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Speaker 1: a good manding everybody. You're listening to the voice, come on,

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Speaker 1: dig me now, one and only. Steve Harvey, I got

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Speaker 1: a radio show, just trying to give God some back,

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Speaker 1: in time, Steve, come home. Man, come on, man, you

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Speaker 1: could do better. I know you can. You know saying,

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Speaker 1: that you could lose. But when you got in your

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Speaker 1: in that type of type of analogy in life. Man,

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Speaker 1: Illustrated the life. Don't you want to be recognized for

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Speaker 1: It's amazing, man, how people describe other people's success. He's

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Speaker 1: a scripture that says, faith without works is dead. But

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Speaker 1: what what does that mean? That means, See, set your goals.

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Speaker 1: That means have your dreams. That I'm saying, set your goals. Man,

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Speaker 1: You know. It's so important everybody, that you get focused,

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Speaker 1: have a relationship with God. See what that's about. You understand?

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Speaker 1: we're dedicating today's show to all poultry employees of all kinds.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you for the joy that you've given up.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for the motivation, thank you for the way

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Speaker 1: downloaded common Commodores and followed you, Yeah, what's your favorite commodores? Jam?

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Speaker 1: Do you know about WAMIs my favorite commodore song? No One?

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Speaker 1: Maybe just the food dream of Yeah, but I don't care, yeah,

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Speaker 1: That's the name of the prank butt Cheeks. Okay, let's

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Speaker 1: do it. Hello, I'm trying to reach Carmen. Miss miss

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Speaker 1: Carmen Uh. This is a natuh my master's call. I'm

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Speaker 1: This is mister Porter. Porter. How are you doing today?

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Speaker 1: dating online, but yeah, they went on a few dates. Actually, okay,

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Speaker 1: they went on a few dates. Now I think she

421
00:25:41,800 --> 00:25:43,879
Speaker 1: should know about you. No, I think you should know

422
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 1: about her and go on about your business. See, I

423
00:25:48,119 --> 00:25:51,800
Speaker 1: don't know why people think that it's your job to report.

424
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,960
Speaker 1: Don't you know you ain't got to do that. Well,

425
00:25:55,040 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 1: you know, they're hurt so that they want to lash out.

426
00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:01,480
Speaker 1: That's what that is. Hurt people, hurt people. Yeah, she

427
00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:05,400
Speaker 1: wants to lash out. What she gonna know about me? No? No, no,

428
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:08,680
Speaker 1: she doesn't need to do don't go there. Yeah. But

429
00:26:08,680 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 1: but but sister, when she finds out about you, guess

430
00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:18,280
Speaker 1: what it changes nothing. You have already decided you're not

431
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:23,280
Speaker 1: gonna see him no more. You've already decided he's a dog, right,

432
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:27,080
Speaker 1: So not guess what you telling her that you're not

433
00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:30,600
Speaker 1: gonna see him anymore? And he's still a dog. Right.

434
00:26:31,400 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 1: But the point is, she does want to continue seeing him,

435
00:26:34,359 --> 00:26:38,720
Speaker 1: and she wants to get him back. Yeah, she does

436
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:40,880
Speaker 1: want to continue seeing him, and she wants to get

437
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:43,359
Speaker 1: him back for not telling her he was married. She

438
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:47,359
Speaker 1: wants revenge. Wait a minute, that's why, what do you

439
00:26:47,400 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 1: mean she wants to continue to see him. She does

440
00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:53,439
Speaker 1: want to Yeah, she doesn't want to break up with

441
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:55,679
Speaker 1: this guy. I mean, I know he's married, but she

442
00:26:55,720 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 1: doesn't want to break up with them. I don't believe

443
00:26:58,600 --> 00:27:01,960
Speaker 1: she does. And I believe she also wants to hurt him,

444
00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:06,200
Speaker 1: you know, and get revenge. Okay, Well, let me explain

445
00:27:06,280 --> 00:27:10,720
Speaker 1: something to you. She's not once you seek the revenge,

446
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:15,119
Speaker 1: you can forget that. We're gonna see each other. I've

447
00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:21,159
Speaker 1: never seen that. I've never ever seen that workout system.

448
00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:23,960
Speaker 1: I don't know what the movie you're watching that's why

449
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:26,680
Speaker 1: she's gonna get there. I've never seen that workout. This

450
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:32,280
Speaker 1: is they're very important. Who has more fake hair? Who

451
00:27:32,359 --> 00:27:37,679
Speaker 1: has more fake hair? White women, black women or NFL

452
00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:40,719
Speaker 1: football players? Explain all three? Serve you can break that

453
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 1: down for me. Wow, First of all, I think I

454
00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 1: think it's white women because it was a surprise to

455
00:27:48,080 --> 00:27:50,679
Speaker 1: me when my wife showed me how to detect it.

456
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:56,120
Speaker 1: And they call it hot hair, and they they've been

457
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:59,480
Speaker 1: doing it for years. I've found out long before weaves

458
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:03,280
Speaker 1: got fake. Okay, and so NFL players, go ahead, we're

459
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 1: talking about lady. Yeah, all right, coming out more of

460
00:28:07,760 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening show.

461
00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,520
Speaker 1: Can you be friends with your ex? And what does

462
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:20,240
Speaker 1: it take to be friends with you? I don't give

463
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:27,639
Speaker 1: a damn what they do. I don't give mine. No, no,

464
00:28:28,119 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 1: he said, I've been the court way too many times.

465
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:34,399
Speaker 1: O hell that my answer can't even be said on

466
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 1: the ass. All right, Junior, we're not gonna be friends? Okay, Junior?

467
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,840
Speaker 1: Can you be friends with an ex? I would like

468
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:48,800
Speaker 1: to have been. They just don't want me. He keep

469
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 1: leaving me. I still be there. You're the sweetest guy ever. Yeah,

470
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:54,800
Speaker 1: but I'll still be there. Quit acting like no one

471
00:28:54,880 --> 00:29:01,200
Speaker 1: wants you. You're you're so sweet, you're Come on now, nick,

472
00:29:01,840 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 1: I know what do anybody want him? Come on, Junior?

473
00:29:05,840 --> 00:29:08,960
Speaker 1: Tell the truth now, don't Jude? Junior, don't you let

474
00:29:09,000 --> 00:29:17,160
Speaker 1: them make you cute? What? Stop? Stop? Don't I know

475
00:29:17,200 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 1: I ain't make you ugly? Don't let him? Can you say,

476
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 1: my daddy? You all look just like, Yeah, I love

477
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 1: your nice looking man? No, not according to you? To

478
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:35,959
Speaker 1: your bank account? Get the cute? Do you get? Thank you?

479
00:29:36,440 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 1: But wait a minute. Even even besides that, Junior, why

480
00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: do you go to the gym every day? Then? If

481
00:29:42,320 --> 00:29:43,600
Speaker 1: why do you go to the Junie? I got to

482
00:29:43,600 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 1: sit the sales shout. I guess to be in shapeful something.

483
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:50,680
Speaker 1: But yeah, yeah, but you's got to fight. You say

484
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:55,680
Speaker 1: for nobody, this is this is for me, started slimming down.

485
00:29:55,840 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 1: You got your gun. He's the tax is getting stronger.

486
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:07,840
Speaker 1: Say for nobody for me? All right, Jay, let me

487
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:11,560
Speaker 1: ask you can be friends with your eggs? All the

488
00:30:11,640 --> 00:30:15,360
Speaker 1: stuff I've lost in every divorce, all of them, every

489
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:17,960
Speaker 1: last one of them. I got that back and more

490
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:22,280
Speaker 1: so I'm cool now. I'm cool friends with them. Yeah,

491
00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:24,320
Speaker 1: we're cool. You know, I ain't gonna go out of

492
00:30:24,360 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 1: my wage not to speak. Well, that's that's not a friend.

493
00:30:32,320 --> 00:30:35,240
Speaker 1: I know. I know one that you cool with. No,

494
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:40,000
Speaker 1: I'm cool with up. No, you number about to throw

495
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 1: excuse me what I'm about? Number? You got caught out? Jay.

496
00:30:45,520 --> 00:30:47,480
Speaker 1: I can tell you this. I can tell you this.

497
00:30:47,640 --> 00:30:52,320
Speaker 1: You listen to this. The very first divorce, which had

498
00:30:52,600 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 1: was a long time ago, has not spoken to me

499
00:30:56,800 --> 00:31:02,080
Speaker 1: since then. Really I'm talking. My mama died that you know,

500
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 1: not a word, not a word. Have y'all seen each other? No,

501
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:20,680
Speaker 1: she saw you, Jay, because I know him. She saw him.

502
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:28,680
Speaker 1: She just missed he threw something out him. Yeah, she

503
00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 1: had his ass lyned up. She just missed. I'm a

504
00:31:33,520 --> 00:31:40,120
Speaker 1: nice guy. I'm a very nice until you marry me. Wow,

505
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 1: that is you in a nutshell? Is that the truth? See?

506
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:46,640
Speaker 1: That sounds like the truth right there? Did you hear

507
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:49,520
Speaker 1: what he said? Jay is a nice guy all the

508
00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:54,200
Speaker 1: way around. He really is. He just you know all

509
00:31:54,240 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 1: it is. And I'm gonna tell you about my friend.

510
00:31:56,760 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 1: The only thing is he just doesn't He never developed

511
00:32:01,320 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 1: conflict resolution skills. He just walked out. He don't. He

512
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:11,200
Speaker 1: don't the conflict resolution. He just look at you and

513
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:13,840
Speaker 1: you just keep talking. Crazy. He just look at you.

514
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:16,640
Speaker 1: Why I And then one day, then one day he

515
00:32:16,760 --> 00:32:20,880
Speaker 1: just drive off. Yeah, gone, he doesn't come back. Steve

516
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 1: ain't man ain't. I ain't ain't he I an't even

517
00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 1: do all that. Yeah, I don't like to argue, though,

518
00:32:28,360 --> 00:32:31,560
Speaker 1: I don't. All right now, let's get to the name

519
00:32:31,640 --> 00:32:36,120
Speaker 1: on the job. Long than I've ever been married. That's crazy,

520
00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:40,000
Speaker 1: all right, nephew, you're the newest to marry in the group.

521
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 1: Can you be friends with an X if we're still

522
00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:48,360
Speaker 1: doing it? You know? I mean that makes sense right? No,

523
00:32:48,800 --> 00:32:51,240
Speaker 1: only to you? I think I mean we should doing it?

524
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 1: Then you we might well still be friends. If we're

525
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:56,959
Speaker 1: still doing it, but we're not, then you're still involved.

526
00:32:57,200 --> 00:33:00,240
Speaker 1: That's not really the Yeah yeah, doing it involved is

527
00:33:00,280 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 1: not the same thing, Carlin, you're what else is left

528
00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:11,240
Speaker 1: after that? What are we doing it? We ain't talking

529
00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:15,280
Speaker 1: after you do it. That's what's next. The only friends

530
00:33:15,360 --> 00:33:18,680
Speaker 1: you have are friends with benefits? Was the purpose of

531
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:23,520
Speaker 1: a friend? Wow? I want to do over? Yeah? Sure

532
00:33:23,600 --> 00:33:26,000
Speaker 1: you want me to do it? No? No, No, I mean,

533
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:32,440
Speaker 1: just you get your nephew, Steve. No, he's saying, listen

534
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 1: to me. I listened to me. It's times when he

535
00:33:36,320 --> 00:33:40,040
Speaker 1: not my nephew. Would this be one of those times?

536
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 1: I gotta see? I know when to disown. It's times

537
00:33:45,240 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 1: where disowning him is just the best way to handle it,

538
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 1: you know. I look, when he says something so damn stupid,

539
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:54,240
Speaker 1: Why do I have to stop him? I'll do nothing

540
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 1: but be stopping him all damn day. Though. Okay, but

541
00:33:57,280 --> 00:34:00,800
Speaker 1: you say some some of it, you gotta go. I

542
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 1: say stuff that makes sense, it's just you don't want

543
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:07,360
Speaker 1: to digest it. Well, the thing that's really got me

544
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 1: is that, out of all of you guys, Jay is

545
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:13,799
Speaker 1: the only one that can remain friends with his ax

546
00:34:14,480 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 1: the bitter man of the But that is crazy, and

547
00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:21,279
Speaker 1: there's only one Shirley, and I know exactly who. I

548
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:27,080
Speaker 1: could say her name right now, could I ja? Okay?

549
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:32,400
Speaker 1: That that is if I say the wrong name. No,

550
00:34:32,520 --> 00:34:38,319
Speaker 1: you're not, No, you're not? Wow? How many ex's a lot?

551
00:34:38,360 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 1: We don't even talk about it? Okay? Mary? Lot up? Junior?

552
00:34:47,880 --> 00:34:51,879
Speaker 1: What well you went all the way back there? All right?

553
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:55,160
Speaker 1: Coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show journey

554
00:34:55,800 --> 00:35:03,360
Speaker 1: right after then you're listening time for Would you rather?

555
00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:07,760
Speaker 1: Would you rather talk on the phone or send a text?

556
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:14,680
Speaker 1: Tex I rather text? Really? Yeah? I don't like talking

557
00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 1: to people sons something, because didn't they asked us something?

558
00:35:20,160 --> 00:35:25,120
Speaker 1: You lead into too much, Texas. Everybody I'll talk to

559
00:35:25,320 --> 00:35:29,920
Speaker 1: I talk to face to face, all right? Would you

560
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:35,040
Speaker 1: rather a pretty woman with median income or wealthy woman

561
00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:39,920
Speaker 1: and not so cute? I? Would you rather have a

562
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:44,279
Speaker 1: pretty woman with median income or a wealthy woman and

563
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:48,439
Speaker 1: she's not that cute? Don't give me a no, I'm

564
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:51,600
Speaker 1: taking the uncles. You got money, my ug lads, hug lad.

565
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 1: We're gonna be together to hear we won't can say

566
00:35:56,960 --> 00:35:59,680
Speaker 1: what you want to say about it. Who dating the pirate?

567
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 1: I'm dating the party. Shut up, baby, I got it.

568
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 1: Shut up at your bar, I got it all right.

569
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 1: Would you rather would you rather sew all your own clothes?

570
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:25,719
Speaker 1: Or would you rather grow all your own food? So

571
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:28,359
Speaker 1: all your clothes, to grow all your food? Oh, grow

572
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:30,839
Speaker 1: my food. I like to grow my food. That's been

573
00:36:30,920 --> 00:36:33,400
Speaker 1: always been a dream of mine. To give me a

574
00:36:33,440 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 1: big greenhouse. I'm working on that right now. Really. Oh yeah, man,

575
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:42,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna grow my own would fool man? I would

576
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 1: think since you like clothes so much, you would like

577
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:46,920
Speaker 1: to sew your own clothes if you're wearing that ragged

578
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 1: ass man clothes my sister used to make me. I'm not.

579
00:36:54,239 --> 00:36:58,040
Speaker 1: Oh you've had that experience. Yeah, yeah, my sister ud

580
00:36:58,040 --> 00:37:04,279
Speaker 1: make my capes when I went to the count. Yeah, man,

581
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:06,719
Speaker 1: you'd wait at one time? Did you throw that damn thing?

582
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:11,960
Speaker 1: Because it was not built to last? All right? Feathers

583
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:16,799
Speaker 1: coming off, beads all in the floor, feathers falling off,

584
00:37:16,880 --> 00:37:21,279
Speaker 1: all of that. Would you rather noisy neighbors or would

585
00:37:21,320 --> 00:37:26,600
Speaker 1: you rather noisy neighbors? I'm gonna go with beat. Yeah,

586
00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:29,400
Speaker 1: I'd rather have noisy neighbors. Just going over there and

587
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 1: make some noise. I can deal with that, but quick yeah,

588
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:38,799
Speaker 1: looking all through anything, stand question. I can't stand that

589
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:46,080
Speaker 1: that healthless day next to me was both noisy and old,

590
00:37:46,320 --> 00:37:52,640
Speaker 1: asked German woman just a hateful assa. Oh I remember her? Yeah,

591
00:37:52,680 --> 00:37:57,239
Speaker 1: she's so trifling. I couldn't stand this woman. Man Man.

592
00:37:57,280 --> 00:37:59,719
Speaker 1: Margine was over at the other house. She forgot she

593
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 1: hate hi guys hate off? Wow, yeah, she got the mention.

594
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:11,240
Speaker 1: Now she forgot she to hate us. Thank you guys,

595
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:17,120
Speaker 1: you're listening. Show All right, Jay, it is time for

596
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 1: comedy roulette. Got it up quickly. It's just the insults.

597
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 1: Every week you test out comedy ability. Tell you what

598
00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 1: you do? Take five stup? Put them on a wheel,

599
00:38:27,440 --> 00:38:30,960
Speaker 1: spending a wheel? Which stop? We'll do the damn thing

600
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:33,319
Speaker 1: with you guys. All right, here we go. I have

601
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:38,160
Speaker 1: the categories. Let's spend the wheel, I mean, let's get ready.

602
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:41,600
Speaker 1: All right? She she hasn't she has an invisible boyfriend.

603
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:44,880
Speaker 1: Oh everybody knows somebody like that. All right, that's number

604
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:49,120
Speaker 1: one numbers Stop lying you're staying at your mama's house.

605
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:54,439
Speaker 1: Number three? When are you gonna get that back? Too? Thick?

606
00:38:54,640 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 1: You know, people like this is right back number four.

607
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:07,560
Speaker 1: You know they repo that car at number five. I

608
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 1: don't know how to tell you this, but she singing, somebody,

609
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: all of these are good, A cat, I'm on that two.

610
00:39:18,360 --> 00:39:27,319
Speaker 1: Come on too, Come on, I'm a si a number two.

611
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:30,239
Speaker 1: Stop lying. You staying at your mama's house. You know

612
00:39:30,440 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 1: how I know you standing at your mama house. Yeah,

613
00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 1: the club. I hear you on the phone say hey,

614
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:38,279
Speaker 1: I'll be there in a minute. Mama, lead a key

615
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:46,080
Speaker 1: under the door, and your mama your mama's out. I

616
00:39:46,120 --> 00:39:48,239
Speaker 1: know you stand at your mama house. How I know

617
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:51,520
Speaker 1: you'd be trying to hide. But all your clothes got creasing.

618
00:39:56,960 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 1: You know that well, you know that good. Your clothes

619
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:05,839
Speaker 1: gotta even creep back on both you stand at your

620
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:09,719
Speaker 1: staying at your mama house. When you got a lunch

621
00:40:09,760 --> 00:40:13,480
Speaker 1: bag with your name on it in the car, Mama

622
00:40:13,560 --> 00:40:21,400
Speaker 1: made that for you. Boy. When you when when you

623
00:40:21,520 --> 00:40:25,200
Speaker 1: on your cell phone talking, uh, and we can hear

624
00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 1: the washing machine in the bathroom mama house. You know

625
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 1: you know, I know you stand at your mama house.

626
00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 1: You ain't got your own key, and the key you

627
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Speaker 1: got is around your neck. Fooling fool you You ain't fooling, No,

628
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Speaker 1: damn bad Keep growing ass man. I know you stand

629
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Speaker 1: at your mama house when I come to your mama

630
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Speaker 1: house on family functions. You first one? Now? How you

631
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:07,560
Speaker 1: the first one here? Right? We know you staying at

632
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 1: your mama house when you you only invite us over

633
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:13,600
Speaker 1: doing prayer, meeting mamma, going to church tonight we can

634
00:41:13,680 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 1: come through. Yeah, I know you at your mama This

635
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:21,720
Speaker 1: is how I know you live at your mama's house.

636
00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:32,440
Speaker 1: You always smell damn smell you know how I know

637
00:41:32,560 --> 00:41:38,239
Speaker 1: you're just smell everything. How I know you stand at

638
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:41,280
Speaker 1: your mama house every day? You coming in talking about

639
00:41:41,600 --> 00:41:46,760
Speaker 1: a gospel show? You watching this when you start watching

640
00:41:46,760 --> 00:41:52,759
Speaker 1: old steam for I have experience in this area. That's

641
00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 1: why I know you stand at your mama house when

642
00:41:56,560 --> 00:42:02,799
Speaker 1: you always into it with her boyfriend. How came you?

643
00:42:05,719 --> 00:42:10,920
Speaker 1: You're like nothing else? You know? You staying at to

644
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:20,439
Speaker 1: your mama hawk, You're lotion. You will smell like a va. Yeah,

645
00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:22,879
Speaker 1: what are you coming to? Smelling like white diamond? What

646
00:42:22,960 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 1: is that about? Come on, Steve, closing out? This is

647
00:42:30,680 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 1: how you know you love your mama's house. Called the

648
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:38,400
Speaker 1: car you driving got a Bible on the dashboard and

649
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:56,360
Speaker 1: the Bible head Jesus. All right, we'll be back with you.

650
00:42:56,480 --> 00:42:59,279
Speaker 1: We do it or did we not do it? You

651
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:03,359
Speaker 1: get We'll be back with Nevhew, tell me sprank phone

652
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 1: call after this. You're listening morning show coming up at

653
00:43:10,480 --> 00:43:12,759
Speaker 1: the top of the hour. Right about four minutes after.

654
00:43:12,800 --> 00:43:16,320
Speaker 1: It's my strawberry letter for today's subjects. I'm doing wify

655
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:20,200
Speaker 1: things without a ring. That is the subject. Okay, but

656
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:23,399
Speaker 1: right now, nephew, here with today's prank phone call. Check

657
00:43:23,440 --> 00:43:28,520
Speaker 1: out for us nav. Can we use your cask? What

658
00:43:29,440 --> 00:43:34,920
Speaker 1: can we you your cask? Get you? I've never heard Hey, hey,

659
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:36,719
Speaker 1: we're going through a little sum. We're going through a

660
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:40,520
Speaker 1: list sum. All right, man, can you loan me a cask?

661
00:43:40,560 --> 00:43:49,760
Speaker 1: Get to get on my feet? Okay, let's go cat. Hello,

662
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:53,680
Speaker 1: I'll try to reach Vicky. This is Vicky. Hey, Vicky,

663
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:56,360
Speaker 1: how are you doing? Are you the Are you the

664
00:43:56,480 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 1: niece of uh? I think it's ain't your aunt? Yes? Okay,

665
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:08,160
Speaker 1: and you you now you aren't passed away? I man,

666
00:44:08,200 --> 00:44:11,080
Speaker 1: iw many years ago, y'allre passed. It was about five

667
00:44:11,200 --> 00:44:15,840
Speaker 1: years ago. Okay, listen, I'm over here at the funeral home. U.

668
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:21,359
Speaker 1: My sister just passed away, and U they gave me

669
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:24,400
Speaker 1: your phone number? Did you guys? We're going through a

670
00:44:24,400 --> 00:44:26,760
Speaker 1: little bit of a situation here, did you guys? Aren't

671
00:44:27,040 --> 00:44:29,279
Speaker 1: have you know? Your aunt was a heavy set woman?

672
00:44:29,400 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 1: Is that right? Okay? Now they had to did they

673
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:35,680
Speaker 1: have to put her in a in a? Did they

674
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:39,840
Speaker 1: have a bill of a special casket for her? Yeah? Okay,

675
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:42,160
Speaker 1: that's what we're kind of going through with my sister.

676
00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 1: We ordered a special casket for for for my sister,

677
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:50,359
Speaker 1: and I'm assuming this is the same thing that you

678
00:44:50,400 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 1: guys went through. I called several of her, her children,

679
00:44:53,800 --> 00:44:55,640
Speaker 1: but I wasn't able to get in touch with anybody.

680
00:44:55,640 --> 00:44:58,120
Speaker 1: But the funeral home actually had your name on file

681
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 1: as well, so they gave me your number where I

682
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 1: will be able to talk to you. Is that is that? Okay? Yeah,

683
00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 1: that's okay. You can speak to me. But you know,

684
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:11,640
Speaker 1: let's seeks to leave a problem. Well, listen, the funeral

685
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 1: is actually in two days and we ordered one of

686
00:45:15,160 --> 00:45:18,719
Speaker 1: those special caskets, but it doesn't look like it's gonna

687
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:22,120
Speaker 1: be in for another week, so you know, it's almost

688
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:23,880
Speaker 1: like we're gonna we're gonna we're not gonna have a

689
00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:28,640
Speaker 1: casket for her um, you know, for the funeral, and

690
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 1: you know, like I said, the funeral home told us

691
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Speaker 1: about you know that you guys, who are the last

692
00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:36,399
Speaker 1: ones that ordered a casket of that size? And you know,

693
00:45:36,600 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 1: me and the rest of the family has been you know,

694
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:40,120
Speaker 1: we've been trying to figure out what to do and

695
00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:43,560
Speaker 1: what to do. Do you think it's any way possible

696
00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:48,759
Speaker 1: we can borrow the casket that your Ain't is in,

697
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:52,200
Speaker 1: and then when the casket comes in that we ordered,

698
00:45:52,200 --> 00:45:55,799
Speaker 1: we can put her in that casket and put her

699
00:45:55,840 --> 00:45:58,600
Speaker 1: back down to rest like she's always been. Do you

700
00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:04,840
Speaker 1: think that's excuse me? Hello? Hello, you think you repeat yourself?

701
00:46:05,120 --> 00:46:08,359
Speaker 1: What exactly are you asking me? Well, what I'm saying is,

702
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:12,440
Speaker 1: do you think we can bar your ain't casket because

703
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 1: you know, the fuel is in two days and the

704
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:17,719
Speaker 1: casket is not gonna be in in order for us

705
00:46:17,719 --> 00:46:19,319
Speaker 1: to be able to bury her in a in a

706
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 1: casket for you know, to accommodate her size. That's what

707
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:26,800
Speaker 1: I'm asking. What kind of that you're talking about? First

708
00:46:26,800 --> 00:46:29,720
Speaker 1: of all, who is this? Okay, No, my name is Larry,

709
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:31,480
Speaker 1: Like I said, my name is Larry I got you.

710
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 1: I got you guys. Like I said, I tried to

711
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:36,600
Speaker 1: call some of her kids, but nobody ever picked up

712
00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 1: when I called. Yet her niece's number a file too.

713
00:46:41,640 --> 00:46:45,719
Speaker 1: You you are her niece, Vicky, right, Yes, I am. Okay,

714
00:46:46,160 --> 00:46:48,440
Speaker 1: that's what I'm saying. Do you think that maybe you

715
00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:50,920
Speaker 1: can talk to the children and see if we can

716
00:46:50,960 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 1: maybe used that particular casket? Okay, wait a minute, what

717
00:46:55,200 --> 00:46:58,480
Speaker 1: the talking about this? The first of all, who who

718
00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 1: is this? You? You gotta be losing your mind if

719
00:47:01,160 --> 00:47:03,880
Speaker 1: you think I'm gonna let you dig up my any

720
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:07,080
Speaker 1: so just to bury your snufts. But I understand where

721
00:47:07,080 --> 00:47:09,080
Speaker 1: you're coming from. But what I'm trying to say is

722
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:11,640
Speaker 1: that we don't have a casket big enough and they were.

723
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Speaker 1: They let us know that you guys were the last

724
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:17,280
Speaker 1: ones that had a casket that you know I'm gonna

725
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 1: do with us? That's you don't true stuff figuring out

726
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:24,440
Speaker 1: have you show no? No? Well, okay, first of all,

727
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:26,680
Speaker 1: what I'm trying to do is this the family been

728
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 1: grieving pretty hard, and I just wanted to make sure

729
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:31,359
Speaker 1: that the funeral will be right, and it ain't gonna

730
00:47:31,360 --> 00:47:33,839
Speaker 1: be right, and we don't have that We don't think

731
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Speaker 1: my family gonna feel digging any up. I'll show they

732
00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:41,359
Speaker 1: don't call me with this. Who is the funeral home

733
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:44,960
Speaker 1: that gave you my number to ask me to use

734
00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:47,680
Speaker 1: the casket so you can bury your sister. Who is

735
00:47:47,719 --> 00:47:49,920
Speaker 1: the name of that person? I can't remember, but it

736
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 1: was it was It was a guy. The funeral director

737
00:47:52,360 --> 00:47:54,400
Speaker 1: let me know that you guys had went through a

738
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:57,600
Speaker 1: situation where you had to bury your your your your art.

739
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:00,520
Speaker 1: Like I said, I tried to call what's your name again?

740
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:03,719
Speaker 1: My name is Larry, Okay, Larry. This is this is

741
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:06,719
Speaker 1: a stupid I don't know what give you my phone

742
00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:09,560
Speaker 1: number to call me asking you just dun't. Can't you

743
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:13,279
Speaker 1: believe her? They call here asking me so can dig

744
00:48:13,400 --> 00:48:17,960
Speaker 1: up so they can bury the faster Here's don't have

745
00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:22,360
Speaker 1: a casket? Hello, No, no, whatstand that's your fault? No,

746
00:48:22,440 --> 00:48:24,840
Speaker 1: I understand, it's not your fault. What I'm trying to

747
00:48:24,880 --> 00:48:27,600
Speaker 1: say is what y'all show some sympathy and some love

748
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 1: for me and my family going through because we don't

749
00:48:30,719 --> 00:48:33,280
Speaker 1: have a casket. Like I say, my tuster my sister

750
00:48:33,400 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 1: was was you know? Was it? If the heavens was

751
00:48:34,960 --> 00:48:38,880
Speaker 1: a hell time? You know, my condoleses go out to

752
00:48:38,920 --> 00:48:40,799
Speaker 1: you and your family. You know I'm trying to be

753
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:44,759
Speaker 1: as reserved as I can with this whole situation. But

754
00:48:44,880 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 1: do you understand what kind of stupid you're asking me

755
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:50,919
Speaker 1: right now to actually dig up my unt whose armed,

756
00:48:50,920 --> 00:48:54,000
Speaker 1: who's been and what out for fun years? To bury

757
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:58,279
Speaker 1: your sister? Because let me let me ask you this,

758
00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 1: if like this with you that you ain't ain't gonna know,

759
00:49:03,760 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 1: she ain't gonna know with you, for you to say

760
00:49:07,640 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 1: to me what don't know? But you're stupid? What you're

761
00:49:12,000 --> 00:49:16,560
Speaker 1: talking on you smoking crack? What don't know? I don't know? More?

762
00:49:16,719 --> 00:49:19,359
Speaker 1: First of all, you know what I First of all,

763
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:21,080
Speaker 1: I appreciate you trying to work with me, but I

764
00:49:21,239 --> 00:49:22,960
Speaker 1: want to say this is you. You don't even have

765
00:49:23,080 --> 00:49:25,680
Speaker 1: the authority to make that decision if you give me

766
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:29,360
Speaker 1: one of the numbers to one of your cousins. Because

767
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:31,920
Speaker 1: I was really trying to be nice and be calm.

768
00:49:32,160 --> 00:49:35,319
Speaker 1: But guess what, we're not doing this stupid. I'm trying

769
00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:37,000
Speaker 1: to be nice to you and tell and trying to

770
00:49:37,040 --> 00:49:38,919
Speaker 1: help you out, but no, you want me to get

771
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:41,279
Speaker 1: ignorant and ask stupid with you. I was trying to

772
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:44,680
Speaker 1: be nice and sympathetic. But we're not doing it. I'm

773
00:49:44,719 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 1: not giving you the number. I got the authority to

774
00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:50,719
Speaker 1: tell you right now. No, we're not digging up, so

775
00:49:50,800 --> 00:49:54,240
Speaker 1: you can bury yourselufs to fair. Okay, so so so

776
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 1: so so, that's just it. I can't talk to now,

777
00:49:57,239 --> 00:49:59,040
Speaker 1: that's it. No, you ain't talking to know, but you're

778
00:49:59,040 --> 00:50:01,399
Speaker 1: talking to me. Okay, I got I got, I got

779
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:03,040
Speaker 1: something else I need to tell you though, I need.

780
00:50:03,080 --> 00:50:04,760
Speaker 1: I need to tell you something else or you listen

781
00:50:05,320 --> 00:50:08,120
Speaker 1: tell me. I want to tell you this. This is

782
00:50:08,239 --> 00:50:11,839
Speaker 1: nephew Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. Vicky yr

783
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:16,959
Speaker 1: sister Sheila got me to prank phone called you. Huh.

784
00:50:17,400 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 1: Who is this again? Biggy Bicky? This is a nephew

785
00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 1: Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your sister Sheila

786
00:50:27,640 --> 00:50:34,800
Speaker 1: got me to prank phone call you. Oh oh, y'all

787
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:38,920
Speaker 1: you got me over y'all worked up? I because I'm

788
00:50:38,920 --> 00:50:42,360
Speaker 1: gonna keep she played at much. She ain't got. I

789
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:44,279
Speaker 1: got woman thing to ask you, baby, what is the

790
00:50:44,320 --> 00:50:47,719
Speaker 1: baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in the

791
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:55,680
Speaker 1: land Steve Harvey Morning Show for y'all Crater you know

792
00:50:56,080 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 1: there's some people that they killed me. You just you know,

793
00:50:58,920 --> 00:51:02,120
Speaker 1: where's the love? You know? Your brother just want to

794
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 1: casket for a couple of days. You know what I'm saying.

795
00:51:04,760 --> 00:51:10,640
Speaker 1: Not willing to share. I mean, I just I just

796
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:13,920
Speaker 1: don't understand that that woman already has been laid the rest,

797
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:17,000
Speaker 1: so it's not like we're messing up her funeral. Yeah,

798
00:51:17,200 --> 00:51:24,319
Speaker 1: where's the love? O? Man? Somebody got it bad? What

799
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:28,319
Speaker 1: you're listening to? Somebody go whip you really bad. You're

800
00:51:28,320 --> 00:51:32,080
Speaker 1: talking about digging on black people. See that's that line

801
00:51:32,200 --> 00:51:35,040
Speaker 1: step Yeah. See you did that with that other brother

802
00:51:35,080 --> 00:51:37,359
Speaker 1: one time, when you something about digging up. He's a man.

803
00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:42,239
Speaker 1: I just got to people to stop crying. Last I'm

804
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:45,360
Speaker 1: just trying casket for a few days, man, And you

805
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:47,920
Speaker 1: loan me a casket to I get on my feet.

806
00:51:48,000 --> 00:51:57,600
Speaker 1: That's that's all coming up. Next it is the Strawberry

807
00:51:57,680 --> 00:52:00,920
Speaker 1: Letters subject I'm doing wifey things without a ring. We'll

808
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:05,160
Speaker 1: get into it right after this. You're listening to Harvey

809
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 1: Morning Show time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and listen.

810
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:13,040
Speaker 1: If you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

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813
00:52:19,440 --> 00:52:22,040
Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

814
00:52:22,040 --> 00:52:25,520
Speaker 1: going to read this one right here, right now. Buckle

815
00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:27,759
Speaker 1: up and hold on tight. We got it for you here.

816
00:52:27,800 --> 00:52:31,320
Speaker 1: It is rob every letter subject. I'm doing wifey things

817
00:52:31,400 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 1: without a ring. Dear Stephen Shirley, My boyfriend and I

818
00:52:34,600 --> 00:52:37,040
Speaker 1: have been dating for three years and we moved in

819
00:52:37,080 --> 00:52:40,080
Speaker 1: together with a plan to get married and start a family.

820
00:52:40,480 --> 00:52:43,640
Speaker 1: I'm thirty years old and he is twenty five. After

821
00:52:43,680 --> 00:52:46,040
Speaker 1: a year and a half of living together, he bought

822
00:52:46,080 --> 00:52:48,920
Speaker 1: me an engagement ring, and I've found out because he

823
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 1: was dropping hints about it. Then one day in November,

824
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:54,239
Speaker 1: he admitted to me that he had bought the ring,

825
00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:57,400
Speaker 1: but he's not as happy in this relationship as he

826
00:52:57,440 --> 00:53:00,240
Speaker 1: should be. He told me that he's having doubts about

827
00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:04,040
Speaker 1: marrying me. I asked him what made him feel that way.

828
00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:07,680
Speaker 1: He told me that a minor things, but I needed

829
00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 1: to work on them before we got engaged. He told

830
00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:12,480
Speaker 1: me that he would like for his dinner to be

831
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:14,879
Speaker 1: ready when he gets home on the days that I'm

832
00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:17,839
Speaker 1: off work. He says he does not want me to

833
00:53:17,880 --> 00:53:20,880
Speaker 1: wait until he gets home to ask what he would

834
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:23,520
Speaker 1: like to eat. He also said that I don't send

835
00:53:23,560 --> 00:53:26,480
Speaker 1: him as many nudes as I used to. I told

836
00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:29,040
Speaker 1: him I could work on the cooking thing, but I

837
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:31,760
Speaker 1: stopped sending new picks to him because I had gained

838
00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:34,840
Speaker 1: a few pounds and wasn't feeling very sexy most days.

839
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:37,640
Speaker 1: He said, other than that everything was fine with us.

840
00:53:37,960 --> 00:53:40,560
Speaker 1: I couldn't help but think there was something more that

841
00:53:40,719 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 1: is bothering him. He has made a few other suggestions

842
00:53:43,719 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 1: to me about things I should do to make him

843
00:53:46,120 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 1: feel like the man of the house, and each time

844
00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:51,719
Speaker 1: he says they will make me a better wife. While

845
00:53:51,719 --> 00:53:54,120
Speaker 1: I'm not playing the role of wife without a ring

846
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:57,040
Speaker 1: on my finger, and he does not understand that I've

847
00:53:57,080 --> 00:54:00,799
Speaker 1: been walking on eggshells to keep him happy because I

848
00:54:00,880 --> 00:54:04,120
Speaker 1: want my ring and I want to marry him. As

849
00:54:04,200 --> 00:54:07,359
Speaker 1: time goes by, I'm starting to have a change of heart.

850
00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:10,239
Speaker 1: I'm doing wifey things without a ring. I feel like

851
00:54:10,280 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 1: he's up to something and he's playing games because he's

852
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:15,759
Speaker 1: not ready to commit. Should I give him an ultimatum

853
00:54:15,840 --> 00:54:18,959
Speaker 1: or should I be patient and let things progress? Well,

854
00:54:19,000 --> 00:54:21,359
Speaker 1: I mean, it depends on, really, really what you want

855
00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:23,359
Speaker 1: you say you want your ring and you do want

856
00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:26,160
Speaker 1: to marry him, So I say, do what you feel,

857
00:54:26,160 --> 00:54:29,920
Speaker 1: and you feel something. You say he's having doubts and

858
00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:32,680
Speaker 1: you think he's playing games and he's not ready to commit.

859
00:54:32,760 --> 00:54:35,000
Speaker 1: That could be what it is. I mean, he could be,

860
00:54:35,280 --> 00:54:37,640
Speaker 1: you know, getting cold feet, or deciding since you guys

861
00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 1: are living together, that he doesn't have to marry you.

862
00:54:41,719 --> 00:54:43,680
Speaker 1: He can get you to do all these things without

863
00:54:44,000 --> 00:54:46,279
Speaker 1: you know, the benefit of marriage or whatever. I mean.

864
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:48,399
Speaker 1: I agree with you. You shouldn't be doing wifey things

865
00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:51,720
Speaker 1: without the benefits. So how about this, Why don't you stop?

866
00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:56,360
Speaker 1: Why don't you stop doing those things? That means a

867
00:54:56,400 --> 00:54:58,560
Speaker 1: lot of things. It could mean moving out, It could mean,

868
00:54:58,760 --> 00:55:00,879
Speaker 1: you know, you guys separate for a while. It could

869
00:55:00,960 --> 00:55:04,719
Speaker 1: mean putting him out. But if you truly want to

870
00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:06,960
Speaker 1: marry him and you want your ring, do you want

871
00:55:07,719 --> 00:55:09,759
Speaker 1: just want the ring and the marriage or do you

872
00:55:10,080 --> 00:55:12,200
Speaker 1: I mean the wedding or do you really know what

873
00:55:12,239 --> 00:55:14,720
Speaker 1: it takes to be a you know, to be married

874
00:55:14,719 --> 00:55:18,200
Speaker 1: to him? Him telling you wait a minute, is this

875
00:55:18,280 --> 00:55:21,800
Speaker 1: the nineteen fifties? I want my dinner ready when I

876
00:55:21,920 --> 00:55:27,200
Speaker 1: get home, girl, Please, I want my dinner. Who are

877
00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:36,799
Speaker 1: you talking to Yeah, you know, uh anyway, you know

878
00:55:37,360 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 1: you're you're thirty, he's twenty five. It sounds like, um,

879
00:55:41,160 --> 00:55:43,840
Speaker 1: you know, he's a little more old school and older

880
00:55:44,840 --> 00:55:49,399
Speaker 1: than his years allowed than his twenty five years. So

881
00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 1: I just say this, if you really, if that's really

882
00:55:52,000 --> 00:55:54,880
Speaker 1: what you want from this man, sounds like he's starting

883
00:55:54,960 --> 00:55:58,359
Speaker 1: to take this whole living together arrangement for granted. So

884
00:55:58,640 --> 00:56:00,880
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to make a move. You're gonna have

885
00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:02,879
Speaker 1: to make a move if that means giving him him

886
00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:05,720
Speaker 1: an ultimatum, look, marry me or I'm out or getting

887
00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:08,799
Speaker 1: you know, let's get engaged. You probably never should have

888
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:11,840
Speaker 1: moved in with him without becoming engaged and having a

889
00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:14,279
Speaker 1: date and all of that. So now you got a

890
00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:16,960
Speaker 1: backtrack and do that to make to let him know

891
00:56:17,040 --> 00:56:20,920
Speaker 1: that you're serious about what you want, and then after

892
00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:23,120
Speaker 1: that you'll see how it goes. But yeah, you're probably

893
00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:25,880
Speaker 1: gonna have to make a major move like leave to

894
00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:30,080
Speaker 1: get what you want. Steve, you know what, I feel

895
00:56:30,080 --> 00:56:33,680
Speaker 1: sorry for this lady because this is so atypical. I

896
00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:36,359
Speaker 1: know exactly what this is. So let me put you

897
00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:39,760
Speaker 1: on game. Glad you called uncle Steve. I know exactly

898
00:56:39,760 --> 00:56:42,680
Speaker 1: what's happening your boyfriend y'all been dating for three years,

899
00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 1: moved in together with the plan and getting marriage to

900
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:48,800
Speaker 1: the I'm thirty twenty five. Pumped a brakes. That's part

901
00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:51,520
Speaker 1: of the problem right there. You're a little bit older.

902
00:56:51,520 --> 00:56:54,480
Speaker 1: You have a biological clock ticking. A man has no

903
00:56:54,520 --> 00:56:58,200
Speaker 1: biological clock. He has a financial clock, and at twenty five,

904
00:56:58,440 --> 00:57:01,960
Speaker 1: neither one of those have gone off yet. This is truth.

905
00:57:03,080 --> 00:57:06,520
Speaker 1: His financial clock hasn't gone off yet, and he doesn't

906
00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:11,560
Speaker 1: have a biological clock. Your biological clock is going crazy.

907
00:57:12,880 --> 00:57:15,080
Speaker 1: So now you've moved in a man, moving in with

908
00:57:15,120 --> 00:57:18,680
Speaker 1: a man that has different ideals than you do. You've

909
00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:20,960
Speaker 1: heard that he was gonna he bought you an engagement ring.

910
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:23,400
Speaker 1: You find out because he was dropping hits. One day

911
00:57:23,400 --> 00:57:25,120
Speaker 1: in November, he admitted to me that he had bought

912
00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:27,360
Speaker 1: the ring, but he wasn't happy with the relationship as

913
00:57:27,400 --> 00:57:30,600
Speaker 1: he should be. He told me that he's having doubts

914
00:57:30,600 --> 00:57:34,360
Speaker 1: about married me. That Shirley has absolutely correct. It's called

915
00:57:34,360 --> 00:57:37,480
Speaker 1: cold feat. I asked him what made him feel that way.

916
00:57:37,480 --> 00:57:39,920
Speaker 1: He told me that there were minor things, but I

917
00:57:39,960 --> 00:57:43,040
Speaker 1: needed to work on them before we got engaged. He

918
00:57:43,200 --> 00:57:45,040
Speaker 1: told me that he would like for his dinner to

919
00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:48,040
Speaker 1: be ready when he gets home on days that I'm

920
00:57:48,120 --> 00:57:50,440
Speaker 1: off from work. He says, he doesn't want me to

921
00:57:50,480 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 1: wait till he gets home to ask him what he

922
00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:55,200
Speaker 1: would like to eat. Let me show you exactly how

923
00:57:55,320 --> 00:57:59,040
Speaker 1: minor that is. Here's a guy that expects you to

924
00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:02,760
Speaker 1: have dinner ready when he gets home on the days

925
00:58:02,840 --> 00:58:07,080
Speaker 1: that you're off work, which means you have a job. Also,

926
00:58:07,920 --> 00:58:10,120
Speaker 1: he doesn't want to wait until he gets home to

927
00:58:10,160 --> 00:58:12,640
Speaker 1: ask him what he would like to eat. So he

928
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:14,840
Speaker 1: thinks he proposed to walk in the house at twenty five,

929
00:58:15,120 --> 00:58:18,920
Speaker 1: slide his ass up on the table and jest STARTI, well,

930
00:58:18,960 --> 00:58:21,000
Speaker 1: what are you supposed to do? Guess what he wants?

931
00:58:22,040 --> 00:58:24,720
Speaker 1: So you did a very decent thing to ask him

932
00:58:24,800 --> 00:58:27,320
Speaker 1: what he wants. He also said that you don't send

933
00:58:27,320 --> 00:58:29,760
Speaker 1: as many nudes as I want as you two used to.

934
00:58:30,320 --> 00:58:32,360
Speaker 1: I could work on the cooking, but I'll stopped sending

935
00:58:32,440 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 1: new picture to him because I gained weight. No, you

936
00:58:34,960 --> 00:58:39,080
Speaker 1: stop sending new picture to him because y'all lay together. Heir,

937
00:58:39,200 --> 00:58:42,200
Speaker 1: he every night he seen him the hair. You need

938
00:58:42,200 --> 00:58:45,880
Speaker 1: a picture off? This is stupid. Hey, I'll be back.

939
00:58:45,920 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 1: I got the rest of him. Okay, hang right there, Steve.

940
00:58:48,880 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 1: Part two of your responses coming up at twenty three

941
00:58:51,880 --> 00:58:55,520
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour. Subjects of today's Strawberry Letter, I'm

942
00:58:55,560 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 1: doing wifey things without a ring. We'll be back right

943
00:58:58,080 --> 00:59:03,400
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening show, all right, Steve, Come on,

944
00:59:03,480 --> 00:59:07,560
Speaker 1: let's recap today's Strawberry Letters. Subject I'm doing wifey things

945
00:59:07,880 --> 00:59:12,280
Speaker 1: without a ring. Oh, this is such an easy letter

946
00:59:12,320 --> 00:59:14,840
Speaker 1: for me, because boy, lady, I feel for you. Thirty

947
00:59:14,920 --> 00:59:18,320
Speaker 1: years old, he twenty five bought the engagement ring. Then

948
00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:20,400
Speaker 1: he admitted that he had bought the ring, but he

949
00:59:20,480 --> 00:59:23,640
Speaker 1: wasn't happy in the relationship. He was having doubt. Shirley,

950
00:59:23,720 --> 00:59:26,520
Speaker 1: nailed on the head as called cold feet, asked him

951
00:59:26,520 --> 00:59:28,640
Speaker 1: what made him feel that way. He told me some

952
00:59:28,760 --> 00:59:31,760
Speaker 1: minor things I needed to work on before we got engaged.

953
00:59:32,320 --> 00:59:35,240
Speaker 1: So he told us he wants his dinner to be

954
00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:38,080
Speaker 1: ready when he get home on days that I'm off work,

955
00:59:38,120 --> 00:59:40,920
Speaker 1: and like I said earlier, which means that she works too.

956
00:59:41,560 --> 00:59:43,360
Speaker 1: But he says he don't want to wait till he

957
00:59:43,360 --> 00:59:45,200
Speaker 1: getting home for you to ask him what he want

958
00:59:45,200 --> 00:59:47,439
Speaker 1: to eat? Well, what is she supposed to do? Dog?

959
00:59:47,560 --> 00:59:50,400
Speaker 1: Guess what you want? That's the cool thing to do.

960
00:59:51,480 --> 00:59:54,320
Speaker 1: Then he said, you don't send as many new pictures

961
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:56,120
Speaker 1: as I used to. I told him I could work

962
00:59:56,160 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 1: on the cooking, but I stopped sending the new picture

963
00:59:58,000 --> 00:59:59,840
Speaker 1: to him because I gained a few pounds of one

964
01:00:00,040 --> 01:00:02,880
Speaker 1: feeling sexy most of the days. Hold on, lady, you

965
01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:06,400
Speaker 1: live with him. It's why you're not sending as many nudes.

966
01:00:07,240 --> 01:00:14,680
Speaker 1: He dare every night. Take your own. Damn, you're tripping

967
01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:19,320
Speaker 1: with me. Fon, doc See, lady, he has turned this

968
01:00:19,440 --> 01:00:23,400
Speaker 1: thing around on you. And what he's done is the

969
01:00:23,440 --> 01:00:26,920
Speaker 1: reason he doesn't understand what you're saying to him is

970
01:00:26,960 --> 01:00:31,000
Speaker 1: because you're not helping him understand. You so desperately want

971
01:00:31,040 --> 01:00:34,560
Speaker 1: this ring that you've allowed this man to turn this

972
01:00:35,080 --> 01:00:40,080
Speaker 1: into all one sided request. Everything is what he won't

973
01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:43,320
Speaker 1: you to do. What he won't pitchers, he won't cook it,

974
01:00:43,520 --> 01:00:47,400
Speaker 1: he won't fool he said. Other than that, everything was fine.

975
01:00:47,880 --> 01:00:50,160
Speaker 1: I couldn't think, But that was he said that I

976
01:00:50,160 --> 01:00:53,360
Speaker 1: couldn't think, But that was something more than that bothered him.

977
01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:55,720
Speaker 1: He made a few others, suggesting me about things I

978
01:00:55,720 --> 01:00:57,840
Speaker 1: could do to make him feel more like the man

979
01:00:57,920 --> 01:01:02,200
Speaker 1: at the house. Wait a minute, Wait a minute. First

980
01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:04,240
Speaker 1: of all. The dude is not understanding this because you're

981
01:01:04,240 --> 01:01:06,919
Speaker 1: not helping him understand all this is is a bunch

982
01:01:06,920 --> 01:01:12,200
Speaker 1: of one sided requests. You can't be totally one completely

983
01:01:12,720 --> 01:01:17,040
Speaker 1: or during this boy. It's something wrong with him, but

984
01:01:17,200 --> 01:01:20,520
Speaker 1: you ain't making no request of him. Your desperation for

985
01:01:20,640 --> 01:01:23,520
Speaker 1: this ring is allowing you to let this man make

986
01:01:23,680 --> 01:01:26,560
Speaker 1: all what's wrong with you ain't nothing wrong with him.

987
01:01:26,600 --> 01:01:31,280
Speaker 1: He perfect. So you are trying to be engaged to Christ.

988
01:01:32,360 --> 01:01:35,160
Speaker 1: That's the only thing I can think of, because that's

989
01:01:35,200 --> 01:01:37,959
Speaker 1: the only perfect person out there ever lived on this earth,

990
01:01:38,160 --> 01:01:41,280
Speaker 1: and he's not here yet. So now why you got

991
01:01:41,280 --> 01:01:43,400
Speaker 1: this boy propped up like he all of that? Wouldn't

992
01:01:43,440 --> 01:01:48,520
Speaker 1: think now? Now you walk around on eggshells to keep

993
01:01:48,600 --> 01:01:52,680
Speaker 1: him happy? What keep him happy? Here's the line in there.

994
01:01:53,360 --> 01:01:55,800
Speaker 1: You got to do some things to make him feel

995
01:01:55,840 --> 01:01:59,280
Speaker 1: like the man at the house. That's not your job.

996
01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:03,600
Speaker 1: If he is the only man in the house and

997
01:02:03,720 --> 01:02:07,000
Speaker 1: he don't feel like the man of the house, then

998
01:02:07,080 --> 01:02:10,840
Speaker 1: what inadequacy does he have? If he don't feel like

999
01:02:10,880 --> 01:02:13,000
Speaker 1: the man at the house. It's because you must be

1000
01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:15,800
Speaker 1: doing a lot of stuff that he no he should

1001
01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:19,360
Speaker 1: be doing. But he got all these requests heaped on you, lady.

1002
01:02:19,640 --> 01:02:22,000
Speaker 1: As time goes by, I'm starting to have a change

1003
01:02:22,000 --> 01:02:26,000
Speaker 1: of heart, and you should. I'm doing wifey things without

1004
01:02:26,040 --> 01:02:28,280
Speaker 1: a ring. I feel like he's up to something and

1005
01:02:28,360 --> 01:02:30,840
Speaker 1: he's playing games because he's not ready to commit. He

1006
01:02:30,840 --> 01:02:33,760
Speaker 1: ain't ready to commit. He's not going to commit. And

1007
01:02:33,840 --> 01:02:36,040
Speaker 1: he got you thinking that the reason he's not gonna

1008
01:02:36,040 --> 01:02:39,400
Speaker 1: commit because it's all your fault. He the one don't

1009
01:02:39,440 --> 01:02:42,800
Speaker 1: feel like the man at the house. What they got

1010
01:02:42,800 --> 01:02:46,560
Speaker 1: to do with you? So here we go. Start cooking

1011
01:02:46,760 --> 01:02:53,800
Speaker 1: what he wants him, Cyril beca, have a bowl of

1012
01:02:53,880 --> 01:02:55,720
Speaker 1: lucky charms. Wain't on his ass when he comes in

1013
01:02:55,760 --> 01:02:59,480
Speaker 1: the house. I tell you what, cook old ass food

1014
01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:04,320
Speaker 1: for it, real old ass food. Make him feel like,

1015
01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:08,520
Speaker 1: you know, a man's man. Have some chicken feet and

1016
01:03:08,720 --> 01:03:12,040
Speaker 1: just and just crock pot with none but beans and

1017
01:03:12,200 --> 01:03:17,320
Speaker 1: rice in it, corne bread, old ass meals coming to

1018
01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:20,640
Speaker 1: the house, having some fried spam sitting there with some

1019
01:03:20,760 --> 01:03:25,280
Speaker 1: tripe and some scrambled eggs. Cooking some real old ass

1020
01:03:25,360 --> 01:03:30,080
Speaker 1: grown man near like it's coming there with some hot water,

1021
01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:33,240
Speaker 1: corn bread and and just some red eye graving, no

1022
01:03:33,360 --> 01:03:39,120
Speaker 1: damn meat. Let's make a pot of gravy, Give him

1023
01:03:39,120 --> 01:03:41,320
Speaker 1: a straw tell him that what we're eating today, tell

1024
01:03:41,400 --> 01:03:48,640
Speaker 1: him gravy, old country ass meal, Come home, ain't number

1025
01:03:48,720 --> 01:03:57,920
Speaker 1: damn just a bowl of slough a, yeah, just come in.

1026
01:03:57,960 --> 01:04:02,040
Speaker 1: There ain't nothing but some greens. Jess Greene, all that

1027
01:04:02,160 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 1: on smoked turkey. Damn that ham hawk, Yeah Greene with

1028
01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:10,400
Speaker 1: a big ass hawk in it, bowler limeal beans, my

1029
01:04:10,560 --> 01:04:14,440
Speaker 1: feet in his ass like an old ass, mats blood pressure, lady,

1030
01:04:14,800 --> 01:04:23,880
Speaker 1: that's all. There's nothing wrong with you. It's something wrong

1031
01:04:24,000 --> 01:04:28,200
Speaker 1: with him. Yeah, it's not you. And the second thought

1032
01:04:28,280 --> 01:04:31,520
Speaker 1: you're starting to half is because you're starting to realize

1033
01:04:31,880 --> 01:04:35,120
Speaker 1: you're walking on eggshells in your own house. That little

1034
01:04:35,120 --> 01:04:37,960
Speaker 1: boy ready to get married, and you're gonna marry somebody

1035
01:04:38,000 --> 01:04:40,440
Speaker 1: that think he ain't a man because he's messed up

1036
01:04:40,440 --> 01:04:43,000
Speaker 1: about your age anyway, because his mama has said a

1037
01:04:43,000 --> 01:04:47,840
Speaker 1: couple of things about it. Gonna send him on pack

1038
01:04:47,880 --> 01:04:49,680
Speaker 1: a lunch next time you go, got buy him a

1039
01:04:49,720 --> 01:04:56,760
Speaker 1: lunch box with superhero. All right, come home, have a

1040
01:04:56,760 --> 01:05:00,320
Speaker 1: happy meal waiting on his ass. But your comments today

1041
01:05:00,360 --> 01:05:03,360
Speaker 1: Strawberry letter and Steve Harvey f m on Instagram and Facebook,

1042
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1043
01:05:06,240 --> 01:05:11,880
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Speaker 1: it is time for ask Steve. We have a question. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: now listen to this. Yeah a a one question one?

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01:05:21,200 --> 01:05:25,120
Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah. This from well, this is from a

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01:05:25,120 --> 01:05:27,280
Speaker 1: twenty two year old. This is from a millennial. So

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Speaker 1: um and his name is also Steve, your namesake, he says, Hi,

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01:05:31,720 --> 01:05:34,680
Speaker 1: mister Harvey, I work full time and I'm currently in

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01:05:34,720 --> 01:05:38,880
Speaker 1: school to become a psychiatric mental health nurse. My faith

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01:05:38,960 --> 01:05:42,120
Speaker 1: is strong and I know that with God, anything is possible.

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01:05:42,360 --> 01:05:44,760
Speaker 1: So my question to you is, on your path to

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01:05:44,880 --> 01:05:48,640
Speaker 1: become an entertainer, did you ever doubt yourself, think your

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01:05:48,720 --> 01:05:51,720
Speaker 1: dream was too big, or think about giving up? And

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01:05:51,800 --> 01:05:54,439
Speaker 1: how did you strengthen your connection to God and never

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01:05:54,480 --> 01:05:57,439
Speaker 1: lose hope that your prayers and hard work would pay off.

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01:05:57,560 --> 01:06:02,320
Speaker 1: That's a great question, well from no matter who you are,

1058
01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:08,160
Speaker 1: we're human, and you're gonna have moments of doubt because

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01:06:08,200 --> 01:06:11,560
Speaker 1: it's so difficult to make a success of yourself. So

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01:06:11,640 --> 01:06:14,160
Speaker 1: there's gonna be times, man, what you're gonna be faced

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Speaker 1: with the man that I make the right move Man,

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01:06:17,040 --> 01:06:20,560
Speaker 1: it's this working man. Ever is it gonna change. Is

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01:06:20,560 --> 01:06:22,840
Speaker 1: it gonna get better? I mean, you know I'm living

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01:06:22,840 --> 01:06:25,040
Speaker 1: in that calm going Man. Is it gonna get better?

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01:06:25,080 --> 01:06:27,800
Speaker 1: Man that I make the right move? Man? Should I

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01:06:27,840 --> 01:06:30,320
Speaker 1: go back home? Man? I mean, you know you're gonna

1067
01:06:30,320 --> 01:06:35,360
Speaker 1: have doubts along the way. Sometimes you're gonna doubting, or

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01:06:35,760 --> 01:06:38,120
Speaker 1: let me say it to you this way, it's gonna

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01:06:38,120 --> 01:06:41,280
Speaker 1: be so daunting at times that you're gonna be faced

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01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:45,440
Speaker 1: with some things that appear to be insurmountable. But here's

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01:06:45,480 --> 01:06:48,960
Speaker 1: what I always had to do. Whenever I got to

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01:06:49,120 --> 01:06:53,720
Speaker 1: moments like that, I thought of the ultimate dream that

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Speaker 1: I had for myself and my family. What am I

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01:06:58,760 --> 01:07:03,080
Speaker 1: really shooting for? And I think what people have to

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01:07:03,120 --> 01:07:05,960
Speaker 1: do is you have to be conscious of the size

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01:07:06,040 --> 01:07:11,160
Speaker 1: of your dreams. You have to have dreams so big

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Speaker 1: that not getting your dream is unacceptable because the consequence,

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01:07:16,760 --> 01:07:22,160
Speaker 1: the alternative, the alternative to not receiving your dreams is unacceptable.

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Speaker 1: And you've just got to dreams so big that your

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01:07:25,520 --> 01:07:30,720
Speaker 1: dreams are bigger than whatever problem you're having. So dreaming

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01:07:30,800 --> 01:07:34,520
Speaker 1: big is not the problem, because God is all out

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01:07:34,520 --> 01:07:36,800
Speaker 1: there in them big dreams. God is going to make

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01:07:36,840 --> 01:07:39,240
Speaker 1: your dream come true. Business So I want you to

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01:07:39,400 --> 01:07:42,960
Speaker 1: just stay. You have to stay prayerful man. Throughout the journal.

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01:07:43,880 --> 01:07:47,360
Speaker 1: Prayer changes things, and prayer gives you a relationship with

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01:07:47,480 --> 01:07:49,720
Speaker 1: your creator that allows you to have the strength that

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01:07:49,760 --> 01:07:53,440
Speaker 1: you don't have in your weakest moments, allows you to

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01:07:53,480 --> 01:07:56,720
Speaker 1: be your strongest because it connects you closer to him.

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Speaker 1: Your weakness is where he gives you the strength. Hey, man,

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Speaker 1: go ahead, all right, Steve, you're listening. So um, I

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Speaker 1: gotta ask you, guys, because we've all done this, what

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01:08:12,400 --> 01:08:15,640
Speaker 1: was your most embarrassing text that you've ever sent to

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Speaker 1: someone by accident? We've all done this. Uh, you know

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01:08:19,600 --> 01:08:22,840
Speaker 1: there's nothing right worse than you're writing a private text

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01:08:22,880 --> 01:08:26,120
Speaker 1: to someone personal text and sending it to the wrong person.

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01:08:26,400 --> 01:08:28,920
Speaker 1: That is why I do not do group texts. Yeah,

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01:08:29,720 --> 01:08:32,680
Speaker 1: so if you don't, you would not respond on at

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01:08:32,720 --> 01:08:35,200
Speaker 1: all because I'll forget to turn it off and fairly's

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01:08:35,240 --> 01:08:38,200
Speaker 1: response comes back single it is nobody else on it,

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Speaker 1: And I know what a good text. But so so, Junior,

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01:08:44,960 --> 01:08:47,280
Speaker 1: have you ever asked, Oh, yeah, you need to understand

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01:08:47,360 --> 01:08:51,080
Speaker 1: last names. If the two people got the same last name,

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01:08:51,120 --> 01:08:54,400
Speaker 1: pick the right one. Because I sent a text to

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01:08:54,439 --> 01:08:56,320
Speaker 1: my sister said my MoMA, get on my damn nerve,

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01:08:57,080 --> 01:09:00,560
Speaker 1: send it right to my mom. Oh, I get so

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01:09:00,720 --> 01:09:03,760
Speaker 1: your damn nerves. That's what I do. That's what I do.

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01:09:05,600 --> 01:09:08,760
Speaker 1: I should have known that it was really really a

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01:09:08,960 --> 01:09:14,360
Speaker 1: rough week. Yeah, yeah, yeah it was. Yeah. Yeah. Telicia's

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01:09:14,360 --> 01:09:19,280
Speaker 1: space and Alicia's space is really close. Yeah that's close. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And I spent Celicia. I should have. Man, i's going

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01:09:23,280 --> 01:09:26,160
Speaker 1: for Tell me, I know you sent some necking pictures

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01:09:26,200 --> 01:09:30,200
Speaker 1: to somebody before you were married. I know you did, Shirley,

1113
01:09:31,200 --> 01:09:35,559
Speaker 1: how do I paint this? Okay, let me try to

1114
01:09:35,680 --> 01:09:39,920
Speaker 1: walk this thing Lando. Okay. Jack went on whole way

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01:09:40,000 --> 01:09:43,600
Speaker 1: home and said, find us something to eat, you know,

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Speaker 1: find you know, can't. Let's see if we got something

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01:09:45,800 --> 01:09:48,200
Speaker 1: there to cook to eat? You know this one this

1118
01:09:48,479 --> 01:09:50,960
Speaker 1: you just got your phone to take pictures and all that,

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01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:55,440
Speaker 1: so you know you're just trying stuff. I put myself

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Speaker 1: in a hot dog bun with relish and mustard and

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01:10:01,160 --> 01:10:06,360
Speaker 1: took the picture and called myself sinning as saying wait

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01:10:06,360 --> 01:10:09,720
Speaker 1: till you get home and get this foot loan. And

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Speaker 1: I hit sin and did not know man I hit

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Speaker 1: the wrong damn Jackie, and he oh that was Jack.

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Speaker 1: You heard what he said, Steve, uncle jacket, get your nephew.

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Speaker 1: You can give us the response back. He's still alive.

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01:10:37,280 --> 01:10:39,920
Speaker 1: That's a good that's a good sign. But what did

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01:10:40,000 --> 01:10:44,080
Speaker 1: the wrong Jackie say? Yeah, you got the wrong jacket

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01:10:46,920 --> 01:10:49,000
Speaker 1: and you know it was a friend of the family

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01:10:49,080 --> 01:10:51,120
Speaker 1: jacket Like when you get home, you're gonna get this

1131
01:10:51,160 --> 01:10:55,559
Speaker 1: foot loan. You got the wrong jacket. God, but where

1132
01:10:55,600 --> 01:10:58,760
Speaker 1: did you Where did you find Where did you find

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01:10:58,840 --> 01:11:09,040
Speaker 1: the baby? Hot dog? Bummers? Shut up? Don't go along

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01:11:09,040 --> 01:11:11,400
Speaker 1: with him. No, I've seen him at Wedd's but I

1135
01:11:11,439 --> 01:11:16,040
Speaker 1: just didn't never know where to get him. Yeah, you

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01:11:16,080 --> 01:11:23,720
Speaker 1: know from Vienna Sausages. The worst text ever said all

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01:11:23,800 --> 01:11:28,519
Speaker 1: about five six years ago. And we're in this group

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01:11:28,600 --> 01:11:33,760
Speaker 1: text me Rashawn, a couple other people and the executive

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Speaker 1: producer of the show. So the last text had came

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01:11:38,360 --> 01:11:43,439
Speaker 1: from Rashawn. So my executive producer is talking to me,

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01:11:43,479 --> 01:11:47,080
Speaker 1: and she's a woman, and she's right in my face

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01:11:47,760 --> 01:11:50,439
Speaker 1: and she just talking to me and she was so

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01:11:50,520 --> 01:11:53,920
Speaker 1: close to my face. I picked my phone up and

1144
01:11:54,120 --> 01:12:00,280
Speaker 1: just text back to Rashawn a man, come get her out, yo.

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01:12:00,640 --> 01:12:07,519
Speaker 1: In words face she too damn close. Seeing I'm thinking

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01:12:07,560 --> 01:12:10,200
Speaker 1: I'm just sending it right back to Rashawn. It's in

1147
01:12:10,280 --> 01:12:14,080
Speaker 1: the group text. He got it too. She two inches

1148
01:12:14,120 --> 01:12:17,800
Speaker 1: from my face. Her phone dings. She looks at it.

1149
01:12:17,920 --> 01:12:23,880
Speaker 1: It says, oh really. Sean is running from the back

1150
01:12:23,920 --> 01:12:28,200
Speaker 1: of the bus trying to stop her from looking at

1151
01:12:28,479 --> 01:12:32,320
Speaker 1: I don't know what the hell happened. It's too late, dog.

1152
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:35,320
Speaker 1: I said that about her. It was right, she was

1153
01:12:35,439 --> 01:12:38,080
Speaker 1: right there. I heard her phone go ding, I went

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01:12:38,479 --> 01:12:44,759
Speaker 1: she getting a text too, coming out more. I'm Today's

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01:12:44,840 --> 01:12:47,479
Speaker 1: trending stories on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We'll be

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01:12:47,479 --> 01:12:49,840
Speaker 1: back in twenty minutes after the hour, right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, So do you guys love

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01:12:56,760 --> 01:13:00,840
Speaker 1: spicy food? I don't like hot. I don't like hot

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01:13:00,840 --> 01:13:05,920
Speaker 1: hot hot, yeah, yeah yeah. According to a survey by

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01:13:06,000 --> 01:13:10,040
Speaker 1: Frank's Red Hot Sauce, people who like things hot see

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Speaker 1: themselves as hot and more attractive than others. Is that true? See?

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Speaker 1: I see myself as spicy. I don't see. I think

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01:13:21,160 --> 01:13:23,960
Speaker 1: I'm spicy. I don't know I'm really necessarily hot. I

1164
01:13:23,960 --> 01:13:26,680
Speaker 1: don't think it's hot, but I think I'm very spicy. Uh.

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01:13:27,000 --> 01:13:29,960
Speaker 1: I don't like my food where I can't enjoy it.

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01:13:30,120 --> 01:13:34,480
Speaker 1: You know, if it's too hot. Yeah, no, it's too spicy.

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01:13:34,640 --> 01:13:36,680
Speaker 1: Now I'm married to a man from New Orleans, so

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01:13:36,920 --> 01:13:41,280
Speaker 1: everything has to be spicy. I mean spicy ice cream,

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01:13:41,360 --> 01:13:47,600
Speaker 1: I mean everything. You never know what New Orleans. Now,

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01:13:47,600 --> 01:13:50,559
Speaker 1: I'm like, well that's what I say. Everything has to

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01:13:50,560 --> 01:13:55,519
Speaker 1: be spicy. Yeah. So does he think he's hot? Okay,

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01:13:55,560 --> 01:13:58,599
Speaker 1: well he just he does. He just proved our point.

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01:13:58,600 --> 01:14:00,600
Speaker 1: Then the point of the story. He just proved it.

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01:14:00,640 --> 01:14:03,760
Speaker 1: The survey also showed that the hot people see themselves

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01:14:03,760 --> 01:14:07,400
Speaker 1: as adventurous, creative, and confident too. So does that describe

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01:14:07,479 --> 01:14:15,599
Speaker 1: Tash absolutely Junior? Hot or spicy? Oh no, I'm I'm spicy.

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01:14:15,720 --> 01:14:18,840
Speaker 1: I'm spicy. You know. I can't do like that. Yeah.

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01:14:18,880 --> 01:14:21,200
Speaker 1: I like spicy foods, you know, but because you gotta

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01:14:21,240 --> 01:14:24,320
Speaker 1: have flavored in the spicy. Yes, that's the thing. I

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01:14:24,439 --> 01:14:26,600
Speaker 1: like that hot with my my phone. Fine, give me

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01:14:26,640 --> 01:14:28,600
Speaker 1: some water. I'm not doing that. I'm not doing that.

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01:14:28,960 --> 01:14:31,799
Speaker 1: But you're supposed to drink milk. They say, not even whatever.

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01:14:31,960 --> 01:14:33,800
Speaker 1: All right, thank you, jun You're coming up more of

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01:14:33,800 --> 01:14:36,120
Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show at thirty three minutes after

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01:14:36,160 --> 01:14:38,439
Speaker 1: we'll play a round of would you rather? Right after

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01:14:38,520 --> 01:14:45,120
Speaker 1: this you're listening show time for Would you rather? Would

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01:14:45,160 --> 01:14:51,000
Speaker 1: you rather talk on the phone or send a text?

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01:14:51,080 --> 01:14:55,759
Speaker 1: Rather text? Really? Yeah, I don't like talking to people,

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01:14:56,520 --> 01:15:01,479
Speaker 1: so something as us, something as you lead into too

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01:15:01,600 --> 01:15:06,559
Speaker 1: much texas everybody I'll talk to I talk to face

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01:15:06,640 --> 01:15:12,280
Speaker 1: to face, all right? Would you rather a pretty woman

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01:15:12,560 --> 01:15:17,519
Speaker 1: with median income or wealthy woman and not so cute? I?

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01:15:19,080 --> 01:15:22,040
Speaker 1: Would you rather have a pretty woman with median income

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01:15:22,600 --> 01:15:26,960
Speaker 1: or a wealthy woman and she's not that cute? Give

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01:15:27,000 --> 01:15:30,200
Speaker 1: me a no. I'm taking the uncles. You got money,

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01:15:30,280 --> 01:15:32,400
Speaker 1: My ug lads and hug lad. We're gonna be together

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01:15:33,320 --> 01:15:37,040
Speaker 1: over to hear we won't. Y'all can say what you

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01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:39,559
Speaker 1: want to say about me. Say who dating the pirates?

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01:15:39,640 --> 01:15:43,000
Speaker 1: I'm dating the pirate? Fire? Shut up, baby, I got it.

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01:15:43,280 --> 01:15:56,040
Speaker 1: Fire shot at your bar? I got it, all right?

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01:15:56,120 --> 01:16:00,599
Speaker 1: Would you rather? Would you rather so all your own

1202
01:16:00,680 --> 01:16:04,639
Speaker 1: clothes or would you rather grow all your own food?

1203
01:16:05,120 --> 01:16:07,519
Speaker 1: So all your clothes or grow all your food? Oh?

1204
01:16:07,560 --> 01:16:10,080
Speaker 1: Grow my food. I like to grow my food. That's

1205
01:16:10,120 --> 01:16:12,640
Speaker 1: been always been a dream of mine. To give me

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01:16:12,680 --> 01:16:15,920
Speaker 1: a big greenhouse. I'm working on that right now. Really,

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01:16:16,439 --> 01:16:20,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, man, I'm gonna grow my own would fool man.

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01:16:20,960 --> 01:16:22,760
Speaker 1: I would think since you like clothes so much, you

1209
01:16:22,800 --> 01:16:25,120
Speaker 1: would like to sew your own clothes if you kind

1210
01:16:25,160 --> 01:16:31,479
Speaker 1: of wearing that ragged ass man clothes my sister used

1211
01:16:31,479 --> 01:16:36,320
Speaker 1: to make me. I'm not Oh you've had that experience. Yeah, yeah,

1212
01:16:36,360 --> 01:16:38,160
Speaker 1: my sister to make my cape from I went to

1213
01:16:38,160 --> 01:16:44,400
Speaker 1: the contract. Yeah, man, you'd weight at one time. Do

1214
01:16:44,520 --> 01:16:47,240
Speaker 1: you throw that damn thingcause it was not built to land?

1215
01:16:49,320 --> 01:16:52,840
Speaker 1: All right, we'll just coming off, beads all in the floor,

1216
01:16:54,360 --> 01:16:58,360
Speaker 1: feathers falling off, all of that. Would you rather nosy

1217
01:16:58,439 --> 01:17:03,920
Speaker 1: neighbors or would you rather noisy neighbors? M I'm gonna

1218
01:17:03,960 --> 01:17:06,759
Speaker 1: go with beat up Yeah, I'd rather have noisy neighbors

1219
01:17:06,880 --> 01:17:08,920
Speaker 1: just going over there and make some noise. I can

1220
01:17:09,000 --> 01:17:15,840
Speaker 1: deal with that quick yeahing all through asking question. I

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01:17:15,880 --> 01:17:18,519
Speaker 1: can't stand that that health was day next to me

1222
01:17:18,680 --> 01:17:26,679
Speaker 1: was both noisy and old, asked German woman. Just a

1223
01:17:26,760 --> 01:17:32,040
Speaker 1: hateful ass Oh I remember her? Yeah, she's so trifling.

1224
01:17:32,240 --> 01:17:36,040
Speaker 1: I couldn't stand this woman. Man, man, Marge was over

1225
01:17:36,080 --> 01:17:38,720
Speaker 1: at the other house. She forgot she hated us. Hi

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01:17:38,880 --> 01:17:46,839
Speaker 1: guys off, Yeah, she got to mention now she forgot

1227
01:17:46,840 --> 01:17:50,160
Speaker 1: she hated us. Thank you guys coming up. It is

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01:17:50,160 --> 01:17:52,679
Speaker 1: our last break of the day, and we'll close out

1229
01:17:52,720 --> 01:17:55,479
Speaker 1: the show with the one and only Steve Harvey right

1230
01:17:55,520 --> 01:18:01,000
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening show, right, Steve. Here we are

1231
01:18:01,200 --> 01:18:03,559
Speaker 1: last break of the day. Boy, oh boy, what a

1232
01:18:03,680 --> 01:18:07,680
Speaker 1: day it has been. Oh my goodness, Um, but a

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01:18:07,720 --> 01:18:12,960
Speaker 1: great day. A great day, all of been good. Yeah, yeah,

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01:18:13,000 --> 01:18:15,000
Speaker 1: all right, Steve, you can take us home with some

1235
01:18:15,040 --> 01:18:20,400
Speaker 1: closing remarks. Well, here's here's something I want to share.

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01:18:20,640 --> 01:18:23,720
Speaker 1: I've really gotten into this mode of sharing some of

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01:18:23,720 --> 01:18:26,599
Speaker 1: the things I've learned this year when I was when

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01:18:26,600 --> 01:18:31,000
Speaker 1: I've started doing these morning meditations. And I just started

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01:18:31,000 --> 01:18:33,800
Speaker 1: it this year, everybody, So I'm not like now, I've

1240
01:18:33,840 --> 01:18:36,720
Speaker 1: been doing this for years anything. I just started it

1241
01:18:36,800 --> 01:18:39,519
Speaker 1: this year and it's probably been one of the best

1242
01:18:40,800 --> 01:18:46,479
Speaker 1: changes that I've bought about myself mentally spiritually for just

1243
01:18:46,640 --> 01:18:50,439
Speaker 1: to have the right state of mind to continue up

1244
01:18:50,479 --> 01:18:52,720
Speaker 1: the road. And I just want to talk to you

1245
01:18:52,760 --> 01:18:57,920
Speaker 1: all about about your relationship with God. And once again,

1246
01:18:58,000 --> 01:19:00,000
Speaker 1: this is not that I'm an expert that just because

1247
01:19:00,200 --> 01:19:02,439
Speaker 1: trust and believe I'm not. I'm growing every day with this.

1248
01:19:02,560 --> 01:19:05,759
Speaker 1: I'm learning, but I'm in a sharing mode of trying

1249
01:19:05,760 --> 01:19:08,479
Speaker 1: to share you what I've learned, so you don't feel

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Speaker 1: like you don't want out there tripping on this thing,

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Speaker 1: because I have too. And so I just want to

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Speaker 1: talk to you about what happened to me when I

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Speaker 1: just started to give God a bigger presence in my life.

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Speaker 1: And I want you all to listen to this. If

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Speaker 1: you're on the outside like I was, or you borderline

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Speaker 1: like me, if you gave God a bigger presence in

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Speaker 1: your life, what could happen if you just gave him

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Speaker 1: a chance. I just want to throw this out there,

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Speaker 1: just what could happen if you would just give him

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Speaker 1: a chance to have just a bigger presence in your life.

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Speaker 1: Because what it did for me, man, it just it

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Speaker 1: brightened up some of the dullness of my great days.

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Speaker 1: You know, I have some days man, while felt overworked, overstressed,

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Speaker 1: the monotony, it over it all. You know, when you

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Speaker 1: when you give God a chance, God can put a

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Speaker 1: sparkle in the routine of your daily life. Because see

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Speaker 1: what happens is and I found this to be true

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Speaker 1: in my situation and maybe some of you can relate

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Speaker 1: to this. You gotta repeat so many tasks day after day,

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Speaker 1: you know, it just gets monotonous. You got it. You

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Speaker 1: go to work at the same time, you drive the

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Speaker 1: same route. You got the same task at your job.

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Speaker 1: You work around the same people, you said, at the

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Speaker 1: same cubicle or the same station. You work in the

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Speaker 1: same route. You know, you drive the same way to

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Speaker 1: work and take the same amount of time. You listen

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Speaker 1: to the same music. This monotony, this monotony can oftentime

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Speaker 1: dull your thinking and when you're when when you get

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Speaker 1: monotonous in your thinking, it does it and in your

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Speaker 1: mind and slips into neutral. So you know, you know

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Speaker 1: what I mean, when your mind isn't stimulated, when your

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Speaker 1: mind slips into neutral because the monotony, you can do

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Speaker 1: it with your ass sleep. You don't need to even

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Speaker 1: think about it. You know your way to work, you

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Speaker 1: know the way home. You ever noticed you'd be driving

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Speaker 1: all of a sudden, you just know that this is

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Speaker 1: your exiting just monotonous. Your mind can slip into neutral. Well,

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Speaker 1: when your mind isn't neutral, it becomes unfocused, and then

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Speaker 1: it's vulnerable to the world. It's vulnerable to the devil.

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Speaker 1: You remember, old people used to say the idle mind

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Speaker 1: is a devil's playground. This is what it's talking about.

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Speaker 1: And when your day to day task become monotonous, your

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Speaker 1: mind can slip into neutral and all of a sudden

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Speaker 1: and idle mind is the devil playground. And then that

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Speaker 1: just pulls your thoughts downward. And as your thinking process

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Speaker 1: start to deteriorate because it is monotony has become so mundane,

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Speaker 1: you become confused about a lot of stuff and you

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Speaker 1: feel like you ain't got no direction. But the best way,

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Speaker 1: the best remedy to refocus your mind is that relationship

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Speaker 1: with God. You need God, man, you really do. And

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Speaker 1: I ain't. I ain't talking like I've had him my

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Speaker 1: whole life, even though he's been around me. My Mama

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Speaker 1: raised me in the church. I sleep it off, I

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Speaker 1: was doing my thing. But man, in the total realization

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Speaker 1: of it, on the real, just on the low low,

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Speaker 1: you need God, man, you really do. He offers you

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Speaker 1: guide and saying companionship, and it can clear up a

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Speaker 1: lot of stuff for you. Man. And look, I ain't

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Speaker 1: trying to tell you, man that you got to become

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Speaker 1: Bible thumping off or you know, or what to have

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Speaker 1: people thinking of you as a holy role or something

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Speaker 1: like that. And I've noticed what you're running from because

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Speaker 1: I try to duct the terminology myself and that labels

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Speaker 1: that people put on you. But man, don't trip on that.

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Speaker 1: Don't trip on that. I'm telling you, man, go farm

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Speaker 1: yourself in relationship with God, it becomes so helpful to you.

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Speaker 1: What would happen if you just gave God a chance?

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Speaker 1: Let me just think about it, man, if you made

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Speaker 1: more room in your heart for God, what could possibly happen?

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Speaker 1: I mean, look, you got so much that's going on

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Speaker 1: in your life, so many challenges and barriers and things

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Speaker 1: that you up against, and so much indecision and confusion

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Speaker 1: and wanting to know your beck, your next move. Well,

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Speaker 1: why don't you try this? Man? Why don't you sit

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Speaker 1: down and just tell God that you really need it,

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Speaker 1: that you really need some help, and you really need

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Speaker 1: a companion, and you would love to have his advice

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Speaker 1: and his counseling. You ain't got to go nowhere to

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Speaker 1: do that. Man, You could just do that today, But

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Speaker 1: it would slow down some of this tripping. I'm telling you, man,

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Speaker 1: God performs miracles all the time. God make dreams come true.

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Speaker 1: What would happen if you just gave him a chance,

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Speaker 1: Open up your heart a little bit, man, Make God

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Speaker 1: a greater presence in your life. Man, and he could

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Speaker 1: do some miraculous things. From All you got to do

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Speaker 1: is ask he don't ever walk away from people are

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Speaker 1: seeking him. Okay, talk to God, He'd love to hear

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