1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:05,920 Speaker 1: Talk talk. We're just too unapologetically black women with an 2 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:11,920 Speaker 1: opinion who talks back. Hey, so, welcome to a new 3 00:00:11,960 --> 00:00:14,920 Speaker 1: episode that we talked back. It's your girl a j A, 4 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:19,880 Speaker 1: It's Tam Bam, y'all. I love y'all. Hey, and we 5 00:00:20,000 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 1: got some side nigga is on the show today. I 6 00:00:25,760 --> 00:00:28,600 Speaker 1: am so bothered that he is really stroking his chest 7 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 1: with coconut oil. Bro. I just we like it. Yeah, 8 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 1: I'm joining it. Don't worry you do that the whole episode. 9 00:00:37,960 --> 00:00:40,959 Speaker 1: Y'all are really enjoying this. Women are freaks, bro. This 10 00:00:41,000 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 1: is why y'all haven't started. Know why you got your 11 00:00:44,040 --> 00:00:46,600 Speaker 1: shirt on. It's the question why don't you have Because 12 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: I'm not and you're not. Baby, you got because this 13 00:00:51,120 --> 00:00:56,280 Speaker 1: is the side nigger episode, not the side bit naked 14 00:00:56,480 --> 00:01:00,280 Speaker 1: side to somebody and them things heavy too, So I 15 00:01:00,320 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 1: want to we are here cheating. We're gonna cheat together, y'all. 16 00:01:06,080 --> 00:01:08,959 Speaker 1: So we have two lovely gentlemen on the show today. 17 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:18,360 Speaker 1: We have Orlando and Tahoe from the Hardest of Podcastle's 18 00:01:18,360 --> 00:01:21,440 Speaker 1: Properly Fling today my favors. I really just don't like 19 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:23,880 Speaker 1: how naked my partner is, but this is him living 20 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:26,679 Speaker 1: in his freedom. I can't hate. But it's it's all good. 21 00:01:27,040 --> 00:01:29,640 Speaker 1: That's the cover of y'all podcast. Like this nake is naked, 22 00:01:30,319 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: so it's he's always naked. He's always rubbing his legs 23 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 1: and talking about his curved dick. It's ridiculous, bir Like, 24 00:01:38,120 --> 00:01:41,920 Speaker 1: I'm from Brooklyn. I'm not used to this behavior. I'm 25 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:52,240 Speaker 1: not what burrow you from, Orlando, Venus from Venus. Yeah, 26 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 1: I was born in Jamaica, raised in Brooklyn. Is that 27 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: where you are now? Brooklyn? Both of you? Well, I'm 28 00:01:59,480 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 1: in best Yeah, I'm in best side whenever he's at 29 00:02:03,520 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 1: thank God doesn't have to WiFi. So so all right, 30 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:14,240 Speaker 1: tell us a little bit about how you became a 31 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 1: signing to some woman or some wife. That's how we're 32 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:20,680 Speaker 1: gonna start. I want to hear about it. Let's get 33 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:25,359 Speaker 1: into it the ship. Yeah, I want to hear about it. Orlando, 34 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 1: just talk, just get um. I live in the realm 35 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 1: of being a side that I actually love it just 36 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 1: like more reward less risk. Um, and you get treated 37 00:02:36,200 --> 00:02:38,680 Speaker 1: much better as a signing and than having to worry 38 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:43,080 Speaker 1: about like maintaining your women. Um. And I'm good at sex. 39 00:02:43,160 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 1: So they just have me around for that as far 40 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 1: as around put me on the shelf and take me 41 00:02:51,960 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: off when they were whenever they're ready for me. Um. 42 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:58,960 Speaker 1: I was even a signing or to a woman that 43 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:02,520 Speaker 1: was married, and that was my favorite because she flew 44 00:03:02,560 --> 00:03:05,440 Speaker 1: me out. She pulled me out to Miami. Um. We 45 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:08,959 Speaker 1: linked up. She left her husband at home with the kids, 46 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 1: and we just had an amazing night. We cuddled, we 47 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:16,960 Speaker 1: had sex on the balcony. It was all on her. 48 00:03:18,320 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: And then after we had done, she went back to 49 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:23,079 Speaker 1: her family and I went back to being a side 50 00:03:23,160 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 1: nigger women. And they say women have to get their things. 51 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 1: Orlando was one of their things. Okay, nothing about that 52 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:37,360 Speaker 1: makes you feel like devalued at all. No, you don't 53 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 1: have no pride. Look at them. Don't talk about my 54 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:50,640 Speaker 1: friend like that. It doesn't listen, It doesn't bother me. 55 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 1: Or when I was young, Um, I used to hear 56 00:03:53,400 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 1: stories about women like having bad sexual experiences, and I said, 57 00:03:57,280 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: I'm going to take it upon myself to make sure 58 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 1: that any woman that I sleep with or I haven't 59 00:04:02,600 --> 00:04:06,160 Speaker 1: experienced with, has an amazing time and nothing to complain about. 60 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 1: And sometimes the women that I have to help already 61 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 1: be in relationships. So I'm here to be a shoulder 62 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:18,160 Speaker 1: for you to lean on, and air to listen to you, 63 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:20,479 Speaker 1: and dick for you to sit on. So you're just 64 00:04:20,520 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 1: like a superhero did the same who are unfulfilled in life. 65 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:31,280 Speaker 1: So basically, Orlando is the ten percent the woman and 66 00:04:31,320 --> 00:04:33,839 Speaker 1: may be missing in a relationship. So it was like 67 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:41,080 Speaker 1: Orlando would be times, which is just marrying niggas. That's 68 00:04:41,080 --> 00:04:44,799 Speaker 1: not sucking the shift out them. That's right, would be happening. 69 00:04:44,839 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 1: They're good providers and they're good fathers, but they did 70 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 1: game trash or they've been with him forever and enable 71 00:04:52,839 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: postibility and streets. It out that a lot of women 72 00:04:55,560 --> 00:04:57,839 Speaker 1: don't go through whole phases young in life and they 73 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:01,280 Speaker 1: get used to you know, a high school sweetheart or 74 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:04,719 Speaker 1: whoever they met in college, and they find out, especially 75 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:07,159 Speaker 1: now with the Internet doing what it's doing, it's showing 76 00:05:07,160 --> 00:05:09,360 Speaker 1: you old types of ship that you ain't seen before. 77 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 1: Women was now buying them black label porns in the 78 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:16,400 Speaker 1: nineties and ships and now hold on squirt in it. 79 00:05:17,400 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 1: The other thing is it's using floggers and walking people 80 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:22,600 Speaker 1: around on dog chains. Hold on, I want to walk 81 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 1: around like a dog. Oh yeah, baby, yeah, yeah, that 82 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:35,760 Speaker 1: was a situation with me. Um so funny. As Orlando said, 83 00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 1: I also met a young lady that was married. Um. 84 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 1: We wore all that crunch and she was gorgeous and 85 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:44,440 Speaker 1: I was so attractive to her. You know, you ever 86 00:05:44,480 --> 00:05:46,760 Speaker 1: get into a brunch situation where you, of course you're 87 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:49,760 Speaker 1: all talking across the table. Everybody's talking some people and 88 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:51,800 Speaker 1: their friends. You don't know them, so it's just a 89 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:54,200 Speaker 1: bunch of people you're getting together. I'll start playing games whatever. 90 00:05:54,800 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: And she said something along the lines of my husband, 91 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:03,600 Speaker 1: and I was just like a boy, she's married, so 92 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:07,839 Speaker 1: you know me in me immediately, I just crossed it 93 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:11,320 Speaker 1: off like it's nothing gonna happened. Towards the end of 94 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:13,800 Speaker 1: the conversation or the end of brunch, when Mayor was 95 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:17,000 Speaker 1: paid for and I believe I was going to the bathroom, 96 00:06:17,440 --> 00:06:20,280 Speaker 1: she must have been leaving, and she like stopped me 97 00:06:20,320 --> 00:06:24,440 Speaker 1: and was like, oh, you know, I'm interested in your show. Um. 98 00:06:24,480 --> 00:06:28,039 Speaker 1: I really enjoyed our combo. And she gave me her number, 99 00:06:29,120 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: and I was confused, like why don't you married? Like 100 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 1: what why would you give me your numb right? Um. 101 00:06:39,240 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 1: We were talked for about two years. No sex just 102 00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 1: linking up wild up, started kissing and rubbing and you know, 103 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 1: just meeting in weird spaces. That was very um, no 104 00:06:54,160 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 1: sex for a while. The line right, but what I'm 105 00:06:59,600 --> 00:07:02,359 Speaker 1: telling been started cheating two years prior because he was 106 00:07:02,400 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 1: cheating the whole time. Because I'm drinking the popping she 107 00:07:05,320 --> 00:07:09,119 Speaker 1: jerking me off in the hooka spine like we wow, 108 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:13,000 Speaker 1: but she would never let me in there. And then 109 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 1: um and then I would. You know, she became right, 110 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 1: we became really close because I hate her husband, the 111 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:21,119 Speaker 1: things that she would tell me about him. I hated 112 00:07:21,200 --> 00:07:25,280 Speaker 1: that nigga. One time she told me. I remember we 113 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 1: went for a walking the park one day and she 114 00:07:28,400 --> 00:07:31,280 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, my husband he came to me last night. 115 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 1: I was like, what getting this car? We went, goe 116 00:07:34,440 --> 00:07:36,640 Speaker 1: to car. I went right to seevs, walked it out 117 00:07:36,680 --> 00:07:42,680 Speaker 1: to the plan be out, grabbed the signing out the shelf, 118 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 1: throwing I put it on her tongue right, take this water, 119 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:53,560 Speaker 1: you know you gotta drink all, I said, drink it all. 120 00:07:55,040 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 1: I hated that dare he coming up coming? My big 121 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 1: wrong with this nigga, that nigga something um. And that 122 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 1: was still before I was even fucking man. Damn niggas 123 00:08:11,240 --> 00:08:17,640 Speaker 1: always thinks some pussy on reserve for him. Had um y'all, 124 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 1: like did you catch feelings for her? Like genuine? That 125 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:22,720 Speaker 1: was like, yeah, that was my shorty and dad. You know. 126 00:08:22,800 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 1: Over time we got to the point where she took 127 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:29,280 Speaker 1: me on vacation and we wind up having sex. We 128 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:33,280 Speaker 1: wind up going crazy. I was wound her body out 129 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 1: in ways that she is never well, that she told 130 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 1: me she had never experienced. I was bounding her body 131 00:08:39,400 --> 00:08:45,760 Speaker 1: out like I was taking her in the sight clone too. Na, 132 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 1: I got too many kids just coming to people my ship, 133 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 1: the thought of coming and somebody just turns me the 134 00:08:52,960 --> 00:08:55,000 Speaker 1: off like I'm just not that's not for me. I 135 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:58,720 Speaker 1: got too many kids. Um. But yeah, it's so crazy 136 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:01,840 Speaker 1: because we don't talk anymore. And the reason we don't 137 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:07,720 Speaker 1: talk anymore, it's because she hit me. We had both 138 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 1: gotten a relationship and she wanted Oh I had gotten 139 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 1: a relationship and I had spoken to her like eight months, 140 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 1: nine months, and then she hit me one day and 141 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:17,960 Speaker 1: I was like hey, whatever, whatever and told me that 142 00:09:18,040 --> 00:09:23,960 Speaker 1: she had had a baby. And I was like, huh, 143 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:26,320 Speaker 1: like what you mean you had a baby? You had 144 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:28,320 Speaker 1: a baby with the nigga, and she was like, yeah, 145 00:09:28,480 --> 00:09:30,040 Speaker 1: I didn't want to tell you. I was like, so 146 00:09:30,080 --> 00:09:32,600 Speaker 1: you're telling me that we was seeing each other and 147 00:09:32,640 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 1: he was pregnant by that nigga and you never told me, 148 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:38,800 Speaker 1: and I felt so betrayed. I just stopped talking to 149 00:09:40,520 --> 00:09:44,640 Speaker 1: Is that crazy? You felt betrayed by the married woman 150 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:47,000 Speaker 1: who had a baby for her husband. I was. I 151 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 1: was totally turned off, but I could not believe it. 152 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:55,720 Speaker 1: I felt like disgusted. Why do you seeing like I'm bunny, 153 00:09:57,880 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 1: It's kind of crazy that you was feeling away about 154 00:10:00,360 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 1: a woman getting pregnant by her husband. Just the thing is, 155 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:08,720 Speaker 1: all right, it was more than nine months. It was 156 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:11,120 Speaker 1: more than nine months. You gotta imagine that me and 157 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 1: this woman had a relationship for five years. You hid 158 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:20,319 Speaker 1: an entire pregnancy from me and now have a baby 159 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:23,240 Speaker 1: and never once reached out to me to tell me 160 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:28,320 Speaker 1: anything about it. You feel like you feel like she 161 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 1: told you that. You told me that, like you it 162 00:10:31,240 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 1: was you lied to me like I was the lying, 163 00:10:35,080 --> 00:10:38,400 Speaker 1: probably perfectly because she was sucking your husband and get pregnant. 164 00:10:39,200 --> 00:10:42,520 Speaker 1: But that's her husband. She probably never stopped sucking him, right, 165 00:10:42,520 --> 00:10:45,040 Speaker 1: she was sucking him the whole five years. That's fine, 166 00:10:45,280 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 1: But lying to me about a pregnancy and a baby 167 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 1: that felt like I was now him and he was me, 168 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:54,320 Speaker 1: except he didn't know he was. She didn't lie to you, 169 00:10:54,400 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 1: She just omitted the truth. Are your grown ass man? Alright? 170 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:05,160 Speaker 1: She'd be thinking like a nigga oftentime. You don't. You 171 00:11:05,200 --> 00:11:10,080 Speaker 1: don't hide a whole nigga, a whole little baby. You alight? 172 00:11:10,800 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 1: How do you She's already deceitful. You know that because 173 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:19,080 Speaker 1: she's deceiving her husband right well, loyalty that she's not 174 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:21,719 Speaker 1: giving her own husband that she made bounce to the 175 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:25,640 Speaker 1: nigga Because I'm the person that you're supposed to be 176 00:11:25,720 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 1: telling the truth to. I'm the personal to why are 177 00:11:28,840 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 1: you like me? For I've accepted every single thing about you, 178 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:35,840 Speaker 1: Like why the fact that you have now changed positions 179 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 1: and now I'm in the space that you're hiding from me? 180 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 1: That that's the loyalty. So if she had told you 181 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:44,160 Speaker 1: from the beginning that she was pregnant, would you still 182 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:48,320 Speaker 1: be her friend? Pregnancy ways that that nigga probably wasn't 183 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 1: even doing because I know how he is all that ship. 184 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 1: I would have been there with her walking her in 185 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 1: with her planning parent announce planning. Um, I would have 186 00:11:55,520 --> 00:12:00,960 Speaker 1: worked exactly. That's what I was thinking. I was down 187 00:12:01,000 --> 00:12:05,559 Speaker 1: her throat. She couldn't die. Nigga chronicles not SIMP series. 188 00:12:05,880 --> 00:12:09,559 Speaker 1: It's all in the same gang. Okay, the same gang. 189 00:12:09,679 --> 00:12:11,440 Speaker 1: But yeah, man, that was my boot, like you don't 190 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:14,160 Speaker 1: hide much of it like that for me. Yeah, we 191 00:12:16,040 --> 00:12:18,599 Speaker 1: women better at being a side person, a woman or 192 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 1: a man. I don't think I can do that by general. 193 00:12:21,240 --> 00:12:22,839 Speaker 1: I don't think I can do that by gender. But 194 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:28,200 Speaker 1: because if they don't care, they don't care. It's once 195 00:12:28,280 --> 00:12:32,440 Speaker 1: feelings get involved. Once feelings get involved. A man is 196 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:35,080 Speaker 1: a horrible side that nigga showing up to your door 197 00:12:35,200 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 1: and they're blowing up your phone and get popping up 198 00:12:37,160 --> 00:12:39,400 Speaker 1: on your places with your man. You're looking across the 199 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:41,280 Speaker 1: table like yo, just nig sitting there like get your 200 00:12:41,520 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 1: kind of my crib after while your man out man 201 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:46,200 Speaker 1: up starting the conversation with your man for no reason. 202 00:12:46,480 --> 00:12:48,280 Speaker 1: The nigga man looking at the nigga like, don't even 203 00:12:48,320 --> 00:12:51,200 Speaker 1: know this nigga? You know what I mean? The women 204 00:12:51,320 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 1: are wild as well. A woman left her ring under 205 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:58,360 Speaker 1: my girl's pillow once like I'm like, why would you 206 00:12:58,400 --> 00:12:59,920 Speaker 1: do that? Why would you take off your ring and 207 00:13:00,120 --> 00:13:05,600 Speaker 1: leave it under my girl's killer that she was marking 208 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:11,640 Speaker 1: her territory. That's like panties behind the bed. I'll be 209 00:13:11,720 --> 00:13:14,280 Speaker 1: pulling your hair out and leaving it all over the crip. No, 210 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:16,400 Speaker 1: but I'm not like I've done that to me though, Nick, 211 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:18,560 Speaker 1: especially Nick with beers, like why are you leaving all 212 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:21,520 Speaker 1: this fucking bear and pew beer in my bathroom? Like 213 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:25,960 Speaker 1: that's hating that. If my hair came out, it was 214 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:28,280 Speaker 1: an accident. I need all these pieces that need all 215 00:13:28,320 --> 00:13:32,680 Speaker 1: my strings. Man, so frustrating. I had a girl do 216 00:13:32,800 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 1: that before, and she had red hair. I went to 217 00:13:35,760 --> 00:13:38,800 Speaker 1: go pick up my shorty. She had a short cut. 218 00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:43,079 Speaker 1: She pulled out that long red hair and she was like, 219 00:13:43,080 --> 00:13:46,959 Speaker 1: who's is this? I looked before I left their hand 220 00:13:47,000 --> 00:13:49,679 Speaker 1: said I ain't got no excuses. I don't know how 221 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:52,959 Speaker 1: to explain it. So whatever's on your mind, just assume 222 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:57,720 Speaker 1: you're like women, and I would have came up with 223 00:13:57,760 --> 00:13:59,960 Speaker 1: something good, like yo, I went to my man house. 224 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:01,640 Speaker 1: This girl got that here. It must have been on 225 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:04,800 Speaker 1: the bottom of my shoes. Thing like, I don't know 226 00:14:06,120 --> 00:14:10,199 Speaker 1: what the women have, like a built with like magnifying eyes. 227 00:14:10,440 --> 00:14:14,640 Speaker 1: For she could walk in the house. Nigga, your girl 228 00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 1: walking the house over here and be like, what's that? 229 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:33,400 Speaker 1: Pick up some single glass sitting there? Like? How the like? Yo, 230 00:14:33,760 --> 00:14:39,080 Speaker 1: this is not my texture what you're talking about? How 231 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:41,480 Speaker 1: did you tell from one strand of hair? How did 232 00:14:41,520 --> 00:14:44,520 Speaker 1: you tell that this is for seeing? This is not 233 00:14:44,680 --> 00:14:54,000 Speaker 1: for seeing? Bro. I ain't never left bed here though, 234 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:56,640 Speaker 1: but I know women have left panties. Women. I leave 235 00:14:56,720 --> 00:15:00,240 Speaker 1: some lash a lash How the fun? You don't healed 236 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:05,920 Speaker 1: your whole ile and threw it somewhere. I will do that. 237 00:15:06,200 --> 00:15:09,280 Speaker 1: And y'all must know women, because women always see it 238 00:15:09,320 --> 00:15:11,960 Speaker 1: before the nigga steal. So y'all must know that she's 239 00:15:12,000 --> 00:15:19,840 Speaker 1: gonna look like y'all leave it next to the bathroom. Shit, crazy, bro, 240 00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:21,920 Speaker 1: Like I couldn't believe it. So I'm sleeping this crazy 241 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 1: because if chick came to my crib when I had 242 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:27,360 Speaker 1: a girl and my girl didn't come to the creep 243 00:15:27,400 --> 00:15:31,600 Speaker 1: for like two days, I never looked under that pillow. 244 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:38,120 Speaker 1: Who two days? That Christian sitting? You put your girl 245 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 1: in the same she's as the other girl. Yes, oh 246 00:15:41,760 --> 00:15:46,760 Speaker 1: my god, the ship, this is the ship, right here 247 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:51,040 Speaker 1: you have your girl laying in another woman's juices. Yeah, 248 00:15:51,760 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 1: I didn't think about it like that. Why do y'all 249 00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 1: really think, like what happens with the juices? Like what happens? 250 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 1: I don't want to lay in another girl's nut stain. 251 00:16:02,880 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 1: So you've never had a nigga, a new nigga come home? 252 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:11,920 Speaker 1: I'm probably I'm sure I probably had nigga. No, No, 253 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 1: you buy new sheets, just wash them, wash them. But 254 00:16:17,440 --> 00:16:19,600 Speaker 1: do you buy new sheets if you get a new relationship? 255 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 1: So you were sucking the nigga in these sheets regardless 256 00:16:22,120 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 1: whether you wash them or not. This is you don't 257 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:28,080 Speaker 1: get that blue like the come stains is all. No, 258 00:16:28,280 --> 00:16:30,840 Speaker 1: it's not. You use some tie. You'll be good at 259 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 1: a little nigga babies. Wash the babies out, It says 260 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:40,200 Speaker 1: it on the box. Look at it, wash the babies away, 261 00:16:40,400 --> 00:16:43,560 Speaker 1: not black that right in the bottom black babies. I 262 00:16:43,680 --> 00:16:49,120 Speaker 1: refuse to believe that it's a lie. Yeah what so, 263 00:16:49,320 --> 00:16:51,120 Speaker 1: so you're saying nigga's be wilding out too, because that 264 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:53,800 Speaker 1: was under the impression that men are are the better 265 00:16:53,920 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 1: side niggas because women, you know, the feelings get involved 266 00:16:57,360 --> 00:17:00,360 Speaker 1: and it start off cool. They accepting it, but then 267 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:05,119 Speaker 1: they want to be the main So women, um when 268 00:17:05,160 --> 00:17:07,000 Speaker 1: they have a sideman, like I feel like women are 269 00:17:07,080 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 1: more honest, like you said, old girl was telling you 270 00:17:09,080 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 1: about what the hell she had going on until the pregnancy, right, 271 00:17:12,760 --> 00:17:14,480 Speaker 1: so that allows and they got to play their part. 272 00:17:14,560 --> 00:17:17,240 Speaker 1: But men be pillow talking with the side bach. So 273 00:17:17,280 --> 00:17:19,359 Speaker 1: now the sidebage, you know, all the negative shit about 274 00:17:19,359 --> 00:17:22,280 Speaker 1: you whenever she's ready with the ammo, is she hitting 275 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:25,960 Speaker 1: your ass up on Instagram or literally? She told me 276 00:17:25,960 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 1: everything about the thing. I knew where he worked, I 277 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:30,159 Speaker 1: knew his schedule. I know what, Jim, But are you 278 00:17:30,320 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 1: more more? Who's more liable A while out though? The 279 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:36,959 Speaker 1: man or the woman? Personal feeling okay, because what if 280 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:42,320 Speaker 1: her pussy? What if she hit him with that that 281 00:17:42,400 --> 00:17:46,560 Speaker 1: got if he's not getting that action like that he 282 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:49,440 Speaker 1: started depending on how to be there now that feelings 283 00:17:49,440 --> 00:17:51,840 Speaker 1: start rising, it's all about who catches feelings. I'm gonna 284 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:54,840 Speaker 1: tell you right now, whoever catches feelings first loses bro. 285 00:17:55,720 --> 00:17:57,800 Speaker 1: But is it because he wants the bitch ma? Like? 286 00:17:58,000 --> 00:17:59,600 Speaker 1: Is it because he wants this bitch now? Or is 287 00:17:59,640 --> 00:18:02,080 Speaker 1: it because somebody else got her? So if the nigga 288 00:18:02,160 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 1: leaves his wife, right, do you still want his wife? 289 00:18:06,560 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 1: That's a good question because has become wives all the time. 290 00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:14,480 Speaker 1: Side bitch has become main bitch all the time. But 291 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:17,520 Speaker 1: in my mind, like any time I've ever been with 292 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:20,480 Speaker 1: somebody who I thought was with somebody else's like, I 293 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:25,400 Speaker 1: don't want I don't want you to because I want 294 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:28,200 Speaker 1: you to make the conscious decision and leave her for me. 295 00:18:28,320 --> 00:18:31,360 Speaker 1: For me, So that's not what's happening. I can't participate, right, 296 00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 1: I'm not going to be the consolation prize nigga back. Yeah, 297 00:18:33,920 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 1: But so for your point, to your point, I was 298 00:18:39,880 --> 00:18:41,919 Speaker 1: happy she was in the relationship with the nigga like 299 00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:44,159 Speaker 1: that was it was good that I was able to 300 00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:46,600 Speaker 1: hate him and she was able to go back to him. 301 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:49,399 Speaker 1: That was our situation. If she left him, like hey, 302 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:51,359 Speaker 1: I left him, I'm coming over, I'd have been like, 303 00:18:51,480 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 1: oh my god, did you don't even like you? Like that? 304 00:18:54,440 --> 00:18:58,480 Speaker 1: But that's not like the unavailable you. Yeah, the unavailable you. 305 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:05,920 Speaker 1: That might be like the experience the unavailable you. I 306 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:08,199 Speaker 1: don't know. I've had to check myself sometimes from like 307 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:10,880 Speaker 1: get my emotions, like caught up with women even has 308 00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:13,960 Speaker 1: a side nigger. I have a girl who um, I 309 00:19:14,000 --> 00:19:17,159 Speaker 1: could always tell what her what her boyfriend does something 310 00:19:17,240 --> 00:19:19,679 Speaker 1: right or like takes her oute or surprises her or 311 00:19:19,720 --> 00:19:22,199 Speaker 1: some ship, because she'll go from like complaining, will be 312 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:25,520 Speaker 1: on facetom master being together on FaceTime, and then the 313 00:19:25,560 --> 00:19:27,600 Speaker 1: next day I don't hear from her like that, and 314 00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:29,600 Speaker 1: then the day after she's like short with me the 315 00:19:29,640 --> 00:19:33,280 Speaker 1: whole day, like good morning, queen, She's like morning at 316 00:19:33,320 --> 00:19:37,639 Speaker 1: like twelve oh one. I try to talk about the day. Yeah, 317 00:19:37,840 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 1: he he surprised that with flowers and ship like that. 318 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:47,160 Speaker 1: Now she's tweeting about night. She feels guilty. She felt guilty. 319 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:50,679 Speaker 1: He did something right exactly. So now that's I'm seeing 320 00:19:50,680 --> 00:19:53,520 Speaker 1: it just like this nigga does something. He got flowers, 321 00:19:54,040 --> 00:19:58,080 Speaker 1: probably cheap. She treated She treated you like you know 322 00:19:58,160 --> 00:20:00,280 Speaker 1: if you watch porn and you close the lamptern out there, 323 00:20:04,560 --> 00:20:13,600 Speaker 1: just disgusting. Why am I hurt? What about doing? I 324 00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:17,000 Speaker 1: mean almost immediately like so did you call me like 325 00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:19,399 Speaker 1: you know I'm a nasty He was like good more 326 00:20:19,440 --> 00:20:22,800 Speaker 1: and she was like I don't think right, stay away 327 00:20:22,800 --> 00:20:29,040 Speaker 1: from me and my family. Really fun, shut out your 328 00:20:29,040 --> 00:20:31,720 Speaker 1: bitch last night. So she's gonna she's gonna treat me 329 00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:34,600 Speaker 1: like that. That that means he really put that working 330 00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:38,320 Speaker 1: on her last night. Because for a woman to cheat 331 00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:42,560 Speaker 1: on her man, her husband like that, for me, he 332 00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 1: really got to be a funked up type nigga, or 333 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:48,160 Speaker 1: she a funked up person. We're not just just out 334 00:20:48,280 --> 00:20:50,240 Speaker 1: just out doing. While she liked that, a lot of 335 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:52,840 Speaker 1: times I'll judge a woman for cheating if her niggas 336 00:20:52,840 --> 00:20:58,080 Speaker 1: I remember, oh my god, remember. But sometimes sometimes because 337 00:20:58,119 --> 00:21:00,600 Speaker 1: I remember this one time, this chick I had known 338 00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:04,520 Speaker 1: another her whole life, and I met up with her 339 00:21:04,600 --> 00:21:06,600 Speaker 1: later in life after we hadn't seen each other in 340 00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:09,960 Speaker 1: five or six years or whatever, and um, she was 341 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:12,760 Speaker 1: in the relationship. But I ain't anunk about that, nigga. 342 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:14,880 Speaker 1: I didn't know me, you know what I'm saying. So 343 00:21:15,640 --> 00:21:19,000 Speaker 1: I remember she came to my crib with the whole 344 00:21:19,040 --> 00:21:22,520 Speaker 1: ox tail platter of food and ship, gave it to me, 345 00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:24,760 Speaker 1: and like, I'm on one hand, I got like the 346 00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:27,640 Speaker 1: ox tail over here. She's laying in my lap sucking 347 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 1: my ship while I'm beating the oxtail. I'm like, yo, 348 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:35,160 Speaker 1: she's bad good. The nigger calls the phone and I hid. 349 00:21:35,359 --> 00:21:38,200 Speaker 1: She literally got my hand, my ship in her hand 350 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,080 Speaker 1: and the phone and the other hand, and I get 351 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,760 Speaker 1: head and because she right here, thank you, my thank 352 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:46,639 Speaker 1: you so much for this food. This tastes so good. 353 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 1: This that the other the bitch brought him food first, 354 00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:52,560 Speaker 1: the same play of food, brought it to him and 355 00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:54,639 Speaker 1: then came to me with the same play of food 356 00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 1: over here right. So I'm like, Wow, this nigga really 357 00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:00,520 Speaker 1: love her because he called her, he telling her how 358 00:22:00,600 --> 00:22:03,199 Speaker 1: much he appreciates it. He telling her how much he 359 00:22:03,240 --> 00:22:06,520 Speaker 1: loves her. And I can't hear the niggah when she 360 00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:09,679 Speaker 1: literally my ship in her hand while this nigga, you know, blessed, 361 00:22:09,680 --> 00:22:11,560 Speaker 1: you know, talking so good to her. So I'm sitting 362 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:14,200 Speaker 1: there really like, wow, that's crazy. This nigga really showing 363 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:17,119 Speaker 1: appreciation like that. That's crazy, because no, niggas don't be 364 00:22:17,119 --> 00:22:19,240 Speaker 1: caring niggas. You don't take you out for granted and ship, 365 00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:21,440 Speaker 1: which is why I would think a nigga a chicken 366 00:22:21,480 --> 00:22:24,679 Speaker 1: is chicken because nigga taking up granted. I wind up 367 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:29,080 Speaker 1: seeing them out and amongst a friend circle, and I 368 00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:32,119 Speaker 1: got to know the nigga, and the nigga was mad 369 00:22:32,280 --> 00:22:37,239 Speaker 1: who working man worked like two jobs? This nigga was 370 00:22:37,359 --> 00:22:41,320 Speaker 1: like doing everything having empathy. She ain't have no job, 371 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:45,320 Speaker 1: She's like living her dreams like failed business. At the 372 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:49,560 Speaker 1: failed business. He's just financing everything, working all of these jobs. 373 00:22:49,880 --> 00:22:53,800 Speaker 1: And I grew to have a real disdain for this moment, like, Yo, 374 00:22:54,440 --> 00:22:57,240 Speaker 1: you're foul last bitch, like the nigga loves you and 375 00:22:57,359 --> 00:22:59,800 Speaker 1: you just out here doing whatever the funk you want. Yo, 376 00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 1: you're a real scum. You started working with her absolutely. 377 00:23:04,280 --> 00:23:07,959 Speaker 1: I started working one of that day that day because 378 00:23:08,200 --> 00:23:10,399 Speaker 1: I heard the love of his voice and I was 379 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:13,960 Speaker 1: just like, that's corny like that, like this nigga loves 380 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:16,720 Speaker 1: her man. I just imagined like the box of oxtails 381 00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:18,480 Speaker 1: on her head and he was bobbing up and down 382 00:23:18,520 --> 00:23:20,919 Speaker 1: while you're eating out of the box and ship like. 383 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:24,119 Speaker 1: And then you just stopped working with her right after that. 384 00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:28,280 Speaker 1: Now he came first, though he facts I did not come. 385 00:23:28,359 --> 00:23:32,280 Speaker 1: I did not come, damn, because I tried to after 386 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:34,040 Speaker 1: the nigga hung up, and I just wasn't into it, 387 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:39,119 Speaker 1: like it was so you feel good about sucking vies 388 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:44,639 Speaker 1: who niggas ain't ship though, Yes, okay, go ahead, now 389 00:23:44,720 --> 00:23:47,160 Speaker 1: that was it? Yes, I do. I don't feel bad 390 00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:49,639 Speaker 1: about it. If they any ship, yeeh, I could go 391 00:23:49,720 --> 00:23:51,200 Speaker 1: for that a little bit. I don't think I feel 392 00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,520 Speaker 1: good about it, but I'll make allowances for it because 393 00:23:53,720 --> 00:23:54,800 Speaker 1: you know, a lot of times you be in a 394 00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:57,639 Speaker 1: relationship for a long time and you're not getting what 395 00:23:57,680 --> 00:23:59,560 Speaker 1: you want, and so I feel like kind of like 396 00:23:59,600 --> 00:24:02,000 Speaker 1: I'm saying, even you know what I mean a little bit. 397 00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,160 Speaker 1: I remember this one time I was working a little bit, 398 00:24:04,400 --> 00:24:07,480 Speaker 1: you know, one time I was sucking chick and I knew, 399 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:09,600 Speaker 1: you know, she had a man, and she finally came 400 00:24:09,640 --> 00:24:13,360 Speaker 1: to me after her man. I guess they had broken up. 401 00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 1: And I'm sucking up from the back and I look 402 00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:22,000 Speaker 1: over and she's crying, and I'm like, damn, what happened 403 00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:24,520 Speaker 1: you all right? And she's like, you know, I just 404 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:27,639 Speaker 1: I just really love him and I can't believe this. 405 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:31,440 Speaker 1: And I'm just like, oh shit, some we ain't gotta 406 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:33,600 Speaker 1: do this, you know. She's like, no, no, finish. You 407 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,399 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I want you to finish, you know. 408 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:44,399 Speaker 1: So after I finished, I was like, yeah, you know, 409 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:46,320 Speaker 1: you know, if you could come over any times one, 410 00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:47,760 Speaker 1: you know, you could just chill. We ain't got to 411 00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 1: do nothing. You know what I mean, But I did. 412 00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,760 Speaker 1: I did feel bad, but I definitely kept going. Pussy 413 00:24:52,840 --> 00:24:59,720 Speaker 1: was all right, bro, what's sucking the sad pussy? Pussy? 414 00:25:00,119 --> 00:25:09,119 Speaker 1: I could have to make it winter, make it okay. 415 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:16,000 Speaker 1: Hold that thought one second, Let's play some bills. I 416 00:25:16,040 --> 00:25:17,919 Speaker 1: don't think I've ever been a side bag, so I 417 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:20,080 Speaker 1: used to one of my I consider him an ex 418 00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:24,240 Speaker 1: boyfriend anyway, but I didn't know like the situation with 419 00:25:24,320 --> 00:25:27,400 Speaker 1: him and his kid's mom initially until a bitch called 420 00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,640 Speaker 1: me at work one day. So I feel like, at 421 00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,719 Speaker 1: that point, did you know what it is? And I 422 00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 1: know what it is? So we both got a choice 423 00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:37,720 Speaker 1: to make right. That's our at this point. So did 424 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:40,800 Speaker 1: you kept him? Yeah? I kept working with him for 425 00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:42,840 Speaker 1: like two more years, and then I finally was like, 426 00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:47,879 Speaker 1: you know what this is? It? So that no, no, no, no, 427 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:51,160 Speaker 1: I could have I could have called her the same way. 428 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:53,639 Speaker 1: You see what I'm saying, because he had me feeling 429 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:55,240 Speaker 1: like I was this girl too. I could have called 430 00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:56,640 Speaker 1: her to say I could have went through his cell 431 00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 1: phone and saw what the funk he had going on. 432 00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:00,480 Speaker 1: I could have hit her up. Could have been the 433 00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:02,439 Speaker 1: same thing. I just don't go through nigga ship, but 434 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:07,160 Speaker 1: they're not calling. Did they have a family living at 435 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:09,240 Speaker 1: my house the same way he was living at her house? 436 00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:14,280 Speaker 1: This is younger. I'm from Charles, South Carolina, South Caronla okay, 437 00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:20,280 Speaker 1: country towns. Niggas be having time. They could be out 438 00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 1: like it takes forty minutes to drive somewhen ship like bad, 439 00:26:23,920 --> 00:26:26,280 Speaker 1: like keep me out all day? You only know because 440 00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:27,520 Speaker 1: you can't sit in the house. There nothing to do. 441 00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:29,919 Speaker 1: So you know the nigga over there over there, you 442 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:31,880 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Yeah, but sleeping out? Like if 443 00:26:31,880 --> 00:26:34,159 Speaker 1: this your nigga, how come he be he don't be 444 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:38,560 Speaker 1: at your house at night? Yeah? Come home? So that's 445 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:43,040 Speaker 1: why I just I never knew at that night they 446 00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:44,920 Speaker 1: just be in the strict Is it just understood that 447 00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:48,679 Speaker 1: the cub Like, I don't know what he was selling her. 448 00:26:48,680 --> 00:26:50,119 Speaker 1: I don't know if he told her he worked a 449 00:26:50,119 --> 00:26:52,440 Speaker 1: third shift job. I just knew he was at my house. 450 00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:54,840 Speaker 1: So when she called me when I was at work, 451 00:26:54,880 --> 00:26:57,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, damn, well, I didn't know anything about you 452 00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:58,920 Speaker 1: asked him who I am? Because she was like, who 453 00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,800 Speaker 1: are you to him? I'm like, ask him. They can't 454 00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:04,520 Speaker 1: answer that you've been a side check before. That is 455 00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:06,160 Speaker 1: not a side chick. I don't think you know. It's 456 00:27:06,200 --> 00:27:09,720 Speaker 1: a side chick. And he was spending more time with 457 00:27:09,800 --> 00:27:11,800 Speaker 1: you than you was the side chick because he was 458 00:27:11,800 --> 00:27:14,359 Speaker 1: trying to get away from his real girl. Because obviously 459 00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:17,240 Speaker 1: you was the side. It was RUSI to be with you, 460 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:20,399 Speaker 1: he was the side. This is the math is just 461 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:23,080 Speaker 1: mathive right now? So is that how it goes? And 462 00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 1: the girl, Wow, don't want to be around that girl. 463 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:31,600 Speaker 1: I mean you could just pick another girl like what 464 00:27:31,600 --> 00:27:38,679 Speaker 1: he did and he had his Yeah, that's the difference. Okay, 465 00:27:38,720 --> 00:27:41,360 Speaker 1: So that goes into a whole another thing. So men, 466 00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:44,359 Speaker 1: men will go out and complete their happiness. Like women, 467 00:27:44,359 --> 00:27:47,480 Speaker 1: we may be more um inclined to tell you what 468 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:49,520 Speaker 1: the problem is. Men don't tell you what the problem is. 469 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,280 Speaker 1: They just go find somebody else. You can't complete their 470 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 1: happen is, Yes, you can can. Women moves on the 471 00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 1: board the moment I'm telling you all the ship I 472 00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:00,960 Speaker 1: don't funk with about you, like you should be coming 473 00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:02,640 Speaker 1: back with some ship so we could then fix it. 474 00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:05,479 Speaker 1: But you're going on and do some side ship because 475 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:11,360 Speaker 1: you can't communicate. Basically, I'm gonna get into some they're 476 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:15,680 Speaker 1: not gonna want it. Like just this morning, I woke 477 00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:21,359 Speaker 1: up to some random woman posting my dams with her 478 00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 1: nigga on her Instagram page and going off, like going 479 00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,919 Speaker 1: off me and like seven other women he's been in 480 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:31,520 Speaker 1: all our d ms. Me and him was just chit 481 00:28:31,600 --> 00:28:34,560 Speaker 1: chat and the rest of these women here talking about, Oh, 482 00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:36,040 Speaker 1: I'm gonna pull up on you as soon as I 483 00:28:36,080 --> 00:28:38,280 Speaker 1: get that. He's on the birthday trip with the bitch, 484 00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:41,920 Speaker 1: like for her birthday, and he's messaging other women how 485 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 1: he about to get with them as soon as he land, 486 00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:47,320 Speaker 1: as soon as you land. God damn, he at the 487 00:28:47,360 --> 00:28:51,040 Speaker 1: dinner table with the bitch texted me talking about you 488 00:28:51,080 --> 00:28:53,360 Speaker 1: want me baby, and all this ship like he's sitting 489 00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:55,120 Speaker 1: with it, Like why do men do ship like that? 490 00:28:55,240 --> 00:28:57,560 Speaker 1: Why was she and his phone on her birthday trip? 491 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:05,280 Speaker 1: Why what you're doing your birthday like that? I would 492 00:29:05,280 --> 00:29:07,480 Speaker 1: have had that nigg in the mall racking ship up 493 00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:12,360 Speaker 1: and then I'm going out my ass crazy. But when yeah, 494 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:15,560 Speaker 1: I wouldn't. Let's just think yeah, because let's just think 495 00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:17,840 Speaker 1: about this. If if she was in his phone, I mean, 496 00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:20,880 Speaker 1: she already I don't know who he is. She already 497 00:29:20,920 --> 00:29:23,040 Speaker 1: knew who it was first exactly why would you take 498 00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:26,120 Speaker 1: him with your home girls on a trip? Were just 499 00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 1: girls anyway? No, it's just deal on the trip, right 500 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:33,640 Speaker 1: Sam her on the group, it's a whole group. So 501 00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:35,640 Speaker 1: why did you invite this nigger that's gonna stres you 502 00:29:35,640 --> 00:29:37,800 Speaker 1: out anyway? Because now you don't know what he's doing. 503 00:29:37,800 --> 00:29:39,440 Speaker 1: When he walked out the group, this nigga be on 504 00:29:39,440 --> 00:29:41,360 Speaker 1: the beach trying to suck it to you. You might 505 00:29:41,360 --> 00:29:44,320 Speaker 1: as were just left that nigga South Carolina and you 506 00:29:44,360 --> 00:29:46,520 Speaker 1: went off to fucking Cobo with your home girls and 507 00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 1: got your ship together, right right, don't make my my 508 00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:53,920 Speaker 1: d ms on your page. I ain't got nothing to 509 00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:55,280 Speaker 1: do with that. And there's a couple of niggas I 510 00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:57,960 Speaker 1: talked to follow her like you're blowing up my spot. Now, 511 00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:01,080 Speaker 1: let's be real. Let's be real, ladies, let's be real. 512 00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:08,200 Speaker 1: Monogamy society. You know where I'm going, Oh, favorite topic, 513 00:30:08,920 --> 00:30:14,640 Speaker 1: Hold me that monogamy and society. You really think I 514 00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:18,000 Speaker 1: want a general scale that a man can say, Listen, 515 00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:21,280 Speaker 1: I love you, I want to be with you forever. 516 00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:24,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take care of you. But I want to 517 00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:28,080 Speaker 1: suck them bitches over there too. You can do that, 518 00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:30,280 Speaker 1: but and you let's I'm gonna tell you a hundred 519 00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:33,880 Speaker 1: percent a man can say that to me. But I'm 520 00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:38,040 Speaker 1: then gonna say that's fine as long as we have 521 00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 1: that understanding. Now, how do you feel about me doing 522 00:30:43,480 --> 00:30:46,840 Speaker 1: the same things? And that's the thing. Okay, that goes 523 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:51,520 Speaker 1: into a whole bigger See me personally, I'm in a 524 00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:53,600 Speaker 1: relationship with and I don't want to put my ladies 525 00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:57,440 Speaker 1: business out there, but with a Gemini want to. I 526 00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:00,920 Speaker 1: want to. I want my lady to be happy with 527 00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:06,040 Speaker 1: me as a life parton, not as a subservient or 528 00:31:06,080 --> 00:31:08,320 Speaker 1: anything like that. So whatever she means in life, I 529 00:31:08,360 --> 00:31:11,800 Speaker 1: want to be able to provide. That's just who I am, period, 530 00:31:11,840 --> 00:31:13,760 Speaker 1: That's who That's the role that I choose to play. Now. 531 00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:16,000 Speaker 1: So now if she comes to me and she says, hey, 532 00:31:16,360 --> 00:31:18,160 Speaker 1: that's the situation that we're gonna have to deal with, 533 00:31:18,800 --> 00:31:21,200 Speaker 1: Like if she want to go fun tim or whoever, 534 00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:22,800 Speaker 1: I don't know if I'm able to deal with it. 535 00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:28,960 Speaker 1: But I know that she understands certain desires that I 536 00:31:29,040 --> 00:31:31,760 Speaker 1: have and she tries to provide. So I'm trying to 537 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:33,600 Speaker 1: keep my mind open for the same thing. Thank God, 538 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:36,120 Speaker 1: she ain't doing that yet, thank you. I was gonna 539 00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:39,360 Speaker 1: say so. My objection to that is whenever a man 540 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:43,360 Speaker 1: says something that benefits him in some type of way, 541 00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:45,760 Speaker 1: and we're not just talking about y'all, we'll tell generally 542 00:31:45,760 --> 00:31:48,880 Speaker 1: women overall, there always has to be a well I 543 00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,000 Speaker 1: want to do that too, or there has to be 544 00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:54,840 Speaker 1: some kind of transaction with it. But if a woman 545 00:31:54,840 --> 00:31:57,640 Speaker 1: were to come to her man and say, oh, you know, 546 00:31:58,000 --> 00:32:00,680 Speaker 1: I want you to do more things around the house, 547 00:32:01,480 --> 00:32:03,960 Speaker 1: it's it's always comes across as like you're a man, 548 00:32:04,000 --> 00:32:06,280 Speaker 1: you're supposed to do that. And if I'm asking, you're 549 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:08,720 Speaker 1: supposed to do these things already, because that's what we're 550 00:32:08,720 --> 00:32:10,920 Speaker 1: expecting it from you as a man. As a man. 551 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:12,440 Speaker 1: But if a man were to say, all right, I'm 552 00:32:12,440 --> 00:32:15,320 Speaker 1: gonna do these things around the house, I want you 553 00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:18,080 Speaker 1: to start picking up and paid half the rent, half 554 00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:21,280 Speaker 1: the mortgage, Sandy Popper sending the mortgage. Now, now if 555 00:32:21,280 --> 00:32:25,000 Speaker 1: he makes it transactional, it becomes a matter of like, oh, 556 00:32:25,040 --> 00:32:26,840 Speaker 1: you're a pitch ask nig I can't believe you would 557 00:32:26,840 --> 00:32:29,320 Speaker 1: ask me to do something just because I'm asking you 558 00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:32,040 Speaker 1: would to pick up some kind of slack. But in 559 00:32:32,080 --> 00:32:35,040 Speaker 1: the essence in the sense of we're saying, like, yo, 560 00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:38,360 Speaker 1: this monogamy thing isn't really working for me. I kind 561 00:32:38,360 --> 00:32:41,880 Speaker 1: of want to open it up. It has to be 562 00:32:41,920 --> 00:32:44,240 Speaker 1: transactional to where a woman has to want it the same. 563 00:32:45,640 --> 00:32:50,000 Speaker 1: So okay, So so you're camping more pussy to washing 564 00:32:50,040 --> 00:32:57,400 Speaker 1: the dishes, And the thing isn't that women want to 565 00:32:57,440 --> 00:33:00,360 Speaker 1: have sex with you and other people just is just 566 00:33:00,440 --> 00:33:03,880 Speaker 1: about the same amount. But we have a little bit more. 567 00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:07,920 Speaker 1: Never on your mind to fuck the mother niggas until 568 00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:12,080 Speaker 1: I said I want to funk other women. Not true, 569 00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:16,000 Speaker 1: but that is not true. I'm telling y'all, fu y'all 570 00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,960 Speaker 1: fucking women that's got husband, so obviously that's not true. 571 00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,120 Speaker 1: You would like to be open. So you mean to 572 00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:24,080 Speaker 1: tell you while he's in a relationship, you was thinking 573 00:33:24,080 --> 00:33:29,880 Speaker 1: about other niggas some days. Very well, what happened to 574 00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:34,080 Speaker 1: think about telling you? It's not the same. I don't 575 00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:36,200 Speaker 1: believe this is the same. So y'all don't think about 576 00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:38,960 Speaker 1: smashing another woman. This is the thing you just said. Oh, 577 00:33:39,160 --> 00:33:41,880 Speaker 1: we was fucking married women. They was sucking just us. 578 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:45,680 Speaker 1: They wasn't out at the club. I'm not saying I 579 00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:47,280 Speaker 1: want to be I'm not saying I would like to 580 00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:50,320 Speaker 1: be in a relationship where I'm just if you meet 581 00:33:50,400 --> 00:33:53,480 Speaker 1: somebody organically, I feel like it's okay at that point. 582 00:33:53,640 --> 00:33:55,200 Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, do y'all realize 583 00:33:55,200 --> 00:33:57,040 Speaker 1: that there are differences between men and women and our 584 00:33:57,080 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 1: sexual urgencies, like the way that we instinctively, the way 585 00:34:02,120 --> 00:34:04,600 Speaker 1: that we are. I believe it's different. Women have the urges, 586 00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:07,760 Speaker 1: but I think that women have a different I think 587 00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:10,279 Speaker 1: that also the way that jealous science. I think that 588 00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:13,880 Speaker 1: the way that society raise y'all towards wanting to be 589 00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:18,480 Speaker 1: play house Barbie Ken dollhouse. Yeah, like that's kind of 590 00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:21,160 Speaker 1: the way women are raised, whereas men are raised that way. 591 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,760 Speaker 1: We're kind of raised to be out there, do whatever. 592 00:34:24,000 --> 00:34:28,719 Speaker 1: And I think that instinctively we are meant to appropriate. 593 00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:31,840 Speaker 1: I think that, and I was saying this today on Twitter. 594 00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:34,319 Speaker 1: I think that it starts the room once it once 595 00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:37,960 Speaker 1: it kind of no. I think that once it lessons. 596 00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:42,640 Speaker 1: That's why, actually older, you're able to fight the urgers 597 00:34:42,880 --> 00:34:44,600 Speaker 1: when you're when you're young and you're dumb, you do 598 00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:46,919 Speaker 1: mad dumb ship because you did get hard. You're just dumb. 599 00:34:46,920 --> 00:34:48,320 Speaker 1: You're just out in the street run around because you 600 00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:50,000 Speaker 1: take hard, you take card, you take hard. But that's 601 00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:52,360 Speaker 1: because your stars room is crazy, your instinct is crazy. 602 00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:57,080 Speaker 1: Just appropriate. As you get older, that lessons a lot past. 603 00:34:58,120 --> 00:35:01,440 Speaker 1: Now that's why you have to wait for man, but 604 00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:06,920 Speaker 1: women when it increases, and that's crazy. But that's science. 605 00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:09,160 Speaker 1: And I don't understand why it's like that. I can 606 00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,680 Speaker 1: only think about men and how my body is and 607 00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:16,399 Speaker 1: how it has also defected my mind age to stop 608 00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:20,759 Speaker 1: her own sex drivee instinct, choice and these things. I'm like, Okay, 609 00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:22,879 Speaker 1: as I've gotten older, I'm able to push it back, 610 00:35:23,120 --> 00:35:25,120 Speaker 1: say all right, I'm not gonna sunk up my whole 611 00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:28,640 Speaker 1: life for this urge. I'm also a lot more confident 612 00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:32,840 Speaker 1: with financing and not fit, not faring judgment for my partner. 613 00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:35,279 Speaker 1: And then I'm able to provide, so I'm not worried 614 00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:37,840 Speaker 1: about calling me abomass nigger. If I say, hey, I 615 00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,040 Speaker 1: do want to fun somebody, You know what I'm saying, 616 00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:43,360 Speaker 1: I'm able to. I have a lot more confidence and 617 00:35:43,680 --> 00:35:46,920 Speaker 1: having that conversation. When you're younger, I don't believe that 618 00:35:46,960 --> 00:35:49,120 Speaker 1: you have that confidence. I don't believe that you have 619 00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:52,160 Speaker 1: that emotional intelligence to be able to express what you're 620 00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:55,600 Speaker 1: feeling and in an adequate way to be able to 621 00:35:55,680 --> 00:36:00,920 Speaker 1: really have that conversation with women who are superior and 622 00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:06,959 Speaker 1: thought processing superior, and emotional intelligence superior, and almost any 623 00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:10,600 Speaker 1: and everything when it comes to family or conversations, like 624 00:36:10,760 --> 00:36:14,560 Speaker 1: men don't know how to do it. We're literally like 625 00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:18,800 Speaker 1: a daring headlights with these conversations about our body and urges. 626 00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:23,320 Speaker 1: We we're like lost. And women will run a mile 627 00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:26,600 Speaker 1: around you trying to have a conversation as most of y'all. 628 00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:29,800 Speaker 1: Both of y'all have already done with maybe one sentence. 629 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:33,200 Speaker 1: The nigger said, Oh, it's transactional. Oh so you're comparing 630 00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:36,400 Speaker 1: pussy the dishes like, it's very easy to shut us down. 631 00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:39,080 Speaker 1: It's very easy for y'all to shut us down because 632 00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:42,160 Speaker 1: y'all are smarter than us, y'all are better arguers than us, 633 00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:47,800 Speaker 1: and you have been training for this relationship your whole life, 634 00:36:48,360 --> 00:36:52,600 Speaker 1: whereas men have not. We usually fall into relationships. We're 635 00:36:52,680 --> 00:36:54,560 Speaker 1: usually be in a relationship where it's like we was 636 00:36:54,640 --> 00:36:56,920 Speaker 1: just oh, I ain't I ain't ready for all that 637 00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:58,799 Speaker 1: right now, And next all of a sudden, you asked 638 00:36:58,840 --> 00:37:02,840 Speaker 1: me to marry that's your girl, girl. You wasn't ready 639 00:37:02,840 --> 00:37:05,160 Speaker 1: for that. You're scared to tell your boys you actually 640 00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:07,120 Speaker 1: have a girlfriend. Your girls. Your boys be like, oh, 641 00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:09,480 Speaker 1: that's your girl. You'd be like, nah, bro, like that's 642 00:37:09,520 --> 00:37:13,000 Speaker 1: your girl. I definitely was in a relationship, and I 643 00:37:13,040 --> 00:37:15,759 Speaker 1: didn't realize I was this girl until his cousin he 644 00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:18,839 Speaker 1: hadn't seen for some years, came over and he was like, yeah, 645 00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:21,879 Speaker 1: that's my old lady, a j whatever. And I'm like, oh, yeah, 646 00:37:22,120 --> 00:37:28,480 Speaker 1: I never knew, nigger. I never knew. That's another thing, 647 00:37:28,560 --> 00:37:34,080 Speaker 1: like men expect commitment without asking for a commitment. How 648 00:37:34,120 --> 00:37:35,680 Speaker 1: do y'all feel about that? Do you feel like a 649 00:37:35,719 --> 00:37:38,440 Speaker 1: woman should just fall into a committed role with you 650 00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:41,319 Speaker 1: she continued to date until you asked her to be 651 00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:44,680 Speaker 1: in the committed situation. I feel like it's a lot 652 00:37:44,719 --> 00:37:48,200 Speaker 1: of entitlement to assume that women should um just be 653 00:37:48,280 --> 00:37:50,840 Speaker 1: only committed to me. I like attention from who I 654 00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:53,920 Speaker 1: like attention from, so I would like if I was 655 00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:57,759 Speaker 1: the only one. But if I'm being I'd like to 656 00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:01,120 Speaker 1: also be fair, so i'd rather her be dating also. 657 00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:04,160 Speaker 1: But it also gives me like the drive and motivation 658 00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:06,200 Speaker 1: to show her why I should be the only one. 659 00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:08,719 Speaker 1: If she was dating multiple, multiple people that if I 660 00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:10,239 Speaker 1: was the only one, then I'm like a little bit 661 00:38:10,239 --> 00:38:12,319 Speaker 1: more lax, Like I know I'm good enough for her 662 00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:14,239 Speaker 1: to stay right here and she's not gonna go venture out. 663 00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:17,080 Speaker 1: But if she's dating more people other than me, it's 664 00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:20,920 Speaker 1: just like it's me, why would you? Yeah, so it 665 00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:24,000 Speaker 1: motivates me to keep going and show her like, yeah, 666 00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:27,200 Speaker 1: I'm gonna break your fucking back, I'm gonna wear your ass. 667 00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:29,319 Speaker 1: Soundn't let you know you can't be going nowhere else? 668 00:38:30,360 --> 00:38:33,800 Speaker 1: Let you know where home. I don't think that women, 669 00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:50,520 Speaker 1: did you feel like this? It's crazy now word from 670 00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:58,080 Speaker 1: our sponsors. I don't believe that women understand how much 671 00:38:58,160 --> 00:39:05,200 Speaker 1: ego's in with men and sex and relationship. Our ego 672 00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:09,000 Speaker 1: is everything, even coming down to having sex with you. 673 00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:12,200 Speaker 1: It's more about our ego. How well we fucking you? 674 00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,840 Speaker 1: If we made you come like are you? Am I 675 00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:17,799 Speaker 1: able to pull your head? Choke you, spank your ship? Like? 676 00:39:17,840 --> 00:39:20,120 Speaker 1: Am I even to dominate this pussy like that? Like 677 00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:23,520 Speaker 1: that's all ego serving because spanker, you really don't do 678 00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:26,479 Speaker 1: nothing physically for me right you're here, don't do nothing 679 00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:29,400 Speaker 1: physically for me. It's the ego is to how it 680 00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:32,360 Speaker 1: serves my ego that she's allowing me to do these things? 681 00:39:32,360 --> 00:39:36,640 Speaker 1: To now, what happens if she's allowing anybody to do that, 682 00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:40,360 Speaker 1: How does that serve my ego? It's like, oh, ship, 683 00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:42,719 Speaker 1: it's not about me. It's not about how much she 684 00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:48,920 Speaker 1: cooks with me. It's not about like my my opulence. 685 00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:51,279 Speaker 1: It's literally just who she is. And now I have 686 00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:53,799 Speaker 1: to look at her as a physical sexual person, which 687 00:39:53,840 --> 00:39:56,960 Speaker 1: is like, oh my god, because that's not what what 688 00:39:57,160 --> 00:40:01,120 Speaker 1: drives men. And it's it's it's it's because we haven't 689 00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:04,120 Speaker 1: had these type of conversations where men don't have the 690 00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:06,440 Speaker 1: intelligence that we think we have when it comes to 691 00:40:06,520 --> 00:40:10,279 Speaker 1: the ship, like we're learning now and this generation is 692 00:40:10,719 --> 00:40:15,440 Speaker 1: social media has opened the doors so we have to 693 00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:18,440 Speaker 1: learn ourselves all over again. And then you got the 694 00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:20,400 Speaker 1: older ones that cut of my age and older to 695 00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:21,799 Speaker 1: be like, I'm not trying to hear none of that 696 00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:26,359 Speaker 1: ship out of here, right, But ego drives a lot 697 00:40:26,400 --> 00:40:30,040 Speaker 1: of this ship, bro so um and I don't I 698 00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:32,279 Speaker 1: don't really have no big ego, especially when it comes 699 00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:34,680 Speaker 1: to people I love. You know what I'm saying, Like 700 00:40:34,840 --> 00:40:38,200 Speaker 1: men will let their egos drive the ass to the grave, 701 00:40:38,600 --> 00:40:40,640 Speaker 1: which is why I say that when men and women 702 00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:44,040 Speaker 1: are doing differently when it comes to relationships, man, women 703 00:40:44,080 --> 00:40:46,879 Speaker 1: get different things from relationships their men get. So it's 704 00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:51,040 Speaker 1: not about y'all. Of course, I think for women, loyalty 705 00:40:51,160 --> 00:40:53,919 Speaker 1: it's more important than their personal ego when it comes 706 00:40:53,960 --> 00:40:57,920 Speaker 1: to relationships. But that's just um. You know, I'm nurturing 707 00:40:57,960 --> 00:40:59,759 Speaker 1: to you. I'm pouring my heart into you, my my 708 00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:03,560 Speaker 1: God complexes to give life. I'm actually here to build 709 00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:06,640 Speaker 1: this home for you and violent and me it's like 710 00:41:06,719 --> 00:41:12,279 Speaker 1: slap in the face. That's that's what drives most, right, um. 711 00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:16,920 Speaker 1: But that's completely different when it's man, because the conquest 712 00:41:16,960 --> 00:41:21,279 Speaker 1: came from me and that's the divide and that's where 713 00:41:21,280 --> 00:41:25,719 Speaker 1: we can't stay together. We can, but the conversation exactly 714 00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:29,400 Speaker 1: comprehension bottom line. You know what I'm saying. If you've 715 00:41:29,400 --> 00:41:36,399 Speaker 1: got two people and y'all can effectively comprehend whatever each person, 716 00:41:36,719 --> 00:41:39,600 Speaker 1: here's what I feel like. It's wrong. Women have ego too, 717 00:41:39,719 --> 00:41:42,640 Speaker 1: because you could come to her and be like, baby, 718 00:41:42,680 --> 00:41:44,719 Speaker 1: I love you and I do everything for us and 719 00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:47,080 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be with you, but I just what's some 720 00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:49,680 Speaker 1: extra pussy on the weekend. This is is not going 721 00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:52,120 Speaker 1: for that. They're not really going for that. They don't 722 00:41:52,120 --> 00:41:54,759 Speaker 1: want to share you. That's the problem. We don't want 723 00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:58,680 Speaker 1: to share you with nobody else either. But that's you 724 00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:04,960 Speaker 1: hate women. I love women. I love women, man, until 725 00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:12,400 Speaker 1: you don't. Yeah, women could walk through the room and 726 00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:16,640 Speaker 1: something about women women where the hairy y'all back in 727 00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:18,960 Speaker 1: y'all neck just goes up and y'all just like, I 728 00:42:19,000 --> 00:42:24,000 Speaker 1: don't like that. Those are hating bitches. We hate love women, 729 00:42:24,080 --> 00:42:26,120 Speaker 1: especially when she looks good. I'm like, okay, so that's 730 00:42:26,480 --> 00:42:30,879 Speaker 1: exactly that's my energy is like we definitely ain't your 731 00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:33,120 Speaker 1: man say yes, she looked good. Your man says she 732 00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:39,680 Speaker 1: looked good to point out that, yeah, look look, and 733 00:42:39,680 --> 00:42:41,440 Speaker 1: he'd be acting like he can you see it before me. 734 00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:49,879 Speaker 1: I definitely don't care about women in that way. YEA 735 00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:53,960 Speaker 1: find it so interesting that women, Um, my understanding of 736 00:42:54,400 --> 00:42:58,759 Speaker 1: respect for women has a lot of times has to 737 00:42:58,760 --> 00:43:03,719 Speaker 1: be forced by women. Um when I'm explaining, like my girl, right, 738 00:43:03,760 --> 00:43:06,440 Speaker 1: I remember, you know, she and I were dating for 739 00:43:06,480 --> 00:43:08,520 Speaker 1: a long time and I was like, listen, I want 740 00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:10,640 Speaker 1: to do me, but I can't. I ain't gonna suck 741 00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:12,160 Speaker 1: with you like that if you just out there doing 742 00:43:12,200 --> 00:43:15,600 Speaker 1: you like we you know, we were just dating at 743 00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:17,399 Speaker 1: the time, you know what I'm saying. I was like, listen, 744 00:43:17,440 --> 00:43:20,359 Speaker 1: you're my main chip. I take your trips, I buy 745 00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:22,080 Speaker 1: you stuff and all that, but I ain't really ready 746 00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:24,440 Speaker 1: to be in a relationship. I'm out here in these streets, 747 00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:27,480 Speaker 1: I'm living really well and I'm just not ready to 748 00:43:27,480 --> 00:43:32,359 Speaker 1: be in a relationship. And she was like, so you 749 00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:36,520 Speaker 1: could do you and I'm just gonna be your main 750 00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:38,160 Speaker 1: chick and I can't do me or you're not gonna 751 00:43:38,200 --> 00:43:43,960 Speaker 1: suck me. And I was like basically she was like 752 00:43:44,719 --> 00:43:50,000 Speaker 1: back and she went and did her. She was like, Okay, 753 00:43:50,400 --> 00:43:53,400 Speaker 1: you hold all the power, so you're not gonna allow 754 00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:55,640 Speaker 1: me to be an equal partnership in this situation. You're 755 00:43:55,640 --> 00:43:57,640 Speaker 1: not gonna allowing because you hold all the powers. You know. 756 00:43:57,719 --> 00:43:59,400 Speaker 1: You know I'm in love with you. Your hold all 757 00:43:59,400 --> 00:44:02,480 Speaker 1: the power. But what you're not gonna do just treat 758 00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:07,600 Speaker 1: me like a sucker. When I found out, I was 759 00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:10,840 Speaker 1: like I was first, I was felt betrayed. Oh my god, 760 00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:13,360 Speaker 1: you funked up. You could have told me just on 761 00:44:13,440 --> 00:44:16,120 Speaker 1: the oven. And she was like, what you expected me 762 00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:18,600 Speaker 1: not to take care of myself first. I had to 763 00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:21,080 Speaker 1: take care of you, like I do everything for you 764 00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:22,640 Speaker 1: the same way you do everything for me. But you're 765 00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:25,600 Speaker 1: taken care of yourself, expecting me not to take care 766 00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:28,200 Speaker 1: of myself first, Like that's what you expect, that's what 767 00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:30,239 Speaker 1: you want out of a party. And I had to 768 00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:33,920 Speaker 1: realize that I was being selfish and I didn't respect 769 00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:36,680 Speaker 1: her as a human being. I did not respect her. 770 00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:39,160 Speaker 1: I thought that she was under me. How did she 771 00:44:39,200 --> 00:44:41,719 Speaker 1: find out? How did you find out that she was 772 00:44:41,760 --> 00:44:43,719 Speaker 1: doing her? Because you would have never found out with me? 773 00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:47,759 Speaker 1: Why not? Though? But I think she told me. She 774 00:44:47,840 --> 00:44:50,719 Speaker 1: told me it was she told me after some time, 775 00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:54,320 Speaker 1: and then after that I made him my girl after 776 00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:57,400 Speaker 1: she told me. Why do men? Why do men have 777 00:44:57,520 --> 00:45:00,120 Speaker 1: to be heard into submission in that way? Though? Why 778 00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:02,319 Speaker 1: do I have to? Why do I have to because 779 00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:06,279 Speaker 1: I've been in the same similar situation? Right? Why do 780 00:45:06,360 --> 00:45:12,040 Speaker 1: I have to basically like play you hurt you into 781 00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:18,719 Speaker 1: being the NYE attentive, showing intimacy like not cheating? Why 782 00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:20,919 Speaker 1: I gotta go make you think I fucked somebody else 783 00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:25,400 Speaker 1: for you to act right? WHOA? Why Why is it 784 00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:27,880 Speaker 1: such a game? It goes back to like our ego, 785 00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:31,560 Speaker 1: to where we feel like once we have you, once 786 00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:35,480 Speaker 1: we conquered you, like we feel unstoppable. We feel like 787 00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:39,399 Speaker 1: the sense of ownership. Y'all are like our castle and 788 00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:43,080 Speaker 1: we have y'all are like our indestructible castle. Nobody can 789 00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:46,080 Speaker 1: get in, and then once somebody gets in, then we 790 00:45:46,120 --> 00:45:49,320 Speaker 1: start paying attention more. Now we gotta we gotta line 791 00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:52,640 Speaker 1: of defenses, we gotta know what's going on, who's walking where. 792 00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:55,879 Speaker 1: That's how we feel, y'all are men's men's mind state 793 00:45:55,960 --> 00:46:00,680 Speaker 1: is about conquering in all different aspects. And once we 794 00:46:00,719 --> 00:46:05,000 Speaker 1: feel like somebody has infiltrated anything that we've built, then 795 00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:08,000 Speaker 1: we just pay attention more than before when we felt like, YO, 796 00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,080 Speaker 1: know what, I can trust that over there, I could 797 00:46:10,120 --> 00:46:12,160 Speaker 1: trust it is going right. And once things just don't 798 00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:14,520 Speaker 1: go right, that's when our senses get high end and 799 00:46:14,640 --> 00:46:17,000 Speaker 1: not like women, where your senses are high end all 800 00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:20,560 Speaker 1: the time. And then you already talked about it. I 801 00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:22,279 Speaker 1: had to look at myself and figure what was more 802 00:46:22,360 --> 00:46:24,120 Speaker 1: portant to me. For me, I had to look at 803 00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:26,200 Speaker 1: it like why am I chasing and see the street 804 00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:28,759 Speaker 1: when I have it right? Why am I forcing her back? 805 00:46:28,760 --> 00:46:31,759 Speaker 1: Out into the street. What like she's giving me everything? 806 00:46:32,640 --> 00:46:34,359 Speaker 1: What am I looking for? You know what I'm saying. 807 00:46:34,480 --> 00:46:37,440 Speaker 1: I was playing boyish games with a woman, so I 808 00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:43,560 Speaker 1: chose my woman. I'm smart. How long has every good man? 809 00:46:43,600 --> 00:46:50,320 Speaker 1: It's fire too, I'm in love. Oh congratulations, that's beautiful episode. 810 00:46:50,360 --> 00:46:53,400 Speaker 1: Now Orlando is still out here. You still out here 811 00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:58,040 Speaker 1: saving lass, still out here currently saving life. I am 812 00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:04,719 Speaker 1: want to be saved though here a little younger, Sam, 813 00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:07,239 Speaker 1: I'm a young thirty years old. But it's more so 814 00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:10,320 Speaker 1: like I wouldn't mind. I'm open to and I wouldn't 815 00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:13,720 Speaker 1: mind being in a relationship. It's just I'm just waiting 816 00:47:13,719 --> 00:47:16,000 Speaker 1: for that person. I feel like I bring so much 817 00:47:16,680 --> 00:47:20,560 Speaker 1: um that I could bring so much the relationship that 818 00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:25,160 Speaker 1: I want somebody that I feel like has equity in it, 819 00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:27,520 Speaker 1: that I can feel like, you know, I can look 820 00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:30,400 Speaker 1: at you and be like, you know what, we have 821 00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:34,160 Speaker 1: some kind of equality to where I have all these 822 00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:38,760 Speaker 1: things going on with me, and you're gonna help whatever 823 00:47:38,920 --> 00:47:41,759 Speaker 1: I'm going through, help ease it and ease my mind 824 00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:43,360 Speaker 1: by being this relationship. I don't want to feel like 825 00:47:43,360 --> 00:47:46,240 Speaker 1: I'm coming to the relationship and it's even more work 826 00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:48,440 Speaker 1: or it's harder work than already what I'm I'm doing. 827 00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:52,160 Speaker 1: I enjoy the hard work, but I don't want to 828 00:47:52,200 --> 00:47:54,920 Speaker 1: be working and not enjoy and it it feels like 829 00:47:55,800 --> 00:48:00,879 Speaker 1: more pressure. No, no, no, don't want no. I don't 830 00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:03,239 Speaker 1: need you know, I don't need you to like do 831 00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:05,080 Speaker 1: my work for me. What I'm saying is, I want 832 00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:07,400 Speaker 1: to work on the relationship, but I don't want to. 833 00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:10,240 Speaker 1: I don't want to work to not be enjoyable. I 834 00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:13,080 Speaker 1: enjoy working. I enjoy working on my relationship. But if 835 00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:15,640 Speaker 1: I feel like the work that I'm doing is more 836 00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:17,959 Speaker 1: pressure or it's harder than when I was single, it's 837 00:48:17,960 --> 00:48:20,920 Speaker 1: like I just might as well be single for all 838 00:48:20,920 --> 00:48:31,520 Speaker 1: of that relationship. Yeah, we would you be open? Would 839 00:48:31,520 --> 00:48:35,680 Speaker 1: you be open to a non monogamous relationship? Yeah? I believe. 840 00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:39,319 Speaker 1: I believe in the fairness um of relationships. So if 841 00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:41,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna sit here and be like, oh, you know, 842 00:48:41,200 --> 00:48:42,680 Speaker 1: I want to suk with other people, I'm going to 843 00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:45,840 Speaker 1: allow you to also do that. Or we could just 844 00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:49,919 Speaker 1: communicate and like have some type of like whatever stipulations 845 00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:53,200 Speaker 1: we need for our relationships to for our relationship to 846 00:48:53,239 --> 00:48:56,640 Speaker 1: like move along. Really, well, have you ever been in love? 847 00:48:57,680 --> 00:49:03,200 Speaker 1: Twice and you would have been were you open with them. No, 848 00:49:03,600 --> 00:49:06,719 Speaker 1: I was younger then. So now you feel like, if 849 00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:09,439 Speaker 1: you were in love with a woman, you could let 850 00:49:09,480 --> 00:49:12,279 Speaker 1: her suck some dick and have tears coming down with 851 00:49:12,320 --> 00:49:13,920 Speaker 1: her eyes because he's choking her in the back of 852 00:49:13,920 --> 00:49:18,319 Speaker 1: her that would be okay, and come kiss you in 853 00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:22,080 Speaker 1: the mouth. I mean I wouldn't. I wouldn't know. But 854 00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:25,239 Speaker 1: if if, if I feel comfortable and we're in that 855 00:49:25,320 --> 00:49:29,080 Speaker 1: type of relationship, it's not gonna bother me because honestly, 856 00:49:29,120 --> 00:49:31,480 Speaker 1: there's gonna be some girl sitting on home, sitting on 857 00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:35,000 Speaker 1: my face with her pussy juices, like just covering all 858 00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:39,160 Speaker 1: my whole nose support, Crispy cream, donut, make me look 859 00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:54,759 Speaker 1: like Christ, some water. Just what's going on? Something up? 860 00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:59,160 Speaker 1: But yeah, we gotta wrap it up, all right. So y'all, 861 00:49:59,520 --> 00:50:03,800 Speaker 1: this is It's Tahoe in Orlando from the Hardest Off Podcast. 862 00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:10,799 Speaker 1: We definitely enjoyed you guys for joining exactly alright. You 863 00:50:10,840 --> 00:50:14,600 Speaker 1: can follow the Harder Soft podcast on Instagram and Twitter 864 00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:18,239 Speaker 1: at Hardest Soft Pod. We are the first podcast with 865 00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:21,200 Speaker 1: adult content on only Fans which is still up and running, 866 00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:23,640 Speaker 1: so you can go to that as only fans dot 867 00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:26,839 Speaker 1: com Backslash Harder Soft. Um, you can sign to our 868 00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:30,800 Speaker 1: Patreon where we do a lot of great bonus content 869 00:50:30,800 --> 00:50:33,799 Speaker 1: as patreon dot com Backslash Harder Soft pod and if 870 00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:35,719 Speaker 1: you follow, if you want to follow me the Big 871 00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:38,480 Speaker 1: dig Dad Bitch, Big Dick mcnick and I'm backpacking the 872 00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:41,279 Speaker 1: circumcise cracking, you can follow them. You can catch me 873 00:50:41,400 --> 00:50:54,319 Speaker 1: on Instagram, on Twitter at Dear Orlando Roy. I got nothing, Bro, 874 00:50:54,400 --> 00:50:58,160 Speaker 1: I don't. There's no way on following it up. Bro, 875 00:50:58,400 --> 00:51:01,560 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm forty something years old, so I'm not. 876 00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:04,600 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm just not going there. If you just backpacking, 877 00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:10,319 Speaker 1: I don't wear backpacks anymore. Circumcisions beforety something years ago, 878 00:51:10,360 --> 00:51:12,360 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't. I don't crack the circumcision. I 879 00:51:12,360 --> 00:51:16,200 Speaker 1: don't talk about Okay, I'm over. My name is Tahoe 880 00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:20,360 Speaker 1: Underscore TV on Instagram. UM, I'm really in love with 881 00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:23,879 Speaker 1: what we're doing. I love my brother Balbo Roy, him 882 00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:28,520 Speaker 1: and I speak on our podcast. It's about sexuality and 883 00:51:28,760 --> 00:51:35,719 Speaker 1: being too hetero sexual men uh one hetero sections Orlando. 884 00:51:35,960 --> 00:51:40,080 Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know what he's He's just Orlando, 885 00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:44,279 Speaker 1: Like I don't think he um. You know, we're just 886 00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:47,360 Speaker 1: like opening the conversation and exploring seeing you could do. 887 00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:49,600 Speaker 1: So come check me out on my Instagram. I talked 888 00:51:49,600 --> 00:51:51,120 Speaker 1: about a lot of ships. I talked about a lot 889 00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:52,879 Speaker 1: of ships. Reach out to me, talk to me, tell 890 00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:56,600 Speaker 1: me where I'm wrong. I'm here for the conversation. All right, Yeah, 891 00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:59,280 Speaker 1: we'll do, We'll do, and we can't wait to see 892 00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:02,359 Speaker 1: when y'all come to being. We come, We're coming. We're 893 00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:07,160 Speaker 1: coming from her were definitely. You don't need no shirt, 894 00:52:07,280 --> 00:52:15,239 Speaker 1: just leave it off. Pointless, it's pointless. If you guys 895 00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:18,239 Speaker 1: enjoyed this episode, please tune in every Thursday on the 896 00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:20,960 Speaker 1: I Heart Radio app or wherever the fun you get 897 00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:25,040 Speaker 1: your podcast at. This is a j holiday two point oh. 898 00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:28,200 Speaker 1: I'm official, Tam Bam follow me. We are We