WEBVTT - In Memoriam

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<v Speaker 1>From I Heart Radio and Doghouse Pictures. This is fight Night.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm Jeff keating where I'm gonna lay down? My birdens

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<v Speaker 1>where down. When I first met Chicken Man back in

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand and three, he was actually Reverend Gordon Williams.

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<v Speaker 1>He greeted me at his church and we had our

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<v Speaker 1>first interview together. After a few years, we'd become close friends.

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<v Speaker 1>We broke bread together, we watched movies together. We talked

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<v Speaker 1>about our family together, and he ended up counseling my

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<v Speaker 1>life as well. I also got to know his family,

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<v Speaker 1>his wife Dolores, his son Gordon Williams Jr. And his

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<v Speaker 1>two daughters, Camilla and Barjona. Here I am with Dolores

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<v Speaker 1>as we talked about the first time she met Gordon Williams. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>I was working in the salon doing Better Do first

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<v Speaker 1>year right. So Golden came in and told the receptionist

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<v Speaker 1>that he had an appointment with me, and so I

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<v Speaker 1>heard him and I turned around and looked, I said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like and he it was like he just

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<v Speaker 1>felt me when I said that, because I'm looking kind

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<v Speaker 1>of strange. At the time, I was trying not to

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<v Speaker 1>do me in hair, you know, I was busy, and

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<v Speaker 1>but and then he turned he said, yes, my appointment

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<v Speaker 1>is with Delores. He came, he said, and I began

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<v Speaker 1>to notice him, which was really strange for me because

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<v Speaker 1>I was busy, and guys come in all the time

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<v Speaker 1>and try to be at you and all that, but

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<v Speaker 1>I wouldn't really, you know, for all at it that

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<v Speaker 1>particular time. But there were things that I began to

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<v Speaker 1>notice about it. The way he was dressed. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>he he was just immaculate, and he was the colors

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<v Speaker 1>were right, and it wasn't too much, it was just enough.

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<v Speaker 1>He was just he was just on it. So he

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<v Speaker 1>over what he wanted and I cut his hair, and

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<v Speaker 1>it just so happened that now I got two assistants,

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<v Speaker 1>but both of them were busy at the time when

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<v Speaker 1>it was start for him to get his hair shampoo.

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<v Speaker 1>So who has left to shampoo his hair? But man,

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<v Speaker 1>so I took it, you know, to shampoo bowl and

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<v Speaker 1>then I really could check it out. But she and uh,

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<v Speaker 1>and so when I finished with him, and he you know,

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<v Speaker 1>came back to the chair and he says, I really

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed my shampoo and everything. He says, I would love

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<v Speaker 1>to make another appointment with the afterway you can and

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<v Speaker 1>you get really go out to do shop, take the

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<v Speaker 1>appointment for you know, right back that so, uh that's

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<v Speaker 1>how we met. You know, he started asking me to

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<v Speaker 1>go after Benner and all that, but I resisted it

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<v Speaker 1>for a long time, but because the fact that I

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<v Speaker 1>knew he was with somebody, you know, and uh so

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to get into all of that. But

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<v Speaker 1>he wouldn't. He wouldn't give up. Yeah, he wouldn't give

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<v Speaker 1>up on it. So tell me about the early years

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<v Speaker 1>of Dolores and partying and your heyday. What was that like?

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<v Speaker 1>It was? It was amazing, Like I said, immediately when

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<v Speaker 1>I opened the salon, it was so popular and so

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<v Speaker 1>anybody was to come to town, all of the new

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<v Speaker 1>people they would want to come there. And uh so

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<v Speaker 1>it was we worked hard and we're parded hard. So

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<v Speaker 1>at what point, you know, when you guys are dating,

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<v Speaker 1>like who starts to lean into you know, Jesus and

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<v Speaker 1>the Lord first is it? You? Are you doing it? Okay? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So tell me about kind of what led you down

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<v Speaker 1>that path and then how you kind of pulled Gordon

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<v Speaker 1>in with you. Okay, Well, you know, after after a

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<v Speaker 1>while I knew that he cared for me, I really did.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew he cared for me, but he had so

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<v Speaker 1>much going on in his life, so he was going

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<v Speaker 1>back and forth, you know, when his business and all that.

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<v Speaker 1>But it got to the point where he would when

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<v Speaker 1>he was in town, he was going to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>he came back to Salon. And he finally convinced me

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<v Speaker 1>to go out with him, and I did in it.

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<v Speaker 1>And he was such a gentleman. I mean, he would

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<v Speaker 1>make you love it, you know, he would really do that.

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<v Speaker 1>He was free high at he was a gentleman, and

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<v Speaker 1>he would take it to the best of places, and

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<v Speaker 1>and to see a man with his capabilities and his

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<v Speaker 1>personality and everything, he could easily fall in love with him.

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<v Speaker 1>And so that's what happened. And then then after we

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<v Speaker 1>were together for a while, he came my hand and

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<v Speaker 1>brought me to this house. And I've been in here since,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like the kids were saying, well, they came later,

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<v Speaker 1>but we had gone through quite a few things and

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<v Speaker 1>breaking up, and and with me getting saved and everything,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I got saved changed my life. So now

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<v Speaker 1>at some point you're married and you've got two young girls. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>got you, And so tell me a little bit about finally,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, because again this is a long process where

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<v Speaker 1>Gordon realizes, Hey, if I'm gonna be with this lady

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<v Speaker 1>and these two young girls, I got to give up

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<v Speaker 1>this life. So tell me tell me how that happens.

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<v Speaker 1>And like, were you around for the thing where he

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<v Speaker 1>owed like hundreds of thousands of dollars? Yeah, that was

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<v Speaker 1>a scary time. Okay, so tell me tell me that's

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<v Speaker 1>important because this is a story that he tells. And

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<v Speaker 1>so tell me about what was going on and how

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<v Speaker 1>you were feeling and how he was handling all that,

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<v Speaker 1>because that was I mean, that's that's close to death situation.

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<v Speaker 1>Well at this particular time, um, you know, it was

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<v Speaker 1>still the thing of him, you know, going back and forth.

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<v Speaker 1>He was working, you know, kind of what he was

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<v Speaker 1>doing and uh, but it was just getting you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the people that he was dealing with and could just

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<v Speaker 1>tell that things were and then I was able to

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<v Speaker 1>see these things, you know, so I would be finding

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<v Speaker 1>the one in advance, even though I wasn't with him

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<v Speaker 1>all the time, but I said, you know this and

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<v Speaker 1>that and that. So anyway, anyway, they tricked in and

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<v Speaker 1>uh ended up putting them in a bad situation. So

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<v Speaker 1>he was focusing a lot on getting that together, which

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<v Speaker 1>was the rightest thing to do, you know. And uh,

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<v Speaker 1>but at the meantime he ended up he had a

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<v Speaker 1>bullet that had been in his leg for a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>And why this thing? What was that? From the war?

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<v Speaker 1>From the streets? No, well, no, from the streets. He

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<v Speaker 1>got shot. So how did that happen? I think a

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<v Speaker 1>friend of here is something they were either together and

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<v Speaker 1>they got somebody got mad, and but at the time,

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<v Speaker 1>they were, you know, doing what they do. And so

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<v Speaker 1>he gets shot. He's got a bullet in his leg. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I got a bullet in his leg. And he went

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<v Speaker 1>to the hospital for it, but he wouldn't even stay

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<v Speaker 1>that long enough for them to get it out, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>he just felt just left with it. Now this was

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<v Speaker 1>before I met him, Now, yes, I understand. And uh.

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<v Speaker 1>And so he left with the bullet in his leg,

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<v Speaker 1>and I guess he felt that he was all right,

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<v Speaker 1>So he never saw about it. But at this particular

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<v Speaker 1>time when he's down there, he's done a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>stress because they're trying to settle this thing, trying to

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<v Speaker 1>find this these people that stole all the stuff and

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<v Speaker 1>they ended up the bullet popped out of his leg. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he was bleeding. So he ended up in the hospital.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my goodness. And when he went to the hospital

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<v Speaker 1>where they will be kept him there and they cleaned

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<v Speaker 1>him up and all that kind of stuff, and he stays.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's when he said for me to come down there,

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<v Speaker 1>because can you know? And so I went. And when

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<v Speaker 1>you sit down there, do you mean to Miami? Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>got you go ahead. But he came out and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was just such a a terrible pan. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>most of the time when you're in the life of crime, tolors,

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<v Speaker 1>it's very hard to get out. It is. When Gordon

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<v Speaker 1>is dealing with a high level situation, a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>money that he owes for drugs, that's just what it was.

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<v Speaker 1>He's got something that stole it from him. And more importantly,

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<v Speaker 1>they're giving him this ultimatum and he talks about this,

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<v Speaker 1>bring me this guy's head in a paper bag, and

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<v Speaker 1>everything's okay. And Gordon isn't a murderer, so he's like saying, listen, exactly,

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<v Speaker 1>I got it. So now he's got to clear to

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<v Speaker 1>this debt, So he's got to sell more drugs to

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<v Speaker 1>clear this debt. But normally after you do that, it's

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<v Speaker 1>so hard to get out. So finally he pays his debt,

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<v Speaker 1>but how does he get out of this life? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>glad that you brought it to the memory. When we

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<v Speaker 1>came home. Then he began to all the contacts or

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<v Speaker 1>whatever he had to to get rid of stuff. This

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<v Speaker 1>is what he began to do. So when when he

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<v Speaker 1>got the money all that he needed to pay, then

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<v Speaker 1>I remember I drove that rode down with him, when

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<v Speaker 1>rode down to Miami and he went, he met with

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<v Speaker 1>them and he paid them and uh and they would saying,

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<v Speaker 1>oh good. Then yeah, this is that, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>they were so happy to know what else we could

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<v Speaker 1>we can do. He turned around and put his hand

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<v Speaker 1>on his button, said you can kiss. In other words,

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<v Speaker 1>he was through. He was through with it, and he

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<v Speaker 1>did not look back. So what you're telling me is

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<v Speaker 1>after he pays that off and he's like kiss my,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, he literally is been able to cut

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<v Speaker 1>it all off. He did. Here I am with Gordon

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<v Speaker 1>Williams Jr. As he talks about how his father's lifestyle

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<v Speaker 1>affected him as he grew older. At the time, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>taking his place. So I'm selling kilos like crazy sins

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<v Speaker 1>of the father. Yeah, I'm following up my dad's footsteps.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I get busted in Henry County and it's one

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<v Speaker 1>of the largest drug busts in Henry County on record.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a guy who was driving for me, but

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<v Speaker 1>he got caught with twenty nine kilos and he told

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<v Speaker 1>him it was mine. So they picked me up and

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<v Speaker 1>charged me with conspiracy. So that was kind of like

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<v Speaker 1>the catalyst for my dad because it really hurt him

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<v Speaker 1>because now the fans got me. When the Fetz get you,

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<v Speaker 1>the Fez got you. I started off in Georgia Penitentiary.

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<v Speaker 1>How long did you have to serve? Ten years, six

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<v Speaker 1>months and twenty one days. That's a real deal right there. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So that that really hurt my dad, you know, because

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<v Speaker 1>I'm his I'm his firstborn, and for me to follow

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<v Speaker 1>in his footsteps and to fall like that changed his

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<v Speaker 1>whole world. And he came to court in my defense.

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<v Speaker 1>I was sending on my birthday, September the ninth. Prior

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<v Speaker 1>to that, he had stopped using. But tell me get

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<v Speaker 1>to the court. He's clean. He's clean, he's clean. The

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<v Speaker 1>judges sentenced me. Just happened to go to school with

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<v Speaker 1>my mom, so he knows about you. So he knows

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<v Speaker 1>about Yeah, he knows about me, and he knows about

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<v Speaker 1>my dad. So they asked, do anybody want to say

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<v Speaker 1>anything before they passed sentison, And my dad gets up

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<v Speaker 1>and says, your I like to speak on my son's

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<v Speaker 1>behalf and tell you that he's not bad and he

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<v Speaker 1>needs a second chance, and if you allow him the

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<v Speaker 1>second chance, you do right by you. And he said,

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<v Speaker 1>I throw myself on the merger of the court that

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<v Speaker 1>please don't sentence him, because they were asking for a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of time for me. They was asking for there

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<v Speaker 1>was asked to life. He told my dad, Mr Willien,

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<v Speaker 1>gona take everything in consideration, and I'm gonna send us

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<v Speaker 1>your son underneath the guidelines because the guidelines are called

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<v Speaker 1>for out of life. I'm gonna give him fifteen years.

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<v Speaker 1>And he gave me fifteen and I serve teen on it.

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<v Speaker 1>I was in Atlanta waiting to move and they had

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<v Speaker 1>a press service down it for the inmates, and they said,

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<v Speaker 1>anybody want to go to press service? I said, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I go over there, and when I went

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<v Speaker 1>down to press service, I guess it was there. Your father,

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<v Speaker 1>my dad. He was running the outreach prison ministries for inmates.

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<v Speaker 1>And when he saw me, because I didn't know he

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<v Speaker 1>was coming, and I didn't know he was you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know he was gonna be there, and when

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<v Speaker 1>I went in, he's you know, he just he started crying.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you're like God, let him man. Then he

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<v Speaker 1>started getting closer and closer to to the Lord and

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<v Speaker 1>he started, you know, started really confessing his sins and

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<v Speaker 1>started his life started changing. And then that's when he

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<v Speaker 1>opened up the Church International Ministries two thousand. Did he

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<v Speaker 1>did he ultimately get ordained? Yeah? Yeah, he's an ordained minister.

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<v Speaker 1>He was a ordained minister. When he died. He went

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<v Speaker 1>to theologically he went to more House over there, and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, wow, what a turnaround from a drug

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<v Speaker 1>dealer to a reverend. And he said, yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I opened up my own church and minister. I said, really, okay, cool.

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<v Speaker 1>When I got out, I got out August the thirty,

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<v Speaker 1>two thousand and six, So when I got out, I

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<v Speaker 1>went to the church. So he wanted me to minister

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<v Speaker 1>to the younger guys in the congregation because they didn't

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<v Speaker 1>understand what it was like, you know, to to be

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<v Speaker 1>out here and selling drugs and doing wrong. He said,

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<v Speaker 1>you can give them a message that dad listen to

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<v Speaker 1>because you experienced it. Because my dad never defereral time.

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<v Speaker 1>He never went to prison for as long as I did.

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<v Speaker 1>So he said that I had something to offer. So

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<v Speaker 1>and I started, you know, I started, uh ministering to

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<v Speaker 1>the to the young, to the younger groups there. And

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<v Speaker 1>it was strange seeing my dad transfer for him like that.

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<v Speaker 1>That was a really strange transformation I witnessed because part

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<v Speaker 1>of me leaving he was, you know, I mean chicken man,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and when you came out, he was what

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<v Speaker 1>Reben Williams. He was Reverend Williams when I came on.

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<v Speaker 1>He had let that that old name die. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>but you can't get rid of it. I said, you're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be Chicken Man for life. I don't care. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what people don't know you. And people people was

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<v Speaker 1>questioning whether his faith was real or not because they

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<v Speaker 1>just didn't want to believe it because they knew him

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<v Speaker 1>prior to meet this man afterwards, and he's talking about

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<v Speaker 1>worshiping God and praying and healing, and it just it

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<v Speaker 1>didn't set well. What a lot of people. When did

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<v Speaker 1>you know that the transformation was real? Well, him and

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<v Speaker 1>Dolores stopped using drugs when they gave their life to Christ.

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<v Speaker 1>I knew it was real. My name was real. I

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<v Speaker 1>also stayed in touch with j. D. Hudson over the years,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was shocked to learn about an incredible event

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<v Speaker 1>that happened to him, but not surprised by the outcome.

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<v Speaker 1>I connected with his daughter, Renee, as she told me

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<v Speaker 1>about who j D was as a father and what

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<v Speaker 1>it was like being the daughter of a policeman the

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<v Speaker 1>time that I was in high school. My father at

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<v Speaker 1>that time was a school detective and what does that mean?

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<v Speaker 1>And where was that? Back then, all the schools had

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<v Speaker 1>cops assigned to the school, so if they had problem

0:14:45.040 --> 0:14:49.000
<v Speaker 1>kids or whatever, if there was some kind of Rucka's

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<v Speaker 1>going on or whatever, they were assigned to certain high schools.

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<v Speaker 1>And my father was assigned to high school that I

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<v Speaker 1>went to. Do you think, okay, Renee, you think he

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<v Speaker 1>did that? Imagine? Yeah, do you think he did that

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<v Speaker 1>for a reason? I don't know. I think I know

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<v Speaker 1>your dad oh god, it was just you know, and everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>So I didn't have a whole lot of friends. Of course,

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<v Speaker 1>not you got this cop. That is so now maybe

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<v Speaker 1>some girlfriends that didn't want to you know that were Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was straight lacewere. But no guys are going to

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<v Speaker 1>be like that's true. That's true. Oh my goodness, that's

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<v Speaker 1>that is a that is a j D move. If

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever my God, tell me a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>your father. What kind of dad was he? What do

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<v Speaker 1>you remember about him growing up? What were some things

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<v Speaker 1>that you remember of being the daughter of J. D. Hudson.

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<v Speaker 1>I love my father. I thought he was He was

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<v Speaker 1>a good dad. He was a hard worker. He'd worked

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, you know, excellent provider. Oh. He loved holidays.

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<v Speaker 1>He loved Christmas. His favorite color was blue. So I

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<v Speaker 1>love Christmas too, But everything was blue. We had blue lights,

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<v Speaker 1>had a red blue wreathe, We had blue bulbs, We

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<v Speaker 1>had blue tints along the Christmas tree. And so I said,

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<v Speaker 1>when I grew up, I'm never having anything blue because

0:16:13.400 --> 0:16:19.040
<v Speaker 1>he loved blue. But he loved the holidays. He loved Christmas. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>he loved wrapping gifts. He and my uncle they would

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<v Speaker 1>play on my brother's toys before my brother and I

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<v Speaker 1>would wake up for Christmas. He would always take us

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<v Speaker 1>on vacation Bangazne. Things were segregated. He loved to go

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<v Speaker 1>to Jackal Island and there was a black side of

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<v Speaker 1>Jackal Island and a white side of Jackal Island. We

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<v Speaker 1>you know, drive to Florida. There were a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>places we couldn't stop. I remember once we stopped somewhere

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<v Speaker 1>and we got gas, and the guy came out and

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<v Speaker 1>called my father the N word, and so my daddy

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<v Speaker 1>told him, you siphon all this gas out of my car.

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<v Speaker 1>That's when I kind of realized the world was not

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<v Speaker 1>the same everywhere, you know, because I had been so

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<v Speaker 1>insulated because in the area that I lived and it

0:17:11.240 --> 0:17:15.080
<v Speaker 1>was all black. He just always taught me to be

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<v Speaker 1>kind to everyone, you know, not to hate. He wanted

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<v Speaker 1>me to do well in school. I think he was

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<v Speaker 1>a pretty nice dad. The only thing about being my

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<v Speaker 1>father's daughter was that it prevented me from having a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of friends. A lot of people wouldn't come over

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<v Speaker 1>because my dad, you know, he started out being a cop,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and then when he was over the beer

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<v Speaker 1>of corrections, oh my god, you know, and so people

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<v Speaker 1>shied away from me. It was different from my brother. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>my brother that was a different story. But for me,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my goodness, you know, I would said I love daddy,

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<v Speaker 1>but godly, I wish he wasn't a cop. Walk me

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<v Speaker 1>through where you were or when you heard about when

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<v Speaker 1>the guys tried to take the Cadillac from your dad's garage.

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<v Speaker 1>I was in Conyers and I drove over here and

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<v Speaker 1>by the time I got here to the house, they

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<v Speaker 1>had taken my father to the hospital. So then I

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<v Speaker 1>drive to Grady and I'm frantic, and I asked them,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to find the gentleman that got shot and

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<v Speaker 1>it was just brought in by the ambulance. And they said,

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<v Speaker 1>there are two people that just got shot. I said,

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<v Speaker 1>what are you talking about? She said, there are two

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<v Speaker 1>people on whatever floor or an emergency their side by side.

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<v Speaker 1>You want the young man or the older man. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I said, what do you mean there are two people?

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<v Speaker 1>So I said, you need to tell the cops. If

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<v Speaker 1>there are two people that got shot, more than likely

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<v Speaker 1>that person that's sitting next this land it to my dad.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a person that shot him. They said, oh, ma'am.

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<v Speaker 1>So I ran to my father and I said, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. And do you know the man that shot

0:18:59.760 --> 0:19:02.600
<v Speaker 1>my daddy was right next door. And when he heard

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<v Speaker 1>me tell him the nurses you need to find that

0:19:05.560 --> 0:19:07.720
<v Speaker 1>guy because she shot my dad, he ran out of

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<v Speaker 1>the hospital. Well they caught the guy, you know that, right, Yeah? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>And then there was two daddy, uh, and they and

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<v Speaker 1>they had a trial, but Daddy didn't tell me anything.

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<v Speaker 1>They didn't go because I wanted to go, but that

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't know. And so by the

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<v Speaker 1>time I found that they had already had a trial.

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<v Speaker 1>And did you know that there was two people that

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<v Speaker 1>were shot. One was killed. Yeah. See, this is the

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<v Speaker 1>mistake that Daddy made. Daddy was in his Cadillac. My

0:19:32.560 --> 0:19:35.400
<v Speaker 1>brother believed it was an intentional hit on my dad,

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<v Speaker 1>and so Daddy drove into the driveway and he made

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<v Speaker 1>the cardinal mistake of not letting the garage door down.

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<v Speaker 1>So he was sitting in the car with the radio on,

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<v Speaker 1>smoking a cigar, and these two guys with masks, which

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<v Speaker 1>is strange, came up, one to the left and one

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<v Speaker 1>to the right. Both cars were in the garage. And

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<v Speaker 1>you've been over here before, so you know, it's not

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<v Speaker 1>that much space between the wall and the and the

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<v Speaker 1>car parked and the other side, because Mama's car was

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<v Speaker 1>on the Ryan side. And they pointed the gun at

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<v Speaker 1>my dad. Old man get out of the car, and

0:20:16.119 --> 0:20:19.480
<v Speaker 1>Daddy just happened to have his service revolver and you

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<v Speaker 1>know how to have this whole pocket on the door,

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<v Speaker 1>on the left side of the door in the drippings back.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's when he pulled that gun up and he

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<v Speaker 1>shot him, and then he got the car and shot

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<v Speaker 1>the other one. And so then Daddy and Mama had

0:20:34.119 --> 0:20:38.560
<v Speaker 1>just come from abroad. Somebody had just dropped her off.

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<v Speaker 1>She just walked in the door and she was taking

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<v Speaker 1>her clothes off, and she she hurried the gunshot. She

0:20:44.160 --> 0:20:46.320
<v Speaker 1>came to the door with an underwear on. He told

0:20:46.320 --> 0:20:48.399
<v Speaker 1>her get back in the house, and she closed the

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<v Speaker 1>door and called the police, called the nine one one.

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<v Speaker 1>So the guy runs out, he shoots one guy and

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<v Speaker 1>then one guy falls down. I think he died. He

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<v Speaker 1>at him and he failed right before he got to

0:21:03.040 --> 0:21:06.000
<v Speaker 1>Cascade Road, so you can got as far as he

0:21:06.040 --> 0:21:09.560
<v Speaker 1>could the beach triss and fell over on the ground.

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<v Speaker 1>So I think that's the one that died. How was

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<v Speaker 1>your dad's recovery? The gunshots, they didn't hit any Organs,

0:21:16.720 --> 0:21:19.199
<v Speaker 1>but I believe they pausing them to his system, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think that was the reason that daddy died. He

0:21:22.480 --> 0:21:25.840
<v Speaker 1>was a tough man, your dad. Yeah, I think I

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<v Speaker 1>think he got shot. I think he had four gun shots,

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<v Speaker 1>three or four hun Remember he was definitely shot a

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<v Speaker 1>few times. I remember that. I still have the article.

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<v Speaker 1>Any closing words you want to say about J. D. Hudson,

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<v Speaker 1>I love him dearly. I think it was an excellent

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<v Speaker 1>role model. Um. It was wonderful being his daughter. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>He was very and affectionate, kind man. Um. And every

0:22:01.280 --> 0:22:04.879
<v Speaker 1>Christmas I think about him because he really really loved Christmas.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't have a lot of boyfriends, a lot of

0:22:08.240 --> 0:22:13.440
<v Speaker 1>christ but my daddy always gave me something for Valentine's Days.

0:22:14.320 --> 0:22:17.560
<v Speaker 1>You aways made sure I had a heart shaped think

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<v Speaker 1>of candy. You know, when there just a little things

0:22:21.480 --> 0:22:24.560
<v Speaker 1>like that. You know. He was just such a It

0:22:24.600 --> 0:22:28.760
<v Speaker 1>was a nice daddy. He was so affectionate and so thoughtful,

0:22:28.960 --> 0:22:47.040
<v Speaker 1>and I just missed. Here I am with Gordon's oldest daughter,

0:22:47.119 --> 0:22:51.359
<v Speaker 1>Camilla as she reflects on who he was as a father.

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<v Speaker 1>Growing up with Gordon Williams as a father, I think

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<v Speaker 1>one thing that sticks out to me is just the

0:23:02.400 --> 0:23:05.200
<v Speaker 1>excitement of knowing when he was coming home. He had

0:23:05.200 --> 0:23:08.320
<v Speaker 1>a signature whistle that he did. I can't whistle, but

0:23:08.800 --> 0:23:11.480
<v Speaker 1>it always said whoooo. That was his way of letting

0:23:11.560 --> 0:23:12.919
<v Speaker 1>us know that he was in the house. And I

0:23:13.000 --> 0:23:15.880
<v Speaker 1>just remember anytime I heard that whistle, I just got

0:23:15.920 --> 0:23:20.480
<v Speaker 1>so excited. He was very kind and loving. He trusted

0:23:20.560 --> 0:23:23.000
<v Speaker 1>us in a weird way, you know, even as children,

0:23:23.480 --> 0:23:26.720
<v Speaker 1>to make good decisions. He had a way of guiding

0:23:26.760 --> 0:23:30.800
<v Speaker 1>you without you know, dictating. He wanted you to to

0:23:30.920 --> 0:23:33.960
<v Speaker 1>learn and live your life, but he was always there

0:23:33.960 --> 0:23:36.680
<v Speaker 1>to drop those jewels of wisdom. You know. One thing

0:23:36.720 --> 0:23:39.560
<v Speaker 1>I always noticed that a lot of people always loved

0:23:39.600 --> 0:23:42.160
<v Speaker 1>him to um that he was loved by a lot

0:23:42.200 --> 0:23:44.840
<v Speaker 1>of people. You know, even we were at gas stations

0:23:45.000 --> 0:23:48.159
<v Speaker 1>or just random places that I didn't even know that

0:23:48.200 --> 0:23:51.040
<v Speaker 1>people would know who he was. Um, somebody would come

0:23:51.119 --> 0:23:53.560
<v Speaker 1>up and give him a handshake or a hug, or

0:23:53.600 --> 0:23:56.399
<v Speaker 1>just have something good to say about him. And what

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<v Speaker 1>do you remember him in your early years being a

0:23:58.960 --> 0:24:03.119
<v Speaker 1>referend and to community and affiliation with the church. I

0:24:03.160 --> 0:24:07.200
<v Speaker 1>remember him younger being more involved in the prison ministry.

0:24:07.400 --> 0:24:10.719
<v Speaker 1>I remember admiring his love for working with the prisoners.

0:24:10.760 --> 0:24:13.240
<v Speaker 1>And I do remember like events they would have at

0:24:13.280 --> 0:24:16.840
<v Speaker 1>the church at Saleman. I remember one event in particular,

0:24:16.920 --> 0:24:18.679
<v Speaker 1>like a bunch of prisoners were able to come to

0:24:18.680 --> 0:24:23.040
<v Speaker 1>the church during the service, and I remember him, you know,

0:24:23.119 --> 0:24:25.040
<v Speaker 1>being involved in that, and I was just thinking, Wow,

0:24:25.119 --> 0:24:28.560
<v Speaker 1>this is really dope, you know, for this to be happening.

0:24:28.640 --> 0:24:31.520
<v Speaker 1>So things like that. I definitely admired with him in

0:24:31.960 --> 0:24:34.240
<v Speaker 1>the church. He was I didn't really hear him speak

0:24:34.240 --> 0:24:36.800
<v Speaker 1>a lot growing up. I just saw more of his

0:24:36.880 --> 0:24:39.080
<v Speaker 1>actions being done. Tell me a little bit or some

0:24:39.160 --> 0:24:41.600
<v Speaker 1>of the memories that you remember, either maybe between you

0:24:41.640 --> 0:24:44.000
<v Speaker 1>and your dad or family members or trip. But what's

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<v Speaker 1>a one or two things that stands out. What sticks

0:24:46.520 --> 0:24:50.600
<v Speaker 1>out with me. Um was in his elder years when

0:24:51.560 --> 0:24:55.199
<v Speaker 1>he was having a bouts of like dementia. One of

0:24:55.240 --> 0:24:58.159
<v Speaker 1>the things was I used to like to put him

0:24:58.200 --> 0:25:01.639
<v Speaker 1>in the car and put and Osley brothers for the

0:25:01.680 --> 0:25:05.120
<v Speaker 1>love of you, and he would kind of just be present,

0:25:05.400 --> 0:25:08.080
<v Speaker 1>you know somehow it made him if he was having

0:25:08.680 --> 0:25:12.920
<v Speaker 1>issues remembering or you know, sometimes that would really frustrate him,

0:25:13.119 --> 0:25:15.560
<v Speaker 1>and he might be in a not one of his

0:25:15.600 --> 0:25:19.240
<v Speaker 1>best moves because he wanted to be, you know, fully

0:25:19.280 --> 0:25:22.960
<v Speaker 1>strong mentally and physically. But I remember when he would

0:25:23.000 --> 0:25:24.280
<v Speaker 1>kind of just be able to sit back in the

0:25:24.359 --> 0:25:27.960
<v Speaker 1>car and I remember just riding ask him where you

0:25:28.040 --> 0:25:29.920
<v Speaker 1>want to go, eat what he feels like eating, and

0:25:30.760 --> 0:25:32.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, being able to take him out to eat,

0:25:32.840 --> 0:25:35.159
<v Speaker 1>roll the windows down and just put on some Osley

0:25:35.240 --> 0:25:38.080
<v Speaker 1>Brothers and he would just be present, you know, be

0:25:38.160 --> 0:25:40.560
<v Speaker 1>there in the moment. And that brought me a lot

0:25:40.600 --> 0:25:45.400
<v Speaker 1>of joy. And this is Gordon's youngest daughter, Barjona, with

0:25:45.440 --> 0:25:50.600
<v Speaker 1>her insights on her father. He was just really kind

0:25:50.920 --> 0:25:56.600
<v Speaker 1>and uh wise father Like I don't remember him yelling

0:25:56.640 --> 0:26:01.040
<v Speaker 1>at me or being kind of a suplinarian. It was

0:26:01.119 --> 0:26:04.000
<v Speaker 1>more so if he wanted me to do something, he

0:26:04.080 --> 0:26:08.080
<v Speaker 1>kind of just told me and he could, you know,

0:26:08.200 --> 0:26:09.800
<v Speaker 1>he just had a way with words or he could

0:26:09.800 --> 0:26:13.520
<v Speaker 1>make you understand what he meant pretty easily and make

0:26:13.600 --> 0:26:16.480
<v Speaker 1>you want to follow it. And um, I remember towards

0:26:16.520 --> 0:26:18.840
<v Speaker 1>the end of his life he would just tell us

0:26:18.880 --> 0:26:20.840
<v Speaker 1>the same things over and over and over again. Like

0:26:20.920 --> 0:26:23.880
<v Speaker 1>he just would say, stay focused, stay focused. Every time

0:26:23.920 --> 0:26:25.720
<v Speaker 1>I talked to him on the phone every time I

0:26:25.760 --> 0:26:29.200
<v Speaker 1>see it, and he would say, but Jonah, stay focused,

0:26:30.080 --> 0:26:32.800
<v Speaker 1>and so things like that just resonated with me throughout

0:26:32.800 --> 0:26:36.040
<v Speaker 1>my life. You know, as I go on my journey,

0:26:36.440 --> 0:26:40.040
<v Speaker 1>tell me about some memories you have of maybe a

0:26:40.160 --> 0:26:43.520
<v Speaker 1>trip that you guys took, or a family dinner or

0:26:43.600 --> 0:26:47.040
<v Speaker 1>something um that stands out. One of my best memories

0:26:47.280 --> 0:26:51.359
<v Speaker 1>is just eating dinner. My dad was really big about

0:26:51.720 --> 0:26:55.520
<v Speaker 1>everyone sitting down at the table as a family and

0:26:55.560 --> 0:26:59.320
<v Speaker 1>eating together, which is something I don't necessarily always with

0:26:59.320 --> 0:27:03.200
<v Speaker 1>my family out. My dad really valued that. So whether

0:27:03.320 --> 0:27:05.280
<v Speaker 1>it didn't matter what we were eating, he just wanted

0:27:05.359 --> 0:27:07.560
<v Speaker 1>us to sit down as a family. We would end

0:27:07.640 --> 0:27:12.400
<v Speaker 1>up sitting at the table for hours just talking, having conversation,

0:27:13.200 --> 0:27:15.680
<v Speaker 1>and they gave us so much time to really get

0:27:15.720 --> 0:27:19.080
<v Speaker 1>to know each other and keep up on what each

0:27:19.080 --> 0:27:22.520
<v Speaker 1>other had going on throughout the day. So, as far

0:27:22.560 --> 0:27:25.560
<v Speaker 1>as back as you can remember, was your dad always

0:27:25.600 --> 0:27:28.199
<v Speaker 1>a reverend or did he become a reverend at some

0:27:28.320 --> 0:27:32.080
<v Speaker 1>point as you grew up. As far as I can remember,

0:27:32.119 --> 0:27:35.000
<v Speaker 1>he was always involved in the church in some way.

0:27:35.119 --> 0:27:37.800
<v Speaker 1>I remember him being a deacon. I think that's my

0:27:37.880 --> 0:27:41.840
<v Speaker 1>earliest memory of him. He worked as a deacon, and

0:27:41.880 --> 0:27:44.720
<v Speaker 1>he was the guy in the church that we would

0:27:44.800 --> 0:27:48.359
<v Speaker 1>say always had all the keys. So just like he

0:27:48.640 --> 0:27:52.679
<v Speaker 1>drove the church man, he was just always involved in

0:27:52.720 --> 0:27:55.240
<v Speaker 1>the church. And which church was that when you were

0:27:55.240 --> 0:27:57.560
<v Speaker 1>growing up, well, well we're going up. We went to

0:27:57.600 --> 0:28:02.000
<v Speaker 1>Salem and he was very involved there. He worked as

0:28:02.000 --> 0:28:07.280
<v Speaker 1>a deacon, and then he also participated in the prison ministry,

0:28:07.440 --> 0:28:11.240
<v Speaker 1>and then he also worked at a rehab house like

0:28:11.280 --> 0:28:14.919
<v Speaker 1>a drug rehab house of bank kid and that he

0:28:14.960 --> 0:28:17.760
<v Speaker 1>headed up. So sometimes we would go to work with

0:28:17.840 --> 0:28:21.560
<v Speaker 1>him there and he did a lot of counseling um

0:28:21.560 --> 0:28:25.040
<v Speaker 1>with people in the community. So I always remember him

0:28:25.119 --> 0:28:27.760
<v Speaker 1>being involved in the community and with the church, and

0:28:28.280 --> 0:28:30.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, just trying to lend a healthy hand to

0:28:31.040 --> 0:28:35.320
<v Speaker 1>younger males especially. And at what point, as you started

0:28:35.359 --> 0:28:38.160
<v Speaker 1>to grow up did you realize that your dad had

0:28:38.200 --> 0:28:40.800
<v Speaker 1>a former life different than the one he was leading

0:28:40.840 --> 0:28:43.320
<v Speaker 1>now as a hustler. I would say when I really

0:28:43.360 --> 0:28:46.880
<v Speaker 1>found out, Jeff was when I met youth and you

0:28:46.920 --> 0:28:51.200
<v Speaker 1>started bringing around like newspaper clippings and things like that.

0:28:51.480 --> 0:28:54.360
<v Speaker 1>I mean, before then I knew people call him chicken man,

0:28:54.640 --> 0:28:58.000
<v Speaker 1>and I had heard kind of stories about his life,

0:28:58.360 --> 0:29:01.800
<v Speaker 1>but I wasn't exactly sure um that he was like

0:29:01.840 --> 0:29:06.480
<v Speaker 1>a hustler um until I got to high school and

0:29:06.760 --> 0:29:09.800
<v Speaker 1>people started showing so much interest in his story, and

0:29:09.880 --> 0:29:12.720
<v Speaker 1>that's when I started learning more. Honestly, I I feel

0:29:12.720 --> 0:29:14.720
<v Speaker 1>like I'm still learning a lot about who he was.

0:29:15.440 --> 0:29:18.440
<v Speaker 1>And if you ask different people, you get a different response.

0:29:18.560 --> 0:29:21.480
<v Speaker 1>And with me being like his lash child, I was

0:29:21.520 --> 0:29:24.400
<v Speaker 1>born so late in his life. I think the version

0:29:24.480 --> 0:29:26.440
<v Speaker 1>of my dad that I got was like this whole

0:29:26.480 --> 0:29:30.200
<v Speaker 1>body minister. So I was kind of shocked to note

0:29:30.600 --> 0:29:34.680
<v Speaker 1>that he was involved in all these different enterprises. I

0:29:34.720 --> 0:29:38.960
<v Speaker 1>would say, as a young man, what were some of

0:29:39.040 --> 0:29:42.560
<v Speaker 1>the things that your dad talked about as growing up

0:29:42.560 --> 0:29:45.520
<v Speaker 1>as a black man in Atlanta or some of the

0:29:45.640 --> 0:29:48.680
<v Speaker 1>racial things that he dealt with growing up that he

0:29:48.800 --> 0:29:51.320
<v Speaker 1>broach those subjects at all. My dad, he more so

0:29:51.480 --> 0:29:54.080
<v Speaker 1>talked about race. And I think this is true of

0:29:54.160 --> 0:29:58.440
<v Speaker 1>him and my mom from their own perspective, Like it

0:29:58.560 --> 0:30:01.400
<v Speaker 1>was never more so about like how they were treated

0:30:01.480 --> 0:30:06.360
<v Speaker 1>by white people. It was more so what their own

0:30:06.400 --> 0:30:09.320
<v Speaker 1>reaction to it was. We just kind of knew you

0:30:09.400 --> 0:30:12.080
<v Speaker 1>work for yourself. One thing that he told me is

0:30:12.120 --> 0:30:15.760
<v Speaker 1>that he felt that black people were better off before

0:30:15.960 --> 0:30:21.720
<v Speaker 1>integration because they had a stronger sense of entrepreneurship and community.

0:30:22.040 --> 0:30:25.160
<v Speaker 1>That's what he told me about race, but never really

0:30:25.200 --> 0:30:28.320
<v Speaker 1>from the perspective that I should look out for any

0:30:28.440 --> 0:30:32.160
<v Speaker 1>race over another, but just more so that if you're

0:30:32.160 --> 0:30:35.080
<v Speaker 1>going to be a black person in America, you have

0:30:35.160 --> 0:30:37.479
<v Speaker 1>to stand up for what you believe it and you

0:30:37.520 --> 0:30:40.480
<v Speaker 1>have to really know your value in the workplace and

0:30:40.520 --> 0:30:44.840
<v Speaker 1>not allow people to use you because you're bringing value

0:30:44.840 --> 0:30:47.360
<v Speaker 1>to whatever you do. Did you ever see him give

0:30:47.400 --> 0:30:51.160
<v Speaker 1>any sermons? Oh? Yes, definitely. What kind of preacher was he?

0:30:51.600 --> 0:30:55.440
<v Speaker 1>My dad was the most laid back preacher, like almost

0:30:55.480 --> 0:30:57.760
<v Speaker 1>too laid back. Like he would just like I said,

0:30:57.800 --> 0:31:01.080
<v Speaker 1>he just talked to you. He wasn't gonna yell at you.

0:31:01.160 --> 0:31:04.080
<v Speaker 1>He wasn't gonna hoop and holler. He was gonna have

0:31:04.120 --> 0:31:07.200
<v Speaker 1>an outline and give you some good tip bits, and

0:31:07.360 --> 0:31:09.680
<v Speaker 1>he might speak for thirty minutes, but it's always gonna

0:31:09.680 --> 0:31:13.520
<v Speaker 1>be like one thing you remember, you know, um, But

0:31:13.640 --> 0:31:15.680
<v Speaker 1>I remember at the end of each sermon he would

0:31:15.720 --> 0:31:18.680
<v Speaker 1>always say, and remember, only what you do for Christ

0:31:18.720 --> 0:31:22.080
<v Speaker 1>will last. More so than a preacher, he was a counselor.

0:31:22.160 --> 0:31:25.000
<v Speaker 1>You know. He was a type that after he gets

0:31:25.040 --> 0:31:28.240
<v Speaker 1>off the pulpit. Then everybody wants to go talk to him,

0:31:28.360 --> 0:31:31.480
<v Speaker 1>you know, get advice from him, tell them about his day,

0:31:31.560 --> 0:31:33.600
<v Speaker 1>you know, about their day. I would say, just a

0:31:33.720 --> 0:31:36.680
<v Speaker 1>kind and caring type of preacher, not not somebody who's

0:31:36.680 --> 0:31:39.440
<v Speaker 1>gonna condemn you for the things you did wrong, but

0:31:39.560 --> 0:31:42.959
<v Speaker 1>more so understanding. And he would always just tell me,

0:31:43.000 --> 0:31:47.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, people are just people. They're always gonna disappoint you.

0:31:47.120 --> 0:31:50.240
<v Speaker 1>You can't hold people to this high standard and expect

0:31:50.240 --> 0:31:53.160
<v Speaker 1>them to be perfect. You'll always be disappointed. You just

0:31:53.160 --> 0:31:55.520
<v Speaker 1>have to let people be who they are. So that's

0:31:55.560 --> 0:32:00.160
<v Speaker 1>how he really operated as a minister as well. Um

0:32:00.240 --> 0:32:32.760
<v Speaker 1>madey grace. How sweet this out to say? Likely When

0:32:32.760 --> 0:32:36.560
<v Speaker 1>I found out that Gordon got Parkinson's, I was really bummed.

0:32:37.640 --> 0:32:39.880
<v Speaker 1>I went to visit him at the v A hospital

0:32:40.200 --> 0:32:44.040
<v Speaker 1>right near where my parents lived. He was weak, but

0:32:44.120 --> 0:32:46.800
<v Speaker 1>he gathered his strength to speak with me one last time.

0:32:48.040 --> 0:32:51.080
<v Speaker 1>We shared a quiet moment of reflection and I said

0:32:51.120 --> 0:32:56.760
<v Speaker 1>my goodbyes. Here's his family talking about the last days

0:32:56.800 --> 0:33:00.280
<v Speaker 1>they were with him at the hospital. This is camill One.

0:33:04.160 --> 0:33:07.080
<v Speaker 1>I remember a particular in his very last days when

0:33:07.120 --> 0:33:09.719
<v Speaker 1>I went to see him in the hospital and I

0:33:09.760 --> 0:33:13.320
<v Speaker 1>think this is the same day that he passed. He

0:33:13.440 --> 0:33:16.840
<v Speaker 1>passed that night, but when I got there that morning,

0:33:17.040 --> 0:33:20.200
<v Speaker 1>I remember when I walked in, you know, just you

0:33:20.240 --> 0:33:23.400
<v Speaker 1>could tell he was extremely weak, but I remember I

0:33:23.440 --> 0:33:25.560
<v Speaker 1>was holding his hand. I had been reading to him

0:33:25.600 --> 0:33:29.800
<v Speaker 1>and things like that, and then he started to move

0:33:29.840 --> 0:33:33.360
<v Speaker 1>a little bit in his face and I just remember

0:33:33.400 --> 0:33:35.280
<v Speaker 1>looking and thinking, oh my god, I think he's about

0:33:35.320 --> 0:33:38.640
<v Speaker 1>to open his eyes. And you could tell that it

0:33:38.720 --> 0:33:42.440
<v Speaker 1>took a lot of effort, but he opened his eyes

0:33:42.720 --> 0:33:44.440
<v Speaker 1>and it was just like for a second. But I

0:33:44.480 --> 0:33:47.280
<v Speaker 1>remember I was smiling, and all the nurses came in

0:33:47.360 --> 0:33:50.200
<v Speaker 1>and they were so happy, you know, that he opened

0:33:50.200 --> 0:33:53.479
<v Speaker 1>his eyes. And so that definitely sticks out to me.

0:33:53.560 --> 0:33:57.040
<v Speaker 1>And he had a way of getting you to learn

0:33:57.040 --> 0:34:00.640
<v Speaker 1>a lesson and from that, I just always remember thinking

0:34:00.640 --> 0:34:02.840
<v Speaker 1>I could do anything, you know, because he was so

0:34:02.960 --> 0:34:06.760
<v Speaker 1>strong to even be on his deathbed and worked so

0:34:06.800 --> 0:34:09.480
<v Speaker 1>hard to be able to see me one more time

0:34:10.120 --> 0:34:12.320
<v Speaker 1>and let me know that I can't make excuses with

0:34:12.360 --> 0:34:15.080
<v Speaker 1>your life. I just gotta persevering no matter what. Like

0:34:15.160 --> 0:34:18.400
<v Speaker 1>he always told us to stay focused and keep moving forward.

0:34:18.440 --> 0:34:22.880
<v Speaker 1>Even in the last days. You know, you can steal accomplish.

0:34:22.960 --> 0:34:25.000
<v Speaker 1>What did you want to accomplish, even if that's just

0:34:25.080 --> 0:34:28.719
<v Speaker 1>open your eyes to see your family. And this is

0:34:28.800 --> 0:34:33.680
<v Speaker 1>part Jona. Well, it seems like those years went by fast,

0:34:34.080 --> 0:34:37.960
<v Speaker 1>from when he was like diagnose with Parkinson's to his

0:34:38.239 --> 0:34:41.239
<v Speaker 1>health beginning to decline. When he got to the end

0:34:41.239 --> 0:34:43.640
<v Speaker 1>of his life where he couldn't say much. Even what

0:34:43.719 --> 0:34:45.640
<v Speaker 1>I would call to talk to my mom on the phone,

0:34:46.160 --> 0:34:48.640
<v Speaker 1>I could hear in the background then like stay focused.

0:34:49.680 --> 0:34:52.680
<v Speaker 1>So he was just trying to give us those last

0:34:53.000 --> 0:34:56.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, messages of who he wanted us to be

0:34:56.440 --> 0:34:59.840
<v Speaker 1>and you know, make that contribution to our life and

0:35:00.080 --> 0:35:02.319
<v Speaker 1>really appreciate that at this age. You know, sometimes I

0:35:02.320 --> 0:35:05.399
<v Speaker 1>wish he was still here, but I think he left

0:35:05.520 --> 0:35:11.319
<v Speaker 1>us with so many, you know, nuggets wisdom. And this

0:35:11.400 --> 0:35:14.640
<v Speaker 1>is his wife, Dolores, talking about the last moments of

0:35:14.719 --> 0:35:19.719
<v Speaker 1>his life. He was okay. You could see that he

0:35:19.840 --> 0:35:22.880
<v Speaker 1>had peace in his heart, he had peace in his mind,

0:35:23.440 --> 0:35:25.400
<v Speaker 1>you know, and he in fact, he told me he

0:35:25.480 --> 0:35:28.200
<v Speaker 1>was ready to go. I said, no, no, no, I'm

0:35:28.200 --> 0:35:30.040
<v Speaker 1>trying to know you're not. You're not ready to go,

0:35:30.080 --> 0:35:32.319
<v Speaker 1>and say you can't leave me as you can't leave

0:35:32.400 --> 0:35:34.920
<v Speaker 1>me with these girls. That's what I said. No, you

0:35:35.120 --> 0:35:37.239
<v Speaker 1>y'all don't be all right, y'all gonna be all right.

0:35:37.320 --> 0:35:43.680
<v Speaker 1>He was really ready to go. And here is Gordon

0:35:43.760 --> 0:35:47.719
<v Speaker 1>Williams Jr. As he was with his father at the

0:35:47.840 --> 0:35:55.080
<v Speaker 1>end when they had to put him on the respirators

0:35:55.160 --> 0:35:59.440
<v Speaker 1>when it really hit me that it was coming to

0:35:59.480 --> 0:36:03.680
<v Speaker 1>an end. So we all went to um because he

0:36:03.760 --> 0:36:06.400
<v Speaker 1>died in South Forks in the hospital on Cleveland Avenue.

0:36:07.000 --> 0:36:11.359
<v Speaker 1>So we all went there and uh and when we

0:36:11.400 --> 0:36:14.920
<v Speaker 1>got there, he was, you know, they had him on

0:36:14.960 --> 0:36:17.000
<v Speaker 1>the respirator and had him on the breathe machine and

0:36:17.040 --> 0:36:20.440
<v Speaker 1>stuff like that. That was that was real difficult. That

0:36:20.480 --> 0:36:23.440
<v Speaker 1>was really difficult looking at my dad like that. But

0:36:23.480 --> 0:36:25.480
<v Speaker 1>I knew that, I knew that the end was near.

0:36:26.040 --> 0:36:28.640
<v Speaker 1>He motioned for me to come, you know, and I

0:36:28.680 --> 0:36:31.880
<v Speaker 1>went over to his bed side, and the loss was

0:36:31.920 --> 0:36:34.160
<v Speaker 1>on this side. I was on that side, and I

0:36:34.200 --> 0:36:38.200
<v Speaker 1>grabbed his hand and he just he squeezed my hand

0:36:39.719 --> 0:36:42.719
<v Speaker 1>and he took his last breath and that was it.

0:36:43.440 --> 0:36:48.560
<v Speaker 1>That was that was something else. He's a good man.

0:36:50.840 --> 0:37:11.000
<v Speaker 1>It's a good man. Yeah. Uh ws walls loud. But

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