WEBVTT - Let's Talk Favorite Things

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<v Speaker 1>This is Let's be Clear with Shannon Doherty. Hi, welcome

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<v Speaker 1>to Let's be Clear with Shannon Doherty. All right, so guys,

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<v Speaker 1>normally I talk about, you know, either my career, past, present,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe future, or I talk about things that really resonate

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<v Speaker 1>with me personally, for instance, cancer, divorce, relationships, ex boyfriends,

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<v Speaker 1>you name it. We kind of cover it, and certainly

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<v Speaker 1>we have a lot more to cover, and we will,

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<v Speaker 1>especially getting into the coming weeks, probably have a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of new updates for everyone. But today I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>try something a little different, and I also wanted to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, make sure that sometimes there's episodes that are

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<v Speaker 1>uplifting and just informative random questions that people ask me. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>we do Q and a's, but people have specifically asked

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<v Speaker 1>me like what are my favorite things to do? My

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<v Speaker 1>favorite TV shows, et cetera, et cetera. So I'm going

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<v Speaker 1>to start with some of these questions and then I'll probably,

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<v Speaker 1>as I always do, go off on a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>of a tangent. So here we are what TV show

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<v Speaker 1>do you love? But you are embarrassed to admit? That's

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<v Speaker 1>a hard one for me because I don't really have

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<v Speaker 1>any problem admitting things you know, like if I watch

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<v Speaker 1>a reality show, I'm not embarrassed by it. I got

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you, my mom and I are big family

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<v Speaker 1>feud people, and we love, you know, answering before anybody

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<v Speaker 1>presses the buzzer hopefully we love the last bit where

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<v Speaker 1>you know, you go and you give like five answers.

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<v Speaker 1>So family feud. But I'm not really embarrassed that I

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<v Speaker 1>like family feud. I love watching Family Feud, and like

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<v Speaker 1>People Puzzler and some of those. I just think that

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<v Speaker 1>they're cool. And also I like keeping my brain very active,

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<v Speaker 1>especially because I do have mets in my brain. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>always worried and because I had brain surgeries you guys

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<v Speaker 1>know in January two thousand and twenty three. I really

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<v Speaker 1>like to constantly keep my brain going and challenging and

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<v Speaker 1>doing puzzles and stuff of that nature. So for me,

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<v Speaker 1>I show like People Puzzler or Family Feud doesn't seem

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<v Speaker 1>like something I would worry about admitting, or that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>embarrassed to admit. I got to say I've probably watched

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<v Speaker 1>Sex in the City. I don't know how many times.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so soothing to me. I put it on at

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<v Speaker 1>night and I'm now up to season I don't even

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<v Speaker 1>know what, but I literally watch it over and over

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<v Speaker 1>and over again because it's just one of those shows.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like Seinfeld to me that I can relax to

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't have to overthink things. In general, I

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<v Speaker 1>have TV shows that I love, but I'm not you know,

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<v Speaker 1>they're nothing embarrassing. Succession was one of my favorite shows,

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<v Speaker 1>and The Veil, I think now is one of my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite shows. So not embarrassed to admit things. For sure,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not a real Housewives person. The only time I

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<v Speaker 1>got into that was the year that a friend of mine,

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<v Speaker 1>Diana Jenkins, was on and I watched it for her.

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<v Speaker 1>And I've never been a big bachelor person. I know

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<v Speaker 1>that's everybody's guilty pleasure, not mine. What movie could you

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<v Speaker 1>see over and over again and never get tired of? Ooh?

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<v Speaker 1>Pride and Prejudice Joe Wright was the director. Kiera Knightley.

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<v Speaker 1>I have seen that movie so many times. It's ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 1>I absolutely love it. And Stepbrothers. Oh, whenever I need

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<v Speaker 1>to laugh, I watch step Brothers. It's one of the

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<v Speaker 1>funniest movies I've ever seen. And I always look at

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<v Speaker 1>people and go, did we just become best friends. So

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<v Speaker 1>there's that too. Do you like to bargain shop, and

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<v Speaker 1>so what's your favorite store. I do like to bargain shop.

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<v Speaker 1>I do a lot of bargain shopping for home stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>I think I've mentioned to you guys that like one

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<v Speaker 1>of my things that I love to do is in

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<v Speaker 1>tier design. I if I was uber wealthy, I would

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<v Speaker 1>just buy houses and flip them and flip them and

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<v Speaker 1>flow them just for the opportunity to decorate them and

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<v Speaker 1>do interior design. And I just find that so many

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<v Speaker 1>people la New York, Miami all over the world, but

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<v Speaker 1>particularly in those big, huge cities, they spend a fortune

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<v Speaker 1>on furniture and on making it seem lived in or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>and because they go to all these high end stores

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<v Speaker 1>and you really don't have to. Antique shopping is one

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<v Speaker 1>of my favorite things. Bargains shopping. I love that. As

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<v Speaker 1>far as clothes go, you know, I used to be

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<v Speaker 1>a big vintage girl. I am not so much so anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>There's still a couple of vintage stores I will go

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<v Speaker 1>to as far as clothing goes, but it's just so

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<v Speaker 1>I can get a really good deal on like a

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<v Speaker 1>Chanel skirt or something of that nature. But for the

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<v Speaker 1>most part, when it comes to clothing, I do a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of my shopping online. Now there's you know, Netta

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<v Speaker 1>Portee and my Teresa and places like that where I

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<v Speaker 1>can buy high end and there's no problem with sending

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<v Speaker 1>it back if it doesn't fit or whatever. But and

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<v Speaker 1>T shirts. They now make so many cool vintage T

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<v Speaker 1>shirts that you can buy online as well. So a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of my personal clothing is online. But definitely for

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<v Speaker 1>design and for house I do the majority of that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yes, I go to stores. I always bargainshop

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<v Speaker 1>you guys like I always negotiate. I don't care if

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<v Speaker 1>it's a high end store or not. I'm always like,

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<v Speaker 1>you want what for this? No, I actually think it

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<v Speaker 1>should be priced at this. Here's what I'll give you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm forever doing that, just because the markup and stores

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<v Speaker 1>is so huge. But you know, I also really like

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<v Speaker 1>to go to smaller stores. I don't like big, huge

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<v Speaker 1>chain stores. I think that. But COVID was a real issue,

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<v Speaker 1>and it took out so many of our mom and

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<v Speaker 1>pop stores, and we people went out of business. They

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<v Speaker 1>lost their jobs, they lost they lost homes, they lost

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<v Speaker 1>because their business had to close. So many restaurants, stores,

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<v Speaker 1>all of that that I really have a big thing

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<v Speaker 1>about supporting those stores. Those stores I don't really negotiate

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<v Speaker 1>with as much because I want them to succeed. But

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there's always a little room for negotiation. I think,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, let's see, so what's my favorite store. There's

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<v Speaker 1>just too many of them. There's a place called Dandelion

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<v Speaker 1>and something which is on Abbot, Kenney and Venice for

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<v Speaker 1>like knick knacks and some pieces of furniture and rugs,

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<v Speaker 1>which I love. There's Big Daddy's Antiques, which I'm obsessed with.

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<v Speaker 1>There's you know, there's huge sort of markets. They're not

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<v Speaker 1>called markets, they're not called festivals, they're whatever they're called.

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<v Speaker 1>Like the one in Roundtop in Texas is one where

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<v Speaker 1>you go and it's all these different sort of antique

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<v Speaker 1>dealers or just dealers in general that have all these

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<v Speaker 1>little different stands. And I love going to places like

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<v Speaker 1>that to just find something really unique. I'm gonta find gifts,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll buy gifts way ahead of time for Christmas

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<v Speaker 1>or for somebody's birthday. If I see something that resonates

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<v Speaker 1>with me that I know that they're gonna like, I

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<v Speaker 1>love doing that. I do have a big shoe fetish.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a shoe slut, you guys. I love shoes. Unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 1>I really like high end shoes, either like tennis shoes

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<v Speaker 1>or high end shoes new in between. What is something

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<v Speaker 1>that you have to have in your fridge or pantry

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<v Speaker 1>no matter what Canada dry ginger ail. I'm obsessed with

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<v Speaker 1>Canada dry ginger all. I don't know why it's clean

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<v Speaker 1>and I like the taste, but specifically Canada Dry. I

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<v Speaker 1>always have Gatorade on hand because when I did chemo

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<v Speaker 1>back in twenty sixteen, I was so dehydrated and they

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<v Speaker 1>were having to do ivs on me constantly, and I

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<v Speaker 1>couldn't eat and I was throwing up all the time.

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<v Speaker 1>And I found that if I did gatorade in ice

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<v Speaker 1>cube trays and froze it, that I could tolerate sucking

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<v Speaker 1>on an ice cube that was a Gatorade ice cube

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<v Speaker 1>and it would hydrate me enough give me the electrolytes

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<v Speaker 1>that I needed. So I always keep it close by

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<v Speaker 1>just in case I'm sick or or you know, just dehydrated.

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<v Speaker 1>I always have the little cut oranges. I keep them

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<v Speaker 1>in the refrigerator because I like them really cold, so

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<v Speaker 1>I always have those. As far as something kind of unhealthy,

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<v Speaker 1>I always keep milk and cereal because sometimes late at

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<v Speaker 1>night I get really hungry and I'm too lazy sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>to cook dinner, and I love a bowl of cereal.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think it's fantastic. Actually, that's what I've had

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<v Speaker 1>for two nights in a row for dinner lately. I've

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<v Speaker 1>been a little lazy this week. All Right, What is

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<v Speaker 1>something you like to splurge on because it's worth it. Shoes?

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<v Speaker 1>I really really like to splurge on shoes. Good quality

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<v Speaker 1>shoes means that I don't have foot issues, They're not

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<v Speaker 1>pinching my feet, they fit well, they're cable, so I'm

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<v Speaker 1>big on that. I'm sort of big on skincare in

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<v Speaker 1>the sense of that I love trying new products all

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<v Speaker 1>the time. I'm a fan of that, but it doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>always mean that I'm going to choose something expensive. I've

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<v Speaker 1>been using Seravey, which you get at a drug store,

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<v Speaker 1>on my lines, and I've noticed a difference. But then

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<v Speaker 1>I have a product, a moisturizer that's in my opinion, overpriced,

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<v Speaker 1>but it works. So skincare, I like to splurge on shoes.

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<v Speaker 1>I like to splurge on. I like to splurge on

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<v Speaker 1>my mom. I like spoiling her a lot, and she

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<v Speaker 1>in turn likes to spoil me as well. And I

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<v Speaker 1>splurge on dinners. I do like a really good dinner.

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<v Speaker 1>And obviously I splurge on wine because I do enjoy

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<v Speaker 1>my wine. And I think some people would say that

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<v Speaker 1>I splurge on my house, which is true, But to me,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not a splurge. Right to me, that's an investment.

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<v Speaker 1>I know that whatever I put into the home, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>going to be able to sell the house for so

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<v Speaker 1>much more than I bought it for. So that's always

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<v Speaker 1>that's not a splurge. That's just a healthy investment. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's keep going all the places that you've traveled in

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<v Speaker 1>the world. Is there one country you would consider moving to? Italy?

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<v Speaker 1>I would love to move to Italy. I would love

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<v Speaker 1>to move to Africa for like six months to a

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<v Speaker 1>year and work at a sanctuary. There's an elephant sanctuary.

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<v Speaker 1>There's a lot of sanctuaries there. I would love to

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<v Speaker 1>do that as well. My problem always is the same,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going anywhere without my dog. Not long term.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll go do conventions for a weekend, or I'll go

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<v Speaker 1>in a trip here and there for you know, four

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<v Speaker 1>days or a week, but I don't I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>leaving my dog long periods of time, especially because she's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot older now and I think she's thirteen or fourteen,

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<v Speaker 1>and she doesn't walk as well. She's just got a

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<v Speaker 1>few issues, and I would hate to be out of

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<v Speaker 1>town when my dog needs to be a rushed to

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<v Speaker 1>the hospital because I'm yes, she loves my mom and

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<v Speaker 1>my friends, but she's even when she's being loved one

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<v Speaker 1>by them, she's always looking at me. I'm her safety net,

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<v Speaker 1>just like she's my safety net, And so I really

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<v Speaker 1>want to be here. I would have to buy a

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<v Speaker 1>seat for her and fly her. Africa is way too far,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't think that's happening anytime soon, but maybe Italy.

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<v Speaker 1>A couple of us have been talking about going there

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<v Speaker 1>for a week and a half or so and learning

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<v Speaker 1>how to make homemade pasta really well and pizza do.

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<v Speaker 1>Even though I really like my pizza do, I know

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<v Speaker 1>it can be a lot better, and I'm going to

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<v Speaker 1>learn that from the knowness. So that's something that I've

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<v Speaker 1>been wanting to do. What's your favorite thing to do

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<v Speaker 1>on a Sunday morning. Absolutely nothing. I think my brain

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<v Speaker 1>is constantly going, and I'm usually on my computer every

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<v Speaker 1>day going through the latest clinical trials, any breakthrough with cancer.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm always reaching out to new doctors that I hear

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<v Speaker 1>about and having conversations with them. I think I'm seeking

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<v Speaker 1>answers for my own health, but also for everybody with

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<v Speaker 1>cancer for their health. So therefore I spend so much

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<v Speaker 1>time doing that, and it can be incredibly draining because

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<v Speaker 1>as you're going through all that research, you're also seeing yourself,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, is this what I have? Is this

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<v Speaker 1>what I have? Is like all these new symptoms is

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<v Speaker 1>And that can be incredibly taxing and heavy and a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of stress weighing you down. So Sundays I like

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<v Speaker 1>to wake up in the morning, I fix myself a

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<v Speaker 1>coffee and I'll play like a little game on my iPad,

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<v Speaker 1>whether it's a jigsaw puzzle or or crosswords, whatever it is,

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<v Speaker 1>in order to get my brain to start going. But

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<v Speaker 1>really I like it to be very, very very quiet.

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<v Speaker 1>In general. I like things to be quiet. I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who blasts music only when my friends are over.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not someone who turns on the TV immediately. I

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<v Speaker 1>like it like this right now, right It's very quiet

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<v Speaker 1>in my house, and I enjoy that. It gives me

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<v Speaker 1>time to reflect and to sort of settle into my day,

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<v Speaker 1>and then my Sunday usually continues. I love to garden.

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<v Speaker 1>I have an amazing organic garden that I built and

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<v Speaker 1>I love tenning to it. And now I've just started

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<v Speaker 1>a whole like rose garden, and I love experimenting with

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<v Speaker 1>putting different things next to vegetables. So yes, obviously I

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<v Speaker 1>have the merrygolds and the mint to drive away insects

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<v Speaker 1>and all of that. But I had read this article

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<v Speaker 1>that tested tomatoes and there was a tomato plant, well

0:17:07.520 --> 0:17:12.200
<v Speaker 1>two they both grew very very very well, but the

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<v Speaker 1>one that was next to the rose bush where they

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<v Speaker 1>almost intertwined essentially, the tomato tasted different. It tasted a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit sweeter, it took on more of the tones

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<v Speaker 1>of a rose. And so I loved doing stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 1>I love just experimenting and figuring out the best way

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<v Speaker 1>to grow the natural products to use. Stuff that you

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<v Speaker 1>can combine in the house, banana peels and water for

0:17:40.520 --> 0:17:45.679
<v Speaker 1>fertilizing tomatoes or roses or whatever. So that's always a

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<v Speaker 1>very good Sunday for me, as well as going bargain hunting.

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<v Speaker 1>That's great. Taking a drive to santy Nez, which is

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<v Speaker 1>one of my favorite places. It's about an hour and

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<v Speaker 1>a half from where I live, and going and spending

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<v Speaker 1>time at Return to Freedom which is up in santin As,

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<v Speaker 1>and they take in a lot of the wild mustangs

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<v Speaker 1>that the BLM has rounded up and putting corals, and

0:18:19.960 --> 0:18:23.880
<v Speaker 1>then eventually those horses end up at a kilpin and

0:18:24.560 --> 0:18:30.000
<v Speaker 1>get sold for slaughter unless people go and buy them,

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<v Speaker 1>Like all Seated in the barn is an amazing organization

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<v Speaker 1>along with Return to Freedom. So I love going to

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<v Speaker 1>Return to Freedom and just hanging out with Netta, who's

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<v Speaker 1>the head of it, and walking the grounds or driving

0:18:46.600 --> 0:18:52.439
<v Speaker 1>the ATV type thing and seeing the horses left alone

0:18:53.160 --> 0:18:56.840
<v Speaker 1>and hanging out and their bands and their dynamic and

0:18:56.880 --> 0:19:00.480
<v Speaker 1>taking photos of them. There's one right there behind me

0:19:00.960 --> 0:19:04.960
<v Speaker 1>that I took and that's a voute you know, wild

0:19:05.040 --> 0:19:08.560
<v Speaker 1>horse that was at Return of Freedom that let me

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<v Speaker 1>get semi close to it. Those are my relaxing Sundays

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<v Speaker 1>or even Saturdays, really Okay, So that was answering trouble

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<v Speaker 1>of where I would move to, and I'm saying Italy

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<v Speaker 1>for sure. I just there is something about Italy that

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<v Speaker 1>I The food, the people, everything about it inspires me.

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<v Speaker 1>The architecture, the history. You can transport yourself to a

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<v Speaker 1>different day and age and imagine a totally different life,

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<v Speaker 1>and I love that. But you can learn so much

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<v Speaker 1>and learn so much about art and people, and the

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<v Speaker 1>people that are happy and kind and just they take

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<v Speaker 1>you in. It's Italy to me is the warmest, biggest

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<v Speaker 1>hug you can possibly get. And it's not one of

0:20:09.480 --> 0:20:13.440
<v Speaker 1>the only places. As I said, Africa would be really interesting.

0:20:14.320 --> 0:20:17.359
<v Speaker 1>I learned a lot when I went to Africa and

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<v Speaker 1>it definitely changed me as a person. But if I

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<v Speaker 1>had moved somewhere it would it would it would be Italy.

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<v Speaker 1>I think an island would drive me crazy. I remember

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<v Speaker 1>I did a show called north Shore and I had

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<v Speaker 1>to go live in Hawaii, which sounds like the best

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<v Speaker 1>thing in the world, and it really was. I was

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<v Speaker 1>surfing every single day. It was phenomenal. But after a

0:20:40.560 --> 0:20:43.720
<v Speaker 1>while I got island fever and I was having a

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<v Speaker 1>fly home constantly just to sort of settle myself and

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<v Speaker 1>then go back and film some more. So I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>sure I would pick an island. Saint Barts is probably

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<v Speaker 1>my favorite island, but I don't think I could. I

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<v Speaker 1>actually know I could not live there. So that's the

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<v Speaker 1>moving we address Sunday morning. What's your favorite fast food restaurant? None.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like fast food. It doesn't mean I don't

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<v Speaker 1>have it. On occasion. I sometimes get very rushed and

0:21:19.160 --> 0:21:24.679
<v Speaker 1>I have to I get really hungry, and when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>that hungry, and my blood sugar dips, and when my

0:21:27.200 --> 0:21:31.600
<v Speaker 1>blood sugar dips, I become a little testy. So I

0:21:31.640 --> 0:21:36.000
<v Speaker 1>have pulled into fast food restaurants. I used to eat

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of fast food when I was in my twenties,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think now the only ones I'll really pull

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<v Speaker 1>into is like a Windy's, and that's drive through. But

0:21:49.760 --> 0:21:53.520
<v Speaker 1>I also consider like Habit Burger or this dand kind

0:21:53.560 --> 0:21:56.400
<v Speaker 1>of fast food, and I will go to those on occasion.

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<v Speaker 1>I love Sharkis, but for the most part, I would

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<v Speaker 1>rather eat at home because I know that my food

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<v Speaker 1>is without chemicals, without antibiotics, without I know that my

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<v Speaker 1>food is none of the stuff that Bill Gates likes

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<v Speaker 1>to tamper with so you know, I won't buy fruit

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<v Speaker 1>with appeal on it. That's horrifying to me. Everything that's

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<v Speaker 1>in appeal is like if you actually read what's in it,

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<v Speaker 1>you will probably avoid a Bill Gates product for the

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<v Speaker 1>rest of your life. Along with you know, taking away

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<v Speaker 1>jobs from our farmers, which I don't approve of. Everything

0:22:41.040 --> 0:22:45.320
<v Speaker 1>is very bad. So when I make my food at

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<v Speaker 1>home or certain restaurants that I know very well and

0:22:49.040 --> 0:22:53.000
<v Speaker 1>I know where they buy from, I just feel healthier.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I go to a fast food restaurant or

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<v Speaker 1>I'm serve something that is monsantos or whatever, I end

0:23:00.640 --> 0:23:04.040
<v Speaker 1>up feeling a little. It's almost like you feel bloated

0:23:04.119 --> 0:23:08.320
<v Speaker 1>and overfull, Whereas if I'm cooking for myself or at

0:23:08.359 --> 0:23:12.520
<v Speaker 1>an organic restaurant, none of that happens. And what's crazy

0:23:12.680 --> 0:23:15.120
<v Speaker 1>is that people think that the organic is so much

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<v Speaker 1>more expensive, and it's really not. It's knowing where to

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<v Speaker 1>get the organic and really shopping it out. And if

0:23:24.680 --> 0:23:29.040
<v Speaker 1>you do shop it out, you'll find that it ends

0:23:29.119 --> 0:23:33.080
<v Speaker 1>up being the same price to a certain degree, and

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<v Speaker 1>certainly it saves you. In Doctor Bill Slater, what's your

0:23:37.119 --> 0:23:44.399
<v Speaker 1>favorite designer? Ah Come on I have too many. I

0:23:44.440 --> 0:23:47.320
<v Speaker 1>really do have too many. I mean I can go

0:23:47.400 --> 0:23:52.920
<v Speaker 1>from like low end to high end. On designers. I

0:23:52.960 --> 0:24:00.720
<v Speaker 1>obviously already mentioned Chanel, which I love, and why sel

0:24:01.040 --> 0:24:07.120
<v Speaker 1>I love Victoria Beckham. I'm a big fan of There's

0:24:07.640 --> 0:24:11.119
<v Speaker 1>just so many good designers, and I really admire the

0:24:11.200 --> 0:24:18.040
<v Speaker 1>designers that years ago said no for that are making

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<v Speaker 1>an attempt at being sustainable. I really appreciate that. I

0:24:23.920 --> 0:24:30.520
<v Speaker 1>also love free people and little stores, and by the way,

0:24:30.560 --> 0:24:34.119
<v Speaker 1>I love going to like Marshals sometimes and TJ Max.

0:24:34.480 --> 0:24:39.280
<v Speaker 1>It's amazing what you can find at those stores. So designers,

0:24:39.400 --> 0:24:45.639
<v Speaker 1>there's just that's such a broad question. I just like

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<v Speaker 1>my clothes to be comfortable at the end of the

0:24:48.640 --> 0:24:52.680
<v Speaker 1>day and classic. I'm not someone who likes to show

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of TNA. Am I allowed to say that.

0:24:57.680 --> 0:25:00.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't need low cut. I don't need, you know,

0:25:00.720 --> 0:25:05.080
<v Speaker 1>my butt hanging out of a skirt. I'm too old

0:25:05.119 --> 0:25:10.359
<v Speaker 1>for it. And I also think leaving something to the

0:25:10.400 --> 0:25:16.639
<v Speaker 1>imagination is way sexier. So it's not necessarily about a designer.

0:25:16.720 --> 0:25:19.359
<v Speaker 1>It's about what fits me properly. To me, there's nothing

0:25:19.400 --> 0:25:24.200
<v Speaker 1>like a beautiful pair of trousers and a nice sweater. Yeah,

0:25:24.320 --> 0:25:31.359
<v Speaker 1>it's dressing with confidence and with comfort and not dressing

0:25:32.119 --> 0:25:35.280
<v Speaker 1>as if I want every single eye on me, whether

0:25:35.520 --> 0:25:39.000
<v Speaker 1>it's a good eye or a bad eye. And there's

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of high end and low end designers that

0:25:41.400 --> 0:25:44.200
<v Speaker 1>do that really well. Costs is a store. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if it's outside of LA I know it's online

0:25:47.280 --> 0:25:53.280
<v Speaker 1>cos that I order online from all the time. I

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<v Speaker 1>love it. And their clothes are affordable but classy. And

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<v Speaker 1>so there you go. Which holiday do you like to

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<v Speaker 1>go all out for?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, Christmas, Christmas, Christmas, Christmas, Christmas. I, as you guys know,

0:26:15.560 --> 0:26:18.600
<v Speaker 2>in the middle of a divorce and my Christmases were

0:26:18.640 --> 0:26:20.200
<v Speaker 2>not great because.

0:26:21.040 --> 0:26:26.199
<v Speaker 1>My husband was not into Christmas. Christmas was apparently, as

0:26:26.240 --> 0:26:28.639
<v Speaker 1>I was told, not a big deal in his family,

0:26:28.960 --> 0:26:32.600
<v Speaker 1>and to my family, Christmas was a huge deal. I

0:26:32.600 --> 0:26:36.600
<v Speaker 1>mean a the religious aspect of Christmas was a big

0:26:36.640 --> 0:26:42.040
<v Speaker 1>deal to us, as we're Christians. But it's the joy.

0:26:42.200 --> 0:26:48.159
<v Speaker 1>It's hanging lights outside, It's going and finding that perfect

0:26:48.240 --> 0:26:52.280
<v Speaker 1>Christmas tree and deciding whether you want it flocked or

0:26:52.320 --> 0:26:57.520
<v Speaker 1>not flocked, and the how intricate I can get with

0:26:57.600 --> 0:26:59.960
<v Speaker 1>putting the lights on the Christmas tree and hanging stock

0:27:00.520 --> 0:27:04.160
<v Speaker 1>and if you're having guests over, buying stockings and getting

0:27:04.200 --> 0:27:07.840
<v Speaker 1>their names on them, which sometimes I do with just

0:27:07.920 --> 0:27:13.040
<v Speaker 1>the you know glue that glitters in different colors, simple

0:27:13.119 --> 0:27:18.159
<v Speaker 1>things making decorations, but making all the food, making desserts,

0:27:18.960 --> 0:27:22.800
<v Speaker 1>and planning a Christmas Eve or Christmas big dinner, inviting

0:27:22.840 --> 0:27:27.600
<v Speaker 1>your friends over. To me, there is nothing like it.

0:27:27.680 --> 0:27:30.520
<v Speaker 1>I find that almost everybody's attitude is going to be

0:27:30.640 --> 0:27:35.320
<v Speaker 1>really good Christmas, even Christmas, and they're nice and full.

0:27:35.440 --> 0:27:38.600
<v Speaker 1>Their bellies, you know, have been filled up by the food.

0:27:39.920 --> 0:27:43.359
<v Speaker 1>Buying presents for people, whether it be a present for

0:27:43.480 --> 0:27:46.840
<v Speaker 1>five dollars or a present for one hundred dollars, it

0:27:46.880 --> 0:27:50.280
<v Speaker 1>doesn't it's the fact that I've already bought it way

0:27:50.320 --> 0:27:53.040
<v Speaker 1>ahead because of my bargain hunting thing and going to

0:27:53.720 --> 0:27:57.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, different stores. So when I see something, going

0:27:57.320 --> 0:27:59.840
<v Speaker 1>back to that, when I see something that strikes me

0:28:00.280 --> 0:28:02.479
<v Speaker 1>being a particular person, I just go ahead and buy it,

0:28:02.720 --> 0:28:05.680
<v Speaker 1>and I keep it in a closet so that that

0:28:05.760 --> 0:28:11.600
<v Speaker 1>becomes their birthday or their Christmas present. And I love

0:28:12.040 --> 0:28:20.159
<v Speaker 1>seeing people unwrap their Christmas present and them knowing that

0:28:20.240 --> 0:28:23.840
<v Speaker 1>it's so specific to them, that I know them that well,

0:28:24.480 --> 0:28:27.800
<v Speaker 1>that I knew one hundred percent something that they would want,

0:28:27.960 --> 0:28:33.200
<v Speaker 1>that they've been coveting, or something to me just makes

0:28:33.240 --> 0:28:36.520
<v Speaker 1>me feel good. It's kind of this goes back to

0:28:36.680 --> 0:28:39.280
<v Speaker 1>this is going slightly off topic, but not really. It

0:28:39.320 --> 0:28:41.600
<v Speaker 1>goes back to My mom has this thing of where

0:28:42.400 --> 0:28:45.360
<v Speaker 1>when somebody registers right when they're having a baby or

0:28:45.360 --> 0:28:48.320
<v Speaker 1>they're getting married, she doesn't like to buy off the registry.

0:28:48.400 --> 0:28:50.479
<v Speaker 1>She likes to get them something that she feels. And

0:28:50.560 --> 0:28:54.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm different when somebody registers. I'm like, if they register,

0:28:54.680 --> 0:28:57.120
<v Speaker 1>this is what they need. I'm not going off of

0:28:57.160 --> 0:29:03.160
<v Speaker 1>the register and registry. So that is when I buy

0:29:03.320 --> 0:29:06.360
<v Speaker 1>presents for Christmas. It's because I've given so much thought

0:29:06.560 --> 0:29:10.040
<v Speaker 1>into that person and I know exactly as if they've registered,

0:29:10.280 --> 0:29:12.560
<v Speaker 1>I know exactly what they need in their house. Maybe

0:29:12.560 --> 0:29:15.240
<v Speaker 1>they want to pust a machine, maybe they're looking for

0:29:15.360 --> 0:29:18.600
<v Speaker 1>an antique face. Whatever it is, I know that they

0:29:18.640 --> 0:29:22.560
<v Speaker 1>really need it, and when I find it, I buy it.

0:29:22.640 --> 0:29:29.600
<v Speaker 1>So Christmas, yeah, I just I love decorating. And this

0:29:29.680 --> 0:29:33.640
<v Speaker 1>last year was a really good Christmas where I got

0:29:33.640 --> 0:29:38.960
<v Speaker 1>to do a lot of that, and like Holly was

0:29:39.000 --> 0:29:43.200
<v Speaker 1>here and my friend Mike was here, and we put

0:29:43.320 --> 0:29:47.040
<v Speaker 1>up the tree, it's just fun. It just it's festive

0:29:47.120 --> 0:29:51.520
<v Speaker 1>and it it I don't know. It makes me smile

0:29:51.880 --> 0:30:08.360
<v Speaker 1>a lot. So definitely, definitely definitely Christmas. What is my

0:30:08.400 --> 0:30:17.880
<v Speaker 1>favorite dessert? Every dessert? Oh god, So I actually make

0:30:18.120 --> 0:30:23.160
<v Speaker 1>one of my favorite desserts, which is a panacotta. I'm

0:30:23.160 --> 0:30:26.000
<v Speaker 1>not going to tell you what's in it because I

0:30:26.080 --> 0:30:29.800
<v Speaker 1>made it up and it's really delicious. But I also

0:30:29.920 --> 0:30:35.240
<v Speaker 1>do with the panacotta, I do this sort of BlackBerry

0:30:35.560 --> 0:30:39.480
<v Speaker 1>I guess the technical term would be gooli and that's

0:30:39.480 --> 0:30:42.959
<v Speaker 1>one of my favorite desserts. My friend Christy, who owns

0:30:43.120 --> 0:30:48.280
<v Speaker 1>Christie's Cafe, makes the best trace liches cake I've ever had.

0:30:48.960 --> 0:30:53.280
<v Speaker 1>That's one of my favorites. I love. There's this dessert

0:30:53.320 --> 0:30:58.640
<v Speaker 1>that comes in a little glass jar and it's Copa

0:30:59.120 --> 0:31:03.040
<v Speaker 1>de aura is the name of it. It's like a

0:31:03.120 --> 0:31:09.600
<v Speaker 1>crispy bottom, dark chocolate milk, chocolate, white chocolate cream. Oh

0:31:09.680 --> 0:31:13.120
<v Speaker 1>my god, this dessert is so amazing. And what's crazy

0:31:13.160 --> 0:31:16.600
<v Speaker 1>is I used to not be a dessert person at all,

0:31:16.840 --> 0:31:22.040
<v Speaker 1>and now I love dessert and maybe and I know

0:31:22.080 --> 0:31:24.480
<v Speaker 1>dessert's really bad when you have cancer because it's sugar.

0:31:24.560 --> 0:31:27.440
<v Speaker 1>So I try not to eat dessert that often. But

0:31:28.480 --> 0:31:31.240
<v Speaker 1>there's also moments in your life where I think it's

0:31:31.280 --> 0:31:34.680
<v Speaker 1>okay to spoil yourself, whether it's great for you or not.

0:31:36.360 --> 0:31:38.200
<v Speaker 1>I know that this happened with my dad a lot

0:31:38.240 --> 0:31:42.880
<v Speaker 1>when he was really sick, and there was always a

0:31:42.920 --> 0:31:48.000
<v Speaker 1>discussion about his diet. But towards the end, when you

0:31:48.080 --> 0:31:52.680
<v Speaker 1>knew things were pretty bad, there were moments where it

0:31:52.720 --> 0:31:55.440
<v Speaker 1>was like, no, let him have shrimp scampy, let him

0:31:55.480 --> 0:32:00.760
<v Speaker 1>have his favorite foods. Yes, not every day, but you

0:32:00.800 --> 0:32:06.400
<v Speaker 1>also want quality of life to be great, particularly when

0:32:06.400 --> 0:32:13.480
<v Speaker 1>you're dying, particularly when you have a terminal disease. Everybody

0:32:13.480 --> 0:32:17.120
<v Speaker 1>should try to go for quality of life because you

0:32:17.200 --> 0:32:21.560
<v Speaker 1>never know how long you're going to be on this

0:32:21.640 --> 0:32:24.960
<v Speaker 1>earth for before we pass on to a better place.

0:32:25.120 --> 0:32:32.240
<v Speaker 1>But so I will. I will spoil myself with desserts sometimes.

0:32:32.720 --> 0:32:35.240
<v Speaker 1>And oh, how can I forget one of my other

0:32:35.280 --> 0:32:39.640
<v Speaker 1>favorite desserts, well, two other favorites is so I told

0:32:39.640 --> 0:32:42.120
<v Speaker 1>you guys already about my love of ginger ale, but

0:32:42.480 --> 0:32:48.080
<v Speaker 1>I love taking vanilla ice cream and with ginger ale

0:32:48.200 --> 0:32:52.240
<v Speaker 1>over the vanilla ice cream, it is delicious. It's like

0:32:52.320 --> 0:32:54.920
<v Speaker 1>the best float ever. I like it better than root beer,

0:32:55.520 --> 0:32:58.200
<v Speaker 1>and I also like doing the same thing with orange sherbet.

0:32:58.720 --> 0:33:02.240
<v Speaker 1>There you go. Do you have a favorite rom com?

0:33:03.840 --> 0:33:07.120
<v Speaker 1>Dy one would take me forever to think about. I

0:33:08.960 --> 0:33:15.200
<v Speaker 1>love rum coms because it also brings up a lot

0:33:15.240 --> 0:33:18.760
<v Speaker 1>of warmth, like in your heart. It brings up a

0:33:18.800 --> 0:33:23.200
<v Speaker 1>lot of warmth, and I like movies like that. I

0:33:23.200 --> 0:33:26.560
<v Speaker 1>also like really serious movies. But for the most part,

0:33:26.760 --> 0:33:31.120
<v Speaker 1>especially since being diagnosed with cancer, I find that all

0:33:31.120 --> 0:33:32.960
<v Speaker 1>I want to do is watch stuff that makes me

0:33:33.080 --> 0:33:39.120
<v Speaker 1>laugh because the rest of life is so hard and

0:33:39.320 --> 0:33:43.320
<v Speaker 1>you're constantly worried that to be able to turn your

0:33:43.320 --> 0:33:44.880
<v Speaker 1>brain off for an hour and a half to two

0:33:44.880 --> 0:33:49.280
<v Speaker 1>hours and just laugh is incredibly important, and laughter is

0:33:49.280 --> 0:33:55.200
<v Speaker 1>the best medicine, right, so I do. There's just too

0:33:55.240 --> 0:33:59.160
<v Speaker 1>many rom coms out there. I obviously love Sandra Bullock.

0:33:59.440 --> 0:34:07.840
<v Speaker 1>There's just people that are funny without even trying. And

0:34:07.880 --> 0:34:10.000
<v Speaker 1>I'm going to think about that one, like if there's

0:34:10.000 --> 0:34:13.319
<v Speaker 1>a specific one, and I'll name it, But it's not,

0:34:14.800 --> 0:34:17.719
<v Speaker 1>you know, like step Brothers and Pride and Prejudice come

0:34:17.760 --> 0:34:22.600
<v Speaker 1>to mind immediately, but so does Godfather too, by the way,

0:34:22.760 --> 0:34:27.480
<v Speaker 1>I've watched that twenty one times, I think. But a

0:34:27.520 --> 0:34:31.120
<v Speaker 1>rom com I would really have to think that through.

0:34:31.239 --> 0:34:36.279
<v Speaker 1>Like I know offhand the Sandra Bullock Ryan Reynolds one,

0:34:36.280 --> 0:34:39.400
<v Speaker 1>I think it was called The Proposal. I loved that movie.

0:34:41.000 --> 0:34:46.640
<v Speaker 1>What is your favorite musical actacy and concert? Well, I

0:34:46.719 --> 0:34:50.560
<v Speaker 1>am the biggest Youtwo fan in the world, and I've

0:34:50.600 --> 0:34:55.440
<v Speaker 1>had the pleasure of meeting the Edge a couple of times. Now.

0:34:55.880 --> 0:35:00.279
<v Speaker 1>I've seen so many of their concerts and then the

0:35:00.360 --> 0:35:07.440
<v Speaker 1>latest one was its fhear in Las Vegas, and I

0:35:07.600 --> 0:35:10.279
<v Speaker 1>was just blown away. I think my mouth was hanging

0:35:10.320 --> 0:35:15.280
<v Speaker 1>open the entire time. It was so phenomenal. Jim Dolan,

0:35:15.360 --> 0:35:20.040
<v Speaker 1>who owns Madison Square Garden, was essential and putting on

0:35:20.120 --> 0:35:24.960
<v Speaker 1>the spear and he did a fabulous job, so did

0:35:24.960 --> 0:35:28.680
<v Speaker 1>everybody involved. So that was the last concert I think

0:35:28.719 --> 0:35:35.560
<v Speaker 1>I went to, but I would go to any concert

0:35:35.600 --> 0:35:37.600
<v Speaker 1>of theirs. I really want to go see Chris Stapleton.

0:35:38.160 --> 0:35:40.640
<v Speaker 1>I haven't seen him in concert yet, and I love

0:35:40.760 --> 0:35:45.000
<v Speaker 1>Chris Stapleton. And the other person I desperately desperately want

0:35:45.000 --> 0:35:48.239
<v Speaker 1>to see in concert is Pink. I love her. I

0:35:48.320 --> 0:35:54.319
<v Speaker 1>love everything about her, her personality, her voice, her songwriting,

0:35:54.719 --> 0:36:02.680
<v Speaker 1>her messages, and I've seen obviously some of it on TV,

0:36:03.160 --> 0:36:08.200
<v Speaker 1>but it just looks like an amazing time. Other than that,

0:36:09.880 --> 0:36:17.120
<v Speaker 1>I have grown to really really like my space and

0:36:17.480 --> 0:36:21.600
<v Speaker 1>I don't like to be crowded. Like, what was so

0:36:21.640 --> 0:36:24.759
<v Speaker 1>amazing about seeing you too, it sphear was I was

0:36:25.160 --> 0:36:31.880
<v Speaker 1>in Jim Dolan's suite there, and so there was a

0:36:31.880 --> 0:36:33.600
<v Speaker 1>lot of space and you could get up from your

0:36:33.640 --> 0:36:38.400
<v Speaker 1>seat and go grab There was like this amazing display

0:36:38.400 --> 0:36:42.160
<v Speaker 1>of food and drinks and everything else. So I didn't

0:36:42.200 --> 0:36:45.960
<v Speaker 1>feel like people were close to me and breathing on me.

0:36:46.160 --> 0:36:50.200
<v Speaker 1>I you know, don't ever want to get somebody else's

0:36:50.200 --> 0:36:54.520
<v Speaker 1>cold or somebody else's whatever. I'm very I'm much more

0:36:54.560 --> 0:36:58.880
<v Speaker 1>aware of that stuff now, So those kind of venues

0:36:58.920 --> 0:37:01.120
<v Speaker 1>are great for me to go to the rest now,

0:37:01.239 --> 0:37:05.680
<v Speaker 1>I don't think it would have to be somebody that

0:37:05.800 --> 0:37:08.520
<v Speaker 1>I really really really really love in order to want

0:37:08.520 --> 0:37:15.880
<v Speaker 1>to go. Do you have a favorite TV or movie villain? God,

0:37:16.320 --> 0:37:19.320
<v Speaker 1>I mean Heath Ledger is a joker? Is Like, That's

0:37:19.400 --> 0:37:25.560
<v Speaker 1>just what popped into my brain. How phenomenal is he?

0:37:27.880 --> 0:37:35.040
<v Speaker 1>What's your favorite thing to receive in the mail? In

0:37:35.080 --> 0:37:37.640
<v Speaker 1>the mail not delivered to the house, right, so in

0:37:37.680 --> 0:37:40.720
<v Speaker 1>the mail because I don't get anything to my house

0:37:41.120 --> 0:37:47.919
<v Speaker 1>and in the mail probably when I, like, late at night,

0:37:48.239 --> 0:37:51.640
<v Speaker 1>get an itch and I order something off off of site,

0:37:51.800 --> 0:37:57.040
<v Speaker 1>Amazon or whatever. It's really exciting when it finally comes

0:37:57.160 --> 0:37:59.319
<v Speaker 1>because you have to try it on and see if

0:37:59.360 --> 0:38:03.759
<v Speaker 1>it fits. And I ordered a bathing suit recently from

0:38:03.800 --> 0:38:06.080
<v Speaker 1>a bathing suit company and it finally came and I

0:38:06.120 --> 0:38:07.279
<v Speaker 1>tried it on and I was like, oh my god,

0:38:07.280 --> 0:38:14.600
<v Speaker 1>it actually fits and it's flattering. That's really fun. Other

0:38:14.680 --> 0:38:18.920
<v Speaker 1>than that, I don't I don't love mail. Wouldn't it

0:38:18.920 --> 0:38:20.799
<v Speaker 1>be funny, you guys if I said, oh, I love

0:38:20.880 --> 0:38:25.040
<v Speaker 1>to get bills in the mail. Nobody likes bills. And

0:38:25.040 --> 0:38:27.120
<v Speaker 1>what kills me is that there's even such a thing

0:38:27.160 --> 0:38:30.080
<v Speaker 1>as mail for bills. I don't understand that. I have

0:38:30.160 --> 0:38:34.359
<v Speaker 1>this conversation with companies all the time where they're like, oh, hey,

0:38:34.400 --> 0:38:36.200
<v Speaker 1>it's been a week and you haven't paid our invoice.

0:38:36.200 --> 0:38:38.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, well, yeah, because there's no like click to pay,

0:38:39.520 --> 0:38:41.920
<v Speaker 1>and they're like, no, you'll have to send in a track.

0:38:43.239 --> 0:38:46.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what, like what century are we living in?

0:38:47.080 --> 0:38:49.680
<v Speaker 1>Like why do we have to go back to the

0:38:49.840 --> 0:38:52.840
<v Speaker 1>dark ages? Which is silly of me, I know, but

0:38:52.880 --> 0:38:55.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I don't even have a stamp in my

0:38:55.640 --> 0:38:59.800
<v Speaker 1>house and to go to a post office what a

0:39:00.200 --> 0:39:05.400
<v Speaker 1>in the butt? So getting mail is a little odd

0:39:05.520 --> 0:39:08.920
<v Speaker 1>to me unless it's something that you specifically ordered. But

0:39:10.080 --> 0:39:11.640
<v Speaker 1>are you guys happy I didn't say that I love

0:39:11.680 --> 0:39:14.719
<v Speaker 1>to get bills in the mail. Nobody really likes that,

0:39:14.840 --> 0:39:20.839
<v Speaker 1>do they. Maybe that's where my dislike of mail has

0:39:20.840 --> 0:39:22.680
<v Speaker 1>come in. I do really like to get checks in

0:39:22.719 --> 0:39:26.239
<v Speaker 1>the mail. That's fun. When I get certain checks and

0:39:26.400 --> 0:39:28.239
<v Speaker 1>I see on the outside who they're from, and I

0:39:28.320 --> 0:39:32.120
<v Speaker 1>know it's money, I get very excited. That's the mail

0:39:32.160 --> 0:39:35.239
<v Speaker 1>I open immediately. Everything else kind of doesn't get open.

0:39:35.320 --> 0:39:43.040
<v Speaker 1>To be honest, what's your favorite compliment? I have a couple.

0:39:43.520 --> 0:39:50.560
<v Speaker 1>So I think my favorite compliment is when somebody comments

0:39:50.560 --> 0:39:55.040
<v Speaker 1>on my intelligence, because my brain is what I'm the

0:39:55.080 --> 0:40:00.640
<v Speaker 1>most proud of in this vessel. My my brain is

0:40:00.680 --> 0:40:02.319
<v Speaker 1>the thing I'm them was proud of. And then the

0:40:02.360 --> 0:40:07.640
<v Speaker 1>second compliment that I love the most is I call

0:40:07.719 --> 0:40:10.080
<v Speaker 1>it a compliment, is when somebody tells me how much

0:40:10.080 --> 0:40:13.839
<v Speaker 1>I've helped them go through cancer with a loved one

0:40:13.960 --> 0:40:21.320
<v Speaker 1>or go through cancer themselves. Because helping anybody that's sick,

0:40:21.840 --> 0:40:26.839
<v Speaker 1>anybody that's struggling in any way, shape or form, is.

0:40:28.360 --> 0:40:31.600
<v Speaker 1>It's validation and it makes you feel good. It makes

0:40:31.600 --> 0:40:36.279
<v Speaker 1>you feel like you're here for a purpose, and that's

0:40:36.360 --> 0:40:40.680
<v Speaker 1>really important to me. I love the Charmed fans that

0:40:40.800 --> 0:40:44.640
<v Speaker 1>talk all the time about how that show got them

0:40:44.719 --> 0:40:53.200
<v Speaker 1>through really difficult times and helped them build better relationships

0:40:53.239 --> 0:40:58.120
<v Speaker 1>with their parents and find sort of a family that

0:40:58.239 --> 0:41:03.200
<v Speaker 1>accepted them, which is other Charms fans. And recently somebody

0:41:03.280 --> 0:41:04.840
<v Speaker 1>was talking to me about nine oh two and oh

0:41:05.000 --> 0:41:08.719
<v Speaker 1>and they said, wow, nine oh oh really opened up

0:41:08.719 --> 0:41:12.759
<v Speaker 1>conversations with my parents when I was a teenager of

0:41:12.840 --> 0:41:17.719
<v Speaker 1>certain issues that were not discussed. So those are those

0:41:17.719 --> 0:41:21.680
<v Speaker 1>are huge, huge, huge compliments to me. And here's my

0:41:21.800 --> 0:41:26.760
<v Speaker 1>all time favorite. You're a good daughter. That's my favorite.

0:41:27.239 --> 0:41:33.719
<v Speaker 1>Uh what's your favorite time of day? And why I

0:41:33.719 --> 0:41:38.959
<v Speaker 1>don't really have a favorite time of day. I think

0:41:39.239 --> 0:41:41.120
<v Speaker 1>every time of day that I wake up and I'm

0:41:41.160 --> 0:41:48.040
<v Speaker 1>still breathing is a gift. So if that's seven o'clock

0:41:48.080 --> 0:41:54.600
<v Speaker 1>in the morning, if that's midnight, it doesn't matter. I

0:41:54.800 --> 0:42:01.080
<v Speaker 1>just any second that I'm awake and breathe and it's

0:42:01.160 --> 0:42:06.040
<v Speaker 1>not painful or it's not filled with stress is my favorite.

0:42:06.239 --> 0:42:15.040
<v Speaker 1>And beautiful, my favorite accent. There's so many that are beautiful. Obviously,

0:42:15.120 --> 0:42:18.279
<v Speaker 1>because I love Italy so much. An Italian accent it's

0:42:18.480 --> 0:42:25.600
<v Speaker 1>just so sexy and so lyrical, and I don't know,

0:42:25.680 --> 0:42:29.919
<v Speaker 1>you can write poems about an Italian accent. But there's

0:42:29.960 --> 0:42:33.960
<v Speaker 1>also African accents that are beautiful, in Indian accents that

0:42:34.040 --> 0:42:37.439
<v Speaker 1>are beautiful. I think it's not about the accent, right,

0:42:37.480 --> 0:42:41.040
<v Speaker 1>I think it's about when you meet somebody with an

0:42:41.080 --> 0:42:44.479
<v Speaker 1>accent from a different culture, from anything, and you learn

0:42:45.239 --> 0:42:50.799
<v Speaker 1>different words, different quirks, different meanings of things, and you

0:42:50.880 --> 0:42:55.600
<v Speaker 1>get to speak to them and really dove into their culture.

0:42:56.120 --> 0:42:58.840
<v Speaker 1>I love all of that. It's I mean, obviously a

0:42:58.880 --> 0:43:04.000
<v Speaker 1>British accent is very sexy as well, but I think

0:43:04.040 --> 0:43:07.120
<v Speaker 1>all accents are beautiful. Like when I was in Japan,

0:43:08.520 --> 0:43:12.240
<v Speaker 1>that was you know, that accent was gorgeous. That language

0:43:12.239 --> 0:43:18.840
<v Speaker 1>is gorgeous, And it's an appreciation for going outside of

0:43:18.880 --> 0:43:23.040
<v Speaker 1>your own box and experiencing something else, which is why

0:43:23.280 --> 0:43:26.600
<v Speaker 1>I really love to travel. Who is your favorite comedian?

0:43:26.719 --> 0:43:32.399
<v Speaker 1>David Chappelle. Dave Chappelle is my favorite comedian. I absolutely

0:43:32.800 --> 0:43:41.760
<v Speaker 1>absolutely love him. He I think his comedy is thought provoking.

0:43:41.760 --> 0:43:47.279
<v Speaker 1>And I realized that some of you may be upset

0:43:47.400 --> 0:43:50.759
<v Speaker 1>hearing Dave Chappelle because he has ruffled a lot of

0:43:50.760 --> 0:43:55.719
<v Speaker 1>feathers and not apologized for certain things. And what I

0:43:55.840 --> 0:44:01.279
<v Speaker 1>learned from that is not necessarily that I agreed with

0:44:01.360 --> 0:44:06.480
<v Speaker 1>it or didn't agree with it, but that he stood

0:44:06.520 --> 0:44:10.200
<v Speaker 1>by his beliefs or he stood by what his comedy

0:44:10.239 --> 0:44:18.040
<v Speaker 1>act was about. And comedy is a way to explore

0:44:18.160 --> 0:44:24.680
<v Speaker 1>different thoughts and to turn hot topics into I think,

0:44:24.760 --> 0:44:27.520
<v Speaker 1>bigger and deeper conversations, to be honest, like for me,

0:44:27.680 --> 0:44:31.239
<v Speaker 1>that's what it does. And he does that, and he

0:44:31.280 --> 0:44:36.200
<v Speaker 1>does it without flinching, and that is incredibly admirable because

0:44:37.080 --> 0:44:39.799
<v Speaker 1>I still find that I don't do that, and I

0:44:39.880 --> 0:44:43.560
<v Speaker 1>wish I had his courage and his bravery. I also

0:44:44.080 --> 0:44:51.160
<v Speaker 1>absolutely love Chris Rock. He's genius. They both are genius.

0:44:51.200 --> 0:44:55.640
<v Speaker 1>There's so many comedians out there, like Ricky Charves is ough.

0:44:57.000 --> 0:45:00.200
<v Speaker 1>So those are the three that I desperately want to

0:45:00.600 --> 0:45:03.719
<v Speaker 1>want to meet. Brickis jar Vas. Everything he does for

0:45:03.880 --> 0:45:09.600
<v Speaker 1>animals and how he calls out humans, you're still left

0:45:11.080 --> 0:45:16.520
<v Speaker 1>like laughing. But again, it's thought provoking, and that's these

0:45:16.600 --> 0:45:23.360
<v Speaker 1>three men specifically are thought provoking comedians and their comedy

0:45:23.480 --> 0:45:26.720
<v Speaker 1>is incredibly intelligent. It's not silly. It's not like calling

0:45:26.719 --> 0:45:29.000
<v Speaker 1>yourself a whore. It's not any of that stuff. It's

0:45:29.239 --> 0:45:35.759
<v Speaker 1>just intelligent comedy. And so those are my absolute three favorites.

0:45:49.160 --> 0:45:54.520
<v Speaker 1>What is your favorite way to pamper yourself? I don't.

0:45:55.880 --> 0:45:58.719
<v Speaker 1>You don't really have one, because honestly, I get a

0:45:58.719 --> 0:46:05.160
<v Speaker 1>little itchy, Like just sitting around, even getting my hair done,

0:46:05.360 --> 0:46:08.960
<v Speaker 1>I'm always looking at my watch, going Okay, how long

0:46:09.040 --> 0:46:14.439
<v Speaker 1>is this going to take? I think if I had

0:46:14.480 --> 0:46:17.120
<v Speaker 1>to pick out of just the pamper stuff, it would

0:46:17.320 --> 0:46:22.080
<v Speaker 1>probably be a massage and maybe a facial But even

0:46:22.120 --> 0:46:26.520
<v Speaker 1>then I find that after a while, I'm like, okay,

0:46:26.840 --> 0:46:28.880
<v Speaker 1>when are we done? I need to get up, I

0:46:28.920 --> 0:46:33.840
<v Speaker 1>need to leave. There are certain things that I call pampering,

0:46:34.120 --> 0:46:38.360
<v Speaker 1>like when I got micro pigmentation on my eyebrows. To me,

0:46:39.160 --> 0:46:43.359
<v Speaker 1>that was definitely a pamper situation, and it's still one

0:46:43.360 --> 0:46:48.160
<v Speaker 1>of the best things that I ever did. But I don't.

0:46:49.520 --> 0:46:52.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't think I pamper myself, Like I

0:46:52.000 --> 0:46:55.000
<v Speaker 1>can't even even pedicure as bug me. I get them

0:46:55.000 --> 0:46:58.279
<v Speaker 1>on occasion, more than on occasion, but I get them.

0:46:58.320 --> 0:47:03.880
<v Speaker 1>I never get manicures, which is why my fingernails always

0:47:03.920 --> 0:47:09.399
<v Speaker 1>look broken because often they are. And I can't stand

0:47:09.719 --> 0:47:16.279
<v Speaker 1>the smell of nail polish on my hands because I

0:47:16.280 --> 0:47:20.600
<v Speaker 1>feel like I can almost taste it in my food afterwards,

0:47:20.600 --> 0:47:23.319
<v Speaker 1>like once it's on, I can almost taste it in

0:47:23.360 --> 0:47:28.200
<v Speaker 1>my food. So I'm not big on manicures pedicures. It's

0:47:28.280 --> 0:47:30.239
<v Speaker 1>just because you want pretty feet. But if I could

0:47:30.239 --> 0:47:33.319
<v Speaker 1>have really beautiful feet without a pedicure, I would do

0:47:33.440 --> 0:47:39.319
<v Speaker 1>it all day long. I don't. Lately, I've had some

0:47:39.440 --> 0:47:43.759
<v Speaker 1>aches and pains, and my mom has been pampering me

0:47:43.800 --> 0:47:46.600
<v Speaker 1>show like massage my feet as we're watching family food,

0:47:47.200 --> 0:47:52.439
<v Speaker 1>And that is amazing because you can always pull away,

0:47:52.480 --> 0:47:54.239
<v Speaker 1>you can always stop, You can always be like, okay,

0:47:54.280 --> 0:48:00.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm pampered enough, thank you very much. But I don't

0:48:00.600 --> 0:48:03.640
<v Speaker 1>know I mean pampering. There's so many different different definitions

0:48:03.680 --> 0:48:08.960
<v Speaker 1>of pampering to me, taking the day off, ignoring the

0:48:09.040 --> 0:48:15.960
<v Speaker 1>divorce attorney's emails, ignoring the you know iheart's emails, and

0:48:16.960 --> 0:48:19.680
<v Speaker 1>ignoring responsibilities, being like, oh, I'll pay my guest bill

0:48:19.719 --> 0:48:22.399
<v Speaker 1>tomorrow instead of today, even though it's due. I think

0:48:22.440 --> 0:48:26.600
<v Speaker 1>that pampering to me is taking those days and saying, hey,

0:48:26.680 --> 0:48:30.560
<v Speaker 1>I really need to unwind. I really need to unplug,

0:48:30.600 --> 0:48:33.960
<v Speaker 1>and I'm going to do that by literally ignoring everything

0:48:34.000 --> 0:48:36.759
<v Speaker 1>today and I'm going to jump in my car with

0:48:36.920 --> 0:48:40.120
<v Speaker 1>my dog. I'm going to listen to some music or

0:48:40.200 --> 0:48:42.080
<v Speaker 1>no music, and I'm going to take a drive to

0:48:42.160 --> 0:48:48.880
<v Speaker 1>Sannynez or to the beach or whatever, and read a book,

0:48:50.120 --> 0:48:56.360
<v Speaker 1>play with horses, ride horses. That is That is pampering myself.

0:48:56.840 --> 0:48:59.680
<v Speaker 1>Literally taking an entire day and finishing a book. Starting

0:48:59.680 --> 0:49:01.439
<v Speaker 1>in finishing a book in one day is a big

0:49:01.440 --> 0:49:04.359
<v Speaker 1>pamper because I'm tuning out the rest of the world.

0:49:04.440 --> 0:49:07.840
<v Speaker 1>I'm tuning out all of the noise, and that is

0:49:07.880 --> 0:49:16.480
<v Speaker 1>pampering for me. So those are some of my favorite things.

0:49:17.640 --> 0:49:21.200
<v Speaker 1>I hope I don't know. I hope you guys pamper yourselves.

0:49:21.280 --> 0:49:24.719
<v Speaker 1>I hope you take the time to unplug every once

0:49:24.719 --> 0:49:27.280
<v Speaker 1>in a while, because I think that if you don't unplug,

0:49:28.160 --> 0:49:33.600
<v Speaker 1>there's no way to be even. You know, I think

0:49:33.880 --> 0:49:37.360
<v Speaker 1>your equilibrium is always a little off if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>reset it. In order to reset it, I think you

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<v Speaker 1>have to unplug. Whether it's for thirty minutes, listening to

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<v Speaker 1>meditation tape or watching your favorite program, whatever, it's important.

0:49:51.880 --> 0:49:55.960
<v Speaker 1>Whether you have children, no children, high stress job, no job.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think there's so much noise in the world

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<v Speaker 1>right now. There's so much noise, and it's really stressful,

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<v Speaker 1>really stressful. There's everybody's got an opinion. Everybody wants to

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<v Speaker 1>argue about Biden or Trump, or Israel or Hamas, about protests,

0:50:18.560 --> 0:50:25.440
<v Speaker 1>no protest, there's it's tumultuous right now, and understandably so.

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<v Speaker 1>And believe me, I have very very strong opinions about that.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know, if ever there comes a time when

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<v Speaker 1>I'm you know, definite on my timeline, You'll probably hear

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<v Speaker 1>all of my opinions because I'll have nothing to lose

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<v Speaker 1>at that point. For now, I have to maintain peace

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<v Speaker 1>for myself. But I just find that there's it's constantly

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<v Speaker 1>coming at all of us again, whether it be political

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<v Speaker 1>stuff or whether it be if you're an animal lover

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<v Speaker 1>and you're watching dogs being you denies all the time

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, the mayor of La Karen Bass is

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<v Speaker 1>doing a really shit job. Like she's probably the worst

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<v Speaker 1>mayor ever for there's an opinion for you, cancel me

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<v Speaker 1>if you want, but she's a horrible, horrible, horrible mare

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<v Speaker 1>in every respect, not just with dogs and dealing with

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<v Speaker 1>the homeless. Anything that she said complete, she's done nothing.

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<v Speaker 1>And for me, because I love animals, that's incredibly stressful.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I go on Instagram, there's a gazillion dogs

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<v Speaker 1>that are about to be killed just in LA shelters

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<v Speaker 1>alone because of because her lack of doing anything about it.

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<v Speaker 1>And when I get that every day, it's like I

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<v Speaker 1>get a lot of anxiety and my stomach starts hurting

0:51:48.000 --> 0:51:51.960
<v Speaker 1>and I get stressed. And it's the same with you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the horses that are a for slaughter and trying to

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<v Speaker 1>raise money really quickly. There's pressure of just engaging and

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<v Speaker 1>trying to make sure that you're doing the right thing

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<v Speaker 1>for everyone and putting out the right message and connecting

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<v Speaker 1>with people and fulfilling your purpose. And that's for all

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<v Speaker 1>of us, right, that's not just for me. So we

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<v Speaker 1>all get inundated every single day by the noise in

0:52:24.360 --> 0:52:28.120
<v Speaker 1>this world and in particular this country, but really the world,

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<v Speaker 1>and so find that time to unplug again. It can

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<v Speaker 1>only it can be just thirty minutes, but you got

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<v Speaker 1>to we all have to center ourselves because if we

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<v Speaker 1>center ourselves, I think we're able to hear better. I

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<v Speaker 1>think that when somebody has a different political agenda than

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<v Speaker 1>you do, I think if you're centered, you're able to

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<v Speaker 1>hear why they feel that way. And we have free will, right,

0:52:58.600 --> 0:53:01.960
<v Speaker 1>that's some people should have free will, but we do.

0:53:02.160 --> 0:53:05.840
<v Speaker 1>God gave us free will, and so everybody has a

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<v Speaker 1>right to their opinion. Sometimes how it's expressed it's not okay.

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<v Speaker 1>But what's not okay is not hearing somebody else at

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<v Speaker 1>all and not taking into consideration something else. And I

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<v Speaker 1>think it's very hard to hear clearly when you're not centered.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm going to log off now and probably go

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<v Speaker 1>center myself. But I hope you all find that time

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<v Speaker 1>when you're done with work, the kids are in bed,

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<v Speaker 1>you've taken your meds, whatever it is, that thirty minutes

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<v Speaker 1>to just unplug and hear your own thoughts loud and clear,

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<v Speaker 1>connect with your own thoughts, quiet them, and center yourself

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<v Speaker 1>so that you can wake up or continue your day

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<v Speaker 1>in a much more like relaxed, accepting manner. That's what

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<v Speaker 1>I wish for all of you and for myself as well.

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<v Speaker 1>So thank you for listening to a sort of random

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<v Speaker 1>assassas