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Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

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Speaker 1: advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting and more, please

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Speaker 1: like we're gonna read this one right here, right now,

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Speaker 1: but hold on tight. We got a four year here.

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Speaker 1: It is the Strawberry Letter subject. I want to have

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Speaker 1: multiple women, but I love my wife. Dear Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: I'm a forty year old black man with a lot

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Speaker 1: businessman and former professional football player. I've been married for

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Speaker 1: years for ten years, and i have three children. My

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Speaker 1: our sex life. My wife is a good woman that

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Speaker 1: is very reserved in the bedroom. I had a lifestyle

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Speaker 1: and I could get a woman to do whatever I

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Speaker 1: like sexually. It wasn't a control thing. Women did it

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Speaker 1: just to say they've been with the ball player. Two

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Speaker 1: years ago, I fell back into my old ways after

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Speaker 1: I met a woman that's a prominent and successful realtor.

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Speaker 1: We clicked right away, and I found out that she's

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Speaker 1: into a swinging type of lifestyle. She shut up. She

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Speaker 1: invited me to join her exclusive group of upscale swingers

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Speaker 1: but the realtor and I realized that we loved having

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Speaker 1: and a half we've been in a relationship. And then

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Speaker 1: I went from being a swinger to more of a

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Speaker 1: polyamory lifestyle. I'm worried that my wife could find out

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Speaker 1: because some of the swinging couples have children that go

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Speaker 1: to school with our children. One of the ladies is

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Speaker 1: my wife's sorority sister. Now my conscience is getting the

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Speaker 1: best of me. I could tell my wife a warderdown

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Speaker 1: version of what's been going on. Like I went to

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Speaker 1: everyone was doing, I left. I hate to break up

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Speaker 1: with my girlfriends, but there is no way I could

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Speaker 1: and pray this never comes out or tell my wife

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Speaker 1: part of the story. This started out a term be

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Speaker 1: quiet Tommy. So so, so let me ask you this, sir,

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Speaker 1: is going to find out you? I mean, really, the

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Speaker 1: go down the list. You say, you're a former professional

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Speaker 1: knows you. You probably can't walk around in your city

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Speaker 1: where there's someone who doesn't know you. I just think

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Speaker 1: it's a matter of time before you know, your wife

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Speaker 1: finds out or it gets out, because, like I said,

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Speaker 1: too many people know you, and people talk, word gets around.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how you've been getting away with it

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Speaker 1: for this long, I honestly don't. I mean, why would

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Speaker 1: you do that? Okay? Is that a crazy question? Is

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Speaker 1: that a crazy all? Right? Is that a crazy question?

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Speaker 1: I'm just trying to find out. You say you can't

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Speaker 1: act like it. You sure don't act like it. What

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Speaker 1: You you have way, way too much to lose, and

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Speaker 1: Steve when I say I don't think you should tell

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Speaker 1: But in this case, I just don't see how it

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Speaker 1: doesn't know. I think you should um stop. I definitely

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Speaker 1: think that. I just think if you tell her it

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Speaker 1: need to ask God for forgiveness. You need to pray, pray, pray,

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Speaker 1: Having said that, I know you're not gonna do it.

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Speaker 1: So let's just peel back the skin on this banana

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Speaker 1: for a second. First of all, the whole beginning of

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Speaker 1: the letter has nothing to do with the letter nothing.

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Speaker 1: I don't care that you have weight in your community.

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Speaker 1: I don't care that you a former football player. I

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Speaker 1: That story that you're telling fits any damn man. The

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Speaker 1: You got three, little girl. Because you trying to deal this,

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Speaker 1: do it about how upscale our bro. This whole letter

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Speaker 1: So I don't care how upscale you are in the community,

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Speaker 1: because brother, we can take away all that and this

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Speaker 1: story fits into regular people's lives that you're trying to

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Speaker 1: tell them. I'm a heavyweight in the community in I'm

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Speaker 1: on this right here, dog, You just do it want

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Speaker 1: all this is about. That is the dilemma that faces

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Speaker 1: everybody in their life at one point in time. All right,

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Speaker 1: we'll have part two of Steve's response coming up at

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Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour, subject I want to

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Speaker 1: have multiple women, but I love my wife. We'll get

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Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening to show,

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Speaker 1: all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letters.

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Speaker 1: Subject I want to have multiple women, but I love

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Speaker 1: my wife. The subject what I want to have my

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Speaker 1: cake and eat it too. That's what it should have been. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's all this is, bro The fact that you're a businessman,

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Speaker 1: form of football player. You're heavyweight in your community. So

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Speaker 1: damn what all this coming down to is you want

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Speaker 1: to set up who you are before you got married.

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Speaker 1: You could get a woman to do whatever I like sexually,

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Speaker 1: all us could, all us could let me take you

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Speaker 1: before you marriage your wife. Y'all did things. Y'all don't

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Speaker 1: really do that much. No damn more. Hello, Hello, you

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Speaker 1: what you think you're painting a picture and telling the

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Speaker 1: I mean. People living this that you're talking about, but

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Speaker 1: So now here going, Uncle Steve talking to you a

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Speaker 1: little dude, you forty, It wasn't a controlled thing with

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Speaker 1: ball player. Okay, you ain't a ball player them, or

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Speaker 1: you asked, forty, No, I'm just stop all this telling

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Speaker 1: playing them, or why they won't be with you now

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Speaker 1: because you keep making yourself available. So now let's see

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Speaker 1: what you just did two years ago. I fell back

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Speaker 1: into my old ways because you missed it. You know,

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Speaker 1: reality You keep talking about all these then the money

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Speaker 1: level of people, y'all. Just two people had met. We

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Speaker 1: clicked right away. I found out she was a she

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Speaker 1: was into a swinging type of lifestyle. Okay, now, which

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Speaker 1: goes to show you once again, Pope, people swaying too,

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Speaker 1: see I just don't don't know whold people swan poems,

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Speaker 1: people get old pole people swing to see all this.

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Speaker 1: I met an exclusive uh, and she invited me to

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Speaker 1: swinging in the project stay sway. You bring yo gal,

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Speaker 1: I bring my gal. We're gonna meet up in y'all.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna have some popcorn and fry some fish, and

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Speaker 1: So now I went from being a swinger to more

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Speaker 1: that on my Facebook show. That's you, me and she,

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Speaker 1: down going hey, look Hill, you know you know Jessica's

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you man, So one of them and then

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Speaker 1: one of the ladies is my wife's sorority sister? Okay, bro,

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Speaker 1: are you stupid? See that's where the connection is. One

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Speaker 1: Because you've been with this realtor for two years and

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Speaker 1: I could I could tell my wife a watered down

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Speaker 1: you having sex with some other people? How are you

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Speaker 1: That's how you are now. I hate to break up

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Speaker 1: want to have multiple women but I love my wife.

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Speaker 1: We'll be back at forty six minutes after the hour

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening string show. All right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: we're into part three of this Strawberry letter. You have

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Speaker 1: not finished. He wanted to tell the young man something.

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Speaker 1: He's forty though. The man something I want to have

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Speaker 1: multiple women, But I love my wife is the subject.

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Speaker 1: It's about a forty year old man who's prominent in

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Speaker 1: the community, former football player. I'm setting up all this

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Speaker 1: thing like anybody, Kim cheat too. We're in an upscale

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Speaker 1: swingers Cla, Paul people. Swing man, Please, this this is

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Speaker 1: not a social class status move. You'vedn't made. You doing

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Speaker 1: what anybody capable of doing. Man, you cheat, Let's just

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Speaker 1: call it what it is. I'm not judging you, but

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, dog, let's just call it what it is.

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Speaker 1: It happens sometimes, and that's what you're doing. You're cheating.

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Speaker 1: That's an upscale swinging club. She invited her female pardner in.

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Speaker 1: We liked it, We found out we liked each other.

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Speaker 1: she you, she and her you're gonna mess around, somebody

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Speaker 1: gonna pull it clothes off in surprise your ass. You

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Speaker 1: keep on him. I'm telling you, right, Nah, that's what's

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Speaker 1: gonna happen. You're gonna mess all this going on, you,

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Speaker 1: me and she and all this here. You gonna mess

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Speaker 1: around and get some wet naked in one of them groups,

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Speaker 1: open to a lot of stuff though. So now just

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Speaker 1: listen to me, Bro, Listen to me. I hate to

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Speaker 1: break up with my girlfriends, but there's no way I

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Speaker 1: were about to find out, yeah, how long you can

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Speaker 1: don't want to see Listen to your statement, I don't

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Speaker 1: want to break up with my girlfriend. Okay, I got that,

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Speaker 1: But guess what your next statement is. But there's no

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Speaker 1: if you broke up with your girlfriends, you be able

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Speaker 1: lose your family, man, you're gonna crumbled off. And see

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Speaker 1: that statement alone. You gotta make a choice. Now. Should

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Speaker 1: I keep quiet and pray this never comes out and

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Speaker 1: tell your wife this matter? And why did you bring

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Speaker 1: forgiveness and get your life together? For you mess around

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Speaker 1: and lose the thing that matters most to you. And

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Speaker 1: let me tell you something, man, about the other woman.

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Speaker 1: Most of the women wish they were the wife. Most

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Speaker 1: of the women wish they were the wife. Post your

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Speaker 1: was part one, Part two, and part three today. You

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