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Speaker 1: Welcome back everybody to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks

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Speaker 1: so much for joining us again, and we are so

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Speaker 1: excited to be back, right Kathy.

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Speaker 2: Oh my goodness, Susan, how are you doing.

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Speaker 1: I'm getting there. I'm getting there.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So at this thing goes around all this time of year.

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Speaker 1: Everybody's sick. I think you started it?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, who started it? You started it? I don't know.

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Speaker 2: We're doing this today not feeling the best, but we

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Speaker 2: love answering bachelornation questions and so if you haven't yet,

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Speaker 2: please send in your questions because we love chatting with

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Speaker 2: Bachelor Nation phase. I don't know, Susan, who we got today.

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Speaker 1: I'm telling you speaking a Bachelor Nation. We have one

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Speaker 1: of the newest members joining us today. All excited are we? Please?

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Speaker 1: Welcome Guy from Jones season of The Golden Bachelorette. Hey Guy, welcome.

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Speaker 2: Hey hire to be on the hot seat.

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Speaker 3: I am on the hot seat.

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Speaker 4: Turn that hot seat.

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Speaker 2: So we thought we're going to we've gotten to know

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Speaker 2: you a little bit, but we want Bachelor Nation, so

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Speaker 2: you know, we're going to get to know you and

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Speaker 2: then we're going to have you help us answer some

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Speaker 2: questions from our Bachelor Nation questions. But in the meantime,

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Speaker 2: before we get to that, tell us what's been going

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Speaker 2: on in your life?

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Speaker 4: Let's see.

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Speaker 1: Wait, didn't you get sick right after the show too?

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Speaker 4: That's where it started, you know, I did.

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Speaker 3: It may have been it was the day well, I

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Speaker 3: think I picked it up in Las Vegas because I

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Speaker 3: had gone to Vegas the week before to see the

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Speaker 3: Eagles at the Spear, which is unbelievable.

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Speaker 1: Sunday to see our eagles.

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Speaker 2: He means the Eagles the music group.

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Speaker 1: Since the great I'm talking come on.

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Speaker 2: The sphere is is it? Is it? Yes? Music? Go ahead, guy.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So that's where I think I picked it up, because

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Speaker 3: it was a day after the finale when I flew home,

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Speaker 3: I started feeling poorly. In the next day aful and

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Speaker 3: I tested positive for COVID. But I'm pretty sure I

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Speaker 3: probably had influenza, just because in the e er we

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Speaker 3: used to test for three batteries of test viruses RSB, influenza, and.

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Speaker 4: COVID all at the same time.

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Speaker 3: Fifty percent of the people who tested posit for COVID

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Speaker 3: also tested positive for influenza, and so it was It's

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Speaker 3: very common right now, but it is yes.

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Speaker 1: Flew, I mean it is influenza.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, influenza A B H one and five. You know

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Speaker 4: that means anything or.

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Speaker 2: So basically basically where we are, you can tell this

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Speaker 2: is an er doctor because we common people refer to

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Speaker 2: it as the flu. Only a doctor says influenza straight up. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: we both havena. So we're we're making it better, but

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Speaker 2: we want to know, We want to know. I don't know, Susan.

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Speaker 2: Where should we begin?

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Speaker 1: What do you want to tell us? What do you

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Speaker 1: want to give you that guy? We'll let you start.

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Speaker 2: What would you like us to We'll warm this up slowly?

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Speaker 1: Who is guy? Except we know the guy on TV?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 3: You know what I will say is and is that

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Speaker 3: the show is actually you know I used from the beginning,

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Speaker 3: I've used the term a transformational journey for me, and yeah,

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Speaker 3: I want to clarify what that means to me, because

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Speaker 3: it means something to each person. But it wasn't just

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Speaker 3: the show that made it transformational. It was the six

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Speaker 3: months leading up to it. A lot of things happened,

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Speaker 3: major milestones in my life that change that just kept

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Speaker 3: putting me into a better spot. One of those is

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Speaker 3: I decided to hang up my stethoscope, as I referred

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Speaker 3: to it, retire after thirty five years of working in

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Speaker 3: the same er and was able to do everything I

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Speaker 3: wanted to do, accomplish everything. I was turning sixty six,

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Speaker 3: I said, you know, it just feels like the right time.

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Speaker 4: And that was one of them.

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Speaker 3: But you know what, I I'll say, there's five things

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Speaker 3: that this transformational journey. The first thing is, and I

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Speaker 3: don't want to sound too mumbo jumbo psychological, but it's see.

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Speaker 4: The first thing is is that I learned to love

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Speaker 4: myself again. Did you marry me.

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Speaker 1: This morning on that other podcast because you just quoted me?

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Speaker 4: Okay, it's true, but it was true, and.

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Speaker 3: Before you have to love yourself before you could love

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Speaker 3: someone else. And so the second thing was, and this

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Speaker 3: going through the process, it allowed me to know.

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Speaker 4: That I can truly love again.

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Speaker 3: And what I mean by that is, I think a

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Speaker 3: because you can describe love in so many different ways.

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Speaker 4: But I broke it down into a love of convenience

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Speaker 3: Passion and conveniences those people who jump into a quick

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Speaker 3: to fill a void. I personally don't need a love

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Speaker 3: of conveyence. I'm looking for that love of passion, that

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Speaker 4: Maybe most he sounds like you.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Do we have like the same parent

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Speaker 3: It so as I was born in Philadelphia, oh see.

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Speaker 1: That, and my kids were born in Texas. But are

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Speaker 1: you would you say you are a romantic?

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Speaker 4: Yes, very much on your sleeve.

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Speaker 4: Mean, there's a there's a reason.

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Speaker 3: There's a reason I got emotional on the show. And

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Speaker 3: those emotions were real, they they weren't contrived. You can't

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Speaker 3: you know, I can't can't make it make I can't

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Speaker 3: my kids always said that you've always worn your emotions

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Speaker 4: So those are the two things. The third thing you know.

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Speaker 3: In that transparential journey is is I really have established

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Speaker 3: an even better relationship with my poor kids. Not that

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Speaker 3: they didn't have it before, but it's just gotten stronger,

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Speaker 3: I'll be going what happened here?

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Speaker 4: I was just supposed to come to dad for advice.

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Speaker 3: The fourth thing is is that I just kept over

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Speaker 2: My goal was just to get one rose, I said

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Speaker 4: So I said, I don't want to come home, And

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Speaker 3: But I you know, I really and I had a

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Speaker 3: for Thanksgiving. I got to spend time with my grandson,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, I got interrupted because in quite before we

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Speaker 2: jump into what's going on in your life? We have

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Speaker 2: to ask inquiring minds want to know. On the show, Guy,

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Speaker 2: you were wearing your heart on your sleeve, and you

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Speaker 2: know we heard you say to Joan, is there any

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's a really good question.

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Speaker 3: And I can tell you when at the at the

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Speaker 4: I was shocked, skeptical. At the beginning of the show.

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Speaker 3: I just thought, this isn't this is not how you

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Speaker 4: I just didn't think it was possible.

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Speaker 3: Well, that really changed during the show, and it was

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Speaker 3: for a lot of different reasons, and for me, Joan

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Speaker 3: the camaraderie between the romances between the men were huge

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Speaker 4: We talked about our lives and our experiences.

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Speaker 3: And I journaled for forty five days every single day anyway,

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Speaker 3: I wrote twenty pages in a journal. And So, to

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Speaker 3: go back to your original question, Kathy, is is I

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Speaker 3: at the end, I was very I was the emotional

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Speaker 1: Guy, and rightfully so.

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Speaker 3: I mean at the end, at the at the end

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Speaker 3: of the Hometown, I was one hundred percent. I said,

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Speaker 3: everybody else is going through the motions, it's me, right,

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Speaker 3: and it got stronger and stronger. I thought we had

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Speaker 3: I was mentally in this mindset, Gosh, you can you

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Speaker 4: And so when I got the knock.

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Speaker 2: That was really obvious. Guy. Watching it back, we thought

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Speaker 2: knock on the door is never a good thing. God.

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Speaker 4: I know that now.

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Speaker 3: I know that now and I just and but I

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Speaker 3: just I still had my head that I was convinced

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Speaker 3: I was ready to even ask them for their blessing.

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Speaker 3: to go well. Okay, then I knew this was not good.

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Speaker 3: So that's that's why when she said that, and then

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Speaker 3: I asked her back, because I just was like, you

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Speaker 3: know what, give me a little more chance, give me

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Speaker 3: the give me that last part. I was supposed to

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Speaker 3: get the chance to meet her family, to spend more

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Speaker 4: That we would be together, you know.

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Speaker 3: And so but now now going back up, now I've

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Speaker 4: I'm retired.

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Speaker 3: None of my kids live in Reno, Okay, they live

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Speaker 4: I didn't get the opportunity for that.

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Speaker 4: That's part of that last time.

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 4: Was Nancy?

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Speaker 3: She seems sweet, she seems very sincere, very kind, she

447
00:24:14,359 --> 00:24:15,199
Speaker 3: is all of that.

448
00:24:15,480 --> 00:24:18,560
Speaker 2: And then some guy. She's a lovely human being. And

449
00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 2: I'm going to set she's up on a date that's

450
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:27,880
Speaker 2: gonna go three of us. So, but you know the wait,

451
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:29,560
Speaker 2: would you go out with Nancy? If I set it up?

452
00:24:29,560 --> 00:24:31,040
Speaker 2: Will you go out with her?

453
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:33,200
Speaker 4: Oh? Absolutely?

454
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:34,760
Speaker 2: Let me get her on the phone.

455
00:24:37,280 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 4: I would love to have dinner with her.

456
00:24:39,200 --> 00:24:42,200
Speaker 3: But you know what, I will also say, there are

457
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 3: several other women that were on the show that I

458
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:46,840
Speaker 3: would love to have dinner with also to have a

459
00:24:46,920 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 3: nice conversation speak.

460
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 2: Who come on, I've.

461
00:24:52,600 --> 00:24:55,400
Speaker 1: Already asked out twice. Guys, you haven't said yes.

462
00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 4: Well, let's see. I don't know if you know, but Susan,

463
00:25:00,560 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 4: could you talk to Kathy for me?

464
00:25:02,880 --> 00:25:03,160
Speaker 2: Kathy?

465
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:03,800
Speaker 4: Could you talk?

466
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:09,080
Speaker 2: You know what you learned a lot from your wife

467
00:25:09,119 --> 00:25:12,360
Speaker 2: in politics? Let me just tell you that was really smart.

468
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 1: There, guys, really something boy, you're good. You're good, all right.

469
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:28,399
Speaker 1: So what we do is we share some advice with

470
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Speaker 1: people that write in. Would you like to join us

471
00:25:31,040 --> 00:25:33,960
Speaker 1: on this one? We're going to read to you what

472
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Speaker 1: somebody wrote. Kathy, I'll have you read it if you will.

473
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 2: Okay, So this question is from anonymous. Sometimes people don't

474
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Speaker 2: like to give their names, and we're good on that. Okay, Hi,

475
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:48,399
Speaker 2: Kathy and Susan and today guy, I need your help.

476
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 2: I just found out that I this is right up

477
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:54,560
Speaker 2: my alley. I just found out that I got rejected

478
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:58,959
Speaker 2: from my dream college, and I'm absolutely crushed. All of

479
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,639
Speaker 2: my friends are going to their top schools and it

480
00:26:01,640 --> 00:26:04,800
Speaker 2: feels like I'm being left behind. I've decided to go

481
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 2: to my local state school for freshman year, and I'm

482
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:10,639
Speaker 2: just so upset about it. I was really excited to

483
00:26:10,680 --> 00:26:14,200
Speaker 2: move somewhere new and have the experience all my friends

484
00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:16,800
Speaker 2: will be having. What do you suggest I do to

485
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:19,360
Speaker 2: feel like I'm not so far behind? Do you think

486
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:22,680
Speaker 2: I could transfer next year? Just need some direction right now?

487
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 2: I guess thank you. First, let me say I was

488
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 2: an educational consultant for thirty five years, not an er doc,

489
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:30,440
Speaker 2: so I.

490
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:31,719
Speaker 4: Can to answer that question.

491
00:26:32,000 --> 00:26:34,880
Speaker 2: I'll take the first crack at this one. First of all, Anonymous,

492
00:26:36,200 --> 00:26:38,520
Speaker 2: you don't feel it right now, but I promise you

493
00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:42,119
Speaker 2: it's just like dating. There's more than one guy for

494
00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:44,480
Speaker 2: you in the world. There's more than one school for

495
00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 2: you in the world. So things work out for a reason.

496
00:26:47,960 --> 00:26:52,920
Speaker 2: Go to that state school, meet your friends, join clubs.

497
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:56,480
Speaker 2: You will make a place for yourself if you decide.

498
00:26:56,520 --> 00:26:59,280
Speaker 2: Here's the thing about changing schools after your freshman year.

499
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,680
Speaker 2: If you don't go and invest in your freshman year

500
00:27:03,400 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 2: and your eye is already on transferring, you're not giving

501
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:08,840
Speaker 2: that school of fair shape. So I would encourage you

502
00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:11,919
Speaker 2: go join the clubs, do all the fun things. Do

503
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 2: enjoy dorm life and all the sorority parties, and take

504
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 2: every class that you want to take. And then after

505
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:21,680
Speaker 2: a year you can transfer your junior year if you want.

506
00:27:21,720 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 2: But I would really encourage you to make the most

507
00:27:24,920 --> 00:27:27,640
Speaker 2: of the situation that you have. You're going to make

508
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:32,240
Speaker 2: great friends, You're going to have great opportunities. Sometimes things

509
00:27:32,280 --> 00:27:34,840
Speaker 2: work out this way for a reason that would be mine.

510
00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:36,760
Speaker 2: So go and enjoy yourself.

511
00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:41,800
Speaker 4: What about you, guy, I would say, you know similar sentiments.

512
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 3: I would say that if it's your local school where

513
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Speaker 3: you live, if you have the ability, move into the

514
00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 3: dorm at the university or move into an apartment, you know,

515
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:56,919
Speaker 3: with some friends, Like you said, join the clubs, joints,

516
00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:02,000
Speaker 3: you know, think about sororities. You know, you know a

517
00:28:02,040 --> 00:28:04,359
Speaker 3: group of people from let's say you're high school, but

518
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:06,560
Speaker 3: you don't know them from the other four high schools

519
00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:07,199
Speaker 3: that are intent.

520
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:08,440
Speaker 1: That's right, and.

521
00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:11,520
Speaker 3: Once you go there, you may you have the ability

522
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 3: to make a whole new set of friends. You don't

523
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:17,760
Speaker 3: have to go five hundred miles or one thousand miles

524
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:20,040
Speaker 3: away to meet a whole new group of people.

525
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 2: No, only God has to do that to have a

526
00:28:22,040 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 2: date with Nancy. But that's a whole different conversation. Anonymous,

527
00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:26,920
Speaker 2: I can't.

528
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 4: Work, Anonymous, work, I'm not going to college. I've actually

529
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:32,600
Speaker 4: done it. Your answer for ten years.

530
00:28:32,640 --> 00:28:35,200
Speaker 2: Really, your answer though, was great. I made the assumption.

531
00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 2: You're absolutely right, guy, Anonymous. Please do live into the

532
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:41,080
Speaker 2: door and move into the dorm or get an apartment,

533
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:44,480
Speaker 2: because that is such an important aspect of college life.

534
00:28:44,680 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 1: As really as do the best you can do that

535
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:50,440
Speaker 1: first year, and then it'll be your choice where you

536
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:53,120
Speaker 1: want to go. You'll get it down and get the

537
00:28:53,160 --> 00:28:56,040
Speaker 1: feel of everything, and you'll feel better about yourself and

538
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:57,239
Speaker 1: decide where you want to go.

539
00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:59,280
Speaker 4: Yeah with it.

540
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:03,040
Speaker 3: I in my experience, and this was I think for

541
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,640
Speaker 3: people at least when my kids with like high school also,

542
00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 3: but I think it applies to college where you really

543
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 3: at least for me, where I really felt uh connected,

544
00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:16,320
Speaker 3: was when I got to my sophomore year.

545
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 4: You're just starting that. You're still trying to steer, feel

546
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:21,800
Speaker 4: yourself out. What do you want to do?

547
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:24,680
Speaker 3: Most of the time you change majors two or three

548
00:29:24,760 --> 00:29:26,200
Speaker 3: times freshman year.

549
00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 2: And scout you could have my job good for you?

550
00:29:30,080 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 3: Absolutely right, So give so give that, give those things

551
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 3: and give it a chance and and be all in.

552
00:29:37,840 --> 00:29:40,000
Speaker 4: You know, if it does it feel right, you know,

553
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 4: after you knows.

554
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 2: I'll help you with the transfer application call back.

555
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 1: It's totally normal to feel like she's feeling you know

556
00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:49,920
Speaker 1: what I mean?

557
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,360
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, But you can have a great time

558
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:56,560
Speaker 3: at your local school, no question, I.

559
00:29:56,480 --> 00:29:59,480
Speaker 2: Will say to you. From a financial point of view,

560
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:04,800
Speaker 2: I recommend to students often go to your local or

561
00:30:04,840 --> 00:30:07,440
Speaker 2: at least an in state school for your undergrad because

562
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 2: so many kids today need to go for a master's

563
00:30:11,040 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 2: or a PhD or a medical or law, whatever it is,

564
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 2: and you can go to your local school. It's a

565
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 2: lot cheaper, get those prerecs out of the way. There's

566
00:30:20,280 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 2: a lot of good things about doing that. And also,

567
00:30:22,680 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 2: let me just give you another little bit of advice

568
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 2: that I used to charge a lot of money for.

569
00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 2: Make a name for yourself. Make a name for yourself

570
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 2: at that school, because those professors will be the ones

571
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:36,960
Speaker 2: that are writing your RECs for grad school, helping you

572
00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:40,840
Speaker 2: get internships, make a name for yourself there. There's nothing

573
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 2: wrong with being a big fish in a small local pond.

574
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:47,240
Speaker 1: This is so true. And then we're going to get

575
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:48,840
Speaker 1: to know guy. Now what do you think.

576
00:30:48,880 --> 00:30:52,440
Speaker 2: Okay, Oh, I think we're getting to No guy, We're

577
00:30:52,440 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 2: going to do something a.

578
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:57,200
Speaker 4: Little different, right, Okay, bring it on.

579
00:30:57,640 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 1: So if you were stranded on a desert island, could

580
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:04,600
Speaker 1: only bring three guys from the mansion.

581
00:31:05,880 --> 00:31:12,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, two would be very easy. So I my I

582
00:31:12,040 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 3: had the five. There's five guys in my in my room.

583
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 3: That was Chuck, Charles, l Gary, and Michael, all really

584
00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 3: great guys.

585
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 4: I no question uh that Gary and Charles.

586
00:31:31,720 --> 00:31:36,080
Speaker 3: Were the closest to people that I connected with we

587
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 3: got along famously, and I love those guys to the death.

588
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:44,959
Speaker 3: And and I've talked to I've talked to Gary several times.

589
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 3: Charles not as much because he's so busy. He's Charles

590
00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 3: l Now he's an icon, you know, maybe, but he

591
00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:57,720
Speaker 3: did reach out and and we talked a little bit.

592
00:31:58,080 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 4: And I would say the third person.

593
00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:09,200
Speaker 2: Susan Cathy. They were the men, the men, the men

594
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:12,280
Speaker 2: just trying to help him not struggle so much.

595
00:32:12,800 --> 00:32:18,200
Speaker 3: You know, I will sell I will, I will honestly say, uh, Chalk.

596
00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:20,040
Speaker 2: Cool.

597
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 3: He was he we because we were, We were because

598
00:32:23,000 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 3: we went to the end. But we were the three,

599
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:28,760
Speaker 3: the two left in in our in our room together

600
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 3: at the mansion.

601
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:32,200
Speaker 1: Are you talking did you have did you have the

602
00:32:32,200 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 1: master suite or did were you in one of the smaller.

603
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:35,800
Speaker 4: We were in the middle ones.

604
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:38,880
Speaker 3: We're in the middle one that had five so two

605
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:40,280
Speaker 3: bunk beds and a single bed.

606
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:44,200
Speaker 4: I got the single bed because I was the oldest wainsday.

607
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,120
Speaker 2: And I have a question, are you talking to Chalk

608
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:48,040
Speaker 2: Have you talked to Chalk or Joan? I forgot to

609
00:32:48,080 --> 00:32:48,480
Speaker 2: ask you that.

610
00:32:49,280 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, I've talked to Chalk uh several times, never as

611
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:56,800
Speaker 3: long as I want, not as relaxed because he's got

612
00:32:56,880 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 3: so much He's he and Joan are moving at warps be.

613
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:03,600
Speaker 2: Time to find a place in New York.

614
00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 4: Yeah.

615
00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,239
Speaker 3: I've not had the opportunity to speak with Joan uh

616
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:15,760
Speaker 3: since the finale and then briefly at the after party,

617
00:33:16,440 --> 00:33:19,280
Speaker 3: and but I have talked to Chalk a few times.

618
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 3: But I really want to have that you know, it's

619
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:23,840
Speaker 3: going through so much, but I really want to have

620
00:33:23,920 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 3: that conversation with him because we really became.

621
00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 4: We became we became friends.

622
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 3: We we confided in each other a lot and got

623
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 3: to experience, you know, we got to share our backstories

624
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:41,280
Speaker 3: with with each other. And that's how it was with Gary.

625
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:45,960
Speaker 3: You know, the backstories are the important parts, you know, all.

626
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,720
Speaker 2: Right, My next question for you is, what would you

627
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:50,959
Speaker 2: say is your hidden talent?

628
00:33:56,520 --> 00:33:59,160
Speaker 4: Okay, outside of medicine.

629
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:01,840
Speaker 2: That's not hidden. We all know your our doctor.

630
00:34:02,880 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 4: I would I would say.

631
00:34:06,280 --> 00:34:09,239
Speaker 3: I have and it's not as good as it was,

632
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 3: but a pretty good memory and unique ability to remember

633
00:34:14,320 --> 00:34:17,800
Speaker 3: TV theme songs from the sixties and seventies.

634
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:22,640
Speaker 2: Oh whoa give me uh? Oh, Susan, Let's think of

635
00:34:22,680 --> 00:34:25,600
Speaker 2: a show in the vernon Shirley.

636
00:34:26,840 --> 00:34:28,720
Speaker 4: Tamil Chamo Hopson.

637
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:32,759
Speaker 3: Then of course we're gonna do it on your Marskets

638
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:33,880
Speaker 3: set and go.

639
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:37,360
Speaker 1: Down that you an.

640
00:34:37,160 --> 00:34:41,719
Speaker 3: We're gonna make it doing it our way.

641
00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:44,799
Speaker 4: Anyway, Give me another one.

642
00:34:45,440 --> 00:34:49,759
Speaker 1: What's a fun fact about yourself? Say that again, a

643
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:55,000
Speaker 1: fun fact about yourself? I think you just shared one

644
00:34:55,040 --> 00:34:55,840
Speaker 1: with us, really.

645
00:34:55,640 --> 00:34:57,959
Speaker 4: But I did.

646
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:03,919
Speaker 3: The fun fact is that I will say, and this

647
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 3: is really cool about where like social media Facebook can

648
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 3: come could really be so.

649
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:15,480
Speaker 4: Incredible. I reconnected.

650
00:35:16,120 --> 00:35:19,719
Speaker 3: Because of the show with my first grade teacher from

651
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:23,920
Speaker 3: Thornton Elementistry in Arlington, Texas. I got this request from

652
00:35:24,400 --> 00:35:28,240
Speaker 3: Roxanne Mayhew, and I accepted, and I sent a message.

653
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 4: I said, could you possibly be Roxy Mayhew? My first

654
00:35:32,200 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 4: grade teacher in nineteen sixty four sixty five.

655
00:35:36,680 --> 00:35:36,839
Speaker 3: And.

656
00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:39,400
Speaker 2: She's a singer?

657
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:43,400
Speaker 3: She she she actually she had seen the show. She

658
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:45,920
Speaker 3: saw my name, sure remembered me because I was in

659
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:47,320
Speaker 3: her very first class.

660
00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:50,439
Speaker 4: She was no more than twenty three years old. And

661
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:55,240
Speaker 4: we reconnected and so sweet. So what I will.

662
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 3: Say, the fun fact is that it's hard to believe

663
00:35:59,160 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 3: now I was pathologically shy when I was young. Uh,

664
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 3: probably all the way up into kind of the junior high.

665
00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 3: High school is where I started to make a transition.

666
00:36:12,640 --> 00:36:15,320
Speaker 3: But I mean I was pathologically shy.

667
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:20,279
Speaker 2: Wow, you know, was that a fear? Because that was

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Speaker 2: one of my questions when you were young, What was

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Speaker 2: your silliest fear? It sounds like you, you know, being

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Speaker 2: called out might have been a fear of yours if

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Speaker 2: you were that shy.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's funny you're saying this. Joan said how

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Speaker 1: shy she was on our show when she read that

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Speaker 1: poem My girlfriend and I love her dearly doesn't seem

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Speaker 1: shy to me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, the fun fact is that I was pathologically

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Speaker 3: shy then I am far from pathologically shy now. I mean,

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Speaker 3: you can pretty much get me to do almost anything

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Speaker 3: within reason.

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Speaker 1: I know we have to wrap up, but there's just

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Speaker 1: one more thing. Is there anything you've always wanted to

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Speaker 1: do but haven't done yet?

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Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 3: You know what's interesting the show, which I did not

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Speaker 3: anticipate any of this, clearly did not inticipate the the

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Speaker 3: the attention, the number of things. So I'm having I

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Speaker 3: have some potential opportunities that are out there right now

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Speaker 3: that I think would just be a black well one

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Speaker 3: of them. You know, I I think I think about

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Speaker 3: this is you know, and I don't know how it's

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Speaker 3: gonna turn out. But uh, playing in the at and

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Speaker 3: T Pebble Beach Celebrity pro and golf tournament with you

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Speaker 3: we got that is like off the charts.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I have a I have a lesson scheduled at.

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Speaker 3: News today because all I want to do is not

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Speaker 3: have to yell out for before I even hit.

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Speaker 1: The ball the whole time.

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Speaker 2: You know what, It's all about having fun. Guy, It's

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Speaker 2: not about the score, trust me, It's about having fun.

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Speaker 3: And that's what I and Okay, little things like there's

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Speaker 3: other there's another really cool thing that might might come

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Speaker 3: up that I have the opportunity that it's it's it's.

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Speaker 4: Not my Bailey Wi.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I mean, I you know, I mean, I've

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Speaker 3: been in er doctor.

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Speaker 4: I've not done acting. I've not done podcasts.

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Speaker 3: I've not done I've done podcast I'm dealing with I

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Speaker 3: did podcasts.

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Speaker 4: I did podcasts every day with patience. Okay, yeah, you know,

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Speaker 4: and but not not to this extent.

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Speaker 1: And now we're in the spirit of a brand new year.

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Speaker 1: One you know, you're going to go play play pebble

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Speaker 1: beach right. Yes, what are some of the things you

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Speaker 1: want to accomplish this year? Have you given that any thought?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the answer is yes.

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Speaker 3: I first of all, I want to and this has

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Speaker 3: been hard because I didn't know how much I wanted

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Speaker 3: to do and what I didn't want to do when

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Speaker 3: I first got back from the show. I is ready

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Speaker 3: to just say I want to put this all behind

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Speaker 3: me and I don't want to think about this. I

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Speaker 3: want to just move on with my life. I now,

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Speaker 3: having had this experience, I'm having fun and I'm thinking

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Speaker 3: twenty twenty five as being one of the most fun

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Speaker 3: years that I've ever had, getting to do fun things.

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Speaker 2: No, No, he's saying next year, twenty twenty five, I

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Speaker 2: want to be and we'll see to you guy twenty

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Speaker 2: twenty Susan and I said this at the end of

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Speaker 2: twenty twenty three, and twenty twenty four has been a

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Speaker 2: fabulous fun year for us, and we're not stopping. Twenty

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Speaker 2: twenty five is going to be a great year for

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Speaker 2: all of us. A lot bit more to come, but

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Speaker 2: in the meantime, in the meantime, I hate to break

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Speaker 2: up this party. This is going to do whatever we could.

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Speaker 2: This is going to do with that guy for this

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Speaker 2: episode of Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour, we really want

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Speaker 2: to thank you guy for coming on and be such

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Speaker 2: a good sport and giving advice. I didn't even know you.

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Speaker 2: I knew you knew about medicine. Who knew you knew

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Speaker 2: about college counseling. You're just you are a renaissance man.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to check right behind you on that golf

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Speaker 2: swing too.

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Speaker 1: We love getting to chat with you, especially so everybody

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Speaker 1: else could hear your story, and we'd love to have

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Speaker 1: you back because there's never enough time.

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Speaker 4: There isn't and ask me back any time. I love this.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Thank you, Thank you everybody out there for

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Speaker 1: joining us.

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Speaker 4: And I love your show and I love talking to

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Speaker 4: you guys. It's so easy.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, and we'll let you know how it was.

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Speaker 2: Day goes on, Nancy. But in the meantime, please make

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Speaker 2: sure to submit you if it doesn't.

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Speaker 1: Start out I told you before, I'm right here guy.

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Speaker 1: Thank you everybody for joining us, and be sure to

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Speaker 2: or dm us on Instagram at Bachelor Happy Hour. We

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Speaker 2: would love to hear from you your questions or comments.

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Speaker 2: We'll get you a date with guy as long as

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