WEBVTT - No Spirals This Time 0:00:00.720 --> 0:00:04.960 Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio Podcast. 0:00:08.560 --> 0:00:11.280 Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. 0:00:12.119 --> 0:00:18.040 Scrub dub dub in the tub ub dub Tonya. 0:00:18.160 --> 0:00:21.480 This is like the fourth time she's had a tune 0:00:21.520 --> 0:00:21.840 for us. 0:00:22.320 --> 0:00:23.720 He's in a singing mood. 0:00:23.440 --> 0:00:27.600 Today, that's right. Why just feeling the vibes. 0:00:28.520 --> 0:00:29.360 The vibes are high. 0:00:29.400 --> 0:00:32.200 The vibes are high. I'm on vacation. 0:00:32.800 --> 0:00:33.519 Oh you are? 0:00:33.680 --> 0:00:40.080 Oh yeah, where are you right now? Let me tell 0:00:40.080 --> 0:00:43.680 you something. I am present. I'm gonna focus the next 0:00:43.760 --> 0:00:46.920 seven days about being present in the moment. 0:00:47.320 --> 0:00:52.440 Yes, so that means what She's not sure. 0:00:52.640 --> 0:00:54.360 Yeah, I'm not sure. But like one of the big 0:00:54.400 --> 0:00:56.200 things is at night, I always go through like the 0:00:56.240 --> 0:00:58.320 laundry list of the next day. Like I'm always like 0:00:58.560 --> 0:01:00.440 hyper focused on like the next day and like the 0:01:00.480 --> 0:01:02.040 to do list and stuff, and that's just going to 0:01:02.080 --> 0:01:04.600 go out the window because you're off, that's right. 0:01:04.920 --> 0:01:06.640 So you don't have a to do list, right, No, 0:01:06.800 --> 0:01:07.240 Like when. 0:01:07.080 --> 0:01:09.240 You're off, you're not really off, you know, like Sonny 0:01:09.240 --> 0:01:10.760 has to go to the vets and you know what 0:01:10.800 --> 0:01:13.080 I mean, all those little things on vacation, I am 0:01:13.600 --> 0:01:16.759 oh yeah, yeah, I'm just saying, like, mentally, I want 0:01:16.800 --> 0:01:19.679 to just be like free bird. 0:01:20.440 --> 0:01:21.679 Where are you on vacation? 0:01:22.080 --> 0:01:23.280 That's to be determined. 0:01:23.360 --> 0:01:24.200 You're kidding me. 0:01:25.640 --> 0:01:29.680 A little. Young young chicks just picking up and going 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:30.360 for the. 0:01:30.440 --> 0:01:33.200 Where this energy? This time? 0:01:33.280 --> 0:01:34.479 We don't know where you're going. 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:36.399 To be, So to be fair, we did not get 0:01:36.400 --> 0:01:40.440 our vacation schedule from Ryan about a week ago, so 0:01:40.600 --> 0:01:43.160 I've had about a week to figure it out. So 0:01:43.560 --> 0:01:45.600 that's kind of where we're at. And I was sick 0:01:45.720 --> 0:01:48.400 and was down, and so that's just where we are. 0:01:48.480 --> 0:01:49.280 It is Becka Energy. 0:01:49.320 --> 0:01:55.160 But I'm ember, what are the options. 0:01:55.840 --> 0:01:57.320 It's globe, Yeah, I. 0:01:57.240 --> 0:02:00.240 Mean globe, spin, spin the what are those things going? 0:02:00.760 --> 0:02:02.400 I'm going to find something that gives me a random 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:03.560 location in the world. 0:02:03.680 --> 0:02:06.000 In the Globe's let's see. 0:02:06.560 --> 0:02:08.400 Yeah, what does that mean? 0:02:08.560 --> 0:02:10.920 You know you never know what was keeping you on 0:02:10.960 --> 0:02:11.400 your toes. 0:02:12.639 --> 0:02:14.000 I'll just check your location. 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:17.520 That's right, you have my location. You never check my location. 0:02:17.639 --> 0:02:20.680 That's kind of sad you don't check mine either. 0:02:20.600 --> 0:02:21.920 Yeah, I do. I checked it on the way in 0:02:21.919 --> 0:02:23.520 today when I was on the one on one to 0:02:23.639 --> 0:02:25.240 see how far back you were and you hadn't left 0:02:25.280 --> 0:02:25.760 your house. 0:02:25.639 --> 0:02:29.840 Yet but aside, you literally never use it. You're always 0:02:29.840 --> 0:02:31.120 like where are you, who are you with? What are 0:02:31.120 --> 0:02:32.640 you doing? And I'm like, check the location. 0:02:33.280 --> 0:02:35.280 Well, the location doesn't tell me who you're with. 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:36.640 Which is fine, you don't need to. 0:02:36.800 --> 0:02:38.720 Which that's a feature. I would like them to add, 0:02:38.720 --> 0:02:40.239 if I'm being honest, you won't. 0:02:40.120 --> 0:02:41.720 Get removed so bad. 0:02:42.720 --> 0:02:44.800 Apparently snapchat has that feature. 0:02:45.160 --> 0:02:46.160 Well they have snap maps. 0:02:46.840 --> 0:02:47.640 Yeah, snap maps. 0:02:48.000 --> 0:02:50.040 Multiple people you follow it together, you'd be able to see. 0:02:50.160 --> 0:02:52.639 Yeah, and like apparently a lot of kids feel left 0:02:52.639 --> 0:02:53.120 out from it. 0:02:56.240 --> 0:02:58.240 To generate a random place, and this is where you'll go. 0:02:58.840 --> 0:03:05.440 Here we go, Oh, Spain in Spain, In Spain, here's 0:03:05.440 --> 0:03:07.280 another one. France. 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:15.639 Oh, what are the contenders right now? 0:03:16.120 --> 0:03:16.920 Greece in Hawaii? 0:03:17.280 --> 0:03:17.760 Oh wow? 0:03:19.840 --> 0:03:23.760 Directions yes, correct, correct, Just depends on how ambitious we're feeling, 0:03:24.919 --> 0:03:31.280 Like the day of no, no, no hopefully. Yeah, I've 0:03:31.280 --> 0:03:34.160 never done that before. 0:03:34.240 --> 0:03:35.080 It's kind of like the same. 0:03:35.360 --> 0:03:37.320 True, I feel like Becca's done that before. 0:03:37.320 --> 0:03:39.560 I haven't, but I would love to m I added, 0:03:39.640 --> 0:03:42.800 as like a content content idea. 0:03:42.640 --> 0:03:45.880 Yeah, just show up to the airport and see what's 0:03:45.920 --> 0:03:49.160 available and then just go and go, but pack something 0:03:49.200 --> 0:03:49.880 that I could wear. 0:03:50.000 --> 0:03:52.280 You know, Greece and Hawaii probably are the same vibes, 0:03:52.720 --> 0:03:54.960 not vibes, same weather weather. 0:03:55.080 --> 0:03:55.360 Correct. 0:03:55.600 --> 0:03:58.760 The Scandinavian Airlines announced recently that you can pay like 0:03:58.800 --> 0:04:00.840 a thousand bucks or something like that and they'm just 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:02.720 going to send you somewhere and you won't know until 0:04:02.720 --> 0:04:03.280 you're on the plane. 0:04:03.280 --> 0:04:04.520 Oh yeah, I was gonna say, I feel like I've 0:04:04.520 --> 0:04:05.160 heard about this. 0:04:05.240 --> 0:04:07.360 Yeah, that's I don't know a lot of people. 0:04:08.240 --> 0:04:09.200 That's so crazy. 0:04:09.320 --> 0:04:11.880 There's a lot of a lot of adventurers out there. 0:04:12.120 --> 0:04:14.360 What if you do it? It's like Branson, Missouri. 0:04:14.760 --> 0:04:17.240 Like you're, well, it's the Vegas of the Midwest. 0:04:17.240 --> 0:04:17.840 That's right here. 0:04:17.920 --> 0:04:19.480 Yeah, is that really what it is? 0:04:19.640 --> 0:04:20.440 Yeah? 0:04:20.560 --> 0:04:20.920 Yeah? 0:04:20.960 --> 0:04:25.080 Oh wow yeah wow. 0:04:25.360 --> 0:04:27.880 No, that's not somewhere I necessarily want to go. But 0:04:28.960 --> 0:04:31.160 that's a very adventurous spirit to do that. I don't 0:04:31.160 --> 0:04:33.160 even think I would like to do that really. Yeah. 0:04:33.200 --> 0:04:34.840 It feels like really rolling the dice. 0:04:34.960 --> 0:04:36.919 I like the idea of packing for something for a 0:04:37.040 --> 0:04:39.200 type of weather and then getting to the airport and 0:04:39.200 --> 0:04:42.680 being like we're going here, but knowing that I have 0:04:42.760 --> 0:04:43.680 all the things I need. 0:04:43.760 --> 0:04:45.719 That's so I'll tell Haley that would you like me 0:04:45.720 --> 0:04:46.680 to pass that message along. 0:04:46.680 --> 0:04:47.960 I don't know if she would like that. 0:04:48.240 --> 0:04:49.960 Oh well, no, she would know, she would plan it. 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:53.880 Oh oh yeah, yeah, yeah, that's fine. I'll let her know. Okay, 0:04:54.000 --> 0:04:55.480 I get to see her tomorrow. 0:04:56.040 --> 0:04:59.240 Wow, finally today I. 0:04:59.240 --> 0:05:02.560 Did I did you guys? Three weeks? 0:05:02.640 --> 0:05:04.080 Did you do it? Because we don't know. We only 0:05:04.120 --> 0:05:05.479 see you here for all we know. You're in a 0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:06.120 fetal position. 0:05:06.200 --> 0:05:12.359 The other twenty vertical, horizontal, I. 0:05:12.360 --> 0:05:13.760 Would say, stretched out and tall? 0:05:14.040 --> 0:05:18.599 Yeah whatever, yeah yeah, like she's on stilts. She's walking 0:05:18.640 --> 0:05:20.960 around like Orange County still. 0:05:22.080 --> 0:05:28.560 Yeah, yeah, no spirals this time. Proud of you, thank you. 0:05:28.760 --> 0:05:29.839 Yeah, we made it. 0:05:30.320 --> 0:05:37.960 We did it, We did it, Joe. Yeah. So I'm 0:05:37.960 --> 0:05:40.240 going up tomorrow to see her. It's just for the 0:05:40.279 --> 0:05:43.240 weekend and then she'll be back. She has a week 0:05:43.400 --> 0:05:44.760 and then she'll be back the next week. 0:05:45.000 --> 0:05:48.360 Oh so that's it. Like we're the line. 0:05:48.560 --> 0:05:56.240 Let's say we're on the mile twenty twenty three of 0:05:56.320 --> 0:06:00.120 a marathon. My wait, it's twenty six point two. 0:06:00.480 --> 0:06:01.960 Oh yeah, okay, okay, it's like. 0:06:01.960 --> 0:06:04.160 The end, like you're you're struggling, but you know you're 0:06:04.160 --> 0:06:04.680 gonna make it. 0:06:04.800 --> 0:06:05.479 Yeah, you're there. 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:09.960 Yeah. Yeah, So I leave tomorrow, I gotta get Phoebe 0:06:10.000 --> 0:06:11.560 to Newport with my sister. 0:06:11.720 --> 0:06:12.640 Yeah, all the things. 0:06:13.000 --> 0:06:13.799 What's to do today? 0:06:13.920 --> 0:06:16.960 Yeah, busy gal busy gal in the moon booked and 0:06:17.080 --> 0:06:20.080 busy booked him, busy all the time. 0:06:20.240 --> 0:06:23.320 Yeah, so that's a little bit about me. 0:06:23.880 --> 0:06:27.760 Well, you know who I saw yesterday. And I have 0:06:27.839 --> 0:06:30.400 to tell you, I like, I think I'm maturing quite 0:06:30.440 --> 0:06:33.120 nicely in my age. As I'm aging, I feel as 0:06:33.160 --> 0:06:36.240 though things I would have done when I was, you know, 0:06:36.680 --> 0:06:41.520 twenty five, I can hold back on in my elder years. 0:06:42.520 --> 0:06:45.240 So I have no idea what what's coming out of 0:06:45.240 --> 0:06:46.080 your mouth right now? 0:06:46.720 --> 0:06:49.760 I saw Ariono Mattox in the flesh. 0:06:49.839 --> 0:06:51.839 Oh my god, God, that's a big one. 0:06:52.040 --> 0:06:55.559 It's a big one. And I did not harass her. 0:06:56.000 --> 0:06:57.839 I did not even go up to her. She was 0:06:57.880 --> 0:07:00.800 busy working, and I let her be and I made 0:07:00.800 --> 0:07:02.679 eye contact with her. I could have easily been. 0:07:02.480 --> 0:07:06.080 Like, ah, old timey would have made that noise. 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:12.200 Correct. So I'm glad you asked. She has a sandwich shop. 0:07:12.280 --> 0:07:12.840 What's it called? 0:07:12.880 --> 0:07:13.520 Something about her? 0:07:13.600 --> 0:07:17.920 Something about her? It's right next to my hair salon, Tawny. 0:07:18.160 --> 0:07:21.240 Tawny's hair salon is right next door, and so I 0:07:21.280 --> 0:07:23.800 was getting my hair done and there was a line 0:07:23.880 --> 0:07:26.960 down the street as there always is, and my friend 0:07:26.960 --> 0:07:31.160 from TMZ actually was there, like standing there, and she 0:07:31.240 --> 0:07:33.840 ran over because I was like feeding the meter and 0:07:33.920 --> 0:07:35.680 she said, hey, like talking to me, and I was like, 0:07:35.680 --> 0:07:37.720 what are you doing here? She's like, oh, arian is 0:07:37.760 --> 0:07:40.080 here all day? Seth Rogan was just here and I 0:07:40.120 --> 0:07:42.600 was like, oh my gosh, what a sight seeing And 0:07:42.640 --> 0:07:44.960 I was like, oh cool. So I finished talking to 0:07:45.000 --> 0:07:46.760 her and then I walked was about to walk into 0:07:46.760 --> 0:07:48.760 the hair salon and I saw Ariana right there on 0:07:48.800 --> 0:07:53.200 the sidewalk. Wow. No, I made eye contact. I smiled. 0:07:53.480 --> 0:07:55.320 I think she could feel my energy that like, I'm 0:07:55.320 --> 0:07:58.400 a love Island stan and I commend her and thank 0:07:58.400 --> 0:08:01.600 her for her service this season. And that's all. I 0:08:01.640 --> 0:08:02.720 just needed the eye contact. 0:08:03.080 --> 0:08:05.880 That's so interesting because I feel like you'd at least 0:08:05.920 --> 0:08:08.760 be like I love like I loved this season great, 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:10.280 like it was amazing or something. 0:08:10.800 --> 0:08:13.440 So I probably I was late for my hair appointment, 0:08:13.520 --> 0:08:16.440 so I was stressed, just trying to fly in there 0:08:16.480 --> 0:08:19.320 as that quickly as possible. And I thought I could 0:08:19.320 --> 0:08:21.240 sense her energy was like I need to get back 0:08:21.280 --> 0:08:25.520 into my sandwich Shop. Right, but that's a conversation. I'll 0:08:25.560 --> 0:08:26.679 never know how it was. It gone. 0:08:26.920 --> 0:08:27.840 Isn't she studying though? 0:08:28.200 --> 0:08:31.680 Yeah? And she's much like smaller than I thought everyone is, 0:08:32.040 --> 0:08:34.200 I know, but I guess like I've never watched an 0:08:34.200 --> 0:08:36.840 episode of Bander Pump Rules, but on Love Island she 0:08:36.880 --> 0:08:40.040 looks very tall. She looks like six foot three. 0:08:40.320 --> 0:08:43.280 She gets hosted American Top forty last year, and I 0:08:43.320 --> 0:08:45.320 have video on my Instagram of her saying that she 0:08:45.400 --> 0:08:46.800 and I are best friends, and. 0:08:46.840 --> 0:08:48.719 She's much like, yeah, she's like I don't even I 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:49.920 don't really know how tall she is, but. 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:52.920 She's very short. Yeah, and yeah she's the best. Yeah, 0:08:52.960 --> 0:08:53.720 you love very animatic? 0:08:53.800 --> 0:08:56.520 What an arc? What a what a wife? What a career? 0:08:57.400 --> 0:08:59.320 I know, like she gets a reality and. 0:08:59.360 --> 0:09:01.880 Like what a blessed though, because that Tom Sandoval was 0:09:01.960 --> 0:09:03.160 such a. 0:09:02.800 --> 0:09:05.000 And then that all happens, which makes her a household 0:09:05.080 --> 0:09:06.920 name for all the wrong reasons. And now she's the 0:09:06.920 --> 0:09:09.640 host like the number one show on television, Like that's 0:09:09.760 --> 0:09:11.280 just not an arc anybody's ever. 0:09:11.280 --> 0:09:13.480 And the sandwich Shop, that's like crushing it. And she 0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:16.640 was on Broadway and she's on Broadway on Broadway. Yeah, 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:18.560 she's interesting, winning. 0:09:18.360 --> 0:09:19.160 She keeps winning. 0:09:19.360 --> 0:09:23.199 Yeah, she goes to show you just you might be 0:09:23.240 --> 0:09:26.640 down today. You might be down today, but you can 0:09:26.679 --> 0:09:29.640 be up tomorrow. You might be crying today, but you're 0:09:29.679 --> 0:09:32.240 gonna be thriving tomorrow. You might be down in the 0:09:32.320 --> 0:09:35.760 dumps today, not wanting to get out of bed, and 0:09:35.800 --> 0:09:41.680 you're gonna be on Broadway tomorrow. M metaphoric metaphoric Broadway. 0:09:42.400 --> 0:09:45.240 Yeah. It goes to show the town. 0:09:45.480 --> 0:09:48.800 Wow, exactly, the sandwich of the stars. 0:09:49.400 --> 0:09:52.040 Mmmm, the toasted sub of the town. 0:09:52.679 --> 0:09:55.840 Well, this reminds me. Actually, it's been a full week 0:09:55.880 --> 0:10:01.120 without Love Island. Yes, and I've been missing them. So 0:10:01.200 --> 0:10:01.800 I wrote a poem. 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:02.839 But they're all on social media. 0:10:02.920 --> 0:10:07.560 Now, You're like, it's different, Oh, they're They're more polished 0:10:07.600 --> 0:10:10.880 on Instagram. It's not the raw, unvarnished sims that I'm 0:10:10.920 --> 0:10:13.839 used to. Yeah, it's a filtered version of them, you 0:10:13.920 --> 0:10:16.160 know what I'm saying. Yeah, I wrote a. 0:10:16.160 --> 0:10:18.200 Poem perfectly normal, perfectly healthy. 0:10:18.400 --> 0:10:18.600 Yes. 0:10:18.960 --> 0:10:21.960 Who hasn't among us written a poem about a TV show? 0:10:22.080 --> 0:10:22.360 Yes? 0:10:23.080 --> 0:10:26.120 So I wanted to read that to you all. Should 0:10:26.120 --> 0:10:26.920 I do when we come back? 0:10:27.160 --> 0:10:27.319 Oh? 0:10:27.600 --> 0:10:28.120 I love it? 0:10:28.360 --> 0:10:30.960 Wow, Tony a great job. 0:10:31.320 --> 0:10:33.080 I've been waiting to get it right once. 0:10:33.320 --> 0:10:34.199 It was a good job. 0:10:34.360 --> 0:10:54.920 Thank you, and we're back. 0:10:55.559 --> 0:10:57.040 Yeah, we're back. You have the floor. 0:10:57.760 --> 0:11:00.680 The floor is yours, floor is mine. Yeah, he said, 0:11:00.679 --> 0:11:03.959 Can I get just a quick intro? You can do 0:11:04.120 --> 0:11:17.120 like five seconds? Perfect? That's good, thank you. Okay, bade 0:11:17.160 --> 0:11:21.240 it down. Maybe it was that too long. I don't 0:11:21.240 --> 0:11:26.480 even know. Okay, risking it. Don't tell the authorities, scrubvers. Okay, 0:11:26.679 --> 0:11:31.120 are you ready? It's been a week without you, my 0:11:31.240 --> 0:11:34.800 dear good friends. I never thought we would get to 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:43.760 the end of hearing Kaylor scream, parad to Kendall acting 0:11:43.840 --> 0:11:50.000 like such a Karen and Nicole looking flawless every single day, 0:11:50.840 --> 0:11:55.400 and Janey being perfect in every single way. It was 0:11:55.440 --> 0:12:00.199 a season where the women totally dominated the men. They 0:12:00.280 --> 0:12:05.040 kind of were just accessories. They were just kens. It's 0:12:05.120 --> 0:12:08.480 love Island, not like Island. So we don't put up 0:12:08.520 --> 0:12:12.280 with the lies. We may not have new episodes, but 0:12:12.360 --> 0:12:17.280 we will always have soul ties. So cheers to Leah, 0:12:17.480 --> 0:12:22.160 Serena and my down ass Bee live. Now, let's hope 0:12:22.200 --> 0:12:24.760 these men can be a little more decisive. 0:12:25.400 --> 0:12:30.560 Wow, Shakespeare, who honestly one of your best. 0:12:30.760 --> 0:12:33.720 It felt good and I wrote it weirdly fast. 0:12:34.040 --> 0:12:36.640 It was just waiting to be Yeah, it was like 0:12:36.720 --> 0:12:39.120 put down on paper on the phone. 0:12:39.240 --> 0:12:42.880 Yeah, so it's over. It's over. 0:12:43.800 --> 0:12:44.360 The reunion. 0:12:45.040 --> 0:12:46.240 Yes, I have the reunion. 0:12:46.400 --> 0:12:47.719 So that's something to look forward to. 0:12:47.840 --> 0:12:51.640 And I have all of them on every podcastle We've 0:12:51.679 --> 0:12:56.120 got Rob or Leah and Call Her Daddy, We've got 0:12:57.840 --> 0:13:04.520 Taylor on by Al File File Files, fi Out, We've 0:13:04.559 --> 0:13:07.640 got who else is on other podcasts. 0:13:07.800 --> 0:13:10.040 I don't know. I haven't. I just see what I 0:13:10.080 --> 0:13:12.960 see on TikTok, which is I saw Rob's clips on 0:13:15.280 --> 0:13:21.880 which is funny because so he she asked him about Andrea, yeah, 0:13:21.920 --> 0:13:25.200 if they would get back together, and he kind of 0:13:25.280 --> 0:13:29.080 was like, we've talked, and he kind of is, doesn't 0:13:29.080 --> 0:13:32.079 say much, and then he goes, but she posted a lot. 0:13:33.120 --> 0:13:35.360 I noticed that, But I'm like, what is that about? 0:13:36.280 --> 0:13:39.680 But that he wasn't into it. Yeah, well, I think 0:13:39.720 --> 0:13:43.040 he just thought she would like maybe was trying too 0:13:43.080 --> 0:13:47.760 hard to like stay relevant or something. I don't know. 0:13:47.920 --> 0:13:49.959 So he gave him like the ache or something. Is 0:13:50.040 --> 0:13:52.040 kind of the impression I got. 0:13:52.520 --> 0:13:54.920 I feel bad because it's like, you get out of 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:58.760 this villa, you're like you fall in love with someone, 0:13:58.800 --> 0:14:01.280 they're still in there and you come out. 0:14:02.360 --> 0:14:05.080 It's like, you feel like she fell in love with 0:14:05.160 --> 0:14:06.120 him in four days. 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:08.319 I do, Yeah, you don't. 0:14:08.559 --> 0:14:10.160 I think she really liked him. I think she had 0:14:10.160 --> 0:14:11.080 a big crush on him. 0:14:11.200 --> 0:14:13.199 You don't think she fell in love. I think they 0:14:13.200 --> 0:14:14.280 were like in love with each other. 0:14:14.679 --> 0:14:17.199 No, I think they had really deep I think they 0:14:17.360 --> 0:14:19.440 liked each other and there was like an attraction. But 0:14:19.520 --> 0:14:20.600 I definitely don't feel like. 0:14:20.520 --> 0:14:24.040 It was love. Oh yikes. 0:14:24.640 --> 0:14:29.200 I mean, anyway, she gets off and she's like doing 0:14:29.240 --> 0:14:32.080 a lot of lives. She's posting about everything, like any 0:14:32.200 --> 0:14:34.000 any question asked, she's answering it. 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:35.200 Really, how did I miss that? 0:14:36.160 --> 0:14:38.640 It was on TikTok oh? But you don't see. 0:14:38.800 --> 0:14:41.360 But I think I figured, like US Weekly or something 0:14:41.360 --> 0:14:44.560 would pick it up and write a story tomorrow. Yeah. Yeah, 0:14:44.600 --> 0:14:45.680 nobody said that my way. 0:14:45.880 --> 0:14:50.000 Yeah, Ginger chan interesting and so he just kind of referenced. 0:14:50.000 --> 0:14:52.000 He was like, she posted a lot, and then I 0:14:52.000 --> 0:14:58.360 guess she went and deleted everything. So that's on that. 0:14:58.600 --> 0:15:03.520 I don't know what will happen and beyond that, and 0:15:03.560 --> 0:15:07.680 then she's having Leo on yeah coming up maybe today 0:15:07.760 --> 0:15:09.880 or something. I don't know. And then Kaylor was on 0:15:10.120 --> 0:15:12.040 Vile Files and she made me sad because she was 0:15:12.080 --> 0:15:15.320 saying how she's never been in a healthy relationship. Yeah, 0:15:15.360 --> 0:15:17.760 like her last relationship was really toxic and he was 0:15:17.760 --> 0:15:21.320 really controlling and was like told her what she should 0:15:21.360 --> 0:15:23.480 wear and if she posted a photo and something sexy, 0:15:23.560 --> 0:15:25.840 she needed to tag him, like all this like really 0:15:25.920 --> 0:15:30.680 unhealthy stuff. And so she's like, I don't know how 0:15:30.760 --> 0:15:33.640 to be in a healthy relationship because that's the only 0:15:33.680 --> 0:15:34.640 relationship I've had. 0:15:34.800 --> 0:15:35.840 I feel like this ain't it. 0:15:36.200 --> 0:15:39.120 And she was like saying that Aaron's like cheers her on, 0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:41.560 like when she's sexy. He's like, that's my girl. And 0:15:41.640 --> 0:15:44.320 so people in the comments were like, please watch the 0:15:44.360 --> 0:15:49.480 whole show, watch Cosso more and make your decisions. 0:15:49.200 --> 0:15:50.960 I know. And apparently they said that we didn't even 0:15:50.960 --> 0:15:55.560 see the worst of it, oh shoot, which is alarming. 0:15:55.840 --> 0:15:59.960 Yeah, but so Julio, all I have to add because 0:16:00.120 --> 0:16:04.640 that's all I've seen, which seems to be more than you. Yeah, 0:16:04.840 --> 0:16:05.960 you were writing poems. 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:08.200 I was busy writing my poems. And honestly, it's been 0:16:08.280 --> 0:16:10.440 like a whirlwind of a week because I don't know 0:16:10.440 --> 0:16:12.240 what to watch every night, Like I've watched. I watched 0:16:12.280 --> 0:16:16.680 Beetle Juice last night. That fine, great fan of the original. 0:16:16.800 --> 0:16:19.360 It was the original, the original one. 0:16:19.800 --> 0:16:20.600 So you're ready now. 0:16:20.560 --> 0:16:24.120 Yeah, I'm ready ready, fully like remembered the old one. 0:16:24.920 --> 0:16:27.800 I liked it. Yeah, but I don't know what to watch. 0:16:27.840 --> 0:16:30.840 I guess Love is Blind is coming back early August. 0:16:30.920 --> 0:16:31.600 So that's exciting. 0:16:31.680 --> 0:16:33.480 Is it nice to have a little break from reality 0:16:33.560 --> 0:16:34.160 dating shows? 0:16:34.320 --> 0:16:34.480 No? 0:16:34.680 --> 0:16:38.640 Okay, you know what's so funny? I read a book 0:16:38.720 --> 0:16:40.400 this week, thank you? 0:16:42.520 --> 0:16:43.480 How many pages? 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:48.240 I don't know, Like I don't truly know, you don't check. 0:16:48.280 --> 0:16:49.800 That's the first thing I look at when I open 0:16:49.840 --> 0:16:52.440 a book. Why, just to see what I'm in for? 0:16:54.000 --> 0:16:56.520 Like that will make her break if you're gonna readize. 0:16:56.160 --> 0:16:58.760 If I see something it's like a thousand pages, no, no, no, no, 0:16:58.800 --> 0:17:01.640 if it's three hundred maybe yes, yes, yes. 0:17:01.800 --> 0:17:05.480 It was called The Housemaid, so, oh my gosh, it 0:17:05.520 --> 0:17:08.040 was so good. Okay. Did anyone in here read Verity 0:17:08.520 --> 0:17:13.560 from Colleen Hoover? Okay? It had that same feel, it 0:17:13.600 --> 0:17:15.639 was like, so it was such a fast read. I 0:17:15.680 --> 0:17:17.320 could have read it in a day, but I couldn't 0:17:17.320 --> 0:17:18.679 read it at night because it was kind of a 0:17:18.720 --> 0:17:21.560 thriller and I get scared and then I have dreams 0:17:21.600 --> 0:17:25.160 about it. But I forgot how much I love to read. 0:17:25.640 --> 0:17:27.680 It's so fun. It was so nice to not be 0:17:27.800 --> 0:17:32.159 on my phone until so walk me through this. Okay reading? 0:17:32.400 --> 0:17:38.280 Yeah, yeah, So you wake up in the morning and 0:17:38.320 --> 0:17:41.840 you decide I'm going to read today. So what day 0:17:41.840 --> 0:17:42.479 of the week is this? 0:17:43.080 --> 0:17:43.320 What? 0:17:43.840 --> 0:17:46.000 Like, what day was like when I started the book, 0:17:46.080 --> 0:17:48.280 or in general, the last time you read it. What 0:17:48.359 --> 0:17:49.199 day of the week was it. 0:17:49.880 --> 0:17:52.480 I started on Sunday, okay, because I went to the 0:17:52.480 --> 0:17:53.160 park with Phoebe. 0:17:53.320 --> 0:17:55.439 Okay, so you brought it to the park. Yeah. You 0:17:55.480 --> 0:17:57.680 just sat on a blanket and you just read the 0:17:57.680 --> 0:18:00.440 book for how many hours? 0:18:00.480 --> 0:18:03.200 Like two and a half. I mean I wasn't reading 0:18:03.240 --> 0:18:05.000 the whole time, but I would like, you know, go 0:18:05.160 --> 0:18:07.080 walk with Phoebe, and then I would come back read 0:18:07.080 --> 0:18:09.600 a few pages whatever. And then during the day, like 0:18:09.640 --> 0:18:11.800 after breakfast, I'd sit and read for like twenty or 0:18:11.800 --> 0:18:12.520 thirty minutes. 0:18:13.119 --> 0:18:15.800 So you eat your breakfast, you sit down the couch. 0:18:16.000 --> 0:18:18.760 Uh huh, you open your book. Yeah, and he just 0:18:18.800 --> 0:18:20.080 read for twenty thirty minutes. 0:18:20.160 --> 0:18:20.400 Yeah. 0:18:20.720 --> 0:18:21.160 Wow. 0:18:21.240 --> 0:18:24.600 And then yesterday I went to get a pedicure, and 0:18:24.640 --> 0:18:25.520 it brought my book. 0:18:25.320 --> 0:18:27.840 Brought your book to the manny petties a lot. 0:18:27.960 --> 0:18:30.120 I didn't get a manicure, so I had my hands free. 0:18:30.200 --> 0:18:31.159 It was so nice. 0:18:32.000 --> 0:18:35.880 You'd do a hard copy or a kindle or paperback. 0:18:36.200 --> 0:18:37.840 I was like, neither a paper back. 0:18:37.840 --> 0:18:39.440 Oh sorry, I meant like a physical comic. 0:18:40.480 --> 0:18:44.320 However, I don't have a kindle because I like, see 0:18:44.440 --> 0:18:46.439 I'm torn between this because I like the idea of 0:18:46.480 --> 0:18:48.359 having access to get whatever any book. 0:18:48.560 --> 0:18:49.840 Yeah, on my face. 0:18:49.840 --> 0:18:52.000 Demanded basically the streaming of But. 0:18:52.080 --> 0:18:55.000 I love like I love like the feeling of a book, 0:18:55.000 --> 0:18:56.680 and I love not looking at a screen. 0:18:57.320 --> 0:18:58.879 Yeah, that's probably good for you. But I like my 0:18:58.880 --> 0:19:00.520 iPad because I can keep a lot of books. 0:19:00.840 --> 0:19:03.359 No, I know it's sleek and fits in your pocket. 0:19:03.359 --> 0:19:06.000 I know they're so cute, the little kindles The Handmaid. 0:19:06.040 --> 0:19:08.040 The house Maid looks really good. I'm just reading it. 0:19:08.160 --> 0:19:10.320 Is that's nice. 0:19:10.359 --> 0:19:13.520 That's a nice so good even I was normally, if 0:19:13.560 --> 0:19:16.240 I watch a show or read something or whatever, have 0:19:16.320 --> 0:19:18.760 a story for Haley. If you know how there's certain 0:19:18.800 --> 0:19:21.080 things where you or like you have a dream and 0:19:21.119 --> 0:19:23.360 you tell someone and they were like, I don't really 0:19:23.400 --> 0:19:24.359 care because I didn't live that. 0:19:24.560 --> 0:19:25.720 Yeah. 0:19:25.920 --> 0:19:28.000 I was telling Haley about the book, and like midway 0:19:28.040 --> 0:19:30.440 through explaining, I was like, she probably does not care 0:19:30.480 --> 0:19:33.720 about this at all, but she kept asking questions and 0:19:33.720 --> 0:19:35.440 she was like, wait, so so. 0:19:35.359 --> 0:19:36.520 And so did blah blah blah. 0:19:36.520 --> 0:19:38.720 And I was like, Okay, this is a good book 0:19:38.840 --> 0:19:41.639 because in a good partner. But it's a good book 0:19:41.680 --> 0:19:44.080 because it was engaging enough that she did care about 0:19:44.080 --> 0:19:45.000 it even though she had no. 0:19:45.440 --> 0:19:47.240 You know that book that I started reading, I don't 0:19:47.240 --> 0:19:50.640 even know at what point the magic oh doctor Seuss. No, No, 0:19:51.160 --> 0:19:53.840 it was like the magic of the magic of making 0:19:53.880 --> 0:19:57.320 things happen or whatever? Is that book I started a 0:19:57.359 --> 0:19:57.960 long time ago? 0:19:58.359 --> 0:19:59.240 Yeah, did you finish? 0:19:59.320 --> 0:20:01.679 No, it's still it's still on my bedside table. 0:20:02.440 --> 0:20:04.240 Well that's a self help book, right. 0:20:04.320 --> 0:20:06.800 Yeah, but a good one, a really good one. 0:20:06.920 --> 0:20:09.359 I love self help books, but it does take me 0:20:09.440 --> 0:20:11.520 longer to get through those because a lot of times, 0:20:11.560 --> 0:20:13.880 like I've been trying to read The Artist's Way for 0:20:13.920 --> 0:20:17.200 so long, because it's like basically helps anyone. It's not 0:20:17.280 --> 0:20:19.480 just artists, but like any it just helps you unlock 0:20:19.520 --> 0:20:23.600 your creativity. But it's like homework, Like you wake up 0:20:23.680 --> 0:20:26.440 and you do an hour of like brain dumping every morning, 0:20:26.440 --> 0:20:28.400 where you write for an hour just anything that comes 0:20:28.400 --> 0:20:28.760 to mind. 0:20:28.840 --> 0:20:32.639 Oh, my, brain dumping. That's interesting. We should do that together. 0:20:33.600 --> 0:20:33.800 Yeah. 0:20:33.920 --> 0:20:37.440 No, I've been wanting to do it because apparently it 0:20:37.480 --> 0:20:40.320 is so incredible what it does for your brain when 0:20:40.320 --> 0:20:42.960 you wake up and immediately write and you just keep 0:20:43.000 --> 0:20:45.160 writing and anything that comes to your mind, it gets 0:20:45.160 --> 0:20:47.879 like everything out and clears your brain and allows for 0:20:47.960 --> 0:20:49.800 more space. It's really interesting. They do it in a 0:20:49.800 --> 0:20:54.639 lot of classes that are study like I think marketing 0:20:54.680 --> 0:20:56.320 and creative strategy and stuff. 0:20:56.480 --> 0:21:00.600 Did Becca get smarter? What's happening the book? You read? 0:21:00.640 --> 0:21:02.120 Something quite intelligent? 0:21:02.320 --> 0:21:04.400 I just my gosh, do you. 0:21:04.359 --> 0:21:08.920 Just see my podcast in social media persona? 0:21:09.280 --> 0:21:09.840 No, not me. 0:21:11.440 --> 0:21:14.160 Yeah, I'm I'm pretty deep. 0:21:14.880 --> 0:21:17.960 Well I know that, but like, who knew that you'd 0:21:18.080 --> 0:21:21.080 learned about brain dumping? Those are the that's the term 0:21:21.119 --> 0:21:22.240 that I wish you would share with me. 0:21:22.760 --> 0:21:25.960 Well, those are things that I actually learn on TikTok 0:21:26.000 --> 0:21:26.440 as well. 0:21:26.840 --> 0:21:29.440 TikTok for me isn't just TikTok. 0:21:29.560 --> 0:21:32.240 Yeah. That's the problem with TikTok for me is that 0:21:32.600 --> 0:21:35.520 sometimes it's such a like time suck and I'm like, 0:21:36.080 --> 0:21:38.680 I just spent two hours watching what. But then there's 0:21:38.760 --> 0:21:42.080 also informative things where I learn there's a lot of 0:21:42.119 --> 0:21:44.879 information on like politics and stuff that you want tot 0:21:44.920 --> 0:21:48.280 hear in like mainstream media. So I don't know, I 0:21:48.280 --> 0:21:51.240 feel like there is there is a pro. 0:21:51.800 --> 0:21:55.200 To see my algorithm shows me like, no, it will 0:21:55.240 --> 0:21:57.520 show me like recently, it showed me like a concoction 0:21:57.600 --> 0:21:59.600 that I can make on the stove to keep bugs 0:21:59.600 --> 0:22:01.720 out of my head house, and I'll like save it. 0:22:01.760 --> 0:22:03.480 But I'm like, I'm never going to make this concoction 0:22:03.600 --> 0:22:05.679 with like cloves and like whatever, do you know what 0:22:05.680 --> 0:22:07.600 I mean? Spray it around the walls of my home. 0:22:07.880 --> 0:22:12.520 But the other one was the how you can get 0:22:12.560 --> 0:22:16.120 mold in your dishwasher and how to prevent that from happening. 0:22:16.200 --> 0:22:18.360 So that sent me into a spiral of like We're 0:22:18.400 --> 0:22:19.720 never using our dishwasher again. 0:22:21.200 --> 0:22:21.399 You know. 0:22:21.480 --> 0:22:24.040 It's really pleasant over here. 0:22:24.600 --> 0:22:26.960 For recommending books. I'm reading a book called Fantastic Land 0:22:27.040 --> 0:22:29.639 right now that I'm really enjoying. It's about a hurricane 0:22:29.720 --> 0:22:33.440 hitting a theme park in Florida and everyone is trapped 0:22:33.480 --> 0:22:35.359 in the theme park because of the hurricane. All the 0:22:35.400 --> 0:22:38.359 employees so it's like teenagers and young people are trapped 0:22:38.359 --> 0:22:41.080 in there and all hell breaks loose. It's pretty dark, 0:22:41.200 --> 0:22:42.800 but it's dark. Yeah dark. 0:22:42.880 --> 0:22:44.639 This is on my kindle Wishless. 0:22:44.640 --> 0:22:46.760 Oh yeah, in the middle of it, it's good. Wow. 0:22:46.880 --> 0:22:47.720 Yeah. 0:22:47.800 --> 0:22:50.320 I had this moment where I was like, I love 0:22:50.440 --> 0:22:53.360 the community of the book world because I'm reading at 0:22:53.359 --> 0:22:56.560 the nail salon and the girl the receptionist, goes Becca 0:22:56.960 --> 0:22:59.720 and I was like, who's save my name? I was 0:22:59.760 --> 0:23:02.560 like yeah, and she goes, are you reading The Housemaid? 0:23:02.680 --> 0:23:04.560 And I was like yes. So I was like it's 0:23:04.600 --> 0:23:06.960 so good. She's like I just downloaded it. I'm on 0:23:07.040 --> 0:23:09.560 chapter three or something, and I was like, oh, just wait. 0:23:10.040 --> 0:23:11.680 Not just a community brings people. 0:23:11.480 --> 0:23:14.040 Together, kind of like Love Island exactly. 0:23:14.560 --> 0:23:20.280 Yeah. Speaking of Twitter, I mean there was no talk 0:23:20.320 --> 0:23:22.760 of Twitter. Speaking of TikTok, there. 0:23:22.640 --> 0:23:25.640 Is actually X now app Yeah what. 0:23:26.480 --> 0:23:28.600 X Either way, I don't have it, and that's not 0:23:28.600 --> 0:23:31.320 what I was referring to. So there are these wedding 0:23:31.400 --> 0:23:35.240 trends that people are over and my thing with a 0:23:35.280 --> 0:23:37.479 wedding is you do what you want to do, Like 0:23:37.520 --> 0:23:38.480 that's always. 0:23:38.119 --> 0:23:39.919 My opinion of your own drama. 0:23:40.800 --> 0:23:43.320 Yeah, do what you want to do tradition, non tradition. 0:23:43.520 --> 0:23:45.840 I'm all about it. But I do like the idea 0:23:45.840 --> 0:23:47.880 of talking about these trends and seeing what you think 0:23:47.920 --> 0:23:51.959 of them as a future bride. All right, okay, so 0:23:52.280 --> 0:23:55.720 this is let's see if Tanya would want to incorporate 0:23:55.800 --> 0:23:57.120 these into her wedding. 0:23:57.440 --> 0:24:00.440 The grimace on your face makes me nervous. 0:24:01.200 --> 0:24:03.320 Very popular right now? Trends. 0:24:03.480 --> 0:24:09.919 Yeah, acrylic signs, so like the signs that a welcome 0:24:09.960 --> 0:24:12.840 sign when you enter it's it would say, like the yadagars. 0:24:12.960 --> 0:24:16.600 Right, So I don't think I want any signs. I 0:24:16.600 --> 0:24:18.080 think I want no signs. 0:24:17.720 --> 0:24:18.400 No signage. 0:24:18.520 --> 0:24:20.920 No, like if there's things that I need you to know, 0:24:21.800 --> 0:24:23.639 I think it's going to be pretty self explanatory, like 0:24:23.840 --> 0:24:28.280 sign these cards, find your name, is it at your table? 0:24:28.640 --> 0:24:34.159 You know, restrooms, directional information, but not like big signs 0:24:34.200 --> 0:24:35.360 with like your new last name. 0:24:37.200 --> 0:24:40.520 Well, now that you put it that way, No, I 0:24:40.520 --> 0:24:41.520 don't think I want signs. 0:24:41.560 --> 0:24:44.680 Okay, Well, no acrylic sign or just sign no signs. 0:24:44.960 --> 0:24:45.280 Sis. 0:24:45.480 --> 0:24:48.919 What about pompous grass arches and boho dresses like the 0:24:48.960 --> 0:24:51.239 Boho vi with like whimsicle you know the grass that 0:24:51.280 --> 0:24:55.320 like blows in the Yeah, not for me, okay, no boho, No. 0:24:55.359 --> 0:24:57.639 Boho like probably the opposite of boho. 0:24:58.119 --> 0:25:04.719 Okay. What about rustic like wood fall color flowers going 0:25:04.800 --> 0:25:05.399 to be a fault? 0:25:05.840 --> 0:25:06.119 No? 0:25:06.280 --> 0:25:11.120 Okay, And like Mexico's, it's quite the opposite of rustic, right. 0:25:12.040 --> 0:25:13.520 I guess it depends on where you are. 0:25:13.760 --> 0:25:14.960 True, true, true? 0:25:15.800 --> 0:25:19.160 Okay. What about a donut wall, so instead of people 0:25:19.200 --> 0:25:22.879 getting like a dessert cake, they would have a wall 0:25:22.920 --> 0:25:26.200 of donuts like it's they're like on little hooks. Yeah. 0:25:26.280 --> 0:25:28.919 I've seen a donut wall like a Halloween party and stuff. 0:25:29.880 --> 0:25:31.679 Uh not for me. 0:25:31.840 --> 0:25:33.919 Will you have a traditional wedding cake with the tears 0:25:33.960 --> 0:25:36.600 and everything and a little couple on top? Uh? 0:25:36.680 --> 0:25:38.400 I don't think so interesting? 0:25:38.440 --> 0:25:39.880 We had a donut wall everybody? 0:25:39.960 --> 0:25:40.480 Did you really? 0:25:41.200 --> 0:25:42.080 How do I not remember that? 0:25:42.119 --> 0:25:43.000 I don't remember it either. 0:25:44.000 --> 0:25:45.440 Well, did you not get a donut? 0:25:45.440 --> 0:25:46.120 I don't think I did. 0:25:46.200 --> 0:25:47.520 We didn't have it like we had a very small 0:25:47.560 --> 0:25:49.000 wedding cake and then we gave everyone donuts. 0:25:49.119 --> 0:25:49.320 Yeah. 0:25:49.400 --> 0:25:54.119 I think like we'll probably do some sort of dessert treat, 0:25:54.840 --> 0:25:58.159 but I don't know that we're going to do a 0:25:58.240 --> 0:25:59.880 traditional like full blown cake. 0:26:00.800 --> 0:26:04.440 Okay, what flavor cake would you do? If you did 0:26:04.480 --> 0:26:04.840 a cake. 0:26:05.160 --> 0:26:10.159 Great question. I'm glad you asked. Maybe true to go 0:26:10.240 --> 0:26:15.200 with like the Mexican Yes, okay, like a trace chase. 0:26:17.760 --> 0:26:20.320 What about little a truro wall and it's like they're 0:26:20.359 --> 0:26:22.400 like in little like sleeves. 0:26:22.720 --> 0:26:25.320 Yeah, something like that or true, We're going to lean 0:26:25.359 --> 0:26:27.639 into the to the Mexico of it, you know what 0:26:27.680 --> 0:26:27.879 I mean? 0:26:28.040 --> 0:26:32.320 Okay, film cameras on tables, so like people will put 0:26:32.359 --> 0:26:36.080 little cameras, disposable cameras, and then you develop, everyone takes 0:26:36.080 --> 0:26:39.119 them and then it's their own little like photography session. 0:26:39.119 --> 0:26:41.280 Then you'll get to keep them someone their pants. 0:26:41.600 --> 0:26:43.080 Yeah, that's probably gonna be a no for me. 0:26:43.280 --> 0:26:48.240 Okay, Wow, I've never heard of that. Blurry film photos 0:26:48.400 --> 0:26:48.560 you know? 0:26:48.640 --> 0:26:50.800 Yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, you see my engagement photos where 0:26:50.880 --> 0:26:51.760 like there's some blurry ones. 0:26:51.800 --> 0:26:54.640 I was like, yes, beige, white, tan esthetic. 0:26:55.000 --> 0:26:59.719 Yes, So I think I'm gonna have a color palette 0:26:59.760 --> 0:27:04.320 for the has to choose from, Like if you would 0:27:04.359 --> 0:27:05.960 like to be on theme, these are the kind of 0:27:05.960 --> 0:27:07.480 the colors that are going to be the theme. 0:27:07.600 --> 0:27:08.280 It's risky. 0:27:08.640 --> 0:27:09.640 Why are risky? 0:27:09.800 --> 0:27:15.280 It's risky because let's say seventy five percent of the 0:27:15.359 --> 0:27:20.320 people adhere to the theme and then twenty five say 0:27:20.840 --> 0:27:25.320 I'm coming with what I've got the phote. It could 0:27:25.440 --> 0:27:26.040 just look at there. 0:27:26.280 --> 0:27:28.200 There's gonna be some reserve seats in the back. 0:27:30.920 --> 0:27:34.640 I've always I liked the idea of it esthetic, you know, themed, 0:27:34.800 --> 0:27:37.840 but you just always have a few that won't participate. 0:27:38.119 --> 0:27:42.679 Yeah, they're gonna be like pretty generic easy. I'm not 0:27:42.760 --> 0:27:45.040 doing like canary yellow and you know what I mean, 0:27:45.040 --> 0:27:47.560 Like it's not going to be anything crazy, but like, yeah, 0:27:47.600 --> 0:27:49.000 I think a color palette is nice. 0:27:49.240 --> 0:27:52.560 Okay, what about washed out pastel color schemes like sage 0:27:52.560 --> 0:27:53.200 and mint green. 0:27:54.400 --> 0:27:57.280 I like that, but I don't think for me, Okay. 0:27:57.119 --> 0:28:02.159 Mismatched bridesmaid stresses definitely like in terms of the style 0:28:02.240 --> 0:28:02.800 of the dress. 0:28:02.960 --> 0:28:06.199 Yeah, I think I'm gonna give you all a color 0:28:06.440 --> 0:28:07.840 and let you pick your. 0:28:07.800 --> 0:28:14.399 Dress, but we will send for approval correct champagne tower. 0:28:16.840 --> 0:28:18.560 So it's funny. I was actually reading that that's like 0:28:18.680 --> 0:28:23.640 a very easy cost cutter, Like nobody drinks the champagne 0:28:23.640 --> 0:28:26.679 from the champagne tower. It's such a waste of money. 0:28:27.000 --> 0:28:30.280 But I like the look of it, so I think, yeah. 0:28:30.160 --> 0:28:34.800 Okay, okay, bridesmaid groomsmen entrance dances. 0:28:34.640 --> 0:28:39.720 Definitely not. I don't want you guys to I don't 0:28:39.720 --> 0:28:43.040 even want the like give it up for a bat 0:28:43.160 --> 0:28:45.200 that's actually gonna be you. I might put you in 0:28:45.280 --> 0:28:48.840 charge of that of what entrances. You might be the 0:28:48.880 --> 0:28:49.160 em C. 0:28:51.080 --> 0:28:51.800 I'm the m C. 0:28:52.400 --> 0:28:53.560 I think that's pretty. 0:28:53.320 --> 0:28:55.480 Great because Ryan Secrets will be there, but you'll be 0:28:55.520 --> 0:28:55.920 the EMC. 0:28:56.320 --> 0:28:58.880 Well, no, he's going to be the officiant. That's different. 0:28:58.880 --> 0:29:00.520 I'm not going to like make him do the whole 0:29:00.640 --> 0:29:01.360 night saying. 0:29:01.520 --> 0:29:04.000 One of the better known mcs in America is going 0:29:04.080 --> 0:29:05.240 to be there, and Becca's going. 0:29:05.200 --> 0:29:07.440 To be But what I don't want is I don't 0:29:07.440 --> 0:29:09.480 want I don't want to put you on the spot 0:29:09.520 --> 0:29:13.560 to like run into our whatever with like Robbie's brother 0:29:13.640 --> 0:29:16.400 holding hands and like in the you know, Macarena. 0:29:16.480 --> 0:29:18.920 I think I would. I think it'd be fun if 0:29:18.960 --> 0:29:21.040 all the girls walked in together and then all the 0:29:21.040 --> 0:29:24.280 guys walked in together. Yeah, and then y'all walk in together. 0:29:24.360 --> 0:29:25.320 Yeah yeah, yeah. 0:29:25.360 --> 0:29:26.720 So it doesn't need to be like we have to 0:29:26.840 --> 0:29:34.920 dance like it's your partner, David. Yeah, okay, are you 0:29:35.960 --> 0:29:38.600 doing dances with your parents? 0:29:39.040 --> 0:29:43.520 I think so? Okay, you know, I'm really torn on this. 0:29:43.520 --> 0:29:46.440 This is a Ali did not do this. She didn't 0:29:46.520 --> 0:29:48.920 do a first dance or dance with the parents. 0:29:49.000 --> 0:29:51.880 So what we really want is we want the ceremony 0:29:51.960 --> 0:29:55.600 to be like the ceremony and beautiful and and sweet 0:29:55.640 --> 0:30:00.400 and like let's cry and and and then once that's over, 0:30:00.720 --> 0:30:03.040 we want it to be like party. Yeah, we want 0:30:03.120 --> 0:30:05.600 to be like fun. We want everybody just to like dance. 0:30:05.640 --> 0:30:09.040 And I feel like if we do, you know, me 0:30:09.120 --> 0:30:11.840 and my dad, Robbie and his mom, Me and Robbie, 0:30:11.880 --> 0:30:15.880 that's a good twenty minutes of just us dancing on 0:30:15.920 --> 0:30:18.440 the dance floor where everybody's just kind of gonna sit 0:30:18.440 --> 0:30:19.640 there and maybe lose their buzz. 0:30:19.960 --> 0:30:22.520 You could do like a minute of a song, yeah, 0:30:22.520 --> 0:30:25.440 if you wanted to incorporate that, if it is important 0:30:25.440 --> 0:30:27.040 to you, you could do like a minute of a 0:30:27.040 --> 0:30:29.800 special song and then you know that goes back quick. 0:30:30.000 --> 0:30:31.600 Yeah, maybe we'll do like a first dance. 0:30:31.640 --> 0:30:32.720 I love a first dance. 0:30:33.480 --> 0:30:35.280 I think we're definitely gonna do the first dance because 0:30:35.280 --> 0:30:37.840 I really want, I really want, I really have like 0:30:37.880 --> 0:30:40.720 a special moment in vision for that. Do you have 0:30:40.760 --> 0:30:45.040 a song It's probably gonna be invisible string or Maren 0:30:45.120 --> 0:30:45.840 Morris the Bones. 0:30:47.040 --> 0:30:48.840 That's exactly what I was thinking. We've got one of 0:30:48.840 --> 0:30:49.200 those two. 0:30:49.280 --> 0:30:51.560 Yeah, and then I want one of my bridesmaids to 0:30:51.600 --> 0:30:52.000 sing it. 0:30:53.040 --> 0:30:57.560 Wow, I can say, well, sing I'm already taken for 0:30:57.640 --> 0:31:02.720 the night. I gotta serve. Yeah yeah, yeah, Well hopefully 0:31:02.720 --> 0:31:06.600 people can read between the lines on that one. Yeah, 0:31:06.760 --> 0:31:13.400 Taylor Slick, that's right, Okay. And then well, Paulina and 0:31:13.480 --> 0:31:14.680 I have to give a speech. 0:31:15.840 --> 0:31:18.800 I think we're going to do speeches at the rehearsal dinner, 0:31:19.720 --> 0:31:22.480 not the I don't think no speeches at the wedding. Wow, 0:31:22.760 --> 0:31:24.760 maybe one speech or two. 0:31:25.600 --> 0:31:26.920 Maybe you're the parents. 0:31:27.160 --> 0:31:28.880 I don't know. I haven't really run this by Robbie, 0:31:28.920 --> 0:31:32.120 so we're going to figure that out. But I feel 0:31:32.120 --> 0:31:35.280 like speeches every time i've I've I've listened to like 0:31:35.360 --> 0:31:38.920 a myriad of speeches. I lose my buzz and she's 0:31:39.000 --> 0:31:42.400 really worried about I'm really worried about I'm really worried 0:31:42.440 --> 0:31:44.560 about people maintaining their buzz. 0:31:44.720 --> 0:31:45.800 Yeah. 0:31:46.320 --> 0:31:48.840 What that strikes me is weird, but it's not part 0:31:48.840 --> 0:31:49.120 of my. 0:31:49.080 --> 0:31:53.160 World, so really, I know, But like, you want to 0:31:53.240 --> 0:31:53.920 keep the part of the. 0:31:56.520 --> 0:31:57.120 Speeches. 0:31:57.480 --> 0:31:59.440 Yeah, I can't like the energy. I just want I 0:31:59.440 --> 0:32:01.920 don't want the end energy to like, once you sit 0:32:02.000 --> 0:32:06.200 down your seat for thirty minutes, you're done for. So 0:32:06.200 --> 0:32:07.200 I want to keep people up. 0:32:07.480 --> 0:32:10.080 Okay, okay, no sitting in this wedding. 0:32:10.160 --> 0:32:13.360 No, no, you better get those heels polished off because 0:32:13.360 --> 0:32:14.480 they're going to be put to work. 0:32:14.880 --> 0:32:15.120 Yep. 0:32:15.560 --> 0:32:18.200 Yeah, all right, Well there you have it. Do we 0:32:18.240 --> 0:32:19.520 have a date yet? 0:32:19.880 --> 0:32:20.480 Not officially? 0:32:21.480 --> 0:32:24.240 Are you down to options like two or three options? 0:32:24.640 --> 0:32:25.040 Yeah? 0:32:25.200 --> 0:32:28.240 Okay, March is in there, marches in play, May is 0:32:28.240 --> 0:32:33.080 in play, March in May, March in May, spring wedding. 0:32:33.280 --> 0:32:36.360 That's right, if you do it the same weekend of 0:32:36.480 --> 0:32:41.760 Ali and jojok. 0:32:39.480 --> 0:32:41.840 You Actually I don't think I will because I think 0:32:41.840 --> 0:32:42.800 it's Mother's Day weekend. 0:32:43.080 --> 0:32:44.600 Oh that y'all are looking up? 0:32:44.760 --> 0:32:48.240 No, that's that's wasn't there's like May tenth, eleven something 0:32:48.280 --> 0:32:48.560 like that. 0:32:48.760 --> 0:32:50.600 No, theirs was the eighteenth. 0:32:50.720 --> 0:32:56.280 Oh well so it feels like a lucky day. 0:32:57.000 --> 0:33:00.760 No, this is the fourteenth. Sorry, yeah, I think it's yeah, 0:33:01.240 --> 0:33:03.240 JoJo's was the fourteenth. Alleys was the eighteenth? 0:33:03.360 --> 0:33:06.840 Okay yeah, same same same area area. 0:33:07.520 --> 0:33:10.200 Well, anyways, that's very exciting. Glad we got some insight 0:33:10.240 --> 0:33:12.960 on the wedding. Finally, we're gonna take a break and 0:33:13.000 --> 0:33:34.360 we have a dear bonya question, so we'll be right back. Tanya, 0:33:34.360 --> 0:33:36.400 Who're going? She was like, you never talked about going 0:33:36.400 --> 0:33:38.600 to Lallapalooza. What would you like to talk about it? 0:33:38.680 --> 0:33:41.080 I mean, you've never gone before. It's a big days 0:33:41.120 --> 0:33:43.000 ac festival. What are you doing? What are you wearing? 0:33:43.640 --> 0:33:44.520 I'm going with. 0:33:46.720 --> 0:33:48.200 The big one. I think, are you going with? 0:33:48.440 --> 0:33:50.720 Che Ley saved it for the end. I'm going with 0:33:51.080 --> 0:33:52.680 Chase Bank Actually. 0:33:52.440 --> 0:33:53.080 Okay, cool. 0:33:53.280 --> 0:33:57.520 I'm a Chase girl, me too, through and through since 0:33:57.560 --> 0:33:58.080 high school? 0:33:58.200 --> 0:33:58.560 Me too. 0:33:58.920 --> 0:34:00.400 My first ever car and so. 0:34:00.600 --> 0:34:04.719 Loyal high school. I think I got mine in college. 0:34:04.960 --> 0:34:08.520 Yeah, like right in that area. Anyways, So I'm going 0:34:08.560 --> 0:34:13.480 with Chase and Ali's going with me, and we are going. 0:34:14.239 --> 0:34:16.920 I've never been, so I was like asking questions. I 0:34:16.920 --> 0:34:19.440 don't know what the I'm assuming it's hot everywhere, but 0:34:19.600 --> 0:34:23.920 I was curious about the humidity and apparently it's extremely 0:34:24.080 --> 0:34:25.960 humid and muggy in Chicago. 0:34:26.360 --> 0:34:27.640 Really, and I. 0:34:27.600 --> 0:34:29.440 Asked if it was like Coachella, and they're like, it's 0:34:29.520 --> 0:34:31.160 way more casual than Coachella. 0:34:31.560 --> 0:34:35.439 Yeah, it feels like chiller lots of walking, gonna bust 0:34:35.480 --> 0:34:37.840 out the hookahs, no, no. 0:34:37.560 --> 0:34:42.480 No stuff. I like, will suffer through your beauty over 0:34:43.000 --> 0:34:45.359 so much, the beauty over pain or what is it 0:34:45.880 --> 0:34:48.200 you your beauty over comfort? 0:34:48.920 --> 0:34:51.160 Yes, and I'm comfort over beauty yes. 0:34:51.080 --> 0:34:53.399 Yeah, Ali too. Yeah, it's a thing. 0:34:53.800 --> 0:34:54.319 It's a thing. 0:34:54.440 --> 0:34:58.440 Yeah, so I will sacrifice my feet. 0:34:58.320 --> 0:35:01.280 For the Look are you doing all four days? 0:35:01.600 --> 0:35:05.560 No? Just Friday and No? Yeah, Friday and Saturday. 0:35:05.719 --> 0:35:08.080 Are you excited to see? I have the good question? 0:35:08.440 --> 0:35:10.960 Yeah, okay, So the problem is the person I'm most 0:35:11.000 --> 0:35:12.560 excited to see is on Thursday. 0:35:12.840 --> 0:35:17.360 So you're not gonna see Stallionparone chapelone. 0:35:17.440 --> 0:35:20.799 Yes, on Friday and Saturday. Who are you excited to see? 0:35:21.480 --> 0:35:23.239 Let me look at the lineup, because I well, I 0:35:23.320 --> 0:35:25.080 had people, and then I realized that a lot of 0:35:25.080 --> 0:35:26.120 them were on Thursday. 0:35:26.520 --> 0:35:28.400 I would be excited to see The Killers on Saturday. 0:35:28.440 --> 0:35:28.920 That would be great. 0:35:30.400 --> 0:35:31.120 The Killers. 0:35:31.480 --> 0:35:33.520 Killers are gonna be fun, that is Yeah. 0:35:33.520 --> 0:35:34.879 I'm gonna miss Blink one too. 0:35:34.960 --> 0:35:36.080 And Melanie Martinez. 0:35:36.280 --> 0:35:39.920 Oh my gosh, you know my my friend Dez was 0:35:39.960 --> 0:35:44.920 on the voice with Melanie Martinez. Really yeah, well yeah, 0:35:44.960 --> 0:35:49.960 so I'm excited to see Sis. Actually Friday Night. I 0:35:50.120 --> 0:35:53.120 do love herne rap. Yeah, No, I'm excited. I think 0:35:53.200 --> 0:35:55.640 it's gonna be a vibe like I'm this might be 0:35:55.719 --> 0:35:59.960 the new festival that's on my doable of choice festival choice. 0:36:00.120 --> 0:36:03.200 Oh wow, So I'm really excited. Still don't know what 0:36:03.200 --> 0:36:08.399 I'm gonna wear, thank you see, but it'll be fun. 0:36:09.200 --> 0:36:12.720 I'm we'll see how I'm feeling after I choose beauty 0:36:12.719 --> 0:36:13.520 over comfort. 0:36:13.640 --> 0:36:17.200 You should go to one of Juliana Ransick's restaurants in Chicago. 0:36:17.920 --> 0:36:21.880 Oh yeah, yeah, just let me know which one. 0:36:22.520 --> 0:36:24.760 Well, I think it's called our PM Steak. 0:36:26.040 --> 0:36:29.960 Yeah, I remember that when they promoted that when it 0:36:30.040 --> 0:36:30.680 first opened. 0:36:31.719 --> 0:36:33.279 All right, now, now that you don't have the line 0:36:33.320 --> 0:36:35.399 up in front of you, we're going to play a game. 0:36:36.000 --> 0:36:36.840 Oh I love it. 0:36:38.480 --> 0:36:39.880 I'm going to give you an artist. Do you tell 0:36:39.920 --> 0:36:42.200 me if this is an actual artist at Lallapaloos your 0:36:42.200 --> 0:36:44.600 attending or an artist that we completely made up. 0:36:44.680 --> 0:36:46.279 I'll tell you one thing. I just looked at the 0:36:46.320 --> 0:36:48.799 list and I didn't know a whole lot of them. 0:36:49.080 --> 0:36:53.920 So here we go, real or made up? Post sex nachos? 0:36:54.360 --> 0:36:56.640 Is that a real band or somebody we made up? 0:36:57.040 --> 0:36:58.040 It feels made up. 0:36:58.920 --> 0:37:02.800 That is a real band. Bring Sunday at Oh. 0:37:02.400 --> 0:37:03.520 You're gonna miss them anyway. 0:37:03.760 --> 0:37:06.200 Yeah, yeah, I'm not going to see them unfortunately. 0:37:06.360 --> 0:37:10.200 Next up, Chump Daddy. 0:37:10.160 --> 0:37:11.160 It's giving made up. 0:37:11.680 --> 0:37:15.560 That is made up. Okay, Generous Dollop. 0:37:16.120 --> 0:37:17.319 That's giving made up. 0:37:17.800 --> 0:37:25.160 Also made up, Papaul Rod, he feels real, real, very 0:37:25.160 --> 0:37:33.080 good game. Medium build that feels real, that is real, legitimately, 0:37:33.840 --> 0:37:35.040 Maple Sticky. 0:37:36.880 --> 0:37:38.760 I'm gonna go made up that is made. 0:37:40.280 --> 0:37:43.040 Good, very good. That's that's good. I think we're good. 0:37:43.719 --> 0:37:44.959 Oh better than I thought. 0:37:45.080 --> 0:37:45.960 Excellent that game. 0:37:46.800 --> 0:37:48.759 Dear Bonya, Mark take it away. 0:37:48.840 --> 0:37:49.279 Here we go. 0:37:49.360 --> 0:37:52.239 What's it dear bonya question? Everyone, let's see what our 0:37:52.280 --> 0:37:56.000 answer is to this one. As a single, no kids, 0:37:56.040 --> 0:37:59.239 thirty something, I found I'm struggling with loneliness and disconnection 0:37:59.320 --> 0:38:01.400 from my friends. My friends all have kids. I have 0:38:01.520 --> 0:38:04.080 lost connection with them. I love children, and I get 0:38:04.120 --> 0:38:06.880 that balancing act, kids, family, work, et cetera. Can be 0:38:06.920 --> 0:38:09.480 a lot. But how can I keep these friendships alive 0:38:10.000 --> 0:38:12.040 if I invite them to my house? Well, I have 0:38:12.040 --> 0:38:14.880 a small home that's not babyproofed. I can't invite myself 0:38:14.920 --> 0:38:17.319 to their house. I've tried meeting up for a meal 0:38:17.360 --> 0:38:19.320 out with small children. But I felt like my friends 0:38:19.320 --> 0:38:21.200 were more stressed keeping up with the kids and keeping 0:38:21.200 --> 0:38:24.720 them occupied than enjoying catching up. And it was soul crushing. 0:38:25.160 --> 0:38:28.239 And it suggestions from those with no kids mark and 0:38:28.239 --> 0:38:31.440 it suggestions as a parent. I don't mind seeing them less, 0:38:31.480 --> 0:38:33.360 but at this point I'm seeing them once or twice 0:38:33.400 --> 0:38:33.840 a year. 0:38:35.160 --> 0:38:38.960 This is interesting, yeah, because there's a part of me 0:38:39.400 --> 0:38:45.839 that feels like that might be what you get out 0:38:45.840 --> 0:38:48.879 of them is seeing them a couple times a year 0:38:48.880 --> 0:38:51.319 where you have their full attention, especially if their kids 0:38:51.320 --> 0:38:53.640 are young. Like I just think there's gonna be a 0:38:53.640 --> 0:38:55.759 season of life where you're just not going to have 0:38:55.920 --> 0:38:59.400 them like you used to. Yeah, And I think that 0:38:59.480 --> 0:39:01.600 you'll get to point where y'all catch up and it 0:39:01.600 --> 0:39:04.359 feels more like normal because the kids won't be as 0:39:04.400 --> 0:39:09.400 like demanding of their attention and time. But there's also 0:39:09.440 --> 0:39:12.840 this part of me that feels like you have friends 0:39:12.880 --> 0:39:15.560 that will be in your life forever. But there's also 0:39:15.640 --> 0:39:18.399 friends that are there for like a season, and that 0:39:18.520 --> 0:39:21.879 you meet at a time where you really needed them. 0:39:21.880 --> 0:39:23.640 And I think this might be a season where you 0:39:23.719 --> 0:39:26.360 have new people come into your life that are on 0:39:26.440 --> 0:39:28.000 the same page as you and can give you the 0:39:28.000 --> 0:39:30.520 same amount of energy and time that you can give them. 0:39:30.880 --> 0:39:33.200 And I don't think your friends can do that for 0:39:33.280 --> 0:39:33.799 you right now. 0:39:34.440 --> 0:39:36.359 Yeah, I think it's weird. I mean I think it's 0:39:36.360 --> 0:39:38.440 hard because I think everybody deals with it in a 0:39:38.440 --> 0:39:43.920 different way. I have friends who have had kids and 0:39:44.719 --> 0:39:46.839 fully just fallen off the face of the earth, like 0:39:47.040 --> 0:39:50.960 they are just completely mia and like that's fine, you 0:39:50.960 --> 0:39:52.719 know what I mean, Like that's what they're choosing to do, 0:39:52.800 --> 0:39:54.640 and like you have to just give people grace to 0:39:54.800 --> 0:39:57.680 just do what they need to do. There's only so 0:39:57.800 --> 0:39:59.959 much you can say, Hey, can we get a meal together, 0:40:00.239 --> 0:40:02.880 Hey can we make some time? You know what I 0:40:02.880 --> 0:40:06.520 mean before you get the hint, right. But then I 0:40:06.520 --> 0:40:08.759 also have people that I know that had kids and 0:40:08.840 --> 0:40:11.360 are like very present and they just like bring the 0:40:11.440 --> 0:40:14.359 kid and then can still be fully engaged in conversation. 0:40:14.640 --> 0:40:17.200 And so I think if, like if your friends are 0:40:17.239 --> 0:40:22.240 the kind that are not really coming around making plans, 0:40:22.280 --> 0:40:25.080 I think maybe Becka's advice is right, and like maybe 0:40:25.120 --> 0:40:27.560 you should make some new friends who are in the 0:40:27.560 --> 0:40:29.000 same season of life as you are. 0:40:30.000 --> 0:40:33.200 Yeah, because I I realize that all of my friends. 0:40:33.239 --> 0:40:35.120 I feel like y'all are all going to be pregnant 0:40:35.120 --> 0:40:37.160 and going into this like new season of life at 0:40:37.160 --> 0:40:40.520 the same time. But I have other and I'm gonna 0:40:40.560 --> 0:40:42.719 be so excited to be a part of that with y'all. 0:40:42.760 --> 0:40:44.600 But I know that things will change, you know, like 0:40:44.640 --> 0:40:47.200 there will be a difference in like your availability and 0:40:47.280 --> 0:40:50.840 time and like capacity. And so it's like knowing that 0:40:50.920 --> 0:40:52.520 I have friends that are in the same season of 0:40:52.560 --> 0:40:55.440 life as me also brings me comfort knowing that, like, 0:40:55.520 --> 0:40:57.640 once that season happens, I'm not going to be like, 0:40:58.239 --> 0:41:00.680 where are my friends? I don't have this can anymore, 0:41:00.719 --> 0:41:01.920 because it's just gonna be a shift. 0:41:02.120 --> 0:41:04.400 Yeah, And I think like it was already a shift 0:41:04.400 --> 0:41:07.239 for me because I have two step kids, and so 0:41:07.400 --> 0:41:10.320 when we have fifty to fifty percent custody of the kids, 0:41:10.320 --> 0:41:12.719 and when we have them, we try to be very 0:41:12.760 --> 0:41:15.799 present and with them on the nights that we have them, 0:41:15.840 --> 0:41:19.600 so I try not to like make plans, So that 0:41:19.640 --> 0:41:23.000 has already kind of shifted my time and my availability. 0:41:23.520 --> 0:41:24.920 So I kind of already have like a little bit 0:41:24.960 --> 0:41:26.200 of a taste of it. But I do feel like 0:41:26.600 --> 0:41:29.520 a baby is like a whole nother yea ballgame. 0:41:29.719 --> 0:41:31.839 I was gonna ask Mark because I feel like Mark 0:41:31.840 --> 0:41:34.800 and Easton. I feel like Easton. You probably have friends 0:41:36.080 --> 0:41:39.400 who have had children and have felt that shift, and 0:41:39.440 --> 0:41:42.120 then you, as the other side of things, have the 0:41:42.200 --> 0:41:45.919 kids and have probably watched the shift in like your 0:41:46.000 --> 0:41:49.760 time and the energy at some point. So I'm curious 0:41:49.760 --> 0:41:50.279 about you guys. 0:41:50.400 --> 0:41:52.480 So first, because I'm quick, I got good news and 0:41:52.520 --> 0:41:56.960 bad news. The bad news is this is a losing battle. 0:41:57.480 --> 0:41:59.600 The good news is it's not going to last until 0:41:59.600 --> 0:42:01.600 the kids are eighteen. This is only gonna last for 0:42:01.600 --> 0:42:03.080 a couple of years. When the kids are like three 0:42:03.200 --> 0:42:05.080 or four, it's gonna be a lot easier to schedule 0:42:05.120 --> 0:42:07.880 time with them, especially once they start school. Once they 0:42:07.880 --> 0:42:10.200 start school, then then they might be more free for 0:42:10.280 --> 0:42:12.680 lunches and that sort of thing. But for right now, 0:42:12.960 --> 0:42:15.160 I don't think this is happening. And the other bad 0:42:15.239 --> 0:42:18.360 news is our best friends lived in the valley and 0:42:18.400 --> 0:42:20.280 so we rarely saw them because we're out one thousand 0:42:20.360 --> 0:42:21.640 oaks and it was a good forty minutes to an 0:42:21.640 --> 0:42:24.080 hour drive to go see them. Finally they moved out 0:42:24.120 --> 0:42:26.359 by us, like, oh, finally we get to see you. 0:42:26.480 --> 0:42:28.919 We still see them maybe two three times a year. 0:42:29.400 --> 0:42:32.320 So yeah, you're just super busy and that's what happens, 0:42:32.320 --> 0:42:34.439 and everything else falls by the wayside. So I don't 0:42:34.480 --> 0:42:37.359 have a rosy picture for you, but like it better 0:42:37.400 --> 0:42:39.280 than it is now once the kids start school. 0:42:40.880 --> 0:42:43.080 I mean, we definitely have a lot of our friends 0:42:43.120 --> 0:42:47.040 are having kids right now and we still hang out 0:42:47.040 --> 0:42:49.759 with them. We see them less and that's fine, and 0:42:50.120 --> 0:42:52.080 you know, we try to make ourselves available to We'll 0:42:52.080 --> 0:42:53.520 go meet them at a park or something so they 0:42:53.520 --> 0:42:55.400 can bring the little brats with them if they want to. 0:42:55.719 --> 0:43:03.360 I'm just kidding. I love children. We used to, uh 0:43:03.760 --> 0:43:05.440 we would go see all the Marvel movies and like 0:43:05.440 --> 0:43:07.600 a big group, and everyone in that group has started 0:43:07.640 --> 0:43:09.600 having kids. And now it's like just Alison and I 0:43:09.680 --> 0:43:13.480 and one of the couples. We're going to see Deadpool 0:43:13.520 --> 0:43:15.800 with the wife like she's coming and the husband's staying 0:43:15.800 --> 0:43:19.520 home with the child. So you know, just changes and 0:43:19.520 --> 0:43:21.759 it's fine, and I don't like, we don't. This is 0:43:21.760 --> 0:43:23.200 what they want to do, you know, so I don't 0:43:23.200 --> 0:43:24.839 hold it against them. And whenever they want to hang 0:43:24.880 --> 0:43:25.759 out and down to hang out. 0:43:26.080 --> 0:43:27.640 That's how I feel. I was going to say, don't 0:43:27.680 --> 0:43:30.520 have resentment towards them because they're living their life. They're 0:43:30.840 --> 0:43:33.160 choosing the path that they wanted, which was to create 0:43:33.200 --> 0:43:36.000 a family, and it just it's hard. It's like all 0:43:36.040 --> 0:43:38.000 of a sudden, they're in charge of keeping this tiny 0:43:38.040 --> 0:43:43.240 human alive and you know, alive, and it's a lot, 0:43:43.400 --> 0:43:45.560 and they're tired, and it's like this new season. 0:43:45.640 --> 0:43:48.399 So I know it's so interesting though, because like it's 0:43:48.400 --> 0:43:50.640 so you do. I base a lot of this stuff 0:43:50.680 --> 0:43:52.319 off of what I see on Instagram and like the 0:43:52.320 --> 0:43:54.600 moms that I follow on Instagram, like the new moms 0:43:54.600 --> 0:43:58.640 with like newborns, and I'm like, oh it visually on 0:43:58.680 --> 0:44:02.399 social media looks like the kids just like I don't 0:44:02.800 --> 0:44:04.960 like along for the ride, you know what I mean? 0:44:05.040 --> 0:44:07.719 Yeah, I think so like Brittany and Michael didn't miss 0:44:07.719 --> 0:44:10.880 a beat. They like go everywhere with Kingston. We go 0:44:10.920 --> 0:44:16.239 over there and play games like it's very much like they. 0:44:14.920 --> 0:44:16.759 Right, there's like a couple months when you're like in 0:44:16.840 --> 0:44:19.319 the trenches and then it's like they just bounce. They 0:44:19.360 --> 0:44:21.680 just bounce back and I don't be bounced back. 0:44:21.800 --> 0:44:24.600 Yeah, it depends on the kids. Because also if I'm 0:44:24.640 --> 0:44:28.000 going out with someone or and I want like quality 0:44:28.080 --> 0:44:29.840 time and they're like, well, I have to bring the baby, 0:44:29.840 --> 0:44:32.960 and the baby's like a nightmare and like like crying 0:44:33.000 --> 0:44:35.839 and like screaming that I'm like, it will catch up 0:44:35.880 --> 0:44:37.520 another time, you know what I'm saying. 0:44:37.600 --> 0:44:38.720 Yeah, And I know that's hard. 0:44:38.600 --> 0:44:40.960 Because moms need that outlet as well. But I think 0:44:41.000 --> 0:44:43.000 if you're a friend and you're looking for that connection 0:44:43.120 --> 0:44:45.879 with your friend and you're not, like it's said, it's 0:44:45.880 --> 0:44:48.880 soul crushing. I can't imagine waiting and then you finally 0:44:48.920 --> 0:44:50.600 get that time with your friend and it's like they 0:44:50.600 --> 0:44:52.520 can't even pay attention to you, but they're having to 0:44:52.560 --> 0:44:54.280 give their you know. Yeah, I think it's just hard. 0:44:54.360 --> 0:44:58.200 So I think you find people that are in the 0:44:58.200 --> 0:45:00.359 same season as you, because I think you're going to 0:45:00.600 --> 0:45:05.040 crave that quality time and attention that you give a friendship, 0:45:05.480 --> 0:45:06.960 and I don't think you're gonna get it from your 0:45:06.960 --> 0:45:09.160 friends who have like little babies right now. 0:45:11.440 --> 0:45:13.760 Slow pulp real band or made up band? 0:45:13.960 --> 0:45:16.439 Slow pulps Pul's real? It is real? 0:45:16.560 --> 0:45:17.239 Yeah. 0:45:17.280 --> 0:45:18.400 Twenty four Roads. 0:45:18.160 --> 0:45:20.359 To Tuesday, Oh, that's for sure real. 0:45:20.560 --> 0:45:24.640 That's made up? 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Oh the Last Dinner Party, 0:45:51.640 --> 0:45:52.120 that's real. 0:45:52.600 --> 0:45:54.719 That is real, Like I've heard of that one. 0:45:54.760 --> 0:45:58.960 Actually, this is so wild the names. 0:46:01.480 --> 0:46:02.360 That's all for today. 0:46:02.440 --> 0:46:02.759 That's it. 0:46:03.000 --> 0:46:06.240 But but we do have a Thursday episode. 0:46:06.360 --> 0:46:07.520 Oh tell me about it, becha. 0:46:07.640 --> 0:46:11.719 I'm so excited because we are having Becca Moore on 0:46:11.760 --> 0:46:17.040 the podcast. Becca is a TikToker, She's hilarious, and she 0:46:17.320 --> 0:46:20.719 is recently announced that she's dating Shannon Beveridge, who was 0:46:21.080 --> 0:46:24.719 on our podcast a few months ago. And I'm so 0:46:24.760 --> 0:46:27.600 excited to talk to her. We have a very similar. 0:46:27.600 --> 0:46:32.920 Path in our and similar names, the same name, so similar, 0:46:33.760 --> 0:46:35.240 so similar, it's the same. 0:46:35.719 --> 0:46:39.840 So we'll be talking to her this Thursday. And that's that. 0:46:40.600 --> 0:46:46.080 We love you, We love you, We love you like 0:46:46.239 --> 0:46:50.680 so much, so much. 0:46:50.719 --> 0:46:53.719 And we hope you have the best week. 0:46:53.960 --> 0:46:57.480 Yeah, and stay healthy, please, everybody. 0:46:57.560 --> 0:46:58.800 This is stay healthy. 0:46:59.000 --> 0:47:01.480 I'm serious. Whatever's go around is pretty wild. Tawny the 0:47:01.480 --> 0:47:03.600 other day she asked if I could come early because 0:47:03.600 --> 0:47:07.640 she was like, all my clients are sick. I was like, damn, damn, 0:47:08.000 --> 0:47:08.960 you infected them. 0:47:08.960 --> 0:47:13.800 I imagine going around the city with her virus. 0:47:15.520 --> 0:47:26.960 Anywhoy