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Speaker 2: Fred's show is on now hot this morning show.

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Speaker 3: Good morning everybody. It's Tuesday, July twenty fifth. The Fred

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Speaker 3: Show is on high Kaylin, good morning, Hi, Jason Brown, Hi, Rufio, Hi, Paulina,

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Speaker 3: Hi Kiki, good morning. Trending stories headline to start to Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: We'll do those in a few minutes. The ent Our

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Speaker 3: tamer Report blogs this hour. What are you working on?

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Speaker 4: Kaylen man Tory Kelly rushed to the hospital and I

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Speaker 4: get to talk about the woman with the size thirty six.

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Speaker 6: Oh so I love that for me again?

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Speaker 5: Yeah again, and update on her and what's going on.

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Speaker 6: Well, that's good sence.

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Speaker 5: All the fame thirty six gee, I know all the

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Speaker 4: That was our favorite part of the show is when

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Speaker 4: you thought today six thousand dollars.

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Speaker 6: That's what I thought.

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Speaker 7: It was so funny.

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Speaker 6: It was between that and what.

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Speaker 3: Happened to Kaylin's eye, It's like, you know, that's all

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Speaker 3: the only question I've been answering. And for some reason,

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Speaker 3: what happened to waiting by the phone on the podcast

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Speaker 3: it's still there.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it's on this channel called The Fred Show. We

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Speaker 8: moved a couple things around. But hey, guys, we got

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Speaker 8: you spring cleaning.

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Speaker 5: That's right, we're still cleaning it.

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Speaker 6: We're still there. You just have to go to the

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Speaker 6: Whole Show podcast.

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Speaker 5: Yes, it exists.

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Speaker 3: Until we caven put it back inn the other place

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Speaker 3: because I'm tired.

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Speaker 6: Of answer your questions.

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Speaker 3: Paulina. Yes, you seem to have this theory of late.

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Speaker 3: I've been hearing it more and more. Oh, I've been

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Speaker 3: hearing a lot of things lately that make me question

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Speaker 3: whether you really want to get married or not.

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Speaker 5: That's interesting, Yeah, is it?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, because I'm interested in it.

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Speaker 8: I wouldn't do something I didn't want to do. But yes,

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Speaker 8: it's a theory.

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Speaker 3: I have because you're getting married in October. Yes, this

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Speaker 3: is after dating Hobby firefighter Hobby for three years. Three

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Speaker 3: years and if you are new to the to the program,

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Speaker 3: you you wanted a ring?

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Speaker 5: I did.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so you made Paulina's promise. I sure did, And

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Speaker 3: Pauline has promised was fulfilled after he received a ring. Absolutely,

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Speaker 3: And if you don't know, then you're not going to

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Speaker 3: know because it's I can't explain it to you now.

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Speaker 3: But you offered something that he wanted or you agreed

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Speaker 3: to something that he wanted. I agreed if he gave

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Speaker 3: you a ring. Oh yeah, and all of the above.

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Speaker 5: Oh boy did he?

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Speaker 6: Yes, all of the above took place.

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Speaker 5: Yes, correct.

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Speaker 3: But lately, the latest, in the last couple of days,

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Speaker 3: the catchphrase of yours has been that weddings. I want

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Speaker 3: to make sure I get this right. Weddings are a

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Speaker 3: scam for women.

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Speaker 8: Well, weddings is just our scam period of how much

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Speaker 8: they cost. They're a lot of fun, but they're costly.

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Speaker 8: I'm saying marriage for women. Oh, marriage is a scam

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Speaker 8: for women. Yes, Now tell me why I can't wait.

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 8: So I'm on TikTok a lot, and there's this one woman,

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Speaker 8: her name is Auntie Something.

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Speaker 5: She like spits the truth.

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Speaker 6: Auntie Something on TikTok.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll find her.

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Speaker 6: It's influencing your okay, yeah, okay, yeah.

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Speaker 8: Sometimes she's a single not married, but she she just

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Speaker 8: says a lot of things that are very like real

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Speaker 8: and she made a point and it's actually kind of true.

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Speaker 5: Hear me out.

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Speaker 8: Okay, And I want to be clear, I do want

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Speaker 8: to get married. I'm very much in love with my fiance.

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Speaker 8: But yeah, there's sometimes where I'm just like, huh, she

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Speaker 8: might have you know, I might be honto something. So

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Speaker 8: she says that and don't come for me, says her

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Speaker 8: word's not mine. That marriage is a scam for women

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Speaker 8: because we at the end of the day, have so

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Speaker 8: many expectations and we have to like do certain things

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Speaker 8: that like men kind of don't like when we get married.

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Speaker 8: And if I'm wrong, I'm wrong, but this is how

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Speaker 8: I feel like we become like they're in house made

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Speaker 8: like I'm not saying they don't help, out of course

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Speaker 8: they do, but like there's just more expectations on women,

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Speaker 8: like we're the at home cooks, you know what I mean, Shit, I.

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Speaker 6: Don't know, are you sure?

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Speaker 8: I mean I have hobby that And he's like, where

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Speaker 8: do I get that? Because I don't have which is

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Speaker 8: just BI That's what I mean.

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Speaker 3: It's like it's what you decide it's going to be, right,

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Speaker 3: Like because I don't. I don't know too many folks.

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Speaker 3: It's like, wow, we're married now, so you better pick

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't see a hot meal. I mean, I'm

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Speaker 6: sure there are some people who feel that way, right,

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Speaker 8: That expectation and like, I don't know. She does have

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Speaker 8: like a lot of really good points and stuff. And

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Speaker 8: like again, like I don't agree with what everything she's saying,

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Speaker 8: but I see what she's saying, Like you know what I.

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Speaker 5: Mean when we get married, like as women, like we kind.

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Speaker 8: Of like change her whole identity and then at the

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Speaker 8: end of the day, like men benefit so much more

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Speaker 5: Like do you get what I'm saying?

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Speaker 3: Like what, Well, the only married person in the room

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Speaker 3: is Rufiel. He has a scour on his face, and

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Speaker 3: you're not is this scour he is? He is a

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Speaker 5: No, you don't get it.

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Speaker 6: No, I don't see that.

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Speaker 9: Like it's just you you have you know, you you

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Speaker 9: agree on what everyone's roles are in your marriage. It's

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Speaker 9: not like we got married just as I'm like, hey meal,

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Speaker 9: Jesus now, Like, no.

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Speaker 3: No, she does that to you, she says, Sandwich now

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Speaker 3: and then you make it and she says.

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Speaker 6: They have to do it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I guess I don't know.

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Speaker 8: She just made a lot of valid points in the

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Speaker 8: don't benefit as much, and like I disagree with that

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Speaker 8: because I think there's a benefit of like coming together

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Speaker 8: and that's what I'm excited about. But like I can

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Speaker 8: see how like damn, how are you about to have

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Speaker 3: But that's not It doesn't have to be that way though,

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Speaker 3: like that's.

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Speaker 8: It doesn't It doesn't, but it can turn into that

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Speaker 8: for a lot of couples if you don't establish those

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Speaker 3: I don't think it has anything to do with getting

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Speaker 8: Listen, I'm just saying, what anty something.

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Speaker 6: Said, Well, don't repeat it.

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Speaker 9: Then if you don't something that's not married and single,

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Speaker 3: Five is the number you can text the same number

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Speaker 3: as well. You don't like what when you say what?

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Speaker 4: I don't like when Rufiel will go. But she's single

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Speaker 4: and can't get a man like you.

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Speaker 6: I say that she's not married, she doesn't know that,

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Speaker 6: she doesn't understand that.

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Speaker 4: That's not an valiant argument. You can still have a commentary.

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Speaker 10: I mean, I'm single and married, so yes, I think

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Speaker 10: I hear what Paulina is saying. It can become a

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Speaker 10: change their lives, give up their careers to raise families

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Speaker 7: So it could be a scam for women if you

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Speaker 10: But if you set boundaries and standards and you crack

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Speaker 6: I think my mom.

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Speaker 3: Would argue that she's a caretaker for my dad in

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Speaker 3: and he provides for her. But that's who she is,

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Speaker 3: right that's who my mom. My mom is a giver.

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Speaker 3: And while I think she does it unconditionally, she definitely

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Speaker 3: not a crutch because she doesn't necessarily use it against us.

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Speaker 3: But like I think, at the same time, people get

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Speaker 3: something that they've established in their relationship. I don't think

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Speaker 3: sudden the woman plays, you know, has to play whatever role,

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Speaker 6: I don't want to be this guy either.

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Speaker 3: But I'm sure there are Dad's driving to work right

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Speaker 3: And look, I'm not you know, there are nuances to

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Speaker 3: you know, the grass seems to always be greener.

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Speaker 4: I think it plays out more if only one person

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Speaker 4: like divide up the household chores and the kids and stuff,

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Speaker 4: because if you're both working, then it's not fair to

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean.

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Speaker 5: So I think if you're both working, divide it.

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Speaker 4: If one person is working, then figure out the household,

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Speaker 4: you know.

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Speaker 3: I guess I just don't think this is like, oh, oh,

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Speaker 3: you didn't see the fine print that's on the backside

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Speaker 3: of the marriage license. You didn't see that. No, as

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Speaker 3: soon as you get married, you have to fulfill all

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Speaker 3: these duties that you weren't fulfill before. Hi, Mohammed, I'm

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Speaker 3: hill or pay Good morning man, thanks for calling, Thanks

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Speaker 6: What do you want to say?

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Speaker 11: Yeah, yeah, good morning.

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Speaker 12: You know.

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Speaker 11: I think the old school generation school of thought is Traditionally,

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Speaker 5: But I'm just being.

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Speaker 8: But basically, I think it's true too what she said

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Speaker 5: I was just repeating what I heard, okay, and I.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, this is all funny games, but now starting at

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Speaker 5: Like I know, when people get married.

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Speaker 8: Things can change one like we talked about one's gonna work,

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Speaker 4: You gotta do thing like you can already provide for

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, But if that's the only reason I want a wife,

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Speaker 3: Well, it depends which nick made you hire. I've seen

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Speaker 3: It is Auntie, whatever her name is. She said it

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Speaker 3: to me. Hey, Jesse, good morning, good morning. Is this

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Speaker 3: whole wedding marriage, Well, weddings might be I think weddings

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Speaker 6: I think engagement rings are a scam.

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Speaker 3: Saying I won't I won't partake in both. But you know, no, no,

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Speaker 3: can't tell me somehow do it. No gazillion dollar ring

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Speaker 3: You know, one hundred thousand dollars for a night or something,

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Speaker 15: First of all, weddings are totally.

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Speaker 3: If you're in the wedding industry, the bridal industry, God

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Speaker 15: I just wanted to say that as someone who's been

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Speaker 15: really can be. It really can get one sided sometimes

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Speaker 15: just depends on if you hind the right person. Though,

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Speaker 15: like my husband's a complete partner. He will work fifty

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Speaker 15: all right, check out, you do the dishes, you cook

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Speaker 6: And you know, I think that's fair.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and Jesse, to your point, I've heard that the

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Speaker 6: Like why don't we have any food? Like what's going on?

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Speaker 15: The balance has to come from our country doing something

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Speaker 10: And thank you Breach, look at that.

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Speaker 6: That's right.

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Speaker 5: That woke me up.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I don't know. I didn't.

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Speaker 15: Somebody who doesn't actually have a husband. But like everything

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Speaker 15: It's a different scenario. So you can't comment on that

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I angue you. I thank you Jesse, of.

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Speaker 14: Course, thank you for taking to me.

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Speaker 15: I'm so excited.

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Speaker 3: Hell, I have a good day. Thank you for calling Adrian, Hi,

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Speaker 3: hey man, good morning. What do you want to say.

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Speaker 3: Apparently Paulina, who's getting married, thinks that being married to scam.

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Speaker 5: But it can be I said, a canvy.

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Speaker 6: Okay, we can be scam, says Paulina.

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Speaker 13: Well, of course that that can sound from a scam

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Speaker 13: Sometimes we help each other out, but it's really hard

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 13: And then that's when you guys start looking at each

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it sounds like balance, the Adrian. It sounds like

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Speaker 3: you guys have established, you know, balance so that one

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Speaker 6: So Adrian, thank you, have a good day you too.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. Here's what I really want to know. Well,

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Speaker 3: iante Colin first, and then I'm gonna say what I

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Speaker 6: Hey Colin, Hi, how's it going? Hey, good morning man.

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Speaker 3: So Paulina has been watching too much TikTok and some

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Speaker 6: Do you think that's true.

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Speaker 16: I think that when you get married you will lose

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Speaker 16: of the day, it comes down to communication.

441
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Speaker 8: Really.

442
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Speaker 16: The problem is the social media and everything else. Because

443
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Speaker 16: everybody puts all of their business out there, they have

444
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Speaker 16: somebody else and they.

445
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Speaker 11: Don't always know the whole story.

446
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Speaker 6: Yeah.

447
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Speaker 16: I put myself out there sixty seventy hours a week

448
00:18:17,640 --> 00:18:20,520
Speaker 16: and my wife works, but she also takes care of

449
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Speaker 16: most of the house because I'm making all the money,

450
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Speaker 16: so and she knows I've been a position where she's

451
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Speaker 16: made more money and I'll take care of the house.

452
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Speaker 16: It just depends on how you guys communicate with each

453
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Speaker 16: other and making sure things are getting done the way

454
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Speaker 16: you want them done.

455
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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, that makes sense.

456
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Speaker 3: Colin, Thank you man, have a good day. Thank you

457
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Speaker 3: for He doesn't sound like that, Brodre. I think it's

458
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Speaker 3: whatever you allow to happen in your relationship. I think

459
00:18:45,840 --> 00:18:48,679
Speaker 3: it's whatever whatever you decide or whatever. I don't know

460
00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:50,959
Speaker 3: if you fall into a pattern that you're not comfortable with,

461
00:18:51,000 --> 00:18:52,840
Speaker 3: and I guess you got to speak up because otherwise

462
00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:54,919
Speaker 3: maybe it doesn't. But here, here what I want to know.

463
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Speaker 3: Why is it that people can live together forever and

464
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Speaker 3: ever and ever? No, and then they finally get married

465
00:19:01,680 --> 00:19:05,359
Speaker 3: and then it falls apart. Explain to me that, and

466
00:19:06,000 --> 00:19:07,639
Speaker 3: I mean, is it this? Is it that there are

467
00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:10,800
Speaker 3: expectations that aren't met? Is is it like some kind

468
00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:15,119
Speaker 3: of pressure? Because all that's happened in many cases is

469
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Speaker 3: a psychological change really not a spiritual change. But I mean, truthfully,

470
00:19:19,880 --> 00:19:22,960
Speaker 3: most people that I know lived together before they got married. Okay,

471
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Speaker 3: let me put it this way. Most divorced people I

472
00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:28,040
Speaker 3: know lived together before they got married for an extensive

473
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Speaker 3: period of time, a year, two three, whatever that you know,

474
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Speaker 3: they were engaged for a minute. They get married, and

475
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Speaker 3: then things fall apart. I know people who've lived together

476
00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:42,480
Speaker 3: for five ten years, they never got married. Everything's okay,

477
00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:44,680
Speaker 3: they do get married, the thing falls apart after a year.

478
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Speaker 3: Like I know a lot of different scenarios where you

479
00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:50,200
Speaker 3: would think, okay, we have test driven this deal.

480
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Speaker 6: Right like this, everything's good.

481
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Speaker 3: We've lived together, we've survived that, we've you know, intermingled

482
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Speaker 3: our lives and our friends and our finances and our duties,

483
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Speaker 3: and we won't have any of these role problems or

484
00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:04,480
Speaker 3: whatever else. But yet, for some reason, we get married

485
00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:07,320
Speaker 3: in a church or in my you know, in the

486
00:20:07,359 --> 00:20:10,119
Speaker 3: case when I'm involved in a fake church, and I

487
00:20:10,440 --> 00:20:12,600
Speaker 3: marry you and which is somehow legal, and then the

488
00:20:12,640 --> 00:20:13,960
Speaker 3: whole thing starts to unravel.

489
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Speaker 6: Why is that?

490
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Speaker 10: I think it's because you when you're living together, you're

491
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Speaker 10: looking forward to something. So it's like, oh, we're not married,

492
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Speaker 10: we're looking forward to that next step. And then you

493
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Speaker 10: do it and you realize nothing changes. Like it's almost

494
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Speaker 10: like you hit the ceiling, you hit the climax, and

495
00:20:26,640 --> 00:20:28,160
Speaker 10: it's like, oh, that didn't change anything.

496
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Speaker 3: Wouldn't that be a good thing, Kiki, Like, wouldn't that

497
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Speaker 3: be good? Like, Okay, now we've taken this serious step

498
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Speaker 3: and nothing's changed.

499
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Speaker 7: You would think so.

500
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Speaker 10: But a lot of people feel like marriage will change

501
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Speaker 10: your relationship or make it better, the same way a

502
00:20:39,520 --> 00:20:41,080
Speaker 10: lot of people think having a baby will.

503
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Speaker 6: See my relationship.

504
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Speaker 10: So I think both of those you crazy, I think, yeah,

505
00:20:45,440 --> 00:20:47,960
Speaker 10: Like sometimes those both can just be set ups for failure.

506
00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:50,600
Speaker 10: Like you are happy as you were, and a piece

507
00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:52,480
Speaker 10: of paper is not going to change the dynamic of

508
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Speaker 10: your relationship. It literally is just you can pick out

509
00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:56,520
Speaker 10: the socks at the funeral. I say that all the time.

510
00:20:56,840 --> 00:20:58,720
Speaker 10: But and neither will a baby. Like, a baby's not

511
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Speaker 10: gonna save your relationship.

512
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Speaker 3: I love that one. It's man, things are really going poorly.

513
00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:05,920
Speaker 3: Let's make it human, right, let's that one too. Yeah,

514
00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:08,159
Speaker 3: But people are texting that they think it's the kids

515
00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:10,480
Speaker 3: that changes things. But I know people who haven't had

516
00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:13,159
Speaker 3: kids who it doesn't work for some reason, and it's like,

517
00:21:13,160 --> 00:21:15,680
Speaker 3: you got this all figured out, you know, it's one thing.

518
00:21:16,480 --> 00:21:19,560
Speaker 3: I guess if you'd never lived together before and you

519
00:21:19,920 --> 00:21:22,760
Speaker 3: don't communicate and haven't had like fundamental conversations, and then

520
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:24,800
Speaker 3: you get married only to find out that, or you

521
00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:27,720
Speaker 3: get married really young and you change a lot, you're

522
00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:30,680
Speaker 3: not that committed to the idea, and so you get divorced.

523
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Speaker 6: That all.

524
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Speaker 3: I understand all that, but I guess at a certain point,

525
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:37,159
Speaker 3: it's like, you know, if you're grown and you have

526
00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:39,640
Speaker 3: your life established, and you meet someone else who has

527
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:41,359
Speaker 3: and you can figure out how to do all the

528
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Speaker 3: other stuff, then I guess, I don't know why why?

529
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Speaker 6: Why?

530
00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:46,760
Speaker 3: You know, getting married and going back to the same

531
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Speaker 3: house to sleep in the same bed. Screws people up.

532
00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:50,719
Speaker 3: I mean it didn't work. You know, you guys are

533
00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:53,680
Speaker 3: good Rufio and you did that. You live together and

534
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Speaker 3: how many years? Seven years?

535
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Speaker 6: Yeah, like a yeah, eight years we lived together.

536
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Speaker 3: And then you win, you got married and then you

537
00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:03,119
Speaker 3: came back to the same house and what it was like, Oh,

538
00:22:03,160 --> 00:22:05,720
Speaker 3: we're married now, and then we just you just continued.

539
00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:07,679
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean we have you know, it's about communication.

540
00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:10,600
Speaker 9: We have our roles, you know, we'd both know what

541
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 9: we have to do in our marriage and our relationship

542
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Speaker 9: to make it work. And it does change when you

543
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Speaker 9: have kids as well too, because roles change and responsibilities change.

544
00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:22,800
Speaker 9: But that's once again communication and having those you know,

545
00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:25,080
Speaker 9: like what you're going to do, what I'm gonna do,

546
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Speaker 9: How we're going to make it work, and that's what

547
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Speaker 9: we do.

548
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Speaker 3: I've heard I've said this before. I heard someone say

549
00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:31,560
Speaker 3: it on the radio a long time ago, and it

550
00:22:31,600 --> 00:22:33,840
Speaker 3: was in reference to one of these political cheating scandals,

551
00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:35,399
Speaker 3: and at first I thought that doesn't make sense, and

552
00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:37,399
Speaker 3: then I thought, no, it makes perfect sense. If you

553
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Speaker 3: ask most people with kids, what is the most important

554
00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:42,800
Speaker 3: part of your life, the most important thing in your life.

555
00:22:43,240 --> 00:22:45,720
Speaker 3: Married people with kids, they will tell you their kids

556
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Speaker 3: because they feel like that's the right answer. But the

557
00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:52,000
Speaker 3: right answer, I think, I believe is your partner that's

558
00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:54,200
Speaker 3: the most important thing. But it doesn't mean your kids

559
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:57,480
Speaker 3: are not exceptionally important, of course. But if if the

560
00:22:57,840 --> 00:23:00,920
Speaker 3: if the marriage, if the partnership fall apart, if there's

561
00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:03,000
Speaker 3: no focus on the here's the single guy saying all this,

562
00:23:03,080 --> 00:23:04,719
Speaker 3: but I heard it from somebody else. Actually I heard

563
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:07,760
Speaker 3: it from antsy whatever. But like, if the if it

564
00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:12,399
Speaker 3: falls apart from the top, yes, that will affect the kids' lives.

565
00:23:12,880 --> 00:23:15,600
Speaker 3: Trust me. Yes, many of us in this room know that.

566
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:19,200
Speaker 3: So it's like trust me. So I guess that's a

567
00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:22,520
Speaker 3: that's a that's a noble answer to say, my kids

568
00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:24,399
Speaker 3: are the most important thing in my life. But like

569
00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:27,400
Speaker 3: your kids can be a very close second and still

570
00:23:27,440 --> 00:23:31,280
Speaker 3: be extremely important, but you can really sort of attend

571
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Speaker 3: to the relationship at the top. And I think because

572
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Speaker 3: I think that's true. I mean someone just texted, people

573
00:23:36,160 --> 00:23:40,399
Speaker 3: stop dating when they get married sometimes and maybe maybe

574
00:23:40,440 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 3: for some reason, mentally, there's this idea that because you're

575
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Speaker 3: not married, the person is is you know, might leave

576
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:49,640
Speaker 3: or it's easier to leave. I don't think that's true.

577
00:23:49,640 --> 00:23:51,560
Speaker 3: I think people get married still get divorced. I don't know,

578
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:54,479
Speaker 3: but maybe in your mind it's like, well, now we're married,

579
00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 3: so he or she's not going anywhere, so now I

580
00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:59,639
Speaker 3: can let my freak flag fly and be a total moron.

581
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:03,359
Speaker 3: I don't know, but I remember hearing that once. I

582
00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:05,200
Speaker 3: was like, that makes a lot of sense. At first,

583
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:07,160
Speaker 3: that doesn't sound right because nobody wants to say their

584
00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:08,720
Speaker 3: kids and that the most important thing in the world,

585
00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:11,000
Speaker 3: of course, but I mean if the relationships grewed up,

586
00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:12,679
Speaker 3: then your kids are affected. And if so, if your

587
00:24:12,760 --> 00:24:16,199
Speaker 3: kids the most important thing in the world, well then yeah.

588
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Speaker 7: I agree with that one hundred percent of me too.

589
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:20,600
Speaker 3: Wow, man, I mean it only took me a few

590
00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:22,359
Speaker 3: minutes to repeat some deep stuff.

591
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Speaker 6: If somebody else said.

592
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Speaker 3: Well, I don't know that you really, I don't know

593
00:24:27,160 --> 00:24:31,080
Speaker 3: what you repeat it actually, but it just some good conversations.

594
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Speaker 6: So thank you.

595
00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:35,960
Speaker 3: Odd trending stories after the weekend. What out three five

596
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Speaker 3: CAFM Chicago is number one in music station.

597
00:24:39,000 --> 00:24:41,400
Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. This is what's trending.

598
00:24:42,880 --> 00:24:46,080
Speaker 3: Thanks for the therapy session. Someone texted, whoever marries Fred

599
00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:49,680
Speaker 3: will be a lucky girl. Even I don't know about that.

600
00:24:50,359 --> 00:24:51,400
Speaker 5: I agree.

601
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Speaker 6: A lot of people don't.

602
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:58,080
Speaker 3: Like most of the people I've dated probably disagree.

603
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Speaker 5: You haven't found the right one yet. M the one

604
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 5: she's out there, keep on going.

605
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:06,960
Speaker 3: I think I've done a pretty good job with the

606
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:10,960
Speaker 3: sample sizement. I think I've really done a nice job

607
00:25:11,080 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 3: test driving the market. But I think the problem probably

608
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:14,520
Speaker 3: is me.

609
00:25:14,680 --> 00:25:16,520
Speaker 5: But hey, you do you king?

610
00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 3: No? I got cussed out over the weekend. I uh what?

611
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:22,960
Speaker 15: No.

612
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 3: I was sitting at a bar and I saw a girl,

613
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:27,760
Speaker 3: a girl that I went on a couple of dates with,

614
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:31,400
Speaker 3: was like six inches away from me, like, walk right by.

615
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 3: And I texted her and we had and talked in

616
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:36,800
Speaker 3: a while and I'm like, oh, you just walk right by.

617
00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:37,480
Speaker 6: You don't say hi.

618
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 3: And I get this paragraph explosion about what an egomaniac

619
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Speaker 3: I am and how I'm the worst person ever lived.

620
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:46,560
Speaker 6: I'm like to you on the attext, she's.

621
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Speaker 3: Like, oh, you you're such an egomaniac that you think

622
00:25:48,800 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 3: I would notice you? And I'm like, it's a it's

623
00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 3: a figure of speech, it's a it was a joke,

624
00:25:54,600 --> 00:25:59,560
Speaker 3: like you like you almost brushed like limbs with which

625
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:01,760
Speaker 3: it's very well possible she didn't see me. But that

626
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 3: was the point of that. That was what I was saying,

627
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:05,119
Speaker 3: was like, oh, I have a small.

628
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:06,960
Speaker 7: World right like there you are, and.

629
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:09,359
Speaker 3: They just turned into this nasty cot like it got

630
00:26:09,400 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 3: so bad I just blocked her. I'm like, what on earth? Like,

631
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:16,760
Speaker 3: you're you ego maniaccurate, ego maniac. I'm like, I literally

632
00:26:17,040 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 3: saw a person that I made out with once and

633
00:26:18,960 --> 00:26:21,120
Speaker 3: we were like so close that we could have missed

634
00:26:21,119 --> 00:26:23,159
Speaker 3: each other and clearly did. And now I'm an ego maniac.

635
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 3: I'm like, wow, okay, yeah, because I don't know. I

636
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,280
Speaker 3: guess that's because I'm on the radios, so she was

637
00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,720
Speaker 3: supposed to recognize me because I'm I'm like, what come on?

638
00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,359
Speaker 6: Like that has nothing to do with them touch tongues.

639
00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:35,880
Speaker 6: I thought you would say, like.

640
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:38,760
Speaker 3: I literally breathed the same air she did and somehow

641
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:39,840
Speaker 3: we almost missed each other.

642
00:26:40,080 --> 00:26:41,440
Speaker 6: Like that was the point I was making.

643
00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 3: But I think because I'm on the radio, then she's

644
00:26:43,840 --> 00:26:45,960
Speaker 3: able to spin it into oh, well, oh you expect

645
00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 3: to be recognized.

646
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:48,879
Speaker 6: No, I'm on the radio because I don't get recognized.

647
00:26:49,320 --> 00:26:53,320
Speaker 5: Actually, you love being recognized too. You're always you know me.

648
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:55,480
Speaker 3: I'm the first thing I do when I walk in

649
00:26:55,520 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 3: some places, stand on the bar and let everybody know

650
00:26:57,640 --> 00:26:58,240
Speaker 3: I've arrived.

651
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:00,200
Speaker 7: You're like the exact.

652
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 5: Opposite of that.

653
00:27:01,480 --> 00:27:03,320
Speaker 3: And I just it was crazy. But I don't even

654
00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 3: know why I brought that up. I guess to say

655
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 3: that it must be a miserable experience hanging out with me,

656
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:10,160
Speaker 3: because stop, most people don't.

657
00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 6: Most people that's how they remember it is. They can't.

658
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Speaker 6: We can't remember the finer times? Can we?

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Speaker 17: Oh?

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Speaker 6: And here we go?

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Speaker 3: The right one is right in front of you, Freda,

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Speaker 3: it's Kaylin. One in a billion. I agree, she's right here.

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Speaker 5: Oh things, She's wautiful right now too.

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Speaker 7: I am a minister. I can make this happen, and

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Speaker 7: a judge.

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Speaker 3: Even with that shiner. Yeah, I'm still you know. So yeah, well,

667
00:27:33,359 --> 00:27:37,040
Speaker 3: just keep telling people because Caylen I need.

668
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Speaker 7: To work through that before we marry.

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Speaker 3: It'll drunk Klein drunk kaln. There is no ha, just

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Speaker 3: kidding like she'll she'll go with the story and stick

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Speaker 3: with you. I commit to the bes and I'm yeah right,

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Speaker 3: and I'm waiting for the I'm just playing. Although there

673
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Speaker 3: was none of that. People in the bar on Friday

674
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Speaker 3: having a couple of drinks in it. Man, what happened?

675
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Speaker 3: Oh he did it? Like, no, he really did. I'm like, Klen,

676
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Speaker 3: we have to stop that.

677
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Speaker 6: Joking.

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Speaker 4: No funny, Yeah no, I mean people already think that

679
00:28:03,680 --> 00:28:06,320
Speaker 4: about every single guy that I've been out with since

680
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:08,320
Speaker 4: this has happened. So I just figured it I would

681
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,720
Speaker 4: get ahead of it and just blame it on me.

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Speaker 5: Well, whoever I'm with at the time probably did it.

683
00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 6: So did you hear this?

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Speaker 3: Maybe you heard this Carly Russell story that has been

685
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:24,679
Speaker 3: going around for Yeah, well I don't know. You know,

686
00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 3: I'm not sure if everyone's watching CNN like I do.

687
00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 3: But in the situation room, my living room, it will

688
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 3: flitz her every day. But so, this Alabama woman went

689
00:28:33,119 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 3: missing for two days earlier this month, and it turns

690
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Speaker 3: out the whole thing was a fake. In a statement,

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Speaker 3: her attorney said the entire disappearance was a hoax, specifically

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Speaker 3: saying that she was not kidnapped and did not see

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Speaker 3: a baby on the side of the interstate. My client

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Speaker 3: apologizes for her actions to the community. They don't know

695
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Speaker 3: where she was, they don't know what happened They don't

696
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Speaker 3: know if they're going to be charges, but what they

697
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Speaker 3: do know is that none of it ever happened the

698
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Speaker 3: way that she said that it did. A woman who

699
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Speaker 3: was seen darting into the downtown La convenience store that

700
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Speaker 3: sold last week's one billion dollar powerball ticket and appeared

701
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Speaker 3: to be celebrating is not the real jackpot winner. The

702
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,600
Speaker 3: real jackpot winner has not come forward. But this woman

703
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 3: saw cameras at that convenience store. I guess they were

704
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Speaker 3: camped out in front waiting for someone. Of all the

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Speaker 3: places that I would go with my winning billion dollar

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Speaker 3: lottery ticket, I'm not going to take the ticket and

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Speaker 3: run back into the store that I bought it and go, look, everybody,

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Speaker 3: I want a billion dollars.

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Speaker 6: I'm going to hide.

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Speaker 3: You're not gonna see me until the lawyers and the

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Speaker 3: finance people and all of that. Anyway, So this woman

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Speaker 3: ran in. It seemed like she was very excited and happy.

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Speaker 3: She was not the winner. According to the owner of

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Speaker 3: the store, the winner has not yet come forward, so

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Speaker 3: there This is great news for Kiki Paulina specifically, but

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Speaker 3: Americans no longer have to fear the irs showing up

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Speaker 3: unannounced to your door.

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Speaker 6: Oh thank you lord.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's ending a decade's old practice of having unarmed

720
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Speaker 3: revenue officers visit households in businesses to help them resolve

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Speaker 3: their account balances by collecting unpaid taxes and unfiled tax returns.

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Speaker 3: These visits will only continue in a few special circumstances,

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Speaker 3: since ted taxpayers will receive letters in the mail to

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Speaker 3: schedule face to face meetings.

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Speaker 6: What you, guys, don't fore yet you still find you?

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Speaker 7: Why do they want to meet up? But mail is

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Speaker 7: an invitation?

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Speaker 6: Why do they want to meet up? What do you

729
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Speaker 6: think is you didn't pay.

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Speaker 5: Them for the tax.

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Speaker 6: Though well known' did you? Yes? They want to talk

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Speaker 6: to you about that.

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Speaker 3: The move by Elon Musk yesterday to change Twitter to

734
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Speaker 3: x dot com pretty much fell completely flat. One I

735
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Speaker 3: believe X is owned by Microsoft, that the term it

736
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Speaker 3: is X is already registered to somebody else. I guess

737
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:59,320
Speaker 3: Meta has already registered an ex logo. They tried to

738
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Speaker 3: change the sign at headquarters yesterday, but they forgot to

739
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Speaker 3: get a permit to change the signs, so the city

740
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:07,280
Speaker 3: of San Francisco came out and stopped them from changing

741
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Speaker 3: this sign. It's like nobody I guess no one thinks

742
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:13,080
Speaker 3: about this stuff. Like Elon's got these big ideas, but

743
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:16,400
Speaker 3: then Sasame Street was trolling him. Same the Cookie Monster

744
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 3: was trolling Elon Musk yesterday, like he's got these big ideas,

745
00:31:20,640 --> 00:31:23,040
Speaker 3: but then they forget about the little things. Jason Brown

746
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 3: would not survive in this environment.

747
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Speaker 1: Right, You need a planner.

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Speaker 18: I'm not that person for him, but he's someone that

749
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Speaker 18: actually like knows the steps they get something tough.

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Speaker 3: You want to see Jason Brown's inside just excuse you

751
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 3: want to see an absolute explosion or implosion or whatever.

752
00:31:37,880 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 3: Watch me walk in here and pull an audible on

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Speaker 3: something that's unplanned. Hey, you know, maybe we should tweak

754
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Speaker 3: this permission permit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah that's what I sound like.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just like that. But you're the one who

757
00:31:55,920 --> 00:31:58,280
Speaker 3: has to worry about this stuff. I'm not right, so

758
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 3: you know, for me to come in more on my part. Yeah, no,

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying I'm not saying you're wrong, but it's like,

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00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:05,720
Speaker 3: you know, you are the rule follower, and there has

761
00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:07,840
Speaker 3: to be one, you know, come in here and go.

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00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 3: You know what, what if we did it this way

763
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Speaker 3: like the day of and nothing will irritate a young

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Speaker 3: Jason Brown, Yeah.

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Speaker 6: A young one.

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00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 7: I'm old.

767
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Speaker 3: Now wait back in the day, and America's most sleep

768
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:25,560
Speaker 3: deprived state. Everyone's gonna say it's wherever they live. California

769
00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 3: is number one, Maryland, New York, Massachusetts. How do you

770
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:38,360
Speaker 3: say it, Jackson? I pushed the button? Wow Wow Wow. Nevada, Georgia, Connecticut, Virginia, Texas,

771
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Speaker 3: New Jersey the most sleep deprived states. It's national one

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Speaker 3: and Chuesday a national hire a veteran day. Today the

773
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Speaker 3: entertainment report will get to blogs day or go all

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Speaker 3: coming up.

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Speaker 6: It's the Fred Show.

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Speaker 3: Good Morning's Entertainer Report.

777
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Speaker 2: Is on the Fread Show.

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Speaker 4: Singer Tory Kelly is being treated for blood clots after

779
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Speaker 4: being rushed to the hospital. So people close to her

780
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:05,160
Speaker 4: are saying that she was at dinner with friends in

781
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Speaker 4: La Sunday when her heart started beating real fast, and

782
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Speaker 4: then she ended up passing out and she was out

783
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Speaker 4: for a while. I'm hearing her friends said they wanted

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Speaker 4: to make sure that she was taken to Cedar Sinai,

785
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 4: which is the hospital there and not a downtown hospital,

786
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 4: so they actually carried her outside, put her into a car,

787
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Speaker 4: and sped to the hospital instead.

788
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Speaker 5: Of calling an ambulance.

789
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Speaker 4: Tory is now in the ICU and doctors did discover

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Speaker 4: blood clots in her legs and her lungs and are

791
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Speaker 4: still working to determine if any clots are around her heart.

792
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Speaker 4: She has been in and out of consciousness during her

793
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Speaker 4: stay in the hospital, so please keep her in your thoughts.

794
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Speaker 4: Duane the Rock Johnson has made a record setting donation

795
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Speaker 4: to the sag after A Foundation's Emergency Financial Assistance program

796
00:33:47,520 --> 00:33:49,960
Speaker 4: as the actor's strike is nearing its third week. The

797
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Speaker 4: foundation's president, actor Courtney b. Van, said this is him saying,

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Speaker 4: in such times as this, I'm here, I'm not going anywhere.

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Speaker 4: Whatever you need me to do, and that sends a

800
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Speaker 4: huge message to other folks who do this to do

801
00:34:01,560 --> 00:34:04,000
Speaker 4: the same thing. I don't know the exact amount, but

802
00:34:04,040 --> 00:34:07,240
Speaker 4: I am hearing seven figures, and I'm hearing that money

803
00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:10,799
Speaker 4: will go to help actors who are struggling more so

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Speaker 4: than the higher paid actors in the SAG AFTRA program

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Speaker 4: or community.

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Speaker 5: I don't know what they call themselves.

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Speaker 3: Netflix, what I've read is Netflix is the biggest culprit

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Speaker 3: in all of this, and like trying to bring I

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Speaker 3: you know, I'm sure there are other factors, but Netflix

810
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 3: is a factor in bringing the wages down. I guess

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Speaker 3: because they want to do productions more cheaply and more cheaply,

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00:34:34,680 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 3: and you know, pump out all these streaming products and

813
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:39,400
Speaker 3: now no one's getting paid for anything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I guess the streaming is where these guys really get

816
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Speaker 3: screwed as far as the residuals are concerned.

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Speaker 5: That would make sense to me.

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00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:48,359
Speaker 4: Probably more to check on online today, Ed Sheeran just

819
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:52,920
Speaker 4: being a great dude, and Britney Spears reunites with Landspass,

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Speaker 4: this time with his kids.

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Speaker 5: It's on Friendshire Radio dot com.

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Speaker 6: I wonder about edge hearing legacy.

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Speaker 3: Is someone going like does he like a good dude

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00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 3: to detect her in his or like a good dude

825
00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 3: magnet in his team where it's like constantly looking for

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00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 3: ways for him to be awesome. Or does he come

827
00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:09,799
Speaker 3: up with this stuff all on his own.

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Speaker 4: I think a mix of both, probably, but I think

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Speaker 4: it's just genuinely like dope, like he doesn't mind going

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Speaker 4: to talk to fans or you know, doing karaoke.

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Speaker 5: I just think he's awesome.

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Speaker 3: I get to I get the impression that you're right,

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Speaker 3: But I also think there's like a VP of good

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Speaker 3: like looking yeah, I'm like looking good.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:26,320
Speaker 3: Where it's like, hey, dude, there's like there's a wedding downstairs.

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Speaker 3: You need to go sing down there. Okay, I'll do that,

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00:35:30,320 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 3: you know what I mean, like just constantly looking out

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Speaker 3: for it.

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Speaker 14: Right.

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Speaker 6: I'm a good dude and you're the good dude guy,

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Speaker 6: So I'll do it.

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Speaker 2: More Fred Show Next, Fred's Show is on.

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Speaker 6: Good Morning, Everybody's so glad you are here.

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Speaker 3: These Tuesday, July twenty, fifth of Fread Show's on, Hi Kala,

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Speaker 3: good morning. Hi. Jason Paulina is here. Hello, Hikki the

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Speaker 3: one is there? Go well, debate some relationship drama with

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Speaker 3: Heather in just a second after blogs Shelby Shelley, a

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Speaker 3: hunt written, fifty bucks this the Prise, a one game

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Speaker 3: win streak for the Gorilla? Can you be here and

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Speaker 3: get that money? Good news stories this hour? What are

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Speaker 3: you working on for the Fort?

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Speaker 6: Kaylan?

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Speaker 4: Well, you've heard of Barbie and Ken, but have you

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00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:14,359
Speaker 4: heard of Allan because he is having a moment right now.

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00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 4: I know Jason has heard of him, but I will

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Speaker 4: tell you what's going on. It's all thanks to the

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Speaker 4: movie Allan.

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Speaker 6: Touch they talk better than the excited.

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Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show.

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Speaker 3: All right, It's like we're running in our diaries, except

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Speaker 3: we say them aloud and we call them blogs.

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Speaker 6: Klin once you got to go, dear blog.

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00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:33,920
Speaker 4: So I know I mentioned this to you Fred when

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Speaker 4: we were out Friday, But as of late, I've been

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Speaker 4: kind of looking at new apartments just in my building

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Speaker 4: because anything outside of there feels like too much right

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Speaker 4: now for me. I feel like summer's very busy. But

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Speaker 4: what I'm surprised by as I'm viewing these apartments is

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Speaker 4: the absolute state, disgusting state that people are willing to

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Speaker 4: leave their apartments when they know that someone is coming.

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Speaker 4: And please text us if you've ever seen anything weird

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Speaker 4: when you're looking at an apartment, but maybe someone left

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Speaker 4: out like their you know, their little.

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Speaker 5: Toy or something.

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Speaker 4: But these people get twenty four hours notice. I think

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Speaker 4: that's legally what you need to say. Hey, we're going

878
00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:16,240
Speaker 4: to enter your apartment. Someone's going to view it, Okay,

879
00:37:16,280 --> 00:37:20,560
Speaker 4: so you have twenty four hours and they just don't

880
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:24,840
Speaker 4: give a help. So the first experience, the dude answers

881
00:37:24,880 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 4: the door and he's there, which is really freaking weird

882
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:30,279
Speaker 4: because I have never had someone there while I'm viewing

883
00:37:30,320 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 4: their apartment and judging it.

884
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:33,560
Speaker 6: You're supposed to leave, right, You're supposed to leave.

885
00:37:33,600 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 4: And so he straight up gets into a fight with

886
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:38,799
Speaker 4: the woman who's trying to show me the apartment. He's like, well,

887
00:37:38,840 --> 00:37:41,400
Speaker 4: you said this time, and that would be five minutes

888
00:37:41,440 --> 00:37:43,800
Speaker 4: past this time, and you know, I'm starting a call,

889
00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:46,279
Speaker 4: and they were like about to get into a fight,

890
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:47,680
Speaker 4: and I'm standing there all awkwardly.

891
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:50,719
Speaker 6: Can I look at your closet right right?

892
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:52,719
Speaker 5: You know, so just please.

893
00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:55,560
Speaker 4: Because right right, that's my first question.

894
00:37:55,880 --> 00:38:00,000
Speaker 5: No more cars leave you.

895
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:02,840
Speaker 4: So he was really rude. That was my first experience.

896
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 4: The second experience was a dude left his beard hair

897
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 4: all over the sink encounter. And the apartments I saw

898
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 4: were nice and something could be done with them, but

899
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 4: I can't get the image of people's like shower gunk

900
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:22,960
Speaker 4: and they're dirty panties left out, you know, out of

901
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,960
Speaker 4: my head, And I just what kind of person do

902
00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 4: you have to be to not want to tidy up

903
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 4: a little bit?

904
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:30,680
Speaker 6: Yeah right, I mean I would.

905
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:32,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I guess a lot of people just

906
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:34,279
Speaker 3: don't care because it's not their place and they don't

907
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:35,880
Speaker 3: care if it could if it gets rented or not.

908
00:38:36,000 --> 00:38:37,919
Speaker 3: And I guess in theory you'd never know whose place

909
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:40,920
Speaker 3: you were in. But at the same time, I wouldn't

910
00:38:40,920 --> 00:38:43,399
Speaker 3: want I don't know, I wouldn't want people going through

911
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:45,400
Speaker 3: looking at my stuff and it's gross.

912
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 4: Well, the people that rent out the apartments, they like,

913
00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:52,239
Speaker 4: work in my building, so they know whose apartment it is,

914
00:38:52,320 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 4: and they have to see these people all the time

915
00:38:54,120 --> 00:38:55,919
Speaker 4: because their office you have to pass it every day.

916
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:58,400
Speaker 4: So like, even for their sake, I wouldn't want to

917
00:38:58,400 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 4: be like the dirty girl.

918
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:02,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I've had like we have mainenans guys in

919
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:04,040
Speaker 3: our building that will come in and fix stuff if

920
00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:06,239
Speaker 3: it's broken or whatever. And I've asked them before, like

921
00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:09,040
Speaker 3: the stuff you must see and they're like, oh, yes,

922
00:39:10,280 --> 00:39:12,719
Speaker 3: we see it all you know there are people, But

923
00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:15,960
Speaker 3: then you know, then you run into these guys in

924
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:18,080
Speaker 3: the hallway and stuff. So if you're the dude with like,

925
00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:21,200
Speaker 3: you know, the six foot tall sex sex swing, it

926
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 3: looks like a cat tree, right, you know, one of

927
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:25,839
Speaker 3: those if you got one of the carpeted sex toys,

928
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 3: it looks like it could be for a cat.

929
00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:29,000
Speaker 6: You know what I'm talking about you.

930
00:39:30,320 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 7: No, no, I don't.

931
00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 6: I don't know what you're talking about. Never see the

932
00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:33,800
Speaker 6: cat tower.

933
00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 5: She's not hanging from the ceiling either of my What

934
00:39:36,640 --> 00:39:37,040
Speaker 5: the hell?

935
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:39,680
Speaker 3: I'm just trying to know what you trying to create

936
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:41,040
Speaker 3: a picture of a sex toy that looks like a

937
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:41,560
Speaker 3: cat tower.

938
00:39:41,640 --> 00:39:43,640
Speaker 6: Did you used to have one, Rufio a cat tower?

939
00:39:43,719 --> 00:39:43,919
Speaker 3: No?

940
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:45,279
Speaker 6: Never, You've never owned a cat tower.

941
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:48,640
Speaker 3: Now I'm talking about the physical cat tawl oh.

942
00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:50,480
Speaker 5: I don't think any of us are hanging from the ceiling.

943
00:39:50,760 --> 00:39:52,279
Speaker 3: If you are, let me know if you have a

944
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:55,840
Speaker 3: cat tower slash sex wing either one, I want to

945
00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:57,359
Speaker 3: talk to you.

946
00:39:57,719 --> 00:40:00,560
Speaker 6: If you have both combined and one, we'd really like

947
00:40:00,560 --> 00:40:01,040
Speaker 6: to talk to you.

948
00:40:01,239 --> 00:40:01,439
Speaker 12: Yeah.

949
00:40:01,480 --> 00:40:03,120
Speaker 3: I don't know how you got to be careful because

950
00:40:03,160 --> 00:40:04,960
Speaker 3: you see those people over and over and they know,

951
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:06,840
Speaker 3: you know, if you gross.

952
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 5: The judgment I would give.

953
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:10,160
Speaker 3: Yeah. That's like, would you want to see a hotel

954
00:40:10,239 --> 00:40:12,759
Speaker 3: room before it was clean from the person who was

955
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 3: in there before? Do you ever look at people in

956
00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:18,240
Speaker 3: the hallway the hotel and be like, oh, yes.

957
00:40:18,120 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 6: See it's the same thing. The show is on.

958
00:40:21,080 --> 00:40:22,399
Speaker 2: It's stay or go.

959
00:40:23,560 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 6: So good morning, every one, Good morning, Heather how are you.

960
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:31,400
Speaker 5: Good morning? I'm okay?

961
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:32,520
Speaker 6: There are you okay?

962
00:40:32,760 --> 00:40:36,839
Speaker 3: Well, we're okay, We're okay too, We're petty, we're fantastic. Yeah,

963
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 3: oh that was that was fake enthusiasm.

964
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:40,799
Speaker 6: We're good though. What's going on? Heather?

965
00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:43,840
Speaker 3: Tell us? What's going on with this this husband of yours?

966
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:45,720
Speaker 3: This dude?

967
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:51,800
Speaker 19: Well, so, I can't believe that I'm making this call

968
00:40:51,800 --> 00:40:56,920
Speaker 19: because I am a newlywed, but I really need advice.

969
00:40:57,239 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 3: So call the radio show. I say it every week.

970
00:41:00,320 --> 00:41:02,759
Speaker 3: You know you got nowhere else to turn. Call the

971
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 3: radio show. It's probably better to call us and talk

972
00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:06,880
Speaker 3: to us about it anonymously than I just to talk

973
00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 3: to your friends and other people, because you kind of

974
00:41:09,719 --> 00:41:12,920
Speaker 3: you tarnish people when when you give your friends information

975
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:16,080
Speaker 3: about your spouse who hopefully isn't going anywhere you know,

976
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:18,359
Speaker 3: or like your long term boyfriend and girlfriend, like when

977
00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:20,879
Speaker 3: you say stuff that's not great about them. It's hard

978
00:41:20,880 --> 00:41:23,480
Speaker 3: for people to forget when you forgive them and go back,

979
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:25,279
Speaker 3: you know what I mean, Or when you forgive them

980
00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:27,880
Speaker 3: and move on, because your friends sometimes they don't move on,

981
00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:29,400
Speaker 3: they keep thinking about it.

982
00:41:29,440 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 6: We move on. So what's going on?

983
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:32,839
Speaker 17: Heather?

984
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:38,279
Speaker 19: Oh exactly? I just need an unbiased opinion. So here

985
00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:46,239
Speaker 19: I am. So before we got married, we sat down,

986
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:50,879
Speaker 19: we did the adult thing, and we went over our

987
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 19: financial situations and what they look like and how we

988
00:41:55,960 --> 00:42:02,120
Speaker 19: were going to handle things once we were married. So

989
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 19: during that conversation, we shared our salaries and based on that,

990
00:42:06,640 --> 00:42:11,800
Speaker 19: we decided how much we would put in per check

991
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:15,399
Speaker 19: to our joint account and how much we would keep

992
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 19: for our individual accounts, you know. And I was really

993
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:22,719
Speaker 19: proud of myself. I was really proud of us as

994
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:27,240
Speaker 19: a couple, and you know, thought everything was going great

995
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:35,359
Speaker 19: untill until. Yeah. So a couple of months after we

996
00:42:35,560 --> 00:42:41,279
Speaker 19: got married, I was on his computer and he had

997
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 19: left his.

998
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:46,279
Speaker 5: His banking cab up.

999
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 6: And you don't leave that.

1000
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:54,680
Speaker 3: You don't leave the Burner email account open, you don't

1001
00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:57,879
Speaker 3: leave this, you don't leave the Ashley Madison account open.

1002
00:42:57,920 --> 00:42:58,200
Speaker 6: Anyway.

1003
00:42:58,440 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 3: Okay, So this guy, this guy's bank is just right

1004
00:43:01,480 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 3: there in front of you, and you just couldn't help

1005
00:43:03,600 --> 00:43:09,520
Speaker 3: yourself exactly And what did you see him? What did

1006
00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:11,240
Speaker 3: you see him? And on the edge of my seat,

1007
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:13,960
Speaker 3: quite a storyteller, but what did you see.

1008
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 11: He?

1009
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:18,879
Speaker 19: I saw what he really makes and it is not

1010
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 19: what he told me, Oh, it really not it okay.

1011
00:43:22,840 --> 00:43:25,160
Speaker 3: So you saw like like you saw like a I

1012
00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:26,960
Speaker 3: don't know, he gets paid every two weeks, I'm assuming

1013
00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:28,680
Speaker 3: or something like that, and you saw what one of

1014
00:43:28,680 --> 00:43:31,000
Speaker 3: the checks is for, and then you kind of did

1015
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 3: the math in your head and you're like, that's a

1016
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:35,160
Speaker 3: lot more money than he told me he makes.

1017
00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:38,280
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, uh huh huh.

1018
00:43:38,280 --> 00:43:42,920
Speaker 5: And I was devastated. Why would he lie to me?

1019
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:48,399
Speaker 19: I told him the truth, and I understand that it's

1020
00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:52,879
Speaker 19: his money, but the fact that he would lie about that,

1021
00:43:54,000 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 19: especially when I was completely transparent, It's it's really getting

1022
00:43:58,520 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 19: to me, and.

1023
00:43:59,840 --> 00:44:02,359
Speaker 5: I don't know, I don't know how to handle it.

1024
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 3: This is interesting because we've heard we've heard a lot

1025
00:44:04,719 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 3: of variations of the opposite, where people are lying about

1026
00:44:08,120 --> 00:44:10,080
Speaker 3: how much money they have or or how much money

1027
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 3: they make, or you know, possessions that they have that

1028
00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:15,680
Speaker 3: aren't really theirs, or you know, we've heard a lot

1029
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:17,480
Speaker 3: of that kind of stuff. I'm not sure if you've

1030
00:44:17,520 --> 00:44:19,040
Speaker 3: ever had anybody call up here and say that the

1031
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:22,040
Speaker 3: person there with actually makes more and lied about him.

1032
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:25,400
Speaker 3: So here's the thing. Are you living the life that

1033
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:27,439
Speaker 3: you want to live? Like with this guy? I means

1034
00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 3: you have the resources to do what you want to

1035
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:32,560
Speaker 3: do now. And I'm not negating the lie, but you know,

1036
00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:37,840
Speaker 3: maybe his comfort level with saving is vastly different from yours,

1037
00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 3: and so he was just sort of sizing up what

1038
00:44:40,640 --> 00:44:42,920
Speaker 3: you were comfortable with and then he matched it. You

1039
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:44,799
Speaker 3: know what I'm saying as opposed to going, I make

1040
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 3: tremendously more than you do, so we should spend a

1041
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:49,319
Speaker 3: whole lot more than we're planning on now. I'm not

1042
00:44:49,320 --> 00:44:52,160
Speaker 3: saying he went about it the right way, but I mean,

1043
00:44:53,080 --> 00:44:56,040
Speaker 3: you know, are you guys living below the level that

1044
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:58,080
Speaker 3: you would want to live and this guy's not contributing?

1045
00:44:58,120 --> 00:45:01,000
Speaker 3: Are you somehow paying more than he is he's not contributing,

1046
00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 3: because that would be one thing, like let's say you're

1047
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:06,280
Speaker 3: you're paying more than your fair share because he claims

1048
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,160
Speaker 3: he doesn't have the money and he's pocketing the difference.

1049
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:11,759
Speaker 6: That's bad. But what's really going on.

1050
00:45:14,360 --> 00:45:15,920
Speaker 5: I mean, we're we're comfortable.

1051
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 19: I mean, he just kind of made it seem like

1052
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:21,680
Speaker 19: it was more equal and he makes more.

1053
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:23,040
Speaker 5: I mean it's a.

1054
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 3: Lot, so but maybe maybe he's making maybe he's making

1055
00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 3: the whole thing.

1056
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:29,919
Speaker 5: Yeah, that would bother me to the lie.

1057
00:45:30,000 --> 00:45:31,799
Speaker 3: But maybe he doesn't want to I don't. Let's say

1058
00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:33,359
Speaker 3: it's I don't know how much more money he makes

1059
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:34,960
Speaker 3: than you, but maybe he doesn't want to make you

1060
00:45:35,040 --> 00:45:38,880
Speaker 3: somehow feel inferior, and he's comfortable with whatever you contribute,

1061
00:45:38,920 --> 00:45:41,520
Speaker 3: so he's just matching it. It's just equal. What you know,

1062
00:45:42,120 --> 00:45:48,360
Speaker 3: why why does that necessarily hurt things? I'm playing devil's advocations.

1063
00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:53,360
Speaker 19: It's the it's the lie, Like why would he told

1064
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:56,200
Speaker 19: I mean, we are intertwining our lives and he didn't

1065
00:45:56,239 --> 00:46:00,080
Speaker 19: trust me with that information? Like what is the But

1066
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 19: what I don't know how to feel about? Like what

1067
00:46:02,880 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 19: else is he lying about?

1068
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:04,399
Speaker 6: Right?

1069
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:06,879
Speaker 3: Well, maybe he says, Okay, let's say you I'm making

1070
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:09,160
Speaker 3: this up. Let's say you make fifty, he makes one hundred,

1071
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:12,680
Speaker 3: and so then you guys get together and he's like, okay,

1072
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:16,400
Speaker 3: you make fifty and I so then I contribute fifty.

1073
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:18,520
Speaker 3: You know, I make fifty quote unquote or whatever, and

1074
00:46:18,560 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 3: then we live at that level. Because what if he

1075
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:23,040
Speaker 3: said I make one hundred, you make fifty, and you're like,

1076
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:25,600
Speaker 3: well great, now we can spend you know what I mean?

1077
00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:27,239
Speaker 3: Now we can spend this much more because you make

1078
00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:29,600
Speaker 3: this much more and he's not comfortable with that. Now. Granted,

1079
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:32,320
Speaker 3: these are all things that should be discussed, you know, openly,

1080
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:34,360
Speaker 3: because you're in a relationship, But I mean, do you

1081
00:46:34,400 --> 00:46:36,600
Speaker 3: have debt? Do you have any kind of spending issues?

1082
00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:40,160
Speaker 3: Is there any reason why he isn't telling you the

1083
00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:42,480
Speaker 3: truth about how much money he actually has, Like you

1084
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:44,880
Speaker 3: have a history of making poor financial decisions. I mean,

1085
00:46:44,880 --> 00:46:46,399
Speaker 3: I'm trying to think of why he would lie.

1086
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 5: No, I don't.

1087
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:57,280
Speaker 19: I'm I'm just a normal gal with the normal amount

1088
00:46:57,280 --> 00:47:02,839
Speaker 19: of student loan debt. But like, okay, I mean that's

1089
00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:04,359
Speaker 19: the only thing that I could think of.

1090
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 3: No, he shouldn't lie, Like I think we all agree

1091
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 3: on that. But I'm trying to work through why he's lying,

1092
00:47:09,200 --> 00:47:11,680
Speaker 3: because there's a lot of places you could go with this.

1093
00:47:11,840 --> 00:47:13,840
Speaker 3: He's I don't know, people have texted he's got a

1094
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:17,080
Speaker 3: gambling problem. People have texted he's protecting himself in case

1095
00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:19,480
Speaker 3: you get married. That that seems a little bit likely

1096
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:21,279
Speaker 3: to me, is that he doesn't want you to know

1097
00:47:21,280 --> 00:47:23,520
Speaker 3: how much he's got in case something happens, and he

1098
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 3: only has to give you half of what you're thinking.

1099
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:28,200
Speaker 3: But that's not true though, Actually because if you get divorced,

1100
00:47:28,239 --> 00:47:30,480
Speaker 3: then someone's going to look at that forensically, and and

1101
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 3: he's still going to have to give you half. You know,

1102
00:47:32,440 --> 00:47:34,920
Speaker 3: I don't know how much he could really hide. I

1103
00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:37,839
Speaker 3: don't know eight five five one three five. You can

1104
00:47:37,880 --> 00:47:39,960
Speaker 3: call us, you could text to say, Kiki's over here.

1105
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:41,160
Speaker 3: You're just chomming at the bit.

1106
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:45,880
Speaker 10: Because it's it's a hidden bank account today aside family tomorrow.

1107
00:47:46,040 --> 00:47:48,880
Speaker 7: Okay, Yes, you just never know what people are.

1108
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 6: Up to a night.

1109
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 10: No, No, I just got a pay raise. And he

1110
00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 10: didn't say no, no, you didn't just get a pay raise,

1111
00:47:55,040 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 10: you know. No, when you get a pay raise, that's

1112
00:47:57,200 --> 00:47:59,440
Speaker 10: our pay raise. Okay, I've taked you guys.

1113
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 5: Was he is?

1114
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:00,680
Speaker 7: It's ours?

1115
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:05,000
Speaker 10: What's mine's is mine? That's this is where she messed up. Yeah,

1116
00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:08,080
Speaker 10: as a woman, you never you never tell how much

1117
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:11,440
Speaker 10: money you actually have. Yes, Oh no, you got to

1118
00:48:11,440 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 10: have a lord have mercy account is what it's called.

1119
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:16,360
Speaker 10: And it's onto the side just in case he asks, crazy, you're.

1120
00:48:16,239 --> 00:48:19,800
Speaker 3: You're doing what he's doing. Absolutely all women should, yes,

1121
00:48:20,040 --> 00:48:20,960
Speaker 3: but men shouldn't.

1122
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:21,319
Speaker 12: No.

1123
00:48:22,239 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 3: No, okay, so I always want to be clear, Yes,

1124
00:48:25,200 --> 00:48:29,720
Speaker 3: you're doing exactly what Heather's husband is doing right now currently, yes, everyone,

1125
00:48:29,719 --> 00:48:32,000
Speaker 3: and Tim thinks that you make less than you make

1126
00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:33,799
Speaker 3: absolutely and you are embezzling.

1127
00:48:33,960 --> 00:48:34,760
Speaker 6: You're on money.

1128
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:40,080
Speaker 3: It's embezzlement because you're not you're lying to him the money.

1129
00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:41,319
Speaker 7: I'm just protecting me.

1130
00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 6: Okay, well then that's all her husband's doing that.

1131
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:44,160
Speaker 7: Well, no, because you can.

1132
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:46,359
Speaker 10: Have a whole side favor I don't know, and maybe

1133
00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:47,359
Speaker 10: his side family too.

1134
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:47,719
Speaker 2: I don't.

1135
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:49,680
Speaker 7: I don't trust a man who has all that money

1136
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:50,080
Speaker 7: on the side.

1137
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:51,600
Speaker 3: Well, then why should we trust a woman who has

1138
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:52,439
Speaker 3: all that money on the side.

1139
00:48:52,480 --> 00:48:54,400
Speaker 7: Because we have to do it. It's just something we

1140
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:56,879
Speaker 7: have to do, and as women, we should, okay.

1141
00:48:56,640 --> 00:48:59,759
Speaker 3: We need right now, I think that it would be

1142
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:02,880
Speaker 3: fair for men to have their own his own separate

1143
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:05,520
Speaker 3: accounts too, And it would appear that Heather's not comfortable

1144
00:49:05,520 --> 00:49:08,319
Speaker 3: with that. So so he's just doing it and it

1145
00:49:08,320 --> 00:49:12,040
Speaker 3: doesn't appear to be affecting their lifestyle, and so, you know,

1146
00:49:12,160 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 3: just because But I'll let you go ahead because we're

1147
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:16,200
Speaker 3: gonna take some phone calls. But Heather, thank you so much,

1148
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:17,680
Speaker 3: and good luck, and have the radio on. We're gonna

1149
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:18,719
Speaker 3: talk about you now behind your.

1150
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:24,120
Speaker 5: Back okay, insights.

1151
00:49:23,880 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 6: He of course, of course they're gonna be good insight

1152
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:28,279
Speaker 6: looking girl.

1153
00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:30,440
Speaker 5: I'm just saying.

1154
00:49:32,360 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 6: Just because okay, he breathing that.

1155
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,160
Speaker 3: But this, I think this comes down to like fundamentals

1156
00:49:37,200 --> 00:49:39,879
Speaker 3: about how people think about money. And maybe he loves her,

1157
00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:42,880
Speaker 3: but they maybe fundamentally they don't agree about money. Some

1158
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 3: people think because the money is there, that it can

1159
00:49:44,560 --> 00:49:47,840
Speaker 3: be spent. This dude probably doesn't think that. I'm not

1160
00:49:47,880 --> 00:49:49,960
Speaker 3: saying she does, and I'm not also sure that she

1161
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:53,000
Speaker 3: would admit that on the radio. But again, some people think, oh,

1162
00:49:53,000 --> 00:49:55,320
Speaker 3: we have all this money, we should spend it. Who's

1163
00:49:55,360 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 3: to say that he's not saving and then he pays

1164
00:49:57,200 --> 00:49:59,280
Speaker 3: for a vacation. Who is to say he's not saving

1165
00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:01,560
Speaker 3: for their fe future kids college. Who's to say he's

1166
00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:03,440
Speaker 3: not saving so they can make it down payment on.

1167
00:50:03,440 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 6: A bigger house. Who is to say this is sinister?

1168
00:50:05,680 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 5: Well, then just say that.

1169
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:10,600
Speaker 3: But my thing is if if he does say it,

1170
00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:12,840
Speaker 3: then she may think, well, the half of that's mine,

1171
00:50:13,280 --> 00:50:17,480
Speaker 3: so we should spend it on yeah, or or I

1172
00:50:17,520 --> 00:50:20,640
Speaker 3: shouldn't have to contribute equally or whatever. I think.

1173
00:50:20,680 --> 00:50:23,040
Speaker 5: It's like, are all lies equal to you or not?

1174
00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:25,960
Speaker 4: Because you know obviously they're not to you because like

1175
00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 4: to me, a lie is a lie.

1176
00:50:27,200 --> 00:50:28,480
Speaker 5: So like, if he's cheated, we.

1177
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:31,359
Speaker 4: Wouldn't be sitting here trying to figure out why he cheated. So,

1178
00:50:31,440 --> 00:50:33,120
Speaker 4: but we're trying to figure out why he lied about

1179
00:50:33,120 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 4: his finances. Like if you're honest with me, you're honest

1180
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:35,799
Speaker 4: with me.

1181
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:38,719
Speaker 3: It just doesn't seem to be hurting them except for

1182
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:41,279
Speaker 3: the fact that she now knows he has more money.

1183
00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:44,239
Speaker 4: It's a lie, though. You're starting your marriage off on

1184
00:50:44,280 --> 00:50:45,120
Speaker 4: a lot, right.

1185
00:50:45,560 --> 00:50:46,759
Speaker 9: I mean, he's not gonna get away with it too

1186
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 9: long because if they fall the Texas together, it's gonna show.

1187
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:50,600
Speaker 5: Why are you lying, Brock?

1188
00:50:51,560 --> 00:50:51,799
Speaker 10: I know?

1189
00:50:53,760 --> 00:50:57,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, look at you. You big Tim pays more of

1190
00:50:57,640 --> 00:51:00,440
Speaker 3: the bills to he should. Yeah, so big Tim pays

1191
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:02,960
Speaker 3: more than bills for the house that you own. Yes,

1192
00:51:03,239 --> 00:51:05,680
Speaker 3: and you're not honest with him about how much money

1193
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:06,000
Speaker 3: you make?

1194
00:51:06,520 --> 00:51:06,719
Speaker 13: Yeah?

1195
00:51:06,800 --> 00:51:07,440
Speaker 6: No, like.

1196
00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:12,480
Speaker 7: How much money off this relationship as I should.

1197
00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:16,399
Speaker 5: So we know what.

1198
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:19,520
Speaker 6: Car you drive to work, what car you drive home? Yeah?

1199
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 2: You do?

1200
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 14: You do?

1201
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:24,360
Speaker 3: You park a nice car hilarious like at the airport

1202
00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:26,640
Speaker 3: and then get in some sort of a hooptie and

1203
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:27,399
Speaker 3: drop that home.

1204
00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:29,319
Speaker 7: Yes, I park at my sisters and take.

1205
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:32,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, I wish I could afford a car.

1206
00:51:34,280 --> 00:51:34,560
Speaker 20: Him.

1207
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 5: You tell him when you get married or still know,

1208
00:51:37,320 --> 00:51:37,799
Speaker 5: because you know.

1209
00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:39,759
Speaker 2: What is it?

1210
00:51:39,800 --> 00:51:41,960
Speaker 7: I'm so serious you guys. I've been raised as a

1211
00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 7: little girl.

1212
00:51:42,560 --> 00:51:45,560
Speaker 10: You have a lord, have mercy fund on the side

1213
00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:49,800
Speaker 10: in case my mom does this always I know, mamafraid

1214
00:51:49,840 --> 00:51:52,640
Speaker 10: got to make it. Jo know about this, should know

1215
00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:53,040
Speaker 10: about it.

1216
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:58,880
Speaker 3: We don't know is how much money? Because you know

1217
00:51:58,920 --> 00:52:01,719
Speaker 3: what I can't really speaks to exactly the reason why she.

1218
00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:03,839
Speaker 3: I mean, one, she got a lot of taking from

1219
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:04,640
Speaker 3: her in a divorce.

1220
00:52:04,880 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 7: Yes, yes, children.

1221
00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:09,640
Speaker 3: But the other is I think that my parents have

1222
00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:12,960
Speaker 3: maybe have different ideas about spending and so yeah, I

1223
00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 3: mean I think a lot of it's a protection mechanism.

1224
00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:17,600
Speaker 3: But I guess I don't know why a dude can't

1225
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:19,759
Speaker 3: have that same little nest egg over here in the

1226
00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 3: corner that's like, you know here, I got a little

1227
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:24,480
Speaker 3: bit over here that's just mine just in case the

1228
00:52:24,480 --> 00:52:25,040
Speaker 3: same way.

1229
00:52:24,920 --> 00:52:25,359
Speaker 6: That you do.

1230
00:52:26,200 --> 00:52:29,399
Speaker 3: Absolutely okay, So but just to be clear, though, you

1231
00:52:29,440 --> 00:52:33,320
Speaker 3: can do it absolutely so you're living like her husband, yes,

1232
00:52:33,600 --> 00:52:34,080
Speaker 3: but it's.

1233
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:35,319
Speaker 6: Wrong for him.

1234
00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:36,719
Speaker 7: It's absolutely wrong for him.

1235
00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:43,279
Speaker 3: Okay, Hi Jay, how you doing, Jay hey Man?

1236
00:52:44,160 --> 00:52:44,880
Speaker 6: Just to recap here.

1237
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:47,520
Speaker 3: So this this woman just got married and found out

1238
00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:50,240
Speaker 3: she was snooping a little bit. But we're gonna overlook

1239
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:52,600
Speaker 3: that she found out that her husband makes more than

1240
00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:56,319
Speaker 3: he said he makes, and when they were sort of

1241
00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:59,319
Speaker 3: figuring out their finances, he threw out a number that

1242
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:01,480
Speaker 3: is in fact lower than what he really makes, and

1243
00:53:01,520 --> 00:53:02,279
Speaker 3: she's upset about it.

1244
00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:03,520
Speaker 6: What do you think?

1245
00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 14: Yeah, me personally, Like I said, I mean that, you know,

1246
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:08,799
Speaker 14: not to discredit the lie.

1247
00:53:08,560 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 6: For the most part. I mean, I think it's.

1248
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:13,080
Speaker 14: It's like a it's like a little, small, little white lie.

1249
00:53:13,120 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 14: Like I think that she's probably being over dramatic a

1250
00:53:17,120 --> 00:53:18,800
Speaker 14: little bit because I'm not gonna lie, like, not in

1251
00:53:18,840 --> 00:53:20,759
Speaker 14: a bad way, but she does sound like she's she

1252
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:29,160
Speaker 14: overreacts over small so so that I'm listening, Yeah, Like

1253
00:53:29,200 --> 00:53:31,239
Speaker 14: I'm listening to it and I'm living like, yeah, he's

1254
00:53:31,640 --> 00:53:35,040
Speaker 14: a little overreacting, And I don't think it's I feel like, personally,

1255
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:39,040
Speaker 14: she doesn't. If he worked hard to earn what he earns,

1256
00:53:39,080 --> 00:53:42,080
Speaker 14: he deserves the right to keep you know, that part

1257
00:53:42,120 --> 00:53:44,839
Speaker 14: of him, you know, himself, not like so much as

1258
00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:48,640
Speaker 14: a sequel, but like, yeah, it's not okay to lie.

1259
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:54,920
Speaker 14: But I mean again, if he's exactly right, you know, okay,

1260
00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:55,680
Speaker 14: what's more to her?

1261
00:53:56,120 --> 00:53:58,879
Speaker 3: Well, no, Jay, I'm saying. I'm saying the story because

1262
00:53:59,040 --> 00:54:01,400
Speaker 3: and it could be sentenced her. And it could also

1263
00:54:01,440 --> 00:54:03,160
Speaker 3: be that this woman's not willing to call up here

1264
00:54:03,200 --> 00:54:06,800
Speaker 3: and say, yeah, you know what, I'm massively in debt

1265
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 3: and I spend every dollar I make and my husband

1266
00:54:09,640 --> 00:54:12,200
Speaker 3: doesn't live that way. I don't know, but it could

1267
00:54:12,239 --> 00:54:15,600
Speaker 3: be that. And I don't think that's Protecting their family

1268
00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:21,439
Speaker 3: finances is different than supporting a second family, and.

1269
00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:22,040
Speaker 17: I think so too.

1270
00:54:22,080 --> 00:54:25,480
Speaker 14: I think it's because she probably does have not like

1271
00:54:25,960 --> 00:54:28,319
Speaker 14: a spending habit or maybe bad debt, but it has

1272
00:54:28,360 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 14: to be something in order for her to be shocked

1273
00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:34,479
Speaker 14: enough to be like, oh, well, yeah, you make more

1274
00:54:34,520 --> 00:54:36,880
Speaker 14: than I do. And she's probably has been reckless with

1275
00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:39,320
Speaker 14: her money or something like that or in the past

1276
00:54:39,440 --> 00:54:41,600
Speaker 14: or maybe currently, and he's probably like, okay, like, let

1277
00:54:41,600 --> 00:54:44,440
Speaker 14: me just keep a little, because if I told somebody

1278
00:54:44,440 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 14: that I made twice is more than they'll think that

1279
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:49,000
Speaker 14: they have twice as more. And I get it, we're

1280
00:54:49,000 --> 00:54:51,600
Speaker 14: together and everything like that, but you still have to

1281
00:54:51,640 --> 00:54:55,080
Speaker 14: have a separate mindset for finances in myket.

1282
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:58,680
Speaker 3: Maybe he's saving for a surprise of some kind. Maybe

1283
00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:00,520
Speaker 3: he wants to take her on a vaca, maybe he

1284
00:55:00,520 --> 00:55:01,880
Speaker 3: wants to buy a new car.

1285
00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:05,520
Speaker 14: Different case, maybe just in case of financial heartship, Like

1286
00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:07,319
Speaker 14: nobody ever makes him that, Like what if they go

1287
00:55:07,360 --> 00:55:10,400
Speaker 14: through a financial heartship and we got good money to

1288
00:55:10,400 --> 00:55:10,920
Speaker 14: get them back?

1289
00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 6: Now I don't have it.

1290
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 3: He gonna get the hell out of there with his

1291
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:21,520
Speaker 3: with his rainy day. He gonna go Jay. I'm sorry,

1292
00:55:21,560 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 3: he gonna go hang out with his other family. I

1293
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 3: gotta go, Jay, have a good day, Thank you lords,

1294
00:55:25,680 --> 00:55:29,880
Speaker 3: good morning Wells having his own full conversation over there.

1295
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:31,920
Speaker 6: I don't know, lordas what do you think? What do

1296
00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:32,600
Speaker 6: we do? Stare go?

1297
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:36,400
Speaker 21: You know why? I think what they're newly was? I

1298
00:55:36,480 --> 00:55:38,640
Speaker 21: say for to day. But she's gotta have a really

1299
00:55:38,640 --> 00:55:41,440
Speaker 21: tough conversation with this guy if you just don't turn

1300
00:55:41,520 --> 00:55:43,279
Speaker 21: up a marriage with that kind of why like thought,

1301
00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:45,920
Speaker 21: like even if he is saving it for her, I

1302
00:55:45,920 --> 00:55:48,120
Speaker 21: don't know whatever, Like the only reason is that you're

1303
00:55:48,160 --> 00:55:49,920
Speaker 21: hiding that kind of money? Is I know what Kiki

1304
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:51,400
Speaker 21: were saying, Like what is he gonna do with that

1305
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:54,839
Speaker 21: in the background. I'm like, I think, like, I think

1306
00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:56,600
Speaker 21: it's one thing for a girl to say up money

1307
00:55:56,600 --> 00:55:59,040
Speaker 21: because like, you never know what's gonna happen. Girls don't

1308
00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:02,200
Speaker 21: have as much powers sometimes and they don't always trust that.

1309
00:56:02,360 --> 00:56:04,200
Speaker 21: So like, that's why you have to have that money, Dave.

1310
00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:07,759
Speaker 21: But I got like, if you're saving it for like

1311
00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:09,960
Speaker 21: the future, if you're saving it for your kid college funds,

1312
00:56:10,120 --> 00:56:11,800
Speaker 21: just tell her, Like, I don't think she's.

1313
00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:12,359
Speaker 20: Gonna be that mad.

1314
00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:14,759
Speaker 6: I'm just I'm trying to think of the other way around.

1315
00:56:14,840 --> 00:56:17,520
Speaker 3: Let's say that I marry someone way more successful than me,

1316
00:56:18,160 --> 00:56:20,480
Speaker 3: which wouldn't be hard to do, and uh, and this

1317
00:56:20,680 --> 00:56:23,000
Speaker 3: I find out, you know, we each make acts and

1318
00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:24,600
Speaker 3: that's what we decided to spend, and that's what we

1319
00:56:24,640 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 3: decided to put our bills, and that's the lifestyle that

1320
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:29,000
Speaker 3: we're leading. And then I find out that she makes

1321
00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:31,600
Speaker 3: triple that what do I do. I go to her

1322
00:56:31,640 --> 00:56:34,239
Speaker 3: and go, oh, well, half of that's mine, or you know,

1323
00:56:34,320 --> 00:56:36,200
Speaker 3: I should be able to spend half of that, or

1324
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:39,120
Speaker 3: I mean, what what is my what is my leverage?

1325
00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:40,960
Speaker 6: What is my angle? I don't have one.

1326
00:56:41,040 --> 00:56:44,640
Speaker 21: It's great personally for me, personally for me, like when

1327
00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:47,719
Speaker 21: you're getting married and you enter into that agreement that

1328
00:56:47,760 --> 00:56:50,080
Speaker 21: we're going to spend the rest of our life together,

1329
00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 21: like what yours is yours with mine is mine, like

1330
00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:55,080
Speaker 21: we share all of it together. And so if you're not,

1331
00:56:55,640 --> 00:56:57,800
Speaker 21: I feel like, if you're walking in with that agreement,

1332
00:56:57,840 --> 00:57:00,399
Speaker 21: or if someone is walking in with that mindset, I'm

1333
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:04,440
Speaker 21: saving that money, Like, then are you really all into.

1334
00:57:04,320 --> 00:57:06,640
Speaker 3: This marriage in the I hear that, and I'm trying

1335
00:57:06,640 --> 00:57:08,960
Speaker 3: to play Devil's advocate at least I don't. I'm not

1336
00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:11,480
Speaker 3: buying I'm not buying Kiki's angle here that women should

1337
00:57:11,480 --> 00:57:14,160
Speaker 3: do it and that he's supporting some side family. I

1338
00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:16,160
Speaker 3: don't know about all that. I'm trying to figure out

1339
00:57:16,160 --> 00:57:18,120
Speaker 3: a reason why he may have done it. But the

1340
00:57:18,200 --> 00:57:21,520
Speaker 3: truth is, if I'm marrying someone, and you know, at

1341
00:57:21,520 --> 00:57:23,640
Speaker 3: this point in my life marrying someone as would be

1342
00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:28,320
Speaker 3: a monstrous occasion, then I'm not Hopefully I'm not worried

1343
00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:31,240
Speaker 3: about them stealing from me, or hopefully we have an

1344
00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:35,600
Speaker 3: understanding about spending, we have an understanding about finances and saving.

1345
00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:39,400
Speaker 3: And if we don't have that fundamental understanding, and I'm

1346
00:57:39,400 --> 00:57:41,120
Speaker 3: having a lie about how much I make to hide

1347
00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:42,640
Speaker 3: it from someone so they don't spend it.

1348
00:57:42,680 --> 00:57:42,840
Speaker 5: All.

1349
00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:44,080
Speaker 6: We shouldn't be married.

1350
00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:47,560
Speaker 21: Yeah, like that was a conversation that should have been

1351
00:57:47,720 --> 00:57:49,720
Speaker 21: in the first place. But now you're kind of there

1352
00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:51,360
Speaker 21: and you have to have that big, tough division.

1353
00:57:51,840 --> 00:57:54,080
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, lorda, thank you so much for listening. Have

1354
00:57:54,120 --> 00:57:56,160
Speaker 3: a great day, you too.

1355
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Speaker 17: Man.

1356
00:57:56,920 --> 00:57:57,760
Speaker 6: You're getting killed on.

1357
00:57:57,680 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 5: The I don't care.

1358
00:57:58,960 --> 00:57:59,200
Speaker 14: Yeah.

1359
00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:01,760
Speaker 10: Guess what when we go broke, I'm gonna I'm gonna

1360
00:58:01,760 --> 00:58:03,520
Speaker 10: come through and I'm gonna say, hey, babe, I got it,

1361
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:04,400
Speaker 10: I got it, I got it.

1362
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Speaker 6: That's all he's doing. No big deals.

1363
00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:09,400
Speaker 10: Well no, no, no, it's different when a man saving

1364
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:11,560
Speaker 10: up that kind of money. He's doing something he don't

1365
00:58:11,560 --> 00:58:13,920
Speaker 10: have any business doing. Okay, and she needs to get

1366
00:58:13,960 --> 00:58:15,680
Speaker 10: to the bottom of hip Chris, I am.

1367
00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:18,880
Speaker 3: Yes, I am, Oh my god, at least admitted, at

1368
00:58:18,960 --> 00:58:20,800
Speaker 3: least at least you see it clearly.

1369
00:58:21,480 --> 00:58:25,320
Speaker 6: Sophia, good morning, Hi, good morning. Hey. What do you

1370
00:58:25,320 --> 00:58:26,480
Speaker 6: think is going on here? This?

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00:58:26,480 --> 00:58:28,320
Speaker 3: This woman found out that her husband makes a lot

1372
00:58:28,360 --> 00:58:30,800
Speaker 3: more than he says he does, and she's upset about it.

1373
00:58:30,960 --> 00:58:33,360
Speaker 7: Actually think I actually think of my husband.

1374
00:58:33,360 --> 00:58:34,600
Speaker 6: He wits and then he.

1375
00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:38,000
Speaker 12: Also had like a rivinghood account to where he.

1376
00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:41,720
Speaker 20: You know, invest in different companies or whatever.

1377
00:58:41,760 --> 00:58:43,960
Speaker 16: So maybe he's making extra money on that.

1378
00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:45,240
Speaker 5: So maybe she just tripped.

1379
00:58:46,040 --> 00:58:46,440
Speaker 6: Look at it.

1380
00:58:46,920 --> 00:58:49,640
Speaker 3: He's out here investing for their future. Look at this.

1381
00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:53,160
Speaker 6: That's all. That's all he's doing.

1382
00:58:53,200 --> 00:58:54,680
Speaker 5: Over COVID, that was a big thing.

1383
00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:56,920
Speaker 20: A lot of people started doing that, like open up

1384
00:58:57,000 --> 00:59:00,720
Speaker 20: ridinghood account, investing in these different companies making money.

1385
00:59:00,760 --> 00:59:03,120
Speaker 3: So there you go, Sophia, you know what he's doing.

1386
00:59:03,280 --> 00:59:06,240
Speaker 3: He thank you, Sophia, have a good day. He saw

1387
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:10,560
Speaker 3: that commercial late at night. He was watching he was

1388
00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:13,960
Speaker 3: watching the House Hunters International late at night and he

1389
00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:16,800
Speaker 3: saw that commercial. For a dollar a day, you can

1390
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:19,919
Speaker 3: save a young person's life in another country. And that's

1391
00:59:19,960 --> 00:59:21,600
Speaker 3: he's doing that for a lot of young people.

1392
00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:23,520
Speaker 5: The family.

1393
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 3: That's the only thing he could be doing. That's it,

1394
00:59:28,280 --> 00:59:29,240
Speaker 3: except the kids are here.

1395
00:59:29,360 --> 00:59:29,840
Speaker 5: He made them.

1396
00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:36,440
Speaker 3: Angelica, Hi, Hi, I think this guy, you know what

1397
00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:42,160
Speaker 3: he's doing. He's he's uh supporting dental care in another

1398
00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:43,840
Speaker 3: country because he wants everyone to have teeth.

1399
00:59:44,040 --> 00:59:47,520
Speaker 6: What do you think right now?

1400
00:59:47,680 --> 00:59:52,880
Speaker 12: I look, I understand the fundamental thing where the Mary

1401
00:59:52,920 --> 00:59:56,680
Speaker 12: Chief and share and all love and fairy tales and

1402
00:59:56,720 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 12: all that kind of stuff. But on the other hand,

1403
00:59:59,640 --> 01:00:03,520
Speaker 12: I completely agree with Kiki point of view. I'll tell

1404
01:00:03,520 --> 01:00:06,480
Speaker 12: you what. Hold on, I'll tell you what I was married.

1405
01:00:06,520 --> 01:00:09,040
Speaker 12: You've got the board. You know, things turn really nice

1406
01:00:09,200 --> 01:00:12,480
Speaker 12: in the marriage. By the point that I want to

1407
01:00:13,200 --> 01:00:17,920
Speaker 12: I had to start a lord Ha Mercy account in

1408
01:00:18,040 --> 01:00:20,880
Speaker 12: order to walk away of the marriage and keep myself

1409
01:00:20,920 --> 01:00:26,640
Speaker 12: a night give safe. So I hope women understand that

1410
01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:30,320
Speaker 12: it's mandatory. Yeah, you can have all the fairy tale

1411
01:00:30,360 --> 01:00:33,600
Speaker 12: of the marriage and love and all that kind of stuff.

1412
01:00:33,680 --> 01:00:37,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, but I'm sorry that's women you are.

1413
01:00:38,200 --> 01:00:39,840
Speaker 6: No, I'm sorry to rupt to you. And I hear

1414
01:00:39,880 --> 01:00:40,480
Speaker 6: what you're saying.

1415
01:00:41,440 --> 01:00:43,680
Speaker 3: Yes, but but you know what I'm going to say,

1416
01:00:43,840 --> 01:00:45,920
Speaker 3: which is, well, then why can't a man do that?

1417
01:00:46,040 --> 01:00:49,320
Speaker 3: Because who's to say that the man won't have obligations

1418
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:51,360
Speaker 3: to his family when things fall apart.

1419
01:00:51,520 --> 01:00:56,400
Speaker 12: Now, because because you know, if you are completely honest

1420
01:00:56,640 --> 01:01:01,080
Speaker 12: in your marriage, and you know, you have to get

1421
01:01:01,080 --> 01:01:04,160
Speaker 12: into the tournament of saying that, Okay, we're sharing, we're

1422
01:01:04,280 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 12: seeing and I get your point that you know, we

1423
01:01:06,640 --> 01:01:10,120
Speaker 12: have this money to invest, we have this money to spend,

1424
01:01:10,160 --> 01:01:12,440
Speaker 12: and all that kind of stuff. They get that's all

1425
01:01:12,560 --> 01:01:15,959
Speaker 12: the great, and then they think because it's the role

1426
01:01:16,040 --> 01:01:19,480
Speaker 12: of being man. You see what I'm saying in their marriage?

1427
01:01:19,720 --> 01:01:20,960
Speaker 6: Okay, all right, I know.

1428
01:01:21,480 --> 01:01:23,960
Speaker 3: And she's like, Angela, I gotta go, thank you so

1429
01:01:24,080 --> 01:01:26,080
Speaker 3: much so for calling you have a great day.

1430
01:01:26,720 --> 01:01:27,040
Speaker 6: Okay.

1431
01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 3: So she agrees with Kiki, which I should have wrapped

1432
01:01:28,800 --> 01:01:29,600
Speaker 3: that up a long time ago.

1433
01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:31,240
Speaker 7: But og, she's trying to tell.

1434
01:01:31,120 --> 01:01:33,120
Speaker 3: You, I gave her three minutes to say what you

1435
01:01:33,160 --> 01:01:36,240
Speaker 3: already said, and it's just making people more angry.

1436
01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:38,400
Speaker 6: What were you laughing about?

1437
01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:43,440
Speaker 9: Nothing? She sounds like that Auntie on TikTok that is

1438
01:01:43,480 --> 01:01:46,520
Speaker 9: talking about it was. She's like, Oh, you gotta be

1439
01:01:46,560 --> 01:01:48,400
Speaker 9: honest with them, but I had money on the side

1440
01:01:48,480 --> 01:01:49,360
Speaker 9: because I gotta.

1441
01:01:49,160 --> 01:01:51,640
Speaker 6: Keep myself safe. I'm hearing, yes the honesty party.

1442
01:01:51,720 --> 01:01:54,760
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I mean there are scoring people out there

1443
01:01:54,760 --> 01:01:57,520
Speaker 3: who who I It makes them feel more comfortable to

1444
01:01:57,520 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 3: know that they've got arresting a resting place at a

1445
01:02:01,360 --> 01:02:06,120
Speaker 3: landing spot somehow financially if things go awright, especially if

1446
01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:09,160
Speaker 3: you're the only person working. I know, that's where it

1447
01:02:09,160 --> 01:02:11,400
Speaker 3: gets really tricky. As if yes, like in the case

1448
01:02:11,440 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 3: of my parents divorce, my mom was a stay at

1449
01:02:13,320 --> 01:02:17,040
Speaker 3: home mom, which there's no way to account for how

1450
01:02:17,080 --> 01:02:19,680
Speaker 3: much she should have been you know, quote unquote compensated

1451
01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:23,040
Speaker 3: for that. And in the meantime, you know, my father

1452
01:02:23,080 --> 01:02:25,360
Speaker 3: who's got a business, he's doing whatever he wants with them.

1453
01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:28,080
Speaker 3: She had really no idea and so she'll never let

1454
01:02:28,120 --> 01:02:31,959
Speaker 3: that happen again. Yeah, but it doesn't mean that people

1455
01:02:32,000 --> 01:02:33,320
Speaker 3: should be hiding money.

1456
01:02:33,360 --> 01:02:36,560
Speaker 6: And I don't know about all that. Yeah, and doesn't

1457
01:02:36,720 --> 01:02:39,320
Speaker 6: money ladies, the entertainers look at you.

1458
01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:41,760
Speaker 3: The entertainer report is next, Shoebi Shelley after that, one

1459
01:02:41,840 --> 01:02:43,720
Speaker 3: hundred and fifty bucks. If you want to play eight

1460
01:02:43,760 --> 01:02:46,919
Speaker 3: five five five nine one three five. Financial advice given

1461
01:02:46,960 --> 01:02:49,240
Speaker 3: on the Freend Show is not to be followed.

1462
01:02:51,880 --> 01:02:52,520
Speaker 6: We had to start.

1463
01:02:52,560 --> 01:02:54,560
Speaker 3: All the lines were full of people saying the Kiki

1464
01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:58,240
Speaker 3: was crazy. So if he likes to play shows, Shelley

1465
01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:01,240
Speaker 3: called now eight five five five one three five. Those

1466
01:03:01,240 --> 01:03:04,560
Speaker 3: people are Karen's entered, still thinking that a breadshew.

1467
01:03:05,040 --> 01:03:08,160
Speaker 4: Barack and Michelle Obama's personal chef who used to cook

1468
01:03:08,160 --> 01:03:10,000
Speaker 4: for them at the White House, has passed away after

1469
01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:14,440
Speaker 4: drowning in the water near their Martha's Vineyard estate. Tafari

1470
01:03:14,480 --> 01:03:17,360
Speaker 4: Campbell's body was found by divers yesterday after going missing

1471
01:03:17,440 --> 01:03:20,520
Speaker 4: Sunday night in the water that backs up to their compound.

1472
01:03:20,560 --> 01:03:23,800
Speaker 4: In a statement, Barack and Michelle say Tafari was warm, fun,

1473
01:03:24,080 --> 01:03:26,680
Speaker 4: extraordinarily kind and made all of.

1474
01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:27,440
Speaker 5: Their lives brighter.

1475
01:03:27,480 --> 01:03:30,040
Speaker 4: They called him a beloved part of their family, and

1476
01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:32,080
Speaker 4: their hearts are breaking over his death. Like I said,

1477
01:03:32,120 --> 01:03:34,880
Speaker 4: they actually met him when they moved into the White House.

1478
01:03:34,880 --> 01:03:36,840
Speaker 4: He was a Sioux chef, and then when they moved out,

1479
01:03:36,880 --> 01:03:39,640
Speaker 4: they asked him to come with them. They weren't home

1480
01:03:39,680 --> 01:03:42,240
Speaker 4: at the time of the incident. But he is survived

1481
01:03:42,280 --> 01:03:44,440
Speaker 4: by his wife and their twin boys. He was just

1482
01:03:44,520 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 4: forty five, so really tragic story, and they are investigating

1483
01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:49,080
Speaker 4: his death.

1484
01:03:49,160 --> 01:03:52,040
Speaker 5: Now you've heard of Barbie and Ken, but have you

1485
01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:55,880
Speaker 5: heard of Ken's friend Allan? Okay? I didn't Alan.

1486
01:03:56,480 --> 01:03:59,320
Speaker 6: So is he hiding money from Ken?

1487
01:03:59,800 --> 01:04:02,880
Speaker 5: Well, he might be hiding money from his pregnant wife.

1488
01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:05,080
Speaker 5: What was her name, Midge, my girl?

1489
01:04:05,560 --> 01:04:07,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, So we all learned about Allen when we saw

1490
01:04:07,200 --> 01:04:09,800
Speaker 4: the Barbie movie. He was an actual doll who dropped

1491
01:04:09,800 --> 01:04:12,920
Speaker 4: in the sixties and he was Ken's friend. But in

1492
01:04:12,960 --> 01:04:15,760
Speaker 4: the movie he was played by Michael Sarah oh Okay,

1493
01:04:15,840 --> 01:04:19,240
Speaker 4: and he made such an impression that now everyone's asking Metallic,

1494
01:04:19,320 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 4: are you going to re release this?

1495
01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:22,120
Speaker 5: And all of.

1496
01:04:22,080 --> 01:04:25,720
Speaker 4: The prices for the Alan dolls on eBay have skyrocketed

1497
01:04:26,240 --> 01:04:29,160
Speaker 4: just because of how hilarious Michael Sarah was playing him.

1498
01:04:29,200 --> 01:04:31,479
Speaker 4: And I was sitting next to Jason in the movie

1499
01:04:31,480 --> 01:04:34,200
Speaker 4: and Jason goes, why am I Alan? And I will

1500
01:04:34,240 --> 01:04:36,479
Speaker 4: just never forget that moment. If you see the movie,

1501
01:04:36,480 --> 01:04:38,880
Speaker 4: you'll understand. It's super funny and he kind of ends

1502
01:04:38,960 --> 01:04:41,920
Speaker 4: up saving the day. That's not a spoiler, but it's amazing.

1503
01:04:42,200 --> 01:04:44,440
Speaker 4: And the lady who caught Drake's attention with her bra

1504
01:04:44,880 --> 01:04:47,720
Speaker 4: at a recent concert is making moves after that viral moment.

1505
01:04:47,760 --> 01:04:50,840
Speaker 4: I would too, and I'm hearing that Playboy is ready

1506
01:04:50,880 --> 01:04:51,360
Speaker 4: to sign her.

1507
01:04:51,400 --> 01:04:52,320
Speaker 5: I'm sure they are so.

1508
01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:54,560
Speaker 4: In case you missed it, twenty one year old Veronica

1509
01:04:54,680 --> 01:04:58,280
Speaker 4: Correa trust her size thirty six g bra on stage

1510
01:04:58,360 --> 01:05:00,680
Speaker 4: during the Rappers show at the Barclays Center in New

1511
01:05:00,760 --> 01:05:02,880
Speaker 4: York last week. Drake picked it up and said, locate

1512
01:05:02,880 --> 01:05:06,320
Speaker 4: this woman immediately. Veronica says Drake's already responded to one

1513
01:05:06,320 --> 01:05:08,400
Speaker 4: of her posts, she hasn't answered him yet, which girl,

1514
01:05:08,400 --> 01:05:10,479
Speaker 4: what are you doing? But she also got a DM

1515
01:05:10,520 --> 01:05:13,200
Speaker 4: from Playboy offering her the chance to join the team

1516
01:05:13,280 --> 01:05:16,080
Speaker 4: in some capacity. If you didn't know, Playboy has done

1517
01:05:16,080 --> 01:05:19,000
Speaker 4: away with its long running magazines. They switched over to

1518
01:05:19,000 --> 01:05:24,400
Speaker 4: like an onlyfan style business model and she might get involved.

1519
01:05:24,480 --> 01:05:26,560
Speaker 5: She also she has her own money.

1520
01:05:26,760 --> 01:05:29,560
Speaker 4: She owns a coffee shop called Cafe La La in

1521
01:05:30,000 --> 01:05:34,000
Speaker 4: Rhode Island and she's thinking about renaming a drink after Drake.

1522
01:05:34,120 --> 01:05:34,840
Speaker 5: So get your.

1523
01:05:34,680 --> 01:05:36,800
Speaker 4: Bag, girl with those big old boobies. I want to

1524
01:05:36,880 --> 01:05:39,200
Speaker 4: check out online today if you do want to see her.

1525
01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:41,880
Speaker 4: I think we have her up there and Ed Sheeran

1526
01:05:42,000 --> 01:05:44,120
Speaker 4: just being the greatest. It's on Fredshire Radio dot com.

1527
01:05:44,200 --> 01:05:47,560
Speaker 2: It's a fread show. Do you have what it takes

1528
01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:51,000
Speaker 2: to battle show biz? Shelley in the show Biz Showdown?

1529
01:05:52,080 --> 01:05:59,920
Speaker 6: Go Bi? Hey, how much money you hide in from military?

1530
01:06:00,120 --> 01:06:01,680
Speaker 5: Like million millions?

1531
01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:05,320
Speaker 3: Well, because we know you very famous. You're extremely famous.

1532
01:06:05,680 --> 01:06:08,680
Speaker 3: You've been known throughout the land for decades for your

1533
01:06:09,040 --> 01:06:14,080
Speaker 3: your incredible Hollywood prowess. Okay, and I know you're extremely

1534
01:06:14,120 --> 01:06:17,280
Speaker 3: well compensated for that. So does he know exactly how

1535
01:06:17,360 --> 01:06:17,880
Speaker 3: much you make?

1536
01:06:18,200 --> 01:06:20,919
Speaker 5: Yes, yes he does. This is something we're very open about.

1537
01:06:21,000 --> 01:06:21,360
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1538
01:06:21,600 --> 01:06:24,760
Speaker 5: To me, it's amazing when Mankik.

1539
01:06:24,360 --> 01:06:27,520
Speaker 7: I'm amazed, Shelley, Shelley, I grow. I know you got

1540
01:06:27,560 --> 01:06:28,560
Speaker 7: to account on the side.

1541
01:06:28,960 --> 01:06:31,040
Speaker 5: I mean I do. Who he knows about it because

1542
01:06:31,080 --> 01:06:31,840
Speaker 5: we have a joint account.

1543
01:06:31,880 --> 01:06:33,600
Speaker 4: Then we each have our own accounts that we you know,

1544
01:06:33,800 --> 01:06:36,080
Speaker 4: like put into buy whatever we want, and that's how

1545
01:06:36,120 --> 01:06:36,560
Speaker 4: we do it.

1546
01:06:38,200 --> 01:06:40,560
Speaker 6: So well, he knows because you balance that check book

1547
01:06:40,560 --> 01:06:41,040
Speaker 6: in front.

1548
01:06:40,840 --> 01:06:41,000
Speaker 3: Of the.

1549
01:06:42,800 --> 01:06:49,680
Speaker 6: Advocates. Look at this.

1550
01:06:53,640 --> 01:06:56,360
Speaker 3: That's all he got to do that I do. He

1551
01:06:56,440 --> 01:07:02,040
Speaker 3: knows exactly how much he's in there. Good lord, wow,

1552
01:07:02,720 --> 01:07:05,240
Speaker 3: kiky man that the vitreoll this morning. People are coming

1553
01:07:05,280 --> 01:07:05,480
Speaker 3: for you.

1554
01:07:05,560 --> 01:07:07,360
Speaker 6: I love it. I love it. It's all right, and

1555
01:07:07,480 --> 01:07:09,120
Speaker 6: I love that you'd give zero craps.

1556
01:07:10,000 --> 01:07:13,520
Speaker 10: I mean all of their wives have accounts and they

1557
01:07:13,560 --> 01:07:15,240
Speaker 10: know it, and they that's why they're upset.

1558
01:07:15,240 --> 01:07:18,959
Speaker 7: But it's okay, it's okay, like you never knew.

1559
01:07:19,080 --> 01:07:23,360
Speaker 6: Hey, Katie, Hi, Katie, Hi, good morning, how are you?

1560
01:07:23,400 --> 01:07:28,240
Speaker 6: Good morning? Welcome? Tell us about you please, I'm Katie.

1561
01:07:28,320 --> 01:07:31,120
Speaker 15: I work in the healthcare field. They do some therapy

1562
01:07:31,400 --> 01:07:33,040
Speaker 15: stuff and that's about it.

1563
01:07:33,120 --> 01:07:35,320
Speaker 6: Well, thank you for doing that. You're amazing for that.

1564
01:07:35,360 --> 01:07:35,880
Speaker 6: We love you.

1565
01:07:36,600 --> 01:07:40,280
Speaker 3: All of our nurses, doctors, first responders, everybody, Let's play

1566
01:07:40,280 --> 01:07:42,600
Speaker 3: the game though. This is good life changing money one

1567
01:07:42,680 --> 01:07:45,720
Speaker 3: hundred and fifty bucks, her record seven fifty six and

1568
01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:48,320
Speaker 3: fifty a whopping one game wind streak after if you

1569
01:07:48,400 --> 01:07:51,240
Speaker 3: let us all down last week? Yeah, so let's play

1570
01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:52,040
Speaker 3: the game. You ready?

1571
01:07:53,360 --> 01:07:53,680
Speaker 5: Ready?

1572
01:07:54,040 --> 01:07:54,200
Speaker 14: Hi?

1573
01:07:54,360 --> 01:07:54,920
Speaker 5: Katie? Goodbye?

1574
01:07:55,320 --> 01:07:55,600
Speaker 10: Kelly?

1575
01:07:55,920 --> 01:08:00,800
Speaker 3: Yes, Shelley, she got a secret account for sure? Okay, Katie?

1576
01:08:00,840 --> 01:08:03,720
Speaker 3: Question number one? What did a fan throw on stage

1577
01:08:03,720 --> 01:08:06,600
Speaker 3: to make Drake say you got some serious life?

1578
01:08:06,720 --> 01:08:07,680
Speaker 6: Evaluating to do?

1579
01:08:10,480 --> 01:08:10,840
Speaker 17: Three?

1580
01:08:11,640 --> 01:08:13,480
Speaker 5: Was it two underwear?

1581
01:08:14,160 --> 01:08:16,599
Speaker 3: After being seen together multiple times? It looks like Tom

1582
01:08:16,600 --> 01:08:18,240
Speaker 3: Brady is dating this model?

1583
01:08:21,080 --> 01:08:24,920
Speaker 5: Three?

1584
01:08:22,160 --> 01:08:28,920
Speaker 3: What What did Elon Musk say he plans on changing

1585
01:08:28,960 --> 01:08:30,320
Speaker 3: the Twitter logo to.

1586
01:08:32,760 --> 01:08:35,160
Speaker 11: Oh my god, this is the worst in my life.

1587
01:08:35,360 --> 01:08:39,080
Speaker 6: No, no, no, x it's not the word say x

1588
01:08:40,240 --> 01:08:45,800
Speaker 6: x X got it? Say x okay? Which? Nineteen That

1589
01:08:45,880 --> 01:08:46,519
Speaker 6: was amazing? Which?

1590
01:08:46,560 --> 01:08:49,120
Speaker 3: Nineteen seventy five front man was banned from performing in

1591
01:08:49,160 --> 01:08:53,080
Speaker 3: Malaysia after kissing one of his male bandmates on stage.

1592
01:08:56,560 --> 01:09:00,920
Speaker 5: Oh my god, Oh my gosh you Maddie Healy, Maddy.

1593
01:09:01,120 --> 01:09:03,360
Speaker 6: Yea, I know you.

1594
01:09:04,720 --> 01:09:07,439
Speaker 3: And Ryan Gosling's wife showed her support by wearing a

1595
01:09:07,479 --> 01:09:09,840
Speaker 3: shirt with him as Ken from the Barbie movie on it,

1596
01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:10,519
Speaker 3: name her.

1597
01:09:12,920 --> 01:09:19,639
Speaker 4: Marie, No, no dream dream sorry to don't be sorry?

1598
01:09:19,640 --> 01:09:20,120
Speaker 6: You got it too?

1599
01:09:20,240 --> 01:09:23,040
Speaker 3: That was fantastic. It's fine, No worries about not going

1600
01:09:23,080 --> 01:09:24,760
Speaker 3: to hold up, but that's all right. We'll bring uh,

1601
01:09:24,840 --> 01:09:25,760
Speaker 3: we'll bring Shelley back.

1602
01:09:26,560 --> 01:09:27,559
Speaker 5: How did Katie do?

1603
01:09:27,840 --> 01:09:28,479
Speaker 6: She got it too?

1604
01:09:29,280 --> 01:09:30,519
Speaker 14: Yeah? Yes?

1605
01:09:32,000 --> 01:09:34,000
Speaker 3: What did a fan throw on stage to make Drake say?

1606
01:09:34,000 --> 01:09:35,040
Speaker 3: You've got some serious life?

1607
01:09:35,080 --> 01:09:39,200
Speaker 4: Evaluating to dou a bra that was worth thirty six grand?

1608
01:09:39,439 --> 01:09:45,880
Speaker 9: No, you better get these next time.

1609
01:09:50,280 --> 01:09:52,880
Speaker 3: After being seen together multiple times, it looks like Tom

1610
01:09:52,880 --> 01:09:53,759
Speaker 3: Brady is dating.

1611
01:09:53,560 --> 01:09:55,080
Speaker 5: This model Irina Shake.

1612
01:09:55,280 --> 01:09:57,960
Speaker 3: Yes, what did Elon Musk say? He plans on changing

1613
01:09:57,960 --> 01:09:58,800
Speaker 3: the Twitter logo to.

1614
01:10:00,400 --> 01:10:02,960
Speaker 6: Yes? What did he said? Which?

1615
01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:05,240
Speaker 3: Nineteen seventy five front man was banned from performing in

1616
01:10:05,320 --> 01:10:08,240
Speaker 3: Malaysia after kissing one of his male bandmates.

1617
01:10:07,800 --> 01:10:09,479
Speaker 6: On stage, mat Healey.

1618
01:10:09,760 --> 01:10:12,240
Speaker 3: Ryan Gosling's wife showed her support by wearing a shirt

1619
01:10:12,280 --> 01:10:13,920
Speaker 3: with him as Ken from the Barbie movie.

1620
01:10:14,080 --> 01:10:14,519
Speaker 6: Name her.

1621
01:10:15,920 --> 01:10:19,120
Speaker 3: That's when Katie, you gotta say the deal. You know

1622
01:10:19,160 --> 01:10:20,200
Speaker 3: the deal. You gotta say it.

1623
01:10:21,000 --> 01:10:21,240
Speaker 14: Yep.

1624
01:10:21,400 --> 01:10:24,160
Speaker 15: I'm Katie from hand and I can't hang with a gorilla.

1625
01:10:25,400 --> 01:10:32,280
Speaker 3: Nope, Nope, you can't hang with all Okay, I gotta go.

1626
01:10:32,360 --> 01:10:35,479
Speaker 3: That's all I got that. Katie, hang on a second,

1627
01:10:35,520 --> 01:10:37,840
Speaker 3: have a great Oh she just hung up. She's just done. Okay,

1628
01:10:38,040 --> 01:10:41,080
Speaker 3: all right, Well nice talking with you, Katie. Yeah, I

1629
01:10:41,080 --> 01:10:43,360
Speaker 3: mean we could have say goodbye and you know she

1630
01:10:43,400 --> 01:10:45,920
Speaker 3: gotta check her seat accounts. Yeah, we could have had

1631
01:10:45,960 --> 01:10:49,559
Speaker 3: some pleasantries. But okay, never mind, it's fine. Two hundred

1632
01:10:49,560 --> 01:10:51,880
Speaker 3: bucks tomorrow too straight for Shelley. We'll see you then.

1633
01:10:51,920 --> 01:10:55,639
Speaker 3: Have an amazing day. All right, let's do good news stories,

1634
01:10:55,640 --> 01:10:57,680
Speaker 3: waiting by the phone and more net.

1635
01:10:57,640 --> 01:11:02,679
Speaker 2: More Fred Show. Next, Fred's show is on.

1636
01:11:04,439 --> 01:11:08,960
Speaker 3: I mean, I just love it. Hashtag gold Digger Kiki.

1637
01:11:10,240 --> 01:11:13,479
Speaker 3: Kiki is definitely wrong and I feel bad for her boyfriend.

1638
01:11:15,960 --> 01:11:16,400
Speaker 6: To this show.

1639
01:11:16,560 --> 01:11:20,840
Speaker 3: What can I say? I mean, I'm just honest. I

1640
01:11:20,880 --> 01:11:23,920
Speaker 3: love Kiki for the honesty. I love the Texters. Now

1641
01:11:24,040 --> 01:11:26,599
Speaker 3: some of this is mean though, Some of this is

1642
01:11:26,680 --> 01:11:30,679
Speaker 3: just mean. Kiki high KEI got a family on the side.

1643
01:11:32,160 --> 01:11:35,400
Speaker 7: Do you wait, who has a family. I would never

1644
01:11:35,439 --> 01:11:35,720
Speaker 7: do that.

1645
01:11:35,800 --> 01:11:38,400
Speaker 3: You got a side family that no one knew about? No, no, no,

1646
01:11:38,680 --> 01:11:40,920
Speaker 3: you were you were pregnant, you had a baby, nobody

1647
01:11:40,960 --> 01:11:41,280
Speaker 3: knew it.

1648
01:11:41,360 --> 01:11:44,000
Speaker 7: Oh no, just a little side money, yes, all just

1649
01:11:44,000 --> 01:11:44,760
Speaker 7: for a righty day.

1650
01:11:45,200 --> 01:11:46,000
Speaker 6: Yeah.

1651
01:11:46,320 --> 01:11:48,400
Speaker 3: See, but you got the best deal out there. What

1652
01:11:49,760 --> 01:11:54,080
Speaker 3: You've got a partner who doesn't listen. Oh yeah, So

1653
01:11:54,120 --> 01:11:55,920
Speaker 3: there's if you're gonna be in this business and you're

1654
01:11:55,960 --> 01:11:59,080
Speaker 3: gonna talk like we do, there's only two ways. One

1655
01:11:59,360 --> 01:12:01,680
Speaker 3: you either or with somebody who sees it for what

1656
01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:04,680
Speaker 3: it is, which is we're not lying. I think we

1657
01:12:04,840 --> 01:12:09,400
Speaker 3: were generally pretty genuine, but this is an improv game,

1658
01:12:09,479 --> 01:12:12,360
Speaker 3: and sometimes it goes to a place where it's just ridiculous,

1659
01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:16,760
Speaker 3: or sometimes we expose details about our lives that we

1660
01:12:17,080 --> 01:12:19,759
Speaker 3: may or may not normally do it in the course

1661
01:12:19,760 --> 01:12:22,519
Speaker 3: of a typical relationship. So you either got to have

1662
01:12:22,560 --> 01:12:24,439
Speaker 3: one or two things. If you're going to be with

1663
01:12:24,600 --> 01:12:27,120
Speaker 3: one of us. You either can't listen at all, and

1664
01:12:27,160 --> 01:12:28,880
Speaker 3: if anyone tells you where they heard, you got to

1665
01:12:28,920 --> 01:12:31,960
Speaker 3: be like, don't care, or you've got to be able

1666
01:12:32,000 --> 01:12:33,840
Speaker 3: to listen and shrug it off for what it is.

1667
01:12:34,160 --> 01:12:35,639
Speaker 3: And you've got the former.

1668
01:12:35,880 --> 01:12:38,400
Speaker 7: Yeah, he doesn't listen and he doesn't care.

1669
01:12:39,320 --> 01:12:44,000
Speaker 3: Bless his heart, amazing because if he did, he would

1670
01:12:44,080 --> 01:12:58,520
Speaker 3: not be a random.

1671
01:12:52,200 --> 01:12:53,719
Speaker 6: You are never going to get no ring.

1672
01:12:54,080 --> 01:12:54,559
Speaker 7: Probably not.

1673
01:12:54,840 --> 01:12:57,240
Speaker 3: That's what you are going to get it. I guarantee

1674
01:12:57,240 --> 01:12:59,840
Speaker 3: he's going to give you a ring. You're a good one.

1675
01:13:01,040 --> 01:13:03,599
Speaker 3: You're a good one. You're you're getting a ring from

1676
01:13:03,640 --> 01:13:05,519
Speaker 3: this man. I guarantee if he's put up with all this,

1677
01:13:05,520 --> 01:13:07,040
Speaker 3: this longrid he's.

1678
01:13:06,920 --> 01:13:08,519
Speaker 6: Now I see white friend and I have never met

1679
01:13:08,520 --> 01:13:09,160
Speaker 6: this man yet.

1680
01:13:09,200 --> 01:13:09,799
Speaker 5: There's nothing.

1681
01:13:10,720 --> 01:13:13,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's starting to make a loney meet them.

1682
01:13:14,080 --> 01:13:16,240
Speaker 3: It's starting to make a lot of sense. While Big

1683
01:13:16,240 --> 01:13:17,479
Speaker 3: Tim hasn't come through.

1684
01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:19,639
Speaker 7: He's not going anywhere near to.

1685
01:13:19,920 --> 01:13:23,720
Speaker 6: Bros over here. No, no worse than I am.

1686
01:13:23,840 --> 01:13:24,400
Speaker 7: Yes he is.

1687
01:13:24,640 --> 01:13:28,719
Speaker 3: Ruvial is way worse. Oh, yes, I'm highly protective. Rufeo

1688
01:13:28,800 --> 01:13:31,720
Speaker 3: is an instigatory. I'll keep to mind. I'll just sit

1689
01:13:31,800 --> 01:13:34,080
Speaker 3: over here and just glare at the guy. Yes, I'll

1690
01:13:34,120 --> 01:13:36,439
Speaker 3: just be like you better not.

1691
01:13:36,439 --> 01:13:38,360
Speaker 6: Messing at the audio all stored up righty the goat

1692
01:13:39,080 --> 01:13:40,960
Speaker 6: play divorce corning.

1693
01:13:41,000 --> 01:13:44,320
Speaker 3: He's Rufio is going to come out as a character

1694
01:13:44,360 --> 01:13:47,560
Speaker 3: witness for him.

1695
01:13:48,800 --> 01:13:52,639
Speaker 6: For Big Tim.

1696
01:13:51,560 --> 01:13:56,120
Speaker 3: You lord, good news, snappy stories each day on the show.

1697
01:13:56,120 --> 01:13:57,960
Speaker 6: What do you find, Kaylin, We need this today.

1698
01:13:58,040 --> 01:14:00,280
Speaker 4: A ninety nine year old woman named Mill You're at

1699
01:14:00,280 --> 01:14:03,320
Speaker 4: a Kershionbaum who lives alone, drives, pays her bills online

1700
01:14:03,360 --> 01:14:05,880
Speaker 4: texts from her iPhone and never misses a happy hour

1701
01:14:06,160 --> 01:14:08,760
Speaker 4: is going viral for her advice to living a long

1702
01:14:08,800 --> 01:14:12,080
Speaker 4: and active life and a ton of TikTok and instagrams.

1703
01:14:12,360 --> 01:14:14,759
Speaker 4: She said, You've got to enjoy life. You're only walking

1704
01:14:14,760 --> 01:14:17,559
Speaker 4: through it once. If you're up there in years, do yourself,

1705
01:14:17,600 --> 01:14:20,000
Speaker 4: not your children, not your friends, not your world, yourself

1706
01:14:20,040 --> 01:14:20,479
Speaker 4: a favor.

1707
01:14:20,600 --> 01:14:21,479
Speaker 5: Enjoy everything.

1708
01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:23,320
Speaker 4: Don't sit at home and moan and grown and say

1709
01:14:23,360 --> 01:14:25,759
Speaker 4: all I do is walk to the fridge. Do something.

1710
01:14:25,840 --> 01:14:29,320
Speaker 4: And for her, attitude is everything. She said in August,

1711
01:14:29,560 --> 01:14:31,320
Speaker 4: I will be one hundred years old, and I have

1712
01:14:31,360 --> 01:14:33,680
Speaker 4: friends that are twenty years younger, fifteen years younger, and

1713
01:14:33,720 --> 01:14:36,040
Speaker 4: their attitudes are going to cause them not to survive

1714
01:14:36,320 --> 01:14:38,920
Speaker 4: to my age. Her daughter Gail encouraged her mom to

1715
01:14:38,960 --> 01:14:41,599
Speaker 4: record her nuggets of wisdom, which she then started doing

1716
01:14:41,600 --> 01:14:44,240
Speaker 4: about a year ago on social and now she's going viral.

1717
01:14:44,400 --> 01:14:48,360
Speaker 14: Oh yes, I.

1718
01:14:48,400 --> 01:14:52,160
Speaker 3: Might get a little moist in here, little tears maybe,

1719
01:14:52,320 --> 01:14:55,160
Speaker 3: I think. I think Rufio is doing like a hibachi.

1720
01:14:55,680 --> 01:15:03,160
Speaker 3: It's time for the train with the exactly exactly. A

1721
01:15:03,360 --> 01:15:06,080
Speaker 3: Washington State Police officer recently got married to a deputy

1722
01:15:06,120 --> 01:15:09,160
Speaker 3: sheriff and it's going viral on TikTok After having fifteen

1723
01:15:09,439 --> 01:15:12,759
Speaker 3: loving men in her life escort her down the aisle,

1724
01:15:13,160 --> 01:15:17,120
Speaker 3: why well, the wedding planner rode At sixteen, our bride

1725
01:15:17,160 --> 01:15:19,880
Speaker 3: played a pivotal role in ensuring that her abusive father

1726
01:15:20,040 --> 01:15:23,400
Speaker 3: was put in prison. On her wedding day, she asked

1727
01:15:23,439 --> 01:15:25,400
Speaker 3: fifteen of the most important men in her life to

1728
01:15:25,560 --> 01:15:28,040
Speaker 3: escort her down the aisle. These men included her brother,

1729
01:15:28,120 --> 01:15:31,599
Speaker 3: brother in law, childhood coaches, and the police officer who

1730
01:15:31,720 --> 01:15:34,760
Speaker 3: arrested her father. The woman had two men on each

1731
01:15:34,800 --> 01:15:38,000
Speaker 3: side and would walk a few steps before handing her

1732
01:15:38,040 --> 01:15:41,840
Speaker 3: off to the next. When the officiant said, who gives

1733
01:15:41,880 --> 01:15:44,200
Speaker 3: this woman to be married to this man? In unison?

1734
01:15:44,360 --> 01:15:47,479
Speaker 3: All fifteen men said, we do this. Dude, better not

1735
01:15:47,600 --> 01:15:50,200
Speaker 3: mess up. Oh my god, he gonna get it from

1736
01:15:50,200 --> 01:15:53,840
Speaker 3: every angle. Fifteen He think you worried about one? Dad,

1737
01:15:54,160 --> 01:15:58,280
Speaker 3: You're gonna have fifteen dudes, right, including a couple of cops.

1738
01:15:58,320 --> 01:16:03,759
Speaker 3: Oh great, I made everyone cry. Ever been left waiting

1739
01:16:03,760 --> 01:16:05,680
Speaker 3: by the phone.

1740
01:16:06,000 --> 01:16:06,920
Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show.

1741
01:16:07,120 --> 01:16:10,639
Speaker 3: Lauren's here, Good morning, good morning, welcome to our show.

1742
01:16:11,640 --> 01:16:14,799
Speaker 3: So Dave, Dave's the guy you met him on a hinge?

1743
01:16:15,240 --> 01:16:17,720
Speaker 3: And then what happened, Yeah, Dave.

1744
01:16:18,040 --> 01:16:21,799
Speaker 20: So we were talking a lot and we were really flirty,

1745
01:16:22,200 --> 01:16:24,679
Speaker 20: and we had a date and it was really good

1746
01:16:25,040 --> 01:16:28,640
Speaker 20: and I was like, I'm into this and then he

1747
01:16:29,400 --> 01:16:33,200
Speaker 20: was gone, like nothing happened after that. It was really nice, though,

1748
01:16:33,360 --> 01:16:36,280
Speaker 20: It's just like I think I got boasted, and I

1749
01:16:36,400 --> 01:16:37,559
Speaker 20: really don't understand why.

1750
01:16:37,720 --> 01:16:40,160
Speaker 3: Okay, your email talks about some of the sort of

1751
01:16:40,240 --> 01:16:44,639
Speaker 3: pre date conversation that it was a little suggestive before

1752
01:16:44,640 --> 01:16:45,160
Speaker 3: you guys met.

1753
01:16:45,520 --> 01:16:48,360
Speaker 20: Uh, it was very suggestive.

1754
01:16:48,439 --> 01:16:51,240
Speaker 3: Okay, So then on the date, I take it things

1755
01:16:51,640 --> 01:16:54,080
Speaker 3: got heated, right, because if it's all that lead up

1756
01:16:54,120 --> 01:16:56,160
Speaker 3: and you know you were down with that, then I

1757
01:16:56,200 --> 01:16:58,479
Speaker 3: figure you meet and then boom boom po.

1758
01:16:58,680 --> 01:16:58,840
Speaker 6: Right.

1759
01:16:59,120 --> 01:17:01,240
Speaker 20: I mean, I'm glad you feel that way, because I

1760
01:17:01,560 --> 01:17:03,920
Speaker 20: felt like that's how it was gonna go too. And

1761
01:17:06,040 --> 01:17:08,439
Speaker 20: in the date it's like he didn't really I was

1762
01:17:08,520 --> 01:17:11,920
Speaker 20: giving out signal, right, but he didn't really give him back.

1763
01:17:11,960 --> 01:17:14,439
Speaker 20: So I guess I just assumed he was being, like

1764
01:17:14,600 --> 01:17:15,840
Speaker 20: I found, like a nice guy.

1765
01:17:16,240 --> 01:17:19,719
Speaker 3: So a lot of pre date sexuality conversation kind of stuff.

1766
01:17:19,720 --> 01:17:21,840
Speaker 3: And then on the date though, he a little less bark,

1767
01:17:21,960 --> 01:17:24,320
Speaker 3: you know, he was kind of more of a gentleman.

1768
01:17:24,640 --> 01:17:26,800
Speaker 20: Yeah, or maybe he was nervous. I don't know.

1769
01:17:27,200 --> 01:17:28,920
Speaker 6: That could be. Yeah, they would be.

1770
01:17:28,840 --> 01:17:32,679
Speaker 20: Different from like the conversation that was like two different people.

1771
01:17:32,840 --> 01:17:35,599
Speaker 3: Okay, well, let's I'm gonna play a song, we'll come back,

1772
01:17:35,600 --> 01:17:37,559
Speaker 3: we'll call Dave and we'll see if we can get

1773
01:17:37,600 --> 01:17:39,000
Speaker 3: him on the phone and figure out why he's not

1774
01:17:39,080 --> 01:17:41,640
Speaker 3: reaching out and hopefully we can straighten this out and

1775
01:17:41,640 --> 01:17:43,960
Speaker 3: set you up on another date and pay for that. Okay,

1776
01:17:44,120 --> 01:17:46,800
Speaker 3: oh yeah, can you hang on for just a second. Yeah,

1777
01:17:47,000 --> 01:17:49,120
Speaker 3: let's see what's going on. Part two of waiting by

1778
01:17:49,120 --> 01:17:51,439
Speaker 3: the phone after Whisky can you fall back in two minutes?

1779
01:17:51,479 --> 01:17:55,040
Speaker 3: Fred's Show, Whisk kalif Fred Show, It's not good morning,

1780
01:17:55,040 --> 01:17:58,080
Speaker 3: Glad you're here, Laura, Hi, welcome back.

1781
01:17:58,160 --> 01:17:59,040
Speaker 6: Let's call it Dave.

1782
01:17:59,160 --> 01:18:03,520
Speaker 3: You guys met on hand, super flirty, even sexual conversation

1783
01:18:03,640 --> 01:18:05,559
Speaker 3: before the date. On the date, it was a little

1784
01:18:05,600 --> 01:18:08,639
Speaker 3: more subdued though. He was, you know, a gentleman. It's

1785
01:18:08,680 --> 01:18:11,160
Speaker 3: the whole deal, except now he's ghosting and you want

1786
01:18:11,200 --> 01:18:13,760
Speaker 3: to know why. Yes, all right, let's call him now.

1787
01:18:13,760 --> 01:18:14,200
Speaker 3: Good luck?

1788
01:18:14,479 --> 01:18:14,840
Speaker 5: Thank you?

1789
01:18:19,760 --> 01:18:20,040
Speaker 14: Hello?

1790
01:18:20,600 --> 01:18:21,360
Speaker 6: Hi is this Dave?

1791
01:18:23,040 --> 01:18:23,960
Speaker 14: Yeah, Dave?

1792
01:18:24,040 --> 01:18:25,840
Speaker 6: Good morning Fred. From the French show of the whole cruise.

1793
01:18:25,880 --> 01:18:26,120
Speaker 14: Here.

1794
01:18:26,160 --> 01:18:28,400
Speaker 3: We are on the radio right now, and I need

1795
01:18:28,400 --> 01:18:30,240
Speaker 3: your consent to continue with the calls. I o'kay if

1796
01:18:30,280 --> 01:18:33,559
Speaker 3: we talk for a second, Okay, I guess so, yeah,

1797
01:18:33,800 --> 01:18:36,320
Speaker 3: thank yeah, thank you very much. We're calling on behalf

1798
01:18:36,360 --> 01:18:37,920
Speaker 3: of a woman who says she met you on a

1799
01:18:38,000 --> 01:18:40,160
Speaker 3: hinge name Laura. You remember meeting her?

1800
01:18:40,840 --> 01:18:42,840
Speaker 6: I do, yeah, Okay, Well.

1801
01:18:42,720 --> 01:18:46,560
Speaker 3: She described what she thought was some chemistry, uh, you know,

1802
01:18:46,600 --> 01:18:49,120
Speaker 3: in the conversations before the date, said that she thought

1803
01:18:49,120 --> 01:18:50,680
Speaker 3: the date that you guys went on went well and

1804
01:18:50,680 --> 01:18:53,040
Speaker 3: that you were a gentleman. She was excited to sort

1805
01:18:53,040 --> 01:18:56,080
Speaker 3: of see where things were gonna go. H Except she says,

1806
01:18:56,080 --> 01:18:59,160
Speaker 3: you're ghosting now, You're not reaching out, so can you

1807
01:18:59,200 --> 01:19:01,080
Speaker 3: kind of maybe explain us why and then we'll tell

1808
01:19:01,120 --> 01:19:02,280
Speaker 3: her and go from there.

1809
01:19:03,479 --> 01:19:06,559
Speaker 17: So the whole situation was kind of weird, man. It

1810
01:19:06,760 --> 01:19:11,040
Speaker 17: like to shoot. I mean, she's hot and she actually

1811
01:19:11,080 --> 01:19:14,599
Speaker 17: did want to hook up, but the whole time I

1812
01:19:14,640 --> 01:19:17,519
Speaker 17: was feeling so much pressure coming from her. It was

1813
01:19:18,439 --> 01:19:20,679
Speaker 17: really weird. And then she ended up telling me that

1814
01:19:21,439 --> 01:19:25,160
Speaker 17: she's only been with women before and she wanted me

1815
01:19:25,200 --> 01:19:26,439
Speaker 17: to be her first guy.

1816
01:19:27,040 --> 01:19:27,559
Speaker 6: That's a lot.

1817
01:19:27,800 --> 01:19:30,320
Speaker 17: Well, she said that she wanted to see what it

1818
01:19:30,400 --> 01:19:33,840
Speaker 17: was like to be with a guy, and she wanted

1819
01:19:33,920 --> 01:19:37,240
Speaker 17: me to be her first. And I just I mean,

1820
01:19:37,280 --> 01:19:39,760
Speaker 17: she clearly likes women. You don't go your whole life

1821
01:19:39,800 --> 01:19:42,400
Speaker 17: only being with women, right, so you know.

1822
01:19:42,400 --> 01:19:45,120
Speaker 3: Without well, I mean she could like both as possible.

1823
01:19:45,120 --> 01:19:47,479
Speaker 3: But wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, this is a lot.

1824
01:19:47,880 --> 01:19:50,920
Speaker 3: So you didn't know this until so here. Here you

1825
01:19:50,960 --> 01:19:54,439
Speaker 3: are kind of flirting, talking some stuff you know, which

1826
01:19:54,479 --> 01:19:56,760
Speaker 3: happens on text, and you know you're building up to

1827
01:19:56,800 --> 01:19:57,160
Speaker 3: this date.

1828
01:19:57,240 --> 01:19:58,080
Speaker 6: Then you go on the date.

1829
01:19:58,320 --> 01:20:00,840
Speaker 3: Then she drops this on you, and then it's sort

1830
01:20:00,840 --> 01:20:01,920
Speaker 3: of like overwhelming for you.

1831
01:20:01,960 --> 01:20:02,519
Speaker 6: It's too much.

1832
01:20:03,080 --> 01:20:06,400
Speaker 17: Yeah, it just it just seems a little suspect. It's

1833
01:20:06,439 --> 01:20:09,720
Speaker 17: weird she's never been with a guy. It's like, why

1834
01:20:09,760 --> 01:20:11,240
Speaker 17: does she want to be with a guy? Anyways, if

1835
01:20:11,280 --> 01:20:12,679
Speaker 17: she's in the women, I don't understand.

1836
01:20:12,720 --> 01:20:15,560
Speaker 3: I'm sort of into this, except I feel like a

1837
01:20:15,720 --> 01:20:17,680
Speaker 3: very good chance that they go she go right back

1838
01:20:17,720 --> 01:20:22,639
Speaker 3: to women after being with me. I don't think I'm

1839
01:20:22,640 --> 01:20:25,400
Speaker 3: the best representation of what a man can do. I

1840
01:20:25,400 --> 01:20:27,280
Speaker 3: want to bring Laurie and I'm sorry, Dve, I forgot

1841
01:20:27,280 --> 01:20:28,280
Speaker 3: to mention the Laura is here.

1842
01:20:28,439 --> 01:20:28,719
Speaker 6: Laura.

1843
01:20:28,760 --> 01:20:30,760
Speaker 3: That's quite the revelation. I mean, that's a that's a

1844
01:20:30,760 --> 01:20:33,400
Speaker 3: lot to put on somebody. I mean, it's it's exciting.

1845
01:20:34,840 --> 01:20:37,720
Speaker 20: I mean I was really excited for it, you know,

1846
01:20:38,479 --> 01:20:42,639
Speaker 20: I mean the chosen one. Yeah, I mean people gets

1847
01:20:42,680 --> 01:20:45,960
Speaker 20: so weirded out when I like say that up front,

1848
01:20:46,120 --> 01:20:49,040
Speaker 20: and so I just figured I just you know, be

1849
01:20:49,280 --> 01:20:52,120
Speaker 20: like a normal person. And then but I wanted to

1850
01:20:52,120 --> 01:20:54,360
Speaker 20: be upfront with him, and I was really excited, Like

1851
01:20:54,920 --> 01:20:55,400
Speaker 20: it's like a.

1852
01:20:55,360 --> 01:20:58,920
Speaker 3: Gift, you know, like my first Yeah. No, it's yeah,

1853
01:20:58,920 --> 01:21:02,040
Speaker 3: it's absolutely normal. I think it's not something that you

1854
01:21:02,120 --> 01:21:04,360
Speaker 3: hear every day from a man or a woman. You know,

1855
01:21:04,640 --> 01:21:07,400
Speaker 3: that's sort of an abnormal circumstance. So I can see

1856
01:21:07,400 --> 01:21:10,360
Speaker 3: why he might have been taken caught a little off guard.

1857
01:21:10,360 --> 01:21:12,920
Speaker 3: But I don't know. I mean I'm learning here because

1858
01:21:12,920 --> 01:21:14,800
Speaker 3: I would have thought most guys would have been all

1859
01:21:14,840 --> 01:21:15,400
Speaker 3: about this.

1860
01:21:15,600 --> 01:21:17,960
Speaker 4: Are you attracted to men? Like have you been in

1861
01:21:17,960 --> 01:21:19,280
Speaker 4: the past or is it.

1862
01:21:19,240 --> 01:21:22,960
Speaker 20: Just yeah, I definitely am attracted to them. I've just

1863
01:21:23,439 --> 01:21:25,960
Speaker 20: all my experiences have been with women, Like I'm definitely

1864
01:21:26,000 --> 01:21:27,120
Speaker 20: like sec drum.

1865
01:21:27,240 --> 01:21:30,120
Speaker 4: Queer, you know, were you gonna just let him take

1866
01:21:30,160 --> 01:21:32,479
Speaker 4: the lead and like maybe he feels the pressure because

1867
01:21:32,520 --> 01:21:33,920
Speaker 4: like women know what women like.

1868
01:21:34,120 --> 01:21:35,719
Speaker 3: Sounds like maybe he just got in his head about

1869
01:21:35,720 --> 01:21:37,680
Speaker 3: the whole thing, the same way that you might if

1870
01:21:37,680 --> 01:21:40,920
Speaker 3: somebody revealed that they hadn't been with anyone before, Like

1871
01:21:40,960 --> 01:21:42,640
Speaker 3: that would be heavy for me. You know, if I

1872
01:21:42,680 --> 01:21:44,479
Speaker 3: met someone at this point in my life and I

1873
01:21:44,640 --> 01:21:47,439
Speaker 3: was to be there first, I would take a lot

1874
01:21:47,600 --> 01:21:49,240
Speaker 3: that would be a big responsibility for me, and that

1875
01:21:49,280 --> 01:21:52,320
Speaker 3: would I would feel pressure, as where some guys or

1876
01:21:52,360 --> 01:21:55,160
Speaker 3: girls might take that as a challenge or a badge

1877
01:21:55,160 --> 01:21:57,000
Speaker 3: of honor or something. For me, I would I would

1878
01:21:57,000 --> 01:21:59,760
Speaker 3: feel a lot of responsibility. So wow, Okay, so there's

1879
01:21:59,800 --> 01:22:01,720
Speaker 3: no way then, I mean, because it sounds like there

1880
01:22:01,760 --> 01:22:03,960
Speaker 3: was an attraction and everything was good until this sort

1881
01:22:03,960 --> 01:22:06,960
Speaker 3: of until you revealed this. I mean, Dave, would you

1882
01:22:07,000 --> 01:22:09,559
Speaker 3: consider you know, you take a breath, go out again,

1883
01:22:09,680 --> 01:22:11,320
Speaker 3: maybe slow it down and see where it goes.

1884
01:22:13,320 --> 01:22:17,120
Speaker 17: I just I don't think I can compete with other women,

1885
01:22:17,800 --> 01:22:18,479
Speaker 17: And uh.

1886
01:22:18,840 --> 01:22:20,559
Speaker 6: I don't know if it's a competition though I don't

1887
01:22:20,560 --> 01:22:21,599
Speaker 6: hear her saying that.

1888
01:22:21,720 --> 01:22:24,280
Speaker 20: And honestly, like I don't have anything to compare it to.

1889
01:22:24,439 --> 01:22:26,160
Speaker 20: So it isn't going to be good no matter what,

1890
01:22:26,439 --> 01:22:28,799
Speaker 20: you know, Like the most we have is like toys.

1891
01:22:28,800 --> 01:22:29,720
Speaker 20: We don't have a real thing.

1892
01:22:29,880 --> 01:22:33,080
Speaker 17: I don't know if that's necessarily true. I've never had

1893
01:22:33,160 --> 01:22:34,920
Speaker 17: sushi before. In the first time I had sushi, I

1894
01:22:35,000 --> 01:22:37,280
Speaker 17: hated it, So you never know what happened.

1895
01:22:37,400 --> 01:22:42,360
Speaker 3: That was probably a bad analogy, but okay, I may

1896
01:22:42,360 --> 01:22:44,639
Speaker 3: not have made a fish reference. But so no second date,

1897
01:22:44,640 --> 01:22:45,800
Speaker 3: then you're not you're not down.

1898
01:22:46,360 --> 01:22:47,559
Speaker 11: No, I don't.

1899
01:22:47,600 --> 01:22:50,520
Speaker 17: I don't want to be anyone's first in any sense.

1900
01:22:50,240 --> 01:22:54,080
Speaker 6: Of the word. So hey, Laura, sorry, but there's your answer,

1901
01:22:54,080 --> 01:22:54,599
Speaker 6: and now you.

1902
01:22:54,560 --> 01:22:57,559
Speaker 20: Know that's fine. I just have a question, like, how

1903
01:22:57,600 --> 01:23:00,840
Speaker 20: do I approach this with another guy because I want

1904
01:23:00,880 --> 01:23:03,360
Speaker 20: the experience, and I like, don't tell them at first,

1905
01:23:03,360 --> 01:23:04,840
Speaker 20: and I tell them later that I tell him in

1906
01:23:04,840 --> 01:23:05,240
Speaker 20: the beginning.

1907
01:23:05,240 --> 01:23:06,360
Speaker 6: I don't think you did anything wrong.

1908
01:23:06,400 --> 01:23:10,759
Speaker 3: I think you approach it with the same organic approach

1909
01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:13,200
Speaker 3: that you did on this and eventually, you know, someone

1910
01:23:13,240 --> 01:23:15,680
Speaker 3: will be into it and hopefully everyone's comfortable, and that's

1911
01:23:15,680 --> 01:23:19,080
Speaker 3: when it will be good. Okay, you know, at least

1912
01:23:19,120 --> 01:23:21,320
Speaker 3: a good environment for it. But he's not comfortable with it,

1913
01:23:21,320 --> 01:23:22,760
Speaker 3: so there, so.

1914
01:23:22,360 --> 01:23:25,280
Speaker 20: Yeah, no, that's fine, that's totally fine. It was just mixing.

1915
01:23:25,560 --> 01:23:27,400
Speaker 3: But you know, here's the annoying part Laura about this

1916
01:23:27,479 --> 01:23:29,679
Speaker 3: is now we're going to get about eight thousand Facebook

1917
01:23:29,680 --> 01:23:30,800
Speaker 3: messages from guys.

1918
01:23:30,560 --> 01:23:35,480
Speaker 6: Going change your mind.

1919
01:23:37,200 --> 01:23:40,880
Speaker 3: Like women after me? Right right, guys, thank you for

1920
01:23:40,920 --> 01:23:44,519
Speaker 3: your time. Have a great day. The Entertainer Report with Kaylin,

1921
01:23:44,600 --> 01:23:47,200
Speaker 3: we'll get the trending stories, fun fact all. Next Fred

1922
01:23:47,280 --> 01:23:53,439
Speaker 3: show Miley back in two minutes on Chicago's number one

1923
01:23:53,600 --> 01:23:54,160
Speaker 3: music station.

1924
01:23:56,280 --> 01:23:59,400
Speaker 2: Calin's Entertainer Report is on the fread show Man.

1925
01:23:59,400 --> 01:24:00,719
Speaker 5: This is a pretty crazy story.

1926
01:24:00,800 --> 01:24:03,479
Speaker 4: So rapper Quavo, who you know from MiGs, was on

1927
01:24:03,520 --> 01:24:07,080
Speaker 4: a yacht in Miami Sunday that is now being investigated

1928
01:24:07,400 --> 01:24:10,320
Speaker 4: for a strong arm robbery. So according to cops, two

1929
01:24:10,360 --> 01:24:13,519
Speaker 4: men on board, neither of whom were Quavo, allegedly became

1930
01:24:13,840 --> 01:24:16,920
Speaker 4: very aggressive towards the captain and his crew when they

1931
01:24:17,040 --> 01:24:19,640
Speaker 4: told them that time on their boat rental.

1932
01:24:19,880 --> 01:24:22,439
Speaker 5: Was running out. So I mean this could happen to anyone,

1933
01:24:22,520 --> 01:24:22,880
Speaker 5: I guess.

1934
01:24:23,040 --> 01:24:26,400
Speaker 4: The two dudes allegedly demanded for a refund, and the

1935
01:24:26,439 --> 01:24:29,720
Speaker 4: captain says that one of the dudes even grabbed his

1936
01:24:29,840 --> 01:24:32,000
Speaker 4: wallet out of his pocket and threatened to kill him

1937
01:24:32,040 --> 01:24:34,360
Speaker 4: and throw him off the boat. So I don't think

1938
01:24:34,400 --> 01:24:37,439
Speaker 4: they were happy their boat rental time was ending, but

1939
01:24:38,680 --> 01:24:40,960
Speaker 4: a little more time, right, They just wanted to party

1940
01:24:40,960 --> 01:24:41,120
Speaker 4: on the.

1941
01:24:41,120 --> 01:24:44,120
Speaker 6: App just a little longer on the yacht, right, come

1942
01:24:44,160 --> 01:24:44,559
Speaker 6: on now.

1943
01:24:44,920 --> 01:24:47,200
Speaker 4: A rep for Quavo said that he wasn't mentioned in

1944
01:24:47,240 --> 01:24:49,639
Speaker 4: the police report, but a source does say that they

1945
01:24:49,680 --> 01:24:52,640
Speaker 4: saw the Wrapper with his hands zip tied behind his

1946
01:24:52,720 --> 01:24:56,960
Speaker 4: back following the alleged incident before cops in Miami released him.

1947
01:24:57,320 --> 01:24:58,559
Speaker 5: This is the best part of the story.

1948
01:24:58,600 --> 01:25:01,280
Speaker 4: It says Quavo appeared to be joined by a bodyguard

1949
01:25:01,320 --> 01:25:03,720
Speaker 4: and quote a bunch of women, which, of course he

1950
01:25:03,920 --> 01:25:06,960
Speaker 4: was on a yacht. Tails so old as time, as

1951
01:25:06,960 --> 01:25:10,160
Speaker 4: Paulina would say. No arrests were made at the time

1952
01:25:10,240 --> 01:25:13,080
Speaker 4: and everyone was released, but they are obviously investigating them.

1953
01:25:13,560 --> 01:25:16,600
Speaker 4: Pete Davidson will be legally in the clear for crashing

1954
01:25:16,640 --> 01:25:19,240
Speaker 4: his car into that Beverly Hills home if he follows

1955
01:25:19,280 --> 01:25:22,320
Speaker 4: certain conditions in the next eighteen months, and they're very interesting.

1956
01:25:22,400 --> 01:25:25,160
Speaker 4: So if you forgot, Pete was charged with reckless driving

1957
01:25:25,240 --> 01:25:27,960
Speaker 4: last month and last week he entered a diversion program

1958
01:25:27,960 --> 01:25:31,160
Speaker 4: without pleading guilty or no contest to the offense. So

1959
01:25:31,680 --> 01:25:34,559
Speaker 4: he's required to do fifty hours of community service, which

1960
01:25:34,560 --> 01:25:35,679
Speaker 4: he can do in New York.

1961
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Speaker 5: But here's the really interesting part and kind of cool.

1962
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Speaker 4: So he is going to be allowed to put in

1963
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Speaker 4: the fifty hours at the New York City Fire Department

1964
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Speaker 4: where his dad worked and actually died in the nine

1965
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Speaker 4: to eleven tragedy. So it will be probably community service

1966
01:25:49,640 --> 01:25:52,800
Speaker 4: that he enjoys doing something he probably won't enjoy doing

1967
01:25:52,840 --> 01:25:55,160
Speaker 4: these two things. He's got to do twelve hours of

1968
01:25:55,200 --> 01:25:57,280
Speaker 4: traffics school. Traffic school, but he also has to go

1969
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Speaker 4: to a morgue for some edge vation on what happens

1970
01:26:01,160 --> 01:26:03,519
Speaker 4: to people when they're victims of reckless drivers.

1971
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Speaker 6: Oh my gosh.

1972
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Speaker 4: So he's really working to get that off his record.

1973
01:26:08,000 --> 01:26:09,240
Speaker 4: I don't know if they're going to show him like

1974
01:26:09,280 --> 01:26:12,160
Speaker 4: literal victims of that, but that's pretty intense. If he

1975
01:26:12,200 --> 01:26:15,080
Speaker 4: does complete all that, there will be no criminal offense

1976
01:26:15,120 --> 01:26:17,600
Speaker 4: on his record. And according to Will I Am, we

1977
01:26:17,640 --> 01:26:22,240
Speaker 4: should all be expecting more music from Miss Britney Jean Spears.

1978
01:26:22,640 --> 01:26:25,439
Speaker 4: He says that Brittany is still very much invested in

1979
01:26:25,479 --> 01:26:25,920
Speaker 4: her music.

1980
01:26:25,960 --> 01:26:26,920
Speaker 5: Jason's rolling his eyes.

1981
01:26:27,080 --> 01:26:29,719
Speaker 1: Oh I know, I'm a new producer.

1982
01:26:30,479 --> 01:26:32,080
Speaker 5: Well I agree with you there.

1983
01:26:32,360 --> 01:26:34,439
Speaker 4: He said she had a lot of ideas while they

1984
01:26:34,439 --> 01:26:37,879
Speaker 4: were finishing up Mind your Business now. He did admit

1985
01:26:38,120 --> 01:26:40,280
Speaker 4: that they recorded most of the song back in twenty thirteen,

1986
01:26:40,320 --> 01:26:43,360
Speaker 4: which we were saying, Jay, but he said it was

1987
01:26:43,400 --> 01:26:46,360
Speaker 4: the perfect time to finish the product and release it.

1988
01:26:46,439 --> 01:26:49,439
Speaker 4: Because she's talking to the paparazzi. She still feels the same,

1989
01:26:49,479 --> 01:26:51,000
Speaker 4: but he says she has a ton of ideas for

1990
01:26:51,080 --> 01:26:53,679
Speaker 4: new music. I don't know if she knows that she does,

1991
01:26:53,760 --> 01:26:58,040
Speaker 4: but hey, speaking of her, she has once again deactivated

1992
01:26:58,040 --> 01:26:59,760
Speaker 4: her Instagram. I don't know if you guys saw. She's

1993
01:26:59,760 --> 01:27:02,599
Speaker 4: been known to do this every few months. Most recently

1994
01:27:02,720 --> 01:27:06,200
Speaker 4: she her Instagram disappeared back in December, when her husband

1995
01:27:06,200 --> 01:27:09,360
Speaker 4: sam Asgari asked fans to ease up on their scrutiny

1996
01:27:09,400 --> 01:27:11,000
Speaker 4: of her Instagram activity.

1997
01:27:11,479 --> 01:27:13,759
Speaker 5: Where is Sam? I haven't seen Sam in a while.

1998
01:27:14,280 --> 01:27:15,120
Speaker 5: Have you seen Sam?

1999
01:27:15,200 --> 01:27:17,679
Speaker 1: He was saying that with Lance Bass and her yesterday.

2000
01:27:17,720 --> 01:27:20,639
Speaker 4: Oh okay, so yeah, he's a surface and she's back

2001
01:27:20,680 --> 01:27:21,479
Speaker 4: from Mexico.

2002
01:27:21,840 --> 01:27:23,599
Speaker 1: I guess unless they're old pictures, yes.

2003
01:27:23,640 --> 01:27:26,759
Speaker 5: Okay, got it. And that is the perfect segue.

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01:27:26,840 --> 01:27:28,639
Speaker 4: If you want to see that photo, it's on Fred

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01:27:28,680 --> 01:27:29,559
Speaker 4: Show Radio dot com.

2006
01:27:29,640 --> 01:27:32,200
Speaker 3: Someone texted, I don't know this is real, but This

2007
01:27:32,360 --> 01:27:33,559
Speaker 3: was left on my friend's door.

2008
01:27:33,680 --> 01:27:34,040
Speaker 6: Lol.

2009
01:27:34,160 --> 01:27:35,960
Speaker 3: You can pass this along to the woman on waiting

2010
01:27:36,000 --> 01:27:39,479
Speaker 3: by the phone. And here's an image. It says, Hi,

2011
01:27:39,720 --> 01:27:43,960
Speaker 3: I'm man's name and I'm seventeen. I was wondering. It's

2012
01:27:43,960 --> 01:27:45,439
Speaker 3: his handwritten, by the way. I was wondering if you

2013
01:27:45,439 --> 01:27:48,120
Speaker 3: could help me lose my virginity. Oh what, I've been

2014
01:27:48,160 --> 01:27:50,760
Speaker 3: trying since last year, and it's harder than I thought.

2015
01:27:53,560 --> 01:27:56,880
Speaker 3: If you're interested, please email me and there's ale address.

2016
01:27:58,560 --> 01:28:03,799
Speaker 3: If not, then you can roll this away. I have money. God, Lol,

2017
01:28:04,280 --> 01:28:05,120
Speaker 3: I relaxed.

2018
01:28:06,400 --> 01:28:08,000
Speaker 5: Take an easy guy.

2019
01:28:08,280 --> 01:28:10,800
Speaker 3: Favorite line is I've been trying since last year and

2020
01:28:10,840 --> 01:28:17,519
Speaker 3: it's harder than I thought. What's same, dude, Yes, yeah,

2021
01:28:17,560 --> 01:28:18,120
Speaker 3: I certainly do.

2022
01:28:18,320 --> 01:28:23,400
Speaker 6: You're a little early in the game. Frankly, Jason was

2023
01:28:23,400 --> 01:28:25,960
Speaker 6: a season vedva already, don't I know it?

2024
01:28:27,960 --> 01:28:29,120
Speaker 5: He was taking me cards left.

2025
01:28:30,560 --> 01:28:32,360
Speaker 3: That's not lost on me. That the gay guy on

2026
01:28:32,400 --> 01:28:35,760
Speaker 3: the show sleeping with women before I was. He's not

2027
01:28:35,920 --> 01:28:39,160
Speaker 3: lost on miss.

2028
01:28:40,640 --> 01:28:40,840
Speaker 6: Yeah.

2029
01:28:41,479 --> 01:28:44,920
Speaker 3: Great, Carl Russell, you probably heard this story. She was

2030
01:28:44,960 --> 01:28:47,920
Speaker 3: the Alabama woman who went woman who went missing for

2031
01:28:48,000 --> 01:28:51,200
Speaker 3: two days earlier this month. Well now, in a statement,

2032
01:28:51,240 --> 01:28:53,680
Speaker 3: her attorneys saying the whole thing was fake. She was

2033
01:28:53,720 --> 01:28:55,840
Speaker 3: not kidnapped and did not see a baby on the

2034
01:28:55,840 --> 01:28:58,679
Speaker 3: side of the interstate. My client apologizes for her actions

2035
01:28:59,040 --> 01:29:02,559
Speaker 3: to this commune. No word on why she did it,

2036
01:29:02,680 --> 01:29:04,240
Speaker 3: or what's going to happen to her, or if they'll

2037
01:29:04,240 --> 01:29:07,880
Speaker 3: be charges or whatever. But that whole story in Alabama

2038
01:29:08,040 --> 01:29:10,760
Speaker 3: turns out to be a fake story. A woman seen

2039
01:29:10,880 --> 01:29:14,040
Speaker 3: darting into the downtown LA convenience store that sold last

2040
01:29:14,080 --> 01:29:17,120
Speaker 3: week's winning billion dollar powerball ticket and appear to be

2041
01:29:17,120 --> 01:29:19,519
Speaker 3: celebrating in the store is not the winner.

2042
01:29:20,000 --> 01:29:21,240
Speaker 6: I was all captured on TV.

2043
01:29:21,640 --> 01:29:24,520
Speaker 3: She ran in there, freaked out at the last Palamitta's

2044
01:29:24,600 --> 01:29:27,760
Speaker 3: Mini market on Wall Street in Los Angeles, Downtown LA.

2045
01:29:28,800 --> 01:29:33,920
Speaker 3: When her came in, screamed whatever the lottery folks is saying, No,

2046
01:29:34,000 --> 01:29:35,519
Speaker 3: she didn't win. I'm not sure why she did that,

2047
01:29:36,160 --> 01:29:37,920
Speaker 3: And the people who own the convenience store say we

2048
01:29:37,920 --> 01:29:39,799
Speaker 3: don't know who the winner is. They still haven't come forward.

2049
01:29:40,040 --> 01:29:41,599
Speaker 3: The last thing I would do is make a big scene.

2050
01:29:41,600 --> 01:29:45,599
Speaker 3: If I just want a billion dollars, you know, run

2051
01:29:45,640 --> 01:29:47,920
Speaker 3: into a convenience store and wherever me.

2052
01:29:48,080 --> 01:29:52,640
Speaker 6: I'm a billionaire and a ticket. No, not doing that

2053
01:29:52,760 --> 01:29:53,160
Speaker 6: at all.

2054
01:29:53,840 --> 01:29:57,519
Speaker 3: This is great for Paulina and Kiki, who see bills

2055
01:29:57,560 --> 01:30:02,640
Speaker 3: as an invitation yes to pay or not. Americans no

2056
01:30:02,720 --> 01:30:04,599
Speaker 3: longer have to fear the I R S showing up

2057
01:30:04,720 --> 01:30:08,280
Speaker 3: unannounced out their door because they're ending decades old practice

2058
01:30:08,320 --> 01:30:12,320
Speaker 3: of having unarmed revenue officers visit households and businesses to

2059
01:30:12,320 --> 01:30:15,640
Speaker 3: help them resolve their account balances by collecting unpaid taxes

2060
01:30:15,760 --> 01:30:19,080
Speaker 3: and unfiled tax research. Can you imagine being an I

2061
01:30:19,240 --> 01:30:21,760
Speaker 3: R S agent with no gun or anything, and you

2062
01:30:21,840 --> 01:30:23,280
Speaker 3: got to go knock on someone's door and tell them

2063
01:30:23,280 --> 01:30:25,400
Speaker 3: they owe taxes, like, that's not gonna go.

2064
01:30:25,439 --> 01:30:28,400
Speaker 9: Well, but weren't they didn't you do a story where

2065
01:30:28,520 --> 01:30:30,519
Speaker 9: they're hiring armed agents.

2066
01:30:30,560 --> 01:30:32,479
Speaker 3: Now I know they're hiring more people, but I don't

2067
01:30:32,479 --> 01:30:34,040
Speaker 3: know that. I guess they're not going to your door

2068
01:30:34,040 --> 01:30:35,680
Speaker 3: though anymore.

2069
01:30:37,160 --> 01:30:39,560
Speaker 6: Not unarmed. They're gonna be armed not.

2070
01:30:40,880 --> 01:30:41,280
Speaker 12: Say something.

2071
01:30:41,439 --> 01:30:43,960
Speaker 3: If I were like, hey, lowman with a totem pole,

2072
01:30:44,000 --> 01:30:46,640
Speaker 3: you gotta go knock on that dude house over there,

2073
01:30:46,760 --> 01:30:49,679
Speaker 3: knock on his door and tell me he owes okay

2074
01:30:50,080 --> 01:30:55,599
Speaker 3: with with nothing. I'll get a stone gun, taser, nothing,

2075
01:30:56,360 --> 01:30:59,479
Speaker 3: elon mosk. People making fun of him for this whole

2076
01:30:59,520 --> 01:31:01,920
Speaker 3: ex backle changing the name of Twitter to x. The

2077
01:31:01,920 --> 01:31:05,000
Speaker 3: whole thing has been bumbled. It looks ridiculous. And the

2078
01:31:05,080 --> 01:31:12,719
Speaker 3: most sleep deprived state California, Maryland, New York, Massachusetts, Nevada, Georgia, Connecticut, Virginia, Texas,

2079
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2080
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2082
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Speaker 3: fact is we got more thread.

2083
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Speaker 2: Show next, You've got to wait. Fread show is on

2084
01:31:30,160 --> 01:31:33,280
Speaker 2: now hotest morning show.

2085
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Speaker 3: Thank you so much for having us on the radio

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Speaker 6: And all you have to do is log in and listen.

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2092
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Speaker 6: Just listen to us there.

2093
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Speaker 3: If you can't listen to us on the radio, it's

2094
01:31:52,600 --> 01:31:55,920
Speaker 3: all good. Good morning, Kayleb, good morning, Hi, Jason Brow, Hi,

2095
01:31:56,000 --> 01:32:00,320
Speaker 3: Roofy Hi, Hi, good morning Blogs and Justice. Second, the

2096
01:32:00,400 --> 01:32:02,120
Speaker 3: Entertainment Report. After that, what do you have in there?

2097
01:32:02,200 --> 01:32:05,760
Speaker 4: Kaelin man A tragedy for the Obamas. And also, you've

2098
01:32:05,760 --> 01:32:08,160
Speaker 4: heard of Barbie and Ken, but have you heard of Alan,

2099
01:32:08,280 --> 01:32:09,639
Speaker 4: because you need to Allan.

2100
01:32:10,680 --> 01:32:13,280
Speaker 6: I didn't know. I don't know they talked about it.

2101
01:32:14,640 --> 01:32:14,960
Speaker 14: Tell me.

2102
01:32:15,360 --> 01:32:18,040
Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show.

2103
01:32:18,080 --> 01:32:20,559
Speaker 3: So it's slave writing in our diaries, except we say

2104
01:32:20,640 --> 01:32:21,120
Speaker 3: them aloud.

2105
01:32:21,160 --> 01:32:23,799
Speaker 6: We call them blogs. Jason Brown's got one.

2106
01:32:23,720 --> 01:32:25,799
Speaker 1: Yes, thank you, dear blog.

2107
01:32:25,960 --> 01:32:28,880
Speaker 18: So I need to know if anyone else's parents does

2108
01:32:28,920 --> 01:32:32,400
Speaker 18: this to them. So this morning I actually found out

2109
01:32:32,479 --> 01:32:35,840
Speaker 18: that my mom has lied to me for my own good.

2110
01:32:36,320 --> 01:32:41,120
Speaker 18: So over the weekend they recently moved last week's Over

2111
01:32:41,120 --> 01:32:43,320
Speaker 18: the weekend, I was at their house helping them unpack whatever,

2112
01:32:43,760 --> 01:32:45,240
Speaker 18: and my mom was saying that my dad had to

2113
01:32:45,280 --> 01:32:47,280
Speaker 18: go for a procedure this week, and she said it

2114
01:32:47,320 --> 01:32:51,360
Speaker 18: was on Thursday of this week. So I was like, okay,

2115
01:32:51,360 --> 01:32:52,880
Speaker 18: So I was planning to go out there Thursday night

2116
01:32:52,920 --> 01:32:56,519
Speaker 18: whatever whatever. Well then today this morning she just texted

2117
01:32:56,560 --> 01:32:58,960
Speaker 18: me and was like, Oh, your dad just got out

2118
01:32:58,960 --> 01:33:01,240
Speaker 18: of the procedure. He gets all good, he's in recovery,

2119
01:33:01,240 --> 01:33:02,760
Speaker 18: he's going to be going home soon, blah blah blah.

2120
01:33:02,800 --> 01:33:04,960
Speaker 1: And I was like, I thought it was Thursday.

2121
01:33:05,360 --> 01:33:09,960
Speaker 18: Yeah, today is not that day day, right, and she goes, Oh,

2122
01:33:09,960 --> 01:33:11,320
Speaker 18: I just didn't want you to worry, so I told

2123
01:33:11,320 --> 01:33:13,480
Speaker 18: you it was thirsty, but it's actually Tuesday.

2124
01:33:14,880 --> 01:33:15,120
Speaker 17: Same.

2125
01:33:15,600 --> 01:33:19,599
Speaker 3: My parents do this too. My parents do the same thing, dude,

2126
01:33:19,640 --> 01:33:21,760
Speaker 3: So just know that it's not just you. They don't

2127
01:33:21,800 --> 01:33:24,400
Speaker 3: think we can handle this stuff, which maybe we can't.

2128
01:33:24,479 --> 01:33:24,840
Speaker 6: I don't know.

2129
01:33:25,920 --> 01:33:28,920
Speaker 3: But like my mom will text me everything's great with

2130
01:33:29,160 --> 01:33:32,240
Speaker 3: you know, your dad, and I'll be like, well, that's nice.

2131
01:33:32,280 --> 01:33:34,400
Speaker 3: I'm glad to know that, Like what do you Oh, yeah,

2132
01:33:34,680 --> 01:33:36,800
Speaker 3: everything went the doctor's really happy with it.

2133
01:33:36,880 --> 01:33:38,000
Speaker 6: I'm like happy with what?

2134
01:33:39,840 --> 01:33:42,639
Speaker 3: Like, oh, your dad had open heart surgery, but everything's fine.

2135
01:33:43,160 --> 01:33:45,080
Speaker 3: I forget to tell you that. I'm like, yeah, they

2136
01:33:45,160 --> 01:33:47,920
Speaker 3: took his brain out and put it back again. Did

2137
01:33:47,960 --> 01:33:49,479
Speaker 3: I forget to tell you that though, And I'll be

2138
01:33:49,520 --> 01:33:52,439
Speaker 3: like yes, or like with the animals, they won't tell

2139
01:33:52,520 --> 01:33:54,799
Speaker 3: us if there's like a procedure going on with the animals,

2140
01:33:54,840 --> 01:33:58,519
Speaker 3: they won't tell Kiki because she'll make a graphic. I

2141
01:33:58,560 --> 01:34:00,439
Speaker 3: don't do that anymore, you know what happens to that.

2142
01:34:00,680 --> 01:34:02,360
Speaker 3: But no, you're your parents are not the only ones.

2143
01:34:02,479 --> 01:34:05,080
Speaker 18: I'll find out like all this stuff after too, And

2144
01:34:05,080 --> 01:34:07,320
Speaker 18: then I get mad because at least she told me

2145
01:34:07,439 --> 01:34:08,639
Speaker 18: before that it was happening.

2146
01:34:08,640 --> 01:34:09,679
Speaker 1: At least I knew it was happening.

2147
01:34:09,800 --> 01:34:11,280
Speaker 18: But a lot of times I'll just get the text

2148
01:34:11,280 --> 01:34:13,439
Speaker 18: after like oh, your dad to go to the hospital,

2149
01:34:13,439 --> 01:34:14,960
Speaker 18: but like he's all good, he's home now, like blah

2150
01:34:14,960 --> 01:34:17,599
Speaker 18: blah blah, Like why don't you tell me? Like because

2151
01:34:18,040 --> 01:34:20,759
Speaker 18: she knows how neurotic I get and like how anxious

2152
01:34:20,800 --> 01:34:22,519
Speaker 18: I would be. But still I'm like, I want to

2153
01:34:22,560 --> 01:34:24,040
Speaker 18: know in real time what is going on.

2154
01:34:24,439 --> 01:34:26,439
Speaker 6: Did you tell her about your pediatriss appointment?

2155
01:34:26,760 --> 01:34:26,960
Speaker 14: No?

2156
01:34:27,160 --> 01:34:30,880
Speaker 6: Oh, come on, we're like that, but we go back.

2157
01:34:33,800 --> 01:34:36,640
Speaker 5: You need to hear all that Detroit.

2158
01:34:38,280 --> 01:34:40,320
Speaker 1: Service when I travel, so I don't tell her.

2159
01:34:42,080 --> 01:34:45,200
Speaker 5: You go on the radio the same person.

2160
01:34:45,479 --> 01:34:50,280
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're a hymnocrite like that.

2161
01:34:50,520 --> 01:34:51,120
Speaker 1: It's difficut.

2162
01:34:51,240 --> 01:34:57,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, forget about it. Then I don't care anymore. Sorry,

2163
01:34:58,080 --> 01:35:01,800
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, mom, r Mama Brown to never buy. You

2164
01:35:01,800 --> 01:35:03,840
Speaker 3: don't have to tell him. Jack fred Show is on

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Speaker 3: The Entertainment Report eas next