Speaker 1: We're back with another Sunday sampler. I said down with
Speaker 1: Cooper Allen got massive on TikTok. Really cool artist, not
Speaker 1: a kid, but like a young dude. We talked about
Speaker 1: his career. Pretty cool. Let's do this. So Morgan has
Speaker 1: a brand new podcast. We're going to start the sampler
Speaker 1: with her podcast. Here's a clip from the first episode
Speaker 1: of Take This Personally with Morgan Hilsman.
Speaker 2: I want to bring on Amanda White. She's a therapist
Speaker 2: and the founder of Therapy for Women. You know, she
Speaker 2: was super frustrated and the options out there for modern
Speaker 2: approaches to therapy, so she created Therapy for Women to
Speaker 2: help provide people with authentic and compassionate therapists who provide
Speaker 2: people with real life tools.
Speaker 1: Personal with the mogulsmen.
Speaker 2: I know, something that you're familiar with is addictive behaviors.
Speaker 2: How are we supposed to distinguish between the two?
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think the best way to understand an addictive
Speaker 3: pattern is it does serve a purpose in our life.
Speaker 3: And addiction can get this bad reputation as something that's
Speaker 3: you know, immoral or something that someone is you know,
Speaker 3: doing to harm themselves or others. But it's important to
Speaker 3: remember that someone wouldn't have started doing it if it
Speaker 3: wasn't helping control pain in some way, if it wasn't
Speaker 3: giving them a sense of control over their emotions or
Speaker 3: their life, or giving them an escape. So it's a
Speaker 3: myth that there's an addictive personality.
Speaker 4: The truth is addiction is complicated.
Speaker 3: It is a variety of different factors, and some of
Speaker 3: us are more genetically disposed to it. And also if
Speaker 3: you've been through trauma, depending on how you're raised, if
Speaker 3: you grew up around you know, certain substances that can
Speaker 3: definitely make it more likely that you'll turn to that
Speaker 3: substance or develop an addictive behavior.
Speaker 4: But it's complicated, so it's hard to know.
Speaker 2: I don't think there's a woman I've met in my
Speaker 2: life that doesn't deal with some kind of body image issues.
Speaker 2: Whatever that looks like, however that came to be, everybody
Speaker 2: deals with it in a different way. What are some
Speaker 2: steps that you suggest for any of us who feel
Speaker 2: that body image is a struggle to just kind of
Speaker 2: start to get out of that constant negativity space.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I completely agree with you.
Speaker 3: I think it's something that women especially struggle with because
Speaker 3: we are objectified.
Speaker 4: Much more in the media.
Speaker 3: So what happens often is we start to objectify ourselves.
Speaker 3: So self objectification is when you kind of pick apart
Speaker 3: your body. You imagine like maybe you're getting dressed right,
Speaker 3: and you imagine what someone is thinking about how you look,
Speaker 3: or you know you're sumped over in a chair, and
Speaker 3: you like correct yourself because you don't want anyone to
Speaker 3: see a certain angle of you that is objectifying yourself.
Speaker 3: So one thing that we can do kind of to
Speaker 3: snap out of that is to stop looking at ourselves
Speaker 3: as just body parts and try to look at ourselves
Speaker 3: as a whole.
Speaker 4: Holistic being.
Speaker 3: And when you notice yourself, maybe like in the mirror,
Speaker 3: body checking or checking out different angles, trying to come
Speaker 3: back to wearing things that make you feel comfortable, wearing
Speaker 3: things that make you feel like you, that make you
Speaker 3: feel beautiful.
Speaker 4: I mean, a big thing I say.
Speaker 3: To people often is if you had the body you loved,
Speaker 3: if you were totally confident in how you felt, how
Speaker 3: would your life be different?
Speaker 4: What would you wear, what would you do, what would
Speaker 4: you say?
Speaker 3: And then try to practice that even if you're in
Speaker 3: a body that you don't feel that way, and yet.
Speaker 2: There's a connection as women too, that we've been taught
Speaker 2: not only have we been objectified so much, but also.
Speaker 4: We've been told not to love ourselves.
Speaker 2: We've been told, you know, if we take too many
Speaker 2: pictures of ourselves, or if we do things that make
Speaker 2: us feel good, we are narcissistic, or we are too
Speaker 2: much into ourselves. And I do feel like as we
Speaker 2: keep having these conversations and women keep talking about, oh,
Speaker 2: we're all feeling this way, there's this huge empowerment happening
Speaker 2: of like, no, we deserve to feel that way about ourselves.
Speaker 4: Are you seeing that kind of happen right now?
Speaker 1: I am?
Speaker 5: I am.
Speaker 3: I think it's a good change, and I think it's
Speaker 3: I'm excited to see more women kind of taking back
Speaker 3: the idea too, that like your hobbies matter, like what
Speaker 3: you like matters, even if other people think it's dumb
Speaker 3: or they're not interested in it.
Speaker 4: It's okay to like what you like.
Speaker 3: It's okay to be basic, it's okay to enjoy things
Speaker 3: that maybe other people don't. And it makes me so
Speaker 3: sad when and people are struggling with their mental health,
Speaker 3: people struggle to find things they care about these days,
Speaker 3: and love and what we don't need is a bunch
Speaker 3: of people telling women what is okay for them to
Speaker 3: care about or be interested in.
Speaker 2: Speaking of taking things less personally, I know you can
Speaker 2: touch on this a lot. I want to know the
Speaker 2: world of social media and just in person too. But
Speaker 2: how can we try to not take things so personally?
Speaker 3: I mean, I will say it's very difficult, and I
Speaker 3: don't think anyone can do it one hundred percent perfectly.
Speaker 4: My best tip for it.
Speaker 3: What I do and what I teach clients to do,
Speaker 3: is when someone gives you a piece of feedback or
Speaker 3: says something that's particularly difficult for you, I would write
Speaker 3: down on a piece of paper what the person said,
Speaker 3: and then on the other side of the piece of paper,
Speaker 3: write down what is your interpretation of what they said?
Speaker 3: Because words are painful, for sure, and a lot of
Speaker 3: times what keeps us up at I what really stings
Speaker 3: is the interpretation of what that means.
Speaker 4: That's such a good tip and really hard to do too.
Speaker 2: It's really hard to take it out of your head
Speaker 2: and your emotions and just leave it as what was said.
Speaker 1: When did you start to play music or when did
Speaker 1: you start caring about music other than just listening to it.
Speaker 1: Start playing guitar in sixth grade? Why did someone give
Speaker 1: you one? Or were you like I need one of those?
Speaker 5: I was playing the trumpet. That was like my first
Speaker 5: instrument because I was like heavy into disco. You know
Speaker 5: Casey in the Sunshine band Abbatius, I mean dead ass.
Speaker 1: Okay, who then was around you to expose you to
Speaker 1: that in sixth grade?
Speaker 5: So I think I saw Mama Mia when I was
Speaker 5: in like third grade.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's enough of a thing.
Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I got hooked on this, yeah yeah, and
Speaker 5: then got into more of the disco scene. Then my
Speaker 5: brothers were like, dude, you got you got to stop
Speaker 5: playing the trumpet. It's just there's nothing cool about it.
Speaker 1: Did you learn to read music to the point where
Speaker 1: it still as beneficial to you, not to where it's
Speaker 1: still beneficial. I could read a little bit, because you
Speaker 1: have to do I guess play the trumpet. But then
Speaker 1: when I started playing guitar, it was all I learned
Speaker 1: my ear, you know, from my teacher. He just wanted
Speaker 1: to said what songs do you want to play? And
Speaker 1: I gave him a list of whatever.
Speaker 5: He told those songs I'm a miya of course, have
Speaker 5: you heard AB's greatest hits.
Speaker 1: What did you want to play then when you picked
Speaker 1: up the guitar?
Speaker 6: Why?
Speaker 1: Because you're moving? You were at trumpet because something inspired you.
Speaker 1: So what then was the new musical inspiration that made
Speaker 1: you pivot instruments?
Speaker 5: We got Guitar Hero on the PlayStation two, Guitar Hero too,
Speaker 5: and it was just like it opened me up to
Speaker 5: a whole world of like frickin rock music.
Speaker 1: Good for you for learning the guitar as you played
Speaker 1: Guitar Hero. I have so many friends that excelled at
Speaker 1: Guitar Hero, and if they would have just put half
Speaker 1: the time into learning the guitar that they learned playing
Speaker 1: the hardest level of Guitar Hero, they would be a
Speaker 1: freaking good guitar player. But instead they mastered a video
Speaker 1: game that now they don't even play anymore.
Speaker 5: Dude, I will I will take this to my grave.
Speaker 5: Playing through the fire and Flames on expert on Guitar
Speaker 5: Hero is harder than anything on the electric guitar you
Speaker 5: can play.
Speaker 1: My wife is younger than I am.
Speaker 5: How old are you twenty eight?
Speaker 1: Yeah, my wife is thirty one, and so she will
Speaker 1: sing songs that are from like sixties and seventies classic
Speaker 1: rock that I knew because I listened to the oldies
Speaker 1: station growing up. Or she'll sing like some of the
Speaker 1: nineties alternative stuff and I'm like, you don't know this
Speaker 1: song and she's like no, no guitar hero yeah, or
Speaker 1: rock band. She would play guitar and sing and like
Speaker 1: her dad will play the drums. Like that was such
Speaker 1: an introduction of music. It's funny, that's what really got
Speaker 1: you into rock music. My favorite was a tambourine and
Speaker 1: rock band.
Speaker 5: If you were the singer, you also got to play
Speaker 5: the tambourine, and so you're just like wailing on this mic?
Speaker 1: Was it on those like on did you need to
Speaker 1: hit it with the same rip that was the tampa?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, And there were like different levels of tambourine
Speaker 5: expertise and like cow bells like Mississippi Queen also had
Speaker 5: the hit the mic it was. It's impressive stuff.
Speaker 1: When you go and say I want a guitar, Who'd
Speaker 1: you tell that to?
Speaker 5: My dad? And I was like sixth grade when I
Speaker 5: told him my first guitar I got for Christmas that year.
Speaker 5: It was the Les Paul Junior.
Speaker 1: You stop playing trumpet at that time? Did you just
Speaker 1: go one to the other.
Speaker 5: I think, yeah, I think I did stop. I remember
Speaker 5: the day I quit band. I think it was in
Speaker 5: sixth grade. You know, big, big drama at the middle school.
Speaker 5: But it was time.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I heard. I heard the stories when you quit band.
Speaker 1: I know they call it the day the music died
Speaker 1: in North Carolina.
Speaker 5: Absolutely green sleeves will never be the same.
Speaker 1: When do you realize that maybe you want to do
Speaker 1: music like as as, like bigger than just being a hobby.
Speaker 5: I mean, I started my band in eighth grade, and
Speaker 5: so we were called below the line.
Speaker 1: That's actually kind of cool for an eighth grade band,
Speaker 1: not to.
Speaker 5: Be confused with blowing the line. It was. There was
Speaker 5: a little bit of controversy there.
Speaker 1: I never heard of that band.
Speaker 5: Well, just I think the the coke.
Speaker 1: Reference, right, Yeah, I don't know coke references.
Speaker 5: So well neither do I just I thought i'd sound
Speaker 5: cool for a second.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I am not so. I don't know any
Speaker 1: thing about cocaine. However, I think that's a pretty cool
Speaker 1: name for a group of eighth graders. I know, usually
Speaker 1: it's like Willie's Gibblett and you're like, yeah, that name sucked. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a pretty good one.
Speaker 5: How bad? So it was below the Mason Dixon line
Speaker 5: because you know, we're kind of course and we played dude,
Speaker 5: you know, all all kinds of stuff. We played a
Speaker 5: little bit of country, but it was mostly like it
Speaker 5: was hooty. It was fire for fighting, you know, Tom Petty,
Speaker 5: Like we took a little while to get to the
Speaker 5: full country band.
Speaker 1: Were you the singer as well?
Speaker 5: I was singer and I played guitar until we hired
Speaker 5: another guitar player. I was lead guitar for way too long.
Speaker 1: When did you realize you could sing? And did you
Speaker 1: start singing before you actually could sing?
Speaker 5: I did, like choir and chorus and all that stuff.
Speaker 5: And I mean, you can look back at some eighth
Speaker 5: grade videos and it is it's terrible. But I could
Speaker 5: at least like hold some sort of tune. You could
Speaker 5: tell there was something there a little bit.
Speaker 1: Did you go through the whole voice puberty change?
Speaker 7: Oh?
Speaker 1: Of course it was it obvious while it was happening,
Speaker 1: as you're if you're a singer, Yeah, was there a
Speaker 1: stage where you're like change?
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was kind of eighth grade was prime, prime
Speaker 5: voice cracks, and then you go through the phase of like,
Speaker 5: I want to sound like hooting the blowfish, and so
Speaker 5: I'm not really going to enunciate the words, and it's
Speaker 5: really cool when he does it. It's not very cool
Speaker 5: when I do it. We went through a lot of phases.
Speaker 1: And how did you find three or four other guys
Speaker 1: in your town that wanted to play the other instruments?
Speaker 5: One guy played drums in the band like you know,
Speaker 5: marching band, not marching band, but school band. And the
Speaker 5: other played the bass and the keyboard, so he would
Speaker 5: switch off between bass and keys, and we just all
Speaker 5: went to the same school.
Speaker 1: Who was the leader of the band? It got the
Speaker 1: group together? Was it you?
Speaker 5: We practiced in my house?
Speaker 1: Were you the below the line leader? Like, Hey, what
Speaker 1: want to sort of band? Let's get together and do this?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean sort of. It was all. Everybody was
Speaker 5: pretty stoked about it. But I mean somebody probably, I
Speaker 5: probably care.
Speaker 1: Somebody's got to string the band, somebody's got to have
Speaker 1: the idea of let's start a band.
Speaker 5: Yeah. I don't want to take too much credit, but yes,
Speaker 5: it was. Is there credit to take?
Speaker 1: I mean, blow the line not really a thing anymore, right,
Speaker 1: unless you guys get back together. I will go to
Speaker 1: that show reunion.
Speaker 5: We had some damn good years. Let me tell you
Speaker 5: for a moment, he didn't fight for fighting. We didn't
Speaker 5: even play that one. We played the riddle, which is
Speaker 5: a kind of a deep cut hit.
Speaker 1: You didn't do Superman. No whatever that song was.
Speaker 5: No, I can't. I couldn't sing that high. Then my
Speaker 5: falsetto was not developed.
Speaker 1: Little for you.
Speaker 8: Life.
Speaker 9: Oh it's pretty, but hey, it's pretty beautiful.
Speaker 1: That's a little more city you're kicking it with full
Speaker 1: with Amy Brown.
Speaker 7: Hey it's Amy Brown from Four Things with Amy Brown.
Speaker 10: And here's what.
Speaker 7: We talked about this week on my podcast. We put
Speaker 7: up a question box last weekend and people sent in
Speaker 7: questions and I'm going to hand you the reins as
Speaker 7: part of your internship.
Speaker 11: Okay, Well, to start things off, I wanted to start
Speaker 11: with a list I came up with for those of
Speaker 11: you wondering what it would ever be like to live
Speaker 11: with Amy. Some things about Amy and living with her
Speaker 11: is that she only drinks water from a measuring cup.
Speaker 11: She uses the word bandwidth all the time. If she
Speaker 11: doesn't want to do something, it's because she didn't have
Speaker 11: the bandwidth for it. If she just want to cook.
Speaker 11: It's a bandwidth issue, not anything else. And the list
Speaker 11: goes on and on. None, I like to my band Yeah.
Speaker 12: And her bandwidth is not large.
Speaker 11: No, it is big because you do so many things.
Speaker 11: It's funny when it comes to the little things and
Speaker 11: it's like cooking or so many little things, and it's
Speaker 11: the word bandwidth just comes out of her mouth every
Speaker 11: time she slaps her face before bed every single night
Speaker 11: when she's doing her skincare routine, like slaps her face.
Speaker 10: Make sure it's all on there.
Speaker 7: Good.
Speaker 12: Yeah, but you can just rub it in.
Speaker 10: I rub it then slap.
Speaker 11: She puts Greek yogurt on everything leftover spaghetti, Greek yogurt,
Speaker 11: toast with jelly, We're adding Greek yogurt. Eg salad, We're
Speaker 11: gonna add grek yogurt. She likes to do her brain
Speaker 11: exercises in the kitchen with little three pound pink dumbbells
Speaker 11: alongside her Tracy Anderson armworkouts on YouTube that are like
Speaker 11: twenty years old.
Speaker 7: It's one video she made it for Gwyneth Paltrow when
Speaker 7: Gwyneth was training to be on Iron Man.
Speaker 12: No and your arms are toned.
Speaker 11: She does meditations on YouTube and plays books while she's
Speaker 11: sleeping to absorb the information subconsciously, is how she describes it.
Speaker 12: Are you sharing you about the move?
Speaker 10: Yeah, we can.
Speaker 11: It was when mom was here, when Christy was here,
Speaker 11: and we walked in from the Zach Brian concert and
Speaker 11: you were sleeping in the kitchen and you had a
Speaker 11: book or something playing. It was like two in the morning,
Speaker 11: and you said you were absorbing the information subconsciously.
Speaker 12: So that was funny.
Speaker 11: You toss the what does this make possible? Phrase around
Speaker 11: all over the house. If anything goes wrong, she just says,
Speaker 11: what does this make possible?
Speaker 12: While I said that that's how I survive. Yeah.
Speaker 11: While I said that in a way that sounded like
Speaker 11: it was annoying, it actually has helped me a lot
Speaker 11: change my mindset about certain things because there's a lot
Speaker 11: of truth to that phrase.
Speaker 10: And I did learn from you though and Stashira.
Speaker 7: With certain things, I don't need to say it off
Speaker 7: the bat, Like if it's with me and my own
Speaker 7: stuff that I'm going on, I can say it to
Speaker 7: myself right off the bat, but it's not helpful for
Speaker 7: other people to hear that right away.
Speaker 10: I need to sit with them.
Speaker 7: In it and then later, what is this made possible?
Speaker 12: Yeah?
Speaker 11: Oh, enters a room in the house, and usually the
Speaker 11: first thing that comes out of her mouth is do
Speaker 11: you smell that?
Speaker 12: Then usually it's cat peet.
Speaker 11: Then the whole day is derailed cleaning the rug where
Speaker 11: the cat pee potentially was that.
Speaker 12: I can't even.
Speaker 10: Smell, you know, I always find it.
Speaker 11: She always finds it the entire day, some hours out
Speaker 11: of time, and I might have a domino effect that
Speaker 11: impacts the day a little. I have three more should
Speaker 11: I make dinner? I'll say that sometimes, like, oh, we
Speaker 11: should make dinner, and she's like, oh, I was just
Speaker 11: thinking we could order food tonight, And usually it ends
Speaker 11: up being a Caesar salad.
Speaker 12: Well, we went through a phase.
Speaker 11: We got that caesar salad from Urban Market and the
Speaker 11: Burgers salmon Burger.
Speaker 12: It's so the smash Burger beef.
Speaker 13: Yes, Slash Burger's really good.
Speaker 7: And I love Chipotle takeout, Yes, or Chewi's.
Speaker 12: Yeah, we're getting Mexican tonight.
Speaker 7: Zeks that rice and salmon and oh yeah that was
Speaker 7: really good.
Speaker 14: Yeah.
Speaker 10: No, I mean it's a bandwidth thing.
Speaker 12: Bandwidth.
Speaker 11: Yeah, almond milk and cold brew must be in the
Speaker 11: fridge at all times, and if there's not ice for
Speaker 11: the almond milk and cold brew, then that's an issue.
Speaker 11: But that's always the ice an ice maker. So we've
Speaker 11: been having a hard time with ice.
Speaker 7: We've been buying ice and then putting it in the
Speaker 7: freezer and it's fine.
Speaker 12: No, I just yeah, it's not an issue.
Speaker 11: I'm just saying that's something I noticed about you.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's like an allman.
Speaker 12: Yeah, which ice is really important to me too.
Speaker 11: And the last one is wearing the same outfit for
Speaker 11: a month or two months at a time, which I
Speaker 11: believe just takes a decision off your plate and that's
Speaker 11: why you do it. But you've been wearing the same
Speaker 11: blue workout set for two months now.
Speaker 12: And I'm leaving tomorrow, but I'll probably see you in
Speaker 12: it bear the fall. So but it's it's one of
Speaker 12: your colors right on your color pellet, the blue.
Speaker 10: It's Yeah.
Speaker 7: From my it looks really really good when I had.
Speaker 10: My colors done.
Speaker 7: I'm a cool summer and yeah, this part of my
Speaker 7: cool summer palette.
Speaker 11: Yeah, and that is the sum of my list. If
Speaker 11: you're ever wondering what it would be like to live
Speaker 11: with Amy.
Speaker 13: Wow, I feel like I'd be really fun to live with.
Speaker 13: That girl sounds fun and funny and put together and inspiring,
Speaker 13: sounds like she has a good time.
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, it's a good tash, just like some clean
Speaker 7: catfee and vacuum and mop and I'm specially didn't say
Speaker 7: anything about cleaning counters.
Speaker 12: Oh well, I did put in here. I didn't even
Speaker 12: say it. It was right now.
Speaker 11: You're kind of obsessed with your vacuum, like you clean
Speaker 11: in your stressed and clean encounters. Yeah, but you recently
Speaker 11: been vacuuming a lot. I don't even know if you
Speaker 11: know that you're doing.
Speaker 10: That, but I know if I'm vacuuming.
Speaker 11: You walk in and you pick up the vacuum and
Speaker 11: you start like vacuuming the kitchen rug and you're like,
Speaker 11: everyone move.
Speaker 12: And I've just noticed it.
Speaker 11: And yes, you do it with the counters too, but
Speaker 11: lately it's been your vacuum.
Speaker 12: And oh gets the house all loud and then you're like, okay,
Speaker 12: I have to go, what do we need to do next?
Speaker 7: I can work, sometimes I can't. You guys got laundry finish?
Speaker 7: I love laundry. I love laundry, but I sometimes I
Speaker 7: can't finish my work like my computer work.
Speaker 12: Or relaxed while the house is clean.
Speaker 7: Yeah, y'all, Like if we want to just chill out
Speaker 7: and relax and watch something, I understand I want everything
Speaker 7: to feel clean, and maybe I need to chill out
Speaker 7: on that.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're listening to in the Ve's Office with doctor
Speaker 3: Josie Horshak.
Speaker 10: Shannon, you want to lead us into our nextpert.
Speaker 6: Yeah, So this one we're going to do a little
Speaker 6: differently this week because there's the three of us here,
Speaker 6: So normally this is the point in the show where
Speaker 6: we get some questions from some of our listeners and
Speaker 6: we're gonna actually hand the controls over to you, Bobby,
Speaker 6: and see if you have any questions.
Speaker 1: I have a couple because out of Boston Terrier when
Speaker 1: I was a kid and as my first dog that
Speaker 1: was mine like that I loved and it slept on
Speaker 1: my chest every night.
Speaker 15: And.
Speaker 1: I remember it wasn't aggressive generally, but it was the
Speaker 1: bossy was so a rat. It was just everywhere all
Speaker 1: the time that every once in a while it would
Speaker 1: bite something, and every great once in a while on
Speaker 1: that side of every once in a while it was
Speaker 1: a human. Wasn't trying to buy a human which just
Speaker 1: bite random things, and sometimes it'd be a human. And
Speaker 1: so what it happened was and like bit the mailman
Speaker 1: or something like ninth bite of the day was a
Speaker 1: human the mailman. So I love the dog and I
Speaker 1: had bites on my chest because the dog would sleep
Speaker 1: on my chest and it would have nightmares and wake
Speaker 1: up and go bite me.
Speaker 6: What was his name, Bradley, Bradley, Bradley the Boston.
Speaker 1: Loved again, loved him. Just had a whole therapy session
Speaker 1: about why I love dogs so much. It's because I
Speaker 1: couldn't connect with humans, so I found a safety in dogs.
Speaker 1: And Bradley would bite me. I have stop scars. But
Speaker 1: he bit the mailman and the Mailmai. I was gonna
Speaker 1: pres charges. Now my stepdad had to we don't want
Speaker 1: to get sued. But he had a friend that he
Speaker 1: worked with that had a bunch of dogs on his property,
Speaker 1: big farm, so he took an in let Bradley live
Speaker 1: over there. And now I wasn't I just didn't want
Speaker 1: to see Bradley. Wouldn't let me go see Bradley because
Speaker 1: ikn'd be sad. I told my wife the story, say
Speaker 1: bid the ball wasn't terrier. I loved him so much.
Speaker 1: My stepdad put him out and he went to a
Speaker 1: farm with the guy that where She was like, you
Speaker 1: never saw him. You never went to the farm and
Speaker 1: saw him. No, no, this is too sad for me.
Speaker 1: She goes, I don't think that the farm was real.
Speaker 1: And I said, what this is like a year ago? No,
Speaker 1: I said, what do you mean the farm's not real?
Speaker 1: I started to get mad at her. She goes, she,
Speaker 1: I think because it bit somebody. Bradley's now was not alive.
Speaker 1: After that, my mind's blown. I'm like, there's no way.
Speaker 1: So I called Arkansas Keith, my step former stepdad. Oh no,
Speaker 1: I get him on the phone through the speaker and
Speaker 1: I go, hey, man, Bradley, I didn't lead him to it.
Speaker 1: So what happened. He goes, Oh, it bit the melman.
Speaker 1: I shot him.
Speaker 12: Ah, Bradley, Oh no, oh it.
Speaker 1: Now, and this is why you're in therapy in Arkansas. Oh,
Speaker 1: he didn't pay money for a vet if an animal. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it sucked. That sucks to have it happen, but that's
Speaker 1: what you do in the country.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: And I was like, well, he didn't go to some
Speaker 1: guy's farm. He goes, you believed that, And my wife
Speaker 1: is trying so hard not to laugh hysterically because she
Speaker 1: knows I'm dealing with trauma of my dog just now
Speaker 1: being told at forty my dog's dead from twenty five
Speaker 1: years ago. And also how stupid I wasn't there really
Speaker 1: was a farmer although animals went to.
Speaker 10: Play, right, we all believe that at some point, not
Speaker 10: at some point.
Speaker 1: I don't two years ago. Yeah, yeah, and so I
Speaker 1: was like what, but I remember he would just bite.
Speaker 1: So my question after telling that story, because it made
Speaker 1: me think about the biting part. Do you get bit randomly?
Speaker 1: And what's the kind of dog that you know it
Speaker 1: doesn't have to be an aggressive dog. Is there a
Speaker 1: type of dog that kind of bites the most? Because
Speaker 1: they're just nuts?
Speaker 6: I don't want to stereotype dogs, but there are some
Speaker 6: When we see the breed coming in, we're like, oh,
Speaker 6: we should be extra careful. I have a German Shepherd,
Speaker 6: but German shepherd's up there, Rottwilers are up there.
Speaker 1: Is that because they're bigger so they're buying This is
Speaker 1: always in my theory about big dogs. Yeah, we think
Speaker 1: they buy it more because but when they do bite,
Speaker 1: it lasts longer and it's more hard. Exactly.
Speaker 10: It's not that they bite more until comes in. I'm like,
Speaker 10: you're a mosquito.
Speaker 1: That the ain't making the news if it bites somebody.
Speaker 6: Exactly, German shepherd is going to rip your face off.
Speaker 6: So it's a little bit different.
Speaker 1: You think it's they don't buit it more, but when
Speaker 1: they do bite, it's more of a situation because of
Speaker 1: how severe it could be.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'd say that's probably right for sure. And I
Speaker 6: mean also they're bread to protect, so they kind of
Speaker 6: have that like stereotype of being a little bit more aggressive,
Speaker 6: which may or may not be true. So yeah, I
Speaker 6: think they've just gotten labeled that.
Speaker 1: Way out of pit bulls. A great dog ever had
Speaker 1: only if you listen to this, but you just have
Speaker 1: too many surgeries. We're still getting there. But I had
Speaker 1: him for thirteen years.
Speaker 10: We're gonna jump into him.
Speaker 1: He was Yeah, he was the best dog ever. And
Speaker 1: people would like be scared for a second, Yeah, oh
Speaker 1: you got a pit bull? Yeah, and then you're just
Speaker 1: then it was over the biggest baby.
Speaker 16: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So do you get and what's the worst you've
Speaker 1: been bitten?
Speaker 6: I've only ever been bit on the job twice. The
Speaker 6: first time was by a camel in bet school.
Speaker 1: A camel, like an actual camel.
Speaker 6: Yeah, we were taking care of it and it reached
Speaker 6: around and it bit my shoulder. And every bite I've
Speaker 6: ever seen in my entire life, you guys, does not
Speaker 6: compare to this camel bite.
Speaker 10: Do you have scars? It took a big old chunk
Speaker 10: of skin out and it hurts.
Speaker 1: Funny, so bad.
Speaker 10: Is that normal for in vet school, that you're dealing
Speaker 10: with camel?
Speaker 1: Yeah, they have camel.
Speaker 10: You you kind of deal with anything that comes along.
Speaker 10: And this is the University of Cairo.
Speaker 6: No, this is at a highest state university, and they
Speaker 6: have had a camel. Yeah, like farmers would have a
Speaker 6: random camel, or like we took care of a lot
Speaker 6: of deer like random things.
Speaker 1: Yeah, did you worry about with deer? Did you worry
Speaker 1: about like lime disease? Because since you were around really
Speaker 1: absolutely that would be scared because just living in the
Speaker 1: country or now just being in the wood, you worry
Speaker 1: about it, just as existing with a tick. But if
Speaker 1: you're with deer, yeah, they are the host.
Speaker 6: They carry those ticks around and those are the ticks
Speaker 6: that spread lime disease.
Speaker 1: So definitely top three. Bites number one a camel, Number one.
Speaker 12: A camel expecting that.
Speaker 6: I've only ever been bit one other time, and it
Speaker 6: was a dog waking up from anesthesia. I'm in that
Speaker 6: school again, so still a rookie. This dog's waking up.
Speaker 6: He's got his breathing tube in and he looks at me,
Speaker 6: like wakes up out of nowhere. I look at him,
Speaker 6: and he goes and bites down on his tube.
Speaker 1: I did that, m colas, the same thing except tub.
Speaker 10: Oh man, this is why I love you.
Speaker 6: And so he spits out the one half and heals
Speaker 6: the other, the other piece of tubes going down into
Speaker 6: his strachia, and so I being.
Speaker 10: The dummy, I'm like, I'm gonna save his life, and I.
Speaker 6: Stick my whole hand in his mouth to grab the tube,
Speaker 6: and he just goes and bit down on my entire.
Speaker 1: Hand because he was probably scared.
Speaker 6: Yeah, so afraid, like waking up from anthesia, and it's
Speaker 6: just their natural reaction.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna do it live.
Speaker 17: We are the one two three sore losers.
Speaker 8: What up ever? Everyudy, I am lunchbox. I know the
Speaker 8: most about sports, so I'll gave you the sports facts,
Speaker 8: my sports opinions, because I'm pretty much a sports genius, y'all.
Speaker 17: It's Sison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male.
Speaker 17: I live on the North side of Nashville with Bayser,
Speaker 17: my wife. We do have a farm. It's beautiful, a
Speaker 17: lot of acreage, no animals, a lot of crops. Hopefully
Speaker 17: soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe a little fescue
Speaker 17: to be determined.
Speaker 14: Over to you, coach.
Speaker 8: And here's a clip from this week's episode of The
Speaker 8: Sore Losers. Wednesday night, We're going Nashville, sc right with
Speaker 8: his buddy, his best friend. We're meeting him at the game,
Speaker 8: Gonna have a bro time and we park our car,
Speaker 8: who pay twenty dollars to part or walking in the stadium,
Speaker 8: he's holding my left hand with his right hand.
Speaker 14: Wait, it's just you and the kid? What did you
Speaker 14: do with the other two?
Speaker 8: They stayed home?
Speaker 14: So it really was just baby box kid day week.
Speaker 8: Well, it was his buddy's birthday's present. His dad bought
Speaker 8: him tickets and he got to invite one friend.
Speaker 17: Okay, because I just never think I got one on
Speaker 17: one time with Pops. It was always me and the
Speaker 17: bro and the cis Yeah, and.
Speaker 8: The other two were very sad when we were leaving
Speaker 8: without them, like that's not fair.
Speaker 14: This is huge.
Speaker 17: Just remembered it Colorado Rocky's game. My dad took me
Speaker 17: and left my brother and sister at home. I was
Speaker 17: a kid that got picked. Wow, that's I just had
Speaker 17: that feeling. That's how your kid felt.
Speaker 8: Yeah, And we had to sit down the four year
Speaker 8: old and be like, well, look, Bud, you know baby
Speaker 8: Box's friend. He got tickets for his birthday and they
Speaker 8: invited baby Box.
Speaker 17: They the kids understanding this explanation, and we're like, doesn't even.
Speaker 14: Know what apple juice is.
Speaker 8: Now cut my banana, and my wife said, don't worry,
Speaker 8: you're gonna get Hey, don't tell, don't tell your brother,
Speaker 8: But you guys are gonna get a special treat.
Speaker 14: You guys are making back in deals alliances.
Speaker 8: You're gonna get a special treat.
Speaker 17: They're already learning about secrets now and keeping secrets unbelievable.
Speaker 8: When we leave, when they leave, you're gonna get a
Speaker 8: special treaty. So we're walking to the game and I'm
Speaker 8: gonna tell you what happened right after this.
Speaker 17: I mean, hell of a cheez, I hope. A homeless
Speaker 17: guy came up and threw a shoe in the air.
Speaker 8: Like I said, he's holding my left hand with his
Speaker 8: right hand and we're walking. I said, Bud inside joke.
Speaker 8: Are you at all excited about kindergarten or what are
Speaker 8: you feeling? He said, Dad, I'm a little bit excited.
Speaker 8: I said, oh that's good. Well what other so are
Speaker 8: you feeling? He goes, He goes, I'm a little nervous.
Speaker 8: I said, why, Bud, what's going on? He said, Dad,
Speaker 8: I'm kind of shy. So I'm a little nervous about
Speaker 8: all my friends meeting friends. And he goes, but it's
Speaker 8: okay because I have the you know, and he starts
Speaker 8: naming the kids, ABC, D and E. He's like, they'll
Speaker 8: be in my class. Yeah, son, I'm like, how do
Speaker 8: I break this to you?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 8: Yeah, they might be in your class. But they might
Speaker 8: be in your class. And I said, but then you
Speaker 8: got to think of it. Every kid that's going to
Speaker 8: be in your class, this is your time to shine,
Speaker 8: I said, every single one of them. It's going to
Speaker 8: be their first time at that school. Hell of a speech,
Speaker 8: I said, Nobody.
Speaker 14: Tell them about Garrett tell them about Forest.
Speaker 8: Have never been has been to that school. I said,
Speaker 8: just imagine when I walked into kindergarten, I didn't know anybody,
Speaker 8: and I made all sorts of friends. And then my
Speaker 8: mom and dad decided to move. At the end of kindergarten.
Speaker 14: Me and your mom walked into a bar together, never
Speaker 14: knew each other. Look at us now, so.
Speaker 8: And so Granny and Grandpa decided we were going to
Speaker 8: move at the end of kindergarten. And so going to
Speaker 8: first grade, I had to start a whole new school again.
Speaker 8: Granny and I went out first grade. I walked into
Speaker 8: Summon Elementary and I walked into Miss Anderson's class. I
Speaker 8: didn't know a soul, didn't know anybody.
Speaker 14: It was Miss Curry.
Speaker 8: That was kindergarten.
Speaker 14: Legs noted in first.
Speaker 8: Grade, I'm just there the two hotties in my class,
Speaker 8: Amy and Candy. That's where I met aj. I mean,
Speaker 8: it happens, man. I said, you're gonna be okay, and
Speaker 8: it's okay that you're a little bit of shy. You'll
Speaker 8: meet some kids. He goes, okay, But I'm just really
Speaker 8: sad right now because my brothers couldn't come to the
Speaker 8: soccer game.
Speaker 5: Okay, like.
Speaker 8: This supposed to be a good, happy moment. So we
Speaker 8: meet up with his buddy. We go in the stadium
Speaker 8: and we're all exciting. Let me tell you there are
Speaker 8: plenty of good seats still available for that game.
Speaker 14: As Dad placed his bets.
Speaker 8: No, there's no bets because they are so bad.
Speaker 14: I thought, you bet like sometimes over one.
Speaker 8: Oh, sometimes I'm like all over three goals. But they've
Speaker 8: been so bad you can't even you can't do that.
Speaker 14: What about muck Tar?
Speaker 8: Mooktar's there? We get our new coach. Let me tell
Speaker 8: you it was his first game on the job. And
Speaker 8: I did get an email from him before the game
Speaker 8: and it's said here goes said, Hey man, sorry I
Speaker 8: missed you last Friday at the welcome event at Gyodas Park.
Speaker 8: It was great to meet you and some of your
Speaker 8: Oh no, it was great to meet so many of
Speaker 8: your fellow nashvillec fans and I felt nothing but welcome
Speaker 8: since arriving in Nashville last week. As I mentioned to
Speaker 8: the fans and attendance on Friday, our team will reflect
Speaker 8: Nashville and you each night. You can expect a team
Speaker 8: that is hard working and playing with relentless mentality for
Speaker 8: ninety plus minutes.
Speaker 5: Guys cover.
Speaker 8: We are going to give you every ounce of effort
Speaker 8: to represent our city, and we expect you to hold
Speaker 8: us to that standard every match day. The future is
Speaker 8: bright and we're ready to get started. I hope to
Speaker 8: see you at our first match in the League's Cup
Speaker 8: tournament on Wednesday, July thirty first at Giodas Park. Thanks
Speaker 8: and see you soon. BJ Callahan, Nashville sc head coach,
Speaker 8: look forward to taking into the coach individually emailed me.
Speaker 8: Sounds like a cookie cutter, Y know.
Speaker 17: Also, I have an email I got from a Nashville
Speaker 17: professional sports team. Can we foreshadow that and do it
Speaker 17: a second?
Speaker 8: Yes, we can't. So we go to the game. I'm like, hey,
Speaker 8: coach wants.
Speaker 5: To meet me.
Speaker 14: Does this story improve?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 14: We go to the Gainst borderline.
Speaker 8: But no, we go to the game and national just
Speaker 8: gets her.
Speaker 17: Ask boy, they they got even. I didn't mean to
Speaker 17: say gay. The day got even worse for the kid.
Speaker 8: They lost two to nothing, They.
Speaker 14: Got shut out.
Speaker 1: Come on, dimner man.
Speaker 8: They are just so bad. I don't know how they
Speaker 8: are so bad.
Speaker 14: So tell me this. Do they make the playoffs this year?
Speaker 8: Probably not. Wow, but this is a Leagu's Cup. It
Speaker 8: doesn't even count the the regular season standings. But we're playing.
Speaker 8: We were playing a team from Mexico that last year
Speaker 8: we beat them like five to nothing, and this year
Speaker 8: they wiped the floor with us. We didn't even we
Speaker 8: barely had any shots on goal.
Speaker 14: So I take it we didn't win the cup.
Speaker 8: Well, I don't know. This is the last year when
Speaker 8: we played Messi for the Cup championship, and since then
Speaker 8: we have gone straight off a cliff, like we were
Speaker 8: in the League's Cup championship in a shootout against Lionel
Speaker 8: Messi and this year we can't even freaking sniff aa.
Speaker 8: It is so bad to watch. The kids are depressed,
Speaker 8: The kids are sad. I had to pump their spirits
Speaker 8: up at halftime. We had to get Dippin' dots and
Speaker 8: that brought the energy back to the kids.
Speaker 14: The future.
Speaker 8: Yes, because they were ready to give up. They were
Speaker 8: ready to give in, and we didn't tell the other
Speaker 8: boys we got ice cream because that was their special
Speaker 8: treat at home, and so they weren't thinking baby Box
Speaker 8: is getting ice cream at the game. We got smoked.
Speaker 8: It was terrible. BJ Callahan you lied to me and
Speaker 8: said you're gonna reflect me. No, I score goals, I
Speaker 8: don't lose two nothing.
Speaker 14: Wait, what did you tell your kid though about the
Speaker 14: coach emailing you?
Speaker 8: I told him, Hey, he wants to meet us. Should
Speaker 8: we go down there?
Speaker 14: Get with your kids?
Speaker 8: And he goes, really data, right, Yeah, So we went
Speaker 8: down there and he goes, Dada, which one's the coach.
Speaker 8: He's on the other side, and goes, well, shouldn't we
Speaker 8: go over there since he wanted to meet you. I'm like, Bud,
Speaker 8: I don't know if he you know, I should go
Speaker 8: meet him like during the game. Ah, And he goes,
Speaker 8: but Dad, he said, you said he emailed you and
Speaker 8: said he wanted to meet you at the game.
Speaker 7: Good.
Speaker 17: You gotta stop doing that crap because eventually he's gonna.
Speaker 8: Know, Well, he's only six, so it's pretty cool for
Speaker 8: him to think the coach wanted to meet me.
Speaker 17: That's cool at that age, but seven to eight then
Speaker 17: he's gonna say, yeah, Dad, prove it.
Speaker 14: Prove it, Dad, go over and talk to him.
Speaker 8: So it was a long night. The game didn't start
Speaker 8: till eight. We left there at nine forty five. We
Speaker 8: left with like ten minutes left in the game down
Speaker 8: to nothing.
Speaker 14: Oh, always leave early theory.
Speaker 8: No, it wasn't no, there was no traffic. It wouldn't matter.
Speaker 14: It sounds like you no traffic.
Speaker 8: His buddy was ready to go and they were tired,
Speaker 8: so I was like, oh, we might as well walk
Speaker 8: with them. We took two separate cars, but it was
Speaker 8: two nothing. We had no hope. And my kid's like, no,
Speaker 8: d have we got to stay to the end of
Speaker 8: the game so you can talk to the coach And
Speaker 8: I'm like, no, Bud, I gotta work.
Speaker 5: In the morning.
Speaker 8: We gotta get going. We gotta get going.
Speaker 14: Why did I tell that lie?
Speaker 8: And so we get to the car and I'm like,
Speaker 8: but are you tired it all? He goes, no, Dad,
Speaker 8: I wanted to stay for the whole game. He fell
Speaker 8: asleep in the car. In the eight minute drive home.
Speaker 8: He was already asleep in the car. And he went
Speaker 8: home told mom bad news, bad news. She's like what
Speaker 8: and he goes, we lost to nothing? And Dad, I
Speaker 8: didn't even go talk to the coach.
Speaker 18: Hey, it's Mike d And this week I'll movie Mike's
Speaker 18: movie podcast. I did a big Marvel episode. Not only
Speaker 18: did I give my spoiler free review of Deadpool in Wolverine.
Speaker 18: But I also did a lot of Marvel Mount Rushmore's
Speaker 18: what I'll Play for you. Here is my Mount Rushmore
Speaker 18: of the best and the worst movies in the MCU.
Speaker 18: Check out the full episode to hear what made my
Speaker 18: Superhero and Villain's list. But right now, here's just a
Speaker 18: little bit of movie Mike's movie podcast. In that first slot,
Speaker 18: I would put Infinity War. It is the best in
Speaker 18: theater experience that I've had from any of the Avengers movies,
Speaker 18: even more so than Endgame, because Endgame really only has
Speaker 18: that one big moment that we all know at this
Speaker 18: point that every theater in America is freaking out.
Speaker 1: That is a core moment.
Speaker 18: But I still think overall, the first time I experienced
Speaker 18: Infinity War left me feeling way different, and it was
Speaker 18: also more expected. I kind of knew what was gonna
Speaker 18: happen in Endgame, which was the end result of every
Speaker 18: Marvel movie that came before it. We all knew what
Speaker 18: was gonna happen, we all knew what it was building towards.
Speaker 18: There was nothing I got in Endgame that came out
Speaker 18: of left field. Really great moments, a fantastic movie. But
Speaker 18: when I sit down to watch an Avengers movie, I'm
Speaker 18: gonna watch Infinity War. I still think it is the
Speaker 18: best one. So in that number one slot, I'm going
Speaker 18: with Infinity War. At number two, it goes to Iron
Speaker 18: Man being the first MCU movie back in two thousand
Speaker 18: and eighty and one that still holds up. There are
Speaker 18: not that many movies from Phase one that you can
Speaker 18: go back and just think that, oh, nothing here has
Speaker 18: changed the whole lot. Everything still works out. Iron Man
Speaker 18: is that movie. I would argue some of the visual
Speaker 18: effects in the first Iron Man look better than some
Speaker 18: of the MCU movies that have come out in the
Speaker 18: last five years. This was back when all the VFX
Speaker 18: artists weren't being worked to the bone and the technology
Speaker 18: was new at the time, with Transformers being one of
Speaker 18: the first movies to really use like that photo realism
Speaker 18: making things actually look like the surfaces that they are.
Speaker 18: That was a big deal back in the day. So
Speaker 18: Transformers was very influential on Iron Man. It got it perfect,
Speaker 18: it got the suit down so well. Everybody benefited from it.
Speaker 18: At number two, I have Iron Man. At number three,
Speaker 18: I have Black Panther. Not only because it's such a
Speaker 18: great movie. Has the fantastic villain, has the fantastic hero.
Speaker 4: But I would say because.
Speaker 18: This movie looks unlike any of the other MCU movies
Speaker 18: for a couple of reasons, for the cast, the representation.
Speaker 18: It just looks different the people who are represented in
Speaker 18: this movie, which was huge.
Speaker 4: We didn't have that.
Speaker 18: Me as a Mexican American, I didn't get that until
Speaker 18: well on the DC side, Blue Beetle, but even in
Speaker 18: Wakanda Forever with our first Mexican villain. But that was
Speaker 18: important for kids who didn't have a hero that looked
Speaker 18: like them. And now you have this awesome black superhero
Speaker 18: who was also noble and smart and quite possibly stronger
Speaker 18: and more fierce. I mean that has to do a
Speaker 18: lot with the technology they had, which is so advanced
Speaker 18: and everybody wants, but it looked different because of the
Speaker 18: cast and the representation. And number three in that slot,
Speaker 18: I have Black Panther at number four because this movie
Speaker 18: changed my life because it felt like my inner kid
Speaker 18: just having complete joy in the year of twenty twenty one,
Speaker 18: which this movie single handily probably saved the movie theaters
Speaker 18: that year, bouncing back from twenty twenty.
Speaker 1: It is No Way Home.
Speaker 18: Aside from what I was mentioning earlier of Infinity War
Speaker 18: being my overall favorite theater experience for a Marvel movie,
Speaker 18: this one has my favorite moment, Yes even more so
Speaker 18: than Endgame, my favorite cheer moment, which any good MCU
Speaker 18: movie has at that moment that we all want to
Speaker 18: get out of our seats and yell and clap and applaud.
Speaker 18: This movie did it the best. I will never forget that.
Speaker 18: So those are my mount Rushmore of the best MCU movies,
Speaker 18: Infinity War, Iron Man, Black Panther, and No Way Home.
Speaker 1: Chase a Little Man, Boys, Here we go.
Speaker 18: All right to close us out, my mount Rushmore, Oh,
Speaker 18: the worst MCU movies at number one, And I would
Speaker 18: say for all of these movies, I've only seen them once,
Speaker 18: and not only that, I never want to watch them again.
Speaker 18: And out of all of the thirty three MCU movies,
Speaker 18: these are the only ones that I would consider bad.
Speaker 18: There only happens to be four of them, which is
Speaker 18: pretty good. But in that number one slot it goes
Speaker 18: to the the eternals, hands down the worst MCU movie
Speaker 18: of all time. It tried to do too much, tried
Speaker 18: to create such a big world, introduced too many characters,
Speaker 18: tried to be like a more intellectual Avengers. Every element
Speaker 18: of this movie fell flat, and it wasn't until the
Speaker 18: Captain America Brave New World trailer that came out that
Speaker 18: it finally addressed one of the biggest cliffhangers and all
Speaker 18: of the mco this big floating rock. Hey, we forgot
Speaker 18: about that. Let's go back to that. Number one goes
Speaker 18: to the Eternals at number two. I guess putting a
Speaker 18: the is a bad sign for MCU movies because at
Speaker 18: number two of the Marvels, and I think it was
Speaker 18: probably due to tone. It also felt like they didn't
Speaker 18: have enough story to make a movie. This probably should
Speaker 18: have been a Disney Plus series. And bre Larson. I
Speaker 18: love her as an actor and I think the character
Speaker 18: is great, but I really feel like she phoned in
Speaker 18: this performance. And maybe it has to do with doing
Speaker 18: the majority of this movie in front of a blue
Speaker 18: or green screen, no cast chemistry. This movie did not
Speaker 18: work for me. Goes in my number two slot. At
Speaker 18: number three, it goes to Thor The Dark World, primarily
Speaker 18: because this movie is so forgettable. And this was also
Speaker 18: at a time where they really didn't have the Thor
Speaker 18: character down. Chris Hemsworth still had the long blonde hair.
Speaker 18: They were making him too mythical. They tried a little
Speaker 18: bit to bring out the humor and Thor, but Chris
Speaker 18: Hemsworth didn't really know how to play him just quite yet.
Speaker 18: Didn't truly nail it until the next movie Thor Ragnarok,
Speaker 18: which I was like, oh that store, he had to
Speaker 18: look down. They cut his hair and that led to
Speaker 18: better Avengers movies. So I think it's just a product
Speaker 18: of the time. I love the first Thor movie, but
Speaker 18: this one was not it whatsoever. I never want to
Speaker 18: see it again.
Speaker 1: At number three is.
Speaker 18: Thor The Dark World, and in that Ford slot it
Speaker 18: is Doctor Strange in the Multiverse of Madness. For a
Speaker 18: movie being titled The Multiverse of Madness, they didn't really
Speaker 18: have much to do with making the Multiverse mad and
Speaker 18: me being somebody who loves a good horror movie. Having
Speaker 18: Sam Raimi one of the most beloved horror directors of
Speaker 18: all time, the product just didn't match his body of work,
Speaker 18: also being the director of the Best Spider Man trilogy.
Speaker 18: It is also largely cited to being a part of
Speaker 18: the decline of the MCU and a movie we really
Speaker 18: had to bounce back from. As me being one of
Speaker 18: the people still fighting for the MCU. I got to
Speaker 18: make excuses for this movie, so that is why you
Speaker 18: put it. And I only saw it in theaters once
Speaker 18: and was never inclined to go back and rewatch it
Speaker 18: on Disney Plus because I just didn't enjoy it. So
Speaker 18: in that force slot the Multiverse of Madness rounding out
Speaker 18: that list, it is the Eternals, the Marvels for the
Speaker 18: Dark World, Doctor strut in the Multiverse of Madness being
Speaker 18: my mount rushmore of bad MCU movies.
Speaker 1: But again they're only being four.
Speaker 18: What I would consider bad movies in the MCU that
Speaker 18: I just would not watch again.
Speaker 8: Not bad.
Speaker 18: So do those We carve them and then destroy them
Speaker 18: out of the stone.
Speaker 16: Carn She's a queen of talking, if you son, she's
Speaker 16: getting really.
Speaker 19: Not afraid to things, So just let it flow. No
Speaker 19: one can do we quite car Line. It is sounding, Caroline.
Speaker 10: I'm so excited to be here with Bradney Foster.
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 9: I'm excited to be here with you. Carolyn.
Speaker 13: You're a legend.
Speaker 10: You're a text.
Speaker 9: I don't know if I don't know if I'm a legend,
Speaker 9: but I sure appreciate it.
Speaker 15: You're a Texas legend, you're a Nashville legend, and you're
Speaker 15: one of the og like country like country country artists
Speaker 15: like you know, like they're there are.
Speaker 9: People when when I was in Foster and Lloyd, there
Speaker 9: were people who did not consider as country music, which
Speaker 9: was kind of really strange because I listened. I don't know,
Speaker 9: but I think it was because we had long hair
Speaker 9: and earrings and ship like that. So can we say
Speaker 9: that on on air?
Speaker 1: All the ship you want? Okay, great, So people that
Speaker 1: Foster and Lloyd wasn't coming.
Speaker 9: Yeah, we were way too left a center for those guys.
Speaker 6: Oh my god.
Speaker 4: And if y'all listen to your songs back because I.
Speaker 9: Was actually sounds perfectly hillbilly.
Speaker 15: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm like man, because it was I.
Speaker 9: Mean, all we were doing was really taking, you know,
Speaker 9: what we loved about rock and roll and then what
Speaker 9: we loved about country and just mixing to together, which
Speaker 9: people have been doing forever. We just did it our
Speaker 9: own way because we loved the Everly Brothers and we
Speaker 9: loved Buck Owens, and we loved the Beatles. So we
Speaker 9: just like mixed in the Birds and all the all this,
Speaker 9: you know, the southern California stuff that was really changing
Speaker 9: country music even though they weren't calling it country music,
Speaker 9: like the Birds and the Flying Burrito Brothers. But how
Speaker 9: do you listen to grand part? Since then? I call
Speaker 9: that country music? You know?
Speaker 15: So how do you feel today and age that like
Speaker 15: the TikTok generation has no idea what you're talking about?
Speaker 1: You know what's amazing. What's amazing.
Speaker 9: What's amazing is how many of them do know really
Speaker 9: well because they have the library of Alexandria in their
Speaker 9: back pocket, right, I mean my kids, you know, I like,
Speaker 9: how did you learn about my son? Was one of them.
Speaker 9: Was cleaning up the studio and U and I walked
Speaker 9: in at one point and he was listening to an
Speaker 9: Al Green record, and then I walked back out because
Speaker 9: I'd gotten whatever I needed from the studio. And then
Speaker 9: I walked back in and he was listening to crossby
Speaker 9: Steels Nash's first album. And I was like, how do
Speaker 9: you even know about this stuff? And I said, well,
Speaker 9: your record collection first of all. I said, yeah, well
Speaker 9: there's that, but you know, it's like YouTube, it's all
Speaker 9: it's all there.
Speaker 15: Isn't it fascinating? I find this fascinating because I'm forty
Speaker 15: years old now and I've now lived through some shifts,
Speaker 15: some generational shifts. You know, I've always just felt young.
Speaker 15: I was in my youth forever, and then all of
Speaker 15: a sudden, I hit like thirty five.
Speaker 12: I'm like, oh my.
Speaker 1: Gosh, I'm an adult.
Speaker 14: I'm an adult.
Speaker 15: And like, not only am I an adult, but like I'm
Speaker 15: get close to halfway mark, and you know, it's just
Speaker 15: and then you realize there's a whole new youth generation
Speaker 15: and their feelings are all different than mine, and what
Speaker 15: they think is cool is different, and I'm like, I
Speaker 15: can't believe I'm here. You know, when you used to
Speaker 15: be in the middle of like everything that's happening. You're
Speaker 15: a creative, you're creating things, and like it's like your world.
Speaker 15: You're in that world, and then all of a sudden,
Speaker 15: I'm like, oh my god, there's a new world. So like,
Speaker 15: I feel like that's happened to you.
Speaker 10: How tell me about.
Speaker 15: Your when this all started for you, and how this
Speaker 15: el this evolution, what it's been like so much In
Speaker 15: country music.
Speaker 9: I was I was playing and singing and writing songs
Speaker 9: in college and I you know a guy who's kind
Speaker 9: of lit who we thought was ancient. I'm sure he
Speaker 9: was twenty nine, you know, we were at all twenty
Speaker 9: and he said, man, who does those three songs? Because
Speaker 9: we had a band that was kind of like the
Speaker 9: Nittigritty Dirt Band. We would rock up a country song
Speaker 9: and country up a rock song and you know, and that.
Speaker 1: Was very cutting edge back in the day.
Speaker 9: Yeah, And so he knew all the other songs because
Speaker 9: they were just you know, Guy Clark and dirt band
Speaker 9: covers and and Burrito Brothers and stuff like that.
Speaker 10: And then got a look of these Burrito Brothers.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know, I mean what a name?
Speaker 9: Yeah you need? Yeah, that was barely born out of
Speaker 9: the Birds. It was the guy like Bernie Leaden, who
Speaker 9: was an original Eagle and Chris Hillman, who was an
Speaker 9: original Bird started that band.
Speaker 4: So it's kind of like the Traveling Wilbury's.
Speaker 9: Yeah it was at the time. Yeah, it was okay,
Speaker 9: along with Graham Parsons, who it's a it's worth worth
Speaker 9: worth going to look up, okay, And so we were
Speaker 9: playing all that kind of stuff and the guy said, well,
Speaker 9: who wrote what banned does those three songs, and one
Speaker 9: of the guys said, you can't get them. Our singer
Speaker 9: wrote them. He said, Man, I don't know anything about
Speaker 9: the music business, but I've got a buddy who's a
Speaker 9: producer in Nashville who I went to college with. And
Speaker 9: I'm like, sure you do you know? And so I
Speaker 9: wrote down on a match book my name and my
Speaker 9: phone number. Now my phone number. I don't want to
Speaker 9: match book.
Speaker 1: Yeah, switch is yeah, because there's no cell phones.
Speaker 12: There's no cell phones, no, no, page's probably there.
Speaker 10: No what year we talking about.
Speaker 9: We're talking in nineteen seventy nine.
Speaker 10: You are og rock star, country star.
Speaker 9: It's so cool.
Speaker 10: So you're trying to get your starts.
Speaker 15: You're like, okay, you can have another on.
Speaker 1: A match box.
Speaker 9: And it's the payphone at the end of the hall
Speaker 9: in the dorm.
Speaker 15: So she just used to wait by the phone for
Speaker 15: it to ring literally right, yeah, right, yeah.
Speaker 9: So sure enough, Like about two weeks later, there's a
Speaker 9: note tacked my you know, corkboard on the front of
Speaker 9: my dorm door.
Speaker 4: Is anybody walking by want us to answer it?
Speaker 9: Well, it was kind of the deal. It was the
Speaker 9: honor system. So if you didn't answer things for the phone,
Speaker 9: then you know, nobody else is going to answer for you.
Speaker 7: How we got contacted?
Speaker 15: Like you just better hope that somebody's walking by the
Speaker 15: phone with somebody you and you.
Speaker 9: It was kind of the ethic, you know, yeah, oh
Speaker 9: it's just parents.
Speaker 16: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I was like, call you.
Speaker 9: And there was a note you know, and a pencil.
Speaker 9: It is like call your mom and dad. Consider it
Speaker 9: on the guy's door and uh so uh it had
Speaker 9: a six to one to five area code and I
Speaker 9: was like, that's Nashville. And it had the name Brown Banister.
Speaker 9: And I was like, who's Brent? What? Why do I
Speaker 9: know that name? Why do I know that name? And
Speaker 9: I realized, you know, from reading the back of every
Speaker 9: single record that I'd ever listened to in my life,
Speaker 9: in every girl's dorm, there was this record by this
Speaker 9: new contemporary Christian angu named Amy Grant. Brown Banister was
Speaker 9: the producer on the record. Oh man, So I was like,
Speaker 9: that's a real guy, and uh it's like that drunk.
Speaker 1: I wasn't kidding, you know, so and and he followed through, and.
Speaker 9: He followed through, and so Brown said, Hey, my buddy
Speaker 9: says my buddy says I need to come, you know,
Speaker 9: listen to some of your and so we kind of
Speaker 9: arranged where I could, you know, get to see him,
Speaker 9: and I played him like five songs and he said,
Speaker 9: you got to have a serious talk with your mom
Speaker 9: and dad about doing this for a living. And so
Speaker 9: that that really was someone giving me permission to do
Speaker 9: this because my my you know, my great grandfather was
Speaker 9: the first lawyer in Del Rio, Texas, and he sent
Speaker 9: every single one of his boys to law school.
Speaker 15: You're joking, No, he was going to carry this legacy.
Speaker 9: And then my father went to law school. So I
Speaker 9: knew my lot in life was to go to college and.
Speaker 10: Go to law school, which is a good lot.
Speaker 9: No, it's a yeah, it was a good thing.
Speaker 15: That knowing that you had that lot pre planned, was
Speaker 15: that like maddening a little bit.
Speaker 9: I mean, I think, you know, the scariest part was,
Speaker 9: you know, you know I did this in the worst
Speaker 9: possible way. Is you know, I woke my parents up
Speaker 9: in the middle of the night.
Speaker 4: Wait, you woken them up in the night.
Speaker 15: Just tell them that you're moving to Nashville.
Speaker 9: Yeah, you know, I basically I woke them up in
Speaker 9: the middle of the night, and I said, I think
Speaker 9: God wants me to drop out of college so I
Speaker 9: can be a singer and a songwriter and both of them,
Speaker 9: and set bolt up right in bed. My mother was
Speaker 9: a school teacher, small town school teacher. My daddy was
Speaker 9: a small town lawyer. And he breathed the longest sigh
Speaker 9: I've ever heard in my life.
Speaker 15: Was there a reason we went for the middle of
Speaker 15: the night. Was it just like shocked that you thought
Speaker 15: maybe they're sleeping.
Speaker 9: I couldn't sleep anymore. And I was supposed to go
Speaker 9: back to college in like three days, So.
Speaker 15: You're not gonna wait till tomorrow. You're like, it's happening now, what's.
Speaker 9: Happening right now? I got to get off my chest.
Speaker 9: So my dad said, said, this is the exact words. Son,
Speaker 9: I've don't got a long, long time.
Speaker 5: Like that.
Speaker 17: I don't.
Speaker 9: I don't believe he wants any son of mine to
Speaker 9: drop out of college to be a singer and a songwriter.
Speaker 9: You heard wrong.
Speaker 10: I can't wave your dad for no.
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