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Speaker 1: Uh, I've ever been left waiting by the phone. It's

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Speaker 1: the Fred Show. Hey Ross, good morning, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: How are you hey, guys doing all right?

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Speaker 2: How you doing?

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Speaker 1: We are great?

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Speaker 3: Tell us about this woman Sonia. I want to know everything.

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Speaker 3: How did you guys meet? Tell us about any dates

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Speaker 3: that you've been on, and then where things are now

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Speaker 3: you think maybe you're being ghosted?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, totally.

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Speaker 2: So I met this girl Sonia. We met on a

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Speaker 2: hinge and you know, we chat it for a while.

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Speaker 2: She's really cute, and I asked her out to dinner

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Speaker 2: after I got her number when I hinting through hinge,

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Speaker 2: and you know, I thought we had a good time

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Speaker 2: and that she liked me because you know, she invited

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Speaker 2: me after dinner back to her place, you know, to

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Speaker 2: go swimming, and I was like, okay, you got a pool.

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Speaker 2: That's fantastic. Let's keep this thing going.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And I'm really really confused right now because you know,

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Speaker 4: like I said, I thought we had a great time,

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Speaker 4: and now she's completely ghosting.

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Speaker 3: I'm heard from her here about this. But yeah, I

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Speaker 3: mean I would say that's pretty good. Like you go

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Speaker 3: on a date, all's going, well, Hey, let's go back

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Speaker 3: to the pool. So now we're just automatically wearing not

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Speaker 3: a lot of clothes like, that's great. I mean, that's

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Speaker 3: that would be in my opinion, that's a good date.

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Speaker 3: Things are going well on the date if we're gonna

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Speaker 3: go back and do that.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeahkiks man, we got King Perv Jason not to

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Speaker 5: be outdone by Prince.

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Speaker 1: Perv Rufie over here, and now we got Princess.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 3: So but you've reached out to this woman since the

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Speaker 3: date and she's not responding to you at all. I

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Speaker 3: take it on hinge and text and whatever else.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly, I've texted her a few times. I tried

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Speaker 2: calling her one nothing.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna call her now. Good luck, Ross, Thank

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Speaker 1: you so much.

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Speaker 2: Guys.

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hi is this Sonia? Uh yeah, Hi, hey, Sonya,

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Speaker 3: good morning. My name is Fredam calling from the Fred Show,

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Speaker 3: the Morning radio show, and I have to tell you

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Speaker 3: that we are on the radio right now and I

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Speaker 3: would need your permission to continue with the call. Can

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Speaker 3: we chat for just a second, do you mind?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? That's fine, Well, thank you very much.

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Speaker 3: We're calling on behalf of a guy named Ross who

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Speaker 3: says he met you on a dating app and you

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Speaker 3: guys recently went on a date to remember him, I do, okay, Well,

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Speaker 3: so that's a good start. So he reached out to

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Speaker 3: us and said that he really liked you and thought

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Speaker 3: the date went well. And then I guess you invited

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Speaker 3: him over to your house to go swimming or something,

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Speaker 3: and he hasn't heard from you since. So he wants

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Speaker 3: to know why you're not responding to him. And we're

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Speaker 3: sort of the middleman here trying to you know, ask

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Speaker 3: the questions as well.

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Speaker 1: So why aren't you calling him back?

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Speaker 6: Well, we met on hinge on the dating app, and

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Speaker 6: he took me to dinner and we have fun. I

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Speaker 6: did invite him back to my place after because it

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Speaker 6: was close by, but I.

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Speaker 2: Regret doing that.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 6: Why Well, when we got back, I realized he was

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Speaker 6: a lot drunker than I thought he was.

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Speaker 1: I excused myself to go to.

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Speaker 6: The bathroom, and then when I came back, I couldn't

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Speaker 6: find him. And then I realized that he was swimming

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Speaker 6: in my pool and he was naked.

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Speaker 1: Oh, I was going to ask the question. I was

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Speaker 1: a little curious. I'll be honest.

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Speaker 3: You know, if you didn't know that you were going

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Speaker 3: to be going on a swimming date. I mean, unless

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Speaker 3: you're going to provide you know, wardrobe, unless you have

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Speaker 3: a whole like selection of men's swim trunks at your house.

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Speaker 3: I guess I was curious how that was going to work.

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Speaker 3: But he just took the liberty of of stripping down

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Speaker 3: and jumping in.

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Speaker 1: He didn't care.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean I didn't even invite him to use

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Speaker 6: the pool. And also swimming that drunk is just dangerous.

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Speaker 1: Well there's that.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, And I assume this is a community pool

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Speaker 3: of some kind unless you somehow have your own pool.

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Speaker 3: I mean I I guess other people might use the

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Speaker 3: might come out and see old boy Ross, you know,

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Speaker 3: swimming around but ass naked.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it was just a lot. I mean we haven't

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Speaker 6: even we haven't even slept together, so why would I.

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Speaker 2: Want to see him naked?

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Speaker 6: You know?

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Speaker 1: And it was it.

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Speaker 2: Was it was a lot to walk out. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well here's the question, what did and sonya?

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Speaker 3: I mean, nobody was expecting that to happen, especially you know,

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Speaker 3: completely uninvited.

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Speaker 1: But what did you expect him to do?

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Speaker 3: What were you thinking he was going to do going

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Speaker 3: on a swimming date that wasn't supposed to be a

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Speaker 3: swimming date.

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Speaker 6: Well, I mean I didn't even invite him to use

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Speaker 6: the pool.

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Speaker 2: He just took it upon himself to do it.

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Speaker 6: So I wasn't really expecting that we were going to

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Speaker 6: be swimming at all. I kind of thought that maybe

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Speaker 6: we just to hang out, you know, and continue.

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Speaker 1: Talking like adjacent to the pool.

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Speaker 3: Maybe not make it okay, let me bring I forgot

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Speaker 3: you mention that Ross is here?

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Speaker 1: Ross?

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Speaker 3: So you wearing clothes now or if you just stripped down,

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Speaker 3: you know, just cause because you feel that comfortable, fully

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Speaker 3: closed the moment.

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Speaker 1: So what was the thought process?

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Speaker 3: So You're like, you know what, I want to go

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Speaker 3: swimming and I don't want to get my clothes wet,

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Speaker 3: so I'll just get completely naked on a first aid,

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Speaker 3: you know.

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Speaker 4: To be quite honest, I don't remember thinking through much

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Speaker 4: of that I remembered.

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Speaker 2: Also, I don't I will say, I.

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Speaker 4: Don't remember being that drunk, but I do remember going

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Speaker 4: back uh to your place, Sonya Tay, And the next

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Speaker 4: thing I know, uh.

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Speaker 2: I was, you know, we were we were swimming. I

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Speaker 2: I don't remember if I had anything on or not.

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Speaker 3: But I don't think anybody else was there with you.

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Speaker 3: I mean, man, I've I've been I've been really drunk,

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Speaker 3: but I'm not sure that I've ever gotten completely naked.

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Speaker 1: In a pool. You never got skinny dipping.

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Speaker 3: Well when invited, but it was it wasn't because I

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Speaker 3: was so drunk I decided to take all my clothes

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Speaker 3: off a lot. Oh Okay, Well okay, okay, well that's yeah.

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Speaker 3: I mean, but ross, she lives in a community. I mean,

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Speaker 3: she could be evicted for this behavior. I mean, I

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Speaker 3: don't she probably is, you know, Sonya, you're not saying much.

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Speaker 3: I mean, so it was a lot. And did you

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Speaker 3: like what you saw?

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Speaker 1: At least? Was he good looking? Naked guys? Was he tanned?

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Speaker 1: Was he he have lines? Was he you know?

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Speaker 2: I wasn't really thinking about that.

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Speaker 6: I was more concerned with, like making sure that he

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Speaker 6: didn't drown because he was so drunk.

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Speaker 2: So, you know, I just got him dressed and sent

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Speaker 2: him home in an uber.

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Speaker 6: But I guess he doesn't need to remember it, which

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Speaker 6: maybe shows that he really was he was too drunk,

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Speaker 6: because that's I mean, that's what happened.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Well, so he's saying he doesn't remember he was overserved.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I guess I hear him taking responsibility. He's

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Speaker 3: sort of making an excuse. But I mean, you liked

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Speaker 3: him up until that point. So are we willing to say, look,

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Speaker 3: that was you know, poor decision making, had too much

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Speaker 3: to drink. No harm, no foul, We'll try it again,

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Speaker 3: or no.

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Speaker 6: I think I'm going to pass on a second date.

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Speaker 3: I think all right, Well, Michael Phelps, I'm sorry, it's

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Speaker 3: not gonna work out.

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Speaker 1: You should always carry a speedout with you. You just

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Speaker 1: never know.

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Speaker 2: Now I'm now, I'm not. Now, I'm in the know,

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Speaker 2: So I'll keep that in the back pocket of all times.

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Speaker 2: All rank you.

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Speaker 3: Well, there you go, Sonya, thank you for your time. Ross,

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry it's not going to work out. Best elected

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Speaker 3: both of you, guys.

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Speaker 1: Thank you,