1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,440 Speaker 1: Now here's a highlight from Coast to Coast AM on 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:06,920 Speaker 1: iHeart Radio. There you go to some other people who 3 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:09,240 Speaker 1: hanging out. I'll go to h. Thomas, who's in La 4 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:12,480 Speaker 1: Joya on Coast to Coast AM, who's been hanging on 5 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:16,239 Speaker 1: for a while. Thomas, Hi, Ian. Thank you for taking 6 00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:20,760 Speaker 1: my call. And I want to thank you for your 7 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:26,239 Speaker 1: service and your compassion and wisdom and counsel as a 8 00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: teacher and as a deacon. And I was calling about 9 00:00:33,120 --> 00:00:39,919 Speaker 1: a very interesting interview with Laurie Nadell. Oh. Yeah, you 10 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:46,879 Speaker 1: asked the right questions. I want to talk about, you know, 11 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 1: in your experience as a doctor of divinity, storytelling, metaphor parables, 12 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 1: particularly as Gee used parables, you know, as recorded in 13 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:10,440 Speaker 1: the New Testament. In a sense, they are placebos. They're 14 00:01:10,480 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 1: like sugar pills to the unconscious. And I was wondering 15 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 1: if you Ion, I always enjoy your sharing of your 16 00:01:22,560 --> 00:01:26,920 Speaker 1: personal experience. I was wondering if you would share perhaps 17 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 1: an experience you had in terms of counseling a student 18 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:36,959 Speaker 1: or perhaps you know as a deacon men and women, 19 00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:41,480 Speaker 1: and in which you used a parable or a story 20 00:01:42,160 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 1: or a metaphor too well as a placebo. Well, I 21 00:01:47,680 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 1: don't know. That's a really interesting concept, so I'll put it. 22 00:01:51,440 --> 00:01:54,160 Speaker 1: Let's hang on to that together, don't go anywhere. So 23 00:01:54,280 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 1: first of all, just to be clear, I don't have 24 00:01:56,920 --> 00:01:59,520 Speaker 1: a Doctor of Divinity of a Masters of Divinity, and 25 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:02,720 Speaker 1: then I got a PhD. So that's the I want 26 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 1: to say that, just to be in the to be transparent, 27 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:09,480 Speaker 1: the I may get a Doctor of Divinity someday just 28 00:02:09,600 --> 00:02:11,919 Speaker 1: so I could be doctor doctor, but I haven't haven't 29 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 1: done that, so I've never really thought about that as 30 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:20,560 Speaker 1: having a placebic effect. But it's a fair point. Here's 31 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:24,079 Speaker 1: where how I look at parables. So I think in 32 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:27,120 Speaker 1: life and you can talk about counseling. My big push 33 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 1: for people all the time is towards something we call orthopraxis, 34 00:02:33,040 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 1: as opposed to orthodoxy, because orthodoxy is elusive. When we say, 35 00:02:40,320 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 1: well that's you know, the orthodox thinking. You're not thinking right, 36 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 1: it's not right thinking. And here's how you are supposed 37 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:50,399 Speaker 1: to think about it, And I think what happens over time? 38 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:52,080 Speaker 1: Of course, we can look and we can see any 39 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:57,080 Speaker 1: organization over time changes what they consider to be orthodoxy. 40 00:02:57,639 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 1: And in a lot of ways, what was yesterday's heresy 41 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 1: is tomorrow's orthodoxy. We see that in all sorts of 42 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:08,120 Speaker 1: ways in our life. And orthopraxis, however, is kind of 43 00:03:08,120 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: a cooler concept, which is the idea of right practice. 44 00:03:11,280 --> 00:03:14,400 Speaker 1: And it's less focused on the conclusion, and it's more 45 00:03:14,400 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 1: focused on how we behave or how we act. And 46 00:03:17,880 --> 00:03:22,799 Speaker 1: I think acting right is different than thinking right. And 47 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:26,440 Speaker 1: so that's where the parables come into it, because parables, 48 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 1: I mean, if anybody speaks to you in a parable form, 49 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:34,000 Speaker 1: they are intentionally avoiding saying don't do this, do that, 50 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:38,360 Speaker 1: because we often have a reaction to somebody says, don't 51 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: ever you know, don't hitchhike, don't ever hitchhike. That's just dump. 52 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: Don't ever do that. And and so that's that's that's 53 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 1: the kind of orthodoxy of these do knots thou shalt 54 00:03:50,160 --> 00:03:54,480 Speaker 1: not kind of stuff. But when we tell parables, it 55 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:59,760 Speaker 1: uncovers something within the mind of the receiver. So parables 56 00:03:59,800 --> 00:04:04,960 Speaker 1: may you personalize the story being told, and suddenly you're 57 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:09,680 Speaker 1: that person who's standing there with a rock in your hand, 58 00:04:09,800 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 1: and are you going to throw it or not? As 59 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:17,279 Speaker 1: that we get into a parable you know about throwing stones, 60 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:21,160 Speaker 1: and I think that part is interesting. So it's trigguing 61 00:04:21,200 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: that you think of it as a placebo. I have 62 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 1: to give it that more thought because I think there's 63 00:04:24,640 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 1: some real value in that. But that's what I think 64 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: of when I think about about parables. It's the resistance 65 00:04:34,000 --> 00:04:36,719 Speaker 1: that we have to try to be just purely didactic 66 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:41,000 Speaker 1: and just go bad dog, bad dog, good dog, and 67 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:44,799 Speaker 1: instead we tell a story about dogs, and then we're 68 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 1: the ones who decide whether we're the good dog or 69 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 1: the bad dog in the story. What do you think 70 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:52,599 Speaker 1: of that? I like that, Ian. I always appreciate your 71 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 1: wisdom and your personal sharing of experience and yeah, thank you. Well, 72 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:01,040 Speaker 1: that's very nice you appreciate that, Thomas. Of course, one 73 00:05:01,080 --> 00:05:05,799 Speaker 1: person's wisdom is another person's blather. 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