanted to do was ask for a model

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Speaker 2: Ok It's not too bad. I mean some women would

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Speaker 1: Yes, some would be offended that you weren't asking them

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Speaker 3: Hey, get out of my frame. Trying to capture the sunset.

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Speaker 4: Don't make me get more in my head. I tried

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Speaker 1: That was a good choice. Don't tell her about the

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I for some reason kept thinking about gas prices.

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Speaker 3: Are you focused on the date?

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Speaker 2: Did you talk much?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? What did you talk about?

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Speaker 2: What did you do?

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Speaker 5: Well?

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Speaker 4: I mean we talked about like our recent dating history.

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Speaker 4: I've been on a lot of dates, she's only been

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Speaker 3: Do you think did that way at all.

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Speaker 4: Did you notice once I knew that she hadn't been

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Speaker 4: I didn't tell her that I was on the radio

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Speaker 2: For for your last one.

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Speaker 1: You're making a lot of good decisions here. So how

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Speaker 4: Walked her, actually she walked me to my car first.

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Speaker 4: I guess we gave each other a hug.

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Speaker 4: I considered taking out the guitar from my trunk to

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Speaker 4: I learned my lesson from Barbie? You don't do that?

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Speaker 4: But you don't like that?

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Speaker 2: That's it, all right?

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Speaker 3: Maybe not till like the third or fourth day.

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Speaker 2: Then you pull out your Matchbox twenty soundrack.

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Speaker 1: Overall, that sounds pretty solid. What's happened since then?

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Speaker 4: You know? I thought it went well too, But nothing

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Speaker 2: Interesting. I wonder if you were just like two up

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe you should bust out tho Blue pillars again

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Speaker 3: It's back on board. Okay.

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Speaker 4: Well, you know, you guys made me think that maybe

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Speaker 2: No, I didn't made me good.

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Speaker 4: I was tossed her out.

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Speaker 2: Well it was. Here's a bad assumption to make on

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Speaker 1: As he redeemed himself from the creep label in this date.

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Speaker 2: So far. Yeah, we haven't talked to her.

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Speaker 1: Yet, Jeff, all right, so so far it's pretty good.

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Speaker 1: We're going to get the rest of the story when

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Speaker 3: Okay, sounds good. All right, don't move, you creep. Here

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Speaker 1: If you missed the first part of the second date,

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Speaker 3: One to ten. He thought about it, but to his credit,

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Speaker 3: Well, so Scott.

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Speaker 1: If we call her and she says that you whipped

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Speaker 2: I want to hear. No, there is something wrong in

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Speaker 5: I just.

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Speaker 1: Thoughts, that's you projecting what you want. That has nothing

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Speaker 2: Look at that you did the whole first half not

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Speaker 3: He's only said three words.

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Speaker 1: If anything, Brooke is the creepy pervert who's thinking bad thoughts.

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Speaker 3: So there we go.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I keep the thoughts inside. Jeff, he just said

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Speaker 3: Okay, there we go. We're all in the winning page.

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Speaker 5: Here.

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Speaker 3: Let's call Mandy. Now, let's do it. Here we go.

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 3: Hi is this Mandy?

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Speaker 5: Yes speaking?

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Speaker 1: Hey Mandy. This is a radio show. My name is

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Speaker 1: Jeff and I'm part of Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, You're sorry?

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Speaker 3: Did I say that? Weird?

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Speaker 2: Hey Mandy?

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Speaker 1: Hey, there's a random person in the background who just

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Speaker 3: Was I guess technically we work together? But yeah, that's Brooke.

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Speaker 1: I'm Jeff and you're on Brook and Jeffrey in the

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Speaker 1: Morning with a whole room full of people.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, alexis here too.

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Speaker 5: Hell, what what are you calling me about?

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Speaker 3: Okay, you get right to it. So, uh.

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Speaker 1: This is called a second date update. It's a segment

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Speaker 1: out with a guy who listens to our show name Scott.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so what.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, well, so Scott had a really good time

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Speaker 5: It wasn't a nice time.

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Speaker 6: It was.

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Speaker 5: It was fun. I won't speak badly on anybody. It

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, if you had a good time.

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Speaker 1: We're just trying to help Scott figure out why there

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he wants to see you again.

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Speaker 1: The way that he described your communication afterwards was radio silent, which.

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Speaker 3: We appreciate because we want to keep the word radio relevant.

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Speaker 3: But we understand Scott doesn't like that. So is there

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, I mean I feel like it was pretty obvious.

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Speaker 4: It was just a.

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Speaker 5: Complete turn off for me that he had been on

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Speaker 5: I've only been on one date. Like, it's just felt

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Speaker 2: Arenas he's been on eight dates and that's too many

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, he's just what if he have like

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Speaker 2: That's not like you could still count that on two hands.

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Speaker 2: I think that's fine.

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I just I'm just more traditional person.

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Speaker 5: I'm not into the short term casual dating that a

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Speaker 2: But do you know that he even hooked up with

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Speaker 4: Had a look in his eyes?

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Speaker 5: If he kind of implied it, I wasn't going to ask.

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Speaker 2: We can guarantee that one of those dates he did

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we got into his dating history before, and yeah,

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Speaker 5: Yeah, And my belief is that if you spend an

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Speaker 5: I would say yes, But it sounds like he dates

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Speaker 1: Honestly, we don't know, like what the state of his

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Speaker 1: So that should tell you something and we should probably

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Speaker 6: What can I get a handoff over here?

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Speaker 3: He's listening to this and wants to talk to you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, hey, man, going Hi, she really turned it on.

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Speaker 5: I just wasn't expecting to be having this conversation in

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm just not sure what I did wrong. You

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm not a player, younger.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm definitely dating in hopes to meet someone

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, okay, you're not just doing it for the sport.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, just for fun.

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Speaker 2: You can date for fun. That's okay too.

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Speaker 4: I didn't realize that I had to commit after an hour.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like, Scott, the only way that Mandy is

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Speaker 3: Is that something that big assumption?

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Speaker 2: Jeff? Are you sure that's what she's saying?

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm hearing. Is that right, Mandy?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I had a feeling when I was on the date.

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Speaker 6: You just thought, hey, he's in this phase of dating

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Speaker 5: Right exact, And I'm not looking to get her so

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Speaker 2: Up on it?

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Speaker 1: I know, well you were turned off because you thought

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Speaker 3: You don't want to be amongst a huge list of women.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, if it's me, it's me.

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Speaker 3: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So Scott, is that something that you're even willing to

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Speaker 4: Bro I mean, I'm not talking to anybody else right now?

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Speaker 4: Good answer?

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Speaker 2: Okay, nice, Mandy, he was already only talking to you.

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Speaker 1: Maybe we should just go right so this then, and

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Speaker 1: If he says right now he is willing to commit

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to have am I off, Mandy. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 5: I feel like you're a little laughing at me, but.

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Speaker 4: Like that is what i'd like.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, Scott, the terms have been laid out.

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Speaker 3: What do you say?

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Speaker 4: Why not let's give it a shot?

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Speaker 2: Why not? Yeah? I mean why not? He has no

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Speaker 1: Congratulations? Scott has agreed to commit one hundred percent to you.

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Speaker 4: Look, Mandy, I think you're great. I usually don't commit

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Speaker 3: Mandy, isn't that nice?

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Speaker 3: Can't break up with him?

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Speaker 5: I'm glad you said that you were really open and

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Speaker 3: Wait, what my god?

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Speaker 5: That's why I need the commitment. That's why I need

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Speaker 2: Him on what was your explanation? Why?

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Speaker 5: Like, that's why I need to know if he's in

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Speaker 6: So if your marriage engage because she needs to know

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Speaker 2: She's crazier than.

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Speaker 5: Okay, But Scott, you don't need to listen to them.

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Speaker 5: I'm just really excited to spend time with you.

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Speaker 4: No, we're not hanging out.

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Speaker 3: Okay, maybe, Scott.

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Speaker 1: Now you should tell you wanted to rate all the

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Speaker 3: You wanted to.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, the good uses Scott at the end of

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Speaker 1: the day. The big takeaway you didn't do anything wrong.

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Speaker 3: He did nothing wrong.

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Speaker 1: He just ended up with a strict, controlling, pre engaged

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Speaker 6: So can gradual engage, very engaged engage?

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Speaker 3: You have fun? You too.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna ask the radio station to figure out who

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Speaker 3: Doesn't he sound so in love?

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Speaker 2: He sounds like he's.

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Speaker 3: Nervous with the day.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, relationship.

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Speaker 3: And I could serenade her with your guitar, Scott, good work,

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Speaker 3: Brookie Jeffrey in the morning. Oh man, with that woman

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Speaker 1: Now it all makes sense how she's only been with

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Speaker 2: Yes, oh god, I put that together. But aren't we

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Speaker 2: applauding her for what she didn't do? Go on other

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Speaker 3: Just go went on this one.

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Speaker 1: But again, that is on us for not saying, hey,

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Speaker 1: how did your last relationship end? Because her answer would

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Speaker 1: have been it hasn't ended. We're engaged right now.

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Speaker 2: I see, that's all.

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Speaker 3: I'm just looking for a backup. How did we miss that?

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Speaker 1: Brooke?

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Speaker 3: Where worry on that question?

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Speaker 2: My head is not in the game today.

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Speaker 1: Step it up on these calls going here on out.

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Speaker 1: That would have saved us a whole lot of time.

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Speaker 3: But in the end, happy ending.

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Speaker 2: Kind of for who.

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Speaker 3: No, definitely not for her.

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Speaker 2: I mean she's got the big of a letter.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that HiT's for her. She's got commitments from not one,

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Speaker 3: but two different men. Sure's a couple of people on

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Speaker 3: the textboard that one her too. Yeah, but we can

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Speaker 3: have you living here happily ever after.

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Speaker 1: If you email the show, we'll call that person who's

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