1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:04,000 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. If you 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 1: need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. 3 00:00:07,960 --> 00:00:11,559 Speaker 1: Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 4 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your 5 00:00:15,040 --> 00:00:17,599 Speaker 1: letter on the air live, just like we're going to 6 00:00:17,680 --> 00:00:19,440 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now. 7 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:20,040 Speaker 2: Did you hear that? 8 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:23,800 Speaker 3: Buckalop and hold on site. We've got it here. It 9 00:00:23,960 --> 00:00:25,599 Speaker 3: is Strawberry Letter. 10 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:27,159 Speaker 2: Oh please, don't even try it. 11 00:00:27,320 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 1: Subject his ex wife wants to sleep over. Dear Stephen Shirley. 12 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 1: I've been married for two years, and when I met 13 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:38,920 Speaker 1: my husband four years ago, he had just gotten divorced 14 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:41,519 Speaker 1: and he was in a bitter custody battle with his 15 00:00:41,720 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: ex wife. His daughter is very sweet and she loved 16 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:48,400 Speaker 1: her dad, but the ex wife is dead set on 17 00:00:48,520 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 1: her not having a relationship with her dad. When we met, 18 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:54,800 Speaker 1: he had to limit communication with his ex because she 19 00:00:54,960 --> 00:00:58,240 Speaker 1: told everybody. He kept calling her to work things out, 20 00:00:58,560 --> 00:01:01,240 Speaker 1: and he wanted his family back. I never gave it 21 00:01:01,560 --> 00:01:04,800 Speaker 1: any of my attention, but it really bothered him. Now 22 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:08,240 Speaker 1: he only communicates with her by texting so she can't 23 00:01:08,319 --> 00:01:11,759 Speaker 1: lie on him. They have joint custody and he pays 24 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 1: her child support. She didn't like the amount of child support. 25 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:17,920 Speaker 1: The judge ordered him to pay, so he pays a 26 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:21,959 Speaker 1: little more every month. Nothing he's done makes her happy 27 00:01:22,040 --> 00:01:25,280 Speaker 1: thus far. Meanwhile, we haven't had his daughter sleep over 28 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:28,520 Speaker 1: at our house in two years. I thought maybe if 29 00:01:28,560 --> 00:01:32,039 Speaker 1: I've befriended his ex that would help things out, but 30 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:35,360 Speaker 1: she told me not to ever call her phone again. 31 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 1: A few months after that, she texted me to say 32 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:41,759 Speaker 1: her behavior was uncalled for and we could be cordial, 33 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 1: but that didn't last long. She continued to deny visitation 34 00:01:46,400 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 1: to my husband. We want to take his daughter, who's 35 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:52,160 Speaker 1: twelve years old now, to South Carolina with us for 36 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:53,000 Speaker 1: spring break. 37 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 2: His ex wife said. 38 00:01:55,240 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 1: His daughter can't go on a trip with us unless 39 00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: she goes too. Same thing with week visits at our house. 40 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:04,600 Speaker 1: If the daughter sleeps over, the ex wife has to 41 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:07,639 Speaker 1: come too. I don't want this woman sleeping in my house. 42 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:10,440 Speaker 1: My husband said it may be the only way for 43 00:02:10,560 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: him to enjoy time with his child. He is ready 44 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 1: to seek full custody. What would you do in this situation? 45 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:21,160 Speaker 1: WHOA I don't know, but I think you know that's 46 00:02:21,200 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 1: a good place to start to go ahead and seek 47 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:26,320 Speaker 1: full custody, go back to the court. 48 00:02:26,560 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 2: I think your husband is in a. 49 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:32,400 Speaker 1: Horrible position because you know, despite all the craziness from 50 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:35,639 Speaker 1: his ex wife, he wants to see his baby. Bottom line, 51 00:02:35,720 --> 00:02:39,040 Speaker 1: he doesn't have many options because of this ugly acting woman. 52 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:42,959 Speaker 1: She's evil, she's out of line, and she's obviously a miserable, 53 00:02:43,240 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 1: very bitter person, and she's abusing her power and using 54 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,520 Speaker 1: her daughter, putting her daughter right in the middle, using 55 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:52,600 Speaker 1: her as a pond, and that's just wrong to do 56 00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:55,840 Speaker 1: children like that. But on the other hand, you, I think, 57 00:02:55,960 --> 00:02:58,600 Speaker 1: are an angel. I mean you've been over backwards to 58 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 1: be accommodating to this, and that says you have love 59 00:03:02,200 --> 00:03:05,799 Speaker 1: for your husband and for his daughter, your stepdaughter. Your 60 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:10,400 Speaker 1: husband is the very opposite of a deadbeat dad. Doesn't 61 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:13,519 Speaker 1: fit that stereotype at all. He pays more. 62 00:03:13,320 --> 00:03:15,120 Speaker 2: Child support than the court ordered. 63 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: You can't get a lot of dads to pay even 64 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:22,360 Speaker 1: the child's even anything, let alone. More so, that's good 65 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 1: father who wants to be a major part of her life. 66 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 1: The thing is, your daughter really is old enough to 67 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 1: choose for herself what parents she wants to be with. 68 00:03:31,200 --> 00:03:33,400 Speaker 1: She just can't because she's a minor, and I feel 69 00:03:33,440 --> 00:03:38,240 Speaker 1: sorry in that regard because divorce is so hard on children. 70 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 1: I don't even understand why this woman wants to stay. 71 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 2: In the house. 72 00:03:41,920 --> 00:03:42,160 Speaker 3: Hmm. 73 00:03:42,360 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 2: Could it be that she still wants your husband? I 74 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:46,880 Speaker 2: would say the answer to that is yes. 75 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:49,680 Speaker 1: Does she want to make your lives a living hell 76 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: because she's so miserable and unhappy? 77 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:54,280 Speaker 2: I think that would be a yes too. 78 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: But you know, you got to think about what's best 79 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: for the child and right now until he goes to court. 80 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:03,640 Speaker 2: You know, I don't know. Could you guys get two 81 00:04:03,760 --> 00:04:06,520 Speaker 2: hotel rooms? Can you afford that? And? 82 00:04:06,720 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: Uh, you know, let the wife stand one and with 83 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 1: the child and you and the husband stand. 84 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:14,800 Speaker 2: The other one. At least she won't be in your house. 85 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:17,120 Speaker 2: I don't know. 86 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 1: Maybe this will work out until he can get to 87 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:20,520 Speaker 1: the court and fix it. 88 00:04:20,600 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 2: At least he can see his baby. 89 00:04:22,040 --> 00:04:27,320 Speaker 4: Steve, I don't really know what to say. This a 90 00:04:27,720 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 4: letter kind of stupid to me. I wouldn't even rote 91 00:04:29,920 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 4: in by just him. Well you men your husband four 92 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:36,240 Speaker 4: years ago the subject is ex wife wants to sleep over? 93 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 3: Sleepover? Where WHOA? 94 00:04:39,680 --> 00:04:43,119 Speaker 4: So this lady's writing his letter and she's talking about 95 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:51,039 Speaker 4: her husband's ex wants to sleep over at their house. Yeah, 96 00:04:51,240 --> 00:04:56,000 Speaker 4: he got divorced. Bitter custody battle, daughter sweet loves her dad. 97 00:04:56,520 --> 00:05:00,200 Speaker 4: Ex wife don't want them, have no relationship U They 98 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:02,760 Speaker 4: meant they had limited communication with his act because she 99 00:05:02,839 --> 00:05:05,159 Speaker 4: told everybody. He kept calling at work trying to work 100 00:05:05,200 --> 00:05:07,920 Speaker 4: stuff out because he wanted his family back. She ain't 101 00:05:07,960 --> 00:05:11,000 Speaker 4: paid no attention. So now he only community by Texas, 102 00:05:11,000 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 4: so she can't lownd it. He paid child support, she 103 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 4: don't like the amount he paid. More, don't nothing make 104 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:20,560 Speaker 4: her happy? Now they ain't had his daughter sleep at 105 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 4: their house in two years. The reason I'm reading this 106 00:05:25,080 --> 00:05:28,359 Speaker 4: letter again is because I want you to see how 107 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 4: some people use children as ponds to get back at the. 108 00:05:37,640 --> 00:05:39,960 Speaker 3: Other party for whatever reason. 109 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:43,720 Speaker 4: We don't know why they divorced, but obviously whether it 110 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 4: was her fault. But it takes two people to get 111 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 4: a divorce. Somebody two people. Look, somebody may initiate it wrong, 112 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:55,280 Speaker 4: but when you get a divorce, two people did something 113 00:05:55,320 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 4: that wasn't cool where you handle it or something. 114 00:05:58,640 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 3: So it takes two people to get it. 115 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:06,839 Speaker 4: So you thought that you should be freeing this crazy 116 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:12,719 Speaker 4: hellful He's a woman, She tried that don't care what 117 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:17,160 Speaker 4: her baby think. But you think you gonna get her 118 00:06:17,520 --> 00:06:22,560 Speaker 4: to start making sense to you. She don't care nothing 119 00:06:22,600 --> 00:06:24,920 Speaker 4: about you because she don't care nothing about her child. 120 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 4: When you use a child as a pawn in the relationship, 121 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 4: the damage that you think you're doing to the other party, 122 00:06:33,920 --> 00:06:37,599 Speaker 4: whatever you're doing to the other party, multiply that by ten, 123 00:06:37,800 --> 00:06:39,480 Speaker 4: because that's what's happening with the child. 124 00:06:40,360 --> 00:06:41,760 Speaker 2: All right, Steve, hold that thought. 125 00:06:41,880 --> 00:06:44,240 Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna have part two of your response coming 126 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:47,480 Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry 127 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 1: letter subject his ex wife wants to sleep over. We'll 128 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:54,239 Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening Steve 129 00:06:54,400 --> 00:06:57,640 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, come on, let's recap 130 00:06:57,680 --> 00:07:03,080 Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter subject his ex wife wants to sleep over? 131 00:07:04,520 --> 00:07:06,479 Speaker 3: Now, who do that for? 132 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:06,839 Speaker 4: Who? 133 00:07:07,640 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 3: First of all, let's be real about this. 134 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:14,000 Speaker 4: Anybody couldn't let you the ex wife stay at This 135 00:07:14,080 --> 00:07:18,480 Speaker 4: is this woman's house. Ain't no woman letting your letting 136 00:07:18,760 --> 00:07:23,960 Speaker 4: her husband's ex wife sleep over because she demands it. Yeah, 137 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:28,480 Speaker 4: it would be different if some extreenuating circumstances they house 138 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 4: burned down and they needed a place to stay for 139 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:34,280 Speaker 4: a couple of days. Got that, but she won't let 140 00:07:34,360 --> 00:07:36,440 Speaker 4: the baby come over the y'all's house in for. 141 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:38,960 Speaker 2: Two years and spend the night. 142 00:07:39,080 --> 00:07:42,080 Speaker 3: And spend the night. The daughter loves her daddy. 143 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:45,880 Speaker 4: You try to befend, You try to befriend this crazy 144 00:07:45,920 --> 00:07:49,640 Speaker 4: woman that don't care nothing about her daughter. So now 145 00:07:50,240 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 4: she said they want to take the daughter, who's twelve 146 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:57,160 Speaker 4: years old, to South Carolina with them for spring break. 147 00:07:57,800 --> 00:07:59,920 Speaker 3: His wife said his daughter can't go on the trip 148 00:08:00,760 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 3: unless she go too. We go ifinna pay for you 149 00:08:03,640 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 3: to come nowhere on supreme break. 150 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:09,720 Speaker 4: His ex wife said his daughter can't go on the 151 00:08:09,760 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 4: trip with us unless she goes to same thing the weekend, 152 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:15,840 Speaker 4: visit our house. If the daughter sleeps over, the ex 153 00:08:15,920 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 4: wife has to come too. I don't want this woman 154 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:21,000 Speaker 4: sleeping in my house. My husband said it may be 155 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 4: the only way for him to enjoy time with his child. 156 00:08:23,600 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 4: He's ready to seek full custody. What do you think 157 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 4: of this situation? First of all, sir, you're gonna have 158 00:08:31,160 --> 00:08:33,800 Speaker 4: to find I know you want to see your daughter, 159 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 4: but that ex wife demanded to sleep over the house. 160 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 4: There's no reason that that should be the case, you've 161 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:47,960 Speaker 4: got to get a lawyer and get unsupervised visits. 162 00:08:48,640 --> 00:08:51,640 Speaker 3: And you've got to get weekend rights to your daughter. 163 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:55,040 Speaker 4: Now, I don't know if they gonna give you full custody, 164 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:57,199 Speaker 4: because for a court to take a child away from 165 00:08:57,280 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 4: a mother, you have to be an unfit mond. Crazy 166 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:06,400 Speaker 4: don't count as unfit because she's not abusing the daughter. 167 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:09,959 Speaker 4: She just abusing the man, which in turn abusing the daughter. 168 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,840 Speaker 4: Ain't no court fit to do that. But let me 169 00:09:12,880 --> 00:09:15,160 Speaker 4: tell you why you really can't have this heath at 170 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:18,200 Speaker 4: your house. Come on, let's just go over a couple 171 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 4: of things. Let's just start with number one. Sleep over 172 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:23,040 Speaker 4: your house. 173 00:09:24,080 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 3: Wake up this crazy to hell for standing over you 174 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:29,280 Speaker 3: with a butcher knife. That's for start. 175 00:09:31,000 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 1: Ye. 176 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:32,480 Speaker 3: Now you walking all. 177 00:09:32,440 --> 00:09:35,319 Speaker 4: In the kitchen, her crazy ass in there making sandwiches. 178 00:09:35,640 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 3: This ain't your house. You can't be in it doing this. 179 00:09:39,640 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 4: In here she down seat and bought a load of 180 00:09:41,960 --> 00:09:45,880 Speaker 4: clothes over she downstairs washing the load of clothes. Your 181 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 4: damn laundry. Mad, don't let this helfer in your house, 182 00:09:51,480 --> 00:09:53,960 Speaker 4: knocking on the bathroom door. You in there in the bathroom, 183 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 4: she knocking on the door. What's taking you so long. 184 00:09:57,320 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 2: Hair out. 185 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:03,480 Speaker 3: I need to get in there in your house. Even there, 186 00:10:03,520 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 3: she rearranging furniture. I don't like the sofa over here. 187 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:07,200 Speaker 3: I want it over here. 188 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 4: Oh sitting up in here, snatching remote out your hand, 189 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 4: making everybody watch forty eight hours. 190 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:23,680 Speaker 3: Don't let this crazy help in your house. No, you 191 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:24,560 Speaker 3: go downstairs. 192 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:26,880 Speaker 4: She walking around with her bronze panties on, talking about 193 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:28,560 Speaker 4: what you want, what you want. 194 00:10:29,960 --> 00:10:35,719 Speaker 3: Like that, walking around the house. Harm me. 195 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:37,360 Speaker 2: What's she. 196 00:10:43,200 --> 00:10:57,040 Speaker 3: Gotta feel? You gotta feely, Uh, gotta feel. 197 00:10:59,480 --> 00:11:15,839 Speaker 4: Somebody's try to sneak my friend, you know like that. No, 198 00:11:16,000 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 4: that's just crazy health in your house, being here lighting 199 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 4: candles and stuff and little say. 200 00:11:23,120 --> 00:11:24,400 Speaker 3: They all kind of stuff. 201 00:11:25,360 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 4: Go in that kitchen she and that got two chicken 202 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 4: feet in there with a bird beak. 203 00:11:29,760 --> 00:11:34,880 Speaker 2: Oh lord yeah, crazy, yeah. I feel badly for the 204 00:11:34,920 --> 00:11:37,400 Speaker 2: stupid man. 205 00:11:37,880 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 3: But he has to go to court though, and work 206 00:11:40,920 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 3: out something and get visitation and weak ends. Gotta have 207 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:48,440 Speaker 3: week ends with your child. 208 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 2: They already have joint custody though. 209 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:54,760 Speaker 4: I mean, but see if she you, you can enforce 210 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:59,079 Speaker 4: the joint custody. She can't make the rules of the 211 00:11:59,160 --> 00:12:03,679 Speaker 4: joint custody because her father hasn't been ruled unfit, so 212 00:12:03,760 --> 00:12:04,440 Speaker 4: he has to. 213 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:05,400 Speaker 3: Have week ends. 214 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 4: He's paying child custody, I mean child support. 215 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 3: He should have rights and a weekend with his daughter. 216 00:12:14,960 --> 00:12:16,439 Speaker 3: Every other weekend. 217 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:20,120 Speaker 2: He's without the mama. I have a question, So is it? 218 00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:20,360 Speaker 4: Is it? 219 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:23,440 Speaker 2: Perhaps maybe spring break is her week and she. 220 00:12:23,360 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 1: Doesn't want to give that week up, and that's why 221 00:12:25,200 --> 00:12:26,319 Speaker 1: she's demanding to go. 222 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:29,920 Speaker 3: No, this is not only the spring break. 223 00:12:30,360 --> 00:12:33,000 Speaker 4: The girl ain't been to the house in two years, 224 00:12:34,160 --> 00:12:37,480 Speaker 4: so this is way beyond the spring break. She won't 225 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:39,880 Speaker 4: even let the daughter come to the house to see 226 00:12:39,920 --> 00:12:44,640 Speaker 4: the man, right, because she being fun because she bid. 227 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 1: Them, Yes, sir, and I can't stand when they use 228 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 1: the children as pawns in the middle the child. 229 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:53,959 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're hurting this child. 230 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 1: She wants to see her dad, and the dad wants 231 00:12:56,040 --> 00:13:01,480 Speaker 1: to spend time with her. All right? Post your comments 232 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:08,280 Speaker 1: on Today Strawberry. Let Steve Harvey f M on Instagram 233 00:13:08,320 --> 00:13:11,520 Speaker 1: and Facebook. Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. 234 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:17,959 Speaker 2: Please you're listening to Harvey Morning Show. H