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Speaker 1: This is the press show. It's time celebrate the holiday

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Speaker 1: season with Mariah Carey's Christmas Time in Las Vegas this

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Speaker 1: November twenty eighth through December thirteenth, Adobe Live at Park

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Speaker 1: MGM and you could be going a trip for two

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Speaker 1: to the December twelfth show at two Night's Day at

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Speaker 1: Park MGM December twelfth through to fourteenth and round trip airfare.

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Speaker 1: Text Holiday to five seven, seven three nine right now

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Speaker 1: for a chance to win. A confirmation text will be

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Speaker 1: sent standard message and data rates may apply. It's all

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Speaker 1: thanks to the Live Nation. Kiki kick is getting married. Guys.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if you knew this.

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Speaker 2: I am getting married. And please don't ask me to

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Speaker 2: explain anything to a child, okay, because I'm just like child.

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Speaker 2: Just wait till you get older, you know. Just wait.

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Speaker 1: Hey, Kiki Pollly just texted me and s why took

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Speaker 1: seven and a half years?

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Speaker 2: Can you say don't move in with a man?

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Speaker 3: Girl?

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Speaker 2: I have seventeen white friends and say you like one

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Speaker 2: of them? But no, hows out here we are? Yes,

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Speaker 2: I'm getting married. Yes, I'm gonna keep talking to y'all

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Speaker 2: about the sticker prices that I'm ready into and the

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Speaker 2: shock value that I'm having. These experiences are traumatizing. And Friday,

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Speaker 2: I went through another experience where I was so excited

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Speaker 2: to go and meet with a wedding decorator because I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 2: so really figure out how much this wedding is going

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Speaker 2: to cost. I need to price out a venue that

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Speaker 2: I need to price out the decorator. So I'm like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: I'm excited. I'm walking into this place. And the moment

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Speaker 2: I walked in, there was this beautiful like swing set

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Speaker 2: in the lobby, So I was like, I probably shouldn't

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Speaker 2: be here right swinging set?

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Speaker 1: What kind of venues that we resorted to, like play places?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: What are we doing? Swing set? I understanding these things

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Speaker 1: are expensive, kiky, but like, just ask for a loan.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we don't have to We don't have to

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Speaker 1: do it at a playground.

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Speaker 2: No, no, this place is so beautiful. Take swings parks? Yes, No,

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Speaker 2: wait a minute, romantic swing?

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Speaker 1: Hold on that way? Are you getting married in a

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Speaker 1: sex club?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 1: What's going on?

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Speaker 2: No? No, I need you to I don't know you see.

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Speaker 2: Have y'all ever been to a romantic spot in a

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Speaker 2: park where there's like a swing or rolls that's arounding around.

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Speaker 4: I can't say, like I've heard of some romantic swings before,

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Speaker 4: but that's you know, those are in those are in

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Speaker 4: members only clubs.

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Speaker 2: Y'all need to grow up, Okay. Anyway, that's sweet, really

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Speaker 2: nice to set up in the lobby. So at that moment,

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Speaker 2: I kind of knew what I was walking into. And

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Speaker 2: then I went to the back and there was I mean,

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Speaker 2: when I tell you, it was beautiful. It looked like

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Speaker 2: the set of every like Taylor's with Music video, every

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Speaker 2: Tyler Perry movie. It was all this stuff in the back,

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Speaker 2: all these flowers and just there was flowers hanging from

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Speaker 2: the ceiling. So anyway, I walk here and I talked

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Speaker 2: to this nice lady. She's so sweet, and I'm just like,

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Speaker 2: I want that, I want this, I want all of this,

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Speaker 2: I want everything. And so I mean she's just like, oh,

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Speaker 2: we're gonna make it you dream, We're gonna.

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Speaker 1: She said, ma'am, welcome to Secrets Resorty Romantic Swings. She said, man,

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Speaker 1: welcome to Cimarus. If you're from Chicago, then you know.

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Speaker 2: One of those rooms like at everything that you can imagine.

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Speaker 1: I'm still trying to figure out where you're trying to

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Speaker 1: get married. Where are you gonna make us go Kiki

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Speaker 1: where there are romantic swings and everything you could ever imagine. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying it is.

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Speaker 2: It was so beautiful, y'all. It was flowers galore, Like

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Speaker 2: everything had flowers of hard shaped flowers. It was like

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Speaker 2: big canopies. It was gorgeous. So I'm just like telling her,

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Speaker 2: like my dream of all the stuff that I want,

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Speaker 2: and she's like, okay. She's so patient with me. She's

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Speaker 2: describing it all, she's writing it out, she's drawing stuff.

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Speaker 2: And then she's like, okay, this is the worst part

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Speaker 2: of my job. I gotta go and calculate the numbers.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, girl, do you have to? Like,

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Speaker 2: let's just vibe. And so she goes goes to the

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Speaker 2: back to calculate the numbers and then she while she's

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Speaker 2: back there, her assistant comes out and brings me a

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Speaker 2: tray of drink options. So she's like, you know, would

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Speaker 2: you like some water, some some soda? What would you like?

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh no, that yeah, I already know what good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: She comes back, y'all, she sits down the number fourteen thousand.

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Speaker 1: Fourteen thousands of romantic swinge. I can get you a

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Speaker 1: much better deal. I mean they might be a little

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Speaker 1: bit pre owned, but I can get you a much

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Speaker 1: better deal on romantic swings.

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Speaker 5: So what goes into the decorated because I've only ever

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Speaker 5: heard of weddings where you like use the venues people.

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Speaker 2: So what what does she cover or what does she

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Speaker 2: need to come in and do? She does everything. It's

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Speaker 2: the flowers. The flowers you know you want them as

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Speaker 2: you walk down the eye or some flowers cays for

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Speaker 2: the girls make So this is for just flowers.

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Speaker 1: Fourteen grand for just flowers.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it was first for the car. There's flowers, there's fireworks,

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Speaker 2: there was a stage. I mean I asked for it

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Speaker 2: all I need.

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Speaker 5: Okay, so there's like a one stop shop that does

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Speaker 5: like a doors and then.

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Speaker 2: Okay, God, she gives you the you know the little

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Speaker 2: runway that you walk down runway. Just create a space

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Speaker 2: with some chairs. No I need, I need, I need

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Speaker 2: every chair to have a flower on the chair for

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Speaker 2: y'all centerpieces. I mean, she told me she can make

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Speaker 2: candles hang from the ceiling. I wanted it all. And

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Speaker 2: so now I mean I'm.

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Speaker 1: Still trying to figure out after ten minutes what kind

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Speaker 1: of party is this? Actually, she's an eyes white hut party.

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Speaker 1: You got romantic swings, you got candles hanging from the ceiling,

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Speaker 1: you got runways, I mean you got yeah yeah, this

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Speaker 2: So now I think I don't know if we're going

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Speaker 2: to be able to come we as us as are

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Speaker 2: are gonna be able to afford fourteen thousands. So I

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Speaker 2: need to know who got a glue gun because I

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Speaker 2: feel like we can go to some of this off.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Let me tell you something. Let's go to Michael's,

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Speaker 1: We'll go to Joe and you know that right hot

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Speaker 1: little hobby lobby. Let me say you that before long

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Speaker 1: we're gonna have candles hanging from the ceiling in romantic

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Speaker 1: swings all over the place. It'll be great.

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Speaker 2: Amazon and TikTok told me that I can make all

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Speaker 2: this stuff, so wow.

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Speaker 1: And that's just for the runway with the flower, yes man. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The other problem with going to these appointments, I would imagine,

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Speaker 1: didn't know that you wanted, Like you didn't know you

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Speaker 1: needed that, and now it's going to feel like, you know,

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Speaker 1: without if you don't have it. But you didn't know

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Speaker 1: you needed that.

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Speaker 2: You didn't know it was your dream after you saw it, right,

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Speaker 2: and now it's your dream.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but let me tell you something. When I walk

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Speaker 1: into your wedding, if there are romantic swings abound, and

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Speaker 1: then I'm going to be so disappointed, so hard. Right

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Speaker 1: right at me waiting by the phone is like more

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Speaker 1: Fread Show. Next, This is the Fread Show. Each time.

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Speaker 1: Celebrate the holiday season with Mariah Carey's Christmas Time in

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Speaker 1: Las Vegas this November twenty eighth through December thirteenth and

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Speaker 1: Dobe Live at PARKM and you could be going a

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Speaker 1: trip for two to the December twelfth show at two

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Speaker 1: Night's Day at Park MGM December twelfth through to fourteenth

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Speaker 1: and round trip airfare. Text Holiday to five seven, seven,

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Speaker 1: three nine right now for a chance to win. A

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Speaker 1: may apply. It's all thanks to Live Nation. It's Kiki's Court. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, the honorable Kikilik. He's here, Judge Kiki, if

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Speaker 1: you would present the case, all right.

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Speaker 2: Let's get into the courtroom. The gabble has been hit,

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Speaker 2: it says hey Kiki, it's Ashley. My best friend Morgan

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Speaker 2: kicked me out of her bridal party one month before

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Speaker 2: the wedding because she said I didn't lose enough weight Jason.

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Speaker 2: She told me I wouldn't fit her aesthetic unless I

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Speaker 2: dropped thirty pounds. I was heartbroken, but I had already

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Speaker 2: paid for my bride'smaid dress, so I still went to

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Speaker 2: the wedding as a guest in the same dress that

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Speaker 2: the bridesmaids were. But I sat down as a guest.

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Speaker 2: I wasn't wasting my money. People kept asking me at

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Speaker 2: So I told them the truth. Now Morgan is furious,

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Speaker 2: saying that I ruined her wedding and stole her spotlight

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Speaker 2: by making people ask the question. So, Kiki, am I

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Speaker 2: wrong for wearing the bridesmaid dress and telling people what

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Speaker 2: really happened? Wow? Yes, Wow can turn you well? I

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Speaker 2: think okay, Morgan is wrong. The bride to me is

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Speaker 2: absolutely wrong. You do not ask someone to stand and

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Speaker 2: be your bridesmaid and then kick them out of the

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Speaker 2: wedding because they don't fit an aesthetic. If I was

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Speaker 2: fluffy and fine when you asked me, Okay, I was

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Speaker 2: gonna be fluffy and fine at your wedding too. So

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Speaker 2: I don't know why you thought, because you're getting married,

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Speaker 2: I need to lose some weight. The girl, if I've

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Speaker 2: been big our whole friendship, it's not going to change

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Speaker 2: because you're getting married. I think that is insane to

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Speaker 2: kick somebody out a month before the wedding. She's already

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Speaker 2: purchased a dress you. That is totally wrong. Now I

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Speaker 2: wouldn't have gone to the wedding at all, No, I

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Speaker 2: would have just set that out. But I understand you

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Speaker 2: wanted to be petty, because that was very petty. You

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Speaker 2: went to the wedding, you wore the bridesmaid's dress anyway,

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Speaker 2: and then just sat down in the audience. So of

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Speaker 2: course people were going to ask the question of like,

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Speaker 2: you know what what's going on? So you knew what

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Speaker 2: you were doing at that point. But I do think

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Speaker 2: she was totally wrong for kicking you out of the wedding.

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Speaker 2: That was terrible.

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Speaker 1: Oh you guys have a jury made five five three five. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I mean the point of being a bridesmaid or a

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Speaker 1: groomsman or whatever in a wedding is it's spiritual right Like,

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Speaker 1: it's it's representative, it's it's you've been in my life

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Speaker 1: forever and you're supporting me as I make this commitment.

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Speaker 1: It has nothing to do with how you look. I mean,

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Speaker 1: what do you do? I've heard of people getting pregnant

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Speaker 1: and then it's like, wow, it doesn't fit to look either,

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Speaker 1: But it's like, what do you I mean, what are

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Speaker 1: you gonna do? Like, that's my friend. I don't care

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Speaker 1: if you're pregnant or not pregnant. I don't care if

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Speaker 1: you injure yourself. I don't care if you have a

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Speaker 1: cast wind up in a wheelchair, Like you're gonna be

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Speaker 1: up there with me, because that's the point. It has

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Speaker 1: nothing to do with what you look. Like. That seems

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Speaker 1: very obvious, right Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I think we've a society I've taken this aesthetic thing

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Speaker 6: a little too far. Christmas is no longer the same,

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Speaker 6: nothing feels the same anymore than it once did. And

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Speaker 6: I feel like now we're aesthetically gonna be pleasing with

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Speaker 6: our bridal party, Like those are human beings exactly, like

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Speaker 6: an Instagram like collage like or something like these are

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Speaker 6: people exactly?

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Speaker 1: What does Christmas have to do with that, I.

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Speaker 4: Ye.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, esthetic people do it for like the Instagram photos

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I'm not going to the wedding if

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Speaker 1: obviously not my friend, exactly. Problem solved. Thanks, you just

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Speaker 1: I don't have to buy your stupid dress to go

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Speaker 2: Wait, hold on, I would never kick you out of

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Speaker 1: Never. Well, that's good because it's bound to happen one

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Speaker 2: But it's like you knew what your friend looked like

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Speaker 1: So then I want to know what people's reaction is.

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Speaker 1: Eight five, five, five, nine one three five You can

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Speaker 1: Krystal? Good morning? You heard God? Judge Kiki and Kiki Square?

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Speaker 1: What say you?

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Speaker 7: I say that the bride is crazy just because it

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Speaker 1: that I understand that. I mean, I guess maybe the

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Speaker 1: And I don't know, maybe I don't know how you

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Speaker 7: But it's crazy because they're best friends, and she's still

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Speaker 7: my aunt and still my mom, and they don't talk

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Speaker 7: really to this day.

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Speaker 1: If somebody told me I was too fat to be

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Speaker 1: So I kind of get Yeah, thank you, Chris, So

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Speaker 8: It the petty part, though I like the petty part

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, it's true. Thank you, Chrystal, have

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Speaker 7: Thank you you too.

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Speaker 1: I'd be like I might war your ugly dress either,

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Speaker 1: you know, Elis Hi Lee's hello, Hello Elise. I mean

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Speaker 1: we got to go through this again. You call the radio,

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Speaker 3: Hey, how's it going?

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Speaker 1: Hey Martha, good morning. So Kiki's court basically a woman

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Speaker 1: was uninvited from being from standing in a wedding because

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Speaker 1: she gained weight. Uh, and and she showed up anyway

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 3: So I feel like they're wrong on both parts, right,

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Speaker 3: shouldn't have done that. That's so wrong, And you're absolutely

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Speaker 3: petty if she's going to show up with that dress

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Speaker 3: at the wedding. Here's the other thing, like the Devil's advocate, right,

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Speaker 3: was she related to somebody in the wedding? Like was

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Speaker 3: If she was related in some way, then I could

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Speaker 3: been a total See you next Thursday, come on.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, and way to sense to yourself there. I

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Speaker 1: like that, Marta. Have a good day. Hey, thanks guys,

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Speaker 1: and I'm gonna push the button again. At least, don't

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Speaker 1: don't you make me regret this? Oh? Thank god, Oh,

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Speaker 8: Hi, I'm here.

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Speaker 1: Hi, Oh boy, what do you want to say? Good morning?

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Speaker 8: Welcome, Good morning guys. So I was in a wedding

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Speaker 8: like two years ago, you know so, I mean the

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Speaker 8: I don't think that that should matter.

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Speaker 3: And she knew what she was saying when she asked her,

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Speaker 8: Be a thing. Oh You've got to lose weights of

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Speaker 8: you and my wedding. No, that's not happening.

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry, No, no, I agree. At least, thank you.

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Speaker 8: Have a good day, Yes, love you, good side?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Yeah, I mean, I think that's what it comes

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Speaker 1: so I don't I probably would not only not well,

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Speaker 1: I was uninvited from being in the wedding, but I'm

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Speaker 1: also not going to go to the wedding, Like if

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Speaker 1: then I'm also not going, Like I'm gonna take my

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Speaker 2: Or you could show up and let everybody know just

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Speaker 1: Yeah, take it to hell.

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Speaker 2: You don't want to know which one you do?

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Speaker 1: I well know at least surprising news ever. But the

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Speaker 1: problem is, even if you're in the right to be

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Speaker 1: why do that to yourself? You know, because like now

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Speaker 1: you to begin with. I just don't I don't think

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Speaker 1: for the narrative to be whatever the bride makes it

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Speaker 2: That's true, but you know, the friendship is clearly over,

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Speaker 2: so I might as well get my lick back before

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Speaker 2: I leave. Might as well, you know, get a little

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Speaker 2: every day, Yeah,