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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: With thirty seconds to spare, Sha name nay As Smith,

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Speaker 1: thank you for the one hundred and seventy dollars tip.

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Speaker 1: Love you guys, trying to get this in before the

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Speaker 1: clock runs out, y'all?

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Speaker 2: What's up with this? Hey? What's up with? These? Are

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Speaker 2: and everyone's like, oh, we should donate, we should just

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Speaker 1: I love it because I feel like on our stream specifically,

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Speaker 1: it's always with thirty seconds left right and I're wrapping up,

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Speaker 1: We're like, all right, this is this is the end

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Speaker 1: of the day. And then you guys come in with

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Speaker 1: those crazy tips because like, no, you're not you're not

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Speaker 1: You're not done yet. You thought wrong.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna go do something else.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm gonna I'm having dinner with my mind.

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Speaker 2: Will tell them what you're gonna do. Don't tell them

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Speaker 2: these things. I'm gonna be streaming here all day today.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna be stuck. I'm telling I'm telling Sam to

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Speaker 1: sub in for me. I don't have to leave for hours, though.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to have dinner with them all, a bunch

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Speaker 1: of the women in my family. We're having a little

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Speaker 2: Oh good for Yeah, that's that's awesome. I love that.

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Speaker 1: Oh thank you. Bustakidas is empty muscular dystrophy. Thank you

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Speaker 1: for xpain h and Irish Gig says, thank you Sophia

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Speaker 1: and Riley for a lovely afternoon in a washed out

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Speaker 2: That's that's so close.

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Speaker 1: I love thunderstorms. Not gonna lie. I think they're so cool.

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Speaker 2: You know it is? Yeah, I love it.

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Speaker 1: Forgetful, Sophie says, it's for the vibes. I want to

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Speaker 1: do more polls like the one we did. Okay, can

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Speaker 1: we think of you guys, guys? Can we do more.

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Speaker 2: What live life and will happen? Live Lifeay? Thank you

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Speaker 2: again for this extra hour.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I'm also gonna have to okay, right, leave it here sorry, guys.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's okay, I read or I won't read yet, Oh, okay,

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Speaker 1: I will read. Uh. Jocelyn or Kimberly says Ready's jealous.

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Speaker 1: He wants a girl's day too, next time, next time,

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Speaker 1: and Freda says Sophia, don't make plans on stream days.

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Speaker 1: If I didn't make plans on stream days, I wouldn't

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Speaker 1: ever have plans. We stream every day but Wednesday. But

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Speaker 1: let's get into this story. I'll read the title again.

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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for not allowing my son

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Speaker 2: Maybe me?

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Speaker 1: Uh, maybe that daughter in law is cool and the

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Speaker 1: other daughter in law sucks so fluffy Canary eighty two

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Speaker 1: sixty says, I have three sons and they're all married.

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Speaker 1: going to hide that I do not like her. Wow.

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Speaker 1: The reason I think this is because she will talk

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Speaker 1: I am sure that this daughter in law could very

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Speaker 1: This started. Oh I so that they called me a

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Speaker 1: an edit and some relevant comments. But what do y'all

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Speaker 1: a right to not give them her like I do

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Speaker 1: not allow them to use her place? Did she pay

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, so a hole or not? The

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Speaker 1: ale Anna and Brenanna thank you for the time book tip.

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Speaker 1: Wishing everyone a lovely day and even better weekend. Going

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Speaker 1: out for my former roommate's birthday tonight. Fun and deaf

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Speaker 1: need a good night out, love and the warm weather.

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Speaker 1: Also like the stream like it we're at We're still

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Speaker 1: not at five outdre likes. We're at four hundred and

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Speaker 1: What's that way that that's a discrepancy that I.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I would say I would say, right now,

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Speaker 1: and for any newcomers. Uh OP has a summer home

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Speaker 1: and came to OP and was like, Hey, can I

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Speaker 2: Is the daughter in law? Yeah? Oh my okay.

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Speaker 1: I think it's pretty messy. I think it's pretty messy.

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Speaker 1: that has consequences. Valley Lily says, the daughter in law

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Speaker 1: is not giving OP a reason for OP to trust her.

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Speaker 1: Smith says, OPI is a justified a whole if anything.

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Speaker 1: if the daughter in law sucks, then maybe someone needs

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Speaker 1: they're a two face bee. Yea. But yeah, I think

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Speaker 1: has she done? I want to know? Yeah, we don't.

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Speaker 1: We don't know all the things that she's done. Anna

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Speaker 1: Bernander says, So, I think she's not the ale for

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Speaker 1: not letting her use it, but she is the a

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Speaker 1: She definitely doesn't have to like loan out her own

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Speaker 1: let's get into this edit. So edit, Oh, someone asks

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Speaker 1: for more examples. Perfect, We're about to find out what

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Speaker 1: lose the baby weight, and is a bad parent. Okay, yeah, justified, justified? Ohp,

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Speaker 1: he's very justified.

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Speaker 1: Daughter in law, she's a big reader. Dinner at their place,

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, super justified. Oh be so justified. This

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Speaker 1: I just needed those examples that she's so she's such

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Speaker 1: I think she's an a hole. For saying it. But

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Speaker 1: she's justified, justified a hole. I think she's a one

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Speaker 1: Needed to be an a hole to this girl. Uh me,

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Speaker 1: She has attacked my clothes multiple times, saying I am

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Speaker 2: Who old? Were jeans?

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Speaker 1: Of? How old? What's the age limit for?

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Speaker 2: Joe John wears them all the time.

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Speaker 1: He's gonna have to stop soon. There are some relevant

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Speaker 2: Yikes, everyone said, uh no, not the a hole? Yeah

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Speaker 2: yeah yeah. The one of the polls are working, so

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Speaker 2: I have to use the YouTube poll.

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Speaker 1: Sorry. Lissandra Rivera says, maybe can you screw up a

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Speaker 1: little bit? But where's ah? Maybe she's tired of her

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Speaker 1: the last drop? Yeah, yeah, fat, she just couldn't take

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Speaker 1: it anymore. Kristin foyle Hat says the daughter in law

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Speaker 1: is horrendous. She deserves everything coming to her, and Terraine says,

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Speaker 1: I'm with op be straight and honest. Uh, And Coral

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Speaker 1: Barrel says the audacity she has to talk, smack and

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Speaker 1: ask for stuff. Yeah, you can't be talking about people

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Speaker 1: Fairlock twelve twenty six says, not the Ale. The reason

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Speaker 1: Arianna Young says, son chose the wrong woman. Yeah, Socrates says,

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Speaker 2: What do you think the prank was? Classic pie in

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Speaker 1: Well, we don't even started it. Let's see what we

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Speaker 1: Brother, that's just you pulling your brother in here.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he's not here yet, but whenever he gets here,

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Speaker 1: Brother. Do you want to give him a different one

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Speaker 1: It'll be worth that. It's a it's just it's a

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Speaker 1: Let me see where he's at. I have his location.

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Speaker 1: Brando G says, Hey, guys, my girlfriend got me into you. Guys,

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Speaker 1: and now I'm addicted. What girlfriend shout at her?

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Speaker 2: Cool, he's uh two streets away? Wait?

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Speaker 1: Two streets away? Guys.

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Speaker 2: Wait, actually it looks like he's lost.

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Speaker 1: It looks like he's lost. Guys.

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Speaker 2: Wait, I almost showed them, but then they know where

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Speaker 1: I got in a fight prior to my daughter's birth

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Speaker 2: Oh? Here, here we are, hey babe, Yes, I'm not

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Speaker 2: really sure of my kids mind. Let's just do a

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Speaker 1: Dare you?

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Speaker 2: You just got a peen the cop?

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Speaker 1: No divorce and that's how it goes?

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Speaker 2: That is yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 1: That's what happens if you ask for a paternity don't

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Speaker 2: Oh the seven hundreds of husbands?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, No. To be clear, this was completely out

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Speaker 2: Reason. He's like, ah, for fun, He's like, just for funds.

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Speaker 1: He's no, you don't understand. It's kind of like a

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Speaker 1: It's like an ancestry test.

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Speaker 2: That's exactly what I was taking. It's like an ancestry test,

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Speaker 2: but for us.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, but like specifically let's check our child.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so we both know it's our.

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Speaker 1: It's just it's just financially sound. You don't understand how

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Speaker 2: Let me look at that up.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I'll let you guys know.

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Speaker 1: I'm a homebody who works remotely with no male friends

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Speaker 2: Or a hundred bucks? They get it?

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Speaker 1: Okay, can you scroll up a little bit? Iris barisis

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Speaker 1: for the ancestors, as mate Amin Hawp says, completely out

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Speaker 1: What that's what they said. I called him while I

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Speaker 1: You haven't even waited until the baby's like added the oven.

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Speaker 2: Give it a good look before you start accusing. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: if you have blue eyes, the baby has blue eyes.

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Speaker 1: Actually most babies are born with blue eyes. Okay, well

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Speaker 2: If you never mind. If you don't have a leg

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Speaker 1: Just this baby hasn't even been burned and not even

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Speaker 2: Was he like solendrug eating? Oh jeez, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: She's calling you.

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Speaker 1: She called you sixteen times.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, in a way, she's calling you back.

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Speaker 1: He called you sixteen times.

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Speaker 2: Oh wait, Okay, now I'm confused. Go on going.

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Speaker 1: However, my brother had my phone and was so angry

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Speaker 1: She didn't make it. Is that too far? Ahole?

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Speaker 2: Ahole, I know you're mad, not cool to say.

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Speaker 1: I think that's too far. Obviously the husband is the ale.

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Speaker 1: I think that is a step too far. Yeah, everyone's

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Speaker 1: But I think that was a little bit the step

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Speaker 1: My brother used to be mostly indifferent to my husband,

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Speaker 1: but now he absolutely hates him. You can see it

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Speaker 1: in his face whenever my husband enters the room, and

439
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Speaker 1: he's been visiting a lot because he doesn't trust my

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Speaker 1: husband to care for me while I'm still healing.

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Speaker 2: Wow.

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00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean the yeah. Truth Warrior says the relationship

443
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Speaker 1: has been over since he asked for a paternity test.

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Speaker 3: One.

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00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 1: Yeah. If it wasn't over, then it's certainly over. When

446
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:41,160
Speaker 1: he didn't answer her sixteen calls and come to the

447
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Speaker 1: hospital when she was having a baby.

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Speaker 2: Yeah that mmmm, so he really the husband really was

449
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Speaker 2: cheating while this was going on.

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00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,520
Speaker 1: We don't know yet. We don't know why he wasn't coming,

451
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Speaker 1: We don't know why he's a cure of cheating herself.

452
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:03,199
Speaker 1: We don't know much yet. We just know that he

453
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Speaker 1: wasn't there for her. M O says too far from

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Speaker 1: the brother still divorce? I agree. I think I would

455
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Speaker 1: love a poll, actually, if we can do a poll

456
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Speaker 1: of do we think that the brother went too far?

457
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Speaker 1: Because I think it's obvious that Opie's husband is the

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Speaker 1: or yeah, husband is the A hole. I think that's

459
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Speaker 1: an easy a hole. But I want to know what

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Speaker 1: you guys think about the brother because I think I

461
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:28,639
Speaker 1: think the brother went too far. But divorce, get rid

462
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Speaker 1: of this husband. But let's keep going while you guys

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Speaker 1: vote on that.

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Speaker 2: Um.

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Speaker 1: My husband is furious that he won't apologize and that

466
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Speaker 1: I won't make him and yelled at me when I

467
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Speaker 1: said that the only reason my brother had my phone

468
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Speaker 1: was because he wasn't there. I'm trying to be empathetic.

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Speaker 1: I know he feels guilty I've spoken to my therapist

470
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Speaker 1: and she says the apathy I'm feeling is likely general

471
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Speaker 1: and not solely focused on him from lingering shock from

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Speaker 1: the trauma, but didn't say much about the prank. My

473
00:25:02,760 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 1: mother in law has been texting me to say that

474
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Speaker 1: my family is horribly cruel for the prank and that

475
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Speaker 1: I should go no contact with my brother, and now

476
00:25:09,720 --> 00:25:11,880
Speaker 1: my husband is saying the same. Okay, well, they don't

477
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Speaker 1: get a say in it. They don't get a say

478
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Speaker 1: in it because he was in there and he was

479
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Speaker 1: horribly cruel for not supporting his wife. I just don't

480
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Speaker 1: know what to do. I'm not in a good headspace.

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Speaker 1: It's been hard to be in the same room with

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Speaker 1: my husband, and I've been sleeping in the guest room

483
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Speaker 1: with my daughter. He brought up the paternity once again.

484
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Speaker 1: He brought it up again, and I just exhaustedly told

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Speaker 1: him to either get out of my face or go

486
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Speaker 1: stay with his mom. If he's planning on stressing me

487
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Speaker 1: out even more, divorce him, divorce him.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

489
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Speaker 1: Naj just says, do not go no contact with your brother.

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Speaker 2: Please.

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Speaker 1: I do think brother went too far. I do think

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Speaker 1: that she should not go no contact though. Yeah, he's

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Speaker 1: the only one who's actually supported her.

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Speaker 2: It was out of like protect Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think he went too far, but at least

496
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Speaker 1: we know he loves her. Yeah, I really don't feel myself.

497
00:26:08,280 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 1: And yes, I am taking the likelihood of PPD seriously,

498
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Speaker 1: and my therapist has who has suggested that it may

499
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Speaker 1: be PTSD too. However, I just want more opinions because

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00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 1: I just don't know. And there are some relevant comments

501
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 1: and an update. But let's read some of your relevant

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Speaker 1: comments in some of your donations before we get into it. Uh.

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Speaker 1: Boost Takita Yancey says, sounds like Opie's dude subscribes to

504
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 1: the mama's baby daddy's maybe to the mama's baby daddy's

505
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Speaker 1: maybe mantra. Many not all dudes do. Husband is absolutely

506
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Speaker 1: weak af Yeah he sucks. Uh. Samantha Eli says what

507
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Speaker 1: a pos I would divorce him and demand court superb visitation.

508
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 1: Lena Covenant says he should feel guilty. The husband was

509
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Speaker 1: a major a for all of it. Divorce him, yeah,

510
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:06,200
Speaker 1: big time. What's the poll saying? Wherevery where's everyone att with?

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00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:12,560
Speaker 2: The poll on YouTube is oh wow? Forty one percent.

512
00:27:12,680 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 2: The brother forty one percent of people say yes, but

513
00:27:15,920 --> 00:27:18,359
Speaker 2: fifty nine percent of people said no. He did not

514
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Speaker 2: go too far.

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Speaker 1: Really okay, yeah, I think I think personally I think

516
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Speaker 1: he went too far, but I think that he's he

517
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:30,399
Speaker 1: did it out of love. Yeah, so I would not

518
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 1: go no contact with them. Wow and a Burnana, thank

519
00:27:32,600 --> 00:27:35,040
Speaker 1: you for the two buck tip. Also, well, actually, let

520
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 1: me read your first one because I think it's in order.

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00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:40,160
Speaker 1: No no, no on the tip page. Yeah and a Burnana,

522
00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:42,160
Speaker 1: thank you for the five buck tip. I was almost

523
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,960
Speaker 1: born in the same way on the way to the

524
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 1: hospital because my dad went on a fishing trip the

525
00:27:47,400 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 1: day my mom went into labor. No, he made it

526
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 1: home just in time, and my mom couldn't sit in

527
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 1: the car because my head was coming out. Whoa, Oh

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00:27:54,920 --> 00:27:56,879
Speaker 1: my god. I was born with a birthmark in the

529
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Speaker 1: shape of a fish. That's such a cute story. Wow,

530
00:28:00,880 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 1: Anna Bannana. I also thank you for the two buck tip. Also,

531
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:05,840
Speaker 1: brother is an a hole, but the husband is as well.

532
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:08,720
Speaker 1: Divorce is a must. Don't go no contact with bro

533
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 1: because he supported her. Agreed, But let's get into some

534
00:28:13,560 --> 00:28:13,880
Speaker 1: of these.

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 1: Actually, Maggie Chee, thank you for the five bucks today's

537
00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 1: a boring day at the bakery work. Looking forward to

538
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:21,920
Speaker 1: this stream. Also, Happy Mother's Day to the mommies who

539
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 1: celebrate on the tenth.

540
00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:24,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, Happy Mom's Day.

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00:28:24,680 --> 00:28:28,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, Marsa, I'll be going home to my mom on Sunday.

542
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,400
Speaker 2: Oh, good for you. I kind of feel bad because

543
00:28:30,400 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 2: I stole my brother from my mom, but that's true.

544
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 2: But she made two more kids to celebrate.

545
00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:36,520
Speaker 1: Ye's She's got extras.

546
00:28:36,640 --> 00:28:38,480
Speaker 2: I cannot. I have a great gift. I can't show

547
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 2: it to you, guys because she watches to get the stream.

548
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 2: But you already don't say anything, you already know what

549
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:47,280
Speaker 2: it is. But I'm super excited give it to her.

550
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 1: Let's get into these relevant comments because I'm super excited

551
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:56,280
Speaker 1: about them. Pastor Pagan says, Holy, there is a lot

552
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:59,240
Speaker 1: here I want to say. Firstly, this isn't a black

553
00:28:59,280 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 1: and white issue.

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00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 2: Okay, read this. I'm sorry.

555
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:04,240
Speaker 1: Okay, Well we'll boss. Let me read this one, and

556
00:29:04,280 --> 00:29:07,200
Speaker 1: then I'll read that the fight you had was real,

557
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 1: your anger was real, and the anger you feel that

558
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,680
Speaker 1: your husband is real. Your brother's prank was too far,

559
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 1: but not completely undeserving. The big issue is that everyone's

560
00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:20,239
Speaker 1: pride is still seemingly involved here, and there isn't a

561
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 1: concrete solution when everyone is pointing fingers. I suggest waiting

562
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 1: two months to see if either one party humbles themselves

563
00:29:27,280 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 1: or lets or to let it peek. But if they

564
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:33,320
Speaker 1: keep conflict going, let everyone know they're cut off. It's

565
00:29:33,320 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 1: not fair to you to have to choose one or

566
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:37,840
Speaker 1: another party when it was you and labor and your

567
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: life on the line. And OP responds if it came

568
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:43,640
Speaker 1: to a choice. At this moment, I feel like I

569
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:46,040
Speaker 1: choose my brother. He has never not been there for

570
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:49,720
Speaker 1: me and literally the older brother every sister wants. I

571
00:29:49,760 --> 00:29:52,880
Speaker 1: feel so guilty for feeling that way, but also my brother,

572
00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,479
Speaker 1: even though he absolutely hates my husband right now, has

573
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 1: put that aside to help me and hasn't brought it

574
00:29:57,840 --> 00:30:01,000
Speaker 1: up at all, and has even ignored my husband's anger

575
00:30:01,040 --> 00:30:03,680
Speaker 1: because he doesn't want to get into an argument and

576
00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 1: stress me more. I'm still just feeling like I'm not

577
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:09,840
Speaker 1: looking at this clearly enough because he's my husband, and

578
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:12,480
Speaker 1: my own anger about this is too much wrapped in

579
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 1: trauma right now. And there is an update, but I think, oh,

580
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:19,960
Speaker 1: he's right, and should she should go with her brother,

581
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:23,560
Speaker 1: But Spicy cookie. Thank you for the five buck tip.

582
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:28,000
Speaker 1: Brother went too far, but it is somewhat understandable. Husband

583
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 1: is more than likely cheating and trying to pin it

584
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Speaker 1: on her, projecting one out of every ten men cheat

585
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 1: on their wives and it increases with fetus growth.

586
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 2: Oh wow, that is a sististic.

587
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 1: That's such a sad statistic.

588
00:30:42,000 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

589
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Speaker 1: Thanks, I've fet that though, procuto. Thank you for the

590
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 1: five bucks first treat. I made it too at work,

591
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:53,840
Speaker 1: but I don't care. Welcome. Thank you for joining us.

592
00:30:54,200 --> 00:30:56,120
Speaker 1: Olivia Claire, thank you for the two buck tip. I

593
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Speaker 1: just finished grad school. Congratulation. Wow, I wanted to thank

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Speaker 1: you guys for getting me through my last semester. When

595
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 1: I had to poll late nights, I'd play a bunch

596
00:31:05,520 --> 00:31:08,480
Speaker 1: of okop to listen to. Also sending a package sone.

597
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 1: I love y'all.

598
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:11,480
Speaker 2: Every time someone's like, I listen to you guys, will

599
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 2: I study and.

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00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:17,160
Speaker 1: I I don't get it, but I think it's very sweet.

601
00:31:17,520 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 2: Congrats that in a way we got you through grad school.

602
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:24,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, if you think about it, we did them. No congratulated,

603
00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:28,240
Speaker 1: She'd be very proud for finishing grad school. What did

604
00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:30,400
Speaker 1: you graduate with? Like?

605
00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 2: Like grad told you you're graduated with grad.

606
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:36,640
Speaker 1: You graduated with grad. I just want to know what

607
00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:39,440
Speaker 1: what major or you know what she was?

608
00:31:40,160 --> 00:31:43,120
Speaker 2: Damn you're The audio listeners are loving this.

609
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 1: I know. I'm sorry it keeps falling, but let's get

610
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:51,440
Speaker 1: into these this update. I can't update the old post,

611
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 1: but since so many people reached out, I thought i'd

612
00:31:54,120 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 1: make a new one. And so I don't think this

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Speaker 1: will be something we can come back from. I just

614
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 1: don't think I'll be able to heal with him because

615
00:32:02,200 --> 00:32:04,360
Speaker 1: there is no way he didn't know it was me calling,

616
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 1: and he still hasn't told me why he didn't answer.

617
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 2: Just gave me a hug too, Thank you. Someone died, Okay,

618
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:14,520
Speaker 2: no one died.

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Speaker 1: We're good. No one died. Everything's good. Sam just wanted

620
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:20,720
Speaker 1: to give us a hug on stream. Thank you.

621
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:26,479
Speaker 2: We're going to get a good stopping point.

622
00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:27,440
Speaker 1: Where was I.

623
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Speaker 3: Date?

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Speaker 1: I just don't think I'll be able to heal with

625
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 1: him because there's no way he didn't know it was

626
00:32:34,400 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 1: me calling, and he still hasn't told me why he

627
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:40,600
Speaker 1: didn't answer. I know I thought I wouldn't decide right away,

628
00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 1: but I actually don't want to forget how terrible. It

629
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:45,720
Speaker 1: was waiting on him, thinking he couldn't possibly lead me

630
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:49,160
Speaker 1: like that, no matter how angry he was. I took

631
00:32:49,360 --> 00:32:51,480
Speaker 1: the time to think of that moment before it all

632
00:32:51,480 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 1: went down, and just how grossly betrayed and scared and

633
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:58,840
Speaker 1: alone I felt. Well. The contractions were hitting and I

634
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:01,560
Speaker 1: was on my knees trying to breathe through the pain

635
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:04,959
Speaker 1: while waiting on the phone while it rang through. Damn,

636
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 1: and I just don't think there's any coming back from that.

637
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:11,320
Speaker 1: I wouldn't want my daughter to think it's okay to

638
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 1: stay with a man who destroyed her trust that way. Either.

639
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 1: This is so sad. I will be contacting an attorney

640
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:20,719
Speaker 1: and will be meeting with them in the coming weeks.

641
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,360
Speaker 1: We had a prenup, so it hopefully won't be too hellish.

642
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 1: I hope. I feel like this situation became even clearer

643
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 1: when my friend asked me if i'd still trust him

644
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:31,200
Speaker 1: as the one to sign off on my medical papers,

645
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: and the reaction to that idea was visceral. I wouldn't,

646
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 1: and I wanted to get off that legality as soon

647
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Speaker 1: as possible. In fact, there are roommates I had in

648
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:45,040
Speaker 1: college who I would trust more than him. I would

649
00:33:45,080 --> 00:33:48,520
Speaker 1: have never ignored so many calls from him consecutively unless

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Speaker 1: I had told him expressly that I was unavailable at

651
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Speaker 1: a specific time, and even then. I feel good with

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Speaker 1: my brother and sister in law here with me, especially

653
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Speaker 1: so with her being a nurse and having been there

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Speaker 1: through the birth. It's really helped us bond in a

655
00:34:02,680 --> 00:34:05,240
Speaker 1: way that we've never really had time to. I also

656
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:08,000
Speaker 1: finally told my old friends about the baby, and they

657
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:10,120
Speaker 1: are alternating to come and help me out for the

658
00:34:10,120 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 1: next little while. None of this even touched the paternity test,

659
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:18,040
Speaker 1: but I'll get it for the proceedings, I guess, so

660
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:21,920
Speaker 1: I guess I'll get what he wanted. Anyways, I'm safe

661
00:34:22,160 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 1: and well, and my daughter is healthy and happy as

662
00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:27,160
Speaker 1: a peach and pretty much an angel who was happy

663
00:34:27,200 --> 00:34:30,440
Speaker 1: to sleep peacefully anywhere and took to the boob with ease,

664
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:33,880
Speaker 1: which is such a blessing since everything still hurts. Just

665
00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:36,920
Speaker 1: making this decision has taken an odd weight off my shoulders,

666
00:34:36,960 --> 00:34:40,760
Speaker 1: and my sister in law has been really helping us bond. Anyway.

667
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:42,880
Speaker 1: Thank you for letting me write this out. I'm not

668
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:45,760
Speaker 1: good at diaries or journals, but writing to people feels different,

669
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:48,880
Speaker 1: and it's actually brilliant for the clarity of the situation.

670
00:34:49,520 --> 00:34:52,760
Speaker 1: Even my therapist said that I seemed clearer and calmer.

671
00:34:53,640 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 1: And there is one more update, well, a story before

672
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:01,000
Speaker 1: we before it closes out. I'm really happy that op

673
00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: was able to make this decision because I think this

674
00:35:03,200 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 1: is the best decision for op Yeah, because it's it

675
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:09,080
Speaker 1: does not seem like Opie's husband had her best interests

676
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:12,840
Speaker 1: at heart or was a healthy person to be in

677
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:17,839
Speaker 1: her life. Seemed very toxic. Yeah, but it seems that

678
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 1: she has good people around her now, which makes me happy.

679
00:35:22,160 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 1: But let's get into this update. Some intro into the case,

680
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:30,400
Speaker 1: popped the paternity question on me with no reason. We

681
00:35:30,480 --> 00:35:32,400
Speaker 1: fought for a couple of days before I went to

682
00:35:32,440 --> 00:35:36,279
Speaker 1: my brothers, went into labor, called him sixteen times. Blah

683
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:39,440
Speaker 1: blah blah blah. I will know. I will now be

684
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:43,320
Speaker 1: going forward with divorcing him, as I no longer trust

685
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:45,840
Speaker 1: him as a partner. We do have a prenup, me

686
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 1: with my house and my business and him with money

687
00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 1: from his family. I do intend on filing for full

688
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 1: custody as I think his reaction, whether spiteful or not,

689
00:35:54,840 --> 00:35:58,359
Speaker 1: was dangerous and as a father, missing calls twenty three

690
00:35:58,440 --> 00:36:00,279
Speaker 1: plus in a row could be a life, life and

691
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:05,440
Speaker 1: death situation. Yeah, my dad answers almost all my calls,

692
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 1: even like no matter what time. Oh yeah, it's very nice. Yeah.

693
00:36:10,040 --> 00:36:11,840
Speaker 1: He will have his phone on and for like in

694
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:14,040
Speaker 1: the middle of the night and if I call him,

695
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 1: he'll pick up. We should test that one there. I

696
00:36:16,840 --> 00:36:19,640
Speaker 1: would feel bad. He would wake up and be like,

697
00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:22,960
Speaker 1: I'm sleeping. Yeah, that's what he always does that.

698
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:25,360
Speaker 2: Yeah.

699
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:27,759
Speaker 1: Or if he doesn't pick up, pull text me and

700
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:28,839
Speaker 1: say can I call you later?

701
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:29,880
Speaker 2: Or is it important?

702
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 1: Yeah? Uh, but there are some relevant comments. Wait, did

703
00:36:36,040 --> 00:36:40,799
Speaker 1: I I feel like I think I did? Ok? Yeah,

704
00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:44,279
Speaker 1: I did the miss. Is it always worth investigating infidelity

705
00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 1: and divorces if it's just if it's suspected, And do

706
00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:52,839
Speaker 1: any divorce lawyers find this all seemingly suspicious in their opinions?

707
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:55,759
Speaker 1: I will be contacting my lawyer this week. I will

708
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 1: be likely getting a paternity test for the divorce. And

709
00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 1: there are, as I said, some relevant comments. So let's

710
00:37:02,560 --> 00:37:07,600
Speaker 1: get into that. Anarcho Krim says, there's almost no chance

711
00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:10,400
Speaker 1: that you'll be awarded full custody because your husband ignored

712
00:37:10,400 --> 00:37:12,520
Speaker 1: phone calls and wasn't present for the birth of child.

713
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:16,160
Speaker 1: Often mothers have majority custody while the infant is young

714
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:21,239
Speaker 1: and gradually transition towards a more equitable arrangement. Whether or

715
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:23,840
Speaker 1: not whether or not it's in your best interest to

716
00:37:23,880 --> 00:37:28,440
Speaker 1: investigate potential infidelity depends on your location, the contents of

717
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 1: your prenup, and other factors. Eta If, for example, you

718
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 1: live in a fault state where cheating could affect the

719
00:37:34,560 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 1: distribution of marital assets, or your prenup contains an infidelity

720
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:42,360
Speaker 1: clause that would benefit you, then this might be worth pursuing.

721
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 1: You need to discuss this with your lawyer. Your question

722
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:50,960
Speaker 1: about your husband projecting is more psychological than legal. Okay,

723
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:54,520
Speaker 1: So I think what this commoner is saying is op

724
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:57,719
Speaker 1: wouldn't be able to get full custody just for the

725
00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 1: husband missing calls, but may be able to get custody

726
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:05,480
Speaker 1: if if, if she finds out whether.

727
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:07,799
Speaker 2: Or not he was cheating, did you get her she

728
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:10,359
Speaker 2: could benefit from Yeah?

729
00:38:10,560 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 1: Opie responds with thank you. I will follow my lawyer's lead,

730
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:16,399
Speaker 1: but I do feel rather strongly about a man who

731
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:19,600
Speaker 1: would put spite over another person's well being when they

732
00:38:19,680 --> 00:38:22,840
Speaker 1: know that they are in a vulnerable position as a

733
00:38:22,880 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 1: reason not to have a child rely on them. I

734
00:38:25,760 --> 00:38:27,799
Speaker 1: never thought I would be saying that I married him,

735
00:38:28,160 --> 00:38:30,640
Speaker 1: but I think anyone that has an unreliable partner should

736
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 1: be aware of such further children. It is not my

737
00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:35,840
Speaker 1: intention to keep him from her, and I agree it

738
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:38,440
Speaker 1: is a more psychological term. It was just used a

739
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 1: lot in regards to his actions, and I was curious

740
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:44,080
Speaker 1: if divorce lawyer found that a lot of fault infidelity

741
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 1: accusations came from partners who were cheating themselves, and that,

742
00:38:49,960 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 1: my friends, is the end of the story. Ooh, that

743
00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:57,239
Speaker 1: was a lot. I feel bad for Opie, but I'm

744
00:38:57,239 --> 00:39:02,360
Speaker 1: glad that they've distanced themselves from their stinky husband. Yeah,

745
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:04,360
Speaker 1: her husband sucks.

746
00:39:04,440 --> 00:39:07,799
Speaker 2: That is true. Do you guys think that? Do you

747
00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:12,240
Speaker 2: think he she should look and do if he cheated?

748
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:15,719
Speaker 1: Maybe because it could help with the divorce proceedings.

749
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:17,719
Speaker 2: I agree with that, But in a way, do you

750
00:39:17,760 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 2: want to know?

751
00:39:18,400 --> 00:39:20,400
Speaker 1: Yeah? Do you need to know? It seems like if

752
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:24,120
Speaker 1: you have a prenup then maybe maybe it's I don't know,

753
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 1: maybe it's not worth it.

754
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 2: Yeah. I hate to be this way, but like I've

755
00:39:29,120 --> 00:39:32,040
Speaker 2: come to the conclusion that like I don't ask questions.

756
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,080
Speaker 2: I don't want to know the answers too. That makes sense,

757
00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:39,560
Speaker 2: so I probably wouldn't want to know. Yeah, uh oh,

758
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:43,520
Speaker 2: look who's here. Yeah that's the story. We have a

759
00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:47,560
Speaker 2: special guest. Everyone, Special guests are special guests. Are go,

760
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:51,719
Speaker 2: sit in the chair. I'm not gonna let you see him. Yeah, yeah,

761
00:39:51,760 --> 00:39:53,840
Speaker 2: this is this is a big one. This guy flew

762
00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:56,760
Speaker 2: all the way in from North Carolina and North Kakalaki

763
00:39:56,840 --> 00:39:58,759
Speaker 2: to see me. That he got time off at the

764
00:39:58,760 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 2: sawmill to to be here today. I give you, mister Tate.

765
00:40:03,760 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 2: Oh wow, you're big. Yeah, I got just the camera.

766
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:19,960
Speaker 1: Tim usually slouches light them up, but ah, what.

767
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:21,520
Speaker 2: Do you think? This is what I This is what

768
00:40:21,560 --> 00:40:23,040
Speaker 2: I do for a living, Tate. I don't have to,

769
00:40:23,440 --> 00:40:26,880
Speaker 2: you know, mess with wood or you know, shovel things.

770
00:40:27,680 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 2: I do this. Get the mic closer.

771
00:40:32,120 --> 00:40:32,960
Speaker 3: In there.

772
00:40:34,640 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 2: There we go. Yeah, look at that. Yeah. Everyone, So

773
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:41,960
Speaker 2: we spun the will and we got you here. They

774
00:40:42,000 --> 00:40:45,879
Speaker 2: all want to hear a story about us whenever we

775
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:49,400
Speaker 2: were younger, when we were younger, or like anything storm

776
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 2: related some Riley Loure.

777
00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:58,160
Speaker 3: I've got it.

778
00:40:58,800 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 1: I have to.

779
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:02,840
Speaker 3: I have to have the hup with it because you're.

780
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 1: Always at Riley's always asking for more sure is.

781
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:07,680
Speaker 3: And like, I just never know what story.

782
00:41:08,000 --> 00:41:09,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, if Sam, if you asked me a story

783
00:41:09,920 --> 00:41:11,680
Speaker 1: about Sam, I wouldn't be able to come up with. Yeah.

784
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:20,400
Speaker 2: It's it's tough, okay, the big protein shut up. Yeah.

785
00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 3: But who who do you guys think is older?

786
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:26,319
Speaker 2: They? I think they know, do they know? But a

787
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 2: lot of people don't know, and it's shocking what they say.

788
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:35,040
Speaker 3: Okay, So my story back home, we have a garden

789
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:39,239
Speaker 3: and our grandparents used to make us work in this

790
00:41:39,320 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 3: garden whenever we were younger. So we had like potatoes,

791
00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:47,160
Speaker 3: green beans, corn, like all all the different things. And

792
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:50,480
Speaker 3: we had a bunch of rocks in our uh like

793
00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:54,239
Speaker 3: in the garden, and so we would, you know, take them,

794
00:41:54,280 --> 00:41:55,560
Speaker 3: like we'd pick them up and like we'd just throw

795
00:41:55,600 --> 00:42:01,440
Speaker 3: them into the woods. So we were pulling potatoes and

796
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:04,480
Speaker 3: my Riley and my grandpa are.

797
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:08,359
Speaker 2: Out there digging up potatoes and so but no, we

798
00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:10,319
Speaker 2: were planning them and we what we do is if

799
00:42:10,360 --> 00:42:13,840
Speaker 2: they were bad, we would throw them. That's what it was.

800
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:16,520
Speaker 3: I thought we were pulling them out of no, no, no, oh,

801
00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:17,839
Speaker 3: I guess yeah, we were pulling.

802
00:42:17,880 --> 00:42:20,720
Speaker 2: Some of them were moldy, moldy. Yeah, okay.

803
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:25,280
Speaker 3: And so we're pulling up potatoes and I see Riley.

804
00:42:25,960 --> 00:42:27,399
Speaker 3: I thought he had a rock in his hand.

805
00:42:28,600 --> 00:42:30,040
Speaker 2: I see him throw it.

806
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 3: Launch is the thing boom smacks my grandpa right in

807
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:38,640
Speaker 3: the eye. And I'm just like, how old is your grandpa?

808
00:42:40,120 --> 00:42:40,600
Speaker 2: Sixty?

809
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:42,960
Speaker 1: He's in a sixty He's like sixty.

810
00:42:44,280 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, and so it just smacks him in the face.

811
00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 3: And I was like, not pata, and he just looks

812
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:55,280
Speaker 3: at us and he said, I'm glad that was a potato.

813
00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:59,759
Speaker 3: And it was like, oh, thank goodness, but still smack him, dude,

814
00:42:59,760 --> 00:43:01,960
Speaker 3: it was a multi potato that smacked them right in

815
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 3: the eye.

816
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:06,120
Speaker 1: Wow. Yeah, probably smacking people in the eyes of potatoes.

817
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, dangerous, but that yeah, but yeah, that's what happened.

818
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:12,880
Speaker 2: That's we spent countless hours. Like a part of my

819
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:17,359
Speaker 2: childhood is stuck in the uh garden because like we

820
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:19,040
Speaker 2: were rooted. It's in the gorden.

821
00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 1: Were the potatoes. Were they good? Always?

822
00:43:21,800 --> 00:43:24,760
Speaker 2: Always good? Yeah? Fried potatoes, green beans. We have bushel

823
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:26,239
Speaker 2: green beans all the time. Me and Tato used to

824
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:28,360
Speaker 2: make bank off that we had to, dude, think about this.

825
00:43:28,400 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 2: We had two full time jobs. Whenever we were in

826
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:32,520
Speaker 2: the summers.

827
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:34,799
Speaker 3: We did we would go work at the sawmill. We'd

828
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:37,480
Speaker 3: go from six thirty in the morning to three thirty

829
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 3: in the afternoon, come home and work in the garden

830
00:43:42,200 --> 00:43:45,080
Speaker 3: till it was like sundown.

831
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:49,480
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah really, and I wake up at like

832
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:53,600
Speaker 1: time thirty. We sit in our and we sit in

833
00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:55,399
Speaker 1: our chair gab.

834
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:57,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah we do.

835
00:43:57,640 --> 00:44:01,040
Speaker 3: Dude, it's crazy. Our great grind father still does that.

836
00:44:01,480 --> 00:44:03,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, he's ninety.

837
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:07,080
Speaker 1: He's ninety nowak.

838
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:12,280
Speaker 2: We have grandfather, grandfather Richard, great grandfather George. Wow, George

839
00:44:12,719 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 2: George Lobb. A dog love a dog. Yeah, thanks stay

840
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:20,160
Speaker 2: for joining us, Thanks for having me.

841
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:22,640
Speaker 3: Thank you, thank your stream.

842
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:27,320
Speaker 1: Than you do. Everyone say hi and bye goodbye.

843
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 2: Summer summer hours long. Yeah. So like we whenever they're

844
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 2: the school system, we're like we're getting off for because

845
00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:36,400
Speaker 2: the real reason why we have offer summers is so

846
00:44:36,480 --> 00:44:38,360
Speaker 2: like the kids can help out with the garden.

847
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 1: Well, that's why we have daylight savings. The farmers made

848
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:45,719
Speaker 1: that because they wanted to work when it was light out.

849
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:51,200
Speaker 2: That's that's what happened. Yeah, yeh, let's tay. He's me

850
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:53,240
Speaker 2: how's his accent.

851
00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 1: It's it's a little bit stronger than yours, but yours

852
00:44:57,040 --> 00:45:02,880
Speaker 1: came out a little bit more. It started it started

853
00:45:02,960 --> 00:45:06,600
Speaker 1: like leaning into it. Yeah, I actually know a little.

854
00:45:06,680 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 1: I know most of the farming information that I know

855
00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:12,560
Speaker 1: I got from Little House on the Prairie.

856
00:45:12,800 --> 00:45:15,719
Speaker 2: Oh, I don't like that show.

857
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:18,000
Speaker 1: It's a book serious as well.

858
00:45:18,280 --> 00:45:22,680
Speaker 2: It's so and I was it's so what it's so like?

859
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:28,879
Speaker 2: What what is that like like? Whenever I imagine Little

860
00:45:28,880 --> 00:45:31,320
Speaker 2: House of the Prairie, I think of like people running

861
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 2: through the having a good time, running through the fields

862
00:45:34,120 --> 00:45:34,480
Speaker 2: and stuff.

863
00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:39,480
Speaker 1: So they go through hardships. People almost die in that books.

864
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:45,360
Speaker 2: People die all the time. Well anyways, sorry, whatever the

865
00:45:45,560 --> 00:45:46,040
Speaker 2: next story.

866
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:50,880
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for telling my husband that

867
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: he wasn't like my previous partners? I don't know where

868
00:45:55,080 --> 00:46:00,160
Speaker 1: am i? Oh I skipped one? I'm sorry, I go

869
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 1: to Okay, that was a secret.

870
00:46:03,360 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 2: Oh dude, worm madeen Aoki, Hi brother of Riley. That's

871
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:11,439
Speaker 2: say I got the job today today, let us go.

872
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:16,120
Speaker 2: I love this like like little like c storyline in

873
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:18,360
Speaker 2: all this, I feel like John and Sam or a storyline.

874
00:46:18,360 --> 00:46:19,280
Speaker 2: We're b storyline.

875
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, and we get all of your guys's lore.

876
00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:23,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, we get like we got some lord going on. Yeah,

877
00:46:23,880 --> 00:46:27,359
Speaker 2: if you guys don't know Aoki lost their job, wasn't

878
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 2: it last week?

879
00:46:28,200 --> 00:46:31,320
Speaker 1: Yeah? It was last week you got Yeah, you lost.

880
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:33,879
Speaker 2: Last Tuesday on stream or Monday on stream and.

881
00:46:33,840 --> 00:46:35,920
Speaker 1: Then and then you applied for a job.

882
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:37,960
Speaker 2: Wait, I think it was this week. She lost her

883
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:39,719
Speaker 2: job and lost it and got a new job within

884
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:40,040
Speaker 2: a week.

885
00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 1: That's amazing.

886
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:47,839
Speaker 2: Gets in the chatter efficiency. Oh my gosh, wild, thank

887
00:46:47,880 --> 00:46:50,400
Speaker 2: you for the one back tip Worm Queen Duke of Orange,

888
00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:52,399
Speaker 2: Pigeon Boy, Prince Protein and.

889
00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 1: Now Lord Data Lord Tata Sydney without Kenney says people

890
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:04,160
Speaker 1: die every day. Someone's got to live that life. True. True,

891
00:47:04,719 --> 00:47:11,279
Speaker 1: let's get into the correct story. Oh on, okay? Am

892
00:47:11,320 --> 00:47:13,759
Speaker 1: I the a hole for telling my pregnant wife that

893
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:16,800
Speaker 1: people might not think she's pregnant?

894
00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 2: Is that a compliment? Yeah?

895
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 1: What does that mean? What do you mean?

896
00:47:21,120 --> 00:47:21,200
Speaker 2: Like?

897
00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:24,000
Speaker 1: I feel like if if someone was like, oh, you

898
00:47:24,000 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 1: don't even look pregnant, they might take that as a compliment.

899
00:47:28,120 --> 00:47:29,640
Speaker 2: Yeah.

900
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe maybe that's not what they mean.

901
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:33,920
Speaker 1: I don't know, let's get into us.

902
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 2: Or maybe maybe they're like, I love maturity clothing and

903
00:47:37,640 --> 00:47:40,080
Speaker 2: I want to wear all the really pregnantgnant.

904
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:41,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're like, you don't even look pregnant. They're like,

905
00:47:41,840 --> 00:47:46,200
Speaker 1: I am, I am a baby. I don't know so

906
00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 1: No Bridge eighteen ninety one says, am I the a

907
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 1: hole for telling my pregnant wife that people might not

908
00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:55,440
Speaker 1: think she's pregnant. My wife of eight years is four

909
00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 1: months pregnant and we're currently on a beautiful beach vacation.

910
00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 1: She's always been a natural thin woman, and prior to

911
00:48:01,440 --> 00:48:05,799
Speaker 1: getting pregnant, led pilotts and yoga classes. She's the kind

912
00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 1: of person who takes a ton of pride in their

913
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 1: physical health.

914
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 2: Nice.

915
00:48:09,320 --> 00:48:11,440
Speaker 1: A few days before this trip, she wanted me to

916
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:14,040
Speaker 1: go swimsuit shopping. I obliged, and we went to a

917
00:48:14,080 --> 00:48:18,040
Speaker 1: few different stores. Every shopping trip ended in her crying

918
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 1: in the dressing room because she hates the way her

919
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:26,000
Speaker 1: body looks. Uh, you can't effing get over the fact

920
00:48:26,040 --> 00:48:28,359
Speaker 1: she has a belly now and things don't fit the same.

921
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 2: Dude. Ah, so tough because like all the like hormones

922
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:34,759
Speaker 2: your body's producing at.

923
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 1: Yeah too, and your body looks drastically different.

924
00:48:38,400 --> 00:48:40,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're going a person, Yeah, you're.

925
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:43,880
Speaker 1: Going a person, You're going a person. I think she

926
00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:47,640
Speaker 1: looks incredible. And I was extremely patient the entire swimsuit

927
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:51,280
Speaker 1: shopping fiasco. She kept calling herself that and being pretty

928
00:48:51,280 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 1: over dramatic about everything. Oh well, don't say she's being

929
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:58,280
Speaker 1: over dramatic. Finally she settled on something. I kept assuring

930
00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:00,719
Speaker 1: her over and over that I think she looked incredible.

931
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:04,480
Speaker 1: She does. Coral Barl says, every pregnancy is different. I

932
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:06,920
Speaker 1: love my baby bomb. Yeah. Some people are like, you know,

933
00:49:07,480 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 1: can get down for it, and some people have a

934
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:13,400
Speaker 1: harder time. Uh. Fast forward, and this morning we decided

935
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:16,680
Speaker 1: to make a trip down to the pool. I'm getting

936
00:49:16,680 --> 00:49:19,040
Speaker 1: our son ready and she comes out in her neomes

937
00:49:19,040 --> 00:49:23,880
Speaker 1: in her new swimsuit. Okay, so pause, they have a

938
00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:27,799
Speaker 1: son already. So it's I'm wondering if she had this

939
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:32,320
Speaker 1: problem before or if this is just exclusive to this pregnancy.

940
00:49:32,520 --> 00:49:35,160
Speaker 2: I want to put money exclusive to this pregnancy, because

941
00:49:35,160 --> 00:49:37,680
Speaker 2: she started working out a little bit more. Yeah, and

942
00:49:38,880 --> 00:49:42,160
Speaker 2: whenever you work out stuff, you are more harsh on yourself.

943
00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:44,439
Speaker 2: Like whenever I worked out across it, I was like, dang,

944
00:49:44,480 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 2: I look like pretty big da da da da da da.

945
00:49:47,080 --> 00:49:48,920
Speaker 2: But now says, I don't. I really don't have that

946
00:49:49,520 --> 00:49:51,600
Speaker 2: thoughts and stuff, because I think it has a lot

947
00:49:51,640 --> 00:49:53,439
Speaker 2: to do with your year around. Everyone else is looking

948
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 2: great and you're like really judgmental ONLF.

949
00:49:55,520 --> 00:49:57,320
Speaker 1: Yeah you're looking great, Rennie.

950
00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:57,239
Speaker 2: Thank you.

951
00:49:57,320 --> 00:49:59,160
Speaker 1: I appreciate it. You scow up a little bit.

952
00:49:59,160 --> 00:50:06,520
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh uh.

953
00:50:06,800 --> 00:50:10,360
Speaker 1: Here ybird Folio's book says it's a hard adjustment, especially

954
00:50:10,440 --> 00:50:13,040
Speaker 1: if you've had a particular body type her whole life.

955
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:17,280
Speaker 1: Then it's all out of your control. Yeah uh, And

956
00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:22,000
Speaker 1: Yoga Girl says, wait up a little bit, uh lo Lol.

957
00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:24,239
Speaker 1: I didn't show until it was six months long on

958
00:50:24,320 --> 00:50:27,000
Speaker 1: five foot seven inches, and I wore a size to all.

959
00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:32,440
Speaker 1: Poor girl, it was hard. And then one more Bravos.

960
00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:35,399
Speaker 1: Scruffy says, as someone who was recently pregnant, just don't

961
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:38,359
Speaker 1: comment on our bodies. I was huge and was very

962
00:50:38,400 --> 00:50:41,800
Speaker 1: self conscious about about it, but kept silent. My cousin

963
00:50:41,880 --> 00:50:45,399
Speaker 1: was tiny and was upset because she wanted the cute belly. Yeah.

964
00:50:45,440 --> 00:50:47,920
Speaker 1: I think I think the best case scenario is just

965
00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:48,720
Speaker 1: don't say anything.

966
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:51,240
Speaker 2: It's not to comment. I'm not even whatever that happens.

967
00:50:51,280 --> 00:50:53,480
Speaker 2: I'm not even an acknowledge that she's pregnant. I'm just

968
00:50:53,520 --> 00:50:56,279
Speaker 2: gonna be like, yeah, don't bring it up until they

969
00:50:56,280 --> 00:50:59,960
Speaker 2: bring it up. Yeah, Like, hey, do that you're whatever,

970
00:51:00,200 --> 00:51:03,440
Speaker 2: you're nine months pregnant. You can take out the trash.

971
00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:09,520
Speaker 2: They don't want me to comment on their bodies, right, uh.

972
00:51:09,880 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 1: Jan Geene Williams, thank you for celebrating your two months

973
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:17,120
Speaker 1: of membership. Renewed my membership for my birthday today. Happy birthday, Birthday.

974
00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:20,560
Speaker 1: You guys are awesome. You're awesome. I hope your birthday

975
00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 1: is going amazing. But let's keep going with the story.

976
00:51:24,360 --> 00:51:26,720
Speaker 2: It's some hb d's in the chat.

977
00:51:27,600 --> 00:51:30,000
Speaker 1: Fast forward and this morning we decided to make a

978
00:51:30,040 --> 00:51:32,919
Speaker 1: trip down to the pool. I'm getting our son ready

979
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:35,239
Speaker 1: and she comes out in her new swimsuit. I tell

980
00:51:35,280 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 1: her she looks cute and I loved it. Couldn't take

981
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:40,600
Speaker 1: my eyes off of her. Then I said something that

982
00:51:40,680 --> 00:51:43,359
Speaker 1: had the same reaction as if I spread my butt

983
00:51:43,360 --> 00:51:46,520
Speaker 1: apart and took a poop on a five star restaurant table.

984
00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:51,680
Speaker 1: Very vivid. I said, Honestly, babe, people might not even

985
00:51:51,760 --> 00:51:57,440
Speaker 1: think you're pregnant. He's just Oh no. She looks stunned

986
00:51:57,520 --> 00:52:00,040
Speaker 1: and horrified. She asked, you don't think people will no,

987
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:03,879
Speaker 1: I'm pregnant. My stomach is huge, And she's right, it's

988
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:07,120
Speaker 1: a decent size compared to her pre pregnancy body. But

989
00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:10,120
Speaker 1: people have stomachs that are that size without being pregnant.

990
00:52:10,160 --> 00:52:11,600
Speaker 1: And that's all I was trying to say.

991
00:52:12,280 --> 00:52:14,719
Speaker 2: Comparison is the thief of joy.

992
00:52:14,920 --> 00:52:18,680
Speaker 1: Damn, he is just putting his foot in his mouth. Uh,

993
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:23,600
Speaker 1: immediate tears, immediately freaking out and changed into clothes and

994
00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:26,200
Speaker 1: is now refusing to come down to the pool. She

995
00:52:26,239 --> 00:52:27,920
Speaker 1: said she doesn't want people to think she is a

996
00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:31,040
Speaker 1: big belly. She wants people to think she's pregnant. I

997
00:52:31,120 --> 00:52:33,239
Speaker 1: told her I can't control what people think, and that

998
00:52:33,320 --> 00:52:36,279
Speaker 1: people might not realize she's pregnant. I started to get

999
00:52:36,320 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 1: really pissed off because I personally have a bit of

1000
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:41,520
Speaker 1: a belly, and she's making it seem like it's so

1001
00:52:41,640 --> 00:52:44,960
Speaker 1: insulting to have that. Yeah, that's the thing. When you

1002
00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:49,520
Speaker 1: like focus, I like, it's can be really hard to

1003
00:52:49,560 --> 00:52:52,120
Speaker 1: have your body change, especially when it's completely out of

1004
00:52:52,160 --> 00:52:55,759
Speaker 1: your control and really quickly and really quickly. So I

1005
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:59,400
Speaker 1: totally understand where she's coming from. But also you have

1006
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:01,839
Speaker 1: to be careful with how you talk about your own

1007
00:53:01,880 --> 00:53:06,000
Speaker 1: body because you're you can also insult other people's body types,

1008
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:10,960
Speaker 1: and you don't want to do that, you know. I

1009
00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:14,480
Speaker 1: genuinely don't understand the big deal. I think she's being ridiculous.

1010
00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:17,040
Speaker 1: She cares too much about what people think and is

1011
00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:20,160
Speaker 1: now ruining our trip by staying inside and not making

1012
00:53:20,360 --> 00:53:24,239
Speaker 1: memories with her Sonlessandra Rivera says, she's so hormonal. Yeah,

1013
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:27,320
Speaker 1: that could also be a huge contributor in this. Instead,

1014
00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:29,600
Speaker 1: she's crying in a hotel room, throwing it in my

1015
00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:32,160
Speaker 1: face that she paid for everything for this trip and

1016
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:35,400
Speaker 1: I ruined it for her. I love her more than

1017
00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:39,040
Speaker 1: anything and find her effing sexy as hell, pregnancy or not.

1018
00:53:39,560 --> 00:53:41,520
Speaker 1: But this is getting out of hand, and I'm fed

1019
00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:43,839
Speaker 1: up with all this talk about her feeling insecure when

1020
00:53:43,840 --> 00:53:46,360
Speaker 1: she still looks perfectly fine. Hikes.

1021
00:53:46,400 --> 00:53:48,920
Speaker 2: My brother just needs a that's what he's.

1022
00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:55,200
Speaker 1: Doing, Dutchesscauzana says, bro, No, don't make it about yourself

1023
00:53:55,320 --> 00:53:58,719
Speaker 1: right now. That's the thing. Yeah, she's going through a

1024
00:53:58,800 --> 00:53:59,960
Speaker 1: law right now with the pregnant.

1025
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:02,399
Speaker 2: See, this is what you gotta do. Here is a rock,

1026
00:54:03,000 --> 00:54:05,480
Speaker 2: here are some waves. You've got to be that rock dog.

1027
00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:09,160
Speaker 2: You got that rock in these emotional waves. That's the

1028
00:54:09,280 --> 00:54:11,400
Speaker 2: best you can do. My dad gave me that advice.

1029
00:54:11,680 --> 00:54:13,840
Speaker 1: Miranda Li says, I don't understand the wife. I've had

1030
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:16,320
Speaker 1: two kids, and I didn't get easily offended over a

1031
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:18,879
Speaker 1: comment like that. It seems like she cares a lot

1032
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:22,759
Speaker 1: about her body, which I do think she should be,

1033
00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:25,359
Speaker 1: you know, a little bit more conscientious about how she's

1034
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:29,040
Speaker 1: talking about her body because it is it is kind

1035
00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:31,200
Speaker 1: of messed up that, you know, Like I don't know.

1036
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:35,520
Speaker 1: I think that people who are thin should be very

1037
00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:38,600
Speaker 1: aware about how they speak about body types and how

1038
00:54:38,640 --> 00:54:44,319
Speaker 1: they speak about thinness, because thinness is not inherently like good,

1039
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:48,440
Speaker 1: you know, like body types are different because they just,

1040
00:54:48,719 --> 00:54:52,400
Speaker 1: you know, they work for that person. I feel like

1041
00:54:52,400 --> 00:54:55,000
Speaker 1: you have to be careful about how you talk about Miranda.

1042
00:54:55,040 --> 00:54:57,560
Speaker 2: You're just built different. Also can really fine. No, that

1043
00:54:57,719 --> 00:54:59,399
Speaker 2: is the worst thing you can do. Simple, I tell

1044
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:05,319
Speaker 2: her to calm the worst that you could tell her

1045
00:55:05,400 --> 00:55:05,560
Speaker 2: to do.

1046
00:55:05,960 --> 00:55:08,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, messed up.

1047
00:55:12,120 --> 00:55:12,279
Speaker 2: Oh.

1048
00:55:12,520 --> 00:55:15,600
Speaker 1: Sam Hyatt says Guy's auto instinct is logic to try

1049
00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:18,560
Speaker 1: to de escalate everything. She's hormonal, interrational. It comes with

1050
00:55:18,600 --> 00:55:22,080
Speaker 1: the territory with pregnancy. Prioritize empathy, over logic guys. Yeah,

1051
00:55:22,680 --> 00:55:25,880
Speaker 1: I think he just needs to realize that she's pregnant

1052
00:55:26,080 --> 00:55:29,880
Speaker 1: and she's gone through a lot of four months and

1053
00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:32,400
Speaker 1: Radish says, pregnancy doesn't give you a pass to be

1054
00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:35,560
Speaker 1: an a whole. I also, yeah, I think they're both

1055
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:38,880
Speaker 1: being a little bit aholish right now.

1056
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:44,680
Speaker 2: Both. I think I've justified buddy, you just need to Yeah,

1057
00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:46,000
Speaker 2: I musta say it.

1058
00:55:46,239 --> 00:55:49,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, Tiana Langvin says, yeah, it's borning on fat phobic,

1059
00:55:49,920 --> 00:55:51,640
Speaker 1: which may have come out during her work out journey.

1060
00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:53,759
Speaker 1: That's what that is kind of what I'm getting the

1061
00:55:53,880 --> 00:55:54,200
Speaker 1: vibes of.

1062
00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:57,040
Speaker 2: But I have seen which I don't like, that have

1063
00:55:57,280 --> 00:56:01,080
Speaker 2: worked out while being pregnant. Yeah, and then after they're pregnant,

1064
00:56:01,200 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 2: they're back to where they were within like three to

1065
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:06,600
Speaker 2: six months. Yeah, it's tough.

1066
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:08,320
Speaker 1: I just I think you have to be really careful

1067
00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:11,239
Speaker 1: about Like, I totally understand that she's going, like, it

1068
00:56:11,440 --> 00:56:14,239
Speaker 1: is very hard to go through a pregnancy, and it

1069
00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:18,160
Speaker 1: does change it, like how you view your body, which

1070
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:21,000
Speaker 1: is totally okay to feel and those emotions are okay

1071
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:24,560
Speaker 1: to feel. But I still think you have to be

1072
00:56:24,600 --> 00:56:29,960
Speaker 1: a little bit conscientious about how you word it. Slyly

1073
00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:32,200
Speaker 1: Toves thank you for the five bucks. I feel for him.

1074
00:56:32,320 --> 00:56:34,640
Speaker 1: I'm curvy with the tummy. Any of my skinny friends

1075
00:56:34,640 --> 00:56:36,719
Speaker 1: who complain they are so fat and what they're wearing

1076
00:56:36,840 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 1: does sting and hurts, that's the thing. It's Yeah, you

1077
00:56:40,600 --> 00:56:45,600
Speaker 1: can't be complaining about that as if it's a bad thing,

1078
00:56:46,239 --> 00:56:48,400
Speaker 1: because it does make people feel bad when it's not

1079
00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:50,439
Speaker 1: a bad thing to be large. It's not a bad

1080
00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:53,440
Speaker 1: thing to have fat on you. That is literally just

1081
00:56:53,960 --> 00:56:57,000
Speaker 1: how your body works, you know. So that's why I didn't.

1082
00:56:57,040 --> 00:57:00,279
Speaker 1: I don't love the way that she's talking about it, duchess,

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Speaker 1: because on that says, no, Sophia, everything is relative and

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Speaker 1: this is something she's going through. I had three pregnancies

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Speaker 1: and felt fine, but can't expect it to be the

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Speaker 1: same for everyone. No, yeah, I agree with that. I

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Speaker 1: still think pregnancy is hard, so I'm giving her a

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Speaker 1: little bit of a leeway. But yeah, Maria Andrade, thank

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Speaker 1: you for the five buck tip. Yeah. I felt the same.

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Speaker 1: During my third pregnancy, I was a big girl. From

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Speaker 1: one eighty nine dropped to one thirty five. I had

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Speaker 1: lost so much weight just to start all over again.

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Speaker 2: Uh and uh.

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Speaker 1: Carl Angerer says he's going through something he's not used to. Also,

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Speaker 1: don't discount his struggle. I think I think you guys

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Speaker 1: are all bringing up really great points. I think there's

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Speaker 1: a lot of kind of compliment complicated emotions going on.

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Speaker 2: For reading both of them, stories like this is gonna

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Speaker 2: get me so ready for father yeah, and to grow older.

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Speaker 2: I feel wiser every day every reddits like you know,

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Speaker 2: it's like eat an apple to keep a doctor away.

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Speaker 2: Read Reddit story to keep your marriage. Okay, work that,

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Speaker 2: work on the copyright.

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Speaker 1: Shut that, but let's keep going Eta. Many people suggested

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Speaker 1: she has body dysmorphia, eating issues, et cetera. Well, I

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Speaker 1: understand that it comes across that way from the post.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't be for it couldn't be further from the truth.

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Speaker 1: I've known my wife for fifteen years. She has never

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Speaker 1: displayed eating issues or body image issues. She simply takes

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Speaker 1: pride in being healthy and has worked hard to be fit.

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Speaker 1: She gets a kick out of sculpting her body, and

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Speaker 1: I think being pregnant makes her lose control of that ability.

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Speaker 1: Since finding out she's pregnant, she's taken a step back

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Speaker 1: from working out. If she was continuing to work out

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Speaker 1: more or skimping on meals. I'd be concerned, but I

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Speaker 1: think she's not used to seeing a bigger version of

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Speaker 1: herself in the mirror and having trouble finding clothes that

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Speaker 1: fits her. Thank you everyone for the input. I apologize

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Speaker 1: to her and explained where I was coming from. I

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Speaker 1: was trying to downplay her belly size, which was a

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Speaker 1: huge mistake because honestly, she pretty big lol and very

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Speaker 1: much knows it. Thanks again, everyone, were off to enjoy

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Speaker 1: our vacation. Now, Okay they sorted out. It seems like

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Speaker 1: that he was just kind of putting his foot in

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Speaker 1: his mouth and saying things that you know, we worded badly.

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Speaker 1: Last edit. Because this has gained more traction than I anticipated,

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Speaker 1: people are judging jumping to the conclusion that she is

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Speaker 1: an eating disorder because she doesn't want to be perceived

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Speaker 1: as fat. Not wanting to look fat doesn't mean you

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Speaker 1: automatically have a mental health issue or eating disorder. I

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Speaker 1: looked into eating disorders mentioned, and she doesn't fit the

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Speaker 1: bill for any of them, but it was worth looking

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Speaker 1: into just in case she doesn't act like this when

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Speaker 1: not pregnant. She waited two years after the last pregnancy

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Speaker 1: before getting back to the gym despite getting weight. There's

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Speaker 1: nothing else I could possibly say without someone countering and

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Speaker 1: saying she could still have one. So be it. If

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Speaker 1: you think that, then fine, but it's not helpful. She

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Speaker 1: didn't want to come down to the pool because she

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Speaker 1: was crying. Again, she's pregnant hormones. I could have been

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Speaker 1: more sense. We kissed and made up. He rocked the

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Speaker 1: bump the rest of the day. Again, thanks to everyone

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Speaker 1: who's offered different perspective. Okay, I'm glad that they seem

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Speaker 1: like they sorted it out.

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Speaker 2: Wow, they this is with it it. They communicated and

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Speaker 2: talked it out and he took advice from read it

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Speaker 2: dude W Mantz.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, he figured it out. He realized that he

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Speaker 1: could have been more sensitive.

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Speaker 2: I like that, but it's usually not the case.

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Speaker 1: What is refreshing, Yeah, it's refreshing when there's like happy

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Speaker 1: endings to some of these. Umm, can you scroll up

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Speaker 1: a little bit. I want to read Jill come ins

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Speaker 1: uh Bustakita says she wants him to co sign her feelings,

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Speaker 1: but if he does that, then he that gives her

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Speaker 1: a past act ugly and lash out. He can't win

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Speaker 1: for losing TVH and then score up a little bit more.

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Speaker 1: Umm uh fivebird folios book says she she because she

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Speaker 1: didn't feel it before, it doesn't mean this huge life

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Speaker 1: change isn't making her feel body dysmorphia flare up, it

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Speaker 1: can come ago. Oh just because she didn't feel this before,

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Speaker 1: it doesn't mean it. Yeah, yeah, this is it it again,

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Speaker 1: huge life change to be pregnant, even if you've gone

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Speaker 1: through it before. Every pregnancy is different for everyone and scrap, okay,

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Speaker 1: never mind, but that's the end of the story.

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Speaker 2: That's the end of the stream. Guys.

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys for tuning in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is fun. This is a good one. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Duch's Becausana says glad he didn't double down. I agree.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad they sorted it out, like what's your adults,

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Speaker 1: And I'm glad that you guys came, all eight hundred

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Speaker 1: and thirty eight of you. Yeah, and thank you for

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Speaker 1: welcoming Riley's brother to the stream.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. A little tight, yeah, a little tate uh rare.

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Speaker 1: Way, Sunshine and Sophia's plans today. Don't do that, Jair,

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Speaker 1: I'm escaping, so we're gonna let you go. Riley, do

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Speaker 1: you want to hit us off?

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