WEBVTT - Closure Call: Dumped Via Text 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.200 I feel like Thursday is just our little special treat day. 0:00:02.200 --> 0:00:03.840 Hey, it's Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and this 0:00:03.880 --> 0:00:06.160 is the Second Date Podcast because you get a little 0:00:06.160 --> 0:00:07.120 something different. 0:00:06.920 --> 0:00:10.720 Every Thursday, you love and this time it's a brand 0:00:10.720 --> 0:00:11.760 new closure call. 0:00:13.240 --> 0:00:16.240 And this guy is definitely desperate for our help after 0:00:16.280 --> 0:00:18.479 he received a out of the I don't know what 0:00:18.520 --> 0:00:20.680 do you say? Out of the blue text from his girlfriend. 0:00:20.840 --> 0:00:22.400 Yeah, we'll call it that random. 0:00:22.560 --> 0:00:24.479 Yeah, you'll hear it in just a second. But first, 0:00:24.480 --> 0:00:26.599 we always love to feature your comments. 0:00:26.160 --> 0:00:29.960 Because we love you. Yes, is that two forward? Maybe not? 0:00:30.080 --> 0:00:31.840 I don't know what do you got to say? 0:00:34.800 --> 0:00:38.320 Jackson French said, Oh lord, the day has come aussy 0:00:38.440 --> 0:00:41.360 here and I caught up on twenty twenty five, so 0:00:41.440 --> 0:00:42.920 let's bring on twenty twenty four. 0:00:43.479 --> 0:00:45.880 I found my girlfriend with shared interest in your. 0:00:45.760 --> 0:00:49.920 Show and now I have her hooked Tooay, so cute. 0:00:49.960 --> 0:00:50.599 I love that. 0:00:50.760 --> 0:00:50.960 Well. 0:00:51.000 --> 0:00:53.000 If you ever run out of the Second Date Podcast, 0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:54.880 we do a full show hour over on our main 0:00:54.920 --> 0:00:56.920 podcast as well, which is just Brooke and Jeffrey. 0:00:56.960 --> 0:00:59.200 If you want to punish yourself for an entire hour 0:00:59.320 --> 0:00:59.880 listening to it. 0:01:00.120 --> 0:01:02.360 And this is proof that listening to us it doesn't 0:01:02.360 --> 0:01:03.280 mean you give people to it. 0:01:06.720 --> 0:01:08.920 For yourself. I'm on the showye the. 0:01:10.480 --> 0:01:12.440 We're going to start your brand new closure call on 0:01:12.480 --> 0:01:14.160 your second day podcast right now. 0:01:15.800 --> 0:01:19.640 I've heard. The farther you get into a relationship, the 0:01:19.760 --> 0:01:23.960 harder it is to break up. That's true, because then 0:01:24.000 --> 0:01:28.160 you have to have a long conversation about why it's ending, 0:01:28.520 --> 0:01:32.000 and how it's not your fault. I outgrew you, it's 0:01:32.160 --> 0:01:36.080 my fault for growing. And who's going to get custody 0:01:36.080 --> 0:01:39.360 of the passwords to which streaming services? I call it 0:01:39.400 --> 0:01:39.720 to be. 0:01:42.160 --> 0:01:44.520 Like the free Wood I get it. 0:01:45.520 --> 0:01:47.920 I just give one out an hour. Bro See already 0:01:47.960 --> 0:01:50.000 Brooke and I are butting heads on this because it's 0:01:50.080 --> 0:01:53.880 not an easy conversation, but it's what you have to do. 0:01:54.000 --> 0:01:56.600 You can never break up. No, and one of our 0:01:56.640 --> 0:01:59.520 listeners feels like he did not get the respect he 0:01:59.600 --> 0:02:03.160 deserves when after months of dating, his girlfriend just sent 0:02:03.280 --> 0:02:08.040 him one short text that completely blindsided him, and all 0:02:08.080 --> 0:02:10.920 he really wants his answers. So we're gonna try to 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:13.520 help him with that in a brand new closure call 0:02:13.760 --> 0:02:18.639 that's coming up right after this. Well, well, well look 0:02:18.680 --> 0:02:22.840 who came crawling back? One of our listeners who needs 0:02:22.880 --> 0:02:24.160 our help once again? 0:02:24.440 --> 0:02:27.519 Is this a collect call from a jail cell with 0:02:27.680 --> 0:02:28.400 the music? 0:02:28.840 --> 0:02:30.720 It's a guy named Nick and the last time he 0:02:30.840 --> 0:02:32.679 was on with us, he was trying to lock down 0:02:32.680 --> 0:02:38.240 a second date with a lady cop. Oh this was yesterday, Brook, Well. 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:41.600 If you don't remember totally, remember that, Nick. 0:02:41.720 --> 0:02:43.400 No, it was a few months ago, but you might 0:02:43.400 --> 0:02:45.960 remember if you do listen. The reason he wasn't getting 0:02:45.960 --> 0:02:49.520 a call back was his date used her police connections 0:02:49.800 --> 0:02:54.040 to dig deep into Knick's personal history. That alone led 0:02:54.080 --> 0:02:57.480 to drama aside from the information she found out, So 0:02:57.520 --> 0:02:58.839 they ended up not going out. 0:02:59.000 --> 0:02:59.840 I remember that one now. 0:03:00.040 --> 0:03:03.639 But after our call, according to our producer, Nick jumped 0:03:03.720 --> 0:03:09.120 quickly back into another relationship with a different woman named Brenda, 0:03:09.360 --> 0:03:12.880 and apparently now he needs some help with a closure 0:03:13.000 --> 0:03:13.880 call from us. 0:03:14.080 --> 0:03:17.679 Interesting. Oh I thought we were doing this second date. 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:18.120 Yeah? 0:03:18.160 --> 0:03:20.360 Well, Nick, first, welcome back to the show. 0:03:21.440 --> 0:03:22.760 Hey, thanks for having me back. 0:03:22.880 --> 0:03:26.040 Yeah, Brooke did not want to, but that's okay. We 0:03:26.960 --> 0:03:29.920 voted against her three to one and decided we're allowing 0:03:29.960 --> 0:03:34.079 you back on the show. Remember voting. So tell us 0:03:34.520 --> 0:03:37.440 about this girl Brenda that you were dating, our dating. 0:03:37.480 --> 0:03:40.000 What's the situation there, so as you as. 0:03:39.880 --> 0:03:43.120 You mentioned, like after I, you know, had my experience 0:03:43.120 --> 0:03:45.800 with Lady cop uh huh, I hopped back on the hinge. 0:03:46.040 --> 0:03:50.320 I met Brenda. Okay, good for about two months. We've 0:03:50.320 --> 0:03:53.120 been going strong. It was so good that on our 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:57.320 second hinge date, we decided to both delete our respective 0:03:57.400 --> 0:03:58.560 Hinge account. 0:03:58.600 --> 0:03:59.640 On the second day. 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:01.360 Did you guys do it together? 0:04:01.680 --> 0:04:01.800 Like? 0:04:01.840 --> 0:04:02.080 Why? 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:02.680 Like two? 0:04:05.600 --> 0:04:07.240 Well, you didn't push it. What's going on? 0:04:09.480 --> 0:04:13.240 I think it was just my phone message updating on 0:04:13.360 --> 0:04:14.320 new iOS. 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:17.200 Okay, that's a big move, though, it's a delete hinge 0:04:17.440 --> 0:04:18.160 big moves. 0:04:18.160 --> 0:04:21.159 And we've also, you know, the friend groups have started 0:04:21.160 --> 0:04:24.040 to meet. So I met her friend, she met my friends. 0:04:24.080 --> 0:04:26.200 That was a big thing. 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:29.120 I can't tell if you're excited or you're mad right now. 0:04:29.440 --> 0:04:32.000 Well, I'm excited because all of this is really great. 0:04:32.040 --> 0:04:34.640 But then I get a text message six nights ago 0:04:34.680 --> 0:04:37.359 that just says I can't see you anymore. 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:42.479 No, I think that is so rude. 0:04:42.880 --> 0:04:45.719 Yeah again, like we've been seeing each other for two months. 0:04:45.760 --> 0:04:48.719 You don't text someone I can't see you. You know, 0:04:48.839 --> 0:04:50.320 this isn't casual anymore. 0:04:50.800 --> 0:04:53.640 Give a reason in the text, or just do it 0:04:53.680 --> 0:04:56.719 in person. Why is everyone so scared to talk to anyone? 0:04:57.000 --> 0:05:10.920 You give me a QR code. 0:05:05.960 --> 0:05:06.480 Breaking up. 0:05:07.240 --> 0:05:09.279 We can't see each other. So the way you're saying, 0:05:09.480 --> 0:05:12.080 that happened completely out of the blue. There's nothing that 0:05:12.120 --> 0:05:14.320 you had sent to her right before that that could 0:05:14.320 --> 0:05:16.200 have prompted that response. No. 0:05:16.360 --> 0:05:21.240 In fact, we were making plans for the weekend. So 0:05:21.320 --> 0:05:24.520 then it was quiet for about an hour. I was like, Okay, well, 0:05:24.520 --> 0:05:27.480 maybe she's doing something. And then I get a message 0:05:27.600 --> 0:05:28.680 I can't see you anymore. 0:05:28.760 --> 0:05:31.279 Did Lady Cop contact her and give her your wrap sheet? 0:05:33.000 --> 0:05:34.080 She better not have. 0:05:37.160 --> 0:05:39.359 The bigger problem. Okay, So you want to do a 0:05:39.400 --> 0:05:42.880 closure call, obviously to figure out why Brenda sent you 0:05:42.920 --> 0:05:44.520 that text. But I feel like we need to learn 0:05:44.520 --> 0:05:47.160 a little bit more about her, Like tell us about 0:05:47.240 --> 0:05:49.520 who she is, like what her personality is, Like. 0:05:50.200 --> 0:05:53.000 Uh, well, she's not a lady Cop. She doesn't spy 0:05:53.080 --> 0:05:54.239 on me, so that's great. 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:57.040 Okay, yeah, what do you like about her? 0:05:57.520 --> 0:06:00.360 So we have a very similar sense of humor. I 0:06:00.360 --> 0:06:03.320 have a pretty dark sense of humor, sarcasm, things like that, 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:05.920 And I think that on the first date there was 0:06:06.000 --> 0:06:08.560 definitely a lot of physical chemistry. I mean, I don't 0:06:08.600 --> 0:06:11.240 want to tell tales out of school. But you know, definitely, 0:06:11.279 --> 0:06:13.800 like very early on in our relationship, we could definitely 0:06:13.839 --> 0:06:16.800 sense like the physical part was not going to be 0:06:17.040 --> 0:06:19.679 a challenge, but then all the other stuff was there. 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:23.560 So the humor, her friends are awesome, she seemed to 0:06:23.640 --> 0:06:25.000 like my friends as well. 0:06:25.200 --> 0:06:25.560 Sucks. 0:06:25.600 --> 0:06:28.720 It sounds like you were really excited about this relationship. 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:32.479 Yeah, exactly, And so that's why it's a little confusing 0:06:32.520 --> 0:06:35.000 because at first I thought she might have been joking 0:06:35.080 --> 0:06:37.880 when she said that, but no, no responses. 0:06:38.279 --> 0:06:40.840 Are you wanting to give it another chance? Or like 0:06:40.960 --> 0:06:44.360 if she came back and it was some miscommunication or something, 0:06:44.600 --> 0:06:45.880 or are you done? 0:06:46.080 --> 0:06:48.039 I would be open to it. But this is a 0:06:48.040 --> 0:06:50.839 big red flag. Just getting a text message that says 0:06:50.920 --> 0:06:53.800 like it's over, So I would like to one know 0:06:53.960 --> 0:06:56.640 why it's over, and two like if there's a way 0:06:56.680 --> 0:06:58.960 for us to repair. Yeah, but my spidy sense is 0:06:59.080 --> 0:07:01.560 up because something's not cool if she's just sending a 0:07:01.560 --> 0:07:04.000 message breaking up with me. 0:07:04.600 --> 0:07:07.000 And the thing is with this segment. Normally, the way 0:07:07.040 --> 0:07:09.880 we do closure calls is by sending the other person 0:07:09.960 --> 0:07:13.200 an email with four questions in it, waiting for them 0:07:13.240 --> 0:07:15.760 to write back and hopefully get their permission to say 0:07:15.760 --> 0:07:16.400 it on the air. 0:07:16.720 --> 0:07:19.560 This is usually something where we go deep into people's history. 0:07:19.560 --> 0:07:20.720 I mean this is so recent. 0:07:20.960 --> 0:07:23.280 Yeah, yeah, that's why we're not gonna do it that way. 0:07:23.320 --> 0:07:25.960 This time. We're gonna call Brenda directly. 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:27.880 Oh and just ask. 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:30.679 Her all the questions we need to right now, live 0:07:30.720 --> 0:07:31.240 on the air. 0:07:31.280 --> 0:07:32.160 Okay, does she know? 0:07:33.280 --> 0:07:36.440 She does not know. We're gonna blindside her, just like 0:07:36.520 --> 0:07:39.640 our boy got blindsided with that random text message. So 0:07:39.680 --> 0:07:40.240 we hope she. 0:07:40.360 --> 0:07:41.880 Picks up, or we're just gonna try to call her 0:07:41.880 --> 0:07:42.680 every day until she does. 0:07:42.800 --> 0:07:45.920 It could be eight minutes of NonStop calls and hanging 0:07:45.960 --> 0:07:48.640 off and trying again. We'll find out when we come 0:07:48.680 --> 0:07:52.080 back and attempt to do an in person closure call 0:07:52.160 --> 0:07:55.360 right after this for just joining us. We're in the 0:07:55.360 --> 0:07:59.200 middle of a closure call, and we've never quite done 0:07:59.240 --> 0:08:02.240 it like this for no, because normally we're reaching out 0:08:02.280 --> 0:08:05.320 to people who haven't spoken to one another in years, 0:08:06.040 --> 0:08:09.760 sometimes for decades, trying to figure out what happened between them, 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:14.120 uncover any missing information about why that person isn't in 0:08:14.200 --> 0:08:17.480 their lives anymore, and bring them some long needed closure 0:08:17.560 --> 0:08:20.320 about it. Okay, but this is different. Because it happened. 0:08:20.360 --> 0:08:24.960 Just six days ago, our listener Nick got a text 0:08:24.960 --> 0:08:27.080 from a woman named Brenda. This is a woman who 0:08:27.080 --> 0:08:28.960 he's been dating for a couple months. 0:08:29.040 --> 0:08:29.720 Exclicitly. 0:08:30.080 --> 0:08:33.600 Yeah, and the text just said I can't see you anymore. 0:08:33.840 --> 0:08:35.959 Right before there'supposed to go on a weekend trip together. 0:08:36.120 --> 0:08:39.560 Yeah, no explanation, no lead up to it, not even 0:08:39.640 --> 0:08:42.760 nice little evite card with little dancing people to make 0:08:42.800 --> 0:08:46.720 it a little bit softer, easier to digest. And he's 0:08:46.760 --> 0:08:50.000 tried multiple ways to contact her and figure out why. 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:53.320 So he's got nothing, And now we're gonna step in 0:08:53.400 --> 0:08:56.600 and try to help by just calling Brenda directly for 0:08:56.800 --> 0:08:58.600 a in person closure call. 0:08:58.800 --> 0:09:01.040 So I have a quick question. We haven't done this before. 0:09:01.400 --> 0:09:03.839 Do we have pre prepared questions that we're going to 0:09:03.920 --> 0:09:05.520 go through like we normally would. 0:09:05.640 --> 0:09:08.080 That's a good question, Brook. Do you have them ready? 0:09:08.640 --> 0:09:08.840 Oh? 0:09:09.000 --> 0:09:12.719 No, because you should have been working on something. 0:09:13.200 --> 0:09:15.200 I can figure it out. I guess I did nothing. 0:09:15.280 --> 0:09:16.199 You're going to wing it? 0:09:16.280 --> 0:09:17.800 And then are we going to call him in on 0:09:17.840 --> 0:09:19.560 the call like we do second dates or is he 0:09:19.640 --> 0:09:20.840 going to be silent the whole time? 0:09:20.960 --> 0:09:23.600 I think if we want Brenda to stay on the phone. 0:09:23.679 --> 0:09:28.240 We probably should try and talk to her alone first. Okay, 0:09:28.440 --> 0:09:30.520 I know, Nick, it sounds like you don't like the 0:09:30.559 --> 0:09:30.960 sound of that. 0:09:31.080 --> 0:09:34.760 Nick, No, I bring me on. I'm just really curious 0:09:34.800 --> 0:09:36.880 to hear what she has to say. That's a bottom line. 0:09:36.920 --> 0:09:38.839 Right now, let's see what happens. I'm just going to 0:09:38.920 --> 0:09:41.520 dial her number. We have to dial it four, ten, 0:09:41.640 --> 0:09:43.600 twenty times until she picks up. We're going to do 0:09:43.640 --> 0:09:47.280 whatever it takes to get you closure. Okay, Nick, thank you? 0:09:48.240 --> 0:09:51.080 Right so formal, I know, so serious, but here we go. 0:09:51.320 --> 0:10:02.959 I'm calling right now. Hello, Hey is this Brenda? 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:04.640 This is she? 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:05.480 Hey. 0:10:05.840 --> 0:10:07.400 Sorry to be really excited there for a second. I 0:10:07.400 --> 0:10:11.080 just wasn't sure you're gonna pick up. We're who uh 0:10:11.240 --> 0:10:12.880 now we're You're on the radio right now with a 0:10:12.880 --> 0:10:14.319 show called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:10:15.800 --> 0:10:18.640 Oh, good morning, Hi Brenda. 0:10:19.240 --> 0:10:21.880 Good morning. What can I do for you? 0:10:21.880 --> 0:10:24.440 You could answer a few questions that we have for 0:10:24.480 --> 0:10:28.440 you because we're doing this segment called closure Call, and uh, 0:10:28.679 --> 0:10:30.439 it's actually the first time that we've done it with 0:10:30.520 --> 0:10:32.439 someone uh. 0:10:33.120 --> 0:10:38.400 Live and sounds like we talked to dead people. It's 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:44.840 usually send out, but oh it's moving. We decided to 0:10:44.840 --> 0:10:45.840 call you instead. 0:10:46.760 --> 0:10:49.760 I'm kind of in the dark over here. What are 0:10:49.800 --> 0:10:50.800 you guys talking about? 0:10:50.920 --> 0:10:52.920 Okay, well, maybe turn on a light switch if it's 0:10:52.920 --> 0:10:54.920 a dark room, or can you do go to your window? 0:10:55.880 --> 0:10:57.240 That is a waste of time. 0:10:57.360 --> 0:10:59.840 Okay, get to it all right. I like the joke, Jeff. 0:11:00.720 --> 0:11:03.520 I'll tell you. The reason why we're calling is because 0:11:03.720 --> 0:11:06.880 a friend of the show, his name is Nick, is 0:11:06.960 --> 0:11:19.199 bummed out. Okay, Well, he is upset, distraught even after 0:11:19.240 --> 0:11:22.120 he got your text message recently saying we can't see 0:11:22.160 --> 0:11:22.560 each other. 0:11:22.960 --> 0:11:26.920 He just doesn't understand why he should know why. 0:11:29.000 --> 0:11:31.720 A lot of women say that about the man they 0:11:31.720 --> 0:11:34.720 should understand. But the thing about us is we're pretty clueless, 0:11:36.080 --> 0:11:38.520 and that's why he's reached out to us for help. 0:11:39.360 --> 0:11:45.280 There's no misunderstandings when you just lie, though, lie. 0:11:45.640 --> 0:11:49.000 So you're saying that there was alleged lying in your relationship, 0:11:49.040 --> 0:11:50.720 We don't know what that means. Would you be able 0:11:50.720 --> 0:11:51.840 to elaborate a little bit? 0:11:52.640 --> 0:11:52.960 You know what? 0:11:53.200 --> 0:11:53.480 Sure? 0:11:54.920 --> 0:11:58.120 So you know that we went out for two months, right, Yeah, Well, 0:11:58.320 --> 0:12:02.000 we agreed to lead our hinge accounts and three weeks 0:12:02.040 --> 0:12:04.400 in one of my girlfriends said she thought she saw 0:12:04.400 --> 0:12:06.520 a guy on hinge that looked exactly like him. 0:12:07.960 --> 0:12:11.959 We thought, or did, yeah, well, yeah, I mean all 0:12:12.080 --> 0:12:14.960 Nicks look alike, right, we. 0:12:15.240 --> 0:12:19.440 Shots right, but she didn't have the profile, and I 0:12:19.480 --> 0:12:22.360 didn't really know what to do other than to ask 0:12:22.679 --> 0:12:25.679 Nick about it right away, and he just denied it. 0:12:25.720 --> 0:12:28.160 He said I was mistaken, his friend was my friend 0:12:28.200 --> 0:12:30.959 was mistaken, and so, you know, I didn't really think 0:12:31.040 --> 0:12:33.000 much about it. I trusted him and we moved on. 0:12:33.280 --> 0:12:37.839 But forward to last week. It's been about two months 0:12:37.840 --> 0:12:40.800 at this point, and my same friend said she saw 0:12:40.920 --> 0:12:43.439 him again, and this time she took a screenshot. 0:12:44.320 --> 0:12:45.200 Oh there's evidence. 0:12:46.120 --> 0:12:49.439 It's so clearly him, Like these are new, updated photos. 0:12:49.559 --> 0:12:52.640 I recognize the picture because I was literally with him 0:12:52.640 --> 0:12:53.680 when one of them was taken. 0:12:53.840 --> 0:12:57.800 Like, oh, your arm is like around his shoulder and 0:12:57.840 --> 0:12:59.079 he like cropped you out of it. 0:12:59.440 --> 0:13:02.040 I'm not in a photo, but it's the restaurant that 0:13:02.160 --> 0:13:04.160 we went to, and it's the same clothing. 0:13:04.640 --> 0:13:07.320 Y Oh wow, that must feel really bad. 0:13:07.720 --> 0:13:10.160 But there are a lot of deep AI fakes, Brooks. 0:13:10.160 --> 0:13:12.880 Some people like to borrow other people's photos to use 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:14.679 for their own. People do that with me all the time. 0:13:16.280 --> 0:13:17.720 You're all over the day now. 0:13:17.679 --> 0:13:20.240 And it's not me. It's just a way that people 0:13:20.320 --> 0:13:22.160 want to use me for their benefit. 0:13:22.240 --> 0:13:24.560 Because we've never had one listener say they came across 0:13:24.600 --> 0:13:27.080 any of your profiles, because. 0:13:26.840 --> 0:13:31.960 Our listeners are smart Brook, they know it's a fake funnier. 0:13:32.120 --> 0:13:36.400 So let's look, there could be a misunderstanding here, and 0:13:36.480 --> 0:13:39.160 you should at least talk to Nick while he's on 0:13:39.200 --> 0:13:41.320 the other line listening, waiting to speak to you about 0:13:41.360 --> 0:13:43.880 it before we call this relationship ended for good. 0:13:44.320 --> 0:13:48.240 But he can't be on the line right now. He is. 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:52.040 I think he's still there something else. 0:13:52.080 --> 0:13:53.760 Bus he's swiping through his other profile. 0:13:53.960 --> 0:13:54.720 Nick, are you there? 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:58.680 I am here, and I'm glad that you brought this 0:13:58.880 --> 0:14:06.120 up because you're not wrong. Wait, what I wish that 0:14:06.200 --> 0:14:08.880 you had just come to me because there's. 0:14:08.760 --> 0:14:10.640 Like a totally reasonable explanation. 0:14:11.360 --> 0:14:16.040 What I heard from my friends is that you had 0:14:16.040 --> 0:14:19.040 a profile that was still going up, and so I 0:14:19.120 --> 0:14:22.400 created a profile so you would see that and then 0:14:22.480 --> 0:14:24.280 come to me and be like, hey, I saw that. 0:14:24.440 --> 0:14:27.320 Oh no no, no, no, no no no no guys, sorry, no, no. 0:14:27.200 --> 0:14:28.400 That didn't even make sense. 0:14:28.680 --> 0:14:31.720 Yeah, what you're saying is you heard a rumor that 0:14:31.760 --> 0:14:35.400 she had a Hinge profile first, so he made one 0:14:35.520 --> 0:14:36.520 to get back at her. 0:14:37.280 --> 0:14:39.080 And why did you deny it when I asked you? 0:14:39.360 --> 0:14:41.840 Yeah, screenshots. 0:14:42.280 --> 0:14:45.760 Yeah, I mean it just feels so classic cheater caught right, 0:14:45.880 --> 0:14:47.520 like as soon as you catch it, cheeer like. 0:14:47.560 --> 0:14:49.080 No, you were cheating, dad. 0:14:49.360 --> 0:14:52.240 Look, this is just what my friend said. So I'm 0:14:52.280 --> 0:14:53.320 just telling you what I heard. 0:14:53.800 --> 0:14:57.080 I swear to you I have not been on Hinge 0:14:57.120 --> 0:15:01.000 since we got together. And if you really want to 0:15:01.120 --> 0:15:02.760 prove that I was on it, I want to see 0:15:02.760 --> 0:15:05.480 that screenshot. Show me what I was able to show you, 0:15:06.240 --> 0:15:07.120 because it doesn't. 0:15:06.920 --> 0:15:11.680 Exist unless Brooke used your photo in order to catfish 0:15:11.720 --> 0:15:13.840 men in order to lure them over to her place. 0:15:14.000 --> 0:15:15.600 Because that does happen. We've learned. 0:15:15.720 --> 0:15:18.320 Brenda, you do sound hot like I sound like I 0:15:18.360 --> 0:15:20.560 would use your picture, but I don't have a profile either. 0:15:20.680 --> 0:15:23.320 Okay, in the end, it really doesn't matter, because Brenda, 0:15:23.320 --> 0:15:25.240 I really do want to forgive you for doing. 0:15:27.640 --> 0:15:31.240 Wow, that's a big thing to do. Even though you 0:15:31.280 --> 0:15:34.640 may have tried to get on the hinge once more, 0:15:34.880 --> 0:15:37.880 He's willing to overlook that and try it again. 0:15:37.920 --> 0:15:43.000 In your relationships, big man, Brenda, this is absolutely this 0:15:43.080 --> 0:15:43.840 is unbelievable. 0:15:44.200 --> 0:15:45.680 Yeah, it's amazing. 0:15:46.080 --> 0:15:47.120 It is such classic. 0:15:47.360 --> 0:15:49.480 I feel like you full uncheated now, the way that 0:15:49.520 --> 0:15:50.960 he's handling this Brook. 0:15:51.000 --> 0:15:52.800 You're supposed to be on my side here, I mean, 0:15:52.800 --> 0:15:54.480 you're supoke down my back here. I'm a friend of 0:15:54.480 --> 0:15:54.840 the show. 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:59.080 Yeah, yeah, with sketchy behavior. Man, the last time you're 0:15:59.080 --> 0:16:01.160 on the show, a lady out at you for some 0:16:01.240 --> 0:16:02.520 sort of I think he was divorced. 0:16:03.200 --> 0:16:03.600 Divorce. 0:16:05.680 --> 0:16:12.600 Yeah, you were married, now broke out. 0:16:12.880 --> 0:16:15.640 Divorce might still be active, so it's probably not safe to. 0:16:15.560 --> 0:16:16.080 Talk about it. 0:16:17.920 --> 0:16:21.120 You know what, I knew. I knew that this was 0:16:21.160 --> 0:16:24.720 too good to be true. We were boyfriend and girlfriend. 0:16:25.240 --> 0:16:28.400 Listen. The bottom line is we both made mistakes. You 0:16:28.440 --> 0:16:31.280 were and I was on hinge. We happened to be 0:16:31.320 --> 0:16:33.680 on a hinge at different times, sometimes the same time. 0:16:35.080 --> 0:16:38.600 Let's just move afted, you know, and get back together. 0:16:39.280 --> 0:16:42.240 Wow, he's putting it all out on the table for 0:16:42.280 --> 0:16:45.480 you there, Brenda. He's admitting that he's flawed. You're a 0:16:45.520 --> 0:16:48.720 little flaws, but together your flaws make the perfect relationships. 0:16:48.760 --> 0:16:51.800 That was one romantic speech. It was I was on hinge. 0:16:51.840 --> 0:16:54.600 You were on hinge. 0:16:55.440 --> 0:16:59.520 Allegedly, So let's see Brenda, are you willing to look 0:16:59.600 --> 0:17:01.040 past her own mistakes? 0:17:01.240 --> 0:17:03.400 Wow? Get a gas lighter too. 0:17:03.680 --> 0:17:06.240 No, I'm just we've all made mistakes. You're doing I've 0:17:06.240 --> 0:17:08.000 made mistakes on this segment already. 0:17:08.119 --> 0:17:08.680 You're doing it. 0:17:08.800 --> 0:17:12.560 Yeah, let's all look past all the mistakes we've ever 0:17:12.600 --> 0:17:15.320 made and give this relationship one more chance. 0:17:15.640 --> 0:17:15.920 Yeah. 0:17:16.040 --> 0:17:18.439 I really hope that Nick out the closure he needed, 0:17:18.440 --> 0:17:20.600 because I am more than finished with this. 0:17:22.760 --> 0:17:22.960 Nick. 0:17:23.040 --> 0:17:24.959 It didn't like cross your mind at any point when 0:17:25.000 --> 0:17:27.399 you got that text, like maybe she found my hinge 0:17:27.440 --> 0:17:29.679 profile and that's why she wants to break up with me. 0:17:29.880 --> 0:17:32.280 Look straight up, I'm on a lot of different dating apps, 0:17:32.320 --> 0:17:38.040 so oh wow, dude, I don't know which one she found. 0:17:38.080 --> 0:17:38.720 It could have been. 0:17:38.640 --> 0:17:41.439 Any closure call for himself. 0:17:41.520 --> 0:17:41.720 Yeah. 0:17:41.760 --> 0:17:43.800 Yeah, so there you go. 0:17:43.880 --> 0:17:46.280 That's your first in person closure call. 0:17:46.560 --> 0:17:47.760 I'm really happy for Brenda. 0:17:47.880 --> 0:17:50.400 Yeah, she got the closure that he wanted to get 0:17:50.400 --> 0:17:55.000 out of the woking Jeffrey in the morning. We've never 0:17:55.080 --> 0:17:55.800 done this before. 0:17:55.920 --> 0:17:57.160 I don't think we should do it again. 0:17:57.240 --> 0:18:00.520 Well No, I feel like that's out. What I mean, 0:18:00.520 --> 0:18:02.880 I feel like we need to give Nick a one 0:18:03.040 --> 0:18:06.720 year suspension before we have him back on the show again. 0:18:06.800 --> 0:18:08.199 I see I thought you meant we should never have 0:18:08.240 --> 0:18:12.120 a live closure call again. No, that was a hot Traine. 0:18:12.200 --> 0:18:15.120 It was messy, but we got to the point of it. Clearly, 0:18:15.200 --> 0:18:17.320 Nick is not in a great place right now. 0:18:17.920 --> 0:18:19.480 Nick has a hard time being honest. 0:18:19.640 --> 0:18:23.280 Yeah, it just doesn't sound like he's ready for a relationship, 0:18:23.600 --> 0:18:25.639 and I don't know if we're ready for him, because 0:18:25.680 --> 0:18:29.159 he's divorcing people, he's lying to other people, he's opening 0:18:29.240 --> 0:18:32.679 up dating accounts while spying on other dating accounts to. 0:18:32.720 --> 0:18:35.560 A radio station to act innocent like maybe he just 0:18:35.600 --> 0:18:37.280 wants to Maybe he loves the show that much. 0:18:37.359 --> 0:18:39.879 Maybe he could be calling us once a week if 0:18:39.920 --> 0:18:42.800 we don't put the kabash on it. So Nick, I'm sorry, buddy, 0:18:42.800 --> 0:18:44.919 we love you, but you're suspended from the show for 0:18:45.000 --> 0:18:46.520 a year and it's. 0:18:46.359 --> 0:18:48.760