Speaker 1: Help I Suck At Dating with Dean Angler and I
Speaker 1: Heart Radio Podcast. Hello and welcome to episode six of
Speaker 1: Help I Suck At Dating. My name is Dean, of course,
Speaker 1: and we have a very spook tacular Halloween episode for
Speaker 1: you all today. As if the first five episodes haven't
Speaker 1: been horrifying enough, We're gonna talk to a few psychics.
Speaker 1: We're going to I don't know better understand maybe where
Speaker 1: my future is headed. We're gonna talk to the producer,
Speaker 1: Mark's mother in law, who, according to him, is just
Speaker 1: not my biggest fan, and so we're gonna get that
Speaker 1: unique perspective. Um, it's gonna be fun. We're going to
Speaker 1: diving a little bit more into all that kind of stuff.
Speaker 1: I personally am a bit of a skeptic when it
Speaker 1: comes to psychic so it'll be an interesting conversation to
Speaker 1: have with all of them. But I think we're gonna
Speaker 1: start off by talking to Sandy again, Mark, the producer's
Speaker 1: mother mother in law, my wife's mother. I mentioned to
Speaker 1: her that, oh, I've been doing some podcasts because she
Speaker 1: loves everything Bachelor. She and her mother, who's eighty six,
Speaker 1: they watched The Bachelor every week together and the Bachelorette
Speaker 1: and Paradise. They love it all. So is it? Oh
Speaker 1: do you know Dean? She oh, oh, I don't want Well,
Speaker 1: I think you should talk to him because I think
Speaker 1: he's a nice guy. He could maybe win you over.
Speaker 1: And she said that would be fine. And when I
Speaker 1: walked in, Mark mentioned that his step or his mother
Speaker 1: in law, Sandy has been writing down questions as each
Speaker 1: with each passing day to ask me, taking notes all
Speaker 1: the things she wants to tell you tell me. Um, alright,
Speaker 1: so we're gonna get Sandy on the phone. I'm a
Speaker 1: little uh concerned with the questions that she might have,
Speaker 1: but I'm excited to speak with her if she's anything.
Speaker 1: I mean, I can only imagine the type of woman
Speaker 1: that you would marry as an incredible woman, and the
Speaker 1: mother to raise that woman is obviously going to be
Speaker 1: great as well. So Hi, Sandy, Hi, Hey, it's Dean.
Speaker 1: How are you. I'm fine? Is now a good time
Speaker 1: for you to talk? Awesome? Well, thanks for taking the
Speaker 1: time to jump on the phone. You're welcome. So I
Speaker 1: understand saying to that you're not my biggest fan. I
Speaker 1: am not. Let's talk about it, okay, Well, the deal
Speaker 1: is I don't miss any Bachelor's, Bachelorets or bachelom Paradise
Speaker 1: or anything the Bachelor Pad. I've watched them all. Okay, Um,
Speaker 1: if I had a daughter, well I do have a daughter,
Speaker 1: but she's married to Mark. But I mean, if I
Speaker 1: had a girl daughter, I would say stay clear away
Speaker 1: from Dean. Because of Bachelor in Paradise. The way you
Speaker 1: treated Christine and I thought was awful. So what specifically
Speaker 1: do you think I did that you didn't like. Well,
Speaker 1: the fact that in the beginning you seemed great with her,
Speaker 1: You seem like a real cute couple. Then after that
Speaker 1: when Danielle came on the scene, Um, you were giving
Speaker 1: Christine the cold shoulder, but you weren't really telling her, Hey,
Speaker 1: I'm really into Danielle now. So you know, you should
Speaker 1: have cut off Christine completely and went for Danielle, or
Speaker 1: you should have not pursued Danielle while you were still
Speaker 1: pursuing Christine. Sure, and of course, looking back and watching
Speaker 1: that all played back, I'm recognizing a lot of the
Speaker 1: faults that I had throughout the process of Paradise. Um,
Speaker 1: I do want to say that there were some things
Speaker 1: that maybe were omitted from from airing that. Okay, that
Speaker 1: might have I probably can agree with that, but of
Speaker 1: course that's no, that's no excuse by any means. You know,
Speaker 1: I definitely was acting like a goal throughout the entire
Speaker 1: time on Paradise, and I regret all of that. But
Speaker 1: what I can do with that moving forward is I'm
Speaker 1: continuously learning and growing from that, and this podcast is
Speaker 1: very helpful and obviously your feedback is incredibly helpful too.
Speaker 1: So is that the sole reason that you have this
Speaker 1: strong distaste for me? He's the whole Paradise situation. Like
Speaker 1: when Mark said, oh, I've talked to Ben and I've
Speaker 1: talked to um Ashley. I am blah blah blah and
Speaker 1: be nice at all. I don't like Dean, He's a
Speaker 1: player and um he said, oh really, so how would
Speaker 1: you like to talk to him? And I said I
Speaker 1: would I would like to. So anyway, what do you
Speaker 1: think you could have done differently on Paradise? I think
Speaker 1: you nailed on the head. I think I should have
Speaker 1: been much more direct with my feelings for both of them. Um.
Speaker 1: It was difficult for me because I mean the fact
Speaker 1: of the matter is I just like two people at
Speaker 1: the same time and I wasn't necessarily sure how to
Speaker 1: move forward from there. And of course you know, I'm
Speaker 1: not making excuses from actions whatsoever. That happens to a
Speaker 1: lot of people on Bachelor, where especially when they're down
Speaker 1: to their last two or three, it's like they are
Speaker 1: in love with both people, you know, and then you
Speaker 1: have to make this major decision. But um, I got
Speaker 1: another question. Have you you been in a serious relationship
Speaker 1: before Bachelor? I've been in serious relationships before. And how long? Um? There?
Speaker 1: They're usually hover around a year? Okay, okay. I don't
Speaker 1: know if you're gonna have me on any more Bachelor
Speaker 1: shows to see if I've improved at all. But at
Speaker 1: least you can subscribe to the podcast and listen. I can,
Speaker 1: and you have Mark here to kind of give you
Speaker 1: maybe like a synopsis of each week. But yes, I do.
Speaker 1: I feel like Sandy, I feel like with you. I
Speaker 1: have a long way to go. Um what do you
Speaker 1: do on a typical date? On a typical date? Oh um,
Speaker 1: I don't know. I like to keep things light. I
Speaker 1: like to go out and have like, do fun activities,
Speaker 1: go karting, That's that's one of my go too. Where
Speaker 1: do you live? I live in Venice, California. And have
Speaker 1: you always lived there? I lived here for two years.
Speaker 1: And what do you do for work? I'm a recruiter
Speaker 1: for for like startup companies. Okay, yeah, and uh, it's
Speaker 1: no problem for you to go on Bachelor or Bachelor
Speaker 1: in Paradise and still maintain your job. Well, that's part
Speaker 1: of it. I'm currently in the midst of a sabbatical
Speaker 1: right now because of the show. Um, but it's a
Speaker 1: lot of self discovery that I'm going through right now.
Speaker 1: So I think it's definitely I'm investing in myself right now,
Speaker 1: and I think that's what I'm trying to to take
Speaker 1: away from all of this is a betterment of self. Right.
Speaker 1: Do you talk to Christina Daniel these days? Um? Yes,
Speaker 1: I I. Christine and I have remained friendly, you know,
Speaker 1: we we we talk about quite a few things. I
Speaker 1: don't know. It's it's hard because you know, first of all,
Speaker 1: she lives all the way across the country. Um, there's
Speaker 1: obviously a clear where Texas now. She lives in Lexington, Kentucky,
Speaker 1: but she's moving to Nashville, Okay soon. So there's there's
Speaker 1: a lot that we have to work on and it's
Speaker 1: it became very obvious, you know, watching it back through
Speaker 1: the show. Um, but I think we owe it to
Speaker 1: each other to be civil with each other and you know,
Speaker 1: work through our feelings, whether it's platonically or romantically, whatever
Speaker 1: it is. Um, do you think you'll be dating her again?
Speaker 1: I don't really think it's up for me to decide.
Speaker 1: You know, at the end of the day, she was
Speaker 1: the one that was kind of sledded by me, and
Speaker 1: it's really up to her to decide whether or not
Speaker 1: she feels comfortable with something like that. Okay, But Sandy,
Speaker 1: so you've been over married for over forty years, right,
Speaker 1: so do you have any advice on how to make
Speaker 1: a relationship work for me? Um? Honesty is one of
Speaker 1: the big things. Respect is another big thing. Um m hmmm,
Speaker 1: because forty years. I mean that's that's no small amount
Speaker 1: of time. You know, you're you and your husband, I'm
Speaker 1: sure are doing something right. I'm sure you're prop basically
Speaker 1: everything right. But so honestly you respect, Yeah, I'd say
Speaker 1: those are the bigger things. And kind of always see
Speaker 1: what your partner is feeling and you know, help them
Speaker 1: in any way you can, and you know it's a
Speaker 1: two way street. You know, um, if they're doing something
Speaker 1: that really bugs you, let them know. Don't just keep
Speaker 1: holding it in and holding it in and holding it in.
Speaker 1: Because apologies don't mean anything unless you have actions to
Speaker 1: back them up. See, And that's something I'm personally working on.
Speaker 1: Two is expressing my um concern about certain things. Because
Speaker 1: normally I would just kind of like sit back and
Speaker 1: let the let let the negativity unfold. But what I'm
Speaker 1: working on now is is kind of speaking up and
Speaker 1: expressing that I know, in the very beginning you had
Speaker 1: trouble with opening up at all. It's still well, a
Speaker 1: lot of guys do. It's It's just something that I've
Speaker 1: never really necessarily taken into my own hands to work on.
Speaker 1: But now I finally had this opportunity to do that.
Speaker 1: But Sandy, when when you first met Mark, did you
Speaker 1: like him? Well? I did not like him. But he
Speaker 1: was eight years or nine years older than my daughter.
Speaker 1: She was seventeen or eighteen and eighteen, Okay, she was young,
Speaker 1: and he had really long hair. And I remember he
Speaker 1: parked right at the end of our driveway and I thought,
Speaker 1: looking out the window, I can't tell which one of
Speaker 1: them is driving because his hairs as long as he
Speaker 1: and she had really long hair, and I know that
Speaker 1: she said, well, I said something about us meeting him,
Speaker 1: and she said, well, we're not going to the prom.
Speaker 1: That's what he said, like, well, we don't like, we
Speaker 1: don't need to meet him kind of thing. And I'm
Speaker 1: thinking she's an eighteen you know, so I kind of
Speaker 1: uh freaked out at that. It's not that I didn't
Speaker 1: lie them. I really liked him once we got to
Speaker 1: meet him, but I didn't like his attitude of well,
Speaker 1: I don't need to meet the parents. I'm twenty six
Speaker 1: or whatever age was. And you know, I mean he
Speaker 1: I understand where he was coming from, but you know,
Speaker 1: I mean she's my daughter, and I, you know, was
Speaker 1: concerned about the age difference basically. So how long did
Speaker 1: it take you to warm up to it? Oh? Not long? No,
Speaker 1: Once we met him, he came for dinner, and then
Speaker 1: it was you know, it was great. Like I tell people, now,
Speaker 1: I've got a son who's married as well, and I
Speaker 1: tell people I couldn't have picked better mates for my
Speaker 1: kids than they picked for themselves. I mean, it's it's
Speaker 1: what fifteen years later, fifteen, married, twenty together twenty together, right,
Speaker 1: so it's really hard to even say anything other than
Speaker 1: positive things about that. Yeah, nice, Well, all right, Sandy,
Speaker 1: Do you have any parting words of wisdom for me here?
Speaker 1: Because I know I feel like it's not going to
Speaker 1: take just one conversation to convince you that I'm trying
Speaker 1: to improve and I'm I'm working on it. But do
Speaker 1: you have any parting words of advice anything like that
Speaker 1: that you can use for me to to maybe be
Speaker 1: just a better person in relationships moving forward. Um, I
Speaker 1: think just basically, the honesty is a big thing. Um,
Speaker 1: if you lie to a girl and she knows you've
Speaker 1: lied to her, then she can't trust you. And if
Speaker 1: she can't trust you, trust is like everything. If she
Speaker 1: can't trust you, then you might as well just give
Speaker 1: it up. So, um, you definitely want to keep things
Speaker 1: on up and up and keep things open and um,
Speaker 1: you know talk, don't don't just you know, go into
Speaker 1: different room and shut off, and you know that's not
Speaker 1: going to help anybody. So well, honestly is very important
Speaker 1: to me too, And although it might not have seen
Speaker 1: like that throughout Bachelor in Paradise, I do I'm a
Speaker 1: big advocate of the fact that you know, if you're
Speaker 1: always honest with your partner, you you're you're gonna allow
Speaker 1: them to love you for who you are instead of
Speaker 1: this this fabrication that you keep, you know, kind of
Speaker 1: lying about. So I went in with the method with
Speaker 1: the mindset of saying, I'm going to be brutally honest
Speaker 1: at every moment um. You know, if I like another girl,
Speaker 1: I'm going to be upfront about that. But I again,
Speaker 1: watching it back, I can see how maybe there it
Speaker 1: was versions of the truth and it wasn't the total truth.
Speaker 1: And that's that's kind of what I think I personally
Speaker 1: have to work on, is just honest with not only
Speaker 1: Princess marked as that with Amy. Yeah. Yeah, all right, Well, Sandy,
Speaker 1: thank you so much for calling in. Um. I hope
Speaker 1: for my sake and for for your sake that I
Speaker 1: can get better at these relationships and continue to work
Speaker 1: on them. Well. Good, I'm glad you're working on it. Well,
Speaker 1: have a great day. Thank you for letting me hang
Speaker 1: out with Mark every Monday. I really do appreciate it.
Speaker 1: All right, have a good day, you do by all right. Well,
Speaker 1: I hadn't go quite as well as I expected it to. Go.
Speaker 1: I know Mark told me his mother in law wasn't
Speaker 1: the biggest fan, but she clearly now it's clearly to me,
Speaker 1: is definitely not the biggest fan. But I understand that
Speaker 1: that's kind of just uh. I brought this upon myself.
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Speaker 1: to pass it over to to the producer Mark. He
Speaker 1: is going to be reading one of our listeners emails
Speaker 1: that we asked last week. This is from Kelsey. She
Speaker 1: has a question for you about ghosting. Hey, Dean, I
Speaker 1: have a question for you. I keep getting ghosted. My
Speaker 1: friends all telling me that I'm just picking the wrong guys,
Speaker 1: but seeing as I'm the common denominator, I have to
Speaker 1: own my part in it. My question for you, Dean
Speaker 1: is this, if you were the ghost a girl, without
Speaker 1: any explanation, any reason, any argument, etcetera, what would your
Speaker 1: reason for doing so be? Kelsey, Well, kell see a
Speaker 1: great question. Um. I also kind of appreciate how you
Speaker 1: flip it background on yourself because you're friends seem to
Speaker 1: think which the guys that you choose, But I guess
Speaker 1: it's it's you that's choosing those guys. So I, honestly,
Speaker 1: I almost kind of want to take your friends position
Speaker 1: on this one. I don't necessarily think it could be
Speaker 1: anything you're doing wrong. Maybe it's just what you're doing
Speaker 1: is attracting a certain type of person that's going to
Speaker 1: be ghosting you. I think at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: the reason a guy ghosts a girl is because they
Speaker 1: don't necessarily see a future there with him, and they
Speaker 1: don't have the wherewithal two tell that person that they
Speaker 1: don't see that future because it can be a tough
Speaker 1: conversation to have. I'm one that likes to avoid difficult conversations,
Speaker 1: and I think it comes from a good place, right
Speaker 1: like they're they're doing it thinking that they're doing the
Speaker 1: right thing, but in all honesty, you on the other
Speaker 1: side of it are experiencing it very negatively and it sucks.
Speaker 1: I've talked to some girls that I used to date
Speaker 1: in the past who I admittedly have ghosted, and an
Speaker 1: open and honest conversation about why and how I did
Speaker 1: that coming back from them. You know, obviously it doesn't
Speaker 1: feel good. But I think that the one thing that
Speaker 1: you can do, honestly, you just need to find an
Speaker 1: older man. Maybe. I think that's really what it boils
Speaker 1: down to. A lot of the time is a lot
Speaker 1: of young guys in their early the mid twenties are
Speaker 1: scared to have difficult, difficult conversations because they're not necessarily
Speaker 1: UM used to having to deal with those hardships like
Speaker 1: head on. But an older man has been through that
Speaker 1: process and bring through the ringer a few times. Um,
Speaker 1: of course you'll have your you know, your your instances
Speaker 1: where there's a younger guy who's willing to to kind
Speaker 1: of have that difficult conversation even if he doesn't like you.
Speaker 1: And I mean it's I don't even know, I'm just
Speaker 1: rambling at this point. I feel like, but Kelsey, I
Speaker 1: think that you don't necessarily have to change anything about yourself.
Speaker 1: Maybe just increase your uh, your barometer for what you
Speaker 1: think is is useful to you in a relationship. You know,
Speaker 1: increase your standard for for finding a guy. Don't necessarily
Speaker 1: just fall into the trap and um, you know, be
Speaker 1: interested in the first guy that shows you uni attention
Speaker 1: because typically those are the ones that are gonna ghost you.
Speaker 1: I think raise the bar that's good advice. Question. If
Speaker 1: you've hooked up with somebody, does that make ghosting more
Speaker 1: likely or less likely? Hook up pal, well, I hooked
Speaker 1: up hooked up? Does that make it more of a
Speaker 1: connection so you feel more of an obligation to have
Speaker 1: the conversation, or does it make it even more difficult
Speaker 1: and more likely to ghost. I think that once you
Speaker 1: hook up with someone, more emotions get involved, which again
Speaker 1: is the root cause for any ghosting. I think is
Speaker 1: to to spare both parties the emotions, and that that's
Speaker 1: at least the central thought behind it. Um. So, Kelsey,
Speaker 1: to your point, maybe, I don't know if you're hooking
Speaker 1: up with these guys that are ghosting you, but I
Speaker 1: would say stop hooking up with them, you know, maybe
Speaker 1: spend a little bit more time with them, go on
Speaker 1: a few more dates, build that emotional connection before you
Speaker 1: build a physical one. I personally think that that would
Speaker 1: help limit the ghosting, if not reduced it entirely. Um
Speaker 1: And I mean for for I can only imagine, you know,
Speaker 1: you get much more emotionally connected after physically connecting with
Speaker 1: someone as well, So it gets you, it builds you
Speaker 1: up to be broken down a little bit more as
Speaker 1: well if you get ghosted. Um. That's my advice. That's
Speaker 1: actually great, great point, Mark, Maybe maybe take a little
Speaker 1: bit more time before you begin the physical side of
Speaker 1: relationship and build on the maybe the friendly or the
Speaker 1: emotional side of it first. Did you know that Ashley
Speaker 1: I was talking about you. Um, I mean this was
Speaker 1: on the almost famous podcast. Would you like to hear
Speaker 1: what she said about you? Let's hear because we like
Speaker 1: to hear your response to this. I learned this firsthand, um,
Speaker 1: just by being friends with Dean. Dean told me that
Speaker 1: he has never once asked a girl out. He has
Speaker 1: never He'll never ask them to hang out. He'll like,
Speaker 1: he will never assume that they are into him. He
Speaker 1: needs to be like totally convinced by the woman that
Speaker 1: they are into him first before he does anything. Okay,
Speaker 1: So what thank you, Ashley? I don't know to thank you,
Speaker 1: but to set there to set the record straight. I
Speaker 1: definitely have asked girls out before. It's definitely not a
Speaker 1: common occurrence for me. Though to her point, Um, I
Speaker 1: think that what Ben is saying is is I do
Speaker 1: have a very distinct fear of rejection. And I think
Speaker 1: that's kind of where that stems from. Is I'm I'm
Speaker 1: comfortable with being friends with someone for as long as
Speaker 1: it takes for them to feel comfortable to ask me
Speaker 1: out sort of thing, because I don't necessarily like to
Speaker 1: put myself out there just to be let down, and
Speaker 1: I don't necessarily think it's a positive quality to have. UM.
Speaker 1: I think that when it comes to relationships, or at
Speaker 1: least like a pursuits of a relationship, I definitely I
Speaker 1: find it hard to make that first move and kind
Speaker 1: of break through that wall of going from friends to
Speaker 1: two more than that. UM And I think I've noticed
Speaker 1: myself getting a little bit better with age, But looking
Speaker 1: back at like twenty four year old Dean, like when
Speaker 1: I was on like bumble or something like that, I
Speaker 1: would never I would never be the one that was like,
Speaker 1: all right, let's meet up and let's drinks. It was
Speaker 1: always a conversation that I allowed to just can continue
Speaker 1: flowing until that other person felt comfortable enough to to
Speaker 1: kind of prop propose the idea. UM. And I think
Speaker 1: that's what I the conversation that I've had with actually,
Speaker 1: and I kind of, you know, especially talking to some
Speaker 1: of my friends who are girls who are on those
Speaker 1: types of apps, or I've been in the dating pool,
Speaker 1: all that kind of stuff. I think the constant theme
Speaker 1: that I continuously see with them is they're always saying
Speaker 1: that guys assume or guys are getting so far ahead
Speaker 1: of themselves and they're like all right to text into
Speaker 1: a conversation of just meeting someone. They're saying, let's go
Speaker 1: get drinks, or let's go, you know, back to my
Speaker 1: house and watch Netflix or something like that. And I
Speaker 1: strive to be kind of the opposite of that. I
Speaker 1: want to to to be the the antithesis of the
Speaker 1: common data in that sense where it's like, I don't
Speaker 1: want to make the girl feel uncomfortable. I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't want the girl to be put in a spot
Speaker 1: where she has to make a decision um based on
Speaker 1: limited information. So that's kind of where I was coming
Speaker 1: from with all that. That fear of rejection is causing
Speaker 1: real problems with young women. If I may well, is
Speaker 1: that when I talked to women, their biggest complaints are
Speaker 1: guys don't ask you out anymore. There was a time
Speaker 1: when they would. They don't anymore because of the fear
Speaker 1: of rejection. Guys won't make plans. Guys won't call it
Speaker 1: a date, they call it a hang, It'll call it
Speaker 1: a group hang, and they'll just make it so noncommittal
Speaker 1: that they can't be rejected. I can understand that, I
Speaker 1: can empathize with that. I think that um speaking from experience,
Speaker 1: it definitely alleviates a lot of the pressure of what
Speaker 1: a typical I guess date would look like. UM. I
Speaker 1: mean I've been on both sides of it, you know. I,
Speaker 1: Like I said, I've definitely asked girls on dates before.
Speaker 1: It's not I'm not saying that I haven't. UM. I
Speaker 1: also have asked girls on like maybe more like friendly
Speaker 1: type excursions with multiple friends around. That way, everyone's a
Speaker 1: little more comfortable. There's a little bit less of a
Speaker 1: of a possibility of rejection. Um. If and when rejection
Speaker 1: does come, you can be like, oh, that's my friend's
Speaker 1: faults were like, oh, it just didn't work necessarily with
Speaker 1: it within the friend group. So UM, yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: know what dating sucks. The good news is we have
Speaker 1: psycists coming up that can tell you why you're so afraid.
Speaker 1: I'm excited to speak with the psychics again. I'm a
Speaker 1: bit of a skeptic. Um. My girl, my girlfriend from
Speaker 1: a few years ago, was big in the like palm
Speaker 1: reading and psychics and all that kind of stuff, and
Speaker 1: she tried to get me a go to go a
Speaker 1: few times and I never went. So I've never never
Speaker 1: actually spoken with a psychic before. And what's funnies, I
Speaker 1: know a few of the girls from nixt season when
Speaker 1: they were New Orleans, they went to to a psychic
Speaker 1: as well. Um and I just kind of always have
Speaker 1: scoffed at it, So it'll be interesting to see what
Speaker 1: they have to say. Speaking of going on dates, I
Speaker 1: know a lot of my friends and basically I feel
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Speaker 1: at the top of the episode, we talked about how
Speaker 1: we'll be bringing in a few psychics to discuss relationships, Um,
Speaker 1: maybe just what my future holds. Whatever. We're gonna take
Speaker 1: some collars and have some conversations about that as well.
Speaker 1: So to start off, we're speaking with psychic Danny, who
Speaker 1: is on the line. Now, Dani are you there? Oh? Dan,
Speaker 1: are you there? Hi? How are you? Well? You're already psychic?
Speaker 1: You already knew who it was? Um, great, so, Danny,
Speaker 1: So you're a psychic, right, So maybe what's the proper
Speaker 1: word to explain what you do? You can? That's fun
Speaker 1: and some people think it's kind of kitchy and don't
Speaker 1: like to use the word. What do you prefer? I'm
Speaker 1: fine with it. I don't mind it at all, all right, Danny?
Speaker 1: Do you do you mind talking about your gift a
Speaker 1: little bit? How how did you come to to find
Speaker 1: that you're able to do this? Was it something you
Speaker 1: you've had since a child? Is it something that you've
Speaker 1: kind of learned how to do over time? Well, it's
Speaker 1: kind of a combination of both, you know. I always
Speaker 1: knew something was up, Like I just sort of knew things.
Speaker 1: I never had visions or heard voices or anything like that.
Speaker 1: So I until I got older, I didn't really recognize
Speaker 1: that psychic ability could come in through sensing. It's called
Speaker 1: clear as sensions, and that's what I do. It comes
Speaker 1: in it's sort of a knowing, and as I got older,
Speaker 1: I just developed it and honed it more. Got it.
Speaker 1: So what type of training have you had? Is it
Speaker 1: all personal training? Do you? Yeah, it's just through using it.
Speaker 1: I haven't gone to any sort of developed your psychic
Speaker 1: abilities sort of classes or anything awesome. So for people,
Speaker 1: for people that are skeptical, and I'll admit I'm a
Speaker 1: bit of a skeptic myself, is there anything that you
Speaker 1: can say to them that might make them more open
Speaker 1: to the ideas of this? Yeah, really, just that if
Speaker 1: it works for you, great, If it doesn't, that's fine too.
Speaker 1: I mean I'm a healthy skeptic as well, I think. So. Unfortunately,
Speaker 1: we have these Charlatans that have gone around for years
Speaker 1: with the neon psychic palm in their window, that have
Speaker 1: taken advantage of people. But everybody has psychic ability. It's
Speaker 1: not all that mystical. You know, it's just a matter
Speaker 1: of honing in on it exactly. I mean we've all
Speaker 1: had when we think of our friend or something and
Speaker 1: then all of a sudden they call I mean that
Speaker 1: psychic ability. Yeah, of course, of course. So so do
Speaker 1: you ever use your your psychic ability to help people
Speaker 1: with their relationships or what do you typically pertain your
Speaker 1: your abilities to? It's usually relationships, money, work, the typical
Speaker 1: stuff that most people want to know. I do a
Speaker 1: little bit of medium work. It's not my area of expertise,
Speaker 1: but people have come through who have passed on excuse me, gotcha? Well, so, Danny,
Speaker 1: we have some callers calling in to ask about relationships
Speaker 1: some of their questions, and we want to focus on
Speaker 1: that for the for the remainder of the segment. Is
Speaker 1: that okay with you? That's fine with me? All right? Well, Danny,
Speaker 1: what do you what do you have to say about me?
Speaker 1: What kind of senses are you getting from me in
Speaker 1: regards to my dating and my relationships? Well? Is there
Speaker 1: anything specific you want to know? We can go on
Speaker 1: for hours about just stuff I pick up. Yeah, first
Speaker 1: and foremost, am I ever going to figure this thing out?
Speaker 1: Figure dating out? Well, you need a little bit of
Speaker 1: help in that area. Well that's why we have you
Speaker 1: calling in. Where do you feel that you're blocked or
Speaker 1: do you just have no idea? I think that I'm
Speaker 1: I'm just across the board working on everything. So I
Speaker 1: don't think there's one specific area. Maybe communication. I tend
Speaker 1: to be hesitant to open up a little bit, but
Speaker 1: I think we all have room for improvement, me more
Speaker 1: so than most people. Okay, well, first of all, I
Speaker 1: don't think you should be dating. I think you should
Speaker 1: be doing group activities where you meet people. Okay, you're
Speaker 1: not meeting the right kind of women. Your picker is off.
Speaker 1: If that makes any sense to you, I understand the
Speaker 1: group settings. Maybe keep it a little bit later, a
Speaker 1: little bit less fear of rejection if you do something
Speaker 1: like that too, which is always good exactly. I mean,
Speaker 1: you need a woman who's gentle and introspective and kind
Speaker 1: the way that you are, not some sort of Hollywood
Speaker 1: showy superficial girls. You need somebody with depths. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: can I can understand that. I think that they're hard
Speaker 1: to find these days. They're they're you know, especially in
Speaker 1: Los Angeles or maybe not so many of them. But
Speaker 1: absolutely I lived there for a year, so I totally
Speaker 1: get what you're Yeah, yeah, okay, great. Well, so do
Speaker 1: you have like a timeline for me or anything like that?
Speaker 1: Are you able to kind of see anything like that?
Speaker 1: Maybe give me like a rough approximation of when you
Speaker 1: think things might fall into place for me. Give me
Speaker 1: a moment here, let me tun m. You know, timing
Speaker 1: is very iffy with a reading because we all have
Speaker 1: free will and things happen the way that we're supposed
Speaker 1: that they're supposed to. But the thing is, you know,
Speaker 1: you're not really ready yet. It's gonna take about two
Speaker 1: and a half years where you feel confident enough to
Speaker 1: attract the type of woman you need. I'm not saying
Speaker 1: that you're not going to date or that you're not
Speaker 1: going to meet some nice girls, but you want something
Speaker 1: of substance. I don't see you as the dating type
Speaker 1: of person. I see you as somebody who's going to
Speaker 1: settle down and create a life with somebody. I mean,
Speaker 1: that's all I want to do. Okay, that's not gonna
Speaker 1: come for about two and a half years. But you're
Speaker 1: not ready for it anyway. That's part of the reason
Speaker 1: it's not happening for you. Yeah, two and a half years.
Speaker 1: I'll be right around twenty nine years old. I think
Speaker 1: that just in terms of timeline for for life, it
Speaker 1: makes sense to to kind of be more right on
Speaker 1: their early twenty tony and you're going to have more
Speaker 1: confidence then, yeah, which I think I could definitely benefit from.
Speaker 1: All Right, So Danny, we're gonna start taking some phone
Speaker 1: calls from some listeners and maybe see if we can
Speaker 1: help them. Okay, absolutely, all right. So right now we
Speaker 1: have Mandy calling from Austin, Texas. Okay, Mandy, how are you.
Speaker 1: I'm good? How are you? I'm doing well. So I
Speaker 1: have psychic Danny on the line right now. She's going
Speaker 1: to help with your question. Do you mind asking the question? Sure? Um, well,
Speaker 1: my boyfriend and I were doing pretty well, and um
Speaker 1: we've been talking about marriage. So I'm just wondering, like,
Speaker 1: is that in the future. What's your boyfriend's named, Mandy?
Speaker 1: His name is Tyler? Okay, and how long have you
Speaker 1: been together? Will be actually a year and next month? Okay,
Speaker 1: give me just a moment here. He feels young, you know,
Speaker 1: it feels as though he is very much in love
Speaker 1: with you, and he would like to marry you eventually,
Speaker 1: but he's you know, it's since the first boyfriend that
Speaker 1: you've had. No, Okay, give me just a moment here,
Speaker 1: strong possibility you'll marry, but it's going to take a while.
Speaker 1: I give it about five years. Oh that's a long time.
Speaker 1: Did you do you have the patience to wait for
Speaker 1: five years? I do. I mean, he's obviously pretty special
Speaker 1: to me, Like I have a really strong connection that
Speaker 1: I have with him then with past boyfriends, and I
Speaker 1: don't know, I am for some reason. I feel very
Speaker 1: patient and kind of confident in what we have and
Speaker 1: so five years doesn't bother me. That's good and no, absolutely,
Speaker 1: and if you love him, I think that you'll find
Speaker 1: a way to make it work right and if I
Speaker 1: don't know if it's you that wants to wait five
Speaker 1: years or him that wants to wait five years, But
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, it sounds like you
Speaker 1: really genuinely love him, which is absolutely what you want. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean, like we're obviously there aspects that we have
Speaker 1: in our lives and we're still trying to figure it out.
Speaker 1: But you know, um, last night we were talking about it. Actually,
Speaker 1: he was like, when do you want to get married,
Speaker 1: and I mean, it's kind of a hard question to
Speaker 1: answer because there's just so many things to think about.
Speaker 1: Is gonna gonna be a good year? I can already
Speaker 1: SENSEI it. Mandy. We're gonna call you back in five
Speaker 1: years and we're going to get to the bottom of
Speaker 1: this too. Okay, thank you, thank you? All right, all right,
Speaker 1: So next Danny, we're gonna have Shantell in Kansas. Okay, Sean,
Speaker 1: Tell are you there? Yes, I'm here. Hi, Hi, So
Speaker 1: I have Danny the psychic on the line. Um, Sean, tell,
Speaker 1: do you mind asking her your question? Uh? No, I
Speaker 1: don't Okay. Um. So, I'm not currently in a relationship,
Speaker 1: but I mean I'm looking and keeping my options open.
Speaker 1: But the guy that the guy that I like is
Speaker 1: interested in one of my friends. So I guess I'm
Speaker 1: kind of just wondering, like what my dating life is
Speaker 1: gonna look like, because right now it's insane and non existent. Okay,
Speaker 1: give me just a moment until Okay, it feels like
Speaker 1: you need to focus on study for a while. It
Speaker 1: does feel like you're going to have about three or
Speaker 1: four guys circling you within the next year or two.
Speaker 1: There's one there's one that's very, very special, but you
Speaker 1: need to take the time to get to know him
Speaker 1: because he's hard to get to know. Excuse me, but
Speaker 1: you're gonna know right off the bat that he's the
Speaker 1: one that you really want to spend time with as
Speaker 1: opposed to the other three that are circling. Okay, we'll
Speaker 1: turn into marriage. I'm not sure. Okay, that's awesome. It
Speaker 1: actually makes sense and you need to but you need
Speaker 1: to focus on study. Don't let the relationships get in
Speaker 1: the way of that. Okay, Okay, that's awesome because I'm
Speaker 1: a nursing student. So perfect, John Tell that's the perfect
Speaker 1: career for you. By the way, awesome you all right,
Speaker 1: Sean Tella, thank you so much for calling in. I
Speaker 1: hope that helped, no problem. Thank you, Dean. All right,
Speaker 1: have a great day. You took all right, Danny, we
Speaker 1: have another one. We're gonna go over to Heather in St.
Speaker 1: Louis And that was a spot on reading. By the way. Okay, Hey, Heather,
Speaker 1: it's Dean. Are you there. Okay, Wow, I can't believe
Speaker 1: that I am on your podcast. I was literally just
Speaker 1: listening to it. Oh well, thank you so much for listening.
Speaker 1: And thank you for calling in. We also have psychic
Speaker 1: Danny on the line. Okay, she's going to be able
Speaker 1: to help you with your question. Okay, sweet, So do
Speaker 1: you do you mind asking you what the question is? Yeah? Okay,
Speaker 1: So my question is, how do you know like when
Speaker 1: that you like just shouldn't be in the relationship and
Speaker 1: that it's just not working out anymore, and if that
Speaker 1: person doesn't want it to work out, well, first of that,
Speaker 1: by asking the question, you already know. Okay, I guess so.
Speaker 1: But it's just a very complicated situation and it's I
Speaker 1: just like don't understand like how he's thinking. Well, I'll
Speaker 1: tell you what, Heather, ask yourself this, Does it feel
Speaker 1: toxic to you? Well, my friends would say that it's toxic,
Speaker 1: But like when I'm in there, like it's not even
Speaker 1: a relationship anymore. It's just very like on and off
Speaker 1: and like not overall probably a great situation to be in,
Speaker 1: but like when we're together, it's like nothing else matters. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's lost. That's not love. Yeah. Yeah, And I don't
Speaker 1: mean rust just necessarily in a physical sexual sense, but
Speaker 1: I mean in general, you know, that's like great friends
Speaker 1: before like anything happened, and so then the reason that
Speaker 1: we ended was because we didn't want to lose our friendship. No,
Speaker 1: if it was the right relationship, the friendship would have
Speaker 1: blossomed more. This isn't the right guy for you. And
Speaker 1: and again the simple fact that you're asking the question,
Speaker 1: you already know what the answer is. Yeah, yeah, you
Speaker 1: two just aren't right for each other. And actually, to
Speaker 1: tell you the truth, it feels like you'll remain friends
Speaker 1: and it's gonna renew your friendship again. And you never
Speaker 1: should have be done in a relationship if I because
Speaker 1: it's just been like so hard to like get over it.
Speaker 1: Should I just not even be a friend anymore? Then?
Speaker 1: So you can be his friend, but you might want
Speaker 1: to take some time in between. M but I'll do something.
Speaker 1: He's gonna do the push pull with you, and he's
Speaker 1: gonna try and pull you back into being in the relationship.
Speaker 1: And it's just got a healthy relationship for you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so many other people out there for you. Seriously, You're
Speaker 1: now you're going to look back at this and laugh. Seriously, Yeah,
Speaker 1: how you just got to find the right one for you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe one day, maybe one day. Well, hey, Heather, keep
Speaker 1: listening to the podcast. Maybe one of these days we'll
Speaker 1: have you called back in and give us, give us
Speaker 1: an update on kind of where you're at. But thank
Speaker 1: you so much for calling in. Okay, thank you, all right,
Speaker 1: have a good day, all right, Danny. We have one more.
Speaker 1: We're gonna call Victoria and Charlotte, North Carolina. Okay, Victoria,
Speaker 1: are you there? Yeah? Hi? All right, So I have
Speaker 1: psychic Danny on the line, and I understand you might
Speaker 1: have a question for her. I do. Let's hear it,
Speaker 1: all right, Have I met the person that I'm going
Speaker 1: to marry yet? Is there one specific person that you're
Speaker 1: asking about not already in your mind? And you're wondering
Speaker 1: if that's the one? And not necessarily I don't, but
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm twenty five. I feel like everyone's
Speaker 1: like you've already met the person you're gonna marry by
Speaker 1: that time in your life. Oh not at all, not
Speaker 1: at all on it. You've got so much time to go. Wait, Danny,
Speaker 1: I have the same question for you. Now. I'm curious.
Speaker 1: I'm have I met the girl that I'm gonna marry?
Speaker 1: Absolutely not absolutely, not for Dean, but with Victoria. Give
Speaker 1: me a moment too to see if you actually have.
Speaker 1: But in general, it takes some people to their fifties
Speaker 1: to meet the person that they're gonna marry. So give
Speaker 1: me just a moment, Victoria. Okay, I would say, no,
Speaker 1: you've met a man that well, not a man, a
Speaker 1: guy because he feels younger than a man. But you've
Speaker 1: met a guy who is soul mate, but not in
Speaker 1: a romantic sense. Okay, okay, but it's gonna be i'd
Speaker 1: say about two to three years before you meet marriage material.
Speaker 1: But you're gonna have a lot of fun up until then,
Speaker 1: lots of fun having fun, and that's what you need
Speaker 1: right now to say, Jo and I will just keep
Speaker 1: enjoying the weekend. Yeah, you're gonna know it when you
Speaker 1: meet the guy. I mean, you're going to know it
Speaker 1: right off the bat, and he's going to know it
Speaker 1: perfect well, Victoria, thank you so much for calling in.
Speaker 1: We hope that helps um. Good luck on your quest.
Speaker 1: You to all right, have a great day, all right, Danny,
Speaker 1: that was impressive. You've got a couple of those spot on. Well,
Speaker 1: thank you, but it's not about ego. I'm just trying
Speaker 1: to help perfect all right, Danny, Well, thank you again
Speaker 1: so much for taking the time to call in and
Speaker 1: help some of the listeners. Um, you got some of
Speaker 1: them spot on is actually really impressive. But we need
Speaker 1: to move on. But if if any of the listeners
Speaker 1: out there would like to get a reading from Danny Brown,
Speaker 1: you're more than welcome to email her at Intuitive Insight
Speaker 1: at a well dot com. And it's spelled I N
Speaker 1: the number two I t V I N S I
Speaker 1: g H T so in to it tive Insight at
Speaker 1: ao L dot com. Or you can email us at
Speaker 1: I suck at dating at I heart Media dot com. UM,
Speaker 1: and you know, if you have any other questions or
Speaker 1: you want to talk to Danny specifically, again, you're able
Speaker 1: to email her at I and two I t V
Speaker 1: Insight at a L dot com. UM, and Danny, thank
Speaker 1: you a gains so much for the time. Thank you
Speaker 1: for calling in. UM. Some of the listeners I mean
Speaker 1: definitely sounds like they appreciate it and you know, hoping
Speaker 1: for the best for everyone. I am too, Dean, and
Speaker 1: you as well, Thank you so much. I appreciate that.
Speaker 1: Give it a little time, Dan, Okay, just be patient,
Speaker 1: like you're saying exactly, and you'll know when she's to
Speaker 1: write one, watch the choose. Don't listen to what she says,
Speaker 1: watch her actions. Okay, I can definitely understand that. All right, well,
Speaker 1: thank thank you so much. We'll talk to you soon.
Speaker 1: You're welcome, take care of I hate to be I mean,
Speaker 1: I just think inherently about everything. I'm skeptical. I enjoy
Speaker 1: being a skeptic. I think that it's important to be
Speaker 1: skeptical about most, if not everything. It's difficult for me
Speaker 1: to jump fully on board with the psychic readings, maybe
Speaker 1: just because I don't understand it to the extent that
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to. But it's easy to make broad, overarching
Speaker 1: claims about basically everyone that applies to a lot of
Speaker 1: people's lives. Um, I don't necessarily like. The thing that
Speaker 1: maybe makes me the most uncomfortable with it is people
Speaker 1: take this stuff to heart. So if if someone says
Speaker 1: you haven't met the husband that you, you haven't met
Speaker 1: the person you're gonna marry yet, then that person, if
Speaker 1: they want to fully believe it, they're going to discount
Speaker 1: every relationship that they have now because they're like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I haven't met the person yet. You know, I don't
Speaker 1: I don't necessarily need to worry about any of my
Speaker 1: current or past relationships because I'm still we're looking for
Speaker 1: the one that I'm going to marry, and that kind
Speaker 1: of doesn't sit well with me because it closes a
Speaker 1: lot of doors and it doesn't necessarily allow you to,
Speaker 1: I don't know, just kind of live life as you're
Speaker 1: supposed to live it. It makes you kind of more
Speaker 1: narrow sided. But again that's just my take on it.
Speaker 1: I know that everyone kind of takes these psychic readings
Speaker 1: with a gram ap salt, but I know that there's
Speaker 1: also a selective few that um take it basically as
Speaker 1: gospel and follow it devoutly, and you know, more power
Speaker 1: to them. If it works for them, that's great. I
Speaker 1: just I'm I'm going to remain skeptical alright. So we're
Speaker 1: between sidekicks right now. I don't want to leave anyone
Speaker 1: on hold. We have Talia from Toronto who wants to
Speaker 1: know if she's crazy or if she's a crazy girlfriend
Speaker 1: like her X thinks, Tally, are you there, yeah here,
Speaker 1: thank you so much for calling in. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: this is crazy. So I have to admit we don't
Speaker 1: have a psychic on the line right now. I just
Speaker 1: saw you call in and I figured it was a
Speaker 1: question that I could help you with instead of having
Speaker 1: to rely too heavily on the psydekicks. Yeah. No, I
Speaker 1: think you're just as reliable as a sidekick. Thank you
Speaker 1: so much. All Right, so describe your situation to me
Speaker 1: and maybe we can talk through it together. Okay, So
Speaker 1: I'm a high school so I'm like small, but um,
Speaker 1: I haven't asked, and he's like, honestly, like you're the
Speaker 1: craziest ex girlfriend, Like he obviously really dislikes me, and
Speaker 1: it's like you're super crazy, like is very upset with me,
Speaker 1: and like I personally think like I'm super sane, and
Speaker 1: like I don't don't think I'm a crazy girlfriend. I
Speaker 1: guess I'm pretty lenient with the guys I see. But
Speaker 1: like I guess he thinks opposite. So like I don't
Speaker 1: know if I just bruised his ego. Like our breakup
Speaker 1: didn't end well. Okay, So he broke up with me
Speaker 1: because like he is like kind of like a really
Speaker 1: popular guid or school and his used to his girlfriends
Speaker 1: like falling out of sea, idolizing him, and I was
Speaker 1: super destined and kind of like I guess emotionally unavailable
Speaker 1: were his words. Sure, okay, so then and then he
Speaker 1: ended it with and then he ended it with you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he ended it with me. So what what actions do
Speaker 1: you expressed that he thinks are crazy? See that's the thing,
Speaker 1: Like he's never clear on them. He's just like she's psycho,
Speaker 1: like I guess I was. He sees that I was
Speaker 1: like flirty with other people in our relationship, which I
Speaker 1: see differently, and like he is like, oh, like you
Speaker 1: were like manipulate live and like I'm worried that I'm
Speaker 1: like maybe I was, like maybe I'm super crazy. Have
Speaker 1: you talked to any of your friends or his friends
Speaker 1: about the relationship? Yeah, so I talked to Like so
Speaker 1: a lot of our friends has stay neutral about us
Speaker 1: because like it was like a huge thing in our school,
Speaker 1: our breakup. But um, like my friends like, okay, like
Speaker 1: you're obviously crazy, because like girls are crazy sometimes, but
Speaker 1: like they don't think I'm a crazy girlfriend. But then
Speaker 1: his friends are like, no, you're crazy. Do you guys
Speaker 1: like talk your text ever you and your X? No? No,
Speaker 1: not at all, not at all. So all of this,
Speaker 1: all of this craziness that he's basing it off of.
Speaker 1: Is just like social interaction through your friends, through a school,
Speaker 1: through parties, whatever it is. I mean, unless you're doing
Speaker 1: something that you're not telling me, it sounds like you're
Speaker 1: not very crazy. I think he's probably thank you appreciate.
Speaker 1: I think, honestly, like you said, if he's this popular guy, um,
Speaker 1: he probably isn't used to being rejected in any sort
Speaker 1: of way or or not, you know, having someone open
Speaker 1: up to them. Maybe have you have you ever like
Speaker 1: stolen his phone or like logged onto his Facebook or
Speaker 1: think that God like definitely not has he has he
Speaker 1: blocked you on Instagram or Facebook or anything social media?
Speaker 1: He blocked you? Yeah, I mean, I'll be honest, I've
Speaker 1: blocked girls in the past. And why do guys do that? Like,
Speaker 1: I don't understand the whole blocking thing. Um, I just
Speaker 1: for me, For me specifically, I just didn't want them
Speaker 1: to have an avenue to reach out to me. So
Speaker 1: I don't want them. I don't want them to be
Speaker 1: able to text me or d m me on Instagram
Speaker 1: or whatever it is that was min and I don't
Speaker 1: want to kind of allow that Pandora's box to open
Speaker 1: back up. So that's why I did it personally. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that makes sense for him blocking you. I don't know.
Speaker 1: I think that maybe we're missing some bits of the story.
Speaker 1: How long we guys together for? We were together for
Speaker 1: six weeks? Oh my gosh. What a short relationship. No
Speaker 1: shortest relationship ever. If he okay, So, if you were
Speaker 1: to come back to you and he said, Talia, I
Speaker 1: miss you, I want to take you back, would you
Speaker 1: get back together with him? Oh? No? He was like, okay.
Speaker 1: He was like a little abusive, not gonna lie verbally
Speaker 1: or physical, um like physically, um and so. And he's like,
Speaker 1: since like we broke up, threads all these rumors about Okay,
Speaker 1: I take back everything I said. He is clearly a
Speaker 1: crazy person. You don't need to worry about anything. I mean,
Speaker 1: he's got of like this maybe this ego that's like,
Speaker 1: like you said, not used to being bruised like it is.
Speaker 1: And here you here, you are kind of not being
Speaker 1: able to not giving him what he wants, and he's
Speaker 1: not used to that. I guess, yeah, I think that's
Speaker 1: what it is. I'm glad that you're confirming this for
Speaker 1: me that I don't think you're crazy. I think he
Speaker 1: sounds very crazy. Um, will you Okay, so I'm kind
Speaker 1: of curious to get updates from you every once in
Speaker 1: a while. Can you can we talk to you like
Speaker 1: it could maybe a couple weeks and see where everything's
Speaker 1: going with this? Yeah, oh my gosh, I'd love to
Speaker 1: talk to you in a couple of weeks. Okay, thank you.
Speaker 1: I hope that helped. Um, Tolly, thank you so much
Speaker 1: for calling in. Good luck with everything, and yeah, of course,
Speaker 1: best of luck with high school of course. All right,
Speaker 1: take care. But alright, so we just spoke with Danny,
Speaker 1: who is a psychic. She says she's she's practicing medium
Speaker 1: work a little bit. But next up we have Lisa,
Speaker 1: divine psychic number two for the podcast today. We're gonna
Speaker 1: we're gonna bring her in. We're gonna have her talk
Speaker 1: to some of the callers at least. Are you there? Hi? Hi,
Speaker 1: how are you? Thank you so much for calling in.
Speaker 1: I'm good absolutely. How are you doing, Dean? I'm doing
Speaker 1: well and doing well. So Lisa, can you tell us
Speaker 1: a little bit more about you because you're a psychic,
Speaker 1: right or do you prefer to go by a different title?
Speaker 1: I know it's so funny all the all of us
Speaker 1: who have these abilities. We have so many different titles,
Speaker 1: and yeah, you could call there's a lot of different titles.
Speaker 1: I do a lot of different things, a lot of
Speaker 1: spiritual counseling and uh and intuitive counseling and things like that.
Speaker 1: But I would tell you that my most the thing
Speaker 1: that I do of the time is that I have
Speaker 1: this ability to see, physically see and communicate and speak
Speaker 1: with angels. And so they actually are the ones who
Speaker 1: really have the highest percentage of coming in and giving
Speaker 1: me the most messages. So I guess we could call
Speaker 1: myself an angel whisperer or okay, and co intuitive or
Speaker 1: maybe like a medium. So these angels are people of
Speaker 1: importance to whoever it is that you're speaking through. Is
Speaker 1: that yeah? Okay, Yeah, that's amazing. Okay, great, well, Lisa,
Speaker 1: So we're gonna just jump right onto the phones and
Speaker 1: take a couple of collars, and I'd love for you
Speaker 1: and I to maybe discuss a little bit more about
Speaker 1: me later on, if that's okay. Absolutely, I had tons
Speaker 1: of message for you as well. I can't wait. All right, Well,
Speaker 1: so we're gonna start with Sarah over in Washington, d C. Sarah,
Speaker 1: are you there. Yeah, I'm going to jump off the
Speaker 1: trend mill. Sara's in the gym. I love it. It's
Speaker 1: my first day back from an injury. Gosh. Alright. So Sarah,
Speaker 1: so you have Lisa Divine, who is a psychic angel
Speaker 1: whisper on the phone here. What kind of questions do
Speaker 1: you have for so um. I was just wondering. I
Speaker 1: grew up around without a lot of negative relationships, which
Speaker 1: my family, and I'm wondering if that's going to be
Speaker 1: like if that sofa seeing my place love life? I
Speaker 1: guess yeah, you know, it actually is the It is
Speaker 1: absolutely the driving force. But you have surpassed the negativity
Speaker 1: by right now getting to this point of having the
Speaker 1: awareness that you have right now about this negativity instead
Speaker 1: of being you know, immersed in it and being totally
Speaker 1: engulfed in it. Is that is the point that you've
Speaker 1: gotten to right now. That is that you're the way
Speaker 1: all the way through there. So that awareness is actually
Speaker 1: the key for your for passing it right now, and
Speaker 1: that negativity is also part of the past for you
Speaker 1: to be able to take things and shift them in
Speaker 1: a different way. But what you need to do is
Speaker 1: look at yourself and look at the way that this
Speaker 1: negativity has infused into your life a little bit. Maybe
Speaker 1: look at some of the past patterns and the habits
Speaker 1: that you've had with people that you pick or people
Speaker 1: that you choose to surround yourself with. And this isn't
Speaker 1: just in your love relationships, but it's also friendships. Um,
Speaker 1: when we have a lot of negativity or negativity excuse me,
Speaker 1: in our life, we tend to become comfortable with it,
Speaker 1: even if it's not something we want, it's something that
Speaker 1: we feels normal to us. And then we start start
Speaker 1: to draw in people that you know, have that same energy,
Speaker 1: and we start to you know, deal with it. We
Speaker 1: kind of feel happy that we're challenged, you know, with it,
Speaker 1: and we kind of are like, I know how to
Speaker 1: break through this, but at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: we want to just get it, you know, straight out
Speaker 1: of our life. So absolutely it does have something to
Speaker 1: do with it, but it was a purpose for it,
Speaker 1: and there's a this is a path that you're on
Speaker 1: that we're meant to get you to this exact spot
Speaker 1: of this awareness that you have right now, and so
Speaker 1: this is the time where you can start to make
Speaker 1: the changes and be really intentional about not letting any
Speaker 1: more of that into your life from now here on out.
Speaker 1: That's awesome. I'm just like, yeah, I always want to
Speaker 1: try to keep it out of my looks, but it
Speaker 1: kinds me expect in there. So I'm always trying to
Speaker 1: keep I guess trying to be exactly aware. And it's
Speaker 1: very sneaky. They come in different ways, so it's interesting.
Speaker 1: It won't come in the same way as that that
Speaker 1: negative person that comes in in one way you know
Speaker 1: in your childhood. Other people will come in in a
Speaker 1: different way, and it almost it's masked as if it's
Speaker 1: a very whole different type of energy, but it's very
Speaker 1: much the same and the undercurrent of that person. So
Speaker 1: just being aware and keeping yourself very aware of it.
Speaker 1: How your body feels, that's going to be your biggest
Speaker 1: barometer and your biggest compass. Is for you to take
Speaker 1: a look at, how is my body feel when I'm
Speaker 1: around this person. Does it feel heavy? Does it feel tired?
Speaker 1: Or do I feel revised? Do I feel awake? And
Speaker 1: that is going to be the compass that you want
Speaker 1: to use to continue going on your path. Great, I
Speaker 1: hope you caught all that was quite a bit. That's great. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm like kind of like I can't even think of
Speaker 1: the words to respond. I gues think that's kind of
Speaker 1: something I've been wanting to hear. UM and definitely like
Speaker 1: that's good energy to be like going into like the
Speaker 1: holiday season words especially people like you can be around
Speaker 1: negative people and negative energy so much family, So like absolutely, Sarah, Well,
Speaker 1: thank you so much for calling in. UM, get back
Speaker 1: to your workout and have a happy holiday season. Okay,
Speaker 1: thank you both of us, sending your tail vibes as well.
Speaker 1: Oh thank you? All right, all right, Li, So we're
Speaker 1: gonna move to Leslie and Mesa, Arizona next. Hey Leslie,
Speaker 1: it's Dean and Lisa. How are you again? How are
Speaker 1: you guys? I'm doing well. So we have Lisa divine.
Speaker 1: What's your question for her? She's the psychic. Um. Okay,
Speaker 1: So I've been married for going on for years now
Speaker 1: and I'm only twenty two. UM, but we and my
Speaker 1: husband have had three kids together in that four year
Speaker 1: UM timeline, so he's learning more children. I am done,
Speaker 1: completely done. So I guess my question to you is, UM,
Speaker 1: do you see any more kids in my future? Or not? No?
Speaker 1: Get a dog. No, I think that it would be
Speaker 1: I mean, look, questions like that can go either way,
Speaker 1: and I don't and I you know, because people can
Speaker 1: make you have free will, so you can, you know,
Speaker 1: move back and forth and you can choose whatever really
Speaker 1: you would like. But if you're asking me, you know, intuitively,
Speaker 1: absolutely I believe that you're done and you have an
Speaker 1: entire um gross period that's showing up. You have a
Speaker 1: whole life coming for you that is beyond the children,
Speaker 1: and and you're gonna want to be able to put
Speaker 1: your attention on that. So do a compromise with him
Speaker 1: and ask him, you know, if there's some other way
Speaker 1: that he can you know, you know, you guys can
Speaker 1: compromise and find another way that you can satisfy that
Speaker 1: it's for having another baby. But I do feel like
Speaker 1: it's it's the time. Is that's that's finished. Now you
Speaker 1: have a lot of pictures up on the walk, get
Speaker 1: a dog. Let's let's see. I just want to voice
Speaker 1: my opinion as well. I fully agree with Lisa. I
Speaker 1: think that, um, I mean, obviously I don't have the
Speaker 1: second intuition that she has, but I think that if
Speaker 1: if your husband really wants to have another child if
Speaker 1: you don't want to, at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: it's your choice, right, and maybe consider adoption. Maybe consider
Speaker 1: a dog. I think is a great choice. Um, but
Speaker 1: I don't think that. I don't want you to feel
Speaker 1: pressured into doing that just because it's something that he wants.
Speaker 1: It should be a you know, a mutual agreement for that.
Speaker 1: That's my take on. I just wanted at least voice
Speaker 1: that exactly exactly. Um, all right, let's see. Well, we
Speaker 1: hope that helped. Thank you so much for calling in.
Speaker 1: Best of luck, and we'll talk to you later than
Speaker 1: you when she's listening later. To take a very deep
Speaker 1: breath first thing every morning for you would be a
Speaker 1: really beautiful thing. Take a nice deep breath and then
Speaker 1: get through that day because you're busy girl. Sounds like it.
Speaker 1: I definitely am well, best a Lutia. Thank you guys.
Speaker 1: All right, bye, alright, at least we have one more caller.
Speaker 1: We're gonna go over to Fiona in New York being
Speaker 1: are you there? Yeah, okay, gotcha. So, so we have
Speaker 1: Lisa Divine on the line. She's your psychic. What kind
Speaker 1: of question do you have for so? I think my
Speaker 1: portion is going to break up with me? Mm hmm, okay,
Speaker 1: and what is yeah, is he going to break up
Speaker 1: with me? Yeah? Break up with him first? No, I mean, um,
Speaker 1: I think that what he's doing right now is toying
Speaker 1: with the idea. He's going back and forth, and I
Speaker 1: don't think that he actually has a legitimate feeling one
Speaker 1: way or the other. I think that he goes back
Speaker 1: and forth each day and or each moment or each minute,
Speaker 1: and um. And that would be if I can just
Speaker 1: be empowering on On the other hand, is yes, I
Speaker 1: can see him wobbling back and forth. So if he
Speaker 1: is really of importance to you and this is something
Speaker 1: that you really want to pursue, then then I would
Speaker 1: get into a really nice, deep, vulnerable, communicative place with him.
Speaker 1: Or I would just be you know, asking yourself, am
Speaker 1: I being honored? Is this the kind of relationship I
Speaker 1: want to be in where somebody is I can't decide
Speaker 1: if they want to be with me, but they're not
Speaker 1: speaking to me about it or not trying to work
Speaker 1: through it. And then I would make my own decision
Speaker 1: on that. You know, before I would put too much
Speaker 1: thought into is he going to do it? I would
Speaker 1: start to consider my own options of what would I
Speaker 1: like from my own life. That's where where you where
Speaker 1: you're at right now, um, and maybe just seeing it
Speaker 1: from that perspective of what would you like to you know,
Speaker 1: who would you like to be around, Who would you
Speaker 1: like to be with, Who would you like to be
Speaker 1: spending and creating a life with. You can't create a
Speaker 1: life with somebody who is keeping their own you know,
Speaker 1: back and forthness from you. Yeah, like I want the
Speaker 1: one who's like, who knows they want to be with me?
Speaker 1: And like, I don't want to fill the life with
Speaker 1: someone who's like so, I'm sure you know right. It's
Speaker 1: almost like he's doing things to make you break up
Speaker 1: with him. Yeah, he's being really weird lately. Yeah, he's
Speaker 1: not having the nerve to do it. I'm like, you know,
Speaker 1: that's not the man you need. That's not going to
Speaker 1: help you, not at all. Yeah, in a minute, I
Speaker 1: need him. Yeah, And that's the that's the energy, that's
Speaker 1: the perception you want to stand in instead of putting
Speaker 1: it on thinking about what he's thinking. You wanna you
Speaker 1: want to definitely stand your grout, your feet into the
Speaker 1: ground and ask your stuff no, no, no no, no. All
Speaker 1: that can control is right here in what's and what's
Speaker 1: within me? And what would I have another woman do?
Speaker 1: What would I ask for another person if they were
Speaker 1: in this situation? And then I'm going to choose the
Speaker 1: thing for myself. Thank you so much. So you're welcome.
Speaker 1: You're so welcome. All right, Fiane, Well, thank you so
Speaker 1: much for calling in and asking the question. We hope
Speaker 1: that helped. Um. Thank you so much. I love you
Speaker 1: so much. You're so welcome, and thank you for listening.
Speaker 1: And best of luck with everything. Okay, all right, take
Speaker 1: care bye. All right, Lisa, great job. Now it's just
Speaker 1: me and you girl. All right. How much time do
Speaker 1: we have left? We have as much time as you want.
Speaker 1: It really depends. Oh my god. So it's so funny
Speaker 1: because I just think getting bombarded with um with you know,
Speaker 1: information for you, and honestly have not I don't. I
Speaker 1: didn't know who you were. I wasn't aware of of
Speaker 1: you know, anything about you, but um, I was getting
Speaker 1: these beautiful, strong messages for you. First of all, uh,
Speaker 1: just some of the things that we're just coming in
Speaker 1: right off the bat was that there's this really deep
Speaker 1: like misunderstanding about you that has been, you know, from
Speaker 1: a lot of people have been misunderstanding you. And then
Speaker 1: it's almost like you've looked around and seeing that and
Speaker 1: then turned it around on yourself and started to misunderstand yourself.
Speaker 1: You have this Yeah, no, no, continue, I'm sorry, no, no,
Speaker 1: tell me. What were you going to say, because I
Speaker 1: wanted to hear well, I was going to say, I
Speaker 1: think that there there does seem to be misunderstanding about me.
Speaker 1: I think I can agree with that statement. Um, I
Speaker 1: think that I was labeled something that I'm not. Again,
Speaker 1: I think that the actions reflected the label. And I'm
Speaker 1: not arguing that point at all, um, but at the core,
Speaker 1: I just know that's not right. So um, that's ok. Good,
Speaker 1: that's I guess me agreeing with that part of it
Speaker 1: at least. Good good. Okay. Yeah, there is a a sensitivity,
Speaker 1: like a really deep sensitivity to you, and there is
Speaker 1: a really strong desire for love. And it's almost like
Speaker 1: what you know, might the angels are showing me is
Speaker 1: that you have this idea of what a relationship should be,
Speaker 1: and you're looking at like this idea of what it
Speaker 1: should be, but in actuality, you are on this path
Speaker 1: that you you haven't really it hasn't you know, went
Speaker 1: into full like opening up of this path and this purpose.
Speaker 1: Yet so you're kind of still on it and you
Speaker 1: can't really get to see that you're actually changing the
Speaker 1: paradigm of what love looks like for a lot of people,
Speaker 1: and you're actually being able to expose this new kind
Speaker 1: of paradigm for love, this one that is you know
Speaker 1: what is you know, it's like showing me each person,
Speaker 1: You're showing each person, You're like this model of hope
Speaker 1: that's showing them, you know, what is your love story?
Speaker 1: What is your idea of love? What does it look
Speaker 1: like for you? So that everybody has this different kind
Speaker 1: of perfect on putting that in quotes relationship, but it's
Speaker 1: based upon all of our imperfections, and and you're kind
Speaker 1: of in the same place. You have this um they're
Speaker 1: showing me that you had this ultimately this idea and
Speaker 1: if you were looking at this idea and if you
Speaker 1: weren't doing that idea, then you were assuming that you're
Speaker 1: judging that you were doing something wrong. And so what
Speaker 1: they're telling me is to look instead of stop, you know,
Speaker 1: instead of looking at other people are looking at like,
Speaker 1: who did I hurt that person, or keeping your gaze
Speaker 1: just on all of the other um people, basically turning
Speaker 1: it on yourself and looking into yourself and and having
Speaker 1: compassion there for who you are, you know, for what
Speaker 1: works for you, for being really vulnerable, you know, using
Speaker 1: your sense of humor, using your you know, your knowledge
Speaker 1: and its vulnerability that you have that you're exposing to everybody,
Speaker 1: and and kind of working in that way. Um So,
Speaker 1: so I guess you're what you're saying information of all
Speaker 1: that is is don't necessarily allow myself to get put
Speaker 1: into a box, because I think I think to your
Speaker 1: initial point is there is a lot of for the
Speaker 1: first time in my life, first time I've experienced it,
Speaker 1: there is a lot of outside influence on me, both
Speaker 1: individually and in a presumptive relationship or perspective relationship, whatever
Speaker 1: it is. And I think to that initial point that
Speaker 1: you made is it's hard to not let other people
Speaker 1: influence the idea of what a relationship is for me
Speaker 1: when obviously it varies from person to person. So I
Speaker 1: think what what you're saying is don't necessarily allow that
Speaker 1: influence to take effect. Is that right? Yeah, That's exactly
Speaker 1: what I'm trying to say is that you are completely
Speaker 1: out of the box and trying to fit in the
Speaker 1: box is just this is not. Your purpose is to
Speaker 1: be out of the box, and your purpose is to
Speaker 1: to have this completely other relationship. There's a relationship coming
Speaker 1: for you, and she is a grounded girl and she
Speaker 1: sees you, but it is it's a completely different love
Speaker 1: than you're imagining that it would be. And so they're saying, basically,
Speaker 1: bust up that whole idea of what you are thinking
Speaker 1: that it is so that this new one can come through,
Speaker 1: this real, organic, imperfect love. You know that it's completely
Speaker 1: authentic to you, and it's it's a perfect thing for you,
Speaker 1: wouldn't be perfect for other people, you know. But then
Speaker 1: you're then by doing that, you're being this model for
Speaker 1: people of finding their own love that works for them,
Speaker 1: so that a bust out of their own box. And
Speaker 1: because we're in a time right now where everybody's busting
Speaker 1: out of the box and we just don't do relationships
Speaker 1: the way we used to do them anymore. What do
Speaker 1: I have to do to receive that love? What do
Speaker 1: I have to do to open myself up to be
Speaker 1: able to find it? I know that this is the
Speaker 1: best part. You don't have to do anything. They're telling me,
Speaker 1: it's just going to come in and slap you in
Speaker 1: the face. Like literally, if a girl comes to you
Speaker 1: in the next little while, it slops you in the face.
Speaker 1: She was the one. Um, They're they're telling me to
Speaker 1: have you turn it onto yourself and start to just
Speaker 1: spend the time, like give yourself a lot of time alone.
Speaker 1: Like they're showing me, outdoors is really good for you.
Speaker 1: Take a walk on the beach, go do some kind
Speaker 1: of exercise or activity that you love to do, something
Speaker 1: where you can kind of just get into this space
Speaker 1: of being in your own energy. Because the more that
Speaker 1: you're okay and understanding yourself, the more that she's able
Speaker 1: to see you because you can see yourself okay. Interesting,
Speaker 1: So just continue to live my life as I as
Speaker 1: I want to live it. Essentially, continue living your life
Speaker 1: and just being introspective and turning it into yourself. Exactly.
Speaker 1: You have already this desperate life you have. They're showing
Speaker 1: me such a deep sensitivity inside this, like really beautiful, loyal, affectionate. Um,
Speaker 1: you're just a really caring person, and I think that
Speaker 1: that's actually hurt you before, because that's you know, it's
Speaker 1: almost like you're exposing yourself and your raw and you're vulnerable,
Speaker 1: and you know that can actually seem to other people
Speaker 1: like you know, it can backfire on you. It's it
Speaker 1: kind of has hurt you before to be that way,
Speaker 1: or that you come across in a way that that
Speaker 1: wasn't your intention. And so they're asking you to have
Speaker 1: compassion for yourself, to be able to look at yourself
Speaker 1: and and really, you know, know that you're coming from
Speaker 1: a really big heart, is the bottom line? Do all
Speaker 1: I do? I do think that that's pretty true. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I have a question. So earlier, when we first introduced you,
Speaker 1: you said that you are an angel whisper of sorts? Correct,
Speaker 1: And when you do that, do you do you find
Speaker 1: yourself having to be in the same room as the person?
Speaker 1: Do you? Are you able to do it over the phone?
Speaker 1: How does that work? I'm able to do it over
Speaker 1: the phone. I'm able to do it everywhere anywhere. It's
Speaker 1: really interesting. All right, So I have a I have
Speaker 1: a quick question to ask you then. Um, So I
Speaker 1: just recently got this tattoo on my back on my shoulder.
Speaker 1: Last week, I got a butterfly, because butterflies are symbolic
Speaker 1: of angels. At least I think I accorded to like
Speaker 1: Japanese law or something on those lines. So when I
Speaker 1: was ten years old, I've never I don't really share
Speaker 1: this story often. Not many people know this about me.
Speaker 1: When I was ten years old, I had this best friend.
Speaker 1: His name was Hunter Holly Scott. He was the same
Speaker 1: age as me. We had the exact same birthday, and
Speaker 1: you know, at that age you find you're grasping at
Speaker 1: straws to find, you know, commonalities between each other. So
Speaker 1: having the same birthday as someone kind of allows them
Speaker 1: to be your best friend at that point, right, So
Speaker 1: best friends from like second grade until fifth grade. Remember
Speaker 1: one day we were riding our bikes around, uh around
Speaker 1: town around Basalt where I grew up, and he we
Speaker 1: went to the market to get drinks or something like that,
Speaker 1: and he killed a butterfly with his bicycle. It was
Speaker 1: this beautiful yellow monarch butterfly. And then five maybe like
Speaker 1: ten to fifteen minutes later, we were both bicycling back
Speaker 1: home because we lived next to each other, we were neighbors,
Speaker 1: and he fell on his bicycle and then got ran
Speaker 1: over by a truck and I was right behind him.
Speaker 1: And so I've always kind of had this strange appreciation
Speaker 1: for butterflies and I've always wanted to get this butterfly tattoo.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. He of course passed away that moment.
Speaker 1: But are you able to like speak with him at all? Wow? Um, yeah,
Speaker 1: let's let's try to. Let's try to pull him in.
Speaker 1: I will tell you this. There is an angel that
Speaker 1: has been coming to me for you specifically, and his
Speaker 1: name is Jeremy. It's an archangel, Jeremy. I own is
Speaker 1: j E R E M I E L Jeremile. And yeah,
Speaker 1: and he's been he's letting me know that he has been.
Speaker 1: He was there during this time. And actually, yes, there
Speaker 1: was this symbolic presence of this. This is a this
Speaker 1: is all this is a talk further conversation as well.
Speaker 1: But yes, we have the this presence and give you
Speaker 1: this your friend's name again, Scott. Okay, yeah, Um, And
Speaker 1: absolutely Hunter is has a Wow. I mean, there's just
Speaker 1: such a strong presence he he's with you that this
Speaker 1: is part of your path, this purpose that I've been
Speaker 1: speaking to you about. It's almost like he was this
Speaker 1: guide for you that he's come in and he's still
Speaker 1: with you. I'm sure you can send him all the
Speaker 1: time or very often. Yeah, it's almost like he was
Speaker 1: a guide for you. You guys came in and oh,
Speaker 1: I'm even getting that maybe this angel, that Jeremile that's
Speaker 1: coming in. It's almost that he's emerging showing me that
Speaker 1: he had merged with that that energy. So what I
Speaker 1: would assume is that he's always been with him. It's
Speaker 1: like this guide for you, This Jeremile has always been
Speaker 1: a guide for you. And this child was a friend,
Speaker 1: but he's also was a guide for you. And there's
Speaker 1: still so much more to learn from this friend. He
Speaker 1: still wants to continue to be friends with you and
Speaker 1: you know, to continue your friendship. But yes, that pivotal
Speaker 1: moment was traumatic, but in that trauma, there was also
Speaker 1: this Joe. It did something in you where, uh, it
Speaker 1: fueled you with a purpose that you weren't aware of
Speaker 1: for all of these years, and it's starting to unfold
Speaker 1: right now. So I believe that the moment that you
Speaker 1: got the tattoo, which by the way, he was with you,
Speaker 1: you know, kind of getting his own little angel imprint,
Speaker 1: you know, and or Butterfly imprint on himself. Uh, this
Speaker 1: is really the time where it's you're starting your purpose
Speaker 1: is starting to awaken. And so that was almost that
Speaker 1: moment was a symbol of that. Whether you're aware of
Speaker 1: that or not, he was there. It's almost like he's
Speaker 1: starting to not merge with you here at this time.
Speaker 1: That Yeah, there's a significant part of there's a significant
Speaker 1: date of when is there a date that you got
Speaker 1: the the or a time or a moment that you
Speaker 1: decided you were going to get it or when you
Speaker 1: got it or something like that. Well, so it's kind
Speaker 1: of been in two parts. When I was nineteen, one
Speaker 1: of my other best friends who was very very close
Speaker 1: to Hunter and I both got h h S and
Speaker 1: carry on her back for you know, just basically to
Speaker 1: commemorate his life and and kind of a bonding of
Speaker 1: our friendship altogether. And then this past weekend, I've I've
Speaker 1: always told around and thought about the butterfly tattoo. I've
Speaker 1: always like told my friends that I wanted to get
Speaker 1: a butterfly tattoo. And then I was like, no, you
Speaker 1: can't get a butterfly tattoo, Like that's too like whatever,
Speaker 1: And every single time, like like you don't know what
Speaker 1: you're talking about. I'm just gonna do it. And then
Speaker 1: so one of my one of my great friends and
Speaker 1: I both went to the tattoo parlor last week, and um,
Speaker 1: I mean I love it Personally, I think, uh, it's girly,
Speaker 1: but it's it's important to me and I think that's
Speaker 1: the most important. It's absolutely great. Yeah, yeah, that's a
Speaker 1: it's a beautiful Um. I have the chills talking about
Speaker 1: it because there's a really strong connection between you and him,
Speaker 1: and it's almost like in that moment, yes, he was
Speaker 1: jolted into another realm, but there was a very very
Speaker 1: strong um union between you two that surpasses these realms
Speaker 1: and dimensions that that he's been with you. He is
Speaker 1: a guy, He's an absolute guide and you can talk
Speaker 1: to him whenever and he will be there and you
Speaker 1: will answer, and you will find a way always to
Speaker 1: lead you, to guide you, to mentor you and to
Speaker 1: and he will communicate and and open doors for you
Speaker 1: as well. I love that. Well. Yeah, I think you
Speaker 1: said that a lot of this conversation is kind of
Speaker 1: left to be had at a later time when we
Speaker 1: have time to discuss, and I agree with you. I
Speaker 1: think I'd love to talk with you a little bit
Speaker 1: more about it, um, But for now, Lisa, I wanted
Speaker 1: to thank you one more time for for calling in
Speaker 1: and you know, speaking with our listeners and giving me
Speaker 1: more insight both to my romantic life and my friends
Speaker 1: and UM, you know, I really do for sure. You're
Speaker 1: so welcome. Thanks for having me. If any of the
Speaker 1: listeners want to reach out to to Lisa, UM, you
Speaker 1: can go to her website, the Modern Magdalene dot com.
Speaker 1: That's the Modern M A G D A L E
Speaker 1: n E dot com. UM and Lisa, thank you again.
Speaker 1: And like I said, I'd love to continue a conversation
Speaker 1: with you later on and you know, maybe soon. All right,
Speaker 1: take care, talk soon by. Yeah, that was that was
Speaker 1: an interesting day for me. He died in front of you. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he was maybe like fiftet in front of me. It
Speaker 1: was pretty traumatic. I remember, I mean, if I remember
Speaker 1: very specifically, it wasn't just his his head was the
Speaker 1: one that got ran over. So like it was this
Speaker 1: big burly truck that was like working construction for the day,
Speaker 1: and he was like riding with his forearms on the
Speaker 1: handlebars like open a Solby bottle or something like that
Speaker 1: and he like glasses balance fell over and as he
Speaker 1: hit the ground of the truck came by and ran
Speaker 1: over his head. It was very traumatic and and I
Speaker 1: mean I definitely had a lot to work through from
Speaker 1: that point. But uh, at that age, I still have
Speaker 1: my mother. So my mother was very supportive and and
Speaker 1: and wanted me to be able to work through my
Speaker 1: shues with her. UM. So it definitely helped strengthen my
Speaker 1: relationship with my mother. And then you know, like I said,
Speaker 1: I got this tattoo with one of my other best friends.
Speaker 1: And even like at our high school graduation, UM, I
Speaker 1: was voted on by my peers to like give a
Speaker 1: speech in commemoration and and honoring Hunter. So um. To
Speaker 1: Lisa's point, I think that, uh, he has kind of
Speaker 1: given me a out of guide. It's whether it's directly
Speaker 1: or indirectly UM as a spirit or or just as
Speaker 1: an as an individual. So um. Again, it's not really
Speaker 1: a story that I share often, so it's weird to
Speaker 1: have a platform to kind of speak about UM. Anyways,
Speaker 1: I want to thank my guest today, uh Sandy and Franklin, Wisconsin,
Speaker 1: who doesn't like me, but I tried to win her
Speaker 1: over maybe we'll have her on later on. Again, that's
Speaker 1: Mark's mother in law. We also had Danny Brown on,
Speaker 1: who is the psychic and if you need her you
Speaker 1: can email her or or just email us at I
Speaker 1: Suck at Dating at iHeartMedia dot com. And then last,
Speaker 1: but certainly not least, we had Lisa Divine who was
Speaker 1: the angel whisper slash psychic and she can be found
Speaker 1: at the Modern Magdalene dot com. I just both spelled
Speaker 1: it for you, but it's the Modern m A G
Speaker 1: D A l e n E dot com. Um. So
Speaker 1: next week, I'm very hopeful to have a couple of
Speaker 1: my fellow castaways from Paradise on. Uh. Probably the cutest couple,
Speaker 1: I guess, the only couple well that beside Sailing Derek.
Speaker 1: The one of the cutest couples to come out of
Speaker 1: Bachelor Paradise this season. Raven and Adam. You know, Adam
Speaker 1: and I became very close friends over the course of
Speaker 1: my season and then throughout Paradise and Raven I think
Speaker 1: is is a gem, a little bit of a firecracker,
Speaker 1: but they're incredible together. Uh. They just spent the weekend
Speaker 1: in Arizona for adams home homecoming for college, and um,
Speaker 1: they just seem to be very much in love and
Speaker 1: I'd love to be able to get them on and
Speaker 1: talk about what makes them work, what advice they have
Speaker 1: for me from their perspective, and uh and yeah, just
Speaker 1: kinda talk about things. So so next week that's what
Speaker 1: we're looking forward to. Um, my name is Dean, and
Speaker 1: thank you so much for taking the time to listen.
Speaker 1: This is episode six, Halloween edition of Help I Suck
Speaker 1: At Dating Again. My name is Dean, and maybe next
Speaker 1: week I'll suck a little bit less. Follow Help I
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