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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rap An iHeartRadio Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in.

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Speaker 1: Scrub dub dub in the tub ub dub Tonya.

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Speaker 2: This is like the fourth time she's had a tune

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Speaker 2: for us.

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Speaker 3: He's in a singing mood.

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Speaker 1: Today, that's right. Why just feeling the vibes.

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Speaker 2: The vibes are high.

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Speaker 1: The vibes are high. I'm on vacation.

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Speaker 2: Oh you are?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, where are you right now? Let me tell

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Speaker 1: you something. I am present. I'm gonna focus the next

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Speaker 1: seven days about being present in the moment.

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Speaker 2: Yes, so that means what She's not sure.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not sure. But like one of the big

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Speaker 1: things is at night, I always go through like the

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Speaker 1: laundry list of the next day. Like I'm always like

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Speaker 1: hyper focused on like the next day and like the

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Speaker 1: to do list and stuff, and that's just going to

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Speaker 1: go out the window because you're off, that's right.

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Speaker 2: So you don't have a to do list, right, No,

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Speaker 2: Like when.

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Speaker 1: You're off, you're not really off, you know, like Sonny

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Speaker 1: has to go to the vets and you know what

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Speaker 1: I mean, all those little things on vacation, I am

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, yeah, I'm just saying, like, mentally, I want

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Speaker 1: to just be like free bird.

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Speaker 2: Where are you on vacation?

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Speaker 1: That's to be determined.

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Speaker 2: You're kidding me.

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Speaker 1: A little. Young young chicks just picking up and going

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Speaker 1: for the.

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Speaker 2: Where this energy? This time?

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Speaker 3: We don't know where you're going.

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Speaker 1: To be, So to be fair, we did not get

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Speaker 1: our vacation schedule from Ryan about a week ago, so

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Speaker 1: I've had about a week to figure it out. So

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Speaker 1: that's kind of where we're at. And I was sick

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Speaker 1: and was down, and so that's just where we are.

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Speaker 1: It is Becka Energy.

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Speaker 2: But I'm ember, what are the options.

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Speaker 3: It's globe, Yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Mean globe, spin, spin the what are those things going?

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Speaker 3: I'm going to find something that gives me a random

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Speaker 3: location in the world.

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Speaker 1: In the Globe's let's see.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what does that mean?

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Speaker 1: You know you never know what was keeping you on

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Speaker 1: your toes.

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Speaker 2: I'll just check your location.

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Speaker 1: That's right, you have my location. You never check my location.

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Speaker 2: That's kind of sad you don't check mine either.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I do. I checked it on the way in

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Speaker 1: today when I was on the one on one to

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Speaker 1: see how far back you were and you hadn't left

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Speaker 1: your house.

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Speaker 2: Yet but aside, you literally never use it. You're always

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Speaker 2: like where are you, who are you with? What are

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Speaker 2: you doing? And I'm like, check the location.

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Speaker 1: Well, the location doesn't tell me who you're with.

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Speaker 2: Which is fine, you don't need to.

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Speaker 1: Which that's a feature. I would like them to add,

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Speaker 1: if I'm being honest, you won't.

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Speaker 2: Get removed so bad.

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Speaker 1: Apparently snapchat has that feature.

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Speaker 3: Well they have snap maps.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, snap maps.

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Speaker 3: Multiple people you follow it together, you'd be able to see.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and like apparently a lot of kids feel left

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Speaker 1: out from it.

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Speaker 3: To generate a random place, and this is where you'll go.

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Speaker 3: Here we go, Oh, Spain in Spain, In Spain, here's

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Speaker 3: another one. France.

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Speaker 2: Oh, what are the contenders right now?

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Speaker 1: Greece in Hawaii?

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Speaker 2: Oh wow?

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Speaker 1: Directions yes, correct, correct, Just depends on how ambitious we're feeling,

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Speaker 1: Like the day of no, no, no hopefully. Yeah, I've

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Speaker 1: never done that before.

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Speaker 2: It's kind of like the same.

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Speaker 1: True, I feel like Becca's done that before.

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Speaker 2: I haven't, but I would love to m I added,

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Speaker 2: as like a content content idea.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just show up to the airport and see what's

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Speaker 1: available and then just go and go, but pack something

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Speaker 1: that I could wear.

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Speaker 2: You know, Greece and Hawaii probably are the same vibes,

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Speaker 2: not vibes, same weather weather.

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Speaker 1: Correct.

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Speaker 3: The Scandinavian Airlines announced recently that you can pay like

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Speaker 3: a thousand bucks or something like that and they'm just

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Speaker 3: going to send you somewhere and you won't know until

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Speaker 3: you're on the plane.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I was gonna say, I feel like I've

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Speaker 1: heard about this.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's I don't know a lot of people.

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Speaker 1: That's so crazy.

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Speaker 2: There's a lot of a lot of adventurers out there.

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Speaker 4: What if you do it? It's like Branson, Missouri.

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Speaker 3: Like you're, well, it's the Vegas of the Midwest.

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Speaker 4: That's right here.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, is that really what it is?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Oh wow yeah wow.

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Speaker 2: No, that's not somewhere I necessarily want to go. But

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Speaker 2: that's a very adventurous spirit to do that. I don't

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Speaker 2: even think I would like to do that really. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: It feels like really rolling the dice.

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Speaker 2: I like the idea of packing for something for a

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Speaker 2: type of weather and then getting to the airport and

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Speaker 2: being like we're going here, but knowing that I have

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Speaker 2: all the things I need.

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Speaker 1: That's so I'll tell Haley that would you like me

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Speaker 1: to pass that message along.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if she would like that.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, no, she would know, she would plan it.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh yeah, yeah, yeah, that's fine. I'll let her know. Okay,

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Speaker 2: I get to see her tomorrow.

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Speaker 1: Wow, finally today I.

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Speaker 2: Did I did you guys? Three weeks?

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Speaker 3: Did you do it? Because we don't know. We only

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Speaker 3: see you here for all we know. You're in a

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Speaker 3: fetal position.

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Speaker 1: The other twenty vertical, horizontal, I.

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Speaker 2: Would say, stretched out and tall?

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Speaker 1: Yeah whatever, yeah yeah, like she's on stilts. She's walking

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Speaker 1: around like Orange County still.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, no spirals this time. Proud of you, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we made it.

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Speaker 2: We did it, We did it, Joe. Yeah. So I'm

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Speaker 2: going up tomorrow to see her. It's just for the

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Speaker 2: weekend and then she'll be back. She has a week

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Speaker 2: and then she'll be back the next week.

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Speaker 1: Oh so that's it. Like we're the line.

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Speaker 2: Let's say we're on the mile twenty twenty three of

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Speaker 2: a marathon. My wait, it's twenty six point two.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, okay, okay, it's like.

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Speaker 2: The end, like you're you're struggling, but you know you're

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Speaker 2: gonna make it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, So I leave tomorrow, I gotta get Phoebe

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Speaker 2: to Newport with my sister.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all the things.

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Speaker 2: What's to do today?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, busy gal busy gal in the moon booked and

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Speaker 1: busy booked him, busy all the time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so that's a little bit about me.

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Speaker 1: Well, you know who I saw yesterday. And I have

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Speaker 1: to tell you, I like, I think I'm maturing quite

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Speaker 1: nicely in my age. As I'm aging, I feel as

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Speaker 1: though things I would have done when I was, you know,

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Speaker 1: twenty five, I can hold back on in my elder years.

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Speaker 2: So I have no idea what what's coming out of

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Speaker 1: I saw Ariono Mattox in the flesh.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, God, that's a big one.

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Speaker 1: It's a big one. And I did not harass her.

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Speaker 1: I did not even go up to her. She was

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Speaker 1: busy working, and I let her be and I made

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Speaker 1: eye contact with her. I could have easily been.

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Speaker 3: Like, ah, old timey would have made that noise.

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Speaker 1: Correct. So I'm glad you asked. She has a sandwich shop.

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Speaker 1: What's it called?

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Speaker 4: Something about her?

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Speaker 1: Something about her? It's right next to my hair salon, Tawny.

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Speaker 1: Tawny's hair salon is right next door, and so I

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Speaker 1: was getting my hair done and there was a line

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Speaker 1: down the street as there always is, and my friend

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Speaker 1: from TMZ actually was there, like standing there, and she

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Speaker 1: ran over because I was like feeding the meter and

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Speaker 1: she said, hey, like talking to me, and I was like,

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Speaker 1: what are you doing here? She's like, oh, arian is

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Speaker 1: here all day? Seth Rogan was just here and I

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Speaker 1: was like, oh my gosh, what a sight seeing And

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh cool. So I finished talking to

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Speaker 1: her and then I walked was about to walk into

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Speaker 1: the sidewalk. Wow. No, I made eye contact. I smiled.

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Speaker 1: I think she could feel my energy that like, I'm

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Speaker 1: a love Island stan and I commend her and thank

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Speaker 1: her for her service this season. And that's all. I

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Speaker 1: just needed the eye contact.

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Speaker 2: That's so interesting because I feel like you'd at least

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Speaker 2: be like I love like I loved this season great,

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Speaker 2: like it was amazing or something.

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Speaker 1: So I probably I was late for my hair appointment,

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Speaker 1: so I was stressed, just trying to fly in there

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Speaker 1: as that quickly as possible. And I thought I could

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Speaker 1: sense her energy was like I need to get back

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Speaker 1: into my sandwich Shop. Right, but that's a conversation. I'll

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Speaker 1: never know how it was. It gone.

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Speaker 4: Isn't she studying though?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? And she's much like smaller than I thought everyone is,

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Speaker 1: I know, but I guess like I've never watched an

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Speaker 1: episode of Bander Pump Rules, but on Love Island she

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Speaker 1: looks very tall. She looks like six foot three.

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Speaker 4: She gets hosted American Top forty last year, and I

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Speaker 4: have video on my Instagram of her saying that she

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Speaker 4: and I are best friends, and.

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Speaker 1: She's much like, yeah, she's like I don't even I

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Speaker 4: She's very short. Yeah, and yeah she's the best. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: you love very animatic?

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Speaker 3: What an arc? What a what a wife? What a career?

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Speaker 3: I know, like she gets a reality and.

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Speaker 1: Like what a blessed though, because that Tom Sandoval was

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Speaker 1: such a.

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Speaker 3: And then that all happens, which makes her a household

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Speaker 3: name for all the wrong reasons. And now she's the

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Speaker 3: host like the number one show on television, Like that's

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Speaker 3: just not an arc anybody's ever.

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Speaker 1: And the sandwich Shop, that's like crushing it. And she

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Speaker 1: was on Broadway and she's on Broadway on Broadway. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she's interesting, winning.

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Speaker 2: She keeps winning.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she goes to show you just you might be

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Speaker 1: down today. You might be down today, but you can

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Speaker 1: be up tomorrow. You might be crying today, but you're

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Speaker 1: gonna be thriving tomorrow. You might be down in the

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Speaker 1: dumps today, not wanting to get out of bed, and

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Speaker 1: you're gonna be on Broadway tomorrow. M metaphoric metaphoric Broadway.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. It goes to show the town.

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Speaker 1: Wow, exactly, the sandwich of the stars.

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Speaker 4: Mmmm, the toasted sub of the town.

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Speaker 1: Well, this reminds me. Actually, it's been a full week

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Speaker 3: Who hasn't among us written a poem about a TV show?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: I love it?

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Speaker 1: I've been waiting to get it right once.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, and we're back.

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Speaker 2: Wow, Shakespeare, who honestly one of your best.

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Speaker 1: It felt good and I wrote it weirdly fast.

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Speaker 2: The reunion.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I have the reunion.

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Speaker 1: And I have all of them on every podcastle We've

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Speaker 1: I feel bad because it's like, you get out of

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Speaker 2: I mean, anyway, she gets off and she's like doing

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Speaker 1: Really, how did I miss that?

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Speaker 2: It was on TikTok oh? But you don't see.

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Speaker 1: But I think I figured, like US Weekly or something

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Speaker 2: And she was like saying that Aaron's like cheers her on,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but so Julio, all I have to add because

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Speaker 1: I was busy writing my poems. And honestly, it's been

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Speaker 1: Beetle Juice last night. That fine, great fan of the original.

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Speaker 1: It was the original, the original one.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm ready ready, fully like remembered the old one.

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Speaker 1: I guess Love is Blind is coming back early August.

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Speaker 3: Is it nice to have a little break from reality

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 2: Okay, you know what's so funny? I read a book

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Speaker 2: I don't know, Like I don't truly know, you don't check.

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Speaker 1: That's the first thing I look at when I open

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Speaker 2: Like that will make her break if you're gonna readize.

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Speaker 1: If I see something it's like a thousand pages, no, no, no, no,

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Speaker 2: It's so fun. It was so nice to not be

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Speaker 2: I started on Sunday, okay, because I went to the

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you brought it to the park. Yeah. You

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Speaker 1: So you eat your breakfast, you sit down the couch.

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Speaker 1: Uh huh, you open your book. Yeah, and he just

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Speaker 2: And then yesterday I went to get a pedicure, and

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Speaker 1: Brought your book to the manny petties a lot.

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Speaker 2: I was like, neither a paper back.

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Speaker 4: Oh sorry, I meant like a physical comic.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, on my face.

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Speaker 2: I love like I love like the feeling of a book,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's probably good for you. But I like my

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Speaker 1: No, I know it's sleek and fits in your pocket.

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Speaker 1: Is that's nice.

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Speaker 2: That's a nice so good even I was normally, if

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Speaker 2: I was telling Haley about the book, and like midway

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Speaker 2: And I was like, Okay, this is a good book

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Speaker 2: because in a good partner. But it's a good book

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Speaker 1: You know that book that I started reading, I don't

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Speaker 1: it was like the magic of the magic of making

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Speaker 2: Yeah, did you finish?

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Speaker 1: No, it's still it's still on my bedside table.

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Speaker 2: Well that's a self help book, right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but a good one, a really good one.

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Speaker 2: I love self help books, but it does take me

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Speaker 2: where you write for an hour just anything that comes

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Speaker 1: Oh, my, brain dumping. That's interesting. We should do that together.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: No, I've been wanting to do it because apparently it

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Speaker 2: is so incredible what it does for your brain when

449
00:20:40,320 --> 00:20:42,960
Speaker 2: you wake up and immediately write and you just keep

450
00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:45,160
Speaker 2: writing and anything that comes to your mind, it gets

451
00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:47,879
Speaker 2: like everything out and clears your brain and allows for

452
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Speaker 2: more space. It's really interesting. They do it in a

453
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Speaker 2: lot of classes that are study like I think marketing

454
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Speaker 2: and creative strategy and stuff.

455
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Speaker 1: Did Becca get smarter? What's happening the book? You read?

456
00:21:00,640 --> 00:21:02,120
Speaker 2: Something quite intelligent?

457
00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:04,400
Speaker 1: I just my gosh, do you.

458
00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:08,920
Speaker 2: Just see my podcast in social media persona?

459
00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:09,840
Speaker 1: No, not me.

460
00:21:11,440 --> 00:21:14,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm I'm pretty deep.

461
00:21:14,880 --> 00:21:17,960
Speaker 1: Well I know that, but like, who knew that you'd

462
00:21:18,080 --> 00:21:21,080
Speaker 1: learned about brain dumping? Those are the that's the term

463
00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:22,240
Speaker 1: that I wish you would share with me.

464
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Speaker 2: Well, those are things that I actually learn on TikTok

465
00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:26,440
Speaker 2: as well.

466
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Speaker 1: TikTok for me isn't just TikTok.

467
00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:32,240
Speaker 2: Yeah. That's the problem with TikTok for me is that

468
00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:35,520
Speaker 2: sometimes it's such a like time suck and I'm like,

469
00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:38,680
Speaker 2: I just spent two hours watching what. But then there's

470
00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:42,080
Speaker 2: also informative things where I learn there's a lot of

471
00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:44,879
Speaker 2: information on like politics and stuff that you want tot

472
00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:48,280
Speaker 2: hear in like mainstream media. So I don't know, I

473
00:21:48,280 --> 00:21:51,240
Speaker 2: feel like there is there is a pro.

474
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Speaker 1: To see my algorithm shows me like, no, it will

475
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Speaker 1: show me like recently, it showed me like a concoction

476
00:21:57,600 --> 00:21:59,600
Speaker 1: that I can make on the stove to keep bugs

477
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Speaker 1: out of my head house, and I'll like save it.

478
00:22:01,760 --> 00:22:03,480
Speaker 1: But I'm like, I'm never going to make this concoction

479
00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:05,679
Speaker 1: with like cloves and like whatever, do you know what

480
00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:07,600
Speaker 1: I mean? Spray it around the walls of my home.

481
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:12,520
Speaker 1: But the other one was the how you can get

482
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Speaker 1: mold in your dishwasher and how to prevent that from happening.

483
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Speaker 1: So that sent me into a spiral of like We're

484
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Speaker 1: never using our dishwasher again.

485
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Speaker 2: You know.

486
00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:24,040
Speaker 1: It's really pleasant over here.

487
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Speaker 3: For recommending books. I'm reading a book called Fantastic Land

488
00:22:27,040 --> 00:22:29,639
Speaker 3: right now that I'm really enjoying. It's about a hurricane

489
00:22:29,720 --> 00:22:33,440
Speaker 3: hitting a theme park in Florida and everyone is trapped

490
00:22:33,480 --> 00:22:35,359
Speaker 3: in the theme park because of the hurricane. All the

491
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Speaker 3: employees so it's like teenagers and young people are trapped

492
00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:41,080
Speaker 3: in there and all hell breaks loose. It's pretty dark,

493
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Speaker 3: but it's dark. Yeah dark.

494
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Speaker 4: This is on my kindle Wishless.

495
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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, in the middle of it, it's good. Wow.

496
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Speaker 4: Yeah.

497
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Speaker 2: I had this moment where I was like, I love

498
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:53,360
Speaker 2: the community of the book world because I'm reading at

499
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Speaker 2: the nail salon and the girl the receptionist, goes Becca

500
00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:59,720
Speaker 2: and I was like, who's save my name? I was

501
00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:02,560
Speaker 2: like yeah, and she goes, are you reading The Housemaid?

502
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:04,560
Speaker 2: And I was like yes. So I was like it's

503
00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:06,960
Speaker 2: so good. She's like I just downloaded it. I'm on

504
00:23:07,040 --> 00:23:09,560
Speaker 2: chapter three or something, and I was like, oh, just wait.

505
00:23:10,040 --> 00:23:11,680
Speaker 2: Not just a community brings people.

506
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:14,040
Speaker 1: Together, kind of like Love Island exactly.

507
00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:20,280
Speaker 2: Yeah. Speaking of Twitter, I mean there was no talk

508
00:23:20,320 --> 00:23:22,760
Speaker 2: of Twitter. Speaking of TikTok, there.

509
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Speaker 1: Is actually X now app Yeah what.

510
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Speaker 2: X Either way, I don't have it, and that's not

511
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 2: what I was referring to. So there are these wedding

512
00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:35,240
Speaker 2: trends that people are over and my thing with a

513
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,479
Speaker 2: wedding is you do what you want to do, Like

514
00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:38,480
Speaker 2: that's always.

515
00:23:38,119 --> 00:23:39,919
Speaker 1: My opinion of your own drama.

516
00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:43,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, do what you want to do tradition, non tradition.

517
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 2: I'm all about it. But I do like the idea

518
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:47,880
Speaker 2: of talking about these trends and seeing what you think

519
00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:51,959
Speaker 2: of them as a future bride. All right, okay, so

520
00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:55,720
Speaker 2: this is let's see if Tanya would want to incorporate

521
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Speaker 2: these into her wedding.

522
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Speaker 1: The grimace on your face makes me nervous.

523
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 3: Very popular right now? Trends.

524
00:24:03,480 --> 00:24:09,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, acrylic signs, so like the signs that a welcome

525
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 2: sign when you enter it's it would say, like the yadagars.

526
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 1: Right, So I don't think I want any signs. I

527
00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:18,080
Speaker 1: think I want no signs.

528
00:24:17,720 --> 00:24:18,400
Speaker 2: No signage.

529
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,920
Speaker 1: No, like if there's things that I need you to know,

530
00:24:21,800 --> 00:24:23,639
Speaker 1: I think it's going to be pretty self explanatory, like

531
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 1: sign these cards, find your name, is it at your table?

532
00:24:28,640 --> 00:24:34,159
Speaker 2: You know, restrooms, directional information, but not like big signs

533
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:35,360
Speaker 2: with like your new last name.

534
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:40,520
Speaker 1: Well, now that you put it that way, No, I

535
00:24:40,520 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 1: don't think I want signs.

536
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:44,680
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, no acrylic sign or just sign no signs.

537
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:45,280
Speaker 1: Sis.

538
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Speaker 2: What about pompous grass arches and boho dresses like the

539
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Speaker 2: Boho vi with like whimsicle you know the grass that

540
00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 2: like blows in the Yeah, not for me, okay, no boho, No.

541
00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:57,639
Speaker 1: Boho like probably the opposite of boho.

542
00:24:58,119 --> 00:25:04,719
Speaker 2: Okay. What about rustic like wood fall color flowers going

543
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:05,399
Speaker 2: to be a fault?

544
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:06,119
Speaker 4: No?

545
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:11,120
Speaker 1: Okay, And like Mexico's, it's quite the opposite of rustic, right.

546
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:13,520
Speaker 2: I guess it depends on where you are.

547
00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:14,960
Speaker 1: True, true, true?

548
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:19,160
Speaker 2: Okay. What about a donut wall, so instead of people

549
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:22,879
Speaker 2: getting like a dessert cake, they would have a wall

550
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:26,200
Speaker 2: of donuts like it's they're like on little hooks. Yeah.

551
00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:28,919
Speaker 1: I've seen a donut wall like a Halloween party and stuff.

552
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:31,679
Speaker 1: Uh not for me.

553
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:33,919
Speaker 3: Will you have a traditional wedding cake with the tears

554
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 3: and everything and a little couple on top? Uh?

555
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:38,400
Speaker 1: I don't think so interesting?

556
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:39,880
Speaker 4: We had a donut wall everybody?

557
00:25:39,960 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 1: Did you really?

558
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 3: How do I not remember that?

559
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 1: I don't remember it either.

560
00:25:44,000 --> 00:25:45,440
Speaker 4: Well, did you not get a donut?

561
00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:46,120
Speaker 3: I don't think I did.

562
00:25:46,200 --> 00:25:47,520
Speaker 4: We didn't have it like we had a very small

563
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:49,000
Speaker 4: wedding cake and then we gave everyone donuts.

564
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

565
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Speaker 1: I think like we'll probably do some sort of dessert treat,

566
00:25:54,840 --> 00:25:58,159
Speaker 1: but I don't know that we're going to do a

567
00:25:58,240 --> 00:25:59,880
Speaker 1: traditional like full blown cake.

568
00:26:00,800 --> 00:26:04,440
Speaker 2: Okay, what flavor cake would you do? If you did

569
00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:04,840
Speaker 2: a cake.

570
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:10,159
Speaker 1: Great question. I'm glad you asked. Maybe true to go

571
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:15,200
Speaker 1: with like the Mexican Yes, okay, like a trace chase.

572
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 2: What about little a truro wall and it's like they're

573
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:22,400
Speaker 2: like in little like sleeves.

574
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:25,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, something like that or true, We're going to lean

575
00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:27,639
Speaker 1: into the to the Mexico of it, you know what

576
00:26:27,680 --> 00:26:27,879
Speaker 1: I mean?

577
00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:32,320
Speaker 2: Okay, film cameras on tables, so like people will put

578
00:26:32,359 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 2: little cameras, disposable cameras, and then you develop, everyone takes

579
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:39,119
Speaker 2: them and then it's their own little like photography session.

580
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:41,280
Speaker 2: Then you'll get to keep them someone their pants.

581
00:26:41,600 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's probably gonna be a no for me.

582
00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:48,240
Speaker 2: Okay, Wow, I've never heard of that. Blurry film photos

583
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:48,560
Speaker 2: you know?

584
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, you see my engagement photos where

585
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:51,760
Speaker 1: like there's some blurry ones.

586
00:26:51,800 --> 00:26:54,640
Speaker 2: I was like, yes, beige, white, tan esthetic.

587
00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:59,719
Speaker 1: Yes, So I think I'm gonna have a color palette

588
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 1: for the has to choose from, Like if you would

589
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 1: like to be on theme, these are the kind of

590
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:07,480
Speaker 1: the colors that are going to be the theme.

591
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 2: It's risky.

592
00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:09,640
Speaker 1: Why are risky?

593
00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 2: It's risky because let's say seventy five percent of the

594
00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 2: people adhere to the theme and then twenty five say

595
00:27:20,840 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 2: I'm coming with what I've got the phote. It could

596
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 2: just look at there.

597
00:27:26,280 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 1: There's gonna be some reserve seats in the back.

598
00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:34,640
Speaker 2: I've always I liked the idea of it esthetic, you know, themed,

599
00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,840
Speaker 2: but you just always have a few that won't participate.

600
00:27:38,119 --> 00:27:42,679
Speaker 1: Yeah, they're gonna be like pretty generic easy. I'm not

601
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 1: doing like canary yellow and you know what I mean,

602
00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:47,560
Speaker 1: Like it's not going to be anything crazy, but like, yeah,

603
00:27:47,600 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 1: I think a color palette is nice.

604
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 2: Okay, what about washed out pastel color schemes like sage

605
00:27:52,560 --> 00:27:53,200
Speaker 2: and mint green.

606
00:27:54,400 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 1: I like that, but I don't think for me, Okay.

607
00:27:57,119 --> 00:28:02,159
Speaker 2: Mismatched bridesmaid stresses definitely like in terms of the style

608
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 2: of the dress.

609
00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:06,199
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I'm gonna give you all a color

610
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:07,840
Speaker 1: and let you pick your.

611
00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:14,399
Speaker 2: Dress, but we will send for approval correct champagne tower.

612
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 1: So it's funny. I was actually reading that that's like

613
00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:23,640
Speaker 1: a very easy cost cutter, Like nobody drinks the champagne

614
00:28:23,640 --> 00:28:26,679
Speaker 1: from the champagne tower. It's such a waste of money.

615
00:28:27,000 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 1: But I like the look of it, so I think, yeah.

616
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:34,800
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, bridesmaid groomsmen entrance dances.

617
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:39,720
Speaker 1: Definitely not. I don't want you guys to I don't

618
00:28:39,720 --> 00:28:43,040
Speaker 1: even want the like give it up for a bat

619
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 1: that's actually gonna be you. I might put you in

620
00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 1: charge of that of what entrances. You might be the

621
00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:49,160
Speaker 1: em C.

622
00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 2: I'm the m C.

623
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Speaker 4: I think that's pretty.

624
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:55,480
Speaker 3: Great because Ryan Secrets will be there, but you'll be

625
00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:55,920
Speaker 3: the EMC.

626
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 1: Well, no, he's going to be the officiant. That's different.

627
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:00,520
Speaker 1: I'm not going to like make him do the whole

628
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 1: night saying.

629
00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:04,000
Speaker 3: One of the better known mcs in America is going

630
00:29:04,080 --> 00:29:05,240
Speaker 3: to be there, and Becca's going.

631
00:29:05,200 --> 00:29:07,440
Speaker 1: To be But what I don't want is I don't

632
00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 1: want I don't want to put you on the spot

633
00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:13,560
Speaker 1: to like run into our whatever with like Robbie's brother

634
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:16,400
Speaker 1: holding hands and like in the you know, Macarena.

635
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 2: I think I would. I think it'd be fun if

636
00:29:18,960 --> 00:29:21,040
Speaker 2: all the girls walked in together and then all the

637
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:24,280
Speaker 2: guys walked in together. Yeah, and then y'all walk in together.

638
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah.

639
00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:26,720
Speaker 2: So it doesn't need to be like we have to

640
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 2: dance like it's your partner, David. Yeah, okay, are you

641
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:38,600
Speaker 2: doing dances with your parents?

642
00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:43,520
Speaker 1: I think so? Okay, you know, I'm really torn on this.

643
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 2: This is a Ali did not do this. She didn't

644
00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:48,920
Speaker 2: do a first dance or dance with the parents.

645
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 1: So what we really want is we want the ceremony

646
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:55,600
Speaker 1: to be like the ceremony and beautiful and and sweet

647
00:29:55,640 --> 00:30:00,400
Speaker 1: and like let's cry and and and then once that's over,

648
00:30:00,720 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 1: we want it to be like party. Yeah, we want

649
00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:05,600
Speaker 1: to be like fun. We want everybody just to like dance.

650
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 1: And I feel like if we do, you know, me

651
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:11,840
Speaker 1: and my dad, Robbie and his mom, Me and Robbie,

652
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 1: that's a good twenty minutes of just us dancing on

653
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:18,440
Speaker 1: the dance floor where everybody's just kind of gonna sit

654
00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:19,640
Speaker 1: there and maybe lose their buzz.

655
00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,520
Speaker 2: You could do like a minute of a song, yeah,

656
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 2: if you wanted to incorporate that, if it is important

657
00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 2: to you, you could do like a minute of a

658
00:30:27,040 --> 00:30:29,800
Speaker 2: special song and then you know that goes back quick.

659
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:31,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe we'll do like a first dance.

660
00:30:31,640 --> 00:30:32,720
Speaker 2: I love a first dance.

661
00:30:33,480 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 1: I think we're definitely gonna do the first dance because

662
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Speaker 1: I really want, I really want, I really have like

663
00:30:37,880 --> 00:30:40,720
Speaker 1: a special moment in vision for that. Do you have

664
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Speaker 1: a song It's probably gonna be invisible string or Maren

665
00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:45,840
Speaker 1: Morris the Bones.

666
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Speaker 4: That's exactly what I was thinking. We've got one of

667
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Speaker 4: those two.

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00:30:49,280 --> 00:30:51,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then I want one of my bridesmaids to

669
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Speaker 1: sing it.

670
00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:57,560
Speaker 2: Wow, I can say, well, sing I'm already taken for

671
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:02,720
Speaker 2: the night. I gotta serve. Yeah yeah, yeah, Well hopefully

672
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 2: people can read between the lines on that one. Yeah,

673
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 2: Taylor Slick, that's right, Okay. And then well, Paulina and

674
00:31:13,480 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 2: I have to give a speech.

675
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,800
Speaker 1: I think we're going to do speeches at the rehearsal dinner,

676
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,480
Speaker 1: not the I don't think no speeches at the wedding. Wow,

677
00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 1: maybe one speech or two.

678
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:26,920
Speaker 2: Maybe you're the parents.

679
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:28,880
Speaker 1: I don't know. I haven't really run this by Robbie,

680
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:32,120
Speaker 1: so we're going to figure that out. But I feel

681
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 1: like speeches every time i've I've I've listened to like

682
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 1: a myriad of speeches. I lose my buzz and she's

683
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:42,400
Speaker 1: really worried about I'm really worried about I'm really worried

684
00:31:42,440 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 1: about people maintaining their buzz.

685
00:31:44,720 --> 00:31:45,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

686
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 3: What that strikes me is weird, but it's not part

687
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 3: of my.

688
00:31:49,080 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 1: World, so really, I know, But like, you want to

689
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:53,920
Speaker 1: keep the part of the.

690
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:57,120
Speaker 4: Speeches.

691
00:31:57,480 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't like the energy. I just want I

692
00:31:59,440 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 1: don't want the end energy to like, once you sit

693
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:06,200
Speaker 1: down your seat for thirty minutes, you're done for. So

694
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:07,200
Speaker 1: I want to keep people up.

695
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, no sitting in this wedding.

696
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:13,360
Speaker 1: No, no, you better get those heels polished off because

697
00:32:13,360 --> 00:32:14,480
Speaker 1: they're going to be put to work.

698
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:15,120
Speaker 3: Yep.

699
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, all right, Well there you have it. Do we

700
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:19,520
Speaker 2: have a date yet?

701
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 1: Not officially?

702
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 3: Are you down to options like two or three options?

703
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:25,040
Speaker 2: Yeah?

704
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:28,240
Speaker 1: Okay, March is in there, marches in play, May is

705
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:33,080
Speaker 1: in play, March in May, March in May, spring wedding.

706
00:32:33,280 --> 00:32:36,360
Speaker 2: That's right, if you do it the same weekend of

707
00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 2: Ali and jojok.

708
00:32:39,480 --> 00:32:41,840
Speaker 1: You Actually I don't think I will because I think

709
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:42,800
Speaker 1: it's Mother's Day weekend.

710
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:44,600
Speaker 2: Oh that y'all are looking up?

711
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 1: No, that's that's wasn't there's like May tenth, eleven something

712
00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 1: like that.

713
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 2: No, theirs was the eighteenth.

714
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:56,280
Speaker 1: Oh well so it feels like a lucky day.

715
00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:00,760
Speaker 2: No, this is the fourteenth. Sorry, yeah, I think it's yeah,

716
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:03,240
Speaker 2: JoJo's was the fourteenth. Alleys was the eighteenth?

717
00:33:03,360 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 1: Okay yeah, same same same area area.

718
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 2: Well, anyways, that's very exciting. Glad we got some insight

719
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:12,960
Speaker 2: on the wedding. Finally, we're gonna take a break and

720
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:34,360
Speaker 2: we have a dear bonya question, so we'll be right back. Tanya,

721
00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:36,400
Speaker 2: Who're going? She was like, you never talked about going

722
00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:38,600
Speaker 2: to Lallapalooza. What would you like to talk about it?

723
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:41,080
Speaker 1: I mean, you've never gone before. It's a big days

724
00:33:41,120 --> 00:33:43,000
Speaker 1: ac festival. What are you doing? What are you wearing?

725
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 2: I'm going with.

726
00:33:46,720 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 3: The big one. I think, are you going with?

727
00:33:48,440 --> 00:33:50,720
Speaker 2: Che Ley saved it for the end. I'm going with

728
00:33:51,080 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 2: Chase Bank Actually.

729
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:53,080
Speaker 1: Okay, cool.

730
00:33:53,280 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 2: I'm a Chase girl, me too, through and through since

731
00:33:57,560 --> 00:33:58,080
Speaker 2: high school?

732
00:33:58,200 --> 00:33:58,560
Speaker 1: Me too.

733
00:33:58,920 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 2: My first ever car and so.

734
00:34:00,600 --> 00:34:04,719
Speaker 1: Loyal high school. I think I got mine in college.

735
00:34:04,960 --> 00:34:08,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, like right in that area. Anyways, So I'm going

736
00:34:08,560 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 2: with Chase and Ali's going with me, and we are going.

737
00:34:14,239 --> 00:34:16,920
Speaker 2: I've never been, so I was like asking questions. I

738
00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 2: don't know what the I'm assuming it's hot everywhere, but

739
00:34:19,600 --> 00:34:23,920
Speaker 2: I was curious about the humidity and apparently it's extremely

740
00:34:24,080 --> 00:34:25,960
Speaker 2: humid and muggy in Chicago.

741
00:34:26,360 --> 00:34:27,640
Speaker 1: Really, and I.

742
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:29,440
Speaker 2: Asked if it was like Coachella, and they're like, it's

743
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:31,160
Speaker 2: way more casual than Coachella.

744
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:35,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, it feels like chiller lots of walking, gonna bust

745
00:34:35,480 --> 00:34:37,840
Speaker 1: out the hookahs, no, no.

746
00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:42,480
Speaker 2: No stuff. I like, will suffer through your beauty over

747
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,359
Speaker 2: so much, the beauty over pain or what is it

748
00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:48,200
Speaker 2: you your beauty over comfort?

749
00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:51,160
Speaker 1: Yes, and I'm comfort over beauty yes.

750
00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:53,399
Speaker 2: Yeah, Ali too. Yeah, it's a thing.

751
00:34:53,800 --> 00:34:54,319
Speaker 1: It's a thing.

752
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I will sacrifice my feet.

753
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:01,280
Speaker 4: For the Look are you doing all four days?

754
00:35:01,600 --> 00:35:05,560
Speaker 2: No? Just Friday and No? Yeah, Friday and Saturday.

755
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:08,080
Speaker 3: Are you excited to see? I have the good question?

756
00:35:08,440 --> 00:35:10,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, So the problem is the person I'm most

757
00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 2: excited to see is on Thursday.

758
00:35:12,840 --> 00:35:17,360
Speaker 3: So you're not gonna see Stallionparone chapelone.

759
00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:20,799
Speaker 1: Yes, on Friday and Saturday. Who are you excited to see?

760
00:35:21,480 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 2: Let me look at the lineup, because I well, I

761
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:25,080
Speaker 2: had people, and then I realized that a lot of

762
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:26,120
Speaker 2: them were on Thursday.

763
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 3: I would be excited to see The Killers on Saturday.

764
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:28,920
Speaker 3: That would be great.

765
00:35:30,400 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 2: The Killers.

766
00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 3: Killers are gonna be fun, that is Yeah.

767
00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:34,879
Speaker 2: I'm gonna miss Blink one too.

768
00:35:34,960 --> 00:35:36,080
Speaker 4: And Melanie Martinez.

769
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:39,920
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, you know my my friend Dez was

770
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:44,920
Speaker 2: on the voice with Melanie Martinez. Really yeah, well yeah,

771
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:49,960
Speaker 2: so I'm excited to see Sis. Actually Friday Night. I

772
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 2: do love herne rap. Yeah, No, I'm excited. I think

773
00:35:53,200 --> 00:35:55,640
Speaker 2: it's gonna be a vibe like I'm this might be

774
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 2: the new festival that's on my doable of choice festival choice.

775
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:03,200
Speaker 2: Oh wow, So I'm really excited. Still don't know what

776
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:08,399
Speaker 2: I'm gonna wear, thank you see, but it'll be fun.

777
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:12,720
Speaker 2: I'm we'll see how I'm feeling after I choose beauty

778
00:36:12,719 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 2: over comfort.

779
00:36:13,640 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 1: You should go to one of Juliana Ransick's restaurants in Chicago.

780
00:36:17,920 --> 00:36:21,880
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, yeah, just let me know which one.

781
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:24,760
Speaker 1: Well, I think it's called our PM Steak.

782
00:36:26,040 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember that when they promoted that when it

783
00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:30,680
Speaker 2: first opened.

784
00:36:31,719 --> 00:36:33,279
Speaker 3: All right, now, now that you don't have the line

785
00:36:33,320 --> 00:36:35,399
Speaker 3: up in front of you, we're going to play a game.

786
00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:36,840
Speaker 2: Oh I love it.

787
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:39,880
Speaker 3: I'm going to give you an artist. Do you tell

788
00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,200
Speaker 3: me if this is an actual artist at Lallapaloos your

789
00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:44,600
Speaker 3: attending or an artist that we completely made up.

790
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:46,279
Speaker 2: I'll tell you one thing. I just looked at the

791
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:48,799
Speaker 2: list and I didn't know a whole lot of them.

792
00:36:49,080 --> 00:36:53,920
Speaker 3: So here we go, real or made up? Post sex nachos?

793
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:56,640
Speaker 3: Is that a real band or somebody we made up?

794
00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 2: It feels made up.

795
00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:02,800
Speaker 3: That is a real band. Bring Sunday at Oh.

796
00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:03,520
Speaker 1: You're gonna miss them anyway.

797
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I'm not going to see them unfortunately.

798
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 3: Next up, Chump Daddy.

799
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:11,160
Speaker 2: It's giving made up.

800
00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 3: That is made up. Okay, Generous Dollop.

801
00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:17,319
Speaker 2: That's giving made up.

802
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 3: Also made up, Papaul Rod, he feels real, real, very

803
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 3: good game. Medium build that feels real, that is real, legitimately,

804
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:35,040
Speaker 3: Maple Sticky.

805
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:38,760
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go made up that is made.

806
00:37:40,280 --> 00:37:43,040
Speaker 3: Good, very good. That's that's good. I think we're good.

807
00:37:43,719 --> 00:37:44,959
Speaker 2: Oh better than I thought.

808
00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 3: Excellent that game.

809
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:48,759
Speaker 2: Dear Bonya, Mark take it away.

810
00:37:48,840 --> 00:37:49,279
Speaker 4: Here we go.

811
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:52,239
Speaker 3: What's it dear bonya question? Everyone, let's see what our

812
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:56,000
Speaker 3: answer is to this one. As a single, no kids,

813
00:37:56,040 --> 00:37:59,239
Speaker 3: thirty something, I found I'm struggling with loneliness and disconnection

814
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:01,400
Speaker 3: from my friends. My friends all have kids. I have

815
00:38:01,520 --> 00:38:04,080
Speaker 3: lost connection with them. I love children, and I get

816
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,880
Speaker 3: that balancing act, kids, family, work, et cetera. Can be

817
00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 3: a lot. But how can I keep these friendships alive

818
00:38:10,000 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 3: if I invite them to my house? Well, I have

819
00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:14,880
Speaker 3: a small home that's not babyproofed. I can't invite myself

820
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:17,319
Speaker 3: to their house. I've tried meeting up for a meal

821
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:19,320
Speaker 3: out with small children. But I felt like my friends

822
00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:21,200
Speaker 3: were more stressed keeping up with the kids and keeping

823
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:24,720
Speaker 3: them occupied than enjoying catching up. And it was soul crushing.

824
00:38:25,160 --> 00:38:28,239
Speaker 3: And it suggestions from those with no kids mark and

825
00:38:28,239 --> 00:38:31,440
Speaker 3: it suggestions as a parent. I don't mind seeing them less,

826
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:33,360
Speaker 3: but at this point I'm seeing them once or twice

827
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:33,840
Speaker 3: a year.

828
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 2: This is interesting, yeah, because there's a part of me

829
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:45,839
Speaker 2: that feels like that might be what you get out

830
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:48,879
Speaker 2: of them is seeing them a couple times a year

831
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,319
Speaker 2: where you have their full attention, especially if their kids

832
00:38:51,320 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 2: are young. Like I just think there's gonna be a

833
00:38:53,640 --> 00:38:55,759
Speaker 2: season of life where you're just not going to have

834
00:38:55,920 --> 00:38:59,400
Speaker 2: them like you used to. Yeah, And I think that

835
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:01,600
Speaker 2: you'll get to point where y'all catch up and it

836
00:39:01,600 --> 00:39:04,359
Speaker 2: feels more like normal because the kids won't be as

837
00:39:04,400 --> 00:39:09,400
Speaker 2: like demanding of their attention and time. But there's also

838
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:12,840
Speaker 2: this part of me that feels like you have friends

839
00:39:12,880 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 2: that will be in your life forever. But there's also

840
00:39:15,640 --> 00:39:18,399
Speaker 2: friends that are there for like a season, and that

841
00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:21,879
Speaker 2: you meet at a time where you really needed them.

842
00:39:21,880 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 2: And I think this might be a season where you

843
00:39:23,719 --> 00:39:26,360
Speaker 2: have new people come into your life that are on

844
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:28,000
Speaker 2: the same page as you and can give you the

845
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 2: same amount of energy and time that you can give them.

846
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 2: And I don't think your friends can do that for

847
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:33,799
Speaker 2: you right now.

848
00:39:34,440 --> 00:39:36,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's weird. I mean I think it's

849
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 1: hard because I think everybody deals with it in a

850
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:43,920
Speaker 1: different way. I have friends who have had kids and

851
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:46,839
Speaker 1: fully just fallen off the face of the earth, like

852
00:39:47,040 --> 00:39:50,960
Speaker 1: they are just completely mia and like that's fine, you

853
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like that's what they're choosing to do,

854
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:54,640
Speaker 1: and like you have to just give people grace to

855
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 1: just do what they need to do. There's only so

856
00:39:57,800 --> 00:39:59,959
Speaker 1: much you can say, Hey, can we get a meal together,

857
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:02,880
Speaker 1: Hey can we make some time? You know what I

858
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:06,520
Speaker 1: mean before you get the hint, right. But then I

859
00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:08,759
Speaker 1: also have people that I know that had kids and

860
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:11,360
Speaker 1: are like very present and they just like bring the

861
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:14,359
Speaker 1: kid and then can still be fully engaged in conversation.

862
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 1: And so I think if, like if your friends are

863
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:22,240
Speaker 1: the kind that are not really coming around making plans,

864
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:25,080
Speaker 1: I think maybe Becka's advice is right, and like maybe

865
00:40:25,120 --> 00:40:27,560
Speaker 1: you should make some new friends who are in the

866
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:29,000
Speaker 1: same season of life as you are.

867
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:33,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, because I I realize that all of my friends.

868
00:40:33,239 --> 00:40:35,120
Speaker 2: I feel like y'all are all going to be pregnant

869
00:40:35,120 --> 00:40:37,160
Speaker 2: and going into this like new season of life at

870
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 2: the same time. But I have other and I'm gonna

871
00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 2: be so excited to be a part of that with y'all.

872
00:40:42,760 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 2: But I know that things will change, you know, like

873
00:40:44,640 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 2: there will be a difference in like your availability and

874
00:40:47,280 --> 00:40:50,840
Speaker 2: time and like capacity. And so it's like knowing that

875
00:40:50,920 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 2: I have friends that are in the same season of

876
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:55,440
Speaker 2: life as me also brings me comfort knowing that, like,

877
00:40:55,520 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 2: once that season happens, I'm not going to be like,

878
00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 2: where are my friends? I don't have this can anymore,

879
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 2: because it's just gonna be a shift.

880
00:41:02,120 --> 00:41:04,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think like it was already a shift

881
00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:07,239
Speaker 1: for me because I have two step kids, and so

882
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:10,320
Speaker 1: when we have fifty to fifty percent custody of the kids,

883
00:41:10,320 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 1: and when we have them, we try to be very

884
00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:15,799
Speaker 1: present and with them on the nights that we have them,

885
00:41:15,840 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 1: so I try not to like make plans, So that

886
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:23,000
Speaker 1: has already kind of shifted my time and my availability.

887
00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 1: So I kind of already have like a little bit

888
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 1: of a taste of it. But I do feel like

889
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:29,520
Speaker 1: a baby is like a whole nother yea ballgame.

890
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:31,839
Speaker 2: I was gonna ask Mark because I feel like Mark

891
00:41:31,840 --> 00:41:34,800
Speaker 2: and Easton. I feel like Easton. You probably have friends

892
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:39,400
Speaker 2: who have had children and have felt that shift, and

893
00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:42,120
Speaker 2: then you, as the other side of things, have the

894
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:45,919
Speaker 2: kids and have probably watched the shift in like your

895
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:49,760
Speaker 2: time and the energy at some point. So I'm curious

896
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:50,279
Speaker 2: about you guys.

897
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:52,480
Speaker 3: So first, because I'm quick, I got good news and

898
00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 3: bad news. The bad news is this is a losing battle.

899
00:41:57,480 --> 00:41:59,600
Speaker 3: The good news is it's not going to last until

900
00:41:59,600 --> 00:42:01,600
Speaker 3: the kids are eighteen. This is only gonna last for

901
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:03,080
Speaker 3: a couple of years. When the kids are like three

902
00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 3: or four, it's gonna be a lot easier to schedule

903
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:07,880
Speaker 3: time with them, especially once they start school. Once they

904
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 3: start school, then then they might be more free for

905
00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 3: lunches and that sort of thing. But for right now,

906
00:42:12,960 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 3: I don't think this is happening. And the other bad

907
00:42:15,239 --> 00:42:18,360
Speaker 3: news is our best friends lived in the valley and

908
00:42:18,400 --> 00:42:20,280
Speaker 3: so we rarely saw them because we're out one thousand

909
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 3: oaks and it was a good forty minutes to an

910
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:24,080
Speaker 3: hour drive to go see them. Finally they moved out

911
00:42:24,120 --> 00:42:26,359
Speaker 3: by us, like, oh, finally we get to see you.

912
00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:28,919
Speaker 3: We still see them maybe two three times a year.

913
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:32,320
Speaker 3: So yeah, you're just super busy and that's what happens,

914
00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:34,439
Speaker 3: and everything else falls by the wayside. So I don't

915
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:37,359
Speaker 3: have a rosy picture for you, but like it better

916
00:42:37,400 --> 00:42:39,280
Speaker 3: than it is now once the kids start school.

917
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:43,080
Speaker 4: I mean, we definitely have a lot of our friends

918
00:42:43,120 --> 00:42:47,040
Speaker 4: are having kids right now and we still hang out

919
00:42:47,040 --> 00:42:49,759
Speaker 4: with them. We see them less and that's fine, and

920
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:52,080
Speaker 4: you know, we try to make ourselves available to We'll

921
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 4: go meet them at a park or something so they

922
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:55,400
Speaker 4: can bring the little brats with them if they want to.

923
00:42:55,719 --> 00:43:03,360
Speaker 4: I'm just kidding. I love children. We used to, uh

924
00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:05,440
Speaker 4: we would go see all the Marvel movies and like

925
00:43:05,440 --> 00:43:07,600
Speaker 4: a big group, and everyone in that group has started

926
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 4: having kids. And now it's like just Alison and I

927
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:13,480
Speaker 4: and one of the couples. We're going to see Deadpool

928
00:43:13,520 --> 00:43:15,800
Speaker 4: with the wife like she's coming and the husband's staying

929
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 4: home with the child. So you know, just changes and

930
00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:21,759
Speaker 4: it's fine, and I don't like, we don't. This is

931
00:43:21,760 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 4: what they want to do, you know, so I don't

932
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:24,839
Speaker 4: hold it against them. And whenever they want to hang

933
00:43:24,880 --> 00:43:25,759
Speaker 4: out and down to hang out.

934
00:43:26,080 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 2: That's how I feel. I was going to say, don't

935
00:43:27,680 --> 00:43:30,520
Speaker 2: have resentment towards them because they're living their life. They're

936
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 2: choosing the path that they wanted, which was to create

937
00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 2: a family, and it just it's hard. It's like all

938
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:38,000
Speaker 2: of a sudden, they're in charge of keeping this tiny

939
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:43,240
Speaker 2: human alive and you know, alive, and it's a lot,

940
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:45,560
Speaker 2: and they're tired, and it's like this new season.

941
00:43:45,640 --> 00:43:48,399
Speaker 1: So I know it's so interesting though, because like it's

942
00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:50,640
Speaker 1: so you do. I base a lot of this stuff

943
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:52,319
Speaker 1: off of what I see on Instagram and like the

944
00:43:52,320 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 1: moms that I follow on Instagram, like the new moms

945
00:43:54,600 --> 00:43:58,640
Speaker 1: with like newborns, and I'm like, oh it visually on

946
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:02,399
Speaker 1: social media looks like the kids just like I don't

947
00:44:02,800 --> 00:44:04,960
Speaker 1: like along for the ride, you know what I mean?

948
00:44:05,040 --> 00:44:07,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think so like Brittany and Michael didn't miss

949
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 2: a beat. They like go everywhere with Kingston. We go

950
00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:16,239
Speaker 2: over there and play games like it's very much like they.

951
00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:16,759
Speaker 1: Right, there's like a couple months when you're like in

952
00:44:16,840 --> 00:44:19,319
Speaker 1: the trenches and then it's like they just bounce. They

953
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 1: just bounce back and I don't be bounced back.

954
00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:24,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, it depends on the kids. Because also if I'm

955
00:44:24,640 --> 00:44:28,000
Speaker 2: going out with someone or and I want like quality

956
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:29,840
Speaker 2: time and they're like, well, I have to bring the baby,

957
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:32,960
Speaker 2: and the baby's like a nightmare and like like crying

958
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:35,839
Speaker 2: and like screaming that I'm like, it will catch up

959
00:44:35,880 --> 00:44:37,520
Speaker 2: another time, you know what I'm saying.

960
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:38,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I know that's hard.

961
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 2: Because moms need that outlet as well. But I think

962
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 2: if you're a friend and you're looking for that connection

963
00:44:43,120 --> 00:44:45,879
Speaker 2: with your friend and you're not, like it's said, it's

964
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:48,880
Speaker 2: soul crushing. I can't imagine waiting and then you finally

965
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:50,600
Speaker 2: get that time with your friend and it's like they

966
00:44:50,600 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 2: can't even pay attention to you, but they're having to

967
00:44:52,560 --> 00:44:54,280
Speaker 2: give their you know. Yeah, I think it's just hard.

968
00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 2: So I think you find people that are in the

969
00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:00,359
Speaker 2: same season as you, because I think you're going to

970
00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:05,040
Speaker 2: crave that quality time and attention that you give a friendship,

971
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:06,960
Speaker 2: and I don't think you're gonna get it from your

972
00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:09,160
Speaker 2: friends who have like little babies right now.

973
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:13,760
Speaker 3: Slow pulp real band or made up band?

974
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:16,439
Speaker 4: Slow pulps Pul's real? It is real?

975
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 2: Yeah.

976
00:45:17,280 --> 00:45:18,400
Speaker 3: Twenty four Roads.

977
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:20,359
Speaker 2: To Tuesday, Oh, that's for sure real.

978
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 3: That's made up? Okay, water made up?

979
00:45:25,120 --> 00:45:28,240
Speaker 2: Probably I'm gonna go real it is real.

980
00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 1: Geese Geese, oh Geese.

981
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:31,919
Speaker 3: Yeah.

982
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 2: I love their song Bread real.

983
00:45:35,280 --> 00:45:38,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, they are real. How about the Worry Club?

984
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:40,879
Speaker 2: No, no, no, Yeah, they're real.

985
00:45:42,400 --> 00:45:47,680
Speaker 3: Avocado fam Oh they're not. They're made up. Yeah, alien stylists,

986
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:51,400
Speaker 3: they're real, they're made up. Oh the Last Dinner Party,

987
00:45:51,640 --> 00:45:52,120
Speaker 3: that's real.

988
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:54,719
Speaker 2: That is real, Like I've heard of that one.

989
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:58,960
Speaker 1: Actually, this is so wild the names.

990
00:46:01,480 --> 00:46:02,360
Speaker 2: That's all for today.

991
00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 3: That's it.

992
00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:06,240
Speaker 2: But but we do have a Thursday episode.

993
00:46:06,360 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 1: Oh tell me about it, becha.

994
00:46:07,640 --> 00:46:11,719
Speaker 2: I'm so excited because we are having Becca Moore on

995
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 2: the podcast. Becca is a TikToker, She's hilarious, and she

996
00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:20,719
Speaker 2: is recently announced that she's dating Shannon Beveridge, who was

997
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:24,719
Speaker 2: on our podcast a few months ago. And I'm so

998
00:46:24,760 --> 00:46:27,600
Speaker 2: excited to talk to her. We have a very similar.

999
00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:32,920
Speaker 1: Path in our and similar names, the same name, so similar,

1000
00:46:33,760 --> 00:46:35,240
Speaker 1: so similar, it's the same.

1001
00:46:35,719 --> 00:46:39,840
Speaker 2: So we'll be talking to her this Thursday. And that's that.

1002
00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 1: We love you, We love you, We love you like

1003
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:50,680
Speaker 1: so much, so much.

1004
00:46:50,719 --> 00:46:53,719
Speaker 2: And we hope you have the best week.

1005
00:46:53,960 --> 00:46:57,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, and stay healthy, please, everybody.

1006
00:46:57,560 --> 00:46:58,800
Speaker 2: This is stay healthy.

1007
00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:01,480
Speaker 1: I'm serious. Whatever's go around is pretty wild. Tawny the

1008
00:47:01,480 --> 00:47:03,600
Speaker 1: other day she asked if I could come early because

1009
00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:07,640
Speaker 1: she was like, all my clients are sick. I was like, damn, damn,

1010
00:47:08,000 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 1: you infected them.

1011
00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:13,800
Speaker 2: I imagine going around the city with her virus.

1012
00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:26,960
Speaker 1: Anywhoy