Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio Podcast.
Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.
Speaker 1: Scrub dub dub in the tub ub dub Tonya.
Speaker 2: This is like the fourth time she's had a tune
Speaker 2: for us.
Speaker 3: He's in a singing mood.
Speaker 1: Today, that's right. Why just feeling the vibes.
Speaker 2: The vibes are high.
Speaker 1: The vibes are high. I'm on vacation.
Speaker 2: Oh you are?
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, where are you right now? Let me tell
Speaker 1: you something. I am present. I'm gonna focus the next
Speaker 1: seven days about being present in the moment.
Speaker 2: Yes, so that means what She's not sure.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not sure. But like one of the big
Speaker 1: things is at night, I always go through like the
Speaker 1: laundry list of the next day. Like I'm always like
Speaker 1: hyper focused on like the next day and like the
Speaker 1: to do list and stuff, and that's just going to
Speaker 1: go out the window because you're off, that's right.
Speaker 2: So you don't have a to do list, right, No,
Speaker 2: Like when.
Speaker 1: You're off, you're not really off, you know, like Sonny
Speaker 1: has to go to the vets and you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, all those little things on vacation, I am
Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah, I'm just saying, like, mentally, I want
Speaker 1: to just be like free bird.
Speaker 2: Where are you on vacation?
Speaker 1: That's to be determined.
Speaker 2: You're kidding me.
Speaker 1: A little. Young young chicks just picking up and going
Speaker 1: for the.
Speaker 2: Where this energy? This time?
Speaker 3: We don't know where you're going.
Speaker 1: To be, So to be fair, we did not get
Speaker 1: our vacation schedule from Ryan about a week ago, so
Speaker 1: I've had about a week to figure it out. So
Speaker 1: that's kind of where we're at. And I was sick
Speaker 1: and was down, and so that's just where we are.
Speaker 1: It is Becka Energy.
Speaker 2: But I'm ember, what are the options.
Speaker 3: It's globe, Yeah, I.
Speaker 1: Mean globe, spin, spin the what are those things going?
Speaker 3: I'm going to find something that gives me a random
Speaker 3: location in the world.
Speaker 1: In the Globe's let's see.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what does that mean?
Speaker 1: You know you never know what was keeping you on
Speaker 1: your toes.
Speaker 2: I'll just check your location.
Speaker 1: That's right, you have my location. You never check my location.
Speaker 2: That's kind of sad you don't check mine either.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I do. I checked it on the way in
Speaker 1: today when I was on the one on one to
Speaker 1: see how far back you were and you hadn't left
Speaker 1: your house.
Speaker 2: Yet but aside, you literally never use it. You're always
Speaker 2: like where are you, who are you with? What are
Speaker 2: you doing? And I'm like, check the location.
Speaker 1: Well, the location doesn't tell me who you're with.
Speaker 2: Which is fine, you don't need to.
Speaker 1: Which that's a feature. I would like them to add,
Speaker 1: if I'm being honest, you won't.
Speaker 2: Get removed so bad.
Speaker 1: Apparently snapchat has that feature.
Speaker 3: Well they have snap maps.
Speaker 1: Yeah, snap maps.
Speaker 3: Multiple people you follow it together, you'd be able to see.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and like apparently a lot of kids feel left
Speaker 1: out from it.
Speaker 3: To generate a random place, and this is where you'll go.
Speaker 3: Here we go, Oh, Spain in Spain, In Spain, here's
Speaker 3: another one. France.
Speaker 2: Oh, what are the contenders right now?
Speaker 1: Greece in Hawaii?
Speaker 2: Oh wow?
Speaker 1: Directions yes, correct, correct, Just depends on how ambitious we're feeling,
Speaker 1: Like the day of no, no, no hopefully. Yeah, I've
Speaker 1: never done that before.
Speaker 2: It's kind of like the same.
Speaker 1: True, I feel like Becca's done that before.
Speaker 2: I haven't, but I would love to m I added,
Speaker 2: as like a content content idea.
Speaker 1: Yeah, just show up to the airport and see what's
Speaker 1: available and then just go and go, but pack something
Speaker 1: that I could wear.
Speaker 2: You know, Greece and Hawaii probably are the same vibes,
Speaker 2: not vibes, same weather weather.
Speaker 1: Correct.
Speaker 3: The Scandinavian Airlines announced recently that you can pay like
Speaker 3: a thousand bucks or something like that and they'm just
Speaker 3: going to send you somewhere and you won't know until
Speaker 3: you're on the plane.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I was gonna say, I feel like I've
Speaker 1: heard about this.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's I don't know a lot of people.
Speaker 1: That's so crazy.
Speaker 2: There's a lot of a lot of adventurers out there.
Speaker 4: What if you do it? It's like Branson, Missouri.
Speaker 3: Like you're, well, it's the Vegas of the Midwest.
Speaker 4: That's right here.
Speaker 1: Yeah, is that really what it is?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Oh wow yeah wow.
Speaker 2: No, that's not somewhere I necessarily want to go. But
Speaker 2: that's a very adventurous spirit to do that. I don't
Speaker 2: even think I would like to do that really. Yeah.
Speaker 1: It feels like really rolling the dice.
Speaker 2: I like the idea of packing for something for a
Speaker 2: type of weather and then getting to the airport and
Speaker 2: being like we're going here, but knowing that I have
Speaker 2: all the things I need.
Speaker 1: That's so I'll tell Haley that would you like me
Speaker 1: to pass that message along.
Speaker 2: I don't know if she would like that.
Speaker 1: Oh well, no, she would know, she would plan it.
Speaker 2: Oh oh yeah, yeah, yeah, that's fine. I'll let her know. Okay,
Speaker 2: I get to see her tomorrow.
Speaker 1: Wow, finally today I.
Speaker 2: Did I did you guys? Three weeks?
Speaker 3: Did you do it? Because we don't know. We only
Speaker 3: see you here for all we know. You're in a
Speaker 3: fetal position.
Speaker 1: The other twenty vertical, horizontal, I.
Speaker 2: Would say, stretched out and tall?
Speaker 1: Yeah whatever, yeah yeah, like she's on stilts. She's walking
Speaker 1: around like Orange County still.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no spirals this time. Proud of you, thank you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we made it.
Speaker 2: We did it, We did it, Joe. Yeah. So I'm
Speaker 2: going up tomorrow to see her. It's just for the
Speaker 2: weekend and then she'll be back. She has a week
Speaker 2: and then she'll be back the next week.
Speaker 1: Oh so that's it. Like we're the line.
Speaker 2: Let's say we're on the mile twenty twenty three of
Speaker 2: a marathon. My wait, it's twenty six point two.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, okay, it's like.
Speaker 2: The end, like you're you're struggling, but you know you're
Speaker 2: gonna make it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're there.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, So I leave tomorrow, I gotta get Phoebe
Speaker 2: to Newport with my sister.
Speaker 1: Yeah, all the things.
Speaker 2: What's to do today?
Speaker 1: Yeah, busy gal busy gal in the moon booked and
Speaker 1: busy booked him, busy all the time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's a little bit about me.
Speaker 1: Well, you know who I saw yesterday. And I have
Speaker 1: to tell you, I like, I think I'm maturing quite
Speaker 1: nicely in my age. As I'm aging, I feel as
Speaker 1: though things I would have done when I was, you know,
Speaker 1: twenty five, I can hold back on in my elder years.
Speaker 2: So I have no idea what what's coming out of
Speaker 2: your mouth right now?
Speaker 1: I saw Ariono Mattox in the flesh.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, God, that's a big one.
Speaker 1: It's a big one. And I did not harass her.
Speaker 1: I did not even go up to her. She was
Speaker 1: busy working, and I let her be and I made
Speaker 1: eye contact with her. I could have easily been.
Speaker 3: Like, ah, old timey would have made that noise.
Speaker 1: Correct. So I'm glad you asked. She has a sandwich shop.
Speaker 1: What's it called?
Speaker 4: Something about her?
Speaker 1: Something about her? It's right next to my hair salon, Tawny.
Speaker 1: Tawny's hair salon is right next door, and so I
Speaker 1: was getting my hair done and there was a line
Speaker 1: down the street as there always is, and my friend
Speaker 1: from TMZ actually was there, like standing there, and she
Speaker 1: ran over because I was like feeding the meter and
Speaker 1: she said, hey, like talking to me, and I was like,
Speaker 1: what are you doing here? She's like, oh, arian is
Speaker 1: here all day? Seth Rogan was just here and I
Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, what a sight seeing And
Speaker 1: I was like, oh cool. So I finished talking to
Speaker 1: her and then I walked was about to walk into
Speaker 1: the hair salon and I saw Ariana right there on
Speaker 1: the sidewalk. Wow. No, I made eye contact. I smiled.
Speaker 1: I think she could feel my energy that like, I'm
Speaker 1: a love Island stan and I commend her and thank
Speaker 1: her for her service this season. And that's all. I
Speaker 1: just needed the eye contact.
Speaker 2: That's so interesting because I feel like you'd at least
Speaker 2: be like I love like I loved this season great,
Speaker 2: like it was amazing or something.
Speaker 1: So I probably I was late for my hair appointment,
Speaker 1: so I was stressed, just trying to fly in there
Speaker 1: as that quickly as possible. And I thought I could
Speaker 1: sense her energy was like I need to get back
Speaker 1: into my sandwich Shop. Right, but that's a conversation. I'll
Speaker 1: never know how it was. It gone.
Speaker 4: Isn't she studying though?
Speaker 1: Yeah? And she's much like smaller than I thought everyone is,
Speaker 1: I know, but I guess like I've never watched an
Speaker 1: episode of Bander Pump Rules, but on Love Island she
Speaker 1: looks very tall. She looks like six foot three.
Speaker 4: She gets hosted American Top forty last year, and I
Speaker 4: have video on my Instagram of her saying that she
Speaker 4: and I are best friends, and.
Speaker 1: She's much like, yeah, she's like I don't even I
Speaker 1: don't really know how tall she is, but.
Speaker 4: She's very short. Yeah, and yeah she's the best. Yeah,
Speaker 4: you love very animatic?
Speaker 3: What an arc? What a what a wife? What a career?
Speaker 3: I know, like she gets a reality and.
Speaker 1: Like what a blessed though, because that Tom Sandoval was
Speaker 1: such a.
Speaker 3: And then that all happens, which makes her a household
Speaker 3: name for all the wrong reasons. And now she's the
Speaker 3: host like the number one show on television, Like that's
Speaker 3: just not an arc anybody's ever.
Speaker 1: And the sandwich Shop, that's like crushing it. And she
Speaker 1: was on Broadway and she's on Broadway on Broadway. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's interesting, winning.
Speaker 2: She keeps winning.
Speaker 1: Yeah, she goes to show you just you might be
Speaker 1: down today. You might be down today, but you can
Speaker 1: be up tomorrow. You might be crying today, but you're
Speaker 1: gonna be thriving tomorrow. You might be down in the
Speaker 1: dumps today, not wanting to get out of bed, and
Speaker 1: you're gonna be on Broadway tomorrow. M metaphoric metaphoric Broadway.
Speaker 2: Yeah. It goes to show the town.
Speaker 1: Wow, exactly, the sandwich of the stars.
Speaker 4: Mmmm, the toasted sub of the town.
Speaker 1: Well, this reminds me. Actually, it's been a full week
Speaker 1: without Love Island. Yes, and I've been missing them. So
Speaker 1: I wrote a poem.
Speaker 2: But they're all on social media.
Speaker 1: Now, You're like, it's different, Oh, they're They're more polished
Speaker 1: on Instagram. It's not the raw, unvarnished sims that I'm
Speaker 1: used to. Yeah, it's a filtered version of them, you
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Yeah, I wrote a.
Speaker 3: Poem perfectly normal, perfectly healthy.
Speaker 2: Yes.
Speaker 3: Who hasn't among us written a poem about a TV show?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 1: So I wanted to read that to you all. Should
Speaker 1: I do when we come back?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 3: I love it?
Speaker 2: Wow, Tony a great job.
Speaker 1: I've been waiting to get it right once.
Speaker 2: It was a good job.
Speaker 1: Thank you, and we're back.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we're back. You have the floor.
Speaker 1: The floor is yours, floor is mine. Yeah, he said,
Speaker 1: Can I get just a quick intro? You can do
Speaker 1: like five seconds? Perfect? That's good, thank you. Okay, bade
Speaker 1: it down. Maybe it was that too long. I don't
Speaker 1: even know. Okay, risking it. Don't tell the authorities, scrubvers. Okay,
Speaker 1: are you ready? It's been a week without you, my
Speaker 1: dear good friends. I never thought we would get to
Speaker 1: the end of hearing Kaylor scream, parad to Kendall acting
Speaker 1: like such a Karen and Nicole looking flawless every single day,
Speaker 1: and Janey being perfect in every single way. It was
Speaker 1: a season where the women totally dominated the men. They
Speaker 1: kind of were just accessories. They were just kens. It's
Speaker 1: love Island, not like Island. So we don't put up
Speaker 1: with the lies. We may not have new episodes, but
Speaker 1: we will always have soul ties. So cheers to Leah,
Speaker 1: Serena and my down ass Bee live. Now, let's hope
Speaker 1: these men can be a little more decisive.
Speaker 2: Wow, Shakespeare, who honestly one of your best.
Speaker 1: It felt good and I wrote it weirdly fast.
Speaker 2: It was just waiting to be Yeah, it was like
Speaker 2: put down on paper on the phone.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so it's over. It's over.
Speaker 2: The reunion.
Speaker 1: Yes, I have the reunion.
Speaker 2: So that's something to look forward to.
Speaker 1: And I have all of them on every podcastle We've
Speaker 1: got Rob or Leah and Call Her Daddy, We've got
Speaker 1: Taylor on by Al File File Files, fi Out, We've
Speaker 1: got who else is on other podcasts.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I haven't. I just see what I
Speaker 2: see on TikTok, which is I saw Rob's clips on
Speaker 2: which is funny because so he she asked him about Andrea, yeah,
Speaker 2: if they would get back together, and he kind of
Speaker 2: was like, we've talked, and he kind of is, doesn't
Speaker 2: say much, and then he goes, but she posted a lot.
Speaker 1: I noticed that, But I'm like, what is that about?
Speaker 2: But that he wasn't into it. Yeah, well, I think
Speaker 2: he just thought she would like maybe was trying too
Speaker 2: hard to like stay relevant or something. I don't know.
Speaker 2: So he gave him like the ache or something. Is
Speaker 2: kind of the impression I got.
Speaker 1: I feel bad because it's like, you get out of
Speaker 1: this villa, you're like you fall in love with someone,
Speaker 1: they're still in there and you come out.
Speaker 2: It's like, you feel like she fell in love with
Speaker 2: him in four days.
Speaker 1: I do, Yeah, you don't.
Speaker 2: I think she really liked him. I think she had
Speaker 2: a big crush on him.
Speaker 1: You don't think she fell in love. I think they
Speaker 1: were like in love with each other.
Speaker 2: No, I think they had really deep I think they
Speaker 2: liked each other and there was like an attraction. But
Speaker 2: I definitely don't feel like.
Speaker 1: It was love. Oh yikes.
Speaker 2: I mean, anyway, she gets off and she's like doing
Speaker 2: a lot of lives. She's posting about everything, like any
Speaker 2: any question asked, she's answering it.
Speaker 1: Really, how did I miss that?
Speaker 2: It was on TikTok oh? But you don't see.
Speaker 1: But I think I figured, like US Weekly or something
Speaker 1: would pick it up and write a story tomorrow. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: nobody said that my way.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Ginger chan interesting and so he just kind of referenced.
Speaker 2: He was like, she posted a lot, and then I
Speaker 2: guess she went and deleted everything. So that's on that.
Speaker 2: I don't know what will happen and beyond that, and
Speaker 2: then she's having Leo on yeah coming up maybe today
Speaker 2: or something. I don't know. And then Kaylor was on
Speaker 2: Vile Files and she made me sad because she was
Speaker 2: saying how she's never been in a healthy relationship. Yeah,
Speaker 2: like her last relationship was really toxic and he was
Speaker 2: really controlling and was like told her what she should
Speaker 2: wear and if she posted a photo and something sexy,
Speaker 2: she needed to tag him, like all this like really
Speaker 2: unhealthy stuff. And so she's like, I don't know how
Speaker 2: to be in a healthy relationship because that's the only
Speaker 2: relationship I've had.
Speaker 1: I feel like this ain't it.
Speaker 2: And she was like saying that Aaron's like cheers her on,
Speaker 2: like when she's sexy. He's like, that's my girl. And
Speaker 2: so people in the comments were like, please watch the
Speaker 2: whole show, watch Cosso more and make your decisions.
Speaker 1: I know. And apparently they said that we didn't even
Speaker 1: see the worst of it, oh shoot, which is alarming.
Speaker 2: Yeah, but so Julio, all I have to add because
Speaker 2: that's all I've seen, which seems to be more than you. Yeah,
Speaker 2: you were writing poems.
Speaker 1: I was busy writing my poems. And honestly, it's been
Speaker 1: like a whirlwind of a week because I don't know
Speaker 1: what to watch every night, Like I've watched. I watched
Speaker 1: Beetle Juice last night. That fine, great fan of the original.
Speaker 1: It was the original, the original one.
Speaker 3: So you're ready now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm ready ready, fully like remembered the old one.
Speaker 1: I liked it. Yeah, but I don't know what to watch.
Speaker 1: I guess Love is Blind is coming back early August.
Speaker 1: So that's exciting.
Speaker 3: Is it nice to have a little break from reality
Speaker 3: dating shows?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: Okay, you know what's so funny? I read a book
Speaker 2: this week, thank you?
Speaker 1: How many pages?
Speaker 2: I don't know, Like I don't truly know, you don't check.
Speaker 1: That's the first thing I look at when I open
Speaker 1: a book. Why, just to see what I'm in for?
Speaker 2: Like that will make her break if you're gonna readize.
Speaker 1: If I see something it's like a thousand pages, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: if it's three hundred maybe yes, yes, yes.
Speaker 2: It was called The Housemaid, so, oh my gosh, it
Speaker 2: was so good. Okay. Did anyone in here read Verity
Speaker 2: from Colleen Hoover? Okay? It had that same feel, it
Speaker 2: was like, so it was such a fast read. I
Speaker 2: could have read it in a day, but I couldn't
Speaker 2: read it at night because it was kind of a
Speaker 2: thriller and I get scared and then I have dreams
Speaker 2: about it. But I forgot how much I love to read.
Speaker 2: It's so fun. It was so nice to not be
Speaker 2: on my phone until so walk me through this. Okay reading?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, So you wake up in the morning and
Speaker 1: you decide I'm going to read today. So what day
Speaker 1: of the week is this?
Speaker 2: What?
Speaker 1: Like, what day was like when I started the book,
Speaker 1: or in general, the last time you read it. What
Speaker 1: day of the week was it.
Speaker 2: I started on Sunday, okay, because I went to the
Speaker 2: park with Phoebe.
Speaker 1: Okay, so you brought it to the park. Yeah. You
Speaker 1: just sat on a blanket and you just read the
Speaker 1: book for how many hours?
Speaker 2: Like two and a half. I mean I wasn't reading
Speaker 2: the whole time, but I would like, you know, go
Speaker 2: walk with Phoebe, and then I would come back read
Speaker 2: a few pages whatever. And then during the day, like
Speaker 2: after breakfast, I'd sit and read for like twenty or
Speaker 2: thirty minutes.
Speaker 1: So you eat your breakfast, you sit down the couch.
Speaker 1: Uh huh, you open your book. Yeah, and he just
Speaker 1: read for twenty thirty minutes.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Wow.
Speaker 2: And then yesterday I went to get a pedicure, and
Speaker 2: it brought my book.
Speaker 1: Brought your book to the manny petties a lot.
Speaker 2: I didn't get a manicure, so I had my hands free.
Speaker 2: It was so nice.
Speaker 4: You'd do a hard copy or a kindle or paperback.
Speaker 2: I was like, neither a paper back.
Speaker 4: Oh sorry, I meant like a physical comic.
Speaker 2: However, I don't have a kindle because I like, see
Speaker 2: I'm torn between this because I like the idea of
Speaker 2: having access to get whatever any book.
Speaker 3: Yeah, on my face.
Speaker 1: Demanded basically the streaming of But.
Speaker 2: I love like I love like the feeling of a book,
Speaker 2: and I love not looking at a screen.
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's probably good for you. But I like my
Speaker 3: iPad because I can keep a lot of books.
Speaker 1: No, I know it's sleek and fits in your pocket.
Speaker 2: I know they're so cute, the little kindles The Handmaid.
Speaker 3: The house Maid looks really good. I'm just reading it.
Speaker 1: Is that's nice.
Speaker 2: That's a nice so good even I was normally, if
Speaker 2: I watch a show or read something or whatever, have
Speaker 2: a story for Haley. If you know how there's certain
Speaker 2: things where you or like you have a dream and
Speaker 2: you tell someone and they were like, I don't really
Speaker 2: care because I didn't live that.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I was telling Haley about the book, and like midway
Speaker 2: through explaining, I was like, she probably does not care
Speaker 2: about this at all, but she kept asking questions and
Speaker 2: she was like, wait, so so.
Speaker 1: And so did blah blah blah.
Speaker 2: And I was like, Okay, this is a good book
Speaker 2: because in a good partner. But it's a good book
Speaker 2: because it was engaging enough that she did care about
Speaker 2: it even though she had no.
Speaker 1: You know that book that I started reading, I don't
Speaker 1: even know at what point the magic oh doctor Seuss. No, No,
Speaker 1: it was like the magic of the magic of making
Speaker 1: things happen or whatever? Is that book I started a
Speaker 1: long time ago?
Speaker 2: Yeah, did you finish?
Speaker 1: No, it's still it's still on my bedside table.
Speaker 2: Well that's a self help book, right.
Speaker 1: Yeah, but a good one, a really good one.
Speaker 2: I love self help books, but it does take me
Speaker 2: longer to get through those because a lot of times,
Speaker 2: like I've been trying to read The Artist's Way for
Speaker 2: so long, because it's like basically helps anyone. It's not
Speaker 2: just artists, but like any it just helps you unlock
Speaker 2: your creativity. But it's like homework, Like you wake up
Speaker 2: and you do an hour of like brain dumping every morning,
Speaker 2: where you write for an hour just anything that comes
Speaker 2: to mind.
Speaker 1: Oh, my, brain dumping. That's interesting. We should do that together.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: No, I've been wanting to do it because apparently it
Speaker 2: is so incredible what it does for your brain when
Speaker 2: you wake up and immediately write and you just keep
Speaker 2: writing and anything that comes to your mind, it gets
Speaker 2: like everything out and clears your brain and allows for
Speaker 2: more space. It's really interesting. They do it in a
Speaker 2: lot of classes that are study like I think marketing
Speaker 2: and creative strategy and stuff.
Speaker 1: Did Becca get smarter? What's happening the book? You read?
Speaker 2: Something quite intelligent?
Speaker 1: I just my gosh, do you.
Speaker 2: Just see my podcast in social media persona?
Speaker 1: No, not me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm I'm pretty deep.
Speaker 1: Well I know that, but like, who knew that you'd
Speaker 1: learned about brain dumping? Those are the that's the term
Speaker 1: that I wish you would share with me.
Speaker 2: Well, those are things that I actually learn on TikTok
Speaker 2: as well.
Speaker 1: TikTok for me isn't just TikTok.
Speaker 2: Yeah. That's the problem with TikTok for me is that
Speaker 2: sometimes it's such a like time suck and I'm like,
Speaker 2: I just spent two hours watching what. But then there's
Speaker 2: also informative things where I learn there's a lot of
Speaker 2: information on like politics and stuff that you want tot
Speaker 2: hear in like mainstream media. So I don't know, I
Speaker 2: feel like there is there is a pro.
Speaker 1: To see my algorithm shows me like, no, it will
Speaker 1: show me like recently, it showed me like a concoction
Speaker 1: that I can make on the stove to keep bugs
Speaker 1: out of my head house, and I'll like save it.
Speaker 1: But I'm like, I'm never going to make this concoction
Speaker 1: with like cloves and like whatever, do you know what
Speaker 1: I mean? Spray it around the walls of my home.
Speaker 1: But the other one was the how you can get
Speaker 1: mold in your dishwasher and how to prevent that from happening.
Speaker 1: So that sent me into a spiral of like We're
Speaker 1: never using our dishwasher again.
Speaker 2: You know.
Speaker 1: It's really pleasant over here.
Speaker 3: For recommending books. I'm reading a book called Fantastic Land
Speaker 3: right now that I'm really enjoying. It's about a hurricane
Speaker 3: hitting a theme park in Florida and everyone is trapped
Speaker 3: in the theme park because of the hurricane. All the
Speaker 3: employees so it's like teenagers and young people are trapped
Speaker 3: in there and all hell breaks loose. It's pretty dark,
Speaker 3: but it's dark. Yeah dark.
Speaker 4: This is on my kindle Wishless.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, in the middle of it, it's good. Wow.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I had this moment where I was like, I love
Speaker 2: the community of the book world because I'm reading at
Speaker 2: the nail salon and the girl the receptionist, goes Becca
Speaker 2: and I was like, who's save my name? I was
Speaker 2: like yeah, and she goes, are you reading The Housemaid?
Speaker 2: And I was like yes. So I was like it's
Speaker 2: so good. She's like I just downloaded it. I'm on
Speaker 2: chapter three or something, and I was like, oh, just wait.
Speaker 2: Not just a community brings people.
Speaker 1: Together, kind of like Love Island exactly.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Speaking of Twitter, I mean there was no talk
Speaker 2: of Twitter. Speaking of TikTok, there.
Speaker 1: Is actually X now app Yeah what.
Speaker 2: X Either way, I don't have it, and that's not
Speaker 2: what I was referring to. So there are these wedding
Speaker 2: trends that people are over and my thing with a
Speaker 2: wedding is you do what you want to do, Like
Speaker 2: that's always.
Speaker 1: My opinion of your own drama.
Speaker 2: Yeah, do what you want to do tradition, non tradition.
Speaker 2: I'm all about it. But I do like the idea
Speaker 2: of talking about these trends and seeing what you think
Speaker 2: of them as a future bride. All right, okay, so
Speaker 2: this is let's see if Tanya would want to incorporate
Speaker 2: these into her wedding.
Speaker 1: The grimace on your face makes me nervous.
Speaker 3: Very popular right now? Trends.
Speaker 2: Yeah, acrylic signs, so like the signs that a welcome
Speaker 2: sign when you enter it's it would say, like the yadagars.
Speaker 1: Right, So I don't think I want any signs. I
Speaker 1: think I want no signs.
Speaker 2: No signage.
Speaker 1: No, like if there's things that I need you to know,
Speaker 1: I think it's going to be pretty self explanatory, like
Speaker 1: sign these cards, find your name, is it at your table?
Speaker 2: You know, restrooms, directional information, but not like big signs
Speaker 2: with like your new last name.
Speaker 1: Well, now that you put it that way, No, I
Speaker 1: don't think I want signs.
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, no acrylic sign or just sign no signs.
Speaker 1: Sis.
Speaker 2: What about pompous grass arches and boho dresses like the
Speaker 2: Boho vi with like whimsicle you know the grass that
Speaker 2: like blows in the Yeah, not for me, okay, no boho, No.
Speaker 1: Boho like probably the opposite of boho.
Speaker 2: Okay. What about rustic like wood fall color flowers going
Speaker 2: to be a fault?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 1: Okay, And like Mexico's, it's quite the opposite of rustic, right.
Speaker 2: I guess it depends on where you are.
Speaker 1: True, true, true?
Speaker 2: Okay. What about a donut wall, so instead of people
Speaker 2: getting like a dessert cake, they would have a wall
Speaker 2: of donuts like it's they're like on little hooks. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I've seen a donut wall like a Halloween party and stuff.
Speaker 1: Uh not for me.
Speaker 3: Will you have a traditional wedding cake with the tears
Speaker 3: and everything and a little couple on top? Uh?
Speaker 1: I don't think so interesting?
Speaker 4: We had a donut wall everybody?
Speaker 1: Did you really?
Speaker 3: How do I not remember that?
Speaker 1: I don't remember it either.
Speaker 4: Well, did you not get a donut?
Speaker 3: I don't think I did.
Speaker 4: We didn't have it like we had a very small
Speaker 4: wedding cake and then we gave everyone donuts.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I think like we'll probably do some sort of dessert treat,
Speaker 1: but I don't know that we're going to do a
Speaker 1: traditional like full blown cake.
Speaker 2: Okay, what flavor cake would you do? If you did
Speaker 2: a cake.
Speaker 1: Great question. I'm glad you asked. Maybe true to go
Speaker 1: with like the Mexican Yes, okay, like a trace chase.
Speaker 2: What about little a truro wall and it's like they're
Speaker 2: like in little like sleeves.
Speaker 1: Yeah, something like that or true, We're going to lean
Speaker 1: into the to the Mexico of it, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean?
Speaker 2: Okay, film cameras on tables, so like people will put
Speaker 2: little cameras, disposable cameras, and then you develop, everyone takes
Speaker 2: them and then it's their own little like photography session.
Speaker 2: Then you'll get to keep them someone their pants.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's probably gonna be a no for me.
Speaker 2: Okay, Wow, I've never heard of that. Blurry film photos
Speaker 2: you know?
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, you see my engagement photos where
Speaker 1: like there's some blurry ones.
Speaker 2: I was like, yes, beige, white, tan esthetic.
Speaker 1: Yes, So I think I'm gonna have a color palette
Speaker 1: for the has to choose from, Like if you would
Speaker 1: like to be on theme, these are the kind of
Speaker 1: the colors that are going to be the theme.
Speaker 2: It's risky.
Speaker 1: Why are risky?
Speaker 2: It's risky because let's say seventy five percent of the
Speaker 2: people adhere to the theme and then twenty five say
Speaker 2: I'm coming with what I've got the phote. It could
Speaker 2: just look at there.
Speaker 1: There's gonna be some reserve seats in the back.
Speaker 2: I've always I liked the idea of it esthetic, you know, themed,
Speaker 2: but you just always have a few that won't participate.
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're gonna be like pretty generic easy. I'm not
Speaker 1: doing like canary yellow and you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like it's not going to be anything crazy, but like, yeah,
Speaker 1: I think a color palette is nice.
Speaker 2: Okay, what about washed out pastel color schemes like sage
Speaker 2: and mint green.
Speaker 1: I like that, but I don't think for me, Okay.
Speaker 2: Mismatched bridesmaid stresses definitely like in terms of the style
Speaker 2: of the dress.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I'm gonna give you all a color
Speaker 1: and let you pick your.
Speaker 2: Dress, but we will send for approval correct champagne tower.
Speaker 1: So it's funny. I was actually reading that that's like
Speaker 1: a very easy cost cutter, Like nobody drinks the champagne
Speaker 1: from the champagne tower. It's such a waste of money.
Speaker 1: But I like the look of it, so I think, yeah.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, bridesmaid groomsmen entrance dances.
Speaker 1: Definitely not. I don't want you guys to I don't
Speaker 1: even want the like give it up for a bat
Speaker 1: that's actually gonna be you. I might put you in
Speaker 1: charge of that of what entrances. You might be the
Speaker 1: em C.
Speaker 2: I'm the m C.
Speaker 4: I think that's pretty.
Speaker 3: Great because Ryan Secrets will be there, but you'll be
Speaker 3: the EMC.
Speaker 1: Well, no, he's going to be the officiant. That's different.
Speaker 1: I'm not going to like make him do the whole
Speaker 1: night saying.
Speaker 3: One of the better known mcs in America is going
Speaker 3: to be there, and Becca's going.
Speaker 1: To be But what I don't want is I don't
Speaker 1: want I don't want to put you on the spot
Speaker 1: to like run into our whatever with like Robbie's brother
Speaker 1: holding hands and like in the you know, Macarena.
Speaker 2: I think I would. I think it'd be fun if
Speaker 2: all the girls walked in together and then all the
Speaker 2: guys walked in together. Yeah, and then y'all walk in together.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2: So it doesn't need to be like we have to
Speaker 2: dance like it's your partner, David. Yeah, okay, are you
Speaker 2: doing dances with your parents?
Speaker 1: I think so? Okay, you know, I'm really torn on this.
Speaker 2: This is a Ali did not do this. She didn't
Speaker 2: do a first dance or dance with the parents.
Speaker 1: So what we really want is we want the ceremony
Speaker 1: to be like the ceremony and beautiful and and sweet
Speaker 1: and like let's cry and and and then once that's over,
Speaker 1: we want it to be like party. Yeah, we want
Speaker 1: to be like fun. We want everybody just to like dance.
Speaker 1: And I feel like if we do, you know, me
Speaker 1: and my dad, Robbie and his mom, Me and Robbie,
Speaker 1: that's a good twenty minutes of just us dancing on
Speaker 1: the dance floor where everybody's just kind of gonna sit
Speaker 1: there and maybe lose their buzz.
Speaker 2: You could do like a minute of a song, yeah,
Speaker 2: if you wanted to incorporate that, if it is important
Speaker 2: to you, you could do like a minute of a
Speaker 2: special song and then you know that goes back quick.
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe we'll do like a first dance.
Speaker 2: I love a first dance.
Speaker 1: I think we're definitely gonna do the first dance because
Speaker 1: I really want, I really want, I really have like
Speaker 1: a special moment in vision for that. Do you have
Speaker 1: a song It's probably gonna be invisible string or Maren
Speaker 1: Morris the Bones.
Speaker 4: That's exactly what I was thinking. We've got one of
Speaker 4: those two.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then I want one of my bridesmaids to
Speaker 1: sing it.
Speaker 2: Wow, I can say, well, sing I'm already taken for
Speaker 2: the night. I gotta serve. Yeah yeah, yeah, Well hopefully
Speaker 2: people can read between the lines on that one. Yeah,
Speaker 2: Taylor Slick, that's right, Okay. And then well, Paulina and
Speaker 2: I have to give a speech.
Speaker 1: I think we're going to do speeches at the rehearsal dinner,
Speaker 1: not the I don't think no speeches at the wedding. Wow,
Speaker 1: maybe one speech or two.
Speaker 2: Maybe you're the parents.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I haven't really run this by Robbie,
Speaker 1: so we're going to figure that out. But I feel
Speaker 1: like speeches every time i've I've I've listened to like
Speaker 1: a myriad of speeches. I lose my buzz and she's
Speaker 1: really worried about I'm really worried about I'm really worried
Speaker 1: about people maintaining their buzz.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: What that strikes me is weird, but it's not part
Speaker 3: of my.
Speaker 1: World, so really, I know, But like, you want to
Speaker 1: keep the part of the.
Speaker 4: Speeches.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't like the energy. I just want I
Speaker 1: don't want the end energy to like, once you sit
Speaker 1: down your seat for thirty minutes, you're done for. So
Speaker 1: I want to keep people up.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, no sitting in this wedding.
Speaker 1: No, no, you better get those heels polished off because
Speaker 1: they're going to be put to work.
Speaker 3: Yep.
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Well there you have it. Do we
Speaker 2: have a date yet?
Speaker 1: Not officially?
Speaker 3: Are you down to options like two or three options?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Okay, March is in there, marches in play, May is
Speaker 1: in play, March in May, March in May, spring wedding.
Speaker 2: That's right, if you do it the same weekend of
Speaker 2: Ali and jojok.
Speaker 1: You Actually I don't think I will because I think
Speaker 1: it's Mother's Day weekend.
Speaker 2: Oh that y'all are looking up?
Speaker 1: No, that's that's wasn't there's like May tenth, eleven something
Speaker 1: like that.
Speaker 2: No, theirs was the eighteenth.
Speaker 1: Oh well so it feels like a lucky day.
Speaker 2: No, this is the fourteenth. Sorry, yeah, I think it's yeah,
Speaker 2: JoJo's was the fourteenth. Alleys was the eighteenth?
Speaker 1: Okay yeah, same same same area area.
Speaker 2: Well, anyways, that's very exciting. Glad we got some insight
Speaker 2: on the wedding. Finally, we're gonna take a break and
Speaker 2: we have a dear bonya question, so we'll be right back. Tanya,
Speaker 2: Who're going? She was like, you never talked about going
Speaker 2: to Lallapalooza. What would you like to talk about it?
Speaker 1: I mean, you've never gone before. It's a big days
Speaker 1: ac festival. What are you doing? What are you wearing?
Speaker 2: I'm going with.
Speaker 3: The big one. I think, are you going with?
Speaker 2: Che Ley saved it for the end. I'm going with
Speaker 2: Chase Bank Actually.
Speaker 1: Okay, cool.
Speaker 2: I'm a Chase girl, me too, through and through since
Speaker 2: high school?
Speaker 1: Me too.
Speaker 2: My first ever car and so.
Speaker 1: Loyal high school. I think I got mine in college.
Speaker 2: Yeah, like right in that area. Anyways, So I'm going
Speaker 2: with Chase and Ali's going with me, and we are going.
Speaker 2: I've never been, so I was like asking questions. I
Speaker 2: don't know what the I'm assuming it's hot everywhere, but
Speaker 2: I was curious about the humidity and apparently it's extremely
Speaker 2: humid and muggy in Chicago.
Speaker 1: Really, and I.
Speaker 2: Asked if it was like Coachella, and they're like, it's
Speaker 2: way more casual than Coachella.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it feels like chiller lots of walking, gonna bust
Speaker 1: out the hookahs, no, no.
Speaker 2: No stuff. I like, will suffer through your beauty over
Speaker 2: so much, the beauty over pain or what is it
Speaker 2: you your beauty over comfort?
Speaker 1: Yes, and I'm comfort over beauty yes.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Ali too. Yeah, it's a thing.
Speaker 1: It's a thing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I will sacrifice my feet.
Speaker 4: For the Look are you doing all four days?
Speaker 2: No? Just Friday and No? Yeah, Friday and Saturday.
Speaker 3: Are you excited to see? I have the good question?
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So the problem is the person I'm most
Speaker 2: excited to see is on Thursday.
Speaker 3: So you're not gonna see Stallionparone chapelone.
Speaker 1: Yes, on Friday and Saturday. Who are you excited to see?
Speaker 2: Let me look at the lineup, because I well, I
Speaker 2: had people, and then I realized that a lot of
Speaker 2: them were on Thursday.
Speaker 3: I would be excited to see The Killers on Saturday.
Speaker 3: That would be great.
Speaker 2: The Killers.
Speaker 3: Killers are gonna be fun, that is Yeah.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna miss Blink one too.
Speaker 4: And Melanie Martinez.
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, you know my my friend Dez was
Speaker 2: on the voice with Melanie Martinez. Really yeah, well yeah,
Speaker 2: so I'm excited to see Sis. Actually Friday Night. I
Speaker 2: do love herne rap. Yeah, No, I'm excited. I think
Speaker 2: it's gonna be a vibe like I'm this might be
Speaker 2: the new festival that's on my doable of choice festival choice.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, So I'm really excited. Still don't know what
Speaker 2: I'm gonna wear, thank you see, but it'll be fun.
Speaker 2: I'm we'll see how I'm feeling after I choose beauty
Speaker 2: over comfort.
Speaker 1: You should go to one of Juliana Ransick's restaurants in Chicago.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, just let me know which one.
Speaker 1: Well, I think it's called our PM Steak.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember that when they promoted that when it
Speaker 2: first opened.
Speaker 3: All right, now, now that you don't have the line
Speaker 3: up in front of you, we're going to play a game.
Speaker 2: Oh I love it.
Speaker 3: I'm going to give you an artist. Do you tell
Speaker 3: me if this is an actual artist at Lallapaloos your
Speaker 3: attending or an artist that we completely made up.
Speaker 2: I'll tell you one thing. I just looked at the
Speaker 2: list and I didn't know a whole lot of them.
Speaker 3: So here we go, real or made up? Post sex nachos?
Speaker 3: Is that a real band or somebody we made up?
Speaker 2: It feels made up.
Speaker 3: That is a real band. Bring Sunday at Oh.
Speaker 1: You're gonna miss them anyway.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm not going to see them unfortunately.
Speaker 3: Next up, Chump Daddy.
Speaker 2: It's giving made up.
Speaker 3: That is made up. Okay, Generous Dollop.
Speaker 2: That's giving made up.
Speaker 3: Also made up, Papaul Rod, he feels real, real, very
Speaker 3: good game. Medium build that feels real, that is real, legitimately,
Speaker 3: Maple Sticky.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go made up that is made.
Speaker 3: Good, very good. That's that's good. I think we're good.
Speaker 2: Oh better than I thought.
Speaker 3: Excellent that game.
Speaker 2: Dear Bonya, Mark take it away.
Speaker 4: Here we go.
Speaker 3: What's it dear bonya question? Everyone, let's see what our
Speaker 3: answer is to this one. As a single, no kids,
Speaker 3: thirty something, I found I'm struggling with loneliness and disconnection
Speaker 3: from my friends. My friends all have kids. I have
Speaker 3: lost connection with them. I love children, and I get
Speaker 3: that balancing act, kids, family, work, et cetera. Can be
Speaker 3: a lot. But how can I keep these friendships alive
Speaker 3: if I invite them to my house? Well, I have
Speaker 3: a small home that's not babyproofed. I can't invite myself
Speaker 3: to their house. I've tried meeting up for a meal
Speaker 3: out with small children. But I felt like my friends
Speaker 3: were more stressed keeping up with the kids and keeping
Speaker 3: them occupied than enjoying catching up. And it was soul crushing.
Speaker 3: And it suggestions from those with no kids mark and
Speaker 3: it suggestions as a parent. I don't mind seeing them less,
Speaker 3: but at this point I'm seeing them once or twice
Speaker 3: a year.
Speaker 2: This is interesting, yeah, because there's a part of me
Speaker 2: that feels like that might be what you get out
Speaker 2: of them is seeing them a couple times a year
Speaker 2: where you have their full attention, especially if their kids
Speaker 2: are young. Like I just think there's gonna be a
Speaker 2: season of life where you're just not going to have
Speaker 2: them like you used to. Yeah, And I think that
Speaker 2: you'll get to point where y'all catch up and it
Speaker 2: feels more like normal because the kids won't be as
Speaker 2: like demanding of their attention and time. But there's also
Speaker 2: this part of me that feels like you have friends
Speaker 2: that will be in your life forever. But there's also
Speaker 2: friends that are there for like a season, and that
Speaker 2: you meet at a time where you really needed them.
Speaker 2: And I think this might be a season where you
Speaker 2: have new people come into your life that are on
Speaker 2: the same page as you and can give you the
Speaker 2: same amount of energy and time that you can give them.
Speaker 2: And I don't think your friends can do that for
Speaker 2: you right now.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's weird. I mean I think it's
Speaker 1: hard because I think everybody deals with it in a
Speaker 1: different way. I have friends who have had kids and
Speaker 1: fully just fallen off the face of the earth, like
Speaker 1: they are just completely mia and like that's fine, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like that's what they're choosing to do,
Speaker 1: and like you have to just give people grace to
Speaker 1: just do what they need to do. There's only so
Speaker 1: much you can say, Hey, can we get a meal together,
Speaker 1: Hey can we make some time? You know what I
Speaker 1: mean before you get the hint, right. But then I
Speaker 1: also have people that I know that had kids and
Speaker 1: are like very present and they just like bring the
Speaker 1: kid and then can still be fully engaged in conversation.
Speaker 1: And so I think if, like if your friends are
Speaker 1: the kind that are not really coming around making plans,
Speaker 1: I think maybe Becka's advice is right, and like maybe
Speaker 1: you should make some new friends who are in the
Speaker 1: same season of life as you are.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I I realize that all of my friends.
Speaker 2: I feel like y'all are all going to be pregnant
Speaker 2: and going into this like new season of life at
Speaker 2: the same time. But I have other and I'm gonna
Speaker 2: be so excited to be a part of that with y'all.
Speaker 2: But I know that things will change, you know, like
Speaker 2: there will be a difference in like your availability and
Speaker 2: time and like capacity. And so it's like knowing that
Speaker 2: I have friends that are in the same season of
Speaker 2: life as me also brings me comfort knowing that, like,
Speaker 2: once that season happens, I'm not going to be like,
Speaker 2: where are my friends? I don't have this can anymore,
Speaker 2: because it's just gonna be a shift.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think like it was already a shift
Speaker 1: for me because I have two step kids, and so
Speaker 1: when we have fifty to fifty percent custody of the kids,
Speaker 1: and when we have them, we try to be very
Speaker 1: present and with them on the nights that we have them,
Speaker 1: so I try not to like make plans, So that
Speaker 1: has already kind of shifted my time and my availability.
Speaker 1: So I kind of already have like a little bit
Speaker 1: of a taste of it. But I do feel like
Speaker 1: a baby is like a whole nother yea ballgame.
Speaker 2: I was gonna ask Mark because I feel like Mark
Speaker 2: and Easton. I feel like Easton. You probably have friends
Speaker 2: who have had children and have felt that shift, and
Speaker 2: then you, as the other side of things, have the
Speaker 2: kids and have probably watched the shift in like your
Speaker 2: time and the energy at some point. So I'm curious
Speaker 2: about you guys.
Speaker 3: So first, because I'm quick, I got good news and
Speaker 3: bad news. The bad news is this is a losing battle.
Speaker 3: The good news is it's not going to last until
Speaker 3: the kids are eighteen. This is only gonna last for
Speaker 3: a couple of years. When the kids are like three
Speaker 3: or four, it's gonna be a lot easier to schedule
Speaker 3: time with them, especially once they start school. Once they
Speaker 3: start school, then then they might be more free for
Speaker 3: lunches and that sort of thing. But for right now,
Speaker 3: I don't think this is happening. And the other bad
Speaker 3: news is our best friends lived in the valley and
Speaker 3: so we rarely saw them because we're out one thousand
Speaker 3: oaks and it was a good forty minutes to an
Speaker 3: hour drive to go see them. Finally they moved out
Speaker 3: by us, like, oh, finally we get to see you.
Speaker 3: We still see them maybe two three times a year.
Speaker 3: So yeah, you're just super busy and that's what happens,
Speaker 3: and everything else falls by the wayside. So I don't
Speaker 3: have a rosy picture for you, but like it better
Speaker 3: than it is now once the kids start school.
Speaker 4: I mean, we definitely have a lot of our friends
Speaker 4: are having kids right now and we still hang out
Speaker 4: with them. We see them less and that's fine, and
Speaker 4: you know, we try to make ourselves available to We'll
Speaker 4: go meet them at a park or something so they
Speaker 4: can bring the little brats with them if they want to.
Speaker 4: I'm just kidding. I love children. We used to, uh
Speaker 4: we would go see all the Marvel movies and like
Speaker 4: a big group, and everyone in that group has started
Speaker 4: having kids. And now it's like just Alison and I
Speaker 4: and one of the couples. We're going to see Deadpool
Speaker 4: with the wife like she's coming and the husband's staying
Speaker 4: home with the child. So you know, just changes and
Speaker 4: it's fine, and I don't like, we don't. This is
Speaker 4: what they want to do, you know, so I don't
Speaker 4: hold it against them. And whenever they want to hang
Speaker 4: out and down to hang out.
Speaker 2: That's how I feel. I was going to say, don't
Speaker 2: have resentment towards them because they're living their life. They're
Speaker 2: choosing the path that they wanted, which was to create
Speaker 2: a family, and it just it's hard. It's like all
Speaker 2: of a sudden, they're in charge of keeping this tiny
Speaker 2: human alive and you know, alive, and it's a lot,
Speaker 2: and they're tired, and it's like this new season.
Speaker 1: So I know it's so interesting though, because like it's
Speaker 1: so you do. I base a lot of this stuff
Speaker 1: off of what I see on Instagram and like the
Speaker 1: moms that I follow on Instagram, like the new moms
Speaker 1: with like newborns, and I'm like, oh it visually on
Speaker 1: social media looks like the kids just like I don't
Speaker 1: like along for the ride, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so like Brittany and Michael didn't miss
Speaker 2: a beat. They like go everywhere with Kingston. We go
Speaker 2: over there and play games like it's very much like they.
Speaker 1: Right, there's like a couple months when you're like in
Speaker 1: the trenches and then it's like they just bounce. They
Speaker 1: just bounce back and I don't be bounced back.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it depends on the kids. Because also if I'm
Speaker 2: going out with someone or and I want like quality
Speaker 2: time and they're like, well, I have to bring the baby,
Speaker 2: and the baby's like a nightmare and like like crying
Speaker 2: and like screaming that I'm like, it will catch up
Speaker 2: another time, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I know that's hard.
Speaker 2: Because moms need that outlet as well. But I think
Speaker 2: if you're a friend and you're looking for that connection
Speaker 2: with your friend and you're not, like it's said, it's
Speaker 2: soul crushing. I can't imagine waiting and then you finally
Speaker 2: get that time with your friend and it's like they
Speaker 2: can't even pay attention to you, but they're having to
Speaker 2: give their you know. Yeah, I think it's just hard.
Speaker 2: So I think you find people that are in the
Speaker 2: same season as you, because I think you're going to
Speaker 2: crave that quality time and attention that you give a friendship,
Speaker 2: and I don't think you're gonna get it from your
Speaker 2: friends who have like little babies right now.
Speaker 3: Slow pulp real band or made up band?
Speaker 4: Slow pulps Pul's real? It is real?
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Twenty four Roads.
Speaker 2: To Tuesday, Oh, that's for sure real.
Speaker 3: That's made up? Okay, water made up?
Speaker 2: Probably I'm gonna go real it is real.
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Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I love their song Bread real.
Speaker 3: Yeah, they are real. How about the Worry Club?
Speaker 2: No, no, no, Yeah, they're real.
Speaker 3: Avocado fam Oh they're not. They're made up. Yeah, alien stylists,
Speaker 3: they're real, they're made up. Oh the Last Dinner Party,
Speaker 3: that's real.
Speaker 2: That is real, Like I've heard of that one.
Speaker 1: Actually, this is so wild the names.
Speaker 2: That's all for today.
Speaker 3: That's it.
Speaker 2: But but we do have a Thursday episode.
Speaker 1: Oh tell me about it, becha.
Speaker 2: I'm so excited because we are having Becca Moore on
Speaker 2: the podcast. Becca is a TikToker, She's hilarious, and she
Speaker 2: is recently announced that she's dating Shannon Beveridge, who was
Speaker 2: on our podcast a few months ago. And I'm so
Speaker 2: excited to talk to her. We have a very similar.
Speaker 1: Path in our and similar names, the same name, so similar,
Speaker 1: so similar, it's the same.
Speaker 2: So we'll be talking to her this Thursday. And that's that.
Speaker 1: We love you, We love you, We love you like
Speaker 1: so much, so much.
Speaker 2: And we hope you have the best week.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and stay healthy, please, everybody.
Speaker 2: This is stay healthy.
Speaker 1: I'm serious. Whatever's go around is pretty wild. Tawny the
Speaker 1: other day she asked if I could come early because
Speaker 1: she was like, all my clients are sick. I was like, damn, damn,
Speaker 1: you infected them.
Speaker 2: I imagine going around the city with her virus.
Speaker 1: Anywhoy