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Speaker 1: Subject my husband is becoming an old man too soon.

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Speaker 2: Dear Stephen Shirley.

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Speaker 1: My husband is fifty two, but he acts like he's

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Speaker 1: eighty years old.

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Speaker 2: We used to have sex several times a.

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Speaker 1: Week, and now he says stuff like he's just blessed

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Speaker 1: to have a woman that still puts up with him,

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Speaker 1: so he's not going to keep worrying me with love making.

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Speaker 1: I keep telling him that I want to be pursued

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Speaker 1: twenty four to seven. I'm only forty eight, and I

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Speaker 1: need him to pounce on me nightly and give me

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Speaker 1: the option to say I don't want to have sex.

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Speaker 1: We used to play tennis, and now he says stuff

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Speaker 1: like he doesn't want us ain't his ankle or break

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Speaker 1: any bones.

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Speaker 2: At his age.

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Speaker 1: Our daughter is a teenager and he worries whenever she

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Speaker 1: leaves the house. He has driven by a day party

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Speaker 1: where she was so he could check on her. If

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Speaker 1: I go to brunch, he wants to take me and

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Speaker 1: pick me up. I know the world is a lot

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Speaker 1: more scary now, but I'm able to handle myself, and

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Speaker 1: we have to trust our daughter to make wise decisions,

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Speaker 1: wise choices.

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Speaker 2: When she's out.

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Speaker 1: This man cleans out my refrigerator of all the expired

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Speaker 1: stuff the moment it expires. I wanted my favorite salad

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Speaker 1: dressing the other day, and he said it expired in July.

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Speaker 2: So he threw it away. I wanted to wring his neck.

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Speaker 1: He comes home from work and bundles up in his

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Speaker 1: blanket and asks me to hand him everything he needs.

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Speaker 1: I set up a TV trade by his recliner so

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Speaker 1: he has everything he needs within reach. I asked him

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Speaker 1: if he's depressed, and he says he's fine. He just

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Speaker 1: realized that he needs to slow down and spend more

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Speaker 1: time with me and our daughter. But me and our

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Speaker 1: daughter do not want all of that quality time with him.

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Speaker 1: We want to go shopping without him sitting down while

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Speaker 1: we go from store to store. The fact that he's

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Speaker 1: chosen to slow down so early is bothersome for us.

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Speaker 1: Can he be old by himself and let us enjoy life?

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Speaker 1: What am I going to do?

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Speaker 2: Wow?

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Speaker 1: Well, you have a problem, I mean with your husband

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Speaker 1: who's only fifty two years old. The thing about getting

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Speaker 1: older is that there's only one alternative to not getting older,

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Speaker 1: and we all know what that what that is, we

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Speaker 1: do so God willing, we'll all get old. But your

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Speaker 1: husband is taking this way too far, way too far.

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Speaker 2: Again. He's only fifty two years old. You got to

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Speaker 2: fight old age.

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Speaker 1: You just can't give into it and let it take

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Speaker 1: you out like this. He said he wasn't depressed when

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Speaker 1: you asked him. But are you sure there's nothing medically

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Speaker 1: wrong with your husband? I think you should check into

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Speaker 1: that because you know it could be something.

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Speaker 2: I do like the fact that he's throwing away.

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Speaker 1: Expired food, but all the other stuff, the no sex,

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Speaker 1: the snuggling, snuggling up in a blanket after work on

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Speaker 1: the sofa, not playing tennis anymore, it's all very strange

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Speaker 1: for a man of fifty two. The even stranger part

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Speaker 1: is that you and your daughter, you don't even seem

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Speaker 1: to care a lot about what's going on. You just

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Speaker 1: want to do you You guys don't want to be

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Speaker 1: around him anymore. I mean, this is your husband. You

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Speaker 1: do want to know if he needs help or something, right,

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Speaker 1: You got to check into this. You got to talk

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Speaker 1: to him. At this rate he's going, it's gonna only

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Speaker 1: get worse. It's only gonna get worse than what Steve.

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Speaker 4: Ain't nothing wrong with his ass, say, no medical problem.

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Speaker 4: He done made a conscious I actually know a.

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Speaker 3: Dude just like this.

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Speaker 4: Really, he has made a conscious decision to pack it

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Speaker 4: in it hopes of conserving energy. What he thinks will

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Speaker 4: then expect fan his life expecting. I know a dude

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Speaker 4: that did exactly like this. Yeah, man, I'm gonna shut

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Speaker 4: all this down. Man, I'm gonna stick around man. You know,

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Speaker 4: one of the things he said was he quit going

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Speaker 4: to the gym lifting heavy because at his age, he

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Speaker 4: don't like being sold no more. So if you sow,

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Speaker 4: that means you to toe your muscle, and now I

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Speaker 4: don't want to be doing that at this age. So

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Speaker 4: now he don't lift weights no more. I mean, he

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Speaker 4: done talked hisself out of everything that's good for him

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Speaker 4: now here your man doing the same thing he fifty two. Now,

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Speaker 4: y'all used to have sex several times a week. Now

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Speaker 4: he's stuff like he blessed to have a woman to

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Speaker 4: still put up with him. So he ain't gonna keep

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Speaker 4: wearing you over loved me?

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Speaker 3: Now, what didn't happened a couple of times? Lady?

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Speaker 4: When a man saying, I ain't gonna keep worrying you

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Speaker 4: about love making this he done ask you for it

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Speaker 4: a few times and.

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Speaker 3: The answer being no.

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Speaker 4: Now, I'm just gonna tell you, ladies, once you keep

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Speaker 4: telling the man that after a while, you know, men

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Speaker 4: don't do well re rejected in that area a lot

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Speaker 4: of times because it just disheartened because the no be

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Speaker 4: happening way molde in the yes. So what didn't happen?

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Speaker 4: Is you done shot him down a couple of times?

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Speaker 4: And I know you have because you said in your

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Speaker 4: letter you said, I keep telling him I want to

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Speaker 4: be pursued twenty four seven. I need him to pounce

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Speaker 4: on me nightly and give me the option to say

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Speaker 4: I don't want to have sex. Ladies, Why y'all think

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Speaker 4: that's cute? Can I tell y'all that ain't cute? You

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Speaker 4: want to be pursued twenty four seven. You want your

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Speaker 4: man to pounce on you nightly, so you can have

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Speaker 4: the option of saying yes or no. You do not

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Speaker 4: know what the no does to him? Uh oh, i'd

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Speaker 4: have touched on the subject. We've never hit on on

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Speaker 2: We really haven't, Steve, And you.

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Speaker 4: Know, Sureley, as I said that, I really we've never

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Speaker 4: touched on this Sunde we have it.

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Speaker 3: I was what you're wanting.

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Speaker 4: To be pursued, to feel needed and loved the attention,

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Speaker 4: and you want this nightly, But then you want the

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Speaker 4: option to say yes or no.

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Speaker 3: We'll hold up now.

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Speaker 4: See on the night where he really needs that, and

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Speaker 4: your answer is no.

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Speaker 3: Now he got to roll over and look at the ceiling.

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Speaker 3: Uh oh, uh oh. See that ain't what I intended

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Speaker 3: for this letter to be. Uh nah.

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Speaker 4: We may be on this subject. So what I'm gonna

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Speaker 4: do is I'm gonna come back, go through the letter,

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Speaker 4: give you my answer, and then we're gonna go back

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Speaker 4: to this subject.

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Speaker 1: Right all right, twenty three minutes after the hour, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna recap this Strawberry letter Today.

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Speaker 2: Get part two of.

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Speaker 1: Steve's response, the subject is my husband is becoming an

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Speaker 1: old man too soon. We'll get back into it right

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Speaker 1: after this.

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Speaker 2: You're listening hard Morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject my husband is becoming an old man too soon.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 4: The subject we're gonna cover in just a second about

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Speaker 4: this whole letter is she feels that he's becoming old.

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Speaker 4: And one of the big reasons is they used to

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Speaker 4: make love a couple times a week.

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Speaker 3: Now he don't hardly pursue her.

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Speaker 4: And she says she wants to be pursued twenty four

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Speaker 4: seven and then have the option of telling him.

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Speaker 3: Yes or no, whether she won't say, have sex or not.

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Speaker 4: And I don't know why women think that's cute, but

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Speaker 4: there's a lot of damage being done in relationships with

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Speaker 4: the no but your constant need to be pursued and

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Speaker 4: made to feel wanted and then but you have the

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Speaker 4: option to tell him whether you want him or not.

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Speaker 3: That's been some damage and we'll talk about that later,

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Speaker 3: but we'll come back to that. Let me just quickly

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Speaker 3: go to this letter.

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Speaker 4: He's becoming old right in front of your eyes, Like

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Speaker 4: you say, y'all used to play tennis. Now he says

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Speaker 4: stuff like he don't want to explain his ankle or

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Speaker 4: break any bones in his age. Now you didn't put

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Speaker 4: in the letter, but big boy And picked up a

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Speaker 3: Now, yeah, see that ain't what the hatter. Ain't that

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Speaker 4: But when a man started telling you he don't want

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Speaker 4: at waight, ain't neverna wait.

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you right now, big boy.

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Speaker 4: And picked up a couple of pounds, and it's starting

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Speaker 4: to weigh on his ass a little bit. He know,

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Speaker 4: when he pull up in front of the house and

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Speaker 4: right there, that's weight. Now that's going on our teenage daughter.

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Speaker 4: Whenever he leave the house, he's driving by a day party.

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Speaker 4: Check on him. Well, fathers do that. I can't get mad?

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Speaker 4: Ain't about that? If I go to brunch, he want

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Speaker 4: handle myself. Well, that ain't the reason. Once again, I

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Speaker 4: keep telling you it's that weight. Big boy and picked

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Speaker 4: You see what I'm saying one more time. That's wait,

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Speaker 4: that's wait, big boy, fat ass sitting up in here,

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Speaker 4: you know, just trying to hold on what he got.

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Speaker 4: And then you say, you gotta trust your daughter to

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Speaker 3: I wish we could. I wish we could, but that

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Speaker 4: The decisions they always make, remember when you was young.

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Speaker 4: So he a little concerned. All right, let's just move

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Speaker 3: Anyway.

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Speaker 4: I wanted my favorite salad dressing another day, and he

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Speaker 4: goes through the refrigerator and he throws out all the

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Speaker 4: salad dressing another day, and he said it expired in July,

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Speaker 3: I wanted to.

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Speaker 4: Ring his neck. Oh okay, I got you now, So

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Speaker 4: now he saved your life. Now you want to kill.

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Speaker 2: Him right from expired?

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Speaker 4: Lady, do you know that they put preservatives in our

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Speaker 4: dollars bottle of salad dressing, lady.

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Speaker 3: Please.

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Speaker 4: He comes home for work and he bubbles up in

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Speaker 4: That's weight. I told you, fat asked and got big.

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Speaker 4: Now once he sit down, he can't dig hisself out

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Speaker 4: in like a damn bean bag. I just set up

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Speaker 4: him mold. See once you get a TV tray? First

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Speaker 4: of all, who maybe, okay, let me not say that,

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Speaker 4: because I'm gonna sound a out of touch. Who the

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Speaker 4: hell is setting up TV? I ain't even know they

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Speaker 4: made them no more? But so I'm bad I might

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Speaker 4: be out of touch. So let me apologize to everybody

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Speaker 4: out there. To steal got TV trades out of people

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Speaker 4: because I did like TV trading, and now that you

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Speaker 4: brought it up, I didn't know they made him anymore.

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Speaker 3: And I want one next to my chair. Getting my

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Speaker 3: damn off.

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Speaker 4: Now that you brought up okay, I asked him if

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Speaker 4: he's depressed. He said he fine. He realized he needs

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Speaker 4: to slow down and spend more time with the daughter.

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Speaker 4: For me and my daughter, we want to do all that.

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Speaker 4: We don't want all this quality time, but we want

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Speaker 4: to go shopping without him while he sit down and we.

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Speaker 3: Go stow the store. The fact that he shows us slow.

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Speaker 4: Down so early is bothersome to us. Can he be

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Speaker 3: What am I going to do? Let's just tell the truth.

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Speaker 4: You and your daughter don't like his ass.

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Speaker 3: That's all it is, y'all.

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Speaker 4: Don't even like his ass no more. It ain't nothing

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Speaker 4: I can do about it. Now, let's get back to

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Speaker 4: this part in the letter. The ladies who want to

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Speaker 4: be put food so you can feel wanted, and then

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Speaker 4: when you're you want to be pounced on nightly. And

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Speaker 4: then you have the option to decide whether you want

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Speaker 4: to have sex or not sex or not. Let me

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Speaker 4: ask you something, ladies, what do you think the man

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Speaker 4: feels when he wants to have it and he's told

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Speaker 4: no several times a week? What do you think that

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Speaker 4: does to his psyche? It's not very good and it

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Speaker 4: could be one of the nights where he really need

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Speaker 4: to be recharged so he can get back out here

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Speaker 4: in this world tomorrow. But you done totally know again

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Speaker 4: what you think happens.

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Speaker 2: Well, he doesn't ask her anymore, that's for sure. No,

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Speaker 2: I wanted to. He don't want sex, oh, just with her.

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Speaker 3: He don't want to get rejected. He don't want to reject.

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