WEBVTT - Millionaire Mission w/ Brian Preston #842

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Out of Money.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Joel and I am Matt and today we're going

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<v Speaker 2>on a millionaire mission with Brian Preston.

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<v Speaker 3>That is right, Yeah, we're talking about what it takes

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<v Speaker 3>to be a millionaire because our guest today he claims

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<v Speaker 3>that anyone can become rich. Now that doesn't mean that

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<v Speaker 3>it's going to happen overnight, right, But how quickly you're

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<v Speaker 3>able to achieve that goal, it's going to largely depend

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<v Speaker 3>on your mindset. It's going to depend on how effectively

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<v Speaker 3>you're able to put your army of dollar bills to work.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a Brian line right there.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's just one of the top things for sure

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<v Speaker 1>that Brian.

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<v Speaker 3>Preston covers in his new book, Millionaire Mission that just

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<v Speaker 3>came out last month. And Brian, he's a financial advisor.

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<v Speaker 3>He's got over twenty five years of experience. He's so

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<v Speaker 3>he's actually an og podcaster. He started back in two

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<v Speaker 3>thousand and six, which means that back when he was

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<v Speaker 3>getting nerdy with personal finance. That's when I was listening

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<v Speaker 3>to like muggle Cast, listening to like Harry Potter podcasts. Right,

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<v Speaker 3>So obviously he's a co host of the Money Guy Show,

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<v Speaker 3>and just last year alone they had over forty one

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<v Speaker 3>million views over nine million downloads. Brian, we're excited to

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<v Speaker 3>get nerty with you today and talk about all things

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<v Speaker 3>personal finance. Thank you for joining How to Money.

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<v Speaker 4>By the way, I love the intro, but I have

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<v Speaker 4>to ask because I felt like there's a little tone

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<v Speaker 4>on it. You guys do believe that anyone can be

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<v Speaker 4>a millionaire, don't you. I want to make sure we're

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<v Speaker 4>all on the same page, because that's why I feel

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<v Speaker 4>like so much out in the world right now is

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<v Speaker 4>telling folks that the world's against them. But I'm telling you,

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's actually the best time. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 4>look at the beginning of my journey, when you had brokers,

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<v Speaker 4>you had to pay through you, you only could do

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<v Speaker 4>loaded commission funds, index funds were unheard of. And now

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<v Speaker 4>it's like all that stuff is so behind us, and

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<v Speaker 4>anybody and everybody has.

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<v Speaker 1>Opportunity easier than ever. That's for sure.

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<v Speaker 3>I think if anything asked the first question has swung

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<v Speaker 3>the other way, though, which is I feel like more

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<v Speaker 3>than ever, folks are saying that it's it's it's something

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<v Speaker 3>that you can do tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 1>But obviously the way. It takes time.

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<v Speaker 3>It takes time, and you and I show approach to it.

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<v Speaker 2>So okay, hold on, yeah, we can't get in the conversation.

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<v Speaker 2>That's the first question. Matt and I we like to

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<v Speaker 2>drink craft beer, Brian, and we will splurge on craft beer.

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<v Speaker 1>But we're doing the right thing.

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<v Speaker 2>We're saving investing at the same time, so we can

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<v Speaker 2>become millionaires too. What is that sports for you though?

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<v Speaker 2>What is the thing you spend a lot of money

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<v Speaker 2>on while you're still doing the smart stuff with your money.

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<v Speaker 4>It's a great question. Two things immediately popped in my mind.

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<v Speaker 4>The first one, I love going to movies. And when

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<v Speaker 4>I go to movies, and I think this is payback

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<v Speaker 4>because of all the bad things I was doing when

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<v Speaker 4>I was younger, trying to cut them out of the money.

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<v Speaker 4>Was always by buckets of popcorn, and I always buy

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<v Speaker 4>a big coke because that's that's just what I do

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<v Speaker 4>with movies. But when I was in high school, I

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<v Speaker 4>had the seven dollars date night where I'd only go

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<v Speaker 4>to movie dollar movies and I'd also smuggle in my

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<v Speaker 4>goobers and candy and ask my date to bring it in.

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<v Speaker 4>And even I was known in the summer months to

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<v Speaker 4>cut through the bathroom to maybe watch two shows. So

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<v Speaker 4>I feel like I'm paying back all my my bad

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<v Speaker 4>decisions are or cost cutting measures when I was younger,

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<v Speaker 4>by paying full, full loaded bore on the popcorn and drinks.

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<v Speaker 1>So I love it. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>The first time we met Brian, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>you remember, Oh, I remember. I convinced you it was

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<v Speaker 2>we were going to a conference. We landed the airport

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<v Speaker 2>at the same time to hop in a bus to

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<v Speaker 2>get to the conference instead of in an expensive uber.

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<v Speaker 2>Tell me, I'm just curious, like, how did you feel

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<v Speaker 2>about that? Because at the time I make you a

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<v Speaker 2>little uncomfortable, Like how do you feel about taking the money?

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<v Speaker 4>No, I still think about the and I don't know

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<v Speaker 4>how how deep you want me to go into this.

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<v Speaker 4>But it was bo and I get there and you

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<v Speaker 4>were you just you were a fun Guymediately, once we

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<v Speaker 4>all realized we were all going the same place, You're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>why would you take a I can't remember how. Maybe

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<v Speaker 4>it was the uber, but you're like, I think it's

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<v Speaker 4>four dollars if you just want to ride on the

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<v Speaker 4>on the public transportation. So we jumped on this and

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<v Speaker 4>bah wah, you recruited. It wasn't just me and ba

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<v Speaker 4>it was some other people too. Don't say their names

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<v Speaker 4>because I think they it was that meeting that they

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<v Speaker 4>hated us because they scouted at us at every conference

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<v Speaker 4>I ever went to after that, But it was. And

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<v Speaker 4>you also we had stops along the way where you

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<v Speaker 4>took us by, you know, cocktail establishments and other things.

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<v Speaker 4>So it was it was it went beyond what it

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<v Speaker 4>was billed as is just a savings measure. It was

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<v Speaker 4>actually turned into a guided tour, which was incredible.

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<v Speaker 1>See you didn't have to pay a dime for that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, that's that.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I mean I think you could tell. That's why

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<v Speaker 4>I sent you the text jealous, because I mean we

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<v Speaker 4>always every time I've hung out with you, we always

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<v Speaker 4>have a blast at conferences, and I was like, we

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<v Speaker 4>got to.

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<v Speaker 1>Talk about this stuff. Yes, okay.

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<v Speaker 3>So so speaking of buses, Bright, I didn't realize, first

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<v Speaker 3>of all, A that you went to UGA. I'm a

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<v Speaker 3>fellow Georgia grad, but go b you had the most

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<v Speaker 3>coveted job on campus. You drove the UGA bus. Tell

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<v Speaker 3>me about that, because like, I don't think there's any

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<v Speaker 3>campus job that was paying. It was like at the

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<v Speaker 3>time when I was there was something like I think

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<v Speaker 3>it was over twenty bucks an hour.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, let me tell you times have changed. You're

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<v Speaker 4>telling me all you're doing is making me feel old.

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<v Speaker 4>So when I went to UGA, two things happened. When

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<v Speaker 4>I got there on campus for the first time, and

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<v Speaker 4>there was the first I was like, I have two goals,

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<v Speaker 4>begin with the end of mine. I wanted to be

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<v Speaker 4>an orientation leader because I thought those guys and girls

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<v Speaker 4>were that had the coolest jobs.

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<v Speaker 1>Ever.

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<v Speaker 4>Then when I saw that they were letting students drive

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<v Speaker 4>these huge buses around campus, I was like, that has

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<v Speaker 4>got to be the coolest job ever. So I failed

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<v Speaker 4>on actually becoming an orientation leader. I don't know how

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<v Speaker 4>the stars never aligned for that to actually work. But

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<v Speaker 4>I made it my mission to become a bus driver,

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<v Speaker 4>and sure enough they trained me. I got my commercial

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<v Speaker 4>driver's license and I actually drove for three years at

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<v Speaker 4>the University of Georgia and I was good enough. This

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<v Speaker 4>is a problem. I was so good that I got

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<v Speaker 4>promoted to be a student trainer, and all that meant

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<v Speaker 4>was the last year I didn't actually get to drive

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<v Speaker 4>the bus anymore. I just rode around with other student drivers,

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<v Speaker 4>making sure they were doing good work. But I loved it.

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<v Speaker 4>If I could make a million dollars a year driving

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<v Speaker 4>a bus, I would do it. I mean it was truly,

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<v Speaker 4>it was the coolest job.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you What was it?

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<v Speaker 4>Orbit?

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<v Speaker 3>Was the East Campus Express? What route were you driving?

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<v Speaker 4>I drove? I drove them all. I mean I driven.

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<v Speaker 4>The one I drove that I liked. I chose to

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<v Speaker 4>was the Millage bus route a lot because I just

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<v Speaker 4>liked that one. But I did do family housing. I

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<v Speaker 4>did a Orbit, I mean the other one. Here's here's

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<v Speaker 4>a hack, A college hack is I would drive the

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<v Speaker 4>special of the bus at night for disabled individuals because

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<v Speaker 4>there was really only one or two people around campus,

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<v Speaker 4>but they were required to have this because the buses

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<v Speaker 4>back then didn't allow access forelchairs. I would basically take

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<v Speaker 4>the same people down to the bars every night and

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<v Speaker 4>then go back to the bus depot study, and then

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<v Speaker 4>wait for them to call me to go pick them

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<v Speaker 4>up and then take them back to their dorms. So

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<v Speaker 4>I felt like it was the greatest gig. And get

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<v Speaker 4>back to what it paid. I was making seven dollars

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<v Speaker 4>and twenty five cents an hour and that was the

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<v Speaker 4>best paying job on campus. Wow, back in the day.

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<v Speaker 4>So you can tell things have changed a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Was this a bus or was this a horse drawn carriage? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm not clearing, just kidding, just kidding. Okay, let's

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<v Speaker 1>move on. Let's talk about your book.

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<v Speaker 3>Enough about Georgia and the buses.

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<v Speaker 1>Your book is called Millionaire Mission, and it's a.

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<v Speaker 2>Great goal and you've just just at the very beginning

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<v Speaker 2>we talked about how, yeah, you think this is a

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<v Speaker 2>goal that anybody could achieve, all right, but flip side

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<v Speaker 2>of that question, is it a good enough goal? Like

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<v Speaker 2>do you think a million dollars is going to be enough?

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<v Speaker 2>And retirement for most folks who talk about how much

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<v Speaker 2>you got paid back then how much bus drivers get

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<v Speaker 2>paid now? Inflation's a real reality. Is a million dollars

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<v Speaker 2>enough to shoot for?

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<v Speaker 4>It might not be for when certain people get there,

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<v Speaker 4>but you can't get to three million without the first million.

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<v Speaker 4>And that's why, I mean, one of the things I

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<v Speaker 4>love to share with people and I call it and

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<v Speaker 4>I say it in a funny way, and I don't

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<v Speaker 4>know where I get it from, but bowling point or

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<v Speaker 4>you know, is you're trying to get your assets to

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<v Speaker 4>reach the size of critical mass. And I always tell

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<v Speaker 4>people getting to that first one hundred thousand dollars is

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<v Speaker 4>so important and that probably will take you like seven years,

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<v Speaker 4>but people just don't realize the second I mean, the

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<v Speaker 4>last five hundred thousand to get to your first million

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<v Speaker 4>will likely only take seven years too, because that's just

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<v Speaker 4>the power of compounding growth is it builds upon itself.

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<v Speaker 4>So if you can get to a million dollars, you're

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<v Speaker 4>going to get to three million much much faster. So

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<v Speaker 4>I agree. I think inflation is going to pull things

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<v Speaker 4>down or make people have more, but it still doesn't

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<v Speaker 4>change the behavior that's going to create the success of

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<v Speaker 4>the situation.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, more than anything, I think folks just need to

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<v Speaker 3>get used to the idea that they're likely going to

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<v Speaker 3>need not just a million, but even more than that,

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<v Speaker 3>because I think to a lot of folks that sounds

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<v Speaker 3>like a large sum of money. But like you said,

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<v Speaker 3>I think it. I think folks are going to be

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<v Speaker 3>arriving at that point of where the portfolio is going

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<v Speaker 3>to get that large sooner than they think. So you

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<v Speaker 3>start your book talking about high school, So take us

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<v Speaker 3>back to that point we don't want to hear you

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<v Speaker 3>talking about anymore about how you were saving money on

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<v Speaker 3>your dates or anything like that. But take us back

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<v Speaker 3>to your economics class and share how that inspired you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, mister Morrow, Themorrow Moment, as I've coined it, is

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<v Speaker 4>because and what's funny is because I've written this book,

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<v Speaker 4>I've actually had some high school fellow Henry County High

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<v Speaker 4>School Warhawks reach out to me. And one of them,

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<v Speaker 4>I have a friend named Alicia, and she was like,

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<v Speaker 4>mister Morrow, And I was like, were you in that

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<v Speaker 4>class with me? And she's like yeah. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>do you remember the one hundred dollars a month came out?

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<v Speaker 4>And she goes, no, but I didn't care anything about money.

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<v Speaker 4>But she goes, man, he was salty. And I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>he was salty. And I've often thought about the fact

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<v Speaker 4>that I don't think mister Morrow was bringing this out

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<v Speaker 4>if he wanted to just necessarily pay it forward, it

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<v Speaker 4>wasn't part of the curriculum. I think this was out

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<v Speaker 4>of a place of regret because he came into class

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<v Speaker 4>and he said, if you you guys, with every one

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<v Speaker 4>of you, if you'd save one hundred dollars a month,

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<v Speaker 4>you could become a millionaire. And I remember thinking whoa

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<v Speaker 4>because at the time I was working at the Harty's

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<v Speaker 4>drive through three dollars and eighty cents an hour, and

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, even though I'm working fast food, I

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<v Speaker 4>think I could save one hundred dollars a month. And

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<v Speaker 4>it was that simple instruction that kind of lit my

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<v Speaker 4>mind on fire and made me realize, Hey, this compounding growth,

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<v Speaker 4>because that's really what he was talking about is something

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<v Speaker 4>pretty magical that if I give my life enough time

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<v Speaker 4>and have the actual desire to putting money to work,

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<v Speaker 4>I could make this happen.

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<v Speaker 1>So is that, mister Morrow math?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that like what's behind the koozy that you use

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<v Speaker 2>on your YouTube show that I think is what this

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<v Speaker 2>one dollar beer costs me eighty eight dollars?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it is. It's built into it because we have

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<v Speaker 4>on our website if you go to money Go dot

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<v Speaker 4>com slash resources, we have a wealth multiplier which we

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<v Speaker 4>show what every dollar has the potential to become based

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<v Speaker 4>upon your age. And you're exactly right. I mean, the

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<v Speaker 4>reason we have these koozies pre pandemic. We were invited

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<v Speaker 4>to come set up a table for recruitment at a university,

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<v Speaker 4>and then so I was like, you know, what would

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<v Speaker 4>be fun to show all these college kids what a

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<v Speaker 4>dollar could become if they'd start investing. I was like,

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<v Speaker 4>let's make a koozie. They're cheap. Let's just say this

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<v Speaker 4>dollar beer could cost you eighty eight dollars, because that's

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<v Speaker 4>what it is for a twenty twenty one year old.

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<v Speaker 4>And then COVID happened and the koozies weren't needed, so

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<v Speaker 4>I decided to start giving them out to people and

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<v Speaker 4>using them on the show. But that's actually the true

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<v Speaker 4>origin story. But it is hitting on that wealth multiplier concept.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, what do you say to folks?

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<v Speaker 3>So obviously one of the reasons mister Morrow was so

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<v Speaker 3>salty on the idea was he was just mad that

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<v Speaker 3>he didn't start investing when he was in high school.

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<v Speaker 3>But for there are a lot of folks a who, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>they are investing now, but there's a lot of folks

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<v Speaker 3>who might be hearing this message for the first time.

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<v Speaker 3>What do you say to those folks, the folks who

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<v Speaker 3>didn't start investing, maybe until their forties or fifties, do

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<v Speaker 3>you think that they still have an opportunity to catch up.

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<v Speaker 4>Actually, I just describe that in Millionaire Mission. I cover

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<v Speaker 4>that because I don't want everybody think that this book

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<v Speaker 4>was written for only twenty to twenty three year olds.

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<v Speaker 4>This book, I think everybody has their eighty eight times

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<v Speaker 4>over opportunity because the reality is just a component of time.

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<v Speaker 4>And even though you might not discover investing until you're

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<v Speaker 4>thirty five years old, more than likely you're going to

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<v Speaker 4>live beyond late sixties, early seventies. There's going to be

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<v Speaker 4>some dollar in your investment pool that is going to

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<v Speaker 4>get that eighty eight times opportunity. So this is not

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<v Speaker 4>something just for young people. Now that it is something

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<v Speaker 4>I will tell you the longer you wait to start,

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<v Speaker 4>because you remember, we all say early and often is

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<v Speaker 4>how you should do investing. So if you start later,

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<v Speaker 4>I think it does. It doesn't mean your army of

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<v Speaker 4>dollar bills don't don't have the opportunity to compound. It

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<v Speaker 4>just means you probably will have to have a higher

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<v Speaker 4>savings rate just because you're playing catch up to a degree.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So the scarcity mindset, Brian, you talk about that

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<v Speaker 2>in your book, and I think the scarcity mindset can

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<v Speaker 2>be like a double edged sword. You can you can

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<v Speaker 2>have such a scarcity mindset that you are kind of

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<v Speaker 2>stuck and you don't find any way to make progress.

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<v Speaker 2>But you talk about something called that you call forced scarcity.

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<v Speaker 1>So what do you mean by that? Why is that powerful?

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<v Speaker 4>Well? I think force scarcity. Remember, part of what you're

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<v Speaker 4>doing when you start your wealth building journey is you

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<v Speaker 4>got to make habits automatic. I love making things where

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<v Speaker 4>they just happen, no matter there's no behavioral traps or

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<v Speaker 4>anything you fall into. So you want to make the

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<v Speaker 4>good habits as easy as possible and the bad habits

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<v Speaker 4>as hard as possible. If you set up an automatic

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<v Speaker 4>investment plan, or you also set up an automatic debt

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<v Speaker 4>payment plan, every dollar has a purpose. And what I

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<v Speaker 4>like about that when I say create a force scarcity moment.

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<v Speaker 4>Every time I got a pay raise while I was

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<v Speaker 4>trying to get to that initial twenty to twenty five

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<v Speaker 4>percent savings and investment rate, is I would just try

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<v Speaker 4>to allocate, like on a sixty forty ratio, I try

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<v Speaker 4>to put sixty percent towards increasing my savings and investment

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<v Speaker 4>and then I'd let my lifestyle expand by forty percent.

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<v Speaker 4>So you know, of whatever that pay raise amount so

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<v Speaker 4>I kept that healthy ratio until I reached my goal.

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<v Speaker 4>So that way, you don't let your lifestyle choices or

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<v Speaker 4>the lifestyle creep get in front of your investments. Because

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<v Speaker 4>a lot of people, you can get them excited about

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<v Speaker 4>funding their roth IRA one time, but how do you

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<v Speaker 4>get them to do it for five years, ten years?

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<v Speaker 4>Because it's that consistency of behavior that actually creates the wealth.

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<v Speaker 4>But a lot of people lose interest or they get distracted,

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<v Speaker 4>and you've got it. That's why they automatic behaviors are

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<v Speaker 4>what's going to carry you through that and understanding always

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<v Speaker 4>be buying, of course, because that takes out the volatility

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<v Speaker 4>and then force scarcity. So you're not just letting your

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<v Speaker 4>money sit in the account and you invest what's left over.

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<v Speaker 4>You actually pay yourself first and invest on the front

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<v Speaker 4>side and you spend on the backside.

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<v Speaker 1>It's right.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, those tax advantage accounts are just a part of

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<v Speaker 3>your formula for success. I feel like respect the financial

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<v Speaker 3>order of operations like that is y'all's mantra.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, you hammer it home every EVERISA show.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean, and it's similar to our money. Why

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<v Speaker 3>is the order of operations crucial to success? Why is

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<v Speaker 3>it so important to individual's abilities to become a millionaire?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I mean I've seen it, you know. In the

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<v Speaker 4>nice intro, y'all said that I've been doing this for

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<v Speaker 4>going on three decades now of doing financial planning, and

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<v Speaker 4>I could and I've always been a math nerd. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>i just couldn't help myself and I when I found

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<v Speaker 4>out about pem doos. You know, please excuse my dear

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<v Speaker 4>aunt sile And you realize math has an orderly flow

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<v Speaker 4>that you have to do it in that order or

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<v Speaker 4>you don't get the correct answer. In a lot of ways,

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<v Speaker 4>finances are the exact same way. It's just it's structured

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<v Speaker 4>in a way of kind of how do you balance

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<v Speaker 4>the risk of life but also the maximization of time,

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<v Speaker 4>and those things are in a lot of ways are

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<v Speaker 4>in conflict with each other. So I've tried to give

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<v Speaker 4>you the steps where you keep yourself out of trouble,

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<v Speaker 4>but you also don't miss out on that moment of

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<v Speaker 4>getting your army of dollars working as fast as possible.

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<v Speaker 4>So that's that's what I've built with the nine step

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<v Speaker 4>system that's in the financial world of operations.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're just talking about the math, but you also

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<v Speaker 2>talk about the mindset, and that's obviously crucial, right, It's

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<v Speaker 2>part of it is like you're just saying, like, not

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<v Speaker 2>getting someone to fund the roth ira just once, but

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<v Speaker 2>getting toro do it on repeat, getting them excited about

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<v Speaker 2>the ongoing process. One of the stats that stuck out

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<v Speaker 2>to me in your book, you mentioned the lion's share

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<v Speaker 2>of millionaires. Eighty percent of millionaires have an optimistic mindset.

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<v Speaker 2>And I am kind of an eternal optimist myself, but

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<v Speaker 2>why is that so crucial for people's ability? Like how

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<v Speaker 2>come millionaires are more optimistic and less pessimistic?

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<v Speaker 1>And yeah, is it?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, I've started building wealth and so now I'm starting

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<v Speaker 2>to think good things about the future, Like what came first?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think?

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<v Speaker 3>No?

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<v Speaker 4>I do think. I think it is a mindset where

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<v Speaker 4>you see opportunity versus all the obstacles that keep you

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<v Speaker 4>from doing something. And I think that's an important thing

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<v Speaker 4>for any success in life in a lot of ways,

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<v Speaker 4>because I mean, you think about it, even if you

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<v Speaker 4>were talking about your relationships, if you went into every relationship,

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<v Speaker 4>whether it's you know, romantic or business or just transactional

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<v Speaker 4>for everyday life, if you went into it thinking everybody's

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<v Speaker 4>out to get you, You're probably going to do a

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<v Speaker 4>lot less positive activities in your life, whereas if you

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<v Speaker 4>just go into it looking for the best of the moment.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it kind of is self affirming in a

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<v Speaker 4>lot of ways. So if you're always looking for the opportunity,

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<v Speaker 4>because that's what a lot of people say, what is luck?

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<v Speaker 4>You know, luck because everybody says, hey, you must be

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<v Speaker 4>lucky or you had luck in your pass and look,

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<v Speaker 4>I will say luck is very important. But what luck

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<v Speaker 4>is is that intersection point between you being prepared and

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<v Speaker 4>then something, a moment of opportunity presents itself, and those

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<v Speaker 4>two things intersect and you jump on it. If you're

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<v Speaker 4>a pessimist, you're probably going to miss out on that moment.

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<v Speaker 4>I look back at my own life and you just

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<v Speaker 4>don't know the little decisions you're making that actually are

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<v Speaker 4>having the big impacts. You never will know those things

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<v Speaker 4>until later. But that's why if you have that positive mindset,

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<v Speaker 4>you're more likely to take those positive steps forward versus

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<v Speaker 4>being so held back and restricting yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and I mean, aside from it also being a

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<v Speaker 3>mindset thing, I mean it I think if you're an optimist.

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<v Speaker 3>You've also looked at the numbers because you've seen that, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>the stock market goes up three out of four years,

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<v Speaker 3>and what that means is you most likely should be investing.

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<v Speaker 3>So it's it's like a little combination of both. I

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<v Speaker 3>think optimism based on historical reality exactly. It's like a combination.

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<v Speaker 3>It's melding history, numbers, and your attitude, I think, all

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<v Speaker 3>in one package. But Brian, a rule of thumb that

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<v Speaker 3>y'all like to encourage folks towards as a twenty five

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<v Speaker 3>percent savings rate. The standard device is ten percent. It's

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<v Speaker 3>clearly not enough in our opinion, But why is twenty

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<v Speaker 3>five percent the key.

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<v Speaker 1>Number for y'all?

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<v Speaker 3>And I would like to hear your share just like,

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<v Speaker 3>how rigid do you think that advice is in your

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<v Speaker 3>mind for especially for folks maybe who are just getting started,

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<v Speaker 3>or maybe for folks who are a little bit further

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<v Speaker 3>down the path.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I don't mind given clarification, because when I came

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<v Speaker 4>out of college back in the mid ninety I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>Wealthy Barber was a big influence on me, and that

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<v Speaker 4>book talks about ten percent, and then you know about

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<v Speaker 4>the same time, now I had not read it until

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<v Speaker 4>much later. But you know, Dave Ramsey has his you know,

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<v Speaker 4>his whole thing is fifteen percent, and you hear me

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<v Speaker 4>say twenty to twenty five percent, Like, why are you

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<v Speaker 4>so aggressive? Well, the world has changed a lot since

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<v Speaker 4>the nineties. Social Security is more questionable on what it

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<v Speaker 4>means for people, especially you know, if you're young, who

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<v Speaker 4>knows if social Security is going to be there for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Pensions are not exactly making a comeback. I mean, they're

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<v Speaker 4>a rarity. So I think it does put more and

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<v Speaker 4>more on our shoulders that you have to kind of

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<v Speaker 4>plan accordingly that the financial responsibility is going to follow

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<v Speaker 4>on you. However, let me let me say this because

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<v Speaker 4>this is something I always try to clarify. Part of

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<v Speaker 4>that twenty to twenty five percent, if your household income

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<v Speaker 4>is less than two hundred thousand dollars, you can count

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<v Speaker 4>your employer match in that. So if you work for

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<v Speaker 4>a generous employer that's offering you six to eight percent

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<v Speaker 4>of your income, you can quickly see now all of

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<v Speaker 4>a sudden that twenty five percent is going to be

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<v Speaker 4>brought back to you know, maybe seventeen percent on your side.

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<v Speaker 4>The other eight percent's go come from your employer. So

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<v Speaker 4>but it's a balance. You do need to do the math.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't skip the step and make sure you do have

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<v Speaker 4>that higher percentage of your gross income going towards the

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<v Speaker 4>future because you go to need it. You know, everybody

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<v Speaker 4>who's all part of the Yogo movement and thinks that that,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, they have to live for today because tomorrow

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<v Speaker 4>is not promised. The research shows you're probably going to

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<v Speaker 4>live to a ripe old age, see better plan.

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<v Speaker 2>Accordingly, it makes me think about the I'm sure you

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<v Speaker 2>saw this. The Yale professor who released a study about

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<v Speaker 2>consumption smoothing and.

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<v Speaker 4>That one that does does that one burn you know?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we're frustrated by it too. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>When I see that, it bothers me. I had somebody

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<v Speaker 4>just post that on a comments section on one of

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<v Speaker 4>my one of my shows. I'm trying to remember which

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<v Speaker 4>show it was, but I was like two days ago

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<v Speaker 4>and I was like, you gotta be kidneys who wrote this.

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<v Speaker 4>The banking system. I mean, it's really frustrating.

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<v Speaker 1>Man.

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<v Speaker 2>I had a similar responsibily saw that. But there is

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<v Speaker 2>like there's a lot of untrue to that. We combat

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<v Speaker 2>of that in a massive way on our show. But

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<v Speaker 2>there's also truth to the fact that, like you don't graduate,

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<v Speaker 2>get your first job and start most of the time,

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<v Speaker 2>most of the time saving twenty five percent. Although I

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<v Speaker 2>think that's a good goal to have, So I guess, like,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how variable is that advice? And yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it's like, is that the goal to have or is

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<v Speaker 2>it like, man, whatever it takes right now, sell your car,

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<v Speaker 2>in your child in order to you know, make sure

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<v Speaker 2>you hit that savings goal.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 4>And I think you know if you once you read

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<v Speaker 4>Millionaire Mission, you'll know. My mindset is definitely in your twenties.

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<v Speaker 4>I think it's aspirational. That's why I give you the

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<v Speaker 4>how you every time you get a pay raise, you

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<v Speaker 4>increase it. I do think by the time you're in

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<v Speaker 4>your thirties, you know you ought to really be getting

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<v Speaker 4>close to saving and investing twenty five percent. And there's

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<v Speaker 4>actually math behind that. If you when you go to

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<v Speaker 4>money go dot com slash resources, we have what twenty

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<v Speaker 4>five percent can do for you, and we have it

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<v Speaker 4>by age. And you'll notice anybody who starts saving and

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<v Speaker 4>investing when they're in their twenties, it really doesn't take much.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, even if you were doing that fifteen percent

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<v Speaker 4>that other people talk about. I mean, you would be

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<v Speaker 4>crushing it as a replacement of your working income at retirement.

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<v Speaker 4>But once you get into your thirties, you'll start seeing

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<v Speaker 4>that twenty to twenty five percent is important by the

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<v Speaker 4>time you reach forty. If you haven't started by forty

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<v Speaker 4>and you're not doing twenty five percent, you might have

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<v Speaker 4>to start thinking about what is your your retirement self

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<v Speaker 4>might have to make you know, you either have to

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<v Speaker 4>subsidize your retirement income, You're going to have to have

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<v Speaker 4>a higher savings rate. There's things that you have to

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<v Speaker 4>that Procrastination or putting it off doesn't mean that you

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<v Speaker 4>won't reach your goals. It just means it's going to

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<v Speaker 4>be some obligation or requirement to get it back on track.

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<v Speaker 4>And when I think about that, you mentioned that Yell study.

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<v Speaker 4>What I don't like about that is the most valuable resource.

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<v Speaker 4>When I talk about the three ingredients to wealth building,

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<v Speaker 4>time is the most valuable one. And it's I'm trying

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<v Speaker 4>to mean, while I'm out there trying to tell people

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<v Speaker 4>repeat Themorrow moment, if you could just say fifty dollars

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<v Speaker 4>a month, one hundred dollars a month. I don't care

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<v Speaker 4>what it is, just do something because the money you

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<v Speaker 4>have at sixty five years of age, ninety five percent

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<v Speaker 4>of that is probably going to be the growth of

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<v Speaker 4>the account if you started young enough, because the compound

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<v Speaker 4>and growth is that powerful. If you tell somebody, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>go ahead and spend while you're young, because you're going

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<v Speaker 4>to get pay raises in the future and it's going

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<v Speaker 4>to be okay to catch up, they're not giving enough

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<v Speaker 4>value to the time component. And that just breaks my

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<v Speaker 4>heart because like buy now, pay later, and other things

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<v Speaker 4>like that, everybody is trying to help make consumption easier,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm like, that is the opposite problem we have

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<v Speaker 4>where we have a problem in America on is people

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<v Speaker 4>actually saving a little bit today for that great, big,

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<v Speaker 4>beautiful tomorrow. So don't don't add to the problem of

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<v Speaker 4>consumption that we already have by saying, hey, go spend more.

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<v Speaker 4>You're young, you're fabulous, go live your best life. That

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<v Speaker 4>is a fool's gold. It reminds me of you know,

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<v Speaker 4>Pinocchio when they go to Pleasure Island. You know, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 4>you go to turn into a donkey if you're not careful.

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<v Speaker 1>It's true.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, We've got so much more to get to

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<v Speaker 3>with you, especially just when life gets messy. How it

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<v Speaker 3>is that we prioritize some of the different goals that

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<v Speaker 3>we have.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll get to that more right after this. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>we're back to the break.

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<v Speaker 2>We're still talking to with Brian Preston. We're talking about

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<v Speaker 2>becoming a millionaire. But man, one of the hardest parts

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<v Speaker 2>of life to get through in order to achieve millionaire

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<v Speaker 2>status is Brian's what you refer to as the messy middle.

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<v Speaker 2>And some of those years, especially now, it's like the

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<v Speaker 2>Sandwich generation. You've got kids, and then you've got parents

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<v Speaker 2>you need to help out who might not have saved

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<v Speaker 2>enough themselves. Can you define the messy middle, because there's

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of how to money listeners I think in

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<v Speaker 2>that phase of life.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Man, I tell you, if you're in the messy middle,

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<v Speaker 4>you'll know you resemble this if you feel like you're

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<v Speaker 4>short on both tom because you've got you know, your marriage,

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<v Speaker 4>you've got children, you've got your job responsibilities, you've got

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<v Speaker 4>the commune unity that you're also trying to be active

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<v Speaker 4>with your neighbors and so forth. But then you also

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<v Speaker 4>feel like you're short on money because there's so many

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<v Speaker 4>things pulling on both your time and your resources that

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<v Speaker 4>you just burning it on both ends and you're like,

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<v Speaker 4>how in the world am I going to make it

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<v Speaker 4>through this? And I always am super sympathetic to all

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<v Speaker 4>of my audience that's in this phase, and by the

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<v Speaker 4>way I've been in this phase, I've shared my journey

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<v Speaker 4>where sometimes I feel like, also for successful people, we

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<v Speaker 4>already have this mindset we've got to achieve, We got

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<v Speaker 4>to go keep hitting all the life achievements as fast

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<v Speaker 4>as we possibly can. And I'm always like, guys, slow

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<v Speaker 4>it down, deep breaths, this is going This season will pass.

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<v Speaker 4>Just don't get distracted, don't stop doing what you're doing.

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<v Speaker 4>But it's okay to actually recognize that we all struggle

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<v Speaker 4>when you have all these life things. And I even

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<v Speaker 4>in the book, I put some charts to let people

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<v Speaker 4>know because I felt like there would actually be some

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<v Speaker 4>coping or at least some relief and you're not in

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<v Speaker 4>this alone. Where I show people's incomes versus you know,

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<v Speaker 4>disposable income versus obligations, or disposable time versus you know,

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<v Speaker 4>you know, what they've got going on, and I'm hoping

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<v Speaker 4>people will realize, yes, those days are long, but the

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<v Speaker 4>years are short, and to kind of hang in there.

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<v Speaker 4>You'll make it through it, but just don't lose the

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<v Speaker 4>plot on keeping some basic things going on to work

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<v Speaker 4>for your financial future.

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<v Speaker 3>And I saw those charts that you've gotten there, Brian,

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<v Speaker 3>and so like it's it's clear, like there's clear evidence

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<v Speaker 3>that truly, I mean, what is it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's life satisfaction.

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<v Speaker 3>Also is like at a nat or like at the

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<v Speaker 3>stage in life the amount of financial responsibility is like

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<v Speaker 3>an all time high. But I think for a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of folks, like there might be folks like in their

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<v Speaker 3>twenties who are saying, hey, I'm not in my thirties yet,

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<v Speaker 3>and I feel like the messy middle is here, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>And so like there's something about when you get older, obviously,

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<v Speaker 3>as you mature and get wiser, like you look back

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<v Speaker 3>on the past and it's easy to kind of forget

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<v Speaker 3>all the hardship that you're going through. But like that

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<v Speaker 3>doesn't discount think think what a lot of younger folks

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<v Speaker 3>are dealing with now. And so I think a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of times it feels like that that messy mental it's

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<v Speaker 3>just constant, Like it's like it hits you in your twenties,

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<v Speaker 3>you feel it certainly in your thirties as folks are

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<v Speaker 3>starting to have kids, if that's a part of their plan,

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<v Speaker 3>they're trying to achieve other financial goals like.

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<v Speaker 1>When they're in their forties.

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<v Speaker 3>But yeah, so I guess how would you encourage folks

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<v Speaker 3>to maybe set financial priorities As you got all these

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<v Speaker 3>goals and you're trying to pick which ones you want

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<v Speaker 3>to pursue. How do you talk folks through that?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, we've been talking. We've even got some content coming

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<v Speaker 4>down the pipe called financial tug of war. And I

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<v Speaker 4>feel for young people right now because we just came

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<v Speaker 4>through the post pandemic and the huge inflation that came.

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<v Speaker 4>And then you take into account also the way they're

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<v Speaker 4>fighting inflation is by jacking up interest rates. I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>there's a lot working against people, and I can see

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<v Speaker 4>the frustration that would feel. But I want people to

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<v Speaker 4>know that I really do believe in reversion to the mean.

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<v Speaker 4>And that doesn't mean I think the housing prices are

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<v Speaker 4>going to drop. I just think that it will take

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<v Speaker 4>time and some of this stuff will mellow. From a

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<v Speaker 4>historical perspective, but that doesn't mean you just need to

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<v Speaker 4>sit back and wait for an opportunity to present itself.

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<v Speaker 4>I think you actually have to start figuring out how

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<v Speaker 4>you navigate this well for yourself. So let me give

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<v Speaker 4>you some examples. One of the first things I talk

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<v Speaker 4>about is, like y'all mentioned buying a house, because I

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<v Speaker 4>imagine that is a hard, hard thing right now. This

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<v Speaker 4>is one of the things I love about Millionaire Mission

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<v Speaker 4>and the financial order of operations. A lot of gurus

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<v Speaker 4>out there that were telling from the rooftops you had

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<v Speaker 4>to put down twenty percent on your first house, and

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<v Speaker 4>then they've had to come hat in hand and say, well,

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<v Speaker 4>maybe ten percent because of how things are. Our rules

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<v Speaker 4>have never changed because I've always tried to be as

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<v Speaker 4>transparent as possible. I went and asked all of my

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<v Speaker 4>financial advisors because I internally knew how I paid for

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<v Speaker 4>my first house, and I ask all my financial advisors

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<v Speaker 4>who work with me, and I say, how much did

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<v Speaker 4>y'all put down? When we found out the lion's share

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<v Speaker 4>of financial advisors put down three to five percent on

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<v Speaker 4>their first house. I'm not talking about the upgraded house,

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<v Speaker 4>the second house. You know, when you go to the

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<v Speaker 4>bigger house for the kids. Talking about that first house

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<v Speaker 4>three to five that's what I put down on my

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<v Speaker 4>first house. Now you can kind of look at it

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<v Speaker 4>as an extension of your step four of the financial

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<v Speaker 4>order operations of your cash reserves. You might want to

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<v Speaker 4>just boost up your cash beyond the three to six

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<v Speaker 4>months so you can get in that first house. And

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<v Speaker 4>that's how we're we're kind of navigating these things. Is

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<v Speaker 4>take where it is, what's going on right now, how

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<v Speaker 4>do you adapt and still reach your goals, but also

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<v Speaker 4>don't walk completely away from what your future self is

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<v Speaker 4>going to need as well. And that's why it's back

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<v Speaker 4>to that Pemdos example. You have to know the orderly

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<v Speaker 4>flow for how to handle every dollar that comes into

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<v Speaker 4>your control, and we've tried to lay that out for everyone.

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<v Speaker 2>What's your overall philosophy on debt? I mean, I know

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<v Speaker 2>that you don't love it. You don't you're encouraging the

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<v Speaker 2>most nefarious kinds of debt or anything like that. But

0:29:44.560 --> 0:29:48.440
<v Speaker 2>you're also not a hardliner all debt is bad dude, either.

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<v Speaker 2>So how do you think about debt? And do you

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<v Speaker 2>think that like some wealth or some debt can actually

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<v Speaker 2>help accelerate people's ability to build wealth.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I'm just not a debt crusader because I just know,

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<v Speaker 4>once again, I don't want to be a hypocrite. I

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<v Speaker 4>look at my own life and I'll look at how

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<v Speaker 4>I've used debt. I mean, like, right now, I'm struggling

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<v Speaker 4>because I have my primary mortgage. I could strike a

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<v Speaker 4>check to pay it off. It's seventy five thousand dollars,

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<v Speaker 4>but I just having a hard time just writing that

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<v Speaker 4>check because it's two and a half percent interest rate.

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<v Speaker 4>I know. It's not to brag, it's just to give you,

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<v Speaker 4>guys that I really do struggle with some of these

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<v Speaker 4>decisions as well. So here, but let me tell you

0:30:24.040 --> 0:30:26.480
<v Speaker 4>what I've done from a mathematical standpoint, because I've tried

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<v Speaker 4>to balance that when you're young does get wealthy behaviors

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<v Speaker 4>that you need to focus on. When I say young,

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<v Speaker 4>I mean under forty five years of age. Your wealth

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<v Speaker 4>multiplier is so powerful before age forty five that if

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<v Speaker 4>you're trying to pay off a two and a half

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<v Speaker 4>to three percent mortgage before you're saving twenty five percent,

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<v Speaker 4>you have really missed a key opportunity. However, I think

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<v Speaker 4>when you flip the script. Once you get over forty

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<v Speaker 4>five and you've built success, so now it's stay wealthy behaviors.

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<v Speaker 4>We ought to focus on, how do we de risk

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<v Speaker 4>our lives so we actually can stay wealthy and stay

0:30:59.200 --> 0:31:02.400
<v Speaker 4>successful over the long term. But all means, let's pay

0:31:02.440 --> 0:31:05.600
<v Speaker 4>off some of those low interest debts, because now it's

0:31:05.640 --> 0:31:08.320
<v Speaker 4>not a matter of maximization, it's a matter of, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>how do we take some variables off of the playing

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<v Speaker 4>field so that we actually get to keep what we have.

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<v Speaker 4>But it does break my heart when I find out

0:31:16.480 --> 0:31:19.360
<v Speaker 4>a thirty two year old is paying off a three

0:31:19.440 --> 0:31:22.840
<v Speaker 4>or four percent mortgage, especially if they haven't started saving

0:31:22.840 --> 0:31:24.360
<v Speaker 4>and investing twenty five percent.

0:31:24.640 --> 0:31:27.600
<v Speaker 3>Sure, okay, so while we're talking about houses, your guideline

0:31:27.720 --> 0:31:30.640
<v Speaker 3>is for folks to keep their their total home expenses

0:31:30.920 --> 0:31:33.800
<v Speaker 3>under twenty five percent of their gross income, which is

0:31:33.840 --> 0:31:36.280
<v Speaker 3>harder to do these days. And especially for somebody who's

0:31:36.280 --> 0:31:38.320
<v Speaker 3>getting into that first home and they're putting down a

0:31:38.320 --> 0:31:40.600
<v Speaker 3>smaller amount, they're going to see you're going to see

0:31:40.720 --> 0:31:42.840
<v Speaker 3>higher interest payments, You're gonna see a higher mortgage amount.

0:31:42.960 --> 0:31:46.080
<v Speaker 3>I guess I'm curious where things are. Just folks you're

0:31:46.120 --> 0:31:49.000
<v Speaker 3>talking to, are you getting any pushback on that advice

0:31:49.080 --> 0:31:51.800
<v Speaker 3>of the keeping your housing costs under twenty five percent.

0:31:52.240 --> 0:31:54.800
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, this is how Just for clarification, I'm also a

0:31:54.840 --> 0:31:57.680
<v Speaker 4>big proponent, especially for those under forty five, get the

0:31:57.720 --> 0:32:00.560
<v Speaker 4>thirty year mortgage, give yourself as much time, because that

0:32:00.600 --> 0:32:02.520
<v Speaker 4>also allows you to buy a little bit more house.

0:32:03.000 --> 0:32:06.240
<v Speaker 4>You couple that with that lower down payment. I think

0:32:06.280 --> 0:32:09.160
<v Speaker 4>it gives you some flexibility. But by all means, especially

0:32:09.200 --> 0:32:13.200
<v Speaker 4>my listeners that are I like to call my coastal listeners,

0:32:13.240 --> 0:32:16.560
<v Speaker 4>you know, the New York's, the California is, they struggle

0:32:16.600 --> 0:32:18.320
<v Speaker 4>with some of these things. So I say, well, let's

0:32:18.400 --> 0:32:20.720
<v Speaker 4>let's be I want to be honest with you, because

0:32:20.920 --> 0:32:24.120
<v Speaker 4>my system is adaptable. If you live like in New

0:32:24.200 --> 0:32:26.600
<v Speaker 4>York and you don't even own a car, I mean,

0:32:26.720 --> 0:32:28.680
<v Speaker 4>then I'm going to give you a little more grace

0:32:28.720 --> 0:32:30.480
<v Speaker 4>on the twenty five percent. And I talk about this

0:32:30.520 --> 0:32:33.560
<v Speaker 4>in the book, because you don't have the five to

0:32:33.560 --> 0:32:37.680
<v Speaker 4>eight percent that's probably going towards transportation that somebody who

0:32:37.720 --> 0:32:41.120
<v Speaker 4>lives in the suburbs of maybe the Southeast or the

0:32:41.160 --> 0:32:45.560
<v Speaker 4>Midwest has. So if you're in those places especially have

0:32:45.720 --> 0:32:49.600
<v Speaker 4>had been ravished by inflation, I try to give you

0:32:49.640 --> 0:32:52.000
<v Speaker 4>the grace to work through that. But I do think

0:32:52.040 --> 0:32:55.040
<v Speaker 4>for the majority of people out there listening to this

0:32:55.400 --> 0:32:58.960
<v Speaker 4>and hopefully reading Millionaire mission, I would love you to

0:32:58.960 --> 0:33:01.520
<v Speaker 4>have the austerity or the discipline to try to keep

0:33:01.560 --> 0:33:03.720
<v Speaker 4>it at twenty five percent. And the reason is is

0:33:03.760 --> 0:33:05.720
<v Speaker 4>because I want you to be able to not only

0:33:06.080 --> 0:33:07.360
<v Speaker 4>have a house to live in, I want you to

0:33:07.360 --> 0:33:08.800
<v Speaker 4>be able to save for the future, and then I

0:33:08.880 --> 0:33:10.560
<v Speaker 4>want you to be able to make memories. You've got

0:33:10.600 --> 0:33:14.360
<v Speaker 4>to have some margin to live life, to spend some money,

0:33:14.360 --> 0:33:16.000
<v Speaker 4>and that's what I try to put the mindset in

0:33:16.040 --> 0:33:19.000
<v Speaker 4>the book of It. Yes, I'm a maximizer of the math,

0:33:19.240 --> 0:33:21.160
<v Speaker 4>but man oh Man is a guy who's now in

0:33:21.160 --> 0:33:24.480
<v Speaker 4>his fifties. I want you to enjoy every decade ye're

0:33:24.520 --> 0:33:27.440
<v Speaker 4>on this planet. And if you just lock yourself in

0:33:27.480 --> 0:33:30.520
<v Speaker 4>a room for twenty five years until you pop out

0:33:30.560 --> 0:33:32.520
<v Speaker 4>of the toaster of and is a millionaire, I think

0:33:32.600 --> 0:33:35.120
<v Speaker 4>you will have missed a lot of the sweetness of life.

0:33:35.160 --> 0:33:36.880
<v Speaker 4>So that's why I try to help you to balance

0:33:37.360 --> 0:33:40.480
<v Speaker 4>that so you can really have a life well lived.

0:33:41.120 --> 0:33:43.400
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we totally agree with the nuance that you're bringing

0:33:43.440 --> 0:33:45.480
<v Speaker 3>to the conversation here, because yeah, I mean We're not

0:33:45.520 --> 0:33:48.280
<v Speaker 3>guaranteed these additional decades. We're not even guaranteed additional years

0:33:48.360 --> 0:33:50.720
<v Speaker 3>or even days. And I like that balance that you

0:33:50.720 --> 0:33:55.560
<v Speaker 3>strike because, like even the housing conversation, sometime you buy

0:33:55.600 --> 0:33:57.440
<v Speaker 3>a home, sometimes you move. There are things that you

0:33:57.520 --> 0:33:59.920
<v Speaker 3>do that don't financially make sense. But there is more

0:34:00.160 --> 0:34:02.640
<v Speaker 3>to life than just the finances and trying to find

0:34:02.640 --> 0:34:05.320
<v Speaker 3>ways to optimize every single dollar. And yeah, I mean

0:34:05.320 --> 0:34:07.280
<v Speaker 3>that's one of the things I love about just how

0:34:07.280 --> 0:34:09.839
<v Speaker 3>you've written the book. You constantly kind of go back

0:34:09.880 --> 0:34:12.440
<v Speaker 3>to this. But it's good that you know the numbers

0:34:12.480 --> 0:34:14.160
<v Speaker 3>and you know that you know how things work. But

0:34:14.160 --> 0:34:16.080
<v Speaker 3>what are your life goals? What do you want your

0:34:16.080 --> 0:34:18.480
<v Speaker 3>life to look like? Yeah, yeah, I'm curious actually too,

0:34:19.000 --> 0:34:20.799
<v Speaker 3>as folks are. I think there's a lot of folks

0:34:20.840 --> 0:34:23.120
<v Speaker 3>out there and they don't feel financially prepared even to

0:34:23.120 --> 0:34:26.919
<v Speaker 3>have kids, because that's another massive expense. But in my mind,

0:34:26.960 --> 0:34:28.879
<v Speaker 3>that's another one of those sort of life goals, right,

0:34:28.920 --> 0:34:31.520
<v Speaker 3>it's just like, oh, well, this is a huge goal

0:34:31.520 --> 0:34:32.880
<v Speaker 3>of ours, this is what we want our life to

0:34:32.880 --> 0:34:33.160
<v Speaker 3>look like.

0:34:33.160 --> 0:34:34.880
<v Speaker 1>What would you say to those.

0:34:34.680 --> 0:34:36.719
<v Speaker 3>Families, to folks who are trying to weigh the pros

0:34:36.719 --> 0:34:37.760
<v Speaker 3>and cons of having kids.

0:34:38.320 --> 0:34:41.640
<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Man, kids is a big thing, and I definitely

0:34:41.640 --> 0:34:43.400
<v Speaker 4>think this one is one that you want to have

0:34:43.440 --> 0:34:46.960
<v Speaker 4>both the math and the mindset, right. But I think

0:34:47.000 --> 0:34:50.279
<v Speaker 4>also my perspective of coming at this from somebody who's

0:34:50.280 --> 0:34:55.920
<v Speaker 4>in their fifties who's had children, my thoughts toward this

0:34:56.000 --> 0:35:00.319
<v Speaker 4>is a little more sentimental than just the math. And

0:35:00.360 --> 0:35:02.399
<v Speaker 4>I think about the fact of I think a lot

0:35:02.440 --> 0:35:05.880
<v Speaker 4>of people, especially us, financially minded people or financial mutants

0:35:05.920 --> 0:35:09.160
<v Speaker 4>if you read any of my content, is we are

0:35:09.160 --> 0:35:11.840
<v Speaker 4>always worried about affording our kids. But I want to

0:35:11.880 --> 0:35:16.160
<v Speaker 4>tell you get outside of that to a degree because

0:35:16.200 --> 0:35:18.680
<v Speaker 4>I and here's where life is somewhat unfair, is that

0:35:18.719 --> 0:35:22.719
<v Speaker 4>when you're in the having children's stage, you're typically in

0:35:22.760 --> 0:35:25.480
<v Speaker 4>what we call the messy middle, where you're both without money,

0:35:25.920 --> 0:35:31.640
<v Speaker 4>you're without time, and for me having the perspective of

0:35:32.120 --> 0:35:35.280
<v Speaker 4>having older children, but also I don't even mind sharing

0:35:35.320 --> 0:35:38.080
<v Speaker 4>that I have the facet of a child that will

0:35:38.160 --> 0:35:39.960
<v Speaker 4>likely have to live with me for the rest of

0:35:40.000 --> 0:35:43.759
<v Speaker 4>my life because she's got her own struggles, she's on

0:35:43.840 --> 0:35:47.600
<v Speaker 4>the spectrum and we'll need some assistance. But even with

0:35:47.800 --> 0:35:50.880
<v Speaker 4>those type of struggles, I still in this new phase

0:35:50.880 --> 0:35:53.600
<v Speaker 4>of life. I look back on raising these children in

0:35:53.640 --> 0:35:57.080
<v Speaker 4>this messy middle and I have all these blossoming memories.

0:35:57.080 --> 0:35:59.200
<v Speaker 4>And for those who don't know, when I talk about

0:35:59.239 --> 0:36:04.200
<v Speaker 4>blossoming me, this is where there's a tendency with us humans.

0:36:04.680 --> 0:36:08.359
<v Speaker 4>Is that as you get more time beyond when you're

0:36:08.440 --> 0:36:11.799
<v Speaker 4>going through struggles or going through events of life, you

0:36:11.880 --> 0:36:13.799
<v Speaker 4>find that when you look back on the memories, they

0:36:13.840 --> 0:36:16.480
<v Speaker 4>actually get better with time. Some of the negative stuff

0:36:16.960 --> 0:36:20.080
<v Speaker 4>falls off, or it becomes a funny antidote or something

0:36:20.080 --> 0:36:23.200
<v Speaker 4>that makes the story that much more special or the

0:36:23.239 --> 0:36:26.280
<v Speaker 4>memory that much more special. And I think that happens

0:36:26.719 --> 0:36:28.920
<v Speaker 4>as a parent, for sure. And so that's why when

0:36:28.960 --> 0:36:31.319
<v Speaker 4>you hear all these voices in society right now saying, hey,

0:36:31.320 --> 0:36:35.040
<v Speaker 4>don't go get married, don't have kids, I'm here to

0:36:35.080 --> 0:36:36.759
<v Speaker 4>be that counter voice to tell you I'm on the

0:36:36.800 --> 0:36:39.839
<v Speaker 4>other side of that. And I even heard my own daughter,

0:36:39.840 --> 0:36:42.960
<v Speaker 4>you know, my oldest daughters and just she's in her twenties,

0:36:43.520 --> 0:36:46.799
<v Speaker 4>and she was expressing that she had concerns about having

0:36:46.880 --> 0:36:50.319
<v Speaker 4>children because she didn't consider herself a kid person. And

0:36:50.400 --> 0:36:52.200
<v Speaker 4>I was like, honey, I'm the exact same way. I

0:36:52.200 --> 0:36:56.879
<v Speaker 4>would never classify myself as the kid person who wanted

0:36:56.880 --> 0:36:59.840
<v Speaker 4>to go smell all the babies and all that stuffs

0:36:59.840 --> 0:37:02.240
<v Speaker 4>you see people. But I am one of those people

0:37:02.239 --> 0:37:05.239
<v Speaker 4>that even if you're not a kid person, I can

0:37:05.719 --> 0:37:08.840
<v Speaker 4>pretty much promise you when you get that blessing of

0:37:09.239 --> 0:37:13.879
<v Speaker 4>a newborn, you're going to love that child. And and

0:37:13.480 --> 0:37:16.680
<v Speaker 4>and what's unfair, because I keep talking about the unfairness,

0:37:16.680 --> 0:37:18.880
<v Speaker 4>but this is important that you have this context. Is

0:37:19.160 --> 0:37:21.960
<v Speaker 4>that I know for me is that as I've gotten

0:37:22.000 --> 0:37:24.600
<v Speaker 4>older and I'm getting more sentimental, your your children will

0:37:24.640 --> 0:37:27.800
<v Speaker 4>get more and more independent. And that's just one of

0:37:27.840 --> 0:37:29.799
<v Speaker 4>those things that you'll struggle with. And that's why I've

0:37:29.840 --> 0:37:31.520
<v Speaker 4>often thought, man, if I had to do this all

0:37:31.560 --> 0:37:34.560
<v Speaker 4>over again, we might have had kids a little sooner.

0:37:35.160 --> 0:37:38.520
<v Speaker 4>We might have had even more kids, because I as

0:37:39.040 --> 0:37:43.000
<v Speaker 4>I enter this wisdom phase of life, I've realized money

0:37:43.040 --> 0:37:45.399
<v Speaker 4>is just a tool, and it's a balance of both

0:37:45.440 --> 0:37:49.040
<v Speaker 4>that math the mindset, but also having the life well lived.

0:37:49.640 --> 0:37:52.200
<v Speaker 4>And I do think that there is a sweetness to

0:37:52.320 --> 0:37:56.000
<v Speaker 4>having children, even if you have struggles. It's just it's

0:37:56.239 --> 0:37:59.080
<v Speaker 4>one of those things that I've really looked into on

0:37:59.200 --> 0:38:02.680
<v Speaker 4>my life. But I'll also have liked to share it

0:38:03.080 --> 0:38:04.839
<v Speaker 4>and kind of pay it forward. So people who are

0:38:04.840 --> 0:38:06.440
<v Speaker 4>on that balance are trying to figure out how to

0:38:06.480 --> 0:38:08.640
<v Speaker 4>be good with money but also make sure I have

0:38:08.680 --> 0:38:11.360
<v Speaker 4>that life well lived. And even if I'm considering children,

0:38:11.800 --> 0:38:16.000
<v Speaker 4>these are the things I've experienced after, you know, thirty

0:38:16.080 --> 0:38:18.680
<v Speaker 4>years of saving and investing in twenty years of being

0:38:18.680 --> 0:38:19.080
<v Speaker 4>a parent.

0:38:19.680 --> 0:38:22.319
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean, that's beautifully said, and I'm curious to

0:38:22.320 --> 0:38:23.879
<v Speaker 2>hear you talk. You talk about in the book about

0:38:23.880 --> 0:38:26.279
<v Speaker 2>the opportunity cost of debt, and so we've talked about

0:38:26.280 --> 0:38:29.839
<v Speaker 2>maybe some of the reality that certain kinds of good

0:38:29.880 --> 0:38:32.239
<v Speaker 2>debt can accelerate your ability to build wealth. Maybe don't

0:38:32.239 --> 0:38:34.520
<v Speaker 2>shy away from I mean, don't take on as much

0:38:34.520 --> 0:38:36.560
<v Speaker 2>student loan debt as you possibly can, but also don't

0:38:36.600 --> 0:38:38.120
<v Speaker 2>like avoid it completely.

0:38:38.200 --> 0:38:38.759
<v Speaker 1>Or maybe you're.

0:38:38.680 --> 0:38:41.279
<v Speaker 2>Buying a house, Hey five percent down is enough to

0:38:41.760 --> 0:38:44.880
<v Speaker 2>make sure that you realize that dream. But then there

0:38:44.880 --> 0:38:47.719
<v Speaker 2>are other kinds of debt where there's a massive opportunity costs. Right,

0:38:47.719 --> 0:38:49.960
<v Speaker 2>it's not just that you're paying for past purchases, but

0:38:50.000 --> 0:38:52.719
<v Speaker 2>it's what that's preventing you from being able to do right.

0:38:53.040 --> 0:38:55.960
<v Speaker 4>So debt, I think it's important to remember debt is

0:38:56.040 --> 0:38:59.279
<v Speaker 4>definitely dangerous, but at the end of the day, it's

0:38:59.360 --> 0:39:04.479
<v Speaker 4>still is a financial tool. And I like to say

0:39:04.480 --> 0:39:05.840
<v Speaker 4>on the show all the time is that you have

0:39:05.920 --> 0:39:08.799
<v Speaker 4>to begin with the end in mind. And when I

0:39:08.840 --> 0:39:11.719
<v Speaker 4>say that, what I'm actually talking about is that when

0:39:11.719 --> 0:39:15.280
<v Speaker 4>you talk about the concept, especially in this situation, debt,

0:39:15.760 --> 0:39:17.840
<v Speaker 4>you have to ask yourself are you using debt to

0:39:17.960 --> 0:39:22.880
<v Speaker 4>build or using debt to consume? And you mentioned a

0:39:22.920 --> 0:39:25.520
<v Speaker 4>few examples in the question, but let's talk about like

0:39:25.560 --> 0:39:31.480
<v Speaker 4>student loans. Student loans have the opportunity to be really

0:39:31.600 --> 0:39:33.880
<v Speaker 4>good for you if they give you the opportunity to

0:39:34.440 --> 0:39:37.560
<v Speaker 4>earn more money or build a better financial life for yourself.

0:39:37.840 --> 0:39:41.120
<v Speaker 4>But that all comes back to the earning potential. What's

0:39:41.120 --> 0:39:44.680
<v Speaker 4>the actual return on investment that you will actually get

0:39:44.680 --> 0:39:47.000
<v Speaker 4>off of taking on that student loan debt? Is it

0:39:47.040 --> 0:39:49.600
<v Speaker 4>going to actually increase your earning potential over life? So

0:39:49.640 --> 0:39:51.920
<v Speaker 4>that's why you've got to pay attention to where do

0:39:51.960 --> 0:39:54.160
<v Speaker 4>you go to school. You're going to pay attention to

0:39:54.680 --> 0:39:57.680
<v Speaker 4>you what's your major in school? And those type of

0:39:57.760 --> 0:40:01.359
<v Speaker 4>things will impact that return on it investment. And then

0:40:01.560 --> 0:40:03.600
<v Speaker 4>you know, I try to stay away from all the

0:40:03.600 --> 0:40:05.640
<v Speaker 4>consumption debt. You know, that's why I try to avoid

0:40:05.640 --> 0:40:08.719
<v Speaker 4>the high car payment, try to avoid the credit card debt,

0:40:08.760 --> 0:40:11.320
<v Speaker 4>because that's just all spending, that's all consumption, that's not

0:40:11.360 --> 0:40:14.120
<v Speaker 4>actually trying to help you build anything. And I think

0:40:14.120 --> 0:40:18.560
<v Speaker 4>it's important to talk about the power of leverage debt

0:40:18.640 --> 0:40:23.239
<v Speaker 4>because I would be a hypocrite if I didn't share that, Yes,

0:40:23.400 --> 0:40:28.120
<v Speaker 4>I have used debt to actually multiply my wealth, especially

0:40:28.120 --> 0:40:29.879
<v Speaker 4>when I look at some of the things I've done

0:40:30.000 --> 0:40:33.480
<v Speaker 4>later in my financial life of doing commercial debt and

0:40:33.920 --> 0:40:39.319
<v Speaker 4>other levered products. The reason this works is because when

0:40:39.360 --> 0:40:44.000
<v Speaker 4>you use debt to build, you're only putting down a

0:40:44.040 --> 0:40:46.239
<v Speaker 4>small sum of money as a down payment on the

0:40:46.280 --> 0:40:49.440
<v Speaker 4>asset that you're purchasing with the debt, and is the

0:40:49.560 --> 0:40:51.920
<v Speaker 4>total asset goes up in value, and since you've only

0:40:51.960 --> 0:40:54.799
<v Speaker 4>put down a small amount, you're getting full return on

0:40:54.840 --> 0:40:57.200
<v Speaker 4>the full market value of the asset that can be

0:40:58.239 --> 0:41:02.120
<v Speaker 4>exponentially bigger. So that's the good side of using leverage debt.

0:41:02.120 --> 0:41:06.240
<v Speaker 4>But remembers this cuts both ways, because where this gets

0:41:06.320 --> 0:41:09.880
<v Speaker 4>dangerous is that when you're putting down such a small

0:41:09.920 --> 0:41:12.839
<v Speaker 4>amount of money on such a big asset and then

0:41:12.840 --> 0:41:16.080
<v Speaker 4>you're financing it through interest, especially these higher interest rates

0:41:16.080 --> 0:41:20.280
<v Speaker 4>we're facing right now if anything in your assumptions goes wrong,

0:41:20.760 --> 0:41:24.480
<v Speaker 4>you're now responsible for the carry costs, the maintenance, and

0:41:24.560 --> 0:41:27.200
<v Speaker 4>all the other expenses that come with that on the

0:41:27.480 --> 0:41:30.719
<v Speaker 4>entire endeavor. And you can see how very quickly this

0:41:30.800 --> 0:41:35.520
<v Speaker 4>can go sideways and destroy your financial life. So I

0:41:35.600 --> 0:41:37.960
<v Speaker 4>always tell people, you know, it's back to bringing this

0:41:38.000 --> 0:41:40.399
<v Speaker 4>full circle if you've got to begin with the end

0:41:40.440 --> 0:41:43.520
<v Speaker 4>in mind and the fact that there's nothing wrong with

0:41:43.719 --> 0:41:48.479
<v Speaker 4>debt if you're disciplined, there's nothing wrong with using leverage debt.

0:41:48.560 --> 0:41:51.480
<v Speaker 4>I think on big assets or good assets, you know,

0:41:51.840 --> 0:41:54.600
<v Speaker 4>like your first house with only putting down three to

0:41:54.680 --> 0:41:57.160
<v Speaker 4>five percent as long as it stays below your twenty

0:41:57.200 --> 0:42:00.319
<v Speaker 4>five percent of your gross income. Or when you get

0:42:00.360 --> 0:42:03.520
<v Speaker 4>to step eight of the financial order of operations, where

0:42:03.560 --> 0:42:05.920
<v Speaker 4>you have your good financial foundation underneath you and you

0:42:05.960 --> 0:42:09.160
<v Speaker 4>want to start investing in either residential or commercial real estate,

0:42:09.800 --> 0:42:13.840
<v Speaker 4>that works because you've actually got the assets to support

0:42:13.920 --> 0:42:16.560
<v Speaker 4>you in case the debt goes sideways. But if you

0:42:16.600 --> 0:42:18.480
<v Speaker 4>try to fake it until you make it, I think

0:42:18.480 --> 0:42:22.719
<v Speaker 4>you'll find out very quickly that debt can be chainsaw dangerous. Yes,

0:42:22.760 --> 0:42:25.520
<v Speaker 4>it can be effective, but it also can damage you

0:42:25.880 --> 0:42:27.200
<v Speaker 4>to the point where you'll never be.

0:42:27.160 --> 0:42:27.840
<v Speaker 1>Able to recover.

0:42:28.480 --> 0:42:30.799
<v Speaker 2>We've got more to get to with Brian, including we're

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<v Speaker 2>going to hold his feet to the fire. How does

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<v Speaker 2>the financial advisor model work? And what does he think

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<v Speaker 2>of his profession these days. We'll get to some questions

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<v Speaker 2>on that when we get back from this break.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, we are back from the break, and just

0:42:49.480 --> 0:42:52.960
<v Speaker 3>a second ago, Brian, you're talking about we were talking

0:42:52.960 --> 0:42:56.480
<v Speaker 3>about paying interests, we're talking about debt, and you're talking

0:42:56.480 --> 0:42:59.960
<v Speaker 3>about being transparent. We'll talk to us about the pay

0:43:00.080 --> 0:43:04.000
<v Speaker 3>metal for advisors because in your book you say this,

0:43:04.120 --> 0:43:06.239
<v Speaker 3>you say that everyone who works in finance has a

0:43:06.280 --> 0:43:10.840
<v Speaker 3>conflict of interest and you're included in that. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>for sure, I appreciate the honesty. But yeah, what I

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<v Speaker 3>want to know is, like what questions should individuals have

0:43:16.000 --> 0:43:18.520
<v Speaker 3>about how their advisors get paid and the services they

0:43:18.560 --> 0:43:21.239
<v Speaker 3>should expect, you know, just to at least bring some

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<v Speaker 3>of these conflicts out in the open as the folks

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<v Speaker 3>are starting to have those conversations.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I feel like that there's some things unique things

0:43:27.680 --> 0:43:30.400
<v Speaker 4>going on in social media where they're you know, essentially

0:43:30.440 --> 0:43:34.279
<v Speaker 4>not telling the complete truth on everything. Like we just

0:43:34.360 --> 0:43:37.200
<v Speaker 4>covered this first, I'll give you the short answer, I

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<v Speaker 4>like thee only fiduciary advisors. But the thing, and by

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<v Speaker 4>the way, if you're looking at this is the category

0:43:44.000 --> 0:43:47.400
<v Speaker 4>of people that actually join NAPA x Y Planning Network

0:43:47.440 --> 0:43:50.880
<v Speaker 4>or Garrett and they actually, in addition to the government

0:43:50.920 --> 0:43:54.000
<v Speaker 4>fiduciary standard, they actually sign o saying that hey, I

0:43:54.040 --> 0:43:57.759
<v Speaker 4>am prioritizing that I'm going to put my client's interest

0:43:57.840 --> 0:44:00.640
<v Speaker 4>ahead of my own. That's only around two percent of

0:44:00.680 --> 0:44:04.560
<v Speaker 4>the entire industry of financial planning. Now what has got

0:44:04.600 --> 0:44:07.040
<v Speaker 4>a lot of attention is that there are three different

0:44:07.080 --> 0:44:10.560
<v Speaker 4>models within that fee only. There is body hour, there

0:44:10.640 --> 0:44:14.640
<v Speaker 4>is retainer, and then there's the traditional AUM model. And

0:44:14.680 --> 0:44:17.160
<v Speaker 4>I feel like a lot of there's people going after

0:44:17.360 --> 0:44:21.120
<v Speaker 4>the AUM advisors because it's traditionally around one percent of

0:44:21.160 --> 0:44:24.120
<v Speaker 4>assets under management. They take that one percent and then

0:44:24.120 --> 0:44:26.520
<v Speaker 4>they do a cool math exercise where they say, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>if you grow your assets to ten million dollars, if

0:44:29.040 --> 0:44:31.600
<v Speaker 4>you pay an advisor, it would only be seven point

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<v Speaker 4>nine million or something like that. What they fail to

0:44:34.239 --> 0:44:37.520
<v Speaker 4>tell you that is is it's is your assets get bigger,

0:44:37.880 --> 0:44:41.120
<v Speaker 4>your fee actually goes down. So they're actually overstating the

0:44:41.160 --> 0:44:44.440
<v Speaker 4>fees by almost twice as much because I know, for

0:44:44.520 --> 0:44:47.880
<v Speaker 4>like an R model, once you have three million dollars,

0:44:47.920 --> 0:44:50.160
<v Speaker 4>it drops down too point seventy five. Once you're five million,

0:44:50.200 --> 0:44:54.000
<v Speaker 4>it's a half a percent, and that dramatically changes it.

0:44:54.000 --> 0:44:56.520
<v Speaker 4>And then you take into account the Vanguard and the

0:44:56.600 --> 0:44:59.359
<v Speaker 4>Russell study, it says, get outside of the investments. I mean,

0:44:59.360 --> 0:45:01.400
<v Speaker 4>we bought in funds for our clients, so it's not

0:45:01.440 --> 0:45:03.400
<v Speaker 4>like we're even trying to beat the market. That's not

0:45:03.440 --> 0:45:05.360
<v Speaker 4>what you hired a financial advisor. If you have a

0:45:05.400 --> 0:45:08.600
<v Speaker 4>financial advisor and how they're doing is managing your investments,

0:45:08.960 --> 0:45:12.479
<v Speaker 4>you're probably not in the right place, because yeah, maybe

0:45:12.480 --> 0:45:15.600
<v Speaker 4>there's some discussion on that. And that's by the way,

0:45:15.880 --> 0:45:18.399
<v Speaker 4>I am the person that in two thousand and six said,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what, I hate that the only people I

0:45:20.040 --> 0:45:24.040
<v Speaker 4>can actually help build wealth are super successful families. So

0:45:24.080 --> 0:45:25.920
<v Speaker 4>I'm going to start just giving it away. And I've

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<v Speaker 4>kind of had this whole abundant cycle mantra for eighteen

0:45:30.560 --> 0:45:32.880
<v Speaker 4>years where I've just been given away so much information.

0:45:33.400 --> 0:45:35.440
<v Speaker 4>But the thought is also and by the way, it

0:45:35.480 --> 0:45:39.000
<v Speaker 4>didn't start this way, but I've realized later on that yes,

0:45:39.040 --> 0:45:41.560
<v Speaker 4>we have started meeting clients this way. Is that I

0:45:41.560 --> 0:45:43.319
<v Speaker 4>don't want you to come to me until you feel

0:45:43.360 --> 0:45:47.040
<v Speaker 4>like complexity is kicking you all over the place. You know,

0:45:46.719 --> 0:45:49.520
<v Speaker 4>if you're simple, meaning that you're just on the journey

0:45:49.560 --> 0:45:51.799
<v Speaker 4>trying to get a twenty to twenty five percent, you

0:45:51.800 --> 0:45:54.440
<v Speaker 4>have your first child, and you're you know, after you

0:45:54.480 --> 0:45:56.640
<v Speaker 4>got married, and you just need to buy some term

0:45:56.719 --> 0:46:00.480
<v Speaker 4>life insurance and you need a will. Your situation so simple,

0:46:00.520 --> 0:46:03.560
<v Speaker 4>you shouldn't hire anybody. We give you so much free advice.

0:46:04.000 --> 0:46:06.319
<v Speaker 4>That's where you should be. But you will find as

0:46:06.360 --> 0:46:08.920
<v Speaker 4>you own businesses, as you own real estate, as your

0:46:08.960 --> 0:46:12.160
<v Speaker 4>tax return is going all over the place, as your

0:46:12.200 --> 0:46:15.440
<v Speaker 4>tax margin rates are going up, as your distribution and

0:46:16.160 --> 0:46:18.840
<v Speaker 4>you know, all those things kick in with tax planning.

0:46:19.080 --> 0:46:22.200
<v Speaker 4>You're like, man, I've only done this once. It should

0:46:22.280 --> 0:46:24.720
<v Speaker 4>be nice to bring somebody in who's done this before.

0:46:25.239 --> 0:46:27.880
<v Speaker 4>And that's where I feel like, you know, it's actually

0:46:27.880 --> 0:46:29.960
<v Speaker 4>a deal. I mean, because if you're when you're when

0:46:29.960 --> 0:46:33.000
<v Speaker 4>you have a three million dollar portfolio and the market

0:46:33.040 --> 0:46:35.919
<v Speaker 4>loses twenty percent, I mean, if you if you walk

0:46:35.920 --> 0:46:39.000
<v Speaker 4>away from six hundred grand right there because you were like,

0:46:39.040 --> 0:46:41.440
<v Speaker 4>well I'm right, or die to total market or s

0:46:41.480 --> 0:46:44.200
<v Speaker 4>and P five hundred and you didn't and you're not

0:46:44.239 --> 0:46:46.560
<v Speaker 4>doing all the estate planning everything else. I think you

0:46:46.600 --> 0:46:48.480
<v Speaker 4>go find it hits a little different than when you

0:46:48.480 --> 0:46:51.320
<v Speaker 4>have one hundred and fifty or three hundred thousand dollars

0:46:51.600 --> 0:46:53.800
<v Speaker 4>and you lose that same ten or twenty percent. Beginning,

0:46:53.840 --> 0:46:57.040
<v Speaker 4>you don't even have the complexities. So I always say, look,

0:46:57.120 --> 0:46:59.959
<v Speaker 4>I think it's like most things, there's what looks good

0:47:00.080 --> 0:47:02.759
<v Speaker 4>on the chart in social media, but personal finance is

0:47:02.880 --> 0:47:05.759
<v Speaker 4>very personal and I look at it no different than

0:47:06.280 --> 0:47:09.759
<v Speaker 4>like I read Outlive by Peter Atia, you know, on

0:47:09.840 --> 0:47:12.320
<v Speaker 4>for medical stuff, and I think it's great that he

0:47:12.600 --> 0:47:15.120
<v Speaker 4>wrote this book that laid out how to be better

0:47:15.200 --> 0:47:18.440
<v Speaker 4>with your own personal health. But nobody ever gets mad

0:47:19.280 --> 0:47:22.440
<v Speaker 4>at Peter that the way he makes his living is

0:47:22.480 --> 0:47:25.040
<v Speaker 4>that for very successful people, he runs a high end

0:47:25.080 --> 0:47:27.920
<v Speaker 4>concierge medical practice. And by the way, I go to

0:47:27.960 --> 0:47:30.160
<v Speaker 4>a high end medical concierge practice. I pay a lot

0:47:30.200 --> 0:47:32.160
<v Speaker 4>of money to go to my doctor because I want

0:47:32.239 --> 0:47:34.719
<v Speaker 4>him to have a relationship with me and not have

0:47:34.800 --> 0:47:37.040
<v Speaker 4>to treat me as just a file that he pulls

0:47:37.040 --> 0:47:39.960
<v Speaker 4>from the wall or digitally to see. I want him

0:47:39.960 --> 0:47:42.719
<v Speaker 4>to know, hey, Brian struggles with this. He's paying a

0:47:42.760 --> 0:47:45.280
<v Speaker 4>lot of money to me so he can keep his health,

0:47:45.320 --> 0:47:48.160
<v Speaker 4>because he's worth a lot more alive than he is dead.

0:47:48.440 --> 0:47:50.480
<v Speaker 4>I think your finances are the same way.

0:47:50.520 --> 0:47:50.600
<v Speaker 3>Now.

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<v Speaker 4>Of course I have a conflict. I've worked in this industry,

0:47:53.880 --> 0:47:55.480
<v Speaker 4>but I think that if you know me, and that's

0:47:55.480 --> 0:47:57.520
<v Speaker 4>what I tried to lay out in the book, you

0:47:57.719 --> 0:48:00.319
<v Speaker 4>know where my heart is. You can tell tell what

0:48:00.360 --> 0:48:02.280
<v Speaker 4>I'm trying to do with that heart of an educator

0:48:02.280 --> 0:48:04.320
<v Speaker 4>to get people to be the best version of themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>I love all the.

0:48:05.200 --> 0:48:07.080
<v Speaker 4>People who come and tell me what a scoundrel I

0:48:07.120 --> 0:48:10.279
<v Speaker 4>am as they're taking all my free information, and I'm like,

0:48:10.440 --> 0:48:12.400
<v Speaker 4>just keep taking the free stuff. I could use a

0:48:12.440 --> 0:48:14.480
<v Speaker 4>lot less of you throwing dirt on me on the

0:48:14.520 --> 0:48:17.719
<v Speaker 4>way out, but please, I want This is an abundance

0:48:17.840 --> 0:48:19.960
<v Speaker 4>mindset that I have. That's why I wrote a book. People,

0:48:20.320 --> 0:48:23.520
<v Speaker 4>I had a guy postos. I see you've completed your

0:48:23.560 --> 0:48:25.480
<v Speaker 4>millionaire mission by writing that book. I'm like, you have

0:48:25.640 --> 0:48:26.839
<v Speaker 4>obviously never written a book.

0:48:26.920 --> 0:48:28.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, the economics of book writing it not great.

0:48:28.960 --> 0:48:31.120
<v Speaker 4>It's not I would make a lot more money selling

0:48:31.160 --> 0:48:34.359
<v Speaker 4>another course or go and taking a sponsorship. We are

0:48:34.480 --> 0:48:36.600
<v Speaker 4>very purposeful that we don't do a lot of that

0:48:36.640 --> 0:48:39.120
<v Speaker 4>stuff because I really do have this mindset. I want

0:48:39.160 --> 0:48:41.440
<v Speaker 4>you to know how money works. I want you to

0:48:41.480 --> 0:48:45.120
<v Speaker 4>be good with your money, maximize the moments. And that's

0:48:45.160 --> 0:48:47.480
<v Speaker 4>why I don't have a problem talking about how I

0:48:47.480 --> 0:48:51.080
<v Speaker 4>get paid, because I really do believe it. And that's

0:48:51.120 --> 0:48:53.680
<v Speaker 4>why I give everybody that roses is that I think

0:48:53.680 --> 0:48:56.279
<v Speaker 4>there's a place for hourly advisors. I think there's a

0:48:56.280 --> 0:48:59.160
<v Speaker 4>place for retainer advisors. But I also think that for

0:48:59.320 --> 0:49:01.799
<v Speaker 4>high end klon I'm not going to apologize. I think

0:49:01.800 --> 0:49:05.400
<v Speaker 4>there's a great place for that ongoing relationship because nobody

0:49:05.480 --> 0:49:07.640
<v Speaker 4>ever talks about the dumbar principle either. You know, it's

0:49:07.680 --> 0:49:10.600
<v Speaker 4>a lot of research that shows humans just don't do

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<v Speaker 4>well beyond one hundred and fifty relationships. And I think

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<v Speaker 4>about that a lot. With every one of my advisors

0:49:16.840 --> 0:49:20.000
<v Speaker 4>and even myself, we respect those numbers, Whereas I think

0:49:20.040 --> 0:49:24.759
<v Speaker 4>a lot of other firm layouts or fee structures they

0:49:24.800 --> 0:49:28.279
<v Speaker 4>maximize five hundred relationships, four hundred relationships, and that's just

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<v Speaker 4>a different service model is not something I believe in.

0:49:31.400 --> 0:49:33.960
<v Speaker 4>So I try to give free to everybody that can

0:49:33.960 --> 0:49:37.440
<v Speaker 4>take free. But if you want personal time, that's expensive

0:49:37.520 --> 0:49:39.719
<v Speaker 4>because I only have so much time, and my advisors

0:49:39.760 --> 0:49:40.880
<v Speaker 4>only have so much time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, I mean just succinctly what you were just

0:49:44.239 --> 0:49:46.120
<v Speaker 2>saying there. You say in the book success has the

0:49:46.160 --> 0:49:48.319
<v Speaker 2>side effect of complexity, and I think it's so true that,

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<v Speaker 2>like you're doing the DIY stuff over a number of years,

0:49:51.840 --> 0:49:53.920
<v Speaker 2>you're kind of in the messy middle, training to navigate,

0:49:53.960 --> 0:49:56.440
<v Speaker 2>trying to contribute to those retirementcounts, trying to grow your

0:49:56.440 --> 0:49:58.759
<v Speaker 2>net worth, and then at some point you might hit

0:49:59.719 --> 0:50:01.919
<v Speaker 2>a spot in your life where you're like, I feel

0:50:01.920 --> 0:50:03.239
<v Speaker 2>like I'm in over my head. I feel like I

0:50:03.280 --> 0:50:05.040
<v Speaker 2>need maybe some of them more of that, you know,

0:50:05.400 --> 0:50:08.120
<v Speaker 2>tax advice, because I'm getting into some new territory, and

0:50:08.120 --> 0:50:10.440
<v Speaker 2>that's maybe when an advisor becomes necessary. I think sometimes

0:50:10.440 --> 0:50:13.080
<v Speaker 2>it's like, you're twenty two, you don't need a financial advisor,

0:50:13.120 --> 0:50:14.880
<v Speaker 2>but hey, maybe you will when you're forty. THROO, hopefully

0:50:14.880 --> 0:50:17.080
<v Speaker 2>you will if you've had that much success. One of

0:50:17.120 --> 0:50:19.640
<v Speaker 2>the other things you say is that success and a

0:50:19.680 --> 0:50:22.440
<v Speaker 2>high savings rate mean that you can fund what you

0:50:22.480 --> 0:50:25.000
<v Speaker 2>call abundance goals. That sounds like a lot of fun

0:50:25.200 --> 0:50:26.520
<v Speaker 2>are what are abundance goals?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I mean for a lot of people, it's just

0:50:28.440 --> 0:50:30.520
<v Speaker 4>you know, now as we load up the kids college

0:50:30.560 --> 0:50:32.399
<v Speaker 4>funds and those type of things. But I also can mean,

0:50:32.800 --> 0:50:35.480
<v Speaker 4>you know, those once in a lifetime trips for me

0:50:35.600 --> 0:50:37.279
<v Speaker 4>it was you know, I drive a little bit nicer

0:50:37.320 --> 0:50:39.040
<v Speaker 4>car now because I was just you know, these are

0:50:39.080 --> 0:50:42.320
<v Speaker 4>the things where you do it for yourself, not to flex,

0:50:42.480 --> 0:50:44.320
<v Speaker 4>like you know, I feel like that's where our society

0:50:44.360 --> 0:50:47.120
<v Speaker 4>is now, is that we tell you how go go

0:50:47.200 --> 0:50:49.520
<v Speaker 4>show everybody how successful you are. But I think that

0:50:49.680 --> 0:50:51.719
<v Speaker 4>like you know, you get to a point with like

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<v Speaker 4>step eight, you can now do the nicer retirements, you

0:50:53.880 --> 0:50:56.000
<v Speaker 4>can need it, the nicer restaurants, You can do things

0:50:56.040 --> 0:51:00.440
<v Speaker 4>because your automatic wealth creation system is already that up

0:51:00.480 --> 0:51:03.600
<v Speaker 4>for you. So now that the margin or spread from

0:51:03.640 --> 0:51:05.719
<v Speaker 4>some of those life decisions just not gonna hurt you

0:51:05.760 --> 0:51:08.040
<v Speaker 4>like it would if you were skipping out on the

0:51:08.120 --> 0:51:11.319
<v Speaker 4>roth IRA or maxing out your employer plant. It's all

0:51:11.360 --> 0:51:13.759
<v Speaker 4>beyond that. And also real estate, I mean, I love

0:51:13.800 --> 0:51:15.239
<v Speaker 4>real estate, but you just got to, like I said,

0:51:15.239 --> 0:51:17.560
<v Speaker 4>it's time or place on where if you're going to

0:51:17.640 --> 0:51:18.440
<v Speaker 4>jump into that.

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<v Speaker 3>Make some of those smart decisions early on follow of

0:51:20.480 --> 0:51:23.560
<v Speaker 3>the sacrifice, you too can drive that Tessa Plaid enjoy

0:51:24.520 --> 0:51:26.680
<v Speaker 3>like you do Probalyan. But uh hey, if if folks

0:51:26.719 --> 0:51:29.640
<v Speaker 3>wanted to get more Brian Preston in their life worship folks,

0:51:29.880 --> 0:51:30.359
<v Speaker 3>go for that.

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<v Speaker 4>No, man, I've been hanging out at the same place

0:51:32.719 --> 0:51:34.400
<v Speaker 4>for the last eighteen years. You can just go to

0:51:34.440 --> 0:51:36.960
<v Speaker 4>moneyg dot com and you know, and that's why I

0:51:37.040 --> 0:51:39.120
<v Speaker 4>love that I get to hang out with with you

0:51:39.200 --> 0:51:41.279
<v Speaker 4>guys and and see you when we get in those

0:51:41.280 --> 0:51:44.439
<v Speaker 4>creator communities. Is because this is fun. If I can

0:51:44.560 --> 0:51:46.840
<v Speaker 4>help hold the ladder for someone to become a better

0:51:46.960 --> 0:51:49.759
<v Speaker 4>version of themselves, We're gonna keep doing this. I know

0:51:49.800 --> 0:51:51.359
<v Speaker 4>you guys are part of that. But I'd love if

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<v Speaker 4>you want to go check out money do dot com

0:51:52.920 --> 0:51:55.520
<v Speaker 4>and if you want free stuff, because leaning back on

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<v Speaker 4>moneyguide dot com. Slash resources will load you up with

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<v Speaker 4>all kind of downloadable tools and resources.

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<v Speaker 1>Awesome, Brian, always a pleasure, my friend. Thanks so much

0:52:05.480 --> 0:52:06.399
<v Speaker 1>for coming on the show today.

0:52:06.440 --> 0:52:07.799
<v Speaker 4>I can't wait to see you guys soon.

0:52:08.280 --> 0:52:10.480
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, hopefully we will see Brian seeing we didn't mention this,

0:52:10.520 --> 0:52:12.240
<v Speaker 3>but did he mention that he's up in Tennessee.

0:52:12.280 --> 0:52:15.439
<v Speaker 1>He's not that far from us. Here in Atlanta. Close. Yeah,

0:52:15.440 --> 0:52:17.480
<v Speaker 1>we're real close, Southeast Unite.

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<v Speaker 3>Awesome conversation though with Brian preston his new book Millionaire Mission.

0:52:23.120 --> 0:52:25.560
<v Speaker 3>But yeah, Joel, did you have a takeaway? I feel

0:52:25.560 --> 0:52:27.160
<v Speaker 3>like we covered a lot of ground and we're able

0:52:27.200 --> 0:52:29.440
<v Speaker 3>to get a lot of some of the you know,

0:52:29.480 --> 0:52:31.600
<v Speaker 3>like rules of thumb, the points of view that Brian

0:52:32.120 --> 0:52:34.040
<v Speaker 3>espouses and talks about there on his show.

0:52:34.040 --> 0:52:36.240
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, what was your big takeaway for today?

0:52:36.400 --> 0:52:38.840
<v Speaker 2>I think the biggest takeaway I had was when he

0:52:38.880 --> 0:52:41.359
<v Speaker 2>said make the good habits as easy as possible, make

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<v Speaker 2>the bad ones as hard as possible, and like he

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<v Speaker 2>was speaking even at the end there towards our human

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<v Speaker 2>propensity to do things that aren't in our own best interest.

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<v Speaker 2>And part of that is not saving enough. Part of

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<v Speaker 2>that is maybe ill timed investments or trying to time

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<v Speaker 2>the market. And oh, hey, market set at all time high.

0:52:57.440 --> 0:52:59.879
<v Speaker 2>Maybe I should just, like I don't know, pull money

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<v Speaker 2>out for a little bit, stickening cash because cash is

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<v Speaker 2>paying more. But then look what happened. What's happened with

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<v Speaker 2>the markets over the past eighteen months. Like it's a

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<v Speaker 2>foolish thing to do, right, And a financial advisor would

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<v Speaker 2>potentially help you avoid some of those mistakes.

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<v Speaker 1>Well.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think it's so true is when we make

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<v Speaker 2>the good habits easy instead of having to make a

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<v Speaker 2>decision every single time to do the right thing, if

0:53:19.520 --> 0:53:22.440
<v Speaker 2>we put it on an autopilot and the decision is being

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<v Speaker 2>made in our behalf without you know, really our brain

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<v Speaker 2>having to do anything for us, like make the decision

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<v Speaker 2>once and then put it on repeat, that's such a

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<v Speaker 2>great way to help yourself out. And so I like

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<v Speaker 2>that agree the bad habits, maybe something as simple as

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<v Speaker 2>like putting the phone out of your room at night

0:53:38.280 --> 0:53:39.799
<v Speaker 2>or something like that, if you're trying to watch less

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<v Speaker 2>TV on your phone, like that's a habit thing, or

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<v Speaker 2>laying out your clothes to run the night before, Like

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<v Speaker 2>those are little things to make the good habits easier,

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<v Speaker 2>make the bad habits, you know, less easy to succumb to.

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<v Speaker 3>I totally agree. You want to minimize your ability to

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<v Speaker 3>make financial, like long lasting financial mistakes.

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<v Speaker 1>Specifically, MY big takeaway.

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<v Speaker 3>Is going to come down to him sort of reflecting,

0:53:59.200 --> 0:54:01.040
<v Speaker 3>like he was talking about how he's you know, he's like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm in my fifties now, and he's thinking back to

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<v Speaker 3>what it is that is most important to him. And

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<v Speaker 3>when it comes to your money, man, it is like

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<v Speaker 3>there's a fine line to walk as you're trying to

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<v Speaker 3>balance optimizing your dollars to you know, to reach your

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<v Speaker 3>different financial goals with the things that make life worth living.

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<v Speaker 3>Like it's just so hard, like and what he's talking

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<v Speaker 3>about there are relationships, and so I think that's just

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<v Speaker 3>so important for us. Even though this is how to

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<v Speaker 3>money and we're talking about all the different things that

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<v Speaker 3>you can do with your money in order to in

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<v Speaker 3>order to grow your net worth, at the end of

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<v Speaker 3>the day, oftentimes it does come down to things that

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<v Speaker 3>we already have, the things that we overlook, the things

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<v Speaker 3>that we take for granted. And man, because what you

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<v Speaker 3>don't want is to be at a ripe old age

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<v Speaker 3>and you're looking back on your life and to have

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<v Speaker 3>a whole lot of not financial regrets or I guess

0:54:46.320 --> 0:54:48.439
<v Speaker 3>they could be financial, the fact that you maybe work

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<v Speaker 3>too much or save too much, or held on to

0:54:51.120 --> 0:54:53.760
<v Speaker 3>money as opposed to deploying some of those funds to

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<v Speaker 3>be able to add to memories, to allow those memories

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<v Speaker 3>to blossom into kind of you know, the things that

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<v Speaker 3>your kids and your friends of family that they talk about.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, it's easy to go so hard notices to

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<v Speaker 2>the grindstone that you miss out on the things that

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<v Speaker 2>really matter along the way, and then you end up

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<v Speaker 2>with a big nest egg and you're like, but I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, way too focused on that. And that's why

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<v Speaker 2>I think the craft beer equivalent really can be helpful

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<v Speaker 2>to a lot of people. Like that is something we

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<v Speaker 2>intentionally spend money on. What's that for you? Like, call

0:55:16.880 --> 0:55:18.479
<v Speaker 2>that out in your life, write it down, talk about

0:55:18.480 --> 0:55:21.000
<v Speaker 2>it with your partner, and think through those things. What

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<v Speaker 2>is it we're intentionally spending money on in the here

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<v Speaker 2>and now while we're trying to do the smart thing

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<v Speaker 2>for our future. There's got to be the balance. There's

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<v Speaker 2>got to be some of both, that's right. So, speaking

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<v Speaker 2>of Kraft Beer, you want to introduce the beer that

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<v Speaker 2>you know all right day. I found this one at

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<v Speaker 2>the beer store. This is by Service Brewing. It's called

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<v Speaker 2>Savannah Banana Beer, and the Savannah Bananas are like a

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<v Speaker 2>minor league baseball team with all sorts of goofy antics

0:55:43.000 --> 0:55:45.799
<v Speaker 2>in the what is that southeast corner of the state.

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah, Matt, so this is an ale brewed with bananas.

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<v Speaker 1>What were your thoughts on.

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<v Speaker 3>It definitely had notes of banana. So well, I'm going

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<v Speaker 3>to share a little peak behind the curtain as to

0:55:56.600 --> 0:55:58.400
<v Speaker 3>what our life is like here in the office. You know,

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<v Speaker 3>this beer tastes like it tastes like the water that

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<v Speaker 3>we filter through our Brita filter in the summer. Because

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<v Speaker 3>here is why everything on our fridge tastes like bananas.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's not because of this beer.

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<v Speaker 3>It's because in the summer, every morning, you and I

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<v Speaker 3>we both eat a banana as we're enjoying our coffee,

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<v Speaker 3>which is.

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<v Speaker 2>Pretty weird, I guess when you not really, I mean,

0:56:16.840 --> 0:56:18.440
<v Speaker 2>who doesn't we like eat a bana at the same time.

0:56:18.480 --> 0:56:20.439
<v Speaker 1>It's really it's odd, I guess.

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<v Speaker 3>So yeah, it's kind of as we're kind of catching up,

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<v Speaker 3>but with it being warmer, I don't know, the flies

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<v Speaker 3>find the banana peels that we will throw in the trash,

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<v Speaker 3>and then you get those fat, slow flying fruit flies whatever,

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<v Speaker 3>and they.

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<v Speaker 1>Just like take over the office.

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<v Speaker 3>And so as the temperatures start to rise in the summer,

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<v Speaker 3>we take our banana peels and we throw them in

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<v Speaker 3>the freezer to kind of like walk away the smell.

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<v Speaker 3>And then at the end of the week we dump

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<v Speaker 3>it in the trash. That was your wife's ideah, throw

0:56:45.760 --> 0:56:47.400
<v Speaker 3>it away, I guess it was. Yeah, But what that

0:56:47.440 --> 0:56:49.080
<v Speaker 3>does is it makes our It makes our water tastes

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<v Speaker 3>like banana, and that's what this beer tastes like. It

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<v Speaker 3>tastes like a beer that has been stored in the

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<v Speaker 3>same fridge as well, frozen bananas.

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<v Speaker 2>You put bananas next to anything, and the taste of

0:56:58.960 --> 0:57:01.480
<v Speaker 2>banana will get in used into whatever. That If you

0:57:01.520 --> 0:57:03.640
<v Speaker 2>put your banana next to your bag of anything, like

0:57:04.440 --> 0:57:06.600
<v Speaker 2>your bread, whatever, your bread's gonna start taste like banana.

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<v Speaker 1>It's amazing. It just kind of like imfiltrates. Really, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>that's what they did with this beer.

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<v Speaker 3>All they had to do is just like it's just

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<v Speaker 3>like a banana warehouse.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, next to where they rot the beer. Maybe just

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<v Speaker 1>by being in the general vicinity in the same building.

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<v Speaker 3>It was hard for me to get past that the

0:57:20.240 --> 0:57:21.919
<v Speaker 3>fact that, oh, this say, is just like the water

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<v Speaker 3>that we poured from our britta filter.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, it wasn't like heavy on bananas. It was pretty

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<v Speaker 2>very very light banana, like a solid pill light on

0:57:28.280 --> 0:57:31.200
<v Speaker 2>the banana. So yeah, very approachable and just kind of fun.

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<v Speaker 2>Because even though I've not been to a Savannah Bananas game.

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<v Speaker 1>It's yet. Yeah, we need to do it.

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<v Speaker 3>It'll be it should be a lot of fun, like yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>I mean they like dance the whole time. It's it's

0:57:39.080 --> 0:57:40.960
<v Speaker 3>kind of ridiculous. I'm sure for folks who actually love

0:57:41.080 --> 0:57:44.680
<v Speaker 3>to watch baseball, they're like, this is so annoying. But

0:57:45.440 --> 0:57:48.360
<v Speaker 3>evidently it's a fun time for the whole family. But

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<v Speaker 3>I will make sure to link to Brian's website where

0:57:50.840 --> 0:57:52.360
<v Speaker 3>you can check out his new book, where you can

0:57:52.440 --> 0:57:55.160
<v Speaker 3>check out him and Bow. They are the hosts of

0:57:55.360 --> 0:57:57.000
<v Speaker 3>The Money Guys Show, and you can find all that

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<v Speaker 3>up on the website at howtomoney dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>No doubt, let's gonna do it for this one. Until

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<v Speaker 2>next time, best Friends Out and best Friends Out.