WEBVTT - Más preguntas con Eric

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<v Speaker 1>This is he said, aav HO with Eric Winter and

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<v Speaker 1>Rosalind Fantaz. Hello, Hello, welcome to another episode, he said.

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<v Speaker 1>Ad Oh, well it's he said again, because my wife

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<v Speaker 1>is still out of town, so there's no aav ho

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<v Speaker 1>and this one yet again another host chat solo. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, this has been a great time for

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<v Speaker 1>me to be able to answer a lot of listener

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<v Speaker 1>questions directed towards me. And I know we've been getting

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<v Speaker 1>hundreds of questions coming in from all you listeners, and

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<v Speaker 1>we truly appreciate it. We always love your support. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>It's been very interesting because the kids are gone now too. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>The good thing is I've been working like crazy on

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<v Speaker 1>the Rookie. We can say that Bradford is very heavy.

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<v Speaker 1>In the first three episodes. There's a lot of Bradford content,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's weird now because the kids are gone and

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<v Speaker 1>I got this whole house to myself two weekends in

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<v Speaker 1>a row now. Although I was supposed to go this

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<v Speaker 1>last weekend to visit Roslin and the kids in Puerto Rico,

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<v Speaker 1>and then this whole Microsoft outage happened and it affected

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<v Speaker 1>my flight. Thankfully, before I eve been headed to the airport,

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<v Speaker 1>but I left from work. I was gonna catch a

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<v Speaker 1>red eye. My flight got delayed. I was going to

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<v Speaker 1>miss my connection. Then I would have who knows when

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<v Speaker 1>I would have landed in Puerto Rico. And then we

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<v Speaker 1>have a friend in Puerto Rico right now that was

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<v Speaker 1>trying to get out around the time I would be

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<v Speaker 1>getting out, and her flight got pushed, so she's now

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<v Speaker 1>stuck in Puerto Rico another week. So thankfully I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>take that flight, because had I had taken that flight,

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<v Speaker 1>I would have probably in a lot of trouble with

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<v Speaker 1>the rookie. So that all worked out. But now I'm

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<v Speaker 1>board at home, and it's really weird, you know. In

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<v Speaker 1>one way, it's kind of relaxing. I have this, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>house to myself. I'm in the pool, i'm chilling, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>doing a lot of Palm Republic work. But it's also

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<v Speaker 1>very strange having a completely quiet household, and I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know the last time that we've had that, where the

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<v Speaker 1>kids are with Roz and I'm just solo for two weeks,

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<v Speaker 1>which is so bizarre. And then the kids fly back

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<v Speaker 1>and then I go to where to Reco to do

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<v Speaker 1>a part in Rosland's movie which is gonna be fun.

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<v Speaker 1>So hopefully we'll get to do an episode out there

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<v Speaker 1>while I'm in town filming, which would be nice. But

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<v Speaker 1>Palm Republic occupied my entire weekend. One of my favorite cocktails.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me tell you. On these, I've been a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of hot summer days here in California and Los Angeles.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, we are making We're having this mission

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<v Speaker 1>of bringing back the classic Cuban dacrie. Now, I know

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<v Speaker 1>most people think of a dacri and they think, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>sugar and super sweet, and that's what we all are

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<v Speaker 1>familiar with, these strawberry dacries that are like blended and

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<v Speaker 1>crushed ice and very very sweet and sugary. But I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if a lot of people know the classic

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<v Speaker 1>Cuban doctrie. We're gonna have this little history blog on

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<v Speaker 1>the website on the Palm Republic page. But it's three ingredients.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just fresh lime, add Palm Republic rum, put in

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<v Speaker 1>a little simple syrup, and then you put it over ice,

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<v Speaker 1>shake it until the shaker's cold, and you have the

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<v Speaker 1>pull one of the best, most refreshing, simple drinks with

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<v Speaker 1>way less sugar than all this added blended stuff that

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<v Speaker 1>we're like I said, we're so used to when you

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<v Speaker 1>think of traditional rum drinks, so that's something very fun

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<v Speaker 1>that we're trying to bring back. Is the classic Cuban

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<v Speaker 1>docri and also my all time favorite with the age

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<v Speaker 1>drum is in old fashion. I love our Palmer Public

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<v Speaker 1>old fashion. It is so good. But it's been great.

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of customers have been receiving their bottles and

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<v Speaker 1>I've been posting on social media. It's been so awesome

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<v Speaker 1>to see the feedback and the reviews. And now we

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<v Speaker 1>have some bunch of gifting boxes going out. We might

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<v Speaker 1>do some special giveaways with customers getting their own gifting

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<v Speaker 1>boxes that have some merch inside. And then we have

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<v Speaker 1>our merch launching on the website here very soon. Grab

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<v Speaker 1>a hat, grab a shirt. So it's been a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of fun, a lot of fun, very time consuming. Building

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<v Speaker 1>a brand or a company, I should say, is a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of work, but very rewarding at the same time.

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<v Speaker 1>Anybody out there who's doing it, I feel you. I

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<v Speaker 1>understand it now. Being an entrepreneur is no joke, but

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<v Speaker 1>it is very rewarding as you start to see customers happy.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's where I'm at with palb Republic. I know

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<v Speaker 1>Roz's first day of filming is today. She's having a

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<v Speaker 1>blast on the movie. It's finally going well. They've had

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of ups and downs with cast and just

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<v Speaker 1>locations and getting things locked up. But now that they

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<v Speaker 1>are in production, I know today is going super smooth.

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<v Speaker 1>So she is over the moon and I'm very happy

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<v Speaker 1>for her because it's been hard. It's not easy when

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<v Speaker 1>your wife has gone for so long, and we've done

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<v Speaker 1>this before. Fantasy Island was very tough. She was gone

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<v Speaker 1>for four and a half months. That was brutal. The

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<v Speaker 1>kids barely saw her. I saw her less than the kids.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard. This is going to be almost two months.

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<v Speaker 1>And when things don't go right, you know who's your

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<v Speaker 1>sounding board, your sounding board or your partner, your spouse,

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<v Speaker 1>and sometimes it gets challenging, especially with long distance. So

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<v Speaker 1>I feel for her. I know it's been a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm so proud of her and I'm so happy

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<v Speaker 1>it's all coming together. Now, let me get to some

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<v Speaker 1>listener questions at Lily May Todd. I have a bucket list,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I do have a bucket list, and there

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<v Speaker 1>are quite a few things I would like to do.

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<v Speaker 1>Two of them that really stand out, and I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to hit one of them from my fiftieth. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to go to Japan. I really want to go to Japan.

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<v Speaker 1>I want to go on a safari in South Africa.

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<v Speaker 1>And I want to go cage diving with great white sharks.

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<v Speaker 1>I really want to do that in South Africa. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know why, but I am obsessed with trying

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<v Speaker 1>to get into a cage and see what it's like

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<v Speaker 1>underwater with great whites coming at you. I yeah, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>call it crazy, but it's something I really want to do,

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<v Speaker 1>so we'll see. Those are the two bucket list things

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<v Speaker 1>that come off dump my head right away. But that's

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<v Speaker 1>uh yeah, one seems realistic and the other one seems

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<v Speaker 1>crazy at it's a ya fair brother. What is your

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<v Speaker 1>favorite song genre of music now? And what was it

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<v Speaker 1>growing up? So growing up? I mean I've always I

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<v Speaker 1>listened to everything I always do, but given where I

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<v Speaker 1>grew up, I was big and hip hop and R

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<v Speaker 1>and B. I loved it. I went through like that

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<v Speaker 1>eighties metal stage as well. Like my first concert ever

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<v Speaker 1>was bon Jovi Slipper when Wet when I was in

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<v Speaker 1>fifth grade. That was my first concert. Then I saw

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<v Speaker 1>Guns and Roses, I saw you know, Cinderella, skid Row,

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<v Speaker 1>all of them, Pantera. I was big into that metal

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<v Speaker 1>phase for a while, but I also love hip hop

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<v Speaker 1>and uh just classic rap from back then, eighties, nineties

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<v Speaker 1>all that. Now it's still pretty much a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>the same. Although what's weird in my older age now

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<v Speaker 1>is I'm listening to more country. And I'm not saying

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a country music fan, because I'm not sure that

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<v Speaker 1>I am. But I like the direction of where country

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<v Speaker 1>has been going lately. Maybe it's a little bit more pop.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe that's why I like it. But like Morgan Wallen,

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<v Speaker 1>I like him. I like his music, Shaboozi that song,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, Tipsy bar song, great song. And there's some

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<v Speaker 1>other country artists I do like as well, But I

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<v Speaker 1>think that crossover, like Morgan wall is doing a lot

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<v Speaker 1>with hip hop in the country, it's it's making me

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<v Speaker 1>like that genre a bit more. At me, how does

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<v Speaker 1>your routine change when Roz is away? So I'd say

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a bit more. You know, Roz is very I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a neat freak as well, but Roz is like super

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<v Speaker 1>neat freak, especially when it comes to the house. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a little more lax at putting things away right away,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm not messy. I just do it my way

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<v Speaker 1>when she's gone, and I mean now with the kid's gone,

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<v Speaker 1>I've actually slept in a little bit, which isn't much

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<v Speaker 1>for me, but like sleeping in a little longer and

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<v Speaker 1>now just taking care of myself, Jim and trying to

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<v Speaker 1>you know, when I'm not working, because I've been working

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<v Speaker 1>like crazy, but finding a way to decompress. And also,

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<v Speaker 1>like I said, keep busy on Palm Republic. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still telling you it's weird. It is weird not

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<v Speaker 1>having the noise of the kids. Stay Dad, Dad dah,

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<v Speaker 1>come play with me. Let's do this, Let's do like constantly.

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<v Speaker 1>It's such a trip. Let's see at K and E

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<v Speaker 1>cheek boutique, chic boutique. I should say, any plans to

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<v Speaker 1>do another Hallmark movie? You know, Roz and I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>done a movie together in a long time, although we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do her movie Diaudio here when I go, but

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<v Speaker 1>she's not acting in it. I don't think we have

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<v Speaker 1>any plans to do another Hallmark movie at the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>But I would like to do a movie together. Again.

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<v Speaker 1>I got to figure out what that's going to be.

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<v Speaker 1>If it's going to be on you know, a TV movie,

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<v Speaker 1>or it's gonna be an actual movie. I got a

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<v Speaker 1>movie on you know, not on TV. I should say

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<v Speaker 1>not like an that there are also movies too, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know what I mean, like when they we're trying

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<v Speaker 1>to sell in theaters. But no, no plans at the moment.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll see if one comes up anytime, you know, in

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<v Speaker 1>the near future, we might think about it. If we're

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<v Speaker 1>doing it together, let's see at SJ Exclusive. How do

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<v Speaker 1>you maintain your principles and morals in your marriage when

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<v Speaker 1>society seems to be changing in that area. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>think when it comes to dating the right person, you'll

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<v Speaker 1>find you will find someone you or you should make

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<v Speaker 1>a strong move to make that connection. Okay, great question.

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<v Speaker 1>How do we maintain our morals? I think that is

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<v Speaker 1>something that's part of who you are, you know, in general,

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<v Speaker 1>whether you're in entertainment business or you're not the entertainment business.

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<v Speaker 1>I have very strong morals when it comes to my marriage,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know Roslin does as well. And that's the

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<v Speaker 1>partner I found. I have very strong morals. I know

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<v Speaker 1>Rosin does as well. That's how we were sort of

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<v Speaker 1>raised and what we want in our lives even before

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<v Speaker 1>we met. So for us, it's not that difficult to

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<v Speaker 1>maintain those morals even though we're in the business that

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<v Speaker 1>we are in. Our marriage is a top priority to

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<v Speaker 1>each of us and our family is number one, and

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<v Speaker 1>so for us, those morals became, you know, become just

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<v Speaker 1>normal part of life. Like we respect each other immensely.

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<v Speaker 1>We treat each other, you know, as we each would

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<v Speaker 1>like to be treated, and we have a ton of

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<v Speaker 1>love for each other. And it's just important that our

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<v Speaker 1>marriage is intact and put first above everything else, even

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<v Speaker 1>as we're navigating work and other challenges. So it is

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<v Speaker 1>some thing that I think, regardless of what society might

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<v Speaker 1>be doing, it's for us. It just comes back to

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<v Speaker 1>our roots and our home base of how we think.

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<v Speaker 1>But when it comes to dating, finding the person that's

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<v Speaker 1>right for you, or going out there and pursuing to

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<v Speaker 1>make that connection, that's a tough one because in today's society,

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<v Speaker 1>people aren't really out dating as much as like when

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<v Speaker 1>I was. It's so easy now with all these apps

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<v Speaker 1>to meet people. However, I would say finding that real

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<v Speaker 1>connection still takes that, you know, one on one interaction

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<v Speaker 1>and in person. So I think you know, you have

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<v Speaker 1>all these tools to connect with somebody at least to

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<v Speaker 1>break the ice not being face to face. However, I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's it as service, because I think it really

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<v Speaker 1>comes to putting in that work face to face. Should

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<v Speaker 1>you go out there and chase it? I think it's

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<v Speaker 1>I think love is something that's going to come to

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<v Speaker 1>you and find. It's you know, find you on its own.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that's something you can force or make

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<v Speaker 1>a strong move to find. I think if you're single

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<v Speaker 1>and you're you're looking to meet a person, have to

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<v Speaker 1>be kind of active with going out, whether you're actively

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<v Speaker 1>searching on your dating apps and then going out, or

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<v Speaker 1>you're just going out with friends and trying to do

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<v Speaker 1>it the old fashioned way and just meet someone. I

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<v Speaker 1>think you have to be actively putting yourself in the

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<v Speaker 1>space to meet someone. But I don't think you should

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<v Speaker 1>be pushing yourself on anybody. It's going to happen naturally.

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<v Speaker 1>Anything forced to me just seems to fall apart or

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<v Speaker 1>not turn out to be genuine or the intentions of

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<v Speaker 1>what the other person wants might not line up with yours.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, everybody's got their own reason of why

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<v Speaker 1>they want to hook up, so you got to make

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<v Speaker 1>sure you do it the smart way. Make sure it's

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<v Speaker 1>not about the physical hookup and make sure that there's

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<v Speaker 1>a personal connection and somebody you can really get to know.

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<v Speaker 1>Unless you're looking just to have fun, then do whatever

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<v Speaker 1>you want at being I decided how to say this one.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have a favorite topic we've spoken about on

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast. I don't know if I have a favorite topic.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we've covered so many great things on the podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>I would say whenever we've talked to out things where

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<v Speaker 1>we learned something together as a couple. Those are some

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<v Speaker 1>of my favorites. Financial things that we've gone over on

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast, even as it relates to marriage or intimacy,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that stuff has been great. We've learned a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>Even the life coaches and the nutritional things that we've

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<v Speaker 1>had featured on our podcast have been great. So I

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<v Speaker 1>think a lot of it. I'm all about constantly trying

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<v Speaker 1>to I love self help. I love trying to improve myself.

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<v Speaker 1>So any of those things where I gain knowledge from

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<v Speaker 1>have been a lot of fun. For me personally as

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<v Speaker 1>topics that we can cover at Kristin Kiggs. Is there

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<v Speaker 1>a co star early in your career that you're still

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<v Speaker 1>friends with? So I have quite a few co stars

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still friends with, but one in particular, Matt Sadaniel,

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<v Speaker 1>who is on Days of our Lives with me in

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<v Speaker 1>the very beginning, but we knew each other even before Days.

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<v Speaker 1>He was the best man at my wedding. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>Matt and I are still very close friends today. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not super tight with a lot of people from Days anymore,

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<v Speaker 1>but if I see them, we catch up. Everything's great

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<v Speaker 1>eight And that's the same way with with what you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I spoke to a friend just by text recently. dB Woodside,

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<v Speaker 1>a great actor, was on Lucifer. We're good buddies. We

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<v Speaker 1>haven't caught up in a while, but we just texted today.

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<v Speaker 1>Funny enough, I've known him since my first pilot ever,

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<v Speaker 1>Viva Laughlin, which I have to admit I was so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>We became good friends. But I was so starstruck when

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<v Speaker 1>I saw him because I was a huge fan of

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<v Speaker 1>twenty four and he was the president after Dennis Haysburg.

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<v Speaker 1>He was Dennis's brother and he became president, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I was so obsessed with working with him and calling

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<v Speaker 1>him mister President because I love that show so much. Anyways, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I do have a handful of friends, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's super important to me keeping those relationships intact. But

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<v Speaker 1>as the years go on, it's tough. You know, it's

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<v Speaker 1>tough to maintain those connections. You know, everybody's busy with

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<v Speaker 1>so many things kids nowadays, like most of my friends

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<v Speaker 1>all have children, and it takes up a lot of time.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see, I any jealousy with Jane. Roz and I.

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<v Speaker 1>With filming, we've been pretty good, you know. Overall, I

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<v Speaker 1>think Roz and I have had a very clear understanding

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<v Speaker 1>of what this business is and what it brings out

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<v Speaker 1>in a person, because it's challenging. We have love scenes

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, love interests and various shows or movies.

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<v Speaker 1>I would see in the beginning of our relationship, I

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<v Speaker 1>was probably a bit more of the one that could

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<v Speaker 1>get jealous at times or get a little bit I

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<v Speaker 1>just didn't like it. I didn't like watching the love scenes.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like watching I still don't like watching it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if she's got if she has to kiss

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<v Speaker 1>somebody or she has a love scene. I don't really

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<v Speaker 1>care if I see it. I don't need to watch

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<v Speaker 1>that scene. I don't have to watch the episode. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't care. I'd rather just not know about it. Let

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<v Speaker 1>her do her thing, and she's working and it is

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<v Speaker 1>what it is. I trust her, and I'd say it's reciprocated.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she feels very comfortable with who I am,

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<v Speaker 1>and she doesn't really like to watch that stuff either,

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<v Speaker 1>and she knows us part of the job, so we

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<v Speaker 1>balance the jealousy part of it pretty well. But you know, look,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not comfortable. It's not easy for people in this business.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why you see so many people go through breakups

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<v Speaker 1>and people struggle in this business because when you're off

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<v Speaker 1>doing a movie, you're doing a TV show, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>gone for months at a time, and then you have

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<v Speaker 1>a love interest, a romantic partner that you're you know,

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<v Speaker 1>even though everything's totally neutralized when you're on set and

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<v Speaker 1>it's not it's not like anybody's really having fun. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not that kind of environment. But it's easy for your

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<v Speaker 1>partner to be uncomfortable with that setting because they're not there,

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<v Speaker 1>they're not part of it, and I'm not not that

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<v Speaker 1>they want to be part of it like in a group,

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<v Speaker 1>but I mean they're not. They're not witnessing or on set.

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<v Speaker 1>They're not. They're not They're available in order for you

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<v Speaker 1>to feel for them to feel safe and comfortable in

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<v Speaker 1>the situation. And so I think that distance adds a

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<v Speaker 1>big factor. If it's you know, if you're having love

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<v Speaker 1>scenes or you have romantic partners and there's distance involved

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<v Speaker 1>as well with your with your spouse, that makes it

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<v Speaker 1>more challenging. If they're obviously in town and you come

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<v Speaker 1>home to that person, it's a little bit easier, but

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<v Speaker 1>we balance it out, I think pretty well, you know

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<v Speaker 1>overall with the jealousy factor. Have I ever worked with

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<v Speaker 1>a co star that is different in real life than

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<v Speaker 1>they are on set? One time, and I won't say

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<v Speaker 1>who that, I worked with a co star who decided

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't think she is generally a method actress,

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<v Speaker 1>but she decided I was doing the show, and she

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<v Speaker 1>decided she was going to be a method for this

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<v Speaker 1>this new season. I don't think she was even on

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<v Speaker 1>the first season. But it's funny because for people who

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what method acting is, it's like when an

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<v Speaker 1>actor really tries to be the character all the time,

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<v Speaker 1>not just when they're on set, when they're in the

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<v Speaker 1>makeup trailer, when they're walking around on set, when they're

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<v Speaker 1>at their chair waiting to go on set, when you

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<v Speaker 1>see them coming into work, they are that character. That's

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<v Speaker 1>method acting. I don't operate that way. You know. I

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<v Speaker 1>get very focused and serious if I have a heavy

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<v Speaker 1>scene or certain thing going on, or a character I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to master. But I don't walk around trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be Tim Bradford. I don't walk around as my character

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. So one time on this show, this

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<v Speaker 1>one actress definitely walked in and I thought it was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of ironic because she walked in and letting us

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<v Speaker 1>all know that she was going to be staying in character.

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<v Speaker 1>Which is weird because when you're a method actor, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't really care about what people think. You just walk

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<v Speaker 1>in and you just are and people just have to

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<v Speaker 1>accept it. They're gonna work with you, and that's what

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<v Speaker 1>they say. Jim Carrey did on A Man on the Moon.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, he or Val Kilmer and plain Jim Morrison,

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<v Speaker 1>he walked around as that person. So you just have

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<v Speaker 1>to deal with the actor knowing that they are going

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<v Speaker 1>to be the character, and you don't talk to them

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<v Speaker 1>as you don't refer to them as their name, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't interact with them as you would themselves. You just talk.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't even talk to them, really, So it was

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<v Speaker 1>weird when this actress did this. It's kind of set

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<v Speaker 1>a weird tone because she wasn't like that originally. Then

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<v Speaker 1>she decided she was gonna be like that and told

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<v Speaker 1>everybody she was going to do it. So we kind

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<v Speaker 1>of got a laugh out of it at first, and

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<v Speaker 1>then we all had to manage it and just understand

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<v Speaker 1>that she's going to go through her process and we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to respect it, and you know, I just sort

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<v Speaker 1>of steer clear of people like that. I try not

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<v Speaker 1>to really invest much time or energy in it because

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<v Speaker 1>it gets too confusing. Like I can't be calling you,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, your character's name, and then all of a sudden,

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<v Speaker 1>your name, and I'd just rather be told what to

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<v Speaker 1>do and act in the scene and treat them leave

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<v Speaker 1>them alone. You know, if I'm not hanging out with

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<v Speaker 1>their character in real life, then I don't really hang

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<v Speaker 1>out with them off set, so they can be who

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<v Speaker 1>they are and we come on set and we shoot,

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<v Speaker 1>So that's kind of how I would deal with it.

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<v Speaker 1>But it is a weird thing to have to manage

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<v Speaker 1>when you're on set and he's kind of kind of

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<v Speaker 1>figured out. Give them their space and respect it. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a good question. Does the Chenford fandom ever become overwhelming?

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<v Speaker 1>You know? I you know, I love our rookie fandom.

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<v Speaker 1>I love or I say it all the time. We

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<v Speaker 1>would not be having the success we're having in what

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<v Speaker 1>we're going into seven seasons now if it wasn't for

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<v Speaker 1>this rookie fandom. And there's no question that the relationship

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<v Speaker 1>between Tim and Lucy has become a major focal point

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<v Speaker 1>on the show, There's no question, and that's all fan driven.

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<v Speaker 1>I think the fans that support that relationship are incredible.

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<v Speaker 1>The fandom is massive, The fandom has what is driving

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<v Speaker 1>that storyline so strongly. The fandom is driving that storyline

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<v Speaker 1>so strongly and really bringing it to life and bringing

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<v Speaker 1>all these colors to it because the writers pay attention.

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<v Speaker 1>The only time I'd say it ever gets a little

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<v Speaker 1>overwhelming is if you know there are fans on social

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<v Speaker 1>media that really can't separate the acting from my personal life,

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<v Speaker 1>and when I think that bleeds into my personal life,

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<v Speaker 1>then it's a little weird. You know, Like if my

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<v Speaker 1>wife posts a picture and it's our anniversary and it's

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<v Speaker 1>like a picture of us and they the fans, basically

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<v Speaker 1>say you should be with Lucy, Well, no, I shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>be with Lucy. I'm married. This is my wife. Like

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<v Speaker 1>you're breaking that that reality you know from what is TV,

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<v Speaker 1>and that that is very That can be difficult at

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<v Speaker 1>times when people don't respect that boundary. But at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, you know, they might not even know I'm married,

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<v Speaker 1>they might not even know the truth of what's behind it.

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<v Speaker 1>But at the end of the day, I ask fans

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<v Speaker 1>to sort of take a step back and think about it, Like, look,

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<v Speaker 1>if it's all if it's regarding the show, you're all in.

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<v Speaker 1>But if it's regarding personal life of an actor, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just respect and understand the personal relationship the actor might

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<v Speaker 1>be in and put yourself in that position so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you wouldn't want to say something that would offend your

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<v Speaker 1>spouse if you were in a relationship, or you wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>want somebody to say it about you or your partner.

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<v Speaker 1>So at the same time, that's the only part that's

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<v Speaker 1>probably challenging. But the fandom is incredible. Their support is incredible,

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<v Speaker 1>and honestly, I'm so grateful for this show and to

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<v Speaker 1>have the diehard support that we do have, because I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's better than any other show on TV as

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<v Speaker 1>far as our fandom goes. Have you ever had an

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<v Speaker 1>out of body experience or a dream that felt so

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<v Speaker 1>lucid that you thought it was real. I've never had

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<v Speaker 1>an out of body experience, although I'm all for watching

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<v Speaker 1>documentaries and shows about stuff like that. I find it

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<v Speaker 1>fascinating and I fully believe that all that happens. I've

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<v Speaker 1>had dreams, though, where I thought I was fully like dying, falling, floating, flying,

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<v Speaker 1>any of these things. I've had dreams where I thought

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<v Speaker 1>Roz did something that wronged me, like in a dream,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've woke up so angry at her and so

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<v Speaker 1>mad that I thought it was real, and it struggled.

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<v Speaker 1>I struggled with it all day long till I get

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<v Speaker 1>over the fact that it was just a dream, Like

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<v Speaker 1>she didn't have an affair or she didn't do X

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<v Speaker 1>Y and Z, and I was pissed at her all

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<v Speaker 1>day long. So it's weird how it can mess with

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<v Speaker 1>your mind like that. For sure, Do I feel fulfilled

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<v Speaker 1>as an actor? One hundred percent. I am so happy

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<v Speaker 1>with where I'm at in my career right now, the

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<v Speaker 1>journey I've been on. You know, it's not easy. It

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<v Speaker 1>is not easy being an actor, being a working actor

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<v Speaker 1>for that matter, supporting my family and supporting the lifestyle

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<v Speaker 1>I want being an actor. It's not It's very very difficult.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if you look at our union, I think

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<v Speaker 1>most of our union ninety probably ninety eight percent of

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<v Speaker 1>our union's unemployed right now. So very thankful where I'm

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<v Speaker 1>out of my career. And it also kind of leads

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<v Speaker 1>into another question here, which is about the advice I

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<v Speaker 1>would give myself in my twenties and my thirties and

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<v Speaker 1>my twenties. When I got into this business, I was

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<v Speaker 1>very impatient. I wanted everything to happen right now. I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to be a working actor right away. I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to make money right away. I wanted to have my

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<v Speaker 1>own show right away. I never understood patients and how

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<v Speaker 1>difficult it can be and how this business works. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>I always understood the mind of an athlete. If I

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<v Speaker 1>work hard, I'll succeed. If I train, I'll get better.

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<v Speaker 1>If I'm better, I'll get hired. And that is not

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<v Speaker 1>this business. That is not how this business works. It

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<v Speaker 1>is totally subjective to who's going to work and who's

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<v Speaker 1>going to get a job, and it is not it

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<v Speaker 1>is not. This business is not truly based on talent.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, talent is obviously very important. If you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have an ounce of talent, you'll definitely be called out

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<v Speaker 1>and you won't work again. But there are plenty of

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<v Speaker 1>great actors that are unemployed, and there are plenty of

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<v Speaker 1>big actors out there that a lot of people would

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<v Speaker 1>argue are not very good, they're just okay. So a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of it's timing, Loko, who you know, and if

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<v Speaker 1>it's meant for you, it's meant for you. So I

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<v Speaker 1>would tell myself in my twenties to be patient and

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<v Speaker 1>trust the journey, trust the process of everything I'm going through,

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<v Speaker 1>and just continue to learn and absorb and be open

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<v Speaker 1>to what might come your way instead of getting being frustrated.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how I was in my twenties. I quit acting

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<v Speaker 1>at one point because I was so frustrated with getting

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<v Speaker 1>close and closer to jobs, and then not getting them,

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<v Speaker 1>so I stopped acting. And I always wonder where I

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<v Speaker 1>would have been in my career if I would have

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<v Speaker 1>broken sooner had I not quit for like two years.

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<v Speaker 1>Because it's two years off, you know, you're off the radar,

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<v Speaker 1>you're not involved in auditions, you're not being talked about anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>And I always wonder what would have happened had I

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<v Speaker 1>stuck it out and been patient. And in my thirties,

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<v Speaker 1>I would say my best advice would have been to

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<v Speaker 1>myself is just take care of your body. Take care

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<v Speaker 1>of your body, don't abuse it so much. I was

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<v Speaker 1>still in my thirties abusing my body at the gym,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to be doing stupid things, trying to be extra

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<v Speaker 1>strong and extra thing like just breaking my body down.

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<v Speaker 1>And here I am my forties, and I'm dealing with

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<v Speaker 1>the aftermath of a lot of that, you know, where

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<v Speaker 1>I'm dealing with pain in my back or issues that

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<v Speaker 1>I have to I have to resolve or I have

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<v Speaker 1>to live with because I was too abusive to my

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<v Speaker 1>body early on, whether it was a sports or training,

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<v Speaker 1>And that's super important. I think people just realize you

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<v Speaker 1>need to take care of yourself. You have to your

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<v Speaker 1>mental state, your physical state. You have to take care

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<v Speaker 1>of yourself at Becky one two three five three three.

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<v Speaker 1>Do I have any advice for someone who has been

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<v Speaker 1>cheated on? Woo, If you've been cheated on, hmm, that's tough.

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<v Speaker 1>I always, I always have been of the mindset and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not saying this is the right advice, but for me,

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<v Speaker 1>if someone cheated on me, I always like that they're

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<v Speaker 1>not for me. This is not my person, it was

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<v Speaker 1>not meant to be. Yeah, it stings, it's it sucks,

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<v Speaker 1>for sure, But I have this ability of compartmentalizing and

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<v Speaker 1>trying to move on quick and recognizing that like strike

0:25:25.440 --> 0:25:28.399
<v Speaker 1>you strike three, you're out right away, and you're just

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<v Speaker 1>not my partner. You're not the person I was meant

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<v Speaker 1>to be with. So I move on. I move on.

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<v Speaker 1>I get myself back out there, and I try and

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<v Speaker 1>find someone who true is going to respect me and

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<v Speaker 1>who's going to see me for who I am, and

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<v Speaker 1>not someone who has the urge to go cheat on. Now.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I'm not of for me. I've

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<v Speaker 1>never been in that position where I've taken somebody back

0:25:49.800 --> 0:25:51.880
<v Speaker 1>and I've tried to make it work and all that

0:25:52.440 --> 0:25:55.360
<v Speaker 1>everybody's got a different reality when it comes to those

0:25:55.600 --> 0:25:58.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, those situations if someone has an affair and

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<v Speaker 1>they're married and they have kids, and you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what caused the affair, but maybe there is

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<v Speaker 1>reason or a potential to try to work it out.

0:26:06.680 --> 0:26:09.040
<v Speaker 1>We've had experts on the show talk about that. But

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<v Speaker 1>if it's just like a dating relationship and someone cheats

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<v Speaker 1>to me, they're out, move on buying somebody new. And

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<v Speaker 1>this going talking again about prioritizing mental health. This is

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<v Speaker 1>something I just touched on a second ago. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you have to prioritize your mental health and daily like

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<v Speaker 1>for me, I try to remind myself of the things

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thankful for, prayer, we have these different little like

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<v Speaker 1>meditation things I'll listen to sometimes, try to unwind, call

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<v Speaker 1>my mind and just try to take care of myself,

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<v Speaker 1>bringing the stress down. You know, for me, it's about

0:26:43.240 --> 0:26:47.480
<v Speaker 1>bringing stress down. If I'm too stressed out, everything goes wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>So I try really hard to work on those things.

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<v Speaker 1>At EBW Films, I want to know who this film

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<v Speaker 1>company is. Is there a moment in your life that

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<v Speaker 1>you draw motion from or when it comes to acting,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there's a couple of things. I Uh, I

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<v Speaker 1>do draw a lot from my dad's passing. It was

0:27:04.320 --> 0:27:06.879
<v Speaker 1>a heavy moment in my life for sure. Uh. And

0:27:06.960 --> 0:27:09.760
<v Speaker 1>also the birth of my kids. Those two of the

0:27:09.840 --> 0:27:12.480
<v Speaker 1>best moments in my life without it, without a doubt,

0:27:13.720 --> 0:27:17.640
<v Speaker 1>So I draw a lot on those, uh, those moments

0:27:17.680 --> 0:27:19.760
<v Speaker 1>that I can think of. My wedding day was also

0:27:19.800 --> 0:27:23.280
<v Speaker 1>an incredible uh time in my life. And uh, I've

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<v Speaker 1>had some big victories in my life as many as

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<v Speaker 1>well as many failures. So I try to whatever it

0:27:28.480 --> 0:27:30.639
<v Speaker 1>is I'm trying to get into for a scene or

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<v Speaker 1>for a moment, I work on it and I bring

0:27:32.760 --> 0:27:36.600
<v Speaker 1>those those things all together. Uh. This is a great question.

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<v Speaker 1>Do I think that Bradford and Roz would ever be

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<v Speaker 1>successful as a couple. Hell no, There's not a chance

0:27:43.080 --> 0:27:47.439
<v Speaker 1>in hell that Roslyn would ever date Tim Bradford. Roslyn

0:27:47.480 --> 0:27:51.280
<v Speaker 1>would kill Tim Bradford. She's way too type A, way

0:27:51.320 --> 0:27:53.320
<v Speaker 1>too type A, and Bradford's too type A. They'd be

0:27:53.400 --> 0:27:58.439
<v Speaker 1>fighting constantly. She would never tolerate his tone. She'd she

0:27:58.480 --> 0:28:00.639
<v Speaker 1>would have she would have been out in immediately. I

0:28:00.640 --> 0:28:02.159
<v Speaker 1>can tell you that for sure, she does not have

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<v Speaker 1>the patience for a Tim Bradford now the newer Tim

0:28:06.040 --> 0:28:08.920
<v Speaker 1>Bradford she might be fine with. But Tim Bradford season one,

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<v Speaker 1>two and three, No, she had have been done. She

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<v Speaker 1>would have been done. All right. Well, let's see last question.

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<v Speaker 1>Favorite thing to do between scenes, and I bet you

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<v Speaker 1>all my co stars would agree is I'm probably on

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<v Speaker 1>my phone way too much. I do love talking to

0:28:22.320 --> 0:28:24.880
<v Speaker 1>my co stars, we love hanging out, we love joking

0:28:24.960 --> 0:28:27.359
<v Speaker 1>and playing pranks on each other, but we are all

0:28:27.720 --> 0:28:30.160
<v Speaker 1>probably on our phones way too much looking at social

0:28:30.240 --> 0:28:33.320
<v Speaker 1>media or nonsense. I'm also working a lot when I'm

0:28:33.320 --> 0:28:37.400
<v Speaker 1>on set, so between scenes, I'm working constantly on Palm

0:28:37.440 --> 0:28:39.520
<v Speaker 1>Republic or things that we're trying to produce, or just

0:28:40.080 --> 0:28:42.240
<v Speaker 1>everything else I have going on in life outside of

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<v Speaker 1>the Rookies. So a lot of work, a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>being on the phone, and that pretty much wraps it up. Listen, everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you for checking out another episode of He Said,

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<v Speaker 1>He Ado, for listening to me answer all of your questions.

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