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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to.

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Speaker 3: Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 4: All right, speaking of couples, no real segue there.

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Speaker 1: But that's pretty good.

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Speaker 2: There's a new term that potential couples or non couples

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Speaker 2: are using, detached dating.

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Speaker 4: But is it New Systney where we've seen this.

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Speaker 5: That's where I was like, I don't know, because detached dating,

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Speaker 5: if you're single, you may be a detached dater if

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Speaker 5: you are kind of dating multiple people. And I think

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Speaker 5: it's a slippery slope with all the dating apps because

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Speaker 5: it's just so easy to see ipe left right and

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Speaker 5: date casually not fully commit to a relationship. So we

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Speaker 5: can break down what exactly is a detached dater or

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Speaker 5: signs that you might be guilty of it. And one

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Speaker 5: is that you might feel a wall is up between

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Speaker 5: you and your partners, and you always kind of have

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Speaker 5: that guard up, you always have that wall. You don't

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Speaker 5: you don't let those people in, you won't let them

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Speaker 5: close to you. Another one is that you keep things

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Speaker 5: casual or date multiple people at a time, using that

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Speaker 5: as a way to avoid attachment. But then I just

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Speaker 5: think at the end of the day, it's just your player.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm trying to say. It's like, isn't it

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Speaker 2: just wanting to play? But it's like you Okay, So

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Speaker 2: let's say you're a detached dater because you have this

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Speaker 2: wall up between you and your partners.

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Speaker 4: You won't let people get close to you. So what's

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Speaker 4: going on with you?

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Speaker 2: If you want to like get deeper into it, like

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Speaker 2: what is your issue?

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Speaker 5: That's the that's what the more you can get with

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Speaker 5: the quote unquote experts, it's all about you finding peace

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Speaker 5: within yourself. You know, it's all that blah blah blah

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Speaker 5: love stuff where it's.

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Speaker 2: Like you got to love somebody else. There's an author

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Speaker 2: David Brooks, and he writes about I wrote this down.

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Speaker 2: He writes about that some say you have to actually

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Speaker 2: be loved before you can love, Like you have to

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Speaker 2: be loved so you can understand what love is to

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Speaker 2: give it to somebody else.

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Speaker 4: So I'm not so sure. So you need to love

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Speaker 4: you first?

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Speaker 5: Did you feel that from your parents? Or is it

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Speaker 5: that not the same type of love?

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Speaker 2: It could be the same, could be different. But I think,

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Speaker 2: like you know, you always see her. I mean, I'm

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Speaker 2: kind of I don't know if I'm so much about

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Speaker 4: It's I can keep here from everybody.

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Speaker 2: Well, you've got to love yourself before you can love everybody. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I don't know if that works for everybody. Maybe you

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Speaker 2: need to like understand what love feels like to receive

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Speaker 2: it to be able to give it back to someone else.

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Speaker 5: I know, I see what you're saying, right, But then

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Speaker 5: you can also fall into the trap of loving that

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Speaker 5: so much that you would never know to give it

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Speaker 5: back because you're just trapped in that vortex of just

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Speaker 5: this is awesome, Like, why do I have to give

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Speaker 5: it back to somebody else if I'm just getting all

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Speaker 5: this love?

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Speaker 1: Tanya, Well, I think it's important to know the love

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Speaker 1: languages because you could be love the way that you

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Speaker 1: could be giving love the way that you like to

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Speaker 1: receive it, but that person might not receive love in

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Speaker 1: the same way as you, So then you're basically just

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Speaker 1: like speaking different languages.

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Speaker 2: But the concept of feeling loved to give that back

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Speaker 2: to somebody is an interesting one that's different than oh,

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Speaker 2: I've just got to love me before I love you.

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Speaker 5: I think it starts with your children. I think it's

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Speaker 5: the way that you're loved by your parents.

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Speaker 2: Because what if you didn't have the kind of love

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Speaker 2: you need from your parents right then you need to

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Speaker 2: find that from a partner and someone else before you

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Speaker 2: understand how to get You might need to have that

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Speaker 2: breakthrough with someone before you can understand how to give

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Speaker 1: It all goes back to childhood. Let me tell you

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Speaker 1: every therapy session I have, it's like this reminds you

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Speaker 1: of a time.

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Speaker 4: Every session tells you the same time, stop paying.

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Speaker 1: Well no, no, no, But like I'm not saying every single session,

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Speaker 1: but most most.

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Speaker 2: Every session they're telling you to childhood.

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Speaker 4: You're good.

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Speaker 1: Most cases things come from things that stem from your childhood.

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Speaker 1: It really all does.

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Speaker 4: It is true?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is true, just fromout therapy sessions here. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: happy dating. Okay, let's get to these talkbacks that you

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Speaker 2: send in anytime about anything really inside the IRRADI app.

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Speaker 4: It's a red microphone.

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Speaker 2: There are a lot of fun used to play back there,

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Speaker 2: a bit of a potpourri of things.

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Speaker 4: This one is from Blondie in Orange County.

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Speaker 6: Hey, Ryan, Sisiny and Tanya, good morning. I was just

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Speaker 6: listening to you guys, and Ryan you're talking about your

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Speaker 6: sweating some days you sweat and some days you don't.

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Speaker 6: I have the exact same problem. It could be your anxiety.

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Speaker 6: And you can ask your doctor for dry salt deoder it.

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Speaker 6: It's prescribed, but it really really works. It's called dry salt.

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Speaker 7: You're welcome.

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Speaker 5: Have a wonderful day.

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Speaker 2: I just changed your life. You're welcome. Yeah. Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: was saying that some days I noticed that I can

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Speaker 2: wear a shirt, especially these hot summer days and have

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Speaker 2: real pit sweat. Other day is I don't have it?

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Speaker 2: It could be anxiety. I also think I have to

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Speaker 2: do maybe what I.

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Speaker 5: Eat that maybe have something to do with it as well.

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Speaker 5: But yeah, that dry soul.

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Speaker 2: But why is it embarrassing? It shouldn't be embarrassing. Summer

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Speaker 2: day you have wet pits, like it's not. We act

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Speaker 2: like it's a toot.

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Speaker 5: You know, it's not like the most attractive thing to

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Speaker 5: look at, and it's not it's not equivalent to it.

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Speaker 2: Its natural. I mean, it's a lot of things.

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Speaker 1: Are natural that we don't need to see.

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Speaker 2: But but like what if I perspire on my back

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Speaker 2: the same thing that's a weird actual thing.

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Speaker 5: Meaning to go to lunch and you showed up with

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Speaker 5: like super sweaty pits.

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Speaker 2: I'd be like, bro. But by the way, if we

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Speaker 2: were to walk to lunch here in Burbank in the heat,

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Speaker 2: my stomach would be wet.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I'm not going to lunch with you guys anyway.

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Speaker 1: Get that dry so and fix your pits. People get

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Speaker 1: sweaty all over, like this girl on Love Island, USA

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Speaker 1: has like extremely sweaty palms.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean it can also be a sign that your

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Speaker 2: your your furnace is burning calories, right, I mean, you're

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Speaker 2: you're got that metabolism alive.

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Speaker 4: True, I'll talk it up to that.

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Speaker 2: Uh. This is from Brittany and San Bernardino telling us

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Speaker 2: what to do if we ever get a cold.

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Speaker 8: If you have a cold, you should put a fresh

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Speaker 8: garlic in your sock at night.

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Speaker 5: I've heard of them, and.

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Speaker 6: It should help draw out the virus.

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Speaker 2: This is something I believe Patty told us about.

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Speaker 5: It's not garlic. You can do chopped onions like raw onions,

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Speaker 5: and then you put them in like a in like

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Speaker 5: a bag, and then put the put the bag on

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Speaker 5: your feet, wrap it around, and then.

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Speaker 2: Put a sock on and onions. I f like onions

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Speaker 2: stay in the room for a long time garlic. I

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Speaker 2: don't know garlic doesn't onions have a for me?

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Speaker 4: Onion.

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Speaker 2: Raw onions are stronger than raw garlic. I don't mind

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Speaker 2: raw garlic scent and aroma, but raw onions have a

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Speaker 2: have not.

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Speaker 5: It has like a tanging.

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Speaker 2: Please send us these random to walk back. There sinside

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Speaker 2: the iheartradiop at red microphone.

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Speaker 4: Appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: Brittany want to try and help out Marissa. So Marissa

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Speaker 2: number one, thank you for listening. Number two, Yes, thank

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Speaker 2: you for trusting us enough to call in and talk

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Speaker 2: about this.

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Speaker 4: What's up?

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Speaker 8: Oh man? Thanks? Okay, Well, basically this is a weird

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Speaker 8: small world story. But I'm not sure what to do,

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Speaker 8: so I'm calling you. I'm going to a friend's wedding

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Speaker 8: next month, and I'm bringing my boyfriend. He hasn't met

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Speaker 8: and I don't get to see her much at all,

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Speaker 8: but she is truly one of my best friends, like

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Speaker 8: best friends. Anyway, I showed him a photo of her

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Speaker 8: with her fiance and he immediately swore he was like, uh,

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Speaker 8: I know him, like and not not in a good way.

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Speaker 8: He's like he is not a good guy, which freaked

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Speaker 8: me out. So I was, like, my boyfriend basically studied

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Speaker 8: in Guadalajara for six months in college, and he swears

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Speaker 8: that this guy was there and he must have fucked

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Speaker 8: with thirty women in the six weeks they were down there.

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Speaker 4: What was thirty?

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Speaker 8: I know, yeah according to Yeah, my partner and I know.

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Speaker 8: And he said on top of that, you guys that

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Speaker 8: he got a reputation for like walking out on bar

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Speaker 8: all the time. So I'm calling because I'm like, do

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Speaker 8: I tell my friend this? And my boyfriend I've asked

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Speaker 8: him a million times. He is one, sure this is him?

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Speaker 1: Have they interacted yet?

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Speaker 5: Your boyfriend and him?

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Speaker 8: No? No, He like this is gonna be the first

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Speaker 8: time meeting you know, well, like he's seen him again.

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Speaker 2: Don't you think.

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Speaker 5: That that's gonna I think you let that happen naturally,

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Speaker 5: like at the wedding, so intense. When I think we're going.

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Speaker 8: I mean, like in what the next next month.

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Speaker 5: There's no way you're going to like break up that marriage, right,

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Speaker 5: now or that might be his old self.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, turned over a new leaf.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean I'd like to that. That is something

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Speaker 8: I said to him. I was like, listen, like they

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Speaker 8: seem very much in love. I've obviously been talking to

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Speaker 8: my best friend this whole time, and she's like, there

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Speaker 8: sounds amazing, but I have you met I met him

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Speaker 8: briefly over FaceTime, like like I said, I don't get

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Speaker 8: over to the East coast often, but like he seemed

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Speaker 8: great and I didn't have any contexts like my boyfriend has,

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Speaker 8: so I was just right, like off of instinct, I

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Speaker 8: was like, oh, she's happy. I'm I'm happy if she's happy. Right,

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Speaker 8: But this is freaking me out.

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Speaker 2: So I've been waiting patiently to give you clear no opinion,

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Speaker 2: whatblutely you get this story?

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Speaker 4: Told?

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Speaker 2: Notbsolutely?

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Speaker 1: Really really no, Ryan, You're wrong?

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Speaker 10: Ryan?

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Speaker 7: Why Why do you say that?

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Speaker 8: Ryan?

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Speaker 2: Because I think if you know that and your friends

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Speaker 2: in this situation with something that might not work out

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Speaker 2: because of character issues, they want to know before.

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Speaker 4: I mean, there's these are character flaws.

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Speaker 2: You have the information, and then information is pretty powerful information.

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Speaker 5: I mean, you're gonna say something, and then he could

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Speaker 4: A lot of people.

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Speaker 1: A character flaw.

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Speaker 4: Out of his bill is not great. Yeah, it's stealing,

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Speaker 4: Know, I know.

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Speaker 2: No, I know you don't want to hear that you

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Speaker 2: Thanks for calling it.

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Speaker 5: What he's going to probably tell the fiance, And then

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Speaker 5: They're not going to break up a this, They're still

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Speaker 4: Well, or she didn't say anything.

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Speaker 2: They get married and he is a steady, cheating thief

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Speaker 2: and she knew the whole time, and she then loses

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Speaker 2: her friend. Know, someday you'll realize that I understand marriages,

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Speaker 2: what needs to happen, how it needs to happen.

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Speaker 4: Someday you'll realize.

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Speaker 2: So if you're getting married, everybody here is right tany

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Speaker 2: Are you still getting married?

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Speaker 10: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: He's getting married.

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Speaker 4: I don't care about it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah maybe like for all we know, Tubbs like already

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Speaker 4: Out, you have a set date. You have a date set.

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Speaker 1: I'm waiting you get back from Yes, I am.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you March. Okay, it's March.

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Speaker 1: It's not okay, perfect, thank you so much. That's what

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Speaker 2: Anyway, Well, I had options May or March to choose from. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm not waiting. I don't want anything to happen in between.

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Speaker 2: March and May.

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Speaker 1: Are going for it, worry about anything happening. It was

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Speaker 1: more like weather. Weather at the end of May gets

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Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, I'm coming down early to dress, rehearse,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we'll have to We're definitely gonna have to like

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Speaker 4: Okay, I can't wait. But now even date in March.

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Speaker 2: So anyway, you guys are all getting married and wedding planning.

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Speaker 2: From what I look at and I see people do it,

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Speaker 2: I look from afar, but it's a lot Where do

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Speaker 2: you spend your budget? Right, because it can get expensive,

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Speaker 2: Wedding planners say these things are not worth it. One

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Speaker 5: Do not have fake flowers at your wedding.

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Speaker 2: No, I try to save a few bucks here.

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Speaker 5: First of all, you don't need to have a crazy bouquet.

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Speaker 5: But you can have very simple real flowers just in

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Speaker 5: little vases and it still looks beautiful. But fake flowers.

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Speaker 1: I've seen some gorgeous fake flower arrangements at weddings.

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Speaker 4: Fake flowers off at them.

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Speaker 2: Well, maybe you're not available in March.

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Speaker 4: I don't know. Here's what you could save on liquor.

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Speaker 2: beer wine bar right and personalized cocktail. Now, yeah, you

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Speaker 2: don't need those. No one cares, No one pays attention,

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Speaker 2: No one cares.

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Speaker 4: Don't do it.

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Speaker 1: No, that is definitely happening, which you're wasting money.

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Speaker 4: Rather you have a food truck for us than napkins.

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Speaker 1: No, I'm gonna get ones with Sunny's face on them.

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Speaker 4: No one really cares.

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Speaker 5: Nobody cares.

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Speaker 2: Save your money.

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Speaker 4: You can save money in those.

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Speaker 5: Get real flowers in seud of your napkins.

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Speaker 2: Gosh, you too in the drama with the weddings. Today's

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Speaker 2: don't beg the world for attention. Their beauty forces us

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Speaker 4: Just FM headlines with siciny well.

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Speaker 3: The Teamsters Union launched a strike against Amazon this morning

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Speaker 3: to expedite the state's response to bird flu as more

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Speaker 2: Heading to the big screen.

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Speaker 4: Okay, let's go right now into this TikTok.

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Speaker 2: A lot of hacks, a lot of things happening on TikTok,

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Speaker 2: but you gotta be careful about some of this stuff.

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Speaker 2: Does it work when you see everybody doing it? Is

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Speaker 2: this is what I'm seeing right now in TikTok raw

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Speaker 2: potatoes to get rid of eyebags. They're cutting off TikTokers

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Speaker 5: the same.

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Speaker 2: Well it works, it works?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 7: What?

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Speaker 11: Uh?

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Speaker 4: It's it's safe. It works.

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Speaker 2: Doctors say potatoes are high invitament C and safe for

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Speaker 2: your skin. So grab yourself some starch and put it

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Speaker 2: under your eyes. Wait wait, wait, are you doing this?

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Speaker 2: What are you making your own sunscreen? Sorry, everybody's talking

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Speaker 2: and Georgia ba oil with zinc oxide powder. I mean

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Speaker 2: it's a complicated recipe. But are you making your own

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Speaker 2: sunscreen with that stuff? And does it work? I do

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Speaker 2: have coconut oil beside my bed.

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Speaker 4: Put it on behead, right beside your bed.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I got it. You don't have cocona oil beside

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Speaker 2: your bedmark. No, no, well you don't have enough fun.

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Speaker 2: So it's good for your skin.

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Speaker 5: And I'm going to put on your elbow, your knees,

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Speaker 2: A little bit, have a little fun. Coconut oil is

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Speaker 2: they say, no, don't use this. Homemade sunscreen rarely works.

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Speaker 2: There's no way to tell much sun protection. It gives

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Speaker 4: Two more first the top one. Eating raw garlic to

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Speaker 4: cure acne? Does that work?

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Speaker 5: Eating raw garlictic cure acne? Okay? Let me, I would

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Speaker 5: give me. Garlic's great for you. It can help you

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Speaker 2: Does Yeah, it doesn't work. There is a lot of

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Speaker 2: This is what tiny wants. Sleeping with chin straps TikTok trends.

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Speaker 2: They're saying to help with snoring, teeth grinding, sleep apnea,

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Speaker 4: Do you sleep with the chin strap to tighten that

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Speaker 1: I don't. I sleep with mouth tape.

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Speaker 4: And in like a when I don't say what else

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Speaker 4: you sleep? But I don't know what else.

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Speaker 5: The fact that you're doing all of this stuff.

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Speaker 1: Wow, the look at me. In six months, my jawline

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Speaker 1: is going to be snat.

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Speaker 5: I didn't think it needed any different.

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Speaker 2: If it does work, I'll start doing it this Uh anyway,

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Speaker 2: is it safe? Yeah, it's safe to sleep with a

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Speaker 2: chin strap. Anything that restricts you from breathing freely is

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Speaker 2: a problem. There's no evidence that it helps with any

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Speaker 5: Don't think that's safe.

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Speaker 2: Let me tell you, Okay, but no, you don't need

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Speaker 2: to tell me. I just told you what the doctors

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Speaker 2: are saying. Hey, Jim, I want to take your quick

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Speaker 10: How are you good?

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Speaker 2: So you have a question about your fiance, Is that right?

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Speaker 12: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: How can we help?

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Speaker 13: Well, my fiance and are planning our wedding and we've

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Speaker 13: been in her life since she was young, and so

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Speaker 13: she doesn't want to have any dances dedicated to parents

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Speaker 13: our only child, and you know, she's talked about this

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Speaker 13: ever since I got engaged. I told her about you know,

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Speaker 13: how my fiance doesn't want to do any dances, and

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Speaker 13: fiance doesn't want to have any dances, but she's still

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Speaker 13: pushing for us to dance, and I don't want to.

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Speaker 13: You know, I don't want my fiance to be uncomfortable

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Speaker 13: do you guys have any alternate ideas for this or

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Speaker 13: what do you think is the best way to go here?

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Speaker 5: You have to do it? Well, no, well, this is

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Speaker 5: a non negotiably. You have to do this.

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Speaker 1: You don't have to do anything.

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Speaker 5: You have to dance with your mom or your wedding.

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Speaker 5: If your mom and you're her only child, and your

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Speaker 5: and this is one of your first lessons.

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Speaker 2: You can say, like digging into this, this is all

448
00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:25,879
Speaker 2: things worried. I am, Yeah, I'm worried. Why is your

449
00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:27,600
Speaker 2: fiance digging into this?

450
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:32,639
Speaker 13: I don't know, it's I guess she just feels like

451
00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:36,040
Speaker 13: it's something you know, it's going to bring up bad

452
00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:38,120
Speaker 13: feelings for her.

453
00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:40,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, you guys have to look at this from her

454
00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:43,679
Speaker 1: perspective too. Maybe it's like really painful. Maybe the relationships

455
00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:46,720
Speaker 1: she had with her dad is like really triggering and traumatic,

456
00:21:46,840 --> 00:21:50,640
Speaker 1: and and her seeing her husband dance with his mom

457
00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:53,199
Speaker 1: might make her really sad that she doesn't have that

458
00:21:53,240 --> 00:21:54,800
Speaker 1: with her dad, and she doesn't want to be sad

459
00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:55,800
Speaker 1: on her wedding day.

460
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Speaker 5: She used to get over it.

461
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Speaker 2: I'm sistany on this. I mean, jare me, but we

462
00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:06,280
Speaker 2: say she's get over bro. That's gonna be a great, great,

463
00:22:06,320 --> 00:22:08,600
Speaker 2: great life together. You guys are gonna have so much

464
00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:10,600
Speaker 2: love and good times.

465
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Speaker 5: It doesn't have to be like the whole three minutes

466
00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:18,920
Speaker 5: of a song too. Yeah, when I danced with our parents,

467
00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:21,200
Speaker 5: it was like a minute, like to the first quar.

468
00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:27,320
Speaker 4: All right, I'll talk about maybe.

469
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Speaker 1: Maybe there's a compromise where there's somebody else in her

470
00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:33,240
Speaker 1: life that's maybe not her dad, but like that's a

471
00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:35,880
Speaker 1: good Maybe is somebody that's that is like a parental

472
00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:37,400
Speaker 1: figure in her life that she could do the dance

473
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Speaker 1: with them, Maybe they could do it together with his

474
00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:41,480
Speaker 1: dad or his dad his dad.

475
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:45,679
Speaker 5: Compromise, compromise.

476
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:48,399
Speaker 2: But like whenever it gets so rigid about an issue, guys,

477
00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:50,600
Speaker 2: not rigid. Don't have to draw a line in the sand.

478
00:22:50,640 --> 00:22:55,080
Speaker 2: It's you're getting married, it's your families. You're celebrating the supply.

479
00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:57,040
Speaker 2: They tell me, this is the greatest moment of your

480
00:22:57,080 --> 00:22:58,000
Speaker 2: life when you get married.

481
00:22:58,119 --> 00:22:58,640
Speaker 1: Tell me.

482
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Speaker 5: And as a mom, I am dancing with Maxon at

483
00:23:01,440 --> 00:23:02,359
Speaker 5: his wedding. I don't care.

484
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,040
Speaker 2: I got to get to Ryan's rose. It's time for

485
00:23:05,280 --> 00:23:08,639
Speaker 2: Ryan's roses. We've been talking about it all morning. Let's

486
00:23:08,640 --> 00:23:11,240
Speaker 2: do it. Olivia Sherman Oaks, Olivia. We have a lot

487
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:13,600
Speaker 2: of questions, but we sort of distilled them down to

488
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:17,880
Speaker 2: a couple here. And thanks for coming on. You tell

489
00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 2: us that your husband told you he's having an affair.

490
00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:26,639
Speaker 7: Yeah, yes, I think, Well, Okay really showed before that part.

491
00:23:26,720 --> 00:23:28,840
Speaker 4: What did he say, how did he tell you? What

492
00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:29,479
Speaker 4: were the words?

493
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:36,480
Speaker 7: Okay, well, so he was a little hazy on those details.

494
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:39,080
Speaker 7: He just said her name was Brooke and that they

495
00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:41,439
Speaker 7: met at a grocery store and they'd been sneaking around

496
00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 7: since March. But he's not a lady's man. It just

497
00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:46,560
Speaker 7: felt a little desperate.

498
00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:51,080
Speaker 2: Okay. Then my next question is why is he telling

499
00:23:51,160 --> 00:23:52,840
Speaker 2: you had an affair if he didn't have an affair?

500
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:54,120
Speaker 10: Oh?

501
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:58,160
Speaker 7: Okay, So I cheated on him about six years ago.

502
00:23:58,680 --> 00:24:04,680
Speaker 7: There he found out about it and we got through it.

503
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:08,560
Speaker 7: He decided to stay with me, but things have never

504
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:11,640
Speaker 7: really been the same, Like he checks my phone a lot.

505
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:14,520
Speaker 7: The trust really isn't there, The romance isn't there anymore.

506
00:24:14,600 --> 00:24:17,959
Speaker 7: So anyway, the other day he came to me and

507
00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:22,199
Speaker 7: he's said he had a confession to make, that he

508
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 7: had been having an affair for a few months, and

509
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:28,320
Speaker 7: that he wanted me to know he felt terrible about it,

510
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 7: but that hopefully now that we have both made a mistake,

511
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:37,240
Speaker 7: that we can make things like they used to be.

512
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 10: I don't know.

513
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:40,639
Speaker 7: I think he's making it up. I think he wants

514
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 7: me to feel what he felt back in twenty eighteen.

515
00:24:43,880 --> 00:24:45,840
Speaker 7: And I think his theory is that if we're even,

516
00:24:45,880 --> 00:24:50,919
Speaker 7: that will help the marriage.

517
00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:54,520
Speaker 4: We are not qualified, but we can make this call.

518
00:24:55,520 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 2: Okay, And you think it's revenge and even the playing field,

519
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:02,840
Speaker 2: and that's going to make it stronger. So what do

520
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 2: you want to happen here? Do you want him to

521
00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:06,399
Speaker 2: be sending roses to another woman or you?

522
00:25:06,480 --> 00:25:11,439
Speaker 7: I'm I mean having an affair would be worse if

523
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 7: he sends the roses to someone else. I know this

524
00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:15,400
Speaker 7: is really over.

525
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:19,160
Speaker 2: But if he but but but, Olivia, if he's if

526
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:23,000
Speaker 2: he's concocting this thing because you did this, and he's

527
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 2: lying about the affair, he's likely to make up a

528
00:25:25,560 --> 00:25:27,439
Speaker 2: name to get you to believe he's having an affair.

529
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Speaker 7: I just want you to dig a little further. I

530
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:34,199
Speaker 7: just feel like something's off. And look, if he isn't cheating,

531
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Speaker 7: I will get us in the couple's therapy. I want

532
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:37,879
Speaker 7: to make this work.

533
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 2: Well, of course you do, because you cheated, right?

534
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:42,400
Speaker 4: Bad on you?

535
00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 11: Okay?

536
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:43,800
Speaker 1: No judgment?

537
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:48,440
Speaker 4: Well, yes, judgment? What what olive you hold on for?

538
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:49,439
Speaker 10: Seen? Sorry?

539
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:51,840
Speaker 4: Why can't I why? Why? Why can't have an opinion

540
00:25:51,880 --> 00:25:52,680
Speaker 4: that she cheated on.

541
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Speaker 1: Them Okay, but I know, but I mean it's not

542
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:56,480
Speaker 1: for us to project.

543
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:59,440
Speaker 2: By the way, we do these every single day, twice

544
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:01,679
Speaker 2: how many times we do them a week? And we

545
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 2: make judgments job we do every single mark. Am I

546
00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:10,240
Speaker 2: making this up? Don't We actually make a judgment every

547
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 2: single time we do this? And now times like show

548
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:13,399
Speaker 2: no judgment.

549
00:26:13,040 --> 00:26:15,040
Speaker 4: We are anti cheating as a show, I would say,

550
00:26:15,080 --> 00:26:17,760
Speaker 4: and yeah, I'm.

551
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:19,159
Speaker 2: Not talking about that. I'm talking about we make a

552
00:26:19,240 --> 00:26:24,640
Speaker 2: judgment the premise of the thing she reads out to us,

553
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,120
Speaker 2: and we judge them. That's what we do.

554
00:26:27,600 --> 00:26:29,480
Speaker 4: It's not a no judgment segment.

555
00:26:29,800 --> 00:26:32,919
Speaker 2: We take calls and people judging the people like what

556
00:26:33,280 --> 00:26:36,240
Speaker 2: where did I come to the wrong old this morning?

557
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:40,439
Speaker 2: I don't understand. You just throw these things at me

558
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:46,680
Speaker 2: and they get me wound up. This is where we judge. Judge, judge, judge,

559
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:48,119
Speaker 2: so judge, this.

560
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:49,879
Speaker 5: Is a judge.

561
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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Yes, Olivia, we're gonna make the call.

562
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:56,480
Speaker 2: I want to get serious with you. I need you

563
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:58,679
Speaker 2: to say, Ryan, you have my permission to call, and

564
00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:01,719
Speaker 2: then your husband's go ahead.

565
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 7: Ryan, you have my permission to call.

566
00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 4: Okay, be very quiet. Let us try and find out.

567
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 2: My view is if you think he's making up the affair,

568
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:14,280
Speaker 2: he might make up a name here to send the

569
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 2: flowers to, just to get under your skin.

570
00:27:18,080 --> 00:27:19,040
Speaker 4: So hold on, here we go.

571
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Speaker 10: Okay everyone, Yeah, Hello.

572
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:41,320
Speaker 5: Hi is this Gabriel. This is he Hi Gabriel. My

573
00:27:41,359 --> 00:27:43,840
Speaker 5: name is Stacy. I'm calling from Flowers on Ventura. How

574
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:44,600
Speaker 5: are you doing this morning?

575
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:47,359
Speaker 12: I'm good? How are you?

576
00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 10: I'm good?

577
00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 5: Thank you for asking. We're a flower shop on here

578
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:52,200
Speaker 5: in Sherman Oaks and deliver all over the valley parts

579
00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:54,879
Speaker 5: of la and offering a promotion. It's a free dozen

580
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:56,800
Speaker 5: red roses that you can send to anybody that you'd like.

581
00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:59,320
Speaker 5: They are free. I don't need cash, credit card info,

582
00:27:59,400 --> 00:28:00,639
Speaker 5: anything like that. I just hope that if you like

583
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:02,560
Speaker 5: our arrangements, you come back as a customer one day.

584
00:28:04,720 --> 00:28:07,040
Speaker 12: I'm sorry, this is just not something I'm interested in.

585
00:28:07,359 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 5: Are you sure? I don't need cash from you, I

586
00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:11,960
Speaker 5: don't need credit card info. It's They're absolutely free and

587
00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 5: you can brighten up somebody's days. Is there anybody in

588
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:15,240
Speaker 5: your life that you'd want to send roses to?

589
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:19,399
Speaker 12: I'm sorry, I can't help you.

590
00:28:19,080 --> 00:28:19,919
Speaker 5: Not one person.

591
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:23,119
Speaker 2: Gabriel, your voice is being broadcast in the radio my

592
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,200
Speaker 2: name is Ryan. Can I ask you some questions real fast.

593
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 4: Before you hang up?

594
00:28:27,440 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 10: What?

595
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 2: Thank you? Your voice is being broadcast in the radio.

596
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 2: I have Sistany and Tany with me and your wife

597
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:37,600
Speaker 2: Olivia on the line. Just a couple of quick questions. Okay, So, Gabriel,

598
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 2: we have come to understand that you are having an affair.

599
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 2: Is that true?

600
00:28:48,040 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 12: I told my wife about all that?

601
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 10: All right?

602
00:28:50,360 --> 00:28:51,719
Speaker 4: How long is the affair of been going on?

603
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 12: Listen?

604
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:56,720
Speaker 14: This is not something I want to talk about right now.

605
00:28:56,760 --> 00:29:00,160
Speaker 14: This is none of anybody's business. This is between me

606
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:00,880
Speaker 14: and my wife.

607
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 10: Okay.

608
00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:05,200
Speaker 2: So the thing is we know more than you know.

609
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 2: Get real, that's the thing. And so we are trying

610
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:12,960
Speaker 2: to get to the truth here.

611
00:29:15,240 --> 00:29:18,560
Speaker 7: Is Brook a real person? Or did you make it

612
00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:20,000
Speaker 7: up to make me jealous?

613
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:22,600
Speaker 12: Are you doing this on the radio?

614
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:24,719
Speaker 10: Tell me the truth.

615
00:29:28,080 --> 00:29:30,520
Speaker 12: I mean, you didn't seem very jealous when I told.

616
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 7: You because it didn't seem like the truth.

617
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 12: No, I'm not having an affair.

618
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 7: Oh my god.

619
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 12: Look, I can't believe you want to trouble.

620
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 7: It's because I love you.

621
00:29:51,880 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 10: I will.

622
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 7: I will spend the rest of my life trying to

623
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,480
Speaker 7: make this up to you. I promise I will.

624
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:03,160
Speaker 2: So, Gibril, why did you make up the story of

625
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 2: you having an affair?

626
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:08,240
Speaker 12: Listen?

627
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:12,040
Speaker 14: She had she had an affair six years ago, and

628
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 14: you know, it just crushed me and I just wanted

629
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 14: her to feel how I was feeling at that time.

630
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:21,080
Speaker 2: Do you feel like this is a relation you got

631
00:30:21,160 --> 00:30:24,560
Speaker 2: cheated on? Now you lie about cheating? Is this relationship healthy?

632
00:30:24,680 --> 00:30:25,000
Speaker 10: Yeah?

633
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:27,440
Speaker 5: Six years later, you still can't let it go. Are

634
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:29,840
Speaker 5: you ever going to Okay?

635
00:30:29,960 --> 00:30:32,000
Speaker 14: Look, listen, this is between me and my wife. This

636
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:34,479
Speaker 14: is this is not as an easy situation to have

637
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:36,560
Speaker 14: dealt with. This is this is difficult.

638
00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 12: Okay.

639
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 2: So I sound very complicated, and that's something that we

640
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:46,360
Speaker 2: are appreciating wholly here. But do you think you're in

641
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:49,360
Speaker 2: a healthy place to make it work, Olivia, Gabriel.

642
00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,560
Speaker 7: Look, Monica gave me the number of a really good

643
00:30:54,560 --> 00:30:55,680
Speaker 7: couple therapists.

644
00:30:56,240 --> 00:30:57,720
Speaker 12: Listen. That's worked before.

645
00:30:59,200 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 7: Yeah, but it's time to try again with somebody new.

646
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 7: Will you please do that with me?

647
00:31:05,200 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 11: Please?

648
00:31:07,320 --> 00:31:09,520
Speaker 12: Yes, yes, I will, Yes, I will do that. I

649
00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 12: will do whatever it takes.

650
00:31:11,480 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 2: Oh my god, So, gabrit you've forgiven her of the cheating.

651
00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 4: You're good?

652
00:31:19,080 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 14: Yes, we need we obviously need therapy and to talk

653
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:24,680
Speaker 14: about this more. But yes, I'm willing to do whatever

654
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:25,280
Speaker 14: I need to do.

655
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:29,520
Speaker 2: Well, this is great, Actually, this is great. Well done,

656
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 2: and congratulations because a lot of these calls end very differently,

657
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 2: where people are walking away, throwing it away and out

658
00:31:36,960 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 2: of no choice. But you two are saying, hey, you

659
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 2: cheated on me. I lied about cheating on you. I'm

660
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:43,680
Speaker 2: not cheating on you, but you cheated on me and

661
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:45,440
Speaker 2: I forgive you for that, and Olivia forgives you for

662
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 2: lying about cheating on her. And that's where we are,

663
00:31:48,520 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 2: and this is in some way a beautiful thing.

664
00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 10: Thank you, Gabriel, because I.

665
00:31:55,880 --> 00:31:59,680
Speaker 4: Believe the two of you, in the strangest way ever

666
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:01,040
Speaker 4: want to make.

667
00:32:00,920 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 10: It work cute.

668
00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 4: And we're gonna let you go. That's it, thank you

669
00:32:08,920 --> 00:32:09,360
Speaker 4: very much.

670
00:32:09,640 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 10: Right.

671
00:32:09,960 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 4: I think that what I hear there now, I couldn't

672
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:15,360
Speaker 4: have done it. I could have been Gabriel on that

673
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 4: and forgiven.

674
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:18,560
Speaker 1: They say they forgive, but they're not forgetting.

675
00:32:18,680 --> 00:32:21,200
Speaker 5: Yeah he can't. He's making up these lies six years

676
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:21,760
Speaker 5: years later.

677
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:27,160
Speaker 2: No, you don't hear healthy there no just going back

678
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,760
Speaker 2: to the Ryan's roses. So it is a bit choisted,

679
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 2: but look, we are not in their shoes.

680
00:32:31,280 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 4: We don't know.

681
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 2: It sounded by the end of the call like you

682
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:39,280
Speaker 2: have two people that have unique situations in a marriage

683
00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 2: but really want to make it work. A little desperation,

684
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:47,240
Speaker 2: a little in FIDELI washed itself out to those two

685
00:32:47,280 --> 00:32:49,280
Speaker 2: and they want to try and dig in and see

686
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:51,800
Speaker 2: a therapist and make their marriage last and work. So

687
00:32:52,000 --> 00:32:55,840
Speaker 2: what happened? She cheated six years ago? He comes to

688
00:32:55,880 --> 00:32:58,920
Speaker 2: her and says, I cheated. I'm admitting to an affair.

689
00:32:59,200 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 2: She doesn't believe. Turns out he did make it up.

690
00:33:01,960 --> 00:33:02,360
Speaker 2: He lied.

691
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:03,520
Speaker 4: There was no woman named Brooke.

692
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:06,360
Speaker 2: He lied about having an affair because he wanted to

693
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:12,240
Speaker 2: feel a little better about the fact that she cheated, right,

694
00:33:12,360 --> 00:33:15,480
Speaker 2: like even the playing field here, right, But he did

695
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 2: it knowing he.

696
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 4: Wanted to make it work in the marriage.

697
00:33:17,880 --> 00:33:21,040
Speaker 2: Like he lied knowing if she did believe him, he

698
00:33:21,080 --> 00:33:22,760
Speaker 2: was going to say, but okay, we both did this,

699
00:33:22,960 --> 00:33:26,200
Speaker 2: let's try and fix it. Turns out she says to us, well,

700
00:33:26,640 --> 00:33:28,680
Speaker 2: if he did cheat him out, well, how can she

701
00:33:28,720 --> 00:33:30,680
Speaker 2: say that after she cheated and he stayed in? And

702
00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:37,680
Speaker 2: that was my judgment, Tanya, I understand what you're saying.

703
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 1: I do.

704
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,840
Speaker 5: I'm just saying he can't have it both ways.

705
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 1: There are various sides to every story.

706
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:47,800
Speaker 2: But Sistney, in a way, I saw beauty at the

707
00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 2: end of that call. I saw one person go, I

708
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 2: made a mistake, one person I made up some lies,

709
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,360
Speaker 2: but two people going, let's make it work.

710
00:33:56,360 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 4: That's what's all.

711
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:59,720
Speaker 5: Yeah, but he's not over it. No, and I don't

712
00:33:59,760 --> 00:34:04,080
Speaker 5: know that he ever will be. No, And you know

713
00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 5: what he said, He was like, you didn't even seem

714
00:34:05,680 --> 00:34:07,960
Speaker 5: that sad when I told you that I was cheating

715
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,799
Speaker 5: exactly any charades and games. And it's like, what are

716
00:34:11,800 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 5: we doing?

717
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 2: It's not healthy, but I do I did. At the

718
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:20,719
Speaker 2: end of the call, here two people going, we're not

719
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 2: great at this, but we want to try and make

720
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 2: it work. And I appreciate that. I wouldn't have been

721
00:34:26,600 --> 00:34:29,200
Speaker 2: Gabriel in this situation. I wouldn't stuck around after six years.

722
00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 2: I wouldn't have So Nikki Rinando Beach talk to me here.

723
00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 10: You know, it.

724
00:34:36,120 --> 00:34:38,239
Speaker 15: Sounds like a happy ending, but it just seems like

725
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:40,719
Speaker 15: he doesn't trust her, and it sounds like.

726
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:45,520
Speaker 2: I think you're going to be like his confidence is gone,

727
00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 2: he doesn't trust her, and here we have a problem.

728
00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 2: She called him desperate. Guys, Remember she said, he seems

729
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:55,480
Speaker 2: a little desperate. She said that. Yeah, but they want

730
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:57,480
Speaker 2: to try and make it work, and maybe they can.

731
00:34:58,600 --> 00:34:59,560
Speaker 4: You hope for the best.

732
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:03,880
Speaker 15: Yeah, no, I wish them well, but I just it

733
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:06,480
Speaker 15: feels like this is a relationship that's not built on

734
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:07,120
Speaker 15: anything good.

735
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 4: Well, that's what Ryan's roses can be.

736
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:14,600
Speaker 2: Sometimes I'm silence from Nikki there on that one.

737
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:20,560
Speaker 4: She's out. That's what Ryan's roses is. Monday's Thursday.

738
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:22,319
Speaker 2: On the other side of the spectrum, I was looking

739
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:25,520
Speaker 2: at this article about little things couples have been doing.

740
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:27,719
Speaker 2: These are couples have been married thirty plus years. They

741
00:35:27,760 --> 00:35:31,040
Speaker 2: do every day. They make each other laugh, they eat

742
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:35,440
Speaker 2: meals together. They always kiss goodbye and good night.

743
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:36,560
Speaker 5: Yeah that's important.

744
00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:37,600
Speaker 4: I think so too.

745
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:40,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, you always gotta kiss good night. Even in the dark.

746
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:43,600
Speaker 2: You can find those lips. Yeah, yeah, it's true, you can.

747
00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:47,040
Speaker 2: If you're not meant to be together, you can't find

748
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:47,839
Speaker 2: those lips in the dark.

749
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 4: You know what they say, what do they say?

750
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:53,920
Speaker 2: They say, you'll find the lips of your soulmate in

751
00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:59,799
Speaker 2: the dark. It's electric, it's magnetic. And the other thing

752
00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:02,040
Speaker 2: they do have find fascinating. A couple of thirty plus

753
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 2: years find little ways to lighten each other's load.

754
00:36:06,719 --> 00:36:08,719
Speaker 5: That's nice.

755
00:36:07,560 --> 00:36:07,840
Speaker 10: That is.

756
00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:12,279
Speaker 4: A day today. So I handled something right that I

757
00:36:12,320 --> 00:36:12,960
Speaker 4: appreciate too.

758
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:15,120
Speaker 5: Good as the service.

759
00:36:15,600 --> 00:36:16,919
Speaker 4: Good morning, Amanda. How are you doing?

760
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:19,399
Speaker 16: Hey, I'm good.

761
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:20,320
Speaker 10: How are you good?

762
00:36:20,360 --> 00:36:23,400
Speaker 2: So we have everybody here, all hands are here on

763
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 2: deck to help you out. So you're calling about bringing

764
00:36:26,160 --> 00:36:27,600
Speaker 2: a guy friend to a wedding.

765
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,200
Speaker 16: Yes, yes, I need everyone's advice.

766
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 2: So what's the story.

767
00:36:33,800 --> 00:36:34,879
Speaker 15: So I just found.

768
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:36,239
Speaker 16: Out that I have a plus.

769
00:36:35,920 --> 00:36:39,399
Speaker 11: One to a family member's wedding next month, and I'm

770
00:36:39,440 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 11: wondering if it's okay to ask my guy friend to

771
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:45,680
Speaker 11: be my plus one, and when I'm not exactly sure

772
00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:51,360
Speaker 11: if we're just friends. So I've known it for a

773
00:36:51,400 --> 00:36:54,319
Speaker 11: really long time, but we've gotten close there recently, and

774
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:57,360
Speaker 11: we're always a bit flirty. He actually just made it

775
00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 11: a points to tell me that he broke up with

776
00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:02,759
Speaker 11: his girlfriend, and I want to ask him, but I

777
00:37:02,800 --> 00:37:06,359
Speaker 11: don't want to like give the wrong idea if it

778
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:07,879
Speaker 11: doesn't mean anything, you.

779
00:37:07,800 --> 00:37:11,439
Speaker 2: Know, do you want it to mean you?

780
00:37:13,640 --> 00:37:14,479
Speaker 10: I don't know, I.

781
00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 16: Mean a little bit, like I'm curious to see how

782
00:37:17,360 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 16: it would go. But I don't know if I asked

783
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:22,799
Speaker 16: him if I should define it as like just friends

784
00:37:22,840 --> 00:37:25,320
Speaker 16: just in case, Like I basically I'm afraid of being rejected.

785
00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean this is like the situation that's so

786
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 2: common here.

787
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,040
Speaker 1: You know, what would have happened if Sofia Bush did this.

788
00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:38,000
Speaker 1: Sophia Bush did this, she would never be Yes, she

789
00:37:38,120 --> 00:37:40,399
Speaker 1: asked out Ashland Harris and now there's together.

790
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:42,400
Speaker 4: She wanted to be with Ashland.

791
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:45,800
Speaker 1: I know, but I'm saying, let's just take fear aside

792
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:47,400
Speaker 1: and let's just go for it.

793
00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:51,279
Speaker 5: We invite him as your date and then once you know,

794
00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:53,800
Speaker 5: liquid courage and see what happens.

795
00:37:55,200 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 16: Yeah. But is it weird that it's like a family

796
00:37:57,480 --> 00:37:58,240
Speaker 16: member's wedding.

797
00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:00,239
Speaker 5: No, I think that makes it better. He's like one

798
00:38:00,280 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 5: of your best friends. It's like innocent. Yeah, you don't

799
00:38:04,920 --> 00:38:06,320
Speaker 5: have to explain much to your family.

800
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:08,160
Speaker 4: You just read the signals as you're going through it.

801
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:13,440
Speaker 16: How do I like ask him though without it being weird?

802
00:38:13,760 --> 00:38:15,280
Speaker 5: Does he know any of the family members?

803
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:18,360
Speaker 7: Like? Barely?

804
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:18,840
Speaker 13: Not?

805
00:38:18,840 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 7: Not?

806
00:38:19,080 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 2: Well, I just think you asked me, say, Look, I

807
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 2: would I've got to go to this wedding of a

808
00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 2: family member and would love for you to join.

809
00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:27,200
Speaker 4: Be a fun event.

810
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:28,680
Speaker 1: No, I gotta go.

811
00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 5: I would would be a fun event. Please hang out

812
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:39,760
Speaker 5: kind of movie premiere.

813
00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:41,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's fun.

814
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 4: I thought it'd be nice.

815
00:38:44,280 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 5: No, you'd be like, hey, do you remember my cousin

816
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:50,399
Speaker 5: Rachel blah blah blah, she's getting married. Hey, something along

817
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:50,839
Speaker 5: those lines.

818
00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:51,919
Speaker 1: Oh my god, man.

819
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 4: Let us know how it goes. Good luck, thank you bye.

820
00:38:56,480 --> 00:38:59,920
Speaker 2: Yeah that's what I would say. Hey, I got a thing.

821
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 2: I got a thing this weekend. Thought maybe be fun

822
00:39:02,760 --> 00:39:04,279
Speaker 2: if we just hang at it.

823
00:39:06,400 --> 00:39:09,520
Speaker 5: Wow, what is that a hair tie on your hand?

824
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:10,560
Speaker 5: I'm gonna wear it.

825
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:17,640
Speaker 4: Okay, no one gets that.

826
00:39:15,880 --> 00:39:17,359
Speaker 5: Our true listeners will.

827
00:39:17,920 --> 00:39:20,479
Speaker 4: I thought that was actually very clever at the time.

828
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:22,240
Speaker 4: So this is interesting.

829
00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 2: Madiana has come from the back room into the main

830
00:39:24,280 --> 00:39:28,440
Speaker 2: studio here. It's symbolic. I guess what she's thinking about.

831
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 2: She wants to well explain.

832
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:33,280
Speaker 9: So what I want to do is get a new number,

833
00:39:33,360 --> 00:39:35,839
Speaker 9: like a brand new number phone number, Yes, brand new

834
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:37,920
Speaker 9: cell phone number, and get rid of my old cell

835
00:39:37,960 --> 00:39:40,080
Speaker 9: phone number because I feel like I just have so

836
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:42,640
Speaker 9: many people that I don't know anymore that have my number,

837
00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:43,960
Speaker 9: they have access to me.

838
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:46,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, fresh start, new era.

839
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 9: You know, I feel like I'm kind of like thirsty

840
00:39:48,680 --> 00:39:50,920
Speaker 9: for a change in my life. Yeah, so I'm like,

841
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:54,000
Speaker 9: I want something different, and I also want to get

842
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:56,840
Speaker 9: like an LA Aero code. That way I can manifest

843
00:39:56,960 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 9: moving out here.

844
00:39:57,640 --> 00:39:59,040
Speaker 2: So you're in the nine to five to one, an

845
00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:01,560
Speaker 2: eight one eight or something three two three like you

846
00:40:01,600 --> 00:40:04,640
Speaker 2: said it for any area area. That's interesting because back

847
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:06,160
Speaker 2: in the day, you could every time you move to

848
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 2: get a new phone number, right, but now you can

849
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:09,720
Speaker 2: have a phone number. I have your own phone number

850
00:40:10,040 --> 00:40:10,720
Speaker 2: for forever.

851
00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 1: I've literally had my same phone number since I was

852
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:14,279
Speaker 1: fifteen years old. I've had about six.

853
00:40:14,280 --> 00:40:15,240
Speaker 5: Different phone numbers.

854
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 2: But see, I don't know. I always worry that maybe

855
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:19,279
Speaker 2: that one friend from high school it has my cell

856
00:40:19,280 --> 00:40:19,759
Speaker 2: phone number.

857
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:20,960
Speaker 4: I can't reach out at somebody to.

858
00:40:22,239 --> 00:40:23,680
Speaker 1: Love that I have people that reach out to me

859
00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:26,840
Speaker 1: from Like I get birthday messages from high school teachers.

860
00:40:26,880 --> 00:40:27,880
Speaker 1: I think I d M you.

861
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:30,439
Speaker 2: I mean, that's a big reset. And are you sure

862
00:40:30,480 --> 00:40:32,359
Speaker 2: you don't want to get any random message from somebody

863
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:33,040
Speaker 2: every once in a while.

864
00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:35,480
Speaker 9: No, I feel like I'm ready for that change.

865
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:37,799
Speaker 2: So you would start from scratch from scratch, then do

866
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:40,000
Speaker 2: you have to send your old phone number to like

867
00:40:40,040 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 2: a list of other people.

868
00:40:41,040 --> 00:40:42,839
Speaker 4: So they haven't. It seems like a lot of work.

869
00:40:42,920 --> 00:40:45,239
Speaker 9: That's what I was thinking about too, But you.

870
00:40:45,120 --> 00:40:47,719
Speaker 5: Start with like the core, the core circle.

871
00:40:47,560 --> 00:40:48,520
Speaker 9: It's my close friends.

872
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:50,040
Speaker 2: It's like when I lose a credit card and I

873
00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:52,359
Speaker 2: got to go back and reset Postmates.

874
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 1: My my debit card, and I'm like, I'm holding it.

875
00:40:55,600 --> 00:40:57,600
Speaker 2: I don't think in the pocket. I think i'd be

876
00:40:57,640 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 2: too overwhelmed to handle the admin.

877
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:00,799
Speaker 1: Oh I can't do it.

878
00:41:00,840 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 2: However, I do like your manifestation component to this, like

879
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:08,040
Speaker 2: you want to be in the three two three, Why

880
00:41:08,080 --> 00:41:08,399
Speaker 2: don't you.

881
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:11,440
Speaker 1: Just tattoo the area code on your risk or something.

882
00:41:11,440 --> 00:41:14,880
Speaker 1: Sounds easier commitments, easier than changing your number.

883
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:16,240
Speaker 2: And I don't have any tattoos.

884
00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:18,279
Speaker 5: So I will tell you what though, your whoever gets

885
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:20,759
Speaker 5: your old number is going to be super annoyed because

886
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 5: that everyone's gonna text you. But when they finally get

887
00:41:22,440 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 5: your new number, they're like, oh, whoever has your old

888
00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:26,319
Speaker 5: number hates you because I keep texting them or they

889
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 5: keep getting all your texts.

890
00:41:28,480 --> 00:41:30,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, go for it, keep us posting.

891
00:41:30,719 --> 00:41:31,399
Speaker 1: No, don't do it.

892
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:36,760
Speaker 2: I'll send you guys my new number. So I guess

893
00:41:36,840 --> 00:41:39,759
Speaker 2: my phone, because it is right here. My phone in

894
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:41,840
Speaker 2: front of me is right here, and I guess it.

895
00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 2: Hears us right talking about Tanya's wedding. So every now

896
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:48,800
Speaker 2: and then my feed sends wedding articles and the latest

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Speaker 2: one I got was the newest member of wedding teams.

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00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:59,840
Speaker 2: People are hiring social media concierges for their wedding, so

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Speaker 2: not just catering, not just music or DJ. Now as

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00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 2: social media concierge, and this person, this social media concierge

901
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:11,520
Speaker 2: is not the photographer, not separate the social media concierge.

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00:42:11,960 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 2: Their job is to post in real time things are happening.

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Speaker 4: At the wedding.

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Speaker 2: That is next level, to create the narrative you've told

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Speaker 2: them to create, correct in real time while it's happening, Tony,

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Speaker 2: you want that I saw this. I have to take

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Speaker 2: it to you. As the only member of the team

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Speaker 2: planning a wedding. Is this something that's legit?

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Speaker 1: It is legit. So we've only met with two wedding

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00:42:34,320 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 1: planners so far, but one of them did bring this

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00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 1: up to us about because I was like, I give

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Speaker 1: me the basics, like what are some things that we

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Speaker 1: absolutely need? And she brought this up. She didn't call

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Speaker 1: it what the wedding content creator or social media concierge is,

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00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:53,600
Speaker 1: but she did say that you basically hire out this

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00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:58,240
Speaker 1: staff that is on site to film your vision for

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00:42:58,520 --> 00:43:01,600
Speaker 1: social posting, and it's like small, bite sized clips, so

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00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:04,399
Speaker 1: it's like Instagram TikTok and you basically just like hire

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Speaker 1: them per hour to be there doing that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how I feel about real time and

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Speaker 2: live posting. It seems like you could compile something later,

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00:43:12,320 --> 00:43:15,279
Speaker 2: but yeah, while you're dancing, it's.

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Speaker 1: Not necessarily you don't have to do it real time.

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00:43:17,400 --> 00:43:19,719
Speaker 1: It's like to capture the I don't know, it's like

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00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,680
Speaker 1: to edit it to make it that bite size TikTok

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Speaker 1: of type stuff.

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Speaker 2: A lot of the brides and rooms that are hiring

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Speaker 2: the wedding content creators social media concires are doing it live.

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Speaker 4: They're posting in real time and so but that seems there.

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Speaker 1: That seems so weird to me that you're spending your

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Speaker 1: time posting stuff at your wedding.

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Speaker 4: You're not.

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Speaker 2: They are, No, that's why you hire that.

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Speaker 1: So they're just doing it without your consent while you're.

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Speaker 2: Then you hire them, you give them the narrative. You

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Speaker 2: tell the kind of things you want and they get

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00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:48,000
Speaker 2: it and they post in real time, and.

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Speaker 4: You trust getting them control. Does this make you rethink anything?

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Speaker 1: Well, no, I mean I didn't really, I didn't. I

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Speaker 1: just laughed because I thought it was actually kind of

941
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Speaker 1: a great idea. I was like, wow, what a great idea.

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Speaker 5: You know when we got married. I guess it's kind

943
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Speaker 5: of like replaces the hashtag because when we had hashtags

944
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Speaker 5: ten years ago, everyone used that hashtag and that was

945
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Speaker 5: the live posting.

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Speaker 2: Why don't you invite Ronnie to the wedding and Ronnie

947
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Speaker 2: from the Kiss Social team can just post it.

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Speaker 1: He wants to enjoy himself.

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Speaker 2: By the way I saw the guy jingle Ball, he's

950
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Speaker 2: enjoying himself posting. He's telling me what to do. He's like, guys,

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Speaker 2: could you do post for a Christmas photo?

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Speaker 4: And do it again? Do it again? That was in

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Speaker 4: the right light.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he takes a job very seriously. But no, I

955
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Speaker 1: would not I would not want to hire him to work.

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Speaker 1: I would want him to just enjoy. But it is

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Speaker 1: it is a very much a thing. And she did

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Speaker 1: say like she's like, I have tons of people doing it,

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Speaker 1: so that you could choose from different people's aesthetic that

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Speaker 1: you like.

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Speaker 2: I was like, Wow, tomorrow we shall do it to

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Speaker 2: gain and dare I say it? Tomorrow? It is finally Friday, right,

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Speaker 2: have a good Thursday.

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