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Speaker 1: This is the Benn and Ashley I almost famous podcast

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Speaker 1: with our radio. Hello, Hello, Hello. Ben's on here today.

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Speaker 1: He is, I think, at a golf tournament and Dominican Republic,

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Speaker 1: which is pretty cool. Um. Yeah, I know. We have

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Speaker 1: some familiar guests here. We have Chris and Crystal. Hey, guys,

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Speaker 1: she did the sexy voice. Chris, how often do you

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Speaker 1: get the sexy voice? I get it on occasion. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't have to ask. It's I get the good

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Speaker 1: morning sexy voice every morning. So that's a nice way

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Speaker 1: to rip every morning. So you guys were nice enough

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Speaker 1: to wake up at five thirty in the morning. We

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Speaker 1: left it five from San Diego to beat the l

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Speaker 1: A traffic. You guys, it's supposed to it's two and

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Speaker 1: a half hours right from San Diego to the l A,

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Speaker 1: but it always takes about four about for those last

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Speaker 1: fifty miles are the worst. I'll get Jack because you're like,

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Speaker 1: we got eleven miles to go awesome. Yeah, absolutely, Like

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Speaker 1: I'm so confused. I know exactly what eleven miles we're

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Speaker 1: talking about. Before we get into it with you guys,

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Speaker 1: we have Blake Hurtsman on the line. Are you guys

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Speaker 1: fart to Blake. You know Blake? Yeah, okay, great, Well

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Speaker 1: he just had a blind date at jingle Ball Kisses

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Speaker 1: jingle Ball here like, Hi, I hear you giggling. I'm

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Speaker 1: so sorry I didn't run into a jingle Ball. That

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Speaker 1: was so sad. You guys were on the other podium,

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Speaker 1: like on the other side of seats. I know. I

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Speaker 1: was trying to wait for you guys to the red carpet,

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Speaker 1: but I just starting to miss the concert and I

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Speaker 1: didn't want you want to take the concert, so I

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Speaker 1: had to take her. M yeah, I didn't. I don't

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Speaker 1: want your date to miss the concert either. So the

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Speaker 1: date was to help um what was it? What was

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Speaker 1: it was? Bench? It was Umanity and Hope. Yeah, Humanity

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Speaker 1: and Hope. So benefit Humanity and Hope. Are you allowed

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Speaker 1: to tell us how much this girl bid so that

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Speaker 1: she would get the date with you to jingle Ball.

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Speaker 1: There was money involved, yea, So it was a charity,

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Speaker 1: it was a fundraiser. Blake's value has got to be high. Well,

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Speaker 1: I think Ben, I think Ben he raised five thousand

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Speaker 1: or something for his blood day. Really, yeah, think I

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Speaker 1: think that's the overestimate. Is it? Like, how much did

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Speaker 1: you get how much did you risk? So I don't

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Speaker 1: know the exact number, but I know it's over four k.

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Speaker 1: I think it was like it was like that is

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Speaker 1: very respectable, like that's amazing, thank you, thank you. So

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Speaker 1: I was a little worried. It ran two thousand up

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Speaker 1: until the last twenty minutes and then there were so

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Speaker 1: many bits there at the end that it actually shut

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Speaker 1: down the web page. So that that made me feel

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Speaker 1: pretty good. Holy blake. Remember how eBay used to work,

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Speaker 1: where it was just like a bid here or there.

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Speaker 1: I mean, eBay still works like this, but I feel

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Speaker 1: like everything right now is by now. Yeah, there's always

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Speaker 1: a buy now option, but um I remember, like in

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Speaker 1: the heyday of eBay, my parents would be like refresh, refresh, refresh,

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Speaker 1: and that's how it is with options online. I was saying,

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Speaker 1: I got a bunch the d M thaying, you know

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Speaker 1: it's gonna been higher, but it's timed out or something

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Speaker 1: like that. So but it was good. It was fun.

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Speaker 1: It was good. So tell us about your date, like,

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Speaker 1: tell us about the girl. Where are there any sports? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So I was very lucky, I'll be honest. You was

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Speaker 1: like completely normal and a lot of fun. And so

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Speaker 1: right away the first thing he said to me here

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Speaker 1: like like, I'll be honest, I had a little bit

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Speaker 1: It was like that's good. She's like, no, I'll be honest.

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Speaker 1: I had a substantial amount of ill say, oh good,

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Speaker 1: we'll get along. That's sweet. I feel like you're probably

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Speaker 1: the least awkward person to have to go on a

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Speaker 1: blind date with, Like you're just so personable and a

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Speaker 1: good conversationalist that you could probably find something to say

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Speaker 1: to anyone. Yeah, I mean, yeah, I wasn't. I wasn't

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Speaker 1: worried about like meeting new people and everything. So we

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Speaker 1: had a blast men in the morning leave and all

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Speaker 1: we all met up and luck together because I brought

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Speaker 1: my sister and her friend out too, so it was great.

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Speaker 1: It was a good time for sure. Oh that's so sweet.

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Speaker 1: Chris Harrison was also a jingle ball and so was

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Speaker 1: one of the executive producers, just wondering if you had

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Speaker 1: any chats to them about Paradise while you were there.

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Speaker 1: I did not. Actually, I didn't have a chance to

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Speaker 1: see any of them, so I haven't had a chance

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Speaker 1: to talk about Paradise. You didn't see them when you

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Speaker 1: were a jingle Ball either, Noll. I thought them like

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Speaker 1: way back, so that Rick carpet was actually like a

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Speaker 1: him and talked to him. Well, we all see each other.

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Speaker 1: But I'm glad that you provided with a great date

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Speaker 1: and you raised a lot for charity. They will raise

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Speaker 1: some money, so all in all it was it was

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Speaker 1: a success for sure. All right, Well, thank you Blake

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Speaker 1: to do that. We'll talk to you soon. Yeah. Man,

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Speaker 1: I just gotta say I'm having so much FuMO right

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Speaker 1: now because we were supposed to go to jingle Ball

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Speaker 1: back up here again. We're like, let's just I know

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Speaker 1: everyone everyone we know like when to jingle Ball, Like

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Speaker 1: sick my stomach? Then no, it's the date. It's definitely

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Speaker 1: really fun, but it also took us over an hour

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Speaker 1: and parking, so you guys, know, don't don't. I did

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Speaker 1: want to see Cardi B. So I think that's why

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Speaker 1: I'm stressing right now, because I heard she's amazing in

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Speaker 1: person performing. So I have a confession. I don't. I

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Speaker 1: don't get Cardi B. You don't want to see it,

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Speaker 1: you do, It's from what I hear. So in person,

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Speaker 1: everyone's like, yeah, she's a great performer. I went to

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Speaker 1: her Instagram before. I'm like, I just don't get it.

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Speaker 1: don't get, but that for sure is one thing. I

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Speaker 1: you know, a little bit. She's a little bit of

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Speaker 1: an aggressor, but okay, very aggressive. Okay, you guys, you

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Speaker 1: just moved in together. What was it? What month was it?

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Speaker 1: Sheets twice, only twice. Well, something very drastic happened in

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Speaker 1: the middle of the night. So let me just tell you.

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Speaker 1: the dog issue for a couple of months now, Well,

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Speaker 1: The dog puked all over her face. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: here's what happen. Chucky little Chuckie, like he'll go to

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Speaker 1: Like I started dry heaving that out of carry. Basically,

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Speaker 1: six years. Well, we have the same issue. We have

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Speaker 1: did this? What did he catch? Because nowhere he's sleeping

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Speaker 1: Very interesting situation. So we broken our house. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: it was in a new place. Most you guys moved

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Speaker 1: piece of cake. I completely agree. What is one thing

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Speaker 1: that you didn't know beforehand? Go first, there's so many. Um,

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Speaker 1: she likes things done, and she's very O. C. D.

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Speaker 1: Particularly she's a micromanager, not a bad way, but it's

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Speaker 1: I've noticed watching my sister's boyfriend, watching other friend's boyfriends,

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Speaker 1: So we have this reputation if we take forever to

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Speaker 1: Anything with the food, with the food in the wine.

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493
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Speaker 1: have so many other fun questions for you. Are you

494
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Speaker 1: ready to dive in? Ready? I wanted to make this

495
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Speaker 1: interview of this chat that we we had today a

496
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Speaker 1: little less normal. I feel like we're all asked the

497
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Speaker 1: same questions all the time, but a lot of people

498
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Speaker 1: want to know like your roots and how you got

499
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Speaker 1: into this whole shebang or The Bachelor. So I came

500
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Speaker 1: up with a good couple of fun questions. Let's all

501
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:35,000
Speaker 1: describe our life pre show. So I was Ashley. I

502
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Speaker 1: actually I was twenty five when I submitted an audition

503
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Speaker 1: tape to The Bachelor. It went throughout the entire process

504
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Speaker 1: of the show in about two and a half minutes,

505
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Speaker 1: from getting out of the limo to the final rows.

506
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Speaker 1: It was like a big parody video. I had just graduated.

507
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Speaker 1: I graduated eight months ago um from Sarahcuses New House

508
00:27:00,960 --> 00:27:05,360
Speaker 1: School of my Masters in Digital Broadcasting. When I got

509
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 1: the call from Casting and I submitted my audition tape

510
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,960
Speaker 1: the month before graduation. At this time in my life,

511
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Speaker 1: I was four months out of an internship with the

512
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Speaker 1: New York Jets, and I was looking for a job

513
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Speaker 1: in digital journalism in the New York City area and

514
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,879
Speaker 1: for the Jets, I worked for a site that covered

515
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Speaker 1: the Jets. It was a pretty cool experience, No way, really,

516
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Speaker 1: Oh that's so funny. Oh that's right, Okay, well we'll

517
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 1: have to talk afterwards. Um, this was It was really

518
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Speaker 1: cool because I got to be in the press conference

519
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Speaker 1: room and go in the locker room and interview all

520
00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 1: the players. It was a really good experience. Yeah. Anyway,

521
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 1: so that's what I was doing before the show. What

522
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:54,879
Speaker 1: were you doing before the show? Chris? Be honest. So

523
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 1: I went to UCF for college and then after college

524
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Speaker 1: going nights. By the way, after I worked for this

525
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Speaker 1: financial market firm for almost six years UH from salusand

526
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Speaker 1: twelve two thousands seventeen beginning to seventeen and UH I

527
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Speaker 1: was a sales training director and then I left started

528
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Speaker 1: my own company, and I was doing the whole entrepreneur thing.

529
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Speaker 1: I have a sales training software company. So UH started

530
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Speaker 1: that and h raised some funding for it launched. It

531
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Speaker 1: really had some great success early on. And in that

532
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:37,160
Speaker 1: time I had some friends who originally submitted me for

533
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Speaker 1: The Bachelor or a bachelorette. I think they submitted me

534
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 1: in like February or March, because I was so confused

535
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Speaker 1: when I got the call. But you didn't get the

536
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Speaker 1: call until one September. Okay, so about this I think

537
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Speaker 1: February of that year. So she calls me and and

538
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Speaker 1: I'm like, do you come on? I was like, listen,

539
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Speaker 1: I appreciate the call, but who is this? Like I

540
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Speaker 1: thought was one of my friends. And I'm like, all right,

541
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Speaker 1: ever saw did they tell you it was jazzy? But

542
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Speaker 1: did they tell you that you they submitted you? So

543
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Speaker 1: she said, we just came across your uh submission, and

544
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Speaker 1: I go okay. And it was crazy because it was

545
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Speaker 1: a submission of me with no hair. It was just

546
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Speaker 1: short hair. So I was like whoa. I was like, okay, well,

547
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Speaker 1: let me let me hear what she has to say.

548
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:20,240
Speaker 1: And we talked and we hit it off, and she

549
00:29:20,360 --> 00:29:23,080
Speaker 1: was send me some more pictures and fill out this thing.

550
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Speaker 1: And next thing you know, I'm going to Fort Lauderdale

551
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Speaker 1: a couple of months later. But they talked to me

552
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 1: every week, and then it went to Fort Lauderdale in

553
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Speaker 1: December of that year, and then right after that UM

554
00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,560
Speaker 1: was casting finals. Weekend, which was the following month in January,

555
00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 1: and then I went there and then little did I

556
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Speaker 1: know that I was going to be on the show

557
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 1: literally a month and a half later, and then everything

558
00:29:43,680 --> 00:29:46,320
Speaker 1: after that just became a huge blur. That's so nuts.

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Speaker 1: So were you single? I was single? Yeah, anyone at

560
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Speaker 1: the time. No. I mean I would go on dates,

561
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Speaker 1: but as far as anything that had substance. Now, my

562
00:29:57,200 --> 00:29:59,840
Speaker 1: last serious relationship before that was like two years before that,

563
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Speaker 1: and I've only had like two serious girlfriends, one of

564
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 1: like four years through college and then one for two

565
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Speaker 1: years after college. So Crystal, it's your turn. Hi. I'm Crystal.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I wanted to do it like it.

567
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:18,360
Speaker 1: I love it. Um My my life before Bachelor. It's

568
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:20,080
Speaker 1: so funny. I was just talking about this yesterday. I

569
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:22,640
Speaker 1: was twenty nine years old when I got the phone call,

570
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Speaker 1: and ironically, I spent the last two years, well I

571
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Speaker 1: guess the last year living in my little bungalow. I

572
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Speaker 1: was in a four year relationship left that the day

573
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Speaker 1: I moved in the bungalow. My girlfriend submitted me for

574
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Speaker 1: The Bachelor for nixt season, but it was it was

575
00:30:38,080 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 1: too late in casting, so same here I was supposed

576
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:44,720
Speaker 1: to be well, I submitted thinking Wan Pablo was actually

577
00:30:44,760 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 1: going to be Jeff Home because I thought Jeff Holme

578
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:51,120
Speaker 1: was the cutest. So that's when I submitted in July August,

579
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:53,360
Speaker 1: and then they were like, oh no, Like now in

580
00:30:53,360 --> 00:30:55,520
Speaker 1: our minds we're like, oh no, that's like basically casting

581
00:30:55,560 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 1: weekend right exactly. And nine months later I got the

582
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Speaker 1: phone call. All of us got the phone call so

583
00:31:03,200 --> 00:31:06,280
Speaker 1: much later, nine months later. And the ironic thing was

584
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:11,920
Speaker 1: I was actually writing a book about um, just this

585
00:31:11,960 --> 00:31:14,200
Speaker 1: whole like last year of my life and just this

586
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:18,080
Speaker 1: crazy journey I'd been on, and it was actually about

587
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:20,720
Speaker 1: losing my voice and this whole like surge of finding

588
00:31:20,760 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 1: it and finding who I was. And I was listening

589
00:31:23,000 --> 00:31:26,680
Speaker 1: to this Lowest House or Lewis House podcast on how

590
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 1: to get my book published and how to grow my audience,

591
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:31,560
Speaker 1: and as I'm literally taking notes, and I was supposed

592
00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:33,160
Speaker 1: to be in Italy and Greece on a trip with

593
00:31:33,200 --> 00:31:36,440
Speaker 1: someone that I was dating. Broke up with him and

594
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Speaker 1: a relationship with we date. We dated for a month

595
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:42,760
Speaker 1: and a half. We had a three week trip to

596
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Speaker 1: Italy and Greece, and I broke up with him two

597
00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 1: weeks before because I was like, he's just not for me.

598
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 1: I can't go on a three week vacation with someone,

599
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 1: you know, with someone I know I don't want to

600
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Speaker 1: be with. I broke it off, didn't go on the trip,

601
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:56,040
Speaker 1: and so I was supposed to be on that trip,

602
00:31:56,680 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 1: but I was home, you know, investing in myself and uh.

603
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 1: And I got the call from the Bachelor as I

604
00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:04,760
Speaker 1: was listening to that podcast, and I was like, that's

605
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 1: just so serendipitous and and crazy. Um. And at that time,

606
00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,560
Speaker 1: I was coaching with Orange Ferry Fitness and just started

607
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 1: my online business coaching like through Facebook, and UM. I

608
00:32:17,960 --> 00:32:20,800
Speaker 1: was just really looking for an adventure and was really

609
00:32:20,840 --> 00:32:22,720
Speaker 1: in a space or I just spent the last year

610
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 1: really getting to know who I was and working out

611
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 1: a lot of you know, limiting beliefs and understanding why

612
00:32:28,120 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 1: that for your relationship didn't work out and why I

613
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:32,560
Speaker 1: didn't want to commit and kind of just looking back

614
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:34,080
Speaker 1: at my life. So I really saw it as a

615
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 1: fun adventure that you know, I was I've been looking for.

616
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 1: That's awesome. So you guys didn't do audition tapes. You

617
00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:43,600
Speaker 1: just got called based on application. No, I did I

618
00:32:43,600 --> 00:32:46,000
Speaker 1: had to do an augentition tape after you after you

619
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 1: talked to Yeah, so I did. I did an amazing

620
00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:55,000
Speaker 1: ten minute video of just me cooking food. I was

621
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 1: cooking uh skirt steak with Chimmy Sure saulces and I

622
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,600
Speaker 1: made the Chimmy Turey sauce from scratch, and then I

623
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 1: love a little tour of my place and then I

624
00:33:06,560 --> 00:33:09,560
Speaker 1: did different little interview spots and I talked about the

625
00:33:09,640 --> 00:33:11,520
Speaker 1: questions that they told me to talk about on the

626
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:15,160
Speaker 1: on the video and just went into uh some other

627
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 1: more in depth situations. And then after that I submitted

628
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 1: it and literally the next day they were like, Okay,

629
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Speaker 1: we'll see you in for a Lauderdale and so I

630
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 1: was like, oh wow, so that's that's you guys out there. Um,

631
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:29,760
Speaker 1: they go on a tour basically of the entire country

632
00:33:30,040 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 1: where they it's open. It's an open casting call, but

633
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:38,880
Speaker 1: they do make special times for the people that they're

634
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 1: very interested in based off their applications. So I don't

635
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:46,280
Speaker 1: know about you, but I was like rushed to the

636
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:48,880
Speaker 1: front of the line, and everybody welse is probably like,

637
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 1: why is this girl going to the front of line?

638
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 1: Why is she skipping. Oh yeah, I didn't wait. When

639
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:55,400
Speaker 1: I went to Fort Lauderdale. Uh, she came down and

640
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 1: I was at the bar and she was like, she

641
00:33:57,680 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 1: was listening. I just want to apologize. She goes, I'll

642
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:00,560
Speaker 1: come back down and get you in like five minutes.

643
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 1: She was just stay here, you don't have to wait

644
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 1: over here, and I'm like, okay, no worries, and she

645
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:04,840
Speaker 1: came back. She got me. But you know it was

646
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 1: weird is when I submitted the video, I got an

647
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:09,560
Speaker 1: email response. I said, okay, well we'll get back to

648
00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 1: you in two to four weeks. When they got back

649
00:34:11,160 --> 00:34:13,959
Speaker 1: to me the next day, I knew deepound and thought

650
00:34:13,960 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 1: I was like, this is for sure something's going on.

651
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:18,680
Speaker 1: It's just happening way too fast, and I just got

652
00:34:18,680 --> 00:34:21,680
Speaker 1: to embrace it. See I was on the opposite end

653
00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:24,120
Speaker 1: of the spectrum. It just took so long to hear

654
00:34:24,120 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 1: back from everyone, and I really try to play cool.

655
00:34:27,280 --> 00:34:28,879
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not going to get emotion. I'm gonna

656
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:32,200
Speaker 1: get too excited until it's final. It's final, and it

657
00:34:32,200 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 1: didn't become final until ten days before I left. It

658
00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:40,560
Speaker 1: will officially go time right before like going into so

659
00:34:40,960 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 1: it was almost an entire form of the audition process

660
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:45,879
Speaker 1: for me, and just so the whole time, like am

661
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:49,080
Speaker 1: I leaving? I have to pay bills? Like what am

662
00:34:49,080 --> 00:34:51,960
Speaker 1: I gonna do? What about my two dogs? So I

663
00:34:52,080 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 1: was very um stressful, and I knew a couple of

664
00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 1: days after casting weekend I knew. I think it was

665
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 1: probably like I have whole days before that they sent

666
00:35:01,719 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 1: me the packing list and yeah, yeah, I didn't get

667
00:35:03,920 --> 00:35:06,799
Speaker 1: the packing list until like a few weeks prior. But

668
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:10,359
Speaker 1: the woman who I was in contact with, she had

669
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 1: told me she was everything is good to go. And

670
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 1: then I got the FedEx pamphlet that came with like

671
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 1: the final confirmation. But then there was something in there

672
00:35:18,120 --> 00:35:19,960
Speaker 1: that kind of scared me, and it was you could

673
00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:23,759
Speaker 1: be an alternate? Did you ever see? And they said

674
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 1: that they I think there was like there are a

675
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:28,759
Speaker 1: couple of people that will sit in the hotel room

676
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:30,920
Speaker 1: and that they're not actually picked, but they're there just

677
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 1: in case anybody chickens out. That would be well, I

678
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:40,919
Speaker 1: know that happened in Paradise. Definitely definitely had ever so disappointing, Yes,

679
00:35:42,000 --> 00:35:45,880
Speaker 1: so disappinting. How many times have you done Paradise? Yeah? Okay,

680
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 1: did you like it both times? Was it better the

681
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 1: second time? No, it was worth the second was Yeah,

682
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:57,279
Speaker 1: it was definitely second time. Yeah, there's that. And just

683
00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 1: like there's already too many formed relationships off the show

684
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,160
Speaker 1: when you go into the second season, you know, you're

685
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:04,919
Speaker 1: like my friends with this person, I have a pass

686
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:10,000
Speaker 1: with this person. Was Jared on both Yeah, yeah, yeah,

687
00:36:13,040 --> 00:36:14,719
Speaker 1: I remember. I just I would have to rewatch it

688
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:17,879
Speaker 1: again because I don't think I've watched season two. I've

689
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:20,040
Speaker 1: watched season three and season four. Okay, so that was

690
00:36:20,080 --> 00:36:22,360
Speaker 1: my next question, Actually is were you fan of the

691
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 1: show beforehand? You know what's crazy? I was telling her

692
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:28,479
Speaker 1: this not too long ago. Uh when I had just

693
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:32,919
Speaker 1: uh moved to downtown Orlando. The girl I was dating

694
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 1: with at the time, Shet We were in a long

695
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 1: relationship and we were watching Andy Dorfman, she was the

696
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:41,799
Speaker 1: Bachelorette and h and I was like, man, I was

697
00:36:41,840 --> 00:36:43,440
Speaker 1: I was watching it. It It was a really good season,

698
00:36:43,600 --> 00:36:45,520
Speaker 1: and my girlfriend at the time got me into it.

699
00:36:45,560 --> 00:36:47,239
Speaker 1: And there was a moment where I was at my

700
00:36:47,320 --> 00:36:50,800
Speaker 1: girlfriend's place and I was sitting there and I was like, Wow,

701
00:36:50,960 --> 00:36:53,279
Speaker 1: I'm definitely not going to marry this girl that I'm

702
00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 1: sitting next to and that's what kicked off my interest

703
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 1: in the show because it helped me understand that the

704
00:36:58,680 --> 00:37:00,360
Speaker 1: girl that I was with at the time, it wasn't

705
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:04,359
Speaker 1: really going to be what I'm watching, and he was inspired.

706
00:37:05,880 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 1: I was inspired as far as what I wanted or

707
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:11,200
Speaker 1: what I was looking for as far as love, and

708
00:37:11,280 --> 00:37:13,719
Speaker 1: I was like, well, maybe this show actually can legitimate

709
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:19,400
Speaker 1: we bring you that opportunity. Yeah, that's I am like

710
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:22,120
Speaker 1: four or five years later and I'm married or I'm

711
00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:24,399
Speaker 1: engaged to an emrazing woman. That was just that wasn't

712
00:37:24,400 --> 00:37:28,239
Speaker 1: like a that wasn't a slip, right, what did you say,

713
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 1: like I was when you said married, Well, you're not

714
00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:33,759
Speaker 1: like under Kiver married and it's okay. I called Jared.

715
00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 1: We have our secrets to actually Okay, Well that's so fascinating, Chris.

716
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 1: Pretty interesting. Wow. I have a crazy story too, because

717
00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:46,239
Speaker 1: the day I moved in the bungalow was the day

718
00:37:46,239 --> 00:37:49,720
Speaker 1: I was submitted and I just moved out with Chris,

719
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:52,840
Speaker 1: whom I met on the show, and now we're engaged. Yeah,

720
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:55,640
Speaker 1: and so we both have like journeys. I mean really

721
00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:58,680
Speaker 1: the Bachelor and Bachelor has been a huge part of

722
00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 1: our lives, you know, and Julianne as a couple. Of course,

723
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:04,439
Speaker 1: it's so nutty. I remember watching the show with my

724
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:07,960
Speaker 1: friends and my family back like during Ashley Bear or

725
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:11,520
Speaker 1: Emily Maynard season, and we would just even a long time,

726
00:38:12,440 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 1: we would just like come up with hypotheticals of like

727
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:17,279
Speaker 1: how I would deal with being on the show. We

728
00:38:17,320 --> 00:38:20,400
Speaker 1: would like laugh so hard just imagining me on the show.

729
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:23,000
Speaker 1: And then fast forward a couple of years, I actually

730
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:26,879
Speaker 1: do an application. Then look, I found my husband. Isn't

731
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 1: that the craziest thing ever? When you guys think about

732
00:38:31,000 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 1: the separate journeys that you had to go on to

733
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:35,280
Speaker 1: find each other on a show, I mean, I guess

734
00:38:35,280 --> 00:38:38,879
Speaker 1: it's no weirder than honestly finding your partner in a bar,

735
00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:42,560
Speaker 1: or a restaurant or at a at a job. And

736
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 1: it's actually probably a higher likelihood because it attracts like

737
00:38:46,120 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 1: minded people and it attracts people that are looking for

738
00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:51,919
Speaker 1: the same thing. I think, what's incredible, And I'm sure

739
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:54,880
Speaker 1: like your relationship with Jared is like this. But coming

740
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:58,040
Speaker 1: out of The Bachelor, like in that intern between Bachelor

741
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:00,319
Speaker 1: and Bachelor Paradise, it was really hard for me to

742
00:39:00,400 --> 00:39:04,239
Speaker 1: date because guys just don't understand it, like you just

743
00:39:04,280 --> 00:39:08,520
Speaker 1: can't relate to someone on that level. And so there's

744
00:39:08,560 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 1: a whole issue of trust, um and just it's hard

745
00:39:11,719 --> 00:39:14,040
Speaker 1: to date. And so going into Paradise, I was really

746
00:39:14,040 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 1: excited and that was my big My biggest reason was

747
00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:19,919
Speaker 1: to meet someone. Even though I was like, I swear

748
00:39:19,920 --> 00:39:22,680
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna date. I'm working. I don't want even

749
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:26,719
Speaker 1: when a boyfriend and I remember like a producer being lying,

750
00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 1: that's exactly what they say the ones that get engaged.

751
00:39:29,160 --> 00:39:31,200
Speaker 1: I was like, there's no way, like I'm gonna leave

752
00:39:31,239 --> 00:39:34,320
Speaker 1: on day one, like I'm not unpacking and it's so crazy,

753
00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:36,080
Speaker 1: like you know, we were the first thing. I'm in

754
00:39:36,120 --> 00:39:41,520
Speaker 1: the last to leave. Um, but I know I remember. UM.

755
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:43,880
Speaker 1: I was like, you guys are gonna like if you

756
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:46,600
Speaker 1: honestly remember, this sounds a little conceited, but I was like,

757
00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:49,200
Speaker 1: if you want me around, you're going to figure out

758
00:39:49,239 --> 00:39:51,640
Speaker 1: a way to keep me around because I'm not gonna

759
00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:55,399
Speaker 1: like anyone. I was like, I know myself and I

760
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:58,960
Speaker 1: know I don't like anyone ever, So I was like,

761
00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 1: good luck. You know what's crazy when you go into Paradise,

762
00:40:02,960 --> 00:40:07,200
Speaker 1: you have this predetermined understanding of you think you know

763
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 1: exactly who's going to be a match for you, and

764
00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 1: it's the complete opposite. Jared was on my list. He

765
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:15,319
Speaker 1: was the only one that I was like, I, if

766
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,799
Speaker 1: he's here, he's probably the only one that I may like.

767
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:19,719
Speaker 1: But then when I saw him in real life, it

768
00:40:19,760 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 1: was a whole different Like boom first to take us back. Okay,

769
00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:25,040
Speaker 1: so the first time you met him? Yeah, I know.

770
00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:27,240
Speaker 1: The first time I saw him, it was a feeling

771
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:29,359
Speaker 1: that I had never had before. It was wacky because

772
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:32,080
Speaker 1: I had watched two episodes of Caitlin season by that time,

773
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:36,440
Speaker 1: because I had just aired. Yeah, I was like, he's cute.

774
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:38,160
Speaker 1: Like on the show. I was like, he's cute, he

775
00:40:38,239 --> 00:40:41,320
Speaker 1: seems nice. I'll put him on my Bachelor in Paradise list,

776
00:40:41,440 --> 00:40:43,640
Speaker 1: but I'm not saying that I'm going to like him.

777
00:40:44,040 --> 00:40:45,279
Speaker 1: And then when I saw him in real life, it

778
00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:47,160
Speaker 1: was a whole different feeling than seeing him on TV.

779
00:40:47,760 --> 00:40:50,040
Speaker 1: Were you were there on day one? Yeah? How was

780
00:40:50,080 --> 00:40:52,120
Speaker 1: he their day one? Yeah? How excited were you when

781
00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:54,480
Speaker 1: you first met him in person? I was so nervous

782
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 1: because I liked him before, like he even spoke. It

783
00:40:58,120 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 1: was so weird and I was like, Oh no, I

784
00:41:00,600 --> 00:41:03,359
Speaker 1: didn't come in here prepared to have a crush, you know,

785
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 1: because having a car. I don't know about your guys,

786
00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 1: but it makes me so nervous at first, and it

787
00:41:08,040 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 1: makes me like not be myself at first. Yeah, I

788
00:41:10,600 --> 00:41:12,279
Speaker 1: mean it throws you off your game because I think

789
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:14,839
Speaker 1: we go in and we're always guarded and that at

790
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:16,480
Speaker 1: afraid to let people in, and then you let those

791
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:19,760
Speaker 1: guards down. It makes you vulnerable and very it's very scary.

792
00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 1: So that's what I was going to say about what

793
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:24,040
Speaker 1: you were saying about finding somebody on the show when

794
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 1: you did. When I would try to date off the

795
00:41:26,480 --> 00:41:30,920
Speaker 1: show after already having show experience, I found that regular

796
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:34,439
Speaker 1: guys who would never guys who would never been on

797
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:40,120
Speaker 1: the show, where they were just very it seems like

798
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:44,000
Speaker 1: emotionally unavailable and like not as vulnerable because the show

799
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:47,840
Speaker 1: puts you through that emotion training to be so open

800
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:51,080
Speaker 1: send so soon, so soon and so soon, And a

801
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:53,160
Speaker 1: big thing for me was hard, Like when you're out,

802
00:41:53,239 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 1: people want photos and want to talk to you, and

803
00:41:55,640 --> 00:41:57,600
Speaker 1: like fans will come up and they ignore the people

804
00:41:57,600 --> 00:42:01,040
Speaker 1: that you're with. So like when people come up for

805
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 1: photos and to talk to you like, they totally disregard

806
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 1: the person that you're with. So I know that was hard,

807
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:08,200
Speaker 1: like when I gone on dates um to kind of

808
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 1: deal with that. You need to see the person just uncomfortable. Yeah,

809
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:13,840
Speaker 1: not having not dealt with that before. I think dating

810
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:18,040
Speaker 1: and Bachelor Nation, you shared this special bond uh that

811
00:42:18,239 --> 00:42:21,200
Speaker 1: really a lot of people don't experience. And I think

812
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:25,319
Speaker 1: that alone helps relationships form within Bachelor Nation, or at

813
00:42:25,360 --> 00:42:28,759
Speaker 1: least gives a better opportunity than dating someone out in

814
00:42:28,960 --> 00:42:31,759
Speaker 1: the reward who's just normal, who hasn't been exposed to

815
00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:36,160
Speaker 1: this type of experience. Totally. Alright, well, guys, I gotta

816
00:42:36,200 --> 00:42:39,520
Speaker 1: take a break. I'm sorry, Okay, Oh yeah, no, I

817
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 1: have to take a break, get a talk about. One

818
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 1: of my favorite things to do with Jared right now

819
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:48,239
Speaker 1: is just lay in bed and just like scroll through

820
00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 1: Pinterest and Instagram looking, you know, for wedding, especially since

821
00:42:53,000 --> 00:42:55,279
Speaker 1: it's a little cold, even out here in southern California. Guys,

822
00:42:55,280 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 1: it's really getting down to the sixties. And I don't

823
00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 1: know about you, well, you're also been being in Orlando too,

824
00:43:01,160 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 1: so you are adjusted to this warm weather and it's

825
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:05,799
Speaker 1: just too cold out here for very now. So We're

826
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:08,879
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Speaker 1: deserve to treat yourself. Alright, guys, So I still have

875
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:52,319
Speaker 1: more pre Bachelor questions for you. We talked about adition tapes,

876
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 1: we talked about your life before the show, but now

877
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:56,160
Speaker 1: I want to know what you did when you were

878
00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:59,160
Speaker 1: sitting in the hotel for three days before because I

879
00:45:59,239 --> 00:46:01,839
Speaker 1: find this of you fascinating point in your life for

880
00:46:01,880 --> 00:46:07,120
Speaker 1: self reflection, because the first day you're like, okay, it's

881
00:46:07,120 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 1: a wophone away, which I feel separation anxiety, but I

882
00:46:10,560 --> 00:46:14,200
Speaker 1: also feel very relaxed at a time, like I can

883
00:46:14,280 --> 00:46:16,760
Speaker 1: just watch TV and read a book for the next

884
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:19,880
Speaker 1: three days and just kind of like gather my thoughts

885
00:46:20,080 --> 00:46:22,640
Speaker 1: right in a diary. This sounds like not that bad.

886
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:24,880
Speaker 1: So the first day you're like yeah, and then you're like,

887
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:27,600
Speaker 1: I'm making you friends. I love these producers and then

888
00:46:27,719 --> 00:46:30,919
Speaker 1: day three comes around and you're like, I am so

889
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:35,319
Speaker 1: tired of watching TV, and I'm making up stories. I'm

890
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:38,520
Speaker 1: looking at the window and I am making up stories

891
00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:41,279
Speaker 1: about the people who are walking into this hotel. So

892
00:46:41,440 --> 00:46:45,440
Speaker 1: tell me about your experience there. I'm gonna say I

893
00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 1: loved it. I loved it. I was coaching three people

894
00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:52,279
Speaker 1: through eight challenge, so literally I took the train up

895
00:46:52,320 --> 00:46:55,560
Speaker 1: from San Diego with like seven suitcases, and I was

896
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:59,000
Speaker 1: working on the train, like literally to the minute. I

897
00:46:59,080 --> 00:47:02,200
Speaker 1: literally walked in the hotel. I was like, here's my phone,

898
00:47:02,400 --> 00:47:05,080
Speaker 1: by like, I was so ready to be done. I

899
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:09,200
Speaker 1: slept for twelve hours and I actually brought my notebook

900
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:11,360
Speaker 1: and all my workout equipment, so I was doing workouts

901
00:47:11,520 --> 00:47:16,240
Speaker 1: in my hotel and watching Real Housewives. Was just catching

902
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 1: up on TV because I don't have a TV in

903
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 1: the bungalow. You didn't have it, didn't have it. No,

904
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:23,160
Speaker 1: I didn't have a TV for two years. I got TV.

905
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:26,920
Speaker 1: I got room service. Is amazing. I want myself. No

906
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:29,279
Speaker 1: one could reach me. I am in heaven right now

907
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:32,680
Speaker 1: so much. Having unlimited room service. I was like, this

908
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:35,799
Speaker 1: is like, this is a dream come true. It was,

909
00:47:35,920 --> 00:47:37,440
Speaker 1: It was, but then you're like, wait a second, I

910
00:47:37,480 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 1: don't want to be all bloated in the face for

911
00:47:39,080 --> 00:47:41,600
Speaker 1: like night one. That's what I did. So, like the

912
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:43,120
Speaker 1: first day, I was like, Okay, you can have what

913
00:47:43,200 --> 00:47:45,319
Speaker 1: you want tonight, but then you have to actually like

914
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:52,160
Speaker 1: cut down with sodium Chris. So for the Bachelorette. The

915
00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:56,880
Speaker 1: first day it was kind of easy, and then the

916
00:47:56,960 --> 00:47:59,840
Speaker 1: next day I had no view. I had the worst

917
00:48:00,120 --> 00:48:02,239
Speaker 1: view possible, but I couldn't look at people in the

918
00:48:02,239 --> 00:48:05,840
Speaker 1: parking lot. Nothing. There was just branches and there was

919
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:08,520
Speaker 1: just nothing. I'm like, wow, I really feel like I'm

920
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:11,080
Speaker 1: in jail and I've never been to jail. And this

921
00:48:11,239 --> 00:48:13,799
Speaker 1: was this was me understanding that jail is just not

922
00:48:13,840 --> 00:48:19,720
Speaker 1: for me reflection. So but outside of that, I ironed

923
00:48:19,760 --> 00:48:22,600
Speaker 1: my clothes every day. I took multiple showers. Well, why

924
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:24,800
Speaker 1: you're just going to pack them back up? Well, because

925
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:28,080
Speaker 1: I just got bored. Yeah, I tried on clothes, I

926
00:48:28,160 --> 00:48:31,120
Speaker 1: laid everything out, all my shoes, I tried everything on.

927
00:48:31,200 --> 00:48:34,040
Speaker 1: I paired him up. But I also spent a majority

928
00:48:34,080 --> 00:48:37,839
Speaker 1: of my days with producers in my room I would

929
00:48:37,840 --> 00:48:40,920
Speaker 1: say for hours throughout the day, and one of the

930
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:43,719
Speaker 1: biggest things was finding out what I was going to

931
00:48:43,800 --> 00:48:46,160
Speaker 1: do for the limo entrance. I had no idea, did

932
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:52,439
Speaker 1: you do the choir sister, So that happened very last minute.

933
00:48:52,440 --> 00:48:53,680
Speaker 1: I don't even know how we pulled that off and

934
00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:57,799
Speaker 1: actually went to the mansion before anyone else did. So

935
00:48:57,880 --> 00:49:02,279
Speaker 1: I was at the mansion that day rehearsal, rehearsal, the

936
00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 1: choir came and we were all setting up where we

937
00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:06,000
Speaker 1: were going to be and stuff. So I actually got

938
00:49:06,000 --> 00:49:10,440
Speaker 1: to see the mansion and everything before the show began recording.

939
00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:14,120
Speaker 1: That's a really over here during the day. So then

940
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:16,640
Speaker 1: I was like, I haven't But here's the worst part

941
00:49:16,800 --> 00:49:18,960
Speaker 1: is I was the last one to get out of

942
00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:21,040
Speaker 1: the limo. So I was the last one to leave

943
00:49:21,080 --> 00:49:24,840
Speaker 1: the hotel, and I didn't eat probably since twelve o'clock

944
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:27,520
Speaker 1: because I didn't want to look bloated. And so I

945
00:49:27,520 --> 00:49:30,319
Speaker 1: thought the same thing. It's a thing, and but that's

946
00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:33,239
Speaker 1: a detriment usually because then you get less time. Oh no,

947
00:49:33,239 --> 00:49:34,919
Speaker 1: you don't get less time with the cocktail party. Sorry,

948
00:49:34,920 --> 00:49:38,440
Speaker 1: that was just my season, because with regular seasons, you

949
00:49:38,560 --> 00:49:42,359
Speaker 1: do like the whole first my season, they did like

950
00:49:42,960 --> 00:49:46,000
Speaker 1: fifteen and then Chris came in to mingle with us.

951
00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:49,759
Speaker 1: And then they did another fifteen and then he had

952
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:52,799
Speaker 1: to mingle with them. Yeah, but okay, that makes sense.

953
00:49:52,840 --> 00:49:55,719
Speaker 1: It's not Actually, it's probably a good thing. It was, well,

954
00:49:55,760 --> 00:49:59,240
Speaker 1: it was because I drink some good tequila four hours

955
00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:02,480
Speaker 1: and I it was about ten thirty where I finally

956
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 1: left in the limo and I'm with one producer and

957
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:07,480
Speaker 1: we drive up to the house and then as we

958
00:50:07,520 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 1: get up to the house, all the limo or all

959
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:11,840
Speaker 1: the choir people get out of their limo into my limo.

960
00:50:12,239 --> 00:50:14,160
Speaker 1: So we're in there together and they're hyping me up

961
00:50:14,160 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 1: and they're singing and stuff. And it was in that

962
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:18,040
Speaker 1: moment where I opened up the door that he opens

963
00:50:18,080 --> 00:50:19,759
Speaker 1: up the door of the limo driver and I see

964
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:22,040
Speaker 1: backa and I just blacked out. I think we all

965
00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:24,719
Speaker 1: blacked out out. And I knew I was blacked out

966
00:50:24,719 --> 00:50:26,400
Speaker 1: because I guess when I walked in there was a

967
00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:31,600
Speaker 1: chicken David and I didn't even acknowledge David, let alone

968
00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:35,279
Speaker 1: demon though he was in a chicken And he's like, bro,

969
00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:37,000
Speaker 1: you did you not see me? I'm wearing a chicken

970
00:50:37,000 --> 00:50:38,719
Speaker 1: off And I'm like, oh my god, I didn't even

971
00:50:39,040 --> 00:50:41,279
Speaker 1: I'm just like, not in the moment right now, I'm

972
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:43,920
Speaker 1: trying to get back into my body. And but no,

973
00:50:44,080 --> 00:50:46,320
Speaker 1: I mean that was it was. It was. It was

974
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:48,480
Speaker 1: a blessing and a curse because all the guys got

975
00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:50,640
Speaker 1: to meet each other and then I'm last, and I'm

976
00:50:50,680 --> 00:50:52,600
Speaker 1: just like and then as soon as I get there,

977
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 1: then she comes in. So he didn't have a bonding

978
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:58,359
Speaker 1: moment with the guys in the in that in those

979
00:50:58,360 --> 00:51:01,080
Speaker 1: first couple of hours. No, But then afterwards you're you're

980
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:04,560
Speaker 1: waiting for your time. I would even hate that because

981
00:51:04,560 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 1: there's so much anxiety of anticipation of waiting for that moment,

982
00:51:08,880 --> 00:51:11,239
Speaker 1: like when you step out of the limo. And for

983
00:51:11,320 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 1: me it just felt I'm sure for you guys too.

984
00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:15,200
Speaker 1: I mean I was a huge fan of the show,

985
00:51:15,239 --> 00:51:17,760
Speaker 1: so I'd seen it, and to know I was actually

986
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:24,160
Speaker 1: stepping on that set and being in the island, I

987
00:51:24,280 --> 00:51:27,640
Speaker 1: know that I will never experience that we are feeling

988
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:30,040
Speaker 1: ever again. And it was just like the wet pavement

989
00:51:30,239 --> 00:51:32,439
Speaker 1: and the lights everywhere in the cameras, all and all

990
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:36,600
Speaker 1: the two hundred staff that night, people working at night

991
00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:39,480
Speaker 1: night one, and it was just such this out of

992
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:42,600
Speaker 1: body experience, like a dream. When it was freezing real.

993
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:46,319
Speaker 1: Remember I remember standing with like Clay and Blake and

994
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:49,000
Speaker 1: uh Connor would be by the fireplace because it was

995
00:51:49,080 --> 00:51:51,319
Speaker 1: just so cold. But then they don't want you all

996
00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:53,320
Speaker 1: bunched up together in one area. They want you spread

997
00:51:53,320 --> 00:51:56,960
Speaker 1: out to have conversations, to have different views. And I'm thinking, like,

998
00:51:57,080 --> 00:51:59,799
Speaker 1: it's thirty degrees in l A. Is this even possible? Right?

999
00:52:00,160 --> 00:52:02,799
Speaker 1: How was this going on? How in malbou in the hills? Yeah,

1000
00:52:02,840 --> 00:52:07,839
Speaker 1: I can get yeah, so I'll I'll always remember, like

1001
00:52:07,880 --> 00:52:11,200
Speaker 1: they get you ready early. I was in the I

1002
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:13,600
Speaker 1: was in the first limo, so I had to get

1003
00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:16,319
Speaker 1: ready like they wanted me and makeup and hair by

1004
00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:19,080
Speaker 1: one thirty. I was two o'clock. Yeah, so that was

1005
00:52:19,120 --> 00:52:20,680
Speaker 1: way too early for me. I was like, no, if

1006
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:23,279
Speaker 1: I have to look pretty by eight, this is not

1007
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 1: going to work here. And there was a whole bunch

1008
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:29,160
Speaker 1: of like weird makeup issues with me that day too.

1009
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:32,040
Speaker 1: They thought that I was wearing too much wait really

1010
00:52:32,200 --> 00:52:35,319
Speaker 1: well they messed up my make up. Oh. I didn't

1011
00:52:35,320 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 1: know where to go and redo. It was like, um,

1012
00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:42,920
Speaker 1: when I mean like styled someone because it is seventeen,

1013
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:45,640
Speaker 1: I was the exact same. I didn't know if I wanted,

1014
00:52:45,719 --> 00:52:49,120
Speaker 1: like you talk about this, But I went into makeup

1015
00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:53,200
Speaker 1: and they like dust in my eyes with maybe like

1016
00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:56,839
Speaker 1: some brown and then I just didn't look like myself whatsoever.

1017
00:52:57,280 --> 00:53:00,800
Speaker 1: And then my hair looked like Tracy turn Black. I said,

1018
00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:03,319
Speaker 1: like old Hollywood waves, and I turned out to be

1019
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:07,760
Speaker 1: like sixties style wig and I went back. I judged myself.

1020
00:53:07,920 --> 00:53:09,880
Speaker 1: And then I love that you said judge because the

1021
00:53:09,880 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 1: first time I heard it was night one, because because

1022
00:53:13,520 --> 00:53:14,880
Speaker 1: there was a different set of people who were like

1023
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:17,120
Speaker 1: wo to touch outs for him, and they were amazing.

1024
00:53:18,920 --> 00:53:21,479
Speaker 1: I was like, the judge, that's funny that you said.

1025
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:24,279
Speaker 1: That's exactly because they were one of the guys that

1026
00:53:24,360 --> 00:53:26,640
Speaker 1: works at Access who doesn't make up. Sometimes when I'm

1027
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:30,040
Speaker 1: over there, he's like, I do the judging on night

1028
00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:32,399
Speaker 1: one at like at the Mansion, I was like, you

1029
00:53:32,440 --> 00:53:35,680
Speaker 1: are great, You're great. So anyway, there was a couple

1030
00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:38,040
Speaker 1: of issues with that. But I remember you had to

1031
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:42,399
Speaker 1: get in your dress or your suit hours before they

1032
00:53:42,600 --> 00:53:45,319
Speaker 1: called you downstairs to get miked up. Right, Yeah, So

1033
00:53:45,360 --> 00:53:47,120
Speaker 1: they miked me up and then I sat in my

1034
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:50,759
Speaker 1: room for almost two hours. My heart was pounding, pounding,

1035
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:54,359
Speaker 1: doing nothing, and I actually called down for champagne. I'm

1036
00:53:54,360 --> 00:53:56,640
Speaker 1: not even a huge drinker, but I was like, I

1037
00:53:56,680 --> 00:53:59,239
Speaker 1: need a glass of champagne right now. It's a nerve racket,

1038
00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:01,760
Speaker 1: it is. And I'm like, I'm sitting there like praying,

1039
00:54:02,080 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 1: and I'm like, are they listening? Are they hearing me?

1040
00:54:04,120 --> 00:54:05,719
Speaker 1: Go to the bathroom? Because you're all miked up, you

1041
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, Like you're that element of I

1042
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:11,280
Speaker 1: am alone is no longer there. I mean for hours

1043
00:54:11,320 --> 00:54:15,719
Speaker 1: before evening, when you get out of the limo, I

1044
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:19,120
Speaker 1: didn't remember that you can't really see any cameras. So

1045
00:54:19,160 --> 00:54:21,120
Speaker 1: that's kind of nice. It's got that kind of sets

1046
00:54:21,160 --> 00:54:23,200
Speaker 1: the tone for you, just getting that out of the

1047
00:54:23,239 --> 00:54:25,960
Speaker 1: way and just realizing, okay, because once you begin the

1048
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:29,560
Speaker 1: process of exiting the limo, you forget about all the cameras.

1049
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:32,600
Speaker 1: It becomes like they're just not even there. So that

1050
00:54:32,600 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 1: that's something that helped me at least get past that

1051
00:54:35,160 --> 00:54:38,680
Speaker 1: first part, because that was definitely hard. Yeah. I remember

1052
00:54:38,920 --> 00:54:43,600
Speaker 1: walking down to the hotel, like the hotel lobby and

1053
00:54:43,760 --> 00:54:46,040
Speaker 1: seeing the girls that were in my limo, and we

1054
00:54:46,040 --> 00:54:47,920
Speaker 1: weren't really allowed to mingle with them yet. We were

1055
00:54:47,960 --> 00:54:50,360
Speaker 1: each with a producer or a handler talk they're like,

1056
00:54:50,400 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 1: look at me, look at me, don't look at the

1057
00:54:52,120 --> 00:54:55,880
Speaker 1: other girls. And I remember seeing britt Nielsen at the

1058
00:54:55,920 --> 00:54:58,439
Speaker 1: corner of my eye and I was like, oh God,

1059
00:54:58,520 --> 00:55:02,239
Speaker 1: this is gonna be really hard because he is like

1060
00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:06,240
Speaker 1: the most static person I've ever seen, and I was like, wow, okay,

1061
00:55:06,280 --> 00:55:10,360
Speaker 1: oh yeah. But then um, then all of a sudden,

1062
00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:12,520
Speaker 1: you start talking to the girls and you're like, oh,

1063
00:55:12,560 --> 00:55:14,839
Speaker 1: I like them, Oh we're gonna be friends. Who did

1064
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:17,720
Speaker 1: you bond with the most on Night one? Uh? Blake,

1065
00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:24,160
Speaker 1: Blake for sure, Nick Jordan's Uh who else was he

1066
00:55:24,320 --> 00:55:26,800
Speaker 1: bonded with? Jordan on Night one? Yeah? I like George,

1067
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:29,719
Speaker 1: I like Jordan from Jordan. Jordan is one of the

1068
00:55:29,760 --> 00:55:33,040
Speaker 1: funniest people to ever come out of this franchise. But

1069
00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:36,000
Speaker 1: being in the house with him was also amazing because

1070
00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:38,839
Speaker 1: I knew that there would be something extra each day,

1071
00:55:38,960 --> 00:55:41,200
Speaker 1: or just something where he would make me laugh. And

1072
00:55:41,280 --> 00:55:44,879
Speaker 1: he's just very comical, comic relief. Yeah, and he's so

1073
00:55:44,920 --> 00:55:48,320
Speaker 1: witty and he's a good chirper, So if someone chirped

1074
00:55:48,320 --> 00:55:51,440
Speaker 1: at him, he somehow already has something that's gonna be

1075
00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:54,360
Speaker 1: right back at you right away. It's like he doesn't

1076
00:55:54,360 --> 00:55:56,279
Speaker 1: even it already processed and it just comes out right

1077
00:55:56,280 --> 00:55:58,600
Speaker 1: away without even him. I wish I had the speed

1078
00:55:58,600 --> 00:56:02,239
Speaker 1: of his brain. Yes, very fast. Yeah, Crystal, who'd you

1079
00:56:02,280 --> 00:56:04,840
Speaker 1: bond with? All the cards I wanted with? Went home

1080
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:10,160
Speaker 1: on night one? It was Brittany Brittany. There was two Brittaney's,

1081
00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:11,840
Speaker 1: So the Brittany went home on night one, she was

1082
00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:14,120
Speaker 1: in my limo. We were close. Caroline was actually my limo.

1083
00:56:14,719 --> 00:56:18,400
Speaker 1: Um bree. She went home on night one and Lauren Ja.

1084
00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:20,400
Speaker 1: That must have been hard. It was like, yeah, the

1085
00:56:20,440 --> 00:56:22,120
Speaker 1: girls I was like chatting with the most, like they

1086
00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:24,759
Speaker 1: all lat and I was like, oh my gosh, are

1087
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:27,040
Speaker 1: like my buddies. Yeah. The friends that you make on

1088
00:56:27,160 --> 00:56:30,240
Speaker 1: night one aren't necessarily the friends that you stay closest

1089
00:56:30,239 --> 00:56:32,520
Speaker 1: to the entire time, but it's definitely probably who you

1090
00:56:32,560 --> 00:56:36,600
Speaker 1: cling onto the most that first week. Yeah. Blake, uh,

1091
00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:38,799
Speaker 1: he had the first one on one and I had

1092
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:42,680
Speaker 1: the second, and kind of that brought us together and

1093
00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:46,960
Speaker 1: we bonded even more based off that, because it's a

1094
00:56:47,040 --> 00:56:49,920
Speaker 1: very unique experience to get those first one on one dates.

1095
00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:53,319
Speaker 1: You had the same situation getting an early one on

1096
00:56:53,320 --> 00:56:55,280
Speaker 1: one and you just you get that bond with someone

1097
00:56:55,320 --> 00:56:57,640
Speaker 1: and talk about you know, what you're going through and

1098
00:56:57,840 --> 00:57:00,279
Speaker 1: how you're feelings. So it's nice to just have someone there,

1099
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:06,400
Speaker 1: uh and be able to relate in regards to that. UM.

1100
00:57:06,440 --> 00:57:09,759
Speaker 1: I don't want to name producers, but all of us

1101
00:57:10,000 --> 00:57:14,839
Speaker 1: naturally are inclined to like just be really trumming with

1102
00:57:14,920 --> 00:57:18,640
Speaker 1: a couple of them, and they figured that out pretty quickly. Um,

1103
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:21,240
Speaker 1: How in what ways did you bond with the producer

1104
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:23,800
Speaker 1: that you seem to be set up with the most.

1105
00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:26,440
Speaker 1: It's so funny. We were talking about producers on the

1106
00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:29,400
Speaker 1: way here this morning. There's a lot of producers that

1107
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:31,520
Speaker 1: I love, and I'm not going to name drop anyone,

1108
00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:35,760
Speaker 1: but I had a certain producer that came to do

1109
00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:40,919
Speaker 1: my intro package and I really like her a lot.

1110
00:57:41,000 --> 00:57:43,080
Speaker 1: She's a really good friend of mine, and she's amazing,

1111
00:57:43,160 --> 00:57:46,360
Speaker 1: amazing human being. I did have someone else who was

1112
00:57:46,440 --> 00:57:50,080
Speaker 1: my main producer. Uh. He was my main producer for

1113
00:57:50,200 --> 00:57:53,640
Speaker 1: the first few episodes, uh, first three or four, and

1114
00:57:53,680 --> 00:57:57,640
Speaker 1: then it changed to someone else whom I do love

1115
00:57:58,080 --> 00:58:00,000
Speaker 1: um as a person, and he's a very close friend

1116
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:04,600
Speaker 1: of mine. But I do understand that each producer and

1117
00:58:04,680 --> 00:58:07,200
Speaker 1: why everything's switched up, and everything makes sense now and

1118
00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:11,160
Speaker 1: It's also nice because Crystal helps me also understand and

1119
00:58:11,200 --> 00:58:15,320
Speaker 1: identify kind of the impact of the show outside of

1120
00:58:15,360 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 1: the show, as far as who you are as a

1121
00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:20,960
Speaker 1: person and things that come out of who you are

1122
00:58:21,080 --> 00:58:23,280
Speaker 1: on the show that maybe you never knew about, but

1123
00:58:23,360 --> 00:58:25,560
Speaker 1: you're able to identify and be able to fix those

1124
00:58:25,840 --> 00:58:28,560
Speaker 1: things or be able to understand why, Okay, that actually

1125
00:58:28,600 --> 00:58:30,000
Speaker 1: is something that came out of me, So there had

1126
00:58:30,040 --> 00:58:32,240
Speaker 1: to be something there and now you're able to address it.

1127
00:58:32,240 --> 00:58:36,080
Speaker 1: It's not interesting how they use certain people that bring

1128
00:58:36,120 --> 00:58:39,360
Speaker 1: out certain characteristics in you. Some of them like I

1129
00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:41,960
Speaker 1: knew that my girlfriend personality, like you know, like my

1130
00:58:42,400 --> 00:58:44,480
Speaker 1: cute fun like let's have girl talk would come out,

1131
00:58:44,520 --> 00:58:47,040
Speaker 1: and then one whereas let's be funny talk, let's be

1132
00:58:47,120 --> 00:58:49,120
Speaker 1: snarky one, and then one where it was like you're

1133
00:58:49,120 --> 00:58:54,840
Speaker 1: going to be super emotional right now? Yes, Crystal, Yes,

1134
00:58:54,920 --> 00:58:59,240
Speaker 1: I want to say anything. I would say that just

1135
00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:01,440
Speaker 1: um yeah. I think that looking back and Chris, we're

1136
00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:04,640
Speaker 1: having this conversation yesterday and it was just, um yeah.

1137
00:59:04,680 --> 00:59:06,600
Speaker 1: I think that you build a lot of trust and

1138
00:59:06,640 --> 00:59:10,560
Speaker 1: report with people. And I mean I think even our

1139
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:13,200
Speaker 1: friendships right are like that. We have friends for different

1140
00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:17,120
Speaker 1: different and I'm going to happy hours, I'm going to church,

1141
00:59:17,200 --> 00:59:19,600
Speaker 1: I'm going to you know, group setting somewhere, one on one.

1142
00:59:20,400 --> 00:59:22,800
Speaker 1: And I think that you definitely carry those qualities into

1143
00:59:22,800 --> 00:59:27,680
Speaker 1: producers as well, and that's so interesting. I will say though, producers,

1144
00:59:28,200 --> 00:59:30,080
Speaker 1: they have a certain job that they have to do

1145
00:59:30,280 --> 00:59:34,920
Speaker 1: and they're not malicious or they're not bad people, right,

1146
00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:37,480
Speaker 1: And I think that's something that now I understand moving forward,

1147
00:59:37,560 --> 00:59:40,240
Speaker 1: is a lot of the things. Early on, I had

1148
00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:44,680
Speaker 1: no idea about TV or anything about myself and reactions

1149
00:59:44,720 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 1: to certain things, and now I do understand it. And

1150
00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:49,400
Speaker 1: so now I look back and I'm like, Okay, certain

1151
00:59:49,400 --> 00:59:52,320
Speaker 1: producers can get certain things out of you, and that's

1152
00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:54,920
Speaker 1: just kind of how it works. And it's nothing against them.

1153
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:58,480
Speaker 1: It's just you've got to be very self aware of

1154
00:59:58,520 --> 01:00:03,040
Speaker 1: the situation or the certain type of um environment that

1155
01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:04,560
Speaker 1: you're in at that point in time on the show.

1156
01:00:04,640 --> 01:00:06,320
Speaker 1: And I think whether on a show or whether in

1157
01:00:06,400 --> 01:00:09,640
Speaker 1: real life, I think it's just this element of UM.

1158
01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:12,760
Speaker 1: I mean, we were saying that this particular instance magnifies

1159
01:00:12,880 --> 01:00:16,120
Speaker 1: qualities that great or not great and takes in to

1160
01:00:16,120 --> 01:00:18,120
Speaker 1: another level, and we can choose to look at it

1161
01:00:18,200 --> 01:00:21,400
Speaker 1: in two different ways, especially being villainized. You know, I

1162
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 1: was both having that villain edit. I chose to look

1163
01:00:23,800 --> 01:00:26,760
Speaker 1: back at it as a coach. I was trained to

1164
01:00:27,120 --> 01:00:30,480
Speaker 1: receive feedback um as a way to grow. And so

1165
01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:32,840
Speaker 1: with my experience on The Bachelor, I mean that is,

1166
01:00:33,040 --> 01:00:34,760
Speaker 1: I could let it defeat me. And there were definitely

1167
01:00:34,800 --> 01:00:37,160
Speaker 1: moments in my life when they were really hard to

1168
01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:39,600
Speaker 1: pull myself out of, but I would read through all

1169
01:00:39,640 --> 01:00:42,440
Speaker 1: those nasty comments and just still try to pull some

1170
01:00:42,480 --> 01:00:45,000
Speaker 1: way that I could grow and apply and you know,

1171
01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:48,840
Speaker 1: become a better person, become a better coach. And because

1172
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:52,160
Speaker 1: of that experience, you know, it allowed me to I

1173
01:00:52,160 --> 01:00:54,840
Speaker 1: mean truly transform as a person and then to come

1174
01:00:54,880 --> 01:00:57,960
Speaker 1: onto Paradise and like show who who I was and

1175
01:00:57,960 --> 01:01:00,439
Speaker 1: then bring a better version of myself into a relationship.

1176
01:01:00,520 --> 01:01:04,000
Speaker 1: And look what happened. I mean, you are definition like

1177
01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:06,760
Speaker 1: I learned and growed from the show, and I have

1178
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:10,040
Speaker 1: a whole other season to prove that, and you too, Chris,

1179
01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:13,600
Speaker 1: And I think that it's so cool that you guys

1180
01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:17,280
Speaker 1: were both villains on the show and then you really

1181
01:01:17,320 --> 01:01:19,600
Speaker 1: like a lot of them just like go into the abyss, right,

1182
01:01:20,040 --> 01:01:21,880
Speaker 1: But then you guys really came out of it, you

1183
01:01:21,920 --> 01:01:25,040
Speaker 1: grew from it and now look you're both very adored

1184
01:01:25,760 --> 01:01:27,880
Speaker 1: and you're together and you got a happy ending from

1185
01:01:27,960 --> 01:01:31,160
Speaker 1: it and were and we're so grateful even for those

1186
01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:33,240
Speaker 1: moments that are really hard, and I think we really

1187
01:01:33,240 --> 01:01:36,280
Speaker 1: look back at the show and anything in life, that

1188
01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:39,320
Speaker 1: curveball thing that hit us. It's a moment for us

1189
01:01:39,360 --> 01:01:42,920
Speaker 1: to really grow our strength and to define us um

1190
01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:45,080
Speaker 1: and it's how we choose to react to it. And

1191
01:01:45,160 --> 01:01:48,280
Speaker 1: because of that hard time, like I mean, I was

1192
01:01:48,320 --> 01:01:52,000
Speaker 1: able to you know, find Chris, like had it not

1193
01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:53,920
Speaker 1: been for the show. So I look back and I'm

1194
01:01:53,920 --> 01:01:56,160
Speaker 1: just so grateful for for all of it. There are

1195
01:01:56,240 --> 01:01:59,960
Speaker 1: things I do regret, of course, I look back and grateful,

1196
01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:04,280
Speaker 1: grateful for it all same. So it's honestly like no regrets,

1197
01:02:04,360 --> 01:02:10,120
Speaker 1: but I mean a little bit. Yeah. Um, okay, So

1198
01:02:10,360 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 1: let's talk about when you exit the Bachelor bubble, not

1199
01:02:15,120 --> 01:02:17,040
Speaker 1: so much when the show is airing, because I know

1200
01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 1: you guys have talked about that a lot and like

1201
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:21,640
Speaker 1: all like the hay and the social media and that's

1202
01:02:21,680 --> 01:02:24,080
Speaker 1: just something that's just kind of been exhausted. Let's talk

1203
01:02:24,120 --> 01:02:26,520
Speaker 1: about when you exit the bubble and how weird it

1204
01:02:26,600 --> 01:02:29,640
Speaker 1: is when they hand your phone back when you can

1205
01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:33,560
Speaker 1: call your family and all that weird stuff. So I

1206
01:02:33,600 --> 01:02:36,400
Speaker 1: was in Virginia when I ended up leaving the show.

1207
01:02:36,440 --> 01:02:41,800
Speaker 1: My home state. Very from northern Virginia, very very interesting state,

1208
01:02:42,000 --> 01:02:48,120
Speaker 1: a very interesting experience. Uh So I leave the hotel

1209
01:02:48,360 --> 01:02:50,600
Speaker 1: that was like four in the morning, and right away

1210
01:02:50,640 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 1: I said, I want to go on the next flight

1211
01:02:53,360 --> 01:02:55,680
Speaker 1: because I was just over at that point. And I

1212
01:02:55,720 --> 01:02:58,440
Speaker 1: got my phone back and I turned on my phone,

1213
01:02:58,560 --> 01:03:01,680
Speaker 1: and I had a lot of notification sations, But the

1214
01:03:01,680 --> 01:03:06,240
Speaker 1: biggest thing was is you were just so numb to

1215
01:03:06,320 --> 01:03:08,520
Speaker 1: your phone. It's just like I was gone forty days.

1216
01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:12,080
Speaker 1: I didn't know how I didn't. I was very honest

1217
01:03:12,160 --> 01:03:13,640
Speaker 1: to get him back as soon as I got it.

1218
01:03:13,680 --> 01:03:15,600
Speaker 1: And I felt as if that I had to give

1219
01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:18,600
Speaker 1: my energy to all these messages, and I felt exhausted,

1220
01:03:18,600 --> 01:03:20,560
Speaker 1: and I hadn't even texted anyone yet. So I was like,

1221
01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:21,960
Speaker 1: you know what, I think, I'm gonna shut it off.

1222
01:03:22,200 --> 01:03:24,440
Speaker 1: And then I got on the flight. And when I

1223
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:28,680
Speaker 1: went home, I remember I literally binge eat so much

1224
01:03:28,920 --> 01:03:31,520
Speaker 1: cookies because I was so exhausted. I slept for twenty

1225
01:03:31,520 --> 01:03:35,480
Speaker 1: four hours straight, laid in bed street just yeah, I

1226
01:03:35,520 --> 01:03:39,400
Speaker 1: was just so mentally drained, not physically mentally, because of

1227
01:03:39,440 --> 01:03:42,440
Speaker 1: what I had just experienced, and I just needed to

1228
01:03:42,640 --> 01:03:45,840
Speaker 1: allow myself to get back in realignment your body legit

1229
01:03:45,920 --> 01:03:50,160
Speaker 1: pressed reset. I was in Paris and it was the

1230
01:03:50,200 --> 01:03:53,640
Speaker 1: day after my thirtieth birthday for two on one and

1231
01:03:54,360 --> 01:03:56,520
Speaker 1: when I got back to the hotel room, got to

1232
01:03:56,560 --> 01:03:59,160
Speaker 1: bed at four thirty, had to be at seven for

1233
01:03:59,280 --> 01:04:01,680
Speaker 1: my flight, and when I was at the air I

1234
01:04:01,680 --> 01:04:04,480
Speaker 1: almost got pulled in the customs because there was an

1235
01:04:04,520 --> 01:04:07,680
Speaker 1: issue with my ticket, like because I didn't book it,

1236
01:04:07,760 --> 01:04:11,160
Speaker 1: someone else booked it for me, and so three security

1237
01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:14,280
Speaker 1: people came over talking to me, and finally I was like, look,

1238
01:04:14,480 --> 01:04:16,480
Speaker 1: I'm on a TV show, like someone booked it for me.

1239
01:04:16,520 --> 01:04:18,919
Speaker 1: And they're like wait what and they're like, oh my gosh,

1240
01:04:19,000 --> 01:04:21,960
Speaker 1: an American on a TV show like probably up let

1241
01:04:21,960 --> 01:04:25,040
Speaker 1: me skip the line, upgraded me, check my luggage for free.

1242
01:04:25,400 --> 01:04:27,240
Speaker 1: Well a couple of backs. I stilled to feel like

1243
01:04:27,240 --> 01:04:31,480
Speaker 1: sevens to ship all my luggage, and um on that flight,

1244
01:04:31,640 --> 01:04:34,560
Speaker 1: they like, they like up totally upgraded me. And then

1245
01:04:34,560 --> 01:04:38,439
Speaker 1: on that flight I drank for four I didn't even

1246
01:04:38,480 --> 01:04:42,440
Speaker 1: say I just stood so numb, just like oh my god,

1247
01:04:42,480 --> 01:04:45,000
Speaker 1: I got broken up with on a national television on

1248
01:04:45,040 --> 01:04:49,120
Speaker 1: my birthday, Like what happened? And I didn't turn on

1249
01:04:49,160 --> 01:04:52,160
Speaker 1: my phone for five days. After getting home, I came

1250
01:04:52,240 --> 01:04:54,960
Speaker 1: to offer five days, went and saw my grandma literally

1251
01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:57,640
Speaker 1: within twelve hours of less than that of landing. Went

1252
01:04:57,680 --> 01:05:00,400
Speaker 1: and stayed with my grandma and slept to my goma's

1253
01:05:00,400 --> 01:05:04,240
Speaker 1: bed for like five days. I couldn't sleep because of anxiety,

1254
01:05:04,320 --> 01:05:06,760
Speaker 1: so I had to take ben and drill. And my

1255
01:05:06,840 --> 01:05:09,880
Speaker 1: aunt was like, what happened to you? Is she knew?

1256
01:05:10,840 --> 01:05:14,520
Speaker 1: Because she's very self aware, she knew that she was gonna.

1257
01:05:14,600 --> 01:05:16,960
Speaker 1: I knew what was going down some rough waters. Me

1258
01:05:17,040 --> 01:05:19,120
Speaker 1: on the other hand, I remember my mom calling me.

1259
01:05:19,160 --> 01:05:23,360
Speaker 1: She goes, how was it? Talk to me? I said, man,

1260
01:05:23,400 --> 01:05:25,680
Speaker 1: it was a great experience, all these great things. I'm

1261
01:05:25,720 --> 01:05:27,760
Speaker 1: thinking in my head. I was like, you know, there

1262
01:05:27,800 --> 01:05:30,520
Speaker 1: was a little rough patch in Vegas and Virginia, but

1263
01:05:30,560 --> 01:05:34,200
Speaker 1: I'm hoping that uh, I come out on top. And

1264
01:05:34,520 --> 01:05:37,320
Speaker 1: the boy was I wrong? Because well, not only was

1265
01:05:37,360 --> 01:05:42,080
Speaker 1: I wrong, I was completely wrong. And I didn't and

1266
01:05:43,280 --> 01:05:47,240
Speaker 1: talk about self awareness exactly. And what's crazy is is

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Speaker 1: I didn't get to see my season and I'm in

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01:05:49,080 --> 01:05:53,280
Speaker 1: paradise get engaged, and we come out of you saw

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01:05:53,480 --> 01:05:57,840
Speaker 1: not even an episode the first one, and um, I

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01:05:57,960 --> 01:06:01,800
Speaker 1: come out of Paradise with her and and we're watching

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01:06:02,400 --> 01:06:04,360
Speaker 1: the show. And the first thing is when I turned

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Speaker 1: on my phone in Paradise is my mom was like,

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Speaker 1: what is going on? Yeah? I remember it, and I'm like,

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01:06:10,640 --> 01:06:13,400
Speaker 1: oh god, I'm like, honestly, I just wanted to pass out.

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01:06:13,480 --> 01:06:15,920
Speaker 1: When he's calling and tell her he's engaged and happy,

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01:06:16,160 --> 01:06:19,080
Speaker 1: and it's like, you're not going to want to watch

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Speaker 1: the show. There's just you're not gonna want to read anything.

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01:06:21,640 --> 01:06:24,840
Speaker 1: And I'm thinking like, oh my god, what happened? And yeah,

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01:06:24,880 --> 01:06:28,840
Speaker 1: so that that was a bigger eye opener than leaving

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Speaker 1: in Virginia. I'd say it was a big cloud too,

1281
01:06:31,400 --> 01:06:34,800
Speaker 1: because I mean, we're coming off, we're excited, and we're

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01:06:34,840 --> 01:06:37,000
Speaker 1: together and want to celebrate it. And then it was

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01:06:37,040 --> 01:06:40,400
Speaker 1: really hard to see Chris go through that experience as

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Speaker 1: a villain because I had just come out of it

1285
01:06:42,280 --> 01:06:43,560
Speaker 1: and I had gone through it, and I knew you

1286
01:06:43,680 --> 01:06:45,720
Speaker 1: had no idea he was going to be portrayed like that.

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01:06:47,280 --> 01:06:49,520
Speaker 1: I had no idea. And I know, my biggest concern

1288
01:06:49,680 --> 01:06:54,040
Speaker 1: in dating someone or meeting someone in Paradise was that,

1289
01:06:54,440 --> 01:06:58,600
Speaker 1: especially a new someone new fresh off Beeca season, was

1290
01:06:58,640 --> 01:07:01,040
Speaker 1: that they had no idea what this life or fame

1291
01:07:01,400 --> 01:07:03,800
Speaker 1: or attention would be like. And so I was really

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01:07:03,800 --> 01:07:06,960
Speaker 1: resistant to dating someone um because they didn't know how

1293
01:07:06,960 --> 01:07:09,520
Speaker 1: they if they'd be like a Peter Pan and would

1294
01:07:09,520 --> 01:07:11,680
Speaker 1: it be like an Instagram model or you know what

1295
01:07:11,680 --> 01:07:14,200
Speaker 1: I was saying, really soak and basking the attention and

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01:07:14,240 --> 01:07:17,200
Speaker 1: one in that because that's not a quality that I'm

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01:07:17,200 --> 01:07:19,560
Speaker 1: looking for in a partner um. And so, I mean,

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01:07:19,640 --> 01:07:22,040
Speaker 1: I was nervous about that. But then to see Chris

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01:07:22,080 --> 01:07:25,520
Speaker 1: having the villain edit and it was tough, you know,

1300
01:07:25,640 --> 01:07:27,760
Speaker 1: to watch him go through that what I had gone

1301
01:07:27,800 --> 01:07:30,880
Speaker 1: through in the same way. It's interesting because you definitely

1302
01:07:30,960 --> 01:07:33,680
Speaker 1: fell in love with the person and you had no

1303
01:07:34,160 --> 01:07:37,040
Speaker 1: preconceived notions of who he was, so you really got

1304
01:07:37,080 --> 01:07:40,200
Speaker 1: to know him and not the caricature that was created

1305
01:07:40,240 --> 01:07:44,880
Speaker 1: up him. Correct very very interesting experience, but I'm very grateful,

1306
01:07:45,040 --> 01:07:47,720
Speaker 1: So I have have nothing bad to say about any

1307
01:07:47,760 --> 01:07:50,760
Speaker 1: of it, And you know, it's something where you learn

1308
01:07:50,800 --> 01:07:53,280
Speaker 1: a lot from and I came out on top because

1309
01:07:53,360 --> 01:07:55,960
Speaker 1: I got blessed with an amazing woman. So I'm very happy.

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01:07:56,000 --> 01:07:59,960
Speaker 1: With the outcome of the total experience. What's the biggest

1311
01:08:00,000 --> 01:08:03,000
Speaker 1: a conception you think of the show, Because I think

1312
01:08:03,160 --> 01:08:07,000
Speaker 1: the most annoying thing I get asked by fans is

1313
01:08:07,040 --> 01:08:11,480
Speaker 1: just is it real? Like, well, yeah, I've engaged from it,

1314
01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:14,920
Speaker 1: so it's pretty darn real, right. People seem to be surprised, like,

1315
01:08:14,960 --> 01:08:18,720
Speaker 1: oh my god, are actually together? Yeah, yeah, we are.

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01:08:18,840 --> 01:08:24,160
Speaker 1: Didn't you watch it? Yeah? Yeah. The way I kind

1317
01:08:24,160 --> 01:08:27,280
Speaker 1: of explain it is, especially in Paradise, you're on an

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01:08:27,280 --> 01:08:31,400
Speaker 1: island for almost thirty days with nothing besides the other

1319
01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:35,360
Speaker 1: people around you, and if you're really into someone, being

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01:08:35,400 --> 01:08:38,640
Speaker 1: with them every single day for that entire duration is

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01:08:38,680 --> 01:08:40,840
Speaker 1: equivalent to maybe dating six months to a year out

1322
01:08:40,840 --> 01:08:43,680
Speaker 1: in the real world. But more importantly, there's no distractions.

1323
01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:46,080
Speaker 1: So if you really want to have some in depth

1324
01:08:46,120 --> 01:08:49,640
Speaker 1: conversations that have substance, that is, with someone else, and

1325
01:08:49,640 --> 01:08:52,200
Speaker 1: there's no distractions on the table, you'll really be able

1326
01:08:52,240 --> 01:08:54,960
Speaker 1: to justify if this is someone that you can see

1327
01:08:55,000 --> 01:08:56,880
Speaker 1: yourself being with outside in the in the in the

1328
01:08:56,880 --> 01:08:59,840
Speaker 1: real world. I definitely don't think it's a coincidence that

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01:09:00,240 --> 01:09:05,439
Speaker 1: the Bachelor in Paradise relationships seem to be longer lasting. Uh,

1330
01:09:05,439 --> 01:09:08,120
Speaker 1: and that then they're honestly, yeah, more of them have

1331
01:09:08,280 --> 01:09:10,479
Speaker 1: formed that have lasted long. So we had Jay Tanner,

1332
01:09:10,560 --> 01:09:14,920
Speaker 1: Carly Evan Raven and Adam Me and Tart in a

1333
01:09:15,000 --> 01:09:19,760
Speaker 1: certain capacity and you guys. So it's just crazy when

1334
01:09:19,760 --> 01:09:23,479
Speaker 1: you compare them to the regular seasons because when in

1335
01:09:23,520 --> 01:09:27,200
Speaker 1: that case, I think maybe you get thirty six hours

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01:09:27,240 --> 01:09:31,680
Speaker 1: together alone, right in total. Yeah, And and in Paradise

1337
01:09:31,720 --> 01:09:34,599
Speaker 1: you also don't have the camera in your face so much.

1338
01:09:34,760 --> 01:09:38,000
Speaker 1: You are lounging around and there'll be a camera launched

1339
01:09:38,120 --> 01:09:40,879
Speaker 1: on the top of the ceiling, but you don't really realize.

1340
01:09:40,960 --> 01:09:43,599
Speaker 1: And I feel like it's so much less competitive because

1341
01:09:44,240 --> 01:09:47,080
Speaker 1: I mean the first week, I mean really everyone's kind

1342
01:09:47,120 --> 01:09:51,000
Speaker 1: of kissing each other and it's like normal, which is

1343
01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:56,000
Speaker 1: like it was so weird, but you're like like you see, like, yeah,

1344
01:09:56,080 --> 01:09:57,880
Speaker 1: you're just going kids, like two guys like back to back.

1345
01:09:58,080 --> 01:10:05,640
Speaker 1: It's normal. It's Paradise, Tila. That wasn't me. I've seen it,

1346
01:10:07,560 --> 01:10:09,760
Speaker 1: but yeah, I mean it's amazing you just spending quality time,

1347
01:10:09,760 --> 01:10:12,120
Speaker 1: and I thought Paradise it was just everyone feels relaxed.

1348
01:10:12,320 --> 01:10:13,920
Speaker 1: The beach is an element where I think it just

1349
01:10:14,000 --> 01:10:17,400
Speaker 1: draws out really great qualities and people, and I would

1350
01:10:17,400 --> 01:10:20,080
Speaker 1: say that the are my experience with the producers in Paradise,

1351
01:10:20,640 --> 01:10:23,080
Speaker 1: it was so much more. It just felt so supportive

1352
01:10:23,160 --> 01:10:28,840
Speaker 1: of exploring relationships and um, there's just so much less

1353
01:10:28,920 --> 01:10:32,479
Speaker 1: expectations and pressure on yourself to perform and compete with

1354
01:10:32,520 --> 01:10:36,480
Speaker 1: other people. You're not really competing in Paradise, You're just exploring.

1355
01:10:37,640 --> 01:10:41,080
Speaker 1: It all depends on who you are. Oh yeah, I

1356
01:10:41,120 --> 01:10:47,400
Speaker 1: remember you and Kayla. Al right, well, speaking of packing, Crystal,

1357
01:10:47,520 --> 01:10:50,559
Speaker 1: you packed seven bags for the Bachelor. How many did

1358
01:10:50,600 --> 01:10:53,240
Speaker 1: you bring for Paradise? I brought I think I could

1359
01:10:53,240 --> 01:10:55,680
Speaker 1: have downe to two in a carry on. Okay, that's

1360
01:10:55,680 --> 01:10:58,400
Speaker 1: good because Paradise everything's like you don't have to bring Yeah,

1361
01:10:58,400 --> 01:11:00,800
Speaker 1: you don't have to bring codes and for every kind

1362
01:11:00,800 --> 01:11:04,519
Speaker 1: of weather, which is like, what do you mean? Thread

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Speaker 1: up is so helpful when packing for the Bachelor or

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Speaker 1: really styling any closet wardrobe, filling it up. You know,

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Speaker 1: you can fill up a closet so easily and so

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Speaker 1: affordably with threat up. Jared and I have so many

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Speaker 1: fun wedding festivities coming up. We got bachelor parties and

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01:11:25,720 --> 01:11:28,960
Speaker 1: bridal showers, but I can't spend so much money on

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Speaker 1: a dress every single time, and that's why I love

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, girl, we'll be all right. We gotta wrap

1389
01:12:46,960 --> 01:12:49,160
Speaker 1: this up soon. But we do have some bachelor news

1390
01:12:49,240 --> 01:12:51,960
Speaker 1: that I want to talk to you guys about, including

1391
01:12:52,240 --> 01:12:58,360
Speaker 1: this amazing forty year old Virgins of Colton. Now, yesterday

1392
01:12:58,360 --> 01:13:00,519
Speaker 1: Eve Been Colton posted this. I was like, did he

1393
01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:06,720
Speaker 1: create that himself? But apparently Judd Apataw had part of this,

1394
01:13:06,920 --> 01:13:11,280
Speaker 1: the director of the forty year old version, and many. Yeah,

1395
01:13:11,320 --> 01:13:14,280
Speaker 1: he is a big fan. I met his wife backstage

1396
01:13:14,320 --> 01:13:17,920
Speaker 1: at one of the Leslie Man Yes batage. I think

1397
01:13:20,720 --> 01:13:25,639
Speaker 1: she's so cool love Leslie. Could they have found I'm

1398
01:13:25,640 --> 01:13:28,120
Speaker 1: sure you guys have if you follow Colton or any

1399
01:13:28,160 --> 01:13:30,280
Speaker 1: of the bachelors on social media, I'm sure you've seen

1400
01:13:30,680 --> 01:13:34,960
Speaker 1: this spoof. But I mean, did Colton post for this?

1401
01:13:35,600 --> 01:13:41,040
Speaker 1: Because this picture is the exact thing. Yeah, his body

1402
01:13:41,200 --> 01:13:45,439
Speaker 1: is different than Steve korl, so this is definitely Colton's body.

1403
01:13:45,600 --> 01:13:48,160
Speaker 1: I think he posed. Yeah, I think you definitely posed it.

1404
01:13:48,160 --> 01:13:52,680
Speaker 1: It's incredible. Yeah, it's amazing. It's point. Can I frame this?

1405
01:13:53,479 --> 01:13:55,680
Speaker 1: You guys are friends with Colton, We're both you know,

1406
01:13:55,760 --> 01:13:59,200
Speaker 1: you're both in paradise with him. Tell us why you

1407
01:13:59,200 --> 01:14:01,599
Speaker 1: think he's going to be a good bachelor, or if

1408
01:14:02,000 --> 01:14:03,519
Speaker 1: you don't think he's gonna be a bachelor, then le

1409
01:14:03,520 --> 01:14:06,160
Speaker 1: listen to that too. Oh, I cannot wait to watch

1410
01:14:06,200 --> 01:14:09,240
Speaker 1: his season. Colton is multidimensional. I mean we love we

1411
01:14:09,360 --> 01:14:11,559
Speaker 1: love calling him that because he just offers a lot

1412
01:14:11,960 --> 01:14:14,519
Speaker 1: and I think that, Um, I'm excited to see with

1413
01:14:14,760 --> 01:14:17,880
Speaker 1: the woman's perspective of I mean, with his virginity, how

1414
01:14:18,000 --> 01:14:20,000
Speaker 1: that's going to impact women, especially if they get they're

1415
01:14:20,000 --> 01:14:22,720
Speaker 1: getting serious and to see Colton kind of make that

1416
01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:26,120
Speaker 1: decision of am I ready for the for this stef

1417
01:14:26,200 --> 01:14:29,639
Speaker 1: and I mean fantasy spades man, do you guys know

1418
01:14:29,720 --> 01:14:32,439
Speaker 1: any dirt? Like? Have you talked to him about how

1419
01:14:32,479 --> 01:14:35,160
Speaker 1: is season unfolded? I mean I talked to him the

1420
01:14:35,200 --> 01:14:38,519
Speaker 1: other day on the phone. He lost a little bit

1421
01:14:38,520 --> 01:14:40,360
Speaker 1: of muscle, you know, because he's been doing so much

1422
01:14:40,400 --> 01:14:45,639
Speaker 1: cardio and he also are you referring to bedroom cardios?

1423
01:14:45,840 --> 01:14:47,439
Speaker 1: You had like a dirty look in your eyes. I

1424
01:14:47,560 --> 01:14:50,280
Speaker 1: was like, No, I was asking him how how he

1425
01:14:50,439 --> 01:14:52,240
Speaker 1: was as far as because he trains real hard. He

1426
01:14:52,280 --> 01:14:53,920
Speaker 1: was when I was on the phone with him, he

1427
01:14:53,960 --> 01:14:57,640
Speaker 1: was actually at muscle Farm training, but he uh was

1428
01:14:58,120 --> 01:15:00,360
Speaker 1: telling me about how the sodium and a lot of

1429
01:15:00,360 --> 01:15:02,280
Speaker 1: the food in some of the areas that they went.

1430
01:15:02,680 --> 01:15:05,280
Speaker 1: It was different compared to his diet, and he has

1431
01:15:05,520 --> 01:15:07,599
Speaker 1: should he feel bloated? He just, yeah, you just fell

1432
01:15:07,600 --> 01:15:09,160
Speaker 1: a little bit bloated, a little a little bit of

1433
01:15:09,160 --> 01:15:12,160
Speaker 1: loss muscle, lean muscles. So he doesn't have any time

1434
01:15:12,160 --> 01:15:16,800
Speaker 1: to work out. Now. I can't imagine what it's like

1435
01:15:16,840 --> 01:15:19,720
Speaker 1: for the lead because I mean has contestants, I mean

1436
01:15:19,760 --> 01:15:21,680
Speaker 1: we barely slept, but the lead, because they have to

1437
01:15:21,680 --> 01:15:23,880
Speaker 1: go an interview after. I don't know what to do it.

1438
01:15:23,880 --> 01:15:27,000
Speaker 1: It's no it's exhaustion job ever, and nobody gives them

1439
01:15:27,000 --> 01:15:29,240
Speaker 1: credit for it, right, yeah, So I can only imagine

1440
01:15:29,280 --> 01:15:33,479
Speaker 1: not only is he probably fatigued mentally and emotionally because

1441
01:15:33,479 --> 01:15:35,920
Speaker 1: that that's it's got to be tough for a couple

1442
01:15:35,920 --> 01:15:38,439
Speaker 1: of months doing that, but his body, I'm sure right

1443
01:15:38,439 --> 01:15:40,719
Speaker 1: now that's probably one of his main priorities now coming

1444
01:15:40,720 --> 01:15:43,599
Speaker 1: off the show, is getting back to where he was

1445
01:15:43,680 --> 01:15:45,680
Speaker 1: and getting back on his diet and his regiment and

1446
01:15:45,680 --> 01:15:48,120
Speaker 1: stuff like that. But he still looks great. It looks great,

1447
01:15:48,200 --> 01:15:51,000
Speaker 1: you know, definitely a great body looking good there with

1448
01:15:51,040 --> 01:15:53,799
Speaker 1: the rose. So I like that. It's pretty I'm very excited.

1449
01:15:53,840 --> 01:15:55,800
Speaker 1: I just think he's great because he's going to be

1450
01:15:55,840 --> 01:16:00,280
Speaker 1: so emotional and open about it. He's so comfort bowl

1451
01:16:00,439 --> 01:16:03,519
Speaker 1: with expressing himself on TV. I feel like I think

1452
01:16:03,560 --> 01:16:07,479
Speaker 1: you'll see more of a well polished man on this

1453
01:16:07,520 --> 01:16:11,200
Speaker 1: season of him. I feel like maybe some people thought

1454
01:16:11,360 --> 01:16:16,480
Speaker 1: with the indecisiveness and him always smiling and serious situations

1455
01:16:16,920 --> 01:16:19,080
Speaker 1: kind of led people to think that he wasn't ready

1456
01:16:19,120 --> 01:16:21,760
Speaker 1: for a role like that, and maybe thought maybe him

1457
01:16:21,800 --> 01:16:24,479
Speaker 1: being a little bit more of a boy. I guess

1458
01:16:24,520 --> 01:16:27,200
Speaker 1: you can say, but I'm thinking now watching kind of

1459
01:16:27,240 --> 01:16:28,920
Speaker 1: what's going to play out, I'm thinking you're gonna see

1460
01:16:28,920 --> 01:16:31,720
Speaker 1: a well polished groom man and someone who knows what

1461
01:16:31,800 --> 01:16:35,040
Speaker 1: he wants and someone who really gives us everything. As

1462
01:16:35,040 --> 01:16:37,519
Speaker 1: far as being real and very genuine, I agree, I have.

1463
01:16:37,800 --> 01:16:39,920
Speaker 1: I just I feel like he's gonna he's this was

1464
01:16:40,080 --> 01:16:42,160
Speaker 1: an opportunity for him to step into his own He's

1465
01:16:42,160 --> 01:16:46,040
Speaker 1: gonna shock. Like you guys talking growth, I think that

1466
01:16:46,280 --> 01:16:48,720
Speaker 1: it's amazing how much growth we've seen Colton go through

1467
01:16:48,760 --> 01:16:51,639
Speaker 1: over the past year too. Yeah, we're very invested in him.

1468
01:16:51,960 --> 01:16:55,879
Speaker 1: Um Bob Guinea has a baby, guys. Former Bob former

1469
01:16:55,960 --> 01:17:00,320
Speaker 1: Bachelor from like Legit fifteen years ago. Sorry Bob, Um

1470
01:17:00,320 --> 01:17:05,000
Speaker 1: and his wife Jessica can Canyon just welcome their first child,

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01:17:05,240 --> 01:17:08,439
Speaker 1: baby boy. It's Bob's first at the age of forty seven.

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01:17:08,760 --> 01:17:11,200
Speaker 1: They announced the happy news on Monday on Instagram with

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Speaker 1: the sweet snap of his newborn son's tiny footsteps. The

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Speaker 1: caption read today footprints with a sweet snap of his

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Speaker 1: newborn sons tiny footprints. Today is the greatest day, he

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Speaker 1: captioned in the instagram. Our son, Grayson Robert Guinea was

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Speaker 1: born early one. Ye are you pretty? Baby? The baby

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Speaker 1: is happy and healthy, mom is resting, and everybody is

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Speaker 1: so excited. Um. There's also thirty congrats guys, and other news.

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Speaker 1: There's thirty four days left to the premiere of The Bachelor,

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Speaker 1: so you guys only have a couple of weeks left

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Speaker 1: of this offseason and and we're back on the world

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Speaker 1: would begins again. And lastly, Peter, you guys know Peter Krause.

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Speaker 1: You know you know him? Okay, Well, Peter Krause is

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Speaker 1: going to be on this upcoming season of Total Bella's.

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Speaker 1: He goes on a date with Nicky Bella, who, as

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Speaker 1: you may know, was dating John Cena and engaged and

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Speaker 1: about to get married for until like two weeks before

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Speaker 1: the wedding. So now her sister Bribella sets up Nikki

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Speaker 1: on this date with Peter and they go on a

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Speaker 1: gondola ride and they have wine and it's supposed to

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Speaker 1: be really romantic, but apparently Nikki doesn't feel sparks and uh,

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Speaker 1: we see in the preview for the season that he

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Speaker 1: goes in for a kiss, but we don't know whether

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Speaker 1: or not the kiss really happens, because there's rumors that

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Speaker 1: say there weren't any sparks and that she stopped the

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Speaker 1: kiss before it happens. But we're going to have to

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Speaker 1: watch total. I mean, she was getting engaged to John Cina,

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Speaker 1: who was like pounds of rock hard like Peter, maybe

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Speaker 1: a little too lean. I'm not saying she's scared of him,

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Speaker 1: and maybe she's not emotionally ready to jump into anything

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Speaker 1: a guy. Yeah, and also there's Bachelor Fantasy League. It's

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Speaker 1: back for this coming season. Don't forget that. You have

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Speaker 1: to kind of partake immediately. You can't put it off

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Speaker 1: for a few weeks. There's an amazing prize which is

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Speaker 1: getting to go to after the final rows if you

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Speaker 1: do win this ABC Bachelor Fantasy League. Do you guys

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Speaker 1: play Bachelor fantasy. I feel like we can. I feel

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Speaker 1: like we can because we know too much. Yeah, just

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Speaker 1: like cheating. Yeah, I don't think I can get it

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Speaker 1: is cheating and I feel like all the other people

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Speaker 1: involved and we were like, how can I trust that

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Speaker 1: you're not looking at spoilers? Right? I'm in a bachelor

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Speaker 1: fantasy football right now, so that's my main priority. Bachelor

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Speaker 1: Fantasy Football league, which means that you're playing fantasy football

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Speaker 1: with some bachelors. That's fun. I'm in first place. J Sorry, sorry, Tomorrio,

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Speaker 1: Josh Murray, congrass. That's pretty awesome money. How much money?

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Speaker 1: It's like, that's every friend fantasy or just do something small.

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Speaker 1: But it's just nice to my first season in. It

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Speaker 1: doesn't matter what the prizes. It's just that you guys

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Speaker 1: get your competitive juices out every Sunday morning. He's like,

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Speaker 1: I gotta go to the coffee shop and work for

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Speaker 1: a couple of hours. I'm like, for fantasy football. That's

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Speaker 1: Jared fan Duel. Make that money, Jared place. Yeah, they

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Speaker 1: both do. Oh my god, these guys hardcore. Me too. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's where I go to the coffee shop to do

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Speaker 1: my lineups. How many teams do you create. I made

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Speaker 1: him one night forty grand. Okay what Tanner made so

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Speaker 1: much money and I can't drop the number. No, it's fine,

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Speaker 1: it's fine. I'll tell you later. Yeah, you made forty grand.

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Speaker 1: I have over a hundred kine winnings. Holy, I have

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Speaker 1: this whole algorith them uh numerous system Excel spreadsheet that created.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to set you he needs a lesson.

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