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Speaker 1: Second date update. You know sometimes when you do these
Speaker 1: second date updates, I'm less worried about the date and
Speaker 1: I'm more interested in, like, how does somebody start talking
Speaker 1: to somebody at a bar? You know, because like it's
Speaker 1: difficult as a dude to know how to approach somebody.
Speaker 1: And Eadi's on the phone today she met a guy
Speaker 1: named Russell. And what was the thing that Russell said
Speaker 1: to you, Edie that got you interested? Like, Hey, you
Speaker 1: want me to buy you a lark a shot and
Speaker 1: we'll do a shot together? Wow? No, No, that wasn't it. No,
Speaker 1: even in that voice, that's a really hot voice. It's
Speaker 1: shocking because that would be hard for anyone to turn down.
Speaker 1: What did he say to you? He actually said, Wow,
Speaker 1: I like your sparkly nails. Okay, Oh, that's actually kind
Speaker 1: of nice because he's complimenting you without being creepy and
Speaker 1: noticing actually some detail about you other than nice nails.
Speaker 1: You've got nice nails? Want to take shot with me
Speaker 1: in a different voice. In a different voice though, wow,
Speaker 1: And he was like, I thought I was reliving the
Speaker 1: date all over again. Yeah, so tell us a little
Speaker 1: bit about Russell. After he commented on your sparkling nails.
Speaker 1: So we really just started talking and we were just
Speaker 1: you know, compatible, and so we kind of broke off
Speaker 1: and just started having conversations and a couple of drinks
Speaker 1: at the bar and we were just having a really
Speaker 1: great time. You sound like immediately you went from sparkly
Speaker 1: nails into deep conversation. Well kind of. Yeah. So I
Speaker 1: was like, I'm surprised this. Guys don't notice the little things.
Speaker 1: And then he was like, oh, like grip with sisters,
Speaker 1: and so that we just like went to like childhood
Speaker 1: like really fast. Okay, I like your nails, I grew
Speaker 1: up with sisters. I've never found love before. Straight into
Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. Well kind of, I mean, And
Speaker 1: what did you like about your conversation with him? He
Speaker 1: just like really he was listening and just I felt
Speaker 1: like I was really being heard and he was just
Speaker 1: like commenting on things and just really noticing things about me.
Speaker 1: The stands for dudes, all dudes have to do to
Speaker 1: really make an impact is listen. Yeah, yeah, but listening
Speaker 1: is more than just blank staring and then waiting for
Speaker 1: your turn to talk, right, Like, he was really engaged
Speaker 1: in what you had to say, and he was obviously
Speaker 1: really interested in you as well. Anyway, so we were
Speaker 1: just talking and then we got hungry, and so he's like,
Speaker 1: let's go get some food somewhere. So I'm like, great,
Speaker 1: let's go. So we decide on pizza, like pizza, and
Speaker 1: he asked me, okay, do you have like a favorite
Speaker 1: pizza place, and I said, oh, yes, of course, I
Speaker 1: have the best pizza place in the state. And he's like, no,
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure that I know the best pizza place around.
Speaker 1: So we decided to have a pizza off. What dude,
Speaker 1: that's a good day pizza sounds pretty nice. Actually, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm in. So we went to his pizza place first
Speaker 1: and he bought the sif and then he fed it
Speaker 1: to me, fed it to you. Actually, yeah, that was
Speaker 1: like and so he's feeding you pizza and what are
Speaker 1: you thinking? This is awesome or this is kind of weird?
Speaker 1: I can eat my own damn pizza. Well that was
Speaker 1: like we agreed on that, okay, so you agreed to
Speaker 1: feed each other the pizza at each of the places. Okay,
Speaker 1: well it sounds weird, but you're saying it like that,
Speaker 1: But those were the rules of the pizza off. That's
Speaker 1: what we decided. It was just like that and silly,
Speaker 1: and so this was a rule. It sounds weird, It
Speaker 1: didn't sound weird. It sounds like you were a little drunk.
Speaker 1: Well maybe a little bit. It's probably good you have
Speaker 1: somebody feeding you so you didn't get it all over yourself. Anyway.
Speaker 1: There you who won the pizza off? Oh well I
Speaker 1: wont obviously we went to my place. I fed him
Speaker 1: the pizza. I want hands down. Oh nice. So he's
Speaker 1: not calling you back because he's pissed that he lost
Speaker 1: to a woman. Well maybe I don't know. Why was
Speaker 1: there any awkward moments during your date? Well, there's one
Speaker 1: thing that I keep replaying for myself, and I'm like,
Speaker 1: maybe that's what it was. Maybe that's why he's been
Speaker 1: kind of weird. M So we're leaving, like walking back
Speaker 1: in my car, and he's like, hey, I have so
Speaker 1: much fun. I can't believe a girl like you is single.
Speaker 1: And so I said, well, I'm not super sting goals
Speaker 1: that's like more than a red flag. That's like a
Speaker 1: red banner, like a red explosion. Well, I know, but explain,
Speaker 1: I explained, And so I was like, well, I am
Speaker 1: like dating someone, but we're not exclusive. We're just kind
Speaker 1: of dating. Why would you even bring that up if
Speaker 1: you're not exclusive and it's not a thing. Well, I
Speaker 1: don't know, it just came out, and I'm thinking maybe
Speaker 1: that was a turn off. Yeah, it could be if
Speaker 1: you think somebody pretty much has a boyfriend. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: So in my defense, he's not my boyfriend, you know,
Speaker 1: someone I'm just dating and I wanted to be just
Speaker 1: really open about that because it's not something i'm ashamed of.
Speaker 1: We're not in a committed relationship. Do you think he
Speaker 1: believed you though, because I feel like that's what cheaters like, Well,
Speaker 1: i'm seeing somebody, but we're not exclusive. When well, I
Speaker 1: guess what if people say you aren't exclusive, Like, how
Speaker 1: do you answer that? Honestly? I was just trying to
Speaker 1: be honest dating around, Yeah, I'm dating around, I'm single. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean that's basically what I said. Yeah, I don't know,
Speaker 1: you brought up an individual person. I feel like that's different.
Speaker 1: But of this, Edi, does your husband know you're going
Speaker 1: to do a second because I wouldn't feel right about
Speaker 1: it if you didn't. I mean, that's funny, but really
Speaker 1: I am single though, like I am single. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: here's a question. Then why do you want to call
Speaker 1: Russell and not the other guy that you've been dating?
Speaker 1: Do you like Russell better? Well? I don't know. We
Speaker 1: just had so much fun and we connected. I thought
Speaker 1: so much that first night, but I just wanted to see,
Speaker 1: you know, if it was a really special connection, you
Speaker 1: see where it goes? Okay, and does the other guy
Speaker 1: know about this? Since you're so honest with Russell? Um,
Speaker 1: I have not mentioned it to him yet. Okay, we'll
Speaker 1: play a song come back, and then call him and
Speaker 1: get your second date up date? Okay, brooking jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning, right in the middle of a second date
Speaker 1: update and if you're just joining us. Edie is on
Speaker 1: the phone, and Edie wants us to call a guy
Speaker 1: named Russell. Although probably doesn't matter if Russell doesn't want
Speaker 1: to go out with her again because she's got kind
Speaker 1: of another boyfriend anyway, so he's got options. That's not
Speaker 1: really fair. One, Well, it's kind of the truth theady
Speaker 1: a little bit. No, I'm really not exclusive with anybody,
Speaker 1: so I don't see the big deal is well, either way,
Speaker 1: we're about to call Russell and Edie met Russell out
Speaker 1: at a bar. They left the bar and then they
Speaker 1: had a pizza off because they were talking about their
Speaker 1: favorite pizza places. They both went to each other's pizza place,
Speaker 1: had a slice. They fed each other their slices, which
Speaker 1: I think is kind of weird, But anyway, they did that,
Speaker 1: and the only awkward moment that Edie can think of
Speaker 1: is at the end of the night where she did
Speaker 1: tell him that she's kind of dating another guy but
Speaker 1: she is single. But she shouldn't have told him that
Speaker 1: because that might be why he's not calling back. So
Speaker 1: you don't think that I should have told him, then?
Speaker 1: Is that what it is? Well, I just think that
Speaker 1: that's could be a reason you're not calling you back,
Speaker 1: because if I went out with a girl and she
Speaker 1: said she was dating another guy, I might be like, oh, well,
Speaker 1: she doesn't really want to date me that bad. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm kind of with him on that, Like you should
Speaker 1: have just left it more vague. Is I think our
Speaker 1: only criticism. I just wanted to be like open and honest.
Speaker 1: If this is like really something special, I want to
Speaker 1: just start it like with a clean slate, just honesty.
Speaker 1: So it doesn't work. That's not true. I think that's
Speaker 1: a great way to start a relationship. But does that
Speaker 1: mean that you're willing to totally ditch the other guy
Speaker 1: and just go out with him if that's what he
Speaker 1: wants you to do, well, I mean that would be
Speaker 1: down the line because we've only been on one feat
Speaker 1: and okay, want him to like go out with me
Speaker 1: to get first Nope, if we're going to do the
Speaker 1: second date update, Ead, I need you to commit to
Speaker 1: marriage with him right now. I can't do it. I
Speaker 1: need at least three more dates before I'm gonna commit
Speaker 1: to marriage. All right, Well, I'm a dahas one him
Speaker 1: right now and see if we can figure you're out.
Speaker 1: Why it's not calling you back? Here we go? Hello? Hey,
Speaker 1: is this Russell? Yes? It is Hey. What's up Russell?
Speaker 1: How are you? My name is Jewbil and I host
Speaker 1: a radio show called Brook and Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: All right, yeah, just bragging about my job. I'm calling
Speaker 1: you today because one of our listeners send us an
Speaker 1: email about you. Oh all right, we do a segment
Speaker 1: on our show. It's called the second Date Updates. So, Edie,
Speaker 1: the girl you went out with a little while ago,
Speaker 1: you met at a bar. She emailed us because she
Speaker 1: really liked hanging out with you, But now it seems
Speaker 1: like you don't want to go out again. I know
Speaker 1: she did it. Yeah she did. Yes she did. No, no,
Speaker 1: no, no no, no, yeah, she did. Definitely did. Definitely. I
Speaker 1: mean that's really nice. I think she's being nice. No,
Speaker 1: I don't think she's being nice. I think she really
Speaker 1: liked you. I don't know about that. Do you think that.
Speaker 1: I mean she told us that she was dating somebody
Speaker 1: else but they weren't exclusive. Did that put you off? Uh?
Speaker 1: I mean like not at the time, but but now
Speaker 1: it bothers you. Yeah, yeah, all of a sudden. Yeah,
Speaker 1: uh she told you about the pizza off then, yes
Speaker 1: she did? Yeah. Yeah. Okay, So we did this pizza competition.
Speaker 1: Hers was much better than mine, So I'm sorry for
Speaker 1: a lot of that. Yeah. So after that, thank you.
Speaker 1: After that night, I decided to like go back to
Speaker 1: her pizza place because I thought it was great and
Speaker 1: I was going to pick up a slice and uh,
Speaker 1: as soon as I walked in, Edie was there with
Speaker 1: this other guy. Oh wow, yeah, but she's single. That's fine.
Speaker 1: I mean, and you don't even know that she's on
Speaker 1: a date. Man, it's it's her favorite pizza place. Of
Speaker 1: course she's gonna be there. You guys, everyone is breaking
Speaker 1: out for no reason. Yes, women have friends, Jose, it happened.
Speaker 1: I don't know that. Yeah, I mean their body language
Speaker 1: really felt like a date. It didn't feel like friends.
Speaker 1: It felt like it looked like a date. Could be
Speaker 1: a cousin, I hold hands on my cousin. But you, guys,
Speaker 1: even if it is a date, who cares, Russell, You're
Speaker 1: not in a relationship with her. You went on one date.
Speaker 1: You guys didn't even kiss. Yeah. Sure, But the thing
Speaker 1: is that this guy was like, far, far more better
Speaker 1: looking than I will ever be ever be uh yeah,
Speaker 1: and he knew how to dress, his clothes looks good.
Speaker 1: It was just I mean, he was like a Disney PRIs.
Speaker 1: I mean, after seeing that, like, I couldn't ask her
Speaker 1: out again. Wait, so wait, you don't want to state
Speaker 1: her because the other guy she's kind of seen is
Speaker 1: better looking than you. Yes, that thing I've ever heard
Speaker 1: look like I've seen this story before, and uh, if
Speaker 1: you're gonna put me up against like a gladiator, uh,
Speaker 1: I'm done. Like I can't put it like my time
Speaker 1: and my energy in like weeks and days and try
Speaker 1: to compete with this guy. Like that's not gonna happen.
Speaker 1: But so you're just giving up the race before you
Speaker 1: even start running it. Oh man, Oh yeah, that's a
Speaker 1: little bit Chris, you know. I mean, this guy could
Speaker 1: be an idiot. This guy could be a jerk, this
Speaker 1: guy could be boring. Looks aren't everything. Yeah, they're fun
Speaker 1: for a little while, but they don't last. You could
Speaker 1: be the long haul the marathon runner that wins the
Speaker 1: race for us. Well, it's actually more than that, because
Speaker 1: like they look good together. They look like a couple.
Speaker 1: They're like like would you buy a frame and they're
Speaker 1: in the frame right. Okay, So you're doing the world
Speaker 1: a favor by letting them date each other because they
Speaker 1: should be because they're both hot, and they'll make hot
Speaker 1: babies too. They're gonna have wonderful children. She is obviously
Speaker 1: not even that interested in that guy. If she was
Speaker 1: head over heels for this guy, she wouldn't have ever
Speaker 1: even gone out a date with you, let alone contacted
Speaker 1: us to call you. I mean, it put it bad,
Speaker 1: just like a bad feeling in my stomach, Like I
Speaker 1: didn't even order pizza, Like I just turned around back. Wow.
Speaker 1: You know it's bad when another dude is so hot
Speaker 1: you lose your appetite, right, I mean, that's just it's
Speaker 1: just how it is. And like, I hope you talked
Speaker 1: to her again. You know, I wish her the best
Speaker 1: in her future relationship. But it's just like it's obvious. Man. Okay,
Speaker 1: Well you can wish her the best yourself, because Edie
Speaker 1: is on the other line listening and wants to talk
Speaker 1: to you. Wrestle, Hi Russell. Oh god, hey, are you okay?
Speaker 1: I'm feel bad now that I'm hearing what happened. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm fine, are you? I don't know what to say.
Speaker 1: I feel really bad. I'm so sorry that you saw that.
Speaker 1: I had no idea ate. Um, yeah, it was a date.
Speaker 1: Wasn't with the other guy? It was the other guy? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it was the other guy. But we congratulations Edie. He
Speaker 1: sounds amazing. Oh my gosh, I totally knew it. I
Speaker 1: called it okay, So, I mean it was a date,
Speaker 1: but it was just casual, like it wasn't a big deal.
Speaker 1: I had so much fun with you the other night,
Speaker 1: and so I was just really hoping that we could
Speaker 1: go out again. I mean, after seeing what else you're dating, Like,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I can't, I can't, Like that's
Speaker 1: all I'm gonna be thinking about. Maybe Edie wants to
Speaker 1: slum it. Russell, you don't know guys, everybody, Oh tell
Speaker 1: him what you think is so attractive about him? Okay, Russell,
Speaker 1: you have no idea, Like I dated like super muscle
Speaker 1: like guys in the past, and like I'm not feeling
Speaker 1: any better. Okay, Okay, here's the thing, though, I felt
Speaker 1: like we had something really special. I just felt like
Speaker 1: we connected almost immediately and just we had like more
Speaker 1: depth in one date that I felt with you know,
Speaker 1: other guys in the past. And I mean, I don't
Speaker 1: want you to beat yourself up about any of this,
Speaker 1: because I think you're really good looking, and I think
Speaker 1: you're really attractive, and like you have such a great
Speaker 1: personality that I just want to like spend more time
Speaker 1: with you and get to know you. Uh. Thanks, Um,
Speaker 1: It's just it's I don't know, like I feel like
Speaker 1: I'm a great fit for like I don't know, like
Speaker 1: more for like a normal girl, Like you're really smoking
Speaker 1: and this dude was really smoking, and I'm like smoking
Speaker 1: people should do with smoking people, Like, gosh, no, you
Speaker 1: have you have to mix the attractiveness Russ. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: I think people for a loop. Okay, I think you
Speaker 1: are an attractive guy. Like I think I was really
Speaker 1: attractive to you, Like I like slender, Like your whole
Speaker 1: look and vibe is great. I think you're really attractive Eadie,
Speaker 1: Like thanks, Like the compliments are great, but like I
Speaker 1: saw you guys together on this date and like you
Speaker 1: guys were laughing and like could see that you guys
Speaker 1: were like adorable, and it makes sense. Then it's like
Speaker 1: a like the romantic comedy in a pizza place. Like
Speaker 1: I can't. It sounds like Russell just wants to watch
Speaker 1: a reality show of Eadie and whoever you're dating. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just I can't even see it anymore. I just
Speaker 1: gotta like, I gotta like move on. I can't. I'm
Speaker 1: just really disappointed. I mean I really thought it like
Speaker 1: there was something there and I hope that I wasn't
Speaker 1: wasting my time going to all of this because I
Speaker 1: really hoped that we could reconnect and just like, you know,
Speaker 1: see if we could be adorable together too. Come on, Russell,
Speaker 1: would you go out on a second date with Eadie?
Speaker 1: We'll pay for it. I mean, yeah, I really would.
Speaker 1: But if I was her, I'd say, oh, you're not hers,
Speaker 1: you're just answering for you. She wants to go out
Speaker 1: with you, so the choice is yours. Uh you know what,
Speaker 1: I'll say, yeah, and we'll probably have a good time.
Speaker 1: But I can just foresee, like a day or two,
Speaker 1: our monstitution's gonna be like, why did I ever do
Speaker 1: that thing? Wow? Are you calling yourself that thing? I am? Okay,
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I think there could be something there.
Speaker 1: But just like how confident? I mean, just don't worry
Speaker 1: about this other, you know, muscly guy. Just forget about him.
Speaker 1: You have so many Greek qualities and thinks that I
Speaker 1: really appreciate. Yeah, my pizza's seating skills are just yet.
Speaker 1: I bet you that guy's body fat so low he
Speaker 1: doesn't even eat pizza. You can eat all the pizza
Speaker 1: you want with eat that's right, I'm carb friendly. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's hot, Russ, that is hot right there. Broken Juwil
Speaker 1: in the morning