Speaker 1: Five Rooking Jewels Second d D. One of my favorite
Speaker 1: things in the Second Date Update is hearing how people
Speaker 1: meet each other. Yeah, you know, it's always interesting to
Speaker 1: find out where people meet and how they meet, and
Speaker 1: especially like for me as a guy, that's all I
Speaker 1: know is like the pressure of going up to talk
Speaker 1: to a girl when you're out in public and you
Speaker 1: don't know what's gonna happen. It's always that nerve wracking experience.
Speaker 1: I know for me, every time I've met a girl out,
Speaker 1: it's always like you see her and she's beautiful and
Speaker 1: you want to talk to her, and you're like, oh, man, okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go up to her, and I'm gonna offer
Speaker 1: the eighty dollars that I have in my pocket. That's
Speaker 1: not good. I guess I'll go up to ninety whatever
Speaker 1: she wants looks. You know, it's always been really difficult
Speaker 1: for me to meet women in public, but it is
Speaker 1: interesting to see where people meet each other. And Paul,
Speaker 1: who's on the phone to do a second Date update today,
Speaker 1: met the girl that he wants to call at a
Speaker 1: farmer's market. That's where he says he met her. Paul,
Speaker 1: how does somebody meet a girl at a farmer's market.
Speaker 1: What are you just walking around? And you throw some
Speaker 1: fresh wheat behind you and just hopefully she follows you home.
Speaker 1: I mean, have you ever been to a farmer's market? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can't just buy exactly. I guess I've never really been.
Speaker 1: That's what it seems like it would be to me.
Speaker 1: How's it going, Paul, Hey, guys, how's it going? So?
Speaker 1: How did you meet this girl at a farmer's market?
Speaker 1: So basically, it was over the weekend and I was
Speaker 1: hung over. Right, it was like three in the afternoon.
Speaker 1: I woke up. Second, who gets up? What dude gets
Speaker 1: up hung over? And it's like, you know what I'm
Speaker 1: gonna do? Head down to the farmer's market. Hey man,
Speaker 1: I got a cleanse. I got a cleanse, you now,
Speaker 1: I mean that's the first thing you gotta do when
Speaker 1: you're hung over. You know, some fresh fruit that works.
Speaker 1: That's how he works. Okay, So you wandered into the
Speaker 1: wandered into the farmer's market still drunk from the night before. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was more groggy. I was just like, uh, you know,
Speaker 1: I just need to sober up. I need I needed
Speaker 1: any healthy antioxidant type of stuff my system out. Okay,
Speaker 1: So what's the girl's name, by the way, that you
Speaker 1: met at the farmer's market. Lisa? Name is La Lisa.
Speaker 1: All right, tell us about when you met Lisa. So
Speaker 1: there was like some cheese samplings going on, and I
Speaker 1: still had the mun cheese, you know, because that sounds
Speaker 1: good actually on a hangover, Like if I were they
Speaker 1: do that, they do cheese y. Yeah, Paul, I think
Speaker 1: you and I need to start hanging out of Farmer's Market.
Speaker 1: You sound exactly like my type of guy. All right,
Speaker 1: So you're there drunk eating the cheese, and that's when
Speaker 1: she walked up. Yeah, you know, I was there. It
Speaker 1: was a weird thing. It was almost like Ladies and
Speaker 1: the Tramp where you know, like a spaghetti scene, but
Speaker 1: it was like with a piece of cheese and we
Speaker 1: both like reached up and you're like, oh, hello, are
Speaker 1: you're going to grab the same piece of cheese? Yeah?
Speaker 1: That is I mean, if I was this girl and
Speaker 1: there's this really hungover dude eating cheese at the farmer's Market,
Speaker 1: I'm not immediately attracted to you. Okay, yeah, I'll thus
Speaker 1: you could tell I was hung over honestly, because you know,
Speaker 1: it is when you're like still having the bed hair,
Speaker 1: you still feel sexy and confident, you know, where you're
Speaker 1: still kind of buzzed, but you're still like, yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: so you guys went to grab the same piece of
Speaker 1: cheese and you were like, what's up? A girl? Are
Speaker 1: you doing here? Yeah? Well, not like that. I mean
Speaker 1: I was still a gentleman, so I was like, oh
Speaker 1: my bad. You know, you could have it, you know,
Speaker 1: and we kind of sparked a little conversation, you know, flirty,
Speaker 1: and she was smiling at all the dumb stuff I
Speaker 1: was saying. And afterwards I was bold, you know, because
Speaker 1: you know, I was still a little tipsy, and I
Speaker 1: was like, hey, you want to like maybe grab a
Speaker 1: coffee or something. Okay, So did you go straight from
Speaker 1: the Farmer's Market to go get coffee? No, I mean
Speaker 1: first you have to finish up some errands and shopping.
Speaker 1: So I kind of was like with her, you know,
Speaker 1: because I was like I have to be like, oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I was shopping too, though, but like, yeah, I have to.
Speaker 1: We finished shopping, so I had to shop as well.
Speaker 1: So you had to pretend shop at the farmer's market
Speaker 1: to get your date. Yeah, I guess I did it
Speaker 1: because the spark was there and she seemed pretty interesting,
Speaker 1: and I don't know, I was just I was just like,
Speaker 1: I can't blow this opportunity, you know. Yeah, Okay, so
Speaker 1: you guys walked around the farmer's market and bought groceries
Speaker 1: and then went for coffee. It was pretty cool. It
Speaker 1: was like a little place near there. And she's a
Speaker 1: really cool chick. You know, she's really real. She's not
Speaker 1: into like materialistic stuff, which kind of like interests me.
Speaker 1: Like she's not into like clothes or like, you know,
Speaker 1: labels or you know. So you met her at a
Speaker 1: farmer's market and she's not into anything materialistic. You met
Speaker 1: a hippie. Yeah, yeah, I guess. You know, she's just
Speaker 1: different from other girls. I guess now. And so I
Speaker 1: mean coffee went well, then how long did you guys say? Oh?
Speaker 1: He probably hung out for like a good twenty minutes
Speaker 1: or so, just like talking about life. And the only
Speaker 1: thing was like afterwards, I kind of asked her out
Speaker 1: and I said, Hey, can we like maybe actually go
Speaker 1: on a date or something? And she said, yeah, why not?
Speaker 1: Maybe smiled, and I remember, maybe it's not necessarily the
Speaker 1: best thing to hear. She smiled. She smiled. That's like
Speaker 1: a good signal of like positivity. So how'd your interaction
Speaker 1: go after that? Then after the coffee, So we've been
Speaker 1: texting back and forth, but then she stopped, and I'm
Speaker 1: just wondering, well, is she busy or is she not
Speaker 1: feeling me? You know, what's the last thing you said
Speaker 1: to her? I was I'm kind of awkward with texts,
Speaker 1: So I think I was just saying like, hey, so
Speaker 1: still drinking beet juice because like beat juice, saying like, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm still drinking it. I'm awkward, So that actually sounds
Speaker 1: kind of funny. I mean, did you respond to the
Speaker 1: beat juice comment at all? Or was that the last
Speaker 1: you heard from her? Yeah, that was the last you
Speaker 1: Are you trying too hard to like be into what
Speaker 1: she's into? Yeah? Maybe, I don't know. I mean, I
Speaker 1: was trying to connect with her just to show that
Speaker 1: I was into her stuff that she was into. But
Speaker 1: I don't know. I hope she doesn't think I was
Speaker 1: mocking her, you know, I hope she doesn't think I'm
Speaker 1: an idiot. All right, Well we'll play a song, come back,
Speaker 1: call her and get your second date. Update. All right, cool,
Speaker 1: all right, man, hang on brooking jubil in the morning.
Speaker 1: Second update. Let me think of the best way I
Speaker 1: can recap today's second date update. Oh like this. He's
Speaker 1: a reckless drunk who just wanted some antioxidants to cure
Speaker 1: his hangover. She's a free spirit who was just out
Speaker 1: to get some fresh cut flowers and some artisan bread.
Speaker 1: That was until the day they met at the farmer's
Speaker 1: market and their lives were flipped upside down. Ryan Reynolds
Speaker 1: stars as Paul from today's second date update, and Kate
Speaker 1: Beckinsale stars is the girl and he's about to call
Speaker 1: in this new smash hit Free Range Love coming to
Speaker 1: theaters this summer Love comes GMO free. Hey Paul, does
Speaker 1: that pretty much recap your date there right in the head? Yes,
Speaker 1: it is. If you're just tuning in for the second
Speaker 1: day update. Paul is on the phone. We're about to
Speaker 1: call a girl named Lisa on his behalf. They met
Speaker 1: at a farmer's market, ended up going from the farmer's
Speaker 1: market to get some coffee. Had a really good time,
Speaker 1: but she hasn't really agreed to go out with him
Speaker 1: on a second date. She did say she would think
Speaker 1: about going out with him, So there was never like
Speaker 1: a solid yes we're going out. Sore about to get
Speaker 1: her on the phone and find out why she doesn't
Speaker 1: want to go out with him? Anything else you want
Speaker 1: to add before we call her, Paul, She's just a
Speaker 1: different type of woman that I've dealt with before, you know,
Speaker 1: So I just want to see how it goes all right? Cool? Well,
Speaker 1: not the phone of her right now, get her on
Speaker 1: the phone and get your Second Date Update. Here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Lisa? Please? Speaking? Hi? Lisa? How
Speaker 1: are you? This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in
Speaker 1: the Morning. Fine? Do I know you? Um? I don't
Speaker 1: think we've ever met before. No, it's nice to meet you. Yeah. Wait,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Who else is on the line? Oh, that's
Speaker 1: the entire show. So it's Brook and Jewel in the Morning.
Speaker 1: I'm jew Bil, that's Brooke, that's Jose How are you
Speaker 1: this morning? Um? Effused that I'm calling you because we
Speaker 1: recently got an email from one of our listeners asking
Speaker 1: if we could get a hold of you. Okay, it's
Speaker 1: a segment that we do on our show called the
Speaker 1: Second Date Update. Paul emailed us and asked us if
Speaker 1: we could find out if you didn't like him for
Speaker 1: a certain reason. Okay, so are we still a few
Speaker 1: minutes of your time to talk about your date with Paul? Um.
Speaker 1: I don't really want to do this, to be honest, Okay,
Speaker 1: he just really liked you, and he's he's just wondering
Speaker 1: if he did something wrong or why you're not into him,
Speaker 1: because he definitely didn't do anything wrong. That's all I'll say.
Speaker 1: He didn't do anything wrong, And you have any advice
Speaker 1: that maybe you could give us for him as he
Speaker 1: goes forward, like dating in the future, things that he
Speaker 1: should maybe watch out for. No, I mean it's not
Speaker 1: It's just it's nothing like that. Um, was he trying
Speaker 1: too hard? I thought maybe he was like trying to
Speaker 1: be interested in what you were interested and it came
Speaker 1: off his fake No, I mean I didn't feel like that.
Speaker 1: It's just like I know that if I say what
Speaker 1: kind of went on with me, he's going to be judged,
Speaker 1: and they don't really want to be judged. So I
Speaker 1: promise you we will not judge you. We do these
Speaker 1: things all the time. I promise you nobody will judge
Speaker 1: you unless it's something really, really really really really weird,
Speaker 1: Like if you killed a person, I might judge you
Speaker 1: if you murder, if you were a murderer, I might
Speaker 1: judge you. So did you like him at all? At
Speaker 1: least I really did? Um, there was definitely a really
Speaker 1: immediate attraction and that I felt a really strong Okay,
Speaker 1: so why are you giving him the cold's shoulder? Uh? Well,
Speaker 1: when we were at coffee, I got a communition premonition,
Speaker 1: like a vision of something. Yeah, premonition is the best
Speaker 1: word I can think of to describe it. A really
Speaker 1: strong feeling. Was it brought on by something he said
Speaker 1: or something that he did? No, it just occurred, and
Speaker 1: I needed to take some time to figure out what
Speaker 1: it was, what it was about. Um, it wasn't so
Speaker 1: much a premonition about him. Um, just there was something
Speaker 1: strong there that I needed to sort out. So I
Speaker 1: went to a spiritual guide that I see. Um, this
Speaker 1: premonition or feeling that you had when you were out
Speaker 1: with him, it was powerful enough that you wanted to
Speaker 1: talk to your spiritual person about it? Yeah, very much
Speaker 1: show Um does that mean like you liked him a lot?
Speaker 1: I mean I liked him a lot, definitely. And then
Speaker 1: and then I got this feeling, you know, like I said,
Speaker 1: at coffee, and it was strong, you know, and so
Speaker 1: I had to go investigate it. Okay, So what did
Speaker 1: your spiritual advisor say? Do you mind telling us that? Uh? Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you just gotta be like, I understand that, what
Speaker 1: I believe is that when everyone believes, and I get that,
Speaker 1: but just like, please be respectful for sure. Okay, So
Speaker 1: my spiritual advisor connected to the reason why we had
Speaker 1: such a strong connection is because you're actually related in
Speaker 1: the past life. In the fifteen hundreds, he was my father. Um,
Speaker 1: what in the fifteen hundreds he was your father? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean that's why it was like I felt like
Speaker 1: I knew him. I felt like I knew things about him,
Speaker 1: and it felt like more of a recognition than a meeting. Okay,
Speaker 1: that's interesting. So you felt that connected to it. I mean,
Speaker 1: obviously if he used to be your dad, yeah, you
Speaker 1: would knew him already. I don't know much about what
Speaker 1: you believe in and that kind of stuff, So you
Speaker 1: can help enlighten me right now. So you felt like
Speaker 1: you were out having coffee with your dad. Yes, I
Speaker 1: understand he's in a different physical body now as am
Speaker 1: I but if you believe in reincarnation, and you believe
Speaker 1: that when we die we are reincarnated in another body,
Speaker 1: that nothing, nothing is treated or destroyed, right, you know,
Speaker 1: things come back in different forms. So it was not like,
Speaker 1: that's literally my dad, but that was my dad's spirit. Okay,
Speaker 1: And you don't want to date your dad, but it's
Speaker 1: your dad from the fifteen hundreds. I mean that's pretty
Speaker 1: far removed. What's your dad, always your dad, but but
Speaker 1: your your dad. I believe this is what I believe,
Speaker 1: and I understand that that's not what everyone. Okay, So
Speaker 1: how how did you feel when he found out he
Speaker 1: was your dad from the fifteen hundreds? I felt like
Speaker 1: it made sense why I felt like I knew him
Speaker 1: so well already. I mean, obviously it was kind of
Speaker 1: a bummer because I did like him. Um yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean for me, it would add something to it. I'd
Speaker 1: be like, sweet, I get to kind to sleep with
Speaker 1: my parents sort of. But I'm a little different too, Lisa,
Speaker 1: how one told you either you know, I'm getting a
Speaker 1: premonition right now, actually, are you? Yeah? The premonition is
Speaker 1: that he's on the other line listening to this conversation.
Speaker 1: Are you serious. Yes, I am, Paul. Are you there? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Say how do your daughter? I'm kind of like, huhh.
Speaker 1: I mean I don't really want to say, um, you know,
Speaker 1: I think that's you know, you know, you understand why
Speaker 1: I didn't carry back. I mean, are you serious? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean, is this I'm just wondering. Is this just
Speaker 1: you don't want to talk to me anymore? You just
Speaker 1: do want to like? I mean, I feel like this
Speaker 1: might be like you saying friends down, but in an
Speaker 1: over complicated way? Is at it or because I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to get out of it. I actually
Speaker 1: I do like you, so I'm not trying to like
Speaker 1: evade relationship. I'm definitely not comfortable dating for obvious reasons.
Speaker 1: Some of them used to be my dad. I mean,
Speaker 1: this is a joke, right, Why else do you think
Speaker 1: we felt such a strong connection at first? Oh? Because
Speaker 1: you're pretty and I'm cute. Is there any chance that
Speaker 1: your spiritual guide could be wrong and that maybe you
Speaker 1: had a connection because he's actually your past husband from
Speaker 1: the fifteen hundreds? No, I mean she's never hearing me
Speaker 1: wrong in the past. I really I trust her completely,
Speaker 1: So no, but I'm not your dad, I mean my
Speaker 1: dad now. Yeah, but I'm not well, I mean, all right,
Speaker 1: so this is hard. This is like a hard mass problem.
Speaker 1: I have to wrap my head around. All right. So
Speaker 1: I'm not your dad now, So what's the problem. I
Speaker 1: think what he's saying, Lisa is would you like to
Speaker 1: go out on a second date with Paul? We will
Speaker 1: pay for a second date. He was your dad a
Speaker 1: long time ago. I don't think it should really matter now.
Speaker 1: Unfortunately matters to me, um a lot. So wow, Um,
Speaker 1: if you would like to have a relationship, you know,
Speaker 1: and a friendship or we can connect up our past,
Speaker 1: that would be awesome. Um, But but no for dating. Wow.
Speaker 1: I don't understand like why we had a connection. I mean,
Speaker 1: I mean we did, like, but it was because you
Speaker 1: were my dad. I don't understand how that could like
Speaker 1: stop this from what we had. Yeah, I mean, is
Speaker 1: there any hoophole? Unfortunately no. Yeah, maybe you could ground
Speaker 1: her and force her to go out with you. You
Speaker 1: are the father figure here. Well sorry, Paul, no second date.
Speaker 1: And Lisa, I appreciate your time, and I appreciate you
Speaker 1: being open and honest with us. I know it had
Speaker 1: to be hard because he thought we were going to
Speaker 1: judge you and make fun of you. I did, all right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I appreciate it. Okay, have a good day. He too. Wow,
Speaker 1: that was really hard not to judge her fun