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Speaker 1: were to read the craziest stories on Earth. I'm Sam

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Speaker 1: and Sofia as a pescatarian. What do you think about

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't meet anyone's meat just to be fair.

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Speaker 1: Oh really, yeah, the fruit is too low? No refrading

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Speaker 2: Who's it from? You didn't say who's from?

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Speaker 1: This is from anonymous? One oh three eight five seven

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Speaker 3: Zero five zero eight sixty five six seven phone number

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Speaker 3: right now?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Why is that not an link at number?

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Speaker 1: My husband thirty five male, Jake and I thirty female

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Speaker 1: have a group of friends from his college. Beth thirty

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Speaker 4: This is louaah like like Mary Lou.

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Speaker 1: Beth is jealous of Lou because Lou dated someone who

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Speaker 4: Beth is jealous of Blue because Lou was rejected? Oh,

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Speaker 4: Lou got rejected?

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Speaker 5: What I am going on a date by someone you

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Speaker 1: Why you got to bring that up Brightley right.

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Speaker 2: In a way, I actually in away.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, what you got rejected, but then I didn't

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Speaker 3: I initially got rejected, but then I pulled through anyway.

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Speaker 1: Lou Jake and I live far from Beth and George,

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Speaker 1: we don't eat storba processed foods except on special occasions.

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Speaker 1: That's the Droolley off the grid. My family never eats

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Speaker 1: Since I am stay at home mom, I make things

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Speaker 2: I really want to try some homemade butter.

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Speaker 1: Delicious Blue lives a similar lifestyle. We will trade eggs

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Speaker 1: things she grows. Her neighbor raises beef cattle, so we

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Speaker 1: have met the cow as before. We split a cow

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, this is like back home.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is so crazy.

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Speaker 1: Well what's crazy about it?

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Speaker 2: No, they're just like they're living off the grid, the light.

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Speaker 1: We Yeah, the farmers in a way split a cow.

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Speaker 1: Does that mean they get half? They like, so they

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Speaker 3: Like they're like, oh, you get half of this, half

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Beth and George, we're visiting the city not too

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Speaker 1: I made pasta with garlic, bread, butter, chicken parmiana or eat.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, Lou made the meatballs, and Beth is all

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, I mean there's everything.

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Speaker 2: You didn't know the cow, didn't know the cow, got

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I explained, we don't eat meat or dairy unless

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Speaker 1: George and they left. Well, Lou knew the cow.

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Speaker 1: It was friends with that cow.

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Speaker 2: I have I have thought or meat Monday.

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Speaker 1: They haven't said anything to us besides the one Facebook

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Speaker 1: we should have had just tried her meatballs. Ye know,

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Speaker 1: We aren't hanging around with cows and you're a full

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Speaker 1: I do think it's weird though.

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Speaker 4: An update, Beth brought me balls right after Lou brought

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, because it's because Beth is insecure. Yeah, Beth

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Speaker 2: Well, it did not happen like in college.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it happened ages ago and we didn't even know

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Speaker 2: That they stated the same person.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, at that point, like you're with George, I feel

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Speaker 2: But also like why are they still friends with this person?

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Speaker 1: I don't know, maybe like small college, down college.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, just to be like she copies everything

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Speaker 1: Did you ask them to bring anything? We did have

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think everything else I'm like not on that

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Speaker 3: Also, meatballs do go with about anything.

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Speaker 1: Imagine what Riley is feeling with that, right and his

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Speaker 1: More on their meat eating philosophy.

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Speaker 2: Why we have to know so much about.

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Speaker 1: This, it's so that we aren't supporting people who mistreat animals.

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Speaker 1: A lot of grocery store meat comes from cows who

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Speaker 1: we know how they live and that they are treated well.

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Speaker 1: Small ranchers actually love their cows slash treat them with respect,

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Speaker 1: and that's the difference. We don't compromise on. Know your cow.

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Speaker 1: The processed foods we eat occasionally do not include meat

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Speaker 1: Would it not have been super pretentious to just mention

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Speaker 4: I think, yeah, I think it like if they had

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Speaker 1: I know your cow is. Actually as much as we

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Speaker 4: No, And I think I think Op knows that that's

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Speaker 4: Honestly, I don't think they're their lifestyle is pretentious at all.

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Speaker 4: Nowhere, we were talking about cows and pasteurized milk, and

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Speaker 1: Beth cheated, talk about burying the lead.

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Speaker 2: That is such like a grudge that she held on Lou.

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Speaker 1: Bill told Lou proactively and attempt to save their marriage. Yeah,

444
00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:04,840
Speaker 1: what do you think we will.

445
00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:06,960
Speaker 2: In the past or recently.

446
00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:10,400
Speaker 1: I feel like, if we're going by the golden rules,

447
00:21:10,800 --> 00:21:12,120
Speaker 1: I don't think you can get out of this one

448
00:21:12,119 --> 00:21:14,200
Speaker 1: because that's four years of continuous cheating.

449
00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:18,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know, a lot of work any amount of cheating.

450
00:21:18,280 --> 00:21:19,520
Speaker 2: But but if.

451
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:22,000
Speaker 1: It's like like it's not like it's not like a

452
00:21:22,040 --> 00:21:22,760
Speaker 1: one off time.

453
00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:26,520
Speaker 4: This is four years of consistent cheating in a fifteen

454
00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:27,200
Speaker 4: year marriage.

455
00:21:27,400 --> 00:21:29,520
Speaker 1: Out, you're you're kind of done. I think if you

456
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:33,520
Speaker 1: have any kind of consistent cheating and you can't your.

457
00:21:33,400 --> 00:21:34,000
Speaker 3: Way out of it.

458
00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:37,840
Speaker 1: I feel like, like, like I think, like we've seen

459
00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:42,760
Speaker 1: where people will like cheat once or something and cusake

460
00:21:42,880 --> 00:21:46,320
Speaker 1: and like they'll they'll the marriage will continue past it.

461
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:50,240
Speaker 1: But I feel like continuous cheating for four years is like.

462
00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:52,320
Speaker 2: A much harder to excuse, much harder.

463
00:21:52,520 --> 00:21:56,040
Speaker 1: It's the part of the because it's not just it's

464
00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:59,600
Speaker 1: not it's a it's like a continuous lie. And yeah,

465
00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:01,600
Speaker 1: continuation of a behavior.

466
00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:02,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah.

467
00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:02,879
Speaker 5: No.

468
00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:05,440
Speaker 4: We were reading a story about this guy who whose

469
00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 4: wife cheated on him, like over and over and over again,

470
00:22:09,080 --> 00:22:10,840
Speaker 4: and he like was he would not divorce her.

471
00:22:10,880 --> 00:22:13,720
Speaker 2: He was like, she kept saying that she'd change, and

472
00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:17,280
Speaker 2: she did. She just changed the chat with no, no,

473
00:22:17,359 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 2: it's bad, man, this is horrible.

474
00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:24,240
Speaker 1: Yes, So su sucks. I didn't see it coming.

475
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:27,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, no, literally, I was like, Beth, you know, she's

476
00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:31,280
Speaker 4: she seems jealous, but she's not horrible and that sucks.

477
00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:34,359
Speaker 1: So Phil told Lou proactively an attempt to save their marriage.

478
00:22:34,520 --> 00:22:37,479
Speaker 1: Lou is currently staying with us while she decides how

479
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:40,720
Speaker 1: to move forward. He is most likely going to file

480
00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:44,399
Speaker 1: for divorce. Good just kind of like gets more and

481
00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:45,560
Speaker 1: more points in my books.

482
00:22:45,560 --> 00:22:48,880
Speaker 2: She makes fire meatballs my.

483
00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 1: Question was happening. What's happening with George? George?

484
00:22:53,280 --> 00:22:54,560
Speaker 2: Well, I think we were about to find out.

485
00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:58,560
Speaker 1: George has also reached out to Jake talking about the

486
00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:02,560
Speaker 1: whole affair. Oh. He knew Beth struggled with jealousy over Lou,

487
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:05,800
Speaker 1: but didn't know how extreme it was until after the

488
00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:08,720
Speaker 1: meatball at incidents Oh my God, and their drive home,

489
00:23:08,760 --> 00:23:12,719
Speaker 1: where she continuously ranted about how much better she was

490
00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:16,360
Speaker 1: than Lou in every aspect and how no one could

491
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:16,760
Speaker 1: see it.

492
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:17,359
Speaker 3: EWW.

493
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:21,719
Speaker 1: The best way to show someone that you're better than

494
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:24,200
Speaker 1: them is to by saying it.

495
00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:27,680
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yeah, that's proof.

496
00:23:28,080 --> 00:23:28,720
Speaker 1: That's proof enough.

497
00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:28,920
Speaker 4: Yeah.

498
00:23:28,920 --> 00:23:31,400
Speaker 2: And they always say as a writer, they say tell,

499
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 2: don't show.

500
00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:33,280
Speaker 1: They say tell, don't show.

501
00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:34,160
Speaker 2: That's what they say.

502
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 1: Beth did not come clean to him about the affair.

503
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:41,320
Speaker 1: Lou told him, I haven't heard anything about what Beth

504
00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:44,520
Speaker 1: and George are doing. I showed Lou this post, and

505
00:23:44,560 --> 00:23:46,359
Speaker 1: she laughed a bit at some of the responses to

506
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:49,440
Speaker 1: people getting so upset about what we eat. So yeah,

507
00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:53,119
Speaker 1: many people said Beth probably had good intentions with the meatballs,

508
00:23:53,200 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 1: but I guess no, I just didn't describe the level

509
00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:56,960
Speaker 1: of jealousy.

510
00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, we needed more, We need more examples. Yeah, this

511
00:23:59,880 --> 00:24:00,639
Speaker 2: is pretty.

512
00:24:00,760 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 1: Although we weren't expecting she'd take it so far. Not

513
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 1: that she's solely to blame. Philis equally at fault. Phil

514
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 1: did say she was flirting with him and coming on

515
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,520
Speaker 1: to him four months before he caved.

516
00:24:11,600 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 4: You, not that it matters you.

517
00:24:15,240 --> 00:24:19,200
Speaker 2: You caved. Come on, like, that's when you stop seeing

518
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:19,679
Speaker 2: a person.

519
00:24:20,040 --> 00:24:23,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean like if someone if someone is actively

520
00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:27,160
Speaker 1: trying to like insert themselves into your stop you don't.

521
00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 2: You don't stop it, you stop it, you say, hey,

522
00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:30,200
Speaker 2: s weird?

523
00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:34,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, please please stop, please leave trying to know my cow.

524
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:35,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

525
00:24:35,920 --> 00:24:38,840
Speaker 4: I hope that maybe maybe Lou will get together with

526
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 4: George and take that's.

527
00:24:41,760 --> 00:24:43,840
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, take the scraps.

528
00:24:44,320 --> 00:24:49,199
Speaker 4: No, I'm gonna say, take that's love interest for a

529
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 4: second time.

530
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, but I feel like we wouldn't do that. Well,

531
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:56,200
Speaker 1: I guess maybe if Jake is friends with George, maybe

532
00:24:56,200 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 1: he's a cool guy.

533
00:24:56,920 --> 00:25:00,159
Speaker 2: Yeah, who knows, but Beth certainly is not.

534
00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:05,040
Speaker 1: Wow. I was not expecting this story to go.

535
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:08,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, what a turn, What a topsy turvy turn. It

536
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 4: started off confusing.

537
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 1: But okay, story time now on too. We were talking

538
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:18,159
Speaker 1: a little bit about etiquette. So question for both of you,

539
00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 1: and question for all of you watching right.

540
00:25:20,640 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 2: Now, all of you watching right there.

541
00:25:23,359 --> 00:25:26,600
Speaker 1: If someone says, hey, want to get together on such

542
00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:30,040
Speaker 1: and such day and they say no, I got a

543
00:25:31,000 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 1: blah blah blah to do the if you actually want

544
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:36,400
Speaker 1: to see them, the appropriate thing to do is say

545
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:42,320
Speaker 1: offer another day, yes, But is it the also appropriate

546
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 1: thing to do it? Does it also contain etiquette to

547
00:25:47,040 --> 00:25:49,840
Speaker 1: just say oh, I'm busy that day and not give

548
00:25:49,960 --> 00:25:52,679
Speaker 1: a response, and that serves as a no in like

549
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 1: a respectful way.

550
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 4: I don't think it's necessarily respectful way. I don't know

551
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:03,639
Speaker 4: about that. I can say I've done that though. That

552
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 4: is how I say no, you do well. No, I'll

553
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 4: just be like oh sorry, Like if people keep asking me,

554
00:26:08,800 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 4: I'm like oh sorry, yeah, and I like really, but

555
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 4: this is not like for people that I know and

556
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 4: see a lot.

557
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 2: It's like people who like one off, We're like, oh, hey,

558
00:26:15,880 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 2: do you want to hang out this day?

559
00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 4: And you're like no, But I don't want to say

560
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:22,040
Speaker 4: no because I'm not going to say no. Yeah, but

561
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:23,480
Speaker 4: I tell them no in my own way.

562
00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:27,639
Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like it's the way most people do it. Yeah,

563
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:28,640
Speaker 1: busy that day.

564
00:26:29,160 --> 00:26:33,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like a fear of yeah, fear of saying no.

565
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:35,760
Speaker 3: Like I don't see alive with you. We should just

566
00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:36,280
Speaker 3: be friends.

567
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:37,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

568
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:39,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think if you direct one man, that's crazy.

569
00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 2: But also I feel like in that other way.

570
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,240
Speaker 1: But you were also direct in an ask.

571
00:26:45,320 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 2: Yes, that's true.

572
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:49,360
Speaker 3: I think if you directly ask you directly.

573
00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:51,960
Speaker 4: Yeah. I've had people directly ask and be like, hey,

574
00:26:52,119 --> 00:26:53,000
Speaker 4: like are you interested?

575
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:55,240
Speaker 2: And then I'm like, yeah, no, sorry.

576
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:58,160
Speaker 1: But you have to say, hey, are you interested? Yeah,

577
00:26:58,280 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 1: you're kind of already like you already know.

578
00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:02,920
Speaker 3: Yeah.

579
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:03,680
Speaker 1: But also I.

580
00:27:03,640 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 4: Think I think also you need to realize that when

581
00:27:07,840 --> 00:27:10,080
Speaker 4: people do say like like you're like, hey, are you

582
00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 4: finn to hang out and that person's like no, don't

583
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:16,359
Speaker 4: keep asking, yeah, because I've had people keep asking and

584
00:27:16,400 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 4: I'm like, oh, yeah, so how many?

585
00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 1: So here a question for you. If you've invited people

586
00:27:24,040 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 1: to a pot luck a couple of times and they

587
00:27:26,920 --> 00:27:29,119
Speaker 1: don't and they like keep saying, oh, I'm busy this

588
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 1: day or I'm not busy this day, should you keep

589
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 1: inviting them to group events?

590
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,160
Speaker 2: Have they gone to any.

591
00:27:35,000 --> 00:27:37,359
Speaker 4: They potentially have not gone to any If they haven't

592
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 4: gone to any maybe. No, No, I know, because I've

593
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 4: invited my friends and they haven't been able to come.

594
00:27:44,680 --> 00:27:48,120
Speaker 4: But that's because potlucks are on Thursdays, and Thursdays are workday,

595
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:51,320
Speaker 4: you know, and my friend works at a school.

596
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:53,880
Speaker 2: So I'm I think that's.

597
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 1: I know, I think you gotta drop them.

598
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 2: I don't know. Actually, if I take it back, I

599
00:27:57,560 --> 00:27:58,919
Speaker 2: don't think that's I don't think that's.

600
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 5: What if someone has been to the pot luck and

601
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:03,000
Speaker 5: then friend zones, you should you invite them to the

602
00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:03,680
Speaker 5: potluck again.

603
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:07,439
Speaker 3: I wasn't going to. I was just saying, buy the

604
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:08,960
Speaker 3: ale body of them anymore.

605
00:28:09,040 --> 00:28:11,240
Speaker 1: No, Okay, thank goodness, you're not the a hole for

606
00:28:11,280 --> 00:28:13,680
Speaker 1: not inviting would Yeah, I feel that's fine.

607
00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:17,720
Speaker 2: You actually want to be friends, you don't have.

608
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:18,200
Speaker 1: To invite them.

609
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:20,000
Speaker 3: Oh, but they're also friends with someone else.

610
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 4: Your life is too complicated, really at too many people.

611
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 4: Yeah's slow down.

612
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 3: I'm trying. Okay, I'm trying to slow down. Oh I

613
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:29,720
Speaker 3: have once?

614
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:32,160
Speaker 1: Okay, anyone with the cow?

615
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,680
Speaker 3: Yeah? So I used to have two cows, Bonnie and Clyde.

616
00:28:35,040 --> 00:28:38,240
Speaker 5: And one year I had a bunch of friends from

617
00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:41,200
Speaker 5: my high school come over to my house for my

618
00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 5: birthday and I showed them the cows, was like, look,

619
00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 5: it's Buddy and Clyde. And then the next year they

620
00:28:45,640 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 5: came and there was only one cow and the girls

621
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:53,640
Speaker 5: were like, oh, what happened to the other cow? Like, oh,

622
00:28:53,680 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 5: you can see them come to my house. And then

623
00:28:55,280 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 5: they came to my house and said look, and there

624
00:28:57,560 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 5: were burgers, and I said, look, they're rather than sliders.

625
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 2: That's messed up. Laughed, that's messed up.

626
00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 3: Them didn't laugh.

627
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:07,480
Speaker 2: That's messed up. That's messed up.

628
00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 3: Long joke.

629
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:12,640
Speaker 5: That was probably the longest joke I've done. Have another

630
00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 5: joke that I've been working on for another three months.

631
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:16,880
Speaker 2: I don't know how I would I don't know, I

632
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 2: don't I don't know how I would take that.

633
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 1: I think that's hilarious.

634
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:22,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, but like I'm from, like.

635
00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 1: You're talking to a meat eater and a pescatarian right now.

636
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 2: But like to be like, oh, Body and Clyde, I've

637
00:29:30,160 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 2: seen them, you know.

638
00:29:30,960 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 4: Like for example, if if if you took my chickens

639
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 4: and and I come home and I'm like, hey.

640
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:39,520
Speaker 2: We're my chickens, and You're like we're eating them?

641
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:44,920
Speaker 1: Well, yes, because they're where there are his chickens in you.

642
00:29:44,760 --> 00:29:47,240
Speaker 4: Okay, sorry, if they were your chickens, I still be traumatized.

643
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 4: If it was like I've met these chickens before.

644
00:29:49,920 --> 00:29:54,240
Speaker 1: I held them in eating meat made eating the chicken burger, like, oh,

645
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 1: how are the chickens, It's like, well, how do they taste?

646
00:29:57,720 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's kind of what it was.

647
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:01,960
Speaker 2: You take knowing your chicken your cow too far.

648
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 1: I don't know. I think that's good.

649
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 3: I think it is good. Yeah, good, do you know?

650
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:08,400
Speaker 4: I think you should know where you're you're if you

651
00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 4: do eat meat, you should know where your meat comes from.

652
00:30:10,800 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 2: Thanks you. Sorry, Yeah, locally sourced meat is very good.

653
00:30:13,640 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 5: But not like, oh this cow lived in my yard

654
00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 5: for three years and then we ate it.

655
00:30:19,720 --> 00:30:22,960
Speaker 2: No, I think that's fine. I just think no, I

656
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 2: think it's fine.

657
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 4: I think it's just to be like the setup of

658
00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:29,920
Speaker 4: your friends being like where's the other.

659
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 2: Cow and you're like, come follow me.

660
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 4: That.

661
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:35,640
Speaker 3: Well, they should know, like you.

662
00:30:35,640 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 2: Should be like that. Yeah, we you know, it was,

663
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:38,160
Speaker 2: it was.

664
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:39,360
Speaker 3: That's what they do, that's what we do.

665
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:42,440
Speaker 1: I think it's fine. Raley, thank you so, but you

666
00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 1: know what I want to run into.

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Speaker 2: This next story, this next story.

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Speaker 1: I thirty two male tried everything to help my grieving girlfriend,

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Speaker 1: twenty nine female, but she refused to cooperate and chose

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Speaker 1: her best friend, thirty male over me. So this comes

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Speaker 1: from bore age and time origin time. I thirty two male,

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Speaker 1: am with my girlfriend twenty nine female for six months.

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Speaker 1: We lived two hours apart, but we try to spend

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Speaker 1: every weekend together, and because she often works from home,

675
00:31:14,400 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 1: she can come over during weekdays. Despite the distance, we

676
00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:21,200
Speaker 1: have a strong relationship. Her mother died unexpectedly last week.

677
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Speaker 1: She didn't want to be alone, but I couldn't visit her,

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Speaker 1: so I told her she can come over. She said

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Speaker 1: she wouldn't feel safe driving that much in that mental state.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, I accepted that and promised I'll visit as soon

682
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Speaker 1: as I can. However, the next day I found out

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Speaker 1: she spent the night at her best friend's thirty male

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Speaker 1: rock Brock. Brock.

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Speaker 2: Oh, his name's Brock. I thought it at her best

686
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Speaker 2: friend's Brock.

687
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Speaker 1: Now is Brock?

688
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 2: I was like, what's a brock?

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Speaker 1: My problem is that she said she can't drive to

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Speaker 1: my place, but then she could go to his. Yeah,

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00:31:55,960 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 1: he's closer than me, but she probably drove there too. Still,

692
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Speaker 1: even though I had every right to point that out,

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Speaker 1: I let it slide because of the situation with her mom.

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Speaker 4: I honestly think that's different because it seems like he's

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00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 4: a lot farther. Yeah, And we also don't know for

696
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Speaker 4: sure that she did drive to this friend.

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Speaker 1: And also two hours away, Like driving for two hours

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00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:17,080
Speaker 1: alone in the car is way different from.

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Speaker 2: Good ten minutes ten to fifteen minutes. Yeah, Like you

700
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Speaker 2: can go.

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Speaker 4: Two hours and you're alone in the car and you're

702
00:32:22,000 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 4: like thinking all these things, and yeah, yeah, it can

703
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 4: overwhelm you versus ten minutes a car.

704
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Speaker 1: Very very different, so I don't so far.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And also a best friend, like that's your best friend.

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Speaker 4: We don't know anything about their relationship.

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Speaker 1: And also six months is not a long time.

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Speaker 4: No, I was about to say that I was like

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Speaker 4: six months over a best friend.

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00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:43,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, six months is not.

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Speaker 4: You just lost your mom, Yeah, and you're like, and

713
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Speaker 4: your your boyfriend of six months won't even drive out.

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Speaker 3: For you too.

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Speaker 1: I'm dating someone for six months. I'm going to my

716
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Speaker 1: I'm going to crash yeah, or my sister.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, yes, absolutely, who probably knows your mom exactly,

718
00:32:59,280 --> 00:33:01,840
Speaker 4: who probably, like you know, understands what you're going through.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I'll probably talk to you first.

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Speaker 4: I would hope you're like, I'm not going to Sophia,

721
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Speaker 4: I'm going to Christian.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, sobbing a man.

723
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Speaker 1: Yeah, we would.

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Speaker 2: I don't even say that.

725
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Speaker 1: I thought we have wood right next.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I know that's good. That's the only superstition our

727
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Speaker 4: mother has instilled in us.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: She always knocks and parking ferry when you park. On Friday,

730
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Speaker 1: I was finally able to visit, and I found her

731
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Speaker 1: asleep in the middle of the day, her hair unwashed,

732
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:33,560
Speaker 1: used tissues everywhere. Rock and his boyfriend were there.

733
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Speaker 2: Why are you mad? Why are you mad?

734
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Speaker 1: It's a weird soup?

735
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Speaker 2: Oh my god, he's so jealous for no reason.

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Speaker 1: I didn't want to make a scene. I politely told

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Speaker 1: the boys they can leave because I can take care

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Speaker 1: of my own girlfriend.

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Speaker 2: Ew.

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Speaker 1: I could tell they didn't like it, but they left.

741
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Speaker 3: EW.

742
00:33:54,640 --> 00:33:56,600
Speaker 1: But my girlfriend finally woke up. I told her it's

743
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Speaker 1: time to wash her hair, clean up, and then we'll

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Speaker 1: go to the hard worst. I'm a carpenter. I've always

745
00:34:02,080 --> 00:34:05,360
Speaker 1: wanted to teach her basic stuff that everyone should know

746
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Speaker 1: to be able to handle things around the house.

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Speaker 3: This is not the time.

748
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 1: It was the perfect opportunity, because lying around won't make

749
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Speaker 1: things better.

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Speaker 3: What the fuck? You suck?

751
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 1: What the fuck? Yeah, right after my girlfriend's mom died,

752
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:26,320
Speaker 1: she should learn how to make a shed.

753
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:30,080
Speaker 4: She needs to learn how to take shows.

754
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:32,160
Speaker 3: Your goddamn hair. Get out of there.

755
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:36,799
Speaker 1: You look like a piece of shit. Stop wallowing. It's

756
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:40,879
Speaker 1: been a whole day. Isn't gonna make it adding better.

757
00:34:41,840 --> 00:34:44,360
Speaker 1: And those friends of yours are making that weird soup,

758
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:45,080
Speaker 1: get them out?

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00:34:45,120 --> 00:34:47,760
Speaker 3: How to out here? I can take care of my own.

760
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 2: Wow, he sucks.

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00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:53,759
Speaker 1: I think that's got to be the most about of

762
00:34:53,840 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 1: red flags. A couple of sentences.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, the quickest.

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Speaker 1: That's some red flag Terri.

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00:35:00,920 --> 00:35:01,840
Speaker 2: Oh wow.

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00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:04,759
Speaker 1: I told her about my plan, and she looked at

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Speaker 1: me like I'm an alien who says she doesn't care

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00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:09,279
Speaker 1: about carpentry.

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Speaker 3: What?

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00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,720
Speaker 1: But I insisted it'll help distract her because she can't

771
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:18,239
Speaker 1: spend her life on account god, oh my god just died.

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00:35:18,320 --> 00:35:22,239
Speaker 1: You fucking what. We argued a bit, then she tried

773
00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 1: to compromise by saying we could walk over to Brocks

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00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 1: and have dinner there. He walk over.

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00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:33,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, wow, wow, So his initial thing wasn't even Yeah,

776
00:35:33,440 --> 00:35:34,359
Speaker 4: it wasn't even sound.

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Speaker 1: It's a really long walk. So she'll spend time outside

778
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:39,920
Speaker 1: the house, but she feels safe there and won't be

779
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 1: embarrassed if she starts to cry. I absolutely refuse, because

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00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 1: Brock and his boyfriend are the ones who allowed her

781
00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:52,439
Speaker 1: to end up in this state. What Nothing all day

782
00:35:52,880 --> 00:35:57,239
Speaker 1: cooked for her, even changed her sheets. They acted like

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00:35:57,239 --> 00:35:59,600
Speaker 1: they're her new moms or something.

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00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:01,799
Speaker 2: No, wait, he said that when she should.

785
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:06,640
Speaker 1: Be fucking making a shelf. He did say that.

786
00:36:06,640 --> 00:36:07,160
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

787
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:08,960
Speaker 1: He said that all not the new shelf thing.

788
00:36:09,040 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 2: But wow, he sucks so hard.

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00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:16,239
Speaker 1: When I told my girlfriend these worries, she snapped and said,

790
00:36:16,239 --> 00:36:20,120
Speaker 1: I'm making it worse. He doesn't need my carpentry lessons. Yeah,

791
00:36:20,239 --> 00:36:24,439
Speaker 1: when she hasn't even buried her mother yet, and Rock

792
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:27,640
Speaker 1: and his boyfriend are the only ones who provide real comfort.

793
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:30,360
Speaker 1: So she'll go there whether I like it or not.

794
00:36:30,600 --> 00:36:34,479
Speaker 1: I said, if she goes there, I'll go back home.

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00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:39,280
Speaker 1: He said, good, one less a hole in my life.

796
00:36:39,640 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 2: Yeah. Wow, he's such an a hole.

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00:36:43,000 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: She hasn't even He sounds like he just he's just clueless.

798
00:36:46,280 --> 00:36:50,920
Speaker 2: He's a carpentree. He's just you haven't even buried your mom. Carpentry.

799
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:54,240
Speaker 2: Let's build a Let's build the coffee together.

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Speaker 1: It hurts so much. She didn't appreciate my help and rock,

801
00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:02,840
Speaker 1: but I still, in my opinion, I did everything having

802
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:07,360
Speaker 1: her best interests at heart. I'm interested in your advice, guys,

803
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:09,480
Speaker 1: because I want to make this relationship work, but I

804
00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:11,399
Speaker 1: can't change who I am. I don't want to lose her,

805
00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:15,240
Speaker 1: but I can't lose myself. You lose yourself the LDR.

806
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:18,520
Speaker 1: My girlfriend's in a downward spiral after her mom's death,

807
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:20,759
Speaker 1: and even though I tried my best to help her,

808
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:23,440
Speaker 1: she prefers to be around her best friend, who allows

809
00:37:23,440 --> 00:37:26,719
Speaker 1: her to be even more depressed. Wow, all right, Fia,

810
00:37:26,800 --> 00:37:27,279
Speaker 1: what do you think?

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Speaker 4: I want to read the relevant comments in this There's

812
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 4: no really I want to read a comment.

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00:37:32,320 --> 00:37:36,400
Speaker 1: Oh, I bet you people are fucking They better beaming.

814
00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:37,160
Speaker 2: They better.

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00:37:38,400 --> 00:37:40,840
Speaker 1: They have only been dating six months. Six months, and

816
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:45,080
Speaker 1: he's already this fucking ridiculous about what he expects. This

817
00:37:45,160 --> 00:37:47,399
Speaker 1: is what This is a quote from the op I'm

818
00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:50,080
Speaker 1: interested in your advices, guys, because I want to make

819
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:52,680
Speaker 1: this relationship work, but I can't change who I am. Translation.

820
00:37:52,840 --> 00:37:55,360
Speaker 1: I'm interested in hearing what I want to hear, not

821
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 1: that I'm the problem. Yeah yeah, yeah he is.

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00:37:59,600 --> 00:38:02,680
Speaker 4: He's like, how do I make for gas lighter into

823
00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:04,320
Speaker 4: thinking this is okay?

824
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 2: He sucks so much.

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00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:10,000
Speaker 1: OMG, it's only been six months. I have food in

826
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:13,759
Speaker 1: my freezer older than their relationship. Give her space to

827
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:18,800
Speaker 1: be sad. It was last week literally, and then quote

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Speaker 1: one less asshole in my life. Boy, your ass just

829
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:22,160
Speaker 1: got dumb.

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00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:25,600
Speaker 2: Yeah you're over, you're done. What she does not need

831
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:27,840
Speaker 2: your energy when her mom just died.

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00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:32,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean like what a lack of touch? Yeah yeah,

833
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:35,240
Speaker 1: just so out of touch with what someone needs.

834
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:40,120
Speaker 4: No, literally, oh wow, yeah that was a doozy.

835
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Speaker 1: Let us know if you think we were right in

836
00:38:42,800 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 1: chest staying this absolute ass hat of a man. Yeah,

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00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 1: just and death. But if you love us, make sure

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Speaker 1: to subscribe.

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Speaker 2: We love you and