1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:04,880 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. 2 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:12,960 Speaker 2: Y'all don't know y'all at all at all, So don't 3 00:00:13,320 --> 00:00:13,920 Speaker 2: given them. 4 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 3: The bus busy listening to show. 5 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 4: I don't joy joy. 6 00:00:58,960 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 5: You got you. 7 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 6: You you gotta turn. 8 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 7: I got to turn the mouth. 9 00:01:42,720 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 6: Turn. 10 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 3: You probably got to turn the mouth to turn out 11 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:47,319 Speaker 3: the water. 12 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:58,880 Speaker 2: The money up? Looking me, come me, come out? 13 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:04,240 Speaker 8: You think that? Uh huh, I sure will A good 14 00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:08,320 Speaker 8: morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, Oh come 15 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 8: on now, digny if you will. One and only Steve 16 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 8: Harvey got a radio show, you know, one of the 17 00:02:15,440 --> 00:02:19,920 Speaker 8: things about being successful. And I was sharing this just 18 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:24,280 Speaker 8: the other day with a young man and he asked me. 19 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 8: He said, hey, man, I just don't see how you. 20 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 1: Get up that early in the morning. 21 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 8: I just don't see how, man, it would kill me 22 00:02:33,720 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 8: to get up this early in the morning. Well, I 23 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:38,640 Speaker 8: sat down and I'm listening to it because it's just 24 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 8: a thousand times I've heard it, you know, And my 25 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 8: life is, you know, not too different from a lot. 26 00:02:44,080 --> 00:02:44,840 Speaker 1: Of people's lives. 27 00:02:44,840 --> 00:02:47,639 Speaker 8: There's a lot of people out there that rise early. 28 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:51,320 Speaker 8: And I just sit there, man, because I mean, first 29 00:02:51,320 --> 00:02:53,959 Speaker 8: of all, I'm grateful to be able to have a job, 30 00:02:54,000 --> 00:02:55,920 Speaker 8: and I'm so grateful to be able to do one 31 00:02:56,400 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 8: and several that I happened to enjoy doing. I mean, 32 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 8: you know it's work and it's difficult at times, but 33 00:03:02,080 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 8: I mean, you know I wanted this. 34 00:03:03,960 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 1: You know you got it. 35 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 8: You know you can't ask God for nothing any give 36 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 8: it to you then be mad that you got it. 37 00:03:08,600 --> 00:03:09,519 Speaker 8: Don't make no sense. 38 00:03:09,840 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 1: You know. 39 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:13,440 Speaker 8: The problem with asking God for stuff is a lot 40 00:03:13,480 --> 00:03:15,360 Speaker 8: of times we ask it for stuff we don't really 41 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:17,799 Speaker 8: know what all it encompasses, what all it really is. 42 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 8: And I ask for this, now along the way, I've 43 00:03:21,040 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 8: gotten far more than I asked for. I want you 44 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:27,639 Speaker 8: to do. Understand that, and you know that's His grace 45 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 8: at work in my life. But I get up early 46 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:33,080 Speaker 8: and I go to work because I do understand something 47 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:36,440 Speaker 8: that it is not walking up to you. Nobody walks 48 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 8: up to people normally and just hand them checks all 49 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 8: the time, and enough checks to sustain your life, and 50 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:45,920 Speaker 8: not only sustain it, but to have a life that 51 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 8: where you could enjoy and do some of the things 52 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 8: you want to do. I don't know the person that 53 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 8: walks out hands out that money just to be doing 54 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 8: it and then with a lifestyle though, where you can 55 00:03:56,680 --> 00:03:59,560 Speaker 8: you know, give your kids a Christmas, you know, take 56 00:03:59,600 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 8: your family. I'm on vacation, you know, a year, once 57 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:04,119 Speaker 8: a year. I don't know nobody passing out to kind 58 00:04:04,120 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 8: of money. So I get up early in the morning 59 00:04:05,800 --> 00:04:08,839 Speaker 8: and I get at it. I was taught to get 60 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 8: up early in the morning by my father because my 61 00:04:12,200 --> 00:04:15,280 Speaker 8: father says, aint, nothing gonna come to you while you 62 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 8: lay in now. And you know what, It's just true, man, 63 00:04:18,920 --> 00:04:21,720 Speaker 8: It's just a little common sense. Look, old people smart, man, 64 00:04:21,720 --> 00:04:23,440 Speaker 8: they've been around a long time. You don't get old. 65 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 8: You know, some old foods out there, but you know 66 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 8: you don't have to deal with them. But old people 67 00:04:27,680 --> 00:04:30,040 Speaker 8: are pretty smart, man. They've learned a lot along the way. 68 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:32,280 Speaker 8: And waking up early and getting out it is one 69 00:04:32,279 --> 00:04:34,839 Speaker 8: of them things. And I ask everybody man to think 70 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 8: about this scenario of your life. If a day has 71 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:41,680 Speaker 8: twenty four hours in it, and let's just say you 72 00:04:41,800 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 8: choose to sleep eight of those hours because they tell 73 00:04:46,000 --> 00:04:50,000 Speaker 8: you need eight hours sleep, so you sleep eight hours. 74 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:53,919 Speaker 8: That's a third of your life asleep already, just a 75 00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 8: third of your life is spent asleep. If you gonna 76 00:04:57,560 --> 00:05:00,599 Speaker 8: do eight hours a day. Now, so let's say you 77 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:03,279 Speaker 8: have a job that you work eight hours and it 78 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:05,160 Speaker 8: is not the job of your dreams. It's not your 79 00:05:05,240 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 8: dream career, your dream profession. It's just the one you took, 80 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:11,520 Speaker 8: like all of us, to get it started. And then, 81 00:05:11,880 --> 00:05:13,640 Speaker 8: like all of us, some of us end up having 82 00:05:13,680 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 8: to stay there because we've created these bills because we 83 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 8: checked and checked. So we can't leave it because we'll 84 00:05:18,720 --> 00:05:21,599 Speaker 8: lose what we've worked for. So let's just say you 85 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:23,359 Speaker 8: got a job that you go to work to for 86 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:27,720 Speaker 8: eight hours. That's another third of your life. That's two 87 00:05:27,839 --> 00:05:30,000 Speaker 8: thirds of your life. Feel how you want to feel 88 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 8: about your two thirds? Well, I like sleep? Okay, cool, 89 00:05:32,800 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 8: there's a scripture about that too. But now you spent 90 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:37,440 Speaker 8: two thirds of your life one on a job you 91 00:05:37,440 --> 00:05:39,760 Speaker 8: don't care for if you're not happy that, or one 92 00:05:39,800 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 8: that just pays the bills, and it's not your dream 93 00:05:41,839 --> 00:05:44,040 Speaker 8: job or career. Another third of your life is sleep. 94 00:05:44,160 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 8: Oh now, let's hold on. Let's talk about the one 95 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 8: hour of preparation that it may take to get to 96 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:53,719 Speaker 8: the job. That's seventeen hours. Let's say your drive time. 97 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,840 Speaker 8: Let's say getting to your job for the average person 98 00:05:57,160 --> 00:06:00,280 Speaker 8: is anywhere between thirty to an hour. That it's an 99 00:06:00,320 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 8: average of what it takes to average person. Now some 100 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 8: people out there hustling way harder than that. But let's 101 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:07,800 Speaker 8: just say your average is an hour getting to work. 102 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:11,360 Speaker 8: You add another hour to that going to work. You've 103 00:06:11,400 --> 00:06:16,400 Speaker 8: now spent eighteen hours out of the twenty four doing 104 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 8: something that's either non productive, you're not happy with, you're 105 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 8: not pleased about. It is not your dream job, it's 106 00:06:23,360 --> 00:06:25,880 Speaker 8: not your dream profession. And rest of the time you sleep. 107 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 8: Eighteen hours. Now you got to come from the job, 108 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 8: so let's just say it's another hour to get back home. 109 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 8: That's nineteen hours. Nineteen hours out of a twenty four 110 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:37,880 Speaker 8: hour day. You now have five hours left in your day. Oh, 111 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 8: you watch TV two hours a day. Okay, excuse me. 112 00:06:40,960 --> 00:06:43,279 Speaker 8: Let's put now you put two hours of TV on 113 00:06:43,360 --> 00:06:45,800 Speaker 8: that you've just spent twenty one. You now have three 114 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:51,719 Speaker 8: hours in the day to do something super productive for 115 00:06:51,800 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 8: the development of yourself and the future of your family 116 00:06:55,480 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 8: and your future as a person and what you can 117 00:06:58,120 --> 00:07:02,719 Speaker 8: provide for your family. Uh Oh, I need to chill, 118 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 8: I need to smoke one. Uh Oh, I needed some 119 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:10,040 Speaker 8: time at Happy seem like all I do is dry 120 00:07:10,160 --> 00:07:12,480 Speaker 8: to work and go to work. I'm gonna go out 121 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:17,120 Speaker 8: with the fellas drink one. Okay, Let's say you spend 122 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 8: two hours at Happy Ill nobody go to a Happy 123 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:21,520 Speaker 8: Hours just for a hour. Let's say you spend two 124 00:07:21,560 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 8: hours at Happy I'll all smoke in all some video 125 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:26,679 Speaker 8: games and let'st dow. That isn't it two hours of smoking, 126 00:07:26,800 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 8: chilling video games. That's twenty three hours of your day gone. 127 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:33,240 Speaker 8: Don't you see how your day slips away from you? 128 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 8: So why would you get up early? You get up 129 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 8: early to get a jump. You get up early to produce, 130 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 8: to plan, to become productive. You get up early in 131 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 8: the morning to care about every single minute of your day. 132 00:07:49,320 --> 00:07:51,760 Speaker 8: You wake up early in the morning because you have 133 00:07:51,880 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 8: a plan, a mission, You have something you want to accomplish. 134 00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 8: The earlier you get up, the more time you have 135 00:07:58,040 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 8: just for you to devote to your plan. You map 136 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 8: it out, you make them, send some emails, whatever it 137 00:08:04,000 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 8: is you need to do to get your dream under way. 138 00:08:07,160 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 8: Then you go get ready. Then you get in your 139 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 8: car and go to work. Then you go to your job, 140 00:08:12,640 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 8: but on your job instead of sitting at your lunch break, 141 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 8: messing around with a bunch of people, laughing and talking 142 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 8: about nothing, playing dominoes. Why don't you take that hour 143 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:24,080 Speaker 8: to do some more research, to send out some more emails, 144 00:08:24,480 --> 00:08:27,000 Speaker 8: to put some feelings out there, to see what can 145 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 8: get you in the place that you want to be. 146 00:08:29,360 --> 00:08:32,319 Speaker 8: Then when you get off, instead of driving straight home, 147 00:08:32,440 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 8: why don't you go somewhere in a meeting, you take 148 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 8: in a session with some people in a positive mental state, 149 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 8: group of people that get together. Network for business, not 150 00:08:41,400 --> 00:08:44,600 Speaker 8: drink at happy hour. I said, network for business. So 151 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:46,839 Speaker 8: after you've done that eight that you don't really care 152 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:50,200 Speaker 8: for on a job, you spend some more time pursuing, 153 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:55,480 Speaker 8: looking into researching, working towards, sending out some more applications, 154 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:58,559 Speaker 8: putting in some more time to build your new app 155 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 8: discussing some more net working ideas. Okay, that's your happy hour. 156 00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 8: Then when you go home, instead of chilling drinking one, 157 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:09,920 Speaker 8: having a cold one, smoking one, playing a video game, 158 00:09:10,160 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 8: why don't you take that two hours and devote that 159 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 8: to that business idea? You got to that family that 160 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 8: you talk about, you really won't spend some time with 161 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 8: your children, put something into them, do something. Man with 162 00:09:22,679 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 8: all these precious hours that God gives all of us 163 00:09:25,720 --> 00:09:28,559 Speaker 8: in the course of a day. Take advantage of every 164 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 8: minute of that. No human being has more than twenty 165 00:09:32,240 --> 00:09:36,280 Speaker 8: four hours a day, including myself. But if you care 166 00:09:36,679 --> 00:09:40,440 Speaker 8: about every single minute of that day, you'll be amazed 167 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 8: at how much you could get accomplished in a twenty 168 00:09:42,960 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 8: four hour day. But you can't get none of that 169 00:09:45,760 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 8: happening because you sleep, and you chilling and you smoking. Okay, 170 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 8: what has that done for you, your family or your future? 171 00:09:55,880 --> 00:09:57,440 Speaker 8: Care about every minute of your day. 172 00:09:57,760 --> 00:09:59,839 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey morning s. 173 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:07,920 Speaker 8: Y'all, ladies and gentlemen, let me have your undivided attention. 174 00:10:08,559 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 8: You know what is just a really really good day today? 175 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:17,840 Speaker 8: It really is. Man, if you could just focus on 176 00:10:17,960 --> 00:10:21,840 Speaker 8: the fact that you are here, that you are willing 177 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:24,839 Speaker 8: and able, if you could get if you could get 178 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:28,560 Speaker 8: your mind wrapped around the fact that how fortunate you 179 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 8: are to be amongst the chosen ones to still be here, 180 00:10:34,520 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 8: realizing that when God wakes you up in the morning, 181 00:10:36,960 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 8: that's aside from him that he ain't through with you yet. Man, 182 00:10:40,480 --> 00:10:42,320 Speaker 8: I'm glad about that. I don't want him to be 183 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:48,560 Speaker 8: through with me. Keep on using me until you use 184 00:10:49,880 --> 00:10:59,080 Speaker 8: me up. My friend day, I don't know what it 185 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 8: just come out of nowhere. Welcome to the ride, y'all 186 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:05,560 Speaker 8: see Lord Morti Show, Shelly Strawberry, Colin Frail, Mississippi, Monica Jr. 187 00:11:05,800 --> 00:11:08,080 Speaker 8: And the legend that is Nephew Thomas Jr. 188 00:11:09,120 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 7: You know what, well, you. 189 00:11:10,320 --> 00:11:12,280 Speaker 9: Said something about music. Have you thought about this. I'm 190 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:14,600 Speaker 9: gonna make this statement. I'm gonna stand by it too, 191 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:18,199 Speaker 9: but uh, I just thought about this. People, Bryson and 192 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:21,199 Speaker 9: Keith Sweat on the same level. I just thought about 193 00:11:21,200 --> 00:11:26,280 Speaker 9: this promise, just thought about it on je People, Brison 194 00:11:26,400 --> 00:11:28,479 Speaker 9: and Keith Sweat on the same level. 195 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:30,880 Speaker 8: As fars You what do you mean when you say 196 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 8: same level, Judy, the same level. 197 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:38,040 Speaker 10: They both had songs vocals. I didn't say who was better. 198 00:11:38,080 --> 00:11:39,200 Speaker 10: I said they're on the same level. 199 00:11:39,679 --> 00:11:42,240 Speaker 8: They both had songs about similarities. 200 00:11:42,880 --> 00:11:46,200 Speaker 10: Yes, they both had songs that was on soundtracks. 201 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 9: Got about the same amount of movies, I mean albums, 202 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:51,080 Speaker 9: same amount album there on the same level. 203 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:52,320 Speaker 10: Because you gotta think about it. 204 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:56,120 Speaker 9: People, Bryson A Whole New World and Keith Sweat telling 205 00:11:56,200 --> 00:11:59,960 Speaker 9: me no in New Jack City and Aladdin, same level, 206 00:12:01,080 --> 00:12:04,439 Speaker 9: same level, I'm telling you. 207 00:12:04,480 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 8: This ain't a question you want to wake up this 208 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:08,320 Speaker 8: morning and Everson, I'm. 209 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:09,439 Speaker 1: Just telling you. Would you agree? 210 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:10,080 Speaker 10: Is what I'm saying. 211 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:14,680 Speaker 1: When you agree, I see, Well, I'm gonna be honest 212 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 1: with you. 213 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:17,200 Speaker 8: You kind of threw me off when you said same level, 214 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 8: because I was trying to figure out what you meant 215 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:21,679 Speaker 8: by that. But you're just saying their similarities. 216 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 9: Well, yeah, I think they they got similar insane but 217 00:12:24,800 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 9: you know, Keith sweat better than people, but they on 218 00:12:27,880 --> 00:12:28,440 Speaker 9: the same Leough. 219 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:30,520 Speaker 8: I just think that. That's what I'm saying. 220 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:31,160 Speaker 1: Would you agree? 221 00:12:31,200 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 8: Sat see see see right there. That's why I thought 222 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:36,760 Speaker 8: you was going with this. But now what you're saying 223 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:40,679 Speaker 8: is offensive. Didn't know what you was talking about when 224 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:43,320 Speaker 8: you started this conversation. Now you don't. 225 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:53,559 Speaker 11: A whole new world there you go telling me no again, saying, God, 226 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 11: you don't see this. 227 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:58,200 Speaker 1: Uh that was a fire jam, don't hear that. 228 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:01,720 Speaker 8: I think Keith Sweat it is one of the coolest 229 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 8: dudes out there, and his longevity is sustaining, his preormans 230 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:11,160 Speaker 8: is out there. He's a cold dude and that is 231 00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:14,680 Speaker 8: my cat keyth Sweat. But do you not think for 232 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:18,760 Speaker 8: one minute that he can out saying people, bryceon, You're 233 00:13:18,760 --> 00:13:21,839 Speaker 8: going to shut your mouth and going going back and 234 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 8: think something to talking about tomorrow, because that ain't what 235 00:13:24,120 --> 00:13:26,719 Speaker 8: you're fitn say on this show and get away with it. 236 00:13:28,640 --> 00:13:35,400 Speaker 8: Tell you Joe seeing their winning five. 237 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:38,720 Speaker 1: Right here, you're. 238 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:41,079 Speaker 12: Coming up in thirty two minutes after the hour, we'll 239 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:43,440 Speaker 12: hear from the nephew as he runs that prank back 240 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:44,719 Speaker 12: right after this. 241 00:13:45,440 --> 00:13:52,640 Speaker 13: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 242 00:13:52,679 --> 00:13:55,840 Speaker 14: This broadcast is sponsored by PayPal. 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Nephew, 252 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:27,480 Speaker 12: what you got for us? 253 00:14:28,280 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 15: This right here is corporal punishment shirt. You understand. Yeah, 254 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:33,840 Speaker 15: it's time, It's time to bring it back. 255 00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:40,200 Speaker 16: Let's go cat dom Oh Hello, hello, Hi, I'm I'm 256 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 16: trying to reach it. 257 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 17: Mister Cotton, mismss Cotton. 258 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 15: Okay, can you turn your radio or TV down? I 259 00:14:46,640 --> 00:14:47,400 Speaker 15: can't really hear you. 260 00:14:47,600 --> 00:14:49,360 Speaker 17: Oh yes, sir, my. 261 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:51,800 Speaker 15: Name is mister Lanson. I'm actually the new principal here 262 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 15: at middle school. 263 00:14:53,520 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 16: And well, what's the name again, mister Lanson. 264 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 17: Mister Lanson? Okay, your your. 265 00:14:58,240 --> 00:15:01,160 Speaker 16: Son he attends school here? Am I correct? 266 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:01,600 Speaker 17: Yes, sir? 267 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:05,080 Speaker 16: Okay, good listen. I'm the new principal here. 268 00:15:05,240 --> 00:15:09,400 Speaker 15: We've just replaced the last principle and I'm actually calling around. 269 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 15: What I've done is when I before I got here, 270 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:15,160 Speaker 15: I asked for a list of students that were you know, 271 00:15:15,240 --> 00:15:17,560 Speaker 15: I'm not going to say problem kids, but you know 272 00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 15: that kind of get themselves in a little trouble here 273 00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 15: and there. 274 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:22,480 Speaker 16: And your son's name happens to be on the list. 275 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 17: Name is on that list. 276 00:15:24,920 --> 00:15:27,920 Speaker 15: Yes, I got about I got about thirty five kids 277 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:31,880 Speaker 15: that are actually on this list, and your son is 278 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 15: actually on the list. 279 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 16: And you are, mister Cotton. 280 00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:37,440 Speaker 17: Correct, I am, mister Cotten. I mean, are you sure 281 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:39,000 Speaker 17: you speaking about my son? 282 00:15:39,080 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 8: Though? 283 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 15: Yeah, I mean there's only there's only one on the list, sir. 284 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:46,120 Speaker 15: I'm I'm it's it's it's what's been given to me. 285 00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:48,080 Speaker 15: And what what I'm doing is calling around to all 286 00:15:48,120 --> 00:15:50,640 Speaker 15: of the parents of the kids that are on this 287 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:53,360 Speaker 15: list and letting you guys know that I'm going to 288 00:15:53,440 --> 00:15:56,400 Speaker 15: be keeping a closed eye on them as well as 289 00:15:56,760 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 15: letting you know that I'm going to be reinstating corporal 290 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 15: punishment here in the school. 291 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 17: So so what's that. 292 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 15: That's actually where if your son gets sent to the office, 293 00:16:06,120 --> 00:16:09,240 Speaker 15: which is my office, then there will be paddling going on. 294 00:16:09,640 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 15: And opposed to I don't believe in I don't believe 295 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:16,120 Speaker 15: in I don't believe in suspension. I believe in, you know, 296 00:16:16,200 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 15: if we spank these kids, we can get them back 297 00:16:18,040 --> 00:16:18,480 Speaker 15: in order. 298 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:22,240 Speaker 16: So, sir, here's my thing. 299 00:16:22,360 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 15: I really truly believe that we get back to to 300 00:16:25,600 --> 00:16:27,160 Speaker 15: you know, and I don't mean what I'm about to 301 00:16:27,160 --> 00:16:29,200 Speaker 15: say to be harsh, but if we get back to beaten, 302 00:16:29,400 --> 00:16:30,880 Speaker 15: we'll get these kids back in order. 303 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 17: I mean, but I know he had troubled in English, 304 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 17: but I don't think that's calls for beaten. 305 00:16:37,760 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 15: No, no, no, this has nothing to do with great sir. 306 00:16:40,400 --> 00:16:42,800 Speaker 15: This has to do with punishment. And what I'm understanding 307 00:16:42,840 --> 00:16:44,880 Speaker 15: is if your son is on my list, and if 308 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 15: your son comes down to my office, I'm going to 309 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:49,200 Speaker 15: take care of it right then and there. 310 00:16:49,560 --> 00:16:51,240 Speaker 17: If my son come to your office, you're gonna be 311 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 17: on my list. 312 00:16:53,400 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 8: Sir. 313 00:16:53,800 --> 00:16:55,720 Speaker 15: I'm trying to get these kids back in order, and 314 00:16:55,760 --> 00:16:57,560 Speaker 15: that's the reason why I've been brought in and I've 315 00:16:57,600 --> 00:17:00,680 Speaker 15: replaced the last principle you understand. So what I need 316 00:17:00,720 --> 00:17:03,000 Speaker 15: from you is to get to get a great understanding 317 00:17:03,000 --> 00:17:05,919 Speaker 15: that if your child comes to my office, corporal punishment 318 00:17:06,040 --> 00:17:07,960 Speaker 15: will be what he's going to deal with. 319 00:17:08,280 --> 00:17:10,760 Speaker 17: Okay, I'll tell you what. Let my son come home 320 00:17:10,960 --> 00:17:13,280 Speaker 17: and tell me he got some corporal punishment, and the 321 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 17: next morning me and You're gonna do some corporal punishment. 322 00:17:15,720 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 15: Sir. Do you want your child in order or do 323 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:19,840 Speaker 15: you want to be bailing his butt out of jail 324 00:17:19,840 --> 00:17:20,679 Speaker 15: at the age of eighteen. 325 00:17:20,760 --> 00:17:22,679 Speaker 17: They gonna be bailing me out of jail if you 326 00:17:22,680 --> 00:17:24,200 Speaker 17: put your hands on my son. 327 00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:27,560 Speaker 16: Okay, are you taking care of your son? Punishment wise? 328 00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:27,960 Speaker 8: At home? 329 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:33,879 Speaker 17: You need to my son don't give you no trouble. Okay. 330 00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:38,000 Speaker 15: Here's the problem, parents not believing that their children get 331 00:17:38,040 --> 00:17:38,760 Speaker 15: in any trouble. 332 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:40,160 Speaker 16: That's the first part. 333 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 17: I got email. I got a phone call. So the 334 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 17: first phone call I get is going straight whipping it. 335 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:48,240 Speaker 17: Ain't no letter sent home, ain't no email sit home 336 00:17:48,280 --> 00:17:49,480 Speaker 17: saying day it's a problem. 337 00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:50,200 Speaker 2: I don't, I don't. 338 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:50,800 Speaker 16: I don't, sir. 339 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:53,600 Speaker 8: I'll you know, I'm gonna come down here. 340 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 15: I'm gonna tell you once again, I am not going 341 00:17:57,560 --> 00:18:00,200 Speaker 15: to send your son to detention. I'm not going to 342 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:03,119 Speaker 15: call you. I'm gonna take care of my job. My 343 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:03,920 Speaker 15: job is to make it. 344 00:18:04,040 --> 00:18:05,600 Speaker 17: I'm gonna take care of mine when you take care 345 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 17: of your. I'm gonna take care of mine. And that's 346 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:10,080 Speaker 17: protect my son and you put your hands on him, 347 00:18:10,080 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 17: and we got a problem. 348 00:18:11,880 --> 00:18:14,879 Speaker 15: We're gonna have a problem because nine time, I'm telling you, 349 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:17,000 Speaker 15: right now, I'm calling you and giving you the warning. 350 00:18:17,160 --> 00:18:18,640 Speaker 16: Your son will be dealt with. 351 00:18:18,720 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 17: And you're gonna be dealt with. 352 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:22,880 Speaker 16: Will be dealt with on a regular basis if needs 353 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:23,080 Speaker 16: to be. 354 00:18:23,440 --> 00:18:25,000 Speaker 17: You're gonna get dealt with on a regular But you're 355 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 17: gonna get tired of seeing me. 356 00:18:26,440 --> 00:18:29,760 Speaker 16: Okay, sir, Do I need to actually have corporal punishment 357 00:18:29,760 --> 00:18:30,000 Speaker 16: with you? 358 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:32,119 Speaker 17: I tell you what, when you when you bring that 359 00:18:32,200 --> 00:18:34,920 Speaker 17: corporal punishment to me, you better have the police there 360 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 17: because they gonna need corporal punishment. They gonna need whatever. 361 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:40,239 Speaker 17: Hell they're gonna need to twat team. When I get 362 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:42,080 Speaker 17: down and you put your hands on my son, I 363 00:18:42,119 --> 00:18:43,240 Speaker 17: know that all them. 364 00:18:43,359 --> 00:18:46,640 Speaker 15: You know what, sir, Maybe maybe maybe the swipper needs 365 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 15: to start with you it. 366 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:50,879 Speaker 17: Matter of fact, what time do you go to lunch? 367 00:18:51,119 --> 00:18:53,480 Speaker 17: We can do this in front of the cafeteria and 368 00:18:53,560 --> 00:18:57,119 Speaker 17: let all the kids see the principal get his corporal punishment. 369 00:18:57,560 --> 00:18:58,560 Speaker 16: Sir, sir, I'm not. 370 00:18:58,600 --> 00:18:58,919 Speaker 2: I'm not. 371 00:18:59,280 --> 00:19:01,080 Speaker 16: I don't I don't fear you, Chrisonal. 372 00:19:01,160 --> 00:19:02,680 Speaker 17: Don't you to feel me because I want you to 373 00:19:02,720 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 17: stand there and take your whip like a man. I 374 00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:06,640 Speaker 17: don't want to chase you're wearing on like no little 375 00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:08,040 Speaker 17: ground in school, sir. 376 00:19:07,960 --> 00:19:11,680 Speaker 15: Sir, sir, The bottom line is corporal punishment is being instated. 377 00:19:11,960 --> 00:19:14,159 Speaker 15: Your son is gonna abide by it. You're gonna have 378 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:15,840 Speaker 15: to accept it. Or maybe maybe you need to. 379 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:16,639 Speaker 18: Tell you what you say. 380 00:19:16,680 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 17: You got thirty five names on your list, it better 381 00:19:18,560 --> 00:19:21,240 Speaker 17: be thirty focus God name better not be on no 382 00:19:21,680 --> 00:19:23,880 Speaker 17: corporal punishment list. I know that, sir, Sir. 383 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:27,480 Speaker 15: Listen, He's not on a corporal punishment list. He's on 384 00:19:27,520 --> 00:19:29,680 Speaker 15: a list of kid of kids that act up from. 385 00:19:29,600 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 16: Time to time. 386 00:19:30,920 --> 00:19:33,600 Speaker 17: Don't act up. My son is a model student. He 387 00:19:33,680 --> 00:19:36,119 Speaker 17: got a little trouble with English, you know, because his 388 00:19:36,200 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 17: mama a little slow. But that's my dad. I did that. 389 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:39,879 Speaker 17: You know what I'm saying. 390 00:19:39,920 --> 00:19:42,040 Speaker 16: You know what, Sometimes I feel like I'm talking to 391 00:19:42,040 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 16: the child right now. 392 00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:46,000 Speaker 17: You're talking to a grown man. And if you put 393 00:19:46,000 --> 00:19:47,720 Speaker 17: your hands on my son, you're gonna see that I'm 394 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 17: a grown may line them up, sistant, principal, Principal, I 395 00:19:51,400 --> 00:19:54,360 Speaker 17: kick the cabeci lator, so I come down. Then if 396 00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 17: she got something to. 397 00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:57,399 Speaker 15: Say, you're gonna watch your tone. You understand me, and 398 00:19:57,440 --> 00:20:00,880 Speaker 15: you're gonna you're gonna take what I'm telling you. Yeah, man, 399 00:20:01,800 --> 00:20:03,119 Speaker 15: I don't care what you're saying. 400 00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:06,200 Speaker 16: Everybody's gonna bide. I put chains on the door. 401 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:10,440 Speaker 17: I make sure Joe Klopp putting change on your name 402 00:20:10,480 --> 00:20:12,200 Speaker 17: with Lance you Joe Klopp. 403 00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:15,120 Speaker 15: I'm mister Lanson, and these kids are gonna abide by 404 00:20:15,160 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 15: what I want, and so are the parents. And you, 405 00:20:17,920 --> 00:20:20,680 Speaker 15: mister Cotton, you're gonna have to toughen up and let 406 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:21,440 Speaker 15: me do my job. 407 00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:23,240 Speaker 17: I tell you what. Then you're gonna do what you 408 00:20:23,359 --> 00:20:25,359 Speaker 17: got to do today. But when I get down there, 409 00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:27,720 Speaker 17: you better have a police when I get. 410 00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 16: There, I tell you who else I'm gonna have here. 411 00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:31,680 Speaker 15: You tell me who you gonna have down there is 412 00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:35,600 Speaker 15: I'm gonna have Nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Mornings Show, 413 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:37,040 Speaker 15: because that's who I am. 414 00:20:37,400 --> 00:20:40,840 Speaker 16: Your coworker. Silver, You've got me the prey phone. Call 415 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:42,960 Speaker 16: you what. 416 00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:54,199 Speaker 17: I'm gonna tell you what. I'm gonna break down at 417 00:20:54,200 --> 00:21:08,320 Speaker 17: the job kids. 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Coming up at the 435 00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:10,600 Speaker 1: top of the hour. 436 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:15,000 Speaker 12: In entertainment news, the last standing plantation in the South 437 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:18,879 Speaker 12: is reduced to ashes after burning three hours. 438 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:21,760 Speaker 1: Okay, had about enough of that. 439 00:22:22,800 --> 00:22:25,560 Speaker 12: The attorney for the four women that accused Smokey Robinson 440 00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:28,800 Speaker 12: of sexual assault have issued a statement, and a lot 441 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:32,159 Speaker 12: of Chris Brown fans are upset because he's in jail 442 00:22:32,440 --> 00:22:35,600 Speaker 12: in London. And that's all coming up at the top 443 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:38,399 Speaker 12: of the hour. But right now it's time to ask 444 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:44,240 Speaker 12: the clo. This is from Avery and Longview. Avery writes, 445 00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:46,800 Speaker 12: I'm having second thoughts about taking my girlfriend to my 446 00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:47,840 Speaker 12: family reunion. 447 00:22:48,160 --> 00:22:50,040 Speaker 1: She was raised to speak. 448 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:53,919 Speaker 12: Her mind and that her opinion matters. My parents, aunts 449 00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:57,200 Speaker 12: and uncles don't play that. How do I uninvite her 450 00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:59,960 Speaker 12: and tell her it's for her own good? 451 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:03,159 Speaker 8: No, no, no, See, sometimes you got to take people. 452 00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:07,520 Speaker 8: Sometimes you just got to take people. Sometimes it's better 453 00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:10,280 Speaker 8: to show them than to tell them that you how 454 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:12,720 Speaker 8: you was raised to speak your own mind and your 455 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:16,119 Speaker 8: and your opinion matters and all that beautiful. But listen, 456 00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:20,000 Speaker 8: and the words of my father in law. Just because 457 00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:23,639 Speaker 8: you can do something don't mean you should do something. 458 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 8: And you got to learn that lesson. And I think 459 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:28,880 Speaker 8: now it's a good time for her to learn that. 460 00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:33,879 Speaker 8: Take her to your family reunion, because all black people 461 00:23:34,000 --> 00:23:36,359 Speaker 8: got a way of making you feel real. 462 00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:46,440 Speaker 1: Stink right quickly with his family, just arguing please take 463 00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:49,640 Speaker 1: her and us back. 464 00:23:50,600 --> 00:23:54,359 Speaker 12: Yeah, all right? Coming up next, it is Nia in 465 00:23:54,480 --> 00:24:00,000 Speaker 12: Southfield and Nea Rights. My husband has developed a stench. Lately, 466 00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:04,480 Speaker 12: he showers before bedtime and by early morning when we're 467 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:08,600 Speaker 12: having sex, the sweaty smell is back is strong, and 468 00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:10,880 Speaker 12: he acts like he can't smell it should I would 469 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:13,359 Speaker 12: hold sex until he stops stinking up the place. 470 00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:17,280 Speaker 8: Wow, well you gotta find out what the cause is. 471 00:24:17,840 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 8: You and your wife's a wives know he has developed 472 00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:28,199 Speaker 8: a stitch. Now that's different from stink al it's the 473 00:24:28,280 --> 00:24:31,600 Speaker 8: three smell. It's the three esses. You have a smell, 474 00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:38,200 Speaker 8: you have a stink, and you have a stitch he 475 00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:43,040 Speaker 8: is he is. Stitch is like a third degree burn. 476 00:24:44,160 --> 00:24:46,679 Speaker 8: You know you can put your hand on said water hot, 477 00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:48,360 Speaker 8: then you put over there. 478 00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:49,159 Speaker 2: Oh you burn me? 479 00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:55,040 Speaker 8: Oh now, third degree burn ain't no third degree burn. 480 00:24:55,440 --> 00:25:01,600 Speaker 8: You gotta go somewhere emergency care thirty to be burned. 481 00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 8: You gotta go, you gotta go somewhere. You got to 482 00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:07,400 Speaker 8: go find out what has caused a stitch. 483 00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:11,200 Speaker 1: But he's showering. That's not it. 484 00:25:11,320 --> 00:25:16,200 Speaker 8: Huh, well he's but we lay down. It's something he eating. Now, 485 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:20,359 Speaker 8: it's something he eating. 486 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,000 Speaker 19: What what could cause a stench? 487 00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:26,159 Speaker 8: Well, I in my life, I know several foods that 488 00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:29,960 Speaker 8: can cause a stitch. Okay, what Chittling's is the number 489 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:38,359 Speaker 8: one predator stitch call what you can do that because 490 00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,080 Speaker 8: they got them already clean and you can freeze them 491 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:43,800 Speaker 8: or so it's people out there still doing that. Here's 492 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:46,280 Speaker 8: another food that can cause a stitch, and people are 493 00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:51,159 Speaker 8: very unawareinness spam. Spam can cause a stitch. If you 494 00:25:51,240 --> 00:25:53,720 Speaker 8: eat enough of it late at night, wrong time, you 495 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:55,919 Speaker 8: can wake up in the morning and smell like you 496 00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:56,880 Speaker 8: ain't something that died. 497 00:25:57,560 --> 00:26:00,359 Speaker 1: Those are the two that come to mind right away. 498 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:06,040 Speaker 8: All right, Well, that it causes a stitch if you 499 00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:10,560 Speaker 8: are Muslim. If you're Muslim and you wasn't and accidentally 500 00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:13,159 Speaker 8: ate some pork, they not gonna do well on that. 501 00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:16,480 Speaker 8: I'm just gonna tell you that right now. They're not 502 00:26:16,520 --> 00:26:20,080 Speaker 8: gonna do well on that. I avoid that at all costs, 503 00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:23,399 Speaker 8: you know, and because I have so many Muslim friends now, 504 00:26:23,440 --> 00:26:26,920 Speaker 8: it's actually made me rethink the whole thing with pork. 505 00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:32,320 Speaker 8: So I've eraised that from my diet, except for barbecue, 506 00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:36,719 Speaker 8: because barbecue, once you put reebs on an open flame 507 00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:40,119 Speaker 8: over charcoal, it removes all pork properties. 508 00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:46,320 Speaker 12: Okay, I'm moving on to Cheyenne in Santa Monica. Cheyenne writes, 509 00:26:46,400 --> 00:26:48,600 Speaker 12: I was sitting in the parking lot at the mall 510 00:26:49,000 --> 00:26:51,159 Speaker 12: and I watched a couple get in the backseat of 511 00:26:51,160 --> 00:26:54,680 Speaker 12: a car and have sex. I FaceTime my husband while 512 00:26:54,720 --> 00:26:57,240 Speaker 12: I watched them have sex. He said that we should 513 00:26:57,280 --> 00:27:01,040 Speaker 12: try it. We're both fifty three? Are we too old 514 00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:01,600 Speaker 12: to do it? 515 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,120 Speaker 8: No, get on back there. But now let me tell 516 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:07,879 Speaker 8: you something. You probably didn't feel. You didn't probably didn't 517 00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:10,720 Speaker 8: feel getting back out that back seat. Now you should 518 00:27:10,760 --> 00:27:14,880 Speaker 8: have completed the process, and then you need to need 519 00:27:14,920 --> 00:27:16,760 Speaker 8: to take into consideration how old are now. 520 00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:18,159 Speaker 1: Y'all can go back there, You can get in the 521 00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:19,200 Speaker 1: back See, you could do it. 522 00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,880 Speaker 8: But I'm telling you right now, somebody, I'm just gonna 523 00:27:22,880 --> 00:27:24,480 Speaker 8: tell you, somebody gonna get hurt. 524 00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:25,879 Speaker 20: You. 525 00:27:27,920 --> 00:27:30,880 Speaker 1: It's gonna be an injury. 526 00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:39,000 Speaker 12: Some sort of injury. All right, so you are you're 527 00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:41,920 Speaker 12: saying they are too old to do it, then no, 528 00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:43,320 Speaker 12: you ain't too old to do it. 529 00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:49,280 Speaker 8: You just gotta understand it's gonna come with a cost. Listen, y'all. Look, 530 00:27:49,359 --> 00:27:53,000 Speaker 8: you can do anything at any age, but there's a 531 00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:57,840 Speaker 8: cost factor that has to be factored in. You cannot 532 00:27:57,880 --> 00:28:00,480 Speaker 8: assume that you could just do anything and you want 533 00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:01,800 Speaker 8: to do because you used to do it. 534 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:03,520 Speaker 1: Yeah. 535 00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:05,680 Speaker 8: Me and my wife was in the backyard last year 536 00:28:05,840 --> 00:28:10,399 Speaker 8: shooting baskets. It had rained, so the net shrunk a 537 00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:14,000 Speaker 8: little bit. So she shot the ball and it went 538 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:17,480 Speaker 8: through the net, but it didn't come down. She said, Steve, 539 00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:20,920 Speaker 8: get the ball the first attempt, because I hadn't done 540 00:28:20,920 --> 00:28:22,639 Speaker 8: that in a long time. I didn't even get to 541 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:25,400 Speaker 8: the net. And then she said, oh you can't get 542 00:28:25,400 --> 00:28:28,080 Speaker 8: it down. We'll get one of the work somebody, uh 543 00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:31,159 Speaker 8: any down. My egos involved, Oh, of course, So I 544 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:34,199 Speaker 8: go back, gathered myself, went over there and jumped and 545 00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,520 Speaker 8: hit the ball, knocked it out the net. She said, wow, 546 00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:41,000 Speaker 8: you can still get up there now. When I came down, 547 00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:44,360 Speaker 8: you all seen that old black man on it. Old 548 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:45,680 Speaker 8: man I turned him down. 549 00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:47,600 Speaker 1: That was me. 550 00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:53,400 Speaker 8: When I came down, that was me, and I went 551 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:56,120 Speaker 8: in the house after one basket and I paid. 552 00:28:56,160 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 1: They've been back out there since. 553 00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:00,000 Speaker 16: You don't even go out there. 554 00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:02,720 Speaker 8: I went, don't get my golf clubs, Gonna do what 555 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:03,200 Speaker 8: I could do. 556 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:12,120 Speaker 12: A great story, Steve, Yeah, all right. Moving on toes 557 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 12: in the Bronx is the last one. Steve Jess writes, 558 00:29:16,520 --> 00:29:19,479 Speaker 12: My boyfriend had a bag of gummies by his bed. 559 00:29:19,920 --> 00:29:23,280 Speaker 12: I ate two and didn't know they were edibles. My 560 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:27,200 Speaker 12: boyfriend was not concerned that I mistakenly took drugs. He 561 00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:30,520 Speaker 12: was only mad that I ate them without asking him. 562 00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:34,160 Speaker 12: Is this a sign that he's not for me? Is 563 00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:34,840 Speaker 12: this a sign? 564 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:38,280 Speaker 8: But see, had you asked him first, he would have 565 00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:42,280 Speaker 8: had the ability to tell you, Hey, the main just gummies. 566 00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:42,520 Speaker 12: Now. 567 00:29:43,440 --> 00:29:47,200 Speaker 8: So now he's right for being mad at you because 568 00:29:47,240 --> 00:29:50,400 Speaker 8: this could have gone sideways. I think you taking it 569 00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:53,160 Speaker 8: wrong in that he mad in me for not asking. 570 00:29:53,480 --> 00:29:55,480 Speaker 8: But I think you got to look how men think. 571 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:58,920 Speaker 8: Damn baby, why an't you ask me first? It could 572 00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:01,880 Speaker 8: have saved you the problem had you asked him so 573 00:30:01,960 --> 00:30:04,160 Speaker 8: quick thinking that is he not right for me? Because 574 00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:06,600 Speaker 8: he left a gummy. Why are you eating stuff you 575 00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:07,760 Speaker 8: don't know where it come from? 576 00:30:08,120 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 19: Right? 577 00:30:08,720 --> 00:30:11,240 Speaker 1: Does? Don't you know snack food at night? Gummies? 578 00:30:12,400 --> 00:30:12,640 Speaker 7: Really? 579 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:13,520 Speaker 1: To her? 580 00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 8: You have let me ask you, ques you ever had 581 00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:17,520 Speaker 8: a gummy at night before you went to be? 582 00:30:18,320 --> 00:30:21,480 Speaker 1: No? Hello? And I want the sugar in my teeth? 583 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:21,840 Speaker 1: All right? 584 00:30:22,600 --> 00:30:24,720 Speaker 12: Coming up at the top of the hour, Thank you, clo. 585 00:30:24,840 --> 00:30:27,480 Speaker 12: We'll have some entertainment news for you right after this. 586 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:36,600 Speaker 12: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. The raging fire that 587 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:40,080 Speaker 12: totally destroyed the former fifty three thousand square foot not 588 00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:45,760 Speaker 12: Away Plantation in Whitecastle, Louisiana burned for nearly forty hours 589 00:30:45,840 --> 00:30:50,240 Speaker 12: last week as onlookers took videos and celebrated as it 590 00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 12: burned to the ground. The massive Antebellum mistate was the 591 00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:58,720 Speaker 12: site of atrocious crins against enslaved black people from many 592 00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:02,680 Speaker 12: generations to work the land and were tortured, raped, and 593 00:31:02,880 --> 00:31:06,240 Speaker 12: mutilated there, and an effort to erase the history of 594 00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 12: the Nottaway plantation. In recent years, it was rebranded as 595 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 12: a museum, then a wedding venue and a tourist attraction. 596 00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:18,520 Speaker 12: Louisiana Fire marshals are still investigating the source of the fire. 597 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 12: But it is safe to say that many many. 598 00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:25,400 Speaker 1: People do not care. They're just glad it's finally gone 599 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:26,400 Speaker 1: so much. 600 00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:30,560 Speaker 8: You know, man, what I used to drive when in 601 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:34,560 Speaker 8: the South, when I was performing. I remember driving one 602 00:31:34,640 --> 00:31:38,320 Speaker 8: time and I saw billboard I don't remember where said 603 00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:45,400 Speaker 8: come visit the Whitley Plantation. And I'm soaking. I was 604 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:49,440 Speaker 8: so mad, man, because I'm going you know, the audacity 605 00:31:49,440 --> 00:31:53,840 Speaker 8: of these people to turn these places that caused so 606 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:57,800 Speaker 8: much pain and deprivation and turn it into it. It's 607 00:31:57,800 --> 00:31:59,640 Speaker 8: a money more world. We used to make money on 608 00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:01,960 Speaker 8: it when they were slaves. Let's make money on it now. 609 00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:07,040 Speaker 8: Come visit the Whitney Plantation. We visit your plantation, man, right? 610 00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:09,480 Speaker 14: And did you give money to the descendants of the 611 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,440 Speaker 14: slaves that worked at the plantation? 612 00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:15,120 Speaker 1: Oh? Please? What you know? They did not know. 613 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:21,000 Speaker 8: Do African Americans deserve represent reparations one thousand percent? 614 00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:21,400 Speaker 12: Yes? 615 00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:25,880 Speaker 8: Will we ever get a dollar? One thousand percent? We 616 00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:29,440 Speaker 8: will get not a coin, not a that's a fight 617 00:32:29,600 --> 00:32:30,360 Speaker 8: three period. 618 00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:30,800 Speaker 1: Yeah. 619 00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:35,000 Speaker 8: Well they don't even want to do that, they they ye, man, 620 00:32:35,080 --> 00:32:35,960 Speaker 8: let Longe pay you. 621 00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:38,040 Speaker 1: Well, I don't see. 622 00:32:37,880 --> 00:32:42,040 Speaker 8: Hard We're gonna find out. That's the old what was 623 00:32:42,040 --> 00:32:47,880 Speaker 8: that that old senator. I don't see how we're going 624 00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:54,000 Speaker 8: to have tractor track. I rack just get it to us. 625 00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:58,120 Speaker 8: We're trying, but you know. 626 00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:01,320 Speaker 1: Not everything else. But you can't see that that part. 627 00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:03,960 Speaker 8: I would support it, but I just I think it's 628 00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:06,080 Speaker 8: a dead I think it's a dead fight. 629 00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:07,720 Speaker 1: I really do. 630 00:33:08,360 --> 00:33:11,800 Speaker 8: I can't imagine this country doing that, writing a check 631 00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:13,800 Speaker 8: for their wrongs when they don't. 632 00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:14,880 Speaker 1: They won't. 633 00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:16,480 Speaker 8: First of all, you gotta admit to the room. 634 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:18,719 Speaker 12: I was going to say them that would make them guilty. 635 00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:20,880 Speaker 12: They would have to admit. That would mean they really 636 00:33:20,920 --> 00:33:21,240 Speaker 12: did this. 637 00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:22,520 Speaker 1: All right? 638 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:27,320 Speaker 12: Moving on, Well, in case you forgot about the sexual 639 00:33:27,400 --> 00:33:30,840 Speaker 12: assault lawsuit against Smokey Robinson, here's what we know so far. 640 00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 12: The four women that have accused Smoking of years of 641 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,600 Speaker 12: abuse while working at his residence are seeking fifty million 642 00:33:36,640 --> 00:33:40,160 Speaker 12: dollars in damages now. According to the lady's attorney, all 643 00:33:40,240 --> 00:33:44,040 Speaker 12: four women are Hispanic, all were undocumented at the time, 644 00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:47,840 Speaker 12: and all were allegedly paid under minimum wage while they 645 00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:51,600 Speaker 12: were being sexually assaulted, and they were threatened with deportation. 646 00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:56,040 Speaker 12: These factors reportedly kept the ladies from coming forward sooner. 647 00:33:56,400 --> 00:34:00,800 Speaker 12: Smokey Robinson's attorney meanwhile, call the lawsuit a spread attempt 648 00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 12: to prejudice public opinion and manufactured attempt on Smokey's reputation. 649 00:34:06,720 --> 00:34:09,520 Speaker 12: He expressed confidence that a full review of the facts 650 00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:12,759 Speaker 12: will clear the Smokey Robinson's name. So there you go, 651 00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:14,359 Speaker 12: clear Smokey Robinson's name. 652 00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:16,160 Speaker 16: That's what. 653 00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:21,720 Speaker 8: You know in stories like this. Because you're a public figure, 654 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:31,880 Speaker 8: you cannot say what you think. But I have a question. Okay, 655 00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:36,040 Speaker 8: if you ask me, knowing Smoking Robinson the way I 656 00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:40,279 Speaker 8: do and as long as I've known him, does this 657 00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:45,480 Speaker 8: sound believable to you? And I will say no, it 658 00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:48,640 Speaker 8: doesn't sound believable to me as the person that I've 659 00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:51,360 Speaker 8: sat down and talked with many times and just the 660 00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:56,480 Speaker 8: spirit of him as a person. But let's hypothetically say 661 00:34:56,520 --> 00:34:58,399 Speaker 8: he gets cleared, and let me see that comes out 662 00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:01,440 Speaker 8: proof that there is a like a extortion or blackmail 663 00:35:01,520 --> 00:35:05,759 Speaker 8: or whatever you won't call it. What happens then? Do 664 00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:09,440 Speaker 8: the people who bought the charges they did they go home? 665 00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:13,880 Speaker 8: Did they just oh, well, I tried, That's that's what happened, 666 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:14,080 Speaker 8: you know. 667 00:35:14,160 --> 00:35:17,160 Speaker 1: The answers to that, yeah, yeah. 668 00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:20,680 Speaker 8: So I've learned how now to form what I'm thinking 669 00:35:20,719 --> 00:35:24,439 Speaker 8: in the form of hypothetical questions. That way, Steve ain't 670 00:35:24,480 --> 00:35:25,040 Speaker 8: on the hook. 671 00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:29,640 Speaker 1: All right, all right, we're gonna move on now. 672 00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:32,960 Speaker 12: Finally, Chris Brown's fans are in an uproar because his 673 00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:37,600 Speaker 12: tour is stalled. Right now, Chris is behind bars in London. 674 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:41,040 Speaker 12: Chris has arrested him from an altercation back in twenty 675 00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:44,120 Speaker 12: twenty three with a promoter in London. Chris was accused 676 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:47,040 Speaker 12: of assaulting the promoter and there was an arrest of 677 00:35:47,120 --> 00:35:51,840 Speaker 12: warrant for his arrest. When Chris stepped stepped foot back 678 00:35:51,920 --> 00:35:54,880 Speaker 12: in the UK for his tour, he was arrested. A 679 00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:59,879 Speaker 12: London judge ordered that Chris remain in custody until June thirteenth, 680 00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:01,360 Speaker 12: when his next court. 681 00:36:01,160 --> 00:36:04,279 Speaker 1: Hearing is scheduled. Yeah, his tour. 682 00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:06,960 Speaker 12: Chris's tour is scheduled to kick off June eighth in 683 00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:09,279 Speaker 12: the Netherlands, So it looks like he will not make 684 00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:12,560 Speaker 12: that opening Yeah, June thirteenth. 685 00:36:12,920 --> 00:36:14,120 Speaker 19: Yeah, June thirteenth. 686 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:15,879 Speaker 16: That's to Marlboro pretty much. 687 00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:17,840 Speaker 1: That's crazy. 688 00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:20,680 Speaker 8: Yeah, But hey man, first of all, it's hard to 689 00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:23,160 Speaker 8: be in jail over out of town. 690 00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:26,200 Speaker 1: That's really hard. But let me say this to money. 691 00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:31,280 Speaker 8: Yeah, Chris has Chris gonna have to make some changes 692 00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:36,240 Speaker 8: in his team cause his lawyers and his people don't 693 00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:39,480 Speaker 8: know that there's a warrant out for your rest in 694 00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:42,160 Speaker 8: another country. And then let this young cat get on 695 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:44,399 Speaker 8: this plane and step off the place, because he would 696 00:36:44,400 --> 00:36:48,600 Speaker 8: have never went right. Yeah, So that's just somebody man 697 00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:52,440 Speaker 8: just signing, signing for money, and one of his lawyers 698 00:36:52,440 --> 00:36:55,480 Speaker 8: men should have known this. It's no way that they 699 00:36:55,520 --> 00:36:57,600 Speaker 8: didn't get a notice about this somewhere. 700 00:36:58,160 --> 00:37:01,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we got jail in New Orleans. 701 00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:03,120 Speaker 8: He could have broke up with their other dasses. 702 00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:07,640 Speaker 12: Uh, coming up twenty minutes after the hour, something called. 703 00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:20,279 Speaker 13: I'm back right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning. 704 00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:28,800 Speaker 8: Show, folks, there are a lot of reasons to like Hyundai. 705 00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:32,839 Speaker 8: Hyundai's done a lot to support American consulers. I mean, 706 00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:36,799 Speaker 8: they announced their investment of twenty one billion dollars in 707 00:37:36,800 --> 00:37:39,359 Speaker 8: the United States over the next three years that will 708 00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:42,880 Speaker 8: expand manufacturing and create more jobs for Americans. 709 00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:45,600 Speaker 15: And they just announced that they will not be raising 710 00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:49,719 Speaker 15: MSRP through June second, no matter what. Called five six 711 00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:53,960 Speaker 15: two three one four four six zero three for more details. 712 00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:57,240 Speaker 12: All right, So have you guys heard of broken heart 713 00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:00,759 Speaker 12: syndrome the American Heart Association. 714 00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:02,480 Speaker 19: Anybody, No, you. 715 00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:04,560 Speaker 1: Guys haven't heard broken are syndrome. 716 00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:08,400 Speaker 12: Yes, called broken heart syndrome, the American Heart broke syndrome. 717 00:38:10,480 --> 00:38:14,280 Speaker 12: I've heard of the song brokey all right. The American 718 00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:17,719 Speaker 12: Heart Association confirmed that it is a real thing and 719 00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:21,600 Speaker 12: that men men are more than twice as likely to 720 00:38:21,760 --> 00:38:25,960 Speaker 12: die from broken heart syndrome than women. It's a condition 721 00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:28,759 Speaker 12: that mimics a heart attack and is triggered by deep 722 00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:33,560 Speaker 12: emotional and or physical stress. According to the experts, broken 723 00:38:33,600 --> 00:38:36,839 Speaker 12: heart syndrome is more common in women, but when men 724 00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:41,520 Speaker 12: do experience it, their chances of survival drop significantly. 725 00:38:41,920 --> 00:38:42,920 Speaker 1: The American Heart. 726 00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:47,200 Speaker 12: Association's research analyzed hospital data from two one hundred thousand 727 00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:50,800 Speaker 12: adults in the US between twenty sixteen and twenty twenty 728 00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:54,919 Speaker 12: and found a significantly higher rate of deaths among men. 729 00:38:55,480 --> 00:38:59,239 Speaker 12: As research continues, one thing is clear. Heartbreak is serious 730 00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:02,920 Speaker 12: and for men, men, it can be deadly. Who knew this, 731 00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:04,640 Speaker 12: I've never heard of this before. 732 00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:07,680 Speaker 1: My father died from that. 733 00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:09,719 Speaker 19: From broken heart syndrome. 734 00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:12,880 Speaker 8: Yeah, because there was nothing wrong with my father, and 735 00:39:13,719 --> 00:39:17,600 Speaker 8: the doctor was saying he constantly just talks about missing 736 00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:21,279 Speaker 8: your mother, my father said. One time, he said, well, 737 00:39:22,360 --> 00:39:24,320 Speaker 8: I guess I'll just go on and see your mama. 738 00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:28,279 Speaker 8: It ain't nothing down here without her. He said that 739 00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:31,800 Speaker 8: all the time I watched my father die from broken 740 00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:33,319 Speaker 8: hard Man, that's real. 741 00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:34,560 Speaker 1: That is really real. 742 00:39:34,960 --> 00:39:38,520 Speaker 8: Sixty four years and he just said. And I used 743 00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:40,640 Speaker 8: to take my little boy winting over there all the time, 744 00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:41,600 Speaker 8: just to cheer him up. 745 00:39:41,920 --> 00:39:42,320 Speaker 1: He didn't. 746 00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:45,839 Speaker 8: He'll say, well, I guess I'll hang around in Here'll 747 00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:47,319 Speaker 8: see what little bullet gonna be. 748 00:39:47,760 --> 00:39:50,000 Speaker 19: He's called bullet bullet. 749 00:39:50,360 --> 00:39:52,000 Speaker 1: I see what little bullet gonna be. 750 00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:55,120 Speaker 8: And then every now and then I said, Pap, how 751 00:39:55,160 --> 00:39:58,520 Speaker 8: you doing, Oh boy, I will go on and see 752 00:39:58,560 --> 00:39:59,040 Speaker 8: your mama. 753 00:39:59,120 --> 00:40:02,520 Speaker 1: Man, they say nothing down here. Wow. 754 00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:06,040 Speaker 8: I saw it firsthand. 755 00:40:07,040 --> 00:40:11,239 Speaker 12: Broken heart syndrome. It's the real thing, according to the 756 00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:12,680 Speaker 12: American Heart Association. 757 00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:14,919 Speaker 7: Wow. 758 00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:18,239 Speaker 12: I remember my aunt saying that when my uncle passed away, 759 00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:20,000 Speaker 12: she said, he died of a broken heart. 760 00:40:20,400 --> 00:40:22,560 Speaker 1: But you know what we had. 761 00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:26,680 Speaker 12: I have heard that women are stronger mentally, and women 762 00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:30,480 Speaker 12: and men are stronger physically. So things that you know 763 00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:33,719 Speaker 12: hurt men don't hurt us us as much. 764 00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:34,920 Speaker 16: I have heard. 765 00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:38,600 Speaker 9: There are any stats on the n SS syndrome. Any 766 00:40:38,680 --> 00:40:39,319 Speaker 9: stats on that? 767 00:40:40,160 --> 00:40:41,960 Speaker 1: We're talking about broken heart syndrome. 768 00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:46,200 Speaker 9: No, No, I'm talking about what's no sex syndrome? Is there 769 00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:49,120 Speaker 9: any stats on that? Because you're about to die, because 770 00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:51,520 Speaker 9: I'm about to I'm about to go. 771 00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:54,440 Speaker 2: Really, I just need to. 772 00:40:54,400 --> 00:40:55,719 Speaker 10: Know what's the stats on that? 773 00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:58,160 Speaker 1: Is it's science? 774 00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:00,319 Speaker 10: Blood pressure one fifty over one? 775 00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:00,640 Speaker 7: What is it? 776 00:41:00,680 --> 00:41:01,400 Speaker 1: What's the status? 777 00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:04,200 Speaker 8: I'm guaranteeing you right now. 778 00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:09,160 Speaker 12: I'm there going out my way, coming up at thirty 779 00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:13,000 Speaker 12: four minutes after the nephew has something on his mind? 780 00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:20,160 Speaker 12: Oh lord, right after this you're listening hard morning show. 781 00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:28,600 Speaker 12: All right, as promised the nephew, or as Warren I 782 00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:31,200 Speaker 12: should say, the nephew has something on his mind. 783 00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:32,720 Speaker 1: What do you have, nephew. 784 00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:35,440 Speaker 16: That's a little sum sum Shirley. You know, I'm. 785 00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:39,640 Speaker 15: Just I'm trying to open up another business. I'm trying 786 00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:41,720 Speaker 15: to figure out what kind of business can I open 787 00:41:42,320 --> 00:41:45,239 Speaker 15: you know that'll be successful, have some longevity to it, 788 00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,120 Speaker 15: you know, I really I want to open up something 789 00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:49,520 Speaker 15: I know people are gonna love, people gonna come out 790 00:41:50,120 --> 00:41:52,040 Speaker 15: and uh and it's just you know, I can open 791 00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:55,160 Speaker 15: up a chain all across you know, the US. If 792 00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:57,520 Speaker 15: it's possible. So I'm I got a few things I 793 00:41:57,600 --> 00:41:59,799 Speaker 15: want to bounce off of y'all. Yeah, and I just 794 00:41:59,800 --> 00:42:01,880 Speaker 15: want y'all to tell me what y'all think. You know, 795 00:42:01,920 --> 00:42:02,719 Speaker 15: what do y'all think? 796 00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:03,120 Speaker 8: I got it? 797 00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:04,480 Speaker 1: I got a good idea right here. 798 00:42:04,680 --> 00:42:06,440 Speaker 15: Now, this was gonna be a little part fitched this 799 00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:09,799 Speaker 15: first one now, but you know it could it could. 800 00:42:09,960 --> 00:42:13,800 Speaker 15: It could save people at the same time. Uh, magic 801 00:42:13,960 --> 00:42:16,719 Speaker 15: City Gospel shirt. What y'all think about that? Is that 802 00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:18,920 Speaker 15: something that you know. 803 00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:20,839 Speaker 1: When you you're going straight to hell? 804 00:42:21,400 --> 00:42:21,640 Speaker 18: Yeah? 805 00:42:21,880 --> 00:42:26,319 Speaker 16: You played too much, y'all don't see that? 806 00:42:26,600 --> 00:42:26,680 Speaker 17: Like? 807 00:42:31,880 --> 00:42:34,080 Speaker 8: All right, I got an idea. Why don't you pray 808 00:42:34,080 --> 00:42:35,400 Speaker 8: about it? To see what he said? 809 00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:38,399 Speaker 16: All right? 810 00:42:38,440 --> 00:42:40,520 Speaker 15: All right, how about it? How about this here? See 811 00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:48,040 Speaker 15: see solutions. See solutions. That's a condom and coughing coughing company. 812 00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:51,399 Speaker 15: Condom and coughing company. You know what I'm saying. 813 00:42:52,640 --> 00:42:54,120 Speaker 1: Condom? 814 00:42:53,320 --> 00:42:56,560 Speaker 16: Either way, we got you covered. You feel what I'm saying? 815 00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:57,120 Speaker 1: Either way? 816 00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,799 Speaker 15: That's your slogan. Wow, that's my slogan. Either way, we 817 00:43:02,880 --> 00:43:06,000 Speaker 15: got your coming got Okay? 818 00:43:06,120 --> 00:43:10,160 Speaker 1: Now, that's might work. It won't be quiet. 819 00:43:10,160 --> 00:43:12,160 Speaker 16: It could. It could tell me. 820 00:43:14,200 --> 00:43:14,960 Speaker 17: It's real. 821 00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:20,279 Speaker 15: No, okay, how about this, How about this? How about this? 822 00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:28,040 Speaker 15: Tuxedo and funeral rental? M m okay, tucked and funeral rental. 823 00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:31,000 Speaker 15: You know what I mean, because you never know, it 824 00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:33,200 Speaker 15: could be the same day. You know what I'm saying. 825 00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:36,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, Wow, you. 826 00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:37,640 Speaker 15: Got you got you see what I'm saying. You got 827 00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:40,040 Speaker 15: your suit, you already got suit on. I mean, okay, 828 00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:40,640 Speaker 15: it's just a thought. 829 00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:46,120 Speaker 1: I'm not with everything, but I did like that one. 830 00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:48,840 Speaker 1: The one. 831 00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:50,360 Speaker 16: I think you're gonna like this. 832 00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:55,520 Speaker 15: I think you're gonna like chitterling, chitterling and body clean? 833 00:43:56,640 --> 00:43:57,120 Speaker 7: What is. 834 00:43:58,520 --> 00:43:59,840 Speaker 16: Chitlings? Chitlings? 835 00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:02,640 Speaker 1: And you said for me, thank you? 836 00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:04,640 Speaker 16: We we we clean guts. 837 00:44:04,760 --> 00:44:06,840 Speaker 15: You know what I'm saying. Ten pounds of chittens and 838 00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:10,120 Speaker 15: a ten day cleans. You see what I'm saying, We. 839 00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:10,800 Speaker 1: Clean your guts. 840 00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:14,200 Speaker 8: You need a yeah? 841 00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:15,800 Speaker 1: Too much? 842 00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:16,160 Speaker 8: All right? 843 00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:18,359 Speaker 16: Now it's summer time. It's summer time. 844 00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:21,200 Speaker 15: And I really think this, this, this, this is probably 845 00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:25,640 Speaker 15: one I really liked the most. Come on, hands and popsicles. Okay, 846 00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:28,120 Speaker 15: come on now, pantis and popsacks. 847 00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:28,640 Speaker 16: We sell. 848 00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:32,839 Speaker 1: There there there. 849 00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:38,600 Speaker 12: I knew he get you got about playing that one though. 850 00:44:38,719 --> 00:44:43,359 Speaker 15: What I mean, that's just it's just something about a 851 00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:45,200 Speaker 15: woman just in pantis and popsicle. 852 00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:47,719 Speaker 8: That's just so nice. It's just that's all you know. 853 00:44:49,400 --> 00:44:51,520 Speaker 15: Y'all know him, no clothes, y'all know him, no clothes 854 00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:54,239 Speaker 15: kind of person. I mean, y'all know that, hands and popsicles. 855 00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:55,480 Speaker 15: I mean, it don't get no better than that. 856 00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:57,560 Speaker 16: Every man work. 857 00:44:57,680 --> 00:44:59,799 Speaker 1: You just order some panties as a popsicles. 858 00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:01,560 Speaker 16: Well, I'm gonna give you popeic as soon as you 859 00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:02,160 Speaker 16: walk in the door. 860 00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:03,080 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. 861 00:45:04,800 --> 00:45:07,440 Speaker 16: You brows better. You brows better. 862 00:45:07,280 --> 00:45:08,040 Speaker 1: When you like that. 863 00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:12,360 Speaker 15: See how you feel I was doing after the first 864 00:45:12,360 --> 00:45:13,040 Speaker 15: one I have. 865 00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:19,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I decided we not. I'm not don this magic. 866 00:45:21,320 --> 00:45:24,200 Speaker 15: Like this because you you've been eating healthy. You're gonna 867 00:45:24,239 --> 00:45:27,200 Speaker 15: like this one. You been, I promise you. Tomrick and 868 00:45:27,400 --> 00:45:32,319 Speaker 15: time seasoned chicken. You see what I'm saying. Eat all 869 00:45:32,360 --> 00:45:35,240 Speaker 15: the fried chicken you want with none of the swelling. 870 00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:40,000 Speaker 15: You see what I'm saying, no swelling nowhere, ain't no swealling. 871 00:45:40,080 --> 00:45:42,720 Speaker 15: You got turmeric and time seasoned chicken. 872 00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:45,560 Speaker 1: That's a lot. 873 00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:52,239 Speaker 8: Hard to swell up with just one bite to the 874 00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:53,520 Speaker 8: time on some chicken. 875 00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:58,359 Speaker 1: You had something for everyone in that one, Tommy. 876 00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:06,080 Speaker 16: Yeah, I'll get it. Some poles and let's go baby. 877 00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:11,080 Speaker 12: All right, it's crazy, all right, we got more of 878 00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:11,640 Speaker 12: the nephew. 879 00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:13,160 Speaker 1: That's the good news. More of the. 880 00:46:13,160 --> 00:46:16,720 Speaker 12: Nephew coming up with today's prank phone call right after this. 881 00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:24,960 Speaker 12: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up 882 00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:27,920 Speaker 12: at about four minutes after the hour. It's my Strawberry 883 00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:31,320 Speaker 12: letter for today. And the subject is he's here physically 884 00:46:31,719 --> 00:46:34,360 Speaker 12: but not mentally. We'll get into that find out what 885 00:46:34,440 --> 00:46:36,879 Speaker 12: that's all about. That one's kind of self explanatory, though, 886 00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:40,440 Speaker 12: we'll find out, because right now it's time for the 887 00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:42,440 Speaker 12: nephew and today's prank phone call. 888 00:46:42,560 --> 00:46:44,440 Speaker 19: Nephew, what you got all right? 889 00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:47,120 Speaker 16: Sureley, we're going down to the church. We got an 890 00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:47,920 Speaker 16: issue down there. 891 00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:52,040 Speaker 15: Well, you know, these people they get in these ministries 892 00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:54,640 Speaker 15: and oh they just some of them just take it 893 00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:55,280 Speaker 15: too fast. 894 00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:57,680 Speaker 8: Now, this one right he is the people that work 895 00:46:57,719 --> 00:46:59,520 Speaker 8: in the park and light in the church. 896 00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:04,000 Speaker 15: You know, they even call themself the parking lot and ministry. 897 00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:03,759 Speaker 19: You know. 898 00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:08,279 Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, they serving in their ministry what all that. 899 00:47:08,520 --> 00:47:11,839 Speaker 15: But they're doing a little too much sometime they are. 900 00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:15,560 Speaker 15: So this right here is called church parking lot. Church 901 00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:21,960 Speaker 15: parking lot. Let's go catch off. Uh yeah, Brendan, Hey, 902 00:47:22,120 --> 00:47:25,160 Speaker 15: I'm trying to reach you. How you doing, uh, Brindon. 903 00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:26,440 Speaker 15: I want to make sure I got the right person. 904 00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:28,960 Speaker 15: You the person that uh you work at the at 905 00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:32,680 Speaker 15: the first of all, I go to uh my name, 906 00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:35,120 Speaker 15: my name is Calvin, brother Calvin, but I go to 907 00:47:35,280 --> 00:47:38,560 Speaker 15: uh sat Missionary Baptist Church where you Yeah? 908 00:47:38,840 --> 00:47:41,080 Speaker 18: So yeah, so everything all right. 909 00:47:41,640 --> 00:47:42,600 Speaker 16: Everything's fine out. 910 00:47:43,040 --> 00:47:45,319 Speaker 15: Well, I got a little issue and I'm trying to 911 00:47:45,680 --> 00:47:46,680 Speaker 15: get to the bottom of it. 912 00:47:46,719 --> 00:47:46,879 Speaker 1: Now. 913 00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:50,880 Speaker 15: You work in the before service start. You work in 914 00:47:50,920 --> 00:47:56,440 Speaker 15: the parking lot on, yeah, and you tell people where 915 00:47:56,480 --> 00:47:58,440 Speaker 15: the park and stuff right right right? 916 00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:02,040 Speaker 18: What you looking for some you want to join us? 917 00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:02,759 Speaker 1: Nah? 918 00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:03,239 Speaker 8: Nah? 919 00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:03,560 Speaker 17: Nah? 920 00:48:04,080 --> 00:48:06,000 Speaker 15: To see the issue I got, man, I've been dealing 921 00:48:06,040 --> 00:48:10,040 Speaker 15: with this probably about the last two months, now, Okay, 922 00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:12,359 Speaker 15: hold on, I'm trying to tell you. So the problem 923 00:48:12,440 --> 00:48:15,239 Speaker 15: is when I come to the church last couple of months, man, 924 00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:19,560 Speaker 15: I've been I've been coming like my my my regular 925 00:48:19,640 --> 00:48:21,279 Speaker 15: card and broke down on me. So I had I 926 00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:23,440 Speaker 15: got an old van that I've been there to hear 927 00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:25,279 Speaker 15: about that. Yeah, yeah, you know, I got a old 928 00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:27,480 Speaker 15: van and I've been using to get around in. So 929 00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:30,320 Speaker 15: now for the last two months. I've been riding in 930 00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:32,840 Speaker 15: it when I come to the church, you know you 931 00:48:33,680 --> 00:48:36,799 Speaker 15: and I find out who you were. But you keep 932 00:48:36,880 --> 00:48:39,920 Speaker 15: sending me to the back of the parking lot. And 933 00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:42,880 Speaker 15: then but you know I noticed, now, nah, bro, no, 934 00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:45,040 Speaker 15: I the real So you sending me to the back, 935 00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:48,479 Speaker 15: and I'm noticing when I see cars that's like two ten, 936 00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:49,960 Speaker 15: twenty fifteen cars. 937 00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:54,319 Speaker 18: Well, brother, well listen, we don't have no set place 938 00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:57,040 Speaker 18: where we put model car. You know, I just direct 939 00:48:57,080 --> 00:48:57,480 Speaker 18: the traffic. 940 00:48:57,560 --> 00:48:59,880 Speaker 15: Brother, Okay, So so you're trying to tell me for 941 00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:03,040 Speaker 15: the last two months you just direct traffic. Well you 942 00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:05,600 Speaker 15: got but you directed me to the back every time. 943 00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:08,200 Speaker 15: But a car behind me or a car in front 944 00:49:08,239 --> 00:49:09,840 Speaker 15: of me, it'll be going to the front. 945 00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:13,600 Speaker 18: No where you're getting this information from me. 946 00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:17,319 Speaker 16: I didn't seen you man send people to the front 947 00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:18,759 Speaker 16: to park. I haven't seen you do no. 948 00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:21,520 Speaker 18: No, I just I just put you know, the bigger 949 00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:26,080 Speaker 18: vehicles in the in the back, and uh certain you 950 00:49:26,120 --> 00:49:29,160 Speaker 18: know that we it's really no schedule. If you come in, 951 00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:30,719 Speaker 18: I just I just direct you to the right of 952 00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:32,640 Speaker 18: the left. It's really nothing to it. 953 00:49:32,760 --> 00:49:36,200 Speaker 16: Really, so you're not trying to say so my my 954 00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:40,640 Speaker 16: van being raggedy ain't the reason why I'm be No, no, no, no, no. 955 00:49:41,120 --> 00:49:45,040 Speaker 18: No, that's not what we're about. Now, Okay, Well, I'm 956 00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:47,839 Speaker 18: sorry you feel that way. I mean, so I guess 957 00:49:47,920 --> 00:49:48,440 Speaker 18: this Sunday. 958 00:49:49,400 --> 00:49:50,759 Speaker 15: Let me let me I'm gonna tell you about this 959 00:49:50,880 --> 00:49:53,320 Speaker 15: Sunday to make sure. No, no, let me tell you 960 00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:56,839 Speaker 15: right now when my van pull up there Sunday. I'm 961 00:49:56,840 --> 00:49:58,520 Speaker 15: gonna tell you right now, if I get said to 962 00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:01,239 Speaker 15: the back, I'm gonna tell you right now, it's gonna no, 963 00:50:01,320 --> 00:50:03,359 Speaker 15: it's gonna be on the problem if I get sent 964 00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:03,839 Speaker 15: to the back. 965 00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:06,320 Speaker 18: Now, you don't have to cuts up it. Just just 966 00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:08,880 Speaker 18: calm down. It's not it's not that serious. 967 00:50:09,120 --> 00:50:11,680 Speaker 16: No, it is serious. See what now, already know I 968 00:50:11,800 --> 00:50:13,040 Speaker 16: know I got a ragged man. 969 00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:15,440 Speaker 15: I know that. I know that, but I see that's 970 00:50:15,440 --> 00:50:16,920 Speaker 15: the reason why I'm getting sent to the back. And 971 00:50:17,040 --> 00:50:19,080 Speaker 15: I know it because the car I had before y'all 972 00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:20,160 Speaker 15: was sending me up front. 973 00:50:20,360 --> 00:50:21,799 Speaker 16: So I already know. I'm just saying. 974 00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:24,680 Speaker 15: I'm telling you right now, Brendan, I'm telling you right now, 975 00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:27,160 Speaker 15: it's gonna be a problem if I get. 976 00:50:27,040 --> 00:50:27,799 Speaker 8: Sent to the back. 977 00:50:28,480 --> 00:50:28,719 Speaker 17: Brother. 978 00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:31,239 Speaker 18: You just singled me out, and no. 979 00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:33,920 Speaker 15: No, did you know I didn't single you out. You 980 00:50:34,400 --> 00:50:36,719 Speaker 15: you are the person that has been sending me to 981 00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:37,160 Speaker 15: the back. 982 00:50:37,239 --> 00:50:38,600 Speaker 18: Dude, No, No, I haven't. 983 00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:40,880 Speaker 15: Hey man, why you keep Why are you sending it? 984 00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:45,640 Speaker 15: Why you accusing me of I'm because I didn't seen it. 985 00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:47,120 Speaker 17: No, you are. You're calling me. 986 00:50:47,239 --> 00:50:49,200 Speaker 18: You're calling me out of the blue, and you accuse 987 00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:51,120 Speaker 18: me of something that I'm not doing. 988 00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:55,000 Speaker 16: You just sent my ragged band to the back. You 989 00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:55,600 Speaker 16: didn't done it. 990 00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:58,960 Speaker 15: You didn't done it two months straight, Brendan, you have 991 00:50:59,200 --> 00:51:01,440 Speaker 15: done it having yes, you know I have you. You 992 00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:03,080 Speaker 15: send all the predat hours up front. 993 00:51:03,120 --> 00:51:05,080 Speaker 16: That's what you're doing. But I tell you what comes Sunday, 994 00:51:05,160 --> 00:51:06,160 Speaker 16: gonna build a problem. 995 00:51:06,480 --> 00:51:09,120 Speaker 18: So now you're threatened me. I mean now, now listen, 996 00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:10,880 Speaker 18: we we we can meet up at it. We can 997 00:51:10,920 --> 00:51:12,440 Speaker 18: meet up there to be for any cars get there? 998 00:51:12,480 --> 00:51:12,880 Speaker 17: How about that. 999 00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:15,200 Speaker 16: I don't care how you want to do it, Brenda. 1000 00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:16,920 Speaker 18: But you actually do know how you want to do it, 1001 00:51:16,960 --> 00:51:17,600 Speaker 18: So bring it then. 1002 00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:20,520 Speaker 16: Okay, I'm letting you know my car. Yeah, my van 1003 00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:22,280 Speaker 16: gonna build comes. 1004 00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:23,839 Speaker 18: Give bent get band. 1005 00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:25,200 Speaker 17: It's me and you. How about that? 1006 00:51:25,280 --> 00:51:27,200 Speaker 18: You want you and you want to talk tough tony stuff. 1007 00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:30,120 Speaker 16: Oh okay, so you are you sweating all up? 1008 00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:30,319 Speaker 1: Now? 1009 00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:32,560 Speaker 18: All right, so so go now like you already did, 1010 00:51:32,640 --> 00:51:33,600 Speaker 18: so I guess I'm matching. 1011 00:51:33,800 --> 00:51:34,880 Speaker 16: Okay, well, no problem. 1012 00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:37,680 Speaker 18: I'm going to listen, brother, brother, listen, You're not gonna 1013 00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:40,000 Speaker 18: call my phone and threaten me and tell me what 1014 00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:42,560 Speaker 18: you what you think I did when I didn't do it. 1015 00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:45,920 Speaker 16: It's what I know, Brendy, it's what I know. Okay, 1016 00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:46,759 Speaker 16: you didn't. 1017 00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:48,080 Speaker 17: You didn't see where you at right now? 1018 00:51:48,160 --> 00:51:49,640 Speaker 16: Okay, you know you know we ain't got work. 1019 00:51:49,680 --> 00:51:49,920 Speaker 17: You know what. 1020 00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:51,960 Speaker 16: I'll tell you what you are right now? Come sunny. 1021 00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:53,440 Speaker 16: That's it's Dan brend. 1022 00:51:53,360 --> 00:51:55,640 Speaker 18: No, no, no, no, no, no, no about what you're 1023 00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:56,160 Speaker 18: doing right now? 1024 00:51:56,480 --> 00:51:58,000 Speaker 16: What you mean when I'm doing right now? I'm at 1025 00:51:58,080 --> 00:51:58,640 Speaker 16: work right now? 1026 00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:02,400 Speaker 18: Oh so you at work calling me about some bull 1027 00:52:02,760 --> 00:52:03,400 Speaker 18: parking spot? 1028 00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:07,359 Speaker 15: Oh okay, oh look at the cussing Christian, Now look 1029 00:52:07,440 --> 00:52:10,719 Speaker 15: at you. No, look at the cuss No, no. 1030 00:52:10,840 --> 00:52:14,319 Speaker 18: No, no, matter of fact you Okay, if you want 1031 00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:17,279 Speaker 18: to do something, let's do it now, parking lot. I don't, 1032 00:52:17,440 --> 00:52:20,399 Speaker 18: I don't care. We'll be at okay. Okay, Now, that's 1033 00:52:20,440 --> 00:52:21,319 Speaker 18: one thing you're not gonna do. 1034 00:52:21,320 --> 00:52:22,000 Speaker 17: Is disrespect me. 1035 00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:25,359 Speaker 18: I'm telling you that right now, brother Calvin, you bring 1036 00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:26,560 Speaker 18: I'm gonna. 1037 00:52:26,320 --> 00:52:27,720 Speaker 17: Fold you like a wet piece of paper. 1038 00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:30,920 Speaker 18: You don't know who you're with. Okay, I didn't been 1039 00:52:31,000 --> 00:52:33,279 Speaker 18: locked up six seven years. I'm just in the church 1040 00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:35,799 Speaker 18: trying to get my life together. And you said you're 1041 00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:39,319 Speaker 18: just gonna talk to me. You got another thing coming, brother, 1042 00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:41,600 Speaker 18: I'm gonna tell you that right now. So if you 1043 00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:43,520 Speaker 18: want to get it all, meet me in the parking 1044 00:52:43,560 --> 00:52:45,359 Speaker 18: lot right now. I give you an hour to get 1045 00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:46,880 Speaker 18: there your piece of tonight. 1046 00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:50,320 Speaker 15: Now you're trying to scare me with your with your background. 1047 00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:52,360 Speaker 15: Tell what it is you're trying to scare me with 1048 00:52:52,480 --> 00:52:55,279 Speaker 15: your background or something like EVI then you I ain't know. 1049 00:52:55,280 --> 00:52:57,640 Speaker 1: You had been in jail with the wrong one. 1050 00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:00,920 Speaker 16: I'm just gonna say this, Do you Lester that that 1051 00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:04,080 Speaker 16: also he also had a car's parking. 1052 00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:06,000 Speaker 18: Would you d by yourself out of this. 1053 00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:10,080 Speaker 17: You're talking about? I know a Lester? 1054 00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:14,520 Speaker 15: Okay, Okay, Leicester is the person to tell me to 1055 00:53:14,640 --> 00:53:18,840 Speaker 15: call you. This is nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning. Brenda, 1056 00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:22,120 Speaker 15: your boy Lester in the parking lot got me the 1057 00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:23,239 Speaker 15: front from the car. 1058 00:53:30,760 --> 00:53:32,480 Speaker 16: I brought the lockdown out of there. You man, did 1059 00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:33,759 Speaker 16: I bring the lockdown out there? 1060 00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:43,080 Speaker 18: Strangle lester? Y'all got me out here talking recklessly? Cast 1061 00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:43,719 Speaker 18: go ahead, this. 1062 00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:47,759 Speaker 16: For hanging in there, bro, and then do this for me. Man, 1063 00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:49,480 Speaker 16: tell me this. What is the baddest and I mean 1064 00:53:49,520 --> 00:53:51,719 Speaker 16: the baddest radio show in the land. 1065 00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:53,600 Speaker 18: Man, Steve Harvey Radios. 1066 00:53:54,080 --> 00:53:57,880 Speaker 15: Man, Hey man, if you see somebody's Sunday pull up 1067 00:53:57,920 --> 00:54:00,640 Speaker 15: in a van, show them some love, off some love. 1068 00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:03,080 Speaker 18: I might have to call out this week, but my 1069 00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:03,960 Speaker 18: heart can't tea you. 1070 00:54:08,280 --> 00:54:10,440 Speaker 15: I go out to the parking lot Ministry. What up 1071 00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:13,799 Speaker 15: to all of y'all at the churches? The parking Lot Ministry? Yeah, 1072 00:54:14,840 --> 00:54:16,840 Speaker 15: y'all doing good work, Tommy, just playing with you. I 1073 00:54:17,640 --> 00:54:20,880 Speaker 15: the Nephew would be Louis Bulle, Kentucky. This weekend Friday, 1074 00:54:20,920 --> 00:54:24,000 Speaker 15: Saturday Sunday. One show Friday to Saturday, two Sunday. The 1075 00:54:24,120 --> 00:54:26,759 Speaker 15: Nephew is coming to town. Stupid is on the way, 1076 00:54:26,920 --> 00:54:30,040 Speaker 15: Ignorance is here Memorial Day weekend, and you do not 1077 00:54:30,360 --> 00:54:34,120 Speaker 15: want to miss it. Higgas a hown Hell that now 1078 00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:37,280 Speaker 15: I'm about to be as stupid as. 1079 00:54:37,760 --> 00:54:39,680 Speaker 16: Oh my god, You're not gonna believe it. 1080 00:54:41,360 --> 00:54:43,840 Speaker 15: You're not gonna do way most stupid than panties and popsicles, 1081 00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:44,759 Speaker 15: way more stupid than that. 1082 00:54:51,800 --> 00:54:53,600 Speaker 16: I create a business, you know, I will. 1083 00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:54,319 Speaker 1: Ducks and draw. 1084 00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:59,880 Speaker 15: We say ducks and drawn each other. 1085 00:55:00,200 --> 00:55:00,960 Speaker 1: What you gonna tell me? 1086 00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:08,560 Speaker 15: Come on, oh man, hula hoops and perfect and whigs, 1087 00:55:09,320 --> 00:55:13,640 Speaker 15: Hula hoops and whigs. You're gonna shake it no matter what. 1088 00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:14,479 Speaker 16: You know what I'm saying. 1089 00:55:17,680 --> 00:55:18,400 Speaker 1: You're crazy. 1090 00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:22,960 Speaker 15: I'm about the house before man. Come on out, Littleville, Kentucky, 1091 00:55:23,000 --> 00:55:24,560 Speaker 15: comes to your boy. The nephew will be there all 1092 00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:26,839 Speaker 15: weekend long, all week and long. I'm having fun. I'm 1093 00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:29,120 Speaker 15: being stupid. You're gonna get your party on. You get 1094 00:55:29,160 --> 00:55:31,520 Speaker 15: your lab phone, and we are going to enjoy. 1095 00:55:31,719 --> 00:55:32,400 Speaker 8: I was selled. 1096 00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:35,080 Speaker 16: I said it, and I ain't taking none of it back. 1097 00:55:35,880 --> 00:55:37,600 Speaker 19: All right, all right, nephew, thank you. 1098 00:55:38,160 --> 00:55:42,400 Speaker 12: Coming up next Strawberry letters subject. He's here physically but 1099 00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:45,040 Speaker 12: not mentally. We'll get into it right after this. 1100 00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:49,240 Speaker 8: Folks, there are a lot of reasons to like Hyundai. 1101 00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:53,279 Speaker 8: Hyundai's done a lot to support American consumers. I mean, 1102 00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:57,200 Speaker 8: they announced their investment of twenty one billion dollars in 1103 00:55:57,280 --> 00:55:59,719 Speaker 8: the United States over the next three years that will 1104 00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:03,880 Speaker 8: bad manufacturing and create more jobs for Americans. 1105 00:56:03,440 --> 00:56:06,000 Speaker 15: And they just announced that they will not be raising 1106 00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:10,160 Speaker 15: MSRP through June second. No matter what, call five six 1107 00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:14,120 Speaker 15: two three one four four six zero three for more details. 1108 00:56:14,880 --> 00:56:22,400 Speaker 12: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now 1109 00:56:22,520 --> 00:56:27,160 Speaker 12: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, 1110 00:56:27,239 --> 00:56:30,719 Speaker 12: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to STEVEARVFM dot 1111 00:56:30,800 --> 00:56:34,000 Speaker 12: com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading 1112 00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:37,120 Speaker 12: your letter live on the air, just like we're going 1113 00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:39,360 Speaker 12: to read this one right here, right now, and you 1114 00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:40,800 Speaker 12: never know, it could be yours. 1115 00:56:41,840 --> 00:56:43,600 Speaker 16: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on tight. 1116 00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:46,480 Speaker 16: We got it for you here. It is Strawberry letter. 1117 00:56:46,880 --> 00:56:50,800 Speaker 12: All right, nephew, thank you. Subject. He's here physically but 1118 00:56:51,040 --> 00:56:54,799 Speaker 12: not mentally. Just Steven Shirley. My husband and I were 1119 00:56:54,880 --> 00:56:58,400 Speaker 12: legally separated for about five months. Things were bad between 1120 00:56:58,480 --> 00:57:00,719 Speaker 12: us last year and he decided it was best to 1121 00:57:00,800 --> 00:57:03,279 Speaker 12: move out for a while. I agreed with him, and 1122 00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:06,120 Speaker 12: he went to stay with his dad. Our son is 1123 00:57:06,200 --> 00:57:09,440 Speaker 12: seventeen and he's been living with my husband's dad for 1124 00:57:09,680 --> 00:57:12,520 Speaker 12: his senior year to be closer to school and to 1125 00:57:12,640 --> 00:57:15,880 Speaker 12: drive its granddad's old Camaro to school. It was an 1126 00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:19,360 Speaker 12: ideal situation for the three of them. I thought for 1127 00:57:19,520 --> 00:57:23,280 Speaker 12: sure my husband was going to serve me with divorce papers. Instead, 1128 00:57:23,440 --> 00:57:26,120 Speaker 12: he called me after Christmas and asked if i'd go 1129 00:57:26,200 --> 00:57:29,000 Speaker 12: to counseling with him. I agreed, and we went to 1130 00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:32,360 Speaker 12: see a therapist for two months. He got frustrated and 1131 00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:35,520 Speaker 12: said the male therapist was taking my side, so we 1132 00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:39,360 Speaker 12: stopped going. During therapy, I found out that my husband 1133 00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:42,200 Speaker 12: cheated on me, and it was because he wasn't attracted 1134 00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:45,920 Speaker 12: to me anymore. I was unfazed by it all. I 1135 00:57:46,120 --> 00:57:48,400 Speaker 12: just wanted to get a divorce and get it over 1136 00:57:48,560 --> 00:57:51,680 Speaker 12: with quickly. Then he hit me with a double whammy 1137 00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:54,480 Speaker 12: and said he was ready to come home. I couldn't 1138 00:57:54,520 --> 00:57:57,840 Speaker 12: say no because it's his house too. So he has 1139 00:57:57,920 --> 00:58:01,760 Speaker 12: been back since the first of His body is here, 1140 00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:04,920 Speaker 12: but not his mind. When I talk to him, and 1141 00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:08,240 Speaker 12: he smiles and nods his head. When I talk to him, 1142 00:58:08,280 --> 00:58:10,680 Speaker 12: he smiles and nods his head, I know he's not 1143 00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:14,040 Speaker 12: paying attention to me. I had decided that if he 1144 00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:16,720 Speaker 12: ever came back home, I was going to give him 1145 00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:20,080 Speaker 12: a night he wouldn't forget. But he hasn't touched me 1146 00:58:20,280 --> 00:58:23,680 Speaker 12: since he got home Saturday night. I tried to shower 1147 00:58:23,800 --> 00:58:27,160 Speaker 12: with him, but he locked the bathroom door. Why would 1148 00:58:27,160 --> 00:58:30,800 Speaker 12: he come back home without changing his behavior? I cannot 1149 00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:33,200 Speaker 12: live like this. Should I be the one that calls 1150 00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:37,600 Speaker 12: it quits this time? Please help, Please help. This is 1151 00:58:37,680 --> 00:58:42,080 Speaker 12: really terrible, and clearly he's not ready. I mean, listen, 1152 00:58:42,440 --> 00:58:45,120 Speaker 12: smiling and nodding his head when you're talking to him. 1153 00:58:45,200 --> 00:58:49,760 Speaker 12: That's not communication, that's not intimacy. It's hard to tell 1154 00:58:49,800 --> 00:58:53,760 Speaker 12: where his head is, but you do see his actions, 1155 00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:55,280 Speaker 12: and they are very clear. 1156 00:58:55,600 --> 00:58:57,040 Speaker 1: He's showing you how he feels. 1157 00:58:57,720 --> 00:59:01,280 Speaker 12: He got frustrated, you said when and stop going to therapy, 1158 00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:05,640 Speaker 12: to the male therapist. That's where he confessed to cheating 1159 00:59:05,720 --> 00:59:08,440 Speaker 12: on you. He said he no longer found you attractive, 1160 00:59:08,880 --> 00:59:10,600 Speaker 12: and he locked the bathroom. 1161 00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:11,480 Speaker 1: Door on you, on you. 1162 00:59:12,520 --> 00:59:15,000 Speaker 12: What other conclusion are you supposed to draw from all 1163 00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:17,760 Speaker 12: of this but that he is over it and not 1164 00:59:17,920 --> 00:59:21,280 Speaker 12: into you anymore, or he's not into the marriage anymore. 1165 00:59:21,400 --> 00:59:23,960 Speaker 12: Same thing right there. He can't come back home and 1166 00:59:24,040 --> 00:59:26,200 Speaker 12: not talk to you or not be affectionate all that. 1167 00:59:26,360 --> 00:59:28,200 Speaker 12: I think he just maybe wanted to get back in 1168 00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:32,520 Speaker 12: the house and see if you changed and he's not 1169 00:59:32,720 --> 00:59:34,160 Speaker 12: necessarily into the marriage. 1170 00:59:34,160 --> 00:59:35,840 Speaker 1: He wanted to get back in the house, but not 1171 00:59:36,080 --> 00:59:36,640 Speaker 1: the marriage. 1172 00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:41,919 Speaker 8: Steve, Yeah, this is an easy letter for me. Let's 1173 00:59:42,000 --> 00:59:44,680 Speaker 8: just go in and get to this. This over, that's 1174 00:59:44,760 --> 00:59:45,160 Speaker 8: just good. 1175 00:59:45,840 --> 00:59:46,240 Speaker 1: This over. 1176 00:59:46,400 --> 00:59:49,920 Speaker 8: Let's say nothing. You're with the therapy, you the mood out, 1177 00:59:50,000 --> 00:59:52,800 Speaker 8: you to move back in. We wouldn't done at all. 1178 00:59:53,800 --> 00:59:57,880 Speaker 8: We've separated, we've gotten back together, and with the therapy, 1179 00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:04,000 Speaker 8: he's moved away and he's moved back in, and none 1180 01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:08,160 Speaker 8: of them situations was good. Now y'all been legally separated 1181 01:00:08,240 --> 01:00:12,120 Speaker 8: for five months. Things were bad between us and y'all all. 1182 01:00:13,000 --> 01:00:15,160 Speaker 8: Both of y'all decided it was best. So he went 1183 01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:17,520 Speaker 8: to live with his daddy. Y'all son, who was a 1184 01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:19,680 Speaker 8: senior in high school, also went to live with him 1185 01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:21,320 Speaker 8: because it gets him close to the school. 1186 01:00:21,840 --> 01:00:23,960 Speaker 16: It was ideal for the three of them. 1187 01:00:24,320 --> 01:00:28,880 Speaker 8: So you think you and he got to drive his 1188 01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:32,720 Speaker 8: granddaddy's old Camaro to school. So the boy got a caught. 1189 01:00:32,800 --> 01:00:34,959 Speaker 8: Only one got a good out. This deal with the boy. 1190 01:00:36,120 --> 01:00:40,400 Speaker 8: Granddaddy did good because he got him some company. You 1191 01:00:40,760 --> 01:00:42,640 Speaker 8: and your husband thought it was gonna be good because 1192 01:00:42,680 --> 01:00:45,040 Speaker 8: he got away from you, and you thought it was 1193 01:00:45,080 --> 01:00:47,200 Speaker 8: good because you wanted them to get away from you too, 1194 01:00:47,960 --> 01:00:50,880 Speaker 8: and you thought for shure he served you with divorce papers. Instead, 1195 01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:53,080 Speaker 8: he called you after Christmas and asked you to go 1196 01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:56,360 Speaker 8: to counsel Where you went to counselor? How that work out? 1197 01:00:56,440 --> 01:00:58,840 Speaker 1: When you go to counseling and counseling don't work? 1198 01:01:00,160 --> 01:01:05,440 Speaker 8: Do you want me to ten what the councilor tell 1199 01:01:05,520 --> 01:01:08,360 Speaker 8: y'all your husband said he didn't like the mail counselor 1200 01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:09,520 Speaker 8: because he was signed with you. 1201 01:01:09,840 --> 01:01:12,160 Speaker 1: Well, the husband was saying some crazy stuff in this. 1202 01:01:12,280 --> 01:01:16,600 Speaker 8: Session because in this session you found out he cheated 1203 01:01:16,720 --> 01:01:19,880 Speaker 8: on you. In this session you found out he was 1204 01:01:20,000 --> 01:01:24,160 Speaker 8: no longer attracted to you. And then when he came 1205 01:01:24,440 --> 01:01:28,280 Speaker 8: home he locking doors. Now, let me defend him. Hire, 1206 01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:34,760 Speaker 8: I got to lock that bathroom door. What I locked 1207 01:01:35,120 --> 01:01:37,880 Speaker 8: bathroom doors at my house when I go with him today? 1208 01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:41,920 Speaker 8: I locked the door because my wife would just start 1209 01:01:42,000 --> 01:01:46,120 Speaker 8: talking and I don't want to talk with him. 1210 01:01:46,160 --> 01:01:46,480 Speaker 1: In him. 1211 01:01:48,800 --> 01:01:51,880 Speaker 8: I got telephone, got games on it, got a TV 1212 01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:54,680 Speaker 8: in now, got everything. I ain't come in here talking. 1213 01:01:55,560 --> 01:01:58,120 Speaker 8: So I must defend him on the not talking in 1214 01:01:58,200 --> 01:02:02,880 Speaker 8: the bathroom. But the rest of his letter, it's just 1215 01:02:03,040 --> 01:02:07,800 Speaker 8: Nothing's working. The separation didn't work, the therapy didn't work, 1216 01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:12,560 Speaker 8: and the coming back home didn't work. What we're talking about. 1217 01:02:13,840 --> 01:02:15,560 Speaker 8: So what I think the best way for me to 1218 01:02:15,640 --> 01:02:17,360 Speaker 8: do is I'm gonna have the ladies. We're gonna do 1219 01:02:17,440 --> 01:02:20,280 Speaker 8: a slight reenacting. Now here's let me get to this 1220 01:02:20,400 --> 01:02:25,400 Speaker 8: part from me. He comes back home and since May, 1221 01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:29,360 Speaker 8: his body is here, but not his mind. This is 1222 01:02:29,400 --> 01:02:32,000 Speaker 8: what I want you all to focus on. His body's here, 1223 01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:34,160 Speaker 8: but not his mind. When I talk to him, he 1224 01:02:34,280 --> 01:02:37,080 Speaker 8: smiles and nads his head. I know he ain't paying 1225 01:02:37,080 --> 01:02:39,600 Speaker 8: attention to me, and I decided when he came back home, 1226 01:02:39,640 --> 01:02:41,360 Speaker 8: I was gonna Givehi a night for him to remember, 1227 01:02:41,600 --> 01:02:44,240 Speaker 8: but he ain't touched me. Since he's back home and 1228 01:02:44,360 --> 01:02:47,520 Speaker 8: his behavior. I cannot live like this. Should I be 1229 01:02:47,640 --> 01:02:50,320 Speaker 8: the one that calls it quits this time? Please help? 1230 01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:54,720 Speaker 8: When we come back, Shirley and call him junior. Anybody 1231 01:02:54,800 --> 01:02:57,400 Speaker 8: can ask me the question as the lady, and I 1232 01:02:57,520 --> 01:03:01,240 Speaker 8: will show you the response of a nun on concerned. 1233 01:03:03,200 --> 01:03:03,480 Speaker 1: Thank you. 1234 01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:03,880 Speaker 16: Steve. 1235 01:03:04,000 --> 01:03:06,920 Speaker 12: Coming up, we'll have part two of your response subject 1236 01:03:07,040 --> 01:03:11,160 Speaker 12: he's here physically but not mentally. We'll get back into 1237 01:03:11,280 --> 01:03:16,160 Speaker 12: it right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1238 01:03:21,200 --> 01:03:23,560 Speaker 1: This broadcast is sponsored by PayPal. 1239 01:03:23,720 --> 01:03:25,400 Speaker 14: I want to take a second to talk to you 1240 01:03:25,520 --> 01:03:28,880 Speaker 14: about something I think it's pretty cool. PayPal lets you 1241 01:03:29,000 --> 01:03:32,520 Speaker 14: pay your own way with just a click. 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This subject 1249 01:03:57,840 --> 01:04:00,520 Speaker 12: of the Strawberry Letter today is he's here physical, but 1250 01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:02,760 Speaker 12: not mentally exactly. 1251 01:04:02,880 --> 01:04:05,360 Speaker 8: This is what this letter's hold all about. The lady 1252 01:04:05,960 --> 01:04:11,040 Speaker 8: nailed this letter perfectly and has given us enough facts 1253 01:04:11,280 --> 01:04:15,040 Speaker 8: for us to come to a conclusion. They've been legally 1254 01:04:15,120 --> 01:04:18,640 Speaker 8: separated for five months. Facts. Okay, ladies, this is what 1255 01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:20,919 Speaker 8: I'm gonna do when I say something that's true. Y'all 1256 01:04:21,000 --> 01:04:23,880 Speaker 8: say facts. Wow, my husband and I have been legally 1257 01:04:23,960 --> 01:04:28,880 Speaker 8: separated for about five months. Fat things was bad between 1258 01:04:28,960 --> 01:04:30,880 Speaker 8: us last year and he decided it was the best 1259 01:04:30,920 --> 01:04:33,200 Speaker 8: to move out for a while. I agreed with him, 1260 01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:34,160 Speaker 8: so he went. 1261 01:04:34,080 --> 01:04:36,240 Speaker 1: To stay with his dad. Facts. 1262 01:04:36,760 --> 01:04:40,400 Speaker 8: His son, our son seventeen, been living with my husband's 1263 01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:42,640 Speaker 8: dad for his senior year to be close to the 1264 01:04:42,680 --> 01:04:45,880 Speaker 8: school and to drive his granddaddy's old Camaro. It was 1265 01:04:45,960 --> 01:04:48,160 Speaker 8: an ideal situation for the three of them. 1266 01:04:49,240 --> 01:04:49,479 Speaker 16: Fac. 1267 01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:53,720 Speaker 8: I thought my husband gonna serve you with divorce papers. 1268 01:04:53,840 --> 01:04:58,560 Speaker 8: Did on Christmas? But did he After Christmas? He asked 1269 01:04:58,560 --> 01:05:00,640 Speaker 8: if we could go counseling to get with him. 1270 01:05:00,960 --> 01:05:01,560 Speaker 16: I agreed. 1271 01:05:01,960 --> 01:05:04,040 Speaker 8: They went to see a therapist for two months. He 1272 01:05:04,200 --> 01:05:06,720 Speaker 8: got mad at the therapist because the male therapist was 1273 01:05:06,800 --> 01:05:12,560 Speaker 8: taking his side, so they stopped going to a therapy. 1274 01:05:13,240 --> 01:05:13,600 Speaker 1: Facts. 1275 01:05:14,320 --> 01:05:16,840 Speaker 8: Well, then they found out why they was in therapy, 1276 01:05:16,920 --> 01:05:18,959 Speaker 8: that he cheated on the woman, and then he told 1277 01:05:19,000 --> 01:05:20,320 Speaker 8: her it was because I'm. 1278 01:05:20,160 --> 01:05:24,920 Speaker 1: Not attracted to you. Ooh, Facts, So what are we 1279 01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:25,680 Speaker 1: talking about now? 1280 01:05:27,080 --> 01:05:27,240 Speaker 15: You know? 1281 01:05:27,760 --> 01:05:29,720 Speaker 8: Then he hit you with a double whaman told you 1282 01:05:30,160 --> 01:05:33,200 Speaker 8: he wanted to move back home, and I couldn't say 1283 01:05:33,280 --> 01:05:34,600 Speaker 8: no because it's his house too. 1284 01:05:35,000 --> 01:05:36,000 Speaker 1: So he been back since. 1285 01:05:36,160 --> 01:05:41,880 Speaker 8: Mate, his body's here, but not his mind back Facts 1286 01:05:43,040 --> 01:05:47,080 Speaker 8: all right, now that's over with. So now ladies, listen 1287 01:05:47,200 --> 01:05:49,360 Speaker 8: to this When I talked to him, he smiles and nods. 1288 01:05:49,440 --> 01:05:51,760 Speaker 8: I know he's not paying attention to me, And I 1289 01:05:51,880 --> 01:05:53,560 Speaker 8: thought that when he came back home, I gave a 1290 01:05:53,600 --> 01:05:56,080 Speaker 8: knight to remember, but he ain't touched me since. And 1291 01:05:56,280 --> 01:05:59,520 Speaker 8: so now I tried to shower with him, he locked 1292 01:05:59,520 --> 01:06:02,440 Speaker 8: the bathroom. Why would he come back home without changing 1293 01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:05,400 Speaker 8: his behavior? I cannot live like this? Should I be 1294 01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:07,800 Speaker 8: the one that calls it quits this time? Help? 1295 01:06:07,880 --> 01:06:08,160 Speaker 1: Please? 1296 01:06:08,560 --> 01:06:11,160 Speaker 8: I think you should call it quits because I see 1297 01:06:11,280 --> 01:06:16,600 Speaker 8: nothing in there. There's no redeeming qualities in here. Y'all 1298 01:06:16,680 --> 01:06:20,520 Speaker 8: separated because it was going bad. All of y'all agreed. 1299 01:06:21,480 --> 01:06:23,840 Speaker 8: He went over that. Now why did he come back? 1300 01:06:23,920 --> 01:06:27,680 Speaker 8: It's what you don't know. Because see, your son got 1301 01:06:27,760 --> 01:06:30,880 Speaker 8: somebody of it because he driving the carter stool. Yeah, 1302 01:06:31,080 --> 01:06:33,360 Speaker 8: your daddy, his daddy got somebody of it because he 1303 01:06:33,440 --> 01:06:38,120 Speaker 8: finally had some company. But it ain't good when all 1304 01:06:38,240 --> 01:06:40,880 Speaker 8: when three men live in the house, an old man, 1305 01:06:43,440 --> 01:06:45,360 Speaker 8: ranged man, and a young boy. 1306 01:06:45,560 --> 01:06:47,280 Speaker 1: Ain't nothing clean in that house. 1307 01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:52,960 Speaker 8: Your husband got out of there because at least he 1308 01:06:53,040 --> 01:06:58,439 Speaker 8: can come back home. And he came home for convenience, 1309 01:06:58,920 --> 01:07:03,360 Speaker 8: not for you. Just now, that's all it was. So now, 1310 01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:07,560 Speaker 8: ladies ask me anything. You are are creators to that, 1311 01:07:07,680 --> 01:07:10,840 Speaker 8: And I will tell you how an unconcerned her husband 1312 01:07:10,920 --> 01:07:13,880 Speaker 8: reacts because she said, his body's here, but not his mind. 1313 01:07:13,920 --> 01:07:16,120 Speaker 8: When I talked to him, he nods and smiles, but 1314 01:07:16,240 --> 01:07:18,080 Speaker 8: I know he had this. I ain't going ahead? 1315 01:07:18,200 --> 01:07:20,680 Speaker 1: Go ahead, Carla asked, go ahead. 1316 01:07:20,480 --> 01:07:25,640 Speaker 14: Babe, babe, You're gonna season the ribs and the wings. 1317 01:07:25,440 --> 01:07:28,440 Speaker 1: For this weekend, for Memorial Days, for the barbecue. Everybody. 1318 01:07:29,240 --> 01:07:33,920 Speaker 8: Oh, yeah, cause you know what? Yeah, I guess I 1319 01:07:34,080 --> 01:07:37,480 Speaker 8: love what good? You want some salt and pep on there? 1320 01:07:38,480 --> 01:07:38,640 Speaker 11: Hey? 1321 01:07:38,760 --> 01:07:40,600 Speaker 1: You do your things, baby, you're rubbed, do it. 1322 01:07:45,320 --> 01:07:48,360 Speaker 8: There's some people, there's some people coming over the weekend. 1323 01:07:48,520 --> 01:07:49,880 Speaker 17: Yes, are you with me? 1324 01:07:50,040 --> 01:07:51,520 Speaker 1: Do you want to see what I'm saying? Get to 1325 01:07:51,600 --> 01:07:57,360 Speaker 1: meet ready barbecue? Mary, ain't just a little early for 1326 01:07:57,440 --> 01:08:05,920 Speaker 1: foth juve. It's Memorial Day, Babe, listen three days if 1327 01:08:05,960 --> 01:08:06,920 Speaker 1: I can count on you for that. 1328 01:08:07,840 --> 01:08:08,320 Speaker 19: Mm hmmm. 1329 01:08:10,440 --> 01:08:15,600 Speaker 6: I kept saying oday, baby. 1330 01:08:15,440 --> 01:08:16,519 Speaker 1: I bought this outfit. 1331 01:08:16,680 --> 01:08:18,600 Speaker 12: I'm gonna go try it on, and I want you 1332 01:08:18,720 --> 01:08:21,000 Speaker 12: to let me know how it looks something, because I 1333 01:08:21,080 --> 01:08:23,759 Speaker 12: was thinking about wearing this to the cookout. 1334 01:08:25,800 --> 01:08:26,200 Speaker 15: You like it? 1335 01:08:26,400 --> 01:08:26,960 Speaker 8: I look at it? 1336 01:08:27,720 --> 01:08:28,519 Speaker 7: Just you like it. 1337 01:08:28,680 --> 01:08:32,240 Speaker 19: Just some shorts in a little top, or I can 1338 01:08:32,320 --> 01:08:35,280 Speaker 19: put the sun dress on. Which one you like the best? 1339 01:08:36,400 --> 01:08:37,320 Speaker 8: You're gonna wear the dress? 1340 01:08:37,479 --> 01:08:37,679 Speaker 6: Hello? 1341 01:08:38,960 --> 01:08:39,200 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1342 01:08:40,960 --> 01:08:41,200 Speaker 17: Are you? 1343 01:08:42,040 --> 01:08:46,040 Speaker 1: Are you paying attention? You like the sun dress on me? 1344 01:08:46,560 --> 01:08:46,680 Speaker 20: If? 1345 01:08:46,760 --> 01:08:50,720 Speaker 8: Well, where's you going Sunday to the. 1346 01:08:54,360 --> 01:08:54,880 Speaker 1: Cookout? 1347 01:08:57,200 --> 01:09:05,320 Speaker 8: To the cookout? The cookout ain't until Labor Day? Hey, baby, 1348 01:09:05,400 --> 01:09:07,559 Speaker 8: stay right there. I gotta I gotta go to the store. 1349 01:09:07,600 --> 01:09:10,200 Speaker 8: I gotta go get some salt chok. I got seasoned to. 1350 01:09:12,439 --> 01:09:13,200 Speaker 16: These shorts. 1351 01:09:13,280 --> 01:09:16,200 Speaker 1: So how does it make my butt look? These shorts look? 1352 01:09:16,320 --> 01:09:16,840 Speaker 1: That's cute. 1353 01:09:16,920 --> 01:09:17,080 Speaker 15: Nine. 1354 01:09:18,560 --> 01:09:23,440 Speaker 8: I do need some most shouts? Hello, dolls, got elastic? 1355 01:09:23,920 --> 01:09:26,320 Speaker 8: I got elastic popped in the last pair of shots 1356 01:09:26,360 --> 01:09:27,760 Speaker 8: I had. Have you seen them? 1357 01:09:28,200 --> 01:09:30,920 Speaker 1: Are you listening to me at all? Are you listening 1358 01:09:30,960 --> 01:09:33,439 Speaker 1: to me at all? Nothing? 1359 01:09:35,439 --> 01:09:40,439 Speaker 5: My mind is here with you, but my mind is 1360 01:09:40,640 --> 01:09:48,760 Speaker 5: on the side of time, all right. 1361 01:09:49,760 --> 01:09:50,120 Speaker 7: You see. 1362 01:09:50,200 --> 01:09:53,000 Speaker 1: I was going, uh yeah, this marriage all right? 1363 01:09:53,080 --> 01:09:55,639 Speaker 12: Leave your comments on Today's Strawberry letter on the Instagram 1364 01:09:55,720 --> 01:09:58,200 Speaker 12: and Facebook at Steve Harvey f M and check us out. 1365 01:09:58,479 --> 01:10:00,720 Speaker 8: Call out son, I tell him pick me up in 1366 01:10:00,800 --> 01:10:02,960 Speaker 8: that camaro because I gotta get out to the stove 1367 01:10:03,080 --> 01:10:04,120 Speaker 8: for close. 1368 01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:09,320 Speaker 12: Friday Podcast on the free iHeartRadio app. Coming up next, 1369 01:10:09,400 --> 01:10:13,320 Speaker 12: it is Junior and Sports Talk. 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What 1384 01:10:55,560 --> 01:10:56,280 Speaker 1: you got Junior? 1385 01:10:56,520 --> 01:10:57,200 Speaker 10: All right, Shirley. 1386 01:10:57,320 --> 01:11:01,280 Speaker 9: Game one between Minnesota Timberwolves and the Overland, Oklahoma City Thunder. 1387 01:11:01,720 --> 01:11:04,720 Speaker 10: The Thunder took Game one one, fourteen. 1388 01:11:04,360 --> 01:11:05,120 Speaker 1: To eighty eight. 1389 01:11:05,400 --> 01:11:10,040 Speaker 9: It's a twenty sixth point blowout. Listen shot Gilgers. Alexander 1390 01:11:10,120 --> 01:11:12,320 Speaker 9: gonna be the MVP, no doubt, and he showed up 1391 01:11:12,439 --> 01:11:15,280 Speaker 9: last night. Anthony Edwards was eighteen, and he said he 1392 01:11:15,360 --> 01:11:17,519 Speaker 9: wanted all the smoke. Well they brought it to him, 1393 01:11:18,040 --> 01:11:22,040 Speaker 9: and uh yeah, an l was gonna have to stop 1394 01:11:22,120 --> 01:11:25,000 Speaker 9: talking and start playing basketball. You're gonna have to squit 1395 01:11:25,080 --> 01:11:27,439 Speaker 9: trying to prove to us that you're the best. Okay, 1396 01:11:27,600 --> 01:11:29,920 Speaker 9: just play like you the best, because he did last night. 1397 01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:32,760 Speaker 9: They came out in the beginning, they you know, Minnesota 1398 01:11:33,040 --> 01:11:35,880 Speaker 9: looked like they looked like they had it under control 1399 01:11:36,000 --> 01:11:37,960 Speaker 9: on the road, but as soon as the third quarter 1400 01:11:38,040 --> 01:11:40,599 Speaker 9: got here, it was a different team. At halftime. They 1401 01:11:40,680 --> 01:11:42,840 Speaker 9: did not show up in that second half. So if 1402 01:11:42,840 --> 01:11:45,000 Speaker 9: you got something else to do, if the league get 1403 01:11:45,000 --> 01:11:47,320 Speaker 9: more than ten points, go ahead and start cooking, get 1404 01:11:47,360 --> 01:11:49,639 Speaker 9: your dinner ready early, go to bed. We ain't gonna 1405 01:11:49,680 --> 01:11:51,519 Speaker 9: sit up here and watch these blowouts. This is all 1406 01:11:51,560 --> 01:11:54,080 Speaker 9: I'm saying. Just go ahead and find something else to do. 1407 01:11:55,000 --> 01:11:58,880 Speaker 8: Yeah, I'm not disappointed either way. I'm gonna have to 1408 01:11:59,000 --> 01:12:02,439 Speaker 8: train you Junion. You know, being from Cleveland, you've got 1409 01:12:02,520 --> 01:12:05,559 Speaker 8: to learn how to suffer. You've got to learn how 1410 01:12:05,640 --> 01:12:09,520 Speaker 8: to suffer. I have told y'all one of my strips, 1411 01:12:10,080 --> 01:12:14,559 Speaker 8: one of my great qualities, is my ability to suffer. 1412 01:12:15,520 --> 01:12:19,080 Speaker 8: You're gonna have to well you know, but you're going 1413 01:12:19,200 --> 01:12:20,280 Speaker 8: through it. That's whatever. 1414 01:12:21,840 --> 01:12:23,040 Speaker 1: His pain is not our pain. 1415 01:12:23,400 --> 01:12:25,639 Speaker 15: Just drag his pain like that's supposed to be. Everybody 1416 01:12:25,800 --> 01:12:35,599 Speaker 15: learn to do it, you know, skill yourself and stuff 1417 01:12:35,640 --> 01:12:35,800 Speaker 15: to do. 1418 01:12:36,120 --> 01:12:40,479 Speaker 8: Hey, hey, listen to me. You took the Houston lost 1419 01:12:40,880 --> 01:12:42,000 Speaker 8: the wrong way. 1420 01:12:42,920 --> 01:12:44,360 Speaker 1: Now you're gonna. 1421 01:12:45,640 --> 01:12:48,759 Speaker 8: Right. But see this is all from this stems collar 1422 01:12:49,040 --> 01:12:52,320 Speaker 8: from the Houston Rocket is losing ever since they lost 1423 01:12:52,760 --> 01:12:56,519 Speaker 8: their attitude been like this. They ain't these dodgers. This 1424 01:12:56,760 --> 01:12:58,280 Speaker 8: goes back to you all. 1425 01:12:58,400 --> 01:13:01,760 Speaker 15: We hear back you growing up up and were in Cleveland, 1426 01:13:01,800 --> 01:13:04,519 Speaker 15: and it's always just been just a bunch of sending 1427 01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:07,560 Speaker 15: up and this is just over the years and you 1428 01:13:07,760 --> 01:13:10,080 Speaker 15: and all we here is Cleveland did this too. We 1429 01:13:10,160 --> 01:13:12,679 Speaker 15: don't never put Oh, they and broke our heart again. 1430 01:13:13,080 --> 01:13:16,080 Speaker 15: This is all on you, and you want us to 1431 01:13:16,280 --> 01:13:19,400 Speaker 15: feel that, and I'll don't feeling that with you. Just 1432 01:13:19,680 --> 01:13:24,840 Speaker 15: just stop being sad, all right. I'm tired of sense 1433 01:13:24,960 --> 01:13:27,960 Speaker 15: you right here, see right here, see here is the 1434 01:13:28,200 --> 01:13:33,559 Speaker 15: misread in you. This is a complete mystery. 1435 01:13:35,120 --> 01:13:41,519 Speaker 8: Ah Unlike you and him are have stopped being sad 1436 01:13:41,680 --> 01:13:45,479 Speaker 8: a long time ago. Y'all don't know how to suffer 1437 01:13:45,800 --> 01:13:50,200 Speaker 8: what you're fitting to learn though, because Houston at the 1438 01:13:50,320 --> 01:13:53,280 Speaker 8: House and Oklahoma Blue ouptember Wood next. 1439 01:13:53,760 --> 01:13:57,080 Speaker 1: See you tomorrow, guys, Thank you, Thank you. Junior. 1440 01:13:57,560 --> 01:13:59,559 Speaker 12: Coming up at the top of the hour, a lady 1441 01:13:59,640 --> 01:14:02,280 Speaker 12: found that her sister had sex with her man and 1442 01:14:02,400 --> 01:14:03,320 Speaker 12: she needs some advice. 1443 01:14:03,360 --> 01:14:03,639 Speaker 1: Steve. 1444 01:14:03,720 --> 01:14:06,320 Speaker 12: We'll get into it right after this. You're listening to 1445 01:14:06,439 --> 01:14:12,960 Speaker 12: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, this is 1446 01:14:13,040 --> 01:14:16,559 Speaker 12: from Vita and Raleigh. Vita says, over twenty years ago, 1447 01:14:16,760 --> 01:14:20,720 Speaker 12: my sister had sex with my boyfriend. I ran into 1448 01:14:20,800 --> 01:14:23,439 Speaker 12: the guy at our class reunion recently and he told 1449 01:14:23,560 --> 01:14:26,120 Speaker 12: me what happened. He said that my sister came on 1450 01:14:26,280 --> 01:14:28,519 Speaker 12: to him because I had told her that he was 1451 01:14:28,680 --> 01:14:32,639 Speaker 12: good in dead. He said she teased him about being 1452 01:14:32,720 --> 01:14:35,320 Speaker 12: scared to have sex with someone older than him, so 1453 01:14:35,479 --> 01:14:38,280 Speaker 12: he did it to prove her wrong. I believe him. 1454 01:14:38,560 --> 01:14:39,760 Speaker 19: How could my sister do that? 1455 01:14:40,160 --> 01:14:42,760 Speaker 1: She has kept this secret for years. I want to 1456 01:14:42,960 --> 01:14:47,080 Speaker 1: confront her. But is it worth it? This Vita, twenty 1457 01:14:47,200 --> 01:14:51,479 Speaker 1: years ago, I don't know if it was worth I 1458 01:14:51,600 --> 01:14:51,920 Speaker 1: don't know. 1459 01:14:53,760 --> 01:14:53,880 Speaker 7: Now. 1460 01:14:53,960 --> 01:14:56,280 Speaker 8: Let me answer this question, Shirley, because I think all 1461 01:14:56,320 --> 01:15:00,160 Speaker 8: thet huh, how did she find out about it? To 1462 01:15:00,240 --> 01:15:02,000 Speaker 8: do just volunteered the information. 1463 01:15:02,360 --> 01:15:02,559 Speaker 16: Yeah. 1464 01:15:02,760 --> 01:15:05,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, she ran into him at their class reunion and 1465 01:15:06,120 --> 01:15:09,800 Speaker 1: he told her what happened. Oh, they not seeing each other, 1466 01:15:09,960 --> 01:15:11,160 Speaker 1: she just ran into him. 1467 01:15:11,439 --> 01:15:14,439 Speaker 12: Yeah at the class reunion. This happened over twenty years ago, Steve, 1468 01:15:14,640 --> 01:15:19,360 Speaker 12: and he brought that up. Yeah, yeah, yeah, Yeah. 1469 01:15:19,960 --> 01:15:23,639 Speaker 8: That's a real nothing dude, man. Exactly, that's a real 1470 01:15:23,800 --> 01:15:25,920 Speaker 8: nothing dude. And if I were you, I would not 1471 01:15:26,160 --> 01:15:30,680 Speaker 8: allow him to ruin you in your sister's relationship like 1472 01:15:30,800 --> 01:15:33,439 Speaker 8: that because you had a where did this devil come from? 1473 01:15:33,520 --> 01:15:34,559 Speaker 8: From under this rock? 1474 01:15:34,920 --> 01:15:35,320 Speaker 19: Exactly? 1475 01:15:35,320 --> 01:15:37,720 Speaker 8: We had twenty year reunion and that he been he 1476 01:15:37,920 --> 01:15:40,720 Speaker 8: the whole time. He been thinking of telling you this. 1477 01:15:42,200 --> 01:15:45,799 Speaker 1: Dude, man, Yeah, what is he looking like after twenty years? Anyway? 1478 01:15:46,439 --> 01:15:51,040 Speaker 8: He say he had to say, which is really what's 1479 01:15:51,120 --> 01:15:51,680 Speaker 8: throwing up? 1480 01:15:51,880 --> 01:15:52,720 Speaker 7: Exactly? 1481 01:15:53,920 --> 01:15:56,479 Speaker 1: That's what come on, That's what I want to get through. 1482 01:15:56,640 --> 01:16:00,559 Speaker 8: Yeah, because I've seen some people from my past. I've 1483 01:16:00,600 --> 01:16:05,680 Speaker 8: heard woman say you remember me, uh huh, and and 1484 01:16:05,840 --> 01:16:16,320 Speaker 8: you said all I remembered wasn't the voice. Have you 1485 01:16:16,439 --> 01:16:19,160 Speaker 8: noticed that when you get older, your face and head 1486 01:16:19,280 --> 01:16:19,960 Speaker 8: gets bigger? 1487 01:16:21,240 --> 01:16:22,040 Speaker 6: Is that true? 1488 01:16:22,240 --> 01:16:22,439 Speaker 1: Boy? 1489 01:16:22,560 --> 01:16:25,800 Speaker 8: Look at your old pictures? Yeah, your face and head 1490 01:16:26,000 --> 01:16:27,519 Speaker 8: is bigger than it was in college. 1491 01:16:30,200 --> 01:16:33,040 Speaker 19: Yeah, the face gets a little wider, yeah face. 1492 01:16:34,240 --> 01:16:40,640 Speaker 8: Yeah, and some of them get wider than normal. I 1493 01:16:40,760 --> 01:16:42,439 Speaker 8: was talking to that girl. It looked like her whole 1494 01:16:42,520 --> 01:16:43,320 Speaker 8: face was shut. 1495 01:16:45,160 --> 01:16:49,120 Speaker 1: Was shut everything that comes to your mind. 1496 01:16:51,240 --> 01:16:51,519 Speaker 6: Back? 1497 01:16:52,760 --> 01:16:54,320 Speaker 1: Can you open your face? 1498 01:16:54,439 --> 01:16:54,639 Speaker 15: One? 1499 01:16:56,080 --> 01:16:56,719 Speaker 16: We can talk. 1500 01:16:59,360 --> 01:17:01,880 Speaker 1: All right, we'll face in the box. 1501 01:17:03,320 --> 01:17:05,639 Speaker 12: We're moving on. We have time for another one, Steve. 1502 01:17:06,080 --> 01:17:10,720 Speaker 12: This one is from Dwayne in Monroe. Dwayne says, I 1503 01:17:10,800 --> 01:17:13,280 Speaker 12: walked in on my girlfriend talking to another guy. She 1504 01:17:13,479 --> 01:17:16,360 Speaker 12: was asking if he was okay and if he needed anything. 1505 01:17:16,720 --> 01:17:19,080 Speaker 12: She said she was going to bring some food by 1506 01:17:19,240 --> 01:17:22,120 Speaker 12: because he needed to eat something. I asked her if 1507 01:17:22,160 --> 01:17:23,960 Speaker 12: the guy had a death in the family, and she 1508 01:17:24,040 --> 01:17:27,360 Speaker 12: said he was sad over a breakup. I think it's 1509 01:17:27,400 --> 01:17:31,120 Speaker 12: inappropriate for my girl to be counseling her grown coworker 1510 01:17:31,320 --> 01:17:35,400 Speaker 12: after a breakup. I told her that he's setting her 1511 01:17:35,520 --> 01:17:37,640 Speaker 12: up to see how nice she can be. Am I 1512 01:17:37,760 --> 01:17:39,800 Speaker 12: wrong for how I feel about this? 1513 01:17:40,360 --> 01:17:41,000 Speaker 1: Am I wrong? 1514 01:17:41,120 --> 01:17:41,160 Speaker 15: No? 1515 01:17:41,400 --> 01:17:45,519 Speaker 8: You ain't wrong, You ain't got wrong. But your problem 1516 01:17:45,760 --> 01:17:46,960 Speaker 8: is how your. 1517 01:17:46,920 --> 01:17:48,920 Speaker 1: Girl don't see no wrong in what she doing. 1518 01:17:49,280 --> 01:17:49,599 Speaker 13: Huh. 1519 01:17:50,040 --> 01:17:54,000 Speaker 8: See, you can't disrespect your man. I'm just telling you 1520 01:17:54,120 --> 01:17:57,639 Speaker 8: that right now, and you can't have your man thinking 1521 01:17:57,720 --> 01:18:01,720 Speaker 8: for one moment the man in front of him, No 1522 01:18:01,920 --> 01:18:04,960 Speaker 8: more than a woman can feel like there's another woman 1523 01:18:05,040 --> 01:18:08,240 Speaker 8: in front of her. That ain't gonna make that. That 1524 01:18:08,320 --> 01:18:12,919 Speaker 8: ain't gonna make no sense to nobody in a Relationshipry. 1525 01:18:12,720 --> 01:18:16,200 Speaker 1: All of those and their food on over here over here, 1526 01:18:16,600 --> 01:18:18,719 Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, you ain't taking nobody nothing. 1527 01:18:20,240 --> 01:18:23,600 Speaker 8: He ain't got nobody can take him some soup and 1528 01:18:23,720 --> 01:18:26,720 Speaker 8: how you just concerned about his happiness exactly? 1529 01:18:27,400 --> 01:18:28,559 Speaker 1: And he doesn't have a cold. 1530 01:18:28,640 --> 01:18:30,000 Speaker 19: What is she taking food. 1531 01:18:29,800 --> 01:18:30,320 Speaker 8: Over there for? 1532 01:18:31,040 --> 01:18:31,479 Speaker 7: I can't. 1533 01:18:31,920 --> 01:18:34,080 Speaker 1: I don't know what he's saying to get that. Yeah, 1534 01:18:35,400 --> 01:18:42,760 Speaker 1: soup and stuff. That's a cure for a breakup, all right, 1535 01:18:43,680 --> 01:18:44,759 Speaker 1: all right, thanks Steve. 1536 01:18:44,880 --> 01:18:47,120 Speaker 12: Coming up in twenty minutes after we'll have more of 1537 01:18:47,240 --> 01:18:48,479 Speaker 12: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1538 01:18:48,720 --> 01:18:49,360 Speaker 1: Right after this. 1539 01:18:50,200 --> 01:18:53,200 Speaker 16: Soup and pennies. Now, that's another one I could get into. 1540 01:18:53,320 --> 01:18:57,280 Speaker 1: Oh you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1541 01:19:01,439 --> 01:19:03,880 Speaker 12: Well, guys, summer is one month away, and it's that 1542 01:19:04,040 --> 01:19:06,920 Speaker 12: time of year when arguments over the thermostat in. 1543 01:19:07,000 --> 01:19:09,559 Speaker 1: The house heat up, so to speak. 1544 01:19:09,840 --> 01:19:12,960 Speaker 12: Couples notoriously argue over it being too hot or too 1545 01:19:13,040 --> 01:19:15,800 Speaker 12: cold in the house, so the US Department of Energy 1546 01:19:15,880 --> 01:19:19,439 Speaker 12: weighed in on what the ideal household temperature should be 1547 01:19:19,800 --> 01:19:23,280 Speaker 12: this summer. According to the report, the ideal temperature to 1548 01:19:23,400 --> 01:19:28,599 Speaker 12: set your AC is seventy eight degrees seven eight threes. 1549 01:19:29,280 --> 01:19:33,720 Speaker 1: They're saying, agrees, what what what? 1550 01:19:34,040 --> 01:19:34,080 Speaker 20: What? 1551 01:19:34,280 --> 01:19:35,519 Speaker 8: What department? Is this your? 1552 01:19:36,200 --> 01:19:40,160 Speaker 1: The US Department of Energy. Steve, Yeah, a. 1553 01:19:40,240 --> 01:19:48,479 Speaker 8: Lot married to Mardie, cold Tommy. It wouldn't bother me. 1554 01:19:48,760 --> 01:19:51,880 Speaker 8: We live and most I think, all three to me, 1555 01:19:51,960 --> 01:19:54,200 Speaker 8: and I think we all live in a meat lockerm 1556 01:19:56,160 --> 01:20:00,280 Speaker 8: got a cold now I do, and all all of 1557 01:20:00,400 --> 01:20:05,680 Speaker 8: us is ball hitted. Wait a minute, wait, wait, if 1558 01:20:05,760 --> 01:20:08,080 Speaker 8: you look at the zoom right now, and I asked 1559 01:20:08,120 --> 01:20:10,640 Speaker 8: you all this right here, ladies, ladies, look at Joe 1560 01:20:10,760 --> 01:20:15,719 Speaker 8: zoom right now, look up at Joso. Can you tell 1561 01:20:15,920 --> 01:20:18,519 Speaker 8: which one ain't ball hitting? And he also is? 1562 01:20:18,680 --> 01:20:26,160 Speaker 1: No you call it me? Can you tell who is 1563 01:20:26,439 --> 01:20:27,519 Speaker 1: not ball hitting? 1564 01:20:29,600 --> 01:20:29,920 Speaker 7: Julia? 1565 01:20:30,000 --> 01:20:37,519 Speaker 21: Take you away, phone, all right, ball all the way, 1566 01:20:37,880 --> 01:20:43,120 Speaker 21: all right? Coming up next we'll play around this. You're 1567 01:20:43,160 --> 01:20:50,760 Speaker 21: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You've heard us 1568 01:20:50,840 --> 01:20:53,840 Speaker 21: talk about the benefits of Globe Life insurance. Globe Life 1569 01:20:53,920 --> 01:20:57,679 Speaker 21: has been protecting families for generations. Globe Life is easy 1570 01:20:57,760 --> 01:21:00,840 Speaker 21: to buy, with rates starting as low as three dollars 1571 01:21:00,920 --> 01:21:03,639 Speaker 21: and forty nine cents a month. There is no medical exam, 1572 01:21:04,080 --> 01:21:07,479 Speaker 21: just a simple application called globe Life Today at one 1573 01:21:07,600 --> 01:21:10,599 Speaker 21: eight hundred two five one fifty four hundred, or visit 1574 01:21:10,680 --> 01:21:14,120 Speaker 21: globelife radio dot com again. That's one eight hundred two 1575 01:21:14,240 --> 01:21:17,720 Speaker 21: five one fifty four hundred or globelife radio dot com. 1576 01:21:18,600 --> 01:21:21,360 Speaker 21: It's time now, guys, for a round of would you rather? 1577 01:21:21,439 --> 01:21:25,360 Speaker 21: And this is the Memorial Day edition, okay, the holiday edition? 1578 01:21:26,000 --> 01:21:26,679 Speaker 21: Would you rather? 1579 01:21:26,880 --> 01:21:29,840 Speaker 1: A cooler full of sodas or a cooler full of 1580 01:21:30,040 --> 01:21:36,200 Speaker 1: beer and wine? Both going bof a. 1581 01:21:36,640 --> 01:21:42,599 Speaker 8: I don't drink. I don't drink beers. My boy's a beer. 1582 01:21:43,160 --> 01:21:49,120 Speaker 1: They drinks plenty of it. Drink anything. The look or 1583 01:21:49,200 --> 01:21:50,920 Speaker 1: bial for my dudes when they come. 1584 01:21:50,880 --> 01:21:56,559 Speaker 8: It's astronomical, well goodness, extranomical. 1585 01:21:56,960 --> 01:21:57,200 Speaker 1: Wow. 1586 01:21:57,720 --> 01:22:00,439 Speaker 12: Would you rather have a water balloon fight or would 1587 01:22:00,439 --> 01:22:03,120 Speaker 12: you rather have a water gun fight? We're doing water 1588 01:22:03,160 --> 01:22:04,559 Speaker 12: balloons or water gun. 1589 01:22:05,680 --> 01:22:11,680 Speaker 8: Yeah, water gun fight, balloom boom, Junior. You have to 1590 01:22:11,760 --> 01:22:14,959 Speaker 8: have your water gun fighter ballue fight here with warm. 1591 01:22:14,920 --> 01:22:19,439 Speaker 1: Water, no ice, cold water for Junior. 1592 01:22:22,280 --> 01:22:24,160 Speaker 8: It ain't gonna be refreshing. 1593 01:22:26,080 --> 01:22:30,160 Speaker 12: All right at the cookout for Memorial Day? Would you 1594 01:22:30,240 --> 01:22:34,519 Speaker 12: rather some classic classic R and B music? Or would 1595 01:22:34,560 --> 01:22:36,640 Speaker 12: you rather some current. 1596 01:22:36,640 --> 01:22:37,400 Speaker 19: R and B music? 1597 01:22:38,960 --> 01:22:39,919 Speaker 1: Ain't got nothing. 1598 01:22:41,760 --> 01:22:48,640 Speaker 8: Like what current R and B music? The Beau some Walker. 1599 01:22:49,960 --> 01:22:53,599 Speaker 10: Money long Money, Yeah, yeah, October London. 1600 01:22:54,120 --> 01:22:59,400 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she really does his whole album. 1601 01:23:00,120 --> 01:23:02,799 Speaker 8: He's class, Yes, he's classic boy. 1602 01:23:04,920 --> 01:23:06,880 Speaker 1: Yes, all right? 1603 01:23:06,880 --> 01:23:09,479 Speaker 12: Would you rather have jury duty for two months? Or 1604 01:23:09,479 --> 01:23:12,680 Speaker 12: would you rather go to five Broadway musicals? 1605 01:23:13,439 --> 01:23:14,080 Speaker 16: Is it puffet? 1606 01:23:14,320 --> 01:23:19,200 Speaker 1: That don't? Is it puffets? 1607 01:23:19,240 --> 01:23:19,719 Speaker 20: Your duty? 1608 01:23:20,760 --> 01:23:24,320 Speaker 1: Jury duty for two months? It might be puffy and 1609 01:23:24,439 --> 01:23:26,720 Speaker 1: Mike whoever? I couldn't serve on. 1610 01:23:26,840 --> 01:23:33,040 Speaker 8: That, I can't and all that crazy? My face up, 1611 01:23:33,080 --> 01:23:42,160 Speaker 8: that so crazy hard drawing me right, defendant, Look at 1612 01:23:42,160 --> 01:23:50,760 Speaker 8: Steve Hey, yeah, Steve mouth fell open for the ninth 1613 01:23:50,880 --> 01:23:55,439 Speaker 8: time this morning. All right, we have to fantom at 1614 01:23:55,439 --> 01:23:56,840 Speaker 8: the opera. Okay? 1615 01:23:57,080 --> 01:23:58,480 Speaker 1: Five Broadway musicals? 1616 01:23:58,560 --> 01:23:58,920 Speaker 8: All right? 1617 01:24:00,000 --> 01:24:00,280 Speaker 18: All right? 1618 01:24:01,280 --> 01:24:02,720 Speaker 1: Last one for Memorial Day? 1619 01:24:02,840 --> 01:24:05,640 Speaker 12: Would you rather have a seafood boil or would you 1620 01:24:06,200 --> 01:24:07,280 Speaker 12: rather have a barbecue? 1621 01:24:07,520 --> 01:24:11,599 Speaker 1: Which one? Well, b barbecue food ball. 1622 01:24:14,120 --> 01:24:14,599 Speaker 16: Barbecue? 1623 01:24:14,680 --> 01:24:18,960 Speaker 8: Dennis breading that paper TenneT bag or eat? 1624 01:24:19,439 --> 01:24:21,639 Speaker 1: You're talking about? That's good people? 1625 01:24:21,720 --> 01:24:24,040 Speaker 8: Hey, who is y'all moved back? That's my signe. 1626 01:24:25,800 --> 01:24:26,160 Speaker 7: Who is. 1627 01:24:27,840 --> 01:24:30,400 Speaker 8: I'm looking over there at the crab. Then you grab it. 1628 01:24:30,520 --> 01:24:35,840 Speaker 20: What come into some fis last break of the day 1629 01:24:36,160 --> 01:24:38,360 Speaker 20: and we'll close out the show with the one and 1630 01:24:38,520 --> 01:24:42,040 Speaker 20: only the Man, the Myth, the Legend, Steve Harvey. 1631 01:24:42,240 --> 01:24:45,639 Speaker 1: Right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1632 01:24:49,560 --> 01:24:49,880 Speaker 10: Folks. 1633 01:24:50,120 --> 01:24:53,679 Speaker 8: There are a lot of reasons to like Hyundai. Hyundai 1634 01:24:53,800 --> 01:24:56,960 Speaker 8: has done a lot to support American consumers. I mean, 1635 01:24:57,400 --> 01:25:00,880 Speaker 8: they announced their investments of twenty one billion dollars in 1636 01:25:00,960 --> 01:25:03,439 Speaker 8: the United States over the next three years that will 1637 01:25:03,520 --> 01:25:06,960 Speaker 8: expand manufacturing and create more jobs for Americas. 1638 01:25:07,120 --> 01:25:09,679 Speaker 15: And they just announced that they will not be raising 1639 01:25:09,920 --> 01:25:12,479 Speaker 15: M s r P through June second, no matter what. 1640 01:25:13,000 --> 01:25:14,920 Speaker 16: Called five six two three one. 1641 01:25:14,880 --> 01:25:17,800 Speaker 8: Four four six zero three for more details. 1642 01:25:18,479 --> 01:25:20,920 Speaker 12: All right, guys, here we are last break of the day, 1643 01:25:21,600 --> 01:25:22,720 Speaker 12: and it's been a great day. 1644 01:25:23,840 --> 01:25:29,760 Speaker 1: Wow, what a day it has been. Steve, you got 1645 01:25:29,800 --> 01:25:33,639 Speaker 1: some for us? What a question, Carlin? Question for Steve. Yeah, 1646 01:25:33,720 --> 01:25:34,639 Speaker 1: So here's my question. 1647 01:25:36,280 --> 01:25:39,519 Speaker 8: Listening it's. 1648 01:25:40,920 --> 01:25:47,840 Speaker 1: It is mean trying to Steve was looking at me like, uh, 1649 01:25:48,000 --> 01:25:48,599 Speaker 1: did Carlin? 1650 01:25:49,120 --> 01:25:49,719 Speaker 15: She had a question? 1651 01:25:50,439 --> 01:25:54,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry, I'm like that that blacked out. Here's 1652 01:25:54,240 --> 01:25:57,000 Speaker 1: my question. Steve, how do you show up for yourself 1653 01:25:57,280 --> 01:25:59,720 Speaker 1: every day? How do you do that? 1654 01:26:00,120 --> 01:26:01,080 Speaker 8: Is a. 1655 01:26:02,560 --> 01:26:05,679 Speaker 1: I know it's a struggle sometimes, you know, I guess 1656 01:26:05,720 --> 01:26:09,080 Speaker 1: I would have to say a person has. 1657 01:26:09,000 --> 01:26:15,519 Speaker 8: To make a commitment to your vision, to your dreams, 1658 01:26:15,640 --> 01:26:18,960 Speaker 8: to your aspirations, and you got to get committed to that. 1659 01:26:20,320 --> 01:26:23,679 Speaker 8: And you have to really understand that this is based 1660 01:26:23,840 --> 01:26:27,639 Speaker 8: solely on you making the decision every day that I'm 1661 01:26:27,640 --> 01:26:30,920 Speaker 8: gonna be about it. And if you're not gonna be 1662 01:26:31,040 --> 01:26:34,320 Speaker 8: about it, you can stop looking around because it's really 1663 01:26:34,479 --> 01:26:34,800 Speaker 8: on you. 1664 01:26:36,160 --> 01:26:38,439 Speaker 1: It's really not about anybody else. 1665 01:26:39,280 --> 01:26:42,639 Speaker 8: It's really not what they saying about you online, it's 1666 01:26:42,760 --> 01:26:45,439 Speaker 8: not about how they feel about you on your job, 1667 01:26:45,920 --> 01:26:49,240 Speaker 8: and nothing to do with your coworkers. Your boss might 1668 01:26:49,360 --> 01:26:52,280 Speaker 8: have a certain amount of control in certain situations, but 1669 01:26:52,439 --> 01:26:54,920 Speaker 8: your boss is not in control of your destiny and 1670 01:26:55,040 --> 01:27:01,000 Speaker 8: your life unless you give it to him. And not 1671 01:27:01,200 --> 01:27:05,560 Speaker 8: to give permission to anybody to have control over my 1672 01:27:05,720 --> 01:27:11,400 Speaker 8: life or my destiny except my God. That's it, and 1673 01:27:11,560 --> 01:27:16,719 Speaker 8: I have made a conscious commitment. It's what you gotta do, y'all. 1674 01:27:17,040 --> 01:27:20,960 Speaker 8: You gotta decide I'm gonna be about it today. I'm 1675 01:27:21,080 --> 01:27:24,519 Speaker 8: gonna be about it. In spite of I'm gonna be 1676 01:27:24,560 --> 01:27:26,559 Speaker 8: about it, in spite of the fact that I don't 1677 01:27:26,600 --> 01:27:30,720 Speaker 8: really feel myself today, I'm gonna be about it. I'm 1678 01:27:30,720 --> 01:27:33,840 Speaker 8: gonna be about it no matter what they say. I'm 1679 01:27:33,840 --> 01:27:36,680 Speaker 8: gonna be about it, no matter what the naysayers have 1680 01:27:36,840 --> 01:27:39,200 Speaker 8: come up with. I don't care what the vote is. 1681 01:27:39,880 --> 01:27:43,280 Speaker 8: I really don't care. I can't tell you how many 1682 01:27:43,400 --> 01:27:47,800 Speaker 8: times I have had to ignore what's being said about me, 1683 01:27:49,200 --> 01:27:52,120 Speaker 8: and you have to do that. I can't tell you 1684 01:27:52,240 --> 01:27:55,760 Speaker 8: how many times you're gonna have to ignore their opinion 1685 01:27:55,880 --> 01:27:59,800 Speaker 8: of you. You have got to make a commitment in 1686 01:27:59,840 --> 01:28:04,439 Speaker 8: you your mind that you're gonna be about it. And 1687 01:28:04,560 --> 01:28:06,920 Speaker 8: you know, you hear the saying that the race isn't 1688 01:28:06,920 --> 01:28:09,000 Speaker 8: given to the swift, but to him that endure it 1689 01:28:09,120 --> 01:28:13,920 Speaker 8: to the end. You got to endure, man. This is 1690 01:28:14,040 --> 01:28:18,679 Speaker 8: not going to be simple or easy. You have got 1691 01:28:18,800 --> 01:28:23,479 Speaker 8: to be persistent because guess what life gonna keep coming, 1692 01:28:25,000 --> 01:28:27,960 Speaker 8: and what you have to factor into it every day 1693 01:28:28,880 --> 01:28:30,120 Speaker 8: is that haters is coming to. 1694 01:28:31,960 --> 01:28:32,479 Speaker 1: They coming. 1695 01:28:34,160 --> 01:28:36,640 Speaker 8: And the crazy thing like now in the world we 1696 01:28:36,760 --> 01:28:40,280 Speaker 8: live in today is because of social media and technology, 1697 01:28:41,000 --> 01:28:45,519 Speaker 8: hater's got a voice, hater's got a platform. Who used 1698 01:28:45,560 --> 01:28:47,960 Speaker 8: to never be able to even have access to you. 1699 01:28:49,439 --> 01:28:53,439 Speaker 8: So you gotta be careful with trolling and social media 1700 01:28:53,560 --> 01:28:56,080 Speaker 8: and all of these stuff. Man, you can't let that 1701 01:28:56,240 --> 01:29:00,640 Speaker 8: in be in your life, because man, you'll get there. 1702 01:29:00,800 --> 01:29:04,040 Speaker 8: I forgot what I was watching the other day, and 1703 01:29:04,400 --> 01:29:08,519 Speaker 8: the person was so hung up on the social media 1704 01:29:08,560 --> 01:29:10,800 Speaker 8: and what they were saying. Oh, I know what I 1705 01:29:10,920 --> 01:29:15,440 Speaker 8: was watching. I was watching a documentary on Meg the Stallion. 1706 01:29:16,520 --> 01:29:19,080 Speaker 8: I was on a plane and I was watching, which 1707 01:29:19,120 --> 01:29:21,000 Speaker 8: is a really good thing. You know, these young people 1708 01:29:21,439 --> 01:29:23,479 Speaker 8: they document so much of their life because they got 1709 01:29:23,560 --> 01:29:25,880 Speaker 8: phone cameras and they got somebody following them for social 1710 01:29:25,960 --> 01:29:28,639 Speaker 8: media content. But if you keep it on long enough, 1711 01:29:28,680 --> 01:29:32,640 Speaker 8: you start hearing the real. And Meg the Stallion was 1712 01:29:32,720 --> 01:29:34,920 Speaker 8: really going through it with that trial, with that with 1713 01:29:35,040 --> 01:29:36,920 Speaker 8: that guy that shot her and all like this, and 1714 01:29:37,000 --> 01:29:40,679 Speaker 8: then so many people sided against her and it started 1715 01:29:40,760 --> 01:29:45,120 Speaker 8: affecting her mentally where she was having anxiety and depression 1716 01:29:45,200 --> 01:29:48,960 Speaker 8: and all of this here. And she said at one moment, 1717 01:29:49,080 --> 01:29:53,120 Speaker 8: she said, every time something would happen, she would see 1718 01:29:53,200 --> 01:29:56,920 Speaker 8: what the post was saying, and they was eating her 1719 01:29:57,000 --> 01:29:59,400 Speaker 8: up and it was throwing her into something. And she said, 1720 01:29:59,600 --> 01:30:03,680 Speaker 8: I got stop reading this stuff. Well, you got to 1721 01:30:03,720 --> 01:30:07,160 Speaker 8: stop reading it, because now you're allowing someone else to 1722 01:30:07,280 --> 01:30:09,240 Speaker 8: have an opinion about you that don't even know you, 1723 01:30:10,360 --> 01:30:14,560 Speaker 8: and and what's more importantly, do not even care about you. 1724 01:30:16,000 --> 01:30:19,679 Speaker 8: So I developed a couple of I developed a couple 1725 01:30:19,760 --> 01:30:25,439 Speaker 8: of coping mechanisms. Number one, if you don't have my 1726 01:30:25,600 --> 01:30:29,760 Speaker 8: cell number, I don't care what you think. I don't. 1727 01:30:30,840 --> 01:30:34,600 Speaker 8: And that has really helped, because if you're important to me, 1728 01:30:34,800 --> 01:30:38,920 Speaker 8: you probably have my number. And if my number ain't 1729 01:30:39,000 --> 01:30:42,080 Speaker 8: lit up with texts from people who actually have access 1730 01:30:42,240 --> 01:30:46,080 Speaker 8: to me, what do I care about you online? And 1731 01:30:46,160 --> 01:30:49,800 Speaker 8: then you have to understand about trollers and haters. They 1732 01:30:49,840 --> 01:30:54,320 Speaker 8: are not decision makers, power brokers, shakers and movers. They're 1733 01:30:54,400 --> 01:30:54,840 Speaker 8: none of that. 1734 01:30:56,000 --> 01:30:56,960 Speaker 1: They just hate us. 1735 01:30:58,240 --> 01:31:02,080 Speaker 8: So I have decide it that I'm going to show 1736 01:31:02,200 --> 01:31:05,120 Speaker 8: up every day, even when I don't feel like it. 1737 01:31:06,080 --> 01:31:07,559 Speaker 8: Just showing up makes you win. 1738 01:31:07,840 --> 01:31:08,000 Speaker 20: Man. 1739 01:31:09,120 --> 01:31:12,519 Speaker 8: Just showing up put you ahead of the game. Do 1740 01:31:12,720 --> 01:31:14,960 Speaker 8: you know how many people are not gonna show up? 1741 01:31:14,960 --> 01:31:16,240 Speaker 8: You know how many people gonna quit? 1742 01:31:17,600 --> 01:31:17,960 Speaker 17: Not me. 1743 01:31:18,840 --> 01:31:22,559 Speaker 8: I've made a commitment to show up. I'm showing up. 1744 01:31:23,520 --> 01:31:26,600 Speaker 8: Just show up, man, Just keep putting one foot in 1745 01:31:26,720 --> 01:31:31,599 Speaker 8: front of the next, keep showing up. There's a victory 1746 01:31:31,880 --> 01:31:33,519 Speaker 8: on the other side of that, and I don't care 1747 01:31:33,560 --> 01:31:36,920 Speaker 8: how uncomfortable it is. But I've discovered one last thing. 1748 01:31:37,400 --> 01:31:40,800 Speaker 8: Everything I've ever wanted in life was on the other 1749 01:31:41,000 --> 01:31:44,720 Speaker 8: side of uncomfortable. I just keep putting my foot in 1750 01:31:44,760 --> 01:31:46,920 Speaker 8: front of the other. I don't care how uncomfortable it is. 1751 01:31:47,200 --> 01:31:50,160 Speaker 8: I'm committed. Ton't show up. Thank you for asking, because 1752 01:31:50,640 --> 01:31:55,920 Speaker 8: those are my closing lids. Why sho That's why they 1753 01:31:56,040 --> 01:31:58,240 Speaker 8: talk to God today. He'd absolutely love to hear. 1754 01:31:58,120 --> 01:31:58,479 Speaker 16: Front of it. 1755 01:32:00,120 --> 01:32:01,800 Speaker 1: Is necessary voidware prohibited. 1756 01:32:01,840 --> 01:32:05,320 Speaker 12: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1757 01:32:05,479 --> 01:32:09,680 Speaker 12: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve HARVEYFM 1758 01:32:09,840 --> 01:32:13,400 Speaker 12: dot com. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.