1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:04,400 Speaker 1: This is How Men Think with brooks Like and Gavin 2 00:00:04,480 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 1: de Grab and I heard radio podcast. Welcome to another 3 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:10,440 Speaker 1: episode of How Men Think. My name is brooks Like. 4 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 1: I'll be your host today and we have a gracious 5 00:00:13,480 --> 00:00:16,840 Speaker 1: co host righting alongside with me today. His name is 6 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:20,119 Speaker 1: Mr Bob Guiney. He came you first, probably got to 7 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:22,960 Speaker 1: know him on ABC. Is hugely popular hit The Bachelor, 8 00:00:23,360 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: but now he's a bi monthly panelist on the Today Show. 9 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 1: And Bob, I'm reading your bio here, brother, you have 10 00:00:28,480 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 1: the longest bio I've ever read. Welcome you show, Bob, 11 00:00:32,400 --> 00:00:34,199 Speaker 1: Thank you. Yeah. You know, it's one of those things 12 00:00:34,240 --> 00:00:36,239 Speaker 1: when you're when your manager writes it and you just 13 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:39,159 Speaker 1: you're like, well, I don't want to risk not mentioning something, 14 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:42,280 Speaker 1: so dude. He also took a dog two weeks ago. 15 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:46,520 Speaker 1: Everything's in there. You've done everything. I mean, you covered 16 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:48,919 Speaker 1: the super Bowl daytime Emmy's. I mean, you've been on 17 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:52,080 Speaker 1: OPRAH specials for E v H one, you name it. 18 00:00:52,080 --> 00:00:56,080 Speaker 1: You gotta teach me the ways here, my man. But 19 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:57,880 Speaker 1: you've already got figured out way more than I do. 20 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: Trust me. No, um, buddy, you coming to the show, 21 00:01:01,440 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 1: and this is going to be kind of baptism by fire. 22 00:01:03,960 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 1: And I know you're you're jumping right into this, but 23 00:01:07,680 --> 00:01:11,000 Speaker 1: today's show, I'm excited about this one because we also 24 00:01:11,040 --> 00:01:15,080 Speaker 1: have with us producer Amy and producer Danielle. Ladies. Welcome 25 00:01:15,120 --> 00:01:17,679 Speaker 1: to the show. We need to set you to straight. 26 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:23,080 Speaker 1: That's okay, So Bob, buckle in here, Bob, because this 27 00:01:23,120 --> 00:01:26,119 Speaker 1: show is we're going to talk about all the things 28 00:01:26,160 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 1: that women do that men just don't understand. And with Amy, sugarman, 29 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:36,119 Speaker 1: the list is endless, and it's a game. It's almost 30 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:38,199 Speaker 1: like a little game. We're gonna read you the list, 31 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:40,920 Speaker 1: you guys, see if you can explain it, and then 32 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:44,440 Speaker 1: we'll correct you. Okay, okay, So, so Bob and I 33 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:49,600 Speaker 1: are basically just sacrificial lambs here is that's what you're saying. So, Bob, Bob, 34 00:01:50,160 --> 00:01:53,040 Speaker 1: you're a champ brother for coming on this episode of 35 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 1: our conversation. Prior to this, Amy is fired up. She 36 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:59,480 Speaker 1: just got off a business meeting zoom call that she 37 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 1: hates just didn't go so well. So I'm trying to 38 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 1: calm myself down, trying to calm myself down. Okay, So Amy, 39 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:07,760 Speaker 1: how do we want to do this? Do you want 40 00:02:07,800 --> 00:02:09,880 Speaker 1: to read the question or do I want Danielle will 41 00:02:09,919 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 1: read the list. So Danielle will read the list. Then 42 00:02:12,960 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 1: you two will give your thoughts and then we will 43 00:02:15,560 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 1: correct you. Okay, so we have thoughts or things that 44 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 1: women do um that men misunderstand. These are from listeners 45 00:02:23,919 --> 00:02:26,079 Speaker 1: emailed into us, and Danielle is going to read them, 46 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,120 Speaker 1: and Bob and I are going to take our best 47 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:32,600 Speaker 1: grope in the dark at these topics. What are you 48 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:39,400 Speaker 1: guys ready? I'm ready. Here's the very first one. And 49 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: Amy this is her favorite? Okay, why do women overthink 50 00:02:44,520 --> 00:02:50,919 Speaker 1: and read into text messages? Definitely Amy Sugarman's favorite. Oh 51 00:02:50,960 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: my god, you could send you could literally send okay 52 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:55,760 Speaker 1: to Amy and she's like, what does this mean? How 53 00:02:55,800 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 1: does he what is he thinking here? What's he feeling? 54 00:02:57,600 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 1: Why would you respond like that? Like part of my 55 00:03:00,639 --> 00:03:03,520 Speaker 1: favorite thing. I've missed. I miss seeing you in real life, Amy, 56 00:03:03,560 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 1: because I miss witnessing you in a text conversation. Yeah. 57 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 1: I like. I like when women will read the text 58 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 1: message back to you and they'll say, you know, can 59 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,239 Speaker 1: you believe she said this? Then she was like, oh 60 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:19,119 Speaker 1: my god, whatever, and it's like, uh, I don't think 61 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:21,720 Speaker 1: the tone was in that email. I think it may 62 00:03:21,720 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 1: have said, oh MG, you know, whatever you want to do, 63 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:28,280 Speaker 1: we can do. And Uh yeah, I've seen a million times. 64 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:31,280 Speaker 1: It's it's always gonna go from zero to a thousand. 65 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 1: I think it's because of the love of the passion 66 00:03:35,600 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 1: of the person reading that text. So you talk about 67 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:41,120 Speaker 1: Amy sugar She's a passionate person, right, she reads the 68 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 1: texts that it's like, I don't care whatever you want 69 00:03:43,120 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 1: to do it. She's like, I don't care whatever you want. 70 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:48,480 Speaker 1: So it just takes on a different you know, there's 71 00:03:48,520 --> 00:03:50,720 Speaker 1: little stops and pauses in there. Could that? Could that 72 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:53,920 Speaker 1: be what it is? Bob, I think you're a kinder 73 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:57,520 Speaker 1: human than I am, because I'm going to answer this 74 00:03:57,600 --> 00:04:02,920 Speaker 1: question and say that based on my experience I have 75 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 1: of witnessing said person. Uh Sugarman digests a text message, 76 00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 1: the mood that she's currently in plays directly into how 77 00:04:14,120 --> 00:04:19,159 Speaker 1: she interprets the text message. Yes, am I correct there. 78 00:04:19,520 --> 00:04:22,159 Speaker 1: So I think what you both are saying has some 79 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 1: truth to it. But here's what I'll say for men 80 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:29,960 Speaker 1: and women, in my opinion, trying to communicate on text, 81 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:33,200 Speaker 1: Men in general just want to hurry up and be 82 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:37,479 Speaker 1: done writing the text, so therefore we completely do not 83 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:42,240 Speaker 1: understand what is happening because in our minds, you should 84 00:04:42,279 --> 00:04:45,760 Speaker 1: be wanting to spend a lot of time going back 85 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:49,240 Speaker 1: and forth giving us all the explanation, the emotion and 86 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 1: the detail, and you just want to get back to 87 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 1: whatever you're watching on TV. But we're not really prepared 88 00:04:55,839 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 1: for that. So to us, we're thinking, why is he mad? A, 89 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 1: why is it? Why doesn't he like me anymore? What's wrong? What? 90 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:10,320 Speaker 1: On Instagram? We have to read it twenty times to 91 00:05:10,440 --> 00:05:15,520 Speaker 1: try to decipher because y'all can't give us the information, 92 00:05:16,040 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 1: so we're like detectives decoding the text. The other problem 93 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:23,840 Speaker 1: is they asked their friends to help decode it too, 94 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:26,919 Speaker 1: so what they think, like what the meaning behind the 95 00:05:26,960 --> 00:05:29,159 Speaker 1: text message was, They'll ask a friend and then that 96 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:31,840 Speaker 1: friend will have a different meaning, which means everyone just 97 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:35,599 Speaker 1: overthinks yeah yeah, And that is a dark, dark hole 98 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:42,799 Speaker 1: to go down, because you can really get lost in desperation. 99 00:05:42,960 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 1: It's the friend jumps on your bandwagon and also thinks 100 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:54,320 Speaker 1: something's wrong, because then you're just like, I am so screwed. Okay, 101 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:56,279 Speaker 1: so I just I just particip I just did a 102 00:05:56,320 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 1: live experiment I just text Amy, Amy, how are you 103 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:04,840 Speaker 1: doing that? Is that one is okay because you used 104 00:06:04,880 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 1: a nice comma and a question mark and some punctuation. 105 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 1: Here's the one that throws us. I will tell you, 106 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: guys what the one that throws us. So let's say 107 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:18,840 Speaker 1: I send a text to you guys, and I'm like, hey, Bob, 108 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:23,080 Speaker 1: and you right back, what's up? So I immediately hear 109 00:06:23,120 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 1: that is this what's up? Like? What do you want? 110 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 1: Why are you texting me? What if it's got proper 111 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 1: punctuation and a question mark and a smiley face, smiley face, Oh, 112 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 1: the smiley face would help. The question mark would just 113 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 1: throw me because I hear it as what's up? Yeah, 114 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,520 Speaker 1: And I'm not even asking you how you are or 115 00:06:44,520 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 1: how your day is. It just goes straight to what's up? 116 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:50,359 Speaker 1: And it's like, all right, you clearly don't want to 117 00:06:50,360 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 1: talk to me. But all she said was all you 118 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:56,360 Speaker 1: said was hi, Bob. That was all you said. That's 119 00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:59,040 Speaker 1: all you led with. So that's not taking a vested 120 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:01,720 Speaker 1: interest in Bob. Look at this, gentleman, this is this 121 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 1: is a wonderful, beautiful and you're saying the high is 122 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 1: to sort of check if you're available for communicating before 123 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:17,160 Speaker 1: I flood you with information. It's like, why don't you 124 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 1: just say, hey, Bob, I'd love to chat. Do you 125 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 1: have a free minute? Then we can understand that. I'll 126 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:27,680 Speaker 1: be like I think now the advice is please stop 127 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 1: texting back what's up unless you're going to add like 128 00:07:31,240 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 1: a couple of nice emojis or like hey, how were you? 129 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 1: What's going on? I'll call you in a minute like that. 130 00:07:38,240 --> 00:07:40,480 Speaker 1: So you know, I always thought that maybe women didn't 131 00:07:40,560 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 1: like guys who used emojis, you know, like maybe it's 132 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:47,000 Speaker 1: more of a h. I think you must like it. 133 00:07:47,720 --> 00:07:52,280 Speaker 1: Definitely like it. We definitely to an extent. Let's not 134 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:57,120 Speaker 1: go crazy, but definitely a little and and the perfect Um, 135 00:07:57,280 --> 00:07:59,280 Speaker 1: what are the ones that look like you, you know 136 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 1: the bit mo g or yea that's good or I 137 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 1: don't know if it's JIF or gift. But if you 138 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 1: send me a good one of those, Oh yeah, I 139 00:08:09,720 --> 00:08:12,920 Speaker 1: gotta get better at that. Amy. What what if I 140 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:17,120 Speaker 1: text you back with w h A t z z 141 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 1: z z z is like what zab better? Better? All right? 142 00:08:24,880 --> 00:08:28,000 Speaker 1: I think we're ready for number two? Are you guys ready? Okay? 143 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 1: Why do women say I'm fine when they're clearly not fine. 144 00:08:32,559 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 1: I have no idea. That has no idea. I've been 145 00:08:36,200 --> 00:08:38,560 Speaker 1: through a tremendous amount of marriage counseling over my adult 146 00:08:38,640 --> 00:08:40,960 Speaker 1: life for that exact question, and the answer that I 147 00:08:41,520 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: that one I don't think even women can answer. I 148 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 1: think they say I'm fine in a way to elicit 149 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:50,199 Speaker 1: more conversations. So if they were really fine, they go, 150 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:53,680 Speaker 1: everything is totally fine, but instead of like, I'm fine, 151 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 1: that means I'm not fine. It's your fault and it's 152 00:08:57,520 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 1: time to try and figure out the labyrinth of reasons 153 00:09:00,200 --> 00:09:08,160 Speaker 1: why you pissed me off. And yeah, we're too scared 154 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 1: to immediately tell you what's going on, so again we're 155 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:15,600 Speaker 1: dipping our toe in the water with the I'm fine. 156 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,920 Speaker 1: I'm fine. Is like when someone says I wish you 157 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:23,760 Speaker 1: the best, because here's what I wish you the best means, 158 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 1: please f off. Here's here's what happens. Here's what happens 159 00:09:28,280 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: to a guy when when a woman says I'm fine, 160 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:34,880 Speaker 1: the guy goes, oh, dear, I don't want to be 161 00:09:34,920 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 1: anywhere near this. What did I do this? Like? Uh, 162 00:09:39,679 --> 00:09:44,320 Speaker 1: slowly start backing out of this room? Okay, Yeah, and 163 00:09:44,480 --> 00:09:49,400 Speaker 1: I'm speaking up, I'm fine, run for the hills, yes, exactly. 164 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:52,080 Speaker 1: So why do you guys say it? Why? Why not 165 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:55,800 Speaker 1: just say I'm actually really upset right now? I would 166 00:09:55,800 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 1: say fear. We are afraid to tell you how we 167 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: are actually feeling. Why why? Yeah, afraid of what this 168 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 1: is for me? And I would love for people to 169 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:13,719 Speaker 1: tell me what they think for everyone listening, but for 170 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:18,000 Speaker 1: me it would be fear and rocking the boat, Like 171 00:10:18,040 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 1: I get real nervous if I was like telling you 172 00:10:22,280 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 1: I'm really upset, I'm mad. Like here's an example. I'll 173 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 1: give you an example. Like sometimes I want to say 174 00:10:27,600 --> 00:10:31,080 Speaker 1: to a boyfriend, why have you not called me? But 175 00:10:31,200 --> 00:10:34,320 Speaker 1: I don't say it because God forbid. The answer is 176 00:10:34,400 --> 00:10:37,240 Speaker 1: like I got a car accident, my leg is broken, 177 00:10:37,280 --> 00:10:39,120 Speaker 1: and then I've come in hot like a real b 178 00:10:39,280 --> 00:10:42,120 Speaker 1: I T C H. So it's almost like what I 179 00:10:42,200 --> 00:10:44,160 Speaker 1: do is sort of again, get my toe in the 180 00:10:44,160 --> 00:10:46,520 Speaker 1: water to try to figure out what's happening. Is there 181 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:49,720 Speaker 1: a valid reason before I go off the rails? But 182 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: if he got in a car accident and broke his leg, 183 00:10:53,520 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 1: he's arms and fingers. I think for me, I think 184 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 1: for me, it's like I don't want to be the 185 00:11:03,400 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 1: one that has a problem, you know what I mean, Like, 186 00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:07,719 Speaker 1: I want to be like calm, cool, collected. I don't 187 00:11:07,720 --> 00:11:09,560 Speaker 1: want to be the one that has a I don't 188 00:11:09,600 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 1: know as an issue, right, So you'd rather not come 189 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 1: off like See. So my wife has actually said this 190 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:18,200 Speaker 1: to me before. She's like, listen, I don't want to 191 00:11:18,200 --> 00:11:20,480 Speaker 1: come off like I'm nagging about things that you should 192 00:11:20,520 --> 00:11:26,720 Speaker 1: know better about anyway a hundred person. So if she's 193 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:30,240 Speaker 1: reminding me, then somehow my idiocy has become her problem, 194 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 1: when in fact I should just pick up on the 195 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:35,320 Speaker 1: fact that I'm a jackass and get over it. I can. 196 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:39,280 Speaker 1: It's all making sense now, Guys, I've so much money 197 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 1: on therapy over the years. Way better we do. We 198 00:11:43,520 --> 00:11:47,760 Speaker 1: do expect a lot of mind reading. We really would 199 00:11:47,800 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 1: appreciate it if y'all could learn to read our minds. 200 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:53,760 Speaker 1: And it's very frustrating that you cannot do that. That's 201 00:11:53,800 --> 00:11:57,360 Speaker 1: a tough one. That is a tough one. That is 202 00:11:57,440 --> 00:11:59,880 Speaker 1: just like and it's frustrating. It's frustrating from a man's 203 00:12:00,000 --> 00:12:03,440 Speaker 1: one of you. Um some I will say this sometimes 204 00:12:03,480 --> 00:12:05,439 Speaker 1: that has happened to me in my experience with life 205 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:08,480 Speaker 1: and I've been like, oh, you're actually very valid there. 206 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:11,040 Speaker 1: I should have known better. I really should have known better. 207 00:12:11,240 --> 00:12:14,679 Speaker 1: And other times it's happened the exact opposite, where I'm like, 208 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:18,200 Speaker 1: how the hell am I supposed to know? Like, like 209 00:12:18,720 --> 00:12:22,000 Speaker 1: both I've experienced both. I'm like, oh, that's like I'm 210 00:12:22,040 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 1: supposed to know that, Like I have no idea about that. 211 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 1: How am I supposed to know? Yeah, you could be 212 00:12:27,640 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 1: a pretty self aware guy and still and I mean 213 00:12:30,400 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 1: that in a night in a good way, and still 214 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:35,439 Speaker 1: not know what it is that the women in your 215 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:39,120 Speaker 1: life need a lot of times, because that is a 216 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:42,480 Speaker 1: It's like, ah, the target is kind of always moving, 217 00:12:42,600 --> 00:12:46,079 Speaker 1: so you're just trying to like, I'm trying to like predict, 218 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:48,600 Speaker 1: you know, what I should say to make sure I'm 219 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:52,080 Speaker 1: not kissing everyone off. And I'm not that smart, so 220 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 1: it doesn't always work out to my advantage. It's very 221 00:12:56,240 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 1: well said some moving target, Bob, You're right, all right. 222 00:12:59,120 --> 00:13:02,680 Speaker 1: Next one, why do women take so damn long to 223 00:13:02,760 --> 00:13:06,440 Speaker 1: get ready? Oh? My wife will tell you I take 224 00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:10,480 Speaker 1: longer than her, which is completely untrue. But I think 225 00:13:10,920 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 1: I think it's because they want to evaluate what you 226 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:15,720 Speaker 1: look like and then make sure that they look better, 227 00:13:16,240 --> 00:13:17,680 Speaker 1: so like, you know, and that's easy to do and 228 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:19,480 Speaker 1: some you know my circumstance, that's pretty easy to do 229 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:21,840 Speaker 1: for my wife. But you know, if I, for example, 230 00:13:21,880 --> 00:13:24,320 Speaker 1: if we're going to dinner with some friends and I 231 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: come out in jeans and a sweater and she comes 232 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 1: out in a ballgown, obviously signals across there's up to stay. 233 00:13:31,559 --> 00:13:34,120 Speaker 1: So she'd rather just kind of wait, make sure that 234 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:37,480 Speaker 1: you dialed in fashion wise, and then also make sure 235 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:40,199 Speaker 1: that you know we're at least fifteen minutes late, so 236 00:13:40,240 --> 00:13:42,120 Speaker 1: that I apologize for it, because I I need to 237 00:13:42,160 --> 00:13:43,680 Speaker 1: be the first one there in the last leave I 238 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:49,080 Speaker 1: have fomo. So I'm gonna just piggyback exactly what Bob 239 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:51,480 Speaker 1: just said. I want to answer this question with a question. 240 00:13:52,520 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 1: Why is it that we have to leave fifteen minutes 241 00:13:57,200 --> 00:14:00,839 Speaker 1: late every single time? So if you tell a woman 242 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:05,240 Speaker 1: we're leaving at seven, that automatically means you're leaving at 243 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 1: seven fift that's the earliest. Why is that if you 244 00:14:09,679 --> 00:14:15,240 Speaker 1: say six thirty, it means Why can we not leave 245 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:20,160 Speaker 1: at a specific time even when we communicate at seven pm? 246 00:14:20,160 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 1: Why does it automatically turn into seven? We let Amy 247 00:14:24,040 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 1: inser that because she's the late one, I I leave 248 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 1: on time. I believe that Danielle, I do I tend 249 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:37,000 Speaker 1: to run fifteen minutes later. Why at all times I'm 250 00:14:37,040 --> 00:14:39,320 Speaker 1: like not great with planning. And here's the thing, I'm 251 00:14:39,440 --> 00:14:42,560 Speaker 1: getting ready. And I can't speak for all women, but 252 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:47,440 Speaker 1: my hair is like a serious situation. It takes like 253 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:50,800 Speaker 1: a really long time to blow dry. And I also think, 254 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:53,920 Speaker 1: and again, I would love for people to comment the 255 00:14:54,120 --> 00:14:57,360 Speaker 1: getting ready process for me is sometimes as fun as 256 00:14:57,360 --> 00:15:00,480 Speaker 1: whatever I'm doing. It's like, I take this hour, I 257 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 1: go town my hair. I loved a lollygag. I might 258 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 1: watching an episode of The Walking Dead while I'm filing 259 00:15:05,160 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 1: my nails, Like I literally make it a whole thing. 260 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:12,600 Speaker 1: I like have a piece of chocolate. I might like 261 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:15,840 Speaker 1: make a snack. Like it's just a hold to do 262 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:19,600 Speaker 1: for me. That's that. Let's not mess with that. And 263 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:21,760 Speaker 1: I'm kind of ready when I'm ready. And if I 264 00:15:21,760 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 1: if you're pressuring me, I'm gonna get like a stomach ache. 265 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:32,240 Speaker 1: Just give me second. And the opposite of Bob arrived 266 00:15:32,320 --> 00:15:36,920 Speaker 1: late and get out of their way before. If I 267 00:15:36,960 --> 00:15:38,880 Speaker 1: haven't had the bar closed on me, I clearly have 268 00:15:38,920 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 1: messed up tonight. That's my mindset. Like literally, they'll be like, sir, 269 00:15:42,560 --> 00:15:44,520 Speaker 1: you have to leave, we cannot give you another beaver 270 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:46,400 Speaker 1: and tell me, oh, you does need help clean it up? 271 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 1: Then I want to help. I want to be friend 272 00:15:47,800 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 1: to the bartender. So I'm like hauling gear out. But 273 00:15:50,240 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 1: you know, my sister brother in law, which is right. 274 00:15:52,400 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 1: My brother in law has been with my sister almost 275 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 1: thirty years. Tomorrow is their anniversary, by the way, and 276 00:15:57,600 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 1: they literally my brother in law's got it down to it, 277 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:01,840 Speaker 1: so he knows that my sister is kind of like 278 00:16:01,840 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 1: sugar man, so he literally his mindset will be like 279 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 1: they'll say, okay, arrive at seven, and he knows it's 280 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:09,760 Speaker 1: a half an hour drive, so he'll say, hey, by 281 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:12,280 Speaker 1: the way, the invitation says to be there at six thirty, 282 00:16:12,760 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 1: so he lies, he lies, yeah, and then they'll arrive 283 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 1: at seven ish and there's still you know, in in 284 00:16:23,320 --> 00:16:25,240 Speaker 1: the real world or in her mind, rather than still 285 00:16:25,280 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 1: forty five minutes late. But in reality they're like fifteen 286 00:16:28,160 --> 00:16:31,600 Speaker 1: minutes later on time all the time. Our famous quote. 287 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 1: So we obviously, you know, back when people used to 288 00:16:35,200 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 1: be able to be near people, we would have lots 289 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:40,560 Speaker 1: of events and literally, like my famous quote is like, 290 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 1: why are all these people on time? Like we're not ready? 291 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 1: So minutes is okay. One of the first things I 292 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 1: learned when I moved to l A was that seven 293 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 1: o'clock meant seven thirty to eighty. Like I a friend 294 00:16:59,040 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 1: had some a friend had something at like seven o'clock. 295 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:03,880 Speaker 1: So I'm like six fifty five. I'm there. Like, if 296 00:17:03,880 --> 00:17:05,960 Speaker 1: you're not in my world, if you're not five minutes 297 00:17:06,000 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 1: early or ten minutes late. If you were if you 298 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 1: were five minutes late, you missed the team plane, missed 299 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:14,360 Speaker 1: the team bus, like if you were fighting the slate, 300 00:17:14,880 --> 00:17:17,400 Speaker 1: you were penalized for that. And so then I get 301 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:19,120 Speaker 1: to l A and I show up at seven o'clock. 302 00:17:19,600 --> 00:17:21,919 Speaker 1: Nobody's there. I'm the first one there. They're like, what 303 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:25,159 Speaker 1: are you doing here? I'm like you said seven. You're like, 304 00:17:25,200 --> 00:17:29,800 Speaker 1: well it's six five. I like, yeah, seven page. I'm 305 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:31,920 Speaker 1: the first one there and first one out, Like LA 306 00:17:32,119 --> 00:17:35,760 Speaker 1: is so bad. The funniest thing about that, okay, So 307 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:39,040 Speaker 1: you know how like there's award shows or whatever back 308 00:17:39,080 --> 00:17:41,119 Speaker 1: again when we used to be able to be near people. 309 00:17:41,560 --> 00:17:44,280 Speaker 1: So like let's say it's the American Music Awards. The 310 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 1: invitation actually says doors closed at seven o'clock. You will 311 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:53,119 Speaker 1: not be let in after seven o'clock. And then people 312 00:17:53,160 --> 00:17:55,119 Speaker 1: call me in a panic and I'm like, it's lies. 313 00:17:55,400 --> 00:18:00,400 Speaker 1: It's just giant lies. Like they let you in after 314 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:07,440 Speaker 1: seven o'clock. They're like, oh my god, all right. Next one, 315 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:13,600 Speaker 1: why do women like Gray's Anatomy? Probably is there hunky 316 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 1: guys on it? I don't know. We have the same 317 00:18:16,000 --> 00:18:18,240 Speaker 1: way in the same time. I think I think I 318 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 1: said mcsteamie and you said mc jeamie. I don't know. 319 00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 1: Was Bob on that show too? I was. I helped 320 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:31,080 Speaker 1: carrying some stuff for one of the banquets, so you know, 321 00:18:31,080 --> 00:18:32,879 Speaker 1: I was the first guy there was, like carrying in 322 00:18:32,880 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 1: the cocktails. Okay, um, I've never watched two minutes of 323 00:18:38,520 --> 00:18:42,119 Speaker 1: Gray's amount Anatomy, although I think, isn't it the longest 324 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:45,960 Speaker 1: running TV show or something like that. It's a very 325 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:49,119 Speaker 1: long running medical drama. I think Law and Order s 326 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:54,320 Speaker 1: v U has been on like way longer. So I 327 00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:57,480 Speaker 1: have no idea why why. I can't answer because I 328 00:18:57,480 --> 00:19:00,320 Speaker 1: don't even know the show Women Love Doctor if it 329 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:03,480 Speaker 1: was called, you know, Plumber's Anatomy. No one'll be glass, 330 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:05,840 Speaker 1: no one will care not no no offense the Plumber. 331 00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:09,359 Speaker 1: I'm sure there's some pretty hand there's probably a mcsteam 332 00:19:09,359 --> 00:19:11,320 Speaker 1: me and make dreaming of the Plumber world as well. 333 00:19:11,359 --> 00:19:15,120 Speaker 1: But these guys are doctors. They're in Seattle. They're making 334 00:19:15,200 --> 00:19:17,159 Speaker 1: you know, all this dough. They happen to be pretty 335 00:19:17,200 --> 00:19:19,880 Speaker 1: easy on the eyes, you know, that's why. That's why 336 00:19:19,880 --> 00:19:25,880 Speaker 1: they're saving lives. They're saving Yeah, is it rains? You know? Yeah? 337 00:19:25,960 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 1: Is it because they like like the caretaker? Is there 338 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:30,879 Speaker 1: a lot of like caretaker kind of like um that 339 00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:33,160 Speaker 1: kind of stuff in it. I think we get invested 340 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:36,119 Speaker 1: in the storyline, Danielle. You you can comment, but I 341 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:39,080 Speaker 1: think we get invested in the storyline, like we fully 342 00:19:39,119 --> 00:19:42,639 Speaker 1: know these people and they're real. That's my experience with 343 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:45,720 Speaker 1: a lot of shows, like I truly begin to care 344 00:19:45,720 --> 00:19:49,000 Speaker 1: about these people, like I know them. I have that 345 00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:51,880 Speaker 1: with Grey's Anatomy. Emily and Paris is a new show 346 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:57,920 Speaker 1: where yeah, I love it. I watched the whole thing, right, 347 00:19:57,960 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 1: I completely care about these people. And I would say 348 00:20:00,320 --> 00:20:04,359 Speaker 1: Grace Anatomy, he's very clever about really making us invested, 349 00:20:04,880 --> 00:20:07,560 Speaker 1: not only in like each episode where they're saving the life, 350 00:20:07,600 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 1: but like who they're gonna be with, and we also 351 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:12,399 Speaker 1: are like, I don't like that person with this person. 352 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:15,200 Speaker 1: So we really get to fully judge in the same 353 00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:18,160 Speaker 1: way we judge The Bachelor, where we're like, oh, that 354 00:20:18,200 --> 00:20:22,200 Speaker 1: guy's no good, get rid of it, you know. So 355 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 1: for me, it's not Gray's Anatomy, it's This is Us. 356 00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:28,640 Speaker 1: But like literally every time I watch that show, I'm 357 00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:31,520 Speaker 1: a puddle. I'm a puddled mess. Like I'm crying, I 358 00:20:31,560 --> 00:20:33,880 Speaker 1: have tissues. I like it's not coming out of my nose. 359 00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:36,439 Speaker 1: And my husband is always like, why are you watching 360 00:20:36,480 --> 00:20:38,879 Speaker 1: a show that is making you cry? I do not 361 00:20:39,040 --> 00:20:41,959 Speaker 1: understand that, And like it literally makes me feel like 362 00:20:42,200 --> 00:20:45,800 Speaker 1: let me be in my emotions right now. Like I'm 363 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:48,400 Speaker 1: crying because totally invested in these people and they all 364 00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:51,399 Speaker 1: have like storyline, so like you try or not try it, 365 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:55,800 Speaker 1: but like I like, for example, like um, Justin Hartley's 366 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:57,760 Speaker 1: character on This is Us, like I have a friend 367 00:20:57,760 --> 00:20:59,840 Speaker 1: that's just like him, so I'm like, oh my god, 368 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:02,280 Speaker 1: it's like my friend or I don't know. You just 369 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:06,360 Speaker 1: get super invested and you do yourself the favorite Brooks. 370 00:21:06,600 --> 00:21:10,399 Speaker 1: Watch the two minute trailer for the new season of 371 00:21:10,440 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 1: Grey's Anatomy and the crossover episode was Station nineteen. I 372 00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:17,000 Speaker 1: have watched it three times because I'm so obsessed in 373 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:20,359 Speaker 1: trying to learn more, crying from the trailer because they're 374 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:24,119 Speaker 1: all it's so good. So here here's a question. I 375 00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:28,560 Speaker 1: have a question, um, for you two women, UM, I 376 00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:31,040 Speaker 1: think for I don't know. I shouldn't speak for all men, 377 00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:35,240 Speaker 1: but I think for me. Let me just speak for me. Um. 378 00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:39,359 Speaker 1: It's hard for me to emotionally feel something in a 379 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:44,400 Speaker 1: fictional TV series or fictional movie. If it's a documentary 380 00:21:44,400 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 1: and it's a true story, absolutely I can feel something, 381 00:21:47,560 --> 00:21:49,679 Speaker 1: and I like my heart can get invested in it. 382 00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:52,080 Speaker 1: But if I know it's fiction, it's hard for me 383 00:21:52,119 --> 00:21:57,400 Speaker 1: to to emotionally feel something. Why is very interesting point, Bob, 384 00:21:57,440 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 1: how do you feel about that? And my question also 385 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:03,199 Speaker 1: is when you watch sports, if your team wins or 386 00:22:03,280 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 1: your guy gets hurt, do you get emotionally like affected? 387 00:22:08,920 --> 00:22:11,440 Speaker 1: I'll answer the sports parts. I'm a Detroit Lions fan, 388 00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:14,960 Speaker 1: so I've never experienced a winning part, but I'm assuming 389 00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 1: I woul like I jump for joy, but that that 390 00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:23,920 Speaker 1: that never happened for me. But I do get into 391 00:22:23,960 --> 00:22:27,800 Speaker 1: show that I get into man like like I do like, 392 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:30,879 Speaker 1: but but I'm more of like um for example, like 393 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:35,080 Speaker 1: right now, I'm really into Cobra Ka man I am. 394 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:38,719 Speaker 1: I haven't watched it. Oh it's so good, and I like, 395 00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:41,320 Speaker 1: I'm like binge watching it, like I mean, it's you know, 396 00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:45,240 Speaker 1: I'm I'm literally you know, I'm wax on, wax off. 397 00:22:45,440 --> 00:22:47,880 Speaker 1: Are you like Ralph Macchio or is it the new 398 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:51,200 Speaker 1: people that are? You know, I'm back with back with 399 00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:54,199 Speaker 1: Billy Zapp command get back. I think he's doing you know. 400 00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:56,840 Speaker 1: I like Ralph Moccio too, but no, you know, and 401 00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:59,560 Speaker 1: I did love Emily Emilian Paris. I love that show. 402 00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:01,159 Speaker 1: I do get into it, but I don't get like 403 00:23:01,200 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 1: super emotionally involved unless it's like one of those binge 404 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:07,800 Speaker 1: series that you can just for example, Yellowstone. Have you 405 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:12,359 Speaker 1: guys seen that? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah too, And I 406 00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:16,560 Speaker 1: think it's or oh yeah, he's so good. And that's 407 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:19,320 Speaker 1: how That's how I feel about Walking Dead. I'm catching 408 00:23:19,359 --> 00:23:22,960 Speaker 1: up on the last four episodes or something, and literally 409 00:23:23,240 --> 00:23:28,000 Speaker 1: Darryl means so much to me that I don't know 410 00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:30,360 Speaker 1: how to like deal with it. And one of the 411 00:23:30,440 --> 00:23:32,800 Speaker 1: comforting things for me is that I know he's getting 412 00:23:32,800 --> 00:23:35,399 Speaker 1: a spin off, so I truly don't have to worry 413 00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:38,760 Speaker 1: he's gonna die like as much because if he's getting 414 00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:40,560 Speaker 1: a spinoff in a couple of years, like, they're not 415 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:45,800 Speaker 1: going to kill him. Like I care about him so much, 416 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:54,760 Speaker 1: that's awesome. What do you tell the end of this episode? 417 00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:58,720 Speaker 1: Tell them what's happening next. We know what's happening, but 418 00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:02,600 Speaker 1: you guys don't know. So go, okay. Why do women 419 00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:06,840 Speaker 1: offer their homes even when they don't have space? Now, Danielle, 420 00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:10,119 Speaker 1: give your story on this so Bob and Brooks can understand. 421 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:12,840 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Eastern is gonna die because he doesn't 422 00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:17,840 Speaker 1: know this story yet. So Eastern feels free to chime in. 423 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 1: So um maybe Like a month or two ago, there 424 00:24:21,680 --> 00:24:26,200 Speaker 1: was these massive fires by Eastern's home and his wife 425 00:24:26,200 --> 00:24:29,879 Speaker 1: had posted something on Instagram and um saying like we 426 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 1: might get evacuated, And so I I hit her back 427 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:35,240 Speaker 1: and I was like, if you get evacuated, come to 428 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:38,560 Speaker 1: my house, like we like, come over, like I will 429 00:24:38,600 --> 00:24:43,360 Speaker 1: take you guys in. And I told my husband was like, um, 430 00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:45,920 Speaker 1: Eastern and his wife might get evacuated. Like I told 431 00:24:46,000 --> 00:24:48,400 Speaker 1: him to come over if they need anything at all. 432 00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:50,840 Speaker 1: And John's like, and where are they gonna go? Like, 433 00:24:50,920 --> 00:24:54,240 Speaker 1: we have a one bedroom apartment. We do not have space. 434 00:24:54,560 --> 00:24:56,679 Speaker 1: And I was like, it's besides the point. I just 435 00:24:56,960 --> 00:24:58,919 Speaker 1: like I want to help him out, Like if if 436 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:00,359 Speaker 1: they got to sit on our couch, they got sit 437 00:25:00,480 --> 00:25:02,919 Speaker 1: on our couch, it's better than their house that is 438 00:25:03,119 --> 00:25:05,960 Speaker 1: by all these fires. And he's like, Danielle, we don't 439 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:09,960 Speaker 1: have space. I don't know why you said that. So 440 00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:13,359 Speaker 1: I love that I can touch on that. So this 441 00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:16,440 Speaker 1: is what this is my thought when I hear that one. Danielle, 442 00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:18,359 Speaker 1: God bless your heart. You have a beautiful heart that 443 00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 1: you would I believe you would always welcome anybody in 444 00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:25,640 Speaker 1: trouble into your home. That's amazing. Guys your husband are 445 00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:29,120 Speaker 1: more practical and literal. And he then looks at numbers 446 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 1: and logistics like, well, where are they going to sleep? 447 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:34,880 Speaker 1: We don't have space, it's a one bedroom apartment. What's 448 00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:37,399 Speaker 1: the other option? But you just lead with heart, And 449 00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:40,960 Speaker 1: then I think guys like when there's something arises, I 450 00:25:41,000 --> 00:25:42,679 Speaker 1: think they go to the at least I do go 451 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:46,800 Speaker 1: to the very logical, pragmatic answer. Yeah, that's definitely a 452 00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 1: right brain left brain type of conversation, right, I agree 453 00:25:50,119 --> 00:25:52,960 Speaker 1: with you. I mean, Danielle, that's that's very nice, and 454 00:25:52,960 --> 00:25:55,239 Speaker 1: I think that's very sweet. And I think that I 455 00:25:55,280 --> 00:26:00,440 Speaker 1: am clearly the woman in my relationship because I would 456 00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:02,800 Speaker 1: basically be like, yes, of course, come on in, and 457 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:04,440 Speaker 1: my wife would be like, what in the hell are 458 00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:06,240 Speaker 1: you talking about? We don't have space for these people. 459 00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:09,600 Speaker 1: So I just realized that I am actually I should 460 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:11,760 Speaker 1: probably be on the other side of the panel here. 461 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:19,600 Speaker 1: I feel, okay, that brings up a very interesting thing 462 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,800 Speaker 1: that's going through my mind while you're all talking about that. 463 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:25,679 Speaker 1: So I think women, and again, I hate to generalize, 464 00:26:25,680 --> 00:26:28,440 Speaker 1: but I'm gonna do it anyway, have we struggled with 465 00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:33,600 Speaker 1: like what we should do versus what we want to 466 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,840 Speaker 1: do or what would be perceived as the nice thing 467 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:39,360 Speaker 1: to do. Like here's my big dilemma right now, I'll 468 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:40,960 Speaker 1: give this to you guys, and you can all star. 469 00:26:42,080 --> 00:26:46,600 Speaker 1: So a couple of months ago, four friends said let's 470 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:51,040 Speaker 1: go to Carmel for the weekend, like everyone can get tested, 471 00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:54,440 Speaker 1: it'll be safe, you know, blah blah blah. And I've 472 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:57,840 Speaker 1: been very locked down, like because I basically my parents 473 00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:02,600 Speaker 1: lived right near me, so I'm very COVID careful because 474 00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:07,359 Speaker 1: I need to protect everybody. So two months ago, I 475 00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,919 Speaker 1: was like, Okay, let's make the reservation and then I 476 00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,359 Speaker 1: can always like bug out if I get to notice 477 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:16,000 Speaker 1: about it. Well, now it's like a week away. So 478 00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:19,480 Speaker 1: here's where I'm at. I do want to go, Like 479 00:27:19,640 --> 00:27:21,880 Speaker 1: I want to see these four friends that are four 480 00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:25,639 Speaker 1: my closest friends, and my super worried about them. No, 481 00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:29,840 Speaker 1: I know they've all been tested multiple times. They'll they'll 482 00:27:29,880 --> 00:27:34,840 Speaker 1: get tested again, but we you know, that doesn't necessarily guarantee, 483 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:37,120 Speaker 1: and they've got kids and the whole thing. So I'm like, oh, 484 00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:41,159 Speaker 1: oh that makes me stressed. Then I'm also like now 485 00:27:41,280 --> 00:27:43,639 Speaker 1: I'm so comfortable in my own home that I'm like 486 00:27:43,960 --> 00:27:47,480 Speaker 1: afraid to leave it. I have this like, oh, I'm 487 00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:50,359 Speaker 1: scared to go stay in a hotel, like you know, 488 00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:53,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I'll bring my lights on. I was nuts 489 00:27:53,280 --> 00:27:56,000 Speaker 1: with that stuff before, but I digressed. So it's like 490 00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,160 Speaker 1: I want to go, but I don't want to go. 491 00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,639 Speaker 1: Like here's where I'm at. If somebody else canceled and 492 00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:04,040 Speaker 1: it got canceled, I would be happy, but at the 493 00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:06,280 Speaker 1: same time, like I want to be brave and I 494 00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:10,560 Speaker 1: want to go, We'll still totally be distanced. I will 495 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,760 Speaker 1: wear a mask and be distanced without I don't have 496 00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:15,639 Speaker 1: any drama with that. It's like stay fifteen feet away 497 00:28:15,680 --> 00:28:20,440 Speaker 1: because that's fine. But it's like I'm so nervous. Should 498 00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:24,040 Speaker 1: I go? Should I not get? Like I'm so conflicted. 499 00:28:24,160 --> 00:28:26,719 Speaker 1: I do not know what to do. Then of course 500 00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:29,639 Speaker 1: my family was like They're going to we have a 501 00:28:29,680 --> 00:28:32,320 Speaker 1: Tahoe house, and I'm like, oh my god, so now 502 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:34,760 Speaker 1: I have to either go or have to be alone 503 00:28:34,920 --> 00:28:38,920 Speaker 1: or I have to go to time, Like oh, I 504 00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:42,240 Speaker 1: literally don't know what to do? What is the question? 505 00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:52,719 Speaker 1: What do I? What do I do? Like what I 506 00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:56,280 Speaker 1: have a question about half I just heard during that 507 00:28:56,320 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 1: conversation amazing so Amy lane all of that out but 508 00:29:04,560 --> 00:29:07,680 Speaker 1: didn't give us any direction with like what are we 509 00:29:07,760 --> 00:29:09,440 Speaker 1: supposed to help? You do not know what to do? 510 00:29:09,520 --> 00:29:12,840 Speaker 1: I have to decide by tomorrow because we can't cancel 511 00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:23,680 Speaker 1: pass tomorrow. I think what I'm gonna do is my 512 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:27,320 Speaker 1: poor friends too, because I'm like so freaky, Like when 513 00:29:27,440 --> 00:29:32,520 Speaker 1: friends come over for like outside distancing, like literally they said, 514 00:29:32,600 --> 00:29:34,920 Speaker 1: I wish you guys could see I should take pictures 515 00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:39,560 Speaker 1: my outdoor safe area is like twenty ft apart. So 516 00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:46,520 Speaker 1: you're like, what what alright? I think going on to 517 00:29:46,600 --> 00:29:50,440 Speaker 1: the next question, right, Yeah, I'll leave Amy solve that 518 00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 1: one on her own one us I got lost. I 519 00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:03,440 Speaker 1: think you should go. Okay, next question, why do women 520 00:30:03,680 --> 00:30:09,200 Speaker 1: need a different purse for every occasion? Yeah? That is 521 00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:12,080 Speaker 1: a tough one. I I kind of know an answer. 522 00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:16,240 Speaker 1: I've been told a bunch over the years that you know, 523 00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,800 Speaker 1: the person needs to match the shoes, which need to 524 00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:21,920 Speaker 1: match the evening and the event. So if it's a 525 00:30:22,320 --> 00:30:25,600 Speaker 1: you know, if I mean, honest to god, I've seen 526 00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:29,440 Speaker 1: closets in my own home. I mean, I'm trying not 527 00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:31,560 Speaker 1: to implicate my wife on this one, but they have 528 00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:34,479 Speaker 1: so many purses in them that you're literally just like, 529 00:30:34,960 --> 00:30:36,600 Speaker 1: I mean, I've never even seen this person out of 530 00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:38,280 Speaker 1: the box or out of the bag, and it's you know, 531 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:41,000 Speaker 1: why is this even here? But you can't part with it. 532 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,440 Speaker 1: It's got to be here. So yeah, I feel like 533 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:46,120 Speaker 1: it's you know, there's a mood, there's a mood factor, 534 00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:50,400 Speaker 1: there's a fashion factor, and a function factor, and all 535 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:52,400 Speaker 1: three of those things have to line up to a 536 00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 1: certain degree in order for the be the perfect handbag 537 00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:57,720 Speaker 1: choice of the evening. That's my thought. You nailed that 538 00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:04,080 Speaker 1: really much. Yeah, I would say you pretty much nailed that. 539 00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:07,680 Speaker 1: Well done, Bob, because as I'm as I'm listening to that, 540 00:31:07,760 --> 00:31:10,120 Speaker 1: I'm like, wow, especially that three what were the three 541 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:14,760 Speaker 1: function fashion? I don't remember that. I don't know even 542 00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:17,120 Speaker 1: know what I said. I don't know, I don't know 543 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:20,680 Speaker 1: you rustan. My My answer to that was color, Mike. 544 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:22,880 Speaker 1: My answer to that was was gonna be. I have 545 00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:26,760 Speaker 1: no idea. Like the best way I can explain it 546 00:31:26,880 --> 00:31:30,200 Speaker 1: is a purse is like a clothing item. So what 547 00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:32,080 Speaker 1: you wear to the beach, you're not going to wear 548 00:31:32,160 --> 00:31:34,640 Speaker 1: to the wedding a wedding, you know what I mean. 549 00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:37,560 Speaker 1: So it's like it's literally just an extension of an outfit. 550 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:44,840 Speaker 1: So if you're wearing something casuable, well, And now I 551 00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:47,280 Speaker 1: will admit I was never going to be the Fannie 552 00:31:47,280 --> 00:31:51,200 Speaker 1: Pack person, but now because like I need my hands, 553 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:54,360 Speaker 1: so I have embraced Fannie packs because I need my 554 00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:57,200 Speaker 1: phone and I don't want to put anything on the ground, 555 00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:59,440 Speaker 1: and I need my wipes, and I need my this 556 00:31:59,680 --> 00:32:03,719 Speaker 1: and my that. I I am cool Fannie Pack right 557 00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:08,680 Speaker 1: now too. Like I went for six years no Fannie 558 00:32:08,680 --> 00:32:11,320 Speaker 1: pack and now full on and I don't even need 559 00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:14,040 Speaker 1: to call it a belt bag. I will embrace and 560 00:32:14,120 --> 00:32:19,360 Speaker 1: call it a Fannie pack if you were the bag 561 00:32:19,400 --> 00:32:22,280 Speaker 1: part on the front. Yeah, But but what I've been 562 00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:24,520 Speaker 1: doing lately is like kind of doing it like a 563 00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:31,000 Speaker 1: cross body bag, like a cross body. So the genesis 564 00:32:31,000 --> 00:32:33,880 Speaker 1: of this show was the other day, Amy, about a 565 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:35,120 Speaker 1: week ago, you asked me if I was going to 566 00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:37,520 Speaker 1: do some social posting thing or something. I was like, Amy, 567 00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:39,800 Speaker 1: if you get me that deal, I'll buy you a purse. 568 00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:43,680 Speaker 1: And then when I said purse, I'm like, that sounds 569 00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:46,280 Speaker 1: like something my grandma would use. Do they call it 570 00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:48,520 Speaker 1: a purse. I know they call it a clutch, but 571 00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 1: as a purse to clutch or is like whatever or 572 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,120 Speaker 1: a bag, I'll just buy you something you like. And 573 00:32:53,160 --> 00:32:55,680 Speaker 1: then you went, oh my god, this is perfect stuff 574 00:32:55,720 --> 00:32:58,240 Speaker 1: that guys don't know about women. And I'm like, great, 575 00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:00,920 Speaker 1: let's do it. So I didn't know. I didn't know 576 00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:03,360 Speaker 1: if I offended you by saying I'll buy you a purse, 577 00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:06,240 Speaker 1: because I don't even know what a purse is. I 578 00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:11,160 Speaker 1: would rather just have the cold, hard cash, but to 579 00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:16,440 Speaker 1: or bad or clutch. But yes, So that is what 580 00:33:16,600 --> 00:33:19,880 Speaker 1: happened that made us want to do this whole episode 581 00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:23,240 Speaker 1: because we feel like it's the old we don't speak 582 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:35,080 Speaker 1: the same language, Danielle, what is next? Hey, why do 583 00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:42,320 Speaker 1: women talk on the phone for hours? Took us in anatomy? 584 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 1: Is not on that day? This is another one, I 585 00:33:47,600 --> 00:33:51,920 Speaker 1: think where guys, I mean, that's the advent of texting 586 00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:53,440 Speaker 1: was the greatest thing in the world to me, Like, 587 00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:55,520 Speaker 1: I would rather text than ever talk on the phone. 588 00:33:55,520 --> 00:33:58,560 Speaker 1: And it's terrible, I know, but I don't really need 589 00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:00,640 Speaker 1: to have all the fluff. I just of like, hey, 590 00:34:01,040 --> 00:34:03,280 Speaker 1: meet for dinner at seven, see you at you know, 591 00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:06,160 Speaker 1: Charlie's Crab or whatever. Doesn't need to be a conversation 592 00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:08,120 Speaker 1: about why we're going to dinner, because that's why we're 593 00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:11,399 Speaker 1: gonna be at dinner, is they have a conversation. I mean, 594 00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:13,759 Speaker 1: what I'm gonna wear it because I don't care what 595 00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:15,080 Speaker 1: you wear, so you don't care what I wear. So 596 00:34:15,160 --> 00:34:17,080 Speaker 1: we'll just show up and what's show up? So I 597 00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 1: think they women are just that much more. I mean, 598 00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:22,239 Speaker 1: my my wife literally, I've been hearing her on the 599 00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,200 Speaker 1: phone for like the lad ever since we got on 600 00:34:24,239 --> 00:34:25,920 Speaker 1: the horn and she'd been on to like an hour 601 00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:28,239 Speaker 1: ahead of us with a twenty four month old run 602 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,880 Speaker 1: around the house. Yeah so old. Really, So it's like 603 00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:37,800 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take a stab at this one, um to 604 00:34:38,200 --> 00:34:46,680 Speaker 1: feel on and feel and be understood. Interesting even even 605 00:34:46,719 --> 00:34:49,879 Speaker 1: though it's gossip, even though it's not like deep and 606 00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:53,680 Speaker 1: yet accurate, Like there's some sort of thing about being 607 00:34:53,719 --> 00:34:57,000 Speaker 1: connected to somebody that at some point there's gonna be 608 00:34:57,080 --> 00:35:01,400 Speaker 1: like real topics come up into discussion, even though a 609 00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:03,520 Speaker 1: lot of it is just gossip and fluff, Like at 610 00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:05,880 Speaker 1: some point the realness of why you called is going 611 00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:08,200 Speaker 1: to come up in it. Um. But also just to 612 00:35:08,360 --> 00:35:11,359 Speaker 1: feel safe enough to be heard that there might need 613 00:35:11,400 --> 00:35:14,600 Speaker 1: to be some stuff before it. I feel that again, 614 00:35:15,080 --> 00:35:19,080 Speaker 1: you're nailing it, like they're that's pretty accurate. Yeah, I 615 00:35:19,120 --> 00:35:21,439 Speaker 1: think that sounds. You know. What's interesting is my wife 616 00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:23,120 Speaker 1: says to me all the time, She's like, I don't 617 00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:25,120 Speaker 1: need you to fix everything. Sometimes I just want you 618 00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:29,000 Speaker 1: to listen because you know, so's just say this happened today, 619 00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:30,920 Speaker 1: and I'll go, oh, well, you know you could have 620 00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:32,600 Speaker 1: done this. And I mean, I don't know why I'm 621 00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:34,239 Speaker 1: saying it, because I clearly it already happened. I'm not 622 00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:37,520 Speaker 1: fixing anything. She doesn't need that, right, she just needs 623 00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:39,560 Speaker 1: someone to listen to her and kind of commiserate and 624 00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:42,840 Speaker 1: be like, yeah, that really sucks. Instead, I'm like, well 625 00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:48,000 Speaker 1: that's ridiculous. You know. I don't think men realize how 626 00:35:48,760 --> 00:35:52,319 Speaker 1: far it would go for them if they literally just 627 00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:56,880 Speaker 1: made a phone call to say, hey, I just wanted 628 00:35:56,920 --> 00:35:59,719 Speaker 1: to see how you're dealing. I'm about to run into 629 00:35:59,840 --> 00:36:03,600 Speaker 1: me eating. But it's like that would be like Christmas. 630 00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:06,319 Speaker 1: The other thing I will say. So, I had a 631 00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:08,680 Speaker 1: boyfriend and I lost the boyfriend. I'm still friends with 632 00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:11,520 Speaker 1: the boyfriend. It's a whole tragic story we can talk 633 00:36:11,520 --> 00:36:16,480 Speaker 1: about later. But still talking to him, Yeah, that can 634 00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:19,480 Speaker 1: be a therapy session. So I called him and I 635 00:36:19,520 --> 00:36:21,319 Speaker 1: was like, oh, he hasn't called me back, and then 636 00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:23,960 Speaker 1: starting to go off the rails. But here's how he 637 00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:28,600 Speaker 1: saved himself. He's obviously like golfing or doing something. So 638 00:36:28,680 --> 00:36:31,480 Speaker 1: I called. He doesn't answer, So I sent a text 639 00:36:31,520 --> 00:36:34,959 Speaker 1: like hey, he wrote back right away and said I'll 640 00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,879 Speaker 1: call you at three. So it was like number one 641 00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:40,920 Speaker 1: he wrote me right back, and number two he's like 642 00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:44,560 Speaker 1: giving me a time. So then I'm like and he's 643 00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:46,439 Speaker 1: one of those guys who will call when he says 644 00:36:46,440 --> 00:36:49,000 Speaker 1: he's gonna call. So it was like, I don't even 645 00:36:49,040 --> 00:36:51,719 Speaker 1: need to talk to you now, like I'm good like 646 00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:54,120 Speaker 1: And then I forgot you were doing this, so I 647 00:36:54,120 --> 00:36:55,640 Speaker 1: sent him a text. I was like, oh, I forgot, 648 00:36:55,680 --> 00:37:00,840 Speaker 1: I can't talk because now he feels so good feeling Amy, 649 00:37:00,920 --> 00:37:05,399 Speaker 1: I text, I text you today during this podcast? Is that? Amy? 650 00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:11,560 Speaker 1: How you doing? Goes a long way? Bob, You hit 651 00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:13,640 Speaker 1: the nail on the head with that one. That's all 652 00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:18,319 Speaker 1: all we want is just somebody to listen to us. Yeah, 653 00:37:18,600 --> 00:37:26,719 Speaker 1: it makes sense. Yeah, an amazing One of the most 654 00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:31,120 Speaker 1: amazing qualities in a person is somebody that can just listen, 655 00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:35,879 Speaker 1: be present, be listen, be empathetic and compassionate, and not 656 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:41,120 Speaker 1: try to fix everything and not solicit opinion, just be 657 00:37:41,239 --> 00:37:43,560 Speaker 1: there to receive. I think that's a I have. I 658 00:37:43,640 --> 00:37:47,279 Speaker 1: have one friend who is phenomenal at that. He's maybe 659 00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:49,759 Speaker 1: the best I've ever seen. He's been a he's a 660 00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:51,439 Speaker 1: brother to me. He's a huge part of my life, 661 00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:56,239 Speaker 1: and he is a phenomenal listener and does never never 662 00:37:56,440 --> 00:37:59,360 Speaker 1: offers a biased opinion or injects and whatever. He'll just 663 00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:03,840 Speaker 1: like listen and receive um and then offer any guidance 664 00:38:03,880 --> 00:38:07,720 Speaker 1: he can if I'm seeking it, you know. But fantastic, friends, 665 00:38:07,719 --> 00:38:12,319 Speaker 1: It's a beautiful skill in a person. That Okay, next one, 666 00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:20,880 Speaker 1: Why do women love so many pillows? H I think, Yeah, 667 00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:24,080 Speaker 1: my wife takes all the pillows and I literally there 668 00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:27,640 Speaker 1: really nothing. But I don't know the reason why behind that, 669 00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:29,759 Speaker 1: but I do know that it is a desire for 670 00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:32,759 Speaker 1: women to take every pillow in the bed. Does it 671 00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:36,399 Speaker 1: bother you when you have like twelve pillows on your bed? 672 00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:40,280 Speaker 1: I I actually love it. I think it looks great. 673 00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:43,719 Speaker 1: I so would rather having on there. But then when 674 00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:45,080 Speaker 1: you go to take them off every night, it's like 675 00:38:45,080 --> 00:38:48,600 Speaker 1: pillow pillow, pillow, pillow pillow. Do you guys want me 676 00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:51,600 Speaker 1: to show you something stack at eight feet high over 677 00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:53,239 Speaker 1: here and then got to put them back on in 678 00:38:53,320 --> 00:39:00,000 Speaker 1: the morning. It's true. I mean, the big thrill pillow 679 00:39:00,440 --> 00:39:03,080 Speaker 1: I've tried. I don't know. It's just an it's an 680 00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:08,720 Speaker 1: asthetic thing. It's just an asthetic thing. Decore, Yeah, decore. 681 00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:12,200 Speaker 1: Could you guys see my couch? Could you guys see 682 00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:18,719 Speaker 1: my couch? Yeah? It hasn't a lot of pila all right, 683 00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:25,200 Speaker 1: Why do women only wear the same outfit once? That's 684 00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:28,480 Speaker 1: more awards showish I feel, I mean, I I gotta say, 685 00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:31,120 Speaker 1: like I've seen, I've seen. You know, my wife I 686 00:39:31,120 --> 00:39:33,080 Speaker 1: can use as my example who She's got a couple 687 00:39:34,160 --> 00:39:36,320 Speaker 1: serious go to items and we go to the Kentucky 688 00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:39,200 Speaker 1: Derby every year and well, you know now that you 689 00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:41,719 Speaker 1: just said. Now I'm saying that it's true. Every year 690 00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:44,719 Speaker 1: at the Derby, she's got a nude you dressed for 691 00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:51,239 Speaker 1: each of them. That is true. Uma, thirty times I 692 00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:53,480 Speaker 1: was I was gonna I was gonna answer, I have 693 00:39:53,600 --> 00:39:57,440 Speaker 1: no idea, But now here's my answer. Um, this is 694 00:39:57,480 --> 00:40:00,359 Speaker 1: a guess, but this is my answer. The they are 695 00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:06,120 Speaker 1: afraid of being judged as being not relevant and in 696 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:10,680 Speaker 1: the way of not having the newest, updated fashion, and 697 00:40:10,880 --> 00:40:14,120 Speaker 1: I feel like they might be judged for that. I 698 00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:17,359 Speaker 1: would say there's some sort of truth there. But for me, 699 00:40:17,400 --> 00:40:19,960 Speaker 1: it's like you can wear the same dress but not 700 00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:23,399 Speaker 1: with the same crowd of people. So like, if I'm 701 00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:27,239 Speaker 1: doing something with my college friends, I could wear that 702 00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:32,440 Speaker 1: same dress for a work thing. Okay, here's here's the 703 00:40:33,280 --> 00:40:37,560 Speaker 1: here's my perspective on it. Um, one of my one 704 00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:40,600 Speaker 1: of my life goals is to never live life in 705 00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:44,600 Speaker 1: excess um, not to have eight cars, not to have 706 00:40:46,080 --> 00:40:49,240 Speaker 1: wat watches, and so like, one of my life goals 707 00:40:49,280 --> 00:40:52,600 Speaker 1: is to stay humble and just provide for myself what 708 00:40:52,680 --> 00:40:56,040 Speaker 1: I need, but then use my resources to better the 709 00:40:56,080 --> 00:40:58,080 Speaker 1: lives of other people around me, and not just live 710 00:40:58,200 --> 00:41:01,920 Speaker 1: my life in excess. And so I'm like Bob, I 711 00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:04,960 Speaker 1: can wear the same suit thirty times and feel good 712 00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:06,880 Speaker 1: about it because I'm gonna buy one or two or 713 00:41:06,920 --> 00:41:10,920 Speaker 1: three nice things that I really enjoy and our timeless 714 00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:14,120 Speaker 1: and I will continue to wear them versus having to 715 00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:16,160 Speaker 1: have a new one all the time. That would just 716 00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:18,319 Speaker 1: exhaust me and not be congruent with how I want 717 00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:21,520 Speaker 1: to live my life. Yeah, I think I have too 718 00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:29,040 Speaker 1: much crap. We'll just play to the next one. Why 719 00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:34,439 Speaker 1: do women need while it's the size of books because 720 00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:37,600 Speaker 1: they stuffed in there. You bring everything, You'll bring everything 721 00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:39,440 Speaker 1: you don't need, just in case you might once a 722 00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:41,520 Speaker 1: year needed. It would be like a guy bringing like 723 00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:44,480 Speaker 1: fourteen different tools. It's like, I don't know, I might 724 00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:46,160 Speaker 1: have to screw something in, I might need a I 725 00:41:46,239 --> 00:41:49,359 Speaker 1: need a ratchet, I might need a So I mean, like, who, like, 726 00:41:50,800 --> 00:41:52,640 Speaker 1: I have no idea you should see, Like, my my 727 00:41:52,760 --> 00:41:55,720 Speaker 1: wallet is a little clip that's got like four cards 728 00:41:55,719 --> 00:41:59,640 Speaker 1: in it and ten bucks, right, and if it's not 729 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:02,160 Speaker 1: in there, whatever, if I can't pay for it with 730 00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:06,239 Speaker 1: a visa or an American Express, alright, whatever, I don't 731 00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:09,279 Speaker 1: need it, Like, yeah, yeah, I always. I said it 732 00:42:09,320 --> 00:42:11,440 Speaker 1: to my wife the other day. I'm like, your wallet 733 00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:14,400 Speaker 1: is absolutely huge, and I don't know if you know this, 734 00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:18,359 Speaker 1: but since we've get gotten married, you've never used it. 735 00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:22,600 Speaker 1: I mean she literally has referred to me as her 736 00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:25,239 Speaker 1: wallet before. She'll be like, oh, yeah, no, I got 737 00:42:25,239 --> 00:42:27,319 Speaker 1: my wallet right here, and if you can both take 738 00:42:27,360 --> 00:42:29,880 Speaker 1: it's funny. But I'm just like, why is your wallet 739 00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:31,440 Speaker 1: so big? It clear? And why does he have a 740 00:42:31,480 --> 00:42:34,200 Speaker 1: zipper on it? Does zipper clearly doesn't function because I've 741 00:42:34,200 --> 00:42:36,920 Speaker 1: never seen pickup tap for damn thinging. I'm trying to 742 00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:45,560 Speaker 1: figure it out. I always like to prepare for any scenario. 743 00:42:46,080 --> 00:42:50,040 Speaker 1: So I have my insurance card, I had all of 744 00:42:50,080 --> 00:42:54,279 Speaker 1: my credit cards, I had my trip, I have like 745 00:42:54,320 --> 00:42:56,840 Speaker 1: a nort Shum gift card. I have like a Froyo 746 00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:59,520 Speaker 1: gift card, like all the random gift cards that I have. 747 00:43:00,160 --> 00:43:05,560 Speaker 1: I have um like literally anything that could possibly be 748 00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:07,600 Speaker 1: needed if I have to get somebody out of jail. 749 00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:13,640 Speaker 1: I better on my checkbook exactly exactly. And now let 750 00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:16,920 Speaker 1: me tell you about now, because I already was like 751 00:43:17,000 --> 00:43:22,160 Speaker 1: pretty prepared. Let me tell you what's in my cock wipes? 752 00:43:22,920 --> 00:43:27,040 Speaker 1: Two kinds lights, alt plus like wet ones because those 753 00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:31,000 Speaker 1: are better for the hands, lifesavers just in case I 754 00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:35,440 Speaker 1: need something to suck on, extra cash, emergency cash, a 755 00:43:35,640 --> 00:43:39,600 Speaker 1: towel just in case of a spill, little plastic gloves 756 00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:42,040 Speaker 1: in case I just have to pump the gas. And 757 00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:46,640 Speaker 1: a toilet. I got a part board of potty. And 758 00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:49,759 Speaker 1: here's the thing. I thought I was insane with my 759 00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:54,680 Speaker 1: porta potty. It's like a kid's potty, but a bag 760 00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:57,120 Speaker 1: attaches to it so that if I have to go 761 00:43:57,160 --> 00:44:03,480 Speaker 1: in it. Kristen Bell, God bless her on? Was it Ellen? Ellen? 762 00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,680 Speaker 1: She had to Ellen was playing a game with our 763 00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:08,680 Speaker 1: Ellen de Generes of like go get the last thing 764 00:44:08,680 --> 00:44:12,880 Speaker 1: you bought on Amazon, And sure as bleep does she 765 00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:17,200 Speaker 1: come back with this go in the car potty contraption. 766 00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:20,200 Speaker 1: And I was like, I am not alone. I have 767 00:44:20,600 --> 00:44:23,560 Speaker 1: never felt so seen ever. I was like, yep, I 768 00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:28,600 Speaker 1: have totties. You have too in your car. Do you 769 00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:30,200 Speaker 1: want me to get one? Do you want me to 770 00:44:30,239 --> 00:44:33,439 Speaker 1: get one? So here's my why why do you Why 771 00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:36,200 Speaker 1: do you have them? Is it because you hate public 772 00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:40,439 Speaker 1: restrooms or because, like you have you just sometimes get 773 00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:45,480 Speaker 1: a real rush case diary your time it's up. Oh no, 774 00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:48,280 Speaker 1: you really would. Well, okay, one of them you could 775 00:44:48,320 --> 00:44:51,360 Speaker 1: go poop in if you had to. But it's because 776 00:44:51,400 --> 00:44:53,560 Speaker 1: I really don't want to use a public restroom right now. 777 00:44:54,360 --> 00:45:03,440 Speaker 1: So yeah, and I haven't had to. It just in 778 00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:14,160 Speaker 1: the slide into the and that was doable. But it 779 00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:17,759 Speaker 1: was small, it looked a little looked a little stressful. 780 00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:21,439 Speaker 1: So then my friend Lisa, he's like, get this one. 781 00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:26,200 Speaker 1: She said, even after COVID, she's just gonna continue to 782 00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:29,160 Speaker 1: use it. It's that great. She just sits it on 783 00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:32,920 Speaker 1: her car. So in the back, you put this bag. 784 00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:35,919 Speaker 1: You can go number one, you can go number two. 785 00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:41,640 Speaker 1: You just tie it up to disrobe and that something 786 00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:44,000 Speaker 1: called a private sea blanket. But you just use a towel. 787 00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:48,360 Speaker 1: So you just take your whatever pants down or whatever. 788 00:45:48,719 --> 00:45:51,319 Speaker 1: You put the towel over you. You just go and 789 00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:54,279 Speaker 1: it go. And there's even a thing so if you 790 00:45:54,320 --> 00:45:57,960 Speaker 1: have to go number one, there's uh some sort of 791 00:45:58,000 --> 00:46:01,759 Speaker 1: absorption absorption thing in the bag so that you don't 792 00:46:01,800 --> 00:46:05,560 Speaker 1: get like splashback and like it just absorbs it and 793 00:46:05,600 --> 00:46:09,600 Speaker 1: then you're just solid. It press me so much comfort. 794 00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:12,000 Speaker 1: I actually had to go somewhere the other day and 795 00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:13,680 Speaker 1: I didn't put it in the car and I went 796 00:46:13,719 --> 00:46:15,600 Speaker 1: back in the house because I also feel like, if 797 00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:17,719 Speaker 1: it's there, I don't even have to go. It's like 798 00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:21,160 Speaker 1: a ceebo effect or something. What's that called. I guess 799 00:46:21,160 --> 00:46:24,319 Speaker 1: that's what it's called. But if it's no, it's called yeah. 800 00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:27,319 Speaker 1: But if it's not there, you're like, oh, I have 801 00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:31,600 Speaker 1: to go, Like I'll cut it to what it is. 802 00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:33,600 Speaker 1: Because it was there, I didn't even have to go. 803 00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:37,799 Speaker 1: If I didn't have it, I probably would have had diarrhea. Yeah, yeah, 804 00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:44,520 Speaker 1: I've never heard of this. Oh, like I did not 805 00:46:44,840 --> 00:46:48,160 Speaker 1: think I'm alone, But maybe we can do an Instagram poll. Danielle, 806 00:46:48,440 --> 00:46:53,880 Speaker 1: do you have a porta potty? No? I don't, but 807 00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:59,239 Speaker 1: what I do have are like ums, not disposable like 808 00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:02,600 Speaker 1: travel uten tools just because I'm not really using like 809 00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:05,279 Speaker 1: the fork or like things like at a restaurant, so 810 00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:10,080 Speaker 1: I just have them with me um to eat. Yeah, 811 00:47:10,280 --> 00:47:12,640 Speaker 1: why are you laughing? I swear to God I have it. 812 00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:17,200 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do that. Bob. What do you have in 813 00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:20,680 Speaker 1: your car at all times? Well, you know, I got 814 00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:23,000 Speaker 1: a kid who's under two years old, so I've always 815 00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:28,520 Speaker 1: got diapers, wipes, a changing pad um. Trying to think 816 00:47:28,560 --> 00:47:30,640 Speaker 1: what I'll have It this interesting though, I mean for 817 00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:32,160 Speaker 1: a guy, you know, I mean I think about it 818 00:47:32,160 --> 00:47:33,839 Speaker 1: from the standpoint of, hey, you know, like an impty 819 00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:35,920 Speaker 1: gatorad bottle and I'm I'm fine on the side of 820 00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:41,600 Speaker 1: the road. Rat rat in her water bottle. Yeah, she's 821 00:47:41,880 --> 00:47:46,360 Speaker 1: very skilled. I do not know how she did. Kristen 822 00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:49,440 Speaker 1: bell got was like a funnel. Kristen Bells was like 823 00:47:49,440 --> 00:48:02,279 Speaker 1: a funnel. I respect Kristen bell more than ever. Why 824 00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:04,879 Speaker 1: do women say they're not hungry, but we'll still eat 825 00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:10,120 Speaker 1: off your plate, ah and eat their entire plate? Yes, 826 00:48:11,360 --> 00:48:12,880 Speaker 1: So it used to be that my wife, I have 827 00:48:12,920 --> 00:48:15,640 Speaker 1: a comment wife. I mean, it even happened today stopping 828 00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:17,920 Speaker 1: from like Mediterranean food like a ye o, you know, 829 00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:19,920 Speaker 1: and I was like, hey, I'm stopping to get this 830 00:48:19,960 --> 00:48:22,680 Speaker 1: food at this place, simply fresh type of thing, and 831 00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:24,440 Speaker 1: I'm like, you know, do you do you want anything? 832 00:48:24,440 --> 00:48:27,719 Speaker 1: And She's like, no, I'm good. I just date. I said, okay, now, 833 00:48:27,800 --> 00:48:29,840 Speaker 1: we've been together for a long time. So I literally 834 00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:32,959 Speaker 1: went in and I ordered two year old dinners and 835 00:48:33,520 --> 00:48:35,440 Speaker 1: I came out and my wife's like, why did you 836 00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:37,719 Speaker 1: order that? I said, I wasn't hungry, and I'm like, oh, 837 00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:39,080 Speaker 1: I just you know, I have it here. I maybe 838 00:48:39,080 --> 00:48:41,399 Speaker 1: I'll eat it for lunch tomorrow or something. I sit down. 839 00:48:41,680 --> 00:48:46,360 Speaker 1: She eats the entire thing last at that. She's like, 840 00:48:46,360 --> 00:48:48,120 Speaker 1: why would you even get that? And I'm like, because 841 00:48:48,120 --> 00:48:50,680 Speaker 1: I knew you would be picking on mine and I 842 00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:53,279 Speaker 1: didn't want that, so I figured I'd rather spend the 843 00:48:53,320 --> 00:48:55,440 Speaker 1: six hours to give you your own damn thing. So 844 00:48:55,520 --> 00:48:58,399 Speaker 1: you leave my my little tray alone, you know, because 845 00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:02,239 Speaker 1: my husband does that. Oh, and I'm so appreciative. I'm like, 846 00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:06,920 Speaker 1: a good move. It's literally put in my phone. I 847 00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:09,840 Speaker 1: learned everyone her favorite orders at all these different places, 848 00:49:09,840 --> 00:49:11,600 Speaker 1: and I put it on my phone. So if I 849 00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:13,359 Speaker 1: happened to go, like, if I go to Subway right now, 850 00:49:13,360 --> 00:49:15,680 Speaker 1: I can whack off her order quickly, you know, just 851 00:49:16,080 --> 00:49:18,680 Speaker 1: blast through it. And uh yeah became my go to. 852 00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:23,520 Speaker 1: It is so true, um, because also what you said, Bob, 853 00:49:23,760 --> 00:49:26,319 Speaker 1: guys are so defensive of their portions because we're like, 854 00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:28,200 Speaker 1: I want to eat till I'm full. I want to 855 00:49:28,200 --> 00:49:30,360 Speaker 1: eat this whole plate. This is gonna make me so happy. 856 00:49:30,640 --> 00:49:33,160 Speaker 1: This whole thing is just it's like Guardian, It's like 857 00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:35,480 Speaker 1: this is mine, and then when they start rating it, 858 00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:40,600 Speaker 1: it's like, dear God, what are you doing? So true 859 00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:43,760 Speaker 1: and I would rather spend the six bucks, ten bucks whatever. 860 00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:46,359 Speaker 1: It is just like that just to protect just It's 861 00:49:46,360 --> 00:49:49,759 Speaker 1: like it's like insurance for a flight, you know, buy 862 00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:51,719 Speaker 1: that by I probably don't need it, but I'll buy 863 00:49:51,760 --> 00:50:01,600 Speaker 1: it just the case. Okay, ok um, can I read one? 864 00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:04,640 Speaker 1: I text a friend this question. Yes, I said, what 865 00:50:04,800 --> 00:50:07,799 Speaker 1: is one thing that that, um, you think men don't 866 00:50:07,880 --> 00:50:11,560 Speaker 1: understand about women? And the text back was actually pretty 867 00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:21,800 Speaker 1: long that was even hard to understand. Um, yes it 868 00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:25,279 Speaker 1: was a woman. Yeah, so okay, this is this is 869 00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:28,080 Speaker 1: like my best guess would be that guys don't understand 870 00:50:28,160 --> 00:50:31,640 Speaker 1: just the depths of which a single thought comes from 871 00:50:31,640 --> 00:50:33,600 Speaker 1: in a woman. By the time she has come to 872 00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:36,640 Speaker 1: a conclusion and finally said something, that thought has gone 873 00:50:36,719 --> 00:50:40,960 Speaker 1: in eighteen circles, tabs were open at all times, and 874 00:50:41,080 --> 00:50:45,440 Speaker 1: five fake scenarios have been made. Meanwhile, Meanwhile, guys are 875 00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:48,520 Speaker 1: straightforward what they think, they say, what they feel, they do. 876 00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:58,000 Speaker 1: But then again, maybe I am mis misunderstanding it all. 877 00:50:58,040 --> 00:51:02,320 Speaker 1: So so why is it that I'm trying to decipher 878 00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:08,440 Speaker 1: and code that there's no uncoding needed. Every woman listening 879 00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:14,400 Speaker 1: fully understands and fully is it? Unpack it for us? 880 00:51:14,480 --> 00:51:17,040 Speaker 1: Unpacked that for Bob and I it was so clear, 881 00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:20,760 Speaker 1: what do you mean, unpack it? She nailed it? But why, why? 882 00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:23,040 Speaker 1: Why does every thought have to go in eighteen circles, 883 00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:26,520 Speaker 1: have twenty seven tabs open and five fake scenarios made, 884 00:51:26,520 --> 00:51:29,239 Speaker 1: because that's how we do. That's how we do. The 885 00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:32,360 Speaker 1: five fake scenarios is so good because we do that 886 00:51:32,400 --> 00:51:37,120 Speaker 1: in our minds, like literally have created like a full 887 00:51:38,840 --> 00:51:42,840 Speaker 1: picture of what has happened for the next year in 888 00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:46,560 Speaker 1: our mind. By the way, this person is wonderful, very 889 00:51:46,640 --> 00:51:50,040 Speaker 1: very kind, so wonderful and it's really interesting. Are you 890 00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:54,480 Speaker 1: ready to hear what's happening next week? Um? Oh god? 891 00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:57,560 Speaker 1: Can we have Bob back for it? Yes? So, Bob, 892 00:51:57,920 --> 00:52:00,319 Speaker 1: can you see back next week? And here is what's 893 00:52:00,320 --> 00:52:03,799 Speaker 1: going to happen. So this week's episode is called men 894 00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:08,040 Speaker 1: just don't Understand? Well. Next week is called Is this 895 00:52:08,120 --> 00:52:11,480 Speaker 1: one called men just don't Understand? Yeah, so next week 896 00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:14,719 Speaker 1: is women just don't Understand. So we are going to 897 00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:18,839 Speaker 1: open the floodgates. We want women to instagram us, email us, 898 00:52:18,960 --> 00:52:20,960 Speaker 1: what you know, whatever they want to however, they want 899 00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:23,640 Speaker 1: to get the message to us of all the things 900 00:52:23,719 --> 00:52:26,480 Speaker 1: like this that they do not understand about men. And 901 00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:29,400 Speaker 1: then we're gonna bring you guys back to explain it, 902 00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:31,960 Speaker 1: like we want. Danielle and I will not chime in 903 00:52:32,000 --> 00:52:34,399 Speaker 1: because we don't know either. So we're gonna let you 904 00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:38,200 Speaker 1: guys and maybe we'll get one more guy two help 905 00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:41,440 Speaker 1: us understand. I'm looking forward to this. You're gonna have 906 00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:43,960 Speaker 1: to from our listeners. We're probably going to get a 907 00:52:43,960 --> 00:52:46,040 Speaker 1: ton of questions, but you're probably gonna need a lot 908 00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:49,440 Speaker 1: of questions instead of just seven. Like it took it 909 00:52:49,480 --> 00:52:52,080 Speaker 1: took us an hour to cover seven questions, like we're 910 00:52:52,120 --> 00:52:55,600 Speaker 1: gonna need eighty five questions to get through minutes. Because 911 00:52:55,600 --> 00:52:58,279 Speaker 1: it's this is why we do it. That's why we 912 00:52:58,360 --> 00:53:05,759 Speaker 1: do this. Um, So what's our email? Man at I 913 00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:09,759 Speaker 1: Heart radio dot com. You can send us your questions. Yeah, 914 00:53:09,800 --> 00:53:11,880 Speaker 1: I'll put it on Instagram, so you guys can just 915 00:53:11,880 --> 00:53:14,640 Speaker 1: send us your responses there too. Okay, can can we 916 00:53:14,760 --> 00:53:17,760 Speaker 1: lead into that with one question from you guys? What's 917 00:53:17,960 --> 00:53:22,160 Speaker 1: one thing you don't understand about? I'm gonna have questions, 918 00:53:22,400 --> 00:53:27,480 Speaker 1: just one, just one right now, just one. Well I 919 00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:30,439 Speaker 1: addressed the one with the what's up? That one really 920 00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:33,279 Speaker 1: stresses me out. Okay, can I touch on that? Can 921 00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:36,680 Speaker 1: I touch it? And everyone? Gavin remember one Gavin said, 922 00:53:37,160 --> 00:53:39,120 Speaker 1: what's up? It means like, how are you doing? Are 923 00:53:39,160 --> 00:53:41,640 Speaker 1: we great dinner? How's your truck running? Like did you 924 00:53:41,640 --> 00:53:44,680 Speaker 1: see the game the other night? What's up means everything? 925 00:53:45,560 --> 00:53:49,799 Speaker 1: That's just that's just through amy. It's like, oh it paralyzed. 926 00:53:49,840 --> 00:53:52,359 Speaker 1: Here it paralyzed. There's just like, oh god, I don't 927 00:53:52,360 --> 00:53:54,400 Speaker 1: know what to do with this. Well, I mean I 928 00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:58,160 Speaker 1: can give you the big question of and this may 929 00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:00,440 Speaker 1: not be you two, but a law out of men. 930 00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:05,719 Speaker 1: So do you guys know about the three types of attachment? Oh? 931 00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:07,480 Speaker 1: My god? Okay, So you guys need to do some 932 00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:09,799 Speaker 1: homework this week. So there's three types of attachment. There's 933 00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:15,560 Speaker 1: secure attachment, there's anxious attachment, and there's avoidant attachment. And many, 934 00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:19,680 Speaker 1: many men have avoidant attachment. And I'd like to know why, 935 00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:25,880 Speaker 1: Like what scares you so much? Anxious. So if you 936 00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:28,440 Speaker 1: google the three types of attachment, they'll be that's some 937 00:54:28,520 --> 00:54:32,359 Speaker 1: homework for you guys. There's secure, which if you are 938 00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:36,200 Speaker 1: secure attachment, then you've got it together. There is anxious, 939 00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:40,200 Speaker 1: and then there's avoiding. And I would like to dig 940 00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:44,840 Speaker 1: into avoiding. Like a lot of men really do not 941 00:54:45,000 --> 00:54:49,319 Speaker 1: mind being alone. They really enjoy being alone. And by 942 00:54:49,320 --> 00:54:51,759 Speaker 1: being alone, it doesn't just mean reading in the other room. 943 00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:55,080 Speaker 1: It means like they don't need to talk to anybody, 944 00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:58,040 Speaker 1: They don't need anyone in their house for like days 945 00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:03,440 Speaker 1: on end. Okay, Danielle, what was your question Amy? We'll 946 00:55:03,440 --> 00:55:06,600 Speaker 1: get into that next week. Danielle, what was your question? Um? 947 00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:09,560 Speaker 1: Why do men have to sleep in negative a hundred 948 00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:13,799 Speaker 1: degree weather? Like my husband has to have the A 949 00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:17,200 Speaker 1: C on and I am literally an ice cube. That's 950 00:55:17,239 --> 00:55:20,520 Speaker 1: my question. If the room, if the room is not 951 00:55:20,920 --> 00:55:25,200 Speaker 1: below sixty six degrees and even like sixty five sixty four, 952 00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:28,200 Speaker 1: and I sleep naked. If the room is not below that, 953 00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:32,560 Speaker 1: I am just a furnace and can't sleep. Yeah, I 954 00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:35,280 Speaker 1: sleep naked and it has to be below that otherwise 955 00:55:35,320 --> 00:55:40,279 Speaker 1: I'm just overheating all night long. Yeah, I do not 956 00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:44,239 Speaker 1: understand naked sleeping. We should tap. I cannot sleep with 957 00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:47,600 Speaker 1: a stitch of clothing on. I cannot do it. No, 958 00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:53,160 Speaker 1: I don't really. I don't like that. I don't. I 959 00:55:53,200 --> 00:55:56,160 Speaker 1: don't mean guys doing it, but I can't. That's a no. 960 00:55:56,760 --> 00:56:00,839 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. It's just hard. No, that's a hard past Um. 961 00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:06,520 Speaker 1: That's why, Danielle, it's it's just too hot. No, it's okay, 962 00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:09,480 Speaker 1: it's just for me. It's too hot, like undercovers is 963 00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:12,719 Speaker 1: too hot. Um. Yeah, I don't know. Maybe maybe it's 964 00:56:12,760 --> 00:56:14,360 Speaker 1: body hair. I have a lot of body hair, and 965 00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:16,680 Speaker 1: so I already have like a semi blanket on me. 966 00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:20,560 Speaker 1: You know, I don't know, Bob, what's your hands to 967 00:56:21,280 --> 00:56:23,399 Speaker 1: I'm pretty much hairless. I'm like like one of those 968 00:56:23,520 --> 00:56:27,560 Speaker 1: those horrible cats in the Awesome Powers of movies. But 969 00:56:27,760 --> 00:56:31,400 Speaker 1: I but I just because I don't have that additional 970 00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:35,360 Speaker 1: uh warmth, you know, covering a blanket thing. I like 971 00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:37,480 Speaker 1: it cold too, though, I I really do. I like 972 00:56:37,600 --> 00:56:41,960 Speaker 1: it to be about sixty six sixty series. I sleep 973 00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:43,640 Speaker 1: best that way, and I don't need a lot of 974 00:56:43,680 --> 00:56:45,840 Speaker 1: blankets either. I do need some pillows to help. So 975 00:56:45,920 --> 00:56:50,200 Speaker 1: tell my wife if you're watching honey, can I help 976 00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:53,239 Speaker 1: my pillows back? I mean, I think this was a 977 00:56:53,360 --> 00:56:55,759 Speaker 1: very good episode. I don't know because we were all 978 00:56:55,840 --> 00:56:58,080 Speaker 1: on it, but it felt good to me. I loved it. 979 00:56:58,880 --> 00:57:00,840 Speaker 1: I loved it. I think I've learned some things. I 980 00:57:00,880 --> 00:57:02,440 Speaker 1: think we could do a follow up at this one 981 00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:04,200 Speaker 1: at some point, because I think there's so many other 982 00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:07,480 Speaker 1: things that. Um, Like, remember when we were doing the 983 00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:11,680 Speaker 1: the d M one Amy and and like Paige was 984 00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:14,120 Speaker 1: reading my d m s and I had no idea 985 00:57:14,200 --> 00:57:17,480 Speaker 1: what was going on in my DS? Like, wait, what 986 00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:24,400 Speaker 1: do you think was like something like, well, tell all 987 00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:26,320 Speaker 1: lots of love or something. What was it that you 988 00:57:26,440 --> 00:57:30,760 Speaker 1: thought something meant? Yeah? I thought it meant lots of love. 989 00:57:31,320 --> 00:57:33,840 Speaker 1: This person, like this is like when I was nine, 990 00:57:34,040 --> 00:57:36,600 Speaker 1: eighteen or something. Somebody's like just like sending me messes 991 00:57:36,840 --> 00:57:38,240 Speaker 1: l O L l O L. I'm like, oh my god, 992 00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:40,120 Speaker 1: she's getting so attached to me. I gotta I gotta 993 00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:42,920 Speaker 1: back off of this. I gotta really back off of 994 00:57:42,960 --> 00:57:45,160 Speaker 1: this because I'm not interested in this girl, but she 995 00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:48,800 Speaker 1: was just yeah. Um. But then when we did that 996 00:57:48,960 --> 00:57:51,280 Speaker 1: d M one, because I was trying to help people 997 00:57:51,320 --> 00:57:52,800 Speaker 1: out of my d MS, I get a lot of fitness, 998 00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:54,360 Speaker 1: a lot of health, a lot of whatever questions I 999 00:57:54,400 --> 00:57:57,280 Speaker 1: try and help people, and then Page read them and 1000 00:57:57,360 --> 00:57:59,360 Speaker 1: she's like, oh my god, do you not see what's 1001 00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:01,880 Speaker 1: going on? I'm like no, And I even ran her 1002 00:58:01,960 --> 00:58:03,600 Speaker 1: the DM and the she's like well, And then she 1003 00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:05,560 Speaker 1: looked at and she's like, well, did you not see 1004 00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:08,040 Speaker 1: the four hard emojis in there? I was like I 1005 00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:12,840 Speaker 1: just never even No, not really. I think men are 1006 00:58:12,880 --> 00:58:15,760 Speaker 1: oblivious in many ways. I think men are very very 1007 00:58:16,320 --> 00:58:18,760 Speaker 1: acute and interpretive in many ways. But I also think 1008 00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:21,400 Speaker 1: we have a large kind of ourselves that are oblivious. 1009 00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:25,360 Speaker 1: That's a good one. We should discuss that too. I 1010 00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:29,160 Speaker 1: was also Brooks one day, when I can see you again, 1011 00:58:29,520 --> 00:58:32,400 Speaker 1: I would love to do an Instagram video with like 1012 00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:37,640 Speaker 1: seeing if you can decipher emojis? Why do you think 1013 00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:40,760 Speaker 1: they mean? Because just for my own enjoyment, it would 1014 00:58:40,760 --> 00:58:43,880 Speaker 1: be a lot of fun. Let's do it. Let's how 1015 00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:47,200 Speaker 1: can we do it? Can we just do it virtually? 1016 00:58:48,720 --> 00:58:54,080 Speaker 1: Emoji challenge? Yeah? Do that? Wait? Virtually? Are you talking 1017 00:58:54,200 --> 00:58:58,040 Speaker 1: about what the emoji means as far as the keyboard 1018 00:58:58,120 --> 00:59:00,680 Speaker 1: or what the emoji from the person, the meaning of 1019 00:59:00,800 --> 00:59:04,600 Speaker 1: them giving you the emoji? Page told me the other 1020 00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:06,840 Speaker 1: day that the hands up because I give like high 1021 00:59:06,920 --> 00:59:10,160 Speaker 1: fives or like double high fives everybody, and she's like, 1022 00:59:10,240 --> 00:59:15,160 Speaker 1: you know that actually means praise. Yeah, it's like I'm like, no, 1023 00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:17,920 Speaker 1: I did not know that I'm giving double high fives 1024 00:59:19,800 --> 00:59:24,479 Speaker 1: For five years. I've been giving double high fives. How's 1025 00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:30,840 Speaker 1: your emoji game? Strong and moderately strong? No, I don't think. 1026 00:59:30,880 --> 00:59:33,080 Speaker 1: I don't think I have much of a emoji game, 1027 00:59:33,120 --> 00:59:36,400 Speaker 1: because I can tell you honestly that I would have 1028 00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:38,720 Speaker 1: used I would have thought this was dull high right, 1029 00:59:39,520 --> 00:59:43,080 Speaker 1: I'm a man, my man, we're on the level. And 1030 00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:45,520 Speaker 1: I do know that I thought this was like clapping. 1031 00:59:46,040 --> 00:59:49,160 Speaker 1: And someone told me that whatever emogi I said was 1032 00:59:49,440 --> 00:59:52,880 Speaker 1: was like praying. So I was like, okay, so I 1033 00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:55,800 Speaker 1: have a couple of them. I messed up. No, I 1034 00:59:55,880 --> 01:00:00,480 Speaker 1: know that's the praying one, but I three of them 1035 01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:03,480 Speaker 1: in arell. I guess it meant that. I don't know. Yeah, 1036 01:00:03,520 --> 01:00:06,280 Speaker 1: I've got some work to do, alright, Well, I feel 1037 01:00:06,280 --> 01:00:10,480 Speaker 1: like we got to close out the episode. Okay, honestly, 1038 01:00:10,560 --> 01:00:14,680 Speaker 1: that was awesome. Um Uh, all our listeners email your 1039 01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:16,760 Speaker 1: questions to men at i heeart radio dot com. I'd 1040 01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:18,360 Speaker 1: love to do another one of this what men don't 1041 01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:21,600 Speaker 1: understand about women. Next week, we're gonna do what women 1042 01:00:22,120 --> 01:00:25,400 Speaker 1: don't understand about men, and we're gonna clear all of 1043 01:00:25,480 --> 01:00:28,000 Speaker 1: these up for you. In very short, quick, abrupt sentences 1044 01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:33,320 Speaker 1: make it very easy to digest. Bob, you're the man brother. 1045 01:00:33,400 --> 01:00:37,800 Speaker 1: I hope you'll come back with us. Um, thank you, 1046 01:00:37,960 --> 01:00:40,600 Speaker 1: You're so fun. Danielle Amy, I love you, guys. Thank 1047 01:00:40,640 --> 01:00:43,080 Speaker 1: you so much to our whole team. Till next week, everybody, 1048 01:00:43,240 --> 01:00:45,240 Speaker 1: take care of one another, love one another, and we'll 1049 01:00:45,280 --> 01:00:47,320 Speaker 1: see you back here for another fun episode of How 1050 01:00:47,400 --> 01:00:47,800 Speaker 1: Men Think