WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: You Used To Be My Daddy

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<v Speaker 1>Five Rooking Jewels Second d D. One of my favorite

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<v Speaker 1>things in the Second Date Update is hearing how people

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<v Speaker 1>meet each other. Yeah, you know, it's always interesting to

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<v Speaker 1>find out where people meet and how they meet, and

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<v Speaker 1>especially like for me as a guy, that's all I

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<v Speaker 1>know is like the pressure of going up to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to a girl when you're out in public and you

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what's gonna happen. It's always that nerve wracking experience.

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<v Speaker 1>I know for me, every time I've met a girl out,

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<v Speaker 1>it's always like you see her and she's beautiful and

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<v Speaker 1>you want to talk to her, and you're like, oh, man, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go up to her, and I'm gonna offer

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<v Speaker 1>the eighty dollars that I have in my pocket. That's

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<v Speaker 1>not good. I guess I'll go up to ninety whatever

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<v Speaker 1>she wants looks. You know, it's always been really difficult

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<v Speaker 1>for me to meet women in public, but it is

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<v Speaker 1>interesting to see where people meet each other. And Paul,

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<v Speaker 1>who's on the phone to do a second Date update today,

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<v Speaker 1>met the girl that he wants to call at a

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<v Speaker 1>farmer's market. That's where he says he met her. Paul,

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<v Speaker 1>how does somebody meet a girl at a farmer's market.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you just walking around? And you throw some

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<v Speaker 1>fresh wheat behind you and just hopefully she follows you home.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, have you ever been to a farmer's market? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't just buy exactly. I guess I've never really been.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what it seems like it would be to me.

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<v Speaker 1>How's it going, Paul, Hey, guys, how's it going? So?

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<v Speaker 1>How did you meet this girl at a farmer's market?

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<v Speaker 1>So basically, it was over the weekend and I was

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<v Speaker 1>hung over. Right, it was like three in the afternoon.

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<v Speaker 1>I woke up. Second, who gets up? What dude gets

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<v Speaker 1>up hung over? And it's like, you know what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do? Head down to the farmer's market. Hey man,

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<v Speaker 1>I got a cleanse. I got a cleanse, you now,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's the first thing you gotta do when

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<v Speaker 1>you're hung over. You know, some fresh fruit that works.

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<v Speaker 1>That's how he works. Okay, So you wandered into the

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<v Speaker 1>wandered into the farmer's market still drunk from the night before. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was more groggy. I was just like, uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just need to sober up. I need I needed

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<v Speaker 1>any healthy antioxidant type of stuff my system out. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So what's the girl's name, by the way, that you

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<v Speaker 1>met at the farmer's market. Lisa? Name is La Lisa.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, tell us about when you met Lisa. So

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<v Speaker 1>there was like some cheese samplings going on, and I

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<v Speaker 1>still had the mun cheese, you know, because that sounds

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<v Speaker 1>good actually on a hangover, Like if I were they

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<v Speaker 1>do that, they do cheese y. Yeah, Paul, I think

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<v Speaker 1>you and I need to start hanging out of Farmer's Market.

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<v Speaker 1>You sound exactly like my type of guy. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>So you're there drunk eating the cheese, and that's when

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<v Speaker 1>she walked up. Yeah, you know, I was there. It

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<v Speaker 1>was a weird thing. It was almost like Ladies and

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<v Speaker 1>the Tramp where you know, like a spaghetti scene, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was like with a piece of cheese and we

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<v Speaker 1>both like reached up and you're like, oh, hello, are

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to grab the same piece of cheese? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>That is I mean, if I was this girl and

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<v Speaker 1>there's this really hungover dude eating cheese at the farmer's Market,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not immediately attracted to you. Okay, yeah, I'll thus

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<v Speaker 1>you could tell I was hung over honestly, because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it is when you're like still having the bed hair,

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<v Speaker 1>you still feel sexy and confident, you know, where you're

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<v Speaker 1>still kind of buzzed, but you're still like, yeah, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>so you guys went to grab the same piece of

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<v Speaker 1>cheese and you were like, what's up? A girl? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you doing here? Yeah? Well, not like that. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I was still a gentleman, so I was like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my bad. You know, you could have it, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and we kind of sparked a little conversation, you know, flirty,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was smiling at all the dumb stuff I

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<v Speaker 1>was saying. And afterwards I was bold, you know, because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I was still a little tipsy, and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, hey, you want to like maybe grab a

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<v Speaker 1>coffee or something. Okay, So did you go straight from

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<v Speaker 1>the Farmer's Market to go get coffee? No, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>first you have to finish up some errands and shopping.

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<v Speaker 1>So I kind of was like with her, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because I was like I have to be like, oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was shopping too, though, but like, yeah, I have to.

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<v Speaker 1>We finished shopping, so I had to shop as well.

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<v Speaker 1>So you had to pretend shop at the farmer's market

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<v Speaker 1>to get your date. Yeah, I guess I did it

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<v Speaker 1>because the spark was there and she seemed pretty interesting,

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't know, I was just I was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't blow this opportunity, you know. Yeah, Okay, so

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<v Speaker 1>you guys walked around the farmer's market and bought groceries

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<v Speaker 1>and then went for coffee. It was pretty cool. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like a little place near there. And she's a

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<v Speaker 1>really cool chick. You know, she's really real. She's not

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<v Speaker 1>into like materialistic stuff, which kind of like interests me.

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<v Speaker 1>Like she's not into like clothes or like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>labels or you know. So you met her at a

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<v Speaker 1>farmer's market and she's not into anything materialistic. You met

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<v Speaker 1>a hippie. Yeah, yeah, I guess. You know, she's just

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<v Speaker 1>different from other girls. I guess now. And so I

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<v Speaker 1>mean coffee went well, then how long did you guys say? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>He probably hung out for like a good twenty minutes

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<v Speaker 1>or so, just like talking about life. And the only

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<v Speaker 1>thing was like afterwards, I kind of asked her out

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<v Speaker 1>and I said, Hey, can we like maybe actually go

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<v Speaker 1>on a date or something? And she said, yeah, why not?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe smiled, and I remember, maybe it's not necessarily the

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<v Speaker 1>best thing to hear. She smiled. She smiled. That's like

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<v Speaker 1>a good signal of like positivity. So how'd your interaction

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<v Speaker 1>go after that? Then after the coffee, So we've been

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<v Speaker 1>texting back and forth, but then she stopped, and I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just wondering, well, is she busy or is she not

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<v Speaker 1>feeling me? You know, what's the last thing you said

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<v Speaker 1>to her? I was I'm kind of awkward with texts,

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<v Speaker 1>So I think I was just saying like, hey, so

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<v Speaker 1>still drinking beet juice because like beat juice, saying like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm still drinking it. I'm awkward, So that actually sounds

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<v Speaker 1>kind of funny. I mean, did you respond to the

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<v Speaker 1>beat juice comment at all? Or was that the last

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<v Speaker 1>you heard from her? Yeah, that was the last you

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<v Speaker 1>Are you trying too hard to like be into what

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<v Speaker 1>she's into? Yeah? Maybe, I don't know. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>was trying to connect with her just to show that

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<v Speaker 1>I was into her stuff that she was into. But

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I hope she doesn't think I was

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<v Speaker 1>mocking her, you know, I hope she doesn't think I'm

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<v Speaker 1>an idiot. All right, Well we'll play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call her and get your second date. Update. All right, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, man, hang on brooking jubil in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Second update. Let me think of the best way I

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<v Speaker 1>can recap today's second date update. Oh like this. He's

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<v Speaker 1>a reckless drunk who just wanted some antioxidants to cure

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<v Speaker 1>his hangover. She's a free spirit who was just out

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<v Speaker 1>to get some fresh cut flowers and some artisan bread.

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<v Speaker 1>That was until the day they met at the farmer's

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<v Speaker 1>market and their lives were flipped upside down. Ryan Reynolds

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<v Speaker 1>stars as Paul from today's second date update, and Kate

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<v Speaker 1>Beckinsale stars is the girl and he's about to call

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<v Speaker 1>in this new smash hit Free Range Love coming to

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<v Speaker 1>theaters this summer Love comes GMO free. Hey Paul, does

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<v Speaker 1>that pretty much recap your date there right in the head? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it is. If you're just tuning in for the second

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<v Speaker 1>day update. Paul is on the phone. We're about to

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<v Speaker 1>call a girl named Lisa on his behalf. They met

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<v Speaker 1>at a farmer's market, ended up going from the farmer's

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<v Speaker 1>market to get some coffee. Had a really good time,

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<v Speaker 1>but she hasn't really agreed to go out with him

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<v Speaker 1>on a second date. She did say she would think

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<v Speaker 1>about going out with him, So there was never like

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<v Speaker 1>a solid yes we're going out. Sore about to get

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<v Speaker 1>her on the phone and find out why she doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with him? Anything else you want

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<v Speaker 1>to add before we call her, Paul, She's just a

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<v Speaker 1>different type of woman that I've dealt with before, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>So I just want to see how it goes all right? Cool? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>not the phone of her right now, get her on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and get your Second Date Update. Here we go. Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Lisa? Please? Speaking? Hi? Lisa? How

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<v Speaker 1>are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning. Fine? Do I know you? Um? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think we've ever met before. No, it's nice to meet you. Yeah. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry. Who else is on the line? Oh, that's

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<v Speaker 1>the entire show. So it's Brook and Jewel in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm jew Bil, that's Brooke, that's Jose How are you

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<v Speaker 1>this morning? Um? Effused that I'm calling you because we

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<v Speaker 1>recently got an email from one of our listeners asking

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<v Speaker 1>if we could get a hold of you. Okay, it's

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<v Speaker 1>a segment that we do on our show called the

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date Update. Paul emailed us and asked us if

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<v Speaker 1>we could find out if you didn't like him for

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<v Speaker 1>a certain reason. Okay, so are we still a few

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<v Speaker 1>minutes of your time to talk about your date with Paul? Um.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really want to do this, to be honest, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>he just really liked you, and he's he's just wondering

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<v Speaker 1>if he did something wrong or why you're not into him,

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<v Speaker 1>because he definitely didn't do anything wrong. That's all I'll say.

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<v Speaker 1>He didn't do anything wrong, And you have any advice

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<v Speaker 1>that maybe you could give us for him as he

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<v Speaker 1>goes forward, like dating in the future, things that he

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<v Speaker 1>should maybe watch out for. No, I mean it's not

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<v Speaker 1>It's just it's nothing like that. Um, was he trying

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<v Speaker 1>too hard? I thought maybe he was like trying to

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<v Speaker 1>be interested in what you were interested and it came

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<v Speaker 1>off his fake No, I mean I didn't feel like that.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just like I know that if I say what

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<v Speaker 1>kind of went on with me, he's going to be judged,

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<v Speaker 1>and they don't really want to be judged. So I

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<v Speaker 1>promise you we will not judge you. We do these

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<v Speaker 1>things all the time. I promise you nobody will judge

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<v Speaker 1>you unless it's something really, really really really really weird,

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<v Speaker 1>Like if you killed a person, I might judge you

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<v Speaker 1>if you murder, if you were a murderer, I might

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<v Speaker 1>judge you. So did you like him at all? At

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<v Speaker 1>least I really did? Um, there was definitely a really

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<v Speaker 1>immediate attraction and that I felt a really strong Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so why are you giving him the cold's shoulder? Uh? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>when we were at coffee, I got a communition premonition,

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<v Speaker 1>like a vision of something. Yeah, premonition is the best

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<v Speaker 1>word I can think of to describe it. A really

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<v Speaker 1>strong feeling. Was it brought on by something he said

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<v Speaker 1>or something that he did? No, it just occurred, and

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<v Speaker 1>I needed to take some time to figure out what

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<v Speaker 1>it was, what it was about. Um, it wasn't so

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<v Speaker 1>much a premonition about him. Um, just there was something

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<v Speaker 1>strong there that I needed to sort out. So I

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<v Speaker 1>went to a spiritual guide that I see. Um, this

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<v Speaker 1>premonition or feeling that you had when you were out

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<v Speaker 1>with him, it was powerful enough that you wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to your spiritual person about it? Yeah, very much

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<v Speaker 1>show Um does that mean like you liked him a lot?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I liked him a lot, definitely. And then

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<v Speaker 1>and then I got this feeling, you know, like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>at coffee, and it was strong, you know, and so

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<v Speaker 1>I had to go investigate it. Okay, So what did

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<v Speaker 1>your spiritual advisor say? Do you mind telling us that? Uh? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but you just gotta be like, I understand that, what

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<v Speaker 1>I believe is that when everyone believes, and I get that,

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<v Speaker 1>but just like, please be respectful for sure. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>my spiritual advisor connected to the reason why we had

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<v Speaker 1>such a strong connection is because you're actually related in

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<v Speaker 1>the past life. In the fifteen hundreds, he was my father. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>what in the fifteen hundreds he was your father? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's why it was like I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>I knew him. I felt like I knew things about him,

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<v Speaker 1>and it felt like more of a recognition than a meeting. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's interesting. So you felt that connected to it. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>obviously if he used to be your dad, yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>would knew him already. I don't know much about what

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<v Speaker 1>you believe in and that kind of stuff, So you

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<v Speaker 1>can help enlighten me right now. So you felt like

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<v Speaker 1>you were out having coffee with your dad. Yes, I

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<v Speaker 1>understand he's in a different physical body now as am

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<v Speaker 1>I but if you believe in reincarnation, and you believe

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<v Speaker 1>that when we die we are reincarnated in another body,

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<v Speaker 1>that nothing, nothing is treated or destroyed, right, you know,

0:12:19.840 --> 0:12:23.360
<v Speaker 1>things come back in different forms. So it was not like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's literally my dad, but that was my dad's spirit. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And you don't want to date your dad, but it's

0:12:30.480 --> 0:12:32.960
<v Speaker 1>your dad from the fifteen hundreds. I mean that's pretty

0:12:32.960 --> 0:12:37.880
<v Speaker 1>far removed. What's your dad, always your dad, but but

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<v Speaker 1>your your dad. I believe this is what I believe,

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<v Speaker 1>and I understand that that's not what everyone. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 1>how how did you feel when he found out he

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<v Speaker 1>was your dad from the fifteen hundreds? I felt like

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<v Speaker 1>it made sense why I felt like I knew him

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<v Speaker 1>so well already. I mean, obviously it was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a bummer because I did like him. Um yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>mean for me, it would add something to it. I'd

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<v Speaker 1>be like, sweet, I get to kind to sleep with

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<v Speaker 1>my parents sort of. But I'm a little different too, Lisa,

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<v Speaker 1>how one told you either you know, I'm getting a

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<v Speaker 1>premonition right now, actually, are you? Yeah? The premonition is

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<v Speaker 1>that he's on the other line listening to this conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you serious. Yes, I am, Paul. Are you there? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Say how do your daughter? I'm kind of like, huhh.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I don't really want to say, um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's you know, you know, you understand why

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't carry back. I mean, are you serious? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, is this I'm just wondering. Is this just

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<v Speaker 1>you don't want to talk to me anymore? You just

0:13:52.520 --> 0:13:53.920
<v Speaker 1>do want to like? I mean, I feel like this

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<v Speaker 1>might be like you saying friends down, but in an

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<v Speaker 1>over complicated way? Is at it or because I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not trying to get out of it. I actually

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<v Speaker 1>I do like you, so I'm not trying to like

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<v Speaker 1>evade relationship. I'm definitely not comfortable dating for obvious reasons.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of them used to be my dad. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a joke, right, Why else do you think

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<v Speaker 1>we felt such a strong connection at first? Oh? Because

0:14:22.960 --> 0:14:29.480
<v Speaker 1>you're pretty and I'm cute. Is there any chance that

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<v Speaker 1>your spiritual guide could be wrong and that maybe you

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<v Speaker 1>had a connection because he's actually your past husband from

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<v Speaker 1>the fifteen hundreds? No, I mean she's never hearing me

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<v Speaker 1>wrong in the past. I really I trust her completely,

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<v Speaker 1>So no, but I'm not your dad, I mean my

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<v Speaker 1>dad now. Yeah, but I'm not well, I mean, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>so this is hard. This is like a hard mass problem.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to wrap my head around. All right. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not your dad now, So what's the problem. I

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<v Speaker 1>think what he's saying, Lisa is would you like to

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a second date with Paul? We will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for a second date. He was your dad a

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<v Speaker 1>long time ago. I don't think it should really matter now.

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<v Speaker 1>Unfortunately matters to me, um a lot. So wow, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>if you would like to have a relationship, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and a friendship or we can connect up our past,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be awesome. Um, But but no for dating. Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand like why we had a connection. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean we did, like, but it was because you

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<v Speaker 1>were my dad. I don't understand how that could like

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<v Speaker 1>stop this from what we had. Yeah, I mean, is

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<v Speaker 1>there any hoophole? Unfortunately no. Yeah, maybe you could ground

0:15:50.560 --> 0:15:52.960
<v Speaker 1>her and force her to go out with you. You

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<v Speaker 1>are the father figure here. Well sorry, Paul, no second date.

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<v Speaker 1>And Lisa, I appreciate your time, and I appreciate you

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<v Speaker 1>being open and honest with us. I know it had

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<v Speaker 1>to be hard because he thought we were going to

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<v Speaker 1>judge you and make fun of you. I did, all right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so I appreciate it. Okay, have a good day. He too. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>that was really hard not to judge her fun