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Speaker 2: Yeah, she just loves this country, he sure does.

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Speaker 1: But one of our listeners is freaking out over what

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Speaker 3: Her to maybe take it down.

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Speaker 1: Yike, you're gonna hear why it's so controversial while we

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Speaker 1: awkward Tuesday phone call right after this, It's awkward.

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Speaker 4: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 1: Awkward family dynamics isn't a new concept now. Families have

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Speaker 1: been making things weird with each other for centuries. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: So yeah, nothing new there.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but in.

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Speaker 1: The modern digital age, we've unlocked brand new ways to

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Speaker 1: today's call. One of our listeners, Peter's, reached out because

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Speaker 1: he's facing a particularly distressing issue with a member of

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Speaker 3: So, Peter, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 4: Hey, guys, how you doing it?

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Speaker 2: Sounds like better than you?

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Speaker 1: Oh sucks to be you, Peter.

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Speaker 2: Like having a call of radio station for family drum.

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Speaker 2: It must be serious, that's all right?

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Speaker 3: Yes, okay, all right, Peter.

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Speaker 1: We're here to support you despite the tone of how

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Speaker 4: Here's the deal. My, uh, my parents separated about eight

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Speaker 4: But yeah, last year, my dad was telling us that

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Speaker 2: Dad's usually are older.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, No, I mean I mean like post sixty.

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Speaker 4: That was the first shocking thing. But then the second

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Speaker 2: Oh, how are you in your twenties or your thirties.

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Speaker 4: I'm twenty five years younger than my father.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, I know, hold on, that's cute. But worry

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Speaker 2: Or is it just awkward to call her mom?

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Speaker 4: Where it was a lot of things.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I mean when I met her, I thought,

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Speaker 4: I mean, they got married, and they got married.

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Speaker 5: Why it's not like an apple pie that she just baked.

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Speaker 2: Now what so like, if you're married, you can't post

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Speaker 2: You need to grow up and understand that wives can

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Speaker 1: I don't think he's saying that the wife isn't allowed

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And I understand that she is an attractive woman.

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Speaker 4: It's just maybe I'm not explaining this well enough. These

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Speaker 1: It's especially for someone who's in a brand new marriage

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Speaker 2: I think, more than anything, it's probably uncomfy that you

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Speaker 4: Look, I didn't say hot. It's attractive.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you could.

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Speaker 2: Say she's and your guy friends follow her and send

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Speaker 4: That's weird. I just don't want to hear words like smelt.

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Speaker 4: You know, I don't want to cause drama. I just

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Speaker 5: I think it is brought up a good point. You

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I mean it makes him uncomfortable no matter

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Speaker 1: We need to give you advice on how to respectfully

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Speaker 3: All that she's the same agent. You're the one who

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Speaker 1: Okay, we'll let you say that to your mom coming up.

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Speaker 3: Right after this. Not mom, not yeah, not mom, Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Well, this is a new

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Speaker 2: That's so ruthless.

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Speaker 1: It's because she's posting some salacious photos of herself on there,

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Speaker 2: We got to stop calling him her his step mom.

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Speaker 2: I know technically that's true, but it's not like she's

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Speaker 3: What's a better term for her that you would feel

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's so much, Peter.

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Speaker 3: Are you comfortable add's new hot wife?

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Speaker 2: I think the way you need to approach this is

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Speaker 3: I love the photos.

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Speaker 1: I think you look sexy, but the rest of my

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Speaker 2: Need to go that far, but just go the angle

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Speaker 2: of like you're trying to be a little protected, yea

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Speaker 3: That's actually pretty good advice. So Peter locked that in Jose,

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Speaker 5: So you got to think from her perspective. Right on Instagram,

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Speaker 4: I mean, I can't imagine that I'm the first person

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Speaker 4: imagine that.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to imagine that that is actually.

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Speaker 1: We'll just keep that in mind and we'll back away.

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Speaker 4: Hello, Hi, Alissa, it's it's Peter. How you doing.

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Speaker 6: Oh I didn't I didn't relate, so it this you.

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Speaker 3: I don't know, Hey, Peter.

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Speaker 6: Sorry, sorry, can you hold on a second. I just

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Speaker 4: You don't even cooked. Okay, all right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so this is kind of uncomfortable for me to

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Speaker 4: What photos? Yeah, you're married to my dad now, and

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Speaker 6: All right, Well you called me to complain about them,

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Speaker 4: Look, it's not just me. I'm also trying to look

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Speaker 6: Wait, hold on, I'm stuck. Do you think those are

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Speaker 6: Do you want to see a thirst trap photo.

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Speaker 4: Photo? No? I don't. If I don't want to see

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Speaker 6: Those are team compared to like what I was posting

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Speaker 4: Okay, I to hear that. I just I think about

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Speaker 6: Wow, Okay, clearly you don't know your father like at all.

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Speaker 4: I think I know him pretty well. I knew him

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Speaker 6: One who took those photos. He told me to post

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Speaker 2: Really, you got to train the guy.

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, Waite, who are all these people? What

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Speaker 3: Yeah? These people?

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Speaker 1: ALYSSA is a radio show called Brooke and Jeffrey in

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Speaker 6: On right now.

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Speaker 4: And you handled that so well?

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Speaker 2: What Like?

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Speaker 6: This was a radio called Peter, what are you doing?

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Speaker 1: This is a segment we do called Awkward Tuesday phone called.

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Speaker 1: Peter reached out to us because he didn't know the

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Speaker 1: right way to have this conversation with you that the

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Speaker 1: some other people in his family feel a little bit uncomfortable.

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Speaker 2: We keep saying that, but really it's just making Peter uncomfortable.

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Speaker 2: What's happening. Peter doesn't know how obviously anyone else feels,

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Speaker 4: I can't imagine that he would do that. Maybe if

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Speaker 5: He doesn't understand social media, so he's like, sure posted

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Speaker 6: Yeah, he definitely knows social media. Like obviously he looks

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Speaker 4: I can't imagine that he would. My father's an accountant,

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Speaker 2: My hot mother is an accountant, and she will tell

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of repressed emotions there then to come out.

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Speaker 1: And now your dad is in his second stage of life.

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Speaker 6: It sounds like, yeah, he's he's into photography now. Cool,

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Speaker 4: To him his news.

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Speaker 4: I mean, good for you that you you look young

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Speaker 1: Clearly a lot for Peter to process. He didn't understand

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Speaker 2: Just don't follow her in stuff for a little bit.

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Speaker 6: It makes you feel more comfortable. I could maybe make

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Speaker 5: Wow, that's a big compromise.

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Speaker 1: That's unnecessary.

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Speaker 2: That's she calls him his creepy friends.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that sucks for all of us. But Peter, would

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Speaker 4: I feel more comfortable about it, and I think that

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Speaker 2: She really is a protective step mom.

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Speaker 3: Wow, Mela.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, and I'll make sure Peter we have another photo

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Speaker 4: What you want, don't I don't need to hear about them.

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Speaker 2: Peter supports, and I want to follow her brooking Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: Text into seventy eight five nine two. It says I

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Speaker 3: Can you pass my number on to her?

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Speaker 1: I think that's the exact opposite of what Peter's goal

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Speaker 1: was entering his call. But hey, you snooze, you lose Pete.

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Speaker 1: You were giving the chance, you declined. Now we're offering

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Speaker 2: Peter's stepmom and Stacy's mom, you know they're like, what

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Speaker 1: If the hot young moms want to post photos of themselves,

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Speaker 1: for God's sakes, do not stop them.

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Speaker 3: What are you're crazy?

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Speaker 2: What the hot mom's.

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Speaker 1: Post and the hot dads and the ugly moms and

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Speaker 1: We need all those photos and we also need you

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Speaker 1: to help us get content. So if you're dealing with

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Speaker 2: And also follow our socials. You're not going to find

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