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Speaker 1: hey guys, welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions. I'm

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Speaker 1: your girl. Maybe be a K say hek full Corp

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Speaker 1: Pumps aka Debt, motherfucking bitch a K A peg and

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Speaker 1: Marco a K A. I think that's I couldn't remember. Hi, everybody,

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Speaker 1: I'm wheezy. Welcome back for another episode of our show.

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Speaker 1: We have two guests today. I'm excited, y'all are the

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Speaker 1: first guests of two. Um, it's getting black history, man,

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Speaker 1: you know I'm I'm here for I'm super excited. Um.

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Speaker 1: A few episodes ago, I shared about going to a

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Speaker 1: high protocol dinner. So for those of you guys who

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Speaker 1: the episode and wanted to know more about that night,

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Speaker 1: we are going to get into it. But let me

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Speaker 1: go ahead and introduce our guests. We have T as

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Speaker 1: well as Mal. Some of you all are gonna remember

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Speaker 1: the boys, um, but both of them are the owners

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Speaker 1: and founders of Limitless Lifestyle. That sounds like exotic car

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Speaker 1: rental agent. So we wanted to come off as exotic.

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Speaker 1: We wanted it to be ext and luxurious. We wanted

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Speaker 1: to We wanted to like give it a field, which

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Speaker 1: we'll get into, I guess later, but we wanted to

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Speaker 1: give it a feel more like high class versus just

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Speaker 1: like something where people like freak Nick like. We didn't

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Speaker 1: loo get into it because I definitely gave freak nick

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Speaker 1: even at the party with my body suit. Damn bitches

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Speaker 1: in gown. I'm gonna say and let you know. And

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Speaker 1: for those of you who are listening, we actually don't

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Speaker 1: have a visual tea because of her job. But um

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Speaker 1: them a little diamonds. Just because you added some diamonds.

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Speaker 1: We didn't make it hot class. There could be bangle.

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Speaker 1: That's how realance. You know, it's true, it's true, but

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Speaker 1: balanced dimension, that's all I know. That's where I love

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Speaker 1: that you guys also said you wanted it to be luxurious,

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Speaker 1: because I know that when talking about going to even

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Speaker 1: the cleanliness of it. For whatever, it ran like a

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Speaker 1: with Jamaican restaurant is Ranby ain't never got nothing in

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Speaker 1: there's a Puerto Rican neighbor laisapa. Still I'll be going

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Speaker 1: I say that, say what you know where you are? Right?

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Speaker 1: We usually late, like my home girl and I whenever

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Speaker 1: we get our escambes fish and you get your jerk

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Speaker 1: saying that Jamaican restaurants don't understand what you're ordering it.

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Speaker 1: Look right, Okay, that's what you said. What is limitless luck?

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Speaker 1: Since you can't it's not a card aden scene. So okay,

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Speaker 1: So Limitless Lucks was we saw we were kind of women.

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Speaker 1: We've both been the lifestyle for a bit, um and

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Speaker 1: we're both travel agents. We both have we travel all

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Speaker 1: don't know. We're friends. We're good friends. We met in

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Speaker 1: Anybody who doesn't know about our kink doesn't really know us.

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Speaker 1: So what kind of you just said Even in experiencing

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Speaker 1: But secretly you have the desire, which is your primal

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Speaker 1: niggas like don't get as assertive anymore. I love I

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Speaker 1: eat that sheet? What you think? Really do I have

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Speaker 1: how many you could take? If you like, what do

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Speaker 1: you think your max could be? Oh? No, the way

425
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Speaker 1: I'd be taking this and round I could probably do after.

426
00:23:18,480 --> 00:23:22,359
Speaker 1: I could probably do five after Charlotte at the party,

427
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:26,360
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you don't. Just don't do that. I think

428
00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:31,760
Speaker 1: was a good regular size. It wasn't big. It was big.

429
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:35,400
Speaker 1: I mean, I like big. That was a really big

430
00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 1: but I thought maybe it was a regular side thick.

431
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:38,440
Speaker 1: But it was a big one. It was like a

432
00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 1: horse stick. I did not take a horsetick zillough it

433
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:46,240
Speaker 1: was it was. It was pretty big. So it wasn't

434
00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 1: like not tell everyone you saw me get egged woman.

435
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:58,639
Speaker 1: That was right that I did? That was it a

436
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:00,560
Speaker 1: week ago? And Manby was talking about be abortioned. I

437
00:24:00,600 --> 00:24:02,080
Speaker 1: was like me and he stopped. I was like, I

438
00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 1: did too. Well, let's get into real quick before we

439
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:09,280
Speaker 1: get into the high protocol dinner, Let's get a sex

440
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:11,880
Speaker 1: tip teeth. Let's start from you and then let's get

441
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:14,240
Speaker 1: to your mail. On a sex tip. It could be

442
00:24:14,320 --> 00:24:15,800
Speaker 1: for a woman, it could be for man, it could

443
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:18,480
Speaker 1: be for a sub, it could be for dumb. What

444
00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:20,879
Speaker 1: would your sex tip be? In the bedroom? Dating advice

445
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:22,840
Speaker 1: could be maybe one two if you got it. Since

446
00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:27,879
Speaker 1: y'all are you know out there sex? You like style people?

447
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:34,400
Speaker 1: I would say, um, never be ashamed of what you want.

448
00:24:35,840 --> 00:24:37,800
Speaker 1: If you have to be ashamed of it, then that's

449
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:41,240
Speaker 1: not something you truly want. So on what's yours? So

450
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:44,040
Speaker 1: however you want your experience to be. If it's something

451
00:24:44,119 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 1: you like, If you don't like it, to speak up

452
00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:47,920
Speaker 1: about it because your experience is yours and you own it.

453
00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:51,800
Speaker 1: M hm. I felt like we have to snap to that,

454
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:54,840
Speaker 1: but you know what I mean? What about you? Malt um?

455
00:24:55,680 --> 00:25:02,160
Speaker 1: My tip would be to treat sex like a Treat

456
00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:09,119
Speaker 1: sex like a um A learnable action. So like study it,

457
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,320
Speaker 1: like study sex. I do make sure you like, like

458
00:25:12,520 --> 00:25:16,040
Speaker 1: as a guy, like I got really good at even

459
00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:19,560
Speaker 1: pussy because I studied, like I looked up videos and

460
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,000
Speaker 1: I read, I looked at things and I asked women

461
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:24,200
Speaker 1: like how do you like this? Nothing, And I was

462
00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:26,800
Speaker 1: learning like advanced. I was reading. I was literally reading

463
00:25:26,840 --> 00:25:29,480
Speaker 1: books like about it, like and this was in high school,

464
00:25:31,160 --> 00:25:36,840
Speaker 1: like I was. I was school because because for me,

465
00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:39,200
Speaker 1: it's always about like if I do something, I want

466
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:40,920
Speaker 1: to be like the best at it, Like that's just

467
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 1: always been my goal. So like whethern't I'm in my

468
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:45,360
Speaker 1: business stuff or whatever. So when it came to sex,

469
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,359
Speaker 1: I was like, yo, I don't want any woman I

470
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:50,640
Speaker 1: would ever say anything bad about me, like not ever.

471
00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:53,159
Speaker 1: So I made sure I study and I learned and

472
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:55,800
Speaker 1: I listened and like and and that's another part of

473
00:25:55,880 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 1: like learning is like also including in learning is listening

474
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:00,560
Speaker 1: to your partner, like actually asked and what they like.

475
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 1: It's okay to do that. Like there are some people

476
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:04,679
Speaker 1: who come into a sexual thing and be like, oh,

477
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:06,359
Speaker 1: I made the last woman come or I made the

478
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:08,560
Speaker 1: last dude. Not real quick, I'm gonna do the same

479
00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 1: thing to this guy and they A lot of people

480
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:13,640
Speaker 1: don't have the same desires, So be okay with asking

481
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,600
Speaker 1: your partner like what they actually want, like how they

482
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 1: actually like, you know, things, or because I mean, some

483
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:23,440
Speaker 1: people they sensitive in certain areas. Some people just don't

484
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:26,280
Speaker 1: like certain things, and you just never know. I want

485
00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 1: to just add to that. Not only don't be don't

486
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:32,560
Speaker 1: be afraid to ask your partner their desires, don't be

487
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:36,520
Speaker 1: afraid to share yours. Like before I even sucking fuck anyone,

488
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:39,280
Speaker 1: I let it. I'll want I need way more than

489
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 1: one round. I'm sorry if you're like one of those

490
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 1: guys that are one and done and get real tired

491
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:46,760
Speaker 1: after one round and can't get back up or take

492
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:48,840
Speaker 1: you a while, I'm just not even going We're just

493
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 1: not gonna go there. Like I know, I like rounds.

494
00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:55,399
Speaker 1: I like to go along quite a long time, Like

495
00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 1: I enjoy like making you nuts and getting you right

496
00:26:59,320 --> 00:27:01,440
Speaker 1: back card to meetly after and going back at it

497
00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,800
Speaker 1: right again. So if that's not something you you think

498
00:27:04,880 --> 00:27:06,920
Speaker 1: that's doing too much, and you think that's some superhero

499
00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 1: type of ability, then you're not superhero nu to get

500
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 1: into this listing. So um, there's that. So let's get

501
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 1: into finally, guys, the horrible decision of this week. We

502
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:24,639
Speaker 1: are talking about FED, which is the formal erotic dining

503
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:28,680
Speaker 1: UM or the high protocol dinner that I spoke about

504
00:27:29,119 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 1: maybe a month ago now on this podcast. But let's

505
00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 1: get into it. So you ran the whole night, and

506
00:27:37,880 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 1: you ran the little letters, if we can start there.

507
00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 1: I don't know much about the little letters. Let's start

508
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:47,760
Speaker 1: by talking about what this means for every letter, alright,

509
00:27:47,880 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 1: so and why that choice of words? Alright, So it's funny.

510
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:55,639
Speaker 1: I literally spoke about this so so um every we

511
00:27:55,760 --> 00:27:58,240
Speaker 1: wanted it to be accessible and we wanted to be

512
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 1: as inclusive as possible. So when it comes to high

513
00:28:01,359 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 1: protocol events, a lot of times people are aware of

514
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,680
Speaker 1: it and they're curious, but I can't because I don't

515
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:08,640
Speaker 1: know this or I've never tried that. I've never even

516
00:28:08,720 --> 00:28:11,160
Speaker 1: heard of high protocol. What's that normally like? If someone

517
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:16,320
Speaker 1: was saying that because I sent her a video? Is

518
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 1: it like a dinner? Now, that's what I would think

519
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:27,000
Speaker 1: if I heard high high, Because protocol can have levels.

520
00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,760
Speaker 1: It could be low, moderate, or high. And when you

521
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 1: have that type of situation or event, there's UM certain

522
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 1: rules that have to be followed, um, the way you speak,

523
00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 1: the way you move, your manners and different things like

524
00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,800
Speaker 1: that and so different people. We wanted it to be

525
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 1: open to different people within the lifestyle because you run

526
00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 1: the gamut of so many things. And then you didn't

527
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 1: want someone to say, hey, everyone is going to be

528
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:52,160
Speaker 1: a submissive. Everyone doesn't identify that way. Someone can be

529
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 1: a bottom, someone can be a slave, you can be

530
00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 1: a pet, you can be a doll. And you don't

531
00:28:56,680 --> 00:28:58,600
Speaker 1: want to say doms, because not everyone's a dom. You

532
00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 1: have a master, you have a mystery, you have a puppeteer,

533
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 1: like there's so many different things a handler. So we

534
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 1: wanted it to be open. So wherever you were in

535
00:29:05,880 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 1: your journey, however you identified and what boils down to it.

536
00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 1: What it boils down to is service. If you're a

537
00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 1: big letter, you are receiving service. If you were a

538
00:29:14,680 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 1: little letter, you were functioning from a space of did

539
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 1: you make that up? Or has that came No, it's

540
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 1: actually been used in different because you know, researching what's important,

541
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:25,720
Speaker 1: even when you just went down the list. I don't

542
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:29,120
Speaker 1: think i've heard dollar doll pup. We heard from h

543
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:31,520
Speaker 1: when we had the pup play on like the pup

544
00:29:31,520 --> 00:29:35,240
Speaker 1: play guys during COVID, But doll and puppeteer can you

545
00:29:35,320 --> 00:29:41,040
Speaker 1: jump into those that's not my area I've attended. So, like,

546
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:44,160
Speaker 1: you know, there's dollification right um special shout out to

547
00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:48,600
Speaker 1: uh stk Events and House of stk Um. So they

548
00:29:48,640 --> 00:29:50,800
Speaker 1: would have like a series of different things TK like

549
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:56,400
Speaker 1: the sty no no no s c k SK like

550
00:29:56,840 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 1: Masta mast Lola and um served black j black um.

551
00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 1: So someone came in and they were talking about dollification

552
00:30:05,680 --> 00:30:08,080
Speaker 1: and I didn't know, like there's so many different levels

553
00:30:08,240 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 1: of dollification and so based on a type of doll.

554
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:14,680
Speaker 1: And then so the maker can be called like a

555
00:30:14,720 --> 00:30:17,200
Speaker 1: puppeteer because there's like the puppeteer style. I don't remember

556
00:30:17,240 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 1: the name and stuff like that. So it's a whole world.

557
00:30:20,160 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 1: And I was just like wow. So it said that

558
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:27,680
Speaker 1: it is a sexual fetish um not simply the arousal

559
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 1: to dolls or someone that wants to look like one.

560
00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:34,680
Speaker 1: It's when someone is attracted to dolls and figurines and

561
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 1: it takes on various forms involving animated dolls or you know, uh, sorry,

562
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 1: it could be it could be. It could be in animation, animation,

563
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:48,600
Speaker 1: sexual contact with the doll, fantasies with multiple dolls, or

564
00:30:48,680 --> 00:30:52,240
Speaker 1: transforming a person into one. And I also wanted to

565
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 1: add to that, the fetish of it um is actually

566
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:58,960
Speaker 1: where the partner is transformed into technically a doll, either

567
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,880
Speaker 1: through makeup, man or isms, or even plastic surgery. So

568
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 1: there's a lot of different things to that. Yeah, every

569
00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 1: crazy that, even dullification is not something. So when we

570
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,920
Speaker 1: first started the pod, uh, if you guys go back

571
00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 1: to you know, maybe start from episode one, maybe through

572
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:23,560
Speaker 1: about episode a hundred and fifty or so, we did

573
00:31:23,600 --> 00:31:26,320
Speaker 1: a kink of the week and learning through all of

574
00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 1: like the paraphilias and all of the things associated with

575
00:31:30,080 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 1: kinks and fetishes. I don't even think we've ever talked

576
00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 1: about dullification, So you're teaching me. So that was the

577
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:42,280
Speaker 1: little letter, big letter breakdown. But let's get into what

578
00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 1: what someone would have been been um expecting from attending,

579
00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,120
Speaker 1: because I'll be honest with you, there was a lot

580
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:51,040
Speaker 1: of rules by the way guys sent out, so the

581
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:53,000
Speaker 1: same way we have rules going to the sex club

582
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 1: where it's really all about consent, the rules for the

583
00:31:56,840 --> 00:32:01,840
Speaker 1: protocol dinner went way deeper then I can expect. So

584
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 1: can we talk about maybe what those rules were to

585
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 1: be followed during the dinner on your on your h

586
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:12,680
Speaker 1: it would have table like you know, table manners and stuff,

587
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:14,720
Speaker 1: because we did have a manual. You had there was

588
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:18,520
Speaker 1: a manual, the manual how like, wait, the manual do

589
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 1: you send it out in a p Yes, the manual

590
00:32:24,200 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 1: sessions when people are booking a ticket or finding this

591
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:29,560
Speaker 1: right like or like let's say that they wanted to

592
00:32:29,640 --> 00:32:32,520
Speaker 1: find you at some point in time, Um, do you

593
00:32:32,560 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 1: think they're expecting that? Like, dude, do you feel like

594
00:32:35,440 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 1: you're advertising it that way that price? Let you know,

595
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 1: it's not a cheap people dinner. I think people search

596
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 1: it out because it's something they're they're curious. But like

597
00:32:47,760 --> 00:32:50,880
Speaker 1: like you see these things like in white communities, but

598
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:54,000
Speaker 1: you see like movies or whatever like that white people

599
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:56,600
Speaker 1: do it. Like. The whole reason we even started doing

600
00:32:56,680 --> 00:33:00,880
Speaker 1: this was because in planning our destination trips, we had

601
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:04,320
Speaker 1: like I have found this clip of a group from like, um,

602
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:09,200
Speaker 1: Europe that did it, and they actually have like like

603
00:33:09,520 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 1: people like they would. It was a little weird because

604
00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 1: I thought it was a little racist, but it was

605
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 1: like all these white people and they have black people

606
00:33:14,720 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 1: like laid out on tables covered in food, and it

607
00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:18,480
Speaker 1: was like this and it was like everyone was in

608
00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 1: mask and it was like this whole high protocol keenpie dinner.

609
00:33:21,880 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 1: Right afterwards it led into a play party there, and

610
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:26,680
Speaker 1: so I was like, yo, I would love to do

611
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:30,920
Speaker 1: this without the race looking thing, but like this would

612
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 1: be cool to have on our trips. And so we

613
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:34,840
Speaker 1: were like, all right, well, instead of like trying to

614
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:36,920
Speaker 1: planet for a trip, let's try to do it beforehand

615
00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:38,560
Speaker 1: so we can know how the work that goes into

616
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 1: it and make sure that we can get it. And

617
00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:43,280
Speaker 1: because you guys all both talked about price, I'm curious

618
00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 1: not everybody else's to ranges. It could be a diffra story.

619
00:33:46,480 --> 00:33:51,160
Speaker 1: What's going to be there? Location? And it was one

620
00:33:51,400 --> 00:33:55,800
Speaker 1: seven five and then and then there wasn't add on too,

621
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 1: so there was an at if you wanted to stay

622
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 1: for the play party. So there were wasn't add on.

623
00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:03,840
Speaker 1: Now for a free fixed meal, that's pretty average, and

624
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:07,160
Speaker 1: I mean you were getting steak and fish. Yeah, it was,

625
00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:12,120
Speaker 1: it was and pretty much unlimited. And then it was

626
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:18,040
Speaker 1: that was bartending, and that's the other thing. So much

627
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:20,440
Speaker 1: work that goes into it, like special shout out to

628
00:34:20,480 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 1: our chefs, um from the house of my family. I

629
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 1: love them. So who and Dee d you could be

630
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:30,919
Speaker 1: like a wedding planer. Really this I'm always alone right here,

631
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:34,520
Speaker 1: This one right here is the most organized person ever.

632
00:34:34,760 --> 00:34:37,440
Speaker 1: Like I mean, she's like, I'm like, yeah, so what

633
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:38,959
Speaker 1: are we gonna do about Like what are the prices

634
00:34:39,000 --> 00:34:40,760
Speaker 1: on this? She's like, no, I have a whole spread

635
00:34:40,800 --> 00:34:44,360
Speaker 1: sheet is in the Google document and it's like, what

636
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:47,640
Speaker 1: are your two different roles in um the event that

637
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:50,359
Speaker 1: she planned even in the I want to get into

638
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:52,720
Speaker 1: the event too if we can. So I'm a marketer.

639
00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:54,759
Speaker 1: I have a web development company, and so I do

640
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:58,560
Speaker 1: like a lot of the marketing advertising, and she does

641
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 1: a lot of the back in legis six stuff, the

642
00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 1: accounting and basically got to be closed that came together

643
00:35:05,680 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 1: for this business because it's because literally again you know,

644
00:35:09,120 --> 00:35:11,399
Speaker 1: as you mentioned, like I'm very behind the scenes. That's

645
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 1: just my style. And um, I said, you know, no,

646
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:17,879
Speaker 1: let's have a conversation. And You're like blah bla blah blah.

647
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:19,800
Speaker 1: He was like, you know, well, I was kind of

648
00:35:19,840 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: interested in the same thing. So and it's literally so

649
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 1: weird how we would talk about something and it's like

650
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:27,640
Speaker 1: something that was literally here, and it goes vice versa,

651
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:29,560
Speaker 1: so we literally feed off of each other. I want

652
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:31,759
Speaker 1: to get it to the night. I want to get

653
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 1: it so if people can expect I want to get

654
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:36,320
Speaker 1: into what were the rules on the manual? Mind you?

655
00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:39,360
Speaker 1: And I only want to do that because when I

656
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:43,360
Speaker 1: first walked in, there were there, there was still setting

657
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 1: up going on, but the little letters could not even

658
00:35:47,080 --> 00:35:50,240
Speaker 1: look at me. They had to look down. They couldn't

659
00:35:50,239 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 1: address me until, like unless I said something. Let's get

660
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 1: into the rules of the night and and what the

661
00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:58,560
Speaker 1: little letters were expected to do, what their roles played,

662
00:35:58,640 --> 00:36:00,879
Speaker 1: and then also how we aim and as big letters

663
00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:02,800
Speaker 1: later of course with a big letter for the for

664
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:06,560
Speaker 1: the evening. So within the protocols, UM, they had to

665
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:09,520
Speaker 1: avoid eye contact. They had to make sure that they

666
00:36:09,600 --> 00:36:11,840
Speaker 1: knew how to address the person that they were speaking

667
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:15,360
Speaker 1: to and how they wanted to be addressed. UM you

668
00:36:15,480 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 1: had to use a gesture to initiate conversation, to ask

669
00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:23,239
Speaker 1: a question. UM. You had a position to wait at attention.

670
00:36:23,960 --> 00:36:29,839
Speaker 1: UM you had to um stand as a serving trade right. UM.

671
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:32,920
Speaker 1: One of the things that we didn't include, UM, was kneeling,

672
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 1: because kneeling is something that's very um many people have

673
00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 1: very strong feelings towards it, and we wanted to be

674
00:36:38,680 --> 00:36:45,560
Speaker 1: respectful because oh, so there are some people so kneeling

675
00:36:45,800 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 1: is a symbol of your submission, right, and so some

676
00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,600
Speaker 1: people don't do that with any and everyone, right, And

677
00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:55,200
Speaker 1: so we wanted to be respectful of that. Because although

678
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 1: this is an event that people are experimenting for the night,

679
00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:01,879
Speaker 1: this is something that people live there, and we wanted

680
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:04,920
Speaker 1: to be respectful of that. So even in our spelling

681
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:07,920
Speaker 1: of house, we didn't spell it like the regular way

682
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,600
Speaker 1: because there are people who have houses and we wanted

683
00:37:10,640 --> 00:37:13,320
Speaker 1: to be respectful of the lifestyle. And so this is

684
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:17,240
Speaker 1: also yeah, so like a house of woo or house

685
00:37:17,320 --> 00:37:19,920
Speaker 1: of s ck, right, and so the way we spelled

686
00:37:19,960 --> 00:37:22,520
Speaker 1: it in the yeah, that's how we spelled it in

687
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 1: the manual. But you said you want to be respectful

688
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:28,120
Speaker 1: pieces of the houses, I'm confused. So it was just, um,

689
00:37:28,680 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 1: we didn't want you to think that we are the

690
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 1: house of limitless luck, because that is not who we are. Um.

691
00:37:34,239 --> 00:37:40,200
Speaker 1: And also making sure that people were aware that you know,

692
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 1: and it's also to a learning opportunity as well. Um.

693
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 1: So we had a trainer come in UM and we

694
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 1: had virtual training sessions. We had to training sessions for

695
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:51,359
Speaker 1: the for the for the little, little and the big

696
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 1: letters were able to attend to if they wanted. So

697
00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:57,879
Speaker 1: unruly nerd girls special shout out to her. Um. Yeah,

698
00:37:58,000 --> 00:38:00,040
Speaker 1: and a lot of the conversations we had with the

699
00:38:00,160 --> 00:38:02,120
Speaker 1: rolls back Coco. So as you see, like you'll hear

700
00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:04,839
Speaker 1: a lot of names come out. This was a win

701
00:38:04,960 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 1: for us all, like we all had something that we

702
00:38:07,000 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 1: could contribute to it and everyone being there. So the

703
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 1: little letters following the rules, all they knew was they

704
00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:16,880
Speaker 1: had to dress up in sexy black tasteful. What happens

705
00:38:16,920 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 1: if they disobeyed that was that was a fun part

706
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:24,600
Speaker 1: of the night. Even I got in trouble. But like's

707
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 1: what's an example of how you could like like, what

708
00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 1: how did you get in trouble? Tell us that? So, um,

709
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:31,759
Speaker 1: if they made a mistake, right, so let's say when

710
00:38:31,800 --> 00:38:33,759
Speaker 1: you're serving the food, you're not supposed to crush your

711
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 1: hands over someone's food. So if the disciplinarian saw a mistake,

712
00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:46,280
Speaker 1: she could ding her bell. So we has Mrs Adasa

713
00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 1: so I was the role of major Domo. So I'm

714
00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 1: the one that's making sure that everything flows. And so

715
00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:53,480
Speaker 1: they had a cue of two dings or one thing

716
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 1: to come into the room or exit the room. Okay,

717
00:38:56,320 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 1: like if they were amazing, special shout out to the

718
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 1: little because they were great. They were so serious. We had, Yeah,

719
00:39:05,040 --> 00:39:08,160
Speaker 1: we had twelve little letters. We had about six servers

720
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:10,560
Speaker 1: of the house that you know, just helped with different things.

721
00:39:10,960 --> 00:39:14,799
Speaker 1: And we had the kitchen staff, and Coco was our

722
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,720
Speaker 1: host from Pretty Robes, and we had our special guests

723
00:39:17,800 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 1: and me and Me and Coco actually shared and we

724
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:24,800
Speaker 1: had the only male little letter of the evening. And

725
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:28,680
Speaker 1: so even when she wanted her plate warmed up, he

726
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:30,359
Speaker 1: had to take it and go get it warmed up.

727
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:33,719
Speaker 1: I finished my drink and he would you like another drink?

728
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:35,160
Speaker 1: And he had to go serve and fill my drink

729
00:39:35,200 --> 00:39:37,640
Speaker 1: every time I emptied it. Like when you think of service,

730
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:41,120
Speaker 1: it's what can I do to make this easier? But

731
00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 1: did you get to ask me? So what happened when

732
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 1: you crossed over? So I didn't get to get it,

733
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:48,279
Speaker 1: but I literally they reminded me. Um, they reminded me

734
00:39:48,360 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 1: that I owe them So if we got what oh

735
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 1: so Um, I was to get some spanks, you know,

736
00:39:55,440 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 1: because if they messed up, I'm responsible for them. So

737
00:39:58,239 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 1: if they mess up, it's on me. So if they

738
00:40:00,600 --> 00:40:03,400
Speaker 1: get five dings from the bell, that's something that's in

739
00:40:03,480 --> 00:40:05,880
Speaker 1: the bank for me. Um. That's a lot of fun.

740
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 1: Watched everybody, she watched every likely she saw anybody making it,

741
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:16,360
Speaker 1: she would hit her bell and everybody like and and

742
00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:23,160
Speaker 1: it just kept the sting at the end of the

743
00:40:23,239 --> 00:40:25,239
Speaker 1: table five things. I know, it sounds like a lot.

744
00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:27,719
Speaker 1: They literally had to be with their arms behind their

745
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 1: back at some point. If you didn't get the right

746
00:40:30,160 --> 00:40:32,520
Speaker 1: gesture of putting your arm behind your back during that's

747
00:40:32,560 --> 00:40:35,000
Speaker 1: a day like she was catching everything, or if you

748
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:37,880
Speaker 1: made eye contact. And we also had other people watching

749
00:40:37,960 --> 00:40:40,800
Speaker 1: as well, so the host was watching sir who was

750
00:40:40,840 --> 00:40:43,520
Speaker 1: also watching. And it's just but it's also to make

751
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:45,800
Speaker 1: sure that everyone is okay. Because they also had a

752
00:40:45,880 --> 00:40:48,080
Speaker 1: co word like orange. If you need to just go

753
00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:50,480
Speaker 1: away from anything, you don't need to explain you want

754
00:40:50,520 --> 00:40:52,080
Speaker 1: to go, take a break, you want to go like

755
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:55,120
Speaker 1: relax your feet. They had a whole they had um,

756
00:40:55,680 --> 00:40:58,640
Speaker 1: they had a whole room upstairs to themselves and you know,

757
00:40:58,719 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 1: for some people this was their first time go into

758
00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 1: anything like this, so nerves were there, and I saw

759
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:06,520
Speaker 1: you they had a whole photo shoot upstairs. They like

760
00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:09,560
Speaker 1: they literally built this community, so like if someone was

761
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:11,440
Speaker 1: messing up or they weren't sure, they were able to

762
00:41:11,520 --> 00:41:13,879
Speaker 1: help each other. And that's what it was about. It's

763
00:41:13,920 --> 00:41:16,200
Speaker 1: safe enough to mess up if you do, but it's

764
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:18,600
Speaker 1: serious enough to work to try your best. And also

765
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 1: the dinner was wonderful. But then you guys also put

766
00:41:21,480 --> 00:41:26,120
Speaker 1: on a show, so Sir Marvelous Um and Siphon were

767
00:41:26,239 --> 00:41:30,239
Speaker 1: performers as well as you had a burlesque dancer, which

768
00:41:30,680 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 1: was phenomenal. Uh, that was my first time actually seeing burlesque,

769
00:41:35,480 --> 00:41:38,360
Speaker 1: especially in that setting. I actually also just went and

770
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:43,040
Speaker 1: saw burlesque last night at Bathtub Gin and it was wonderful.

771
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 1: I only got to see one act. There's about four

772
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 1: or five of the night, so I do want to

773
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:48,800
Speaker 1: go back to see the whole show. But burlesque is

774
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:52,239
Speaker 1: something that is still very sexual but not at the

775
00:41:52,320 --> 00:41:55,800
Speaker 1: same time. Um. And so that actually she did perform

776
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:58,960
Speaker 1: I want to say what during dessert. She had two performances.

777
00:41:59,080 --> 00:42:03,400
Speaker 1: She did during letters pay for a ticket, Yes, imagine

778
00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 1: because they also they enjoyed a meal as well too,

779
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:11,320
Speaker 1: you know they did they ate before us. Yeah, so

780
00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 1: there's a whole like it's like two sides of the

781
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 1: experience going on. Um, if you had to pick, which

782
00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:19,520
Speaker 1: one do you think would be your favorite? Obviously a

783
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 1: little letter really, I'm because they had to wear all black.

784
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:26,359
Speaker 1: I specifically wore black as well, and they all had

785
00:42:26,440 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 1: a for you no, no, no, I don't know what

786
00:42:29,120 --> 00:42:32,080
Speaker 1: the best part when we were all black, but to

787
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:35,000
Speaker 1: show that I was standing with them in the service right,

788
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:38,320
Speaker 1: and everyone had a burnt orange rolls on. No, it's no.

789
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:41,319
Speaker 1: People take service seriously, right, and that's what I wanted

790
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:43,960
Speaker 1: to talk to. Your service is important and you can

791
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:48,640
Speaker 1: do it without sex. So that realm of the little

792
00:42:48,760 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 1: letters were all experiencing just a sense of something that

793
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 1: they received pleasure although there was not sex going on

794
00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:59,919
Speaker 1: during the dinner. They were happy, they were they were amazing, amazing.

795
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:04,200
Speaker 1: How many um of your guests turned over for the

796
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 1: play party? Was it? Everyone? Did you feel like? I'm

797
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:10,759
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. There was some good looking people too,

798
00:43:11,360 --> 00:43:14,439
Speaker 1: and the men were all dappered in their fucking suit

799
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:21,840
Speaker 1: and the women had gowns down to ye, that was

800
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 1: you did the gowns. Yes, so you might have a gown,

801
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:29,600
Speaker 1: but you would also have a course of course that yeah,

802
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 1: they had share, but you didn't have a braw on.

803
00:43:32,360 --> 00:43:36,520
Speaker 1: So it was like they were beautiful. They were super beautiful.

804
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:39,800
Speaker 1: I didn't even expect it, to be honest, Like before

805
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 1: I even spoke, like, there was a moment where I

806
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:43,880
Speaker 1: was at the doorway where everyone was there, and I

807
00:43:44,000 --> 00:43:48,840
Speaker 1: was just looking up just like everyone is so beauty beautiful,

808
00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,560
Speaker 1: like you know what they say. Understand we had the

809
00:43:51,600 --> 00:43:55,239
Speaker 1: cocktail hour outside. That's kind of what the sentiments were like.

810
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:03,120
Speaker 1: So then let me ask where did you guys bet?

811
00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 1: Did you guys ask people to send photos? Like how

812
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:08,239
Speaker 1: do you get such a good looking crowd? Because when

813
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:10,480
Speaker 1: people think of sex and play parties, they think, oh,

814
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 1: it's gotta be a whole bunch of unattracted people there

815
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 1: this like and every there was like how do you

816
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:21,800
Speaker 1: deny people someone if they're not only evaluated? Was mindset

817
00:44:22,440 --> 00:44:26,600
Speaker 1: that we had a vetting form? What kind of the

818
00:44:26,680 --> 00:44:31,440
Speaker 1: betting form? So some of the questions were, um, there

819
00:44:31,480 --> 00:44:33,640
Speaker 1: were some qualities you wanted to know, like how important

820
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:38,920
Speaker 1: these things were? In your life, travel, kicking, respects, uh

821
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:43,399
Speaker 1: what else? We had respect, we had integrity, we had

822
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:46,839
Speaker 1: um being, discretion, We had discretion as one of those.

823
00:44:47,080 --> 00:44:48,880
Speaker 1: So how do you value these things and how do

824
00:44:49,000 --> 00:44:50,880
Speaker 1: they play a part in your life? Did you deny

825
00:44:51,040 --> 00:44:55,880
Speaker 1: some people just go around? Yeah? Some people didn't really,

826
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 1: what do you say? Yeah, we did because we also

827
00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:01,520
Speaker 1: based off of reputation, Like we know a lot of

828
00:45:01,560 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 1: people in the community, so we know that like, like

829
00:45:05,719 --> 00:45:09,359
Speaker 1: you know, how some people may be they don't really

830
00:45:09,400 --> 00:45:14,600
Speaker 1: have the best reputation any regard um. Yeah, they may

831
00:45:14,680 --> 00:45:17,480
Speaker 1: have like validated consent multiple times in their past at

832
00:45:17,600 --> 00:45:19,759
Speaker 1: other events or play parties. And the good thing is

833
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:21,640
Speaker 1: that you guys are doing this event as people that

834
00:45:21,760 --> 00:45:24,360
Speaker 1: like have been around the block. And I think a

835
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:26,280
Speaker 1: lot of people that may just want to throw a party,

836
00:45:26,400 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 1: Like I know there are a lot of like sex

837
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:30,319
Speaker 1: parties going on that you know, they may be new

838
00:45:30,360 --> 00:45:32,360
Speaker 1: to the game. I think it's good when someone seasoned

839
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:34,680
Speaker 1: and they've at least had their way around. It's kind

840
00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:37,560
Speaker 1: of like with escorting, right, Like they'll share their resources

841
00:45:37,600 --> 00:45:40,320
Speaker 1: together to make sure people are safe. Yeah, and asking

842
00:45:40,520 --> 00:45:43,319
Speaker 1: questions about people. That's another part of the vetting process too,

843
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:46,040
Speaker 1: and in the in the form, it also told you

844
00:45:46,200 --> 00:45:48,239
Speaker 1: what some of the things were, like how do you

845
00:45:48,440 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 1: feel about UM rules about your speech and stuff like that,

846
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:53,880
Speaker 1: and if you felt like this wasn't something for you,

847
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:56,680
Speaker 1: It's okay, this space wasn't for you. I also like

848
00:45:56,800 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 1: to I know y'all are probably listening, like, oh my god,

849
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 1: knew you're because all the cool ship people flew in

850
00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:05,000
Speaker 1: for this. So as we were at the table talking,

851
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:07,360
Speaker 1: there was a couple that came up from Philly, but

852
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:10,040
Speaker 1: he was from Philly, the partner may have been from

853
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:12,920
Speaker 1: Atlanta or I don't know. Then there was someone else

854
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:15,799
Speaker 1: from Texas. Like, but if you guys gonna do UM

855
00:46:16,239 --> 00:46:18,600
Speaker 1: dinner because you mentioned travel agency and travel you guys

856
00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 1: doing them in different cities. Yea. So we've actually started

857
00:46:21,560 --> 00:46:25,840
Speaker 1: working on a plan for a countrywide tour, even a

858
00:46:25,880 --> 00:46:29,799
Speaker 1: country right to a little bit of a bit out

859
00:46:29,840 --> 00:46:31,399
Speaker 1: of the country. You want to do London. So we're

860
00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:34,800
Speaker 1: gonna we have we have some dates already, we've already

861
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 1: liked planned out some things we have like d C Houston,

862
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:41,040
Speaker 1: atlant should they follow your UM Instagram which we'll put

863
00:46:41,080 --> 00:46:43,520
Speaker 1: that in the description. What is there an emails. There's

864
00:46:43,560 --> 00:46:45,600
Speaker 1: some sort of sort of newsletter that someone needs to

865
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:48,400
Speaker 1: sign up for to get well, we have on our website,

866
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:51,680
Speaker 1: which is Limitless lux ls dot com, and it'll be

867
00:46:51,840 --> 00:46:55,040
Speaker 1: like a newsletter. Sign up on there as well, sign

868
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:57,319
Speaker 1: up for um and we're kind of doing all these

869
00:46:57,400 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 1: I need New York to happen me in well, so

870
00:46:59,360 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 1: we're gonna do. We're gonna do New York again for

871
00:47:02,960 --> 00:47:06,320
Speaker 1: our anniversary like every November. We're probably gonna do that.

872
00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:13,520
Speaker 1: And we're way to November, so we're yeah, yeah, that's

873
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 1: gonna be the first one in June Teams, June A Teams. Yes, okay, yeah,

874
00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:25,359
Speaker 1: we're gonna As I would tell you, London is one

875
00:47:25,400 --> 00:47:28,359
Speaker 1: of the only cities that I consider doing like uh,

876
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:31,480
Speaker 1: like I show just like something like a pop up

877
00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:34,400
Speaker 1: just anything, because when I look at like the demo

878
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,880
Speaker 1: of people out of the country that like, you know,

879
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 1: funk with us, and by us, I just mean like

880
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:42,000
Speaker 1: black people in a lifestyle in the space and the

881
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 1: podcasting entertainment whatever I see Toronto, London and even London.

882
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:50,279
Speaker 1: More like, after after the last podcast episode that I

883
00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:52,719
Speaker 1: was here on I got a lot of comments from

884
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 1: people from London. People are like, oh my gods, need

885
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:57,759
Speaker 1: to come to London and do like a presentation or

886
00:47:58,040 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 1: like because the guys out here just don't get it

887
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:04,479
Speaker 1: in public. I mean, I got so much coming Americans, bros.

888
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:09,120
Speaker 1: I bought a dress at UM just throwing because I

889
00:48:09,160 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 1: went to France. UM. I was with my mom and

890
00:48:12,320 --> 00:48:14,239
Speaker 1: I said, I said, maybe I could wear this for

891
00:48:14,320 --> 00:48:16,440
Speaker 1: this wedding. I said, well, maybe it's too sexy, and

892
00:48:16,480 --> 00:48:19,480
Speaker 1: the lady said, but maybe you're from it's not you know,

893
00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 1: no for sure though, No, when we out, I would

894
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:28,840
Speaker 1: from my homegirls. She lived in London, and she was like,

895
00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:32,080
Speaker 1: you Americans. I hate how y'all dressed. Like there's even

896
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:35,440
Speaker 1: a difference between how the women over there dressed a

897
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:38,680
Speaker 1: lot more classy. They cover up here, everything's messing see

898
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:43,479
Speaker 1: through and y'all gonna get these nipples that they say

899
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:45,800
Speaker 1: they're like sexy. Time for the Red Light District. We

900
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:48,600
Speaker 1: just we just you go out right when you go

901
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:51,439
Speaker 1: out on Tuesday, like Starbucks, that's you know, we're gonna

902
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:55,920
Speaker 1: wear our messine heels. Star Because it's crazy because I

903
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 1: was watching this clip about women and how they dressed,

904
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,200
Speaker 1: and it's like, okay, where do we draw the line

905
00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:05,200
Speaker 1: from feminism to where like mit you do anybody? We

906
00:49:05,360 --> 00:49:07,520
Speaker 1: all want to say like, oh of course, dress how

907
00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:10,719
Speaker 1: you please, but like they do like sometimes I see

908
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:13,520
Speaker 1: just like damn no, I mean, my friend get on

909
00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:16,319
Speaker 1: me because I'll put on a dress that's a club dress,

910
00:49:16,400 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 1: but be like girl wearing flip flops that makes it

911
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:22,879
Speaker 1: a day dress. And she literally my friend be coming

912
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:24,279
Speaker 1: for me because she'd be like girl that is a

913
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:26,360
Speaker 1: whole club dresser. If you put on a denim jacket

914
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:29,520
Speaker 1: and as long as you add sneakers or flip flops

915
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:32,919
Speaker 1: to it, no, it's for the days. Whatever you want.

916
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:36,000
Speaker 1: Like if you don't like it, don't look you know

917
00:49:36,840 --> 00:49:38,600
Speaker 1: how do be talking ship? Because people talk to you

918
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:40,759
Speaker 1: about me. It's just in my blood, you know what

919
00:49:40,800 --> 00:49:43,920
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like I don't know how not to do that.

920
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:46,800
Speaker 1: My mama and I spent the last week together traveling

921
00:49:46,880 --> 00:49:49,279
Speaker 1: and we couldn't go through that airport without talking ship.

922
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 1: I mean we were literally in sweat and we were like,

923
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:56,959
Speaker 1: look at this bit. Why not? But anyway, obviously people

924
00:49:56,960 --> 00:49:58,920
Speaker 1: are gonna try to click on the description, but tell

925
00:49:59,280 --> 00:50:00,839
Speaker 1: people where to find and you and also like how

926
00:50:00,880 --> 00:50:02,879
Speaker 1: to access these lists because I'm sure like they really

927
00:50:02,960 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 1: want to step by step nigga because we go and

928
00:50:06,360 --> 00:50:08,920
Speaker 1: also am I able to share? Would I be able

929
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:11,080
Speaker 1: to share any of like or could you send me

930
00:50:11,200 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 1: something that's not exactly what was sent out, but I

931
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:15,239
Speaker 1: would love to share kind of even what some of

932
00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:18,799
Speaker 1: those rules were for the evening um without given too

933
00:50:18,920 --> 00:50:22,600
Speaker 1: much maybe not, you know, maybe overall, like just how

934
00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:25,239
Speaker 1: to treat people like I don't know if we could

935
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:27,560
Speaker 1: work on just showing people like kind of what some

936
00:50:27,680 --> 00:50:31,960
Speaker 1: of the rules were for that evening. Oh no, I

937
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:33,480
Speaker 1: know the manual. That's why that I don't want to

938
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:36,480
Speaker 1: put it all out there, but just like the kind

939
00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:38,440
Speaker 1: of how you had to show up as a person

940
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:41,840
Speaker 1: or as a partner. Mind you, there were little letters

941
00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:44,560
Speaker 1: that went there solo, so this is not an event

942
00:50:44,640 --> 00:50:46,400
Speaker 1: that you have to go to and have a partner.

943
00:50:46,920 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 1: So they literally will match you with a big letter

944
00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:53,040
Speaker 1: for the night. By the way, like I went as

945
00:50:53,080 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 1: a big letter single and I got Yeah, you guys

946
00:50:56,719 --> 00:50:59,480
Speaker 1: match people up well to you, Like, I think it

947
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:03,560
Speaker 1: was because we had the betting process and we had

948
00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 1: the trainings and so from what we were able to

949
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:10,279
Speaker 1: get this this would be this person would blend with

950
00:51:10,400 --> 00:51:13,160
Speaker 1: this person, and some may have requested because they've known

951
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 1: each other, they've known each other something like that. So

952
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 1: it all just worked out like it's it was beautiful. Well,

953
00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:20,480
Speaker 1: I think you guys sound like you have Was that

954
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:22,400
Speaker 1: your first that was our first one? I think it

955
00:51:22,560 --> 00:51:24,440
Speaker 1: was like a great process and I think it could

956
00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:25,880
Speaker 1: only go out from here. I need you to use

957
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:29,480
Speaker 1: that same venue too. It was nice y'all got some

958
00:51:29,560 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 1: different venue like it was put together so well. The

959
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:35,560
Speaker 1: price of the ticket, you guys could definitely go up

960
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:37,040
Speaker 1: with it. I'd be telling I started, I want to

961
00:51:37,120 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 1: cut we gotta go tomorrow. I'll be telling Daniel that.

962
00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:44,000
Speaker 1: And it's a w like the experience that I experienced

963
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:46,200
Speaker 1: that night. I want to do it again. Um. I

964
00:51:46,239 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 1: would love to throw my own and be a part

965
00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:50,440
Speaker 1: of it. So maybe we could everybody could also coordinate

966
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:53,120
Speaker 1: that for people to let a group and they want

967
00:51:53,160 --> 00:51:55,960
Speaker 1: to have a personal one, wish that's what you gotta do.

968
00:51:56,239 --> 00:51:58,000
Speaker 1: This is random, but I was in Central Park the

969
00:51:58,040 --> 00:52:00,360
Speaker 1: other day and I've seen them doing this baby shower

970
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:02,400
Speaker 1: with like the t P and a little cloud pillows,

971
00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:04,000
Speaker 1: and I was like, Oh, that's cute, and what like

972
00:52:04,400 --> 00:52:12,280
Speaker 1: like the TP cloud, What the cloud? What cloud? Pillows aloud? Pillow? Sorry,

973
00:52:12,280 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 1: I didn't hear that cloud prussion? How did every episode?

974
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:20,360
Speaker 1: She ended up saying, this guy, I don't even know

975
00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:24,520
Speaker 1: how to work a long story short. When the thing

976
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 1: was done, because I was literally saying I was playing

977
00:52:26,640 --> 00:52:28,000
Speaker 1: with the dog, I was like, damn, I wanna suck.

978
00:52:28,000 --> 00:52:29,320
Speaker 1: They set the whole thing up. Now they got to

979
00:52:29,320 --> 00:52:32,760
Speaker 1: bring it back. They left company, came in, took everything,

980
00:52:32,840 --> 00:52:35,240
Speaker 1: and I was like, wow, they just built this experience

981
00:52:35,280 --> 00:52:39,439
Speaker 1: in a part for you, like literally like catering cater

982
00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:44,239
Speaker 1: where they do picnics, design picnic, They set up for

983
00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 1: you and you just show up. No, y'all need a

984
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:48,960
Speaker 1: cater a home. On my TV show that I did,

985
00:52:49,160 --> 00:52:51,400
Speaker 1: one of the episodes that had was a cannabis episode

986
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:54,960
Speaker 1: about curated Canadas, right, like how they basically do this

987
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:57,879
Speaker 1: like four sex like you ain't gonna hold you if

988
00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,840
Speaker 1: you do another season on your show, this has to

989
00:53:00,880 --> 00:53:04,239
Speaker 1: be an episode if you guys, like it would be

990
00:53:04,360 --> 00:53:08,360
Speaker 1: not like din and the way that you have the

991
00:53:08,440 --> 00:53:10,360
Speaker 1: performers which you have to wear. I don't know if

992
00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:12,040
Speaker 1: y'all can allow cameras in it, maybe it'll be like

993
00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:15,480
Speaker 1: not a real one because we had we had a videographer.

994
00:53:15,560 --> 00:53:18,440
Speaker 1: You did have a videographer when we filmed sex Cells

995
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:21,080
Speaker 1: and basically what we did was, I mean, sorry, not

996
00:53:21,160 --> 00:53:24,720
Speaker 1: sex sells NFFW. And just that night Daniel told everybody,

997
00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:27,040
Speaker 1: like you might be on TV. Some people wear masks

998
00:53:27,080 --> 00:53:29,720
Speaker 1: and didn't um. But I think the cool thing about

999
00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:32,560
Speaker 1: it is like when people get to step in and

1000
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:35,560
Speaker 1: see that world, you know what, because like talking about

1001
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:38,879
Speaker 1: it is even exciting just hearing about this experience through

1002
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:41,920
Speaker 1: like three people sitting here, but to be able to

1003
00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:44,120
Speaker 1: watch it is like, holy sh it. But no, I mean,

1004
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:45,719
Speaker 1: y'all all have to talk about the money though. That's

1005
00:53:46,840 --> 00:53:48,959
Speaker 1: one thing that we do try to that we try

1006
00:53:49,280 --> 00:53:51,439
Speaker 1: to make sure that people understand is that this isn't

1007
00:53:51,520 --> 00:53:55,160
Speaker 1: necessarily an event for only experienced people. Some people get

1008
00:53:55,200 --> 00:53:57,359
Speaker 1: intimidated by it. They're like, they're like, oh man, it's

1009
00:53:57,360 --> 00:53:58,880
Speaker 1: probably just a lot of people here who've been in

1010
00:53:58,880 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 1: a life stuff for the great things explain the first time.

1011
00:54:02,400 --> 00:54:09,040
Speaker 1: And so that was and so vetting doesn't necessarily mean

1012
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:11,719
Speaker 1: that we're trying to make sure if you're experiencing that

1013
00:54:11,880 --> 00:54:13,960
Speaker 1: it's just making sure that you're a decent person and

1014
00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 1: we don't have to worry about you, you know, acting crazy.

1015
00:54:17,520 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. You're listening to this episode before

1016
00:54:21,520 --> 00:54:24,880
Speaker 1: we get out of your look right with that part. Um,

1017
00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:27,800
Speaker 1: If you're listening to this episode, I would say add

1018
00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:30,480
Speaker 1: this to your bucket list, whether you were single or

1019
00:54:30,520 --> 00:54:34,560
Speaker 1: with a partner. Um. Just I was in awe the

1020
00:54:34,680 --> 00:54:38,359
Speaker 1: whole night. Um at the professionalism. The food was great,

1021
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:41,160
Speaker 1: the drinks, thank you, Mel, we're rolling in. But also

1022
00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:44,800
Speaker 1: to be in a room with people where you know

1023
00:54:45,120 --> 00:54:48,880
Speaker 1: there's no judgment you're you're you're in this lifestyle or

1024
00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:51,399
Speaker 1: kink space or you know, whatever you're into. No one

1025
00:54:51,680 --> 00:54:54,360
Speaker 1: in that in the in the home would would judge you.

1026
00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:57,320
Speaker 1: It was It was literally liberating just to be in

1027
00:54:57,400 --> 00:55:02,120
Speaker 1: a group of very like the professionals, like they all

1028
00:55:02,200 --> 00:55:04,759
Speaker 1: have jobs. But also then you come in and it's

1029
00:55:04,800 --> 00:55:07,120
Speaker 1: like everyone has known each other for years, but just

1030
00:55:07,239 --> 00:55:08,920
Speaker 1: through the cocktail hour. By the time we said at

1031
00:55:08,960 --> 00:55:11,520
Speaker 1: the table, the conversations were flowing like we had known

1032
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:14,360
Speaker 1: each other the whole time. So it was add this

1033
00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:17,200
Speaker 1: to your bucket list. Um. And again, you can't stay

1034
00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:20,120
Speaker 1: after for a play party, or you can just seep

1035
00:55:20,239 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 1: into being in a lifestyle where you're getting aroused and pleased.

1036
00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:28,880
Speaker 1: I'm talking about this hungry. It was. It was amazing,

1037
00:55:29,000 --> 00:55:30,759
Speaker 1: It was amazing. So what are your handles if you

1038
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:33,680
Speaker 1: want to share them? You know, limitless lux l u

1039
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:42,520
Speaker 1: X right, excuse me, lucky l s at the end again,

1040
00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:44,480
Speaker 1: that will be in the description of this episode. You

1041
00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:48,200
Speaker 1: want to share, um, well, my handle again from the

1042
00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:53,279
Speaker 1: last time, Scorpio King you gave your handle? Yeah, oh yeah,

1043
00:55:53,320 --> 00:55:58,560
Speaker 1: and it was blowing him up. Why did you did

1044
00:55:58,600 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 1: you get any pussy from coming onto the show? You

1045
00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:14,960
Speaker 1: don't want to say, yeah, all right, but but I

1046
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:17,640
Speaker 1: got to meet a lot of and that's that's another thing,

1047
00:56:17,760 --> 00:56:19,759
Speaker 1: like meeting people that's nothing. That kind of gave me

1048
00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:21,919
Speaker 1: an idea for this was that I was just meeting

1049
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:24,520
Speaker 1: a lot of people through like my d ms that

1050
00:56:24,640 --> 00:56:28,200
Speaker 1: were just saying like, how there's such a scarcity of

1051
00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:30,759
Speaker 1: like keenk events in other places that you might We're

1052
00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:32,000
Speaker 1: from New York. I mean, we live in New York.

1053
00:56:32,040 --> 00:56:39,239
Speaker 1: So we're like, oh every weekend and so now and

1054
00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:41,920
Speaker 1: there's nothing to do. People come up to my friends

1055
00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:45,279
Speaker 1: want to know. And I listened to the show and

1056
00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:47,879
Speaker 1: I say, bro, I don't even talk about And I'd

1057
00:56:47,920 --> 00:56:50,400
Speaker 1: like to do it a rich people's mansions and have orgies,

1058
00:56:50,760 --> 00:56:53,480
Speaker 1: but it's so curated, and I would say the community.

1059
00:56:53,520 --> 00:56:56,480
Speaker 1: You know, I'm damn there and everybody my friend. I'll

1060
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Speaker 1: like that here, Like we don't have like I wish

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Speaker 1: boys wouldn't there be And yeah, I mean people people

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Speaker 1: such a need for it that we were like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we have to do something like this, And so original

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Speaker 1: to you know, what you'all need to do when people

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Speaker 1: like that, I think y'all should definitely do that. Per city,

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Speaker 1: put a tentative date, put the handle on it, location.

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Speaker 1: That's Um, what is it like t b dB D

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Speaker 1: and shee how many you get? I would do that,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, because they could be begging

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Speaker 1: so much. Okay, we'll pay up, hope. Um, I already know.

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Speaker 1: Oh I looked at it, and we just do we

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Speaker 1: Cocktails Dirties Discussions Podcast Medina Monro. That was such a

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Speaker 1: great intro. Hello everybody, I know you've been waiting for

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Speaker 1: me to come back and here I am. No. I

1142
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Speaker 1: don't think they've been waiting. I don't think they've been waiting.

1143
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Speaker 1: I said, are you getting cute? You said no, and

1144
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Speaker 1: bit you look cute, bitch. This is just my hair

1145
01:01:26,840 --> 01:01:28,960
Speaker 1: is being molded so I can like have my pixie.

1146
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Speaker 1: I have no makeup on. Bitch, I am not cute.

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Speaker 1: No one told you to come in with all. I

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Speaker 1: don't even know what I was channeling my innert Ain't

1149
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Speaker 1: Jemima happy black? You know, because it's Black History Months.

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to say it. Be careful. You can't

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Speaker 1: say it as a white woman. Sho do me? I

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Speaker 1: have not happy Black History Months? Everybody. Um, I hope

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Speaker 1: that you all enjoyed your Valentine's Day with your nigga

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Speaker 1: or your side nigga, or your sugar daddy or just

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Speaker 1: the nigga. You fucking what up? Um? To start this episode,

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Speaker 1: though off, we're gonna get into some icebreakers that Medina

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Speaker 1: has ill. So what's the first one. Let's let's get

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Speaker 1: into one. Oh, this is so perfect for you because

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Speaker 1: you're gonna have such a crazy answer. What's wrong with

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Speaker 1: having sex on the first day? What's wrong with it?

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Speaker 1: What are the wrong things about having sex? That's the

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Speaker 1: wrong thing. I'm the wrong person to ask that because

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Speaker 1: all the niggas that I've actually ended up being with

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Speaker 1: long term or have even got connectional bonds to which

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Speaker 1: we poked the first night. But would you find anything

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Speaker 1: any wrong things that happened with that? Um? You know,

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Speaker 1: you know which We both have these sexually liberated podcasts,

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Speaker 1: So it's one of those two where we're all adults now,

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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So I think that when

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Speaker 1: you were in your teens in your twenties, the idea

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Speaker 1: of having sex on the first night, you know, it

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Speaker 1: was a bad thing. But I think we're adults now,

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Speaker 1: and I think even men know that women like to

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Speaker 1: fun just as fucking much as they do. And if

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Speaker 1: you turned me on and we vibe it to me,

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Speaker 1: I think if I want to suck you on the

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Speaker 1: first night, that's that's a good thing because that means

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Speaker 1: I'm really into you. Is your phone ringing? Oh no?

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Speaker 1: It was like what is going on here? That? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: That was no, that was my nigga, y'all know, he

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Speaker 1: got the little special uh vibrated ring my bad and

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Speaker 1: it was right here. But I'm like, I was like,

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Speaker 1: it's why are you looking like that? My bad job?

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Speaker 1: It was my nigga calling me nasty um um I

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Speaker 1: had something. I mean, what would your answer be to that? Though?

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Speaker 1: Like we are grown? We are we are, and sex

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Speaker 1: should be. We just have the sex and everything can

1188
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Speaker 1: just carry on how it would go if we didn't

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Speaker 1: have sex, right. But one thing that I'm learning is

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Speaker 1: and I've had relationships that started with we we fucked

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Speaker 1: on the first date, but that's not the norm. And

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Speaker 1: I feel like there's a dynamic switch up when you

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Speaker 1: have sex with the man to quit, even not even

1194
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Speaker 1: too quick, just when you give up, when you have some,

1195
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Speaker 1: when you give up them draws. There's this switch that

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Speaker 1: I really don't like. And I try to hold on,

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Speaker 1: try to hold onto it as long as I can.

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Speaker 1: It's almost like before you have sex, they're so interested,

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Speaker 1: they're courting there because they're lying. Once they get the pussy,

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Speaker 1: A lot of you baby wanted me, Bro, you gotta

1201
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Speaker 1: deal with you gotta deal with a man who actually

1202
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Speaker 1: is not pressed on the pussy. The thing I feel like,

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Speaker 1: even if they're not pressed on the pussy, there's still

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Speaker 1: a power change. Don't lie. Don't they know because you

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Speaker 1: don't know that they pressed on the pussy, but they're

1206
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Speaker 1: only showing up as their representative to get the pussy.

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Speaker 1: So once they have the pussy, if you see a

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Speaker 1: man switches up in his behavior or even in his

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Speaker 1: courtsmanship or how he's showing up to you, even on

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Speaker 1: the telephone through text messages, that's because he got what

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Speaker 1: he wanted. He's not a girl man. He probably wasn't

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Speaker 1: even looking for a relationship. He probably was only looking

1213
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Speaker 1: for the pussy, and because you gave it to him.

1214
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Speaker 1: So there is that scenario. But then there's also just

1215
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Speaker 1: like men want pussy, not that they just want your pussy,

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01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:28,600
Speaker 1: but they do want but they're always motivated by that,

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Speaker 1: whether they just want to funk or they still want

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Speaker 1: to be with you. There is a slight change, and

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Speaker 1: I don't like to change. I try to hold onto

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01:05:33,280 --> 01:05:34,480
Speaker 1: it as long as I can, but they really don't

1221
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Speaker 1: be that long. Um Okay, the next one you catch

1222
01:05:38,040 --> 01:05:42,240
Speaker 1: your friends partner cheating on them in public, would you

1223
01:05:42,400 --> 01:05:45,920
Speaker 1: tell your friend that their partner is cheating, so I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't say your nigga is cheating. I would say I

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Speaker 1: saw your nigga out with this person. Here's the picture.

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Speaker 1: Do you know who this woman as