WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Ghost Date Hijack 

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<v Speaker 1>Are we going to a brand new second day podcast

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<v Speaker 1>for you? Good morning, Welcome morning Monday.

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning, said Jee, I have your.

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<v Speaker 3>Tea ready for you here.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want tea coffee.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh gosh, angry, but we we will learn.

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<v Speaker 4>I think one of the most baller moves ever to

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<v Speaker 4>get a date.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, yes, this guy got it.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. It's kind of a snipe.

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<v Speaker 3>That's what I like to call it.

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<v Speaker 2>This guy kind of snipe.

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<v Speaker 3>It's a little.

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<v Speaker 4>Borderline creepy to That's what I was gonna say.

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<v Speaker 5>Next.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, its so before we get to that comments Yes,

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<v Speaker 6>Achula said, I've only seen a picture of you all,

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<v Speaker 6>and for years I assumed Jeff was Jose and Jose

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<v Speaker 6>was Jeff. Then I saw a video of everyone talking

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<v Speaker 6>and was shook that I had the voices mixed up

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<v Speaker 6>all this time.

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<v Speaker 4>And now I think.

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<v Speaker 6>Jeff's voice belongs on Jose and Jose's voice belongs on Jeff.

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<v Speaker 4>It's just better that way.

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<v Speaker 3>Really, it's interesting, I think.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, Jeff's been confused for a Latino a lot lately,

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<v Speaker 2>he really has. I don't know. Maybe we are, maybe

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<v Speaker 2>we're working together so long, we're like becoming the same. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm becoming why he's becoming Brad?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, yeah, I could see it. I could see it.

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<v Speaker 5>All right.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, let's get to your brand new second date right now,

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<v Speaker 4>Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date update.

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<v Speaker 7>We've had this happen before, where someone will come on

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<v Speaker 7>the show saying they want another date because their first

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<v Speaker 7>hangout got totally hijacked.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, like, maybe somebody else showed.

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<v Speaker 7>Up, right, Usually it's like a mom who shows up unexpected,

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<v Speaker 7>or who is so many asked to be there. Maybe

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<v Speaker 7>it's that hunky firefighter who just happened to be in

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<v Speaker 7>the restaurant checking the smoke alarms that night with his

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<v Speaker 7>shirt off.

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<v Speaker 4>You can reach so high, sir.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, but what do you do when your date is

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<v Speaker 7>hijacked and no one is there?

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<v Speaker 4>What is it? Do you know the definition of hijacking?

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<v Speaker 7>I know you just it sounds confusing, But our listener

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<v Speaker 7>Rocky says that absolutely happened to him and he's hoping

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<v Speaker 7>for a REDOCE So, Rocky, welcome to the show man.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, thanks for having me, guys day, your date was

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<v Speaker 1>hijacked by no one, at least no one that we're

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<v Speaker 1>aware of.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, it's clear, but tell us the story of

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<v Speaker 3>what happened.

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<v Speaker 8>So we we met on the app Coffee meets Bagel.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, yeah, we've heard of that one a couple of times. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>it's supposed to be more casual, right.

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<v Speaker 8>Right, yeah, we're we're both into everything bagels. So we connected.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh it's actually about bagels.

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<v Speaker 3>Is that the rule on the app? You can only

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<v Speaker 3>talk about pastries or coffee?

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<v Speaker 8>No? No, but that is the topic that brought us together.

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<v Speaker 4>All right, I mean good everything bagel.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, right, I get the conversation rolling.

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<v Speaker 8>So we ended up going out to dinner and I

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<v Speaker 8>brought her to this like medium upscale restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>I know exactly what you're talking about. It's like nicer

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<v Speaker 2>than normal, but it's not like a fancy, fancy steakhoup.

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<v Speaker 3>We've all been a claim jumper before. I know that's

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<v Speaker 3>like slaps the medium upscale. Oh it's so good, right,

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<v Speaker 3>So what happen?

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<v Speaker 4>So?

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, first off, she looks amazing. You know, we're

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<v Speaker 8>getting to know each other, and as soon as we

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<v Speaker 8>get in, the waiter immediately comes by and puts a

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<v Speaker 8>couple of drinks on the table before we even order.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, you didn't order the drinks.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like, oh, not water, you're talking about like

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<v Speaker 2>drink drinks.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh yeah, like like alcoholic drink.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, did they did?

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<v Speaker 4>They get the order confused and put them on the

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<v Speaker 4>run table.

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<v Speaker 2>That happens, I mean.

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<v Speaker 5>Lucky you.

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<v Speaker 8>Well that's what I thought.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 8>I'm like, sorry, that's not ours. We haven't ordered yet,

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<v Speaker 8>right okay, and he goes, no, sir, these drinks are

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<v Speaker 8>actually taken care of someone.

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<v Speaker 4>Bought them before you.

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<v Speaker 1>Well cute though, like maybe there's like an old married

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<v Speaker 1>couple sitting at the bar and they like see two qts.

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<v Speaker 8>On a date.

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<v Speaker 7>They got that order in real fast. Then if they

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<v Speaker 7>just see them walking in the Quicker Quick or maybe

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<v Speaker 7>the thing where someone's being charitable and they go, look

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<v Speaker 7>the next couple, that's possible.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, do you find out who sent them over?

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<v Speaker 8>No? And so that's like I'm confused. She's confused, Like

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<v Speaker 8>they gave me a mohito and she got an espresso martini.

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<v Speaker 4>Which great taste of drinks, apparently.

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<v Speaker 8>Is her number one favorite drink.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean that's me. I'm sorry. Between age twenty eight

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<v Speaker 4>and thirty six, it's going to be their number one drink.

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<v Speaker 8>But that's the thing. It's like, So she's going off

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<v Speaker 8>about that, and I'm asking her, did you tell anyone

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<v Speaker 8>that we were gonna be here?

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<v Speaker 1>And she's like, no, okay, is this the hijacking that

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<v Speaker 1>you're talking about?

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<v Speaker 4>Is it that's all you talked about all night?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 8>But it gets even more strange.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh oh okay.

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<v Speaker 8>So the waiter comes back and he takes her order

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<v Speaker 8>and he says, just so you know, anything you get

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<v Speaker 8>is cupped tonight.

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<v Speaker 4>Did you're like, wait, I gotta change my order with that? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 8>Right, exactly. Wait why the waiter said he wasn't at

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<v Speaker 8>liberty to say why? Oh no, Maybe goes on to

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<v Speaker 8>tell us we have a very nice bottle of why

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<v Speaker 8>waiting for us as well, and they can bring it

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<v Speaker 8>out whatever we like.

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<v Speaker 3>Dude, Oh my god, that's amazing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so funny. The insecurities in me are like, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>supposed to be spoiling you.

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<v Speaker 4>You're getting demasculated by a surprise.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe the universe just really ples you do to have

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<v Speaker 1>to take a fun experience together, like being shocked by

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<v Speaker 1>the free stuff.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, except like having everything fully paid for felt like

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<v Speaker 8>it was the worst thing ever because it was the

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<v Speaker 8>only thing we talked about.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude, that's wild that the waiter didn't give you any hits,

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<v Speaker 1>Like did he drop any knowledge that you could have

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<v Speaker 1>gotten a clue from.

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<v Speaker 8>No, nothing, And we figured it must have just been

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<v Speaker 8>somebody she knows that's close to her, because because they

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<v Speaker 8>knew her drink.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, the drink. I mean it could have been good

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<v Speaker 2>time martini.

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<v Speaker 4>Your chances are so high if somebody like it.

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<v Speaker 1>But you would figure by the end of the day

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<v Speaker 1>or even the next day, the person would reveal themselves.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, they would tell you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that doesn't happen at all.

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<v Speaker 8>No, we get her dinner, And I just personally feel

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<v Speaker 8>very deflated, like it kind of undermined me the entire

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<v Speaker 8>time and and hijack the attention of the whole night.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you want to feel like a provider and you

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<v Speaker 2>didn't get to provide.

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<v Speaker 7>Plus, like it sucks that you want to spend time

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<v Speaker 7>actually like having a conversation about each other, and the

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<v Speaker 7>entire time all you can talk about is who is

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<v Speaker 7>watching us?

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<v Speaker 4>You don't think she took it as like fun though.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, the only issue is that it would have been great.

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<v Speaker 7>But Rocky is getting avoided now. It sounds like because like,

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<v Speaker 7>what's happened since your dinner?

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<v Speaker 5>Right?

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<v Speaker 8>Well, I talked to her the day after and she

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<v Speaker 8>sang to me and I was like, you don't have

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<v Speaker 8>to thank me. I didn't do anything.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. Okay, you would think it would bond you,

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<v Speaker 2>kind of like what Brooks said, Like it'd be so

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<v Speaker 2>memorable you guys would talk about it again.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, but she's not responding to any of my text

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<v Speaker 8>so I don't know if she knows or not.

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<v Speaker 7>We all want answers, So we're gonna call this woman.

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<v Speaker 7>And I'm just I'm assuming that you don't want us

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<v Speaker 7>to offer to pay, because that'd be undermining you too,

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<v Speaker 7>act like you're the guy.

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<v Speaker 2>You're the random ghost that did that paid for everything.

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<v Speaker 7>I'd like to find out who it is and see

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<v Speaker 7>if she's willing to give up that information.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe you need to take her to a high upscale

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<v Speaker 1>instead of just mid next time problem.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, if you're wanting to pay for so.

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<v Speaker 7>Much, this is going to be a great learning opportunity

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<v Speaker 7>for you, Rocky. When we come back and get your

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<v Speaker 7>second date update hijack style.

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<v Speaker 1>Right after this, Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Second

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<v Speaker 1>Date Update, Well, this.

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<v Speaker 7>Is an intriguing second date update we've got today. One

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<v Speaker 7>of our listeners, Rocky, went out with an attractive woman

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<v Speaker 7>that he met on a dating app and they went

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<v Speaker 7>to a restaurant where everything was paid for.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah did she pay?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Did Rocky pay?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Nobody knows who paid for anything.

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<v Speaker 7>It was apparently some mystery person who comped the entire

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<v Speaker 7>evening for them and then never identified themselves.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's funny that he's like it took over our

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<v Speaker 1>conversation because it definitely took over this room's conversation as well.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you know, it's all we could talk about, and.

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<v Speaker 7>That was kind of the issue for him. He felt

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<v Speaker 7>like he never got a chance to actually connect with

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<v Speaker 7>her about anything other than who is here and is

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<v Speaker 7>buying all of our stuff, So.

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<v Speaker 3>You'd feel like someone's watching you totally.

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<v Speaker 7>So, yes, we do want to get Rocky another hangout

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<v Speaker 7>with this woman, but honestly, we're kind of more curious

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<v Speaker 7>to find out who did this for them and why.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, Rocky, you degree like you need some closure

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<v Speaker 1>in order to make the second date successful, right, Yeah?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, because if we go on another date, this is

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<v Speaker 8>all we're going to talk about again.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we will.

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<v Speaker 4>Try our best nut to only talk about that.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, what do you like Rocky? What what do we

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<v Speaker 3>know about you? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 8>He likes mohidos, mohidos, mohidos, daggles and coffee.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, thank you for refreshing my memory here. Okay, I'm

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<v Speaker 7>gonna dial her number. Let's see if she picks up.

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<v Speaker 5>Hello, Hi, is this my sty Misty?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just reading it smelled with two whys? You're two

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<v Speaker 3>wise in your name?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah I have.

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<v Speaker 4>If there's two why, I'm.

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<v Speaker 7>Sorry, I was just reading it off the paper and

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<v Speaker 7>I got confused. My bad, Hi, Misty. This is a

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<v Speaker 7>radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, sorrys not the smartest show, obviously not the best introduction, but.

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<v Speaker 7>We're really eager to talk to you because we're doing

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<v Speaker 7>something called a second date update.

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<v Speaker 8>Okay, all right, Okay.

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<v Speaker 7>That's where we help out our listeners who go out

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<v Speaker 7>with somebody and afterwards they're not getting a call back.

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<v Speaker 7>We can try to reach out on their behalf and

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<v Speaker 7>maybe figure out the reason why. And your date really

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<v Speaker 7>has captivated our attention because it was with a guy

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<v Speaker 7>named Rocky.

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<v Speaker 4>You got that one?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you check the comp rock guy. Do you remember

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<v Speaker 3>going out with a guy named Roy?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? Yeah, yeah, no I do.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, sounded like a wild date, right, what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean maybe the date wasn't wild, but the stuff

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<v Speaker 1>that happened on it.

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<v Speaker 5>Was uh huh oh that it was paid for.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that's what we heard.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I know that was crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they have any.

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<v Speaker 2>More info about that?

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<v Speaker 4>Like did you find out who it was?

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<v Speaker 8>Oh?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah you do.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, we've been we've been dying to know because we

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<v Speaker 7>heard from Rocky the whole situation that unfolded, and he

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<v Speaker 7>feels like that mystery may have kind of overshadowed the

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<v Speaker 7>romantic aspect of you two getting to know each other.

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<v Speaker 5>I can see that, Okay, Okay. I also had no idea,

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<v Speaker 5>and I was like, it must be someone that I know,

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<v Speaker 5>because they must know that I love Espresso Martin like

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<v Speaker 5>I love Espresso Martini.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, it's like you like him that much. It's part

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<v Speaker 4>of your personality.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, more so than I would like to admit.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, Okay, all right, so obviously you.

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<v Speaker 5>But then like no one, like it wasn't my mom,

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<v Speaker 5>it wasn't my bestie, Oh my god?

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<v Speaker 4>Were you texting everyone after the date?

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<v Speaker 5>Like, yeah, well I also didn't tell any of them

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<v Speaker 5>where I was going, Like, the only person I told

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<v Speaker 5>was my mom, and she didn't do it.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, so how do you find out who?

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<v Speaker 5>Well? Okay, so here's the thing. I had some like

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<v Speaker 5>deliveries that I was getting like a couple days ago,

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<v Speaker 5>so I went outside to like sign for them, and

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<v Speaker 5>my mailman asked how my date was?

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<v Speaker 3>Wait?

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<v Speaker 5>What? Yeah? So then we started talking and then he

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<v Speaker 5>asked me how is my espresso martini? Specifically?

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, your mail man paid for your date?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so I thought I had a full blown stalker

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<v Speaker 5>on my hands.

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<v Speaker 4>First, Yeah, what would make you say otherwise?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay? Okay. So then so then what he was telling

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<v Speaker 5>me was that a couple of days before the date,

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<v Speaker 5>then I had come out again to sign for some packages,

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<v Speaker 5>and that was when I was on the phone talk

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<v Speaker 5>to my mom about the date, and I said, like,

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<v Speaker 5>it was going to be at that restaurant and.

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<v Speaker 3>It was gonna Oh so he knew you were going

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<v Speaker 3>to be there.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, he heard the time and place, and he like

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<v Speaker 5>made this grand gesture.

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<v Speaker 2>Why, I mean, in a weird way.

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<v Speaker 3>Was he just being nice?

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<v Speaker 2>Like an old guy that just doesn't understand how weird

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<v Speaker 2>it was.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh no, no, no, he's not old. He's very handsome.

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<v Speaker 1>He's a hotmail man with great cabs.

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<v Speaker 4>They all have good cabs.

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<v Speaker 5>He's got all that walking going on.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, but.

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<v Speaker 5>I thought it was sweet. No one's ever done anything

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<v Speaker 5>like that for me before.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, the question still stands is like was he doing

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<v Speaker 7>it as a sweet gesture, as like I have fun

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<v Speaker 7>on your date or was there something selfish behind it?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh? He expressed some feelings?

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<v Speaker 4>What?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh? Yeah? Yeah, So I order a lot of packages,

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<v Speaker 5>either like for work or for my personal life, like

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<v Speaker 5>we see each other a lot. So I asked him

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<v Speaker 5>how he knew to order me a special Markini. I

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<v Speaker 5>ordered so many disposable espresso cups.

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<v Speaker 3>He delivers them for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Attention remembers what you get in the mail too.

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<v Speaker 3>That's an attentive mail man. My male people know me.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, you know it has a giant like espresso

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<v Speaker 5>label on it. It's not like he's rooting through my mail.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, maybe it's.

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<v Speaker 4>Just a lot of red flags flying up for me here.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, there's a few, but it's less creepy than we

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<v Speaker 7>originally thought that this is well, he's not just some

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<v Speaker 7>stranger male guy.

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<v Speaker 3>They know each other, they talk.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, it a boundary.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we may think, but Misty thought it was a

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<v Speaker 3>nice gesture.

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<v Speaker 4>Have you gone out with the Mailman?

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<v Speaker 5>No, we're going out next weekend.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, we're divulging a lot of information and we can't

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<v Speaker 7>have any more without you knowing. Misty, that Rocky, the

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<v Speaker 7>guy you were on the date with, he's actually.

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<v Speaker 3>On the other line listening to this whole thing.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh my god, so it's between me and the mail Guy.

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<v Speaker 5>Sorry, dude, Oh my gosh, I'm mortified. I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't want I didn't mean for you to hear

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<v Speaker 5>all that.

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<v Speaker 8>I mean, I gathered that by the fact that you

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<v Speaker 8>never responded to me.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, you still wanted to bring me on this show.

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<v Speaker 8>At the time, I didn't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I wouldn't have what a move like.

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<v Speaker 1>I would never think paying for someone else's date would

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<v Speaker 1>be a way to get a date myself.

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<v Speaker 2>It's a great way to get hurt engine.

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<v Speaker 8>He don't want to be clear, I was planning on

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<v Speaker 8>paid for the date.

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<v Speaker 4>He's still on that.

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<v Speaker 5>Rock even makes you feel better. You could pay for

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<v Speaker 5>our date. The Mailman I oh, wow.

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<v Speaker 3>To tell you once?

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, the do you already know?

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<v Speaker 5>I like espresso martini?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey there, you didn't even have to go through her

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<v Speaker 1>mail to find that out.

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<v Speaker 8>Wow, I'm not I'm not gonna steal some other dudes move.

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<v Speaker 8>But if he wants to pay for another date for

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<v Speaker 8>you and I also, I'll put this out, like I

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<v Speaker 8>take fencing classes, he can come and we can fence

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<v Speaker 8>for you.

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<v Speaker 4>Wow, you're gonna like.

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<v Speaker 5>Misty.

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<v Speaker 7>Does that impress you as much as the male guy

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<v Speaker 7>listening in on your conversations with your mom?

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<v Speaker 5>It's interesting?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, he is intriguing you like you like a man

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<v Speaker 3>who fences.

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<v Speaker 4>It's that white suit, you like.

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<v Speaker 5>I got to give him the benefit of the doubt.

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<v Speaker 5>So I don't feel like I can really be seeing

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<v Speaker 5>two people at one time.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you don't want to do your mailman dirty?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, there's a revenge that you don't want to deal with.

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<v Speaker 5>The man.

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<v Speaker 7>Out of all the people that it could have been

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<v Speaker 7>that did this, Maleman was not in my top hundred lists.

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<v Speaker 5>I have no idea either. I mean it came out

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<v Speaker 5>of the blue, but it's kind of romantics.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I know that we're you're liking this mail

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<v Speaker 1>story a lot, but maybe just keep your like find

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<v Speaker 1>my location on or something on your phone. Yeah, there's

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<v Speaker 1>just some still if it doesn't work yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, sure no. If it doesn't work out, then Rocky,

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<v Speaker 5>you can call me, okay, keeping.

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<v Speaker 3>The door open.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, it's like a return to sender.

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<v Speaker 7>I know this is kind of awkward, but maybe I'll

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<v Speaker 7>just ask if it doesn't end up working out with

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<v Speaker 7>her creepy male guy, would you still be open to

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<v Speaker 7>seeing Stee one more time?

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<v Speaker 8>I don't know. I feel like I gotta give this

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<v Speaker 8>mail guy a shot.

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<v Speaker 2>Perfect.

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<v Speaker 8>Yeah, maybe he could pay for me and him.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, he's trying to.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't think.

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<v Speaker 3>Of chemistry anyway, I could see that all right.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, Rocky man, I'm sorry that this didn't work out

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<v Speaker 7>the way you wanted it to.

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<v Speaker 3>But it's quite the story to tell.

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<v Speaker 8>The mystery is solved, and I guess in a way

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<v Speaker 8>that's worth it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, feel like this could have been a Scooby Doo episode.

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<v Speaker 3>He was the mail man all along. They really do

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<v Speaker 3>go the extra.

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<v Speaker 4>Mile medding kids Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 7>You know, if Rocky knew how this was going to

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<v Speaker 7>turn out in the end, he probably should have just

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<v Speaker 7>refused to accept the comped meal and been like, no,

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<v Speaker 7>I'm paying.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I thought of that. But then it's like he

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<v Speaker 2>didn't know who it was. Is it we like, was

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<v Speaker 2>one of his friends?

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<v Speaker 8>Right now?

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<v Speaker 1>It really sounded like the waiter was in charge of

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<v Speaker 1>that whole thing. Yeah, you know, that was a strong

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<v Speaker 1>waiter bully him into telling them who it was. He

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<v Speaker 1>used to stop bringing the thing.

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<v Speaker 7>I know he should have been like, wait, somebody knows

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<v Speaker 7>your favorite drink, We're out of here.

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<v Speaker 4>I just thought that it was a guess.

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<v Speaker 3>Honestly, it's too little, too late.

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<v Speaker 7>He just let it happen and ended up getting blocked

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<v Speaker 7>and swooped in on by a male guy.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, who knew knew people had such moves.

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<v Speaker 2>I know they got cushy government jobs, you know what

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I.

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<v Speaker 7>Feel like postal carriers everywhere rejoiced when they heard this call,

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<v Speaker 7>like finally one of ours gets a win.

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<v Speaker 3>Good for them?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, paid off?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeh.

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<v Speaker 7>So you know what bullets dodged and relationships made.

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<v Speaker 2>But mystery, that's.

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<v Speaker 3>What's the most important thing.

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<v Speaker 7>And we can albsolve the mystery of your romantic life

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<v Speaker 7>if you want to email the show.

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<v Speaker 3>We can call that person who isn't calling you back.

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<v Speaker 3>Go find our podcast.

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<v Speaker 7>We had all our second dates up online and you

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<v Speaker 7>can like subscribe wherever you get yours at Brook and

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<v Speaker 7>Jeffrey