WEBVTT - EP. 33 “Side Knegah Sunday’s” with Orlando and Tahoe 0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:05.920 Talk talk. We're just too unapologetically black women with an 0:00:05.920 --> 0:00:11.920 opinion who talks back. Hey, so, welcome to a new 0:00:11.960 --> 0:00:14.920 episode that we talked back. It's your girl a j A, 0:00:15.800 --> 0:00:19.880 It's Tam Bam, y'all. I love y'all. Hey, and we 0:00:20.000 --> 0:00:25.720 got some side nigga is on the show today. I 0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:28.600 am so bothered that he is really stroking his chest 0:00:28.600 --> 0:00:33.400 with coconut oil. Bro. I just we like it. Yeah, 0:00:33.600 --> 0:00:37.120 I'm joining it. Don't worry you do that the whole episode. 0:00:37.960 --> 0:00:40.959 Y'all are really enjoying this. Women are freaks, bro. This 0:00:41.000 --> 0:00:44.040 is why y'all haven't started. Know why you got your 0:00:44.040 --> 0:00:46.600 shirt on. It's the question why don't you have Because 0:00:46.720 --> 0:00:51.080 I'm not and you're not. Baby, you got because this 0:00:51.120 --> 0:00:56.280 is the side nigger episode, not the side bit naked 0:00:56.480 --> 0:01:00.280 side to somebody and them things heavy too, So I 0:01:00.320 --> 0:01:06.080 want to we are here cheating. We're gonna cheat together, y'all. 0:01:06.080 --> 0:01:08.959 So we have two lovely gentlemen on the show today. 0:01:09.560 --> 0:01:18.360 We have Orlando and Tahoe from the Hardest of Podcastle's 0:01:18.360 --> 0:01:21.440 Properly Fling today my favors. I really just don't like 0:01:21.480 --> 0:01:23.880 how naked my partner is, but this is him living 0:01:23.880 --> 0:01:26.679 in his freedom. I can't hate. But it's it's all good. 0:01:27.040 --> 0:01:29.640 That's the cover of y'all podcast. Like this nake is naked, 0:01:30.319 --> 0:01:34.080 so it's he's always naked. He's always rubbing his legs 0:01:34.160 --> 0:01:37.920 and talking about his curved dick. It's ridiculous, bir Like, 0:01:38.120 --> 0:01:41.920 I'm from Brooklyn. I'm not used to this behavior. I'm 0:01:41.959 --> 0:01:52.240 not what burrow you from, Orlando, Venus from Venus. Yeah, 0:01:52.400 --> 0:01:54.720 I was born in Jamaica, raised in Brooklyn. Is that 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:59.440 where you are now? Brooklyn? Both of you? Well, I'm 0:01:59.480 --> 0:02:03.400 in best Yeah, I'm in best side whenever he's at 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:09.000 thank God doesn't have to WiFi. So so all right, 0:02:09.440 --> 0:02:14.240 tell us a little bit about how you became a 0:02:14.360 --> 0:02:18.120 signing to some woman or some wife. That's how we're 0:02:18.120 --> 0:02:20.680 gonna start. I want to hear about it. Let's get 0:02:20.720 --> 0:02:25.359 into it the ship. Yeah, I want to hear about it. Orlando, 0:02:25.480 --> 0:02:30.040 just talk, just get um. I live in the realm 0:02:30.120 --> 0:02:32.520 of being a side that I actually love it just 0:02:32.600 --> 0:02:36.120 like more reward less risk. Um, and you get treated 0:02:36.200 --> 0:02:38.680 much better as a signing and than having to worry 0:02:38.680 --> 0:02:43.080 about like maintaining your women. Um. And I'm good at sex. 0:02:43.160 --> 0:02:45.600 So they just have me around for that as far 0:02:45.639 --> 0:02:51.920 as around put me on the shelf and take me 0:02:51.960 --> 0:02:55.760 off when they were whenever they're ready for me. Um. 0:02:55.800 --> 0:02:58.960 I was even a signing or to a woman that 0:02:59.120 --> 0:03:02.520 was married, and that was my favorite because she flew 0:03:02.560 --> 0:03:05.440 me out. She pulled me out to Miami. Um. We 0:03:05.560 --> 0:03:08.959 linked up. She left her husband at home with the kids, 0:03:09.560 --> 0:03:12.880 and we just had an amazing night. We cuddled, we 0:03:12.960 --> 0:03:16.960 had sex on the balcony. It was all on her. 0:03:18.320 --> 0:03:20.040 And then after we had done, she went back to 0:03:20.120 --> 0:03:23.079 her family and I went back to being a side 0:03:23.160 --> 0:03:27.720 nigger women. And they say women have to get their things. 0:03:27.840 --> 0:03:33.000 Orlando was one of their things. Okay, nothing about that 0:03:33.080 --> 0:03:37.360 makes you feel like devalued at all. No, you don't 0:03:37.360 --> 0:03:41.480 have no pride. Look at them. Don't talk about my 0:03:41.520 --> 0:03:50.640 friend like that. It doesn't listen, It doesn't bother me. 0:03:51.000 --> 0:03:53.280 Or when I was young, Um, I used to hear 0:03:53.400 --> 0:03:57.200 stories about women like having bad sexual experiences, and I said, 0:03:57.280 --> 0:03:59.800 I'm going to take it upon myself to make sure 0:04:00.080 --> 0:04:02.560 that any woman that I sleep with or I haven't 0:04:02.600 --> 0:04:06.160 experienced with, has an amazing time and nothing to complain about. 0:04:06.560 --> 0:04:10.560 And sometimes the women that I have to help already 0:04:10.560 --> 0:04:15.160 be in relationships. So I'm here to be a shoulder 0:04:15.200 --> 0:04:18.160 for you to lean on, and air to listen to you, 0:04:18.279 --> 0:04:20.479 and dick for you to sit on. So you're just 0:04:20.520 --> 0:04:25.240 like a superhero did the same who are unfulfilled in life. 0:04:27.880 --> 0:04:31.280 So basically, Orlando is the ten percent the woman and 0:04:31.320 --> 0:04:33.839 may be missing in a relationship. So it was like 0:04:35.640 --> 0:04:41.080 Orlando would be times, which is just marrying niggas. That's 0:04:41.080 --> 0:04:44.799 not sucking the shift out them. That's right, would be happening. 0:04:44.839 --> 0:04:49.000 They're good providers and they're good fathers, but they did 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:52.760 game trash or they've been with him forever and enable 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:55.520 postibility and streets. It out that a lot of women 0:04:55.560 --> 0:04:57.839 don't go through whole phases young in life and they 0:04:57.920 --> 0:05:01.280 get used to you know, a high school sweetheart or 0:05:01.279 --> 0:05:04.719 whoever they met in college, and they find out, especially 0:05:04.760 --> 0:05:07.159 now with the Internet doing what it's doing, it's showing 0:05:07.160 --> 0:05:09.360 you old types of ship that you ain't seen before. 0:05:10.480 --> 0:05:12.880 Women was now buying them black label porns in the 0:05:12.960 --> 0:05:16.400 nineties and ships and now hold on squirt in it. 0:05:17.400 --> 0:05:20.200 The other thing is it's using floggers and walking people 0:05:20.200 --> 0:05:22.600 around on dog chains. Hold on, I want to walk 0:05:22.640 --> 0:05:31.120 around like a dog. Oh yeah, baby, yeah, yeah, that 0:05:31.200 --> 0:05:35.760 was a situation with me. Um so funny. As Orlando said, 0:05:35.760 --> 0:05:38.800 I also met a young lady that was married. Um. 0:05:38.839 --> 0:05:42.120 We wore all that crunch and she was gorgeous and 0:05:42.200 --> 0:05:44.440 I was so attractive to her. You know, you ever 0:05:44.480 --> 0:05:46.760 get into a brunch situation where you, of course you're 0:05:46.800 --> 0:05:49.760 all talking across the table. Everybody's talking some people and 0:05:50.040 --> 0:05:51.800 their friends. You don't know them, so it's just a 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:54.200 bunch of people you're getting together. I'll start playing games whatever. 0:05:54.800 --> 0:05:58.400 And she said something along the lines of my husband, 0:05:59.160 --> 0:06:03.600 and I was just like a boy, she's married, so 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:07.839 you know me in me immediately, I just crossed it 0:06:07.880 --> 0:06:11.320 off like it's nothing gonna happened. Towards the end of 0:06:11.360 --> 0:06:13.800 the conversation or the end of brunch, when Mayor was 0:06:13.800 --> 0:06:17.000 paid for and I believe I was going to the bathroom, 0:06:17.440 --> 0:06:20.280 she must have been leaving, and she like stopped me 0:06:20.320 --> 0:06:24.440 and was like, oh, you know, I'm interested in your show. Um. 0:06:24.480 --> 0:06:28.039 I really enjoyed our combo. And she gave me her number, 0:06:29.120 --> 0:06:34.320 and I was confused, like why don't you married? Like 0:06:34.400 --> 0:06:39.080 what why would you give me your numb right? Um. 0:06:39.240 --> 0:06:42.760 We were talked for about two years. No sex just 0:06:42.880 --> 0:06:48.360 linking up wild up, started kissing and rubbing and you know, 0:06:48.560 --> 0:06:54.080 just meeting in weird spaces. That was very um, no 0:06:54.160 --> 0:06:59.560 sex for a while. The line right, but what I'm 0:06:59.600 --> 0:07:02.359 telling been started cheating two years prior because he was 0:07:02.400 --> 0:07:05.120 cheating the whole time. Because I'm drinking the popping she 0:07:05.320 --> 0:07:09.119 jerking me off in the hooka spine like we wow, 0:07:10.000 --> 0:07:13.000 but she would never let me in there. And then 0:07:13.120 --> 0:07:15.960 um and then I would. You know, she became right, 0:07:16.000 --> 0:07:19.320 we became really close because I hate her husband, the 0:07:19.360 --> 0:07:21.119 things that she would tell me about him. I hated 0:07:21.200 --> 0:07:25.280 that nigga. One time she told me. I remember we 0:07:25.280 --> 0:07:28.280 went for a walking the park one day and she 0:07:28.400 --> 0:07:31.280 was like, yeah, my husband he came to me last night. 0:07:31.320 --> 0:07:34.400 I was like, what getting this car? We went, goe 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:36.640 to car. I went right to seevs, walked it out 0:07:36.680 --> 0:07:42.680 to the plan be out, grabbed the signing out the shelf, 0:07:43.080 --> 0:07:48.880 throwing I put it on her tongue right, take this water, 0:07:49.840 --> 0:07:53.560 you know you gotta drink all, I said, drink it all. 0:07:55.040 --> 0:07:58.360 I hated that dare he coming up coming? My big 0:08:00.000 --> 0:08:07.960 wrong with this nigga, that nigga something um. And that 0:08:08.000 --> 0:08:11.240 was still before I was even fucking man. Damn niggas 0:08:11.240 --> 0:08:17.640 always thinks some pussy on reserve for him. Had um y'all, 0:08:17.680 --> 0:08:19.920 like did you catch feelings for her? Like genuine? That 0:08:20.040 --> 0:08:22.720 was like, yeah, that was my shorty and dad. You know. 0:08:22.800 --> 0:08:26.240 Over time we got to the point where she took 0:08:26.280 --> 0:08:29.280 me on vacation and we wind up having sex. We 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:33.280 wind up going crazy. I was wound her body out 0:08:33.760 --> 0:08:36.720 in ways that she is never well, that she told 0:08:36.720 --> 0:08:39.360 me she had never experienced. I was bounding her body 0:08:39.400 --> 0:08:45.760 out like I was taking her in the sight clone too. Na, 0:08:46.080 --> 0:08:50.760 I got too many kids just coming to people my ship, 0:08:50.880 --> 0:08:52.720 the thought of coming and somebody just turns me the 0:08:52.960 --> 0:08:55.000 off like I'm just not that's not for me. I 0:08:55.080 --> 0:08:58.720 got too many kids. Um. But yeah, it's so crazy 0:08:58.800 --> 0:09:01.840 because we don't talk anymore. And the reason we don't 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:07.720 talk anymore, it's because she hit me. We had both 0:09:07.720 --> 0:09:10.760 gotten a relationship and she wanted Oh I had gotten 0:09:10.800 --> 0:09:13.640 a relationship and I had spoken to her like eight months, 0:09:13.720 --> 0:09:15.240 nine months, and then she hit me one day and 0:09:15.480 --> 0:09:17.960 I was like hey, whatever, whatever and told me that 0:09:18.040 --> 0:09:23.960 she had had a baby. And I was like, huh, 0:09:24.840 --> 0:09:26.320 like what you mean you had a baby? You had 0:09:26.360 --> 0:09:28.320 a baby with the nigga, and she was like, yeah, 0:09:28.480 --> 0:09:30.040 I didn't want to tell you. I was like, so 0:09:30.080 --> 0:09:32.600 you're telling me that we was seeing each other and 0:09:32.640 --> 0:09:36.160 he was pregnant by that nigga and you never told me, 0:09:36.200 --> 0:09:38.800 and I felt so betrayed. I just stopped talking to 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:44.640 Is that crazy? You felt betrayed by the married woman 0:09:44.679 --> 0:09:47.000 who had a baby for her husband. I was. I 0:09:47.080 --> 0:09:50.040 was totally turned off, but I could not believe it. 0:09:50.440 --> 0:09:55.720 I felt like disgusted. Why do you seeing like I'm bunny, 0:09:57.880 --> 0:10:00.360 It's kind of crazy that you was feeling away about 0:10:00.360 --> 0:10:05.000 a woman getting pregnant by her husband. Just the thing is, 0:10:05.080 --> 0:10:08.720 all right, it was more than nine months. It was 0:10:08.760 --> 0:10:11.120 more than nine months. You gotta imagine that me and 0:10:11.120 --> 0:10:15.960 this woman had a relationship for five years. You hid 0:10:16.000 --> 0:10:20.319 an entire pregnancy from me and now have a baby 0:10:20.760 --> 0:10:23.240 and never once reached out to me to tell me 0:10:23.280 --> 0:10:28.320 anything about it. You feel like you feel like she 0:10:28.360 --> 0:10:31.120 told you that. You told me that, like you it 0:10:31.240 --> 0:10:33.720 was you lied to me like I was the lying, 0:10:35.080 --> 0:10:38.400 probably perfectly because she was sucking your husband and get pregnant. 0:10:39.200 --> 0:10:42.520 But that's her husband. She probably never stopped sucking him, right, 0:10:42.520 --> 0:10:45.040 she was sucking him the whole five years. That's fine, 0:10:45.280 --> 0:10:47.600 But lying to me about a pregnancy and a baby 0:10:47.880 --> 0:10:50.400 that felt like I was now him and he was me, 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:54.320 except he didn't know he was. She didn't lie to you, 0:10:54.400 --> 0:11:01.480 She just omitted the truth. Are your grown ass man? Alright? 0:11:01.520 --> 0:11:05.160 She'd be thinking like a nigga oftentime. You don't. You 0:11:05.200 --> 0:11:10.080 don't hide a whole nigga, a whole little baby. You alight? 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:13.600 How do you She's already deceitful. You know that because 0:11:13.600 --> 0:11:19.080 she's deceiving her husband right well, loyalty that she's not 0:11:19.120 --> 0:11:21.719 giving her own husband that she made bounce to the 0:11:21.840 --> 0:11:25.640 nigga Because I'm the person that you're supposed to be 0:11:25.720 --> 0:11:28.840 telling the truth to. I'm the personal to why are 0:11:28.840 --> 0:11:32.080 you like me? For I've accepted every single thing about you, 0:11:33.000 --> 0:11:35.840 Like why the fact that you have now changed positions 0:11:36.280 --> 0:11:38.280 and now I'm in the space that you're hiding from me? 0:11:38.360 --> 0:11:40.960 That that's the loyalty. So if she had told you 0:11:41.000 --> 0:11:44.160 from the beginning that she was pregnant, would you still 0:11:44.200 --> 0:11:48.320 be her friend? Pregnancy ways that that nigga probably wasn't 0:11:48.320 --> 0:11:50.840 even doing because I know how he is all that ship. 0:11:50.880 --> 0:11:52.800 I would have been there with her walking her in 0:11:53.200 --> 0:11:55.480 with her planning parent announce planning. Um, I would have 0:11:55.520 --> 0:12:00.960 worked exactly. That's what I was thinking. I was down 0:12:01.000 --> 0:12:05.559 her throat. She couldn't die. Nigga chronicles not SIMP series. 0:12:05.880 --> 0:12:09.559 It's all in the same gang. Okay, the same gang. 0:12:09.679 --> 0:12:11.440 But yeah, man, that was my boot, like you don't 0:12:11.480 --> 0:12:14.160 hide much of it like that for me. Yeah, we 0:12:16.040 --> 0:12:18.599 women better at being a side person, a woman or 0:12:18.600 --> 0:12:21.040 a man. I don't think I can do that by general. 0:12:21.240 --> 0:12:22.839 I don't think I can do that by gender. But 0:12:24.080 --> 0:12:28.200 because if they don't care, they don't care. It's once 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:32.440 feelings get involved. Once feelings get involved. A man is 0:12:32.440 --> 0:12:35.080 a horrible side that nigga showing up to your door 0:12:35.200 --> 0:12:37.160 and they're blowing up your phone and get popping up 0:12:37.160 --> 0:12:39.400 on your places with your man. You're looking across the 0:12:39.440 --> 0:12:41.280 table like yo, just nig sitting there like get your 0:12:41.520 --> 0:12:43.920 kind of my crib after while your man out man 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:46.200 up starting the conversation with your man for no reason. 0:12:46.480 --> 0:12:48.280 The nigga man looking at the nigga like, don't even 0:12:48.320 --> 0:12:51.200 know this nigga? You know what I mean? The women 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:54.520 are wild as well. A woman left her ring under 0:12:54.559 --> 0:12:58.360 my girl's pillow once like I'm like, why would you 0:12:58.400 --> 0:12:59.920 do that? Why would you take off your ring and 0:13:00.120 --> 0:13:05.600 leave it under my girl's killer that she was marking 0:13:05.600 --> 0:13:11.640 her territory. That's like panties behind the bed. I'll be 0:13:11.720 --> 0:13:14.280 pulling your hair out and leaving it all over the crip. No, 0:13:14.320 --> 0:13:16.400 but I'm not like I've done that to me though, Nick, 0:13:16.520 --> 0:13:18.560 especially Nick with beers, like why are you leaving all 0:13:18.600 --> 0:13:21.520 this fucking bear and pew beer in my bathroom? Like 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:25.960 that's hating that. If my hair came out, it was 0:13:25.960 --> 0:13:28.280 an accident. I need all these pieces that need all 0:13:28.320 --> 0:13:32.680 my strings. Man, so frustrating. I had a girl do 0:13:32.800 --> 0:13:35.760 that before, and she had red hair. I went to 0:13:35.760 --> 0:13:38.800 go pick up my shorty. She had a short cut. 0:13:39.520 --> 0:13:43.079 She pulled out that long red hair and she was like, 0:13:43.080 --> 0:13:46.959 who's is this? I looked before I left their hand 0:13:47.000 --> 0:13:49.679 said I ain't got no excuses. I don't know how 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:52.959 to explain it. So whatever's on your mind, just assume 0:13:54.120 --> 0:13:57.720 you're like women, and I would have came up with 0:13:57.760 --> 0:13:59.960 something good, like yo, I went to my man house. 0:14:00.080 --> 0:14:01.640 This girl got that here. It must have been on 0:14:01.679 --> 0:14:04.800 the bottom of my shoes. Thing like, I don't know 0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:10.199 what the women have, like a built with like magnifying eyes. 0:14:10.440 --> 0:14:14.640 For she could walk in the house. Nigga, your girl 0:14:14.679 --> 0:14:20.160 walking the house over here and be like, what's that? 0:14:23.720 --> 0:14:33.400 Pick up some single glass sitting there? Like? How the like? Yo, 0:14:33.760 --> 0:14:39.080 this is not my texture what you're talking about? How 0:14:39.120 --> 0:14:41.480 did you tell from one strand of hair? How did 0:14:41.520 --> 0:14:44.520 you tell that this is for seeing? This is not 0:14:44.680 --> 0:14:54.000 for seeing? Bro. I ain't never left bed here though, 0:14:54.040 --> 0:14:56.640 but I know women have left panties. Women. I leave 0:14:56.720 --> 0:15:00.240 some lash a lash How the fun? You don't healed 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:05.920 your whole ile and threw it somewhere. I will do that. 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:09.280 And y'all must know women, because women always see it 0:15:09.320 --> 0:15:11.960 before the nigga steal. So y'all must know that she's 0:15:12.000 --> 0:15:19.840 gonna look like y'all leave it next to the bathroom. Shit, crazy, bro, 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:21.920 Like I couldn't believe it. So I'm sleeping this crazy 0:15:21.960 --> 0:15:24.120 because if chick came to my crib when I had 0:15:24.120 --> 0:15:27.360 a girl and my girl didn't come to the creep 0:15:27.400 --> 0:15:31.600 for like two days, I never looked under that pillow. 0:15:32.520 --> 0:15:38.120 Who two days? That Christian sitting? You put your girl 0:15:38.240 --> 0:15:41.680 in the same she's as the other girl. Yes, oh 0:15:41.760 --> 0:15:46.760 my god, the ship, this is the ship, right here 0:15:46.400 --> 0:15:51.040 you have your girl laying in another woman's juices. Yeah, 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:56.680 I didn't think about it like that. Why do y'all 0:15:56.720 --> 0:15:59.840 really think, like what happens with the juices? Like what happens? 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:02.400 I don't want to lay in another girl's nut stain. 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:05.640 So you've never had a nigga, a new nigga come home? 0:16:05.680 --> 0:16:11.920 I'm probably I'm sure I probably had nigga. No, No, 0:16:14.640 --> 0:16:17.360 you buy new sheets, just wash them, wash them. But 0:16:17.440 --> 0:16:19.600 do you buy new sheets if you get a new relationship? 0:16:20.240 --> 0:16:22.120 So you were sucking the nigga in these sheets regardless 0:16:22.120 --> 0:16:24.560 whether you wash them or not. This is you don't 0:16:24.560 --> 0:16:28.080 get that blue like the come stains is all. No, 0:16:28.280 --> 0:16:30.840 it's not. You use some tie. You'll be good at 0:16:32.200 --> 0:16:37.280 a little nigga babies. Wash the babies out, It says 0:16:37.320 --> 0:16:40.200 it on the box. Look at it, wash the babies away, 0:16:40.400 --> 0:16:43.560 not black that right in the bottom black babies. I 0:16:43.680 --> 0:16:49.120 refuse to believe that it's a lie. Yeah what so, 0:16:49.320 --> 0:16:51.120 so you're saying nigga's be wilding out too, because that 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:53.800 was under the impression that men are are the better 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:57.280 side niggas because women, you know, the feelings get involved 0:16:57.360 --> 0:17:00.360 and it start off cool. They accepting it, but then 0:17:00.400 --> 0:17:05.119 they want to be the main So women, um when 0:17:05.160 --> 0:17:07.000 they have a sideman, like I feel like women are 0:17:07.080 --> 0:17:09.080 more honest, like you said, old girl was telling you 0:17:09.080 --> 0:17:11.560 about what the hell she had going on until the pregnancy, right, 0:17:12.760 --> 0:17:14.480 so that allows and they got to play their part. 0:17:14.560 --> 0:17:17.240 But men be pillow talking with the side bach. So 0:17:17.280 --> 0:17:19.359 now the sidebage, you know, all the negative shit about 0:17:19.359 --> 0:17:22.280 you whenever she's ready with the ammo, is she hitting 0:17:22.280 --> 0:17:25.960 your ass up on Instagram or literally? She told me 0:17:25.960 --> 0:17:27.600 everything about the thing. I knew where he worked, I 0:17:27.640 --> 0:17:30.159 knew his schedule. I know what, Jim, But are you 0:17:30.320 --> 0:17:32.760 more more? Who's more liable A while out though? The 0:17:32.800 --> 0:17:36.959 man or the woman? Personal feeling okay, because what if 0:17:36.960 --> 0:17:42.320 her pussy? What if she hit him with that that 0:17:42.400 --> 0:17:46.560 got if he's not getting that action like that he 0:17:46.680 --> 0:17:49.440 started depending on how to be there now that feelings 0:17:49.440 --> 0:17:51.840 start rising, it's all about who catches feelings. I'm gonna 0:17:51.840 --> 0:17:54.840 tell you right now, whoever catches feelings first loses bro. 0:17:55.720 --> 0:17:57.800 But is it because he wants the bitch ma? Like? 0:17:58.000 --> 0:17:59.600 Is it because he wants this bitch now? Or is 0:17:59.640 --> 0:18:02.080 it because somebody else got her? So if the nigga 0:18:02.160 --> 0:18:04.520 leaves his wife, right, do you still want his wife? 0:18:06.560 --> 0:18:10.560 That's a good question because has become wives all the time. 0:18:10.880 --> 0:18:14.480 Side bitch has become main bitch all the time. But 0:18:14.960 --> 0:18:17.520 in my mind, like any time I've ever been with 0:18:17.560 --> 0:18:20.480 somebody who I thought was with somebody else's like, I 0:18:20.520 --> 0:18:25.400 don't want I don't want you to because I want 0:18:25.440 --> 0:18:28.200 you to make the conscious decision and leave her for me. 0:18:28.320 --> 0:18:31.360 For me, So that's not what's happening. I can't participate, right, 0:18:31.359 --> 0:18:33.800 I'm not going to be the consolation prize nigga back. Yeah, 0:18:33.920 --> 0:18:39.800 But so for your point, to your point, I was 0:18:39.880 --> 0:18:41.919 happy she was in the relationship with the nigga like 0:18:42.040 --> 0:18:44.159 that was it was good that I was able to 0:18:44.200 --> 0:18:46.600 hate him and she was able to go back to him. 0:18:46.640 --> 0:18:49.399 That was our situation. If she left him, like hey, 0:18:49.560 --> 0:18:51.359 I left him, I'm coming over, I'd have been like, 0:18:51.480 --> 0:18:53.720 oh my god, did you don't even like you? Like that? 0:18:54.440 --> 0:18:58.480 But that's not like the unavailable you. Yeah, the unavailable you. 0:18:59.560 --> 0:19:05.920 That might be like the experience the unavailable you. I 0:19:05.960 --> 0:19:08.199 don't know. I've had to check myself sometimes from like 0:19:08.240 --> 0:19:10.880 get my emotions, like caught up with women even has 0:19:10.880 --> 0:19:13.960 a side nigger. I have a girl who um, I 0:19:14.000 --> 0:19:17.159 could always tell what her what her boyfriend does something 0:19:17.240 --> 0:19:19.679 right or like takes her oute or surprises her or 0:19:19.720 --> 0:19:22.199 some ship, because she'll go from like complaining, will be 0:19:22.240 --> 0:19:25.520 on facetom master being together on FaceTime, and then the 0:19:25.560 --> 0:19:27.600 next day I don't hear from her like that, and 0:19:27.640 --> 0:19:29.600 then the day after she's like short with me the 0:19:29.640 --> 0:19:33.280 whole day, like good morning, queen, She's like morning at 0:19:33.320 --> 0:19:37.639 like twelve oh one. I try to talk about the day. Yeah, 0:19:37.840 --> 0:19:41.040 he he surprised that with flowers and ship like that. 0:19:41.359 --> 0:19:47.160 Now she's tweeting about night. She feels guilty. She felt guilty. 0:19:47.200 --> 0:19:50.679 He did something right exactly. So now that's I'm seeing 0:19:50.680 --> 0:19:53.520 it just like this nigga does something. He got flowers, 0:19:54.040 --> 0:19:58.080 probably cheap. She treated She treated you like you know 0:19:58.160 --> 0:20:00.280 if you watch porn and you close the lamptern out there, 0:20:04.560 --> 0:20:13.600 just disgusting. Why am I hurt? What about doing? I 0:20:13.600 --> 0:20:17.000 mean almost immediately like so did you call me like 0:20:17.040 --> 0:20:19.399 you know I'm a nasty He was like good more 0:20:19.440 --> 0:20:22.800 and she was like I don't think right, stay away 0:20:22.800 --> 0:20:29.040 from me and my family. Really fun, shut out your 0:20:29.040 --> 0:20:31.720 bitch last night. So she's gonna she's gonna treat me 0:20:31.800 --> 0:20:34.600 like that. That that means he really put that working 0:20:34.720 --> 0:20:38.320 on her last night. Because for a woman to cheat 0:20:38.359 --> 0:20:42.560 on her man, her husband like that, for me, he 0:20:42.760 --> 0:20:44.600 really got to be a funked up type nigga, or 0:20:44.680 --> 0:20:48.160 she a funked up person. We're not just just out 0:20:48.280 --> 0:20:50.240 just out doing. While she liked that, a lot of 0:20:50.240 --> 0:20:52.840 times I'll judge a woman for cheating if her niggas 0:20:52.840 --> 0:20:58.080 I remember, oh my god, remember. But sometimes sometimes because 0:20:58.119 --> 0:21:00.600 I remember this one time, this chick I had known 0:21:00.600 --> 0:21:04.520 another her whole life, and I met up with her 0:21:04.600 --> 0:21:06.600 later in life after we hadn't seen each other in 0:21:06.640 --> 0:21:09.960 five or six years or whatever, and um, she was 0:21:10.000 --> 0:21:12.760 in the relationship. But I ain't anunk about that, nigga. 0:21:12.760 --> 0:21:14.880 I didn't know me, you know what I'm saying. So 0:21:15.640 --> 0:21:19.000 I remember she came to my crib with the whole 0:21:19.040 --> 0:21:22.520 ox tail platter of food and ship, gave it to me, 0:21:23.000 --> 0:21:24.760 and like, I'm on one hand, I got like the 0:21:24.840 --> 0:21:27.640 ox tail over here. She's laying in my lap sucking 0:21:27.680 --> 0:21:30.000 my ship while I'm beating the oxtail. I'm like, yo, 0:21:30.119 --> 0:21:35.160 she's bad good. The nigger calls the phone and I hid. 0:21:35.359 --> 0:21:38.200 She literally got my hand, my ship in her hand 0:21:38.680 --> 0:21:41.080 and the phone and the other hand, and I get 0:21:41.119 --> 0:21:43.760 head and because she right here, thank you, my thank 0:21:43.760 --> 0:21:46.639 you so much for this food. This tastes so good. 0:21:46.760 --> 0:21:49.800 This that the other the bitch brought him food first, 0:21:50.240 --> 0:21:52.560 the same play of food, brought it to him and 0:21:52.600 --> 0:21:54.639 then came to me with the same play of food 0:21:54.640 --> 0:21:58.520 over here right. So I'm like, Wow, this nigga really 0:21:58.520 --> 0:22:00.520 love her because he called her, he telling her how 0:22:00.600 --> 0:22:03.199 much he appreciates it. He telling her how much he 0:22:03.240 --> 0:22:06.520 loves her. And I can't hear the niggah when she 0:22:06.640 --> 0:22:09.679 literally my ship in her hand while this nigga, you know, blessed, 0:22:09.680 --> 0:22:11.560 you know, talking so good to her. So I'm sitting 0:22:11.560 --> 0:22:14.200 there really like, wow, that's crazy. This nigga really showing 0:22:14.240 --> 0:22:17.119 appreciation like that. That's crazy, because no, niggas don't be 0:22:17.119 --> 0:22:19.240 caring niggas. You don't take you out for granted and ship, 0:22:19.240 --> 0:22:21.440 which is why I would think a nigga a chicken 0:22:21.480 --> 0:22:24.679 is chicken because nigga taking up granted. I wind up 0:22:24.680 --> 0:22:29.080 seeing them out and amongst a friend circle, and I 0:22:29.119 --> 0:22:32.119 got to know the nigga, and the nigga was mad 0:22:32.280 --> 0:22:37.239 who working man worked like two jobs? This nigga was 0:22:37.359 --> 0:22:41.320 like doing everything having empathy. She ain't have no job, 0:22:42.000 --> 0:22:45.320 She's like living her dreams like failed business. At the 0:22:45.359 --> 0:22:49.560 failed business. He's just financing everything, working all of these jobs. 0:22:49.880 --> 0:22:53.800 And I grew to have a real disdain for this moment, like, Yo, 0:22:54.440 --> 0:22:57.240 you're foul last bitch, like the nigga loves you and 0:22:57.359 --> 0:22:59.800 you just out here doing whatever the funk you want. Yo, 0:23:00.400 --> 0:23:04.280 you're a real scum. You started working with her absolutely. 0:23:04.280 --> 0:23:07.959 I started working one of that day that day because 0:23:08.200 --> 0:23:10.399 I heard the love of his voice and I was 0:23:10.440 --> 0:23:13.960 just like, that's corny like that, like this nigga loves 0:23:13.960 --> 0:23:16.720 her man. I just imagined like the box of oxtails 0:23:16.720 --> 0:23:18.480 on her head and he was bobbing up and down 0:23:18.520 --> 0:23:20.919 while you're eating out of the box and ship like. 0:23:21.600 --> 0:23:24.119 And then you just stopped working with her right after that. 0:23:24.640 --> 0:23:28.280 Now he came first, though he facts I did not come. 0:23:28.359 --> 0:23:32.280 I did not come, damn, because I tried to after 0:23:32.280 --> 0:23:34.040 the nigga hung up, and I just wasn't into it, 0:23:34.840 --> 0:23:39.119 like it was so you feel good about sucking vies 0:23:39.160 --> 0:23:44.639 who niggas ain't ship though, Yes, okay, go ahead, now 0:23:44.720 --> 0:23:47.160 that was it? Yes, I do. I don't feel bad 0:23:47.200 --> 0:23:49.639 about it. If they any ship, yeeh, I could go 0:23:49.720 --> 0:23:51.200 for that a little bit. I don't think I feel 0:23:51.200 --> 0:23:53.520 good about it, but I'll make allowances for it because 0:23:53.720 --> 0:23:54.800 you know, a lot of times you be in a 0:23:54.840 --> 0:23:57.639 relationship for a long time and you're not getting what 0:23:57.680 --> 0:23:59.560 you want, and so I feel like kind of like 0:23:59.600 --> 0:24:02.000 I'm saying, even you know what I mean a little bit. 0:24:02.119 --> 0:24:04.160 I remember this one time I was working a little bit, 0:24:04.400 --> 0:24:07.480 you know, one time I was sucking chick and I knew, 0:24:07.520 --> 0:24:09.600 you know, she had a man, and she finally came 0:24:09.640 --> 0:24:13.360 to me after her man. I guess they had broken up. 0:24:14.040 --> 0:24:16.560