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Speaker 1: What are you just walking around? And you throw some

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Speaker 1: that pretty much recap your date there right in the head? Yes,

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Speaker 1: Are you serious. Yes, I am, Paul. Are you there? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: there any hoophole? Unfortunately no. Yeah, maybe you could ground

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Speaker 1: And Lisa, I appreciate your time, and I appreciate you

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