1 00:00:09,119 --> 00:00:12,000 Speaker 1: We're back with another Sunday sampler. I said down with 2 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:15,440 Speaker 1: Cooper Allen got massive on TikTok. Really cool artist, not 3 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 1: a kid, but like a young dude. We talked about 4 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:21,520 Speaker 1: his career. Pretty cool. Let's do this. So Morgan has 5 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:23,759 Speaker 1: a brand new podcast. We're going to start the sampler 6 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 1: with her podcast. Here's a clip from the first episode 7 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:29,880 Speaker 1: of Take This Personally with Morgan Hilsman. 8 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:34,520 Speaker 2: I want to bring on Amanda White. She's a therapist 9 00:00:34,600 --> 00:00:37,199 Speaker 2: and the founder of Therapy for Women. You know, she 10 00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:40,519 Speaker 2: was super frustrated and the options out there for modern 11 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:44,080 Speaker 2: approaches to therapy, so she created Therapy for Women to 12 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:49,080 Speaker 2: help provide people with authentic and compassionate therapists who provide 13 00:00:49,080 --> 00:01:04,640 Speaker 2: people with real life tools. 14 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:08,320 Speaker 1: Personal with the mogulsmen. 15 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 2: I know, something that you're familiar with is addictive behaviors. 16 00:01:14,600 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 2: How are we supposed to distinguish between the two? 17 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think the best way to understand an addictive 18 00:01:19,959 --> 00:01:23,399 Speaker 3: pattern is it does serve a purpose in our life. 19 00:01:23,480 --> 00:01:27,680 Speaker 3: And addiction can get this bad reputation as something that's 20 00:01:27,800 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 3: you know, immoral or something that someone is you know, 21 00:01:30,959 --> 00:01:34,000 Speaker 3: doing to harm themselves or others. But it's important to 22 00:01:34,040 --> 00:01:37,640 Speaker 3: remember that someone wouldn't have started doing it if it 23 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:41,320 Speaker 3: wasn't helping control pain in some way, if it wasn't 24 00:01:41,319 --> 00:01:45,039 Speaker 3: giving them a sense of control over their emotions or 25 00:01:45,040 --> 00:01:48,600 Speaker 3: their life, or giving them an escape. So it's a 26 00:01:48,640 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 3: myth that there's an addictive personality. 27 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:54,600 Speaker 4: The truth is addiction is complicated. 28 00:01:54,840 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 3: It is a variety of different factors, and some of 29 00:01:58,680 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 3: us are more genetically disposed to it. And also if 30 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:05,400 Speaker 3: you've been through trauma, depending on how you're raised, if 31 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:08,600 Speaker 3: you grew up around you know, certain substances that can 32 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:12,040 Speaker 3: definitely make it more likely that you'll turn to that 33 00:02:12,120 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 3: substance or develop an addictive behavior. 34 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,320 Speaker 4: But it's complicated, so it's hard to know. 35 00:02:18,480 --> 00:02:20,960 Speaker 2: I don't think there's a woman I've met in my 36 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:25,519 Speaker 2: life that doesn't deal with some kind of body image issues. 37 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:28,519 Speaker 2: Whatever that looks like, however that came to be, everybody 38 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:30,920 Speaker 2: deals with it in a different way. What are some 39 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 2: steps that you suggest for any of us who feel 40 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 2: that body image is a struggle to just kind of 41 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 2: start to get out of that constant negativity space. 42 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:42,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, and I completely agree with you. 43 00:02:42,840 --> 00:02:47,200 Speaker 3: I think it's something that women especially struggle with because 44 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:49,280 Speaker 3: we are objectified. 45 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 4: Much more in the media. 46 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:55,160 Speaker 3: So what happens often is we start to objectify ourselves. 47 00:02:55,480 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 3: So self objectification is when you kind of pick apart 48 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:03,880 Speaker 3: your body. You imagine like maybe you're getting dressed right, 49 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:07,880 Speaker 3: and you imagine what someone is thinking about how you look, 50 00:03:08,040 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 3: or you know you're sumped over in a chair, and 51 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:12,920 Speaker 3: you like correct yourself because you don't want anyone to 52 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:17,640 Speaker 3: see a certain angle of you that is objectifying yourself. 53 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:20,360 Speaker 3: So one thing that we can do kind of to 54 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:23,360 Speaker 3: snap out of that is to stop looking at ourselves 55 00:03:23,520 --> 00:03:26,680 Speaker 3: as just body parts and try to look at ourselves 56 00:03:26,800 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 3: as a whole. 57 00:03:27,880 --> 00:03:29,360 Speaker 4: Holistic being. 58 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:32,359 Speaker 3: And when you notice yourself, maybe like in the mirror, 59 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:36,280 Speaker 3: body checking or checking out different angles, trying to come 60 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 3: back to wearing things that make you feel comfortable, wearing 61 00:03:39,800 --> 00:03:42,160 Speaker 3: things that make you feel like you, that make you 62 00:03:42,200 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 3: feel beautiful. 63 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:45,520 Speaker 4: I mean, a big thing I say. 64 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:48,880 Speaker 3: To people often is if you had the body you loved, 65 00:03:48,920 --> 00:03:52,360 Speaker 3: if you were totally confident in how you felt, how 66 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 3: would your life be different? 67 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 4: What would you wear, what would you do, what would 68 00:03:56,840 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 4: you say? 69 00:03:58,040 --> 00:04:00,760 Speaker 3: And then try to practice that even if you're in 70 00:04:00,800 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 3: a body that you don't feel that way, and yet. 71 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:06,960 Speaker 2: There's a connection as women too, that we've been taught 72 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 2: not only have we been objectified so much, but also. 73 00:04:10,840 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 4: We've been told not to love ourselves. 74 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 2: We've been told, you know, if we take too many 75 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 2: pictures of ourselves, or if we do things that make 76 00:04:16,839 --> 00:04:20,160 Speaker 2: us feel good, we are narcissistic, or we are too 77 00:04:20,240 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 2: much into ourselves. And I do feel like as we 78 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:27,040 Speaker 2: keep having these conversations and women keep talking about, oh, 79 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:30,239 Speaker 2: we're all feeling this way, there's this huge empowerment happening 80 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:33,479 Speaker 2: of like, no, we deserve to feel that way about ourselves. 81 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:35,839 Speaker 4: Are you seeing that kind of happen right now? 82 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 1: I am? 83 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:36,960 Speaker 5: I am. 84 00:04:37,080 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 3: I think it's a good change, and I think it's 85 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:41,920 Speaker 3: I'm excited to see more women kind of taking back 86 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:45,040 Speaker 3: the idea too, that like your hobbies matter, like what 87 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 3: you like matters, even if other people think it's dumb 88 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:50,720 Speaker 3: or they're not interested in it. 89 00:04:50,720 --> 00:04:52,120 Speaker 4: It's okay to like what you like. 90 00:04:52,160 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 3: It's okay to be basic, it's okay to enjoy things 91 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:58,839 Speaker 3: that maybe other people don't. And it makes me so 92 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:01,720 Speaker 3: sad when and people are struggling with their mental health, 93 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:04,359 Speaker 3: people struggle to find things they care about these days, 94 00:05:04,400 --> 00:05:07,039 Speaker 3: and love and what we don't need is a bunch 95 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:10,400 Speaker 3: of people telling women what is okay for them to 96 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 3: care about or be interested in. 97 00:05:12,360 --> 00:05:15,760 Speaker 2: Speaking of taking things less personally, I know you can 98 00:05:15,920 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 2: touch on this a lot. I want to know the 99 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 2: world of social media and just in person too. But 100 00:05:22,360 --> 00:05:26,440 Speaker 2: how can we try to not take things so personally? 101 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:29,160 Speaker 3: I mean, I will say it's very difficult, and I 102 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:32,760 Speaker 3: don't think anyone can do it one hundred percent perfectly. 103 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:34,360 Speaker 4: My best tip for it. 104 00:05:34,640 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 3: What I do and what I teach clients to do, 105 00:05:37,200 --> 00:05:39,840 Speaker 3: is when someone gives you a piece of feedback or 106 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 3: says something that's particularly difficult for you, I would write 107 00:05:43,839 --> 00:05:46,559 Speaker 3: down on a piece of paper what the person said, 108 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:49,279 Speaker 3: and then on the other side of the piece of paper, 109 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:53,799 Speaker 3: write down what is your interpretation of what they said? 110 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 3: Because words are painful, for sure, and a lot of 111 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 3: times what keeps us up at I what really stings 112 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 3: is the interpretation of what that means. 113 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 4: That's such a good tip and really hard to do too. 114 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:11,120 Speaker 2: It's really hard to take it out of your head 115 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:13,919 Speaker 2: and your emotions and just leave it as what was said. 116 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 1: When did you start to play music or when did 117 00:06:23,760 --> 00:06:26,200 Speaker 1: you start caring about music other than just listening to it. 118 00:06:28,080 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 1: Start playing guitar in sixth grade? Why did someone give 119 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: you one? Or were you like I need one of those? 120 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:36,960 Speaker 5: I was playing the trumpet. That was like my first 121 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:39,880 Speaker 5: instrument because I was like heavy into disco. You know 122 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:43,719 Speaker 5: Casey in the Sunshine band Abbatius, I mean dead ass. 123 00:06:43,839 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 1: Okay, who then was around you to expose you to 124 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:47,440 Speaker 1: that in sixth grade? 125 00:06:48,800 --> 00:06:51,560 Speaker 5: So I think I saw Mama Mia when I was 126 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 5: in like third grade. 127 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:53,880 Speaker 1: Okay, that's enough of a thing. 128 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, I got hooked on this, yeah yeah, and 129 00:06:56,200 --> 00:06:58,800 Speaker 5: then got into more of the disco scene. Then my 130 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:01,039 Speaker 5: brothers were like, dude, you got you got to stop 131 00:07:01,160 --> 00:07:04,280 Speaker 5: playing the trumpet. It's just there's nothing cool about it. 132 00:07:04,320 --> 00:07:08,160 Speaker 1: Did you learn to read music to the point where 133 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 1: it still as beneficial to you, not to where it's 134 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: still beneficial. I could read a little bit, because you 135 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 1: have to do I guess play the trumpet. But then 136 00:07:14,280 --> 00:07:16,840 Speaker 1: when I started playing guitar, it was all I learned 137 00:07:16,840 --> 00:07:18,840 Speaker 1: my ear, you know, from my teacher. He just wanted 138 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 1: to said what songs do you want to play? And 139 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 1: I gave him a list of whatever. 140 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:25,400 Speaker 5: He told those songs I'm a miya of course, have 141 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 5: you heard AB's greatest hits. 142 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:28,120 Speaker 1: What did you want to play then when you picked 143 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 1: up the guitar? 144 00:07:28,680 --> 00:07:28,880 Speaker 6: Why? 145 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:31,760 Speaker 1: Because you're moving? You were at trumpet because something inspired you. 146 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:34,720 Speaker 1: So what then was the new musical inspiration that made 147 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:35,560 Speaker 1: you pivot instruments? 148 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:39,920 Speaker 5: We got Guitar Hero on the PlayStation two, Guitar Hero too, 149 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:43,160 Speaker 5: and it was just like it opened me up to 150 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 5: a whole world of like frickin rock music. 151 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: Good for you for learning the guitar as you played 152 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 1: Guitar Hero. I have so many friends that excelled at 153 00:07:53,600 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 1: Guitar Hero, and if they would have just put half 154 00:07:55,400 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 1: the time into learning the guitar that they learned playing 155 00:07:58,840 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: the hardest level of Guitar Hero, they would be a 156 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 1: freaking good guitar player. But instead they mastered a video 157 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 1: game that now they don't even play anymore. 158 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 5: Dude, I will I will take this to my grave. 159 00:08:08,560 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 5: Playing through the fire and Flames on expert on Guitar 160 00:08:11,280 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 5: Hero is harder than anything on the electric guitar you 161 00:08:14,000 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 5: can play. 162 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 1: My wife is younger than I am. 163 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:18,600 Speaker 5: How old are you twenty eight? 164 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:22,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, my wife is thirty one, and so she will 165 00:08:22,520 --> 00:08:25,440 Speaker 1: sing songs that are from like sixties and seventies classic 166 00:08:25,480 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 1: rock that I knew because I listened to the oldies 167 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 1: station growing up. Or she'll sing like some of the 168 00:08:30,000 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 1: nineties alternative stuff and I'm like, you don't know this 169 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:34,680 Speaker 1: song and she's like no, no guitar hero yeah, or 170 00:08:35,120 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 1: rock band. She would play guitar and sing and like 171 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 1: her dad will play the drums. Like that was such 172 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 1: an introduction of music. It's funny, that's what really got 173 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:44,839 Speaker 1: you into rock music. My favorite was a tambourine and 174 00:08:44,920 --> 00:08:45,280 Speaker 1: rock band. 175 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:46,680 Speaker 5: If you were the singer, you also got to play 176 00:08:46,679 --> 00:08:49,040 Speaker 5: the tambourine, and so you're just like wailing on this mic? 177 00:08:49,320 --> 00:08:51,679 Speaker 1: Was it on those like on did you need to 178 00:08:51,760 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 1: hit it with the same rip that was the tampa? 179 00:08:53,440 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 5: Yeah? Yeah, And there were like different levels of tambourine 180 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:58,480 Speaker 5: expertise and like cow bells like Mississippi Queen also had 181 00:08:58,520 --> 00:09:01,200 Speaker 5: the hit the mic it was. It's impressive stuff. 182 00:09:01,600 --> 00:09:03,840 Speaker 1: When you go and say I want a guitar, Who'd 183 00:09:03,840 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 1: you tell that to? 184 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 5: My dad? And I was like sixth grade when I 185 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 5: told him my first guitar I got for Christmas that year. 186 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:13,959 Speaker 5: It was the Les Paul Junior. 187 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:16,320 Speaker 1: You stop playing trumpet at that time? Did you just 188 00:09:16,360 --> 00:09:17,000 Speaker 1: go one to the other. 189 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:19,960 Speaker 5: I think, yeah, I think I did stop. I remember 190 00:09:20,000 --> 00:09:21,520 Speaker 5: the day I quit band. I think it was in 191 00:09:21,880 --> 00:09:26,000 Speaker 5: sixth grade. You know, big, big drama at the middle school. 192 00:09:26,160 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 5: But it was time. 193 00:09:27,880 --> 00:09:30,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I heard. I heard the stories when you quit band. 194 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:31,839 Speaker 1: I know they call it the day the music died 195 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 1: in North Carolina. 196 00:09:32,679 --> 00:09:34,920 Speaker 5: Absolutely green sleeves will never be the same. 197 00:09:37,160 --> 00:09:39,960 Speaker 1: When do you realize that maybe you want to do 198 00:09:40,160 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 1: music like as as, like bigger than just being a hobby. 199 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:49,200 Speaker 5: I mean, I started my band in eighth grade, and 200 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:51,120 Speaker 5: so we were called below the line. 201 00:09:51,600 --> 00:09:53,360 Speaker 1: That's actually kind of cool for an eighth grade band, 202 00:09:53,600 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 1: not to. 203 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 5: Be confused with blowing the line. It was. There was 204 00:09:56,080 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 5: a little bit of controversy there. 205 00:09:57,480 --> 00:09:58,400 Speaker 1: I never heard of that band. 206 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 5: Well, just I think the the coke. 207 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 1: Reference, right, Yeah, I don't know coke references. 208 00:10:03,480 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 5: So well neither do I just I thought i'd sound 209 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:07,800 Speaker 5: cool for a second. 210 00:10:07,840 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I am not so. I don't know any 211 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:12,920 Speaker 1: thing about cocaine. However, I think that's a pretty cool 212 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:15,160 Speaker 1: name for a group of eighth graders. I know, usually 213 00:10:15,160 --> 00:10:18,640 Speaker 1: it's like Willie's Gibblett and you're like, yeah, that name sucked. Yeah, 214 00:10:18,720 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 1: that's a pretty good one. 215 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:22,000 Speaker 5: How bad? So it was below the Mason Dixon line 216 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:26,320 Speaker 5: because you know, we're kind of course and we played dude, 217 00:10:26,920 --> 00:10:29,120 Speaker 5: you know, all all kinds of stuff. We played a 218 00:10:29,120 --> 00:10:30,960 Speaker 5: little bit of country, but it was mostly like it 219 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:33,920 Speaker 5: was hooty. It was fire for fighting, you know, Tom Petty, 220 00:10:34,480 --> 00:10:36,320 Speaker 5: Like we took a little while to get to the 221 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:37,199 Speaker 5: full country band. 222 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:38,320 Speaker 1: Were you the singer as well? 223 00:10:38,840 --> 00:10:43,560 Speaker 5: I was singer and I played guitar until we hired 224 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:46,120 Speaker 5: another guitar player. I was lead guitar for way too long. 225 00:10:46,480 --> 00:10:49,320 Speaker 1: When did you realize you could sing? And did you 226 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: start singing before you actually could sing? 227 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:56,000 Speaker 5: I did, like choir and chorus and all that stuff. 228 00:10:56,440 --> 00:10:59,200 Speaker 5: And I mean, you can look back at some eighth 229 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 5: grade videos and it is it's terrible. But I could 230 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 5: at least like hold some sort of tune. You could 231 00:11:05,679 --> 00:11:07,120 Speaker 5: tell there was something there a little bit. 232 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 1: Did you go through the whole voice puberty change? 233 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 7: Oh? 234 00:11:09,240 --> 00:11:12,200 Speaker 1: Of course it was it obvious while it was happening, 235 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:14,520 Speaker 1: as you're if you're a singer, Yeah, was there a 236 00:11:14,520 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 1: stage where you're like change? 237 00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:19,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, it was kind of eighth grade was prime, prime 238 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 5: voice cracks, and then you go through the phase of like, 239 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:25,000 Speaker 5: I want to sound like hooting the blowfish, and so 240 00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:27,000 Speaker 5: I'm not really going to enunciate the words, and it's 241 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:28,680 Speaker 5: really cool when he does it. It's not very cool 242 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:30,960 Speaker 5: when I do it. We went through a lot of phases. 243 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:33,040 Speaker 1: And how did you find three or four other guys 244 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 1: in your town that wanted to play the other instruments? 245 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:39,440 Speaker 5: One guy played drums in the band like you know, 246 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:42,200 Speaker 5: marching band, not marching band, but school band. And the 247 00:11:42,240 --> 00:11:45,840 Speaker 5: other played the bass and the keyboard, so he would 248 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 5: switch off between bass and keys, and we just all 249 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:49,559 Speaker 5: went to the same school. 250 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:51,679 Speaker 1: Who was the leader of the band? It got the 251 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 1: group together? Was it you? 252 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:54,200 Speaker 5: We practiced in my house? 253 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 1: Were you the below the line leader? Like, Hey, what 254 00:11:55,880 --> 00:11:57,679 Speaker 1: want to sort of band? Let's get together and do this? 255 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean sort of. It was all. Everybody was 256 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:03,560 Speaker 5: pretty stoked about it. But I mean somebody probably, I 257 00:12:03,600 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 5: probably care. 258 00:12:04,520 --> 00:12:06,200 Speaker 1: Somebody's got to string the band, somebody's got to have 259 00:12:06,200 --> 00:12:07,840 Speaker 1: the idea of let's start a band. 260 00:12:08,000 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 5: Yeah. I don't want to take too much credit, but yes, 261 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:11,280 Speaker 5: it was. Is there credit to take? 262 00:12:11,280 --> 00:12:12,960 Speaker 1: I mean, blow the line not really a thing anymore, right, 263 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:14,480 Speaker 1: unless you guys get back together. I will go to 264 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:15,440 Speaker 1: that show reunion. 265 00:12:15,600 --> 00:12:17,240 Speaker 5: We had some damn good years. Let me tell you 266 00:12:19,440 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 5: for a moment, he didn't fight for fighting. We didn't 267 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:23,960 Speaker 5: even play that one. We played the riddle, which is 268 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 5: a kind of a deep cut hit. 269 00:12:26,040 --> 00:12:29,200 Speaker 1: You didn't do Superman. No whatever that song was. 270 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:31,120 Speaker 5: No, I can't. I couldn't sing that high. Then my 271 00:12:31,160 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 5: falsetto was not developed. 272 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 1: Little for you. 273 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 8: Life. 274 00:13:02,800 --> 00:13:06,360 Speaker 9: Oh it's pretty, but hey, it's pretty beautiful. 275 00:13:06,720 --> 00:13:14,720 Speaker 1: That's a little more city you're kicking it with full 276 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:16,720 Speaker 1: with Amy Brown. 277 00:13:17,040 --> 00:13:19,720 Speaker 7: Hey it's Amy Brown from Four Things with Amy Brown. 278 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:20,640 Speaker 10: And here's what. 279 00:13:20,559 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 7: We talked about this week on my podcast. We put 280 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 7: up a question box last weekend and people sent in 281 00:13:28,360 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 7: questions and I'm going to hand you the reins as 282 00:13:31,320 --> 00:13:32,319 Speaker 7: part of your internship. 283 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 11: Okay, Well, to start things off, I wanted to start 284 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:38,240 Speaker 11: with a list I came up with for those of 285 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:40,280 Speaker 11: you wondering what it would ever be like to live 286 00:13:40,320 --> 00:13:43,040 Speaker 11: with Amy. Some things about Amy and living with her 287 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 11: is that she only drinks water from a measuring cup. 288 00:13:46,360 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 11: She uses the word bandwidth all the time. If she 289 00:13:49,520 --> 00:13:51,200 Speaker 11: doesn't want to do something, it's because she didn't have 290 00:13:51,240 --> 00:13:53,600 Speaker 11: the bandwidth for it. If she just want to cook. 291 00:13:53,679 --> 00:13:57,200 Speaker 11: It's a bandwidth issue, not anything else. And the list 292 00:13:57,240 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 11: goes on and on. None, I like to my band Yeah. 293 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 12: And her bandwidth is not large. 294 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:07,160 Speaker 11: No, it is big because you do so many things. 295 00:14:07,440 --> 00:14:09,720 Speaker 11: It's funny when it comes to the little things and 296 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:14,240 Speaker 11: it's like cooking or so many little things, and it's 297 00:14:14,360 --> 00:14:16,480 Speaker 11: the word bandwidth just comes out of her mouth every 298 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:19,560 Speaker 11: time she slaps her face before bed every single night 299 00:14:19,600 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 11: when she's doing her skincare routine, like slaps her face. 300 00:14:23,960 --> 00:14:25,200 Speaker 10: Make sure it's all on there. 301 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 7: Good. 302 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 12: Yeah, but you can just rub it in. 303 00:14:27,840 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 10: I rub it then slap. 304 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:33,880 Speaker 11: She puts Greek yogurt on everything leftover spaghetti, Greek yogurt, 305 00:14:34,200 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 11: toast with jelly, We're adding Greek yogurt. Eg salad, We're 306 00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:39,200 Speaker 11: gonna add grek yogurt. She likes to do her brain 307 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 11: exercises in the kitchen with little three pound pink dumbbells 308 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 11: alongside her Tracy Anderson armworkouts on YouTube that are like 309 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:48,800 Speaker 11: twenty years old. 310 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:51,560 Speaker 7: It's one video she made it for Gwyneth Paltrow when 311 00:14:51,680 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 7: Gwyneth was training to be on Iron Man. 312 00:14:54,880 --> 00:14:56,240 Speaker 12: No and your arms are toned. 313 00:14:58,640 --> 00:15:02,360 Speaker 11: She does meditations on YouTube and plays books while she's 314 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:06,280 Speaker 11: sleeping to absorb the information subconsciously, is how she describes it. 315 00:15:06,680 --> 00:15:07,720 Speaker 12: Are you sharing you about the move? 316 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:08,600 Speaker 10: Yeah, we can. 317 00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:11,000 Speaker 11: It was when mom was here, when Christy was here, 318 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 11: and we walked in from the Zach Brian concert and 319 00:15:13,320 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 11: you were sleeping in the kitchen and you had a 320 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:18,520 Speaker 11: book or something playing. It was like two in the morning, 321 00:15:18,800 --> 00:15:22,680 Speaker 11: and you said you were absorbing the information subconsciously. 322 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 12: So that was funny. 323 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 11: You toss the what does this make possible? Phrase around 324 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:31,320 Speaker 11: all over the house. If anything goes wrong, she just says, 325 00:15:31,360 --> 00:15:32,520 Speaker 11: what does this make possible? 326 00:15:33,040 --> 00:15:35,200 Speaker 12: While I said that that's how I survive. Yeah. 327 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 11: While I said that in a way that sounded like 328 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 11: it was annoying, it actually has helped me a lot 329 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 11: change my mindset about certain things because there's a lot 330 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 11: of truth to that phrase. 331 00:15:43,840 --> 00:15:46,480 Speaker 10: And I did learn from you though and Stashira. 332 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:49,280 Speaker 7: With certain things, I don't need to say it off 333 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 7: the bat, Like if it's with me and my own 334 00:15:51,320 --> 00:15:52,760 Speaker 7: stuff that I'm going on, I can say it to 335 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:56,040 Speaker 7: myself right off the bat, but it's not helpful for 336 00:15:56,160 --> 00:15:57,480 Speaker 7: other people to hear that right away. 337 00:15:57,520 --> 00:15:58,880 Speaker 10: I need to sit with them. 338 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 7: In it and then later, what is this made possible? 339 00:16:03,600 --> 00:16:04,040 Speaker 12: Yeah? 340 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 11: Oh, enters a room in the house, and usually the 341 00:16:06,880 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 11: first thing that comes out of her mouth is do 342 00:16:09,080 --> 00:16:09,600 Speaker 11: you smell that? 343 00:16:10,400 --> 00:16:11,760 Speaker 12: Then usually it's cat peet. 344 00:16:11,840 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 11: Then the whole day is derailed cleaning the rug where 345 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:15,960 Speaker 11: the cat pee potentially was that. 346 00:16:16,080 --> 00:16:16,840 Speaker 12: I can't even. 347 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:18,520 Speaker 10: Smell, you know, I always find it. 348 00:16:19,720 --> 00:16:24,200 Speaker 11: She always finds it the entire day, some hours out 349 00:16:24,200 --> 00:16:27,280 Speaker 11: of time, and I might have a domino effect that 350 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 11: impacts the day a little. I have three more should 351 00:16:31,680 --> 00:16:34,280 Speaker 11: I make dinner? I'll say that sometimes, like, oh, we 352 00:16:34,280 --> 00:16:36,000 Speaker 11: should make dinner, and she's like, oh, I was just 353 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:38,760 Speaker 11: thinking we could order food tonight, And usually it ends 354 00:16:38,840 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 11: up being a Caesar salad. 355 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 12: Well, we went through a phase. 356 00:16:41,840 --> 00:16:44,200 Speaker 11: We got that caesar salad from Urban Market and the 357 00:16:44,200 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 11: Burgers salmon Burger. 358 00:16:46,440 --> 00:16:48,880 Speaker 12: It's so the smash Burger beef. 359 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:51,200 Speaker 13: Yes, Slash Burger's really good. 360 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:55,120 Speaker 7: And I love Chipotle takeout, Yes, or Chewi's. 361 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:56,760 Speaker 12: Yeah, we're getting Mexican tonight. 362 00:16:57,320 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 7: Zeks that rice and salmon and oh yeah that was 363 00:17:00,560 --> 00:17:01,000 Speaker 7: really good. 364 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:01,240 Speaker 14: Yeah. 365 00:17:01,360 --> 00:17:02,920 Speaker 10: No, I mean it's a bandwidth thing. 366 00:17:03,320 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 12: Bandwidth. 367 00:17:04,640 --> 00:17:07,480 Speaker 11: Yeah, almond milk and cold brew must be in the 368 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:10,240 Speaker 11: fridge at all times, and if there's not ice for 369 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:12,320 Speaker 11: the almond milk and cold brew, then that's an issue. 370 00:17:12,840 --> 00:17:16,440 Speaker 11: But that's always the ice an ice maker. So we've 371 00:17:16,440 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 11: been having a hard time with ice. 372 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 7: We've been buying ice and then putting it in the 373 00:17:20,359 --> 00:17:21,639 Speaker 7: freezer and it's fine. 374 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 12: No, I just yeah, it's not an issue. 375 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:24,960 Speaker 11: I'm just saying that's something I noticed about you. 376 00:17:25,119 --> 00:17:26,360 Speaker 7: Yeah, it's like an allman. 377 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:28,280 Speaker 12: Yeah, which ice is really important to me too. 378 00:17:29,040 --> 00:17:31,640 Speaker 11: And the last one is wearing the same outfit for 379 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 11: a month or two months at a time, which I 380 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:37,080 Speaker 11: believe just takes a decision off your plate and that's 381 00:17:37,080 --> 00:17:39,560 Speaker 11: why you do it. But you've been wearing the same 382 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:42,560 Speaker 11: blue workout set for two months now. 383 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:45,480 Speaker 12: And I'm leaving tomorrow, but I'll probably see you in 384 00:17:45,560 --> 00:17:49,159 Speaker 12: it bear the fall. So but it's it's one of 385 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:51,800 Speaker 12: your colors right on your color pellet, the blue. 386 00:17:51,920 --> 00:17:52,720 Speaker 10: It's Yeah. 387 00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:55,400 Speaker 7: From my it looks really really good when I had. 388 00:17:55,280 --> 00:17:56,199 Speaker 10: My colors done. 389 00:17:56,280 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 7: I'm a cool summer and yeah, this part of my 390 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 7: cool summer palette. 391 00:18:02,119 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 11: Yeah, and that is the sum of my list. If 392 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:06,880 Speaker 11: you're ever wondering what it would be like to live 393 00:18:06,920 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 11: with Amy. 394 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:10,439 Speaker 13: Wow, I feel like I'd be really fun to live with. 395 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:16,560 Speaker 13: That girl sounds fun and funny and put together and inspiring, 396 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:17,920 Speaker 13: sounds like she has a good time. 397 00:18:18,400 --> 00:18:20,879 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, it's a good tash, just like some clean 398 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:24,159 Speaker 7: catfee and vacuum and mop and I'm specially didn't say 399 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:25,520 Speaker 7: anything about cleaning counters. 400 00:18:25,800 --> 00:18:27,560 Speaker 12: Oh well, I did put in here. I didn't even 401 00:18:27,560 --> 00:18:28,520 Speaker 12: say it. It was right now. 402 00:18:28,520 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 11: You're kind of obsessed with your vacuum, like you clean 403 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:33,840 Speaker 11: in your stressed and clean encounters. Yeah, but you recently 404 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:35,760 Speaker 11: been vacuuming a lot. I don't even know if you 405 00:18:35,800 --> 00:18:36,640 Speaker 11: know that you're doing. 406 00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:39,200 Speaker 10: That, but I know if I'm vacuuming. 407 00:18:39,280 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 11: You walk in and you pick up the vacuum and 408 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:45,000 Speaker 11: you start like vacuuming the kitchen rug and you're like, 409 00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:45,840 Speaker 11: everyone move. 410 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:48,280 Speaker 12: And I've just noticed it. 411 00:18:48,359 --> 00:18:50,119 Speaker 11: And yes, you do it with the counters too, but 412 00:18:50,200 --> 00:18:52,679 Speaker 11: lately it's been your vacuum. 413 00:18:52,440 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 12: And oh gets the house all loud and then you're like, okay, 414 00:18:57,400 --> 00:18:59,520 Speaker 12: I have to go, what do we need to do next? 415 00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:03,119 Speaker 7: I can work, sometimes I can't. You guys got laundry finish? 416 00:19:03,960 --> 00:19:07,080 Speaker 7: I love laundry. I love laundry, but I sometimes I 417 00:19:07,119 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 7: can't finish my work like my computer work. 418 00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:10,840 Speaker 12: Or relaxed while the house is clean. 419 00:19:10,920 --> 00:19:12,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, y'all, Like if we want to just chill out 420 00:19:12,840 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 7: and relax and watch something, I understand I want everything 421 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:18,960 Speaker 7: to feel clean, and maybe I need to chill out 422 00:19:19,040 --> 00:19:19,280 Speaker 7: on that. 423 00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:30,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're listening to in the Ve's Office with doctor 424 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:31,920 Speaker 3: Josie Horshak. 425 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:35,680 Speaker 10: Shannon, you want to lead us into our nextpert. 426 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:37,320 Speaker 6: Yeah, So this one we're going to do a little 427 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:39,640 Speaker 6: differently this week because there's the three of us here, 428 00:19:39,680 --> 00:19:41,200 Speaker 6: So normally this is the point in the show where 429 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 6: we get some questions from some of our listeners and 430 00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 6: we're gonna actually hand the controls over to you, Bobby, 431 00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:48,080 Speaker 6: and see if you have any questions. 432 00:19:48,119 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 1: I have a couple because out of Boston Terrier when 433 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:53,280 Speaker 1: I was a kid and as my first dog that 434 00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:55,240 Speaker 1: was mine like that I loved and it slept on 435 00:19:55,240 --> 00:19:56,159 Speaker 1: my chest every night. 436 00:19:56,400 --> 00:19:56,880 Speaker 15: And. 437 00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:02,639 Speaker 1: I remember it wasn't aggressive generally, but it was the 438 00:20:02,720 --> 00:20:05,200 Speaker 1: bossy was so a rat. It was just everywhere all 439 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:09,879 Speaker 1: the time that every once in a while it would 440 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:12,919 Speaker 1: bite something, and every great once in a while on 441 00:20:12,920 --> 00:20:14,040 Speaker 1: that side of every once in a while it was 442 00:20:14,040 --> 00:20:16,119 Speaker 1: a human. Wasn't trying to buy a human which just 443 00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:18,840 Speaker 1: bite random things, and sometimes it'd be a human. And 444 00:20:18,920 --> 00:20:23,479 Speaker 1: so what it happened was and like bit the mailman 445 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:26,359 Speaker 1: or something like ninth bite of the day was a 446 00:20:26,400 --> 00:20:30,439 Speaker 1: human the mailman. So I love the dog and I 447 00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:33,000 Speaker 1: had bites on my chest because the dog would sleep 448 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:35,840 Speaker 1: on my chest and it would have nightmares and wake 449 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:37,679 Speaker 1: up and go bite me. 450 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 6: What was his name, Bradley, Bradley, Bradley the Boston. 451 00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:45,160 Speaker 1: Loved again, loved him. Just had a whole therapy session 452 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,479 Speaker 1: about why I love dogs so much. It's because I 453 00:20:47,520 --> 00:20:51,760 Speaker 1: couldn't connect with humans, so I found a safety in dogs. 454 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 1: And Bradley would bite me. I have stop scars. But 455 00:20:57,080 --> 00:20:58,400 Speaker 1: he bit the mailman and the Mailmai. I was gonna 456 00:20:58,400 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 1: pres charges. Now my stepdad had to we don't want 457 00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 1: to get sued. But he had a friend that he 458 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:06,880 Speaker 1: worked with that had a bunch of dogs on his property, 459 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:09,119 Speaker 1: big farm, so he took an in let Bradley live 460 00:21:09,160 --> 00:21:11,359 Speaker 1: over there. And now I wasn't I just didn't want 461 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:12,920 Speaker 1: to see Bradley. Wouldn't let me go see Bradley because 462 00:21:12,920 --> 00:21:15,840 Speaker 1: ikn'd be sad. I told my wife the story, say 463 00:21:17,200 --> 00:21:19,040 Speaker 1: bid the ball wasn't terrier. I loved him so much. 464 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:21,280 Speaker 1: My stepdad put him out and he went to a 465 00:21:21,320 --> 00:21:23,080 Speaker 1: farm with the guy that where She was like, you 466 00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:24,720 Speaker 1: never saw him. You never went to the farm and 467 00:21:24,720 --> 00:21:26,359 Speaker 1: saw him. No, no, this is too sad for me. 468 00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:28,800 Speaker 1: She goes, I don't think that the farm was real. 469 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:31,320 Speaker 1: And I said, what this is like a year ago? No, 470 00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:34,080 Speaker 1: I said, what do you mean the farm's not real? 471 00:21:34,359 --> 00:21:36,800 Speaker 1: I started to get mad at her. She goes, she, 472 00:21:37,400 --> 00:21:42,720 Speaker 1: I think because it bit somebody. Bradley's now was not alive. 473 00:21:42,760 --> 00:21:45,360 Speaker 1: After that, my mind's blown. I'm like, there's no way. 474 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 1: So I called Arkansas Keith, my step former stepdad. Oh no, 475 00:21:48,800 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 1: I get him on the phone through the speaker and 476 00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,960 Speaker 1: I go, hey, man, Bradley, I didn't lead him to it. 477 00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:56,879 Speaker 1: So what happened. He goes, Oh, it bit the melman. 478 00:21:56,920 --> 00:21:57,439 Speaker 1: I shot him. 479 00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,760 Speaker 12: Ah, Bradley, Oh no, oh it. 480 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:06,439 Speaker 1: Now, and this is why you're in therapy in Arkansas. Oh, 481 00:22:06,880 --> 00:22:08,880 Speaker 1: he didn't pay money for a vet if an animal. Yeah, 482 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:12,320 Speaker 1: it sucked. That sucks to have it happen, but that's 483 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:13,680 Speaker 1: what you do in the country. 484 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:14,160 Speaker 6: Yeah. 485 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:16,119 Speaker 1: And I was like, well, he didn't go to some 486 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:19,320 Speaker 1: guy's farm. He goes, you believed that, And my wife 487 00:22:19,359 --> 00:22:21,960 Speaker 1: is trying so hard not to laugh hysterically because she 488 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,800 Speaker 1: knows I'm dealing with trauma of my dog just now 489 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:28,200 Speaker 1: being told at forty my dog's dead from twenty five 490 00:22:28,280 --> 00:22:31,119 Speaker 1: years ago. And also how stupid I wasn't there really 491 00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 1: was a farmer although animals went to. 492 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:35,159 Speaker 10: Play, right, we all believe that at some point, not 493 00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:35,560 Speaker 10: at some point. 494 00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:39,440 Speaker 1: I don't two years ago. Yeah, yeah, and so I 495 00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:42,760 Speaker 1: was like what, but I remember he would just bite. 496 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:45,840 Speaker 1: So my question after telling that story, because it made 497 00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:48,600 Speaker 1: me think about the biting part. Do you get bit randomly? 498 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:50,320 Speaker 1: And what's the kind of dog that you know it 499 00:22:50,320 --> 00:22:52,000 Speaker 1: doesn't have to be an aggressive dog. Is there a 500 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:54,720 Speaker 1: type of dog that kind of bites the most? Because 501 00:22:54,920 --> 00:22:55,879 Speaker 1: they're just nuts? 502 00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,680 Speaker 6: I don't want to stereotype dogs, but there are some 503 00:23:00,040 --> 00:23:01,760 Speaker 6: When we see the breed coming in, we're like, oh, 504 00:23:01,800 --> 00:23:04,240 Speaker 6: we should be extra careful. I have a German Shepherd, 505 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:07,040 Speaker 6: but German shepherd's up there, Rottwilers are up there. 506 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:11,040 Speaker 1: Is that because they're bigger so they're buying This is 507 00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:13,240 Speaker 1: always in my theory about big dogs. Yeah, we think 508 00:23:13,280 --> 00:23:15,160 Speaker 1: they buy it more because but when they do bite, 509 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:16,960 Speaker 1: it lasts longer and it's more hard. Exactly. 510 00:23:17,000 --> 00:23:19,199 Speaker 10: It's not that they bite more until comes in. I'm like, 511 00:23:19,240 --> 00:23:20,240 Speaker 10: you're a mosquito. 512 00:23:19,960 --> 00:23:21,280 Speaker 1: That the ain't making the news if it bites somebody. 513 00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 6: Exactly, German shepherd is going to rip your face off. 514 00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:24,840 Speaker 6: So it's a little bit different. 515 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:26,239 Speaker 1: You think it's they don't buit it more, but when 516 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,800 Speaker 1: they do bite, it's more of a situation because of 517 00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:30,480 Speaker 1: how severe it could be. 518 00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:33,520 Speaker 6: Yeah, I'd say that's probably right for sure. And I 519 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:35,359 Speaker 6: mean also they're bread to protect, so they kind of 520 00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:38,120 Speaker 6: have that like stereotype of being a little bit more aggressive, 521 00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,280 Speaker 6: which may or may not be true. So yeah, I 522 00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:41,520 Speaker 6: think they've just gotten labeled that. 523 00:23:41,440 --> 00:23:43,120 Speaker 1: Way out of pit bulls. A great dog ever had 524 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:45,119 Speaker 1: only if you listen to this, but you just have 525 00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:47,840 Speaker 1: too many surgeries. We're still getting there. But I had 526 00:23:47,920 --> 00:23:48,600 Speaker 1: him for thirteen years. 527 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:49,760 Speaker 10: We're gonna jump into him. 528 00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:51,320 Speaker 1: He was Yeah, he was the best dog ever. And 529 00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:53,680 Speaker 1: people would like be scared for a second, Yeah, oh 530 00:23:53,760 --> 00:23:56,119 Speaker 1: you got a pit bull? Yeah, and then you're just 531 00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:57,800 Speaker 1: then it was over the biggest baby. 532 00:23:57,920 --> 00:23:58,160 Speaker 16: Yeah. 533 00:23:58,320 --> 00:24:00,679 Speaker 1: Yeah, So do you get and what's the worst you've 534 00:24:00,680 --> 00:24:01,080 Speaker 1: been bitten? 535 00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:04,520 Speaker 6: I've only ever been bit on the job twice. The 536 00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:06,760 Speaker 6: first time was by a camel in bet school. 537 00:24:07,000 --> 00:24:08,960 Speaker 1: A camel, like an actual camel. 538 00:24:09,080 --> 00:24:10,760 Speaker 6: Yeah, we were taking care of it and it reached 539 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:13,000 Speaker 6: around and it bit my shoulder. And every bite I've 540 00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:14,879 Speaker 6: ever seen in my entire life, you guys, does not 541 00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:16,400 Speaker 6: compare to this camel bite. 542 00:24:16,400 --> 00:24:18,440 Speaker 10: Do you have scars? It took a big old chunk 543 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:19,680 Speaker 10: of skin out and it hurts. 544 00:24:19,520 --> 00:24:20,680 Speaker 1: Funny, so bad. 545 00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:22,800 Speaker 10: Is that normal for in vet school, that you're dealing 546 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:23,200 Speaker 10: with camel? 547 00:24:23,240 --> 00:24:23,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, they have camel. 548 00:24:24,119 --> 00:24:26,639 Speaker 10: You you kind of deal with anything that comes along. 549 00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,159 Speaker 10: And this is the University of Cairo. 550 00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:32,840 Speaker 6: No, this is at a highest state university, and they 551 00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:34,879 Speaker 6: have had a camel. Yeah, like farmers would have a 552 00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:37,840 Speaker 6: random camel, or like we took care of a lot 553 00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:39,240 Speaker 6: of deer like random things. 554 00:24:40,160 --> 00:24:42,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, did you worry about with deer? Did you worry 555 00:24:42,080 --> 00:24:45,680 Speaker 1: about like lime disease? Because since you were around really 556 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,639 Speaker 1: absolutely that would be scared because just living in the 557 00:24:48,680 --> 00:24:50,880 Speaker 1: country or now just being in the wood, you worry 558 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 1: about it, just as existing with a tick. But if 559 00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:54,600 Speaker 1: you're with deer, yeah, they are the host. 560 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:57,920 Speaker 6: They carry those ticks around and those are the ticks 561 00:24:57,960 --> 00:24:58,920 Speaker 6: that spread lime disease. 562 00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:02,040 Speaker 1: So definitely top three. Bites number one a camel, Number one. 563 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:03,439 Speaker 12: A camel expecting that. 564 00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:06,240 Speaker 6: I've only ever been bit one other time, and it 565 00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:08,639 Speaker 6: was a dog waking up from anesthesia. I'm in that 566 00:25:08,760 --> 00:25:11,520 Speaker 6: school again, so still a rookie. This dog's waking up. 567 00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:14,720 Speaker 6: He's got his breathing tube in and he looks at me, 568 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:16,480 Speaker 6: like wakes up out of nowhere. I look at him, 569 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:19,160 Speaker 6: and he goes and bites down on his tube. 570 00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:21,280 Speaker 1: I did that, m colas, the same thing except tub. 571 00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:26,399 Speaker 10: Oh man, this is why I love you. 572 00:25:27,119 --> 00:25:30,080 Speaker 6: And so he spits out the one half and heals 573 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:33,040 Speaker 6: the other, the other piece of tubes going down into 574 00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:35,400 Speaker 6: his strachia, and so I being. 575 00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:38,280 Speaker 10: The dummy, I'm like, I'm gonna save his life, and I. 576 00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:40,800 Speaker 6: Stick my whole hand in his mouth to grab the tube, 577 00:25:40,800 --> 00:25:43,320 Speaker 6: and he just goes and bit down on my entire. 578 00:25:43,160 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 1: Hand because he was probably scared. 579 00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:49,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, so afraid, like waking up from anthesia, and it's 580 00:25:49,200 --> 00:25:50,280 Speaker 6: just their natural reaction. 581 00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna do it live. 582 00:25:53,880 --> 00:25:59,359 Speaker 17: We are the one two three sore losers. 583 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:01,520 Speaker 8: What up ever? Everyudy, I am lunchbox. I know the 584 00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:04,120 Speaker 8: most about sports, so I'll gave you the sports facts, 585 00:26:04,160 --> 00:26:08,560 Speaker 8: my sports opinions, because I'm pretty much a sports genius, y'all. 586 00:26:08,600 --> 00:26:10,920 Speaker 17: It's Sison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male. 587 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,199 Speaker 17: I live on the North side of Nashville with Bayser, 588 00:26:13,280 --> 00:26:15,200 Speaker 17: my wife. We do have a farm. It's beautiful, a 589 00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 17: lot of acreage, no animals, a lot of crops. Hopefully 590 00:26:19,119 --> 00:26:25,280 Speaker 17: soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe a little fescue 591 00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:26,399 Speaker 17: to be determined. 592 00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:28,240 Speaker 14: Over to you, coach. 593 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:31,560 Speaker 8: And here's a clip from this week's episode of The 594 00:26:31,560 --> 00:26:36,879 Speaker 8: Sore Losers. Wednesday night, We're going Nashville, sc right with 595 00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:39,120 Speaker 8: his buddy, his best friend. We're meeting him at the game, 596 00:26:39,440 --> 00:26:42,840 Speaker 8: Gonna have a bro time and we park our car, 597 00:26:42,880 --> 00:26:46,080 Speaker 8: who pay twenty dollars to part or walking in the stadium, 598 00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:48,879 Speaker 8: he's holding my left hand with his right hand. 599 00:26:49,080 --> 00:26:50,800 Speaker 14: Wait, it's just you and the kid? What did you 600 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:51,480 Speaker 14: do with the other two? 601 00:26:51,760 --> 00:26:52,560 Speaker 8: They stayed home? 602 00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:56,879 Speaker 14: So it really was just baby box kid day week. 603 00:26:57,080 --> 00:27:00,560 Speaker 8: Well, it was his buddy's birthday's present. His dad bought 604 00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:02,200 Speaker 8: him tickets and he got to invite one friend. 605 00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:04,480 Speaker 17: Okay, because I just never think I got one on 606 00:27:04,480 --> 00:27:06,600 Speaker 17: one time with Pops. It was always me and the 607 00:27:06,600 --> 00:27:08,200 Speaker 17: bro and the cis Yeah, and. 608 00:27:08,119 --> 00:27:10,440 Speaker 8: The other two were very sad when we were leaving 609 00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 8: without them, like that's not fair. 610 00:27:12,440 --> 00:27:13,280 Speaker 14: This is huge. 611 00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:16,320 Speaker 17: Just remembered it Colorado Rocky's game. My dad took me 612 00:27:16,920 --> 00:27:18,800 Speaker 17: and left my brother and sister at home. I was 613 00:27:18,840 --> 00:27:21,440 Speaker 17: a kid that got picked. Wow, that's I just had 614 00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:23,320 Speaker 17: that feeling. That's how your kid felt. 615 00:27:23,480 --> 00:27:25,280 Speaker 8: Yeah, And we had to sit down the four year 616 00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:28,080 Speaker 8: old and be like, well, look, Bud, you know baby 617 00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:30,600 Speaker 8: Box's friend. He got tickets for his birthday and they 618 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:32,080 Speaker 8: invited baby Box. 619 00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 17: They the kids understanding this explanation, and we're like, doesn't even. 620 00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:38,439 Speaker 14: Know what apple juice is. 621 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 8: Now cut my banana, and my wife said, don't worry, 622 00:27:42,320 --> 00:27:44,720 Speaker 8: you're gonna get Hey, don't tell, don't tell your brother, 623 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:46,640 Speaker 8: But you guys are gonna get a special treat. 624 00:27:47,359 --> 00:27:50,280 Speaker 14: You guys are making back in deals alliances. 625 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:51,960 Speaker 8: You're gonna get a special treat. 626 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:55,840 Speaker 17: They're already learning about secrets now and keeping secrets unbelievable. 627 00:27:56,280 --> 00:27:58,600 Speaker 8: When we leave, when they leave, you're gonna get a 628 00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:04,240 Speaker 8: special treaty. So we're walking to the game and I'm 629 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,040 Speaker 8: gonna tell you what happened right after this. 630 00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:12,480 Speaker 17: I mean, hell of a cheez, I hope. A homeless 631 00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:15,879 Speaker 17: guy came up and threw a shoe in the air. 632 00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,280 Speaker 8: Like I said, he's holding my left hand with his 633 00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:20,960 Speaker 8: right hand and we're walking. I said, Bud inside joke. 634 00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:26,119 Speaker 8: Are you at all excited about kindergarten or what are 635 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:30,200 Speaker 8: you feeling? He said, Dad, I'm a little bit excited. 636 00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:33,439 Speaker 8: I said, oh that's good. Well what other so are 637 00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:37,720 Speaker 8: you feeling? He goes, He goes, I'm a little nervous. 638 00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:43,080 Speaker 8: I said, why, Bud, what's going on? He said, Dad, 639 00:28:44,400 --> 00:28:49,040 Speaker 8: I'm kind of shy. So I'm a little nervous about 640 00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:53,840 Speaker 8: all my friends meeting friends. And he goes, but it's 641 00:28:53,840 --> 00:28:56,280 Speaker 8: okay because I have the you know, and he starts 642 00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:59,360 Speaker 8: naming the kids, ABC, D and E. He's like, they'll 643 00:28:59,360 --> 00:29:05,640 Speaker 8: be in my class. Yeah, son, I'm like, how do 644 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:06,680 Speaker 8: I break this to you? 645 00:29:06,800 --> 00:29:07,000 Speaker 5: Yeah? 646 00:29:07,040 --> 00:29:08,560 Speaker 8: Yeah, they might be in your class. But they might 647 00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:09,800 Speaker 8: be in your class. And I said, but then you 648 00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:12,280 Speaker 8: got to think of it. Every kid that's going to 649 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:14,840 Speaker 8: be in your class, this is your time to shine, 650 00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:18,160 Speaker 8: I said, every single one of them. It's going to 651 00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:20,240 Speaker 8: be their first time at that school. Hell of a speech, 652 00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:23,120 Speaker 8: I said, Nobody. 653 00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:24,320 Speaker 14: Tell them about Garrett tell them about Forest. 654 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:26,840 Speaker 8: Have never been has been to that school. I said, 655 00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,800 Speaker 8: just imagine when I walked into kindergarten, I didn't know anybody, 656 00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,080 Speaker 8: and I made all sorts of friends. And then my 657 00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 8: mom and dad decided to move. At the end of kindergarten. 658 00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:36,800 Speaker 14: Me and your mom walked into a bar together, never 659 00:29:36,840 --> 00:29:38,200 Speaker 14: knew each other. Look at us now, so. 660 00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:40,960 Speaker 8: And so Granny and Grandpa decided we were going to 661 00:29:41,040 --> 00:29:43,680 Speaker 8: move at the end of kindergarten. And so going to 662 00:29:43,720 --> 00:29:46,080 Speaker 8: first grade, I had to start a whole new school again. 663 00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:49,640 Speaker 8: Granny and I went out first grade. I walked into 664 00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:52,280 Speaker 8: Summon Elementary and I walked into Miss Anderson's class. I 665 00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:54,520 Speaker 8: didn't know a soul, didn't know anybody. 666 00:29:54,680 --> 00:29:55,480 Speaker 14: It was Miss Curry. 667 00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:56,480 Speaker 8: That was kindergarten. 668 00:29:58,040 --> 00:30:00,640 Speaker 14: Legs noted in first. 669 00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:03,040 Speaker 8: Grade, I'm just there the two hotties in my class, 670 00:30:03,120 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 8: Amy and Candy. That's where I met aj. I mean, 671 00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:11,960 Speaker 8: it happens, man. I said, you're gonna be okay, and 672 00:30:12,000 --> 00:30:14,160 Speaker 8: it's okay that you're a little bit of shy. You'll 673 00:30:14,200 --> 00:30:18,000 Speaker 8: meet some kids. He goes, okay, But I'm just really 674 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 8: sad right now because my brothers couldn't come to the 675 00:30:19,880 --> 00:30:20,520 Speaker 8: soccer game. 676 00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:22,080 Speaker 5: Okay, like. 677 00:30:23,560 --> 00:30:25,440 Speaker 8: This supposed to be a good, happy moment. So we 678 00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:27,360 Speaker 8: meet up with his buddy. We go in the stadium 679 00:30:28,360 --> 00:30:30,320 Speaker 8: and we're all exciting. Let me tell you there are 680 00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:32,920 Speaker 8: plenty of good seats still available for that game. 681 00:30:33,040 --> 00:30:34,880 Speaker 14: As Dad placed his bets. 682 00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:36,760 Speaker 8: No, there's no bets because they are so bad. 683 00:30:36,880 --> 00:30:38,960 Speaker 14: I thought, you bet like sometimes over one. 684 00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:42,280 Speaker 8: Oh, sometimes I'm like all over three goals. But they've 685 00:30:42,280 --> 00:30:44,120 Speaker 8: been so bad you can't even you can't do that. 686 00:30:44,160 --> 00:30:45,280 Speaker 14: What about muck Tar? 687 00:30:46,000 --> 00:30:48,880 Speaker 8: Mooktar's there? We get our new coach. Let me tell 688 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:52,040 Speaker 8: you it was his first game on the job. And 689 00:30:52,080 --> 00:30:54,920 Speaker 8: I did get an email from him before the game 690 00:30:55,960 --> 00:31:00,720 Speaker 8: and it's said here goes said, Hey man, sorry I 691 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,720 Speaker 8: missed you last Friday at the welcome event at Gyodas Park. 692 00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:06,480 Speaker 8: It was great to meet you and some of your 693 00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:08,120 Speaker 8: Oh no, it was great to meet so many of 694 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:11,360 Speaker 8: your fellow nashvillec fans and I felt nothing but welcome 695 00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:14,720 Speaker 8: since arriving in Nashville last week. As I mentioned to 696 00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:17,200 Speaker 8: the fans and attendance on Friday, our team will reflect 697 00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:21,200 Speaker 8: Nashville and you each night. You can expect a team 698 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,680 Speaker 8: that is hard working and playing with relentless mentality for 699 00:31:23,800 --> 00:31:24,680 Speaker 8: ninety plus minutes. 700 00:31:24,800 --> 00:31:25,400 Speaker 5: Guys cover. 701 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:27,840 Speaker 8: We are going to give you every ounce of effort 702 00:31:27,880 --> 00:31:30,360 Speaker 8: to represent our city, and we expect you to hold 703 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:33,560 Speaker 8: us to that standard every match day. The future is 704 00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:36,080 Speaker 8: bright and we're ready to get started. I hope to 705 00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:38,080 Speaker 8: see you at our first match in the League's Cup 706 00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:42,080 Speaker 8: tournament on Wednesday, July thirty first at Giodas Park. Thanks 707 00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:46,880 Speaker 8: and see you soon. BJ Callahan, Nashville sc head coach, 708 00:31:47,200 --> 00:31:51,560 Speaker 8: look forward to taking into the coach individually emailed me. 709 00:31:51,880 --> 00:31:53,680 Speaker 8: Sounds like a cookie cutter, Y know. 710 00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:57,000 Speaker 17: Also, I have an email I got from a Nashville 711 00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:59,640 Speaker 17: professional sports team. Can we foreshadow that and do it 712 00:31:59,680 --> 00:31:59,960 Speaker 17: a second? 713 00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:02,520 Speaker 8: Yes, we can't. So we go to the game. I'm like, hey, 714 00:32:02,520 --> 00:32:03,280 Speaker 8: coach wants. 715 00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:03,440 Speaker 5: To meet me. 716 00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:04,960 Speaker 14: Does this story improve? 717 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:05,960 Speaker 8: Yeah? 718 00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:08,160 Speaker 14: We go to the Gainst borderline. 719 00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:11,120 Speaker 8: But no, we go to the game and national just 720 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:11,440 Speaker 8: gets her. 721 00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:14,560 Speaker 17: Ask boy, they they got even. I didn't mean to 722 00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:17,600 Speaker 17: say gay. The day got even worse for the kid. 723 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:20,160 Speaker 8: They lost two to nothing, They. 724 00:32:20,080 --> 00:32:21,000 Speaker 14: Got shut out. 725 00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:22,760 Speaker 1: Come on, dimner man. 726 00:32:25,000 --> 00:32:27,720 Speaker 8: They are just so bad. I don't know how they 727 00:32:27,720 --> 00:32:28,360 Speaker 8: are so bad. 728 00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:30,640 Speaker 14: So tell me this. Do they make the playoffs this year? 729 00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:33,160 Speaker 8: Probably not. Wow, but this is a Leagu's Cup. It 730 00:32:33,160 --> 00:32:36,040 Speaker 8: doesn't even count the the regular season standings. But we're playing. 731 00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:38,880 Speaker 8: We were playing a team from Mexico that last year 732 00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:41,240 Speaker 8: we beat them like five to nothing, and this year 733 00:32:41,280 --> 00:32:42,960 Speaker 8: they wiped the floor with us. We didn't even we 734 00:32:43,000 --> 00:32:44,440 Speaker 8: barely had any shots on goal. 735 00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 14: So I take it we didn't win the cup. 736 00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:48,280 Speaker 8: Well, I don't know. This is the last year when 737 00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,760 Speaker 8: we played Messi for the Cup championship, and since then 738 00:32:51,040 --> 00:32:53,560 Speaker 8: we have gone straight off a cliff, like we were 739 00:32:53,560 --> 00:32:56,400 Speaker 8: in the League's Cup championship in a shootout against Lionel 740 00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:59,960 Speaker 8: Messi and this year we can't even freaking sniff aa. 741 00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:02,760 Speaker 8: It is so bad to watch. The kids are depressed, 742 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:04,960 Speaker 8: The kids are sad. I had to pump their spirits 743 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:07,360 Speaker 8: up at halftime. We had to get Dippin' dots and 744 00:33:07,400 --> 00:33:09,040 Speaker 8: that brought the energy back to the kids. 745 00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:10,200 Speaker 14: The future. 746 00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:13,000 Speaker 8: Yes, because they were ready to give up. They were 747 00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:15,440 Speaker 8: ready to give in, and we didn't tell the other 748 00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:17,560 Speaker 8: boys we got ice cream because that was their special 749 00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:20,160 Speaker 8: treat at home, and so they weren't thinking baby Box 750 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:22,600 Speaker 8: is getting ice cream at the game. We got smoked. 751 00:33:22,600 --> 00:33:25,320 Speaker 8: It was terrible. BJ Callahan you lied to me and 752 00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 8: said you're gonna reflect me. No, I score goals, I 753 00:33:28,160 --> 00:33:29,240 Speaker 8: don't lose two nothing. 754 00:33:29,320 --> 00:33:30,960 Speaker 14: Wait, what did you tell your kid though about the 755 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:31,920 Speaker 14: coach emailing you? 756 00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:33,920 Speaker 8: I told him, Hey, he wants to meet us. Should 757 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:34,479 Speaker 8: we go down there? 758 00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:37,240 Speaker 14: Get with your kids? 759 00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:40,040 Speaker 8: And he goes, really data, right, Yeah, So we went 760 00:33:40,080 --> 00:33:41,680 Speaker 8: down there and he goes, Dada, which one's the coach. 761 00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:43,880 Speaker 8: He's on the other side, and goes, well, shouldn't we 762 00:33:43,920 --> 00:33:47,040 Speaker 8: go over there since he wanted to meet you. I'm like, Bud, 763 00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:48,440 Speaker 8: I don't know if he you know, I should go 764 00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:51,560 Speaker 8: meet him like during the game. Ah, And he goes, 765 00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:54,000 Speaker 8: but Dad, he said, you said he emailed you and 766 00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:55,440 Speaker 8: said he wanted to meet you at the game. 767 00:33:56,240 --> 00:33:56,440 Speaker 7: Good. 768 00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:59,880 Speaker 17: You gotta stop doing that crap because eventually he's gonna. 769 00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:02,120 Speaker 8: Know, Well, he's only six, so it's pretty cool for 770 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:03,680 Speaker 8: him to think the coach wanted to meet me. 771 00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:05,840 Speaker 17: That's cool at that age, but seven to eight then 772 00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:07,960 Speaker 17: he's gonna say, yeah, Dad, prove it. 773 00:34:08,719 --> 00:34:10,920 Speaker 14: Prove it, Dad, go over and talk to him. 774 00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,799 Speaker 8: So it was a long night. The game didn't start 775 00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:17,960 Speaker 8: till eight. We left there at nine forty five. We 776 00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:19,879 Speaker 8: left with like ten minutes left in the game down 777 00:34:19,920 --> 00:34:20,480 Speaker 8: to nothing. 778 00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:22,600 Speaker 14: Oh, always leave early theory. 779 00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:25,120 Speaker 8: No, it wasn't no, there was no traffic. It wouldn't matter. 780 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:27,280 Speaker 14: It sounds like you no traffic. 781 00:34:27,920 --> 00:34:31,280 Speaker 8: His buddy was ready to go and they were tired, 782 00:34:31,320 --> 00:34:32,560 Speaker 8: so I was like, oh, we might as well walk 783 00:34:32,600 --> 00:34:34,960 Speaker 8: with them. We took two separate cars, but it was 784 00:34:34,960 --> 00:34:38,080 Speaker 8: two nothing. We had no hope. And my kid's like, no, 785 00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:39,200 Speaker 8: d have we got to stay to the end of 786 00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:41,960 Speaker 8: the game so you can talk to the coach And 787 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:43,480 Speaker 8: I'm like, no, Bud, I gotta work. 788 00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:43,720 Speaker 5: In the morning. 789 00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:45,279 Speaker 8: We gotta get going. We gotta get going. 790 00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:46,600 Speaker 14: Why did I tell that lie? 791 00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:48,799 Speaker 8: And so we get to the car and I'm like, 792 00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:50,480 Speaker 8: but are you tired it all? He goes, no, Dad, 793 00:34:50,480 --> 00:34:52,680 Speaker 8: I wanted to stay for the whole game. He fell 794 00:34:52,680 --> 00:34:55,359 Speaker 8: asleep in the car. In the eight minute drive home. 795 00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:57,879 Speaker 8: He was already asleep in the car. And he went 796 00:34:57,920 --> 00:35:01,880 Speaker 8: home told mom bad news, bad news. She's like what 797 00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:04,680 Speaker 8: and he goes, we lost to nothing? And Dad, I 798 00:35:04,719 --> 00:35:06,240 Speaker 8: didn't even go talk to the coach. 799 00:35:20,280 --> 00:35:22,359 Speaker 18: Hey, it's Mike d And this week I'll movie Mike's 800 00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:25,719 Speaker 18: movie podcast. I did a big Marvel episode. Not only 801 00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:29,120 Speaker 18: did I give my spoiler free review of Deadpool in Wolverine. 802 00:35:29,239 --> 00:35:31,960 Speaker 18: But I also did a lot of Marvel Mount Rushmore's 803 00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:34,320 Speaker 18: what I'll Play for you. Here is my Mount Rushmore 804 00:35:34,440 --> 00:35:37,520 Speaker 18: of the best and the worst movies in the MCU. 805 00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:39,880 Speaker 18: Check out the full episode to hear what made my 806 00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:42,759 Speaker 18: Superhero and Villain's list. But right now, here's just a 807 00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:47,600 Speaker 18: little bit of movie Mike's movie podcast. In that first slot, 808 00:35:47,680 --> 00:35:51,400 Speaker 18: I would put Infinity War. It is the best in 809 00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:55,200 Speaker 18: theater experience that I've had from any of the Avengers movies, 810 00:35:55,560 --> 00:35:59,080 Speaker 18: even more so than Endgame, because Endgame really only has 811 00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:01,200 Speaker 18: that one big moment that we all know at this 812 00:36:01,360 --> 00:36:04,319 Speaker 18: point that every theater in America is freaking out. 813 00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:05,440 Speaker 1: That is a core moment. 814 00:36:06,239 --> 00:36:10,920 Speaker 18: But I still think overall, the first time I experienced 815 00:36:11,000 --> 00:36:15,840 Speaker 18: Infinity War left me feeling way different, and it was 816 00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:18,319 Speaker 18: also more expected. I kind of knew what was gonna 817 00:36:18,320 --> 00:36:22,200 Speaker 18: happen in Endgame, which was the end result of every 818 00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:25,200 Speaker 18: Marvel movie that came before it. We all knew what 819 00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:27,960 Speaker 18: was gonna happen, we all knew what it was building towards. 820 00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:32,040 Speaker 18: There was nothing I got in Endgame that came out 821 00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:35,920 Speaker 18: of left field. Really great moments, a fantastic movie. But 822 00:36:36,000 --> 00:36:38,640 Speaker 18: when I sit down to watch an Avengers movie, I'm 823 00:36:38,640 --> 00:36:41,279 Speaker 18: gonna watch Infinity War. I still think it is the 824 00:36:41,280 --> 00:36:44,160 Speaker 18: best one. So in that number one slot, I'm going 825 00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:46,920 Speaker 18: with Infinity War. At number two, it goes to Iron 826 00:36:46,920 --> 00:36:50,000 Speaker 18: Man being the first MCU movie back in two thousand 827 00:36:50,080 --> 00:36:53,239 Speaker 18: and eighty and one that still holds up. There are 828 00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:56,040 Speaker 18: not that many movies from Phase one that you can 829 00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:59,640 Speaker 18: go back and just think that, oh, nothing here has 830 00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:03,919 Speaker 18: changed the whole lot. Everything still works out. Iron Man 831 00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,760 Speaker 18: is that movie. I would argue some of the visual 832 00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:09,960 Speaker 18: effects in the first Iron Man look better than some 833 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:11,920 Speaker 18: of the MCU movies that have come out in the 834 00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:15,160 Speaker 18: last five years. This was back when all the VFX 835 00:37:15,280 --> 00:37:18,640 Speaker 18: artists weren't being worked to the bone and the technology 836 00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:21,400 Speaker 18: was new at the time, with Transformers being one of 837 00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:24,200 Speaker 18: the first movies to really use like that photo realism 838 00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:27,640 Speaker 18: making things actually look like the surfaces that they are. 839 00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:30,600 Speaker 18: That was a big deal back in the day. So 840 00:37:30,760 --> 00:37:35,200 Speaker 18: Transformers was very influential on Iron Man. It got it perfect, 841 00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:39,160 Speaker 18: it got the suit down so well. Everybody benefited from it. 842 00:37:39,560 --> 00:37:43,000 Speaker 18: At number two, I have Iron Man. At number three, 843 00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:45,200 Speaker 18: I have Black Panther. Not only because it's such a 844 00:37:45,239 --> 00:37:49,120 Speaker 18: great movie. Has the fantastic villain, has the fantastic hero. 845 00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:51,120 Speaker 4: But I would say because. 846 00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:54,960 Speaker 18: This movie looks unlike any of the other MCU movies 847 00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:58,080 Speaker 18: for a couple of reasons, for the cast, the representation. 848 00:37:58,840 --> 00:38:02,440 Speaker 18: It just looks different the people who are represented in 849 00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:03,640 Speaker 18: this movie, which was huge. 850 00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:04,600 Speaker 4: We didn't have that. 851 00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:08,000 Speaker 18: Me as a Mexican American, I didn't get that until 852 00:38:08,239 --> 00:38:11,000 Speaker 18: well on the DC side, Blue Beetle, but even in 853 00:38:11,440 --> 00:38:14,799 Speaker 18: Wakanda Forever with our first Mexican villain. But that was 854 00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:17,319 Speaker 18: important for kids who didn't have a hero that looked 855 00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:20,000 Speaker 18: like them. And now you have this awesome black superhero 856 00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:24,560 Speaker 18: who was also noble and smart and quite possibly stronger 857 00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:26,560 Speaker 18: and more fierce. I mean that has to do a 858 00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:28,880 Speaker 18: lot with the technology they had, which is so advanced 859 00:38:28,880 --> 00:38:32,080 Speaker 18: and everybody wants, but it looked different because of the 860 00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:35,560 Speaker 18: cast and the representation. And number three in that slot, 861 00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:40,160 Speaker 18: I have Black Panther at number four because this movie 862 00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:43,360 Speaker 18: changed my life because it felt like my inner kid 863 00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:48,239 Speaker 18: just having complete joy in the year of twenty twenty one, 864 00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:52,720 Speaker 18: which this movie single handily probably saved the movie theaters 865 00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:55,320 Speaker 18: that year, bouncing back from twenty twenty. 866 00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:56,560 Speaker 1: It is No Way Home. 867 00:38:57,239 --> 00:39:00,000 Speaker 18: Aside from what I was mentioning earlier of Infinity War 868 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:03,760 Speaker 18: being my overall favorite theater experience for a Marvel movie, 869 00:39:04,320 --> 00:39:07,319 Speaker 18: this one has my favorite moment, Yes even more so 870 00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:12,360 Speaker 18: than Endgame, my favorite cheer moment, which any good MCU 871 00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,120 Speaker 18: movie has at that moment that we all want to 872 00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:16,480 Speaker 18: get out of our seats and yell and clap and applaud. 873 00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:20,279 Speaker 18: This movie did it the best. I will never forget that. 874 00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,480 Speaker 18: So those are my mount Rushmore of the best MCU movies, 875 00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:28,360 Speaker 18: Infinity War, Iron Man, Black Panther, and No Way Home. 876 00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:32,040 Speaker 1: Chase a Little Man, Boys, Here we go. 877 00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,000 Speaker 18: All right to close us out, my mount Rushmore, Oh, 878 00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:39,640 Speaker 18: the worst MCU movies at number one, And I would 879 00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:43,680 Speaker 18: say for all of these movies, I've only seen them once, 880 00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:47,000 Speaker 18: and not only that, I never want to watch them again. 881 00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:51,200 Speaker 18: And out of all of the thirty three MCU movies, 882 00:39:51,719 --> 00:39:54,160 Speaker 18: these are the only ones that I would consider bad. 883 00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:56,319 Speaker 18: There only happens to be four of them, which is 884 00:39:56,360 --> 00:39:59,719 Speaker 18: pretty good. But in that number one slot it goes 885 00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:03,200 Speaker 18: to the the eternals, hands down the worst MCU movie 886 00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:06,840 Speaker 18: of all time. It tried to do too much, tried 887 00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:10,000 Speaker 18: to create such a big world, introduced too many characters, 888 00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:16,320 Speaker 18: tried to be like a more intellectual Avengers. Every element 889 00:40:16,440 --> 00:40:19,920 Speaker 18: of this movie fell flat, and it wasn't until the 890 00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:23,239 Speaker 18: Captain America Brave New World trailer that came out that 891 00:40:23,360 --> 00:40:26,759 Speaker 18: it finally addressed one of the biggest cliffhangers and all 892 00:40:26,840 --> 00:40:30,320 Speaker 18: of the mco this big floating rock. Hey, we forgot 893 00:40:30,360 --> 00:40:33,080 Speaker 18: about that. Let's go back to that. Number one goes 894 00:40:33,080 --> 00:40:36,680 Speaker 18: to the Eternals at number two. I guess putting a 895 00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:40,319 Speaker 18: the is a bad sign for MCU movies because at 896 00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:42,440 Speaker 18: number two of the Marvels, and I think it was 897 00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:45,280 Speaker 18: probably due to tone. It also felt like they didn't 898 00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:48,640 Speaker 18: have enough story to make a movie. This probably should 899 00:40:48,640 --> 00:40:52,279 Speaker 18: have been a Disney Plus series. And bre Larson. I 900 00:40:52,440 --> 00:40:54,840 Speaker 18: love her as an actor and I think the character 901 00:40:54,920 --> 00:40:58,440 Speaker 18: is great, but I really feel like she phoned in 902 00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:01,600 Speaker 18: this performance. And maybe it has to do with doing 903 00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:03,600 Speaker 18: the majority of this movie in front of a blue 904 00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:07,160 Speaker 18: or green screen, no cast chemistry. This movie did not 905 00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:09,719 Speaker 18: work for me. Goes in my number two slot. At 906 00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:14,120 Speaker 18: number three, it goes to Thor The Dark World, primarily 907 00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:18,000 Speaker 18: because this movie is so forgettable. And this was also 908 00:41:18,040 --> 00:41:20,479 Speaker 18: at a time where they really didn't have the Thor 909 00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:23,720 Speaker 18: character down. Chris Hemsworth still had the long blonde hair. 910 00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:27,440 Speaker 18: They were making him too mythical. They tried a little 911 00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:30,200 Speaker 18: bit to bring out the humor and Thor, but Chris 912 00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:34,160 Speaker 18: Hemsworth didn't really know how to play him just quite yet. 913 00:41:34,520 --> 00:41:37,640 Speaker 18: Didn't truly nail it until the next movie Thor Ragnarok, 914 00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:40,040 Speaker 18: which I was like, oh that store, he had to 915 00:41:40,040 --> 00:41:42,440 Speaker 18: look down. They cut his hair and that led to 916 00:41:42,560 --> 00:41:46,160 Speaker 18: better Avengers movies. So I think it's just a product 917 00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:49,440 Speaker 18: of the time. I love the first Thor movie, but 918 00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:52,800 Speaker 18: this one was not it whatsoever. I never want to 919 00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:53,560 Speaker 18: see it again. 920 00:41:54,000 --> 00:41:55,160 Speaker 1: At number three is. 921 00:41:55,160 --> 00:41:58,799 Speaker 18: Thor The Dark World, and in that Ford slot it 922 00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:02,440 Speaker 18: is Doctor Strange in the Multiverse of Madness. For a 923 00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:07,279 Speaker 18: movie being titled The Multiverse of Madness, they didn't really 924 00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:12,080 Speaker 18: have much to do with making the Multiverse mad and 925 00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:15,680 Speaker 18: me being somebody who loves a good horror movie. Having 926 00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:19,719 Speaker 18: Sam Raimi one of the most beloved horror directors of 927 00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:23,760 Speaker 18: all time, the product just didn't match his body of work, 928 00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:27,320 Speaker 18: also being the director of the Best Spider Man trilogy. 929 00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:30,440 Speaker 18: It is also largely cited to being a part of 930 00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:33,880 Speaker 18: the decline of the MCU and a movie we really 931 00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:36,799 Speaker 18: had to bounce back from. As me being one of 932 00:42:36,800 --> 00:42:39,680 Speaker 18: the people still fighting for the MCU. I got to 933 00:42:39,719 --> 00:42:41,800 Speaker 18: make excuses for this movie, so that is why you 934 00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:44,160 Speaker 18: put it. And I only saw it in theaters once 935 00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:48,120 Speaker 18: and was never inclined to go back and rewatch it 936 00:42:48,120 --> 00:42:50,719 Speaker 18: on Disney Plus because I just didn't enjoy it. So 937 00:42:51,120 --> 00:42:55,120 Speaker 18: in that force slot the Multiverse of Madness rounding out 938 00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:58,520 Speaker 18: that list, it is the Eternals, the Marvels for the 939 00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:01,680 Speaker 18: Dark World, Doctor strut in the Multiverse of Madness being 940 00:43:01,719 --> 00:43:04,400 Speaker 18: my mount rushmore of bad MCU movies. 941 00:43:04,440 --> 00:43:06,720 Speaker 1: But again they're only being four. 942 00:43:06,719 --> 00:43:09,319 Speaker 18: What I would consider bad movies in the MCU that 943 00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:10,640 Speaker 18: I just would not watch again. 944 00:43:11,080 --> 00:43:11,520 Speaker 8: Not bad. 945 00:43:11,840 --> 00:43:14,279 Speaker 18: So do those We carve them and then destroy them 946 00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:31,279 Speaker 18: out of the stone. 947 00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:34,000 Speaker 16: Carn She's a queen of talking, if you son, she's 948 00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:35,000 Speaker 16: getting really. 949 00:43:34,760 --> 00:43:38,480 Speaker 19: Not afraid to things, So just let it flow. No 950 00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:44,799 Speaker 19: one can do we quite car Line. It is sounding, Caroline. 951 00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:47,680 Speaker 10: I'm so excited to be here with Bradney Foster. 952 00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:48,440 Speaker 1: Thank you. 953 00:43:48,520 --> 00:43:49,760 Speaker 9: I'm excited to be here with you. Carolyn. 954 00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:50,360 Speaker 13: You're a legend. 955 00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:50,839 Speaker 10: You're a text. 956 00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:52,440 Speaker 9: I don't know if I don't know if I'm a legend, 957 00:43:52,440 --> 00:43:53,560 Speaker 9: but I sure appreciate it. 958 00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:56,799 Speaker 15: You're a Texas legend, you're a Nashville legend, and you're 959 00:43:56,840 --> 00:44:00,680 Speaker 15: one of the og like country like country country artists 960 00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:03,799 Speaker 15: like you know, like they're there are. 961 00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:05,319 Speaker 9: People when when I was in Foster and Lloyd, there 962 00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:07,319 Speaker 9: were people who did not consider as country music, which 963 00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:11,200 Speaker 9: was kind of really strange because I listened. I don't know, 964 00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:13,120 Speaker 9: but I think it was because we had long hair 965 00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:15,960 Speaker 9: and earrings and ship like that. So can we say 966 00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:16,680 Speaker 9: that on on air? 967 00:44:17,040 --> 00:44:19,120 Speaker 1: All the ship you want? Okay, great, So people that 968 00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:20,560 Speaker 1: Foster and Lloyd wasn't coming. 969 00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:22,520 Speaker 9: Yeah, we were way too left a center for those guys. 970 00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:23,000 Speaker 6: Oh my god. 971 00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:24,560 Speaker 4: And if y'all listen to your songs back because I. 972 00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:26,520 Speaker 9: Was actually sounds perfectly hillbilly. 973 00:44:26,600 --> 00:44:30,600 Speaker 15: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, I'm like man, because it was I. 974 00:44:30,520 --> 00:44:33,600 Speaker 9: Mean, all we were doing was really taking, you know, 975 00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:38,759 Speaker 9: what we loved about rock and roll and then what 976 00:44:38,800 --> 00:44:41,120 Speaker 9: we loved about country and just mixing to together, which 977 00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:42,840 Speaker 9: people have been doing forever. We just did it our 978 00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:44,960 Speaker 9: own way because we loved the Everly Brothers and we 979 00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:46,759 Speaker 9: loved Buck Owens, and we loved the Beatles. So we 980 00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:50,120 Speaker 9: just like mixed in the Birds and all the all this, 981 00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:54,120 Speaker 9: you know, the southern California stuff that was really changing 982 00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:56,480 Speaker 9: country music even though they weren't calling it country music, 983 00:44:56,560 --> 00:44:59,000 Speaker 9: like the Birds and the Flying Burrito Brothers. But how 984 00:44:59,000 --> 00:45:00,680 Speaker 9: do you listen to grand part? Since then? I call 985 00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:01,880 Speaker 9: that country music? You know? 986 00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:04,239 Speaker 15: So how do you feel today and age that like 987 00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:06,920 Speaker 15: the TikTok generation has no idea what you're talking about? 988 00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:09,280 Speaker 1: You know what's amazing. What's amazing. 989 00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:12,920 Speaker 9: What's amazing is how many of them do know really 990 00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:16,160 Speaker 9: well because they have the library of Alexandria in their 991 00:45:16,200 --> 00:45:20,440 Speaker 9: back pocket, right, I mean my kids, you know, I like, 992 00:45:20,600 --> 00:45:25,600 Speaker 9: how did you learn about my son? Was one of them. 993 00:45:25,719 --> 00:45:31,360 Speaker 9: Was cleaning up the studio and U and I walked 994 00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:35,359 Speaker 9: in at one point and he was listening to an 995 00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:38,000 Speaker 9: Al Green record, and then I walked back out because 996 00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:40,160 Speaker 9: I'd gotten whatever I needed from the studio. And then 997 00:45:40,320 --> 00:45:42,680 Speaker 9: I walked back in and he was listening to crossby 998 00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:45,319 Speaker 9: Steels Nash's first album. And I was like, how do 999 00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:48,040 Speaker 9: you even know about this stuff? And I said, well, 1000 00:45:48,080 --> 00:45:50,359 Speaker 9: your record collection first of all. I said, yeah, well 1001 00:45:50,360 --> 00:45:54,000 Speaker 9: there's that, but you know, it's like YouTube, it's all 1002 00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:55,000 Speaker 9: it's all there. 1003 00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:58,399 Speaker 15: Isn't it fascinating? I find this fascinating because I'm forty 1004 00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:01,640 Speaker 15: years old now and I've now lived through some shifts, 1005 00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:05,160 Speaker 15: some generational shifts. You know, I've always just felt young. 1006 00:46:05,200 --> 00:46:06,560 Speaker 15: I was in my youth forever, and then all of 1007 00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:07,839 Speaker 15: a sudden, I hit like thirty five. 1008 00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:08,479 Speaker 12: I'm like, oh my. 1009 00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:09,320 Speaker 1: Gosh, I'm an adult. 1010 00:46:09,360 --> 00:46:10,160 Speaker 14: I'm an adult. 1011 00:46:10,360 --> 00:46:11,839 Speaker 15: And like, not only am I an adult, but like I'm 1012 00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:14,759 Speaker 15: get close to halfway mark, and you know, it's just 1013 00:46:14,840 --> 00:46:17,080 Speaker 15: and then you realize there's a whole new youth generation 1014 00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:20,440 Speaker 15: and their feelings are all different than mine, and what 1015 00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:22,600 Speaker 15: they think is cool is different, and I'm like, I 1016 00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:25,480 Speaker 15: can't believe I'm here. You know, when you used to 1017 00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:28,000 Speaker 15: be in the middle of like everything that's happening. You're 1018 00:46:28,080 --> 00:46:32,000 Speaker 15: a creative, you're creating things, and like it's like your world. 1019 00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:33,680 Speaker 15: You're in that world, and then all of a sudden, 1020 00:46:33,680 --> 00:46:35,360 Speaker 15: I'm like, oh my god, there's a new world. So like, 1021 00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:37,680 Speaker 15: I feel like that's happened to you. 1022 00:46:39,600 --> 00:46:40,920 Speaker 10: How tell me about. 1023 00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:42,839 Speaker 15: Your when this all started for you, and how this 1024 00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:47,080 Speaker 15: el this evolution, what it's been like so much In 1025 00:46:47,080 --> 00:46:48,040 Speaker 15: country music. 1026 00:46:48,000 --> 00:46:51,960 Speaker 9: I was I was playing and singing and writing songs 1027 00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:58,399 Speaker 9: in college and I you know a guy who's kind 1028 00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:02,120 Speaker 9: of lit who we thought was ancient. I'm sure he 1029 00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:03,880 Speaker 9: was twenty nine, you know, we were at all twenty 1030 00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:10,400 Speaker 9: and he said, man, who does those three songs? Because 1031 00:47:10,400 --> 00:47:12,759 Speaker 9: we had a band that was kind of like the 1032 00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:14,879 Speaker 9: Nittigritty Dirt Band. We would rock up a country song 1033 00:47:14,920 --> 00:47:16,840 Speaker 9: and country up a rock song and you know, and that. 1034 00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:18,400 Speaker 1: Was very cutting edge back in the day. 1035 00:47:18,520 --> 00:47:22,280 Speaker 9: Yeah, And so he knew all the other songs because 1036 00:47:22,280 --> 00:47:25,120 Speaker 9: they were just you know, Guy Clark and dirt band 1037 00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:28,279 Speaker 9: covers and and Burrito Brothers and stuff like that. 1038 00:47:28,360 --> 00:47:30,160 Speaker 10: And then got a look of these Burrito Brothers. 1039 00:47:30,280 --> 00:47:31,879 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know, I mean what a name? 1040 00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:34,239 Speaker 9: Yeah you need? Yeah, that was barely born out of 1041 00:47:34,239 --> 00:47:37,359 Speaker 9: the Birds. It was the guy like Bernie Leaden, who 1042 00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:41,239 Speaker 9: was an original Eagle and Chris Hillman, who was an 1043 00:47:41,239 --> 00:47:43,760 Speaker 9: original Bird started that band. 1044 00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:45,960 Speaker 4: So it's kind of like the Traveling Wilbury's. 1045 00:47:46,080 --> 00:47:48,520 Speaker 9: Yeah it was at the time. Yeah, it was okay, 1046 00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:51,800 Speaker 9: along with Graham Parsons, who it's a it's worth worth 1047 00:47:52,239 --> 00:47:56,000 Speaker 9: worth going to look up, okay, And so we were 1048 00:47:56,040 --> 00:47:59,000 Speaker 9: playing all that kind of stuff and the guy said, well, 1049 00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,880 Speaker 9: who wrote what banned does those three songs, and one 1050 00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:03,359 Speaker 9: of the guys said, you can't get them. Our singer 1051 00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:05,319 Speaker 9: wrote them. He said, Man, I don't know anything about 1052 00:48:05,360 --> 00:48:07,040 Speaker 9: the music business, but I've got a buddy who's a 1053 00:48:07,080 --> 00:48:09,239 Speaker 9: producer in Nashville who I went to college with. And 1054 00:48:09,239 --> 00:48:13,040 Speaker 9: I'm like, sure you do you know? And so I 1055 00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:16,880 Speaker 9: wrote down on a match book my name and my 1056 00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:18,759 Speaker 9: phone number. Now my phone number. I don't want to 1057 00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:19,320 Speaker 9: match book. 1058 00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:21,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, switch is yeah, because there's no cell phones. 1059 00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:24,160 Speaker 12: There's no cell phones, no, no, page's probably there. 1060 00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:25,439 Speaker 10: No what year we talking about. 1061 00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:26,839 Speaker 9: We're talking in nineteen seventy nine. 1062 00:48:27,440 --> 00:48:29,759 Speaker 10: You are og rock star, country star. 1063 00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:31,000 Speaker 9: It's so cool. 1064 00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:33,120 Speaker 10: So you're trying to get your starts. 1065 00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:34,400 Speaker 15: You're like, okay, you can have another on. 1066 00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:35,080 Speaker 1: A match box. 1067 00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:36,919 Speaker 9: And it's the payphone at the end of the hall 1068 00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:37,440 Speaker 9: in the dorm. 1069 00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:39,880 Speaker 15: So she just used to wait by the phone for 1070 00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:42,839 Speaker 15: it to ring literally right, yeah, right, yeah. 1071 00:48:42,440 --> 00:48:46,040 Speaker 9: So sure enough, Like about two weeks later, there's a 1072 00:48:46,440 --> 00:48:50,680 Speaker 9: note tacked my you know, corkboard on the front of 1073 00:48:50,680 --> 00:48:51,279 Speaker 9: my dorm door. 1074 00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:52,920 Speaker 4: Is anybody walking by want us to answer it? 1075 00:48:53,200 --> 00:48:54,600 Speaker 9: Well, it was kind of the deal. It was the 1076 00:48:54,680 --> 00:48:58,120 Speaker 9: honor system. So if you didn't answer things for the phone, 1077 00:48:58,160 --> 00:48:59,759 Speaker 9: then you know, nobody else is going to answer for you. 1078 00:49:00,120 --> 00:49:01,080 Speaker 7: How we got contacted? 1079 00:49:01,080 --> 00:49:03,000 Speaker 15: Like you just better hope that somebody's walking by the 1080 00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:04,520 Speaker 15: phone with somebody you and you. 1081 00:49:04,600 --> 00:49:07,080 Speaker 9: It was kind of the ethic, you know, yeah, oh 1082 00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:07,800 Speaker 9: it's just parents. 1083 00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:08,040 Speaker 16: Yeah. 1084 00:49:08,080 --> 00:49:09,120 Speaker 5: I was like, call you. 1085 00:49:09,200 --> 00:49:11,000 Speaker 9: And there was a note you know, and a pencil. 1086 00:49:11,000 --> 00:49:12,759 Speaker 9: It is like call your mom and dad. Consider it 1087 00:49:12,800 --> 00:49:18,160 Speaker 9: on the guy's door and uh so uh it had 1088 00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:20,680 Speaker 9: a six to one to five area code and I 1089 00:49:20,719 --> 00:49:24,040 Speaker 9: was like, that's Nashville. And it had the name Brown Banister. 1090 00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:25,960 Speaker 9: And I was like, who's Brent? What? Why do I 1091 00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:27,319 Speaker 9: know that name? Why do I know that name? And 1092 00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:29,919 Speaker 9: I realized, you know, from reading the back of every 1093 00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:32,520 Speaker 9: single record that I'd ever listened to in my life, 1094 00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:36,960 Speaker 9: in every girl's dorm, there was this record by this 1095 00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:43,360 Speaker 9: new contemporary Christian angu named Amy Grant. Brown Banister was 1096 00:49:43,400 --> 00:49:46,360 Speaker 9: the producer on the record. Oh man, So I was like, 1097 00:49:46,480 --> 00:49:49,439 Speaker 9: that's a real guy, and uh it's like that drunk. 1098 00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:53,359 Speaker 1: I wasn't kidding, you know, so and and he followed through, and. 1099 00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:55,400 Speaker 9: He followed through, and so Brown said, Hey, my buddy 1100 00:49:55,400 --> 00:49:58,640 Speaker 9: says my buddy says I need to come, you know, 1101 00:49:58,760 --> 00:50:01,040 Speaker 9: listen to some of your and so we kind of 1102 00:50:01,120 --> 00:50:05,000 Speaker 9: arranged where I could, you know, get to see him, 1103 00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:07,920 Speaker 9: and I played him like five songs and he said, 1104 00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:09,719 Speaker 9: you got to have a serious talk with your mom 1105 00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:12,239 Speaker 9: and dad about doing this for a living. And so 1106 00:50:12,480 --> 00:50:14,960 Speaker 9: that that really was someone giving me permission to do 1107 00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:18,080 Speaker 9: this because my my you know, my great grandfather was 1108 00:50:18,120 --> 00:50:20,959 Speaker 9: the first lawyer in Del Rio, Texas, and he sent 1109 00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:23,800 Speaker 9: every single one of his boys to law school. 1110 00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:26,040 Speaker 15: You're joking, No, he was going to carry this legacy. 1111 00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:28,759 Speaker 9: And then my father went to law school. So I 1112 00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:31,000 Speaker 9: knew my lot in life was to go to college and. 1113 00:50:31,000 --> 00:50:32,399 Speaker 10: Go to law school, which is a good lot. 1114 00:50:32,520 --> 00:50:33,920 Speaker 9: No, it's a yeah, it was a good thing. 1115 00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:36,080 Speaker 15: That knowing that you had that lot pre planned, was 1116 00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:37,799 Speaker 15: that like maddening a little bit. 1117 00:50:38,000 --> 00:50:41,080 Speaker 9: I mean, I think, you know, the scariest part was, 1118 00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:44,840 Speaker 9: you know, you know I did this in the worst 1119 00:50:44,840 --> 00:50:47,160 Speaker 9: possible way. Is you know, I woke my parents up 1120 00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:48,040 Speaker 9: in the middle of the night. 1121 00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:49,640 Speaker 4: Wait, you woken them up in the night. 1122 00:50:49,719 --> 00:50:51,000 Speaker 15: Just tell them that you're moving to Nashville. 1123 00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:53,600 Speaker 9: Yeah, you know, I basically I woke them up in 1124 00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:56,000 Speaker 9: the middle of the night, and I said, I think 1125 00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:57,719 Speaker 9: God wants me to drop out of college so I 1126 00:50:57,719 --> 00:50:59,719 Speaker 9: can be a singer and a songwriter and both of them, 1127 00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:02,000 Speaker 9: and set bolt up right in bed. My mother was 1128 00:51:02,000 --> 00:51:04,840 Speaker 9: a school teacher, small town school teacher. My daddy was 1129 00:51:04,840 --> 00:51:08,240 Speaker 9: a small town lawyer. And he breathed the longest sigh 1130 00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:09,439 Speaker 9: I've ever heard in my life. 1131 00:51:10,080 --> 00:51:11,640 Speaker 15: Was there a reason we went for the middle of 1132 00:51:11,640 --> 00:51:14,319 Speaker 15: the night. Was it just like shocked that you thought 1133 00:51:14,400 --> 00:51:15,200 Speaker 15: maybe they're sleeping. 1134 00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:18,759 Speaker 9: I couldn't sleep anymore. And I was supposed to go 1135 00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:20,600 Speaker 9: back to college in like three days, So. 1136 00:51:20,640 --> 00:51:22,960 Speaker 15: You're not gonna wait till tomorrow. You're like, it's happening now, what's. 1137 00:51:22,800 --> 00:51:24,319 Speaker 9: Happening right now? I got to get off my chest. 1138 00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:29,959 Speaker 9: So my dad said, said, this is the exact words. Son, 1139 00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:31,840 Speaker 9: I've don't got a long, long time. 1140 00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:33,759 Speaker 5: Like that. 1141 00:51:33,840 --> 00:51:34,080 Speaker 17: I don't. 1142 00:51:34,080 --> 00:51:35,880 Speaker 9: I don't believe he wants any son of mine to 1143 00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:38,160 Speaker 9: drop out of college to be a singer and a songwriter. 1144 00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:38,880 Speaker 9: You heard wrong. 1145 00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:43,719 Speaker 10: I can't wave your dad for no. 1146 00:51:43,719 --> 00:51:44,600 Speaker 1: No. 1147 00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:46,600 Speaker 9: You heard you might want to go back and you 1148 00:51:47,160 --> 00:51:47,719 Speaker 9: won't want to. 1149 00:51:48,120 --> 00:51:59,920 Speaker 1: You might won't go back and check that out. That's 1150 00:51:59,920 --> 00:52:03,680 Speaker 1: what's up. 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