1 00:00:02,560 --> 00:00:08,640 Speaker 1: This is Let's be Clear with Shannon Doherty. Hi, welcome 2 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:11,360 Speaker 1: to Let's be Clear with Shannon Doherty. All right, so guys, 3 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 1: normally I talk about, you know, either my career, past, present, 4 00:00:17,079 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 1: maybe future, or I talk about things that really resonate 5 00:00:21,079 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 1: with me personally, for instance, cancer, divorce, relationships, ex boyfriends, 6 00:00:29,760 --> 00:00:32,960 Speaker 1: you name it. We kind of cover it, and certainly 7 00:00:33,080 --> 00:00:37,360 Speaker 1: we have a lot more to cover, and we will, 8 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: especially getting into the coming weeks, probably have a lot 9 00:00:40,800 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 1: of new updates for everyone. But today I wanted to 10 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: try something a little different, and I also wanted to, 11 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 1: you know, make sure that sometimes there's episodes that are 12 00:00:56,240 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 1: uplifting and just informative random questions that people ask me. Yes, 13 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:03,840 Speaker 1: we do Q and a's, but people have specifically asked 14 00:01:03,880 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: me like what are my favorite things to do? My 15 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:12,640 Speaker 1: favorite TV shows, et cetera, et cetera. So I'm going 16 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 1: to start with some of these questions and then I'll probably, 17 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 1: as I always do, go off on a little bit 18 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 1: of a tangent. So here we are what TV show 19 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:27,960 Speaker 1: do you love? But you are embarrassed to admit? That's 20 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:30,920 Speaker 1: a hard one for me because I don't really have 21 00:01:31,319 --> 00:01:37,960 Speaker 1: any problem admitting things you know, like if I watch 22 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 1: a reality show, I'm not embarrassed by it. I got 23 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:46,760 Speaker 1: to tell you, my mom and I are big family 24 00:01:46,800 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 1: feud people, and we love, you know, answering before anybody 25 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:56,840 Speaker 1: presses the buzzer hopefully we love the last bit where 26 00:01:57,040 --> 00:01:59,640 Speaker 1: you know, you go and you give like five answers. 27 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 1: So family feud. But I'm not really embarrassed that I 28 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 1: like family feud. I love watching Family Feud, and like 29 00:02:06,920 --> 00:02:10,080 Speaker 1: People Puzzler and some of those. I just think that 30 00:02:10,120 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: they're cool. And also I like keeping my brain very active, 31 00:02:14,680 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 1: especially because I do have mets in my brain. I'm 32 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:21,840 Speaker 1: always worried and because I had brain surgeries you guys 33 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 1: know in January two thousand and twenty three. I really 34 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:32,560 Speaker 1: like to constantly keep my brain going and challenging and 35 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:36,360 Speaker 1: doing puzzles and stuff of that nature. So for me, 36 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 1: I show like People Puzzler or Family Feud doesn't seem 37 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 1: like something I would worry about admitting, or that I'm 38 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:50,680 Speaker 1: embarrassed to admit. I got to say I've probably watched 39 00:02:50,680 --> 00:02:53,560 Speaker 1: Sex in the City. I don't know how many times. 40 00:02:53,760 --> 00:02:56,639 Speaker 1: It's so soothing to me. I put it on at 41 00:02:56,680 --> 00:03:04,520 Speaker 1: night and I'm now up to season I don't even 42 00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:07,840 Speaker 1: know what, but I literally watch it over and over 43 00:03:07,880 --> 00:03:10,640 Speaker 1: and over again because it's just one of those shows. 44 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:15,280 Speaker 1: It's like Seinfeld to me that I can relax to 45 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 1: and I don't have to overthink things. In general, I 46 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 1: have TV shows that I love, but I'm not you know, 47 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 1: they're nothing embarrassing. Succession was one of my favorite shows, 48 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:29,519 Speaker 1: and The Veil, I think now is one of my 49 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 1: favorite shows. So not embarrassed to admit things. For sure, 50 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:38,880 Speaker 1: I'm not a real Housewives person. The only time I 51 00:03:38,920 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 1: got into that was the year that a friend of mine, 52 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: Diana Jenkins, was on and I watched it for her. 53 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:53,880 Speaker 1: And I've never been a big bachelor person. I know 54 00:03:53,960 --> 00:03:59,680 Speaker 1: that's everybody's guilty pleasure, not mine. What movie could you 55 00:03:59,720 --> 00:04:03,000 Speaker 1: see over and over again and never get tired of? Ooh? 56 00:04:03,040 --> 00:04:07,440 Speaker 1: Pride and Prejudice Joe Wright was the director. Kiera Knightley. 57 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:12,559 Speaker 1: I have seen that movie so many times. It's ridiculous. 58 00:04:12,720 --> 00:04:19,120 Speaker 1: I absolutely love it. And Stepbrothers. Oh, whenever I need 59 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:22,280 Speaker 1: to laugh, I watch step Brothers. It's one of the 60 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 1: funniest movies I've ever seen. And I always look at 61 00:04:28,040 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 1: people and go, did we just become best friends. So 62 00:04:31,080 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 1: there's that too. Do you like to bargain shop, and 63 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:38,680 Speaker 1: so what's your favorite store. I do like to bargain shop. 64 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 1: I do a lot of bargain shopping for home stuff. 65 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:47,160 Speaker 1: I think I've mentioned to you guys that like one 66 00:04:47,160 --> 00:04:49,599 Speaker 1: of my things that I love to do is in 67 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:57,279 Speaker 1: tier design. I if I was uber wealthy, I would 68 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:00,680 Speaker 1: just buy houses and flip them and flip them and 69 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:03,719 Speaker 1: flow them just for the opportunity to decorate them and 70 00:05:03,760 --> 00:05:07,239 Speaker 1: do interior design. And I just find that so many 71 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 1: people la New York, Miami all over the world, but 72 00:05:12,760 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 1: particularly in those big, huge cities, they spend a fortune 73 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 1: on furniture and on making it seem lived in or whatever, 74 00:05:21,320 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 1: and because they go to all these high end stores 75 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:26,600 Speaker 1: and you really don't have to. Antique shopping is one 76 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:30,840 Speaker 1: of my favorite things. Bargains shopping. I love that. As 77 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:33,440 Speaker 1: far as clothes go, you know, I used to be 78 00:05:33,920 --> 00:05:40,720 Speaker 1: a big vintage girl. I am not so much so anymore. 79 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:43,480 Speaker 1: There's still a couple of vintage stores I will go 80 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:46,120 Speaker 1: to as far as clothing goes, but it's just so 81 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 1: I can get a really good deal on like a 82 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:52,279 Speaker 1: Chanel skirt or something of that nature. But for the 83 00:05:52,320 --> 00:05:55,359 Speaker 1: most part, when it comes to clothing, I do a 84 00:05:55,400 --> 00:06:00,560 Speaker 1: lot of my shopping online. Now there's you know, Netta 85 00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 1: Portee and my Teresa and places like that where I 86 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 1: can buy high end and there's no problem with sending 87 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:13,240 Speaker 1: it back if it doesn't fit or whatever. But and 88 00:06:13,320 --> 00:06:16,200 Speaker 1: T shirts. They now make so many cool vintage T 89 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:18,839 Speaker 1: shirts that you can buy online as well. So a 90 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:24,920 Speaker 1: lot of my personal clothing is online. But definitely for 91 00:06:25,040 --> 00:06:29,039 Speaker 1: design and for house I do the majority of that. 92 00:06:31,880 --> 00:06:34,960 Speaker 1: I mean, yes, I go to stores. I always bargainshop 93 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 1: you guys like I always negotiate. I don't care if 94 00:06:38,000 --> 00:06:40,560 Speaker 1: it's a high end store or not. I'm always like, 95 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:42,640 Speaker 1: you want what for this? No, I actually think it 96 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:44,360 Speaker 1: should be priced at this. Here's what I'll give you. 97 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 1: I'm forever doing that, just because the markup and stores 98 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 1: is so huge. But you know, I also really like 99 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:57,720 Speaker 1: to go to smaller stores. I don't like big, huge 100 00:06:58,480 --> 00:07:03,680 Speaker 1: chain stores. I think that. But COVID was a real issue, 101 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:06,640 Speaker 1: and it took out so many of our mom and 102 00:07:06,720 --> 00:07:11,680 Speaker 1: pop stores, and we people went out of business. They 103 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:15,200 Speaker 1: lost their jobs, they lost they lost homes, they lost 104 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:19,280 Speaker 1: because their business had to close. So many restaurants, stores, 105 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:22,720 Speaker 1: all of that that I really have a big thing 106 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: about supporting those stores. Those stores I don't really negotiate 107 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 1: with as much because I want them to succeed. But 108 00:07:33,120 --> 00:07:35,800 Speaker 1: you know, there's always a little room for negotiation. I think, 109 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 1: all right, let's see, so what's my favorite store. There's 110 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:43,000 Speaker 1: just too many of them. There's a place called Dandelion 111 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 1: and something which is on Abbot, Kenney and Venice for 112 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 1: like knick knacks and some pieces of furniture and rugs, 113 00:07:50,280 --> 00:07:53,680 Speaker 1: which I love. There's Big Daddy's Antiques, which I'm obsessed with. 114 00:07:57,560 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 1: There's you know, there's huge sort of markets. They're not 115 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:07,760 Speaker 1: called markets, they're not called festivals, they're whatever they're called. 116 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 1: Like the one in Roundtop in Texas is one where 117 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 1: you go and it's all these different sort of antique 118 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 1: dealers or just dealers in general that have all these 119 00:08:20,480 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 1: little different stands. And I love going to places like 120 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:27,880 Speaker 1: that to just find something really unique. I'm gonta find gifts, 121 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:30,760 Speaker 1: and I'll buy gifts way ahead of time for Christmas 122 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:33,479 Speaker 1: or for somebody's birthday. If I see something that resonates 123 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:36,040 Speaker 1: with me that I know that they're gonna like, I 124 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 1: love doing that. I do have a big shoe fetish. 125 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:45,960 Speaker 1: I'm a shoe slut, you guys. I love shoes. Unfortunately, 126 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 1: I really like high end shoes, either like tennis shoes 127 00:08:48,200 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 1: or high end shoes new in between. What is something 128 00:08:52,360 --> 00:08:54,440 Speaker 1: that you have to have in your fridge or pantry 129 00:08:54,679 --> 00:09:01,440 Speaker 1: no matter what Canada dry ginger ail. I'm obsessed with 130 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 1: Canada dry ginger all. I don't know why it's clean 131 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:13,320 Speaker 1: and I like the taste, but specifically Canada Dry. I 132 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:18,720 Speaker 1: always have Gatorade on hand because when I did chemo 133 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:22,679 Speaker 1: back in twenty sixteen, I was so dehydrated and they 134 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:25,440 Speaker 1: were having to do ivs on me constantly, and I 135 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:27,600 Speaker 1: couldn't eat and I was throwing up all the time. 136 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 1: And I found that if I did gatorade in ice 137 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 1: cube trays and froze it, that I could tolerate sucking 138 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:40,600 Speaker 1: on an ice cube that was a Gatorade ice cube 139 00:09:40,600 --> 00:09:43,479 Speaker 1: and it would hydrate me enough give me the electrolytes 140 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:46,200 Speaker 1: that I needed. So I always keep it close by 141 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:54,200 Speaker 1: just in case I'm sick or or you know, just dehydrated. 142 00:09:55,480 --> 00:10:02,000 Speaker 1: I always have the little cut oranges. I keep them 143 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 1: in the refrigerator because I like them really cold, so 144 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:09,199 Speaker 1: I always have those. As far as something kind of unhealthy, 145 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:17,640 Speaker 1: I always keep milk and cereal because sometimes late at 146 00:10:17,720 --> 00:10:22,319 Speaker 1: night I get really hungry and I'm too lazy sometimes 147 00:10:22,400 --> 00:10:25,679 Speaker 1: to cook dinner, and I love a bowl of cereal. 148 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: I just think it's fantastic. Actually, that's what I've had 149 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:33,240 Speaker 1: for two nights in a row for dinner lately. I've 150 00:10:33,240 --> 00:10:38,960 Speaker 1: been a little lazy this week. All Right, What is 151 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:42,640 Speaker 1: something you like to splurge on because it's worth it. Shoes? 152 00:10:43,640 --> 00:10:50,360 Speaker 1: I really really like to splurge on shoes. Good quality 153 00:10:50,440 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: shoes means that I don't have foot issues, They're not 154 00:10:55,600 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 1: pinching my feet, they fit well, they're cable, so I'm 155 00:11:02,280 --> 00:11:06,400 Speaker 1: big on that. I'm sort of big on skincare in 156 00:11:06,440 --> 00:11:10,719 Speaker 1: the sense of that I love trying new products all 157 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 1: the time. I'm a fan of that, but it doesn't 158 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 1: always mean that I'm going to choose something expensive. I've 159 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:21,400 Speaker 1: been using Seravey, which you get at a drug store, 160 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 1: on my lines, and I've noticed a difference. But then 161 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 1: I have a product, a moisturizer that's in my opinion, overpriced, 162 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:37,000 Speaker 1: but it works. So skincare, I like to splurge on shoes. 163 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 1: I like to splurge on. I like to splurge on 164 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 1: my mom. I like spoiling her a lot, and she 165 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 1: in turn likes to spoil me as well. And I 166 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: splurge on dinners. I do like a really good dinner. 167 00:11:57,559 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 1: And obviously I splurge on wine because I do enjoy 168 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:04,800 Speaker 1: my wine. And I think some people would say that 169 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:07,720 Speaker 1: I splurge on my house, which is true, But to me, 170 00:12:07,840 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 1: that's not a splurge. Right to me, that's an investment. 171 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 1: I know that whatever I put into the home, I'm 172 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 1: going to be able to sell the house for so 173 00:12:15,520 --> 00:12:19,839 Speaker 1: much more than I bought it for. So that's always 174 00:12:19,600 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 1: that's not a splurge. That's just a healthy investment. All right, 175 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 1: Let's keep going all the places that you've traveled in 176 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:33,040 Speaker 1: the world. Is there one country you would consider moving to? Italy? 177 00:12:33,880 --> 00:12:38,520 Speaker 1: I would love to move to Italy. I would love 178 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 1: to move to Africa for like six months to a 179 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 1: year and work at a sanctuary. There's an elephant sanctuary. 180 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 1: There's a lot of sanctuaries there. I would love to 181 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 1: do that as well. My problem always is the same, 182 00:12:52,080 --> 00:12:56,839 Speaker 1: I'm not going anywhere without my dog. Not long term. 183 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 1: I'll go do conventions for a weekend, or I'll go 184 00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 1: in a trip here and there for you know, four 185 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:06,320 Speaker 1: days or a week, but I don't I don't like 186 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 1: leaving my dog long periods of time, especially because she's 187 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:15,800 Speaker 1: a lot older now and I think she's thirteen or fourteen, 188 00:13:16,720 --> 00:13:23,400 Speaker 1: and she doesn't walk as well. She's just got a 189 00:13:23,440 --> 00:13:26,920 Speaker 1: few issues, and I would hate to be out of 190 00:13:26,960 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 1: town when my dog needs to be a rushed to 191 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:34,439 Speaker 1: the hospital because I'm yes, she loves my mom and 192 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:39,640 Speaker 1: my friends, but she's even when she's being loved one 193 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:43,600 Speaker 1: by them, she's always looking at me. I'm her safety net, 194 00:13:43,840 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 1: just like she's my safety net, And so I really 195 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:52,720 Speaker 1: want to be here. I would have to buy a 196 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 1: seat for her and fly her. Africa is way too far, 197 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 1: so I don't think that's happening anytime soon, but maybe Italy. 198 00:14:02,240 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 1: A couple of us have been talking about going there 199 00:14:06,360 --> 00:14:09,480 Speaker 1: for a week and a half or so and learning 200 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:15,280 Speaker 1: how to make homemade pasta really well and pizza do. 201 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: Even though I really like my pizza do, I know 202 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:20,040 Speaker 1: it can be a lot better, and I'm going to 203 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:24,040 Speaker 1: learn that from the knowness. So that's something that I've 204 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:39,560 Speaker 1: been wanting to do. What's your favorite thing to do 205 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:46,840 Speaker 1: on a Sunday morning. Absolutely nothing. I think my brain 206 00:14:46,960 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 1: is constantly going, and I'm usually on my computer every 207 00:14:54,760 --> 00:15:01,440 Speaker 1: day going through the latest clinical trials, any breakthrough with cancer. 208 00:15:02,560 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 1: I'm always reaching out to new doctors that I hear 209 00:15:05,600 --> 00:15:12,200 Speaker 1: about and having conversations with them. I think I'm seeking 210 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 1: answers for my own health, but also for everybody with 211 00:15:18,480 --> 00:15:23,520 Speaker 1: cancer for their health. So therefore I spend so much 212 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 1: time doing that, and it can be incredibly draining because 213 00:15:28,280 --> 00:15:33,320 Speaker 1: as you're going through all that research, you're also seeing yourself, 214 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:35,000 Speaker 1: Oh my god, is this what I have? Is this 215 00:15:35,080 --> 00:15:38,440 Speaker 1: what I have? Is like all these new symptoms is 216 00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 1: And that can be incredibly taxing and heavy and a 217 00:15:46,200 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: lot of stress weighing you down. So Sundays I like 218 00:15:51,240 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 1: to wake up in the morning, I fix myself a 219 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:57,479 Speaker 1: coffee and I'll play like a little game on my iPad, 220 00:15:58,120 --> 00:16:02,320 Speaker 1: whether it's a jigsaw puzzle or or crosswords, whatever it is, 221 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 1: in order to get my brain to start going. But 222 00:16:07,200 --> 00:16:10,480 Speaker 1: really I like it to be very, very very quiet. 223 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 1: In general. I like things to be quiet. I'm not 224 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 1: somebody who blasts music only when my friends are over. 225 00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 1: I'm not someone who turns on the TV immediately. I 226 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:23,680 Speaker 1: like it like this right now, right It's very quiet 227 00:16:23,720 --> 00:16:27,360 Speaker 1: in my house, and I enjoy that. It gives me 228 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:31,920 Speaker 1: time to reflect and to sort of settle into my day, 229 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:35,400 Speaker 1: and then my Sunday usually continues. I love to garden. 230 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:41,080 Speaker 1: I have an amazing organic garden that I built and 231 00:16:41,120 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 1: I love tenning to it. And now I've just started 232 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 1: a whole like rose garden, and I love experimenting with 233 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:53,680 Speaker 1: putting different things next to vegetables. So yes, obviously I 234 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 1: have the merrygolds and the mint to drive away insects 235 00:16:57,120 --> 00:16:59,560 Speaker 1: and all of that. But I had read this article 236 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:07,440 Speaker 1: that tested tomatoes and there was a tomato plant, well 237 00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 1: two they both grew very very very well, but the 238 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:15,240 Speaker 1: one that was next to the rose bush where they 239 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:21,960 Speaker 1: almost intertwined essentially, the tomato tasted different. It tasted a 240 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:24,240 Speaker 1: little bit sweeter, it took on more of the tones 241 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:28,400 Speaker 1: of a rose. And so I loved doing stuff like that. 242 00:17:28,680 --> 00:17:32,080 Speaker 1: I love just experimenting and figuring out the best way 243 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:37,639 Speaker 1: to grow the natural products to use. Stuff that you 244 00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:40,399 Speaker 1: can combine in the house, banana peels and water for 245 00:17:40,520 --> 00:17:45,679 Speaker 1: fertilizing tomatoes or roses or whatever. So that's always a 246 00:17:45,840 --> 00:17:50,560 Speaker 1: very good Sunday for me, as well as going bargain hunting. 247 00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:54,760 Speaker 1: That's great. Taking a drive to santy Nez, which is 248 00:17:54,760 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 1: one of my favorite places. It's about an hour and 249 00:17:57,280 --> 00:18:01,880 Speaker 1: a half from where I live, and going and spending 250 00:18:01,920 --> 00:18:07,840 Speaker 1: time at Return to Freedom which is up in santin As, 251 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 1: and they take in a lot of the wild mustangs 252 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:19,960 Speaker 1: that the BLM has rounded up and putting corals, and 253 00:18:19,960 --> 00:18:23,880 Speaker 1: then eventually those horses end up at a kilpin and 254 00:18:24,560 --> 00:18:30,000 Speaker 1: get sold for slaughter unless people go and buy them, 255 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 1: Like all Seated in the barn is an amazing organization 256 00:18:34,840 --> 00:18:37,840 Speaker 1: along with Return to Freedom. So I love going to 257 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:41,639 Speaker 1: Return to Freedom and just hanging out with Netta, who's 258 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:46,560 Speaker 1: the head of it, and walking the grounds or driving 259 00:18:46,600 --> 00:18:52,439 Speaker 1: the ATV type thing and seeing the horses left alone 260 00:18:53,160 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 1: and hanging out and their bands and their dynamic and 261 00:18:56,880 --> 00:19:00,480 Speaker 1: taking photos of them. There's one right there behind me 262 00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 1: that I took and that's a voute you know, wild 263 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:08,560 Speaker 1: horse that was at Return of Freedom that let me 264 00:19:08,600 --> 00:19:14,119 Speaker 1: get semi close to it. Those are my relaxing Sundays 265 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:18,439 Speaker 1: or even Saturdays, really Okay, So that was answering trouble 266 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:21,959 Speaker 1: of where I would move to, and I'm saying Italy 267 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:25,359 Speaker 1: for sure. I just there is something about Italy that 268 00:19:25,680 --> 00:19:33,199 Speaker 1: I The food, the people, everything about it inspires me. 269 00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:38,760 Speaker 1: The architecture, the history. You can transport yourself to a 270 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:43,040 Speaker 1: different day and age and imagine a totally different life, 271 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:46,840 Speaker 1: and I love that. But you can learn so much 272 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:54,040 Speaker 1: and learn so much about art and people, and the 273 00:19:54,080 --> 00:20:01,080 Speaker 1: people that are happy and kind and just they take 274 00:20:01,119 --> 00:20:04,760 Speaker 1: you in. It's Italy to me is the warmest, biggest 275 00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:09,399 Speaker 1: hug you can possibly get. And it's not one of 276 00:20:09,480 --> 00:20:13,440 Speaker 1: the only places. As I said, Africa would be really interesting. 277 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:17,359 Speaker 1: I learned a lot when I went to Africa and 278 00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:20,480 Speaker 1: it definitely changed me as a person. But if I 279 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 1: had moved somewhere it would it would it would be Italy. 280 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:27,359 Speaker 1: I think an island would drive me crazy. I remember 281 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:29,960 Speaker 1: I did a show called north Shore and I had 282 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:33,480 Speaker 1: to go live in Hawaii, which sounds like the best 283 00:20:33,520 --> 00:20:35,439 Speaker 1: thing in the world, and it really was. I was 284 00:20:36,119 --> 00:20:40,520 Speaker 1: surfing every single day. It was phenomenal. But after a 285 00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:43,720 Speaker 1: while I got island fever and I was having a 286 00:20:43,760 --> 00:20:48,320 Speaker 1: fly home constantly just to sort of settle myself and 287 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:51,479 Speaker 1: then go back and film some more. So I'm not 288 00:20:51,520 --> 00:20:53,720 Speaker 1: sure I would pick an island. Saint Barts is probably 289 00:20:53,720 --> 00:20:57,159 Speaker 1: my favorite island, but I don't think I could. I 290 00:20:57,240 --> 00:21:00,760 Speaker 1: actually know I could not live there. So that's the 291 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:09,400 Speaker 1: moving we address Sunday morning. What's your favorite fast food restaurant? None. 292 00:21:07,880 --> 00:21:14,680 Speaker 1: I don't like fast food. It doesn't mean I don't 293 00:21:14,680 --> 00:21:18,600 Speaker 1: have it. On occasion. I sometimes get very rushed and 294 00:21:19,160 --> 00:21:24,679 Speaker 1: I have to I get really hungry, and when I'm 295 00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:27,159 Speaker 1: that hungry, and my blood sugar dips, and when my 296 00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:31,600 Speaker 1: blood sugar dips, I become a little testy. So I 297 00:21:31,640 --> 00:21:36,000 Speaker 1: have pulled into fast food restaurants. I used to eat 298 00:21:36,040 --> 00:21:38,120 Speaker 1: a lot of fast food when I was in my twenties, 299 00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:44,040 Speaker 1: but I think now the only ones I'll really pull 300 00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:49,679 Speaker 1: into is like a Windy's, and that's drive through. But 301 00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:53,520 Speaker 1: I also consider like Habit Burger or this dand kind 302 00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:56,400 Speaker 1: of fast food, and I will go to those on occasion. 303 00:21:57,160 --> 00:22:04,359 Speaker 1: I love Sharkis, but for the most part, I would 304 00:22:04,440 --> 00:22:07,240 Speaker 1: rather eat at home because I know that my food 305 00:22:07,520 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 1: is without chemicals, without antibiotics, without I know that my 306 00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:16,760 Speaker 1: food is none of the stuff that Bill Gates likes 307 00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:20,200 Speaker 1: to tamper with so you know, I won't buy fruit 308 00:22:20,200 --> 00:22:24,480 Speaker 1: with appeal on it. That's horrifying to me. Everything that's 309 00:22:24,640 --> 00:22:28,440 Speaker 1: in appeal is like if you actually read what's in it, 310 00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:32,399 Speaker 1: you will probably avoid a Bill Gates product for the 311 00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:36,560 Speaker 1: rest of your life. Along with you know, taking away 312 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:40,879 Speaker 1: jobs from our farmers, which I don't approve of. Everything 313 00:22:41,040 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 1: is very bad. So when I make my food at 314 00:22:45,320 --> 00:22:49,000 Speaker 1: home or certain restaurants that I know very well and 315 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 1: I know where they buy from, I just feel healthier. 316 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:56,160 Speaker 1: And when I go to a fast food restaurant or 317 00:22:56,600 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 1: I'm serve something that is monsantos or whatever, I end 318 00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:04,040 Speaker 1: up feeling a little. It's almost like you feel bloated 319 00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:08,320 Speaker 1: and overfull, Whereas if I'm cooking for myself or at 320 00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:12,520 Speaker 1: an organic restaurant, none of that happens. And what's crazy 321 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:15,120 Speaker 1: is that people think that the organic is so much 322 00:23:15,119 --> 00:23:20,840 Speaker 1: more expensive, and it's really not. It's knowing where to 323 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:24,680 Speaker 1: get the organic and really shopping it out. And if 324 00:23:24,680 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 1: you do shop it out, you'll find that it ends 325 00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:33,080 Speaker 1: up being the same price to a certain degree, and 326 00:23:33,160 --> 00:23:37,080 Speaker 1: certainly it saves you. In Doctor Bill Slater, what's your 327 00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:44,399 Speaker 1: favorite designer? Ah Come on I have too many. I 328 00:23:44,440 --> 00:23:47,320 Speaker 1: really do have too many. I mean I can go 329 00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:52,920 Speaker 1: from like low end to high end. On designers. I 330 00:23:52,960 --> 00:24:00,720 Speaker 1: obviously already mentioned Chanel, which I love, and why sel 331 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:07,120 Speaker 1: I love Victoria Beckham. I'm a big fan of There's 332 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:11,119 Speaker 1: just so many good designers, and I really admire the 333 00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:18,040 Speaker 1: designers that years ago said no for that are making 334 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:23,880 Speaker 1: an attempt at being sustainable. I really appreciate that. I 335 00:24:23,920 --> 00:24:30,520 Speaker 1: also love free people and little stores, and by the way, 336 00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:34,119 Speaker 1: I love going to like Marshals sometimes and TJ Max. 337 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:39,280 Speaker 1: It's amazing what you can find at those stores. So designers, 338 00:24:39,400 --> 00:24:45,639 Speaker 1: there's just that's such a broad question. I just like 339 00:24:45,760 --> 00:24:48,560 Speaker 1: my clothes to be comfortable at the end of the 340 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:52,680 Speaker 1: day and classic. I'm not someone who likes to show 341 00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:55,639 Speaker 1: a lot of TNA. Am I allowed to say that. 342 00:24:57,680 --> 00:25:00,600 Speaker 1: I don't need low cut. I don't need, you know, 343 00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:05,080 Speaker 1: my butt hanging out of a skirt. I'm too old 344 00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:10,359 Speaker 1: for it. And I also think leaving something to the 345 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:16,639 Speaker 1: imagination is way sexier. So it's not necessarily about a designer. 346 00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:19,359 Speaker 1: It's about what fits me properly. To me, there's nothing 347 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:24,200 Speaker 1: like a beautiful pair of trousers and a nice sweater. Yeah, 348 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:31,359 Speaker 1: it's dressing with confidence and with comfort and not dressing 349 00:25:32,119 --> 00:25:35,280 Speaker 1: as if I want every single eye on me, whether 350 00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 1: it's a good eye or a bad eye. And there's 351 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:41,320 Speaker 1: a lot of high end and low end designers that 352 00:25:41,400 --> 00:25:44,200 Speaker 1: do that really well. Costs is a store. I don't 353 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:47,080 Speaker 1: know if it's outside of LA I know it's online 354 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 1: cos that I order online from all the time. I 355 00:25:53,320 --> 00:26:00,240 Speaker 1: love it. And their clothes are affordable but classy. And 356 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:04,480 Speaker 1: so there you go. Which holiday do you like to 357 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:05,800 Speaker 1: go all out for? 358 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:14,760 Speaker 2: Oh, Christmas, Christmas, Christmas, Christmas, Christmas. I, as you guys know, 359 00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:18,600 Speaker 2: in the middle of a divorce and my Christmases were 360 00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:20,200 Speaker 2: not great because. 361 00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:26,199 Speaker 1: My husband was not into Christmas. Christmas was apparently, as 362 00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,639 Speaker 1: I was told, not a big deal in his family, 363 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:32,600 Speaker 1: and to my family, Christmas was a huge deal. I 364 00:26:32,600 --> 00:26:36,600 Speaker 1: mean a the religious aspect of Christmas was a big 365 00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 1: deal to us, as we're Christians. But it's the joy. 366 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:48,159 Speaker 1: It's hanging lights outside, It's going and finding that perfect 367 00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:52,280 Speaker 1: Christmas tree and deciding whether you want it flocked or 368 00:26:52,320 --> 00:26:57,520 Speaker 1: not flocked, and the how intricate I can get with 369 00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:59,960 Speaker 1: putting the lights on the Christmas tree and hanging stock 370 00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:04,160 Speaker 1: and if you're having guests over, buying stockings and getting 371 00:27:04,200 --> 00:27:07,840 Speaker 1: their names on them, which sometimes I do with just 372 00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:13,040 Speaker 1: the you know glue that glitters in different colors, simple 373 00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:18,159 Speaker 1: things making decorations, but making all the food, making desserts, 374 00:27:18,960 --> 00:27:22,800 Speaker 1: and planning a Christmas Eve or Christmas big dinner, inviting 375 00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:27,600 Speaker 1: your friends over. To me, there is nothing like it. 376 00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:30,520 Speaker 1: I find that almost everybody's attitude is going to be 377 00:27:30,640 --> 00:27:35,320 Speaker 1: really good Christmas, even Christmas, and they're nice and full. 378 00:27:35,440 --> 00:27:38,600 Speaker 1: Their bellies, you know, have been filled up by the food. 379 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:43,359 Speaker 1: Buying presents for people, whether it be a present for 380 00:27:43,480 --> 00:27:46,840 Speaker 1: five dollars or a present for one hundred dollars, it 381 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:50,280 Speaker 1: doesn't it's the fact that I've already bought it way 382 00:27:50,320 --> 00:27:53,040 Speaker 1: ahead because of my bargain hunting thing and going to 383 00:27:53,720 --> 00:27:57,280 Speaker 1: you know, different stores. So when I see something, going 384 00:27:57,320 --> 00:27:59,840 Speaker 1: back to that, when I see something that strikes me 385 00:28:00,280 --> 00:28:02,479 Speaker 1: being a particular person, I just go ahead and buy it, 386 00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:05,680 Speaker 1: and I keep it in a closet so that that 387 00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:11,600 Speaker 1: becomes their birthday or their Christmas present. And I love 388 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:20,159 Speaker 1: seeing people unwrap their Christmas present and them knowing that 389 00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:23,840 Speaker 1: it's so specific to them, that I know them that well, 390 00:28:24,480 --> 00:28:27,800 Speaker 1: that I knew one hundred percent something that they would want, 391 00:28:27,960 --> 00:28:33,200 Speaker 1: that they've been coveting, or something to me just makes 392 00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,520 Speaker 1: me feel good. It's kind of this goes back to 393 00:28:36,680 --> 00:28:39,280 Speaker 1: this is going slightly off topic, but not really. It 394 00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:41,600 Speaker 1: goes back to My mom has this thing of where 395 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:45,360 Speaker 1: when somebody registers right when they're having a baby or 396 00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:48,320 Speaker 1: they're getting married, she doesn't like to buy off the registry. 397 00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:50,479 Speaker 1: She likes to get them something that she feels. And 398 00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:54,320 Speaker 1: I'm different when somebody registers. I'm like, if they register, 399 00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:57,120 Speaker 1: this is what they need. I'm not going off of 400 00:28:57,160 --> 00:29:03,160 Speaker 1: the register and registry. So that is when I buy 401 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:06,360 Speaker 1: presents for Christmas. It's because I've given so much thought 402 00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:10,040 Speaker 1: into that person and I know exactly as if they've registered, 403 00:29:10,280 --> 00:29:12,560 Speaker 1: I know exactly what they need in their house. Maybe 404 00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:15,240 Speaker 1: they want to pust a machine, maybe they're looking for 405 00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:18,600 Speaker 1: an antique face. Whatever it is, I know that they 406 00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:22,560 Speaker 1: really need it, and when I find it, I buy it. 407 00:29:22,640 --> 00:29:29,600 Speaker 1: So Christmas, yeah, I just I love decorating. And this 408 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:33,640 Speaker 1: last year was a really good Christmas where I got 409 00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:38,960 Speaker 1: to do a lot of that, and like Holly was 410 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:43,200 Speaker 1: here and my friend Mike was here, and we put 411 00:29:43,320 --> 00:29:47,040 Speaker 1: up the tree, it's just fun. It just it's festive 412 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:51,520 Speaker 1: and it it I don't know. It makes me smile 413 00:29:51,880 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 1: a lot. So definitely, definitely definitely Christmas. What is my 414 00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 1: favorite dessert? Every dessert? Oh god, So I actually make 415 00:30:18,120 --> 00:30:23,160 Speaker 1: one of my favorite desserts, which is a panacotta. I'm 416 00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:26,000 Speaker 1: not going to tell you what's in it because I 417 00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:29,800 Speaker 1: made it up and it's really delicious. But I also 418 00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:35,240 Speaker 1: do with the panacotta, I do this sort of BlackBerry 419 00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:39,480 Speaker 1: I guess the technical term would be gooli and that's 420 00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:42,959 Speaker 1: one of my favorite desserts. My friend Christy, who owns 421 00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:48,280 Speaker 1: Christie's Cafe, makes the best trace liches cake I've ever had. 422 00:30:48,960 --> 00:30:53,280 Speaker 1: That's one of my favorites. I love. There's this dessert 423 00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:58,640 Speaker 1: that comes in a little glass jar and it's Copa 424 00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:03,040 Speaker 1: de aura is the name of it. It's like a 425 00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:09,600 Speaker 1: crispy bottom, dark chocolate milk, chocolate, white chocolate cream. Oh 426 00:31:09,680 --> 00:31:13,120 Speaker 1: my god, this dessert is so amazing. And what's crazy 427 00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:16,600 Speaker 1: is I used to not be a dessert person at all, 428 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:22,040 Speaker 1: and now I love dessert and maybe and I know 429 00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:24,480 Speaker 1: dessert's really bad when you have cancer because it's sugar. 430 00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:27,440 Speaker 1: So I try not to eat dessert that often. But 431 00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:31,240 Speaker 1: there's also moments in your life where I think it's 432 00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:34,680 Speaker 1: okay to spoil yourself, whether it's great for you or not. 433 00:31:36,360 --> 00:31:38,200 Speaker 1: I know that this happened with my dad a lot 434 00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:42,880 Speaker 1: when he was really sick, and there was always a 435 00:31:42,920 --> 00:31:48,000 Speaker 1: discussion about his diet. But towards the end, when you 436 00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:52,680 Speaker 1: knew things were pretty bad, there were moments where it 437 00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:55,440 Speaker 1: was like, no, let him have shrimp scampy, let him 438 00:31:55,480 --> 00:32:00,760 Speaker 1: have his favorite foods. Yes, not every day, but you 439 00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:06,400 Speaker 1: also want quality of life to be great, particularly when 440 00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:13,480 Speaker 1: you're dying, particularly when you have a terminal disease. Everybody 441 00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:17,120 Speaker 1: should try to go for quality of life because you 442 00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:21,560 Speaker 1: never know how long you're going to be on this 443 00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:24,960 Speaker 1: earth for before we pass on to a better place. 444 00:32:25,120 --> 00:32:32,240 Speaker 1: But so I will. I will spoil myself with desserts sometimes. 445 00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 1: And oh, how can I forget one of my other 446 00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:39,640 Speaker 1: favorite desserts, well, two other favorites is so I told 447 00:32:39,640 --> 00:32:42,120 Speaker 1: you guys already about my love of ginger ale, but 448 00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:48,080 Speaker 1: I love taking vanilla ice cream and with ginger ale 449 00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:52,240 Speaker 1: over the vanilla ice cream, it is delicious. It's like 450 00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:54,920 Speaker 1: the best float ever. I like it better than root beer, 451 00:32:55,520 --> 00:32:58,200 Speaker 1: and I also like doing the same thing with orange sherbet. 452 00:32:58,720 --> 00:33:02,240 Speaker 1: There you go. Do you have a favorite rom com? 453 00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:07,120 Speaker 1: Dy one would take me forever to think about. I 454 00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:15,200 Speaker 1: love rum coms because it also brings up a lot 455 00:33:15,240 --> 00:33:18,760 Speaker 1: of warmth, like in your heart. It brings up a 456 00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:23,200 Speaker 1: lot of warmth, and I like movies like that. I 457 00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:26,560 Speaker 1: also like really serious movies. But for the most part, 458 00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:31,120 Speaker 1: especially since being diagnosed with cancer, I find that all 459 00:33:31,120 --> 00:33:32,960 Speaker 1: I want to do is watch stuff that makes me 460 00:33:33,080 --> 00:33:39,120 Speaker 1: laugh because the rest of life is so hard and 461 00:33:39,320 --> 00:33:43,320 Speaker 1: you're constantly worried that to be able to turn your 462 00:33:43,320 --> 00:33:44,880 Speaker 1: brain off for an hour and a half to two 463 00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:49,280 Speaker 1: hours and just laugh is incredibly important, and laughter is 464 00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:55,200 Speaker 1: the best medicine, right, so I do. There's just too 465 00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:59,160 Speaker 1: many rom coms out there. I obviously love Sandra Bullock. 466 00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:07,840 Speaker 1: There's just people that are funny without even trying. And 467 00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:10,000 Speaker 1: I'm going to think about that one, like if there's 468 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:13,319 Speaker 1: a specific one, and I'll name it, But it's not, 469 00:34:14,800 --> 00:34:17,719 Speaker 1: you know, like step Brothers and Pride and Prejudice come 470 00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:22,600 Speaker 1: to mind immediately, but so does Godfather too, by the way, 471 00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:27,480 Speaker 1: I've watched that twenty one times, I think. But a 472 00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:31,120 Speaker 1: rom com I would really have to think that through. 473 00:34:31,239 --> 00:34:36,279 Speaker 1: Like I know offhand the Sandra Bullock Ryan Reynolds one, 474 00:34:36,280 --> 00:34:39,400 Speaker 1: I think it was called The Proposal. I loved that movie. 475 00:34:41,000 --> 00:34:46,640 Speaker 1: What is your favorite musical actacy and concert? Well, I 476 00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:50,560 Speaker 1: am the biggest Youtwo fan in the world, and I've 477 00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:55,440 Speaker 1: had the pleasure of meeting the Edge a couple of times. Now. 478 00:34:55,880 --> 00:35:00,279 Speaker 1: I've seen so many of their concerts and then the 479 00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:07,440 Speaker 1: latest one was its fhear in Las Vegas, and I 480 00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:10,279 Speaker 1: was just blown away. I think my mouth was hanging 481 00:35:10,320 --> 00:35:15,280 Speaker 1: open the entire time. It was so phenomenal. Jim Dolan, 482 00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:20,040 Speaker 1: who owns Madison Square Garden, was essential and putting on 483 00:35:20,120 --> 00:35:24,960 Speaker 1: the spear and he did a fabulous job, so did 484 00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:28,680 Speaker 1: everybody involved. So that was the last concert I think 485 00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:35,560 Speaker 1: I went to, but I would go to any concert 486 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:37,600 Speaker 1: of theirs. I really want to go see Chris Stapleton. 487 00:35:38,160 --> 00:35:40,640 Speaker 1: I haven't seen him in concert yet, and I love 488 00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:45,000 Speaker 1: Chris Stapleton. And the other person I desperately desperately want 489 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:48,239 Speaker 1: to see in concert is Pink. I love her. I 490 00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:54,319 Speaker 1: love everything about her, her personality, her voice, her songwriting, 491 00:35:54,719 --> 00:36:02,680 Speaker 1: her messages, and I've seen obviously some of it on TV, 492 00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:08,200 Speaker 1: but it just looks like an amazing time. Other than that, 493 00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 1: I have grown to really really like my space and 494 00:36:17,480 --> 00:36:21,600 Speaker 1: I don't like to be crowded. Like, what was so 495 00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:24,759 Speaker 1: amazing about seeing you too, it sphear was I was 496 00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:31,880 Speaker 1: in Jim Dolan's suite there, and so there was a 497 00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:33,600 Speaker 1: lot of space and you could get up from your 498 00:36:33,640 --> 00:36:38,400 Speaker 1: seat and go grab There was like this amazing display 499 00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:42,160 Speaker 1: of food and drinks and everything else. So I didn't 500 00:36:42,200 --> 00:36:45,960 Speaker 1: feel like people were close to me and breathing on me. 501 00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:50,200 Speaker 1: I you know, don't ever want to get somebody else's 502 00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:54,520 Speaker 1: cold or somebody else's whatever. I'm very I'm much more 503 00:36:54,560 --> 00:36:58,880 Speaker 1: aware of that stuff now, So those kind of venues 504 00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,120 Speaker 1: are great for me to go to the rest now, 505 00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 1: I don't think it would have to be somebody that 506 00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:08,520 Speaker 1: I really really really really love in order to want 507 00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:15,880 Speaker 1: to go. Do you have a favorite TV or movie villain? God, 508 00:37:16,320 --> 00:37:19,320 Speaker 1: I mean Heath Ledger is a joker? Is Like, That's 509 00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:25,560 Speaker 1: just what popped into my brain. How phenomenal is he? 510 00:37:27,880 --> 00:37:35,040 Speaker 1: What's your favorite thing to receive in the mail? In 511 00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:37,640 Speaker 1: the mail not delivered to the house, right, so in 512 00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:40,720 Speaker 1: the mail because I don't get anything to my house 513 00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:47,919 Speaker 1: and in the mail probably when I, like, late at night, 514 00:37:48,239 --> 00:37:51,640 Speaker 1: get an itch and I order something off off of site, 515 00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:57,040 Speaker 1: Amazon or whatever. It's really exciting when it finally comes 516 00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:59,319 Speaker 1: because you have to try it on and see if 517 00:37:59,360 --> 00:38:03,759 Speaker 1: it fits. And I ordered a bathing suit recently from 518 00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:06,080 Speaker 1: a bathing suit company and it finally came and I 519 00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:07,279 Speaker 1: tried it on and I was like, oh my god, 520 00:38:07,280 --> 00:38:14,600 Speaker 1: it actually fits and it's flattering. That's really fun. Other 521 00:38:14,680 --> 00:38:18,920 Speaker 1: than that, I don't I don't love mail. Wouldn't it 522 00:38:18,920 --> 00:38:20,799 Speaker 1: be funny, you guys if I said, oh, I love 523 00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:25,040 Speaker 1: to get bills in the mail. Nobody likes bills. And 524 00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:27,120 Speaker 1: what kills me is that there's even such a thing 525 00:38:27,160 --> 00:38:30,080 Speaker 1: as mail for bills. I don't understand that. I have 526 00:38:30,160 --> 00:38:34,359 Speaker 1: this conversation with companies all the time where they're like, oh, hey, 527 00:38:34,400 --> 00:38:36,200 Speaker 1: it's been a week and you haven't paid our invoice. 528 00:38:36,200 --> 00:38:38,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, well, yeah, because there's no like click to pay, 529 00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:41,920 Speaker 1: and they're like, no, you'll have to send in a track. 530 00:38:43,239 --> 00:38:46,960 Speaker 1: I'm like, what, like what century are we living in? 531 00:38:47,080 --> 00:38:49,680 Speaker 1: Like why do we have to go back to the 532 00:38:49,840 --> 00:38:52,840 Speaker 1: dark ages? Which is silly of me, I know, but 533 00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:55,560 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't even have a stamp in my 534 00:38:55,640 --> 00:38:59,800 Speaker 1: house and to go to a post office what a 535 00:39:00,200 --> 00:39:05,400 Speaker 1: in the butt? So getting mail is a little odd 536 00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:08,920 Speaker 1: to me unless it's something that you specifically ordered. But 537 00:39:10,080 --> 00:39:11,640 Speaker 1: are you guys happy I didn't say that I love 538 00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:14,719 Speaker 1: to get bills in the mail. Nobody really likes that, 539 00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:20,839 Speaker 1: do they. Maybe that's where my dislike of mail has 540 00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:22,680 Speaker 1: come in. I do really like to get checks in 541 00:39:22,719 --> 00:39:26,239 Speaker 1: the mail. That's fun. When I get certain checks and 542 00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:28,239 Speaker 1: I see on the outside who they're from, and I 543 00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:32,120 Speaker 1: know it's money, I get very excited. That's the mail 544 00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:35,239 Speaker 1: I open immediately. Everything else kind of doesn't get open. 545 00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:43,040 Speaker 1: To be honest, what's your favorite compliment? I have a couple. 546 00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:50,560 Speaker 1: So I think my favorite compliment is when somebody comments 547 00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:55,040 Speaker 1: on my intelligence, because my brain is what I'm the 548 00:39:55,080 --> 00:40:00,640 Speaker 1: most proud of in this vessel. My my brain is 549 00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:02,319 Speaker 1: the thing I'm them was proud of. And then the 550 00:40:02,360 --> 00:40:07,640 Speaker 1: second compliment that I love the most is I call 551 00:40:07,719 --> 00:40:10,080 Speaker 1: it a compliment, is when somebody tells me how much 552 00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:13,839 Speaker 1: I've helped them go through cancer with a loved one 553 00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:21,320 Speaker 1: or go through cancer themselves. Because helping anybody that's sick, 554 00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:26,839 Speaker 1: anybody that's struggling in any way, shape or form, is. 555 00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:31,600 Speaker 1: It's validation and it makes you feel good. It makes 556 00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:36,279 Speaker 1: you feel like you're here for a purpose, and that's 557 00:40:36,360 --> 00:40:40,680 Speaker 1: really important to me. I love the Charmed fans that 558 00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:44,640 Speaker 1: talk all the time about how that show got them 559 00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:53,200 Speaker 1: through really difficult times and helped them build better relationships 560 00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:58,120 Speaker 1: with their parents and find sort of a family that 561 00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:03,200 Speaker 1: accepted them, which is other Charms fans. And recently somebody 562 00:41:03,280 --> 00:41:04,840 Speaker 1: was talking to me about nine oh two and oh 563 00:41:05,000 --> 00:41:08,719 Speaker 1: and they said, wow, nine oh oh really opened up 564 00:41:08,719 --> 00:41:12,759 Speaker 1: conversations with my parents when I was a teenager of 565 00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:17,719 Speaker 1: certain issues that were not discussed. So those are those 566 00:41:17,719 --> 00:41:21,680 Speaker 1: are huge, huge, huge compliments to me. And here's my 567 00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:26,760 Speaker 1: all time favorite. You're a good daughter. That's my favorite. 568 00:41:27,239 --> 00:41:33,719 Speaker 1: Uh what's your favorite time of day? And why I 569 00:41:33,719 --> 00:41:38,959 Speaker 1: don't really have a favorite time of day. I think 570 00:41:39,239 --> 00:41:41,120 Speaker 1: every time of day that I wake up and I'm 571 00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:48,040 Speaker 1: still breathing is a gift. So if that's seven o'clock 572 00:41:48,080 --> 00:41:54,600 Speaker 1: in the morning, if that's midnight, it doesn't matter. I 573 00:41:54,800 --> 00:42:01,080 Speaker 1: just any second that I'm awake and breathe and it's 574 00:42:01,160 --> 00:42:06,040 Speaker 1: not painful or it's not filled with stress is my favorite. 575 00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:15,040 Speaker 1: And beautiful, my favorite accent. There's so many that are beautiful. Obviously, 576 00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:18,279 Speaker 1: because I love Italy so much. An Italian accent it's 577 00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:25,600 Speaker 1: just so sexy and so lyrical, and I don't know, 578 00:42:25,680 --> 00:42:29,919 Speaker 1: you can write poems about an Italian accent. But there's 579 00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:33,960 Speaker 1: also African accents that are beautiful, in Indian accents that 580 00:42:34,040 --> 00:42:37,439 Speaker 1: are beautiful. I think it's not about the accent, right, 581 00:42:37,480 --> 00:42:41,040 Speaker 1: I think it's about when you meet somebody with an 582 00:42:41,080 --> 00:42:44,479 Speaker 1: accent from a different culture, from anything, and you learn 583 00:42:45,239 --> 00:42:50,799 Speaker 1: different words, different quirks, different meanings of things, and you 584 00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:55,600 Speaker 1: get to speak to them and really dove into their culture. 585 00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:58,840 Speaker 1: I love all of that. It's I mean, obviously a 586 00:42:58,880 --> 00:43:04,000 Speaker 1: British accent is very sexy as well, but I think 587 00:43:04,040 --> 00:43:07,120 Speaker 1: all accents are beautiful. Like when I was in Japan, 588 00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:12,240 Speaker 1: that was you know, that accent was gorgeous. That language 589 00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:18,840 Speaker 1: is gorgeous, And it's an appreciation for going outside of 590 00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:23,040 Speaker 1: your own box and experiencing something else, which is why 591 00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:26,600 Speaker 1: I really love to travel. Who is your favorite comedian? 592 00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:32,399 Speaker 1: David Chappelle. Dave Chappelle is my favorite comedian. I absolutely 593 00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:41,760 Speaker 1: absolutely love him. He I think his comedy is thought provoking. 594 00:43:41,760 --> 00:43:47,279 Speaker 1: And I realized that some of you may be upset 595 00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:50,759 Speaker 1: hearing Dave Chappelle because he has ruffled a lot of 596 00:43:50,760 --> 00:43:55,719 Speaker 1: feathers and not apologized for certain things. And what I 597 00:43:55,840 --> 00:44:01,279 Speaker 1: learned from that is not necessarily that I agreed with 598 00:44:01,360 --> 00:44:06,480 Speaker 1: it or didn't agree with it, but that he stood 599 00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:10,200 Speaker 1: by his beliefs or he stood by what his comedy 600 00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:18,040 Speaker 1: act was about. And comedy is a way to explore 601 00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:24,680 Speaker 1: different thoughts and to turn hot topics into I think, 602 00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:27,520 Speaker 1: bigger and deeper conversations, to be honest, like for me, 603 00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:31,239 Speaker 1: that's what it does. And he does that, and he 604 00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:36,200 Speaker 1: does it without flinching, and that is incredibly admirable because 605 00:44:37,080 --> 00:44:39,799 Speaker 1: I still find that I don't do that, and I 606 00:44:39,880 --> 00:44:43,560 Speaker 1: wish I had his courage and his bravery. I also 607 00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:51,160 Speaker 1: absolutely love Chris Rock. He's genius. They both are genius. 608 00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:55,640 Speaker 1: There's so many comedians out there, like Ricky Charves is ough. 609 00:44:57,000 --> 00:45:00,200 Speaker 1: So those are the three that I desperately want to 610 00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:03,719 Speaker 1: want to meet. Brickis jar Vas. Everything he does for 611 00:45:03,880 --> 00:45:09,600 Speaker 1: animals and how he calls out humans, you're still left 612 00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:16,520 Speaker 1: like laughing. But again, it's thought provoking, and that's these 613 00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:23,360 Speaker 1: three men specifically are thought provoking comedians and their comedy 614 00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:26,720 Speaker 1: is incredibly intelligent. It's not silly. It's not like calling 615 00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:29,000 Speaker 1: yourself a whore. It's not any of that stuff. It's 616 00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:35,759 Speaker 1: just intelligent comedy. And so those are my absolute three favorites. 617 00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:54,520 Speaker 1: What is your favorite way to pamper yourself? I don't. 618 00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:58,719 Speaker 1: You don't really have one, because honestly, I get a 619 00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:05,160 Speaker 1: little itchy, Like just sitting around, even getting my hair done, 620 00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:08,960 Speaker 1: I'm always looking at my watch, going Okay, how long 621 00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:14,439 Speaker 1: is this going to take? I think if I had 622 00:46:14,480 --> 00:46:17,120 Speaker 1: to pick out of just the pamper stuff, it would 623 00:46:17,320 --> 00:46:22,080 Speaker 1: probably be a massage and maybe a facial But even 624 00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:26,520 Speaker 1: then I find that after a while, I'm like, okay, 625 00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:28,880 Speaker 1: when are we done? I need to get up, I 626 00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:33,840 Speaker 1: need to leave. There are certain things that I call pampering, 627 00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:38,360 Speaker 1: like when I got micro pigmentation on my eyebrows. To me, 628 00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:43,359 Speaker 1: that was definitely a pamper situation, and it's still one 629 00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:48,160 Speaker 1: of the best things that I ever did. But I don't. 630 00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:52,000 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think I pamper myself, Like I 631 00:46:52,000 --> 00:46:55,000 Speaker 1: can't even even pedicure as bug me. I get them 632 00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:58,279 Speaker 1: on occasion, more than on occasion, but I get them. 633 00:46:58,320 --> 00:47:03,880 Speaker 1: I never get manicures, which is why my fingernails always 634 00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:09,399 Speaker 1: look broken because often they are. And I can't stand 635 00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:16,279 Speaker 1: the smell of nail polish on my hands because I 636 00:47:16,280 --> 00:47:20,600 Speaker 1: feel like I can almost taste it in my food afterwards, 637 00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:23,319 Speaker 1: like once it's on, I can almost taste it in 638 00:47:23,360 --> 00:47:28,200 Speaker 1: my food. So I'm not big on manicures pedicures. It's 639 00:47:28,280 --> 00:47:30,239 Speaker 1: just because you want pretty feet. But if I could 640 00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:33,319 Speaker 1: have really beautiful feet without a pedicure, I would do 641 00:47:33,440 --> 00:47:39,319 Speaker 1: it all day long. I don't. Lately, I've had some 642 00:47:39,440 --> 00:47:43,759 Speaker 1: aches and pains, and my mom has been pampering me 643 00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:46,600 Speaker 1: show like massage my feet as we're watching family food, 644 00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:52,439 Speaker 1: And that is amazing because you can always pull away, 645 00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:54,239 Speaker 1: you can always stop, You can always be like, okay, 646 00:47:54,280 --> 00:48:00,600 Speaker 1: I'm pampered enough, thank you very much. But I don't 647 00:48:00,600 --> 00:48:03,640 Speaker 1: know I mean pampering. There's so many different different definitions 648 00:48:03,680 --> 00:48:08,960 Speaker 1: of pampering to me, taking the day off, ignoring the 649 00:48:09,040 --> 00:48:15,960 Speaker 1: divorce attorney's emails, ignoring the you know iheart's emails, and 650 00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:19,680 Speaker 1: ignoring responsibilities, being like, oh, I'll pay my guest bill 651 00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:22,399 Speaker 1: tomorrow instead of today, even though it's due. I think 652 00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:26,600 Speaker 1: that pampering to me is taking those days and saying, hey, 653 00:48:26,680 --> 00:48:30,560 Speaker 1: I really need to unwind. I really need to unplug, 654 00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:33,960 Speaker 1: and I'm going to do that by literally ignoring everything 655 00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:36,759 Speaker 1: today and I'm going to jump in my car with 656 00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:40,120 Speaker 1: my dog. I'm going to listen to some music or 657 00:48:40,200 --> 00:48:42,080 Speaker 1: no music, and I'm going to take a drive to 658 00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:48,880 Speaker 1: Sannynez or to the beach or whatever, and read a book, 659 00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:56,360 Speaker 1: play with horses, ride horses. That is That is pampering myself. 660 00:48:56,840 --> 00:48:59,680 Speaker 1: Literally taking an entire day and finishing a book. Starting 661 00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:01,439 Speaker 1: in finishing a book in one day is a big 662 00:49:01,440 --> 00:49:04,359 Speaker 1: pamper because I'm tuning out the rest of the world. 663 00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:07,840 Speaker 1: I'm tuning out all of the noise, and that is 664 00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:16,480 Speaker 1: pampering for me. So those are some of my favorite things. 665 00:49:17,640 --> 00:49:21,200 Speaker 1: I hope I don't know. I hope you guys pamper yourselves. 666 00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:24,719 Speaker 1: I hope you take the time to unplug every once 667 00:49:24,719 --> 00:49:27,280 Speaker 1: in a while, because I think that if you don't unplug, 668 00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:33,600 Speaker 1: there's no way to be even. You know, I think 669 00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:37,360 Speaker 1: your equilibrium is always a little off if you don't 670 00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:39,960 Speaker 1: reset it. In order to reset it, I think you 671 00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:44,080 Speaker 1: have to unplug. Whether it's for thirty minutes, listening to 672 00:49:44,160 --> 00:49:51,840 Speaker 1: meditation tape or watching your favorite program, whatever, it's important. 673 00:49:51,880 --> 00:49:55,960 Speaker 1: Whether you have children, no children, high stress job, no job. 674 00:49:56,640 --> 00:49:59,360 Speaker 1: I just think there's so much noise in the world 675 00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:04,360 Speaker 1: right now. There's so much noise, and it's really stressful, 676 00:50:04,880 --> 00:50:11,840 Speaker 1: really stressful. There's everybody's got an opinion. Everybody wants to 677 00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:18,520 Speaker 1: argue about Biden or Trump, or Israel or Hamas, about protests, 678 00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:25,440 Speaker 1: no protest, there's it's tumultuous right now, and understandably so. 679 00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:30,000 Speaker 1: And believe me, I have very very strong opinions about that. 680 00:50:30,760 --> 00:50:33,560 Speaker 1: And you know, if ever there comes a time when 681 00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:38,879 Speaker 1: I'm you know, definite on my timeline, You'll probably hear 682 00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:40,879 Speaker 1: all of my opinions because I'll have nothing to lose 683 00:50:40,920 --> 00:50:44,560 Speaker 1: at that point. For now, I have to maintain peace 684 00:50:44,560 --> 00:50:50,719 Speaker 1: for myself. But I just find that there's it's constantly 685 00:50:50,800 --> 00:50:55,400 Speaker 1: coming at all of us again, whether it be political 686 00:50:55,440 --> 00:50:58,200 Speaker 1: stuff or whether it be if you're an animal lover 687 00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:01,080 Speaker 1: and you're watching dogs being you denies all the time 688 00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:04,880 Speaker 1: because you know, the mayor of La Karen Bass is 689 00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:08,160 Speaker 1: doing a really shit job. Like she's probably the worst 690 00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:12,320 Speaker 1: mayor ever for there's an opinion for you, cancel me 691 00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:16,439 Speaker 1: if you want, but she's a horrible, horrible, horrible mare 692 00:51:16,760 --> 00:51:20,000 Speaker 1: in every respect, not just with dogs and dealing with 693 00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:23,040 Speaker 1: the homeless. Anything that she said complete, she's done nothing. 694 00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:28,120 Speaker 1: And for me, because I love animals, that's incredibly stressful. 695 00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:31,880 Speaker 1: And when I go on Instagram, there's a gazillion dogs 696 00:51:31,880 --> 00:51:34,520 Speaker 1: that are about to be killed just in LA shelters 697 00:51:34,520 --> 00:51:38,759 Speaker 1: alone because of because her lack of doing anything about it. 698 00:51:39,280 --> 00:51:45,279 Speaker 1: And when I get that every day, it's like I 699 00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:47,960 Speaker 1: get a lot of anxiety and my stomach starts hurting 700 00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:51,960 Speaker 1: and I get stressed. And it's the same with you know, 701 00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:54,200 Speaker 1: the horses that are a for slaughter and trying to 702 00:51:54,280 --> 00:51:59,880 Speaker 1: raise money really quickly. There's pressure of just engaging and 703 00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:05,759 Speaker 1: trying to make sure that you're doing the right thing 704 00:52:05,800 --> 00:52:09,560 Speaker 1: for everyone and putting out the right message and connecting 705 00:52:09,600 --> 00:52:14,319 Speaker 1: with people and fulfilling your purpose. And that's for all 706 00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:16,880 Speaker 1: of us, right, that's not just for me. So we 707 00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:24,319 Speaker 1: all get inundated every single day by the noise in 708 00:52:24,360 --> 00:52:28,120 Speaker 1: this world and in particular this country, but really the world, 709 00:52:28,920 --> 00:52:34,359 Speaker 1: and so find that time to unplug again. It can 710 00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:38,560 Speaker 1: only it can be just thirty minutes, but you got 711 00:52:38,560 --> 00:52:40,880 Speaker 1: to we all have to center ourselves because if we 712 00:52:40,920 --> 00:52:45,360 Speaker 1: center ourselves, I think we're able to hear better. I 713 00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:48,759 Speaker 1: think that when somebody has a different political agenda than 714 00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:51,840 Speaker 1: you do, I think if you're centered, you're able to 715 00:52:51,920 --> 00:52:58,279 Speaker 1: hear why they feel that way. And we have free will, right, 716 00:52:58,600 --> 00:53:01,960 Speaker 1: that's some people should have free will, but we do. 717 00:53:02,160 --> 00:53:05,840 Speaker 1: God gave us free will, and so everybody has a 718 00:53:05,920 --> 00:53:10,920 Speaker 1: right to their opinion. Sometimes how it's expressed it's not okay. 719 00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:15,680 Speaker 1: But what's not okay is not hearing somebody else at 720 00:53:15,719 --> 00:53:18,560 Speaker 1: all and not taking into consideration something else. And I 721 00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:23,960 Speaker 1: think it's very hard to hear clearly when you're not centered. 722 00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:27,279 Speaker 1: So I'm going to log off now and probably go 723 00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:34,880 Speaker 1: center myself. But I hope you all find that time 724 00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:38,800 Speaker 1: when you're done with work, the kids are in bed, 725 00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:44,640 Speaker 1: you've taken your meds, whatever it is, that thirty minutes 726 00:53:44,680 --> 00:53:51,240 Speaker 1: to just unplug and hear your own thoughts loud and clear, 727 00:53:51,400 --> 00:53:56,600 Speaker 1: connect with your own thoughts, quiet them, and center yourself 728 00:53:56,760 --> 00:54:00,600 Speaker 1: so that you can wake up or continue your day 729 00:54:01,360 --> 00:54:07,840 Speaker 1: in a much more like relaxed, accepting manner. That's what 730 00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:10,479 Speaker 1: I wish for all of you and for myself as well. 731 00:54:11,040 --> 00:55:00,000 Speaker 1: So thank you for listening to a sort of random 732 00:55:01,560 --> 00:55:13,680 Speaker 1: assassas