1 00:00:10,880 --> 00:00:14,760 Speaker 1: Hi, everybody, you found me. It's Rosie O'Donnell here on onward. 2 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:19,560 Speaker 1: And guess what fantastic news. The sag and After strike 3 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:23,520 Speaker 1: is over. And I am so happy about that and 4 00:00:23,680 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 1: so proud of the negotiating committee led by Fran Dresher, 5 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 1: who is one of the smartest people I've ever met 6 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 1: in my life. I love and adore her. She's the 7 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:35,720 Speaker 1: big sister I dreamed of having, and I am so 8 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: happy to get through life with her in my orbit. 9 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:43,919 Speaker 1: And so Fran Dresher, thank you, thank you. And now 10 00:00:43,960 --> 00:00:47,400 Speaker 1: we can talk about all movies and everything. And I 11 00:00:47,440 --> 00:00:51,880 Speaker 1: saw Naiad. It's on Netflix, Jody Foster and that Benning 12 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 1: epic film. Beautifully shot, the colors are gorgeous, the acting 13 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 1: is astounding, and just how they shot her swimming in 14 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:05,399 Speaker 1: the terror of it and you feel it so well. 15 00:01:05,480 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 1: And listen, we weren't allowed to talk about or promote 16 00:01:09,480 --> 00:01:14,039 Speaker 1: or whatever the movies that we've seen. And truthfully, since 17 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 1: the strike started, I haven't seen that many movies, and 18 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 1: in fact, I've seen very few. I've been watching, for 19 00:01:21,000 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 1: lack of a better word, crap reality TV. I guess 20 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:28,920 Speaker 1: that's what you call it, right, crap reality where you 21 00:01:28,959 --> 00:01:31,040 Speaker 1: know Love in the Wild. Now, I thought this was 22 00:01:31,080 --> 00:01:33,160 Speaker 1: a new show, Love in the Wild. Apparently it's not. 23 00:01:33,280 --> 00:01:35,720 Speaker 1: It's been on a long time. But I was watching 24 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: shows like that and staying away from the news. But 25 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 1: I saw a Naiad had been released to stream on Netflix, 26 00:01:43,640 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: and I watched it, and I'm so impressed with the 27 00:01:47,840 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 1: film and the relationship that Annette and Jody have, And 28 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:55,680 Speaker 1: I would love to have anyone involved with that film 29 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: on this podcast. So if anyone knows anyone who was 30 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: on that film wants to come and talk to me 31 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 1: about it, I would love to have Diana Naiad herself 32 00:02:05,280 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 1: sit here and tell me about her life. What a 33 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:12,399 Speaker 1: fascinating woman, What an amazing friendship and relationship she had, 34 00:02:13,080 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 1: and what unbelievable strength and fortitude and courage and every 35 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:23,959 Speaker 1: word you can think of that means that really pretty amazing. 36 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:28,320 Speaker 1: Excellent voter turnout turned out on Tuesday, which is an 37 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:30,919 Speaker 1: energy and of force we need to continue in strengthen 38 00:02:31,440 --> 00:02:34,880 Speaker 1: until the twenty twenty four elections. It's a scary time, 39 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: there's no denying it. Everybody knows democracy is a participation sport. Right, 40 00:02:41,240 --> 00:02:47,160 Speaker 1: you got to participate, and it requires that it requires truth, 41 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 1: and it requires participation. Today's guest on the show is 42 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 1: Alexandra Pelosi, daughter of Nancy and Paul Pelosi, and an 43 00:02:54,560 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 1: outstanding documentarian. Her latest documentary, The Insurrectionist next Door, I 44 00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 1: think should be required viewing for every American before we 45 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:10,960 Speaker 1: vote in November twenty twenty four. With camera in hand 46 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 1: and no crew or even security, Alexandra interviewed January sixth rioters, 47 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:19,120 Speaker 1: people who had pled guilty in court and were not 48 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 1: denying their role, people who she saw with her own 49 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:28,239 Speaker 1: eyes stormed the Capitol. And her previous documentary was Pelosi 50 00:03:28,280 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 1: in the House, a doc about her mother, including the 51 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:35,960 Speaker 1: January sixth riot insurrection and violence which Alexandra and her 52 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:39,600 Speaker 1: son were caught in while making that film. This is 53 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 1: a great conversation with an amazing artist and woman, and 54 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 1: I'm really happy that she came to talk about this 55 00:03:46,320 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 1: amazing documentary. Here's me an, Alexandra Pelosi, Hi, Hi, how 56 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 1: are you are? You? 57 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:07,040 Speaker 2: Look at you fabulous? 58 00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 1: First of all, I just watched it again this morning. 59 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's punishment. 60 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 1: What are you kidding me? A great documentary I love 61 00:04:15,520 --> 00:04:17,440 Speaker 1: to watch more than once. I always think, what did 62 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 1: I not see what did I not? 63 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, it was interesting because when you watch a documentary 64 00:04:21,240 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 2: more than once, you realize things and then it changes 65 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:24,960 Speaker 2: your opinion, and then you're confused and you don't know 66 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:27,840 Speaker 2: if you you know if you love everyone or hate everybody. 67 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 2: Like when you say, whit love this movie? Let me 68 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 2: show it to you, you show to someone else and 69 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 2: then you look at it completely differently. 70 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, well I watched it twice and I have to 71 00:04:34,560 --> 00:04:37,839 Speaker 1: tell you, I think it should be required viewing for 72 00:04:38,000 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 1: all of America. How did you come up with the 73 00:04:40,800 --> 00:04:44,039 Speaker 1: concept of I'm going in there to those people who 74 00:04:44,160 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 1: threatened to kill my mother on the sixth. Then I'm 75 00:04:47,440 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: going in there and I'm going to talk to them 76 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: one on one, and no matter what, I'm going to 77 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:54,200 Speaker 1: love them. 78 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:57,039 Speaker 2: First of all, I was in the Capitol on January sixth, 79 00:04:57,320 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 2: and I saw those people on January sixth window from 80 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:04,599 Speaker 2: the window, and my sixteen year old son was with me, 81 00:05:04,680 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 2: and he said, what if they stormed the Capitol? And 82 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:09,880 Speaker 2: all the grown up security guards were like, come on, kid, 83 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 2: gooit imagination? So he called it. He knew right away 84 00:05:13,839 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 2: he was getting to the point where we're saying, I 85 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:17,159 Speaker 2: think we should get out of here. So at some 86 00:05:17,360 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 2: point we evacuated. We had to go with her. Of course, 87 00:05:20,160 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 2: as a document filmmaker, I wanted to stay. I was 88 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 2: done to stay behind. One of my great regrets is, 89 00:05:25,240 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 2: damn I wish I had like hid and stayed behind 90 00:05:27,760 --> 00:05:28,440 Speaker 2: so I could. 91 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:29,480 Speaker 1: Have Thank god you didn't. 92 00:05:29,720 --> 00:05:32,320 Speaker 2: Okay enough, I probably wouldn't be here today to talk 93 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 2: to you exactly, But at the time I wanted to 94 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:37,880 Speaker 2: see him, so two minutes if you watch the video 95 00:05:37,920 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 2: camera now, you can see that two minutes before they 96 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 2: got to the speaker, she had been evacuated, so there 97 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:48,480 Speaker 2: were two minutes behind us, and I just spent the 98 00:05:48,520 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 2: rest after that night, I wanted to know who are 99 00:05:51,600 --> 00:05:54,400 Speaker 2: these people? Now we went back into the building after 100 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:57,279 Speaker 2: they had been all cleared out, and we'd seen they 101 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:02,680 Speaker 2: literally shit in the place. They destroyed everything they live 102 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 2: And who would do this to the capital of the 103 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:09,240 Speaker 2: United States? Forget about your politics. You wouldn't do this 104 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:11,279 Speaker 2: to your mother's house. You wouldn't do this to the 105 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:13,479 Speaker 2: You know, if you were at the mall, you know, 106 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:17,720 Speaker 2: they literally they broke all these windows and doors and 107 00:06:17,960 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 2: mirrors and all the office supply, all the mugs in 108 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 2: the kitchen, they just broke everything. So I was fascinated 109 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:28,880 Speaker 2: by are these people who does this? And I assumed 110 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:32,480 Speaker 2: I started reading. I started calling some of them in jail, 111 00:06:33,360 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 2: and one of them named Ronnie Sandlin, sent me two 112 00:06:36,160 --> 00:06:38,960 Speaker 2: books from jail. Yes, they have Amazon access to computers, 113 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 2: and they have Amazon and jail. He sent me The 114 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 2: True Believer and The Crowd, which are two books they 115 00:06:44,200 --> 00:06:48,080 Speaker 2: use in psychology one O one classes, and they explained 116 00:06:48,080 --> 00:06:50,320 Speaker 2: that when you're in the heat of the moment in 117 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:55,320 Speaker 2: a crowd, you loose yourself. Yes, And I was fascinated by, 118 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:59,720 Speaker 2: who are these nice human beings that live next door 119 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:02,080 Speaker 2: to you that lost themselves on that day and just 120 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 2: did really stupid and terrible things. So I picked the 121 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 2: people in the film for very specific reasons. For example, 122 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 2: there was someone who was accused of pooping in the hallway, 123 00:07:13,960 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 2: so I went to go talk to him, and his 124 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 2: excuse was he had a medical disorder, and he showed 125 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 2: me the scars and there was a whole backstory. But 126 00:07:22,640 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 2: his explanation was I couldn't find a bathroom. Okay, that's a. 127 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 1: While I was rioting. I have you know, I have Celiac, 128 00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 1: and I had to shit in the Capitol. Okay, that's 129 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 1: an excuse. 130 00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 2: Okay, now I know now speaking of shitting. Since we're 131 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:40,400 Speaker 2: on the subject, I feel like I need to just 132 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:42,960 Speaker 2: go back to the beginning and tell you something. Since 133 00:07:43,000 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 2: I saw you last, as you know, since we've both 134 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:48,760 Speaker 2: worked with Sheila and Evans. She was my mentor and 135 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 2: Yoda at HBO. We did fourteen films together. 136 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:54,880 Speaker 1: And mine in any way, in every way, I just 137 00:07:54,960 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 1: adore her. Right. 138 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 2: So when we were making films, we made a lot 139 00:07:57,760 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 2: of films. I made a film called Meet the Donors 140 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 2: that was about going to the homes of the billionaires 141 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 2: that are funding our democracy to say why do you 142 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 2: give so much money to these political candidates. That's an 143 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:12,000 Speaker 2: example of a movie. And Sheila said to me, we 144 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 2: don't shit on people's couches. We walk in, We ask 145 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:19,520 Speaker 2: them the questions, We hear what they have to say. 146 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 2: We don't start a fight and get thrown out. That's 147 00:08:22,480 --> 00:08:25,160 Speaker 2: not who you are. That's Michael Moore. There is someone 148 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 2: out there that makes those kinds of movies. That's not 149 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 2: who you are. You're a lady. Your job is to 150 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:34,000 Speaker 2: walk in, ask all the questions you have, accept what 151 00:08:34,040 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 2: they say. Maybe they're lying to you, maybe they're exaggerating, 152 00:08:38,280 --> 00:08:41,760 Speaker 2: or who cares. You just accept what they tell you, 153 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 2: and you leave polite, and you make friends, and you 154 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:47,040 Speaker 2: invite them to the premiere, and you try to understand. 155 00:08:47,280 --> 00:08:49,720 Speaker 2: You don't go into the edit room and then destroy 156 00:08:49,760 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 2: them and make them look silly and say, these are 157 00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 2: the assholes that are buying our democracy. You accept what 158 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:58,319 Speaker 2: they tell you. That's the most anyone has ever gotten 159 00:08:58,320 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 2: out of these billionaires that are funding them atocracy. I'm 160 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 2: curious what they have to say. Let's hear what they 161 00:09:03,160 --> 00:09:05,080 Speaker 2: have to say, and let's give them the benefits of 162 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 2: the doubt. So that's the ethos. Just so you understand 163 00:09:09,840 --> 00:09:13,480 Speaker 2: how I go into the process of these films. So 164 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:16,440 Speaker 2: I didn't walk into anyone's house with the intention of 165 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 2: shitting on their couch. 166 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:23,439 Speaker 1: However, you walked in to somebody's living room who said 167 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 1: they wanted to kill your mom, Oh for sure. While 168 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:29,760 Speaker 1: they were riding, while they were breaking down the signs 169 00:09:29,800 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 1: of our door, well, they were chanting looking for her. 170 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:35,840 Speaker 1: That that's pretty intense, Alex. That's not like, Oh, I 171 00:09:36,040 --> 00:09:39,200 Speaker 1: just was curious that these are the people who wanted 172 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:42,280 Speaker 1: to kill your mom and Pence that day for. 173 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 2: Sure, and I more than anyone I think you have 174 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:49,439 Speaker 2: on your podcast, am qualified to say. And they mean 175 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:51,959 Speaker 2: it because you know what happened to my dad. He 176 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 2: almost got killed by one of these crazies. So I 177 00:09:56,120 --> 00:09:59,600 Speaker 2: know it's real. I don't have any delusions about oh, 178 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 2: you know, oh they're just nice people who got lost 179 00:10:04,320 --> 00:10:08,040 Speaker 2: in the moment. They mean it. This local violence in 180 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:12,320 Speaker 2: America is real. Ask Steve Scalise, ask Paul Polusi, they 181 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 2: will tell you it is real. So yes, that still 182 00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:23,199 Speaker 2: I've always had this documentary desire to try to understand 183 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 2: even though it's come so close. It's comes so close, 184 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 2: but I still am left with this. I just I'm 185 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:33,880 Speaker 2: just I'm just trying to make some peace. This is 186 00:10:33,920 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 2: some kind of therapy. It's some kind of coping mechanism. Yes, 187 00:10:37,400 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 2: obviously I never told my parents I was making this movie, 188 00:10:40,160 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 2: and then when it came out, they said, My mother 189 00:10:42,880 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 2: said to me, this is probably just your coping mesicanism. 190 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 2: This is probably what you do to heal. This is 191 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:50,120 Speaker 2: you need to talk to people. Instead of going to 192 00:10:50,120 --> 00:10:52,440 Speaker 2: a therapist. You actually just go to the house of 193 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:54,640 Speaker 2: the people that wanted to kill me to ask them 194 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:58,199 Speaker 2: to their face, because that's the only way. Some old 195 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 2: guy on the couch isn't going to give me any answer. 196 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:04,319 Speaker 2: But at least the white supremacist who actually attempted murder 197 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:06,160 Speaker 2: if someone else and went to jail for that may 198 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:08,840 Speaker 2: give you some answer that helps you understand. Maybe not. 199 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 2: I don't know. 200 00:11:10,040 --> 00:11:14,439 Speaker 1: I found watching it how many of the people needed 201 00:11:14,600 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 1: mental health assessments. Like the first guy with the cats 202 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 1: with the long hair, like I thought, is he on 203 00:11:22,679 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 1: the autism spectrum? Is he like he seemed to kind 204 00:11:27,720 --> 00:11:34,600 Speaker 1: of not really be fully there? Is that? Did you 205 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:35,680 Speaker 1: find that? Or no? 206 00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:39,480 Speaker 2: I hate to break this to you, but everyone in 207 00:11:39,520 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 2: the movie are the most sane people I met. I talked, 208 00:11:42,520 --> 00:11:45,400 Speaker 2: oh my dozens more that didn't make the cut because 209 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:50,160 Speaker 2: I was afraid that they weren't mentally capable of understanding 210 00:11:50,800 --> 00:11:52,360 Speaker 2: that they were going to be on TV and that 211 00:11:52,400 --> 00:11:55,280 Speaker 2: this was going to be So these are actually the 212 00:11:55,320 --> 00:11:58,000 Speaker 2: sane ones, believe it or not, These are the best 213 00:11:58,240 --> 00:12:01,320 Speaker 2: I actually I decided I did that in the edit room. 214 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:05,800 Speaker 2: As you know, since you're a Doctumaryville maker. Yes, everyone 215 00:12:05,960 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 2: gets made in an edit room. So editor, we wake 216 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 2: up My editor, Jeff Barts. He's been editing for He 217 00:12:12,080 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 2: edited Pumping Iron. He's eight years old. He's been doing 218 00:12:14,240 --> 00:12:16,920 Speaker 2: this forever. In the morning, we would walk in together 219 00:12:16,960 --> 00:12:20,720 Speaker 2: and he'd say, who do you want him to be? 220 00:12:21,120 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 2: When we were making the edits, are we making him 221 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:29,200 Speaker 2: a extreme white supremacist Nazi loser or are we going 222 00:12:29,280 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 2: to be charitable and let him present his story of 223 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:35,800 Speaker 2: why he had to join a white supremacy gang and 224 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 2: give him some benefit of the doubt. That was a 225 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:42,240 Speaker 2: mathematical formula we had to play with every day, and 226 00:12:42,280 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 2: in that process, a lot of people got edited out 227 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 2: because we had to say, honestly, do you think this 228 00:12:47,080 --> 00:12:50,080 Speaker 2: person is mentally fit to be in a documentary on HBO? 229 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: And you know that young boy, he looks young, who 230 00:12:54,840 --> 00:12:58,400 Speaker 1: wants a black wife and a biracial family, who was 231 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:02,480 Speaker 1: a porn star and who bit there's a need for 232 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:07,319 Speaker 1: some kind of medication and or intensive therapy intervention like 233 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 1: that one. I was like, well, now come on, everybody, 234 00:13:10,520 --> 00:13:13,720 Speaker 1: is there's some of the things that this person is 235 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:19,320 Speaker 1: saying is indicative of severe trauma untreated. 236 00:13:20,280 --> 00:13:23,560 Speaker 2: For sure. I thought of it. I kept saying, this 237 00:13:23,640 --> 00:13:27,360 Speaker 2: is a mosaic of broken America. It just gives you 238 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 2: a picture of how broken America is right now, because 239 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:34,360 Speaker 2: every time I left someone's house, I would think, was 240 00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:38,560 Speaker 2: that a really mentally ill person? Or was that just 241 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:43,320 Speaker 2: a Trump loving idiot who got carried away on that day. 242 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 2: I still some nights I stay up wondering, deep deep 243 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:54,559 Speaker 2: down if a lot of those people, Yeah, I who 244 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:57,040 Speaker 2: say they all need some real serious medical attention. 245 00:13:57,800 --> 00:14:01,080 Speaker 1: But that's the populace of the country. And that's what's happening. 246 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 1: And you know, we have all these horrific shootings and 247 00:14:03,880 --> 00:14:06,760 Speaker 1: what and oh they said he had he was hearing voices. 248 00:14:06,840 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 1: You don't say, where's the help for the mentally ill people? 249 00:14:09,960 --> 00:14:13,199 Speaker 1: It's like there, it's like an epidemic or something that. 250 00:14:13,559 --> 00:14:17,320 Speaker 1: And I think this is all trauma related. It's all trauma. 251 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 1: And then you go back to your trauma as a child. 252 00:14:20,240 --> 00:14:22,920 Speaker 1: And you know, here I am, at sixty one years old, 253 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:27,400 Speaker 1: you know, still molding the clay of your childhood trauma 254 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 1: into some you know usable you know, piece of art 255 00:14:32,360 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 1: or something. 256 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 2: Look how well you've done with that. 257 00:14:35,120 --> 00:14:38,320 Speaker 1: It's work, yes, but yes, it's working for me. 258 00:14:38,400 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 2: For you. You've turned it into something. For them, they 259 00:14:41,880 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 2: turned it into a criminal record for breaking into the capitol, 260 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 2: and none of. 261 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:50,560 Speaker 1: Them felt blame or felt you know, one guy said 262 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:53,880 Speaker 1: he felt lied to, but the vast majority said, no, 263 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:56,400 Speaker 1: I don't blame him. It was my decision and I 264 00:14:56,480 --> 00:14:58,440 Speaker 1: now have to pay for my crime. And that's when 265 00:14:58,440 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 1: I thought, I wonder if that guy on the spectrum, 266 00:15:01,200 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 1: you know, very clear, black and white thinking, very you know, 267 00:15:05,560 --> 00:15:09,880 Speaker 1: Or how about the ones who said I wasn't really 268 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:13,880 Speaker 1: I was just there and my uncle drove me and 269 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 1: I just you know, picked up the Pelosi sign. I 270 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 1: don't know, you know, like what happened? How did that 271 00:15:21,640 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 1: go down? How does that happen that you just happen 272 00:15:24,560 --> 00:15:27,560 Speaker 1: to be walking around with your uncle and people have 273 00:15:27,720 --> 00:15:30,880 Speaker 1: guns and you know, masks, and or you're in the 274 00:15:30,880 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 1: middle of a riot and you find time to take 275 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:36,880 Speaker 1: a post to selfie. You know, I don't understand. 276 00:15:37,280 --> 00:15:39,200 Speaker 2: It's not going to end well for that young lady. 277 00:15:39,280 --> 00:15:42,560 Speaker 2: She was a farm girl from Missouri who never left Missouri. 278 00:15:43,000 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 2: She just wanted to get out of town. She was bored, 279 00:15:45,360 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 2: she had nothing going on in her life. She stole 280 00:15:48,480 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 2: that sign. She got thirty days in jail for that. 281 00:15:50,640 --> 00:15:55,160 Speaker 2: But then dot dot Dot the kind of shame that 282 00:15:55,160 --> 00:15:58,920 Speaker 2: that crime put on her psyche when she went on 283 00:15:58,960 --> 00:16:01,440 Speaker 2: the internet in this edition, were all making fun of her. 284 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 2: Led her to, you know, to drink and drive and 285 00:16:05,160 --> 00:16:09,520 Speaker 2: black out and kill a mother and almost kill a father, 286 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:12,040 Speaker 2: and she's going to be spending a lot of her 287 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:13,000 Speaker 2: life in jail. 288 00:16:13,040 --> 00:16:13,840 Speaker 1: The rest of her life. 289 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:18,080 Speaker 2: In January sixth really ruined her life, completely ruined her life. 290 00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 2: So right, some people they went into the building. You know, 291 00:16:22,200 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 2: the gay Obama voter, remember him, He served ninety days, 292 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:30,640 Speaker 2: lived happily ever after. He right now is trying to 293 00:16:30,800 --> 00:16:34,120 Speaker 2: stand up comedy in Greenwich Village. He's fine. It didn't 294 00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:37,200 Speaker 2: really do great damage to his life. But the other 295 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 2: woman that you're talking about from Missouri, she is going 296 00:16:40,880 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 2: to it that one day did ruin her whole life. 297 00:16:44,520 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 1: Now, how did your sixteen year old recover from being 298 00:16:47,960 --> 00:16:52,000 Speaker 1: that close to the trauma that he was prescient enough 299 00:16:52,080 --> 00:16:53,400 Speaker 1: to alert you to. 300 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:56,160 Speaker 2: He told me that he would never speak to me 301 00:16:56,280 --> 00:16:59,280 Speaker 2: again if I went to talk to any of these people. 302 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:01,760 Speaker 2: So I don't think he. 303 00:17:01,840 --> 00:17:05,520 Speaker 1: Likes He's probably afraid, right. Afraid is a fear might 304 00:17:05,560 --> 00:17:06,639 Speaker 1: be the first thing there. 305 00:17:06,800 --> 00:17:09,280 Speaker 2: Well, his name is Paul, and my father's name is Paul, 306 00:17:09,600 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 2: So I think he has a legitimate reason to be afraid. 307 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 2: I don't think it's all just hocus focus, you know, 308 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 2: crazy shit people say on the internet. I think it's real. 309 00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:22,720 Speaker 1: So I think he was afraid for you, not afraid 310 00:17:22,720 --> 00:17:23,400 Speaker 1: for himself. 311 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:29,680 Speaker 2: I think there is a really legitimate argument that these 312 00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:32,720 Speaker 2: people do not deserve a microphone. Right, That would be 313 00:17:32,720 --> 00:17:35,320 Speaker 2: the NPR take of this movie. How dare you give 314 00:17:35,359 --> 00:17:39,119 Speaker 2: the microphone to these haters? Why are you even giving 315 00:17:39,160 --> 00:17:43,720 Speaker 2: them any airtime? And my answer is, well, first of all, 316 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:46,400 Speaker 2: all of these people pled guilty, which means they admitted 317 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:47,879 Speaker 2: to what they did. They didn't go to court and 318 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 2: say no, no, no, they didn't fight it. They pled guilty. 319 00:17:51,240 --> 00:17:55,200 Speaker 2: A majority of them were misdemeanors, So six months in jail, 320 00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:58,400 Speaker 2: eight months in jail, but still only a misdemeanor. And 321 00:17:58,560 --> 00:18:01,760 Speaker 2: then they are now out and available. They're allowed to 322 00:18:01,760 --> 00:18:04,080 Speaker 2: go vote in the next election and participate in the 323 00:18:04,080 --> 00:18:06,199 Speaker 2: next election. And if they cared enough to get off 324 00:18:06,240 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 2: their couch and drive all the way across the country 325 00:18:08,560 --> 00:18:11,639 Speaker 2: to go storm the capitol, what have you done lately? 326 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 2: You know, I mean personally, like there's a lot of 327 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:17,600 Speaker 2: protests going on where I live in Greenwich Village. Right now, 328 00:18:17,960 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 2: I just ride and lock the door. I don't even 329 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 2: want to get involved. I don't want to take a side. 330 00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 2: I don't want to fight in my backyard. You know, 331 00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:26,680 Speaker 2: I'm just right. I don't have the stomach for this, 332 00:18:26,800 --> 00:18:29,679 Speaker 2: you know, political activity. 333 00:18:29,920 --> 00:18:33,040 Speaker 1: Right, right, But yet you have the stomach for you know, 334 00:18:33,160 --> 00:18:38,000 Speaker 1: facing people that many on the liberal left, which I 335 00:18:38,119 --> 00:18:43,080 Speaker 1: consider myself a part of, you know, would not be 336 00:18:43,200 --> 00:18:46,160 Speaker 1: able to find common ground with right. 337 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 2: I mean, my whole philosophy was. On the very first 338 00:18:49,880 --> 00:18:52,720 Speaker 2: morning that I started filming, I went to the Lincoln 339 00:18:52,720 --> 00:18:55,600 Speaker 2: Memorial with the very first person that's in the film. 340 00:18:55,640 --> 00:18:58,720 Speaker 2: His name is Paul Hodgkins and his lawyer, Patrick Leduke. 341 00:18:59,080 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 2: And Patrick was explaining to me that, you know, Lincoln's 342 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:06,000 Speaker 2: second inaugural, the walls are on the words are on 343 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:10,680 Speaker 2: the wall of the Lincoln omar charity towards all, malice, 344 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 2: towards none. You don't have to You have to try 345 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 2: to make forgiveness. I should say, you have to try 346 00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:21,880 Speaker 2: to make forgiveness because they are your neighbors and they 347 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 2: are ruling in the next election. People come out because 348 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:28,919 Speaker 2: they hate, they don't come out because they love I mean, 349 00:19:28,920 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 2: I'm Obama. They came out because they loved Obama. But 350 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:35,080 Speaker 2: usually I think in the every four years, HBO makes 351 00:19:35,119 --> 00:19:37,399 Speaker 2: me do an election film. Okay, so I'm back on 352 00:19:37,440 --> 00:19:40,200 Speaker 2: the trail already filming, you know, talking to voters, and 353 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 2: I find that the people who hate are really inspired, 354 00:19:44,840 --> 00:19:46,920 Speaker 2: and they really get off their couch and they really 355 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:50,040 Speaker 2: show up. And I don't know. I mean when they 356 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:52,080 Speaker 2: give this argument, this is one of the most often 357 00:19:52,160 --> 00:19:55,760 Speaker 2: heard arguments, which is the election was stolen in twenty twenty. 358 00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:57,800 Speaker 2: I know the election was stolen in twenty twenty. Well 359 00:19:57,800 --> 00:20:00,400 Speaker 2: how can you prove it? Well, because I mean, look 360 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:03,520 Speaker 2: how many people show up for Trump and Joe Biden. 361 00:20:03,600 --> 00:20:05,880 Speaker 2: He didn't get those kinds of crowds. And you're saying, well, 362 00:20:06,240 --> 00:20:08,000 Speaker 2: they voted for him, but they don't love him so 363 00:20:08,119 --> 00:20:10,360 Speaker 2: much that they're going to go storm the capitol for him. 364 00:20:10,800 --> 00:20:12,720 Speaker 2: They yeah, they may have voted for him, but doesn't 365 00:20:12,760 --> 00:20:16,119 Speaker 2: mean they love him that much. So I think people 366 00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:19,840 Speaker 2: show up because they feel hate in their soul and 367 00:20:19,880 --> 00:20:22,480 Speaker 2: that's what inspires them to go wait in long lines. 368 00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:25,520 Speaker 1: And I think that that's what he triggers in people. 369 00:20:26,600 --> 00:20:30,800 Speaker 1: Donald Trump, the you know, the hatred that lives in 370 00:20:30,840 --> 00:20:34,600 Speaker 1: the corners of our souls. Right there's there's tiny little 371 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:37,959 Speaker 1: paces of being human that you can't even face. And 372 00:20:37,960 --> 00:20:43,760 Speaker 1: and and here it is more with Alexandra Pelosi right 373 00:20:43,800 --> 00:21:08,600 Speaker 1: after this. You know, you want to reach people and 374 00:21:08,680 --> 00:21:15,920 Speaker 1: make them remember when it wasn't so chaotic, pre internet. 375 00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:19,880 Speaker 1: I think the Internet has been amazing, and it's been 376 00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:23,560 Speaker 1: so horrific that it's hard to even quantify it. 377 00:21:24,400 --> 00:21:27,040 Speaker 2: Well, it's for sure destroyed the civil discourse. I mean, 378 00:21:27,080 --> 00:21:29,119 Speaker 2: you can't have a conversation anymore because everybody's in their 379 00:21:29,119 --> 00:21:31,640 Speaker 2: own little bubble getting fed exactly what they want to hear. 380 00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 2: And so it's impossible to have conversations with people because 381 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:40,639 Speaker 2: they don't have facts. That's the most frustrating part I 382 00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:43,000 Speaker 2: interview people Like this week, I've been at the courthouse. 383 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,880 Speaker 2: You know, Trump's at the courthouse in New York, and 384 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 2: I go down and I talk to his supporters the 385 00:21:46,560 --> 00:21:49,400 Speaker 2: show outside and I say, if he goes to jail, 386 00:21:49,440 --> 00:21:51,160 Speaker 2: are you still going to support him? And they say, 387 00:21:51,200 --> 00:21:53,159 Speaker 2: of course, you're still gonna vote for me if he's 388 00:21:53,160 --> 00:21:54,879 Speaker 2: in jail, of course, But what about January sixth? The 389 00:21:54,920 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 2: whole insurrection. He didn't do anything. Well, he said, I'm 390 00:21:57,560 --> 00:22:00,520 Speaker 2: gonna march up there with you. He never said that. See, 391 00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:03,119 Speaker 2: he said that I can prove it. I play it 392 00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:06,560 Speaker 2: for them, and then they either say, oh oh yeah, 393 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:10,040 Speaker 2: I forgot or I never saw that. It reminds me 394 00:22:10,080 --> 00:22:12,879 Speaker 2: of the point that I was making that Jason the 395 00:22:13,040 --> 00:22:16,639 Speaker 2: day Obama voter in my film. His husband watched my 396 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:20,639 Speaker 2: movie and said, after I never saw any of that 397 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:24,600 Speaker 2: violence on January sixth. Wait, it's almost two years later 398 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:28,760 Speaker 2: and you never saw any video of any violence on 399 00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:32,080 Speaker 2: January sixth. That means you live in a totally different 400 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 2: media ecosystem that. 401 00:22:34,720 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 1: Only well, yeah, they live in the ecosystem that says 402 00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:42,920 Speaker 1: it was a normal tourist day. You know, right, Can 403 00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 1: I ask you what is the this year's HBO election 404 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:52,960 Speaker 1: movie going to feature? Is it going to be similar? 405 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:58,399 Speaker 2: It's a really really unpredictable. That's the thing of a documentary. 406 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:00,480 Speaker 2: You just never know what you going to get, You 407 00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:03,880 Speaker 2: know what documentaries are just like children, Yeah, brought through 408 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:06,360 Speaker 2: get when they're little. They're cute and you think, take 409 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:08,600 Speaker 2: that home with me. You have no idea what's going 410 00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:12,879 Speaker 2: to happen overnight? Is forever in politics, So anything going 411 00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 2: to happen and the next correct. So who knows where 412 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:17,280 Speaker 2: this is gonna take us. One could be in jail, 413 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:22,760 Speaker 2: one could be who knows. So, yeah, it hasn't been 414 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:25,400 Speaker 2: He hasn't been written yet. It hasn't even we haven't 415 00:23:25,440 --> 00:23:29,600 Speaker 2: even started writing it. I thought that Mike Pence was 416 00:23:29,640 --> 00:23:31,320 Speaker 2: going to do better than he did. So this is 417 00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:34,320 Speaker 2: one of those unpredicted were in a moment in American 418 00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:38,520 Speaker 2: politics where it's hard to predict because you think common 419 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:43,719 Speaker 2: sense would dictate there would be some market for someone 420 00:23:43,760 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 2: like a Mike Pence. I would have guessed that he 421 00:23:45,800 --> 00:23:49,280 Speaker 2: would have been a good candidate. But shows how much 422 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:50,400 Speaker 2: I know everything. 423 00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,959 Speaker 1: I think that all the Trump people, like you know, 424 00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:57,119 Speaker 1: hate him, and so you know that took a large 425 00:23:57,280 --> 00:24:01,240 Speaker 1: swath of the Republican Party or former republic Party, right. 426 00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:04,240 Speaker 1: I think he's seen as a weak man who didn't 427 00:24:04,240 --> 00:24:07,000 Speaker 1: do the right thing, and you know, I mean, I 428 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:08,879 Speaker 1: don't know why he would want to run after they 429 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:13,000 Speaker 1: were shouting, hang Mike Pence. I don't know why he 430 00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:16,600 Speaker 1: would choose to try to be president. But I wasn't 431 00:24:16,640 --> 00:24:19,560 Speaker 1: surprised that he didn't do well. Okay, So I thought 432 00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:22,520 Speaker 1: he didn't have any gravitas, you know, they kind of 433 00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:23,640 Speaker 1: emasculated him. 434 00:24:24,600 --> 00:24:28,280 Speaker 2: He had an event in New Hampshire the night that 435 00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:29,879 Speaker 2: my show was airing. I wanted to go, but I 436 00:24:29,880 --> 00:24:32,320 Speaker 2: couldn't go because my show is airing on HBO. But 437 00:24:32,800 --> 00:24:35,720 Speaker 2: he had an event with one of the Jan sixers, 438 00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:38,640 Speaker 2: like an event hosted by a Jan sixer, someone who 439 00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:41,040 Speaker 2: went and you know, served time for Jan six was 440 00:24:41,080 --> 00:24:44,919 Speaker 2: hosting an event sponsoring the event, and Mike Pence spoke 441 00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:49,200 Speaker 2: and I thought, this is a new, complicated part of 442 00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:54,120 Speaker 2: the dynamic. You're hanging out with the guy who actually 443 00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:57,399 Speaker 2: came to hang you, right, that's a person who doesn't 444 00:24:57,440 --> 00:25:01,040 Speaker 2: know who he is. So if you read it like that, 445 00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:03,520 Speaker 2: you'd say, yeah, maybe it was doomed. 446 00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:11,439 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I mean I think that, you know, 447 00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:16,359 Speaker 1: seeing the hanging gallows there and it was like it 448 00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,280 Speaker 1: was like I couldn't even believe what was happening. What 449 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:21,600 Speaker 1: would have happened if God forbid, they got your mother 450 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:25,000 Speaker 1: or him? What would have happened? Would calmer minds have prevailed? 451 00:25:25,359 --> 00:25:26,040 Speaker 1: I don't think. So. 452 00:25:26,800 --> 00:25:27,240 Speaker 2: That was a. 453 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:36,640 Speaker 1: Crazy group of agitated, riled up lied to people, right. 454 00:25:37,160 --> 00:25:39,960 Speaker 2: But so this is the question you asked, This is 455 00:25:40,000 --> 00:25:41,960 Speaker 2: the eternal question, and I have lost a lot of 456 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:48,000 Speaker 2: sleep on this question. Clearly there were different levels of participation. 457 00:25:48,160 --> 00:25:53,159 Speaker 2: They're distincts. The Department of Justice has arrested, you know, 458 00:25:53,280 --> 00:25:57,520 Speaker 2: over eleven hundred people have been arrested. About three thousand 459 00:25:57,520 --> 00:26:00,520 Speaker 2: went into the building, not even half of them and arrested. 460 00:26:00,640 --> 00:26:02,600 Speaker 2: There are plenty of people that went into the building 461 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:05,840 Speaker 2: and never got charged with anything. You know, the FBI 462 00:26:05,880 --> 00:26:08,120 Speaker 2: showed up at their house, talked to them, let them go. 463 00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:14,600 Speaker 2: There were clearly militant organizations, the Proud Boys and the Oathkeepers, 464 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:19,560 Speaker 2: who had communication amongst themselves about what they were planning 465 00:26:19,600 --> 00:26:22,520 Speaker 2: to do that day. And we know that. And the 466 00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 2: leader of the Proud Boys sent a message on telegram 467 00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:28,960 Speaker 2: to all of us brothers saying, We're going to get 468 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:32,960 Speaker 2: the Normies to burn the city to ash today. And 469 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:35,920 Speaker 2: those are the people in my movie, the Normies, the 470 00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:38,680 Speaker 2: normal people that they were, They were part of the chorus. 471 00:26:38,880 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 2: They weren't in on the plan that the Proud Boys 472 00:26:42,040 --> 00:26:43,639 Speaker 2: and the Oath Keepers met in that parking lot the 473 00:26:43,720 --> 00:26:47,240 Speaker 2: night before to coordinate. So when you ask yourself that 474 00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:49,720 Speaker 2: question of what would have happened. If they've actually ran 475 00:26:49,760 --> 00:26:53,159 Speaker 2: into Mike Pants with it actually hung him. I have 476 00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:58,679 Speaker 2: to believe that there were enough normal people in the 477 00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:05,520 Speaker 2: crowd that would have prevented something really, really terrible. But 478 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 2: maybe that's just wishful thinking. 479 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:11,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we can't allow ourselves. It was bad 480 00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:14,440 Speaker 1: enough as it was, and you know, cops getting hurt, 481 00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:17,639 Speaker 1: and I mean it was bad enough as it was. 482 00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:22,199 Speaker 1: We can't even imagine that next level. And you know, 483 00:27:23,080 --> 00:27:29,560 Speaker 1: it's really a terrifying concept. And I was so moved 484 00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:32,399 Speaker 1: by the one guy who said, I can show you 485 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:36,720 Speaker 1: clips of how there were Antifat people in there, right 486 00:27:37,119 --> 00:27:41,480 Speaker 1: And he starts with them looking for your mother or 487 00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:45,199 Speaker 1: breaking down her doors, going to her office, and you said, listen, 488 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:47,879 Speaker 1: I don't want to hate you, I want to love you. 489 00:27:48,000 --> 00:27:51,080 Speaker 1: I thought that's the whole message of the movie. You 490 00:27:51,160 --> 00:27:53,880 Speaker 1: tried very hard and you got there, Alex. You did 491 00:27:53,920 --> 00:27:58,359 Speaker 1: not punt and judge. You showed up, looked them in 492 00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:01,800 Speaker 1: the eye, shook a hand, made relationships. Every one of 493 00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:05,040 Speaker 1: those people trusted you. Every one of those people was 494 00:28:05,119 --> 00:28:08,800 Speaker 1: open and honest, and you know you're a Pelosi. That's 495 00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:13,040 Speaker 1: big for them too. Imagine somebody saying to you, did 496 00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:17,520 Speaker 1: do you want to kill my mother? That's heavy? 497 00:28:17,560 --> 00:28:21,400 Speaker 2: You know, it is heavy. Gosh, you're making me, You're 498 00:28:21,400 --> 00:28:24,439 Speaker 2: making me reconsidered. Maybe maybe this wasn't such a good 499 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:25,400 Speaker 2: idea after all. 500 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:29,000 Speaker 1: No, I think it should. I think everyone should see it, 501 00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 1: because you can't have a big brush that you paint 502 00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:36,359 Speaker 1: with and go, Okay, I'm just going to black and 503 00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:39,120 Speaker 1: white my life. And these are the good people and 504 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:42,160 Speaker 1: these are the bad people. And you know, Rumy says 505 00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:45,560 Speaker 1: out in the field behind what's right and wrong, I'll 506 00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:51,280 Speaker 1: meet you there, right Like, I think everyone should watch 507 00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:55,680 Speaker 1: it because we can't view each other as such cartoon characters. 508 00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:58,959 Speaker 1: We have to see the humanity in each other. And 509 00:28:59,040 --> 00:29:02,800 Speaker 1: you found the humanity and even the guy with proud 510 00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:06,560 Speaker 1: boy on his head with all those children and the 511 00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:11,560 Speaker 1: wife there trying, you know, not to inflame the situation 512 00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:16,040 Speaker 1: after his transphobic comment about his child, right you know, 513 00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:18,240 Speaker 1: and she's like, no, no, don't say that, because we're 514 00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:20,280 Speaker 1: not like that. People think we're like that, but we're 515 00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:21,880 Speaker 1: not like that, you know. 516 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:26,560 Speaker 2: Right, Well. The reason why I included him, remember I 517 00:29:26,640 --> 00:29:28,280 Speaker 2: told you I intentionally in the edit room, we had 518 00:29:28,280 --> 00:29:30,080 Speaker 2: a lot of choices to make of who was going 519 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,440 Speaker 2: to make the cut. And the reason Billy Kannuts and 520 00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:36,560 Speaker 2: the rapper Playboy why he made the cut was because 521 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:42,640 Speaker 2: he sings these terrible songs like f Joe Biden, F 522 00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,680 Speaker 2: Joe Biden. That's his whole thing, catchy little songs that 523 00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:50,080 Speaker 2: are all pretty like it sounds pretty hateful, but they're songs, okay. 524 00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:54,360 Speaker 2: And when he went to court for sentencing, the judge 525 00:29:55,160 --> 00:29:59,320 Speaker 2: just was reviewing the song lyrics and saying, well, you 526 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:03,560 Speaker 2: said Nancy don't want us in her office, Well, he 527 00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:06,560 Speaker 2: didn't go into Nancy's office or and these are songs 528 00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:09,040 Speaker 2: that he sang after January sixth, He didn't sing them 529 00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:12,560 Speaker 2: before to get people inspired and riled up. He sang 530 00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:18,880 Speaker 2: things like, well, just kind of anti Biden anthems right now. 531 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:21,800 Speaker 2: The judge was calling it hate speech and put him 532 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:23,800 Speaker 2: in jail for six months in a federal penitentiary, the 533 00:30:23,840 --> 00:30:26,920 Speaker 2: same federal penitentiary where the unibomber is or what wow. 534 00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:31,000 Speaker 2: And so it was interesting to meet. Now criminal history 535 00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:33,040 Speaker 2: has to weigh in there. He had a criminal history 536 00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,440 Speaker 2: been in a jail, so they do factor that into 537 00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:39,440 Speaker 2: your equation. But if you take the Criminal Code truspassing 538 00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:42,280 Speaker 2: that he was charged with, and you take that code 539 00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,440 Speaker 2: and type it into the Department of Justice website and 540 00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:46,160 Speaker 2: you look at the pages and pages of people that 541 00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:48,160 Speaker 2: were charged with it. There are plenty of people that 542 00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:50,600 Speaker 2: did exactly what he did on January sixth, and they 543 00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:55,160 Speaker 2: got probation, house arrest, or you know, nothing at all. 544 00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:58,000 Speaker 2: And so it was interesting that he got six months 545 00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:01,520 Speaker 2: in a real lockdown situation because he sang really anti 546 00:31:01,560 --> 00:31:02,760 Speaker 2: Biden songs. 547 00:31:02,960 --> 00:31:05,360 Speaker 1: And were they able to appeal that. No. 548 00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:06,720 Speaker 2: I mean, he went and he served as time. He 549 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:08,240 Speaker 2: said it was the worst six months of his life, 550 00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:11,600 Speaker 2: and it was really, you know, just hard, hard time, 551 00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:15,280 Speaker 2: but for free passing. So I think, you know, it 552 00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:18,840 Speaker 2: reminds me of sort of like those ACLU cases of 553 00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:21,520 Speaker 2: like going into Guantanamo Bay and saying, yeah, we know, 554 00:31:21,640 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 2: you're probably a terrible person who's friends with Osama bin Laden, 555 00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:28,480 Speaker 2: but you still shouldn't have been waterboarded. I'm not excusing 556 00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:33,000 Speaker 2: anyone who marched into the Capitol. Lindsey Graham would tell 557 00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:35,600 Speaker 2: you that everybody who walked into that building that day 558 00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:39,440 Speaker 2: is a domestic terrorist. So let's take him. Let's take 559 00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:41,800 Speaker 2: his standard, right, Okay, they're all the mess here. Now 560 00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:43,719 Speaker 2: let's go from there and say, now, what did you 561 00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:47,320 Speaker 2: actually do? Did you break anything, did you steal anything? 562 00:31:47,640 --> 00:31:53,200 Speaker 2: It was the most filmed photographed crime scene in American history, 563 00:31:53,320 --> 00:31:56,120 Speaker 2: so we know what everybody did. They have a million 564 00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:58,400 Speaker 2: camera angles of every person that walked in that building, 565 00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,960 Speaker 2: so we know what they did. So the people in 566 00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:04,320 Speaker 2: my film, they walked in, they walked out. One stolen 567 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:08,280 Speaker 2: is a Pelosi sign. Once stole a book. But that's 568 00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:10,560 Speaker 2: the extent of the crimes they committed, and they went 569 00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:12,840 Speaker 2: to jail for that. And you shouldn't walk into the 570 00:32:12,840 --> 00:32:14,560 Speaker 2: capitol and steal a book, and you shouldn't walk into 571 00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:18,600 Speaker 2: the Capitol and steal Nancy Pelosi's signed. But at the 572 00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:23,000 Speaker 2: same time, you have to remember these were called misdemeanors 573 00:32:23,480 --> 00:32:27,200 Speaker 2: in the core right, And to me, a misdemeanor, I 574 00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,760 Speaker 2: mean I forgive. I have friends that have committed misdemeanors 575 00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:33,160 Speaker 2: and I have forgiven them for that. So the conversation 576 00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:37,120 Speaker 2: has to go somewhere from there, right, right, right, just 577 00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:40,080 Speaker 2: say they all committed misdemeanors, they're all domestic terrorists. 578 00:32:40,120 --> 00:32:44,120 Speaker 1: They all deserve the same treatment, right because they were 579 00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:46,840 Speaker 1: the ones who walked in, who was with their uncle, 580 00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:50,680 Speaker 1: And I mean that you told it already about the accident, 581 00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:54,600 Speaker 1: that tragic you know, life of that girl forever changed, 582 00:32:54,640 --> 00:32:58,200 Speaker 1: and all of these people, it profoundly changed their life, 583 00:32:58,200 --> 00:33:02,640 Speaker 1: but it did not necessarily change their politics exactly. 584 00:33:02,880 --> 00:33:05,160 Speaker 2: You nailed it. And they're probably going to be much 585 00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 2: more involved and activated in the next election than I am. 586 00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:15,480 Speaker 2: So I mean one hundred percent than I am, but 587 00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,680 Speaker 2: more than my neighbors, will, you know, And so you 588 00:33:18,760 --> 00:33:23,320 Speaker 2: have to think they're really you know, they've been radicalized, 589 00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:28,160 Speaker 2: they've gone to jail for their beliefs. They are true believers, 590 00:33:28,880 --> 00:33:33,160 Speaker 2: and you know, I know that we talked after Bill Maher. 591 00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,320 Speaker 2: Bill Maher's whole point when I did the show, he said, 592 00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:39,400 Speaker 2: there's something noble about what they did because they believe 593 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:41,520 Speaker 2: in some of their true believers. They actually went and 594 00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:45,760 Speaker 2: followed through with their political conviction. And I didn't want 595 00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:48,160 Speaker 2: to start a fight with him because you know, we've 596 00:33:48,200 --> 00:33:50,000 Speaker 2: been friends a long time and it's his show, and 597 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:51,520 Speaker 2: you never you know, I don't go into shit on 598 00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:54,480 Speaker 2: his couch, you know, correct. But what I wanted to say, 599 00:33:54,480 --> 00:33:55,840 Speaker 2: you know, it's like that what you wanted to say 600 00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:59,600 Speaker 2: to him was what I wanted to say is it 601 00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:03,360 Speaker 2: was based on a lie. It's one thing to have convictions. 602 00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:05,920 Speaker 2: You can believe something in your core and go fight 603 00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:08,319 Speaker 2: for it. But what if everything you believe is based 604 00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:12,839 Speaker 2: on a lie. Their belief is the election was stolen, right, 605 00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:14,680 Speaker 2: But that's a lie. It wasn't. 606 00:34:14,719 --> 00:34:15,760 Speaker 1: That's a lot that's. 607 00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:18,400 Speaker 2: Been proven in Quirkys after, quirk is after, but they 608 00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:22,520 Speaker 2: will never believe that. So that's the frustrating part. 609 00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:25,480 Speaker 1: And that's why you almost need deep programmers who get 610 00:34:25,520 --> 00:34:28,480 Speaker 1: people out of scientology, who get people out of other 611 00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:32,520 Speaker 1: cults that have a real hold on the mindset of 612 00:34:33,040 --> 00:34:36,640 Speaker 1: people to the point where they start to depersonalize and 613 00:34:37,080 --> 00:34:40,040 Speaker 1: become just a member of this thing. I had a 614 00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:43,080 Speaker 1: question last week here on the show. People can leave 615 00:34:43,120 --> 00:34:46,080 Speaker 1: a message for a question or whatever, and this guy, 616 00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:48,839 Speaker 1: Preston so Sweet was saying that and his mother were 617 00:34:48,840 --> 00:34:51,439 Speaker 1: the best friends, and they were both, you know, grew 618 00:34:51,480 --> 00:34:55,120 Speaker 1: up liberal and progressive, and then she kind of took 619 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,480 Speaker 1: a right turn a couple of years ago, and like 620 00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:02,600 Speaker 1: Fox News, you know, neppt and programmed his mother and 621 00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:07,200 Speaker 1: she's been gone. You know. Maga loss is something that 622 00:35:07,280 --> 00:35:10,799 Speaker 1: families have to talk about because it really happens. And 623 00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:13,360 Speaker 1: then he was saying, as a gay man that he 624 00:35:13,400 --> 00:35:16,680 Speaker 1: gets to the point where, well, can I continue doing 625 00:35:16,719 --> 00:35:21,040 Speaker 1: this when I know that my mother is voting and 626 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:24,080 Speaker 1: living everything against who I am and what I believe, 627 00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:29,239 Speaker 1: you know, and it's very sad cults do that they 628 00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:29,799 Speaker 1: separate from. 629 00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:33,040 Speaker 2: Maybe the solution is we should make everybody switch their 630 00:35:33,040 --> 00:35:37,640 Speaker 2: social media feed the week before Thanksgiving, and you know, 631 00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:42,000 Speaker 2: everybody who lives on you know, their right wing ecosystem 632 00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:44,520 Speaker 2: should be switched over to a different feed, and then 633 00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:46,640 Speaker 2: we should be switched over to their feed so that 634 00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:49,799 Speaker 2: we can understand the way they think. Because I do 635 00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:53,200 Speaker 2: believe when Jason Riddle's husband said I'd never seen violence 636 00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:57,560 Speaker 2: on January sixth, I thought, bless his heart, he genuinely 637 00:35:58,280 --> 00:36:00,560 Speaker 2: had a totally different version of realcy that he was 638 00:36:00,600 --> 00:36:02,400 Speaker 2: living in. And his husband is in jail. 639 00:36:03,520 --> 00:36:07,479 Speaker 1: Well, and that's you know, and that's also willful blindness, right, 640 00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:11,040 Speaker 1: Willful blindness I think is going on right now, big 641 00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:14,120 Speaker 1: time all over the world where what you see and 642 00:36:14,160 --> 00:36:18,360 Speaker 1: what you're experiencing and what you're ingesting people are saying 643 00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:25,800 Speaker 1: is not happening. And that happened with Trump. That happened 644 00:36:25,800 --> 00:36:29,520 Speaker 1: with Trump, And I don't think that mass media has 645 00:36:29,600 --> 00:36:36,200 Speaker 1: the ability to sway millions of Americans' views anymore. I 646 00:36:36,239 --> 00:36:39,839 Speaker 1: think that people see them as biased and with their 647 00:36:39,880 --> 00:36:44,880 Speaker 1: own self interest. And you know, I don't think it 648 00:36:45,280 --> 00:36:47,640 Speaker 1: is the fourth estate anymore that it used to be 649 00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,960 Speaker 1: when we were growing up, when Walter Cronkite said something 650 00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:55,600 Speaker 1: and then the Vietnam War stopped. You know, who has 651 00:36:55,640 --> 00:36:58,960 Speaker 1: that power now to say wake up Trump? Culters Rosiodon, 652 00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:03,520 Speaker 1: Oh what are you kidding me? I have a little podcast. 653 00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:07,439 Speaker 1: I can't deal with the pressure of life. Is there 654 00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:08,520 Speaker 1: a way to come together? 655 00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:09,800 Speaker 2: I don't know. Do you think there's a way that 656 00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:10,480 Speaker 2: come together? 657 00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:15,840 Speaker 1: I think with shows like Yours and stuff like Truth 658 00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:18,840 Speaker 1: going on and people telling truth and speaking truth to 659 00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:25,279 Speaker 1: power that you know, we have to embrace each other, 660 00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:28,320 Speaker 1: these two halves of the same hole. We have to 661 00:37:28,360 --> 00:37:32,080 Speaker 1: find a way to come to mutual respect. And it's 662 00:37:32,200 --> 00:37:36,439 Speaker 1: very hard after all of the stuff that went down, 663 00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:42,400 Speaker 1: you know, Trump wise, very very hard. It's like, you know, 664 00:37:43,600 --> 00:37:46,080 Speaker 1: he's like Net and Yahoo for America. Trump. 665 00:37:46,480 --> 00:37:50,040 Speaker 2: You know, some people better wake up because they may 666 00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:55,080 Speaker 2: be going straight diving straight into another Trump presidency, right. 667 00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:57,600 Speaker 1: Now correct, that's what's happening. 668 00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:00,520 Speaker 2: Okay, Well this is really up uplifting. 669 00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:04,279 Speaker 1: Sorry, sorry I took my effects or I'm supposed to 670 00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:05,600 Speaker 1: be happier than I am. 671 00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:07,319 Speaker 2: But I mean, it's really hard not to be sad 672 00:38:07,320 --> 00:38:08,480 Speaker 2: about America right now. 673 00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:12,120 Speaker 1: It's hard. It's terrible. We got to get this country 674 00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:18,040 Speaker 1: some infrastructure right, especially for mental health, I think. And 675 00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:21,760 Speaker 1: maybe no more guns please. Okay, Rosie for president, that's next. 676 00:38:22,600 --> 00:38:26,839 Speaker 1: But I think that you're a great filmmaker, and I 677 00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:29,680 Speaker 1: think that you've done a lot for all of us 678 00:38:29,800 --> 00:38:34,080 Speaker 1: by releasing all those docs with Sheila and this one 679 00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:38,280 Speaker 1: The Insurrectionist next Door on Max also known as HBO, 680 00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:40,879 Speaker 1: and you can get it on Amazon Prime too. 681 00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:43,560 Speaker 2: I don't know if stuff like that, Yes you can. 682 00:38:43,680 --> 00:38:45,680 Speaker 1: I looked it up today. I was watching it again. 683 00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:48,920 Speaker 1: But it's great to talk to you. Tell your family, 684 00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,720 Speaker 1: I said, hello, I'm very sorry what happened to your dad. 685 00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:55,359 Speaker 1: I think your mom rocks the boat. And I think 686 00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:58,000 Speaker 1: you're pretty great too. And I hope that one of 687 00:38:58,000 --> 00:39:00,840 Speaker 1: my kids grows up to be just like you with 688 00:39:01,000 --> 00:39:02,480 Speaker 1: a camera somewhere telling the track. 689 00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:05,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, welcome, that's really sweet. I think my kids want 690 00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:07,319 Speaker 2: to grow up to be anything but me. 691 00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:11,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, I understand, same with mine. No interest. I'm like, 692 00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:13,319 Speaker 1: come on, we could go on tour gypsy. They're like, 693 00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:18,160 Speaker 1: I don't sing. Oh jeez. We'll be back in a 694 00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:21,799 Speaker 1: moment with questions from you are wonderful listeners right after this. 695 00:39:43,440 --> 00:39:45,759 Speaker 1: I hope you enjoyed that conversation. I know it was 696 00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:49,400 Speaker 1: kind of intense and different than normal, but you know what, 697 00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:52,799 Speaker 1: hasn't been a good couple of weeks for mommy, but 698 00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:54,759 Speaker 1: I'm doing my best. I'm getting through it. I hope 699 00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:56,560 Speaker 1: you enjoyed it, and I hope that you are too 700 00:39:57,360 --> 00:40:01,279 Speaker 1: doing Okay, Okay, we got some love listeners who left 701 00:40:01,280 --> 00:40:04,399 Speaker 1: a voice memo and we're going to answer them right now. 702 00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:04,880 Speaker 1: Hit it. 703 00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:12,640 Speaker 3: Hello, Rosie. This is Michael from outside Chicago. My three 704 00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:16,600 Speaker 3: year old son is currently obsessed with the movie Tarzan 705 00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:22,760 Speaker 3: and his favorite song is Trashing the Camp. He does 706 00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:26,200 Speaker 3: all of the sound effects to start the song and 707 00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:33,359 Speaker 3: all of the gibberish sounds that go with it, and 708 00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:39,080 Speaker 3: it's truly a joy watching him sing along, especially since 709 00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:45,120 Speaker 3: he's been battling a chronic illness that is not outwardly 710 00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:48,959 Speaker 3: noticeable by people who meet him, but has definitely been 711 00:40:49,960 --> 00:40:54,319 Speaker 3: stressful for our entire family to be dealing with and 712 00:40:54,360 --> 00:40:57,640 Speaker 3: so seeing the joy on his face when he sings 713 00:40:57,680 --> 00:41:01,520 Speaker 3: along with that song certainly something that helps us to 714 00:41:01,560 --> 00:41:04,879 Speaker 3: get through it. And so I kind of had had 715 00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:10,000 Speaker 3: two questions on that topic. One was if you had 716 00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:15,040 Speaker 3: any fond memories of recording that song that you wanted 717 00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:18,319 Speaker 3: to share about what that was like for you. And 718 00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:21,400 Speaker 3: the second one was if you had any advice for 719 00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:27,759 Speaker 3: parents of young children who are going through health issues 720 00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:33,000 Speaker 3: and how you cope with it and how you make 721 00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:37,040 Speaker 3: it through. Thank you for all you do. Been a 722 00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:41,960 Speaker 3: fan since when you were after school programming that I 723 00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:47,000 Speaker 3: would watch with my mom who since passed, and definitely 724 00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:50,040 Speaker 3: have been enjoying everything that you do. So thank you 725 00:41:50,080 --> 00:41:53,480 Speaker 3: for doing this podcast and I look forward to hearing 726 00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:56,359 Speaker 3: whatever you have to share. Thanks well. 727 00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:59,719 Speaker 1: Thank you Michael. What a beautiful note, not note, I 728 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:03,480 Speaker 1: guess voice message, but beautiful sentiments. And I'm sorry about 729 00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:08,600 Speaker 1: your child's struggling with some unseen illness. Sometimes it's harder 730 00:42:08,719 --> 00:42:12,279 Speaker 1: when a child is diagnosed with something that is not 731 00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:20,080 Speaker 1: is easily indicative of hardship, you know, so people expect 732 00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:24,920 Speaker 1: your child maybe who's three to act accordingly, but there 733 00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:27,200 Speaker 1: could be other challenges, and it sounds like there are 734 00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:30,120 Speaker 1: that you're facing. You just got to do it day 735 00:42:30,120 --> 00:42:33,080 Speaker 1: by day, honey, That's what I have to say. It's 736 00:42:33,600 --> 00:42:36,360 Speaker 1: one day at a time, it's one step forward at 737 00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:39,840 Speaker 1: a time, and it's love, love, love, love love, you know. 738 00:42:40,480 --> 00:42:47,160 Speaker 1: And it's very very unnerving as a parent to think 739 00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:49,400 Speaker 1: that you need to have all the answers or you 740 00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,560 Speaker 1: need to know exactly what it's going to be in 741 00:42:51,600 --> 00:42:55,719 Speaker 1: life for your children, when frankly, nobody can do that. 742 00:42:55,960 --> 00:43:00,000 Speaker 1: You know, all we can do is provide security, safety, life, 743 00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:04,840 Speaker 1: and a sense of being seen. So it sounds like 744 00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:07,560 Speaker 1: you know what you're doing, Michael. It sounds like you're 745 00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:10,319 Speaker 1: right on it. And I'm sorry for the pain that 746 00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:12,520 Speaker 1: you and your family are in and I wish the 747 00:43:12,560 --> 00:43:16,800 Speaker 1: best to your little boy now. When we were filming 748 00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:23,080 Speaker 1: that movie, Phil Collins came in and he was the 749 00:43:23,160 --> 00:43:26,080 Speaker 1: musical director and he had written that and so you know, 750 00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:29,720 Speaker 1: after my first take, he said, Rosie, you're a little 751 00:43:29,800 --> 00:43:32,239 Speaker 1: underne You're not in the pocket. And I had no 752 00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:35,000 Speaker 1: idea what he meant. I was like, okay, all right, 753 00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:38,040 Speaker 1: let me try it again. Eli think you and I 754 00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:40,400 Speaker 1: don't think I ever got it right, but we recorded 755 00:43:40,400 --> 00:43:43,279 Speaker 1: it a bunch of times and we just kind of 756 00:43:43,360 --> 00:43:48,880 Speaker 1: kept adding different lines of shoe banoo, baboo, shaba shuba abamboobiah. 757 00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:51,640 Speaker 1: You know. We kept doing that over and over and over, 758 00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:54,399 Speaker 1: and then Phil, who is a genius, laid it all 759 00:43:54,440 --> 00:43:57,680 Speaker 1: out and it became that that beautiful song and a 760 00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:00,360 Speaker 1: lot of kids, I think relate to that little song. 761 00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:03,120 Speaker 1: And I've told this story before, but my son, who 762 00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:05,040 Speaker 1: is now twenty eight years old, when he was your 763 00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:09,040 Speaker 1: son's age, the movie opened and he was so young. 764 00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:10,799 Speaker 1: I thought, I'm not going to explain this to him. 765 00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:12,719 Speaker 1: You know that I'm a voice in this, He's not 766 00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:14,439 Speaker 1: going to know that. So we went to the movie 767 00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:17,279 Speaker 1: theater and about halfway through the movie, he stood up 768 00:44:17,280 --> 00:44:20,880 Speaker 1: on the chair and scream that monkey's my mama. So 769 00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:26,719 Speaker 1: you know, kids, no kids, no. Much love to you 770 00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:28,920 Speaker 1: Michael and your family, and thank you so much for 771 00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:33,160 Speaker 1: listening and for being a part of this Onward podcast. 772 00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:36,759 Speaker 1: We got one more now from someone named Frank. They 773 00:44:36,800 --> 00:44:38,040 Speaker 1: tell me, let's hear. 774 00:44:37,920 --> 00:44:41,960 Speaker 4: It, Hi, Rosie, my name is Frank. And before it 775 00:44:42,000 --> 00:44:44,040 Speaker 4: get to my question, I just wanted to say thank 776 00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:48,040 Speaker 4: you so much for being yourself over the years, You're 777 00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:51,520 Speaker 4: giving myself and I'm sure many other people confidence and 778 00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:54,600 Speaker 4: joy and just wanted to say big thank you to that. 779 00:44:54,960 --> 00:44:58,360 Speaker 4: It means a lot. Well, my question for you is 780 00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:02,880 Speaker 4: actually related to niece Spears's new memoir that she just released. 781 00:45:03,239 --> 00:45:05,799 Speaker 4: I know, over the years when you had your talk show, 782 00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:08,759 Speaker 4: you were really really kind and you had her on 783 00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:11,879 Speaker 4: a lot of times, and I remember watching those when 784 00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:15,600 Speaker 4: I was younger, and I really really enjoyed the interactions 785 00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:20,000 Speaker 4: between you guys because it was just so cute and innocent, 786 00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:24,160 Speaker 4: and over the years, even when you were on the view, 787 00:45:24,800 --> 00:45:28,920 Speaker 4: I remember when she finally got divorced from Kafed and 788 00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:32,160 Speaker 4: all that, you had confetti coming out of the sky 789 00:45:32,160 --> 00:45:35,640 Speaker 4: and it was it was so funny. But my question 790 00:45:35,840 --> 00:45:41,120 Speaker 4: is would you ever interview her, you know, being you 791 00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:44,600 Speaker 4: kind of had a relationship with her from the very beginning. 792 00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:48,280 Speaker 4: I know she said she has no interest in doing 793 00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:50,839 Speaker 4: interviews at the moment, but if the chance ever came, 794 00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:53,640 Speaker 4: would you want to interview her? And do you plan 795 00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:57,400 Speaker 4: on reading her memoir? I just got mine and it 796 00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:00,840 Speaker 4: is a really good read, So just wanted to know 797 00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:03,440 Speaker 4: your thoughts on that. Thanks Rosie, appreciate it. 798 00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:07,680 Speaker 1: Bye, Thank you, Frank, thank you for that lovely message. Yes, 799 00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:10,440 Speaker 1: I have her book. I have been reading it. I 800 00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:13,319 Speaker 1: love Britney Spears. But it was many years ago, and 801 00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:16,080 Speaker 1: she was so young, you know. What I saw was 802 00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:19,719 Speaker 1: like a teenager without any real guidance. She had a 803 00:46:19,800 --> 00:46:24,120 Speaker 1: woman who was maybe eight or ten years older than her, 804 00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:27,480 Speaker 1: but but you know, not enough to be parental in 805 00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:30,480 Speaker 1: my opinion, And that was the woman who was her guardian, 806 00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:33,080 Speaker 1: who was always with her at the show, and who 807 00:46:33,200 --> 00:46:37,520 Speaker 1: was always you know, in a parental role. And so 808 00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:41,759 Speaker 1: I just felt so strongly that she needed protection, you know, 809 00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:45,200 Speaker 1: and tried to support her in any way that I could. 810 00:46:45,680 --> 00:46:47,719 Speaker 1: Would I do an interview now if she wanted to, 811 00:46:47,760 --> 00:46:50,040 Speaker 1: I would do whatever she wanted. I would love to 812 00:46:50,120 --> 00:46:52,680 Speaker 1: go have a conversation with her. I would love to 813 00:46:52,680 --> 00:46:54,480 Speaker 1: have dinner with her. I would love to do it 814 00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:59,040 Speaker 1: privately or if she chose publicly. But I think the 815 00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:02,880 Speaker 1: book is is so far a beautiful and honest reflection 816 00:47:03,080 --> 00:47:07,200 Speaker 1: of a terrible, terrible time in her life, and I 817 00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:12,799 Speaker 1: think she needs compassion and understanding. And I love her, 818 00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:15,359 Speaker 1: I always have, I always will. Now having said that, 819 00:47:16,040 --> 00:47:18,600 Speaker 1: I haven't seen her or spoken to her since for 820 00:47:18,640 --> 00:47:22,960 Speaker 1: twenty three years, maybe even more. I have nothing but 821 00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:25,879 Speaker 1: love and respect for her, nothing and I can't wait 822 00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,759 Speaker 1: to finish the book. This book is Britney Spears, and 823 00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:30,880 Speaker 1: it's what she wants to say, and I'm here for it. 824 00:47:31,520 --> 00:47:35,400 Speaker 1: I'm totally here for it. Well, thank you, Frank and 825 00:47:35,560 --> 00:47:40,440 Speaker 1: thank you Michael, both of you for calling in and listen. 826 00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:43,800 Speaker 1: Next week's guest is a woman who I met on TikTok, 827 00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:49,240 Speaker 1: Alison Joseph. She's someone I started talking to online. Her 828 00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:53,879 Speaker 1: name on the TikTok is jew in the city, and 829 00:47:53,920 --> 00:48:00,960 Speaker 1: she is very articulate about representation of Jewish people in 830 00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:06,200 Speaker 1: the media, in the world. And you know, we converse 831 00:48:06,239 --> 00:48:09,200 Speaker 1: a lot through the DMS, and I said, hey, what 832 00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:12,839 Speaker 1: do you think. So it's a conversation that I think 833 00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:16,480 Speaker 1: we all need to have, especially before we join our 834 00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:19,120 Speaker 1: families on the holiday. You know, it's not a history 835 00:48:19,200 --> 00:48:23,520 Speaker 1: lesson at all. It's a conversation about compassion, love and humanity. 836 00:48:24,000 --> 00:48:27,960 Speaker 1: That's next week, Alison Joseph, right here on onward with me, 837 00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:33,479 Speaker 1: Rosie O'Donnell, Peace, everyone, peace and onward. What other choice 838 00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:33,840 Speaker 1: do we have