WEBVTT - Ep 256: Big Letters & Little Letters (Ft. Limitless Luxe LS) 0:00:02.520 --> 0:00:10.480 Guess what decision We're about to make a horrible decisions. Okay, 0:00:10.880 --> 0:00:16.239 hey guys, welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions. I'm 0:00:16.239 --> 0:00:18.880 your girl. Maybe be a K say hek full Corp 0:00:18.880 --> 0:00:21.400 Pumps aka Debt, motherfucking bitch a K A peg and 0:00:21.440 --> 0:00:27.040 Marco a K A. I think that's I couldn't remember. Hi, everybody, 0:00:27.040 --> 0:00:29.400 I'm wheezy. Welcome back for another episode of our show. 0:00:29.600 --> 0:00:32.800 We have two guests today. I'm excited, y'all are the 0:00:32.880 --> 0:00:38.559 first guests of two. Um, it's getting black history, man, 0:00:38.720 --> 0:00:42.440 you know I'm I'm here for I'm super excited. Um. 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:45.800 A few episodes ago, I shared about going to a 0:00:45.880 --> 0:00:48.320 high protocol dinner. So for those of you guys who 0:00:48.360 --> 0:00:51.080 saw the clip on our social media or listen to 0:00:51.120 --> 0:00:53.840 the episode and wanted to know more about that night, 0:00:54.160 --> 0:00:57.040 we are going to get into it. But let me 0:00:57.040 --> 0:01:00.560 go ahead and introduce our guests. We have T as 0:01:00.600 --> 0:01:03.200 well as Mal. Some of you all are gonna remember 0:01:03.200 --> 0:01:08.440 the boys, um, but both of them are the owners 0:01:08.440 --> 0:01:13.280 and founders of Limitless Lifestyle. That sounds like exotic car 0:01:13.360 --> 0:01:17.640 rental agent. So we wanted to come off as exotic. 0:01:17.760 --> 0:01:20.960 We wanted it to be ext and luxurious. We wanted 0:01:21.080 --> 0:01:24.280 to We wanted to like give it a field, which 0:01:24.280 --> 0:01:25.760 we'll get into, I guess later, but we wanted to 0:01:25.760 --> 0:01:28.720 give it a feel more like high class versus just 0:01:28.800 --> 0:01:31.720 like something where people like freak Nick like. We didn't 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:38.520 want to be that level. We wanted to be something 0:01:39.920 --> 0:01:42.039 loo get into it because I definitely gave freak nick 0:01:42.080 --> 0:01:44.160 even at the party with my body suit. Damn bitches 0:01:44.200 --> 0:01:48.840 in gown. I'm gonna say and let you know. And 0:01:48.920 --> 0:01:50.920 for those of you who are listening, we actually don't 0:01:50.920 --> 0:01:53.360 have a visual tea because of her job. But um 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:55.600 them a little diamonds. Just because you added some diamonds. 0:01:56.400 --> 0:01:59.880 We didn't make it hot class. There could be bangle. 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:02.200 That's how realance. You know, it's true, it's true, but 0:02:02.280 --> 0:02:05.080 balanced dimension, that's all I know. That's where I love 0:02:05.120 --> 0:02:08.679 that you guys also said you wanted it to be luxurious, 0:02:08.760 --> 0:02:13.000 because I know that when talking about going to even 0:02:13.040 --> 0:02:16.880 sex clubs and play parties when it's all black, there's 0:02:17.000 --> 0:02:20.600 a lot of questions regarding how it's ran, how it's operated, 0:02:20.639 --> 0:02:22.519 the cleanliness of it. For whatever, it ran like a 0:02:22.600 --> 0:02:27.480 Jamaican restaurant. That's what we wanted yeah, wait, what's wrong 0:02:27.560 --> 0:02:30.160 with Jamaican restaurant is Ranby ain't never got nothing in 0:02:30.200 --> 0:02:38.360 their beach. That's what runs out because right I'm telling you, like, 0:02:38.720 --> 0:02:42.040 there's a Pepper's which ain't like quote unquote Jamaican by 0:02:42.040 --> 0:02:44.280 my crib now and Laurie sad, and I'd be like 0:02:44.639 --> 0:02:48.000 even them niggas ain't got ship and we're in a well, 0:02:48.080 --> 0:02:50.520 there's a Puerto Rican neighbor laisapa. Still I'll be going 0:02:50.600 --> 0:02:52.480 in there be like, y, you don't even have beef patties. 0:02:52.520 --> 0:02:58.560 That's like basics number one. There's Peppers and Flatbush. And 0:02:58.560 --> 0:03:01.359 I literally whenever I go, I literally go in all 0:03:01.400 --> 0:03:05.040 black and I wear a hoodie and I'll bring like 0:03:05.040 --> 0:03:08.400 like I work gloves because because people get shot in 0:03:08.440 --> 0:03:13.040 front of Pepper's, so I have to make sure that 0:03:13.040 --> 0:03:15.520 nobody's gonna try to fuck with me on this. Like okay, 0:03:15.520 --> 0:03:21.320 I say that, say what you know where you are? Right? 0:03:21.800 --> 0:03:24.320 We usually late, like my home girl and I whenever 0:03:24.360 --> 0:03:25.920 we go to Brooklyn, like we have to go and 0:03:25.960 --> 0:03:28.440 we get our escambes fish and you get your jerk 0:03:28.520 --> 0:03:31.519 chicken and your festival. And now she had to say 0:03:31.520 --> 0:03:36.240 it like that A great viral clip of this girl 0:03:36.320 --> 0:03:39.040 saying that Jamaican restaurants don't understand what you're ordering it. 0:03:39.080 --> 0:03:45.440 Look right, Okay, that's what you said. What is limitless luck? 0:03:45.520 --> 0:03:49.400 Since you can't it's not a card aden scene. So okay, 0:03:49.400 --> 0:03:53.520 So Limitless Lucks was we saw we were kind of women. 0:03:53.520 --> 0:03:55.480 We've both been the lifestyle for a bit, um and 0:03:55.520 --> 0:03:58.240 we've been to parties, been to events, and we've seen 0:03:58.600 --> 0:04:02.680 that there has been like there's a disparity between the 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:07.560 type of events that are thrown for white community and 0:04:07.800 --> 0:04:11.320 black community. And we wanted to bring a higher level 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:15.840 of luxury of luxury or let people see a higher 0:04:15.920 --> 0:04:18.279 level of luxury and when it comes to like the 0:04:18.320 --> 0:04:22.040 type of events that they can have. And um, like 0:04:22.120 --> 0:04:25.080 we're both travel agents. We both have we travel all 0:04:25.120 --> 0:04:30.640 the time anyway, So you guys together, No, no, I 0:04:30.640 --> 0:04:32.760 don't know. We're friends. We're good friends. We met in 0:04:32.760 --> 0:04:35.080 the lifestyle. We've like you know, talked to had our 0:04:35.080 --> 0:04:39.960 conversation and um and just been really cool friends. But 0:04:40.600 --> 0:04:43.240 another thing is we wanted to add the travel peace. Right, 0:04:43.320 --> 0:04:46.279 So figured a group of people that are into the 0:04:46.320 --> 0:04:50.080 same thing go into this luxurious hotel and you don't 0:04:50.080 --> 0:04:51.920 have to worry you a question about who you are, 0:04:51.960 --> 0:04:55.640 who's around you, because everybody's on the same they got mad. Yeah, 0:04:58.040 --> 0:05:01.360 just like even even have a money right because if 0:05:01.360 --> 0:05:04.520 you were towards something, you can put your coins together 0:05:04.680 --> 0:05:07.160 and speach yourself because you deserve. That's funny at night 0:05:07.200 --> 0:05:10.000 because when I'd be ready to spend if I'm telling you, 0:05:10.000 --> 0:05:12.440 when I've had like lotdown to my last dollar, but 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:14.000 I knew I was gonna spend it on this meal, 0:05:14.040 --> 0:05:15.520 I was like, oh, I have money tonight at this 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:18.000 table exactly, and no thinking of it that way, Like 0:05:18.080 --> 0:05:20.159 there's no limits to what I want to do, and 0:05:20.200 --> 0:05:22.760 I can experience it in a way that's not the norm, 0:05:22.880 --> 0:05:24.839 but it's mine and it's the way I choose to 0:05:24.880 --> 0:05:29.080 live my life in this lifestyle. So limitless loves lifestyle. Um, 0:05:29.120 --> 0:05:31.440 I love that you brought that up so on your 0:05:31.440 --> 0:05:34.320 Instagram page. I want to start this show off, um 0:05:34.640 --> 0:05:37.280 by kind of digging into some quotes um that I 0:05:37.360 --> 0:05:39.800 found in us all like kind of discussing what it 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:43.400 means us, So like this one says for us, when 0:05:43.400 --> 0:05:47.520 our sexual lifestyle is essential to our sense of identity, 0:05:47.600 --> 0:05:50.680 Anybody who doesn't know about our kink doesn't really know us. 0:05:51.320 --> 0:05:54.880 So what kind of you just said Even in experiencing 0:05:54.920 --> 0:05:57.880 these types of trips or these type of dinners like 0:05:57.960 --> 0:05:59.919 we did, you were like you get to kind of 0:06:00.080 --> 0:06:01.839 be yourself. You know, everyone at the table is going 0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:04.800 to accept you for you. I want to know if 0:06:04.839 --> 0:06:08.680 you all truly believe that you can't kind of identifies you, 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:11.320 like if who you are in the bedroom is truly 0:06:11.320 --> 0:06:16.120 who you are? Believe that, because I mean, I'd be 0:06:16.120 --> 0:06:18.000 real nasty in the bedroom, but I don't think I'm 0:06:18.000 --> 0:06:23.000 really nasty all the time. But it's the thing that like, 0:06:23.080 --> 0:06:24.680 I mean, everybody goes out in the world and puts 0:06:24.680 --> 0:06:26.560 on a face, right, you put on like what you 0:06:26.960 --> 0:06:28.839 the face you need to put on in order to 0:06:28.880 --> 0:06:32.200 handle your business and do things you need to do. Um, 0:06:32.240 --> 0:06:35.400 But secretly you have the desire, which is your primal 0:06:35.480 --> 0:06:38.560 desires that you want to take out whether or not 0:06:38.640 --> 0:06:41.080 be in the bedroom or wherever however you do the lifestyle, 0:06:41.120 --> 0:06:43.880 how do you live your lifestyle? But it's like, um, 0:06:43.960 --> 0:06:46.440 these are things that like you can't like wait to 0:06:46.600 --> 0:06:47.760 like if you think about you like you can't I 0:06:47.760 --> 0:06:50.919 can't wait to get home to like like I don't know, 0:06:51.000 --> 0:06:54.640 so you can make a different back like and so 0:06:54.839 --> 0:06:58.920 it's when you kind of have that like, that's that's 0:06:59.000 --> 0:07:02.680 where that's the lifestyle is like the type of location 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:04.920 where you can let that out and not really feel judged, 0:07:04.920 --> 0:07:07.000 but have to worry about that because they be judging. 0:07:07.080 --> 0:07:10.240 You'll be judging that I eat boot hole, Y'll be judging. 0:07:11.120 --> 0:07:14.040 I mean, I know you don't think this is like 0:07:14.200 --> 0:07:16.960 relative to me because I'm such a sub. But the 0:07:17.000 --> 0:07:19.880 only thing that I could compare it to um. A 0:07:19.920 --> 0:07:22.760 lot of people think that sub or bottoming is, you know, 0:07:23.040 --> 0:07:26.320 UM a weaker thing to do, right, But the one 0:07:26.360 --> 0:07:28.520 thing I was reading this thing, I think it's seven 0:07:28.680 --> 0:07:32.200 something of success. I can't remember what it was. I 0:07:32.320 --> 0:07:35.320 listened to it on audible, but anyway, they were talking about, UM, 0:07:35.440 --> 0:07:38.320 letting go of control is a fearless thing to do. 0:07:39.000 --> 0:07:41.480 And that is the only way I could describe it 0:07:41.520 --> 0:07:43.640 with being a sub because like I don't need to 0:07:43.680 --> 0:07:47.120 have control because I'm not afraid in that moment, right 0:07:47.240 --> 0:07:49.360 or I'm like feeling confident or whatever, and that's why 0:07:49.400 --> 0:07:52.240 we're able to do these certain things. That's why I 0:07:52.240 --> 0:07:54.320 think I could maybe related to that. But as far 0:07:54.400 --> 0:07:56.840 as like my everyday life. I don't really think I'm 0:07:56.840 --> 0:07:58.640 a sub I mean I have to be dominant in 0:07:58.640 --> 0:08:00.800 a lot of parts of work. I'm employer, I'm a 0:08:00.840 --> 0:08:04.400 business partner. Like so I don't know if it's like so, 0:08:04.480 --> 0:08:06.240 like what would you think for you? So you have 0:08:06.400 --> 0:08:09.400 to keep whatever your persona is right, So if you're 0:08:09.400 --> 0:08:10.960 a boss, you do what you have to do. But 0:08:11.040 --> 0:08:14.920 everybody needs to break, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, 0:08:14.960 --> 0:08:18.120 so I get to have this break for myself. I 0:08:18.160 --> 0:08:21.720 don't have to explain. I can trust it's taken care of. 0:08:22.040 --> 0:08:25.720 I'm good, I'm intentional, I'm mindful. There's no question about 0:08:25.720 --> 0:08:27.960 what I'm doing. And I do this in this part 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:30.040 of my life, in this professional space that i'm in, 0:08:30.480 --> 0:08:32.800 this boss space that I'm in. But when I'm in 0:08:32.880 --> 0:08:37.240 this subspace, the service space, it's the same. So it's 0:08:37.280 --> 0:08:43.959 just it's if we hear, if you're saying subspace, were 0:08:44.000 --> 0:08:46.240 you the quote unquote little letter that we heard, she 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:49.840 ran the whole thing like a fucking so when we 0:08:49.880 --> 0:08:52.959 even just in pre pro she was a leader of letters. Yes, 0:08:54.320 --> 0:08:56.400 the letter, the little letter, the leader of the little 0:08:56.600 --> 0:09:01.840 and I can okay, so you are a little letter yeah, 0:09:01.960 --> 0:09:07.880 with aut agude, with domination. You know what, maybe I'll 0:09:07.920 --> 0:09:09.640 be giving that too, because I'd be like, I'll do 0:09:09.679 --> 0:09:14.040 whatever you say right now, right. And I think, I mean, 0:09:14.080 --> 0:09:15.800 I think, I think. I think a lot of people 0:09:15.800 --> 0:09:17.600 in be this and it's like two sides of of 0:09:17.679 --> 0:09:20.080 your coin, right, so you have your one half that 0:09:20.160 --> 0:09:22.839 you take and you put out. I mean a lot 0:09:22.840 --> 0:09:26.400 of people, it's like those two are balanced, Like you're 0:09:26.800 --> 0:09:28.360 whatever you do in the bedroom versus whatever you do 0:09:28.440 --> 0:09:31.280 in real life. They're like balances of each other. So 0:09:31.320 --> 0:09:33.280 it's like some people go out and they like to 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:35.959 be dominant in real life and then secretly, behind the 0:09:36.000 --> 0:09:38.520 scenes they like to be submissive, and it's like it's 0:09:38.559 --> 0:09:41.160 a balance. And people that I know that are less 0:09:41.280 --> 0:09:43.839 docile and real I mean or more dostile in real life, 0:09:44.080 --> 0:09:46.719 they go home and throwing a strap I mean, I 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:48.680 mean they throw on they throw on a I just 0:09:48.720 --> 0:09:50.960 think the leather outfit and they want to beat somebody 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:54.319 ass like because they have that dominant they just want 0:09:54.360 --> 0:09:57.120 to live out. Yeah, I don't think both like in 0:09:57.160 --> 0:09:59.800 my in my normal life, I know, I mean, I 0:09:59.800 --> 0:10:01.679 don't think I'm very simistic. I mean I do like 0:10:01.720 --> 0:10:03.800 when just and it would be like I'm gonna take 0:10:03.800 --> 0:10:06.640 you here to eat. That's like the relinquishing a power. 0:10:07.559 --> 0:10:12.240 I think, No, that's no. Where am I going? What 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:14.280 time you have to be there? Wait? Wait, you know 0:10:14.280 --> 0:10:16.600 what I mean? Okay, all right? I think we like 0:10:16.679 --> 0:10:19.440 trust men, we very rarely like I don't know. I 0:10:19.440 --> 0:10:21.520 think this is like this modern day woman ship where 0:10:21.559 --> 0:10:24.640 niggas like don't get as assertive anymore. I love I 0:10:24.679 --> 0:10:28.640 eat that sheet? What you think? Really do I have 0:10:28.679 --> 0:10:30.040 to wear? What kind of clothes do I have to 0:10:30.080 --> 0:10:33.920 put on you? You ask that, you know, because like 0:10:34.000 --> 0:10:35.760 you know, like okay, what type of place? How do 0:10:35.840 --> 0:10:37.439 I have to dress? You know what I mean? And 0:10:37.520 --> 0:10:40.320 then you choose your outfit like it's I'll be sometimes 0:10:40.320 --> 0:10:42.440 like FaceTime depending like if it's not a few first 0:10:42.520 --> 0:10:44.720 dates like that's just how stubby I am. And some 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:47.600 niggas are learning that I'm sucked with like Okay, this 0:10:47.640 --> 0:10:50.360 bitch is asking for her, not for me, like like this, 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:56.360 and then I'll change them. Sorry I'm ridiculous, but it 0:10:56.440 --> 0:10:59.280 helps to put you in that headspace though, or the 0:10:59.360 --> 0:11:02.480 evening that's to come. Like even if um, you know 0:11:02.559 --> 0:11:04.360 some people they have a routine that they have to 0:11:04.360 --> 0:11:07.040 prepare for when they're with their partner, with their dom 0:11:07.400 --> 0:11:11.480 and setting up everything right, having all of your assignments out, 0:11:11.520 --> 0:11:14.400 having all of the tools and toys that you have 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:18.120 presented so when they're they're or do that, yeah, or 0:11:18.200 --> 0:11:20.760 setting up their stuff for them what like like a 0:11:20.760 --> 0:11:23.600 sarcuterie words for it, just like I lay out the 0:11:23.640 --> 0:11:29.240 dial thos but push Yeah, everything is arms. So yeah, 0:11:29.280 --> 0:11:32.400 it's just convenient and it puts that starts like the 0:11:32.440 --> 0:11:34.640 while are you doing? Is like, this is what I'm 0:11:34.679 --> 0:11:36.880 focusing on. This is what matters right now, and it 0:11:36.880 --> 0:11:40.280 gets you excited. And are you guys that face of 0:11:40.400 --> 0:11:42.559 your company by the way, like do people know it's 0:11:42.600 --> 0:11:45.640 yours and they just know limit Luxe brand people when 0:11:45.679 --> 0:11:51.040 they interact the people? Okay, because I'm like now people. 0:11:51.080 --> 0:11:54.000 Of course there was also and we'll get into it, 0:11:54.040 --> 0:11:57.720 there was masks. There were masks because it's also about 0:11:57.760 --> 0:12:00.720 how comfortable people feel as well too. But whenever you 0:12:00.760 --> 0:12:08.240 interact with us though, well let's get it through guys. 0:12:08.280 --> 0:12:11.880 This comes from Vice. It kind of also uh weaves 0:12:11.880 --> 0:12:14.560 into the conversation that we just had. Um. But Vice 0:12:14.600 --> 0:12:18.280 wrote an article on how to discuss your deepest, darkest 0:12:18.320 --> 0:12:22.200 desires and kinks with your partner. UM. Discussing our innermost 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:25.520 fantasies can be scary, but they can also help unlock 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:30.320 a whole new world of pleasure. Um. According to the 0:12:30.320 --> 0:12:34.400 two thousand fifteen Sexual Exploration in American study Trusted Source, 0:12:34.800 --> 0:12:39.959 more than of sexually act of adults do role playing, 0:12:40.280 --> 0:12:45.120 while more than are into actually being tied up and spanked. Meanwhile, 0:12:45.480 --> 0:12:48.560 another survey also found that even in cases where people 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:52.120 didn't have the opportunity to explore their desires, nearly half 0:12:52.160 --> 0:12:55.920 of them were at least interested in it. UM. One 0:12:55.960 --> 0:12:57.560 of the I kind of want to go through these 0:12:57.679 --> 0:13:01.000 uh tips really quick on kind of of course, how 0:13:01.040 --> 0:13:03.960 to have this conversation with your partner, build up a 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:08.479 comfort level which is ironic. Let me tell y'all, motherfucker's 0:13:10.240 --> 0:13:14.199 I said on this podcast every week and talk about, like, 0:13:14.559 --> 0:13:18.880 you know, all my little nasty shit. And this is actually, 0:13:18.960 --> 0:13:22.720 for some odd reason, a place where I like stumble 0:13:23.280 --> 0:13:27.840 with my partners. I even just shared about my fucking 0:13:27.960 --> 0:13:32.520 pegging gang bang. Apparently I'm really bad with description and 0:13:32.640 --> 0:13:35.000 opening up and feeling comfortable sharing the things that I've 0:13:35.000 --> 0:13:37.240 done with other people with my partners, and I didn't 0:13:37.240 --> 0:13:40.960 realize it until a recent conversation when he was like, 0:13:41.400 --> 0:13:43.200 did you even have fun? Did you enjoy it? Like 0:13:43.280 --> 0:13:46.040 you're just skipping over all the details, like how did 0:13:46.040 --> 0:13:48.600 you get there? Was there a conversation before, Like he 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:52.160 likes to vividly hear how I talked about things hop 0:13:52.160 --> 0:13:54.720 on this motherfucker podcast and tell hundreds of thousands of 0:13:54.720 --> 0:13:58.640 people how I spread the booda cheeks open, and then 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:02.040 when I want my partners and actually asking about my 0:14:02.080 --> 0:14:04.559 sexual experiences, whether it's from the past, whether it's recent, 0:14:04.880 --> 0:14:07.440 even when I'm at the sex club the next morning, 0:14:07.520 --> 0:14:11.000 when he wants to know how I feel about, like, well, 0:14:11.040 --> 0:14:13.319 did you enjoy it? Was anything bothering you? I mean, 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:15.200 like it was kind of thing we're used to thinking 0:14:15.200 --> 0:14:18.480 that if we describe sexual experience to somebody, they're gonna 0:14:18.520 --> 0:14:26.120 get jealous. Yeah, j you dealt with for so long 0:14:26.200 --> 0:14:30.000 that it's even hard to bring it uppist. All right, 0:14:31.600 --> 0:14:33.360 It's the same thing, like even when it comes to 0:14:33.440 --> 0:14:37.160 like like which I've had conversations to people about this before, 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:40.760 but even like polyamory, it's like sometimes you'll you'll be 0:14:40.800 --> 0:14:42.560 with like a partner who's like Hey, I want to 0:14:42.600 --> 0:14:46.280 hear about, like your sexual experience with another partner. So yeah, 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:49.720 I mean I've talked to like partners, probably amorously about 0:14:49.760 --> 0:14:53.240 it and in describing, like sometimes your partners like, hey, 0:14:53.320 --> 0:14:55.560 like tell me how it was with the other person, 0:14:55.600 --> 0:15:00.440 and I'm like, uh, And it's like and it's on 0:15:00.320 --> 0:15:04.160 one side, you don't you worry about the whole jealousy concept, 0:15:04.200 --> 0:15:06.280 but then you also worry about like I don't want 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:07.880 this person to feel like I did more for this 0:15:07.960 --> 0:15:12.480 person than I did for you. But some people get 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:15.600 really turned on though, And I think that's what it is, 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:17.880 knowing if your partner really wants to note or if 0:15:17.920 --> 0:15:19.920 they're going to use it later on to throw it 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:22.920 in your face. And luckily, like I found a partner 0:15:22.960 --> 0:15:25.600 who is she wants to hear everything she wants like 0:15:25.680 --> 0:15:28.560 all the details, like everything, and it's amazing. Does she 0:15:28.600 --> 0:15:31.880 want it during sex? No? Before like sometimes before, But 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:34.960 sometimes it will lead into sex, like the talking about 0:15:35.000 --> 0:15:36.960 it will get that's both turned on, and then it 0:15:36.960 --> 0:15:39.600 will lead right into some more I like it during 0:15:39.760 --> 0:15:43.680 which is disgusting. You want you want your man to 0:15:43.760 --> 0:15:46.120 tell you how he sucked another woman while he's sucking 0:15:46.120 --> 0:15:52.880 you one hundred person, I would be like, so m M. 0:15:53.240 --> 0:15:56.640 I would say, in most open relationships of mine, the 0:15:56.720 --> 0:15:59.720 sex is happening. When I say of mine, I mean 0:15:59.760 --> 0:16:02.080 like the that I've just had in the past. Most 0:16:02.080 --> 0:16:04.600 of the stories I don't want to hear because I'm 0:16:04.640 --> 0:16:06.880 away from you and it's making me feel a little 0:16:06.920 --> 0:16:08.760 jealous that you got to have this great time, And 0:16:08.800 --> 0:16:11.720 like that's just me being honest. I sometimes do feel like, 0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:15.360 not at like seriously angry jealousy, but I know how 0:16:15.400 --> 0:16:18.240 emotional I am, so it could happen. So sometimes when 0:16:18.240 --> 0:16:21.480 I'm fucking or about the suck. Indeed, are you some pussies? 0:16:21.560 --> 0:16:24.160 Everyone like? So when she was dealing with a good 0:16:24.200 --> 0:16:27.800 did it blow my hat up? Help me the best? Psy? 0:16:29.520 --> 0:16:34.680 Even if it wasn't, you know, because sex sometimes, like 0:16:35.040 --> 0:16:37.960 I like that descriptive, imaginative ship and when you are 0:16:38.000 --> 0:16:40.080 in a relationship with someone who's open or like to 0:16:40.120 --> 0:16:42.240 have three simms or whatever, I just love piping it 0:16:42.320 --> 0:16:45.960 up tran sex. You know what that might be? Well, 0:16:46.120 --> 0:16:48.600 I want to talk about are you talking about that? 0:16:49.440 --> 0:16:51.400 One of the other things that I did also, and 0:16:51.440 --> 0:16:54.240 I think he goes into maybe feeling judged was actually 0:16:54.600 --> 0:16:57.120 One of the other advice is to set your boundaries 0:16:57.720 --> 0:17:03.280 so informed. Enthusiastic concepts experts emphasize that it is key 0:17:03.320 --> 0:17:05.800 in taking your conversation to the next level. They said, 0:17:05.960 --> 0:17:10.000 it's important to understand that fantasies aren't necessarily what we 0:17:10.080 --> 0:17:14.840 want in reality. That's why they're called fantasies. Like well, 0:17:14.920 --> 0:17:17.560 and I actually really kind of still want a gang bang, 0:17:17.600 --> 0:17:19.360 and I think it. I moved up to maybe one 0:17:19.400 --> 0:17:22.639 in like three niggas three four, Like I moved up 0:17:22.680 --> 0:17:24.960 to like really kind of wanted but not really what 0:17:25.040 --> 0:17:29.360 it's like tow but now I'm at like three potentially four. Yeah, 0:17:29.400 --> 0:17:32.640 but that's what I'm saying that talking about. No, that's 0:17:32.640 --> 0:17:36.280 a threesome when there's two. Okay, I'm talking about my 0:17:36.280 --> 0:17:38.800 fantasy of a gang bang. It's something that I don't 0:17:38.800 --> 0:17:40.960 know what I watched. I want it, but I really 0:17:41.000 --> 0:17:44.000 don't know if I really want it. If you're like Homogorn, 0:17:44.640 --> 0:17:48.359 let me talk to Lambeau if he knows what nigga, 0:17:48.359 --> 0:17:50.720 because he'd be telling me all the time, where is 0:17:50.760 --> 0:17:56.399 this going? Yeah, but that's work stuff. I don't I 0:17:56.440 --> 0:17:58.320 don't I don't want a gang bang with niggas. With 0:17:58.359 --> 0:18:01.680 Timberland boots with felonies. I want a sensual gang bang. 0:18:02.280 --> 0:18:04.960 You just said, let me get up my my hoodass. Nigga. 0:18:05.040 --> 0:18:07.960 See if hoodass thinks to come gang baby now, I 0:18:08.000 --> 0:18:10.120 don't see the problem. No, Now I'm thinking of fucking 0:18:10.160 --> 0:18:14.520 Wesley Pipes with the Timberland boots. And that's not because 0:18:14.600 --> 0:18:18.920 is that what it's giving ganger like like like want 0:18:18.960 --> 0:18:21.879 gangbangers to gang baby b because they would really be 0:18:22.000 --> 0:18:24.920 on theme and that and that's the perception most people 0:18:24.960 --> 0:18:26.760 have about gang bang seeing that's the thing. No, I 0:18:26.880 --> 0:18:29.440 want a gag bang. Well, I'm kissing like I was, 0:18:29.480 --> 0:18:33.040 stay aerial typeing your type. Many watches that type of porn. 0:18:33.280 --> 0:18:36.760 That that's gay porn. That's not my gangbang. I don't 0:18:36.800 --> 0:18:42.720 want a gay gag bang. I want to canda. My 0:18:42.840 --> 0:18:46.600 gang bang fantasy first off, is very sensual. I want 0:18:46.680 --> 0:18:49.240 us all to be kissing, and I want massages. I 0:18:49.320 --> 0:18:53.560 want like sixhand massage. Nigga. Sorry, last week, I'm watching 0:18:53.600 --> 0:18:56.480 you fucking dude in the acid. That's not too far. Now, 0:18:56.640 --> 0:19:00.520 he's just talking about some bood. Even the ain't no 0:19:00.560 --> 0:19:11.479 hood nigger. He got a job, Okay, I think got 0:19:11.480 --> 0:19:17.280 a w two. Yeah, let's say. Yeah, I know, because 0:19:17.320 --> 0:19:19.920 he was like, so y'all been doing your taxes together 0:19:20.000 --> 0:19:28.760 and ship years old? Never all right, Well, well I 0:19:28.920 --> 0:19:31.800 wanted to be sensual, but I don't really want it. 0:19:32.080 --> 0:19:36.000 So here's the thing too. I play it with toys 0:19:36.200 --> 0:19:40.040 like I have, uh my man and then two deal doughs, 0:19:40.119 --> 0:19:42.359 and it's like something that I have to let him 0:19:42.440 --> 0:19:44.760 know I'm fine with just the deal does. I don't 0:19:44.800 --> 0:19:47.360 need bodies attached, Like this is the fantasy in my mind, 0:19:47.400 --> 0:19:49.359 and I enjoy when we play it out in like 0:19:49.440 --> 0:19:52.280 a rope play scenario, but realistically, I don't know if 0:19:52.320 --> 0:19:54.119 I really want it, but I enjoyed that I can 0:19:54.240 --> 0:19:56.560 express that this is a fantasy of mine, but I 0:19:56.680 --> 0:20:00.480 don't think I really wanted in reality. But then that's 0:20:00.520 --> 0:20:03.159 why I said, it's elevating to where now maybe it 0:20:03.359 --> 0:20:07.200 maybe maybe it maybe a possibility. It's elevating to where 0:20:07.440 --> 0:20:09.480 now you might actually take today. I mean, it's getting 0:20:09.520 --> 0:20:12.520 into listen. That's why I'm about to have fun at 0:20:12.520 --> 0:20:14.359 All Star Week, and I'm hoping some some of my 0:20:14.440 --> 0:20:16.879 old niggas. I just want to join me and this nigga, 0:20:17.240 --> 0:20:19.879 and then that's how it goes I did. Let it 0:20:19.960 --> 0:20:22.000 be known. If I get to that, it needs to 0:20:22.040 --> 0:20:24.480 be with niggas that I know have good dicks that 0:20:24.560 --> 0:20:27.160 could please me. I don't. I don't want to niggle 0:20:27.200 --> 0:20:29.879 whose dick can't get up to do it if you 0:20:29.960 --> 0:20:31.600 can't have it the way you want. I wanted the 0:20:31.640 --> 0:20:35.920 way I want it. So I play on the on 0:20:36.040 --> 0:20:38.080 the West Coast and then this nigga here, you know 0:20:38.119 --> 0:20:47.359 what I mean, the tires, I won't wert you in 0:20:47.440 --> 0:20:53.680 gang bangs? Have you had one? And well, okay, so 0:20:53.840 --> 0:20:58.960 I've been. I've been that it was different. No, no, no, 0:20:59.080 --> 0:21:01.159 not even I've been. I've been. I've been aside from 0:21:01.359 --> 0:21:06.480 the pegging, like just went like four women and me 0:21:07.280 --> 0:21:09.600 like and it was like the opposite. It was like 0:21:09.600 --> 0:21:12.320 a reverse gang bang in a sense. Oh I love 0:21:12.400 --> 0:21:15.520 reverse gang bang porn. Those are the funniest, not giving 0:21:15.600 --> 0:21:22.159 yellow jackets. Sorry oh sorry, sorry, I love yeah, but 0:21:22.240 --> 0:21:24.040 not enough but they all kind of but it was 0:21:24.080 --> 0:21:28.160 real rape, but it was a gang bang on Travis. Sorry, sorry, 0:21:28.359 --> 0:21:35.119 this is the show. Yeah, yours now with damn? I 0:21:35.160 --> 0:21:36.679 forgot where I was going. What was the question? Oh 0:21:37.000 --> 0:21:39.320 with the women that you gang bang with another man? 0:21:40.160 --> 0:21:42.119 Was there ever like an issue where like maybe men 0:21:42.160 --> 0:21:43.960 got nervous. There was a performance thing like have you 0:21:44.040 --> 0:21:46.840 seen that happen? Oh? Yeah, Like and there was one 0:21:46.880 --> 0:21:51.240 woman she literally was like I don't know, ma she was. 0:21:51.560 --> 0:21:53.240 You could tell she wasn't new to this, Like so 0:21:53.359 --> 0:21:59.040 she was the whole time. She's like that definitely, Like 0:21:59.160 --> 0:22:01.960 she came in. She knew everybody. She came in and 0:22:02.040 --> 0:22:04.399 she was like she was like, I need come, like 0:22:04.640 --> 0:22:07.439 right now. And like so she had she had one 0:22:07.480 --> 0:22:09.200 dig in one hand, one dick in the other hand, 0:22:09.560 --> 0:22:12.520