Speaker 1: Guess what decision We're about to make a horrible decisions. Okay,
Speaker 1: hey guys, welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions. I'm
Speaker 1: your girl. Maybe be a K say hek full Corp
Speaker 1: Pumps aka Debt, motherfucking bitch a K A peg and
Speaker 1: Marco a K A. I think that's I couldn't remember. Hi, everybody,
Speaker 1: I'm wheezy. Welcome back for another episode of our show.
Speaker 1: We have two guests today. I'm excited, y'all are the
Speaker 1: first guests of two. Um, it's getting black history, man,
Speaker 1: you know I'm I'm here for I'm super excited. Um.
Speaker 1: A few episodes ago, I shared about going to a
Speaker 1: high protocol dinner. So for those of you guys who
Speaker 1: saw the clip on our social media or listen to
Speaker 1: the episode and wanted to know more about that night,
Speaker 1: we are going to get into it. But let me
Speaker 1: go ahead and introduce our guests. We have T as
Speaker 1: well as Mal. Some of you all are gonna remember
Speaker 1: the boys, um, but both of them are the owners
Speaker 1: and founders of Limitless Lifestyle. That sounds like exotic car
Speaker 1: rental agent. So we wanted to come off as exotic.
Speaker 1: We wanted it to be ext and luxurious. We wanted
Speaker 1: to We wanted to like give it a field, which
Speaker 1: we'll get into, I guess later, but we wanted to
Speaker 1: give it a feel more like high class versus just
Speaker 1: like something where people like freak Nick like. We didn't
Speaker 1: want to be that level. We wanted to be something
Speaker 1: loo get into it because I definitely gave freak nick
Speaker 1: even at the party with my body suit. Damn bitches
Speaker 1: in gown. I'm gonna say and let you know. And
Speaker 1: for those of you who are listening, we actually don't
Speaker 1: have a visual tea because of her job. But um
Speaker 1: them a little diamonds. Just because you added some diamonds.
Speaker 1: We didn't make it hot class. There could be bangle.
Speaker 1: That's how realance. You know, it's true, it's true, but
Speaker 1: balanced dimension, that's all I know. That's where I love
Speaker 1: that you guys also said you wanted it to be luxurious,
Speaker 1: because I know that when talking about going to even
Speaker 1: sex clubs and play parties when it's all black, there's
Speaker 1: a lot of questions regarding how it's ran, how it's operated,
Speaker 1: the cleanliness of it. For whatever, it ran like a
Speaker 1: Jamaican restaurant. That's what we wanted yeah, wait, what's wrong
Speaker 1: with Jamaican restaurant is Ranby ain't never got nothing in
Speaker 1: their beach. That's what runs out because right I'm telling you, like,
Speaker 1: there's a Pepper's which ain't like quote unquote Jamaican by
Speaker 1: my crib now and Laurie sad, and I'd be like
Speaker 1: even them niggas ain't got ship and we're in a well,
Speaker 1: there's a Puerto Rican neighbor laisapa. Still I'll be going
Speaker 1: in there be like, y, you don't even have beef patties.
Speaker 1: That's like basics number one. There's Peppers and Flatbush. And
Speaker 1: I literally whenever I go, I literally go in all
Speaker 1: black and I wear a hoodie and I'll bring like
Speaker 1: like I work gloves because because people get shot in
Speaker 1: front of Pepper's, so I have to make sure that
Speaker 1: nobody's gonna try to fuck with me on this. Like okay,
Speaker 1: I say that, say what you know where you are? Right?
Speaker 1: We usually late, like my home girl and I whenever
Speaker 1: we go to Brooklyn, like we have to go and
Speaker 1: we get our escambes fish and you get your jerk
Speaker 1: chicken and your festival. And now she had to say
Speaker 1: it like that A great viral clip of this girl
Speaker 1: saying that Jamaican restaurants don't understand what you're ordering it.
Speaker 1: Look right, Okay, that's what you said. What is limitless luck?
Speaker 1: Since you can't it's not a card aden scene. So okay,
Speaker 1: So Limitless Lucks was we saw we were kind of women.
Speaker 1: We've both been the lifestyle for a bit, um and
Speaker 1: we've been to parties, been to events, and we've seen
Speaker 1: that there has been like there's a disparity between the
Speaker 1: type of events that are thrown for white community and
Speaker 1: black community. And we wanted to bring a higher level
Speaker 1: of luxury of luxury or let people see a higher
Speaker 1: level of luxury and when it comes to like the
Speaker 1: type of events that they can have. And um, like
Speaker 1: we're both travel agents. We both have we travel all
Speaker 1: the time anyway, So you guys together, No, no, I
Speaker 1: don't know. We're friends. We're good friends. We met in
Speaker 1: the lifestyle. We've like you know, talked to had our
Speaker 1: conversation and um and just been really cool friends. But
Speaker 1: another thing is we wanted to add the travel peace. Right,
Speaker 1: So figured a group of people that are into the
Speaker 1: same thing go into this luxurious hotel and you don't
Speaker 1: have to worry you a question about who you are,
Speaker 1: who's around you, because everybody's on the same they got mad. Yeah,
Speaker 1: just like even even have a money right because if
Speaker 1: you were towards something, you can put your coins together
Speaker 1: and speach yourself because you deserve. That's funny at night
Speaker 1: because when I'd be ready to spend if I'm telling you,
Speaker 1: when I've had like lotdown to my last dollar, but
Speaker 1: I knew I was gonna spend it on this meal,
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I have money tonight at this
Speaker 1: table exactly, and no thinking of it that way, Like
Speaker 1: there's no limits to what I want to do, and
Speaker 1: I can experience it in a way that's not the norm,
Speaker 1: but it's mine and it's the way I choose to
Speaker 1: live my life in this lifestyle. So limitless loves lifestyle. Um,
Speaker 1: I love that you brought that up so on your
Speaker 1: Instagram page. I want to start this show off, um
Speaker 1: by kind of digging into some quotes um that I
Speaker 1: found in us all like kind of discussing what it
Speaker 1: means us, So like this one says for us, when
Speaker 1: our sexual lifestyle is essential to our sense of identity,
Speaker 1: Anybody who doesn't know about our kink doesn't really know us.
Speaker 1: So what kind of you just said Even in experiencing
Speaker 1: these types of trips or these type of dinners like
Speaker 1: we did, you were like you get to kind of
Speaker 1: be yourself. You know, everyone at the table is going
Speaker 1: to accept you for you. I want to know if
Speaker 1: you all truly believe that you can't kind of identifies you,
Speaker 1: like if who you are in the bedroom is truly
Speaker 1: who you are? Believe that, because I mean, I'd be
Speaker 1: real nasty in the bedroom, but I don't think I'm
Speaker 1: really nasty all the time. But it's the thing that like,
Speaker 1: I mean, everybody goes out in the world and puts
Speaker 1: on a face, right, you put on like what you
Speaker 1: the face you need to put on in order to
Speaker 1: handle your business and do things you need to do. Um,
Speaker 1: But secretly you have the desire, which is your primal
Speaker 1: desires that you want to take out whether or not
Speaker 1: be in the bedroom or wherever however you do the lifestyle,
Speaker 1: how do you live your lifestyle? But it's like, um,
Speaker 1: these are things that like you can't like wait to
Speaker 1: like if you think about you like you can't I
Speaker 1: can't wait to get home to like like I don't know,
Speaker 1: so you can make a different back like and so
Speaker 1: it's when you kind of have that like, that's that's
Speaker 1: where that's the lifestyle is like the type of location
Speaker 1: where you can let that out and not really feel judged,
Speaker 1: but have to worry about that because they be judging.
Speaker 1: You'll be judging that I eat boot hole, Y'll be judging.
Speaker 1: I mean, I know you don't think this is like
Speaker 1: relative to me because I'm such a sub. But the
Speaker 1: only thing that I could compare it to um. A
Speaker 1: lot of people think that sub or bottoming is, you know,
Speaker 1: UM a weaker thing to do, right, But the one
Speaker 1: thing I was reading this thing, I think it's seven
Speaker 1: something of success. I can't remember what it was. I
Speaker 1: listened to it on audible, but anyway, they were talking about, UM,
Speaker 1: letting go of control is a fearless thing to do.
Speaker 1: And that is the only way I could describe it
Speaker 1: with being a sub because like I don't need to
Speaker 1: have control because I'm not afraid in that moment, right
Speaker 1: or I'm like feeling confident or whatever, and that's why
Speaker 1: we're able to do these certain things. That's why I
Speaker 1: think I could maybe related to that. But as far
Speaker 1: as like my everyday life. I don't really think I'm
Speaker 1: a sub I mean I have to be dominant in
Speaker 1: a lot of parts of work. I'm employer, I'm a
Speaker 1: business partner. Like so I don't know if it's like so,
Speaker 1: like what would you think for you? So you have
Speaker 1: to keep whatever your persona is right, So if you're
Speaker 1: a boss, you do what you have to do. But
Speaker 1: everybody needs to break, you know what I'm saying. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I get to have this break for myself. I
Speaker 1: don't have to explain. I can trust it's taken care of.
Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm intentional, I'm mindful. There's no question about
Speaker 1: what I'm doing. And I do this in this part
Speaker 1: of my life, in this professional space that i'm in,
Speaker 1: this boss space that I'm in. But when I'm in
Speaker 1: this subspace, the service space, it's the same. So it's
Speaker 1: just it's if we hear, if you're saying subspace, were
Speaker 1: you the quote unquote little letter that we heard, she
Speaker 1: ran the whole thing like a fucking so when we
Speaker 1: even just in pre pro she was a leader of letters. Yes,
Speaker 1: the letter, the little letter, the leader of the little
Speaker 1: and I can okay, so you are a little letter yeah,
Speaker 1: with aut agude, with domination. You know what, maybe I'll
Speaker 1: be giving that too, because I'd be like, I'll do
Speaker 1: whatever you say right now, right. And I think, I mean,
Speaker 1: I think, I think. I think a lot of people
Speaker 1: in be this and it's like two sides of of
Speaker 1: your coin, right, so you have your one half that
Speaker 1: you take and you put out. I mean a lot
Speaker 1: of people, it's like those two are balanced, Like you're
Speaker 1: whatever you do in the bedroom versus whatever you do
Speaker 1: in real life. They're like balances of each other. So
Speaker 1: it's like some people go out and they like to
Speaker 1: be dominant in real life and then secretly, behind the
Speaker 1: scenes they like to be submissive, and it's like it's
Speaker 1: a balance. And people that I know that are less
Speaker 1: docile and real I mean or more dostile in real life,
Speaker 1: they go home and throwing a strap I mean, I
Speaker 1: mean they throw on they throw on a I just
Speaker 1: think the leather outfit and they want to beat somebody
Speaker 1: ass like because they have that dominant they just want
Speaker 1: to live out. Yeah, I don't think both like in
Speaker 1: my in my normal life, I know, I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't think I'm very simistic. I mean I do like
Speaker 1: when just and it would be like I'm gonna take
Speaker 1: you here to eat. That's like the relinquishing a power.
Speaker 1: I think, No, that's no. Where am I going? What
Speaker 1: time you have to be there? Wait? Wait, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? Okay, all right? I think we like
Speaker 1: trust men, we very rarely like I don't know. I
Speaker 1: think this is like this modern day woman ship where
Speaker 1: niggas like don't get as assertive anymore. I love I
Speaker 1: eat that sheet? What you think? Really do I have
Speaker 1: to wear? What kind of clothes do I have to
Speaker 1: put on you? You ask that, you know, because like
Speaker 1: you know, like okay, what type of place? How do
Speaker 1: I have to dress? You know what I mean? And
Speaker 1: then you choose your outfit like it's I'll be sometimes
Speaker 1: like FaceTime depending like if it's not a few first
Speaker 1: dates like that's just how stubby I am. And some
Speaker 1: niggas are learning that I'm sucked with like Okay, this
Speaker 1: bitch is asking for her, not for me, like like this,
Speaker 1: and then I'll change them. Sorry I'm ridiculous, but it
Speaker 1: helps to put you in that headspace though, or the
Speaker 1: evening that's to come. Like even if um, you know
Speaker 1: some people they have a routine that they have to
Speaker 1: prepare for when they're with their partner, with their dom
Speaker 1: and setting up everything right, having all of your assignments out,
Speaker 1: having all of the tools and toys that you have
Speaker 1: presented so when they're they're or do that, yeah, or
Speaker 1: setting up their stuff for them what like like a
Speaker 1: sarcuterie words for it, just like I lay out the
Speaker 1: dial thos but push Yeah, everything is arms. So yeah,
Speaker 1: it's just convenient and it puts that starts like the
Speaker 1: while are you doing? Is like, this is what I'm
Speaker 1: focusing on. This is what matters right now, and it
Speaker 1: gets you excited. And are you guys that face of
Speaker 1: your company by the way, like do people know it's
Speaker 1: yours and they just know limit Luxe brand people when
Speaker 1: they interact the people? Okay, because I'm like now people.
Speaker 1: Of course there was also and we'll get into it,
Speaker 1: there was masks. There were masks because it's also about
Speaker 1: how comfortable people feel as well too. But whenever you
Speaker 1: interact with us though, well let's get it through guys.
Speaker 1: This comes from Vice. It kind of also uh weaves
Speaker 1: into the conversation that we just had. Um. But Vice
Speaker 1: wrote an article on how to discuss your deepest, darkest
Speaker 1: desires and kinks with your partner. UM. Discussing our innermost
Speaker 1: fantasies can be scary, but they can also help unlock
Speaker 1: a whole new world of pleasure. Um. According to the
Speaker 1: two thousand fifteen Sexual Exploration in American study Trusted Source,
Speaker 1: more than of sexually act of adults do role playing,
Speaker 1: while more than are into actually being tied up and spanked. Meanwhile,
Speaker 1: another survey also found that even in cases where people
Speaker 1: didn't have the opportunity to explore their desires, nearly half
Speaker 1: of them were at least interested in it. UM. One
Speaker 1: of the I kind of want to go through these
Speaker 1: uh tips really quick on kind of of course, how
Speaker 1: to have this conversation with your partner, build up a
Speaker 1: comfort level which is ironic. Let me tell y'all, motherfucker's
Speaker 1: I said on this podcast every week and talk about, like,
Speaker 1: you know, all my little nasty shit. And this is actually,
Speaker 1: for some odd reason, a place where I like stumble
Speaker 1: with my partners. I even just shared about my fucking
Speaker 1: pegging gang bang. Apparently I'm really bad with description and
Speaker 1: opening up and feeling comfortable sharing the things that I've
Speaker 1: done with other people with my partners, and I didn't
Speaker 1: realize it until a recent conversation when he was like,
Speaker 1: did you even have fun? Did you enjoy it? Like
Speaker 1: you're just skipping over all the details, like how did
Speaker 1: you get there? Was there a conversation before, Like he
Speaker 1: likes to vividly hear how I talked about things hop
Speaker 1: on this motherfucker podcast and tell hundreds of thousands of
Speaker 1: people how I spread the booda cheeks open, and then
Speaker 1: when I want my partners and actually asking about my
Speaker 1: sexual experiences, whether it's from the past, whether it's recent,
Speaker 1: even when I'm at the sex club the next morning,
Speaker 1: when he wants to know how I feel about, like, well,
Speaker 1: did you enjoy it? Was anything bothering you? I mean,
Speaker 1: like it was kind of thing we're used to thinking
Speaker 1: that if we describe sexual experience to somebody, they're gonna
Speaker 1: get jealous. Yeah, j you dealt with for so long
Speaker 1: that it's even hard to bring it uppist. All right,
Speaker 1: It's the same thing, like even when it comes to
Speaker 1: like like which I've had conversations to people about this before,
Speaker 1: but even like polyamory, it's like sometimes you'll you'll be
Speaker 1: with like a partner who's like Hey, I want to
Speaker 1: hear about, like your sexual experience with another partner. So yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean I've talked to like partners, probably amorously about
Speaker 1: it and in describing, like sometimes your partners like, hey,
Speaker 1: like tell me how it was with the other person,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, uh, And it's like and it's on
Speaker 1: one side, you don't you worry about the whole jealousy concept,
Speaker 1: but then you also worry about like I don't want
Speaker 1: this person to feel like I did more for this
Speaker 1: person than I did for you. But some people get
Speaker 1: really turned on though, And I think that's what it is,
Speaker 1: knowing if your partner really wants to note or if
Speaker 1: they're going to use it later on to throw it
Speaker 1: in your face. And luckily, like I found a partner
Speaker 1: who is she wants to hear everything she wants like
Speaker 1: all the details, like everything, and it's amazing. Does she
Speaker 1: want it during sex? No? Before like sometimes before, But
Speaker 1: sometimes it will lead into sex, like the talking about
Speaker 1: it will get that's both turned on, and then it
Speaker 1: will lead right into some more I like it during
Speaker 1: which is disgusting. You want you want your man to
Speaker 1: tell you how he sucked another woman while he's sucking
Speaker 1: you one hundred person, I would be like, so m M.
Speaker 1: I would say, in most open relationships of mine, the
Speaker 1: sex is happening. When I say of mine, I mean
Speaker 1: like the that I've just had in the past. Most
Speaker 1: of the stories I don't want to hear because I'm
Speaker 1: away from you and it's making me feel a little
Speaker 1: jealous that you got to have this great time, And
Speaker 1: like that's just me being honest. I sometimes do feel like,
Speaker 1: not at like seriously angry jealousy, but I know how
Speaker 1: emotional I am, so it could happen. So sometimes when
Speaker 1: I'm fucking or about the suck. Indeed, are you some pussies?
Speaker 1: Everyone like? So when she was dealing with a good
Speaker 1: did it blow my hat up? Help me the best? Psy?
Speaker 1: Even if it wasn't, you know, because sex sometimes, like
Speaker 1: I like that descriptive, imaginative ship and when you are
Speaker 1: in a relationship with someone who's open or like to
Speaker 1: have three simms or whatever, I just love piping it
Speaker 1: up tran sex. You know what that might be? Well,
Speaker 1: I want to talk about are you talking about that?
Speaker 1: One of the other things that I did also, and
Speaker 1: I think he goes into maybe feeling judged was actually
Speaker 1: One of the other advice is to set your boundaries
Speaker 1: so informed. Enthusiastic concepts experts emphasize that it is key
Speaker 1: in taking your conversation to the next level. They said,
Speaker 1: it's important to understand that fantasies aren't necessarily what we
Speaker 1: want in reality. That's why they're called fantasies. Like well,
Speaker 1: and I actually really kind of still want a gang bang,
Speaker 1: and I think it. I moved up to maybe one
Speaker 1: in like three niggas three four, Like I moved up
Speaker 1: to like really kind of wanted but not really what
Speaker 1: it's like tow but now I'm at like three potentially four. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but that's what I'm saying that talking about. No, that's
Speaker 1: a threesome when there's two. Okay, I'm talking about my
Speaker 1: fantasy of a gang bang. It's something that I don't
Speaker 1: know what I watched. I want it, but I really
Speaker 1: don't know if I really want it. If you're like Homogorn,
Speaker 1: let me talk to Lambeau if he knows what nigga,
Speaker 1: because he'd be telling me all the time, where is
Speaker 1: this going? Yeah, but that's work stuff. I don't I
Speaker 1: don't I don't want a gang bang with niggas. With
Speaker 1: Timberland boots with felonies. I want a sensual gang bang.
Speaker 1: You just said, let me get up my my hoodass. Nigga.
Speaker 1: See if hoodass thinks to come gang baby now, I
Speaker 1: don't see the problem. No, Now I'm thinking of fucking
Speaker 1: Wesley Pipes with the Timberland boots. And that's not because
Speaker 1: is that what it's giving ganger like like like want
Speaker 1: gangbangers to gang baby b because they would really be
Speaker 1: on theme and that and that's the perception most people
Speaker 1: have about gang bang seeing that's the thing. No, I
Speaker 1: want a gag bang. Well, I'm kissing like I was,
Speaker 1: stay aerial typeing your type. Many watches that type of porn.
Speaker 1: That that's gay porn. That's not my gangbang. I don't
Speaker 1: want a gay gag bang. I want to canda. My
Speaker 1: gang bang fantasy first off, is very sensual. I want
Speaker 1: us all to be kissing, and I want massages. I
Speaker 1: want like sixhand massage. Nigga. Sorry, last week, I'm watching
Speaker 1: you fucking dude in the acid. That's not too far. Now,
Speaker 1: he's just talking about some bood. Even the ain't no
Speaker 1: hood nigger. He got a job, Okay, I think got
Speaker 1: a w two. Yeah, let's say. Yeah, I know, because
Speaker 1: he was like, so y'all been doing your taxes together
Speaker 1: and ship years old? Never all right, Well, well I
Speaker 1: wanted to be sensual, but I don't really want it.
Speaker 1: So here's the thing too. I play it with toys
Speaker 1: like I have, uh my man and then two deal doughs,
Speaker 1: and it's like something that I have to let him
Speaker 1: know I'm fine with just the deal does. I don't
Speaker 1: need bodies attached, Like this is the fantasy in my mind,
Speaker 1: and I enjoy when we play it out in like
Speaker 1: a rope play scenario, but realistically, I don't know if
Speaker 1: I really want it, but I enjoyed that I can
Speaker 1: express that this is a fantasy of mine, but I
Speaker 1: don't think I really wanted in reality. But then that's
Speaker 1: why I said, it's elevating to where now maybe it
Speaker 1: maybe maybe it maybe a possibility. It's elevating to where
Speaker 1: now you might actually take today. I mean, it's getting
Speaker 1: into listen. That's why I'm about to have fun at
Speaker 1: All Star Week, and I'm hoping some some of my
Speaker 1: old niggas. I just want to join me and this nigga,
Speaker 1: and then that's how it goes I did. Let it
Speaker 1: be known. If I get to that, it needs to
Speaker 1: be with niggas that I know have good dicks that
Speaker 1: could please me. I don't. I don't want to niggle
Speaker 1: whose dick can't get up to do it if you
Speaker 1: can't have it the way you want. I wanted the
Speaker 1: way I want it. So I play on the on
Speaker 1: the West Coast and then this nigga here, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, the tires, I won't wert you in
Speaker 1: gang bangs? Have you had one? And well, okay, so
Speaker 1: I've been. I've been that it was different. No, no, no,
Speaker 1: not even I've been. I've been. I've been aside from
Speaker 1: the pegging, like just went like four women and me
Speaker 1: like and it was like the opposite. It was like
Speaker 1: a reverse gang bang in a sense. Oh I love
Speaker 1: reverse gang bang porn. Those are the funniest, not giving
Speaker 1: yellow jackets. Sorry oh sorry, sorry, I love yeah, but
Speaker 1: not enough but they all kind of but it was
Speaker 1: real rape, but it was a gang bang on Travis. Sorry, sorry,
Speaker 1: this is the show. Yeah, yours now with damn? I
Speaker 1: forgot where I was going. What was the question? Oh
Speaker 1: with the women that you gang bang with another man?
Speaker 1: Was there ever like an issue where like maybe men
Speaker 1: got nervous. There was a performance thing like have you
Speaker 1: seen that happen? Oh? Yeah, Like and there was one
Speaker 1: woman she literally was like I don't know, ma she was.
Speaker 1: You could tell she wasn't new to this, Like so
Speaker 1: she was the whole time. She's like that definitely, Like
Speaker 1: she came in. She knew everybody. She came in and
Speaker 1: she was like she was like, I need come, like
Speaker 1: right now. And like so she had she had one
Speaker 1: dig in one hand, one dick in the other hand,
Speaker 1: somebody in her mouth, and somebody and the whole and
Speaker 1: it was and it was a line of guys. It
Speaker 1: was a lot. It was like maybe twenty guys. And
Speaker 1: she's like she's like she's like she's making him come,
Speaker 1: and then like next she's like yelling out next like
Speaker 1: and swapping him. She was running the whole thing. She
Speaker 1: was running the whole thing. And she's like and this
Speaker 1: is one guy who was like why is she not here?
Speaker 1: There was just and there was this one guy who
Speaker 1: was like sucking her and she's just like she's like
Speaker 1: I need to come. I need you to come right now.
Speaker 1: And he's like and he's like trying or whatever, and
Speaker 1: the guys just started making fun of him and they're like, dude,
Speaker 1: she said, coming He's like I said, I'm trying, man,
Speaker 1: and he's going like everybody's laughing or whatever, and she's like,
Speaker 1: come on, yo, like what are you doing? Like she
Speaker 1: was really running the whole thing, and I don't know
Speaker 1: if I can handle that. And I think period she
Speaker 1: was expelling these guys too, just had them was they
Speaker 1: would come in and she would send him out the
Speaker 1: door and be like all right next to Like, if
Speaker 1: you had to put a number on it, lady, on
Speaker 1: how many you could take? If you like, what do
Speaker 1: you think your max could be? Oh? No, the way
Speaker 1: I'd be taking this and round I could probably do after.
Speaker 1: I could probably do five after Charlotte at the party,
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you don't. Just don't do that. I think
Speaker 1: was a good regular size. It wasn't big. It was big.
Speaker 1: I mean, I like big. That was a really big
Speaker 1: but I thought maybe it was a regular side thick.
Speaker 1: But it was a big one. It was like a
Speaker 1: horse stick. I did not take a horsetick zillough it
Speaker 1: was it was. It was pretty big. So it wasn't
Speaker 1: like not tell everyone you saw me get egged woman.
Speaker 1: That was right that I did? That was it a
Speaker 1: week ago? And Manby was talking about be abortioned. I
Speaker 1: was like me and he stopped. I was like, I
Speaker 1: did too. Well, let's get into real quick before we
Speaker 1: get into the high protocol dinner, Let's get a sex
Speaker 1: tip teeth. Let's start from you and then let's get
Speaker 1: to your mail. On a sex tip. It could be
Speaker 1: for a woman, it could be for man, it could
Speaker 1: be for a sub, it could be for dumb. What
Speaker 1: would your sex tip be? In the bedroom? Dating advice
Speaker 1: could be maybe one two if you got it. Since
Speaker 1: y'all are you know out there sex? You like style people?
Speaker 1: I would say, um, never be ashamed of what you want.
Speaker 1: If you have to be ashamed of it, then that's
Speaker 1: not something you truly want. So on what's yours? So
Speaker 1: however you want your experience to be. If it's something
Speaker 1: you like, If you don't like it, to speak up
Speaker 1: about it because your experience is yours and you own it.
Speaker 1: M hm. I felt like we have to snap to that,
Speaker 1: but you know what I mean? What about you? Malt um?
Speaker 1: My tip would be to treat sex like a Treat
Speaker 1: sex like a um A learnable action. So like study it,
Speaker 1: like study sex. I do make sure you like, like
Speaker 1: as a guy, like I got really good at even
Speaker 1: pussy because I studied, like I looked up videos and
Speaker 1: I read, I looked at things and I asked women
Speaker 1: like how do you like this? Nothing, And I was
Speaker 1: learning like advanced. I was reading. I was literally reading
Speaker 1: books like about it, like and this was in high school,
Speaker 1: like I was. I was school because because for me,
Speaker 1: it's always about like if I do something, I want
Speaker 1: to be like the best at it, Like that's just
Speaker 1: always been my goal. So like whethern't I'm in my
Speaker 1: business stuff or whatever. So when it came to sex,
Speaker 1: I was like, yo, I don't want any woman I
Speaker 1: would ever say anything bad about me, like not ever.
Speaker 1: So I made sure I study and I learned and
Speaker 1: I listened and like and and that's another part of
Speaker 1: like learning is like also including in learning is listening
Speaker 1: to your partner, like actually asked and what they like.
Speaker 1: It's okay to do that. Like there are some people
Speaker 1: who come into a sexual thing and be like, oh,
Speaker 1: I made the last woman come or I made the
Speaker 1: last dude. Not real quick, I'm gonna do the same
Speaker 1: thing to this guy and they A lot of people
Speaker 1: don't have the same desires, So be okay with asking
Speaker 1: your partner like what they actually want, like how they
Speaker 1: actually like, you know, things, or because I mean, some
Speaker 1: people they sensitive in certain areas. Some people just don't
Speaker 1: like certain things, and you just never know. I want
Speaker 1: to just add to that. Not only don't be don't
Speaker 1: be afraid to ask your partner their desires, don't be
Speaker 1: afraid to share yours. Like before I even sucking fuck anyone,
Speaker 1: I let it. I'll want I need way more than
Speaker 1: one round. I'm sorry if you're like one of those
Speaker 1: guys that are one and done and get real tired
Speaker 1: after one round and can't get back up or take
Speaker 1: you a while, I'm just not even going We're just
Speaker 1: not gonna go there. Like I know, I like rounds.
Speaker 1: I like to go along quite a long time, Like
Speaker 1: I enjoy like making you nuts and getting you right
Speaker 1: back card to meetly after and going back at it
Speaker 1: right again. So if that's not something you you think
Speaker 1: that's doing too much, and you think that's some superhero
Speaker 1: type of ability, then you're not superhero nu to get
Speaker 1: into this listing. So um, there's that. So let's get
Speaker 1: into finally, guys, the horrible decision of this week. We
Speaker 1: are talking about FED, which is the formal erotic dining
Speaker 1: UM or the high protocol dinner that I spoke about
Speaker 1: maybe a month ago now on this podcast. But let's
Speaker 1: get into it. So you ran the whole night, and
Speaker 1: you ran the little letters, if we can start there.
Speaker 1: I don't know much about the little letters. Let's start
Speaker 1: by talking about what this means for every letter, alright,
Speaker 1: so and why that choice of words? Alright, So it's funny.
Speaker 1: I literally spoke about this so so um every we
Speaker 1: wanted it to be accessible and we wanted to be
Speaker 1: as inclusive as possible. So when it comes to high
Speaker 1: protocol events, a lot of times people are aware of
Speaker 1: it and they're curious, but I can't because I don't
Speaker 1: know this or I've never tried that. I've never even
Speaker 1: heard of high protocol. What's that normally like? If someone
Speaker 1: was saying that because I sent her a video? Is
Speaker 1: it like a dinner? Now, that's what I would think
Speaker 1: if I heard high high, Because protocol can have levels.
Speaker 1: It could be low, moderate, or high. And when you
Speaker 1: have that type of situation or event, there's UM certain
Speaker 1: rules that have to be followed, um, the way you speak,
Speaker 1: the way you move, your manners and different things like
Speaker 1: that and so different people. We wanted it to be
Speaker 1: open to different people within the lifestyle because you run
Speaker 1: the gamut of so many things. And then you didn't
Speaker 1: want someone to say, hey, everyone is going to be
Speaker 1: a submissive. Everyone doesn't identify that way. Someone can be
Speaker 1: a bottom, someone can be a slave, you can be
Speaker 1: a pet, you can be a doll. And you don't
Speaker 1: want to say doms, because not everyone's a dom. You
Speaker 1: have a master, you have a mystery, you have a puppeteer,
Speaker 1: like there's so many different things a handler. So we
Speaker 1: wanted it to be open. So wherever you were in
Speaker 1: your journey, however you identified and what boils down to it.
Speaker 1: What it boils down to is service. If you're a
Speaker 1: big letter, you are receiving service. If you were a
Speaker 1: little letter, you were functioning from a space of did
Speaker 1: you make that up? Or has that came No, it's
Speaker 1: actually been used in different because you know, researching what's important,
Speaker 1: even when you just went down the list. I don't
Speaker 1: think i've heard dollar doll pup. We heard from h
Speaker 1: when we had the pup play on like the pup
Speaker 1: play guys during COVID, But doll and puppeteer can you
Speaker 1: jump into those that's not my area I've attended. So, like,
Speaker 1: you know, there's dollification right um special shout out to
Speaker 1: uh stk Events and House of stk Um. So they
Speaker 1: would have like a series of different things TK like
Speaker 1: the sty no no no s c k SK like
Speaker 1: Masta mast Lola and um served black j black um.
Speaker 1: So someone came in and they were talking about dollification
Speaker 1: and I didn't know, like there's so many different levels
Speaker 1: of dollification and so based on a type of doll.
Speaker 1: And then so the maker can be called like a
Speaker 1: puppeteer because there's like the puppeteer style. I don't remember
Speaker 1: the name and stuff like that. So it's a whole world.
Speaker 1: And I was just like wow. So it said that
Speaker 1: it is a sexual fetish um not simply the arousal
Speaker 1: to dolls or someone that wants to look like one.
Speaker 1: It's when someone is attracted to dolls and figurines and
Speaker 1: it takes on various forms involving animated dolls or you know, uh, sorry,
Speaker 1: it could be it could be. It could be in animation, animation,
Speaker 1: sexual contact with the doll, fantasies with multiple dolls, or
Speaker 1: transforming a person into one. And I also wanted to
Speaker 1: add to that, the fetish of it um is actually
Speaker 1: where the partner is transformed into technically a doll, either
Speaker 1: through makeup, man or isms, or even plastic surgery. So
Speaker 1: there's a lot of different things to that. Yeah, every
Speaker 1: crazy that, even dullification is not something. So when we
Speaker 1: first started the pod, uh, if you guys go back
Speaker 1: to you know, maybe start from episode one, maybe through
Speaker 1: about episode a hundred and fifty or so, we did
Speaker 1: a kink of the week and learning through all of
Speaker 1: like the paraphilias and all of the things associated with
Speaker 1: kinks and fetishes. I don't even think we've ever talked
Speaker 1: about dullification, So you're teaching me. So that was the
Speaker 1: little letter, big letter breakdown. But let's get into what
Speaker 1: what someone would have been been um expecting from attending,
Speaker 1: because I'll be honest with you, there was a lot
Speaker 1: of rules by the way guys sent out, so the
Speaker 1: same way we have rules going to the sex club
Speaker 1: where it's really all about consent, the rules for the
Speaker 1: protocol dinner went way deeper then I can expect. So
Speaker 1: can we talk about maybe what those rules were to
Speaker 1: be followed during the dinner on your on your h
Speaker 1: it would have table like you know, table manners and stuff,
Speaker 1: because we did have a manual. You had there was
Speaker 1: a manual, the manual how like, wait, the manual do
Speaker 1: you send it out in a p Yes, the manual
Speaker 1: sessions when people are booking a ticket or finding this
Speaker 1: right like or like let's say that they wanted to
Speaker 1: find you at some point in time, Um, do you
Speaker 1: think they're expecting that? Like, dude, do you feel like
Speaker 1: you're advertising it that way that price? Let you know,
Speaker 1: it's not a cheap people dinner. I think people search
Speaker 1: it out because it's something they're they're curious. But like
Speaker 1: like you see these things like in white communities, but
Speaker 1: you see like movies or whatever like that white people
Speaker 1: do it. Like. The whole reason we even started doing
Speaker 1: this was because in planning our destination trips, we had
Speaker 1: like I have found this clip of a group from like, um,
Speaker 1: Europe that did it, and they actually have like like
Speaker 1: people like they would. It was a little weird because
Speaker 1: I thought it was a little racist, but it was
Speaker 1: like all these white people and they have black people
Speaker 1: like laid out on tables covered in food, and it
Speaker 1: was like this and it was like everyone was in
Speaker 1: mask and it was like this whole high protocol keenpie dinner.
Speaker 1: Right afterwards it led into a play party there, and
Speaker 1: so I was like, yo, I would love to do
Speaker 1: this without the race looking thing, but like this would
Speaker 1: be cool to have on our trips. And so we
Speaker 1: were like, all right, well, instead of like trying to
Speaker 1: planet for a trip, let's try to do it beforehand
Speaker 1: so we can know how the work that goes into
Speaker 1: it and make sure that we can get it. And
Speaker 1: because you guys all both talked about price, I'm curious
Speaker 1: not everybody else's to ranges. It could be a diffra story.
Speaker 1: What's going to be there? Location? And it was one
Speaker 1: seven five and then and then there wasn't add on too,
Speaker 1: so there was an at if you wanted to stay
Speaker 1: for the play party. So there were wasn't add on.
Speaker 1: Now for a free fixed meal, that's pretty average, and
Speaker 1: I mean you were getting steak and fish. Yeah, it was,
Speaker 1: it was and pretty much unlimited. And then it was
Speaker 1: that was bartending, and that's the other thing. So much
Speaker 1: work that goes into it, like special shout out to
Speaker 1: our chefs, um from the house of my family. I
Speaker 1: love them. So who and Dee d you could be
Speaker 1: like a wedding planer. Really this I'm always alone right here,
Speaker 1: This one right here is the most organized person ever.
Speaker 1: Like I mean, she's like, I'm like, yeah, so what
Speaker 1: are we gonna do about Like what are the prices
Speaker 1: on this? She's like, no, I have a whole spread
Speaker 1: sheet is in the Google document and it's like, what
Speaker 1: are your two different roles in um the event that
Speaker 1: she planned even in the I want to get into
Speaker 1: the event too if we can. So I'm a marketer.
Speaker 1: I have a web development company, and so I do
Speaker 1: like a lot of the marketing advertising, and she does
Speaker 1: a lot of the back in legis six stuff, the
Speaker 1: accounting and basically got to be closed that came together
Speaker 1: for this business because it's because literally again you know,
Speaker 1: as you mentioned, like I'm very behind the scenes. That's
Speaker 1: just my style. And um, I said, you know, no,
Speaker 1: let's have a conversation. And You're like blah bla blah blah.
Speaker 1: He was like, you know, well, I was kind of
Speaker 1: interested in the same thing. So and it's literally so
Speaker 1: weird how we would talk about something and it's like
Speaker 1: something that was literally here, and it goes vice versa,
Speaker 1: so we literally feed off of each other. I want
Speaker 1: to get it to the night. I want to get
Speaker 1: it so if people can expect I want to get
Speaker 1: into what were the rules on the manual? Mind you?
Speaker 1: And I only want to do that because when I
Speaker 1: first walked in, there were there, there was still setting
Speaker 1: up going on, but the little letters could not even
Speaker 1: look at me. They had to look down. They couldn't
Speaker 1: address me until, like unless I said something. Let's get
Speaker 1: into the rules of the night and and what the
Speaker 1: little letters were expected to do, what their roles played,
Speaker 1: and then also how we aim and as big letters
Speaker 1: later of course with a big letter for the for
Speaker 1: the evening. So within the protocols, UM, they had to
Speaker 1: avoid eye contact. They had to make sure that they
Speaker 1: knew how to address the person that they were speaking
Speaker 1: to and how they wanted to be addressed. UM you
Speaker 1: had to use a gesture to initiate conversation, to ask
Speaker 1: a question. UM. You had a position to wait at attention.
Speaker 1: UM you had to um stand as a serving trade right. UM.
Speaker 1: One of the things that we didn't include, UM, was kneeling,
Speaker 1: because kneeling is something that's very um many people have
Speaker 1: very strong feelings towards it, and we wanted to be
Speaker 1: respectful because oh, so there are some people so kneeling
Speaker 1: is a symbol of your submission, right, and so some
Speaker 1: people don't do that with any and everyone, right, And
Speaker 1: so we wanted to be respectful of that. Because although
Speaker 1: this is an event that people are experimenting for the night,
Speaker 1: this is something that people live there, and we wanted
Speaker 1: to be respectful of that. So even in our spelling
Speaker 1: of house, we didn't spell it like the regular way
Speaker 1: because there are people who have houses and we wanted
Speaker 1: to be respectful of the lifestyle. And so this is
Speaker 1: also yeah, so like a house of woo or house
Speaker 1: of s ck, right, and so the way we spelled
Speaker 1: it in the yeah, that's how we spelled it in
Speaker 1: the manual. But you said you want to be respectful
Speaker 1: pieces of the houses, I'm confused. So it was just, um,
Speaker 1: we didn't want you to think that we are the
Speaker 1: house of limitless luck, because that is not who we are. Um.
Speaker 1: And also making sure that people were aware that you know,
Speaker 1: and it's also to a learning opportunity as well. Um.
Speaker 1: So we had a trainer come in UM and we
Speaker 1: had virtual training sessions. We had to training sessions for
Speaker 1: the for the for the little, little and the big
Speaker 1: letters were able to attend to if they wanted. So
Speaker 1: unruly nerd girls special shout out to her. Um. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and a lot of the conversations we had with the
Speaker 1: rolls back Coco. So as you see, like you'll hear
Speaker 1: a lot of names come out. This was a win
Speaker 1: for us all, like we all had something that we
Speaker 1: could contribute to it and everyone being there. So the
Speaker 1: little letters following the rules, all they knew was they
Speaker 1: had to dress up in sexy black tasteful. What happens
Speaker 1: if they disobeyed that was that was a fun part
Speaker 1: of the night. Even I got in trouble. But like's
Speaker 1: what's an example of how you could like like, what
Speaker 1: how did you get in trouble? Tell us that? So, um,
Speaker 1: if they made a mistake, right, so let's say when
Speaker 1: you're serving the food, you're not supposed to crush your
Speaker 1: hands over someone's food. So if the disciplinarian saw a mistake,
Speaker 1: she could ding her bell. So we has Mrs Adasa
Speaker 1: so I was the role of major Domo. So I'm
Speaker 1: the one that's making sure that everything flows. And so
Speaker 1: they had a cue of two dings or one thing
Speaker 1: to come into the room or exit the room. Okay,
Speaker 1: like if they were amazing, special shout out to the
Speaker 1: little because they were great. They were so serious. We had, Yeah,
Speaker 1: we had twelve little letters. We had about six servers
Speaker 1: of the house that you know, just helped with different things.
Speaker 1: And we had the kitchen staff, and Coco was our
Speaker 1: host from Pretty Robes, and we had our special guests
Speaker 1: and me and Me and Coco actually shared and we
Speaker 1: had the only male little letter of the evening. And
Speaker 1: so even when she wanted her plate warmed up, he
Speaker 1: had to take it and go get it warmed up.
Speaker 1: I finished my drink and he would you like another drink?
Speaker 1: And he had to go serve and fill my drink
Speaker 1: every time I emptied it. Like when you think of service,
Speaker 1: it's what can I do to make this easier? But
Speaker 1: did you get to ask me? So what happened when
Speaker 1: you crossed over? So I didn't get to get it,
Speaker 1: but I literally they reminded me. Um, they reminded me
Speaker 1: that I owe them So if we got what oh
Speaker 1: so Um, I was to get some spanks, you know,
Speaker 1: because if they messed up, I'm responsible for them. So
Speaker 1: if they mess up, it's on me. So if they
Speaker 1: get five dings from the bell, that's something that's in
Speaker 1: the bank for me. Um. That's a lot of fun.
Speaker 1: Watched everybody, she watched every likely she saw anybody making it,
Speaker 1: she would hit her bell and everybody like and and
Speaker 1: it just kept the sting at the end of the
Speaker 1: table five things. I know, it sounds like a lot.
Speaker 1: They literally had to be with their arms behind their
Speaker 1: back at some point. If you didn't get the right
Speaker 1: gesture of putting your arm behind your back during that's
Speaker 1: a day like she was catching everything, or if you
Speaker 1: made eye contact. And we also had other people watching
Speaker 1: as well, so the host was watching sir who was
Speaker 1: also watching. And it's just but it's also to make
Speaker 1: sure that everyone is okay. Because they also had a
Speaker 1: co word like orange. If you need to just go
Speaker 1: away from anything, you don't need to explain you want
Speaker 1: to go, take a break, you want to go like
Speaker 1: relax your feet. They had a whole they had um,
Speaker 1: they had a whole room upstairs to themselves and you know,
Speaker 1: for some people this was their first time go into
Speaker 1: anything like this, so nerves were there, and I saw
Speaker 1: you they had a whole photo shoot upstairs. They like
Speaker 1: they literally built this community, so like if someone was
Speaker 1: messing up or they weren't sure, they were able to
Speaker 1: help each other. And that's what it was about. It's
Speaker 1: safe enough to mess up if you do, but it's
Speaker 1: serious enough to work to try your best. And also
Speaker 1: the dinner was wonderful. But then you guys also put
Speaker 1: on a show, so Sir Marvelous Um and Siphon were
Speaker 1: performers as well as you had a burlesque dancer, which
Speaker 1: was phenomenal. Uh, that was my first time actually seeing burlesque,
Speaker 1: especially in that setting. I actually also just went and
Speaker 1: saw burlesque last night at Bathtub Gin and it was wonderful.
Speaker 1: I only got to see one act. There's about four
Speaker 1: or five of the night, so I do want to
Speaker 1: go back to see the whole show. But burlesque is
Speaker 1: something that is still very sexual but not at the
Speaker 1: same time. Um. And so that actually she did perform
Speaker 1: I want to say what during dessert. She had two performances.
Speaker 1: She did during letters pay for a ticket, Yes, imagine
Speaker 1: because they also they enjoyed a meal as well too,
Speaker 1: you know they did they ate before us. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: there's a whole like it's like two sides of the
Speaker 1: experience going on. Um, if you had to pick, which
Speaker 1: one do you think would be your favorite? Obviously a
Speaker 1: little letter really, I'm because they had to wear all black.
Speaker 1: I specifically wore black as well, and they all had
Speaker 1: a for you no, no, no, I don't know what
Speaker 1: the best part when we were all black, but to
Speaker 1: show that I was standing with them in the service right,
Speaker 1: and everyone had a burnt orange rolls on. No, it's no.
Speaker 1: People take service seriously, right, and that's what I wanted
Speaker 1: to talk to. Your service is important and you can
Speaker 1: do it without sex. So that realm of the little
Speaker 1: letters were all experiencing just a sense of something that
Speaker 1: they received pleasure although there was not sex going on
Speaker 1: during the dinner. They were happy, they were they were amazing, amazing.
Speaker 1: How many um of your guests turned over for the
Speaker 1: play party? Was it? Everyone? Did you feel like? I'm
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. There was some good looking people too,
Speaker 1: and the men were all dappered in their fucking suit
Speaker 1: and the women had gowns down to ye, that was
Speaker 1: you did the gowns. Yes, so you might have a gown,
Speaker 1: but you would also have a course of course that yeah,
Speaker 1: they had share, but you didn't have a braw on.
Speaker 1: So it was like they were beautiful. They were super beautiful.
Speaker 1: I didn't even expect it, to be honest, Like before
Speaker 1: I even spoke, like, there was a moment where I
Speaker 1: was at the doorway where everyone was there, and I
Speaker 1: was just looking up just like everyone is so beauty beautiful,
Speaker 1: like you know what they say. Understand we had the
Speaker 1: cocktail hour outside. That's kind of what the sentiments were like.
Speaker 1: So then let me ask where did you guys bet?
Speaker 1: Did you guys ask people to send photos? Like how
Speaker 1: do you get such a good looking crowd? Because when
Speaker 1: people think of sex and play parties, they think, oh,
Speaker 1: it's gotta be a whole bunch of unattracted people there
Speaker 1: this like and every there was like how do you
Speaker 1: deny people someone if they're not only evaluated? Was mindset
Speaker 1: that we had a vetting form? What kind of the
Speaker 1: betting form? So some of the questions were, um, there
Speaker 1: were some qualities you wanted to know, like how important
Speaker 1: these things were? In your life, travel, kicking, respects, uh
Speaker 1: what else? We had respect, we had integrity, we had
Speaker 1: um being, discretion, We had discretion as one of those.
Speaker 1: So how do you value these things and how do
Speaker 1: they play a part in your life? Did you deny
Speaker 1: some people just go around? Yeah? Some people didn't really,
Speaker 1: what do you say? Yeah, we did because we also
Speaker 1: based off of reputation, Like we know a lot of
Speaker 1: people in the community, so we know that like, like
Speaker 1: you know, how some people may be they don't really
Speaker 1: have the best reputation any regard um. Yeah, they may
Speaker 1: have like validated consent multiple times in their past at
Speaker 1: other events or play parties. And the good thing is
Speaker 1: that you guys are doing this event as people that
Speaker 1: like have been around the block. And I think a
Speaker 1: lot of people that may just want to throw a party,
Speaker 1: Like I know there are a lot of like sex
Speaker 1: parties going on that you know, they may be new
Speaker 1: to the game. I think it's good when someone seasoned
Speaker 1: and they've at least had their way around. It's kind
Speaker 1: of like with escorting, right, Like they'll share their resources
Speaker 1: together to make sure people are safe. Yeah, and asking
Speaker 1: questions about people. That's another part of the vetting process too,
Speaker 1: and in the in the form, it also told you
Speaker 1: what some of the things were, like how do you
Speaker 1: feel about UM rules about your speech and stuff like that,
Speaker 1: and if you felt like this wasn't something for you,
Speaker 1: It's okay, this space wasn't for you. I also like
Speaker 1: to I know y'all are probably listening, like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: knew you're because all the cool ship people flew in
Speaker 1: for this. So as we were at the table talking,
Speaker 1: there was a couple that came up from Philly, but
Speaker 1: he was from Philly, the partner may have been from
Speaker 1: Atlanta or I don't know. Then there was someone else
Speaker 1: from Texas. Like, but if you guys gonna do UM
Speaker 1: dinner because you mentioned travel agency and travel you guys
Speaker 1: doing them in different cities. Yea. So we've actually started
Speaker 1: working on a plan for a countrywide tour, even a
Speaker 1: country right to a little bit of a bit out
Speaker 1: of the country. You want to do London. So we're
Speaker 1: gonna we have we have some dates already, we've already
Speaker 1: liked planned out some things we have like d C Houston,
Speaker 1: atlant should they follow your UM Instagram which we'll put
Speaker 1: that in the description. What is there an emails. There's
Speaker 1: some sort of sort of newsletter that someone needs to
Speaker 1: sign up for to get well, we have on our website,
Speaker 1: which is Limitless lux ls dot com, and it'll be
Speaker 1: like a newsletter. Sign up on there as well, sign
Speaker 1: up for um and we're kind of doing all these
Speaker 1: I need New York to happen me in well, so
Speaker 1: we're gonna do. We're gonna do New York again for
Speaker 1: our anniversary like every November. We're probably gonna do that.
Speaker 1: And we're way to November, so we're yeah, yeah, that's
Speaker 1: gonna be the first one in June Teams, June A Teams. Yes, okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: we're gonna As I would tell you, London is one
Speaker 1: of the only cities that I consider doing like uh,
Speaker 1: like I show just like something like a pop up
Speaker 1: just anything, because when I look at like the demo
Speaker 1: of people out of the country that like, you know,
Speaker 1: funk with us, and by us, I just mean like
Speaker 1: black people in a lifestyle in the space and the
Speaker 1: podcasting entertainment whatever I see Toronto, London and even London.
Speaker 1: More like, after after the last podcast episode that I
Speaker 1: was here on I got a lot of comments from
Speaker 1: people from London. People are like, oh my gods, need
Speaker 1: to come to London and do like a presentation or
Speaker 1: like because the guys out here just don't get it
Speaker 1: in public. I mean, I got so much coming Americans, bros.
Speaker 1: I bought a dress at UM just throwing because I
Speaker 1: went to France. UM. I was with my mom and
Speaker 1: I said, I said, maybe I could wear this for
Speaker 1: this wedding. I said, well, maybe it's too sexy, and
Speaker 1: the lady said, but maybe you're from it's not you know,
Speaker 1: no for sure though, No, when we out, I would
Speaker 1: from my homegirls. She lived in London, and she was like,
Speaker 1: you Americans. I hate how y'all dressed. Like there's even
Speaker 1: a difference between how the women over there dressed a
Speaker 1: lot more classy. They cover up here, everything's messing see
Speaker 1: through and y'all gonna get these nipples that they say
Speaker 1: they're like sexy. Time for the Red Light District. We
Speaker 1: just we just you go out right when you go
Speaker 1: out on Tuesday, like Starbucks, that's you know, we're gonna
Speaker 1: wear our messine heels. Star Because it's crazy because I
Speaker 1: was watching this clip about women and how they dressed,
Speaker 1: and it's like, okay, where do we draw the line
Speaker 1: from feminism to where like mit you do anybody? We
Speaker 1: all want to say like, oh of course, dress how
Speaker 1: you please, but like they do like sometimes I see
Speaker 1: just like damn no, I mean, my friend get on
Speaker 1: me because I'll put on a dress that's a club dress,
Speaker 1: but be like girl wearing flip flops that makes it
Speaker 1: a day dress. And she literally my friend be coming
Speaker 1: for me because she'd be like girl that is a
Speaker 1: whole club dresser. If you put on a denim jacket
Speaker 1: and as long as you add sneakers or flip flops
Speaker 1: to it, no, it's for the days. Whatever you want.
Speaker 1: Like if you don't like it, don't look you know
Speaker 1: how do be talking ship? Because people talk to you
Speaker 1: about me. It's just in my blood, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like I don't know how not to do that.
Speaker 1: My mama and I spent the last week together traveling
Speaker 1: and we couldn't go through that airport without talking ship.
Speaker 1: I mean we were literally in sweat and we were like,
Speaker 1: look at this bit. Why not? But anyway, obviously people
Speaker 1: are gonna try to click on the description, but tell
Speaker 1: people where to find and you and also like how
Speaker 1: to access these lists because I'm sure like they really
Speaker 1: want to step by step nigga because we go and
Speaker 1: also am I able to share? Would I be able
Speaker 1: to share any of like or could you send me
Speaker 1: something that's not exactly what was sent out, but I
Speaker 1: would love to share kind of even what some of
Speaker 1: those rules were for the evening um without given too
Speaker 1: much maybe not, you know, maybe overall, like just how
Speaker 1: to treat people like I don't know if we could
Speaker 1: work on just showing people like kind of what some
Speaker 1: of the rules were for that evening. Oh no, I
Speaker 1: know the manual. That's why that I don't want to
Speaker 1: put it all out there, but just like the kind
Speaker 1: of how you had to show up as a person
Speaker 1: or as a partner. Mind you, there were little letters
Speaker 1: that went there solo, so this is not an event
Speaker 1: that you have to go to and have a partner.
Speaker 1: So they literally will match you with a big letter
Speaker 1: for the night. By the way, like I went as
Speaker 1: a big letter single and I got Yeah, you guys
Speaker 1: match people up well to you, Like, I think it
Speaker 1: was because we had the betting process and we had
Speaker 1: the trainings and so from what we were able to
Speaker 1: get this this would be this person would blend with
Speaker 1: this person, and some may have requested because they've known
Speaker 1: each other, they've known each other something like that. So
Speaker 1: it all just worked out like it's it was beautiful. Well,
Speaker 1: I think you guys sound like you have Was that
Speaker 1: your first that was our first one? I think it
Speaker 1: was like a great process and I think it could
Speaker 1: only go out from here. I need you to use
Speaker 1: that same venue too. It was nice y'all got some
Speaker 1: different venue like it was put together so well. The
Speaker 1: price of the ticket, you guys could definitely go up
Speaker 1: with it. I'd be telling I started, I want to
Speaker 1: cut we gotta go tomorrow. I'll be telling Daniel that.
Speaker 1: And it's a w like the experience that I experienced
Speaker 1: that night. I want to do it again. Um. I
Speaker 1: would love to throw my own and be a part
Speaker 1: of it. So maybe we could everybody could also coordinate
Speaker 1: that for people to let a group and they want
Speaker 1: to have a personal one, wish that's what you gotta do.
Speaker 1: This is random, but I was in Central Park the
Speaker 1: other day and I've seen them doing this baby shower
Speaker 1: with like the t P and a little cloud pillows,
Speaker 1: and I was like, Oh, that's cute, and what like
Speaker 1: like the TP cloud, What the cloud? What cloud? Pillows aloud? Pillow? Sorry,
Speaker 1: I didn't hear that cloud prussion? How did every episode?
Speaker 1: She ended up saying, this guy, I don't even know
Speaker 1: how to work a long story short. When the thing
Speaker 1: was done, because I was literally saying I was playing
Speaker 1: with the dog, I was like, damn, I wanna suck.
Speaker 1: They set the whole thing up. Now they got to
Speaker 1: bring it back. They left company, came in, took everything,
Speaker 1: and I was like, wow, they just built this experience
Speaker 1: in a part for you, like literally like catering cater
Speaker 1: where they do picnics, design picnic, They set up for
Speaker 1: you and you just show up. No, y'all need a
Speaker 1: cater a home. On my TV show that I did,
Speaker 1: one of the episodes that had was a cannabis episode
Speaker 1: about curated Canadas, right, like how they basically do this
Speaker 1: like four sex like you ain't gonna hold you if
Speaker 1: you do another season on your show, this has to
Speaker 1: be an episode if you guys, like it would be
Speaker 1: not like din and the way that you have the
Speaker 1: performers which you have to wear. I don't know if
Speaker 1: y'all can allow cameras in it, maybe it'll be like
Speaker 1: not a real one because we had we had a videographer.
Speaker 1: You did have a videographer when we filmed sex Cells
Speaker 1: and basically what we did was, I mean, sorry, not
Speaker 1: sex sells NFFW. And just that night Daniel told everybody,
Speaker 1: like you might be on TV. Some people wear masks
Speaker 1: and didn't um. But I think the cool thing about
Speaker 1: it is like when people get to step in and
Speaker 1: see that world, you know what, because like talking about
Speaker 1: it is even exciting just hearing about this experience through
Speaker 1: like three people sitting here, but to be able to
Speaker 1: watch it is like, holy sh it. But no, I mean,
Speaker 1: y'all all have to talk about the money though. That's
Speaker 1: one thing that we do try to that we try
Speaker 1: to make sure that people understand is that this isn't
Speaker 1: necessarily an event for only experienced people. Some people get
Speaker 1: intimidated by it. They're like, they're like, oh man, it's
Speaker 1: probably just a lot of people here who've been in
Speaker 1: a life stuff for the great things explain the first time.
Speaker 1: And so that was and so vetting doesn't necessarily mean
Speaker 1: that we're trying to make sure if you're experiencing that
Speaker 1: it's just making sure that you're a decent person and
Speaker 1: we don't have to worry about you, you know, acting crazy.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. You're listening to this episode before
Speaker 1: we get out of your look right with that part. Um,
Speaker 1: If you're listening to this episode, I would say add
Speaker 1: this to your bucket list, whether you were single or
Speaker 1: with a partner. Um. Just I was in awe the
Speaker 1: whole night. Um at the professionalism. The food was great,
Speaker 1: the drinks, thank you, Mel, we're rolling in. But also
Speaker 1: to be in a room with people where you know
Speaker 1: there's no judgment you're you're you're in this lifestyle or
Speaker 1: kink space or you know, whatever you're into. No one
Speaker 1: in that in the in the home would would judge you.
Speaker 1: It was It was literally liberating just to be in
Speaker 1: a group of very like the professionals, like they all
Speaker 1: have jobs. But also then you come in and it's
Speaker 1: like everyone has known each other for years, but just
Speaker 1: through the cocktail hour. By the time we said at
Speaker 1: the table, the conversations were flowing like we had known
Speaker 1: each other the whole time. So it was add this
Speaker 1: to your bucket list. Um. And again, you can't stay
Speaker 1: after for a play party, or you can just seep
Speaker 1: into being in a lifestyle where you're getting aroused and pleased.
Speaker 1: I'm talking about this hungry. It was. It was amazing,
Speaker 1: It was amazing. So what are your handles if you
Speaker 1: want to share them? You know, limitless lux l u
Speaker 1: X right, excuse me, lucky l s at the end again,
Speaker 1: that will be in the description of this episode. You
Speaker 1: want to share, um, well, my handle again from the
Speaker 1: last time, Scorpio King you gave your handle? Yeah, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: and it was blowing him up. Why did you did
Speaker 1: you get any pussy from coming onto the show? You
Speaker 1: don't want to say, yeah, all right, but but I
Speaker 1: got to meet a lot of and that's that's another thing,
Speaker 1: like meeting people that's nothing. That kind of gave me
Speaker 1: an idea for this was that I was just meeting
Speaker 1: a lot of people through like my d ms that
Speaker 1: were just saying like, how there's such a scarcity of
Speaker 1: like keenk events in other places that you might We're
Speaker 1: from New York. I mean, we live in New York.
Speaker 1: So we're like, oh every weekend and so now and
Speaker 1: there's nothing to do. People come up to my friends
Speaker 1: want to know. And I listened to the show and
Speaker 1: I say, bro, I don't even talk about And I'd
Speaker 1: like to do it a rich people's mansions and have orgies,
Speaker 1: but it's so curated, and I would say the community.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm damn there and everybody my friend. I'll
Speaker 1: be having lunch and ship with them and then I
Speaker 1: go and let them. Like the people that have contact
Speaker 1: me were like like in all these other place around
Speaker 1: the country, they're just like, oh my god, there's nothing
Speaker 1: like that here, Like we don't have like I wish
Speaker 1: boys wouldn't there be And yeah, I mean people people
Speaker 1: in Chicago, people and people are just like it just
Speaker 1: doesn't they don't do it in those places like that Detroit,
Speaker 1: like nobody does these events like that, and so people
Speaker 1: are like, can you please bring that here? Bring the hair,
Speaker 1: bring their hair, bring their hair. So it's like it's
Speaker 1: such a need for it that we were like, yeah,
Speaker 1: we have to do something like this, And so original
Speaker 1: idea was the destination trip where everybody could just come
Speaker 1: to you know, what you'all need to do when people
Speaker 1: are like doing like pre orders for books and ship
Speaker 1: like that, I think y'all should definitely do that. Per city,
Speaker 1: put a tentative date, put the handle on it, location.
Speaker 1: That's Um, what is it like t b dB D
Speaker 1: and shee how many you get? I would do that,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, because they could be begging
Speaker 1: so much. Okay, we'll pay up, hope. Um, I already know.
Speaker 1: Oh I looked at it, and we just do we
Speaker 1: do our live shows and we I just kind of
Speaker 1: know what a little bit something. Um. And then I'm
Speaker 1: really good friends with the sex club that we go
Speaker 1: to in Brooklyn operating and making sure things run seamless
Speaker 1: and paying for talent for the evening. Catering was their
Speaker 1: security that night. We did have people that we're just
Speaker 1: managing candidate that has a big nigga. Yeah, but it
Speaker 1: was it was beautiful. I want to thank both of
Speaker 1: you guys. Were thanking you guys again. If you guys
Speaker 1: are interested, please follow That's at Limitless Lux with a
Speaker 1: E L S on Instagram and then go to the
Speaker 1: website as well that those will all be in the
Speaker 1: description of this episode. Um, and sorry if you're not
Speaker 1: in New York that you don't get to experience cool
Speaker 1: stuff like this. They're coming to a city, Come on,
Speaker 1: can't go in December and it's gonna be December. Okay,
Speaker 1: what we're talking about. We're giving time for people to
Speaker 1: like pay February, but it's thank you guys. They will
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Speaker 1: I am joined today with someone that you guys may
Speaker 1: be very familiar with. She is one half of the
Speaker 1: Cocktails Dirties Discussions Podcast Medina Monro. That was such a
Speaker 1: great intro. Hello everybody, I know you've been waiting for
Speaker 1: me to come back and here I am. No. I
Speaker 1: don't think they've been waiting. I don't think they've been waiting.
Speaker 1: I said, are you getting cute? You said no, and
Speaker 1: bit you look cute, bitch. This is just my hair
Speaker 1: is being molded so I can like have my pixie.
Speaker 1: I have no makeup on. Bitch, I am not cute.
Speaker 1: No one told you to come in with all. I
Speaker 1: don't even know what I was channeling my innert Ain't
Speaker 1: Jemima happy black? You know, because it's Black History Months.
Speaker 1: I didn't want to say it. Be careful. You can't
Speaker 1: say it as a white woman. Sho do me? I
Speaker 1: have not happy Black History Months? Everybody. Um, I hope
Speaker 1: that you all enjoyed your Valentine's Day with your nigga
Speaker 1: or your side nigga, or your sugar daddy or just
Speaker 1: the nigga. You fucking what up? Um? To start this episode,
Speaker 1: though off, we're gonna get into some icebreakers that Medina
Speaker 1: has ill. So what's the first one. Let's let's get
Speaker 1: into one. Oh, this is so perfect for you because
Speaker 1: you're gonna have such a crazy answer. What's wrong with
Speaker 1: having sex on the first day? What's wrong with it?
Speaker 1: What are the wrong things about having sex? That's the
Speaker 1: wrong thing. I'm the wrong person to ask that because
Speaker 1: all the niggas that I've actually ended up being with
Speaker 1: long term or have even got connectional bonds to which
Speaker 1: we poked the first night. But would you find anything
Speaker 1: any wrong things that happened with that? Um? You know,
Speaker 1: you know which We both have these sexually liberated podcasts,
Speaker 1: So it's one of those two where we're all adults now,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So I think that when
Speaker 1: you were in your teens in your twenties, the idea
Speaker 1: of having sex on the first night, you know, it
Speaker 1: was a bad thing. But I think we're adults now,
Speaker 1: and I think even men know that women like to
Speaker 1: fun just as fucking much as they do. And if
Speaker 1: you turned me on and we vibe it to me,
Speaker 1: I think if I want to suck you on the
Speaker 1: first night, that's that's a good thing because that means
Speaker 1: I'm really into you. Is your phone ringing? Oh no?
Speaker 1: It was like what is going on here? That? Yeah?
Speaker 1: That was no, that was my nigga, y'all know, he
Speaker 1: got the little special uh vibrated ring my bad and
Speaker 1: it was right here. But I'm like, I was like,
Speaker 1: it's why are you looking like that? My bad job?
Speaker 1: It was my nigga calling me nasty um um I
Speaker 1: had something. I mean, what would your answer be to that? Though?
Speaker 1: Like we are grown? We are we are, and sex
Speaker 1: should be. We just have the sex and everything can
Speaker 1: just carry on how it would go if we didn't
Speaker 1: have sex, right. But one thing that I'm learning is
Speaker 1: and I've had relationships that started with we we fucked
Speaker 1: on the first date, but that's not the norm. And
Speaker 1: I feel like there's a dynamic switch up when you
Speaker 1: have sex with the man to quit, even not even
Speaker 1: too quick, just when you give up, when you have some,
Speaker 1: when you give up them draws. There's this switch that
Speaker 1: I really don't like. And I try to hold on,
Speaker 1: try to hold onto it as long as I can.
Speaker 1: It's almost like before you have sex, they're so interested,
Speaker 1: they're courting there because they're lying. Once they get the pussy,
Speaker 1: A lot of you baby wanted me, Bro, you gotta
Speaker 1: deal with you gotta deal with a man who actually
Speaker 1: is not pressed on the pussy. The thing I feel like,
Speaker 1: even if they're not pressed on the pussy, there's still
Speaker 1: a power change. Don't lie. Don't they know because you
Speaker 1: don't know that they pressed on the pussy, but they're
Speaker 1: only showing up as their representative to get the pussy.
Speaker 1: So once they have the pussy, if you see a
Speaker 1: man switches up in his behavior or even in his
Speaker 1: courtsmanship or how he's showing up to you, even on
Speaker 1: the telephone through text messages, that's because he got what
Speaker 1: he wanted. He's not a girl man. He probably wasn't
Speaker 1: even looking for a relationship. He probably was only looking
Speaker 1: for the pussy, and because you gave it to him.
Speaker 1: So there is that scenario. But then there's also just
Speaker 1: like men want pussy, not that they just want your pussy,
Speaker 1: but they do want but they're always motivated by that,
Speaker 1: whether they just want to funk or they still want
Speaker 1: to be with you. There is a slight change, and
Speaker 1: I don't like to change. I try to hold onto
Speaker 1: it as long as I can, but they really don't
Speaker 1: be that long. Um Okay, the next one you catch
Speaker 1: your friends partner cheating on them in public, would you
Speaker 1: tell your friend that their partner is cheating, so I
Speaker 1: wouldn't say your nigga is cheating. I would say I
Speaker 1: saw your nigga out with this person. Here's the picture.
Speaker 1: Do you know who this woman as