1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:02,520 Speaker 1: My wife was too fast, so I'm divorcing her. But 2 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:05,360 Speaker 1: as I was leaving her, I couldn't believe what she said. 3 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:10,200 Speaker 2: You know, I think it's like, all right, this is 4 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:20,799 Speaker 2: the rule. Okay, if your wife weighs two wives, bye, I. 5 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:22,919 Speaker 3: Didn't know where we're going here, but let's let's arrive there. 6 00:00:22,960 --> 00:00:27,720 Speaker 2: Babe, your wife weighs more than two wives over the 7 00:00:27,760 --> 00:00:30,600 Speaker 2: initial way in two well okay, yeah. Yeah. So if 8 00:00:30,600 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 2: it's like like if she's if she's if she's twice, no, 9 00:00:35,200 --> 00:00:41,199 Speaker 2: she's twice the wife that you additionally that you initially 10 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:44,760 Speaker 2: embarked in, I think it deserves a conversation. 11 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 1: Right, yeah, yeah, Like that's like I think that's three times, right, 12 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 1: because if she's one hundred pounds and she weighs. 13 00:00:49,120 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 2: Three hundred pounds to more two more wives, more wives? 14 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, so if she three x's in way, I think 15 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:59,959 Speaker 1: it's fair to have a conversation about health or something 16 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:03,120 Speaker 1: thing probably yeah, yeah. Or or what if we go 17 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:10,520 Speaker 1: three hundred to nine hundred nine wives, three hundred pounds 18 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:16,080 Speaker 1: to nine hundred pounds? Yes, what about my nine hundred 19 00:01:16,080 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 1: pound life? 20 00:01:16,600 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 3: Bro? No one's asking about that. 21 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:20,880 Speaker 2: Also, if you ever see us in the street, please 22 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 2: come up like we we met some of our people 23 00:01:23,440 --> 00:01:24,279 Speaker 2: in Vegas. 24 00:01:24,400 --> 00:01:27,319 Speaker 3: Vegas, random people, some inebrated, some not. 25 00:01:27,520 --> 00:01:29,360 Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, we love our fans. 26 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 3: We do. 27 00:01:30,400 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 2: By no means are we famous, but we appreciate the love. 28 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:36,759 Speaker 2: And so if you see our dumble little faces. 29 00:01:36,440 --> 00:01:38,679 Speaker 1: Everyone that listens to homie, we we're down to like 30 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 1: sit down and just like chat and shoot the ship 31 00:01:40,560 --> 00:01:41,279 Speaker 1: chat for a second. 32 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:41,559 Speaker 2: Yeah. 33 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 1: So before I get called an a hole, let me explain. See, 34 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 1: I love my wife. I think she's incredibly beautiful, even 35 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:50,240 Speaker 1: more so after she gave birth to our son three 36 00:01:50,320 --> 00:01:53,520 Speaker 1: years ago. The problem is that she has put on 37 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:57,920 Speaker 1: a good amount of baby weight obviously and never lost it. 38 00:01:58,240 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 1: She instead started to gain more way and was overall 39 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:06,480 Speaker 1: pretty depressed. I initially assumed it was postpartum depression and suggested. 40 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 3: She go to therapy for it. 41 00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:09,560 Speaker 1: She went to therapy and got some antidepressants, and it 42 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:11,800 Speaker 1: took her a while to find the right ones, and 43 00:02:11,840 --> 00:02:15,839 Speaker 1: she's been fine mentally since she found them. Physically, it's 44 00:02:15,840 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 1: a different story. She continued over the past three years 45 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 1: to gain weight. The problem isn't any more than I'm 46 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: not attracted to her, but that she will pass away 47 00:02:25,160 --> 00:02:27,959 Speaker 1: if she continues to gain weight. She's currently five too 48 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: and about two hundred and sixty pounds, and as a 49 00:02:30,480 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 1: BMI of close to fifty yo, that's five to two. 50 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:39,160 Speaker 1: Oby says, I don't know what I can do. I 51 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:41,280 Speaker 1: feel like I've tried everything. I've asked her to go 52 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:43,040 Speaker 1: with a gym with me, gone and die with me, 53 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 1: not buy his fast food, have some active hobbies. She's 54 00:02:46,080 --> 00:02:47,799 Speaker 1: turned down every single one of these ideas. 55 00:02:47,919 --> 00:02:51,800 Speaker 2: But I got a really great, big idea. 56 00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:55,639 Speaker 1: Let's go and eat celery sticks, so on a five 57 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:56,720 Speaker 1: on a five K. 58 00:02:56,960 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 3: Babe, Oh my. 59 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 2: Gosh, babe, let's go to the grocery store, but carry 60 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:06,919 Speaker 2: me ond your back. 61 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that's David Goggins. Yeah, if his wife 62 00:03:11,680 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 1: was ever fun too five two and six twenty pounds. 63 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 1: I feel like I don't have any choice but to 64 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 1: give her an ultimatum. Yike, good gravy. Either she genuinely 65 00:03:21,240 --> 00:03:23,840 Speaker 1: tries to lose weight or I leave. I can't watch 66 00:03:23,880 --> 00:03:26,120 Speaker 1: the woman I love and mother of my child slowly 67 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:29,040 Speaker 1: kill herself. I don't want to be the dude who 68 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:32,000 Speaker 1: gives an ultimatum, but I see no other choice. I 69 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:34,040 Speaker 1: guess I just want to ask if I'm being an ahole, 70 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: if there's any other way I could go about this. 71 00:03:36,280 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: There is so many other ways to go. 72 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 2: I have like a legit conversation, literally. 73 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 3: A legit like like that's numero uno. 74 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:46,320 Speaker 1: Have a legit like hints, you know, yeah, just be like, 75 00:03:46,720 --> 00:03:50,839 Speaker 1: in all honesty, I am worried, and like I think 76 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:53,800 Speaker 1: you should say like I'm worried, but like I don't know, 77 00:03:54,160 --> 00:03:55,240 Speaker 1: like you're not a doctor. 78 00:03:55,560 --> 00:03:57,360 Speaker 3: I would be like, hey, this is how I feel like. 79 00:03:57,600 --> 00:04:00,480 Speaker 1: I know this could come off of like me being ahle, 80 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 1: but like, is there any possibility we could just like, 81 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:06,640 Speaker 1: you know, check it out and see, like I'm just worried, 82 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:09,880 Speaker 1: you know, I think that's a way more reasonable place 83 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:13,560 Speaker 1: to come from. Then just be like, hey, baby, you 84 00:04:13,600 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 1: want to like go on and diet or something like 85 00:04:15,480 --> 00:04:19,279 Speaker 1: I don't know, just like lose a few dozen pounds. Yeah, 86 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:21,719 Speaker 1: And there's an update for everyone in the comments telling 87 00:04:21,760 --> 00:04:23,960 Speaker 1: me that you can be overweight and healthy. You're right, 88 00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:26,720 Speaker 1: but no, you can't be obese and healthy, at least 89 00:04:26,720 --> 00:04:29,159 Speaker 1: not long term. Heart disease runs in my wife's family, 90 00:04:29,200 --> 00:04:31,600 Speaker 1: and while your weight might not affect you, being overweight 91 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:34,400 Speaker 1: is directly linked to heart disease. I understand weight loss 92 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 1: isn't easy. I used to be overweight. But my concern 93 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 1: isn't that she's not the same way she looked when 94 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 1: we got together. It's that she might not live to 95 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:42,960 Speaker 1: see our son become a teenager. So I made a 96 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 1: post about five months ago because I couldn't get the 97 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:47,360 Speaker 1: past the point of no return with my wife's weight. 98 00:04:47,480 --> 00:04:47,680 Speaker 3: Now. 99 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:50,320 Speaker 1: Expectedly, I got called an a hole and every name 100 00:04:50,360 --> 00:04:52,600 Speaker 1: in the book for even mentioning it. But I also 101 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:54,920 Speaker 1: got some real good feedback and decided before I make 102 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:57,080 Speaker 1: any real decision, I would sit her down and let 103 00:04:57,160 --> 00:04:59,359 Speaker 1: her know how I was truly feeling. Thanks to you, 104 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 1: Hugh from the beginning, because at this point we had 105 00:05:03,360 --> 00:05:06,080 Speaker 1: multiple conversations addressing it, but none of them lead anywhere. 106 00:05:06,120 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 1: So after we put my son to sleep, I asked 107 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:09,080 Speaker 1: my wife if we could talk for a minute in 108 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: the kitchen. 109 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 3: Now, I'm not gonna lie. 110 00:05:10,640 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 1: The conversation was probably the hardest one I've ever had, 111 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:14,680 Speaker 1: because despite. 112 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:17,159 Speaker 3: What everyone believed, I do love my wife. Now. 113 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 1: I don't want to get into every detail, but the 114 00:05:19,480 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 1: basis of our conversation was that I needed her to 115 00:05:22,040 --> 00:05:24,279 Speaker 1: at least try to be healthier. I also think she 116 00:05:24,360 --> 00:05:27,320 Speaker 1: needed to hear how serious I was about this, and 117 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:30,160 Speaker 1: when I told her I was even thinking about separating, 118 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:32,360 Speaker 1: I think it really put the nail in the coffin. 119 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:34,559 Speaker 1: It's been about five months since then, and I'm proud 120 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 1: to say that my wife has lost thirty five pounds. 121 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 2: That's a lot. 122 00:05:38,240 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 1: Seriously, I'm so proud of her, it's effing ridiculous. The 123 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:43,640 Speaker 1: first month was an effing hurdle and a half, but 124 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:46,920 Speaker 1: now she's going steady and losing weight at a healthy, 125 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:49,800 Speaker 1: moderate rate. Recently, she started exercising with me in the morning. 126 00:05:49,800 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 1: I usually jog, but since her knees are somewhat shot, 127 00:05:52,800 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 1: three days a week, we balk about a mile or 128 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:56,160 Speaker 1: two together and talk and listen to music. I know 129 00:05:56,200 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: it sounds corny to say, but she even seems happier 130 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:00,320 Speaker 1: and her confidence is coming back as well. 131 00:06:00,640 --> 00:06:00,839 Speaker 3: Well. 132 00:06:01,000 --> 00:06:02,920 Speaker 1: This is my little update, and I wanted to finish 133 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 1: thanks to anyone who gave advice on my first post. 134 00:06:05,560 --> 00:06:06,719 Speaker 2: Awesome happy ending. 135 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: It's great and I can see how this is like 136 00:06:08,320 --> 00:06:11,159 Speaker 1: a tough one to give, like have that conversation on 137 00:06:11,240 --> 00:06:11,719 Speaker 1: so I'm. 138 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:16,360 Speaker 2: Glad the topic but like you know it when you 139 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 2: if you actually care about that person's health, which it 140 00:06:19,120 --> 00:06:21,279 Speaker 2: seems like he does. Like I think, it's a good. 141 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:23,720 Speaker 3: Sit down, explain yourself and then figure it out from there. 142 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:25,320 Speaker 2: There we go. That's it, Bengo Banngo. 143 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:27,719 Speaker 1: If you like this story, check out this hilarious one 144 00:06:27,800 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 1: where this guy doesn't help his wife. He actually steals 145 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 1: five million dollars and runs away.