1 00:00:00,800 --> 00:00:03,800 Speaker 1: This is the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:04,680 Speaker 1: with iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 2: It's almost Famous podcasts. We're sitting here at a beautiful 4 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:15,080 Speaker 2: resort together with probably two of the biggest stars in 5 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:19,240 Speaker 2: Bachelor Nation. Absolutely, I'm with Bob Guinny all night tonight. 6 00:00:19,320 --> 00:00:23,280 Speaker 2: So here's what's happening. It is I guess my baby shower. 7 00:00:23,400 --> 00:00:26,080 Speaker 2: It is, but really it's just his baby shower from 8 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 2: a distance. So Jessica is in Nashville having her baby 9 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 2: shower with friends and family, and I Heeart was kind 10 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:35,599 Speaker 2: enough to say, hey, if Jessica is celebrating, we want 11 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 2: to celebrate you because you had a very small and 12 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:40,560 Speaker 2: pleasurable part of this experience. 13 00:00:41,640 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 3: And too much information theower. It's not that you, guys. 14 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 2: That's why I wasn't talking about anybody else here. And 15 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 2: so we're having a great night with a bunch of 16 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:01,120 Speaker 2: guests that will be interviewing out the evening, and we're 17 00:01:01,120 --> 00:01:03,480 Speaker 2: going to introduce them as we go. You'll see episodes 18 00:01:03,560 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 2: drop and you'll know who was here and who wasn't. 19 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:08,040 Speaker 2: We have great food outside, we have great drinks. But 20 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:11,440 Speaker 2: tonight at the start, we have to talk to this couple. 21 00:01:11,560 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 3: Yes we do. I think so. 22 00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 4: I've said this a bunch and I said it to 23 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 4: Joan when we were doing. 24 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:18,240 Speaker 3: Before I knew that Chuck was the guy right. 25 00:01:19,240 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 4: First of all, the thing I love about the Golden 26 00:01:20,840 --> 00:01:25,720 Speaker 4: franchise is let's not kid ourselves. The Bachelor can go 27 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 4: on and off the rails at different times with crazy 28 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:31,280 Speaker 4: casting choices and different things of that nature. What I've 29 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 4: loved and when I said to Joan when she was 30 00:01:33,319 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 4: first on Gary season, was I love that they took 31 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 4: the casting and they made it not just age appropriate souse. 32 00:01:41,080 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 4: I only think that's the right word. They made it 33 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 4: like just it was. It was perfect right. And then 34 00:01:46,200 --> 00:01:48,920 Speaker 4: they come to Joan's season, who was the perfect choice 35 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:51,760 Speaker 4: ps and we all know that absolutely, And the guys 36 00:01:51,800 --> 00:01:54,360 Speaker 4: on this show have blown me away, like every single 37 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:55,880 Speaker 4: one of these guys are And I will say this, 38 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 4: and I said this to Joan. It reminds me of 39 00:01:57,720 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 4: when Trista's season she was the first bachelor at Tris 40 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 4: and I was on that season and every one of 41 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,640 Speaker 4: us got along so well. We were buddies. We weren't 42 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 4: pulling against anybody. We were like, man, let's just be 43 00:02:09,560 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 4: friends and let's make this about all of us and 44 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:13,800 Speaker 4: whoever in the end that she chooses, that's. 45 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:15,560 Speaker 3: Where her love is, that's where heart is. It's going 46 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:18,480 Speaker 3: to be amazing, real popular. 47 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:24,079 Speaker 5: Yeah, but it's. 48 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 4: Amazing what we do back in those days people. 49 00:02:25,919 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 3: But you're right, it was. 50 00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:28,919 Speaker 4: It was a long time ago, twenty some years ago, 51 00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:31,800 Speaker 4: and here it comes full circle. And I feel like 52 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:34,639 Speaker 4: we had talked about this earlier, asking like, can the 53 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 4: show reboot itself? How can you go back just to 54 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:39,919 Speaker 4: reboot itself? I think with a Golden franchise, it has 55 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:42,120 Speaker 4: rebooted itself. I mean now, granted, they might go back 56 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 4: to their old tricks with the new season, which I'm 57 00:02:44,440 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 4: sure they probably have. But I loved watching this season 58 00:02:47,760 --> 00:02:49,840 Speaker 4: and I love the guys, like I related to the 59 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 4: guys where I mean, we're not that far apart in age. 60 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:56,320 Speaker 4: You know, I'm the oldest real life bachelor for like, 61 00:02:56,760 --> 00:02:59,679 Speaker 4: all these guys are very younger than still living and 62 00:03:00,240 --> 00:03:02,799 Speaker 4: you know we're too bad yeah yeah, back in the day. 63 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 4: But like, watching you guys on the show was reminiscent 64 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 4: to me of watching trist this season and how the 65 00:03:09,200 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 4: guys got along and rooted for each other, and it 66 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 4: was never like I mean, you always had that wild 67 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 4: card here and there, right, But it was never watching 68 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 4: the show and watching a bunch of cattiness amongst the guys. 69 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 4: It was like the other genuine French No, it was 70 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 4: I loved you guys, the way you reacted to each other, 71 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,160 Speaker 4: the way you supported each other, when you supported Joan, 72 00:03:25,960 --> 00:03:26,480 Speaker 4: there's so much. 73 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:29,200 Speaker 6: So I remember the first night when they all the 74 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:32,240 Speaker 6: limos come in and you meet each guy, and I 75 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 6: walked when everybody else was all were here, they were 76 00:03:35,400 --> 00:03:37,480 Speaker 6: all partying. I went back to an interview room and 77 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:39,720 Speaker 6: I said, this season is not about me anymore. I 78 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:41,880 Speaker 6: was like, these guys are so amazing, They're so interesting, 79 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 6: they have such great backstories, and this is this is 80 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 6: going to be about them. It's not going to be 81 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:48,800 Speaker 6: about me anymore. And I did actually feel that way 82 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 6: kind of throughout the season. Every time I got to 83 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 6: sit down with a guy and they told more about 84 00:03:53,920 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 6: their stories, that like statement became more real because they 85 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 6: became so relatable and people. I said, America is going 86 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:02,880 Speaker 6: to fall in love with these guys, and they really did. 87 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 6: But the thing is, I think that there is a 88 00:04:05,480 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 6: difference between a golden season and a regular season that's 89 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:12,120 Speaker 6: going on for years, and I'm not sure if it's fixable, 90 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:18,320 Speaker 6: because I think that we have backstories that give us 91 00:04:18,360 --> 00:04:20,280 Speaker 6: some kind of confidence and a little bit maybe a 92 00:04:20,320 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 6: little bit of swagger, that we feel like we are 93 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 6: interesting enough that we don't have to have drama. And 94 00:04:26,080 --> 00:04:28,440 Speaker 6: I don't know if you can fix that with the 95 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:32,400 Speaker 6: younger guys. You have history, you have your experiences. 96 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:35,600 Speaker 5: Every one of the guys had a story. Yeah, created 97 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:41,200 Speaker 5: group health therapy, group therapy with every one of the 98 00:04:41,240 --> 00:04:42,880 Speaker 5: guys because a lot of us have been through some 99 00:04:42,920 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 5: turmoil and you go, this happened to me, and the 100 00:04:44,440 --> 00:04:50,040 Speaker 5: next guy had a story that just blew your mind. Absolutely, yeah, exactly, gosh, yeah, exactly. 101 00:04:50,200 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 1: Yeah. 102 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:53,400 Speaker 4: But and that you're right that confidence does come with age. 103 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 6: And you have story, so you have other you have 104 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 6: other things to talk about. You don't have to talk 105 00:04:56,640 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 6: about like your most recent breakup or why you are 106 00:05:00,320 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 6: better for the Bachelor or the Bachelor than I am, 107 00:05:02,920 --> 00:05:05,839 Speaker 6: or why I my date was better like that doesn't 108 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 6: like you don't have those conversations. Honestly, nobody cares. But 109 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:12,440 Speaker 6: also we have the like we have the I guess 110 00:05:12,440 --> 00:05:16,000 Speaker 6: the experience to see that you don't want somebody picking 111 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:20,040 Speaker 6: you just because you eliminated everybody else. You want them 112 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 6: to pick you because they actually had a relationship with you, 113 00:05:21,800 --> 00:05:23,360 Speaker 6: and they actually had feelings for you, and they had 114 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:25,560 Speaker 6: a connection and that they saw that it could grow 115 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 6: over the years, or that you could end up being 116 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 6: something more than just another person on your show. So 117 00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:33,719 Speaker 6: backstabbing somebody else and pushing them out isn't the right 118 00:05:33,720 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 6: way to get to the right place. 119 00:05:35,480 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 4: To the end. 120 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:40,839 Speaker 2: I mean, And I think you know, Joan, you and 121 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:43,160 Speaker 2: I are messaging. I've wanted to talk to the two 122 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:46,919 Speaker 2: of you together since you got off the show, just 123 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 2: because you know, like my wife doesn't watch the Bachelor 124 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 2: or the Bachelorette, but she does watch the Golden Show. 125 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:55,240 Speaker 3: Oh that's Canyon too. 126 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:58,560 Speaker 2: She loves it and she cries and she celebrates and 127 00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:02,599 Speaker 2: she invests into it. And I wanted to talk to 128 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:05,040 Speaker 2: you because I had gotten to meet you way before 129 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:07,520 Speaker 2: you were ever announced, way before you probably even knew 130 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:09,000 Speaker 2: that it was in consideration for you to be a 131 00:06:09,200 --> 00:06:10,480 Speaker 2: Golden Bachelorette. 132 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 5: And. 133 00:06:12,920 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're at that. She was at the end, and 134 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:19,040 Speaker 2: my wife celebrated you, and so we celebrated you too 135 00:06:19,080 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 2: as a couple because it's really exciting to see. And 136 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:23,280 Speaker 2: that leads me to my first question. I am going 137 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:25,560 Speaker 2: to call you out a little bit, which I don't 138 00:06:25,560 --> 00:06:29,159 Speaker 2: love to do on private conversations. But when I saw 139 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 2: you tonight, one of the first words you said to 140 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 2: me when I gave you a hug was the show 141 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:38,560 Speaker 2: can work. Yeah, that's what you said, And I want 142 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 2: you to expand on that, because now we're a few 143 00:06:40,560 --> 00:06:42,919 Speaker 2: months removed from the show airing, or a few of 144 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 2: many months removed from the show filming, and now you 145 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:48,159 Speaker 2: sit in this place as a couple, and when you 146 00:06:48,240 --> 00:06:50,039 Speaker 2: say that to me, what do you mean by that? 147 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:55,000 Speaker 6: So, like two things come to mind. First one is 148 00:06:55,080 --> 00:07:01,520 Speaker 6: that everybody really became invested in Gary season and we 149 00:07:01,560 --> 00:07:04,000 Speaker 6: all thought it was super genuine and that it really worked, 150 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 6: And still sitting here today, I think it did work 151 00:07:06,839 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 6: at the time, but sometimes it falls apart later on. 152 00:07:10,560 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 3: You guys get you. 153 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:17,120 Speaker 6: When you leave the bubble and you are out in 154 00:07:17,120 --> 00:07:19,880 Speaker 6: the real world. So like that's my first thought on it. 155 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:23,400 Speaker 6: My second thought is was my own skepticism that can 156 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 6: you really fall in love that quickly? Because I only 157 00:07:25,480 --> 00:07:27,640 Speaker 6: made it for three episodes of The Golden Boucher so 158 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 6: I didn't experience getting into any like real feelings honestly, 159 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:34,480 Speaker 6: so I wasn't super confident that that was going to happen. 160 00:07:34,520 --> 00:07:36,800 Speaker 6: So all along, every time I was interviewed, I always said, 161 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:39,640 Speaker 6: you know, I don't necessarily need to leave this engaged. 162 00:07:39,680 --> 00:07:42,520 Speaker 6: I need to leave this what my desire really is 163 00:07:42,520 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 6: is to leave this with a person that I am 164 00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 6: interested in, like figuring out if it's going to work 165 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:51,960 Speaker 6: outside of bachelination. So there was no engagement on my mind. 166 00:07:52,400 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 6: And then she met me, and that is kind of true. 167 00:07:57,040 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 6: So I met him and I was like, God, this 168 00:07:59,480 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 6: is like this could work. I immediately had an attraction. 169 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 6: We immediately had a connection. And the thing about this 170 00:08:07,040 --> 00:08:08,840 Speaker 6: journey is you do kind of have to have that 171 00:08:08,880 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 6: a little on the early side because it is fast, right, 172 00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 6: And I selected him as my first date because I 173 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 6: kind of knew that in my mind that you need 174 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:19,200 Speaker 6: to start developing this early on, especially because sometimes people 175 00:08:19,320 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 6: they're early like people that people that contestants that MAINZ 176 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:26,520 Speaker 6: pick end up not being the person they thought they 177 00:08:26,560 --> 00:08:28,560 Speaker 6: were and then they're really behind. So you need to 178 00:08:28,560 --> 00:08:31,680 Speaker 6: figure out that really really early. So your favorite person 179 00:08:31,760 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 6: you kind of have to get the first date to 180 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:36,520 Speaker 6: or a really early date. Otherwise you're you might not 181 00:08:36,640 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 6: have enough time to recover from that if they're not 182 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:40,760 Speaker 6: and they don't end up being the right person. He 183 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:42,400 Speaker 6: ended up having to be the right person. So I 184 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 6: had a really good amount of time. And the fact 185 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 6: that I didn't think I was going to fall in 186 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:49,440 Speaker 6: love that quickly, like that wasn't true. I did, and 187 00:08:49,480 --> 00:08:51,440 Speaker 6: it happened so that when I said it works, it 188 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 6: really can work. I think there was a lot of 189 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:56,680 Speaker 6: doubt left over from Gary season that people doubted that 190 00:08:56,720 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 6: it could work, and you know, I felt a little 191 00:09:00,160 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 6: responsible to like shatter that feeling. But it happened like 192 00:09:05,800 --> 00:09:08,280 Speaker 6: in a really unexpected way from me. Actually, I wanted 193 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:11,679 Speaker 6: to leave with a relationship and didn't necessarily mean need 194 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:14,080 Speaker 6: to be an engagement. But I am exactly where I 195 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:15,559 Speaker 6: need to be. I am exactly right now. 196 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:19,160 Speaker 2: You're right now, at this second, you're still feeling you're. 197 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 6: Exactly absolutely and way more and way more you can. 198 00:09:22,480 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 3: See it with you too. 199 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:27,400 Speaker 5: It's like it's like we've been married for five years in. 200 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:29,000 Speaker 6: A good way, like not in like oh we're more 201 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:34,200 Speaker 6: you know old. Yeah, that's right exactly. 202 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:35,240 Speaker 4: I like that I like that. 203 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 6: And you know, we were really fortunate because Baucher allowed 204 00:09:37,840 --> 00:09:40,280 Speaker 6: us to have five happy couples and that's a lot, 205 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 6: and you know, that's a lot. I don't remember how 206 00:09:41,800 --> 00:09:44,199 Speaker 6: many you had, but we had five, and so we 207 00:09:44,280 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 6: had we got to know each other outside of Bacher, 208 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:54,679 Speaker 6: like kind of in our own little bubble still a 209 00:09:54,679 --> 00:09:57,080 Speaker 6: little bit of a bubble though, but we had our phone, 210 00:09:57,160 --> 00:09:59,319 Speaker 6: so I could hear his interactions with his kids and 211 00:09:59,360 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 6: with his work and you know, with his family, and 212 00:10:01,520 --> 00:10:03,800 Speaker 6: he could do the same thing with mine. And we 213 00:10:04,120 --> 00:10:05,680 Speaker 6: saw how that we got along. You know, on a 214 00:10:05,679 --> 00:10:09,439 Speaker 6: boring night, we binge watched The Secret Lives of Mormon 215 00:10:09,520 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 6: Wives and like. 216 00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:12,439 Speaker 4: We just speak, a great show and I have not 217 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 4: seen it. 218 00:10:14,800 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 6: It's really really good. And we cooked together and we 219 00:10:16,800 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 6: we kind of lived like an old married couple would 220 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 6: live in a house kind of secluded. So yeah, we 221 00:10:23,600 --> 00:10:25,440 Speaker 6: had some of the producers over so people know about us. 222 00:10:25,480 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 6: We're allowed to come over and invited and we so 223 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:30,120 Speaker 6: we like had little dinner parties. So we lived like 224 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 6: a real couple. So when we came out of that 225 00:10:32,080 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 6: and we were actually finally announced and could like be 226 00:10:34,559 --> 00:10:42,439 Speaker 6: out in public, we are very comfortable with it. 227 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 4: See, we didn't have that on my season only because 228 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 4: I think it was just a different expectation of that time, 229 00:10:54,040 --> 00:10:56,360 Speaker 4: and I was pulled in so many different directions to 230 00:10:56,400 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 4: do things for the franchise and for the show. 231 00:10:58,360 --> 00:11:00,560 Speaker 3: At that time, we didn't we had like I think. 232 00:11:00,840 --> 00:11:02,880 Speaker 6: Two, no, that's impossible. 233 00:11:03,120 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, And then it was like there wo'd be times 234 00:11:04,640 --> 00:11:07,960 Speaker 4: when I'd be in l A and they wouldn't even Gosh, 235 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:09,360 Speaker 4: I even hate that I'm saying this on the area now, 236 00:11:09,360 --> 00:11:10,680 Speaker 4: but they wouldn't even let her know I was there 237 00:11:11,280 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 4: because they had me so scared, and it would be 238 00:11:14,480 --> 00:11:15,959 Speaker 4: like I'd be in and out, you know. And and 239 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 4: I'm kind of I'd do that a lot anyway with 240 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 4: my travel. 241 00:11:19,040 --> 00:11:20,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I was. 242 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 4: Like I remember thinking like I should see her, you know, 243 00:11:23,040 --> 00:11:25,800 Speaker 4: and like this time, Well, we'll have it next time. 244 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:26,200 Speaker 1: Yeah. 245 00:11:26,240 --> 00:11:27,679 Speaker 3: I did, of course you want to. 246 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 4: But it was like then you grow distant, right, you can't. 247 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:33,000 Speaker 5: That never happened with us. Every other week we saw 248 00:11:33,040 --> 00:11:35,200 Speaker 5: each other and I talked to every day. 249 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 6: I had five weeks of press, I had tons of press, 250 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:39,559 Speaker 6: and we figured out like how together. 251 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 4: I loved by the way this is and and I 252 00:11:42,679 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 4: knew this because when I when they asked me to 253 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:46,199 Speaker 4: be the bachelor, I called trist and I were talking 254 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 4: and love Ryan and it was one of those things 255 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:50,480 Speaker 4: where I was like, you know, tell me, like what 256 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 4: did you do to make this different? Like what did 257 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:54,679 Speaker 4: you And She's like, honestly, the second I was done 258 00:11:54,679 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 4: with my press, I was done. And for trist had 259 00:11:57,160 --> 00:11:58,959 Speaker 4: to say that who you know, she thought of as 260 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:01,600 Speaker 4: the fairy godmother, the Frandi right. She did Dancing with 261 00:12:01,600 --> 00:12:03,080 Speaker 4: the Stars, she did a whole bunch of things right 262 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 4: after after a season, but she really spent time investing 263 00:12:07,240 --> 00:12:11,160 Speaker 4: with Ryan because Ryan was averse to that stuff. He 264 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:14,520 Speaker 4: wasn't wanting to do red Car like my wife, you know, 265 00:12:14,679 --> 00:12:17,319 Speaker 4: it's crazy Kenyon doesn't have any interest in and of 266 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:20,319 Speaker 4: the things I do. And Ryan was was like, that's 267 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 4: not my thing. And so Trista invested in Ryan and. 268 00:12:23,440 --> 00:12:25,240 Speaker 6: I thought that was a big She's so smart, and 269 00:12:25,280 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 6: you know, I heard Charity say the same thing. So 270 00:12:27,840 --> 00:12:29,960 Speaker 6: when she came off of her season, she had to 271 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:31,720 Speaker 6: go right to Dancing with the Stars, and she said 272 00:12:31,760 --> 00:12:35,200 Speaker 6: she really worried about her relationship with Dalton because she 273 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 6: didn't feel like it was solid enough to be able 274 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 6: to just take all this time off. But he es 275 00:12:39,160 --> 00:12:40,679 Speaker 6: actually show every. 276 00:12:40,559 --> 00:12:43,680 Speaker 4: Single dancing Intimately with some dude, we talked about this. 277 00:12:43,760 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 2: You're I think that the point here is you're not 278 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:51,439 Speaker 2: the lead because it's I mean, Chalky, You're a confident guy. 279 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:53,320 Speaker 2: You've got a good career, You're a good looking guy. 280 00:12:53,400 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 2: Like these things. You know, it might be a little different, 281 00:12:55,480 --> 00:12:56,600 Speaker 2: very good looking, very good, I. 282 00:12:56,559 --> 00:12:57,680 Speaker 3: Would say, incredibly. 283 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:03,480 Speaker 4: Insanely. He's got Midwestern values. Come on, let's not let's 284 00:13:03,480 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 4: not get herself brother. I know you know that. I'm 285 00:13:08,920 --> 00:13:10,000 Speaker 4: saying the three guys here. 286 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 2: The reason it might be a little different with the 287 00:13:13,440 --> 00:13:18,160 Speaker 2: golden this this might not be a barrier. However, you 288 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:22,280 Speaker 2: come off the Bachelor, Bachelorette and you're chosen, there's still 289 00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 2: insecurities that exist. You're you maybe were proposed to on 290 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 2: the same day you broke up with somebody else. It's 291 00:13:28,280 --> 00:13:28,679 Speaker 2: a big deal. 292 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:33,920 Speaker 3: Way it's edited. You think this guy was conflicted these. 293 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:37,400 Speaker 5: Things and I don't even want to talk about that, 294 00:13:38,080 --> 00:13:39,320 Speaker 5: I know, but. 295 00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:44,480 Speaker 2: That brings me to to you. I mean, my point was, 296 00:13:44,640 --> 00:13:46,320 Speaker 2: you're still the lead a little bit after the show 297 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 2: because there is that, like I think on the Bachelor Bachelrette. 298 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:51,959 Speaker 2: There is still that need to say, hey, let me 299 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:55,199 Speaker 2: reassure you that you were chosen because I care about you, 300 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 2: I love you, you were the one, and you were 301 00:13:57,840 --> 00:14:00,400 Speaker 2: the one. Maybe for weeks this just won't look that way. 302 00:14:00,440 --> 00:14:03,200 Speaker 6: And yeah, maybe we've definitely had that conversation. 303 00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:04,920 Speaker 4: There was probably some times in there where you were like, 304 00:14:04,960 --> 00:14:07,040 Speaker 4: oh my god, is he going to be here for 305 00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:07,560 Speaker 4: this whole thing? 306 00:14:07,679 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 3: Is what's going on? 307 00:14:08,400 --> 00:14:08,600 Speaker 5: Yeah? 308 00:14:08,679 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 2: Absolutely, yeah, But that's where my point was going to 309 00:14:12,120 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 2: is chalk you and I take, and I mean, this 310 00:14:15,160 --> 00:14:18,959 Speaker 2: is the biggest compliment to you. You don't seem to 311 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:23,240 Speaker 2: desire anything more than Joan. The show was great. The 312 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 2: show was great. Everything posts that is fun. I'm so 313 00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:28,520 Speaker 2: glad you came to night. I'm so glad to be 314 00:14:28,560 --> 00:14:30,200 Speaker 2: able to meet you. I'm so glad to be able 315 00:14:30,200 --> 00:14:32,480 Speaker 2: to share a drink with you. You don't seem like 316 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:35,800 Speaker 2: a guy that's out here going what's next? 317 00:14:36,280 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 5: Not at all. 318 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:41,600 Speaker 2: And so when you ended up on one knee with 319 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:45,360 Speaker 2: Joan there the show ends. What has life looked like 320 00:14:45,520 --> 00:14:48,680 Speaker 2: for you and what does this feel like for you personally? 321 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:50,840 Speaker 2: Since all this has happened. 322 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 5: Well, Joan and I talked about it, and there was 323 00:14:52,680 --> 00:14:55,240 Speaker 5: some times it was they didn't show this, but we 324 00:14:55,360 --> 00:14:58,120 Speaker 5: were talking about our future from the happy couples to 325 00:14:58,200 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 5: everything else. And I've got a business, I've got friends 326 00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 5: in Witchdall. The good thing is my kids, my family 327 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:05,600 Speaker 5: doesn't live there anymore, so we're going to figure that 328 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 5: out over the next year or two. What we're gonna do. 329 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:10,320 Speaker 5: We're gonna do a lot of traveling. But the thing is, 330 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 5: if you love each other, you're gonna make it work. Absolutely. 331 00:15:13,680 --> 00:15:16,280 Speaker 5: And the good thing is we don't we're not in 332 00:15:16,360 --> 00:15:19,160 Speaker 5: a kid bearing age, so we don't have to worry 333 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:21,240 Speaker 5: about that. Our kids are out of the house kind 334 00:15:21,280 --> 00:15:26,840 Speaker 5: of kind of. But we're just gonna have fun and 335 00:15:26,880 --> 00:15:29,320 Speaker 5: get it all worked out. And Joan is actually coming 336 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 5: back to Witchda on the eighteenth. I am been going 337 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:32,560 Speaker 5: to spend five days back. 338 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:36,800 Speaker 4: I've been there a bus. 339 00:15:37,360 --> 00:15:37,560 Speaker 6: Yeah. 340 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 4: I love throwing parties. 341 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:40,480 Speaker 5: We're gonna have another party. So it's it's a lot 342 00:15:40,520 --> 00:15:42,320 Speaker 5: of fun. But it was interesting in New York City. 343 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:46,040 Speaker 5: We'd run into people. Everybody recognizes Joe. I'm known as 344 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:50,359 Speaker 5: that guy. They'll go Jojo, oh, and there's that guys. 345 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:54,320 Speaker 4: I love what you're saying, we all know that that's 346 00:15:54,360 --> 00:15:57,680 Speaker 4: not true. But everyone does recognize Joe, but everyone recognizes 347 00:15:57,680 --> 00:15:59,120 Speaker 4: you as well. But I think it's so nice you 348 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 4: and are talking about that. It's like you take the 349 00:16:01,640 --> 00:16:05,000 Speaker 4: you understand. Hey man, I get it. This is the 350 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:06,200 Speaker 4: queen and I'm gonna be. 351 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 5: I'm the reluctant d lister. I didn't want to sell that. 352 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:15,840 Speaker 5: I've got a good career, you know, And it's it's fun. 353 00:16:15,920 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 5: It's stepping outside of your box, your comfort zone, and 354 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:20,560 Speaker 5: to meet a lot of good people and to have fun. 355 00:16:21,160 --> 00:16:22,640 Speaker 5: And I'm at the point in my life where i 356 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:24,040 Speaker 5: can have a little bit of fun and we can 357 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 5: enjoy things. And Joan's incredible at this. She is she 358 00:16:27,400 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 5: loves people, and you have to love people to do 359 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:32,680 Speaker 5: this and to embrace them. I've never seen one person 360 00:16:32,760 --> 00:16:34,160 Speaker 5: that came up sid can I get a picture? And 361 00:16:34,200 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 5: she's turned them down. And from New York to d 362 00:16:37,280 --> 00:16:39,640 Speaker 5: C to LA and it's been a lot of fun. 363 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:41,760 Speaker 5: And I'll just throw this out on the way out here. 364 00:16:42,120 --> 00:16:44,320 Speaker 5: We flew differently because we live in different towns, and 365 00:16:44,400 --> 00:16:46,080 Speaker 5: I said, how many people recognize and she was I 366 00:16:46,120 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 5: probably took fifty pictures at the airport, not one person 367 00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 5: recognized me, and I was okay with that. I was, 368 00:16:52,400 --> 00:16:54,479 Speaker 5: but I did get recognized today at Norstroms. 369 00:16:55,360 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 4: Well, you got recognized today by that lady in the 370 00:16:58,520 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 4: parking lot who was just going easy. 371 00:17:00,480 --> 00:17:02,480 Speaker 5: I think they recognized Joan. Then they go, oh, that's 372 00:17:02,520 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 5: that guy. I'm a good point in my career where 373 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:08,680 Speaker 5: I've done all this. You know, I've been the alpha. 374 00:17:08,720 --> 00:17:11,440 Speaker 5: I've done all this and this is the reality. I 375 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:13,120 Speaker 5: want people to know this, Like before we come out 376 00:17:13,119 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 5: of go Joan, what do I need to wear? 377 00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:15,119 Speaker 4: Right? It does? 378 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:17,680 Speaker 3: So you guys do look stunny, you know, tell me 379 00:17:17,760 --> 00:17:17,960 Speaker 3: what I. 380 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:18,400 Speaker 5: Need to wear. 381 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,840 Speaker 4: He's easy to dress stylish of course. 382 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 5: But Ben, I do want to talk about one thing, 383 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 5: and it's pretty personal. Is don't take her cell phone charger. 384 00:17:29,119 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 5: We've already had that because it was dominance of going 385 00:17:34,200 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 5: don't take my cell phone charge to know that, because 386 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:41,800 Speaker 5: that's part of a real conversation, a real relationship. And 387 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:44,119 Speaker 5: it was interesting because we had talked about it before 388 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:47,080 Speaker 5: and I took it and oh my gosh, she was like, 389 00:17:47,320 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 5: you don't take myself. 390 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:48,840 Speaker 4: I did. 391 00:17:50,440 --> 00:17:51,320 Speaker 1: Where is my No? 392 00:17:51,520 --> 00:17:54,679 Speaker 5: She goes, you don't. We're a real couple, I can 393 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 5: tell you. 394 00:17:55,560 --> 00:17:57,880 Speaker 2: At that point, all of a sudden stuff is being 395 00:17:57,960 --> 00:17:59,680 Speaker 2: said that you're like, wait, we've made it past a 396 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:11,200 Speaker 2: nice zone's we don't know anything about that doing that's 397 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:16,639 Speaker 2: all I know, And. 398 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:18,320 Speaker 5: I know this is your guys show, but I do 399 00:18:18,440 --> 00:18:21,280 Speaker 5: want to tell you it's just an incredible experience. Because 400 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:23,679 Speaker 5: I wouldn't looking for this. My daughter signed me up 401 00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:26,680 Speaker 5: for it. I had no idea and it was kind 402 00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:29,480 Speaker 5: of a little bit of an interpersonal challenge, going why 403 00:18:29,600 --> 00:18:32,280 Speaker 5: not go do this? And then I wouldn't expected to 404 00:18:32,320 --> 00:18:34,119 Speaker 5: fall into love with Joan. But I will tell you, 405 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 5: and this is one honest as I told the producers, 406 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:38,560 Speaker 5: I go, if it's not Joan, I'm not going on. 407 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 5: And we've talked about it tight and I go, that's 408 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:44,880 Speaker 5: who I want to meet. And I was so lucky. 409 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:45,720 Speaker 5: From Disneyland. 410 00:18:45,760 --> 00:18:46,200 Speaker 2: It was over. 411 00:18:47,080 --> 00:18:50,159 Speaker 5: It was absolutely over, at least in my eyes. She 412 00:18:50,680 --> 00:18:51,280 Speaker 5: had a couple of guys. 413 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:53,880 Speaker 4: When you get into Club three three, that's next level. 414 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:57,560 Speaker 6: That's Walt Disney's home and it's where when they were 415 00:18:57,600 --> 00:18:58,480 Speaker 6: in Disneyland. 416 00:18:58,800 --> 00:18:59,840 Speaker 2: It was incredible. 417 00:19:00,320 --> 00:19:02,320 Speaker 6: Did you get to see the bedrooms, the kids bedrooms? 418 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 3: Yes, so yeah, there was a button on the wall, 419 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:06,640 Speaker 3: and so Walt. 420 00:19:06,480 --> 00:19:08,959 Speaker 6: Disney wanted the bedrooms to be really special, like there 421 00:19:08,960 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 6: are night time rouching, to be really special. So there's 422 00:19:11,080 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 6: a button on the wall and you press the button, 423 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:15,480 Speaker 6: and there's a girls and a boy's bedroom, and like 424 00:19:15,600 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 6: the boy's bedroom has a train track running all along 425 00:19:18,600 --> 00:19:20,520 Speaker 6: the ceiling, and you press the button and all of 426 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:23,399 Speaker 6: a sudden there are stars all over the ceiling and 427 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:24,439 Speaker 6: a huge tall ceiling. 428 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:26,399 Speaker 1: Oh. 429 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 6: The girls room is like a jungle. 430 00:19:27,680 --> 00:19:28,640 Speaker 3: It's the coolest thing ever. 431 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:31,119 Speaker 6: And so it like all these stars laid up and 432 00:19:31,240 --> 00:19:34,880 Speaker 6: the lights slowly dim and then the train starts going 433 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 6: around the rooms doing like It's a Small World or 434 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:40,159 Speaker 6: some Disney song. It's incredible. And the girls is a 435 00:19:40,240 --> 00:19:44,639 Speaker 6: jungle theme and she has wallpaper that's like big leaves 436 00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:48,080 Speaker 6: and stuff. And the lights go down and you start 437 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:51,440 Speaker 6: hearing like like chimpanzees making their sounds like all the 438 00:19:51,520 --> 00:19:55,760 Speaker 6: jungle sounds, and then the moon comes up in the sky. 439 00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 6: It's absolutely it's magical. I mean, it's like like Walt 440 00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:01,040 Speaker 6: Disney real quick. 441 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:05,080 Speaker 5: If I may reference to bedrooms fantasy sweeps, I never 442 00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:08,879 Speaker 5: saw one fantasy yeah, fantasy sweeps, I never saw it right. 443 00:20:10,440 --> 00:20:20,680 Speaker 5: She locked me out. So we had this great evening 444 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:22,760 Speaker 5: and it was probably about eleven thirty and we're kind 445 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:24,359 Speaker 5: of getting along real well and she goes time for 446 00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:24,680 Speaker 5: you to go. 447 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:27,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, and she met it it. 448 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:28,080 Speaker 5: Yeah. 449 00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:31,399 Speaker 2: Yeah, It's a beautiful thing. And to close out here, 450 00:20:34,280 --> 00:20:36,240 Speaker 2: if you I mean, and this is the last question 451 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:39,720 Speaker 2: I want to ask you guys on a limit of time, Joan, 452 00:20:39,800 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 2: you mentioned that people fell in love with the franchise, 453 00:20:42,640 --> 00:20:45,520 Speaker 2: and I think Gary Season did a lot to give 454 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 2: people hope, but it ended in a way that was 455 00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:55,200 Speaker 2: unfortunate and uh not uncommon maybe for this franchise. But 456 00:20:55,560 --> 00:20:57,280 Speaker 2: if we were to put odds on this, I'm a 457 00:20:57,359 --> 00:20:59,679 Speaker 2: betting man. I love the sports bet. If we were 458 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:02,159 Speaker 2: putting odds on the on just the chances at this 459 00:21:02,359 --> 00:21:04,960 Speaker 2: moment in time, that the two of you will be 460 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:09,720 Speaker 2: together years to come, what would the odds be in 461 00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:12,720 Speaker 2: your guys mind, I'm gonna hundred percent, let's go. 462 00:21:12,800 --> 00:21:13,600 Speaker 4: I'm done. I'm done. 463 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 5: This is my man, and a lot of it too 464 00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:18,800 Speaker 5: is I'm not going to say maturity, but experience and 465 00:21:18,840 --> 00:21:21,440 Speaker 5: everything we've been through in life, and we've talked about it. 466 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 5: No one's perfect, No one's perfect. And you just we've 467 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:29,080 Speaker 5: made a commitment. And commitment keeps marriages and relationships together. 468 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:29,879 Speaker 4: It does. 469 00:21:29,960 --> 00:21:33,080 Speaker 5: And I was talking to when both people it was 470 00:21:33,119 --> 00:21:36,880 Speaker 5: the other the other ye have three kids. It's tough. 471 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:40,000 Speaker 5: It is so tough at that age, and uh, you 472 00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:42,520 Speaker 5: know what challenges you. You don't sleep, you've got kids, 473 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:45,680 Speaker 5: you make financial decisions, and for us it's been pretty easy. 474 00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:47,520 Speaker 5: But I'd say one hundred percent. Absolutely. 475 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:49,280 Speaker 2: I can't wait. I mean, this is the best thing 476 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:49,600 Speaker 2: to see. 477 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:50,280 Speaker 3: I love you, guys. 478 00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's so. 479 00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:53,040 Speaker 5: Really well, excuse me if I will say, as long 480 00:21:53,040 --> 00:21:55,359 Speaker 5: as I don't take her cell phone truge o. 481 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:10,560 Speaker 2: In the words of Billy Bob Thornton on the show 482 00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:11,600 Speaker 2: land Man. 483 00:22:14,640 --> 00:22:16,920 Speaker 3: Guys, which I'm very excited about. 484 00:22:17,240 --> 00:22:22,000 Speaker 2: Yes, and a Bachelor Uh Nation star Cassie Randolph's sister 485 00:22:22,280 --> 00:22:26,920 Speaker 2: is also in the show as a main character. Was great. Yeah, 486 00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:29,520 Speaker 2: he said this, and I'm gonna give it to you. 487 00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:31,360 Speaker 2: I don't have any advice to give to you in life. 488 00:22:31,560 --> 00:22:33,680 Speaker 2: You could teach me a thousand things, and I understand that. 489 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:35,280 Speaker 2: But he said this in the last episode that I 490 00:22:35,320 --> 00:22:37,159 Speaker 2: want to show to share with you, based on the 491 00:22:37,280 --> 00:22:42,720 Speaker 2: charger that you stole and John. The daughter asks him, Dad, 492 00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:46,760 Speaker 2: how are you always right? And he goes, because I've 493 00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:49,240 Speaker 2: always been wrong and I just learned from my mistakes. 494 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:56,000 Speaker 5: If if we could have just a couple of more seconds, 495 00:22:56,000 --> 00:22:58,639 Speaker 5: I gotta tell your story. So we were we were 496 00:22:58,680 --> 00:23:01,240 Speaker 5: going through an interview and one of the guys that podcast, 497 00:23:01,359 --> 00:23:04,920 Speaker 5: he said, what's Joan's middle name? We had talked about 498 00:23:04,920 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 5: it and I forgot it and it's Yvonne. And afterwards 499 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:11,280 Speaker 5: and it made the press, it really made the press. 500 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:12,560 Speaker 3: Middle name. 501 00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:17,320 Speaker 5: THEBC guy goes, you're lucky, went in front page. But 502 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:18,960 Speaker 5: he goes, you know what, the good thing about this is, 503 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:23,359 Speaker 5: you'll never forget it, never Yvonne. I will never forget 504 00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:23,919 Speaker 5: her name. 505 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:26,840 Speaker 6: Forget jury and I knew it. 506 00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:29,520 Speaker 2: And what's his real first name? 507 00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:31,159 Speaker 3: Oh no, no, no, don't answer that. I know he 508 00:23:31,200 --> 00:23:32,680 Speaker 3: doesn't want anyone to know that. I'm not telling. 509 00:23:33,080 --> 00:23:37,119 Speaker 5: Yeah, but you know, guys, guys and Joan and all 510 00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:40,200 Speaker 5: the fans, I've been very lucky on this, very lucky. 511 00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:43,000 Speaker 5: And I know there's been you know, it's just I've 512 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:46,680 Speaker 5: just been blessed and we were very lucky that this 513 00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:51,320 Speaker 5: happened to both of us. And the connection is real. 514 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:54,119 Speaker 3: I genuinely do. I always loved Joan and now I 515 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 3: love you too. Love people. I'm a hugger, buddy, I've been. 516 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,720 Speaker 5: Learning to hug. Can we talk about the next thing. 517 00:24:01,760 --> 00:24:03,480 Speaker 5: We got a little bit of time. So in the 518 00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:04,760 Speaker 5: Midwest we hold hands. 519 00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:08,440 Speaker 6: Okay, he's calling me out on all my faults on 520 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:14,080 Speaker 6: National podcast. Everybody in the world's gonna know a handhold? 521 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 6: Is it a Midwest thing? 522 00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:17,080 Speaker 4: Is it me? 523 00:24:17,320 --> 00:24:18,240 Speaker 6: Do I have an issue? 524 00:24:19,800 --> 00:24:21,879 Speaker 3: But I don't need to intertwine. I just need to 525 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:24,680 Speaker 3: at least be hand touch. It's the touch. I'm a 526 00:24:24,720 --> 00:24:25,280 Speaker 3: big hand guy. 527 00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:28,040 Speaker 6: He's a toucher. We're very cold people on the East Coast. 528 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:32,960 Speaker 6: Very to take his hand now, sometimes I'm like I 529 00:24:33,000 --> 00:24:35,880 Speaker 6: should hold his hand because he likes that and he's 530 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:37,920 Speaker 6: a touch person. So I do, like make an effort 531 00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:39,720 Speaker 6: now because I know it's like important him. But like, 532 00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:42,199 Speaker 6: we don't walk around holding hands. We don't walk through 533 00:24:42,200 --> 00:24:43,080 Speaker 6: them all holding hands. 534 00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 2: I will that's weird. Hand every we walk not even 535 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:48,480 Speaker 2: thinking about it because. 536 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:49,720 Speaker 6: It's just automatic what we do. 537 00:24:49,960 --> 00:24:53,439 Speaker 5: I love it absolutely, And I got some some negative 538 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:56,240 Speaker 5: feedback being cringeing because I touched her like a Disneyland. 539 00:24:56,240 --> 00:24:57,639 Speaker 5: I have my hand on her leg, and. 540 00:24:57,680 --> 00:24:59,399 Speaker 3: It wasn't sexual negative feedback for that. 541 00:24:59,520 --> 00:25:04,480 Speaker 5: Absolutely lose your girl and I love the It was naturals. 542 00:25:05,720 --> 00:25:08,800 Speaker 4: I am a very affectionate person, and I was told 543 00:25:08,840 --> 00:25:10,199 Speaker 4: once and it was the best advice I ever got 544 00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:12,800 Speaker 4: from a very reputable person by the way, who said, 545 00:25:13,040 --> 00:25:15,720 Speaker 4: get used to people commenting on your life while you 546 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:16,239 Speaker 4: live here. 547 00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:16,760 Speaker 1: Yeah. 548 00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 4: Right, You're not sitting behind a computer keyboard tapping away 549 00:25:20,560 --> 00:25:21,480 Speaker 4: at somebody else's life. 550 00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:23,639 Speaker 3: You're living your own. So embrace that. 551 00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:24,440 Speaker 5: Do what you do. 552 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 3: Don't let other people get in the way of that. Right, 553 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:27,080 Speaker 3: we said it. 554 00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:29,240 Speaker 6: He said it to my kid, and so he's like, like, 555 00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:31,120 Speaker 6: do you like said to my daughter or Alley? He said, 556 00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:33,520 Speaker 6: does Noah hold your hand? She goes, Oh, I punch him. 557 00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:39,159 Speaker 5: It's a crazy It's just I told Joy. Was at 558 00:25:39,160 --> 00:25:41,480 Speaker 5: a friend of mine we called smoke signals. We get 559 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:43,720 Speaker 5: up the pool's house, we're gonna have drinks, cigars, and 560 00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:45,760 Speaker 5: that type of his wife comes out and kisses him 561 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 5: and hugsy and it's just a different deal. 562 00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:54,200 Speaker 4: It might be a coastal thing because my wife and 563 00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:56,160 Speaker 4: she literally looks at me, She's like, oh my god, 564 00:25:56,200 --> 00:25:56,840 Speaker 4: you know have to kiss me. 565 00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:57,600 Speaker 3: Every time you leave the room. 566 00:25:57,960 --> 00:26:04,040 Speaker 2: I'm like, here's the truth to it. He cares about 567 00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:06,080 Speaker 2: you so much that he wants to be as close 568 00:26:06,160 --> 00:26:08,040 Speaker 2: to you as possible. And how sweet is that? 569 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:11,680 Speaker 6: I feel really guilty. I feel like he is so 570 00:26:12,080 --> 00:26:14,760 Speaker 6: like kind and wants to like be like reinforce us 571 00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:17,439 Speaker 6: all the time. And I am like this cold, awful 572 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,040 Speaker 6: East Coast. But it's not because I don't feel it 573 00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:23,080 Speaker 6: for I truly do. I just like I I probably 574 00:26:23,160 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 6: it's probably not my love language. 575 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 1: It might not be. 576 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:28,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, I haven't ever read that stuff. 577 00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:29,879 Speaker 5: But I know you guys have other people to talk to. 578 00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:32,080 Speaker 5: But next time have us on your podcast, I'm gonna 579 00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:33,119 Speaker 5: talk about Jones driving. 580 00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:42,000 Speaker 3: Oh this could be absolutely second places to go and busy. 581 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:43,600 Speaker 5: Absolutely. 582 00:26:43,640 --> 00:26:46,960 Speaker 6: I'm like, you know, I let everybody changing in front 583 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:48,000 Speaker 6: of me, but when I'm in. 584 00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:53,520 Speaker 2: My line, I go, Okay, Joan, this is obviously the 585 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,520 Speaker 2: baby shower. And I know you have advice for me 586 00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:57,760 Speaker 2: that you want to share. I was supposed to say 587 00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:59,119 Speaker 2: that it's all right, I got it. 588 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:03,200 Speaker 6: He knows he needs it, he knows he needs it. Okay, 589 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:05,760 Speaker 6: So okay, there's so much advice. So like first one 590 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,160 Speaker 6: like call the grandparents every minute you get because they'll 591 00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:12,240 Speaker 6: come runny. But I remember a really distinct thing that 592 00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:15,320 Speaker 6: all fathers need to know because it's a particularly big 593 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:18,880 Speaker 6: one with fathers. So you know, you're having a girl, 594 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:21,720 Speaker 6: so it's not quite as prevalent, but there are a 595 00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 6: lot of body fluids when you have a baby. You 596 00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:27,440 Speaker 6: know this, A lot of stuff ends up on you, 597 00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:30,399 Speaker 6: and like, don't be cringe about it, because it's going 598 00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:33,199 Speaker 6: to happen. Not as much with the girl. Boys are 599 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:36,960 Speaker 6: the issue. But there's a thing that dads love to do, 600 00:27:37,640 --> 00:27:39,600 Speaker 6: and it's the airplane thing. So they lay on their 601 00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:42,120 Speaker 6: back and they put you do this right, You put 602 00:27:42,160 --> 00:27:44,400 Speaker 6: your feet in the air, and you put the baby 603 00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:46,760 Speaker 6: like on your feet, like not until like ten months 604 00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:48,879 Speaker 6: or so, maybe a year maybe, and you hold their 605 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:52,119 Speaker 6: hands and you do the airplane thing. And this is 606 00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:56,439 Speaker 6: not an uncommon thing that happens. For some reason, fathers 607 00:27:56,480 --> 00:27:58,159 Speaker 6: love to do this after the baby has had a 608 00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:01,560 Speaker 6: big bottle or a big meal and you're pushing on there, 609 00:28:02,359 --> 00:28:05,960 Speaker 6: you're pushing on their little tummies and they vomit and 610 00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:08,960 Speaker 6: the dads all seem to all have their mouth open. 611 00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:13,080 Speaker 4: I've always done it, did it happen to you multiple absolutely, yeah, 612 00:28:15,760 --> 00:28:16,320 Speaker 4: like ten times. 613 00:28:16,680 --> 00:28:19,960 Speaker 6: So it's the airplane. Baby's gonna vomit in your mouth 614 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:20,880 Speaker 6: if you don't close your mouth. 615 00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:22,359 Speaker 2: That's amazing. 616 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:24,800 Speaker 6: Honestly, you know people are gonna be like, you know, 617 00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:27,200 Speaker 6: get sleep when you can. I'm telling you're gonna vomit 618 00:28:27,200 --> 00:28:29,639 Speaker 6: in your mouth unless you watch out, disclose on the. 619 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:39,959 Speaker 5: Belly more love based. I mentioned this earlier. It's especially 620 00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:41,880 Speaker 5: when you have multiple kids. It's probably the toughest time 621 00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:45,600 Speaker 5: in your life. I've been through almost everything, and it 622 00:28:45,760 --> 00:28:49,080 Speaker 5: is tough. And love your partner and understand them and 623 00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:51,400 Speaker 5: sit there and it's tough because you might go, hey, 624 00:28:51,440 --> 00:28:52,880 Speaker 5: can you get up and change the baby? Can you 625 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,960 Speaker 5: feed the baby? Be there for them because it will pass. 626 00:28:56,400 --> 00:29:00,960 Speaker 5: It's just it's just so important to support the other person. 627 00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,800 Speaker 5: And frankly, from a man's perspective, you've got to support 628 00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:06,160 Speaker 5: them because we have no idea what they're going through. 629 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:09,680 Speaker 3: For God's sake, Yeah, I love the better things. 630 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,840 Speaker 6: Don't forget to laugh, yeah, because you'll be stressed and 631 00:29:13,000 --> 00:29:16,360 Speaker 6: sometimes you'll get the giggles and let it happen like 632 00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:19,480 Speaker 6: the baby, like vomiting all over you and your mouth. 633 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:22,360 Speaker 6: Laugh because you need to have laughter because you're gonna 634 00:29:22,360 --> 00:29:23,560 Speaker 6: be tired, aggravated. 635 00:29:23,640 --> 00:29:25,320 Speaker 5: But also, and that's the you've got to do that. 636 00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:29,040 Speaker 5: But be supportive and help that person, help your spouse, 637 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:32,160 Speaker 5: help your loved one, take terms, giving them bass and 638 00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:36,680 Speaker 5: the the and just be there. And it's tough. It 639 00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:39,920 Speaker 5: was the toughest part in my life raising kids. It 640 00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:42,640 Speaker 5: was just it's different from zero to three to four 641 00:29:42,720 --> 00:29:44,400 Speaker 5: years old. But I say you, I excelled when they 642 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 5: got older. I loved it when they were mobile. 643 00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 3: Where the dad that is where the dad takes time. 644 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 4: I'm trying to be a big part of this zero 645 00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:55,080 Speaker 4: to six phase because I'm old, you know. So it's 646 00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:56,880 Speaker 4: like I'm trying to be like, you know, a little 647 00:29:56,880 --> 00:29:58,520 Speaker 4: more hands on and that in that regard and give 648 00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:02,520 Speaker 4: Canyon a break because she's got it all. Yeah, I 649 00:30:02,600 --> 00:30:05,440 Speaker 4: was gonna say I about the kind of well both 650 00:30:05,480 --> 00:30:07,640 Speaker 4: you said. The laughing thing I think is the greatest 651 00:30:07,680 --> 00:30:10,440 Speaker 4: advice is so fun, right because I know you know 652 00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:12,400 Speaker 4: this story about me. But when we moved from Seattle 653 00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:13,080 Speaker 4: back to Detroit. 654 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 3: We flew back. My dog was a children's hospital dog 655 00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:16,560 Speaker 3: sat at. 656 00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:21,080 Speaker 4: Our feet, babies in arms with Canyon and she's momming 657 00:30:21,120 --> 00:30:22,880 Speaker 4: it up like a million percent, like she always does. 658 00:30:23,480 --> 00:30:24,520 Speaker 3: And our dog. 659 00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:27,960 Speaker 4: Stayed the night at our friend's place the night before 660 00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:30,680 Speaker 4: and had an accident on the plane, not just one, 661 00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:36,280 Speaker 4: but two explosive diarrhea. It was tragic, guys, tragic. I 662 00:30:36,360 --> 00:30:38,160 Speaker 4: went through every bottle of water they had. I went 663 00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:40,240 Speaker 4: through all the first class napuns because I got up grade, 664 00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:40,880 Speaker 4: because I fly a lot. 665 00:30:41,520 --> 00:30:43,760 Speaker 3: It was insane. I come back. 666 00:30:43,920 --> 00:30:46,280 Speaker 4: Canyon hadn't seen a movie in so long because she'd 667 00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:48,800 Speaker 4: been up every night with a baby. She's watching wrestling 668 00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:51,120 Speaker 4: with my family, starting Daine the Rock Johnson, not a plug, 669 00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:53,520 Speaker 4: just the truth, tears. 670 00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:57,080 Speaker 3: She's eating my ravioli. I'm like, our dog's the plane, 671 00:30:57,520 --> 00:30:59,640 Speaker 3: and she's like, well so did your son. 672 00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:04,000 Speaker 4: Both. So I'm in the knots in the bathroom changing 673 00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:05,960 Speaker 4: a diaper and he's wiping things on me, and I'm 674 00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:07,280 Speaker 4: losing my mind. I looked at the mir and I'll 675 00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:08,240 Speaker 4: never forget as long as I live. 676 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:09,920 Speaker 3: And I'm like, I used to be kind of cool. 677 00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:11,560 Speaker 3: What happened in my life? 678 00:31:12,240 --> 00:31:15,560 Speaker 5: We've all we've all looked at the what the fuck? 679 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:19,920 Speaker 2: I come out of the bathroom. 680 00:31:20,280 --> 00:31:21,200 Speaker 4: King is looking at me. 681 00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:24,600 Speaker 3: She got tears watching wrestling with my family. So the 682 00:31:24,640 --> 00:31:28,440 Speaker 3: bock it's not his best work, and I go, hey, ps, 683 00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:29,720 Speaker 3: why you spit my eye? 684 00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:33,440 Speaker 4: And the whole family a full shop and it was 685 00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:36,480 Speaker 4: like the worst slash best day ever because we laughed 686 00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:40,320 Speaker 4: our asses off and we land and it's like people 687 00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:41,920 Speaker 4: are making fun of me on the radio about it. 688 00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:42,920 Speaker 3: I started hearing about it. 689 00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,320 Speaker 4: It was. It was horrible slash funny, and it was 690 00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:46,760 Speaker 4: one of those things that it made us closer as 691 00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:49,920 Speaker 4: a family because you go through these moments and it's 692 00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:53,160 Speaker 4: only moments you can share in these moments. It's like, 693 00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:54,480 Speaker 4: no one can invent this stuff. 694 00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:55,480 Speaker 3: This doesn't happen. 695 00:31:55,680 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 6: We had one of them petertrition office, so Nick was 696 00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:00,280 Speaker 6: like four days old. We bring the pew dedition and 697 00:32:00,320 --> 00:32:02,040 Speaker 6: he's like, take out the diaper. I'm gonna weiagh the baby. 698 00:32:02,240 --> 00:32:04,440 Speaker 6: He walks out of the room, We take the diaper off, 699 00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:07,040 Speaker 6: and he immediately peeces right in John's face and then 700 00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:08,120 Speaker 6: all over the wallpaper. 701 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:09,960 Speaker 4: Oh yeah he had probably. 702 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:15,560 Speaker 6: Yeah, there was everywhere. We laughed and laughed. That few 703 00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:17,400 Speaker 6: shop came in and he's like, something's wrong with these people. 704 00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:19,360 Speaker 5: I know, you guys gotta wrap up. My other question 705 00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:21,480 Speaker 5: is service dogs. How big was your dog? 706 00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 4: Well, she was a forty five pound yellow lab, very small, 707 00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:27,680 Speaker 4: very small, young children's hospital dog. 708 00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:29,080 Speaker 3: I flew with her so much. 709 00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:31,080 Speaker 4: She never had a problem until that one time with 710 00:32:31,200 --> 00:32:33,360 Speaker 4: our baby on the plane, his first flight, and it 711 00:32:33,440 --> 00:32:33,880 Speaker 4: was tragic. 712 00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:35,640 Speaker 3: People walked off that plane hating me. 713 00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:37,959 Speaker 4: And I'm standing there because dads are packed mules, get 714 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:40,040 Speaker 4: ready to be a pack meal. You're no longer You're 715 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:42,240 Speaker 4: no longer the bachelor guy in first. 716 00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:43,120 Speaker 5: Oh no, you're not cool. 717 00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:44,160 Speaker 3: No, you are not cool. 718 00:32:44,160 --> 00:32:46,440 Speaker 4: You know what you're like this point or not all 719 00:32:46,480 --> 00:32:49,360 Speaker 4: this point forward goes way downhill. You're gonna be standing there. 720 00:32:49,440 --> 00:32:51,480 Speaker 4: You're gonna be a pack mule walking off with a stroller, 721 00:32:52,040 --> 00:32:54,640 Speaker 4: and she's gonna be glamorous because she's gorgeous. 722 00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,040 Speaker 3: Just gonna be gorgeous walking off with. 723 00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:58,280 Speaker 6: The with the beautiful baby, and you're gonna be the guy. 724 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:00,880 Speaker 4: Behind her with like eighteen on your shoulders. 725 00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:04,680 Speaker 2: Guys, I have expectation that I will not be cool. 726 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:09,160 Speaker 2: This has been the best time. I'm so happy for 727 00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:11,280 Speaker 2: the two of you. We want to celebrate two of you, 728 00:33:11,560 --> 00:33:13,840 Speaker 2: and just you know, I wanted to talk to the 729 00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:15,320 Speaker 2: two of you for a long time because I think 730 00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:18,080 Speaker 2: you guys are great and this makes me so happy 731 00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:21,720 Speaker 2: to see. Can't wait to celebrate you uh and celebrate 732 00:33:21,800 --> 00:33:23,760 Speaker 2: everything going on tonight as we get outside. But we 733 00:33:23,840 --> 00:33:25,040 Speaker 2: do have to wrap this has. 734 00:33:26,920 --> 00:33:29,320 Speaker 5: I want to say, good luck, appreciate that it's a 735 00:33:29,400 --> 00:33:30,960 Speaker 5: new chapter of your life. You're gonna love it. 736 00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:31,360 Speaker 2: Thank you. 737 00:33:31,520 --> 00:33:32,880 Speaker 5: You have three or four of them. 738 00:33:33,040 --> 00:33:36,000 Speaker 2: Hey man, he's a good guy. He's a good guy. 739 00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:38,040 Speaker 2: With that, I've been Ben will be out. 740 00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,640 Speaker 1: Follow the Ben and Ashley I Almost Famous podcast on 741 00:33:41,720 --> 00:33:44,880 Speaker 1: iHeartRadio or subscribe wherever you listen to podcasts.