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Speaker 3: So this weekend, Mike and I took a long weekend

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Speaker 3: and we went up to his family's Lake House just

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Speaker 3: for a little you know, lake time, little get away.

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Speaker 3: And it's about two and a half hours away. And

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Speaker 3: so Thursday we left after the show so that you know,

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Speaker 2: There in time. But blah blah.

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Speaker 3: So I go home, get everything in the car, get

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Speaker 3: ready to go. I'm about twenty minutes away from his parents'

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Speaker 3: has my medicine, it has everything. I had my clothes

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Speaker 3: I tell you, I have never been so mad. I've

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Speaker 3: been this mad, but I've never been so mad at myself,

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Speaker 3: Like I could not blame anybody but myself for this occurrence. Okay,

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Speaker 3: so I just start like I'm dry, and Mike's turn around,

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Speaker 3: We'll go back. I was like, no, the girls, I've

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Speaker 3: been in the car for almost three hours at this point,

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Speaker 3: you are not going to ruin your first day of vacation.

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Speaker 3: Because I'm an idiot. Right, So I'm like I'm driving.

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Speaker 3: I drove all the way to his parents' house, dropped

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Speaker 2: And I was like, Okay, I'm gonna do it, like I've.

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Speaker 3: Been up since three am, but we're gonna make the

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Speaker 2: Back and then three hour day home.

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Speaker 1: Yes.

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Speaker 3: So then I get there and his mom's already got

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Speaker 3: You've been up too late, too long, like you got

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Speaker 3: let me be by myself. I'm so mad, Like I'm

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Speaker 1: And like nine hours of driving total in yes.

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Speaker 3: So literally she drove us back here, got my stuff,

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Speaker 2: And three hours back.

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Speaker 3: Literally nine hours in the car to and from Michigan

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Speaker 2: Two Was there no other way?

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Speaker 3: There was no other I was trying, like, you know,

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Speaker 2: Can I like do this?

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Speaker 3: And I could not think of a way where all

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Speaker 1: Besides the medicine.

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Speaker 4: I don't really think you needed much else my personal opinion,

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, no, I definitely could have.

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Speaker 3: There was I just was planning to do a lot

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Speaker 1: Maybe it was maybe maybe they maybe the work gods

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Speaker 1: were like, no, it's okay, the boss doesn't need to

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Speaker 1: Like it's maybe that was the you know, the vacation

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So like I brought the computer back do I

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Speaker 3: But then I did make like a conscious effort to

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Speaker 2: I like was disconnected. So you know, I'm trying.

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Speaker 3: But I was like, wow, I am so dumb.

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Speaker 5: Wow, Yeah, if you know anything about Jason. He's not

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Speaker 5: leaving it, think bad, honey. He will he will leave,

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Speaker 1: You, man, Jason can't go anywhere with that. That two

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Speaker 2: It's my biggest memesis.

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Speaker 1: But I know, yeah, nine hours of driving, bro, I

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but you know, big up to Mike's mom.

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Speaker 3: For particularly I bond her culverts on the way back.

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Speaker 2: I was like, dinner's on me. What do you want?

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Speaker 2: She's like, I want cheesekirts. I'm like that, let's go.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, man, I want have taken you to a

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Speaker 1: that's like nothing of Cutwater. Can't sit waiting by the

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Speaker 1: on demand. It's a Fred Show. It's Kik's Court. All rise,

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Speaker 1: the Honorable Kikileik is here. Judge Kiki, if you would

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Speaker 5: All right, let's get into the courtroom. The gavel has

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Speaker 5: been hit, it says Judge Kiki. Am I wrong for

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Speaker 5: skipping my sister's baby shower?

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Speaker 6: So?

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Speaker 5: My younger sister is pregnant with her fifth child by

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Speaker 5: her second husband, and she's living back at my parents' house.

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Speaker 5: Her ex is a deadbeat, her current husband can't hold

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Speaker 7: We're talking school.

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Speaker 5: Fees, medical bills, lawyer bills, you name it. Now she's

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Speaker 5: having another baby and expects yet another baby shower. My

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Speaker 5: like I've done in the past, but honestly, I feel

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Speaker 5: like going would just be me co signing her irresponsible choices.

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Speaker 5: My parents are supposed to be enjoying retirement, not raising

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Speaker 5: her kids and paying her bills.

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Speaker 7: I love my niece and nephews. But enough is enough.

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Speaker 5: Someone in the family has to draw the line, and

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Speaker 5: it looks like that person is me. So am I

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Speaker 5: a jerk for refusing to go to the baby shower?

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Speaker 1: First of all? How many? How many baby showers?

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Speaker 6: Do you know?

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Speaker 1: How many crib?

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Speaker 5: Mean?

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Speaker 1: I guess you need another crib because you go? But

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Speaker 1: I mean, don't you have enough stuff by now?

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Speaker 7: I would think so, like what happened to baby number four?

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Speaker 2: Stuff?

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Speaker 1: Hey? How about baby number one? Baby number one's in college? Now,

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Speaker 1: you know? Yes, what do you think? Keki?

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Speaker 7: Well, you know y'all.

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Speaker 5: Get mad at me when I don't have sympathy for

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Speaker 5: people who make terrible decisions in life. WILL take all

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Speaker 5: the smoke on this one because I do not think

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Speaker 5: she is wrong. At some point, when you are not

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Speaker 5: financially where you need to be, you need to close

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Speaker 5: my money is funny, I don't even have the urge

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Speaker 5: to do what you do to make babies like I

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Speaker 5: don't even come one talk to nobody. I'm not in

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Speaker 5: a joyful spirit. You know you go through a hard time.

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Speaker 5: I understand that you went through a bad divorce. I

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Speaker 5: understand that it's okay to move back. Sometimes you have

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Speaker 7: To work and keep a job. And then if you

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Speaker 5: And you can't go to work, then you need to

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Speaker 5: stop having children because who's paying for this? And then

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Speaker 5: the poor parents? You know, and I have. I come

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Speaker 5: from a family of my sister. You know, she loves

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Speaker 5: her grandchildren down she'll do anything for her grandchildren. But

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Speaker 5: if I was to ever see one of my siblings

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Speaker 5: taking advantage of her in her retirement, I'm absolutely gonna

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Speaker 5: speak up. You should it's not the pay. It's not

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Speaker 5: our parents' responsibility to raise your children. They loud, but

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Speaker 5: you you know it's that's fan, it's not.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe she should have used some of that money

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Speaker 1: she borrowed from her parents and gotten some birth control.

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Speaker 7: Hello, I mean that's responsible, that's real.

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Speaker 4: Listen. I've always said this too, like if you are

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Speaker 7: Isn't the best decision we're making right now.

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Speaker 1: Is always saying that, she's always she always walking around saying, hey,

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Speaker 1: you you don't look like you're in a spot for this.

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Speaker 7: As a mother.

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Speaker 4: I can tell you firsthand. It is expensive, it is hard,

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Speaker 4: It is everything you can think of. Okay, it is beautiful,

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Speaker 7: Work out with this girl.

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Speaker 1: Hello. You guys are the journey though eight five five

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Speaker 1: five nine one three five. You have to call it

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Speaker 1: pay the bill. I guess, but we call now.

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Speaker 2: I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's unfair. I really don't. And I

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Speaker 1: know that accidents happened. I realize that it's possible, very

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Speaker 1: possible to have a kid when you're not when you're

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Speaker 1: as you would say, when your money is funny mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: But I mean, when we're on the fifth one. Come on,

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Speaker 1: what point do we need to take responsibility for ourselves?

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Speaker 1: It was probably four kids ago, you know, when we're

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Speaker 1: not having our parents pay our bills. What is this

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Speaker 1: dude doing who's knocking you up? Why is he not

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Speaker 1: doing this? I mean, I feel terrible for these kids, honestly,

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Speaker 1: because there's no accountability here, you know, I'm sure their

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Speaker 1: quality of life is affected by the fact that that

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Speaker 1: the resources aren't there, and now you got grandma and

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Speaker 1: grandpa having to pay for all this, and then I guess,

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Speaker 1: you know, another baby shower. So we're it's just more

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Speaker 1: people enabling. I'm with you, Kiki, I'm sorry, but you know,

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Speaker 1: you can call up here and you can say what

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Speaker 1: you want, but this stuff does happen, but it doesn't

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Speaker 7: Right, And you're at home with our parents.

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Speaker 5: They have worked hard to enjoy their retirement and I'm

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Speaker 5: You know, they should be enjoying themselves, going on vacations,

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Speaker 7: That you keep bringing it to the family financially supporting.

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Speaker 1: And to your point earlier, Kiki, there are two adults

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Speaker 1: and where are his parents? Where are you're in laws?

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Speaker 1: Maybe you stay over their house a couple of months. Yeah, Alison,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Alison. There, Hi, Hey, Alison Keky's court. So

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Speaker 1: It's already done, it was worked on, it's on the way.

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Speaker 1: There's another baby shower, another baby shower, except this woman

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Speaker 1: I don't think I should have to support this because

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Speaker 1: What do you think.

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Speaker 6: I completely agree that it's irresponsible for her to continue

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Speaker 8: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, because if my aunt didn't go to mind,

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Speaker 8: Other siblings, I'd be like, you know who kind of

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Speaker 1: I hear what you're saying. Alison, but almost nobody who

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Speaker 1: So I mean she has she has the right to

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Speaker 6: Yeah, that is true, But then I also think she's

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Speaker 1: Well, and these poor parents, and what are they supposed

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Speaker 1: but I would really like to hear from Hadley. Now,

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Speaker 1: Hadley is ten years old. Hadley, All, Hi, Hadley, Hi, Hi?

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Speaker 1: Now you are ten years old. Now you you heard

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Speaker 9: I want to just say that I think it's okay

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Speaker 1: You know what. That's exactly right, Catli, that is fantastic.

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Speaker 1: Now you is your mom there with you? Or did

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Speaker 9: My dad's here with me.

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Speaker 1: Can I talk to your dad?

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Speaker 1: Let me talk to your dad.

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Speaker 1: I just want to I want to give you a

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Speaker 1: knows what's up. Random A plus. Fantastic. How happy were

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Speaker 1: you to hear that? From your ten year old. You

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Speaker 1: happy did that make you?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: This sounds good to me. That's right. You could start

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Speaker 1: planning your retirement because your daughter, Hadley knows what's up. Hey,

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Speaker 2: Thank you. All right.

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Speaker 1: That's the kind of responsible Yeah, that's the kind of

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Speaker 1: responsibility we need to hear it in today's youth. You

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Speaker 4: It's more responsible than our own girl over there, eat

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you remember that, Hadley. You remember that you called

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Speaker 1: Good morning, Rebecca. You got to follow up a ten

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Speaker 8: Kieki scored, I would just like to say that I

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Speaker 8: fill hardly agree with Tiki. I have actually found myself

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Speaker 8: I I don't know how anybody can do five children.

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Speaker 8: That is outrageous. It's ridiculous to think and expect your

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Speaker 8: ultimately we came to the decision that it wasn't for us,

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Speaker 1: Well, Recca, I said, that's a heavy situation. And I

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Speaker 2: Good day.

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Speaker 1: Glad you called. Yeah, I mean, I all I can

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Speaker 1: You know that's that's coming out of my piece, you

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Speaker 5: You're not wrong when my brothers keep having kids, I

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Speaker 7: What's left forlox?

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Speaker 1: It's just like a total free for all, you know,

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Speaker 1: But like how many times do you get to have

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Speaker 5: Right, when you start to feel some type of self accountability,

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Speaker 7: You know, when do you apologize?

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